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Speaker 3: Just eat it. It's pizza, it's normal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is Chris. This is Chris. I am talking. Okay,

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Speaker 2: that sounds great. You're a little bit of a oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: do take that out. I can. I can eliminate it.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, okay, all right.

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Speaker 3: Let's all just clap for that camera and three two one? Okay?

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Speaker 2: That's not supposed to sync up at all, is it?

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Speaker 3: I don't know how they do it. Yeah, I don't

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Speaker 3: don't It would not help me because we don't do

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Speaker 3: it at the same time. But it works for Kelly.

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Speaker 2: All right, Kelly, go get them Kelly.

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Speaker 4: Kel I'm gonna guess for Kelly. It's a visual queue

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Speaker 4: to erase everything before that.

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Speaker 3: It's because it's like a wave. Oh yeah, and the

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Speaker 2: Before the show so everyone can hear our pre show discussion.

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Speaker 5: We accidentally left in some pre show talk the other

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Speaker 5: day and people, I we I mean it was a

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Speaker 5: in the talk about Kelly, but nothing before that.

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Speaker 3: Don't worry.

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Speaker 1: Okay, nervous, Welcome to Kelly Chat.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 2: In three to one, here's Anya.

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Speaker 4: The Nicky Glaiser podcast.

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Speaker 2: Glaser, Here's Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Hello. Here I am.

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Speaker 5: It's a Nicky Glazer podcast. Welcome to the show. I'm

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Speaker 5: Nicki Glazer. I'm here in studio with my boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: I love a Nope.

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Speaker 3: Is that not what we do? Love each other?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we do. That's what I mean by okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay. His name is Chris Conny. You can hear

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Speaker 3: him on The Courtney Show podcast and on the Courtney

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Speaker 3: Show every day from six to ten in Saint Louis, Missouri.

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Speaker 3: We're on the arch app wherever you get your.

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Speaker 2: Apps, don't go that's how I need to do that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: There are a few besties. Bestie Dan, oh really, he

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Speaker 5: It's my favorite show to listen to, so I understand

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Speaker 2: And then we have Anya Marina, who is in New York.

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Speaker 4: You can download be Anya up and listen.

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Speaker 3: To on live is in Arizona.

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Speaker 2: Did you just say you just told yourself that you

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Speaker 2: So podcast investigation, you should murder Matt.

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Speaker 5: And if you murdered someone, I was thinking about it,

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Speaker 4: You can just how he got he went to the library.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, he sent it from his church disc drive

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Speaker 2: Well, nothing's more humiliating than dine. That's like the hands

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Speaker 3: I mean, dying is do you couldn't figure out how

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Speaker 5: I mean, I think a lot of people probably die

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Speaker 4: Kid. I want to die in a dream, but.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I want to die.

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Speaker 1: You die in Matt's dreams all the time because he

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Speaker 5: Did you see the kid who the most disturbing video

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Speaker 5: The worst way to die? Imaginable.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, it's not I have no idea. No,

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Speaker 3: His life, is he?

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Speaker 2: Is he not?

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Speaker 5: Like you get a little alcohol in you and suddenly

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Speaker 1: Know, when you're eighteen, you kind of think you're invincible

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Speaker 4: So it's like we're graduating, we're done. Daring him is celebrating.

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Speaker 4: Who was the whistleblower? I wonder.

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Speaker 3: Probably the literal with like there were whistles going tough,

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Speaker 3: like when he sked off, like it was it was everyone.

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Speaker 2: Was freaking out. It's such.

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Speaker 5: It's a sad video, but I like to watch it

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Speaker 3: It's my favorite. Oh yeah, and it was on there.

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Speaker 5: It's just the last image of the person before they die.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like what's like a jack Fast image that.

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Speaker 5: She was scared of heights. She's just doing it for him,

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Speaker 5: And also don't go to a top of a mountain

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Speaker 3: They're actually most likely to kill you. There's something to

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Speaker 5: They don't even look anywhere else at first. It's obviously

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Speaker 3: Isn't that crazy?

