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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in. Scrub a dub dub in

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Speaker 1: the tub, Tub tub. A lot has happened since we

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Speaker 1: were last here at these here seats, in these here seats.

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Speaker 1: You know what I like when that happens, because I

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Speaker 1: don't like when a week goes by and I only

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Speaker 1: see you when we do the podcast. No, No, I

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Speaker 1: saw each other many times beyond the podcast this last week. Yes,

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Speaker 1: where do we begin? We'll start with Tuesday. So I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to think maybe you start because you went out

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Speaker 1: to dinner I was at I was on a double date,

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Speaker 1: and we were sitting down part and bibing in some alcohol,

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Speaker 1: and this the Becca is like all time favorite celebrity,

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Speaker 1: walks into this this restaurant, and so I texted her

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Speaker 1: and I said, Jennifer Anderson has got here. And then

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Speaker 1: I put my phone down because we were like on

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Speaker 1: a double date, so I wasn't really like engaging. So

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Speaker 1: then I think at that point you texted Red Star right,

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Speaker 1: so together, So Haley and I are sitting on the couch,

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Speaker 1: we just ordered pizza. We're watching Bachelor in Paradise, and

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Speaker 1: Tawny text mej for Anderson is at the table next

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Speaker 1: to us, and I'm like what, You're just so casual

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Speaker 1: about this, all right back? And I'm like, should we

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Speaker 1: get dressed and come me off? We did not know

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Speaker 1: they were on a double date. I thought it was

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Speaker 1: just her and Red Star, so I didn't so they're

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Speaker 1: like yeah, so she didn't answer to my texture all me,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, should we get dressed and come have

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Speaker 1: ever going to say anything to difference, And I was

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Speaker 1: just like I don't know, I got excited, so we

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Speaker 1: like rush and throw would you like you wouldn't do

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Speaker 1: that for anybody? Literally, no one else, literally no one else.

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Speaker 1: And it's not even like I was ever going to

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Speaker 1: say anything to her, Like I've been within like three

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Speaker 1: And I was holding my People's Choice Award like we

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Speaker 1: were both winners. They were both winners of the same

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Speaker 1: People's Choice Award, and Becca couldn't even speak to her

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Speaker 1: and we're in the same like, oh sorry, I thought

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Speaker 1: you brought your People's Choice Award with you to the restaurant. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: at the People's Choice Award when we won the second year.

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Speaker 1: The second year we won, I had the People's Choice

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Speaker 1: Award and I was able to get back into this

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Speaker 1: back section where it was like Jennifer Anderson, Adam Sandler,

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Speaker 1: like I was the lowest person there, but I had

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Speaker 1: the most established I will ever be next to Jennifer Aniston,

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Speaker 1: and I could not you were like one with her. No,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't because she won like Person of the Year

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Speaker 1: or whatever. Yeah, but I was like, you know, I

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Speaker 1: couldn't do it. So seeing her at a restaurant, there

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Speaker 1: was never gonna be anything to happen. It was just

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Speaker 1: get there. I text Tanya text me out and there

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Speaker 1: puts her phone down. Like I said, I didn't know

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Speaker 1: group chat with her and Red Star and I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 1: do we get dressed in come? So we throw on

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Speaker 1: the most random outfits, like literally within five minutes, throw

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Speaker 1: like down the street, and they're texting updates. Like we're stalling,

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Speaker 1: like we've ordered dessert, we're ordering coffee, and then we're

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Speaker 1: He's like, um, you better hurry. I think she's paying

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Speaker 1: they're trying to like tell us like wrap it up,

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Speaker 1: the dessert. Lady comes by and she do you want

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Speaker 1: anything else? And Robbie goes, I'll have a decap espresso.

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Speaker 1: I love you and respect you so much for this

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Speaker 1: because he was like really doing it for you. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was so sweet. So while I'm like racing, there

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Speaker 1: no not not just a stall. Haley goes, what are

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, literally nothing, I will have nothing to say.

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Speaker 1: Like my brain when I have been in close proximity,

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Speaker 1: it does not work. I can't. I get too nervous

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Speaker 1: be like, jan you're missing Bachelor and Pardise that was

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Speaker 1: going to be my line. So they're like texting as

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Speaker 1: just walked by like that was the extent of it.

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Speaker 1: Because she was like with her, you know, she was

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Speaker 1: living her life. I get to the table where Tanya

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I am mortified that these two people who

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize that I didn't tell you we were

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Speaker 1: matter to me. All I saw was Jennifer Anison, and

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I swear I would. There's not a

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Speaker 1: don't even know why I felt inspired to do that, because,

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Speaker 1: It's not like you're like a Jennifer Anderson stalker by

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Speaker 1: so cool. Like if somebody texted me that, like, probably

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Speaker 1: sure do the same thing, and not even probably wouldn't

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Speaker 1: even say anything to her, just to get a glimpse. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but that's what I've had a glimpse of. Different. So

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I was so inspired, Like I

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Speaker 1: She's scary. Um No, I don't know, but it was

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Speaker 1: just an exciting I was like, whatever, it will be

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Speaker 1: though I was like horrified and like, Tanya, thanks for

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, hey, are we still going to Vegas

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Speaker 1: Apparently of the busiest weekend Vegas that we were planning

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Speaker 1: We're so spontaneous, so young and spontaneous and youthful. So

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Speaker 1: I almost missed the Halien almost missed the flight. That

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, this one wasn't your fault, wasn't her fault.

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Speaker 1: But she's one of those people who, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: And I've talked about this on the podcast. It's not

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Speaker 1: that they had to shut down because of problems in

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00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,159
Speaker 1: their restaurant to get to get it all cleaned up

424
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 1: and stuff. Eventually people lost faith in the place and

425
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 1: stop going. I was a fan. I was devastated. But

426
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 1: you know what I did notice that, like our local

427
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 1: grocers around the city is those buffets are back at

428
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 1: like my local grocery store, like the salad bar, salad bar,

429
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: the like fresh hot food you know, with like the

430
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:09,400
Speaker 1: tongs and stuff. Well, I also will say like there

431
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 1: were a ton of people, but they were so strict

432
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: about mask Like I saw multiple people walking through and

433
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,399
Speaker 1: they would have their masks down like or not on,

434
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,720
Speaker 1: and the worker would be like, do you have a mask?

435
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 1: And they'd be like yeah, and they were like put

436
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 1: it on. Like there was a pretty like tight run ship,

437
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:29,400
Speaker 1: which was nice because Vegas is a little Yeah. Actually

438
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 1: there was a security when I was there for the festival.

439
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 1: There was a security guard in the lobby of the

440
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 1: hotel that wouldn't let you go through unless you had

441
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,119
Speaker 1: your mask up. Yeah, that's what I'm saying because people

442
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 1: someone calling on my picture was like, um, warn'cha, well

443
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: we were in the room and the photos I posted

444
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,720
Speaker 1: there like warnchall wearing mask and I'm like, well, we're

445
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: in our room. But for the record, it was a

446
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: very like they're definitely on it there. But it was

447
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 1: so fun and it was just fun that it was

448
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: really spontaneous and we just did it because I haven't

449
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,359
Speaker 1: done something like that in a long time at a

450
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: great time. It was very tired Sunday. Yeah. Yeah, but

451
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: you know, I think that there's something that, um it

452
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 1: warms my heart when you spend time with like your

453
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 1: best friend and your significant other. It just does something

454
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,439
Speaker 1: to me. I don't know, I'm not kidding. What are

455
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: you talking about me? Yeah? Yeah, you friend? Uh um, yeah, No,

456
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: it was it was really really fun. There was a

457
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: lot of laughter. Like I felt like we were just

458
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 1: like all laughing the whole time. There was one part

459
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 1: of fish Bowl, like we just all put in random words. Basically,

460
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 1: you the first round you describe. If you're listening and

461
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 1: you've never played fish Bowl, google it because it is

462
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,439
Speaker 1: such a fun game to play. There's different names for

463
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 1: it too, so you might know the game and there's

464
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 1: different names. By the first round, you like, go around

465
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 1: and you just screw pull it out of a hat,

466
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,639
Speaker 1: your time, and you describe the word. Then the second

467
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: round you're using the same words, but you acted out

468
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: like tarades, no talking, and then the final round you

469
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 1: just get to say one word that's associated with what

470
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:13,159
Speaker 1: you're looking at. So, Tanya, did you put in the

471
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 1: word drumstick? No, he did. Tanya goes to describe the word,

472
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 1: and there was drumstick, and she goes, she looks at

473
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 1: Robbie and she goes, what you what you call my leg?

