1
00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,040
Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

2
00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:11,320
Speaker 2: Thanks for joining us.

3
00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:15,880
Speaker 1: We are so excited to be back today as usual.

4
00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:17,599
Speaker 2: How are you, Susan Darling? How are you?

5
00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,120
Speaker 3: Just wonderful?

6
00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,320
Speaker 4: And today, of course we'll be answering more of your

7
00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:25,919
Speaker 4: fan questions, so make sure you're still submitting. We love

8
00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:29,440
Speaker 4: reading them, we love discussing them, we love giving advice

9
00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:30,000
Speaker 4: on them.

10
00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:31,520
Speaker 3: And you know what to do by.

11
00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:35,400
Speaker 4: Now, right, it's go to bachelornation dot com slash Golden

12
00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:37,360
Speaker 4: Hour and submit away.

13
00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:44,000
Speaker 1: Okay, send us everything, send us your questions, your updates.

14
00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:48,120
Speaker 1: You can also DM them dm us on Instagram at

15
00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,680
Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour. And something tells me, Susan that we

16
00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,080
Speaker 1: are going to be having a lot of questions coming

17
00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:55,240
Speaker 1: up after this episode.

18
00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:56,560
Speaker 3: Just old we just.

19
00:00:56,680 --> 00:01:01,040
Speaker 4: Might we just cos we might share some things, Okay, kat,

20
00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,640
Speaker 4: So it's time to get into the episode.

21
00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:07,080
Speaker 3: Let's start with the Question of the day. Kathy, It's all.

22
00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,520
Speaker 1: Yours, okay, Susan, I have news for you and Bachelor Nation.

23
00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,720
Speaker 1: We're not doing the Question of the Day today, We're not.

24
00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:14,640
Speaker 2: No.

25
00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:18,240
Speaker 1: You and I are good bestie friends, right, Yes, I

26
00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,080
Speaker 1: know what you think, you know what I think. It

27
00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:24,399
Speaker 1: is now time for you to tell Bachelor Nation what

28
00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:27,200
Speaker 1: has really been going on in your life. So I'm

29
00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,960
Speaker 1: gonna let you take it away, and just let me

30
00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,679
Speaker 1: just say for everyone before we get started. Here, Susan

31
00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,400
Speaker 1: and I took I feel like I'm writing a fairy

32
00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:39,640
Speaker 1: tale here. Susan and I took a trip together. Nancy

33
00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,160
Speaker 1: was supposed to come, but it ended up being the

34
00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:44,560
Speaker 1: two of us to Saint Martin Island in the French

35
00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:48,000
Speaker 1: West Indies. And Susan take it away what happened.

36
00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,200
Speaker 4: So I've been holding on to this secret for a

37
00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:55,080
Speaker 4: little bit. Now I did meet someone, and I know

38
00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,800
Speaker 4: I've been talking about being single because I didn't know

39
00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,520
Speaker 4: where it was going to go. I know what I felt,

40
00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,960
Speaker 4: but wanted to make sure we were both on the

41
00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:05,680
Speaker 4: same page.

42
00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:07,880
Speaker 3: And I just have to share that we are.

43
00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,120
Speaker 4: We were having fun and we're just seeing where things

44
00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:14,400
Speaker 4: are going. And now I can honestly say he's the

45
00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,560
Speaker 4: real deal. I have found my person.

46
00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,480
Speaker 2: Yah, she's let it out finally. Oh my god, you're

47
00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:21,080
Speaker 2: killing me.

48
00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,600
Speaker 1: I can't tell anyone keep doing okay, So tell everyone

49
00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:24,040
Speaker 1: about him.

50
00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,360
Speaker 4: So yes, Bachelor Nation and all you listeners, it was

51
00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,080
Speaker 4: my turn, and thank god, I mean. I went on

52
00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,840
Speaker 4: National TV on the Golden Bachelor and it didn't work.

53
00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:35,720
Speaker 4: And Kathy and I were having a fabulous vacation and

54
00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:36,919
Speaker 4: one night we went to bed.

55
00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:37,920
Speaker 3: She was upstairs.

56
00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,120
Speaker 4: I was in my room and I was playing games

57
00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,880
Speaker 4: on my computer and I could not sleep, and I thought,

58
00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,160
Speaker 4: you know what, what do I got to lose?

59
00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,960
Speaker 3: I went on Tinder.

60
00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:52,720
Speaker 4: See everybody, It does work when you least expected and

61
00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:54,320
Speaker 4: trust and believe me, I used to be on all

62
00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:57,680
Speaker 4: the dating sites forever. So I tried it and I

63
00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:00,079
Speaker 4: saw somebody I swiped, and then I didn't get on

64
00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,200
Speaker 4: for like three days.

65
00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:05,399
Speaker 1: Remember I remember, and I didn't know, by the way,

66
00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:06,880
Speaker 1: I did have no idea.

67
00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:08,680
Speaker 2: I had no idea she had done this.

68
00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,080
Speaker 1: We were going to the beach, We're going out having dinner,

69
00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:12,919
Speaker 1: and then what happened Susan.

70
00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,400
Speaker 4: And I decided to check back in and there was

71
00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,840
Speaker 4: a message, and I was like, oh, so that was

72
00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:22,240
Speaker 4: the fun part. Of course, he is French and he

73
00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,520
Speaker 4: speaks French. So when he asked for the first meet,

74
00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:26,919
Speaker 4: I made Kathy come.

75
00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:31,440
Speaker 1: So let me just say he is from Paris. I's

76
00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:35,320
Speaker 1: out of Paris, and his name is Frederick oh Borde

77
00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,000
Speaker 1: excuse me, I drink it. I don't know where the

78
00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:41,360
Speaker 1: hell it is anyway. He just speaks very little English.

79
00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:44,040
Speaker 1: He speaks a little more English than Susan does French.

80
00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:48,520
Speaker 1: I speak enough French, Yeah, I speak enough. So Susan says,

81
00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,360
Speaker 1: you have to come, you have to come to this bar.

82
00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:55,160
Speaker 1: And so literally we walked to the bar. It was

83
00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:59,160
Speaker 1: Susan's Panic arrestaurant. Well, they had a bar. Susan's panicked.

84
00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,360
Speaker 1: She said, what am I doing? What am I doing?

85
00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,320
Speaker 3: And he asked me to bring the ear pods.

86
00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,040
Speaker 1: Remember, yes, he said bring your EarPods because he's going

87
00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,800
Speaker 1: to load a translation app on her phone.

88
00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:10,720
Speaker 2: So we get there.

89
00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:14,080
Speaker 1: I introduced them both to each other in French and myself,

90
00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,360
Speaker 1: How weird is this? People, Susan has got a date

91
00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:21,000
Speaker 1: with a Frenchman who doesn't speak English. She doesn't speak French.

92
00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:24,800
Speaker 1: She's in there with her iPad with her earphones. Yes,

93
00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:27,200
Speaker 1: so we meet, we sit down and have a drink.