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Speaker 5: That's insane, So just be on be on on the lookout,

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Speaker 1: I think for a lot of the people that are

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Speaker 2: I just listened to that what is it, the Rowing

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Speaker 1: Yes, and even she you know, early in the podcast

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Speaker 2: What do you mean on a cycle of abuse?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so her her husband at the time like

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: J K Rowling J Long asked, bitch, we know, Like yes,

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Speaker 1: He might have been like we're going to take this hike,

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Speaker 5: Had tois have I been on with you where I

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Speaker 3: Of week and I hope it is.

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Speaker 4: Ain't hiking.

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Speaker 3: I could just push him. I'll never again.

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Speaker 4: Matt's always like edging up to the edge and I'm like,

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Speaker 4: get away from there, and I get my little vaginal

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Speaker 4: wink whatever it's called. Some bestie sent it to me

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Speaker 4: anytime anyone.

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Speaker 3: I love.

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Speaker 4: Chris is like describing a painful or scary situation.

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Speaker 3: I get this weird.

450
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,200
Speaker 4: Thing now in my vagina that is like it's almost

451
00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,600
Speaker 4: like a hiccup or like a feeling, like a like

452
00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:43,520
Speaker 4: being a top of a rollercoast story. Like it's like

453
00:19:43,600 --> 00:19:46,800
Speaker 4: a terrible feeling. And I now it happens constantly. It

454
00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,679
Speaker 4: like started ten years ago, maybe seven years ago. I

455
00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:52,320
Speaker 4: don't know why. It just never happened before. But he

456
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:54,960
Speaker 4: always gets close to legen. I'm like, stop, stop my vagina,

457
00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,159
Speaker 4: and then, like hikers walk bile us.

458
00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,280
Speaker 5: I feel that way just hearing about him getting close

459
00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:03,240
Speaker 5: to a ledge. It does something somatically to my body,

460
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,320
Speaker 5: like let me just do it, let me see where

461
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:08,760
Speaker 5: it goes. It's like my stomach goes up in my

462
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,520
Speaker 5: like abdomen or up in my ribs, and then my

463
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:13,640
Speaker 5: throat clenches.

464
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 2: So yes.

465
00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:17,160
Speaker 5: Do you ever look at things on Reddit and you'll

466
00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,159
Speaker 5: see some guy climbing a tower and you just go like,

467
00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,560
Speaker 5: just a little picture of it will send you don't

468
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:23,360
Speaker 5: have that height.

469
00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,439
Speaker 2: Thing, Well no, I don't have a height thing, but

470
00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:25,720
Speaker 2: today you have a height problem.

471
00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 3: You're not scared of heights because you want them so

472
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 3: bad for your body.

473
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,040
Speaker 1: I feel like if I get high up on something,

474
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 1: I'll take some.

475
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 2: Of that height. You're short.

476
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,560
Speaker 3: Whenever I say you're short on stage, people always later

477
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,160
Speaker 3: when they see you're like, he's not short.

478
00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, buter than me.

479
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:58,440
Speaker 3: Yes, you know what are you five eight and a half?

480
00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,000
Speaker 2: No? No, no, no, no, no, I'm five seven and three quarters.

481
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah if if I'm really if you're pushing it

482
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 5: in a y, you're not slouching.

483
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 3: All right, all right, we'll be back. All right, you

484
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:17,119
Speaker 3: need to take a break, okay, because Chris needs to

485
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:18,160
Speaker 3: take one. We called a short break.

486
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 1: Okay, got back.

487
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 2: All right, we're back after our short break.

488
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 3: Wait, what were you gonna say, Chris about your stature

489
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 3: or whatever?

490
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:27,239
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know.

491
00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 3: You were just saying something about like if I do this.

