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Speaker 1: Come come on your ba uh huh, I sure will

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Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now. One and all is Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: Man got a radio show. Steve Harvey got a radio

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Speaker 1: show because God in the blessing business. Yeah, that's all.

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Speaker 1: I'm just a recipient. Steve Harvey got a radio show

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Speaker 1: because God is in the show you favor business. He

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Speaker 1: showed me some favor. Steve Harvey got a radio show

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Speaker 1: because God is in the forgiving business. God and forgave

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Speaker 1: me thousands and thousands of times, you know. And I

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Speaker 1: probably true. God is a forgiving God. That's how I

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Speaker 1: exist today, and that's how you exist today. And one

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Speaker 1: of the things I want to remind you about even

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Speaker 1: in existing today. You know, Joel Oldstein had a has

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Speaker 1: a book out called It's Your Time. I love this book.

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Speaker 1: It's called It's Your Time, And that's kind of what

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Speaker 1: I want to touch you on today, and I want

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Speaker 1: to remind you all that it's still your time. See,

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Speaker 1: you know there's look, you know, they've got unsuccessful people

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Speaker 1: have created a lot of sayings to justify our failures

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Speaker 1: as people. Well, all, my ship has passed. That that

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Speaker 1: seemingly very clever saying, and a lot of us adapt, Well,

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Speaker 1: here's another one. I guess if God wanted it for me,

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Speaker 1: where you are in life? Man? That's that's so that's

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Speaker 1: so not the case. I want to remind everybody today

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Speaker 1: that it's still your time. That you know your ship

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Speaker 1: hasn't sailed, you didn't miss all of your opportunities. There's others.

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Speaker 1: It's still your time. You know you still got a chance,

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Speaker 1: You still have a shot. Here's a good one. You

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Speaker 1: still have hope, you do all of you. As long

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Speaker 1: You can never lose sight of that. You can never

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Speaker 1: let the devil win that battle that there is no

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna cash in the chips. I'm gonna take

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Speaker 1: not coming from him. It's still your time, you still

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Speaker 1: got a chance. There's always hope. But listen to me.

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Speaker 1: You got to move and you got to move on it.

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Speaker 1: So many people are not getting the full benefit of

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Speaker 1: waiting on the perfect time to get He can't tell

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Speaker 1: always under construction. You ain't gonna go out there and

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Speaker 1: I got, man, this is a perfect time. To do

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Speaker 1: it now. If you're waiting on the perfect time, that

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Speaker 1: could be one of your biggest problems. You're still waiting.

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Speaker 1: You have got to move and you've got to move

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Speaker 1: like I said, get you some God, and go on

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Speaker 1: It's funky out here. Yeah I got all that. It's

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Speaker 1: There's always hope, There's always God. That's my conversation today.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show, ladies and gentlemen, let me have

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Speaker 1: it your undivided attention. Please. This is the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show, alive and where we are in vivid color.

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Speaker 1: We are here full accompaniment, all players, President, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: Let us begin with roll call. Shirley Strawberry, Happy Monday.

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Speaker 1: Still Colin Farrell present here, Good morning, Kier Junior Spates,

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Speaker 1: morning everybody, Jay Anthony, watch out there now, Brian what

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Speaker 1: Steve Hardy my boy, Thomas King of the Prank Miles,

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Speaker 1: I am here, Uncle Steve, I'm in the building, baby,

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Speaker 1: Government name Broderick, Stephen Harvey slash Wonder Love President, come

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Speaker 1: on Wonder County for not come on time time. No, No,

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Speaker 1: he got to stay back. Yeah, that's part of the pass.

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Speaker 1: He can't come here. No, he can't bring him out

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Speaker 1: none of this none, he can't no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no no no he is he cannot make appearances. What No,

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Speaker 1: I think you can man No, Old Tommy, No, No,

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Speaker 1: friendly show. No, because he had nothing to lose. Now

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Speaker 1: to Well, I don't. I don't know. Careful, careful, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Let me give you a subdued version.

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Speaker 1: Let me give you a filtered version, wonder Love asking

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Speaker 1: Junior gonna hold o, make no mistakes, were gonna hold

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Speaker 1: highly possible. But I thought I had presented that idea

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Speaker 1: Can I say this? August? Yes, sir, Yes, sir, You

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Speaker 1: every man and I have brought up all right? Coming

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Speaker 1: up next more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening too, So listen, guys. We're going

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Speaker 1: to talk about well, when you're not working, when you

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Speaker 1: And while it's the holiday season, it's also the end

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Speaker 1: be sincere, even when it's difficult. If you get stuck

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Speaker 1: a few expert tips to keep in mind. And Steve, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, chime in of course. Uh take your lead,

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Speaker 1: Here a few expert tips to keep in mind. All right,

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Speaker 1: take your lead from the person who just lost their job. Okay,

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Speaker 1: if they're running out of the building in tears, they

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Speaker 1: probably don't want to be chased. All right, what's wrong?

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Speaker 1: Cannot happen your girl? You know all of that one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm just chilling, y'all. All right, So you running out

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Speaker 1: se they're chilling. Check the current. They're running out of

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Speaker 1: Come on, chump, chump, let's go on, let's go, let's go,

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Speaker 1: Here where your uniform in school tomorrow hill. When black

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Speaker 1: weather I leave. Hey, hey, I leave a friday coming.

420
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: I got to say come this friday though, and just

421
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: tell you know, I've been here ten years and I'm

422
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: standing something every week. How about that? Yeah, country end,

423
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 1: because I've been how about that? Oh, I'm fine, grant up.

424
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: When we leave a restaurant, why do black people sit

425
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 1: there in order the highest thing on the bill, knowing

426
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: they ain't got it in their pocket? Huh? Eating fold dollars?

427
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: You know, I ain't got no tip money now that

428
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: ain't gonna grab some mints and two picks on the way.

429
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: But why the waiter waitress gotta suck? Yeah? Yeah, better

430
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,200
Speaker 1: when we leave. When we leave a store, were gonna

431
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: make a scene. Oh yeah, I didn't even know that

432
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: they had expirations on coupon. I didn't even know that. Okay,

433
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: I don't know why y'all tripping out of dollars now

434
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: any damn Wait, why is y'all tripping being back in

435
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: your yard. They why do y'all the dollars store black?

436
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: Leave a scene? They make a scene and I can

437
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 1: add one? Can add one? Come on? Yeah? When they

438
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: get put out the strip club, you know, something like this.

439
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: All I had with fold dollars. Why can't I stay

440
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: in here? Just look that you keep picking your fold

441
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: back up? I had fold dollars. I can't just stay

442
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: here and look. I put money down. I put put

443
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: money down. We are a trip. Yeah, we always have

444
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 1: to make it about us, no matter what. Ye Oh,

445
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: that happened yesterday. I was at this taco place and

446
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: the lady apparently she was there yesterday, so she bought

447
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: the exact same thing, right, so she gets it's a

448
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: soon as I walked in. How you doing? I'm like,

449
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: So when she checked out, the lady wrung it up.