474
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 1: He got it right away, and he without missing a beat,

475
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:41,439
Speaker 1: goes drumstick. Because the whole point of it is you

476
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: want to put words in that like your significant other,

477
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,720
Speaker 1: well guess quickly and nobody else will guess. So that's

478
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:51,680
Speaker 1: like the whole point. Guy nailed it. Nailed it, call

479
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 1: my drumstick. I don't know that. Just that really stuck

480
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: with me for the rest of the weekend. Really still

481
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 1: they're still stuck with me. Do you look at my

482
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: legs differently? Now? Take take a look at this right here.

483
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 1: Do you want to take a take a No, I don't,

484
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 1: but that's I don't want to know like how it originated.

485
00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: Just take a look at this right here, good juicy,

486
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 1: meaty drumstick right here? Oh my not. Um so, yeah,

487
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: yesterday it was a recovery day that was very much

488
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 1: out of it, just from I guess I normally stay

489
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: up to like twelve. Sometimes one is a whole new beast.

490
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 1: Because we drank at dinner and then that was really it. Yeah,

491
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: and then for me at least, we uh so, Sophia's

492
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: movie My Little Pony came out on Netflix and she

493
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: had the premiere. I don't know if you want to

494
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: say premiere, because it really wasn't. It was like a

495
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 1: screening just for like her close friends. But we didn't know,

496
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 1: like we like, uh do you have you you know

497
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: they do like rapid tests at events. Now, we both

498
00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 1: were kind of like sitting there kind of like nervous

499
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 1: about this one, you know what I mean, because I

500
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 1: like do it and like sit you down. And we

501
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: were like, oh yeah, you know, you don't don't get

502
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: let into the party until you like pass the test.

503
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: It's a very interesting feeling. Well, I do feel like

504
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 1: we I mean, granted there were people every where we went,

505
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: but we were just kind of even when we were

506
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 1: playing Roulette and Blackjack, we it was just us at

507
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 1: the table. I know, I know, but it's like it's

508
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: a weird. It's a weird feeling just in general, waiting

509
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 1: to get waiting to get let into you're like negative, Yeah,

510
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 1: it's cool that they're doing that, that they're able to

511
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 1: do that. Um, but yeah, it was really fun. We're

512
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: all like I felt like the one night, like the

513
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 1: twenty four hours was a good time for Vegas. And

514
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: I do think if we had planned maybe a show

515
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: or something that wasn't like really going out or partying,

516
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 1: but more just like an entertainment source, I could have

517
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: done one more night, but I couldn't have done another

518
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 1: night of like drinking four am. Yeah, I think I

519
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 1: need to lay off the booze for a minute. Yeah,

520
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 1: you y'all go to like parties and have events and holidays,

521
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: and there's drinking even throughout Quarantine. I drank all throughout Quarantine. Yeah,

522
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: Like I like everyone said that they stopped drinking and Quarantine,

523
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:27,360
Speaker 1: and I think I started drinking. You did because y'all

524
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: had just started dating, so you were a little more like,

525
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 1: let's have date nights over assume. And yeah, so you're

526
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 1: gonna take a break, Yeah, lay off the step off,

527
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: the boost cruise, the boost cruise. Well, I'm going to

528
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: My brother is getting married at this Friday. It's so crazy,

529
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: Like I remember when he when he would be on

530
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: the podcast when we first kind of started, and all

531
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: the girls would always DM me and be like, is

532
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: your brother's single? And that was always like a whole thing.

533
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: And he met his fiance, like and I don't. I

534
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: think it's maybe just been a year since they met

535
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 1: and they got engaged when I was there in May.

536
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: And they're getting married on Friday. It's so crazy, so crazy.

537
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: So I'm leaving to go to Florida and I'm going

538
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: to be celebrating them. I'm gonna miss you. I'll be

539
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: back bye next Monday. I feel it when you're gone,

540
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: like when you're not within a five mile radius, I

541
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: feel it. But the thing is is the Great Anatomy

542
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: premiere is this Thursday, but I will be I will

543
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,040
Speaker 1: have watched it because we might have a very special

544
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: guest on Monday. Yeah. So it's not locked, but it's

545
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 1: looking promising and we're not gonna say who. We're just

546
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: gonna tease somebody. I don't know if we should say who. Okay,

547
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 1: that's fine. I don't know. I don't know who this is.

548
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: It's somebody that we've talked to at about on this podcast.

549
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: Maybe not in the best light. Okay, great, I got it. Yeah,

550
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: so I don't want to say in case, in case,

551
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: he's not locked. Yeah, it's a maybe, but it's not maybe.

552
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: It's like a probably is probably. Yeah, it's not maybe. Maybe,

553
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: it's more probably is like eighty Okay, yeah, we're like

554
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 1: and then confirmed is one. Okay, thank you for breaking

555
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: it breaking it down, um, but focus on today. We

556
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 1: have the Chicks in the office joining us Ria Andria

557
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: going to scrub into the o R. They just announced

558
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: they're they're going on tour and we love to support

559
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: of dual lead, dually lead, dually female lead podcasts. Good

560
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: job getting there. Um, we were on their podcast a

561
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: couple of months ago. Oh and we I just can't

562
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,760
Speaker 1: wait till like we get to have guests and be

563
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: together in the same room. That's gonna be so fun.

564
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: I know. I wonder who what guests they're gonna have

565
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: on their show. I don't know, but they sold out

566
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: both of their Boston shows and they're crushing it. So

567
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: I'm really excited to catch up with them and see

568
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: what they're up to. But first we're going to take

569
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: a break and we'll be right back with Brandon Rhea. Okay,

570
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: we are back, and we have the Chicks in the

571
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: Office joining us scrubbing in. Who we have Brandon Rhea.

572
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: Oh my voice cracked like a little boy. It feels

573
00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: like this was bound to happen. We came, you know,

574
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: we were part of Chicks in the Office. It was

575
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 1: only it was meant to me that y'all scrubbed into

576
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: the o ry eventually. And I also want to say

577
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:07,479
Speaker 1: happy belated birthday, fram Thank you very much. Thank you.

578
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 1: Are you a libra? I'm a virgo virgo yep, yep, yep,

579
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: I'm a big time virgo to Yeah, you are ye sure,

580
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: meaning like what in what way? Oh, I'm just like

581
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,600
Speaker 1: every quality of a Virgo is I just have them all,

582
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: like you know, bossy, things have to go on my

583
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: own way, like to plan Like it's like, I'm such

584
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: a Virgo. Is it so fun when that happens? When

585
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 1: you're like totally your zodiac sign. I love it too.

586
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: I I do love it. I do feel bad for

587
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: the people that are like I don't relate to any

588
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: of my zodiac sign qualities. I'm like, oh that sucks.

589
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: I agree. I feel like I'm fully a Leo as well.

590
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 1: For sure you're a Leo. Jealous that's a good one.

591
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: I feel left out because I don't feel full Scorpio,

592
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 1: you know, like I don't feel like I read some

593
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: of the qualities and I'm like, I don't have that,

594
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: But I do wish I had some Virgo qualities a

595
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: little more like the making plans, the organization I have zero.

596
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: I wish you had that too. I love you for

597
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: who you are, but I would love a little more

598
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: like planner. Well, I would love a little less of

599
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: that from me. You know, I'm trying to go with

600
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: the flow. Okay, it's my new motto. My boyfriend's the

601
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 1: same way he has ever looked at your like friendship

602
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: compatibilities because like Leo's and virgos are really not supposed

603
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 1: to They're not supposed to get a long but we do.

604
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: That's interesting. Our signs are good like, Um, for me,

605
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 1: she's a scorpion, I'm a cancer. So it's good for

606
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: me to have a scorpio best friend because she can

607
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: like for me, you know, where I just like cry

608
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 1: and get sad. She can like fight for me, which

609
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: is nice, yeah, you know, but for you having me,

610
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 1: I feel bad. It challenges me. It certainly challenges me

611
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: to be kinder and softer. Um, good things, Thank you.

612
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: I just need to know before we like get into anything.

613
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: Did Ivan Hall ever respond? Is he coming on the podcast?

614
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: Is he? I feel like we don't know? We heard

615
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 1: exhausted all resources, So if he, if he does not,

616
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:18,720
Speaker 1: there was no reply. It's though because every single I'm sorry,

617
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: what did he say? Oh? Okay, he commented, I didn't

618
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,399
Speaker 1: see that. That That must have happened later, but he uh,

619
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 1: he commented the e emojis apparently, so that still feels

620
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: like kind of in limbo though it seems like one

621
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: of us communicated. So we don't have them on the

622
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 1: show yet, but what better way to like raise your

623
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 1: stock and like being like I I'm gonna spill the

624
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: t on whatever show. I go, oh smart. Now everybody's

625
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 1: gonna want to want to have him on the show.

626
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 1: But in my mind, I'm like, how much can he

627
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,839
Speaker 1: say based on his contract? Like what is he really

628
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: going to be able to say? Legally? They can? They

629
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 1: always say that they have a lot to say, always

630
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 1: talk a big game. It was really dramatic, most dramatic ever.

