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Speaker 1: It is time now for today Strawberry Letter. And if

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Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry letter. Thank you nephew. Subject how

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Speaker 1: did the pine straw get in there? To Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I have a four year old son

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Speaker 1: and a three year old daughter. We also have two

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Speaker 1: small dogs. We got one for my son and he

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Speaker 1: didn't want to share with our daughter, so my husband

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Speaker 1: and went out and bought her a dog too. We're

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Speaker 1: happy with our little family, but we are consumed with

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Speaker 1: household chores and taking care of our children and pets.

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Speaker 1: I work out after work, so my husband takes the

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Speaker 1: children and the dogs to the park down from our house.

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Speaker 1: I got home yesterday and I assumed they were still

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Speaker 1: at the park. I called my husband, Darryl and Linda

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Speaker 1: from two houses down, answered the phone, answered his phone.

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Speaker 1: She said Darrell had to go get one of the

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Speaker 1: I started cooking and cleaning up a bit, and in

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Speaker 1: comes Darrel with the kids and dogs. He said all

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Speaker 1: pine straw. When he ran after it. He had tiny

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Speaker 1: to shower and put on clean clothes. A few minutes later,

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Speaker 1: Linda knocked on the door to return my daughter's shoe

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Speaker 1: that had fallen off, and Linda was full of pine

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Speaker 1: straw too. My children were not dirty at all, but

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Speaker 1: Linda and my husband were. Linda left and I went

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Speaker 1: to check the jogging pants my husband had on. How

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Speaker 1: As soon as he got out of the shower, I

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Speaker 1: Should I watch him and Linda? Now? Is that a question.

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Speaker 1: Is that a question? Girl? What do you think? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You should? You should watch them that Linda start with

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Speaker 1: what the blank was she doing answering your husband's phone?

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Speaker 1: I mean, then why was she in your house alone?

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Speaker 1: You're you're grilling your husband. But please don't let miss

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Speaker 1: Linda off the hook. She had no business being in

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Speaker 1: any of this. They are both wrong, wrong and wrong.

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Speaker 1: They weren't caring anything about you or the kids. Both

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Speaker 1: of them need to be checked for sure. She doesn't

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Speaker 1: get to be in your house and which you're a

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Speaker 1: man with no consequence, say what is this? She's lying?

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Speaker 1: Your husband's lying, and you know it because they didn't

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Speaker 1: say anything about the pine straw. That's so very obvious.

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Speaker 1: That was why he was doing all that yelling and

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Speaker 1: stuff to distract you. Okay, this is really crazy here.

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Speaker 1: I mean, both of them have pine straw. It sounds

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Speaker 1: like to me they were rolling around in the pine straw,

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Speaker 1: all right. Otherwise how did they get how did they

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Speaker 1: get the pine straw all over them? And the kids

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Speaker 1: I just think you saw it with your own eyes,

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Speaker 1: a pine straw on both of them, No one else,

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Speaker 1: not the dogs, not the kids. No matter how he

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Speaker 1: of rolling around in the straw together. That's my conclusion

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Speaker 1: after reading this letter. What's another explanation you can think of?

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's one. You really don't need to

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Speaker 1: watch them. You really don't because you've seen and heard

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Speaker 1: all you need to know. Steve, Wow, Wow, wow wow?

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Speaker 1: Did we read two entirely different letters? Because I feel

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Speaker 1: as though I did. Tommy bear with me on this

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Speaker 1: from my brother. All right, you know, you know it's

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Speaker 1: amazing how women stick together and you all don't review

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Speaker 1: the facts properly. Get your lives together. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: How did the pinestraw get up in d Stephen? Sharing?

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Speaker 1: My husband, I have a four year old son, three

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Speaker 1: year old daughter. We got two small dogs, one from

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Speaker 1: my son. He didn't want to share with our door.

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Speaker 1: This ain't got nothing to do with the damn letter.

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Speaker 1: So my husband went and bought her dog too, So

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Speaker 1: damn what there we go. We are happy with our

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Speaker 1: I work out after work, so my husband takes the

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Speaker 1: I got home yesterday and I assumed they were still

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Speaker 1: to prove your point so bad? Where did you get

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Speaker 1: she was up in their house? Linda? Nowhere in this

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Speaker 1: letter because you have decided to side with Linda. Listen

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Speaker 1: and you all against Daryl. I'm not Sand's phone now,

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Speaker 1: but you said she was up in their house. Linda

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Speaker 1: ain't been to the house to lay their own girl.

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Speaker 1: See you trying to make more out of this than

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Speaker 1: it is. I assumed they was at the park. I

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Speaker 1: Daryl and Linda from two houses down answer his phone.