450
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 1: So it was nine dollars the day before, whenever she

451
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: was there, but it was eleven yesterday. So she said, well,

452
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: why is it eleven dollars? And she said, well, ma'am,

453
00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: you got an extra order chips in caso. I got

454
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 1: there yesterday and she said, well, let me see the receipt.

455
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 1: So the girl pulled the receipt on and she gave

456
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: it to it. She said, yeah, but they didn't charge

457
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: you for the caso for the cheese yesterday. Well, that

458
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: ain't my problem. I'm not been gigging though two extra

459
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: dollars because they ain't a charge I want to pay,

460
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: I said, here we goars. But she had the phone

461
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: the whole time. She said, I don't want the caso.

462
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 1: When the chips just rang up the taco salad, man,

463
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: I said, boy, and you always standing behind that person

464
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: to always, and it looked like and it looked like

465
00:33:54,640 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: you with them. When you step back two feet back

466
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: and started looking around, you're trying to let other people

467
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 1: in front of you. Gone, man, all right, thank you enough.

468
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 1: You you're listening to show time now for would you rather?

469
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,640
Speaker 1: Would you rather give up your cell phone for a month,

470
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: or would you rather give up bathing for a month? Hello, baby,

471
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm Benna. Put together some funk your deals. I can't

472
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: make no money. Put out this phone. I'm gonna gone.

473
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just carry my laptop. I see my son

474
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: FaceTime on his computing. Everything I got because let me

475
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 1: explain some tea. If you're laying in the bed, niked

476
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: and you raise your knee up buy your chests. That

477
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 1: dry ice cloud comes out your crack Jesus up over

478
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: the hump of your and slides along your waist. Time

479
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: roll up over your eilboat and come down behind your shoulder.

480
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: It knew like dry ice steps invisible, but that white

481
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: dry ice smoke, and then it come around your face

482
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: and it just lock on your face. You can't get

483
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: it off. I'd rather not know you're going to bathe.

484
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: I got to man Ain't no way in the world

485
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 1: that that dumb that third day and then you got

486
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: twenty seventh mo Yeah, yeah, you might not even have

487
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: to raise your leg off after two weeks. You just

488
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: need to stop walking. If you walking in flies just

489
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 1: buzzing round your head, just following you, just buzzing, You're

490
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 1: looking like pigs peeing on Charlie Brown. All right? Would

491
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: you rather never age physically? Never age physically, or would

492
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 1: you rather never age mentally? I could stay right here,

493
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorrying right here. I got enough to make it

494
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 1: on it. If I think like this at one hundred,

495
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: I'd be cool with it. Yeah. So physically yea ohoh,

496
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: physical stay right here? Ye? Would rather never on this show.

497
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: You know, you know, you know we're pretty good. Look

498
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: at Morning Show. When you look at you know, Yes,

499
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 1: Tommy and Junior can still run. I can trot for

500
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: short distances. We we we mobile trot for shorting distances.

501
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 1: If I do an outburst, it's got to be about

502
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:56,399
Speaker 1: four five steps. Got shut it down. I immediately got

503
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: to pull up because I have heard about to come

504
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: right after that. Don't hurt, don't pull anything. Oh and Junior,

505
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: what about you? Would you rather never age physically or mentally? No? Mentally?

506
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: I want to be mentally because physically it ain't working

507
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 1: for me. Now I'm just in there. I'm ending him,

508
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 1: but ain't. Ain't nothing happening in there, Tommy quickly physically, okay, okay,

509
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: all right, well thank you. That's around developing physically where

510
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 1: you've been done. Then we'll be back. You're listening, all right, Steve,

511
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 1: go ahead. Well, now what you about to him? It's

512
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: pure comedic genius. But I must lay a disclaimer. This

513
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: is going to be a little edgy, just gonna ruffle

514
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: a couple of feathers. So I'm just letting you know this.

515
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 1: This is Jay Anthony Brown. He asked me do it

516
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: and I kind of got an idea. I don't know

517
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 1: exactly what it is, but I'm in supportive comedy. Yeah,

518
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 1: but I'm saying we're doing this with a disclaimer that

519
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,320
Speaker 1: no one can call us and say nothing about it.

520
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: I don't know exactly what he gonna do, but he

521
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 1: could roughle some feathers, ladies and gentlemen. Jay Anthony Brown,

522
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: all right, what I'm what I'm about to do right now?

523
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:40,320
Speaker 1: Every year, a lot of people, good people you know,

524
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 1: meaning good have Quansa parties. Now, okay, let's stop right there. Yes,

525
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,359
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a lot of people. You can

526
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:52,919
Speaker 1: go ahead. You must be trying to build this joke

527
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 1: up and not a lot of quans How about people

528
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: have quanza party and don't a lot of people come?

529
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 1: And they wonder why people don't come. What I have

530
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: is suggestions to get more people to your Quanza party.

531
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 1: Number one, offer a free die. She get anybody who

532
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 1: will show up, one size fit all right, everybody that

533
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: shows up your Quansa party, you get a free bean piper.

534
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: If you don't like me, seetato, if you can't everybody

535
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: don't like me. Okay, now this one is really good.

536
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 1: This is really really good. If you have a quanza party, Steve,

537
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: you can demonstrate what I mean by this. Do you

538
00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:59,399
Speaker 1: not have more than two philosophying brothers or sisters at

539
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 1: your party? I don't want it through. You don't want

540
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 1: more than two in there. You don't want to you know, brothers.

541
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 1: Let me say this about this time, this period that

542
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 1: we partake of in this equestrious moment, yea of history

543
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: defiling or the gratuitousness and the barbarousness of what these

544
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: holidays are. Two, that's why we celebrate qualsa. But I

545
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: dare say, though, brother, I don't want that we have

546
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 1: comptulate this situation, knowing that it is far regarically not

547
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: a capability of scientific split. Let let me interject some

548
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 1: sensibility into this conversation. Okay, you don't want a whole

549
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 1: bunch of them at your party? Okay, it tends up

550
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 1: the mood. Number five, Easer, This is very important. Easer.

551
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: You know what ease up? Meaning? Right, he's up on

552
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: the incense and sage. Okay, because the black of my

553
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: nose is burning, how my shoes? The like I got

554
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: a headache? Noxious? Too much? Okay, I'm my green tastes

555
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: like save number two, you want number seven, you want

556
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 1: to play something other than the Lion King. And this

557
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 1: is ver iportant. The African Drummers don't have to play

558
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:54,960
Speaker 1: all night long, okay they Shirley and lastnight, last night.

559
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 1: Don't tell nobody it's a quis a party. Just tell

560
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: the come over. I have to tell him something, you can.

