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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody'll be back to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It's

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Speaker 1: Steve Junior, Junior is done again. You didn't. We didn't

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Speaker 1: here we go one more again. Time for the day

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex,

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Speaker 1: Y'all go up, big dog, so you pill yeah, see right,

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Speaker 1: that's why I didn't right, okay, subject though you were

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Speaker 1: And you're at the end of the show. You my

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Speaker 1: husband's like pictures a big butt dis Stephen Shirley. My

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Speaker 1: husband and I've been married for fifteen years and we

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Speaker 1: got two children. I was helping my daughter at home

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Speaker 1: video three weeks ago, and my husband's phone is top

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Speaker 1: of the line, so I was using it. I saved

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Speaker 1: in my husband's poom. It seems that I'm married to

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Speaker 1: a real creep that randomly takes pictures of women when

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Speaker 1: they are not looking. The pictures were taken when we

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Speaker 1: were on family vacation, when he's at the grocery store,

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Speaker 1: when he's driving, and even when I'm sitting right next

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Speaker 1: to him in public. Luckily for him, all the women

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Speaker 1: is still weird as heck to me. I told him

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Speaker 1: he said he deleted it all. A week later, I

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Speaker 1: It was more serious to me the second time, because

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Speaker 1: it's not normal to sneak around and take pictures of

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Speaker 1: by telling me that he's been a faithful husband for years,

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Speaker 1: but he likes to admire big breasts, booties, and pretty

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Speaker 1: his phone, he saying, ain't the same. He must be

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Speaker 1: crazy because I've ever heard of this. Am I married

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Speaker 1: to a pervert? What should I do? Oh? Wow? Okay,

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Speaker 1: So if you've been married fifteen years to your husband,

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Speaker 1: you guys have kids, two kids. You've been helping your

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Speaker 1: daughter with a homework video project. You used your husband's

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Speaker 1: top of the line cell phone for the school project.

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Speaker 1: While using your husband's phone, you find pictures of women's breast, butts,

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Speaker 1: and feet. Not naked pictures, just pictures. He even took

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Speaker 1: random pictures of women while on vacation, took pictures of

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Speaker 1: women at the grocery store while you feel like it's creepy,

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Speaker 1: and you asked him to delete the pictures. A week later,

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Speaker 1: you checked his phone. He deleted the pictures, only to

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Speaker 1: He says, it's no big deal, he's never cheated on you.

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Speaker 1: But you want to know why didn't he have pictures

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Speaker 1: are you married to a pervert? Well? I think it's

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Speaker 1: that men send pictures and videos to each other to

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Speaker 1: you know your husband did say he's not trying to

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't go as far as calling him a pervert.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that. But what you need to do,

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Speaker 1: from your point of view, Steve, Nah, Nah, that ain't

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Speaker 1: what's gonna happen. Hill, what's gonna happen? Your husband is

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Speaker 1: moonlighting as a photographer. It's obviously it's something that's been

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Speaker 1: got to take great pictures. Now he's been taking these

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Speaker 1: good father, you say, can't say he can't find him.

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Speaker 1: He always at home. He was helping with the kid. Homey,

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Speaker 1: that's how he had on the first place. He doing

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Speaker 1: this was going on, So he handed you the phone. Now,

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Speaker 1: obviously to him, it's innocent because he handed you the phone.

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Speaker 1: Now you want to know if you're married to a

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Speaker 1: real creep. I'll get into that why he's randomly taking

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Speaker 1: told you right all right, back with part two answers

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this boy? Here? Man? Well, here

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Speaker 1: we go, strawberry. You got a husband that like taking

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Speaker 1: picture of women, big butts, y'all been married fifteen years,

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Speaker 1: you went through with floon and you notice all these pitches.

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Speaker 1: and I'm be damned, and they pictures when these women

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Speaker 1: hey sweetie, let me haul at you for a minute.

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Speaker 1: Hein't doing none of that. He's click click, got you.

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Speaker 1: So he's a slash, not quite fast as he does click.

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Speaker 1: Got you what he's saying? Got you? So see in

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Speaker 1: his mind he is a closet photographer in his mind

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Speaker 1: ass ain't really big. It's heavy, but it ain't. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but he taking pictures y'all on family vacation. He had

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Speaker 1: He cold with it now, lucky for on him. All

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Speaker 1: But you say, this is still weird to you. So

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Speaker 1: now hear where we go to let it go. I

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Speaker 1: and he said he deleted it all. A week later

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Speaker 1: I checked to see if he lied. He had deleted

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Speaker 1: all the old pictures man right there, dog and replaced

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Speaker 1: him with new pictures. You asked the man to get

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Speaker 1: He did not tell you he ain't going to take

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Speaker 1: no more. So he went out there to get some

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Speaker 1: food during the quarantine, and he got these new pictures

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Speaker 1: knows where to go. This time I went off on him.

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Speaker 1: Now you say it was most serious the second time,

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Speaker 1: because it ain't normally sneak around and take pictures of

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Speaker 1: he said being fourth right, tell me the truth. That

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Speaker 1: don't tell the truth, because the second time with the truth,

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Speaker 1: it was most said. I told him I had plenty

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Speaker 1: of breasts and booty. Well, we see yours all the time.

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Speaker 1: You're at the house. You're right there. Fifteen years. I've

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Speaker 1: been looking at him. A matter of fact, it's a

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Speaker 1: don't say that now, he ain't gonna say that, but

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Speaker 1: that's what it is. Yeah, he ain't stupid, but you don't.

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Speaker 1: But my pictures are not in his phone because he

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Speaker 1: got to picture you in his mind. You live with him.

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Speaker 1: It's not to say he must be crazy because I've

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Speaker 1: never heard of this. I'm not married to a perfect

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Speaker 1: What should I do? He's not really a pervert, you

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Speaker 1: know you gottam maybe got a little foot fetishes. He

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Speaker 1: liked breast and booties, own women. That's damn near every

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Speaker 1: I know, every man I know like one of them. Yes,

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Speaker 1: at minimum most of us, like all three of them.

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Speaker 1: So now it's here, pervert. What should I do? Well, listen,

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Speaker 1: I don't think he's gonna stop taking those pictures. Click click,

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Speaker 1: got you? She looked at this all he got? He

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Speaker 1: in quarantine. He don't get out that much. This all

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Speaker 1: he got, he didn't. He didn't gave up the life

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Speaker 1: he had for you. He ain't got he ain't out here,

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Speaker 1: he ain't staying out all night. He ain't got no

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Speaker 1: side piece. He just taking pictures. I probably making a show,

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Speaker 1: dow don't look anchor down. Probably don't even want him,

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Speaker 1: oh man, So click click got you, but look here,

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Speaker 1: click click got you, man, I got five of met

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Speaker 1: the grocery store. And then he's sitting back in the

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Speaker 1: house and mind his photography work. He zooming in, editing him, yeah,

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Speaker 1: putting selfie lights on him. The good thing is he

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Speaker 1: ain't in none of the pictures. He got a little

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Speaker 1: hobby going on. As it's strange and offensive to you,

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Speaker 1: probably talk to about it, calmly, tell him how to

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Speaker 1: make you feel oh man, appreciate it? Man, Well, then

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Speaker 1: our girl from the Talkingship with Me, Sheryl Underwood, will

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