1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, this this is from Tracy and Syracuse. 3 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,239 Speaker 1: Tracy writes, I was upset with my sister and I 4 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 1: called her a B word. My toddler told her what 5 00:00:17,200 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: I called her, and she told my child that she's 6 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: a little bee word for repeating it, my sister won't apologize, 7 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 1: so now we're not speaking. How could she say that 8 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: to my child? 9 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 2: Wow? How could she see? 10 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 3: Your sister don't understand the number one gangster rule, be 11 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 3: wary of the person who brings the message to you. 12 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 3: And that's what your sister did. Because your sister already 13 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 3: was offended. And then she thinking, your little girl trying 14 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 3: to be messy? How old is the baby? 15 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: She didn't say a toddler though a toddle three, four 16 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: or five? 17 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 4: Ye ain't. 18 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 3: Nobody got a problem with the toddler talking like that. 19 00:01:00,400 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 3: But then the tale got it from the mama. 20 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. Kids are sponges, they soak up with She's wrong 21 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 4: for that. 22 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, she was wrong for attack before attacking the taler 23 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 3: because if taler, you know exactly where that tardler got 24 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 3: it from. 25 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 2: Correct, that's not it. 26 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 3: That ain't that ain't wah wah, that ain't meal. 27 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 2: That ain't you know? 28 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 3: That's yeah specific So I think what your sister was 29 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:32,000 Speaker 3: wrong for doing that. But now she don't want to 30 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 3: apologize to the to the little girl because she taking 31 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 3: it out on you and she sent the mess. She 32 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 3: tried to hurt you. So she tried to hurt the baby. 33 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 3: That's what that is, and it ain't no getting around it. 34 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 3: You might have to slap your sister. 35 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 4: Go ahead, okay, baby, all right? 36 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: Moving on Celo to Elena and Tacoma. Elena writes, my 37 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: neighbor is dating my friend. Yesterday I saw a female 38 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: pull up with a bag of food and she stayed 39 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: all night. I told my friend the guy told her 40 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: it was a door dash delivery. This is not his 41 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: first time. Should I set him up so she can 42 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: see it for herself? 43 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 2: Wow? So, because I. 44 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 3: Ain't never heard dough dash, So when dough dash come, 45 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 3: if they tied, they stay at your house. You know, 46 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 3: I just need to know. You need to know how 47 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 3: dough dash worked. Wolf, you's my fifth delivery tonight. Well, 48 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 3: come on in and watch a little TV. Take a 49 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 3: load of You're every blanket right there? You know, I 50 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 3: don't know how he said dough dash though, but I 51 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 3: don't know how dough dash worked. 52 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 4: You know it's door door. 53 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 3: Dash, oh door Oh they to the door. 54 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: Oh oh you thought it was money dot dash? 55 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 2: Are you really? 56 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 3: Oh no, sus I thought you meant whle ash my 57 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 3: bad Go ahead, Shelly all right. 58 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 1: Next, this is from Finley and Lake Charles Finley rights. 59 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: My wife was yelling at me about leaving a cup 60 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: in the sink, and she said she had to whoop 61 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: my But because I know better, I told her she 62 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: had me confused with our son because she said no, 63 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: she didn't. But she said no, she didn't. How do 64 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 1: I stop this disrespect from continuing? 65 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 2: Wow, oh you bud. 66 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 3: To get your hands for it's about him. Yeah, well, 67 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what you need to test this. First 68 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 3: of all, leave another cup and it's like, that's first, 69 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 3: let's just get that started to see where we go 70 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 3: from there, and then you handle it from there. You 71 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 3: gonna find out if you're gonna get your uh behind 72 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 3: whooped about this cup in the scene. 73 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 2: That's what I would at least look into that. I don't. 74 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's not playing, she's playing zero games. 75 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 4: She tried to washing dishes. 