561
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: I'm having a barty. I'm having a party, all right. Listen,

562
00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: coming up for the nephew, uh, with today's prank phone

563
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: call that's coming up right after that cornbrass fell like

564
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: you're listening all right, coming up at the top of

565
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after it's my strawberry

566
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: letter for today's subject, I'm losing my fine and flirty wife.

567
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: Right now, it is the nephew in the building with

568
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. What's your god? But cheeks? What crazy?

569
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: That's the name of the prank butt cheeks. Okay, let's

570
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:54,399
Speaker 1: do it. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Carmen, Miss

571
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 1: miss Carmen. Uh, this is a made uh my ass's call.

572
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 1: I'm the principal at the high school where your daughter goes.

573
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,040
Speaker 1: This is mister Porter Porter, How are you doing today?

574
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 1: I'm fine. Is everything good? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah, every

575
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: every everything is everything is fine. Now your daughter is

576
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 1: tenth grade, Crystal right? Correct? Okay, okay, I want to

577
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: make sure I'm you know, we got so many kids

578
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: with the same names. I wanted to make sure I

579
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: had the right person. Um, So here's the issue. You

580
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 1: say your name was Nate, Yeah, okay, Nate. What were

581
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: the problem we're having here at the school is I

582
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: don't know if you are aware of it, but when

583
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:34,879
Speaker 1: your your wife drops Crystal off at school, we've got

584
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: the parents as well as some of the teachers. They're

585
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 1: they're complaining about what she's um, what she's wearing. What

586
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: your wife is wearing. Yeah, what she's wearing when she

587
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,720
Speaker 1: drops the kids off. Evidently her clothes are very skimpy

588
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: and her butt cheeks, her butt cheeks are out. You know,

589
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's I haven't actually seen her,

590
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 1: but I've been getting these reports from we've been getting

591
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:02,799
Speaker 1: that's a little strange to me. I'm typically at work. Uh,

592
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what she's wearing. I'm I'm

593
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 1: gonna have to talk to her later on today. Okay, Well,

594
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: what I was gonna suggest is uh you know, I

595
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 1: actually I thought I was calling her phone. I didn't

596
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 1: know I was. I was gonna get you. But what

597
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,359
Speaker 1: I wanted to do is get her to come up

598
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 1: here so I can see what she wearing. You know.

599
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, I think I got this handle.

600
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 1: Due I can take care of it. Well, well, well,

601
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be better for both of us,

602
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 1: like if I was able to see her uh in

603
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 1: the and let her look look player, look look I

604
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: got it my daughter. This is not even really concerning

605
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: my daughter. This is uh you know, this is this

606
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: is above that. Take radelet let me handling. So um.

607
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: You know, you know my daughter going to Principal's office

608
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 1: is one thing. I'll be on top of that, but

609
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 1: I'm definitely gonna be on top of this. So so,

610
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: like I said, I think I got this handle right now.

611
00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:01,720
Speaker 1: What now, your wife, Carmen, is she there? Uh? Yeah, okay,

612
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,360
Speaker 1: I mean, is there any way I can talk to her? No?

613
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 1: Like I told you, I think I think I got

614
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: this one. I can take care of this. Um. And

615
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 1: you know, my thing is, I've already told you that

616
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 1: three times. I don't know, we're really going with this.

617
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna I'm gonna talk to her and

618
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: get the situation situation rectified soon as I can. Okay,

619
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,319
Speaker 1: but we don't, don't. You don't need to You don't

620
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,320
Speaker 1: need to see her, you know, talk to her or

621
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: another being the principle here at the school, sir. Uh

622
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 1: Like I said, um, you know, I'm just trying to,

623
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: you know, handle the school and orderly fashion and make

624
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: sure that all things are taking care of around here

625
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 1: and we have no issues and no problems. So what

626
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: I whatever? Play, You're not talking to my daughter, You're

627
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 1: talking to me. I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm a husband,

628
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 1: I'm a father. I'm telling me when I tell you,

629
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: I gotta handle I got it handle. I understand it.

630
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: I have to handle my school. Though. You understand that

631
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: I have to hand my school. I will drop my

632
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: door off myself. Okay, I understand that. What No, I mean,

633
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: do I need to come up there and talk to you? No?

634
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: I need your wife to come talk to me. I

635
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: need to see what she'd be wearing. I don't need

636
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:07,359
Speaker 1: to talk to my wife. Pay Do you have a wife, Yeah,

637
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: I have a wife. Became of my office, but what

638
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: what what do you? What do you? What are you?

639
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? No, what are you talking about? That?

640
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 1: My wife needs to come and and and so you

641
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 1: can inspect her outfit. I'm not playing that game, player,

642
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: I'm not We're not doing that. Okay, I need to

643
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: see what your wife be wearing when she's dropping these kids.

644
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 1: I send your pictures. Hey, man, I mean I think

645
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: we must have gone down the wrong street. But yeah, no,

646
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: we do definitely down the wrong boulevard on this one. Player. Okay,

647
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:33,880
Speaker 1: let me let me just make it very clear to you.

648
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 1: My wife you're seeing in the office and all that.

649
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: Maybe we can come up to you to morrow. It's

650
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 1: gonna be me and her. No, he's not coming up

651
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 1: to the principal's office. You don't need to do it.

652
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 1: But we don't have a problem with you. We just

653
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 1: need her. I just need to see you. You're gonna

654
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: have a problem with me. We keep going down this

655
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: role right now. Okay, so, so bro so it's okay

656
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 1: for her to have her butt cheeks out when she

657
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 1: dropped the kids. All but as soon as I want

658
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 1: to have her come out of office for a meeting

659
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,359
Speaker 1: about this situation, right now right now, you he said,

660
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 1: you claiming her, but ceases out like ceases out right now?

661
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 1: You out of pockets? Okay, No, it was out of

662
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: pocket when she pulled up and got out the car

663
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,320
Speaker 1: and her butt was out of pocket. That's when it

664
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,879
Speaker 1: was out of pocket. So so what you can't do, Nate,

665
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: is be mad at me by what your wife then

666
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 1: put on and wall up into the school. Look, man,

667
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,479
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm I'm gonna do what I gotta

668
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 1: do on this on this end, your end is to

669
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: handle what's going on in your school. Well, but Denny,

670
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 1: you're not handling that end over there. So that's why

671
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 1: I'm stepping up as the principal of the school saying

672
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 1: I need to have a meeting, a private meeting with

673
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 1: your wife so when her and I can talk about

674
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 1: what she's wearing. Look, man, I haven't told you several

675
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: times her coming up there on her own, it's not

676
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: gonna happen. So this is where we at right now.