492
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,440
Speaker 2: That break was so long. This commercials are so good.

493
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 2: I guess short.

494
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 3: You don't speaking about things that just skipped over. No, no,

495
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 3: this morning, I was listening to read I used to

496
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 3: get those those for literally seven years.

497
00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 2: You're like, oh, I know they were not pretty pannies.

498
00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:52,560
Speaker 6: But.

499
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 5: Uh that makes me waste a tangentle what panties do

500
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 5: you do you need to care about? Like underwear on

501
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 5: a lady and a lady meaning me like, and you

502
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 5: don't have answer it if it makes you uncomfortable.

503
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 1: No, I don't think it's something that really, I think

504
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 1: it only occurs to me when it's either extreme right right,

505
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,199
Speaker 1: whether it's like, oh, this is awesome or this is

506
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: disgusting terrible.

507
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:18,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, you've never been someone to be like.

508
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 5: I love this because I've neverwear.

509
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:24,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I know what gets you going.

510
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 5: It's things first, all tan lines, and then that's why

511
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 5: whenever I get a spray tan, I always make sure

512
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:32,200
Speaker 5: I have it. I wouldn't if I wasn't dating Chris,

513
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 5: I would do no tan lines because why would you

514
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,920
Speaker 5: need them? But I know that they just like because

515
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 5: they're the first thing as a young boy that you

516
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 5: see that's like she is on there's something that shouldn't

517
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:44,680
Speaker 5: there's something naughty about this.

518
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.

519
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 3: It's like it does something to you and makes sure

520
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 3: vagina wings LIKENI was.

521
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 2: Talking about that it does. Yeah, rest question, yah question.

522
00:22:58,080 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 3: I'm so glad you brought this up, because what's a

523
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 3: Victoria's secret for going to do like a decade? Yeah,

524
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 3: I'm trying to trying to redo her wardrobe. Yeah, she

525
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 3: had a checklist. I had a interest.

526
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 5: It's like what women essentials women need into their forties

527
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 5: or something like that.

528
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 3: Was it that just like what like just closet essentials

529
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 3: that all women should have. And I'm still trying to

530
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 3: figure that out. Some of it was like a cape

531
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 3: and I.

532
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 2: Was your w.

533
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 3: Your book of hoaxes, like thin were turning into a spinster.

534
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 2: Are you from.

535
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: Romaniac That's what Draculacula caps from television.

536
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 2: Oh really, well, my my parents are from Romania. Oh gotcha, gotcha? Gotcha?

537
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 3: Sorry, Okay, I have I have a very I was

538
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 3: just stunned. So I go into a Victoria's Secret. It's great,

539
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,400
Speaker 3: there's like a sale going on. I'm digging through underwear

540
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 3: and I woke up and I see a lot of

541
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 3: men in the store with their girlfriends. The girlfriends are

542
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,919
Speaker 3: showing the panties. Some of the guys are just like

543
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 3: walking around independently, and I'm just kind of like a

544
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:19,159
Speaker 3: little bit disturbed by it.

545
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 2: I like that they should maybe be leashed.

546
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: Have you have you ever seen those those pictures on

547
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,479
Speaker 1: Reddit of the men walking around the store with their

548
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: hands behind their back. No, like there's like a type

549
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 1: of guy that when they're like bared and their wife

550
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: be shopping, they're just like walking around.

551
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,119
Speaker 5: That's so funny because that's the that's the book I

552
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 5: want to get. When my mom used to get mad

553
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 5: at me when she would be shopping and she go,

554
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 5: I know you want to leave. I can tell by

555
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 5: your body, and I'd be like, what shoulday? She's like

556
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 5: the way your arms are crossed, so I should have

557
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:51,639
Speaker 5: been doing that because it does look like it.

558
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,479
Speaker 3: But it's also such a sign of like, I'm not

559
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 3: like jerking off, like it's.

560
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 2: A Victoria's secret, you know what I mean?