94
00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:28,039
Speaker 1: Then what happens.

95
00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:31,280
Speaker 3: Katy leaves me and I just because I didn't know

96
00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:31,680
Speaker 3: what to do.

97
00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,440
Speaker 4: So he takes my phone and he does this app

98
00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,520
Speaker 4: and we're it's starting to talk, and three hours in

99
00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:41,600
Speaker 4: I said to him, the real personality came out. I said,

100
00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,080
Speaker 4: you know where I come from. When I go on

101
00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:47,320
Speaker 4: a date or first meet somebody, I do a lot

102
00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,719
Speaker 4: of eye contact. I can't even tell you what color

103
00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,120
Speaker 4: your eyes are. I haven't read from my phone because

104
00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:55,240
Speaker 4: she had, and so what I did. Because I was

105
00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,320
Speaker 4: feeling very uncomfortable. These two were head down on their

106
00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,760
Speaker 4: phones trying to figure out this translation app. I called

107
00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,800
Speaker 4: Nancy from our season, who is also our very dear friend.

108
00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:06,720
Speaker 4: I said, Nancy, I texted her.

109
00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:11,200
Speaker 1: I said, Nancy, call me, and she did and I said, Frederic, Susan,

110
00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:11,840
Speaker 1: I have to go.

111
00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,200
Speaker 2: I have a very important phone call. That's how I

112
00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,120
Speaker 2: got out of there. Thank you, Nancy.

113
00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,880
Speaker 1: So they spent the evening together and had a great time,

114
00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:22,880
Speaker 1: and the next day then he called.

115
00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:27,440
Speaker 4: He was like, it wasn't like an instant because, like

116
00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,400
Speaker 4: I said, I didn't even look at him hardly, but

117
00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,000
Speaker 4: there was something. There was a lot of chemistry. He

118
00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,960
Speaker 4: walked me home after three and a half hours. Oh wait,

119
00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:37,560
Speaker 4: he had asked if we had a little appetizer, a

120
00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:39,640
Speaker 4: couple drinks, and he asked if I wanted another one.

121
00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,960
Speaker 3: I said no, thank you, I said no, Wait, you

122
00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,240
Speaker 3: know what, May I have a gramaier? Please?

123
00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:48,520
Speaker 4: Well he just to this day he makes me say graemonier,

124
00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:50,240
Speaker 4: not even thinking.

125
00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,200
Speaker 3: And he walked me home. He wanted to come in,

126
00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:56,440
Speaker 3: but the rules or the rules over again?

127
00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,120
Speaker 1: Can I just say that ended my vacation because the

128
00:05:59,160 --> 00:05:59,960
Speaker 1: next night.

129
00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:01,680
Speaker 3: He went to dancing.

130
00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:05,120
Speaker 4: He wanted to go dance pachata, which is something I

131
00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:05,760
Speaker 4: love to do.

132
00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, did I go with you? No?

133
00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:09,960
Speaker 3: You wouldn't.

134
00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:13,400
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, can I just tell you my girlfriend here?

135
00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,040
Speaker 4: I mean, what's the word I could use a damper

136
00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:20,320
Speaker 4: on things? The guilt, the guilt I was feeling. She

137
00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,560
Speaker 4: was like, no, you're not going out with him. You

138
00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,479
Speaker 4: don't even know him. You're not leaving me.

139
00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,119
Speaker 3: And I was like, Kathy, please, Kathy.

140
00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:28,719
Speaker 1: What did I say? Finally I said, just go, but

141
00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:30,520
Speaker 1: don't bring it back here. This guy could be an

142
00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,000
Speaker 1: X murderer in French.

143
00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:36,120
Speaker 4: Wait, and he sent a message saying that the name

144
00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,279
Speaker 4: of the place we're going, the address, and please come

145
00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,920
Speaker 4: and you know you'll have a good time, blah blah

146
00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,400
Speaker 4: blah and it should be over around eleven. There was

147
00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,560
Speaker 4: a band, the Live Band, and that was the last

148
00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,160
Speaker 4: time they were playing there and he liked them, So

149
00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,679
Speaker 4: that was the story. So eleven o five, wait, eleven

150
00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:55,120
Speaker 4: o five, I get my phone and it's blowing up.

151
00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:58,000
Speaker 4: We're coming off the dance floor. I'm sweating and I

152
00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:01,480
Speaker 4: see Kathy's message. You said eleven o'clock. It's eleven fifteen.

153
00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:02,120
Speaker 3: Where are you?

154
00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:04,880
Speaker 1: So we did a video friend. I just wanted to

155
00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,840
Speaker 1: make sure you were okay. But meanwhile, one of the

156
00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,400
Speaker 1: other friends that we met, Susan did feel very gealgy

157
00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,600
Speaker 1: about leaving me. But I think everyone will understand. I

158
00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,160
Speaker 1: was not really excited about being a third wheel on

159
00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,000
Speaker 1: their date where they're using this translation app to talk

160
00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,600
Speaker 1: to each other. So one of our friends in Saint

161
00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:26,480
Speaker 1: Martin had this reservation at this very expensive restaurant. So

162
00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,720
Speaker 1: I went and we were dying laughing because Susan's out dancing.

163
00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm at a restaurant having.

164
00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,120
Speaker 3: Literally a twenty course Neil, Yeah.

165
00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:35,920
Speaker 2: I have no Susan said, how was the food? I said,

166
00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,080
Speaker 2: it was great? What did you have? I said, I

167
00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:39,160
Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know, I don't know. It was good.

168
00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,080
Speaker 2: It was a little bites of this. So she's with

169
00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:42,360
Speaker 2: the guy the next day.

170
00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,640
Speaker 3: What happens, which day was that.

171
00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:45,960
Speaker 2: That was okay, okay.

172
00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,880
Speaker 4: When I said to Kathy, by the third day, okay,

173
00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,280
Speaker 4: I know you don't want anybody in here, but he's

174
00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:51,960
Speaker 4: coming in.

175
00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:53,640
Speaker 2: I really like this guy.

176
00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:54,040
Speaker 3: Kathy.

177
00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,520
Speaker 4: Here, the two of them are. I think I posted this.

178
00:07:56,600 --> 00:08:01,840
Speaker 4: Actually you're trying to speak to him. She speaks in Spanish,

179
00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,600
Speaker 4: she speaks in French, she speaks in English, and I

180
00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:08,840
Speaker 4: remember the video him laughing, going Katy, Katy, please one

181
00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:09,960
Speaker 4: language English.

182
00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:10,960
Speaker 2: English.

183
00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,520
Speaker 1: So as I got to know him, I was much

184
00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:14,920
Speaker 1: more relaxed with him.

185
00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:17,400
Speaker 2: But when I him immediately, Yeah.

186
00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,600
Speaker 1: What I honestly could see don't cry. Susan was how

187
00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:23,640
Speaker 1: happy she was. She couldn't wipe the smile off her face.