677
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 1: You know what you're not gonna happen. So what so

678
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 1: what you're saying, you what's gonna happen tomorrow? I'm gonna

679
00:47:51,719 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: come up there and drop my daughter off and come

680
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 1: see you. So you're coming here tomorrow absolutely, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay,

681
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,919
Speaker 1: So are you bringing miss Carmen, which, don't worry about

682
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 1: who's Whitney. I'm not a telephone touchcot money. I'm coming

683
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: up there to handle this right now because you out

684
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,919
Speaker 1: of that. This is how it's going down. There will

685
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: be no butt cheeks coming out out tomorrow. It's just

686
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 1: gonna be coming out to car or some real you

687
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: una stand. What's your name again? My name? I'm Poort,

688
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: the principal here. All right, There'll be no butt cheeks tomorrow.

689
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 1: You will see me coming out the car. Okay, okay, okay, Uh, well,

690
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 1: there is there is another issue we got here on

691
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: the table, and what is that? So, so Miss Carmen

692
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 1: as she told you about, uh, the conversation she's been

693
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: having with Tommy. Who it is Tommy? So that once again,

694
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 1: so your wife ain't telling you nothing. So she hadn't

695
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: told you nothing about her talking to Tommy. No, dude,

696
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to play games man. Who's Tommy? Okay?

697
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: So so, okay, okay, do you know okay, okay, cool?

698
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 1: Do you know who nephew Tommy is from? Steve Harvey

699
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: More one show. Do you know him? Yeah? I know

700
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:16,799
Speaker 1: you may you just got pranked by your wife calming. Baby. Hey,

701
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 1: at least he knows the lover. Oh my god, wow,

702
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,439
Speaker 1: oh man, I gotta ask you something before we go, Baby,

703
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 1: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio

704
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: show in the land. Steve Harvey born his show and

705
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: that is and that in Chick Straightened Down, there's a

706
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 1: problem and he worked on it. I got kissed that.

707
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 1: You understand, okay, as you should have. Part of the job.

708
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: That was the problem. It's part of Yes, went pretty

709
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 1: much left on and as he should have. Okay, it's okay,

710
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 1: It's okay. I'm here for that. That's what pranking is.

711
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: You understand. That's what pranking is. Free Port East text

712
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: is everybody around the way. It's your boy, get ready

713
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: to get ready to get ready. I'm coming Street Port

714
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 1: Municipal Auditorium, Nephew, Tommy and Friend. It's Date Night, comedy show.

715
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: Get show date, bring your date. If you don't have

716
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: a date, come to the show and you can find

717
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: the date. It's m Okay weekend Sunday, January fifteen. Tickets

718
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: on sale right now all ticket Master outlets or you

719
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 1: can get him at the box office. Guess what the

720
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: fool is coming to town and I'm bringing my friends

721
00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: with it. It's date night, baby, Let's do this. Thank you.

722
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

723
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 1: after this you're listening show. Right now, it is time

724
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 1: for the Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and

725
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,840
Speaker 1: relationships on dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit

726
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:07,440
Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit

727
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Tell him Steve, click and submit Strawberry LETTA Shirley. Yes,

728
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:15,919
Speaker 1: then we can read your letter just like we're gonna

729
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 1: read this one today live. Wow, this is something right here.

730
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight. We got it for you.

731
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:28,760
Speaker 1: Here it is. It's the Strawberry Letter. Subject. I'm losing

732
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: my fine and flirty wife. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been

733
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,280
Speaker 1: married for close to eight years, and over the weekend,

734
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,399
Speaker 1: my wife told me that she is not in love

735
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: with me anymore. I'm a big guy and my wife

736
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: used to be a big girl, but she recently had

737
00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 1: cosmetic surgery to fix a few issues she was having.

738
00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 1: Now she thinks she's God's gift to the world. She's

739
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: been posting all kinds of sexy pictures on Facebook, and

740
00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 1: when random men comment on her pictures, she writes back

741
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:04,560
Speaker 1: to them. It's like she craves the attention. I went

742
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 1: through her private direct messages on Facebook and found out

743
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: that she has been having several intimate conversations with different guys.

744
00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 1: She even met up with one of the guys, but

745
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 1: it looks like nothing happened between them. Like I said,

746
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: I'm a big guy, and I was a big guy

747
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: when my wife when we got married. When I met

748
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 1: my wife, and when we got married, everything in our

749
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:31,280
Speaker 1: marriage seemed to change. Once she had the weight loss surgery.

750
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:35,720
Speaker 1: She's really feeling herself and forgetting about the marriage. Vows.

751
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: I still love this woman, and I praise her and

752
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 1: tell her how great she looks, but it's not enough.

753
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 1: I love her, but I'm afraid of losing her to

754
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: a man that's in better physical shape than I am.

755
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: Please give me some advice so I won't lose my wife. Well,

756
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: it kind of looks like you've lost her to a

757
00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: degree already. You know, I'm really sorry that you're going

758
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: through this. I really am. Your wife is wrong, she's

759
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: out of line, and not to mention being very disrespectful

760
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: to you right now for her to say she's not

761
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 1: in love with you anymore. Why because you're still a

762
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 1: big guy. And she's lost weight or had this been

763
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: you know, happening for a while. Now she's stripping because

764
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 1: she lost the weight she had the surgery, and now, yeah,

765
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 1: you're right, she is feeling herself and thinking she's God's

766
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: gift to the world. You know, what can you do?

767
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:33,799
Speaker 1: Please give me some advice so that I won't lose

768
00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: my wife. You guys were both big when when you

769
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 1: got together. I mean, how's your health? How's everything? She

770
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 1: went and got surgery and everything. Why don't you consider that?

771
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: You don't have to. I'm not saying it, but why

772
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,480
Speaker 1: don't you consider that on your own getting surgery and

773
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 1: losing the weight and going to the gym and you know,

774
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 1: changing your eating habits and things like that. Maybe it's

775
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: a good thing. You know, she's not going about it

776
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: the right way, but but it could be a good

777
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:03,799
Speaker 1: thing for you and your health and everything, and you'll

778
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: feel better about yourself, you know, because a lot of

779
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 1: times when you start feeling good about yourself, especially if

780
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: you haven't in a long long time, you know, you

781
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,360
Speaker 1: can react this way. I think your your your wife

782
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: is just you know, so crazy with this. She's not

783
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 1: in love with you anymore. So what is she going

784
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 1: to file for She is she going to file for

785
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: divorce now because she's not in love with you anymore? Uh?