631
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: He'll be like, yeah, you know, I got in trouble.

632
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: I'm not allowed to talk about it, right, And that's

633
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: that's what I have to give you, So thanks for

634
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 1: having me on. I just really appreciate like the push

635
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 1: to have him because you know, I love Twitter. I

636
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: love browsing Twitter, but I'm not as active as I

637
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 1: used to be, but you know, I always see um

638
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: y'all tweet deal are kind of the only people I

639
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 1: continue to follow actively because I like your tweets when

640
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 1: you're live tweeting Bachelor shows, and I just love that

641
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: you're always doing pop culture. Like I always tell Tanya

642
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: that y'all do such a great job at covering like

643
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: everything that's going on that's interesting in pop culture. Well,

644
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:47,280
Speaker 1: thank you. Definitely appreciate that. We've had our girl Devon

645
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: who's on our our Chicks the Office team. Now she's

646
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 1: helping us with our Instagram and social media and everything,

647
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: and she's so good and so on top of everything,

648
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: so it makes us look really good, um, which is awesome.

649
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, live tweeting was oh big for

650
00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:03,400
Speaker 1: so long, for for the Bachelor shows, and then it

651
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 1: has kind of fallen off a little bit. Like there

652
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: are so many people I used to follow who would

653
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: live tweet too now don't do it anymore. So we

654
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: kind of feel the space a lot of times, and uh,

655
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: and we always have a lot of so we do

656
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: take up the time on it. So because like I

657
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,479
Speaker 1: think a lot of people don't watch stuff in real

658
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: time anymore exactly. You know. It's like I watch things

659
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: that I like when I can, you know, but it's

660
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: also normally choose not like anything besides The Bachelor I

661
00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: do not watch in real time too. I hate commercials.

662
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't watch The Bachelor in real time if

663
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: we did not talk about it on our show, right,

664
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: But I feel like The only other thing I watch

665
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 1: real time is like any really good show on HBO

666
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: that that we're following up with, right, but no commercial

667
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,360
Speaker 1: but no yeah, no commercials, right and the ones that

668
00:36:48,440 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: dropped weekly. Yes, yes, when tries to do things like that. Um,

669
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: when y'all started, I don't know if we talked about

670
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: this when we were on yall podcast where y'all really

671
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: close friends or did was it kind of like y'all

672
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: worked in the same space, y'all were close, but more

673
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:13,959
Speaker 1: like coworkers and then you've become really close friends. Yeah,

674
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 1: we weren't friends. We didn't know each other with each

675
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: other at all. Yeah. So I was an intern first.

676
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 1: It's actually gonna be five years and like two days, um,

677
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: and I was an intern, and then Frand came in

678
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: six months after. And then we were the only two

679
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: besides Eric at the time, who's the CEO. Um, only

680
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: two women really there, and we were just interns and

681
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,839
Speaker 1: we were like doing content in sales and things like that,

682
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: but actually like trying to be on camera. So we

683
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 1: just bonded over the fact that we really like pop culture,

684
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 1: like we'd always talked about what celebrities were doing. And

685
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: then we're like, all right, well, why don't we just

686
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 1: try something together? And then from there we became good friends.

687
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: But it does we have always felt like the relationship

688
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,439
Speaker 1: comes across like we've known each other for a very

689
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 1: long time, and but you really did not like we

690
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: didn't pick each other. We were really no other options

691
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 1: to this. You're going to do it together, okay, nobody, nobody.

692
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,359
Speaker 1: We could have done stuff alone, but it was like,

693
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: all right, well you're here, I'm here, let's do this together. Yeah, definitely.

694
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: Well I'm really glad it worked out because y'all are

695
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: like killing it. And now you're on a tour. You're

696
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: going on tour. It's sold out so fast, you'll added

697
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: a second date. It's sold out so fast. I mean

698
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: that's gonna be a very validating feeling because you're kind

699
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,360
Speaker 1: of a company. You're with Barstool Sports, and that's like

700
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: such a male dominated company, and I mean, y'all are

701
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 1: crushing it. Yeah, we really were so nervous, like you

702
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 1: guys know, you guys go on tour, you've done it,

703
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: like you and we we've seen all the other women

704
00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,959
Speaker 1: you know who do similar shows are going on podcast stores,

705
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 1: and we're always like damn nightly look like they're having

706
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: such a great time, Like should we do that? Like

707
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 1: we're scared, like nobody's going to show up. So we

708
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: put it off for like a really long time, like

709
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 1: we're not gonna do We're not gonna do it. And

710
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 1: then when we finally were like, put put our big

711
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: girl pants on, we're gonna do it. Um and we

712
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 1: picked these venues and we're like, oh wow, like people

713
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 1: actually really wanted we saw themselves short. Honestly, we we

714
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 1: went way smaller. Next time, we'll do it bigger. But

715
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: I've never done it to you what it's gonna look like.

716
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: I get you like being vulnerable, and like I would

717
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 1: be like I think I was the same way when

718
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: it was just when they're like, Okay, we're gonna start promoting,

719
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 1: and I'll like, do people want to come to like

720
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 1: see us? And it's and it's like money, like it's

721
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: you know, it's not twenty bucks. People are spending good

722
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: money to come and see us. I got so emotional

723
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 1: over this, I really did. I like cried a lot

724
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: because I was like, wow, people are spending their money

725
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 1: to see us, like we're other human beings and we're

726
00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,440
Speaker 1: just normal human beings spending money, Like that's just not

727
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:07,240
Speaker 1: making my brother. My brother texted me after the Philly

728
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: show sold out. It was like, you know, I love

729
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:10,959
Speaker 1: you and all, and I think this is really great,

730
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 1: but it's really like mind blowing that people are spending

731
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: money to come see you, and you know, really it

732
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: had me like I was like, oh my god, I'm

733
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 1: so emotional over this, like why are people spending money?

734
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: I really appreciate it, of course, but I'm just like

735
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: whoa us'd? Yeah, same feeling. Okay, So, so how many

736
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 1: stops are you guys? Stops? How many tour stops do

737
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: you guys have? So we're doing two nights in Boston.

738
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: So we did one and then it's sold out really fast,

739
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:38,800
Speaker 1: and then we added a second one in Boston, and

740
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,719
Speaker 1: then we're doing Philly, Chicago, Nashville, and then New York

741
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: and then we're going to do something bigger again after that,

742
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: and then moved to the West Coast as well. But

743
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: we wanted to started to start off small, little bit

744
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: and how big are the venues. They're most like big

745
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: bars and they all they all range like we're at

746
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 1: like ACME in Nashville. Um, we're doing like Carolines in

747
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: New York, like you know, nothing, nothing crazy. It's not

748
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: you know Madison Square Garden, right, it's not like yes, um,

749
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: but but they're all like very bar settings, um, kind

750
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 1: of like more casual hang because we just, like I said,

751
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,439
Speaker 1: we were nervous. This is like a test run because

752
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: we're like, well, we want to do it. We want

753
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 1: to try it. If we love it, then we can

754
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 1: decide like, hey, like we're going to take this show

755
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 1: on the road all the time. But we didn't want to.

756
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 1: We didn't. We were scared to do like all these

757
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 1: dates and then do like three shows and be like

758
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 1: we're really bad at this. This is like, let's not.

759
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: I don't think that's gonna be the case. I think

760
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,839
Speaker 1: we're going to do great. But yeah, and I think

761
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 1: you're gonna have a lot more fun than you were.

762
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: I think when we I feel like before our first show,

763
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,319
Speaker 1: I was like so nervous, and then when we got

764
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 1: out there, I had that was like the most fun

765
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: podcast ever because you get to actually like it's not

766
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: you know, you're like sometimes you're talking in this and

767
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: you're like is anybody listening? But when you see people

768
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: like laughing and engaging. You're like, oh my god, it's like, wow,

769
00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: it's a crazy That's what I'm weirdest feeling. I think

770
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,240
Speaker 1: I'm going to become addicted because there is nothing better

771
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,840
Speaker 1: to me than someone laughing at me. Like when someone

772
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,879
Speaker 1: when I find somebody that laughs at everything I say,

773
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: I feed off that person entirely, and then I know

774
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: that I could just go to them and just whatever

775
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:17,880
Speaker 1: I say is gonna be funny. So put me in

776
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:19,439
Speaker 1: front of a group of people are gonna be laughing

777
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 1: at things I say. I'm gonna want to do this

778
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,879
Speaker 1: all the time. Like I could sense myself being like

779
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: I need to do you know, you totally are I

780
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: need to be on a stage with an audience. I

781
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: already feel like I need to be on a stage

782
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 1: all the time. Like I can't even imagine actually being

783
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 1: on one. I haven't been on one since like fourth grade.

784
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: Is there are there any celebrities that have done shows

785
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: at any of the venues that you guys are going to.