188
00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,640
Speaker 1: She kept saying to me this, I've never felt this

189
00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:30,040
Speaker 1: way about a guy. Susan tends to rush in to love.

190
00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,040
Speaker 1: Susan loves being in love, which is great, don't we all,

191
00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:37,080
Speaker 1: But she rushed into it with this guy. But once

192
00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,120
Speaker 1: I got to meet him and talk to him, he

193
00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,800
Speaker 1: was such a nice guy and genuinely nice to me,

194
00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,760
Speaker 1: and I thought, okay, you know what, she might have

195
00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:46,520
Speaker 1: struck gold here.

196
00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,679
Speaker 4: Can I just tell you how romantic the French are.

197
00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,320
Speaker 4: They need to give lessons to our men in America

198
00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:57,200
Speaker 4: and the United States. Because the second trip I went,

199
00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:59,720
Speaker 4: Kathy and I were supposed to go to California with

200
00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:03,959
Speaker 4: our friends to Palm Desert and my girlfriend had had

201
00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,280
Speaker 4: a heart attack and it was canceled. So now I

202
00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:09,079
Speaker 4: come home and he's like, when can I see you?

203
00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:11,760
Speaker 4: And I said, well, just so happens that my trip

204
00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,280
Speaker 4: was canceled. I had the time off, I had the

205
00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,440
Speaker 4: miles for an air thing. I said, I'll come back,

206
00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,600
Speaker 4: but you'll have to help me find a place to stay.

207
00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:20,880
Speaker 4: Said no, no, no, my darling, you stay here.

208
00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,680
Speaker 2: I was like, oh God, and let me just say

209
00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:24,920
Speaker 2: to you. So we came back.

210
00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:29,400
Speaker 1: To the end of this first trip was that Susan

211
00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:33,160
Speaker 1: spent every waking moment with this guy, and I was

212
00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,520
Speaker 1: fine with it. You know, he came over when we left,

213
00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:40,200
Speaker 1: but we So we got home and Susan usually calls

214
00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,959
Speaker 1: me in the morning and we'll chit chat. And she's

215
00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:45,240
Speaker 1: calling me and she sounds like something the cat track,

216
00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,800
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what is wrong with you? Said, We've

217
00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,640
Speaker 1: been on the phone till three in the morning. So

218
00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:53,720
Speaker 1: she and Frederic every night we're skyping with the translation.

219
00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:57,360
Speaker 1: Can you imagine till three in the morning, I thought, Okay,

220
00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:58,320
Speaker 1: she's in deep now.

221
00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:02,520
Speaker 3: It's amniable when you think it's never going to happen.

222
00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:04,120
Speaker 2: I'm holding my breath.

223
00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:12,800
Speaker 3: I'm holding Kathy.

224
00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:18,360
Speaker 4: So I've decided not to go to Paradise because I

225
00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:19,880
Speaker 4: found the love of my life.

226
00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,400
Speaker 1: Right, you found your love in Paradise. If I get

227
00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,720
Speaker 1: to go to Paradise, I'm only hoping I find the

228
00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:29,040
Speaker 1: love that you and Frederic I see. But can I

229
00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:32,040
Speaker 1: just say, Susan's keeping the airlines in business air? What

230
00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,720
Speaker 1: trip are we on now? Seriously, don't look how many times?

231
00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:39,200
Speaker 1: Fourth since February. Fourth trip back to Saint Martin.

232
00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:42,200
Speaker 4: So when I was there and I fell, remember I

233
00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:43,240
Speaker 4: broke my hands.

234
00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:46,920
Speaker 2: Was that the second trip? I think it was?

235
00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,000
Speaker 3: Well, I remember him asking me to delay.

236
00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,160
Speaker 2: It was the second trip. It was.

237
00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:55,120
Speaker 4: I was supposed to leave on a Saturday, and he made,

238
00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,440
Speaker 4: he begged, and I delayed it to Monday. It was

239
00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:00,800
Speaker 4: Saint Patrick's Day, that's right, and we were going to

240
00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:05,000
Speaker 4: a friends for dinner, and yeah, I fell that morning,

241
00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,280
Speaker 4: so I had to stay passing, right.

242
00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,280
Speaker 1: And so they were going on this romantic hike and

243
00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:15,720
Speaker 1: they she fell and he was there for her. He's

244
00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,640
Speaker 1: I mean, this is a man. He takes care of you,

245
00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,280
Speaker 1: he takes care of her, and he's so romantic the

246
00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,880
Speaker 1: things he writes to her. At first, when he wrote that,

247
00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:25,920
Speaker 1: you remember when I said, Susan, where's he Where's he

248
00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:29,880
Speaker 1: stealing that from one book? He was quoting Moliere, which

249
00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:31,760
Speaker 1: was a French author, And I thought, no, he's just

250
00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:32,680
Speaker 1: stealing this stuff.

251
00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:34,040
Speaker 2: He doesn't, he doesn't.

252
00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:36,280
Speaker 4: Really right, and about him sharing that he never ever

253
00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,920
Speaker 4: in his life told anybody that he was in love

254
00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:39,600
Speaker 4: with them this.

255
00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:42,439
Speaker 2: Soon, yeah, And then we went to.

256
00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:46,280
Speaker 4: Our friend Dawn't house and there was like twelve people

257
00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:49,560
Speaker 4: there and they're all questioning them, all kinds of questions.

258
00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:53,600
Speaker 3: And he doesn't speak English. Okay, so he goes into.

259
00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:59,120
Speaker 4: The bathroom and writes this paragraph and translates it to English,

260
00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:02,240
Speaker 4: and he says at the table, I have something to say.

261
00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,640
Speaker 4: And he showed it to me first, of course.

262
00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:05,920
Speaker 3: And then he read it.

263
00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,400
Speaker 4: Well, there wasn't a dry eye in the place, and

264
00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,600
Speaker 4: he was talking about how fortunate he feels that he

265
00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:14,959
Speaker 4: met someone like me and how he loves me, and

266
00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:18,040
Speaker 4: everybody was like, oh my god.

267
00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:18,400
Speaker 2: It's true.

268
00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:22,040
Speaker 1: I have to say Susan has shared many of his missives,

269
00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,360
Speaker 1: his his love notes with me and the guy. They

270
00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:29,280
Speaker 1: are both smitten. You know, he wants her to move

271
00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:34,040
Speaker 1: in yesterday. What is your plant, Susan, You're not you know, how.

272
00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:35,920
Speaker 3: Do you think I'm going to go as often as

273
00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,280
Speaker 3: I can? I you know, I have business up here.

274
00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:40,440
Speaker 4: I do my thing, So maybe I don't know, a

275
00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:43,640
Speaker 4: few months in the winter maybe, but yeah.

276
00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:46,320
Speaker 2: Well, say Kathy's lost her travel partner.

277
00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:48,719
Speaker 3: No, I'm still going on vacation with you.

278
00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:51,240
Speaker 1: Guys, Okay, okay, yeah, then I'll get on tender. You

279
00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,520
Speaker 1: can see how it feels. I'm going out and dancing.