786
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: You know, come on, this is just disrespectful. If it

787
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,799
Speaker 1: were you who lost the weight and everything, she would

788
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: be feeling some kind of way as well. So you know,

789
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:41,399
Speaker 1: all I can do is say, if she's gonna try

790
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: and disrespect you and walk out on you and divorce you,

791
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:48,319
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to, you know, get yourself together, get

792
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:50,799
Speaker 1: yourself together. If that doesn't keep her, then she wasn't

793
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:54,240
Speaker 1: meant for you anyway, you know. Um, we talk about

794
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,919
Speaker 1: this a lot on the on the show money makes

795
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 1: you more of who you are, Maybe, you know, losing

796
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 1: weight and and getting to yourself this is who she

797
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 1: was anyway. Maybe she settled for you, you know, in

798
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,000
Speaker 1: her mind, and now she feels she can do a

799
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:10,319
Speaker 1: lot better. But I think you can do a lot

800
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: better getting someone to respect you and love you for

801
00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: who you are, and then you know, maybe together you

802
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 1: can lose and if that's what you want to do, Steve, Uh, well, yeah,

803
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: I know you're going in and you showed no the

804
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: hell I am. I don't even know? Why are we

805
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 1: really hin't here? We why anybody said the key words

806
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:44,960
Speaker 1: and not anybody? I don't Okay, Shirley, I appreciate your

807
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 1: answer and everything, but let me try to help big

808
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: fella out. Big fella steal in low with this girl.

809
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 1: She wouldn't got herself together now she thinks she all

810
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: lad in a bag of chips. I don't know what

811
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: to tell you, man. Best thing I could tell you

812
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: is I think you ought to get in shape and

813
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:09,839
Speaker 1: leave hub. That's my best advice to you. I can

814
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 1: see that she obviously does not know any scriptures do

815
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: unto others as you would have them do unto you.

816
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: She must not know that pride cometh before a fall.

817
00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 1: She must not know that this from probably ain't in

818
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 1: that gluttony is a sin, that's not and he just

819
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 1: sitting up there, Okay, careful. That's why I'm there is

820
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 1: no real answer for this letter. I feel sorry for

821
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:45,959
Speaker 1: the guy. It's a dog gonna shame that the woman

822
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: to win in there and told him. She don't love

823
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:49,360
Speaker 1: him though, because she thinks she's gonna go out and

824
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:51,879
Speaker 1: have this spectacle of life. But she findn't go out

825
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: here and find out what's really out here. It's a

826
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:57,959
Speaker 1: lot of tricking going on out here, and she gonna

827
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 1: run into it. So even though I feel sorry for

828
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:03,760
Speaker 1: your brother and you don't want to lose your wife,

829
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 1: and now she fine, best thing I could do for him.

830
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:11,360
Speaker 1: If you can't beat them, join them. I suggest you

831
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 1: go get fine and you don't have to use surgery.

832
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 1: You can exercise and start eating the right foods and

833
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: you could get your inn in six months. Let her

834
00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 1: go and you get somebody else too, right, take a

835
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 1: little long within it. Yeah, probably take a little bit

836
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 1: long into six months. You got the rest of your life.

837
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 1: And there's a lot of women out here looking for

838
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: good men like you. All right, Steve, we'll be back

839
00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 1: with part two of your response to today's Strawberry Letters

840
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:44,440
Speaker 1: subject I'm losing my fine and flirting wife. We'll be

841
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 1: back at twenty three after the hour. Right after this,

842
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 1: you're listening all right here, We are back with part

843
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: two of the Strawberry Letter for today's subject, I'm losing

844
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: my fine and flirty wife. You want to recap Steve

845
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: Dude met his wife. They were both large, full figured people.

846
00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 1: They got married. When she married him, he was full figured.

847
00:58:08,720 --> 00:58:11,360
Speaker 1: She didn't mess around and got the little surgery and

848
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 1: now she didn't lost a bunch of weight. Now she fined.

849
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 1: She flirts with people all the time, people talking to him.

850
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: And you know, now she online having sexy conversations with

851
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 1: me and that's commenting on her picture and everything, and

852
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 1: she talking back to him. And dude been finding this.

853
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: And she even went out with one guy somewhere he

854
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:36,439
Speaker 1: discovered and you know, they didn't have sex or nothing.

855
00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: He don't think then she didn't came in the house

856
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: and told him she don't love him no more. And

857
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 1: one of the big things I didn't say in the

858
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:47,040
Speaker 1: first hassle, she ain't used to this new attention she

859
00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: got so now here she is. She brand new with it.

860
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: But she fled to find out a lot about attention.

861
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:59,520
Speaker 1: Though all our attention don't come with good intentions. When

862
00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 1: a person is paying your attention, what you really need

863
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:07,200
Speaker 1: to do is locate and find out the intention. Because

864
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: attention is flattering, intention usually has a dark side to it.

865
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 1: That's what I found in my life. Ladies, let me

866
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:20,080
Speaker 1: give you a piece of advice. Why are you sitting

867
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 1: there smiling and being flattered with the attention? What you

868
00:59:23,760 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 1: need to get to doing this? Focus on what his

869
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 1: intention is, because the intention could get you in a

870
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 1: lot of trouble. That's right, that's because she fine. Look, yeah,

871
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 1: but when you get over that, man, dog, you know what,

872
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: many find people out and met as something really wrong

873
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 1: with them. Yeah. Have you have you ever had a

874
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:51,919
Speaker 1: conversation with somebody who, outward appearances you thought was cool

875
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 1: and then they started talking and you your eyes started

876
00:59:55,640 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 1: doing that rapid eye movement. Yeah, hey, like silence that

877
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 1: you damn just scanning in the room trying to figure

878
01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: out hold of man, is anybody watching me over here

879
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 1: in this corner with true? Yeah? It's sad man, So

880
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 1: always do that. Always think about attention that I'm getting,

881
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:17,959
Speaker 1: and right behind the attention, what is the intention? Yeah,

882
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: she's disrespectful that. I think this happens a lot o

883
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 1: women to get these surgeries. I'm just saying that women

884
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,080
Speaker 1: get these surgery You think it happens a lot and

885
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,360
Speaker 1: then the husband is insecure after that? Yeah, I think

886
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: so I think it happens a lot, especially if they

887
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 1: were both you know, heavy to begin with. That's all right,

888
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 1: you know. And so now she's changed, right and lost

889
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 1: all this weight. Now she doesn't want her husband anymore,

890
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 1: so she's you know, seeking out other men. Yeah, that's terrible.

891
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 1: You don't love You're gonna feel pretty insecure. Once she

892
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 1: tells you she don't love, you know more, and she

893
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: online talking to other people, You're gonna feel some kind

894
01:00:56,440 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 1: of way. That's hurtful. That's hurtful. No, man, if she's

895
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: wrong O money, Yeah, she's terribly wrong. Yeah, i'd probably

896
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 1: help pay for the surge. Yeah, oh yeah, I believe

897
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 1: that hard working man because it would make her happy. Dollar,

898
01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 1: because he wanted to make her happy. He can, you know,

899
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 1: to do something to make himself feel better and get better,

900
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 1: get healthy, you know, lose some weight if he he

901
01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like he didn't mention that in the letter,

902
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: but I mean that could help him have more confidence

903
01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: in himself. I mean, this could be the motivating factor

904
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 1: that a person need. Yeah. Absolutely, absolutely, he's hurt right now. Yeah,

905
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean, what you don't want

906
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:47,480
Speaker 1: to do is compound the problem. With another problem. So

907
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: what you don't want to do is now you depressed.