561
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 3: They're Victorias there, They're just like, this is just just

562
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 3: supporting wife.

563
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: It does seem like some guys I'm not here because

564
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 1: I want to be here?

565
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 3: Yes, yes? So what what? What is going?

566
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,480
Speaker 2: So? Do you think those guys are enjoying that process

567
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 2: or are they being dragged?

568
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 4: What did it look like you?

569
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 3: I really couldn't tell. It did kind of look like

570
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,880
Speaker 3: they were enjoying it. I think they like it.

571
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 4: And I only say this because I think a guy

572
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 4: that doesn't care about underwear, like truly would not love

573
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 4: it there, Like I couldn't drag Matt into a situation

574
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 4: like that. He couldn't care less. I spent so much

575
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 4: once on lingerie and he was just he didn't even

576
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 4: notice at all. And I'm like, this is this was

577
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 4: like three hundred dollars, this stupid get up that I'm like.

578
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 5: That's why I only buy really the sluttiest things I

579
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 5: have are like from Amazon for seven dollars because they'll

580
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 5: get torn off right away and they're they're just to

581
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:56,439
Speaker 5: look like really slutty.

582
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 3: For a second. I've got one that I've been sitting

583
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:03,120
Speaker 3: on for a while. Literally literally it's shoved up ass.

584
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 3: It's not it's not hanging in there. I don't even

585
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 3: want you to near it at this point. I've got

586
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 3: so many infections.

587
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 5: But no, it's yeah, I just I like that you

588
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 5: don't really care about that stuff, even though I was

589
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 5: saying the other day like if I want to just

590
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 5: turn you on for whatever reason, like I know exactly what.

591
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 5: Like earlier today I was like fixing this thing over here,

592
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 5: and I knew just like arching my back on all fours,

593
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 5: putting my butt in the air is gonna is gonna

594
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 5: just make it like a little tiny T shirt with

595
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 5: like and like you sucking in my stomach, small waist,

596
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 5: big ass up in the air, like I'm just working

597
00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 5: on this thing and I'm stuck.

598
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 3: I can't get it to work and i can't get out.

599
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 2: Of this position.

600
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 5: Or classically, and I've said this before, just take out

601
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 5: a tit casually and be funny.

602
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: About us and just go like, so what should we

603
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 1: do for er on Friday?

604
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 2: Like what do you think?

605
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 3: And just a tit is just hanging out and he

606
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 3: doesn't see it.

607
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 2: That's always fun.

608
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,680
Speaker 1: Or you used to send me pictures like that too,

609
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: where like everything about.

610
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: The picture was normal. You weren't trying to do anything. Yes,

611
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:15,199
Speaker 2: Like I flashed you in Munich Stockholm.

612
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, with the outside with them where that picture like beautiful,

613
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 1: Like we went up to that cherry blossom tree or

614
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: whatever and then we were walking down and I saw

615
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: him and I just flashed him and it was thrilling.

616
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, some flashed boobs are a fun idea.

617
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 4: It was such a fun day walking around in Stockholm.

618
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 4: I just saw all your photos, Chris. They're so good,

619
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 4: they're so.

620
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 3: Niceties because it's like from a digital camera, right, Yeah,

621
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 3: Chris bought one of those creat.

622
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 2: That's the sound of it, you.

623
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:46,439
Speaker 5: Know where it's like you turn on the flash and

624
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 5: it goes like it's a piercing sound that dogs can hear.

625
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 5: And then yeah, they're they're so classic and they they

626
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 5: look exactly like the nineties.

627
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: There's a field trip and really cool.

628
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 2: There's some good ones in there. I know, there's so much.

629
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 2: There's so much huge mistakes. Did you like someone?

630
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 7: Yes?

631
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 3: I was like, wait, how come I'm like nostalgic for this?

632
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 4: What did it happen in the nineties? It's all grainy.