280
00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:57,760
Speaker 3: And he's tall, and he's handsome. He's a younger than me.

281
00:12:57,880 --> 00:12:59,760
Speaker 3: How old is he, Susan, He's fifty four.

282
00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:00,600
Speaker 2: How old are you?

283
00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:01,720
Speaker 3: Saysn't sixty eight?

284
00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:03,800
Speaker 2: Fourteen years younger folks.

285
00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:09,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it works, it's just we laugh, I mean the laughter.

286
00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:12,240
Speaker 4: He's as silly as I am, if you can imagine.

287
00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:13,400
Speaker 2: And he cooks.

288
00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:14,800
Speaker 3: Yes, he's a great cook.

289
00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:16,920
Speaker 2: I mean truly. The only thing.

290
00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,240
Speaker 1: For those of you don't know Susan as well as

291
00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:23,800
Speaker 1: I do, this is a guy who lives the island life.

292
00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,679
Speaker 1: He's he has his own business. He works, and when

293
00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:29,000
Speaker 1: he wants to take days off to go to the

294
00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:33,160
Speaker 1: beach or go surfing, he does that too, And ask Susan,

295
00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,199
Speaker 1: we will I'll ask for I'll ask for the world.

296
00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,960
Speaker 2: Hey, Susan, how do you like his house with the dog?

297
00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,520
Speaker 3: The dog's not a problem. The hair.

298
00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,880
Speaker 4: You know me, I'm a little I'm a neat freak.

299
00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:46,800
Speaker 4: I'll never forget day three because the dog hair. And

300
00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:48,880
Speaker 4: I'm like, where's the vacuum. Don't get angry when I

301
00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:50,720
Speaker 4: asked this, but I need a vacuum in a mob

302
00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:57,720
Speaker 4: like it doesn't bother them, no greens, you know, so

303
00:13:57,760 --> 00:13:59,640
Speaker 4: it freaks me outfit I'm adjusting.

304
00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:00,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

305
00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:03,800
Speaker 1: She calls me from Saint Martin and we chit chat

306
00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:07,120
Speaker 1: while she's there, and she said, Kathy, I have to clean.

307
00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:08,920
Speaker 1: I said, Susan, you have a broken wrist.

308
00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:11,040
Speaker 2: Are you kidding? She goes, I can't stand the dirt.

309
00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:11,720
Speaker 2: I have to clean.

310
00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:15,200
Speaker 1: So if he can put up with your fastidiousness, your

311
00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,679
Speaker 1: need for clean this guy is a keeper. That's all

312
00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Because as people may or may not remember,

313
00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,360
Speaker 1: when I go to Susan's house and I'm sitting eating

314
00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,400
Speaker 1: at her kitchen table. She's sweeping underneath me. I mean

315
00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,400
Speaker 1: the crumbs are on the plate, but she just wants

316
00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:29,960
Speaker 1: to make sure.

317
00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:31,920
Speaker 3: You'd be so proud of me, Kathy, I feel a

318
00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:33,080
Speaker 3: long way.

319
00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,320
Speaker 1: So he is, but just he is a super duper guy,

320
00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:39,360
Speaker 1: very kind and it's so nice to see you so

321
00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:41,240
Speaker 1: and love, Susan, it really is.

322
00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:46,400
Speaker 4: His name is Frederic, and I'm taking French lessons. I

323
00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:47,400
Speaker 4: don't think.

324
00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:48,360
Speaker 3: I'm doing very well.

325
00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:50,280
Speaker 2: Well you just started, SuSaNi.

326
00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,480
Speaker 4: God, I've been on those apps for two months now.

327
00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,560
Speaker 4: I know a couple of words, but to speak it

328
00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:57,960
Speaker 4: is a whole nother story.

329
00:14:58,040 --> 00:14:59,880
Speaker 3: I sound Spanish.

330
00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,440
Speaker 2: Well, here's something when you learn a foreign language.

331
00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,560
Speaker 1: When you learn a foreign language, there's a lot of

332
00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,920
Speaker 1: memorizing that goes into it, and then you'll understand.

333
00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:09,280
Speaker 2: I know, but you can do it.

334
00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:13,200
Speaker 1: You'll understand before you're able to speak it, just like

335
00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:16,080
Speaker 1: a baby, right a baby understands a talker and.

336
00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,920
Speaker 3: Read it better than I can reading.

337
00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,960
Speaker 1: And understanding it, and then you'll be able to speak it.

338
00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:24,760
Speaker 1: At your wedding, I listen, I'm going to get what

339
00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,960
Speaker 1: is it not confirmed? Or dang, that's it? And I

340
00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:30,680
Speaker 1: am going to learn the thing in French and English.

341
00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:34,320
Speaker 4: And you know what, I don't know that I have

342
00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,760
Speaker 4: to get married, but I would want a commitment.

343
00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:39,120
Speaker 2: You want to ring to.

344
00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:41,240
Speaker 3: Bearshit in the.

345
00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:45,359
Speaker 2: Woods, Susan wants to ring. Listen, tell me what you want.

346
00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:53,080
Speaker 4: That Jeffrey already said to him. When you want, I'm ready.

347
00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:56,320
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I just want everyone to know just how

348
00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:58,240
Speaker 1: we're gonna. We're going to get some more details.

349
00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:00,560
Speaker 4: But I just want to say one thing. I know

350
00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:03,920
Speaker 4: a lot of our fans out there are single. I

351
00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:08,040
Speaker 4: had people email me just today. I opened one and

352
00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:10,200
Speaker 4: pouring her heart out about well, you got to go

353
00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:14,240
Speaker 4: on national TV, so maybe that's a plus. It doesn't

354
00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:17,320
Speaker 4: matter I didn't meet anybody. It's been two years since

355
00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:18,119
Speaker 4: our show.

356
00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:18,640
Speaker 2: Right, you know.

357
00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:21,680
Speaker 1: But let me say, you know how, I am a

358
00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,360
Speaker 1: big proponent of telling people, you know, get up off

359
00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,880
Speaker 1: the sofa, do something, because they're not going to come

360
00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,280
Speaker 1: and knock on your door. Susan was very lucky with Frederick.

361
00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,600
Speaker 1: But you know what Susan did. She took the risk.

362
00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,760
Speaker 1: She got on a dating app. And I mean some

363
00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:38,400
Speaker 1: would call it downright scary in a foreign country going

364
00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:40,640
Speaker 1: to meet a guy. But we met in a public place,

365
00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:43,840
Speaker 1: it all holds true. Susan put herself out there, and

366
00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:47,480
Speaker 1: that's what you have to do. You got to put

367
00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:49,480
Speaker 1: yourself out there, and that's how she did.

368
00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:49,640
Speaker 4: So.

369
00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:51,680
Speaker 2: Now, Susan, three days.

370
00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:56,040
Speaker 4: Prior to that, I was whining to you, and we

371
00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:57,600
Speaker 4: were enjoying ourselves.