908
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 1: Now you're sitting at the house eating because she out,

909
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: and now you're eating and you compounding your problem. Yeah,

910
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 1: now she come home, you got ice cream around your mouth,

911
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 1: gotten milk commercial, and then you know where you're being baby,

912
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 1: you know. So he could get in shape, definitely. Oh

913
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 1: he could just stop barbecueing every weekend, get her back fat.

914
01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:21,840
Speaker 1: Those are yeah, that sound. You can get yourself in

915
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 1: share here go your option. You can go plant base,

916
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 1: gonna get yourself down, get self control, you can go

917
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: and get yourself in shape. All you could just go

918
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: on and start making pies and stuff and just get

919
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: your girl back fat, really work the fat back. Yeah yeah,

920
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 1: but I feel for him. No one wants to be

921
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 1: in a marriage for eight years and then all of

922
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 1: a sudden somebody says I don't love you anymore. That's

923
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 1: that's so crushing. That's crushing to a person. Yeah, well

924
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 1: I've been crying twice, so he would go, yeah, I

925
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:08,240
Speaker 1: mean right, and and you survived, so come on, let's

926
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:12,280
Speaker 1: go and get through this. What you're gonna do? Stay

927
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 1: chalking up to the game. I had two people tell me.

928
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 1: It ain't little me no more. Yeah, I mean it

929
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:22,120
Speaker 1: happens for sure. Yeah, but get out. I've heard it

930
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 1: with that too. You never he at least he ain't

931
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:29,200
Speaker 1: heard that. Wow, I didn't heard. I don't love y'all.

932
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 1: Didn't heard this right here? How about this right here?

933
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 1: I can't stand you. Oh yeah, that hurts. Hurt all

934
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: of it hurts. Yeah, it's hurtful, especially with someone you

935
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:43,160
Speaker 1: still love. And he he clearly still loves his wife.

936
01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 1: You know, Oh that wasn't the case. Well, this letter

937
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 1: is not about you. I just want you to know

938
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 1: once you come in and you make the announcement that

939
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,360
Speaker 1: you don't love me as soon as you get through.

940
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 1: But so before you take your next breath. Uh huh,

941
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:02,400
Speaker 1: Well I can't stand your aunt. Yeah, we ain't gonna

942
01:04:02,400 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: be You don't want to stay here, Philly. Thank you

943
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:08,640
Speaker 1: for sharing. Steve, we got welcome. Please email us your

944
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:12,320
Speaker 1: Instagram us Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey FM or

945
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:17,440
Speaker 1: my Girl Shirley. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show? All right,

946
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 1: Jay is in the building. Steve time to murder another hit?

947
01:04:21,080 --> 01:04:24,280
Speaker 1: Please introduce him, give him a good one. I'm scared

948
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 1: ladies in June murder the song right here dedicated to

949
01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:39,919
Speaker 1: all the ladies. What we're going through it. I don't

950
01:04:39,960 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 1: know hit it poll His head just got damn open.

951
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 1: And she's got the ceiling thing over thirty eight degrees.

952
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:10,800
Speaker 1: She wakes up sweat and it is the cool all.

953
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:16,439
Speaker 1: She having a hot slash wind and reading I want

954
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:20,440
Speaker 1: a hot flash, holl the room night and in the

955
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: hot flash wind and reading it. Didn't she have a

956
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 1: hot lad? Ain't no man love nash? I mean the

957
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 1: hot flash hot slash readhint last hot time flash hot

958
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: hot hot hot hot hot flash hot hot hot. She

959
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:08,479
Speaker 1: having high slash when reading I wonder hinds that hid

960
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 1: lash and reading I mean lash your genius boy your No,

961
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 1: he's not. No, he's Carlot raising Carlo down. Are you ladies?

962
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:51,400
Speaker 1: Did y'all enjoy that? You? H No? I didn't say.

963
01:06:51,640 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: And you know what the problem is, Steve, me and

964
01:06:53,600 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 1: Jay you know we talk on the phone. And did

965
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 1: you have a hot flash when you was on the

966
01:06:57,760 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 1: phone and get an inspiration? Yes? I did, Tommy, but

967
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:05,160
Speaker 1: the whole world knows. Now, No, you're not. And turned

968
01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:12,520
Speaker 1: to as you're listening to show a new study from

969
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 1: um what is the Scrivens Hearing Care. Okay, they looked

970
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:21,560
Speaker 1: at two thousand adults, okay, two thousand grown people. Research

971
01:07:21,640 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 1: shows that at least seven times a week men have

972
01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 1: selective hearing in all. In all, men don't hear their

973
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 1: spouse three hundred and eighty eight times in the course

974
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: of a year. Women are two though. That's a lot, right,

975
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 1: that's a lot. Three hundred and eighty eight times in

976
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 1: the course of a year. That's low. That's low. Sty

977
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:57,560
Speaker 1: here ye, well right now, you're only talking a little

978
01:07:57,600 --> 01:08:02,880
Speaker 1: over once a day. That's an average one. What's a date? Okay, okay,

979
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:06,160
Speaker 1: so that ain't Yeah, that's not so bad. That's not

980
01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:08,920
Speaker 1: so bad. No, I tune that way. He got to

981
01:08:09,000 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 1: tune it the same thing him. What y'all talking? Listen? Wait?

982
01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:18,559
Speaker 1: Wait what man? We just talked about that for fifteen minutes,

983
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 1: because two hours you make the same twenty minute point

984
01:08:24,000 --> 01:08:26,639
Speaker 1: for two hours and wake up the next morning. Were

985
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:33,360
Speaker 1: still talking about that? Man? Move on? God what yeah,

986
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm hearing you, but I ain't listening no more. Man,

987
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 1: Did you hear what I said about letting out at

988
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:46,840
Speaker 1: the job? Why are we still talking about Linda and ladies.

989
01:08:46,880 --> 01:08:49,720
Speaker 1: But that's that thing, right that that's true. Yeah, we

990
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 1: do have selective here. So but it sounds like you

991
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:57,680
Speaker 1: guys are responsing to nagging. That's a difference, right, is

992
01:08:57,720 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: it all? If you it all the same time? You no,

993
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 1: because if you're talking, if you're talking too much. M h,

994
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:10,600
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, which is often so it could be

995
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:14,720
Speaker 1: about anything. Just the sound of my voice that you

996
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 1: just start tooting out after a while, tell me that's you. Well,

997
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:26,760
Speaker 1: you know what. That's okay, you're puffing about because you're

998
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 1: talking about the same thing what I'm asking you about

999
01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:35,519
Speaker 1: this survey though you're not answering. Uh No, I'm talking

1000
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:38,720
Speaker 1: about this period. You're talking about the same thing. And

1001
01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:41,240
Speaker 1: then I can tell it's body because I look on Facebook.