786
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 1: I think, I mean Caroline, bunch of people have done

787
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 1: Carol carolines and you can basically be like like we

788
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: did the Roxy and so I was like, we're basically

789
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:57,399
Speaker 1: at Sharon. Yes, so that yeah, Sharon, Yeah, exactly, that's

790
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: I mean, that's going to bring it to look into it.

791
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,359
Speaker 1: But Carol Lines definitely for sure. Yeah. Do you guys,

792
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: are you gonna have any like pre show rituals? Are

793
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: you gonna like I don't know, that's a great question.

794
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: I really don't know. Are like that, so like we

795
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 1: gotta like neither guys are like, um, I think I

796
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 1: think I think she tried to do something. I'd be like,

797
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 1: please don't like I'm like low key. I'm a I'm

798
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,280
Speaker 1: a low key crystal person, not like a big crystal person.

799
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 1: But I have my few that I have to have

800
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: on me at all times, Like I can't leave the

801
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: house unless they're in my bag. I actually went out

802
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 1: the other night and the guy looked through my bag,

803
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: you know, when you're going into the club. He looked

804
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: at my bag. He goes, no, you just got rocks.

805
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: And so I could see like me doing something with that.

806
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,799
Speaker 1: But besides, I don't know how on board you are

807
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 1: with it. We'll see, we'll see what happens. But yes,

808
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:52,720
Speaker 1: we are also going to have guests, those that haven't

809
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 1: been announced, but we do have people. I mean you'll

810
00:43:55,680 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 1: have had some massive guests on the podcast, like you're

811
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: they like wrote down the list of people you've had,

812
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 1: and it's like Jonas Brothers, like Priyanka, Alex Rodriguez need

813
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 1: a dough bread like you really you've really tapped into

814
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: some big names, Like I mean when you have do

815
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: you have any interviews that you've looked forward to, Like

816
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 1: y'all were like we got this person and you were

817
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: so excited for the interview and then it happened and

818
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: you're like that was not that it changed your perspective

819
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: on them, But yeah, French Montana, we have we have

820
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,279
Speaker 1: one that says our go to story. People may have

821
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 1: heard it before, but um real, like I love loved

822
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 1: French Montana, like listen to his music, like huge fan.

823
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: And he came into the office this was a few

824
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:47,319
Speaker 1: years ago now to be on our show, and I

825
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: mean he was dub at the end of the day

826
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: like allegedly allegedly and it was he may be the

827
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 1: most uncomfortable like fifteen minutes of my life. We have

828
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 1: the video of it is so funny because it's me

829
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 1: and French going back and forth and France and they're

830
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 1: like this like looking around his people loved it. They

831
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 1: thought it was like the funniest thing ever. French did

832
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: not friend thought I was like incriminating him. He thought

833
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: that I was like trying to say that him and

834
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,720
Speaker 1: Drake were like gay for each other, like it was wild.

835
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: I don't I know, You're looking at me like I'm nuts,

836
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: Like that's what was happening, And it was like crazy.

837
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: Asked him, you were just on vacation like you were

838
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: with Drake. How was it like? When she was like,

839
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: what are you what are you trying to say, like

840
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: instagram on vacation with Drake And he was like, well,

841
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 1: you can't say two men went on vacation together like that.

842
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: And I was like, you went on you were on

843
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: vacation with Drake. I saw you guys on the beach. Uncomfortable.

844
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,280
Speaker 1: It was very uncomfortable. That makes me sad. And then

845
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: really one of the only ones that I feel, like

846
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 1: everybody else I have not left an interview being like

847
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: that really disappointed me. No, we haven't. Another thing. He

848
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: has like exotic animals that he owns, so I was

849
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,800
Speaker 1: asking him about them and he told me he doesn't

850
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: own any of them. And then in the same he

851
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 1: went on another podcast here and started talking about all

852
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: the animals he owns, so he just wouldn't personal like

853
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, he didn't throw opening up to us.

854
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: He didn't. Maybe next time he'll feel a little safer

855
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 1: talking about animals. Have y'all had anyone where you like,

856
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: you weren't that excited and then they left and you're like,

857
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 1: I'm a fan now all the time, most recently, I'll

858
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 1: be honest. I mean, it's not that I wasn't excited

859
00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: for Justin Law. No, it's more of a nerve that's dream.

860
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: Oh Ria um Ria gets really nervous for no reason

861
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:48,840
Speaker 1: sometimes before podcast where I'm like, why are you so nervous?

862
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,239
Speaker 1: It's gonna be great, Like we both really like him.

863
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 1: He's funny, he's like he watches The Bachelor. We have

864
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: so many things to talk to him about, like it'll

865
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: be fine, And she's always like, I don't know what

866
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about. I'm so nervous. I don't know

867
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. And I always end up like

868
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: and literally it ended and she was like, that was

869
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: the best interview ever. I was obsessed with him after.

870
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: It was the best. Seriously, it was one of the

871
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: best interviews ever, if not the best, and She's right,

872
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: I get very I don't know what it is, but

873
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: you know, I'm never nervous in the interview, Like she

874
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,359
Speaker 1: works herself up beforehand and I'm like, and then all

875
00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:19,360
Speaker 1: of a sudden, I'm like, smoothness compete during it. I

876
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,800
Speaker 1: don't know why I'm so jealous about that. I actually

877
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: think I d mned him a while ago trying to

878
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: get him on our podcast. Is when Tanya was dating,

879
00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: single but dating, and she was she would watch He's

880
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 1: just not that into you, like over and over and

881
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 1: over again, and she's like, when I watched Jennifer Goodwin

882
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 1: like that, I was Tanya. I was just about to say, like,

883
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 1: you probably would be living out that exact movie with

884
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:48,919
Speaker 1: Justin Law because that is it's like such a good connection. Yeah,

885
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 1: Like I literally felt so connected to her character, and

886
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: so I literally would watch that movie over and over

887
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 1: and over again because I would be like, it just

888
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: takes one. It just takes that one. You know, you

889
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 1: gotta keep truck. And she kept trying and try and

890
00:47:58,320 --> 00:47:59,880
Speaker 1: I was like, it just takes one to say so

891
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 1: of it. I was. I was in that period where

892
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 1: I was just like watching and then I heard him

893
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 1: on Armchair Expert with Deax Shepherd and I, this is

894
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: my move. It's like going to the DM. I know

895
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 1: this isn't my move. I said, Hi, I just listened

896
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: to you an Armchair Expert one. You are hilarious too.

897
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,040
Speaker 1: I feel like your impression. I feel like your impression

898
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,239
Speaker 1: of me would be next level because he does like

899
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 1: big with impressions, like he does like people's impression. But

900
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 1: then he sent a heart to him and he saw it. No,

901
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 1: I mentioned him in my story. I can't remember what

902
00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 1: I mentioned. Yeah, he saw I parted it, but I

903
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 1: can't remember what I mentioned. Probably that movie because I

904
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: post that movie all the time. Yeah, he's been on

905
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: the list of people so good to know that he's

906
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,879
Speaker 1: a good time great podcast. He yeah, he was great

907
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: and he's and he's uh, he's a talk I mean,

908
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: anybody who hosts a podcast like loves to talk, right,

909
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 1: So he he hosts his own show. Yeah, but come

910
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: on and yeah, and he just like he tells all

911
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: these stories and he loves talking and he's like jokes

912
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 1: about always going on tangents and so you know you

913
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: can have him on and he'll talk forever. When you

914
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: all both started where you all both like we're just

915
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 1: open books and we're gonna talk about anything and everything,

916
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: or did you have boundaries of like I'll talk about

917
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,439
Speaker 1: this stuff and I'm not going to talk about this.

918
00:49:27,560 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: Uh Rhea is more open than I am. She'll basically

919
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: talk about anything. I definitely have more boundaries set. Just

920
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 1: like when it comes to more of like my personal

921
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:41,080
Speaker 1: life stuff, I almost say too much. But that's why

922
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: it works. Like she you know, she she can overshare

923
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: and I'll and then I don't have to do anything.

924
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,239
Speaker 1: But no, I mean there's some people in my life

925
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 1: that don't necessarily like want to be put out there

926
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 1: all the time, so that then I then I won't,

927
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 1: Like it's not always just your choice. I mean there's

928
00:49:57,320 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: other Yeah, I've been in a relationship for over four

929
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,439
Speaker 1: years and like so it's basically almost been the entire

930
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,640
Speaker 1: span of us doing this show together. So for that,

931
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: like I try and I bring it up from time

932
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,319
Speaker 1: to time and people know we exist, but I don't

933
00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: like go into the gritty details positions like positions here.