372
00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:59,360
Speaker 1: That we Now I get to wine. But what I

373
00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,200
Speaker 1: want to know, it's because the world wants to know.

374
00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,680
Speaker 2: Susan. Have you told each other you love each other?

375
00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:03,960
Speaker 1: Yet?

376
00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:04,679
Speaker 3: Yes? We have?

377
00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:06,360
Speaker 2: Really?

378
00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:12,320
Speaker 4: Yes, really I am I can't even explain this feeling.

379
00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:17,080
Speaker 4: I think he is everything I've ever dreamed of, the

380
00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:19,000
Speaker 4: way he treats me and takes care of me.

381
00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:19,439
Speaker 3: Kathy.

382
00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:23,480
Speaker 4: When I broke my arm, I needed a shower, the

383
00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:26,920
Speaker 4: man showered me, shaved my legs, washed me. I mean,

384
00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,320
Speaker 4: he took care of me like no other.

385
00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:30,480
Speaker 3: They don't make.

386
00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:30,919
Speaker 2: Them like this.

387
00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:33,200
Speaker 3: I don't know where I can, but I'm blessed.

388
00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,000
Speaker 1: I feel you are blessed. So you guys have or

389
00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:37,800
Speaker 1: have not talked about a future? I know you would,

390
00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:39,639
Speaker 1: You've told me kind of, But what are you thinking

391
00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:41,720
Speaker 1: for your future with him?

392
00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:42,200
Speaker 3: I don't.

393
00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:47,679
Speaker 4: I don't want to plan. I just wanted to organically happen.

394
00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:50,880
Speaker 1: Oh you mean like the airplane tickets, see you buy?

395
00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:52,800
Speaker 1: What do you mean organically happened? What do you think

396
00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:54,800
Speaker 1: a magic carpet's going to come and pick you up?

397
00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:57,959
Speaker 4: But I plan to be there all the time as

398
00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,080
Speaker 4: much as I can, and if not, I know he

399
00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,200
Speaker 4: wants to go to Las Vegas and get married.

400
00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:04,639
Speaker 3: But I didn't have to sign the papers, he said,

401
00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:05,760
Speaker 3: But it was a thing.

402
00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,879
Speaker 4: He wanted to film it, and he was going to

403
00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:12,040
Speaker 4: dress like Fredstare, but he wanted Elvis Presley there so

404
00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:15,560
Speaker 4: his friends in France would And he called.

405
00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:16,160
Speaker 3: Me his wife.

406
00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,560
Speaker 2: Well that's a French thing, you said, right.

407
00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:20,679
Speaker 4: Yes, I had to look it up. I'm like your wife.

408
00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:22,280
Speaker 4: You are my wife.

409
00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:26,000
Speaker 3: Okay, you were easy.

410
00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,399
Speaker 1: So wait a minute, I want to know. So you

411
00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,960
Speaker 1: don't have a you're not planning to get married right now.

412
00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:32,639
Speaker 1: You're not going to spend full time down there, but

413
00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,000
Speaker 1: you're going to try to go spend a couple of

414
00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:36,000
Speaker 1: months there and then come home do.

415
00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:38,040
Speaker 3: That as much as I can.

416
00:18:38,400 --> 00:18:41,040
Speaker 1: As I know you, that's going to turn into more

417
00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,679
Speaker 1: time there and less time here, which is great because

418
00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:46,200
Speaker 1: he has a guest room for me, so it's working

419
00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:46,760
Speaker 1: out for me.

420
00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,880
Speaker 3: To Okay, two children. They're lovely.

421
00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:52,280
Speaker 1: Okay, that's my next question. Have you met his children?

422
00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:55,480
Speaker 1: Has he met your children? What's everybody? What's the plea?

423
00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:59,280
Speaker 4: From FaceTime? But his son was there, his son will

424
00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:02,560
Speaker 4: be there until the end of May, and he'll go

425
00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,680
Speaker 4: back to France when the weather gets nice.

426
00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:05,440
Speaker 3: He's a surfer.

427
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:09,440
Speaker 4: And his daughter just two days ago. He must have

428
00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:12,560
Speaker 4: told her that I'm returning. Excuse me, I'm going down

429
00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:16,760
Speaker 4: on the twenty seventh and staying for fifteen days. And

430
00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:20,960
Speaker 4: she said, I come, I must my father is in love.

431
00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:24,480
Speaker 4: I must see her in person. Now we facetimed quite

432
00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,520
Speaker 4: a bit and she does speak a little bit of English,

433
00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:28,160
Speaker 4: so I'm looking forward to having a train.

434
00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:32,159
Speaker 1: His children do speak English a little bit, a little bit,

435
00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,840
Speaker 1: so okay, so you've met them on FaceTime.

436
00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:36,719
Speaker 2: What about your kids? Have they met him?

437
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,120
Speaker 3: Brittany has met him. My boys not yet.

438
00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:43,800
Speaker 4: They just know about them, so they baby steps, baby steps.

439
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,600
Speaker 4: My one son, Nicholas, at first, was like, Mom, what

440
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,199
Speaker 4: are you just going to go up and move? You're

441
00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:51,480
Speaker 4: going again? And I said, Nicholas, when's the last time

442
00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:52,359
Speaker 4: you came over here?

443
00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:52,959
Speaker 2: Oh?

444
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,600
Speaker 4: You know, I haven't seen you in six weeks. You

445
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:59,159
Speaker 4: said that we text think about it. I want to

446
00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,520
Speaker 4: be happy. Don't you want your mom to be happy?

447
00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:03,680
Speaker 4: Good for you and my ex husband?

448
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,800
Speaker 3: You know, congratulations. I'm glad you're happy.

449
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,119
Speaker 1: Like this is the last what do we always talk

450
00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,320
Speaker 1: about the last chapter? And it's going to be and

451
00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 1: it truly seems like it's your best chapter. I've never

452
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 1: seen you smile so much and be so happy, and

453
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:19,280
Speaker 1: I truly and I know that we all share that.

454
00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:23,720
Speaker 1: We're just so you know, so happy that you guys.

455
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:27,359
Speaker 4: I want everybody to have this feeling. And I know

456
00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,040
Speaker 4: I have been in love before I was married, but

457
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,960
Speaker 4: it just feels different right now.

458
00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 1: Okay, how did you so that? What you're just reading

459
00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 1: my mind here? How do you know? How did you know?

460
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,480
Speaker 1: I mean you've told me, but for everyone else, how

461
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,080
Speaker 1: did you know he was the love of your life?

462
00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 1: Because you've told me those were.

463
00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:50,240
Speaker 4: The way he makes me feel, and the kind things

464
00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,399
Speaker 4: that he does, and the silly stuff.

465
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,120
Speaker 3: I mean, we crack up. I'm crying laughing.

466
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,159
Speaker 1: Kathy, I will say, she facetimes me when she's in

467
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:01,200
Speaker 1: Saint Martin and we chat. And you know, I talked

468
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 1: to Frederick and he is he does make her laugh.