633
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 4: I'm massaging Niki. This was two weeks ago. No recollection

634
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 4: of ever massaging Niki? Like, no recollection. I was playing piano. Yes,

635
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 4: there's a picture where you're wearing an iHeart Oslo shirt

636
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 4: and I'm massaging you. Don't remember doing that?

637
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 3: I remember that either.

638
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 4: I guess it was not memorable.

639
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 5: No, I mean the massage. We had a couple of

640
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 5: memorable massages there.

641
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:31,479
Speaker 3: That wasn't it.

642
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: How are you guys like right now looking back on

643
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 1: that trip with like a little bit of perspective, Now,

644
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 1: what's your initial reaction?

645
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 4: Anya, I'm really glad I went. I felt lucky that

646
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 4: I got to go and play for all those people

647
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 4: and just to do it with my best friend and

648
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 4: her partner. I'm glad I got to know you better.

649
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 4: I mean we've known each other eleven ten years, but

650
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 4: I felt like in two weeks I got to know

651
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 4: you so much better.

652
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 5: So Anya is so on board with Chris conn Oh

653
00:28:58,520 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 5: really you're in the girls chat.

654
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 2: She's fully endorsing, not getting.

655
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 3: No.

656
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 2: I mean that was like all positive stuff. It was

657
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 2: car like he accepts you for who you are.

658
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, like you really he's laughing a litttle.

659
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 5: There's no secrets anymore with you too, Like he just

660
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 5: is You noted that we tease each other a lot,

661
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 5: and you liked that?

662
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 3: Did I say that? I want not?

663
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 4: Like You're like you're short, ha ha, Like like that

664
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 4: kind of dynamic is rare, I think in a couple

665
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 4: where you can like roast each other pretty hard about

666
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 4: stuff and you it's so easy going and yeah, I

667
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 4: mean you're a you have a unique lifestyle. You know,

668
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 4: not a lot of people have your career and stuff,

669
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 4: and Chris seems to totally roll.

670
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 3: People could put up with it.

671
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 5: I would always like, you're like I would do anything

672
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 5: to have you be my lady. Like just like guys

673
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 5: and my damns just idiots. And I'm like, you couldn't

674
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 5: handle this at all. You have no fucking clue. You

675
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 5: see a girl who's like posing seductively with my leg

676
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 5: out and you're like, I could hit like.

677
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 3: That's not what this is.

678
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 5: He has a lot of depression, and she was the

679
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 5: thoughts and weird food things and anxieties about other people's

680
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 5: food things and worrying about why I'm not like this

681
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 5: or that, and comparing myself to others. There's like a

682
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 5: lot more that goes to this than like a cool

683
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 5: pose of me like hey, I'm coming here city.

684
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 3: And my tongue hanging out.

685
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 7: That's what.

686
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 5: I don't know what they project onto me, but it

687
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 5: you gotta be a certain you're you're need. I needed

688
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 5: a special man to put up with me, and I'm

689
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 5: very grateful.

690
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: We project like stuff on people all the time. But

691
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: one of my favorite things that you said, do you

692
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 1: know that movie Dangerous Minds? Do you remember that?

693
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 2: Well?

694
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 1: In that movie they I think Michelle Pfeiffer comes out

695
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: and she's just like everybody, maybe this was another movie

696
00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:01,720
Speaker 1: I might be. You start starting, you start with an a, right,

697
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: So she tells all the students you start with an A.

698
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to lose this A.

699
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 1: You know, like so right now everybody's got an A,

700
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: and it's just like everybody's like, oh man, so this

701
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: is great.

702
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 2: Well I liked that.