934
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: I respect that. Y. Yeah, well we're kind of the

935
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 1: same where I'm more private about my personal life. And

936
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 1: then Tania is definitely more open about everything. Sometimes I'm like,

937
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: do you have anxiety about that time you kept your

938
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 1: you kept your current boyfriend like a little hidden for

939
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 1: a while. I remember, yes, I kept. So it's interesting

940
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 1: because when we first met, he was going through a divorce,

941
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: and so we kept it quiet for that, like or

942
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 1: just kind of kept him out of like my you know,

943
00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: give him a nickname, and I was still talking. I

944
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:54,880
Speaker 1: would talk about him all the time, but I just know,

945
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 1: give him a nickname. No but knows who he is.

946
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: So that's why I don't really post him because I

947
00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,000
Speaker 1: didn't want it to be like know who. I mean,

948
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 1: he's not like famous or anything, but you know, people

949
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: like their private life. Um. And so now obviously we're

950
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: good and we're out and I post them all the time.

951
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 1: But there is a line because he has kids, and

952
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: so I don't obviously, like I don't share his kids.

953
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about them because we're just

954
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: kind of newly in it, you know what I mean,

955
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:20,799
Speaker 1: Like it's new. They're adapting to all of this stuff. Um,

956
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 1: And it's such a different world. And it's so crazy

957
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 1: because when I start first when we first started dating,

958
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know what I'm doing, and

959
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: like we would have guests come on. We had UM

960
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 1: do you know? Kayla Yule and Candice King from Directionally Challenged,

961
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,720
Speaker 1: another female podcast. We had them on, and UM, Candice

962
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 1: was talking to me about how her experience was when

963
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,520
Speaker 1: she met her now husband and going through and so

964
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: like I created a bond with her and Teddy Mellencamp

965
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 1: shares a lot about, you know, how she had that experience,

966
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:49,320
Speaker 1: and so it's like I've kind of formed this little

967
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to called girls squad that

968
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: I can kind of like lean on with that kind

969
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: of stuff because it's really it's a different thing to

970
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: navigate than I've ever experienced before. So that's kind of

971
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 1: the line that I have in terms of my personal life.

972
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:06,440
Speaker 1: It's them, but with in terms of him, I definitely overshare,

973
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: but he's cool. He's cool about it. Well, Rio you went,

974
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: I mean you were like I always will when you

975
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:15,439
Speaker 1: post your photos and stuff. The guy is just like

976
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 1: their comments. I'm always like, I don't know how she

977
00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 1: deals with this, but um, you went through. You know

978
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 1: you're y'all are both followed by a large male audience.

979
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:28,280
Speaker 1: Like I think Tony and I both have like female

980
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 1: following because you know, just my following it in hers,

981
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,280
Speaker 1: but I feel like y'all have a large male following.

982
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 1: And then you break up with your boyfriend and all

983
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: these guys are like they were probably trying before you

984
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: even broke up with your boyfriend. But it felt in

985
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:48,919
Speaker 1: my mind, I thought that's so public. And now, yeah,

986
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:53,080
Speaker 1: it was so insane honestly because um like for a while,

987
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: I didn't tell anybody, and I would always tell like

988
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 1: talk to Fran about it, being like how am I

989
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 1: going to tell people this? Like why I gotta announce

990
00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: this on the podcast? Like that's insane, Like we gotta

991
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:05,720
Speaker 1: like record a podcast about this. And then I remember

992
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 1: the day that, like whole week after was crazy, Like

993
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 1: I'm just like it is. People are just weird. It

994
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: was so weird, and it's like one of those things

995
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: that you do kind of like have to do. We

996
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: share our lives on our podcast and talk about it

997
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 1: all the time, and everyone know, like everyone knew where

998
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 1: VERA was at. Were was like, Okay, well this thing happened.

999
00:53:27,160 --> 00:53:30,879
Speaker 1: We can't just pretend to happen. So my parents had

1000
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:33,959
Speaker 1: to come up eventually. My parents were like, you gotta

1001
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 1: tell people. I'm like, yeah, I gotta tell people. I

1002
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: gotta eventually if people gotta know, Like what am I

1003
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 1: supposed to just act like I'm in a relationship this

1004
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:44,240
Speaker 1: whole time when I'm not like that. It's like, hey, guys,

1005
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 1: I moved back in when my parents. Nothing's wrong, nothing's

1006
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: wrong at all, guys. Never been better, honestly though, I'm

1007
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:55,919
Speaker 1: having a great time. Ye well, I was gonna say.

1008
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 1: I mean, you go through that and there's that there's

1009
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: that pressure of like I do have to say something,

1010
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 1: But then at the same time, you get to control

1011
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: how much you share, you don't share, you know every

1012
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 1: single detail of what happened. But there is this expectation

1013
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: of like, hey, even me, I've been in a relationship

1014
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 1: for three and a half years and I talk about

1015
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: it enough that people know I'm in the relationship, So

1016
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: if something would ever happened, I would have to eventually

1017
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 1: acknowledge like I'm single again, you know, if it came

1018
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 1: to that. But um, I was just I always will

1019
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: see the comment on Twitter and stuff, and I'm like, God,

1020
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 1: I don't know how it doesn't phase me at all,

1021
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,879
Speaker 1: Like it's been five years. It's there is like a

1022
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:38,799
Speaker 1: switch that went off in the past year where like

1023
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: I was comments like really affected me, and then all

1024
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: of a sudden, I didn't care at all, and now

1025
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 1: I don't care at all. I don't know why or

1026
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:49,359
Speaker 1: how it switched. I don't care at all. But are

1027
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:53,040
Speaker 1: they hitting on you? Both hitting and me? Mean both?

1028
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: You'll reply to the haters. It's really funny. I used

1029
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: to do a lot more. Now I do it if

1030
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 1: I think it's really funny. Like if if somebody says

1031
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: something that I genuinely like laugh at, I'm like, I

1032
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:06,080
Speaker 1: have to respond because I think this is like actually

1033
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: really funny. But like the really mean stuff, I just

1034
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: don't care anymore. I don't know why. It's great, but

1035
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: I mean it's one of the best things happened to me,

1036
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: But it was like a switch all of a sudden,

1037
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 1: don't care. Have you actually like engaged with anyone, Like

1038
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:24,399
Speaker 1: have you dated anybody from Instagram? Um no no, no,

1039
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: God no, not like not like the random that sounded

1040
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 1: mean being like god no, but like random, Like people

1041
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: in my d ms that are like fans of barstool

1042
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: are not usually sliding in in the most respectful way,

1043
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like they're not It's could

1044
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 1: be for so many others. They probably just want to

1045
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: meet Dave, you know what I mean. Like and also

1046
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:54,919
Speaker 1: they're not like nice guys being like, hey, Rio would

1047
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 1: love you know what I mean? You just don't know.

1048
00:55:56,360 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: It's like in there and you're like, all right, oh yeah,

1049
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 1: that's I mean. I guess yeah, you you never think

1050
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 1: about that with guys being weird about meeting. I'm so

1051
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: picky about guys for this reason. Like a lot of them,

1052
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: like I mean a lot of the girls. Yeah, like

1053
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: a lot of girls who have the more tilted towards men,

1054
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 1: like following two, I think have to deal with it

1055
00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: a lot of just you don't get a lot of

1056
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 1: sincere no, no, no. I'll get like an occasional do

1057
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: you need a sugar daddy sind feet picks, But that's

1058
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: about the extent of the I wish I got those.

1059
00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: Mine are like I'm going through a breakup? Can you

1060
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:50,480
Speaker 1: help me? More beneficial than I swear, But it's definitely

1061
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: the value. You gotta weigh out the value you're helping people.

1062
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you excited to like go on tour

1063
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 1: and kind of have like that rock star life. Like

1064
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: you could meet up with a guy in Nashville and

1065
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, nash I could see. I could see

1066
00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: a Nashville guy for you. I can't at all, but yes,

1067
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: I am excited to go on absolutely loads country music.

1068
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 1: I hate country music, So a Nashville guy would be

1069
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: like my exact opposite of something that I want. Ria.

1070
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: I thought we were the same. I'm devastated by this.

1071
00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: I trust me, I wish, but I it like makes

1072
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 1: me upset. I don't know what it is about country music,

1073
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 1: but I get very upset when I hear it. I

1074
00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 1: don't know what. I don't know what the backstory to

1075
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: that is, but I get very upset every time I

1076
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: hear country music. You better be careful what you say.

1077
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:50,480
Speaker 1: Sometimes the universal sending I'm gonna go to Nashville and

1078
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: like line dancing and cowboys. It's gonna be like a

1079
00:57:55,320 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 1: country Rice, but like like Chase Rice esque. Yeah, never know,

1080
00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: you never know. Well, I'm really looking forward to hearing

1081
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: about that for you. Oh, I have a question, because

1082
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: you guys are into, like super into pop culture, do

1083
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: you know what you're being for Halloween? Yeah, and if

1084
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: if so, what is it unless you're keeping a secret?