1002
01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: Now you're posting stuff away, let it go, kid over

1003
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:52,960
Speaker 1: to social media. Social media. Now you're amens on the

1004
01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 1: damn what? Yeah, but let it. I think I think

1005
01:09:57,000 --> 01:10:01,799
Speaker 1: it is a problem, and I think women could admit

1006
01:10:01,880 --> 01:10:05,679
Speaker 1: to this one, because yes, men do have selective hearing,

1007
01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:08,560
Speaker 1: and we've had to develop that over the course of

1008
01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:12,879
Speaker 1: time because and we've and more and more we've developed

1009
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:16,639
Speaker 1: more and more selective hearing because if there's a slight

1010
01:10:16,760 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 1: difference in US, women vent differently than men. And when

1011
01:10:21,200 --> 01:10:24,320
Speaker 1: women are around each other talking to their girlfriends, you

1012
01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 1: all have more of a tendency to talk about a

1013
01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:30,760
Speaker 1: subject from every angle you turn it over. You all

1014
01:10:30,840 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 1: can discuss one subject for hours. Men don't do that.

1015
01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:39,640
Speaker 1: We have a debate, somebody wins, loses, We have a

1016
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:42,639
Speaker 1: strong debate, then we laugh or we fight, and then

1017
01:10:42,800 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 1: it's over. You all keep talking about it. And once,

1018
01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:48,720
Speaker 1: once a man has made all the points he can make,

1019
01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:51,920
Speaker 1: your point is irrelevant at this point because we've heard

1020
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 1: it already. We don't agree with it, so we shut

1021
01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 1: you out, and we all every every man trying to

1022
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 1: do that. Yeah, yeah, we want your face and not

1023
01:11:02,040 --> 01:11:07,680
Speaker 1: be hearing nothing. You saying, wait what I can look

1024
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:10,960
Speaker 1: dad in your face and not be hearing nothing. You saying,

1025
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 1: be looking dad at your mouth? Are you listening? Are

1026
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:21,720
Speaker 1: you listening to me? A girl? Yeah? Did you hear

1027
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:25,040
Speaker 1: what I just said? Schedule off will schedule of h

1028
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 1: How many times Marjorie to looked at me and said, Steve,

1029
01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 1: what did I just say? What did repeat? I say?

1030
01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:37,840
Speaker 1: That's atash? You heard? You? Women are guilty team. They

1031
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 1: don't listen, I'll be trying to think about what the

1032
01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 1: hell is she's three hundred and thirty nine times a year. Oh,

1033
01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:47,320
Speaker 1: we do it too. We tune y'all out? All right,

1034
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:50,080
Speaker 1: coming up music and fun on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1035
01:11:50,120 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 1: We'll be back in twenty minutes after the hour. Right

1036
01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening show, All right, Steve, it's time

1037
01:11:59,479 --> 01:12:03,439
Speaker 1: for a quick health and wellness shout out. Give some um.

1038
01:12:03,840 --> 01:12:07,200
Speaker 1: You know you want to keep healthy thoughts and people

1039
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: being healthy, and you're launching a brand new product, so

1040
01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:13,920
Speaker 1: tell us about your elevation well On January third, I

1041
01:12:14,040 --> 01:12:16,560
Speaker 1: have a new product coming out. It's called Elevate You

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Speaker 1: by Steve Harvey. It's a green Vitality daily green drink.

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Speaker 1: So I have a special composition that I had put

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Speaker 1: in here to help cover your mitochondriacts. And what that

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Speaker 1: is it it helps you from the cellular level. What

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Speaker 1: a lot of people don't understand is you take vitamins

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Speaker 1: and stuff that never reach your cellular level when you

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Speaker 1: drink greens. Greens especially are designed to go straight to

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Speaker 1: your cellular level and make you feel better on the

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Speaker 1: cellular level, helps give you better mental capacity increases your

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Speaker 1: energy where you can work out more. It's not a

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Speaker 1: workout product, it's not protein. It gives you the energy

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Speaker 1: so you have the energy to go for your walks,

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Speaker 1: the energy to work out, you know, the energy to

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Speaker 1: think more. Clearly, it's a lot of energy and it

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Speaker 1: does wonders for your digestive system. And that's so the

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Speaker 1: things I've been working on. People say, Steve, you look

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Speaker 1: young man, and I do, and I feel young because

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Speaker 1: I take care of myself on the cellular level. So

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Speaker 1: on January third, and the launch is called Elevate You

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Speaker 1: by Steve Harvey's a daily vitality green drink and it's

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Speaker 1: just the thing to make you feel absolutely wonderful. It's

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Speaker 1: a great prob Thank you all right, congratulations Steve. Can't

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Speaker 1: wait for it. January third, coming up in thirty three

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll play a round. I would

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Speaker 1: you rather right after this? You're listening to show time

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Speaker 1: now for would you rather? Would you rather give up

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Speaker 1: your cell phone for a month or would you rather

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Speaker 1: give up bathing for a month? Hello bathing? I'm being

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Speaker 1: to put together some funky deals. I can't make no

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Speaker 1: money out this phone. I'm gonna gone. I'm gonna just

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Speaker 1: carry my laptop. I see my son FaceTime on here

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Speaker 1: computing everything I got. Because let me explain something to you.

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Speaker 1: If you're laying in the bed naked, you and you

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Speaker 1: raise your knee up by your chests, that dry ice

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Speaker 1: cloud comes out your crack yesses up over the hump

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Speaker 1: of your booty and slides along your waist time roll

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Speaker 1: up over your elbow and come down behind your shoulder.

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Speaker 1: It looked like dry ice steppings invisible, but bagine that

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01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 1: white dry ice smoke and then it come around your

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Speaker 1: face and it just lock on your face. You can't

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Speaker 1: get it off. I'd rather not, So you're going to bathe?

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Speaker 1: I got you man, ain't no way in the world.

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Speaker 1: Ye that that dumb that third day you got twenty

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Speaker 1: seventh mo. Yeah, for a whole month. Yeah, you might

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Speaker 1: not even have to raise your leg back to two weeks.