703
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: Like, you know, you get exposed to a lot of

704
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: really like funny guys, good looking guys, tall, tall guys,

705
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 1: and you know that sort of thing, like you know,

706
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: you don't go to the same job every single day,

707
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: and I know all the guys you work with, and

708
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: you can just be like, okay, cool because most people

709
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: that's what they deal with, like their their wife or

710
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,600
Speaker 1: girlfriend goes to a job and then comes home and

711
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 1: they kind of know more or less what's happening. You

712
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: go out and you just experienced new people constantly, and

713
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 1: because of like you know, maybe the variety of guys

714
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: you've dated, or all the books you've read and all

715
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: the stuff that you know about people. At this point,

716
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: all of these guys start with a D kind.

717
00:31:57,920 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 2: Of you know.

718
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: It's like you, yeah, you don't think you're not looking

719
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: at a guy being like he's like this guy's so yes,

720
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,719
Speaker 1: good looking, I can't wait to date him.

721
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 2: You're like, what are his problems.

722
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 5: No, I and I used to do that. I think

723
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 5: I it was up until like five years ago. I

724
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 5: used to you can compare the person you're with to

725
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 5: all these different people and or people you know relationships

726
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 5: you see on TV, and yours will always fall short

727
00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,959
Speaker 5: because you're just seeing the perfection that these people are

728
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 5: putting out or what they're putting on Instagram. And now

729
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 5: I've realized that by being out there enough and just

730
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 5: doing my research like you're saying, and having enough friends

731
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 5: talk about their own relationships, that I project things onto

732
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 5: that everyone. You're gonna have problems with anyone. There's gonna

733
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 5: be shit that annoys you about everyone. And if you

734
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 5: there's just a there's an immaturity dial above every man's

735
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 5: head for me now, which is just like probably emotionally deficient.

736
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 5: They're not right, they're not starting with a's, and I

737
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 5: think they used to for me, Whereas like I would

738
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 5: give everyone like, oh, they're amazing, and now I'm just like,

739
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 5: the more amazing they are, the more suspicious I am.

740
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 4: Honestly, With age, we all get a little more cynical

741
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 4: and weathered and like, yeah, show me, show me what

742
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 4: you got.

743
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, let's see what you got.

744
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 4: I had a boss one that was like, I'm like,

745
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 4: is it Minnesota that's the show me state? Or is

746
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 4: it Missouri.

747
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 3: It's Missouri.

748
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.

749
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 4: He was like, I'm the show me state, so you

750
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 4: know what, show me what you got. And I was

751
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 4: so cynical. I had just gotten fired from like three

752
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 4: radio stations in a row because we got bought out,

753
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 4: not fired, but like we all got laid off, and

754
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 4: I was just like, I'm not going to show you shit.

755
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 4: I got unemployment. I don't like, I don't need to

756
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 4: show you. I'll work here if you want me to,

757
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 4: but I'm not. He was like the nicest boss I

758
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 4: ever had. I ended up working for him for six years.

759
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 4: He was the best. But I just remember him saying that, like,

760
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 4: I'm the show me state. Come on, show me what

761
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 4: you got. This job is yours if you want it. Wait,

762
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 4: how does that relate to what we're saying. I'm not

763
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 4: being a dick.

764
00:33:58,240 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 3: I don't.

765
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:01,239
Speaker 4: You're like, you got you start with a D and

766
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 4: if you want to be my boyfriend, you got to

767
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 4: show me.

768
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 2: You better show me. I mean, she starts with a

769
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 2: D like she hooks up with them on me I.

770
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 5: Start right on their day and I work up to theirs,

771
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 5: go back down the ball. That's what you're supposed to do, right,

772
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 5: what's going on up in your mind? Yes, I see

773
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 5: what you're saying. Yes, that does relate. I just feel

774
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 5: like it's just I don't know how people in their

775
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 5: twenties make it through and like don't constantly go for

776
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 5: a shinier thing.

777
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: But they're learning, that's what That's what everybody's learning. Yeah,

778
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: at this point, some people longer than others.

779
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, Well, I was reflecting on the Europe trip

780
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 5: and I realized my favorite parts. And this is no

781
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,720
Speaker 5: indictment on any other part of the trip. My favorite

782
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 5: parts were the drives to the airport.