1085
00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: And if not, what are like you hearing people who

1086
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 1: want to do? Was just I was just thinking about

1087
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 1: this today because I saw an article about how everyone

1088
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: is gonna be dressing up is Kim Kardashian's mecal look?

1089
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:32,080
Speaker 1: And I was I mean, that's why it was not

1090
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 1: like it was. It was like a click bait headline,

1091
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: like everyone's already trying to be Kim for Halloween. Um.

1092
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: And I don't know. I always like to I always

1093
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 1: like to do celebrities, but I have not picked one

1094
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 1: like I did Billie Eilish a couple of years ago,

1095
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: and I really like that one. That one was really fun. Um,

1096
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 1: but I haven't. I don't know, I haven't really decided.

1097
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: I we don't really like ever do anything that big

1098
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: for Halloween, like and we don't make a big deal.

1099
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 1: Bit here if everybody actually came to work and like

1100
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:05,959
Speaker 1: dressed up and you know this year I'm doing something

1101
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 1: for Halloween. You say that every year, nobody, you do

1102
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 1: not trust me? This year? You know I trust you?

1103
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 1: This year? Are you gonna are you gonna go slutty? Rio?

1104
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 1: Is that? Absolutely? Guys? I go sluttie every day. Halloween.

1105
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 1: We were actually talking on the plane last weekend when

1106
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:29,200
Speaker 1: we were going about Halloween, and uh, I was saying

1107
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 1: we should do what were we saying? Travis Barker and no,

1108
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: not machine Gun Kelly, Megan Fox and that goes like

1109
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 1: if you do that, you have to do the like outfit.

1110
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, that's me literally walk around and

1111
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: the thong bikini and she's like, you do that, you

1112
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 1: go around in a bikini and I'm like no, it

1113
00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: was like it just looks like a like a fancy

1114
00:59:50,280 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 1: cover up and it's like that, yeah, and even just

1115
00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: even just dressing up is like punk Courtney and Megan

1116
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 1: Fox as she's about all those for those friends out

1117
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 1: there who also wanted to jump in there. I think

1118
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 1: that combo cute. Actually, I've never really done couple of costumes,

1119
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: so I made my boyfriend do it with me one time,

1120
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:19,240
Speaker 1: and I loved it. But I don't think he looked it.

1121
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think he liked it either. And

1122
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 1: it was so cute. We did rad Chui and he

1123
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 1: was Linguini and I was great. I say, I love

1124
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: like I love couples costumes. I love dressing up with

1125
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: people like I love when when Beck and I'm actually

1126
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 1: being cohesive. So like I've been chopping at the bit.

1127
01:00:38,720 --> 01:00:42,400
Speaker 1: For last Halloween, it was like Quarantine, so which one

1128
01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 1: season like watching movies. So this year, I'm like, we're

1129
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 1: doing something big. You have to do something big for sure.

1130
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 1: I know every well, every year, Area and I always

1131
01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 1: were like, we come up with all these ideas for

1132
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: us to do together, and we never do them. So

1133
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 1: maybe one of the ideas we've thought of in the

1134
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 1: past we can actually do. See and Isabella. I know

1135
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:03,360
Speaker 1: we've always wanted to do that. No from and in

1136
01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 1: the movie. Oh, that is such a great idea. When

1137
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 1: I had dark hair last year and now I don't

1138
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 1: mean I know, but I can take Yeah, you'd have

1139
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:16,480
Speaker 1: to wear a weight. Um, this is my final question,

1140
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: and I'm just curious. Would you ever go in the Bachelor? No,

1141
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: I'm far too jealous. I wouldn't be able to do this.

1142
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 1: Like with I. It would be bad. It would be

1143
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 1: bad for my image. Like people love her now they

1144
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 1: would I think I think they wouldn't like her after

1145
01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 1: I don't think would like because here's why I couldn't

1146
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 1: compete on the bachelor against the other women was because

1147
01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 1: I would be very jealous um number one, and I

1148
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 1: think that just settled that, like I just don't want

1149
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:54,600
Speaker 1: to share. And then I would not be able to

1150
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 1: be the bachelorette because I fall in love way too quick,

1151
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 1: Like I would be Claire, like I would pay, I

1152
01:02:01,560 --> 01:02:03,440
Speaker 1: would pick somebody and that would not be able to

1153
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 1: like continue with the charade. Yeah, she would not be able,

1154
01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: Like if she would pick one guy and then not

1155
01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:13,440
Speaker 1: be everyone, Yeah, that's it. Every everyone would know that

1156
01:02:13,480 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: I would only want that one person. It's a rare breed. Becca,

1157
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: You're in this breed of people that can date somebody

1158
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 1: and like know they're dating a bunch of other people,

1159
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 1: Like I can't do that even in real life, and

1160
01:02:23,200 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 1: I don't know what they're dating other people. I would

1161
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 1: lose my mind if I, like I saw them coming

1162
01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: to pick her up on like someone else on a date,

1163
01:02:29,640 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: and'd be like what I didn't do well? Like I

1164
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:35,400
Speaker 1: went on Christ this season, I really thought I was like, Wow,

1165
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 1: I'm like the coolest girl I ever Like I'm so chill,

1166
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 1: And then I went on Ben season, I was like,

1167
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 1: oh this sucks, Like this is like why are we

1168
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: all doing this. Like literally my mind, I thought, like

1169
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: why did I come back and put myself through this?

1170
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 1: But I think it changes when you're depending. I mean,

1171
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 1: I guess that helps you realize how you're really, like

1172
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:57,200
Speaker 1: really really into We want to go on and like

1173
01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: hosted like a group date, like you know, like we

1174
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 1: want to sound some kind of group date and and

1175
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: and and do that and be involved in some way.

1176
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: But it is funny though, because I now people ask

1177
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 1: her all the time, would you would you go on?

1178
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 1: I like, I appreciate the self awareness. Yeah, I just

1179
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 1: feel myself it wouldn't be good either way. Yeah, and

1180
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: selfishly like it would be bad for me too, So

1181
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 1: you think that people would hate me that much? Because

1182
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,640
Speaker 1: now I'm like, hey, I'm a fun love not hate you.

1183
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 1: But I think I think you could get maybe a

1184
01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 1: little nasty and that won't come over however, Like it's

1185
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 1: fine for me to be self aware about my my

1186
01:03:39,480 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: quality for you. No, No, I appreciate her honestly, I

1187
01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 1: know she knows me well, she's right, she's right, and

1188
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 1: she has your best interest at heart. Yeah, exactly. Well,

1189
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: you don't need the Bachelor because you're y'all are going

1190
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 1: on tour that takes in office, which is you know,

1191
01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 1: that's what you try, that's what you strive for when

1192
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: you go on the Bachelor. You've already hit that. People right,

1193
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:08,440
Speaker 1: people want to podcast podcast, You're already an influencer. You're good. Yes,

1194
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:11,480
Speaker 1: I would like some more free stuff every once in

1195
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: a while. That's the one thing I do get jealous of.

1196
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:16,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, you get invited all these events for free.

1197
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 1: Now you don't. We don't want plans me weeh, I

1198
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 1: guess that's true. Yeah, And then I joked with her

1199
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 1: this weekend we did nothing like I mean, I had

1200
01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 1: a wedding, but it was just like it was low

1201
01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 1: key and we and it was gover ball in New York.

1202
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 1: So everybody was there, right, there's like every single person

1203
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 1: that's been on the bashor was like I got balling

1204
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 1: there was in the last two seasons, like not a

1205
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:37,520
Speaker 1: million people were there and all these other I'm seeing

1206
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,080
Speaker 1: on Instagram. And I said to her, like, are these

1207
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:43,520
Speaker 1: things that we should be going to? Like should we

1208
01:04:43,600 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 1: be you know, being putting ourselves out there, getting you know,

1209
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 1: being more social? And They're like, no, I'd actually rather

1210
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 1: stay at home summer. It's the It's the whole feeling

1211
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 1: of wanting to be invited but not wanting to go. Yes,

1212
01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: I do all the time. And I always text my Finale,

1213
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:02,600
Speaker 1: who's also my manager, and I'm like should I go

1214
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 1: to the Like She's like do you want to? And

1215
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, well no, but like I want to be invited,

1216
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:09,400
Speaker 1: like I want to be thought of, I want to

1217
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 1: be involved. I hate feeling because once you feel obligated,

1218
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: then it just feels like work rather than like we're

1219
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 1: going to gove ball for a fun time exactly. Yeah,

1220
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 1: you know what's interesting, I don't have fomo. Lucky. I think,

1221
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 1: can't stop, can't, won't stop. But then you can't have

1222
01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 1: fomo because you already have plans. It's like I've already

1223
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 1: made these plans. I can't. I literally can't do that. Actually,

1224
01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 1: you know what, I really there's only certain things, and

1225
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:44,920
Speaker 1: it's very like more on a personal level, like socially,

1226
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 1: I don't have it as much like if I'm missing

1227
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:52,400
Speaker 1: some kind of family event or like traveling somewhere cool

1228
01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 1: like then and I can't go, Like then I have fomo.