469
00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:06,840
Speaker 2: I mean, you two just sit.

470
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,119
Speaker 3: And I make him laugh like I have a question,

471
00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 3: you have a question?

472
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:18,399
Speaker 1: He is. It's hard to believe, but I can honestly say,

473
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,560
Speaker 1: for all you doubters, if there are any of you

474
00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 1: out there, I've never seen her like this. And even

475
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: though I was a little nervous in a foreign country,

476
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 1: which she said, come on, Kathy, We're going on a

477
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 1: lot because I love you. You're my friend and I

478
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:34,120
Speaker 1: want you to be said, and but I have to.

479
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,200
Speaker 4: W on the date with Kathy and the guy. That's

480
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 4: the difference between you would have or not. Yeah, I

481
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,400
Speaker 4: definitely would have. Oh please, it's dancing.

482
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:43,439
Speaker 3: I love to dance.

483
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, Susan, if I go on a date with a guy, uh,

484
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:50,639
Speaker 1: I am not. I am not asking you out on

485
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: the date with me, just saying, if I find the guy,

486
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 1: did he.

487
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,720
Speaker 3: Wanted you to feel comfortable? He was worried about you.

488
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 3: I know he's actually how good of a man? This man?

489
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 2: And what did I say to Frederic? Do you have

490
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,880
Speaker 2: a brother? Yes? Again, you have a brother.

491
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 1: So I think that I think that, uh, I could

492
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,159
Speaker 1: not be happy for you. We're going to get some

493
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,920
Speaker 1: more details, uh in a few minutes. Here, we're gonna

494
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 1: We've got some of the things we want to talk about.

495
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: But I just we all wanted Bachelor Nation to know

496
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: another love story. Another. You know you didn't meet him

497
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 1: on the Bachelor. You're not going to paradise, But Susan,

498
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 1: I am telling.

499
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,160
Speaker 3: You, paradise is to fall in love.

500
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:34,800
Speaker 4: It's about hope, about finding your person, and I was

501
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 4: ad for it.

502
00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: If I get to go, If I get to go,

503
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:41,119
Speaker 1: you better start crossing everything you can cross for me.

504
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:42,439
Speaker 2: Do you hear me? You got everything?

505
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 3: You got it, and I'll tell Frederic to do the same.

506
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 2: Thank you.

507
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 3: And can I just talk about the luggage please?

508
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:53,679
Speaker 1: All right?

509
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,679
Speaker 4: Later on in the episode, I'm going to share with

510
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 4: you another great, great quality this man has.

511
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:01,120
Speaker 3: He's got so many good qualities.

512
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,080
Speaker 2: Guts, she can't stop talking, she's in love.

513
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 4: You opened the can of worms there, all right, everybody

514
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 4: out there, there's hope, just when you least expect it.

515
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:13,199
Speaker 4: Because I stopped looking and was enjoying my vacation with

516
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 4: my girlfriend. And I do love Saint Martin. I've been

517
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 4: there seven times, well not counting the last four, but

518
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 4: I go every.

519
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 2: Year and now here we go, here we go.

520
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 1: Okay, Susan, let's get into our fan question for today.

521
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 1: This one is from Carrie and it's actually an audio submission,

522
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 1: so let's play it now.

523
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 3: Okay, Hi, Kathy and Susan.

524
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 5: My name is Carrie, long standing Bachelor Nation fan and

525
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 5: love the Golden Bachelor series.

526
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 3: Go Gary.

527
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,719
Speaker 5: My question is actually for the both of you. So

528
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,640
Speaker 5: you talk a lot about on your podcast that you're

529
00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 5: looking for the right guy and you know, wanting to

530
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 5: get into a relationship. You also have been doing a

531
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 5: ton of publicity and promotions and TV shows and podcasts

532
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 5: and so much fun travel and opportunities that have presented.

533
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 2: So my question is if you do find.

534
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 5: The right guy on all levels relationship wise, your families

535
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 5: are machine and they really wanted to focus just on

536
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 5: the relationship and settling in around your home area, obviously

537
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 5: traveling together, but taking a step out of the limelight

538
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:27,399
Speaker 5: and not doing so much publicity.

539
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 2: What would you do?

540
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 5: How would you approach that situation?

541
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:30,439
Speaker 2: Thank you?

542
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: So this is a great question, Carrie, thanks for sending

543
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: it in and it's so time appropriate right now after

544
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: Susan talking about her new love Frederic. So, Susan, what

545
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 1: do you think how would you answer that.

546
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 4: So what I picked up one immediately was in your hometown,

547
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:53,080
Speaker 4: in the same town. Mine is a long distance relationship,

548
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 4: and we've had many times talked about such things, whether

549
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 4: we thought they work and so on. That was the

550
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 4: first thing that hit me. So it doesn't matter where

551
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 4: they live, not in the beginning.

552
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: So did you take a step away? No?

553
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,400
Speaker 3: Why should I still do my thing?

554
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 4: I mean, i'd take a step away from dating, of course,

555
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 4: but not to limelight.

556
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 3: This is my business, this is what I do.

557
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 4: I love my podcast, I love Bachelor Nation people, I

558
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 4: love everybody that listens to us. And if there's another

559
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 4: show that comes up, like my Got to Get Out

560
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 4: show that just aired. I'm having a ball in my

561
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 4: life my last chapter. And I met my man.

562
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 1: So you don't think it's I mean I personally, we've

563
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,280
Speaker 1: talked about this. You and I'm not on air, but

564
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 1: I'm not really the same way. I think if I

565
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:50,239
Speaker 1: met my guy, that's my goal. I still would want

566
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:51,880
Speaker 1: to do the podcast and stuff, but I don't think

567
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 1: i'd be.

568
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 3: I would do a TV show.

569
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: Well, I might do a TV show. I'm saying it

570
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't be my first and foremost. The man in my

571
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: life would be first and foremost for me. I'd want

572
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 1: that relationship with him, and i'd want with his kids

573
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 1: and my kids.

574
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 2: I mean, that's that's the COMPETI.

575
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 3: Kids are adults now.

576
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 2: My grandkids.

577
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying I would want them, and I'd want to

578
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: spend time with him, you know, absolutely.

579
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 3: But when you do a show, you're not gone forever.

580
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, you were gone a month on the

581
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: show you did last year, and Bachelor was a month,

582
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: and you know, if I get to do Paradise, that's

583
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:32,440
Speaker 1: a month.

584
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 2: So I'm just saying, it's a lot of time to

585
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 2: be away.

586
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,920
Speaker 1: But I get it. It's a career, and I think

587
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 1: at our age there's.

588
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 2: Room for both.

589
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 4: What would you do and how would you approach that

590
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 4: situation if you find the right person on all levels

591
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 4: and families are great. Everybody's going to do what they do.

592
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 4: Everybody has a career or a job, so you make

593
00:26:59,280 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 4: it work.

594
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,199
Speaker 3: Now, I absolutely wouldn't walk away from it.