783
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: Oh that's because that's when we were all like kind

784
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: of hanging.

785
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,280
Speaker 5: I like, I realized my thing, and I'm just trying

786
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,320
Speaker 5: to embrace it as opposed to hate myself for it,

787
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,080
Speaker 5: because I want to hate myself for it because I

788
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 5: I'm unlike other people. Like I'm kind of looking forward

789
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,399
Speaker 5: to Brian's wedding being rainy because we'll get to stay

790
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,720
Speaker 5: in and play board games and like talk as opposed

791
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 5: to like doing more outdoorsy things that don't lend itself

792
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 5: to the stuff that I like to do. And that's

793
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 5: just it's just different strokes for different folks. It doesn't

794
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 5: mean I'm a bad person that I don't like outdoorsy

795
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 5: things as much as anything else.

796
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 2: Yeah.

797
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 4: I loved I was just I loved like I just

798
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 4: that's when I got to know you so well, Chris.

799
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 4: Like that long drive from the London remember from Heathrow

800
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 4: to our hotel was like an hour and twenty Yeah.

801
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, those were my favorite and they're probably the least favorite, Chris,

802
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 3: because we're like in a little like.

803
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 2: Were they not fun?

804
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 3: No?

805
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 1: I threw up.

806
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 2: No, I love the whole thing. I agree.

807
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I think one of my favorite parts because

808
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,479
Speaker 1: I mean and I would see each other every few

809
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: weeks or years or whatever it was or just some

810
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 1: hang so it was really that was one of my

811
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:55,440
Speaker 1: favorite parts too. But I liked every I liked almost everything.

812
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: I like the food, I like the adventures. I liked

813
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: the laziness when we could get it in like I

814
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,959
Speaker 1: thought it was. Yeah, I said today on the show

815
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: that we have the same level of untidiness.

816
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 3: Oh that is so.

817
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: I think that really helps us both out because neither

818
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 1: of us got mad at each other for anything that's

819
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:13,399
Speaker 1: going on in the.

820
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 3: That's so nice.

821
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 5: I mean, I just I can't I know stories of

822
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 5: people being like my wife is a mess and I

823
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 5: can't stand it, and it's like, I just imagine being

824
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 5: married to some guy like that who's constantly making me

825
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 5: feel bad about messes.

826
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 2: I would I wouldn't.

827
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,319
Speaker 5: I would probably put up with it and then he'd

828
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 5: murder me someday like I would never put up. I

829
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 5: couldn't do if you You've never made me feel bad

830
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 5: about that is my number one thing secure about too,

831
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 5: So the fact that you don't care about that and

832
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 5: I've never I want to straighten up for you when

833
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 5: you come over. I definitely like put stuff away and

834
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 5: think like cause you're you keep your space is nice,

835
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 5: like your house is immaculate, but you're organized.

836
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 1: Sometimes yeah, I mean not all the time. I would

837
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: say that I'm similar to what you saw in the

838
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: hotel rooms, like sometimes it was perfect and sometimes it

839
00:36:58,200 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 1: was definitely nice.

840
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's nice to just not feel because I know,

841
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 5: I know there's so many couples out there where it's like,

842
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 5: what is this doing here?

843
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 2: Why don't you put this away. It's also like we

844
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 2: don't we don't live together.

845
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm always like when we break into song when

846
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 4: we're angry at each other. There's been this like fucking

847
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 4: real to reel machine that's just sitting in our dining

848
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 4: room that Chris brought over Chris Matt's best friend who's

849
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 4: his bandmate, and our dining.

850
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 3: Room is best she loves you.

851
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 4: Our dining room is the area where the ship just accumulates.

852
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 4: For months, there was like nicky merch in the dining room,

853
00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 4: and finally I'm like, can we please move Nikki's merch

854
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 4: to the basement lost by the.