1229
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:57,440
Speaker 1: But if I see people out on Instagram or like

1230
01:05:57,440 --> 01:05:59,080
Speaker 1: my friends are going out on a Saturday night and

1231
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not coming. I'm very happy seeing my

1232
01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 1: couch like and being like, have a great time. I'm

1233
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: going to like watch movies and and eat a pizza.

1234
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 1: That's a person who's happy in a relationship. Yeah, I

1235
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:12,880
Speaker 1: guess that's probably true. That's that is what it is,

1236
01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 1: because let me tell you that I did feel that

1237
01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: way when I was in a relationship. Now that I'm single,

1238
01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 1: right right, I can't see everyone out because I'm like,

1239
01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 1: I see everyone out and I'm not there. I gotta

1240
01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 1: get there. I gotta get there. I gotta get there.

1241
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 1: How do I get there? Wherever they are? That is

1242
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 1: where I need to be. Wherever they are, we don't

1243
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:36,480
Speaker 1: know who is, but wherever they are is where I

1244
01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:39,040
Speaker 1: need to be. Yeah, I'm trying to find a balance

1245
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:42,160
Speaker 1: because I'm like, my boyfriend's Jewish and I'm Christian, and

1246
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 1: between the two, the holidays never saw It's like I've

1247
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 1: never I'm like there, every week there's a new there's

1248
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:50,520
Speaker 1: a different Jewish holiday that I was not aware of,

1249
01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:55,440
Speaker 1: and I'm like, wow, we I do a lot of things.

1250
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:58,120
Speaker 1: It's a good blending that's always fun to learn about,

1251
01:06:58,280 --> 01:07:01,640
Speaker 1: you know, other other way other people I know, like

1252
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:04,840
Speaker 1: basically through the end of November because Hanaka starts end

1253
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 1: of November through like I mean, I basically have an

1254
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 1: entire month holiday. Yeah that's fun though. Yeah right, Yeah,

1255
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:15,600
Speaker 1: I had a lot of years of going to sleep

1256
01:07:15,600 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 1: at seven pm, so you have a lot of time

1257
01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:24,040
Speaker 1: to make up for. Um, thank you for coming on

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01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 1: our podcast. Like seriously, when y'all come to the West

1259
01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 1: Coast for the tour, we're coming so save us to

1260
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:37,640
Speaker 1: see Yeah, like half we are. We do want to

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01:07:37,680 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 1: have special guests in every place, so we go to

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01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 1: so you know, if you guys, well, whether we're special

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01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 1: guests or audience members, we wanted to be there. So

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01:07:46,360 --> 01:07:49,400
Speaker 1: I'm literally so thrilled for y'all. And it's so cool

1265
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:51,880
Speaker 1: to kind of keep up with you all and have

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01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:54,680
Speaker 1: I mean, from when we were at the People's Choice

1267
01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:57,840
Speaker 1: Awards together to like now being having it on the podcast,

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01:07:57,840 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 1: it's just been really cool. So I'm every time y'all

1269
01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 1: are doing something new and exciting, I feel like excited

1270
01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 1: because it kind of represents all of us doing this podcast.

1271
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 1: In this podcast, we're your biggest cheerleaders for sure. We

1272
01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:15,880
Speaker 1: feel the same way that we totally the same way.

1273
01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, every time you guys are doing something adding

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01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 1: a show clothing line, I get a yeah, I know,

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01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 1: I know. Okay, So like about all of us sitting

1276
01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 1: at that table and it was your and now like

1277
01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 1: looking at whatever doing It's really cool. She cries at

1278
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:40,439
Speaker 1: everything every very weird. Anyway, we know, it's a great

1279
01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 1: thank thank you so much for having us. So everybody listening.

1280
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 1: If you guys want to get all them sold out already, well,

1281
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:49,640
Speaker 1: so the Boston and Philly have been sold out. The

1282
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:53,840
Speaker 1: next show is Chicago that will be on sale this week.

1283
01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 1: We're going week by week, so Chicago, Nashville, and um

1284
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:01,200
Speaker 1: New York. The tickets will be coming over the next

1285
01:09:01,200 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 1: three weeks and you can just follow us on at

1286
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:06,400
Speaker 1: Chicks in the Office on Instagram and we'll post when

1287
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,920
Speaker 1: the tickets are coming out. They'll be released on Thursday. Yes,

1288
01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 1: and of you go to ticpi dot com slash Chicks,

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01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 1: then the ticket. Yeah, I was gonna say tick pick,

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01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,360
Speaker 1: which is t i c K p i c K

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01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 1: dot com slash Chicks or you guys can just follow

1292
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: them on Instagram too, But they're going fast, so if

1293
01:09:20,920 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: they announce your city. Make sure you get on and

1294
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 1: get your tickets rapidly. Set an alarm, A thank you guys.

1295
01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm just so happy for them, Like I remember that

1296
01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 1: feeling of putting our tickets on sale for tour and

1297
01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 1: being like nervous gonnen and then having the best time,

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01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 1: And I cannot wait till we're doing that again. So

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01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 1: I am thrilled for Fran and Rihan. Love them. Um,

1300
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:53,000
Speaker 1: we have some emails, but first we're gonna take a

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01:09:53,000 --> 01:10:11,840
Speaker 1: break and we'll be right back with those. All right,

1302
01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:16,440
Speaker 1: we are back with some emails. This is from anonymous.

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01:10:16,520 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 1: She says, I'm a nineteen year old college student and

1304
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:21,080
Speaker 1: I really need some advice. I've never been in a

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01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 1: relationship or been intimate other than a kiss that is

1306
01:10:24,479 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 1: not necessarily by choice. Just more, I haven't found anyone

1307
01:10:27,640 --> 01:10:29,800
Speaker 1: to get to that point with yet. It seems like

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01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 1: everyone I know is far beyond this, and I feel

1309
01:10:31,960 --> 01:10:35,000
Speaker 1: like I have nothing to contribute to conversations. I feel

1310
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 1: weird about my lack of experience, and it's led to

1311
01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 1: nerves and the wondering when it will finally happen for me.

1312
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 1: I am very much a Tania, and I look for

1313
01:10:43,160 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 1: signs everywhere, especially butterflies as messages for things, and I

1314
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:51,519
Speaker 1: constantly overthink these aspects of my life. Any advice on

1315
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: these feelings. I so vividly remember when I was in

1316
01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: my I guess early twenties and I was still a virgin,

1317
01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:08,519
Speaker 1: and people would talk about their experiences with guys and

1318
01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 1: hooking up and sex and and even drinking, like there

1319
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:13,720
Speaker 1: were so many things that I didn't relate to with

1320
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:16,280
Speaker 1: a lot of girls that were my age. But even

1321
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:18,559
Speaker 1: though there were times, I think it's normal to kind

1322
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: of feel I don't even know if uncomfortable is the

1323
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:24,400
Speaker 1: right word, but almost like you don't really have anything

1324
01:11:24,439 --> 01:11:27,760
Speaker 1: to contribute. It's kind of like a feeling where you're like, oh,

1325
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: I'd rather just be home, like by myself or with

1326
01:11:30,240 --> 01:11:34,679
Speaker 1: people that I relate to more. But I remember thinking,

1327
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: I have made the decision of how much those things

1328
01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 1: mean to me, And I've made the decision not to

1329
01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 1: drink because it wasn't something I was interested in, And

1330
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 1: I made the decision not to have casual hookups or

1331
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:50,000
Speaker 1: random sex, and that was something that I held very

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01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 1: close to me and was very proud of. So I

1333
01:11:53,800 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 1: think it's very normal to be in a like if

1334
01:11:56,240 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 1: you're with a bunch of if you're with a bunch

1335
01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:01,120
Speaker 1: of guys and they're talking about guy things that like

1336
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:04,400
Speaker 1: you don't have any real like relatability to, it's that

1337
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:08,599
Speaker 1: same feeling. So I think it's kind of I think

1338
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 1: there's a way of you can still be proud but

1339
01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:13,720
Speaker 1: still feel that way, and sometimes it's easy to be

1340
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:16,720
Speaker 1: Maybe use that time to ask questions about things of

1341
01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:19,439
Speaker 1: like were you nervous when you had text for the

1342
01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: first time, or did you have you ever done anything

1343
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:24,280
Speaker 1: that was like uncomfortable for a guy, or like maybe

1344
01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:27,679
Speaker 1: use that time to kind of, I don't know, learn

1345
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 1: stuff that maybe you haven't experienced yet, so that when

1346
01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:35,240
Speaker 1: the time comes you kind of have these tips and tricks. Yeah.