595
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 2: Well, I think that's good.

596
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: I think one thing though, that Carrie didn't say, but

597
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 1: I would say to you, is you have to consider

598
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: someone else now, right.

599
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 2: You can't just make decisions.

600
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 3: You obviously have a conversation.

601
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: Yes, right, And so do you think it's possible that

602
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 1: Frederick would ever say to you, Hey, Susan, you're gone

603
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:23,640
Speaker 1: too much. I need to hear more.

604
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 4: I do not, because I had the conversation with him,

605
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 4: he would be okay with me gone to do work?

606
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 2: Yes, okay. Well I think I think Carrie, if you're

607
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 2: struggling with it, I.

608
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 3: Think you need to have a conversation.

609
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to have I was gonna say you

610
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: need to have the We're glad by the way that

611
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 1: you're a long standing fan of Bachelor Nation and olden

612
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 1: Bachelor series, and I think if you are in that situation,

613
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: I think Susan makes a good point, Carrie, which is,

614
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 1: if you're in the same hometown, it's a lot easier

615
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 1: to maneuver. But you can navigate a long distance relationship.

616
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 1: It just takes planning and communication, right.

617
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 3: And I'm here to tell you how it's going to work,

618
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 3: step by step.

619
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: I just I was just wondering if it could present

620
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 1: a problem if he wanted you there and you couldn't

621
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 1: be there.

622
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 2: But I guess you're right.

623
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: You just communicate, talk it out, figure out both compromises.

624
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 2: Those damn Seawards, isn't there?

625
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 3: They are at We love those? We love those?

626
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 2: All right? Are you ready?

627
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:28,959
Speaker 1: In the vein of vacation and island life. We're going

628
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: to play a game today called deal Breakers Vacation Edition.

629
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 1: It's going to be so fun. Okay, So I'm going

630
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: to read the prompt. We're going to decide if the

631
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: hypothetical is enough to make us pack our bags and

632
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 1: call it quits, or if it's fixable.

633
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 2: Okay. So I'm gonna read the first one.

634
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 3: Okay.

635
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 2: And there's a story about this one. I can hardly

636
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 2: wait to get into it.

637
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: Ready, You're on vacation with your long term boyfriend. Is

638
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: it a deal breaker if he refused uses to carry

639
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: any of your bags?

640
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 3: First answer that I see where you're going with this friend.

641
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 2: Would he carry your bags?

642
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 4: Yes he would, Yes he would. Kathy forgot a piece

643
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 4: of luggage when he took us. No, he didn't take us.

644
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 4: He was saying goodbye to us. We go off to

645
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 4: the airport. We drop off the rent car, counting our

646
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 4: bags because we each bought another suitcase because we bought

647
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 4: the many clothes. And Kathy goes into full panic mode,

648
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 4: and ladies and gentlemen. When I say full panic mode.

649
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 4: I thought I was going to take her to the er.

650
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 4: This woman was dying. Oh my god, it was her

651
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 4: biggest bags. So we call Frederic. He's already home. He

652
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 4: leaves his house, goes back to where we were staying,

653
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 4: which is fifteen minutes, then drives all the way across

654
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 4: the island.

655
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 3: To give Kathy her luggage.

656
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:55,280
Speaker 2: And let me just tell you, we are sitting in

657
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: the rental car place.

658
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 3: As she wouldn't move.

659
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't move, and the woman's like calling Frederic, speaking

660
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: in French. He's like, I will go get it. What

661
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: happened was Frederic, being the gentleman that he is. Katy

662
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: carried all our luggage down. I started to carry the

663
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: luggage and he said, oh, I've got it. I'll get it,

664
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: just get in the car. I don't think he realized

665
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: that there was another one at the top of the stairs.

666
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 3: No, it wasn't.

667
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 4: He told me it was in the guest room. Still,

668
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 4: it was still in our guest room. It made it

669
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:27,400
Speaker 4: out oh.

670
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: Even worse anyway, Yes, so not only would it would

671
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: it be a deal breaker if he didn't. This is

672
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: a man who drove on the island to get Kathy's suitcase.

673
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: We love you, Frederic. If you're listening, we're just crossing us.

674
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 4: And he'll say it in French. Now Kathy mess and

675
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 4: now say it in English.

676
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 2: Thank you very much.

677
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, all right.

678
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 4: He sighs dramatically every time you ask him to take

679
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 4: a picture of you and he only takes one or two.

680
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 2: Well, I so that you and I are different for me.

681
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: You know, people get you asked someone to take a

682
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: picture and they take like forty six shutter things just flying.

683
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 2: For I'm like, why are we doing this?

684
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 1: I now are forty pictures of the same scene, the

685
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 1: same look, Frederic. Though he's like you, he likes to

686
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 1: pose for pictures.

687
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 4: Yes, we do selfies all the time. We film must dancing. Yes,

688
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 4: that would be That wouldn't be a deal breaker, though.

689
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: No, I'll tell you my husband did not like taking pictures.

690
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: He was like take it, just take it.

691
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: Like he was one of.

692
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 4: Those he refuses to try any local food and only

693
00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 4: wants to eat at chain restaurants.

694
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: Oh oh see you later, by Yeah, that's that's a

695
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: deal breaker there.

696
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: That might be a deal breaker.

697
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 1: I like to go when when you and I have

698
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 1: gone to to Saint Martin. We go to different restaurants

699
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 1: from every night. Every night we try something different.

700
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 3: We cooked, that's true, but like.

701
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,719
Speaker 1: The island shrimp is different. Like you have to try.

702
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: You have to try the cuisine of place you're visiting.

703
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 3: Its absolutely you have to.

704
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: All right, how about this one? He dedicates two whole

705
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 1: days to watching sports in the hotel room.

706
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 2: Would that be a Dale breakwap?

707
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 4: So my life was sports with my ex husband, Like

708
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 4: if it were during the World Series, I might understand

709
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 4: or or you know, in football.

710
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 3: But but.

711
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: So when I have to tell you when I was

712
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: dating a guy, I think I've told you the story.

713
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 2: We went to Florida. We got to Florida. We were.

714
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 1: We were in the hotel room and he brought his

715
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: computer and it was like a sweet we had. So

716
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: we had like a small kitchenette in a dining room

717
00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: and a living room and a bedroom and he set

718
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: up his computer in the dining room. Susan, he never

719
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: left the hotel room. I mean it was I still

720
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: with him. It's like I just wanted to be on

721
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: his computer.

722
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 3: Okay.

723
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 4: He refuses to plan any part of the trip and

724
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 4: just goes with the flow. That's perfectly fine with me.

725
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 2: So that's so funny. You said that you like to

726
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 2: plan trips. Do I? No, I don't. I will go

727
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 2: with the flow, girl.

728
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 3: But is it a deal breaker if you won't plan it?

729
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 2: No?

730
00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 1: No, But I'm saying I love to go on a

731
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 1: trip and have someone plan it, because, as I've said

732
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: to you, I'm just so grateful to be wherever it

733
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 1: is that I'm happy like I'm doing whatever I'm doing.