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Speaker 1: You just need to stop walking. If you walking in

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Speaker 1: flies just buzzing around your ways, just following you, just

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Speaker 1: buzz You're looking like pig peeing on Charlie Brown. All right?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather never age physically? Never age physically, or

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Speaker 1: would you rather never age mentally? I could stay right here.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorrying right here. I got enough to make it

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Speaker 1: on in If I think like this at one hundred,

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Speaker 1: i'd be cool with it. Yeah. So physically yeah, oh

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Speaker 1: physically stay right yeah? Yeah? Would you rather never think

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Speaker 1: about all this on the show? You know? You know,

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Speaker 1: you know we're pretty good. Look at morning show when

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Speaker 1: you look at you know, Yes, Tommy and Junior can

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Speaker 1: still run. I can trot for short distances. We we

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Speaker 1: we mobile trot for shorting distances. If I do an outburst,

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Speaker 1: it's got to be about four five steps, I gotta

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Speaker 1: shut it down. I immediately got to pull up because

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Speaker 1: I have heard about to come right after that. Don't

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Speaker 1: hurt nothing, don't pull anything. Uh, and Junior, what about you?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather never age physically or mentally? No? Mentally

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Speaker 1: I want to be mentally, but physically it ain't working

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Speaker 1: for me. Now. I'm just in there. I'm ending him,

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Speaker 1: but ain't. Ain't nothing happening in there, Tommy quickly physically okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, well, thank you. That's our round developing physically

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Speaker 1: where he've been done. Then we'll be back with our

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Speaker 1: last break up the day and closing. You're listening to right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: here we are. It's good. It's been a good Day's

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Speaker 1: a good day. It's been a good day, Steve. I

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Speaker 1: know you have some inspiring words to leave us with today.

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Speaker 1: You know, I got up yesterday and um, I was

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Speaker 1: about to do my morning meditation, and something told me

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Speaker 1: to just turn the TV on and look for Joel Olstein.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't turn the TV on because that's

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Speaker 1: my meditational time. So I turned it on and I

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Speaker 1: thumbed through and I found Joel Olstein right at eight

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Speaker 1: o'clock out in La. It was right at the exact moment,

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Speaker 1: and I was there in time for the joke that

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Speaker 1: he does and a little funny thing he starts off

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Speaker 1: his service. And I was listening. He was talking about something, man,

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Speaker 1: that really struck a chord with me, and I think

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Speaker 1: has affected all of us at one point in time

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Speaker 1: in our life. And I wanted to share it with you, man,

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Speaker 1: because it was so helpful to me. He was talking

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Speaker 1: about bitterness. He was talking about not allowing bitterness to

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Speaker 1: take hold in your life. He said the problem with

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Speaker 1: bitterness is that the longer you hold on to it,

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Speaker 1: the harder it is to get rid of. And what

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Speaker 1: the basic thing in his sermon was, and I'm just

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Speaker 1: paraphrasing everything he was asking everybody, instead of holding on

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Speaker 1: to bitterness, you've got to learn to ask God to

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Speaker 1: help you forgive more quickly. You've got to start asking

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Speaker 1: God to help you let it go, because if you don't,

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Speaker 1: it just attaches itself to you, and bitterness shows up everywhere.

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Speaker 1: It's a funny thing, man, because I was thinking, I said, Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm not really a bitter person. This ain't for me.

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Speaker 1: Oh man. As I listened he was talking about because

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Speaker 1: bitterness shows up everywhere. You Ever been angry because a

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Speaker 1: deal didn't go down. You Ever been angry or got

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Speaker 1: upset about a contract and it kind of bugged you

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Speaker 1: for a while. You ever been you ever see a

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Speaker 1: coworker and they just kind of rubbed you the wrong way?

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Speaker 1: You know, maybe they fronted you in front of others.

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Speaker 1: You gotta remember something about a bitterness, man, Bitterness is

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Speaker 1: it's a root r oot. Bitterness is a root. You

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Speaker 1: can't see roots because roots are underground, but roots anchor

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Speaker 1: the tree and the bush and and and and and

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Speaker 1: and the roots are under the ground. And bitter roots

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Speaker 1: make bitter fruit. If if a tree has bitter roots,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna produce bitter fruit. So what he was saying

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Speaker 1: the whole time yesterday, but don't let mishaps and grudges

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Speaker 1: take root. Don't allow these stuffs to take root, because

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Speaker 1: you won't. You won't even be able to see it

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Speaker 1: and just be underground gathering strength and holding you down.

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Speaker 1: And the roots, the root feeds a tree. The root

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Speaker 1: feeds the bush. And if you got bad roots down there,

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Speaker 1: bitter roots don't free. Don't feed the tree good nutrients.

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Speaker 1: Bitter roots destroy. So when you're starting to feel some

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Speaker 1: type of resentment, you're holding a grudge. Maybe he left you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you got they told you they loved you and

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Speaker 1: it turned out they didn't. Maybe you got stuck with

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Speaker 1: the baby. Maybe your kids just weren't act right. Maybe

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Speaker 1: you just can't get past what your sibling did to

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Speaker 1: you a long time ago. Maybe your mama ain't been

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Speaker 1: a good mother to you. Maybe your father walked out.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you just can't seem to get a break, so

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Speaker 1: you become bitter. You gotta ask God to help you

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Speaker 1: let that God. Man, you gotta ask God for some help. Man.

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Speaker 1: You got to ask God to help remove the resentment.

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Speaker 1: Help remove the hatred, Help get rid of the jealousy.

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Speaker 1: Help you start feeling like, oh, so what they treated

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Speaker 1: you unfair? You gotta get rid of that man. You

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Speaker 1: can't keep holding on to the wrong things. You're contaminating

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Speaker 1: your roots, and your roots is contaminating your tree. When

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Speaker 1: you hang on to that jealousy of resentment to another person,

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Speaker 1: You're not hurting that other person, You're hurting your tree.

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Speaker 1: Your roots is feeding you the wrong types of nutrients. See,

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Speaker 1: the problem with bitterness is it takes you away from God,

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Speaker 1: who who God created you to be. God created all

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Speaker 1: of us in his image, all of us. He created

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Speaker 1: us for greatness. He created us to be dreamers. He

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Speaker 1: created us to be social people who help others, who

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Speaker 1: helped them less fortunate, created us to be powerful. God

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Speaker 1: made us to be joyous, to be creative, to be strong.

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Speaker 1: That's who you were born to be. But when you

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Speaker 1: get become bitter, you start renaming yourself. So now you're

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Speaker 1: not this strong, courageous, powerful, joyous, creative person anymore now

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Speaker 1: because you this. I'm broken. They broke my heart. I

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Speaker 1: can't get over it. I lost my mama. I'll never

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Speaker 1: be the same. This man left me. All men are dogs.

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Speaker 1: I'm bitter. I'm lost. Nah, man, that's not your name.

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Speaker 1: You got to reclaim the name. You were created in

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Speaker 1: God's image. Now, don't let bitterness. Don't let your break up,

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Speaker 1: your divorce, your bad childhood, your lost business, your bad parents.

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Speaker 1: Don't let none of them rob you of your destiny.

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Speaker 1: Get rid of the bitterness is spoiling your roots and

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Speaker 1: is spoiling the fruit from the tree. Those are my

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Speaker 1: closer remarks. That's what I learned. I just wanted to share.

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