76 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 2: Why he can't wash this cup? 77 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 1: Okay, you got me confused with your with our son. 78 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 4: Okay. 79 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 3: We got to rule at our house though, where you 80 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 3: can't put no cups in the sink. You have to 81 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 3: put it next to the sink case. Somebody put something 82 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 3: in there and chip the cup, so we can't do that. 83 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,359 Speaker 4: But you don't do dishes anyway. 84 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: So I saw a dishwasher the other day and had 85 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 2: to open it twice. I didn't even know that's where 86 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 2: it was. Rich d. 87 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 3: This is interesting because she has got a cabinet tree 88 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:45,359 Speaker 3: on the front of it. 89 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:53,679 Speaker 2: I thought it was. 90 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: It was the last time you've been in the kitchen, 91 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: all right, last one, Steve, This is the last one. 92 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 4: This is from Regina and Detroit. 93 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:03,840 Speaker 1: Regina says one of my closest friends got married recently 94 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: and her husband doesn't want us to be friends anymore 95 00:05:06,920 --> 00:05:09,679 Speaker 1: after he found out that me and his wife pulled 96 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: pulled around when we were in our twenties. She's cut 97 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 1: me off because of him. Why would he do that? 98 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 3: Why would he do that? Because he don't He don't 99 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 3: want no more trouble. Oh oh, so if y'all just 100 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 3: friends now, y'all don't remember what y'all did. 101 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 4: That was when they were in their twenties, though, you. 102 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 2: Don't remember nothing from your twenties. 103 00:05:29,960 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, of course. 104 00:05:32,680 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, And so that's what he's saying. No, that ain't cool, y'all. 105 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 3: I don't want y'all hanging out no more because he 106 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 3: don't want to have to deal with wondering what's going on. 107 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: So, yeah, I understand for selfish reason. 108 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:48,520 Speaker 3: No, it's for jealousy and rights. You're my wife. I 109 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 3: don't want you over there with nobody that you messed 110 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 3: around with period. 111 00:05:52,400 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: What's what's the matter? But but what? But what said? 112 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: Go ahead? 113 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 4: I'm very close close friends, one of a close at friends. 114 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 2: They was too damn close. 115 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 4: They got over it and moved on. 116 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 3: Steve with all that all on for what is y'all doing? 117 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 3: I got y'all close, But that's Hey, that's too damn close. 118 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 2: A friend. That's a girl. 119 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 4: I mean, you don't do that. 120 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: That was more than friend. 121 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 4: In your twenties. Huh, you don't do the same thing 122 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 4: you used to do in your twenties. 123 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:27,919 Speaker 2: Well, I can take you one thing. I never I 124 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 2: ain't never ever been with one of. 125 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 4: My friends one of your friends. 126 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,840 Speaker 2: So now, no, why you shouldn't even have bought that up? 127 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 2: Get bad? Yeah? 128 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 4: Who told? Oh? Well yeah, so that's it. So that's 129 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 4: a no. 130 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 2: That's a hard note. 131 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 4: Okay, so she hasn't get new friends. 132 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 2: Now, yeah, we ain't finna do that no more. 133 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: So he can just come in and just make that 134 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 1: rule and like that, and that's just like that. 135 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 3: I don't see what the okay, ladies, there we go. 136 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 3: Let's stop all this right here. Your man and y'all 137 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 3: getting married. You find out that his so called friend 138 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 3: right now is a female and they used to sleep together, 139 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 3: and you cool with them continuing. 140 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 4: To be friends. 141 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 2: It ain't no different, that's different. How is it different? 142 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 2: Tell me? 143 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 4: Its standard? First of all, we can't do. 144 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 2: They slept together. 145 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 3: They did it. 146 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 2: They fooled around. It's the same. 147 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 4: It's not the same. 148 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 3: And you know, well, okay, first of all, I know 149 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 3: it's not the same. 150 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 2: We know it's a lord, but I can't condone it. 151 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: So all right, being a man, you can't. All right, 152 00:07:57,160 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: thank you, Celo. Coming up at the top of the hour, 153 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: we'll have a we can we can recap for you. 154 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the stream Harvey Morning Show,