734
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: It's not something I would do at home.

735
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: So like our cruise, de grease speaking of we need

736
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: to get tickets for the Acropolis?

737
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 3: Okay, I got it, just okay, all right?

738
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: He makes you take three different buses instead of calling

739
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: a cab to save money.

740
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 3: Sal breaker.

741
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was about to say, Susan or I, we're

742
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 1: not getting on a bus and we're certainly not taking

743
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: three buses.

744
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,959
Speaker 2: It is absolutely no good.

745
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 4: He jokes about proposing in every romantic setting with no

746
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 4: intentions of actually doing it, asshole.

747
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 2: Can I tell you? Can I tell you? See? All

748
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: these things have happened to us.

749
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: My daughter when she got engaged, she would go hiking

750
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 1: with her now husband, and Johnny would bend down all

751
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: the time walking with the dog, and she thought, oh,

752
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,240
Speaker 1: this is it. He's going to propose. He's going to propose.

753
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 1: He did it like six times on different hikes. When

754
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: he finally got down on one knee, she didn't believe him.

755
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: She thought, here he goes again. So yeah, I mean

756
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 1: he actually I think that was cruel.

757
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 2: But I don't know. How would you do if fred

758
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 2: he did that.

759
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 3: I don't think Frederick would do that, but I don't

760
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 3: think it's a joke. No, I would have a problem

761
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 3: with that.

762
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would have a problem with that.

763
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely.

764
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 1: All right, No matter what plans are in place, I

765
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 1: will not get out of bed before ten am.

766
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 3: That would be annoying. But some people like to sleep in.

767
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 3: It depends on their work schedule.

768
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 4: But if there's a plan in place and we have

769
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 4: to be somewhere and he refuses to get up till ten,

770
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 4: that means he's not ready till eleven thirty.

771
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: No, Susan, the sss blank. Shower and shave men are showers.

772
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 1: They're in and out. They don't need an hour and half.

773
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:46,439
Speaker 1: That's you.

774
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 2: You need coffee?

775
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 3: I mean, come on, all right.

776
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 4: He keeps trying to hang out with other couples every

777
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 4: single day of your trip. See, I like people, I

778
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,879
Speaker 4: don't mind, but not every day.

779
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: Well, I think it's don't you think if if you're

780
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: never alone together, I think that's a.

781
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 2: Kind of could be a red flag to me.

782
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 4: Actually right, yeah, I mean I mean that's during the day,

783
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 4: so maybe when they go at night they're alone.

784
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 3: Then I don't know. That means like he doesn't just

785
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 3: enjoy your company. That's how you start feeling he has

786
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:27,760
Speaker 3: to have others.

787
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 4: So although I'm all about other people, like like.

788
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:34,520
Speaker 2: We both are, but you don't want to be with

789
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: other people all the time, if.

790
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm realizing, Susan, you know what I'm realizing,

791
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: what like all these questions now, like we're on opposite

792
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 1: sides of the table, then whatever you want to call it,

793
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 1: Like you can say, well, yeah, it doesn't really it

794
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: doesn't have anything to do with me because I have

795
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 1: Frederick and I'm in love and I'm going, well, if

796
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 1: I had a boyfriend, it's not fair.

797
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 3: Wait did you or did you not?

798
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 4: But can or put you on the spot for Oh god,

799
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 4: did you or did you not? Text my boyfriend and

800
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 4: tell him we're coming out with.

801
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 3: The news today I did. And what was his response?

802
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 2: So you got to know Frederic. He's such a nice guy,

803
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 2: I said.

804
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: I texted him and I said, Frederick, Susan and I

805
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 1: were out in her relationship today, so it's all over.

806
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:26,760
Speaker 2: You're now official. And he sent me a dancing emoji.

807
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: Of a guy doing a happy dance like that's all

808
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 1: he had to say, Like it transcends language. We didn't

809
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: need to write English or French. He's so excited.

810
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 3: So you know what I texted him too.

811
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,479
Speaker 4: He said, what matters is what you want, my love.

812
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,280
Speaker 4: Do what you want for the best.

813
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 3: I love you.

814
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 2: What you want is for the best.

815
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 3: Whatever I want, whatever you want.

816
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I died and.

817
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 3: Went to heaven. There's got to be something.

818
00:37:56,280 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: Can we just clone him? Please listen? Could you listen?

819
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: Here's the deal. If I go to Paradise, I want

820
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: you to round up. Tell him he's got so much

821
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: time to find a guy, send him to Paradise.

822
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 4: Actually, his best buddy, Julian is looking for somebody. However,

823
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 4: the age gap is way too much.

824
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 3: He's too young.

825
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 2: I know well, says you. Who's standing guy? Fourteen years young?

826
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 3: He's forty?

827
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: Oh forty?

828
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I have a son who's forty no, exactly

829
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 1: exactly all right. Well, while Susan is falling in love,

830
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 1: while Susan is planning her next trip, and believe you me,

831
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: there is one. Susan is single handedly keeping American Airlines

832
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 1: in business.

833
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 3: She gets more now.

834
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 1: The way, Susan, how's Frederic? You're going back frontother visit,

835
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: aren't you? While you're doing that? Kathy is just praying,

836
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: hoping and waiting for mister Wright to come into her life.

837
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 4: And let's everybody out there see a special thought. Put

838
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,320
Speaker 4: it out to the universe that Kathy finds her person.

839
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 1: Please please, that would be so okay, Well, that is

840
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: going to be it for today.

841
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 2: Thank you to all of our listeners.

842
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 1: Susan, thank you and Frederick, but thank you for letting

843
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,959
Speaker 1: the world know how happy you are. I wish everyone

844
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,279
Speaker 1: could see your face and your personality because you can't

845
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: stop smiling. And I love to see my good friend

846
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: beautiful feeling.

847
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 3: It really is.

848
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:25,280
Speaker 4: And thank you everybody for listening and joining us every week,

849
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 4: and make sure to follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we

850
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 4: have new episodes coming out every week, and I know

851
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 4: you don't want to miss it because.

852
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:34,280
Speaker 3: Look what we did today.

853
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 4: We went really totally often did a personal thing.

854
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: That's right, and you know what, make sure you submit

855
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: your questions to us. I think you're all gonna have

856
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 1: lots of comments and good wishes for Susan.

857
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 2: She deserves all of them.

858
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: All you have to do is go to bachelornation dot com,

859
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: slash Golden Hour, or dm us on Instagram at Bachelor

860
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: Happy Hour.

861
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 4: And thank you Kathy for spilling the beans with me.

862
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 4: Everybody else, thank you so much for listening to Bachelor

863
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 4: Happy Hour, Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever

864
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 4: you listen to your podcast.

865
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,760
Speaker 3: Thank you. And I'm so happy to be out.

866
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 2: And I have a great week.

867
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:14,320
Speaker 3: Love is in the air, Amen,