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Speaker 1: They were together, that's obvious, but it was not in

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Speaker 1: Daryl can stop Linda from going to the poll now.

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Speaker 1: She told him Darrel had to go get one of

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Speaker 1: the dogs that ran off. You just said you all

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Speaker 1: to console with housework and choice and going to get

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Speaker 1: them damn dogs is one of them things. He had

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Speaker 1: to run off. Ain't no talent hop Steve Hang on.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up to

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject of today's

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Speaker 1: strawberry letter is how did the pine straw get in there? Okay,

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Speaker 1: we'll get back into it right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject is how did

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Speaker 1: fine stroke get in there? I'm trying to I'm here

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Speaker 1: on behalf of Daryl, who is in this letter, Shirley

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Speaker 1: on behalf of the wife, and it's against Linda. This

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Speaker 1: couple got a lot, two dogs, little kids for ye

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Speaker 1: old three year old dogs. The lady works out after

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Speaker 1: work and so the kid take the kids, and the

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Speaker 1: the street from their house. The lady came in from

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Speaker 1: home yesterday and they assumed they were still at the park,

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Speaker 1: so she called her husband, Daryl. Linda from two doors

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Speaker 1: down answered his phone. I have no idea how that happen.

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Speaker 1: That's unexplainable. What is she answer for? You therefore, have

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Speaker 1: right down on how dumb darrel ass really is? Hey, baby,

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Speaker 1: get that Linda, get that that it might be joe Anne,

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Speaker 1: get that I'll be down. She answered the phone. She

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Speaker 1: by answering the phone but also saying I'm sitting here

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Speaker 1: to get one of the dogs. And it must have worked,

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Speaker 1: because she said so I thanked her and hung up.

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Speaker 1: I started cooking and cleaning up a bit, and then

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Speaker 1: come Darrel with the kids and the dog. He said,

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Speaker 1: all of them had been to the park. That's what

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Speaker 1: you said that where Lynda answered the phone, he was

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Speaker 1: all dusty and dirty, but the children were spotless. He said.

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Speaker 1: One of the dogs ran off, and he slipped in

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Speaker 1: the pine straw when he ran after him. I played golf.

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Speaker 1: One of my most dreaded moments is when the ball

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Speaker 1: is laying in pine straw. I have slipped in pine

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Speaker 1: straw on the golf course. You can't fall in there.

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Speaker 1: That's letter is about when he fell. He rolled around

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Speaker 1: because he's not as athletic as me. Oh yeah, that is.

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Speaker 1: He said they had been, but he was dusty. He said.

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Speaker 1: One of the dogs ran off and he slipped in

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Speaker 1: the pine straw. When he ran after, he had tiny

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Speaker 1: of his jog in pans. He went to shower and

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Speaker 1: You know, Linda, this hell for him. Man, the most

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Speaker 1: you know, you're answering phones, bringing shoes back, getting out

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Speaker 1: pinestraw too. My children were not dirty at all, but

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Speaker 1: to check the jogging pants my husband had all How

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Speaker 1: did he get pinestraw all up in his pants? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he told you he failed. That's what we all want

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Speaker 1: to know. He he felt as soon as he got

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Speaker 1: the dog too. She felt everybody can't stand up in pinestraw.

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Speaker 1: Very few people know how to do that. You didn't

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Speaker 1: a fall too. But then I accused him of messing

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Speaker 1: you ain't got enough proof right here. Pinestraw is not

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Speaker 1: an act of guilt, now, sir. You had to get

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Speaker 1: more evidence to be to accuse this man. It is

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Speaker 1: because she had pinestraw on her, because she was at

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Speaker 1: You know, dogs can find you no matter where you're going.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know how you think they didn't find

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Speaker 1: I DIBt very six at the end of the daytime

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Speaker 1: at the park. Shirley, No, it was what Darrel said

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Speaker 1: it was. And then Shirley, you said, and don't let

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Speaker 1: Fo what check Kerr for answering his phone And she

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Speaker 1: doesn't know how Linda got pines straw and her that

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Speaker 1: ain't her damn business. He bought them kids back spotless,

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Speaker 1: which is good parenting. Them kids didn't were not dirty

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Speaker 1: pine straw on them at all. You better be a parent, Darryl.

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Speaker 1: You got to be a parent, boy, running after dogs

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Speaker 1: of the damn daytime with two babies and a dog.

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Speaker 1: How I think you innocently post your comments on today's strawberries?

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Speaker 1: Stop cutting me off Facebook. And Linda was never at

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Speaker 1: the how and Jack, but she did do it with

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