1347
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:39,559
Speaker 1: I mean for me, it's like anonymous welcome to the club,

1348
01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:43,120
Speaker 1: because I feel like my entire life is been everybody

1349
01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:46,599
Speaker 1: having these conversations about stuff that I haven't experienced, you know,

1350
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:49,599
Speaker 1: Like I'll never forget when I just graduated from college

1351
01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:52,320
Speaker 1: and all my best friends were like getting married and

1352
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:54,680
Speaker 1: having babies literally within like two or three years of

1353
01:12:54,680 --> 01:12:58,080
Speaker 1: graduating college, and I was like not even getting going

1354
01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:00,479
Speaker 1: on second dates. And so I'd like go, I would

1355
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:04,120
Speaker 1: like travel to the you know, wedding showers and baby

1356
01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:06,800
Speaker 1: showers and thing after a thing after a thing, and

1357
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 1: I just couldn't relate to the conversation because they would

1358
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 1: be talking about you know, like pre baby things and

1359
01:13:13,120 --> 01:13:15,439
Speaker 1: wedding things and just stuff that I wasn't even in

1360
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:21,720
Speaker 1: my like zeitgeist zygeist? Am I using that right? Yeah?

1361
01:13:22,080 --> 01:13:23,719
Speaker 1: So they were like talking about that. There's like, wasn't

1362
01:13:23,760 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 1: my world, you know what I mean, Like I was

1363
01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:27,280
Speaker 1: just starting out at work, and I was you know,

1364
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 1: we can't at like five am to go set up

1365
01:13:29,360 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 1: foam on the Malibu pier to do like yoga on

1366
01:13:32,040 --> 01:13:33,680
Speaker 1: the pier for KIFM, do you know what I mean?

1367
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 1: Like it was just I was in a totally different

1368
01:13:36,400 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: world and headspace, and so I do know exactly how

1369
01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:43,679
Speaker 1: you're feeling, because I would leave those weekends sometimes really

1370
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:46,840
Speaker 1: kind of sad and like bummed, and I would definitely cry.

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01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:48,800
Speaker 1: But I think at the same time, I also had

1372
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:50,880
Speaker 1: a little bit I had, like, you know, my faith

1373
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,599
Speaker 1: that my time would come, you know what I mean,

1374
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:57,360
Speaker 1: Like your time comes when it's supposed to, doesn't. You know,

1375
01:13:57,880 --> 01:13:59,360
Speaker 1: you just can't. I don't know, it's hard to explain

1376
01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:01,680
Speaker 1: because it's like you can't really engage in the conversation

1377
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:05,560
Speaker 1: because you haven't experienced it. Well, I was that you're

1378
01:14:05,560 --> 01:14:07,800
Speaker 1: you're saying that just reminded me there's going to be

1379
01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:11,160
Speaker 1: things your whole life where you're in conversations and that

1380
01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:13,759
Speaker 1: people are going through things that maybe you haven't experienced

1381
01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:17,679
Speaker 1: yet and maybe you won't experience. Like I think sometimes

1382
01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 1: that's just what life looks like. And everyone can be

1383
01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:22,280
Speaker 1: in different stages of life, and I think you're going

1384
01:14:22,320 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 1: to have a time where you're in a group and

1385
01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 1: there's someone in that group that hasn't experienced something that

1386
01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:30,200
Speaker 1: you've experienced. And I think that's just kind of something

1387
01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:34,759
Speaker 1: about life and like going growing and going through different

1388
01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:37,000
Speaker 1: things at different times and other people. And I think

1389
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 1: sometimes there's insecurity that surrounds it, but there shouldn't be,

1390
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 1: because we all have our own story at our own pace. Yeah,

1391
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: but I think you should know that so many more

1392
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:49,479
Speaker 1: people feel the way that you feel than I think

1393
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:53,720
Speaker 1: you realize. M H, it's excellent advice. I I don't

1394
01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:56,080
Speaker 1: see any issue here. I think everything's fine. I mean

1395
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 1: you're you're kind of overthinking. You're overthinking right now, which

1396
01:14:59,880 --> 01:15:02,000
Speaker 1: is too bad. But I think it's better to overthink

1397
01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 1: something like this than to underthink it and just kind

1398
01:15:04,240 --> 01:15:06,360
Speaker 1: of throw yourself around. I think it's much better to

1399
01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:09,679
Speaker 1: be a little careful about these things. And it's important

1400
01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 1: to you and it's a big deal, and that's great

1401
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:13,960
Speaker 1: and it should be. I think everything's fine, and you

1402
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:17,519
Speaker 1: are on the pace that's perfect for you. And if

1403
01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 1: you overthink too much, sometimes you can freeze yourself and

1404
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:21,400
Speaker 1: never leave the house. But I don't think that's the

1405
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 1: issue here either. I think you're gonna be just fine. Yeah,

1406
01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:27,240
Speaker 1: me too, trust me. Overthinking is the blessing and a curse,

1407
01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:31,360
Speaker 1: you know, because yeah, but it's okay. You can be

1408
01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 1: very prepared if you're gonna air on one side, air

1409
01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:38,679
Speaker 1: on the overthinking side. I agree. And I like seeing

1410
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:43,600
Speaker 1: signs and everything, you know, And I think when you

1411
01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 1: do have that relationship in the intimacy, you're going to

1412
01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 1: be so happy that you didn't, you know, just give

1413
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 1: it away to be a part of a conversation. I agree, Yeah,

1414
01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:59,760
Speaker 1: that would be so lame. You don't want to be

1415
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 1: part of the crowd, No, don't you want to you

1416
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 1: want to be the crowd. I knew that's serious saying

1417
01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:09,800
Speaker 1: it doesn't. You don't want to be a part of

1418
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 1: the crowd. You want to be the crowd stage. You

1419
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:15,439
Speaker 1: want to start your own crowd. You want to be

1420
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:18,880
Speaker 1: a trailblazer. You don't want to follow the crowd. Yes,

1421
01:16:19,520 --> 01:16:24,639
Speaker 1: you want the crowd following. You kind of don't want

1422
01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 1: to be a part of the Shakira John Mayor Synergy club.

1423
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 1: You want to be the leader of the John Mayor

1424
01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 1: Shakira's exactly called musical synergy. Musical synergy clubs subpar Shakira

1425
01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:42,760
Speaker 1: John Mary fan club. Okay, got it? That's the underneath.

1426
01:16:43,479 --> 01:16:45,880
Speaker 1: Should we just go ahead and that? What's you know

1427
01:16:45,880 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 1: I'm talking about? You know what I'm trying to say,

1428
01:16:47,439 --> 01:16:50,760
Speaker 1: like a subtitle? Subtitle? Yeah, like underneath Like that's like,

1429
01:16:50,840 --> 01:16:53,040
Speaker 1: you know, like when you say right right right, like

1430
01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:56,440
Speaker 1: um uh, you know, like Barnes and Noble, the bookstore

1431
01:16:56,600 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 1: or whatever. Hi, You're brain is moving a hundred miles

1432
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:06,880
Speaker 1: an hour, like at all times, at all times, I know,

1433
01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:13,439
Speaker 1: try living in it so exhausting, overthink everything. It's the worst.

1434
01:17:14,320 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 1: All right, I think I need to I need a

1435
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:23,479
Speaker 1: nap here. No, no, no, I'm gonna go home. I'm

1436
01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:26,360
Speaker 1: gonna nap and I'll be back next week and we

1437
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:32,120
Speaker 1: will maybe chance have I guess who we have talked

1438
01:17:32,120 --> 01:17:35,240
Speaker 1: about a lot on this podcast from the Gray's Anatomy world.

1439
01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:42,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to swallow my self. Okay, she canna

1440
01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 1: swallow herself. I'm gonna have to swallow myself. That's a

1441
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:48,519
Speaker 1: little that's a little uh teaser. No, what's the Taylor swift?

1442
01:17:48,720 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 1: That's easter egg for you? That has nothing? I have

1443
01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 1: no idea what that means. So I'll have to swallow myself,

1444
01:17:56,479 --> 01:18:02,479
Speaker 1: meaning like bite my tongue. You know what they say? No,

1445
01:18:02,680 --> 01:18:05,800
Speaker 1: by nobody, how is it an Easter egg? Though, Like

1446
01:18:05,840 --> 01:18:08,719
Speaker 1: I'm giving them a clue. Okay, we'll have to humble

1447
01:18:08,760 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 1: ourselves is what we're really gonna have to do. Um,

1448
01:18:11,360 --> 01:18:13,920
Speaker 1: but it's gonna be really fun and I will miss

1449
01:18:13,960 --> 01:18:16,120
Speaker 1: you while I'm gone, but I'll see you next week,

1450
01:18:16,439 --> 01:18:19,880
Speaker 1: and um, we love you all. Have a wonderful week

1451
01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:23,240
Speaker 1: and weekend, and we'll see you next Monday. We love you.

1452
01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:24,160
Speaker 1: Bye bye.