855
00:37:41,280 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 5: Way exactly, And he was like, why is this divorce

856
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 5: paid notification here on our mantle?

857
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 3: Like this is bad?

858
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 2: Like Juju.

859
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 4: That's probably the name was on our man First it

860
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 4: was under.

861
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 3: Here under I'm.

862
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 4: Like that bed, yeah, you threw it away, And now

863
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 4: they yeah, I'm like, can I not have your ex

864
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:12,760
Speaker 4: wife's name.

865
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 2: Displa Yeah, I mean I agree with you.

866
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 4: But every week there's a new weird, huge thing in

867
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,720
Speaker 4: the dining room. It's just the room that collects new stuff.

868
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 4: And I'm always like, what is this weird star machine thing?

869
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 4: And then now I gave it to Nikki, but.

870
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's like a star projector on the

871
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 3: wall in my room. It's it's awesome.

872
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 5: She was bitching about it on the Girl's Chat and

873
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,280
Speaker 5: I go, I'll have it, and you just shipped.

874
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: I also think it's probably tough because you guys as

875
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,919
Speaker 1: like musicians. You have tons of instruments and.

876
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 4: So much gear.

877
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,800
Speaker 2: Your whole life is just gear.

878
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 4: Like my baby likes to keep the real too reel

879
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 4: and this shitty corner when will we be moving? And

880
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 4: we just like make up song the past, aggressive songs

881
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:06,959
Speaker 4: to each other that always started. Yeah, it is annoying

882
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 4: and I need him to stop. If it's in a song,

883
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 4: we laugh, and if it's not, it's kind of like

884
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 4: all right, we should talk about this in therapy.

885
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, Chris and I are plans to move in together

886
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 3: the summer ish. Yeah, whenever, you know, come on over.

887
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 2: As parts. We're like, okay, okay, we're gonna do this.

888
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 1: It was in Europe, by the way, for me, Europe,

889
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: I look back at things a little bit with like

890
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: rose color, like you know, a little bit nostalgic. But

891
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: I thought it was there's like some magic to it,

892
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: and I thought it was pretty amazing and I got

893
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: to fall in love with Anya all over again, which

894
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: was really fun.

895
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 3: And the time.

896
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 2: We did a bunch of that too.

897
00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 3: You know, we didn't fight like at all.

898
00:39:59,120 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 4: Yeah.

899
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 8: We had one moment in Berlin where I got a

900
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,280
Speaker 8: little testy and I was like, you know what, fine

901
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 8: and I just like walked out of a gift shop

902
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 8: and you were like, what do we what's going on here?

903
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 4: Yeah?

904
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 2: What was that about? It was like I was hungry?

905
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:16,320
Speaker 4: Oh, I know, both were like you got a little

906
00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 4: form VENTI. That was the day that we're like, can

907
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 4: we get this extra hot? It all started with.

908
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 5: Stands Museum the Holocaust. Yeah, that'll put you in the

909
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 5: We were at checkpoint. Charlie was at checkpoint oh yeah,

910
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 5: and like I had already gone off and I was

911
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 5: just in a little I just turned into a four

912
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 5: year old. I'm just like because I was hungry, I

913
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,840
Speaker 5: wanted to sit down and eat. Chris I was like,

914
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,919
Speaker 5: let's go somewhere and eat. And I'm like, but where

915
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 5: do you want to eat? He's like, I don't care.

916
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 5: I'm not that hungry, And like.

917
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 3: But how aren't you hungry? You haven't eaten today yet?

918
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 5: And then I was starting to feel fat because I

919
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 5: had already eaten, but I would needed to eat again.

920
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 5: And then I was just like it was it was

921
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 5: so many things, and then you were the you. We

922
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 5: thank god you were the one to come out, and

923
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 5: because I was just like standing out there, like what.

924
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 3: Am I gonna do? Like am I gonna walk home?

925
00:41:03,520 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 3: Like what? What's the endgame here?

926
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 5: Like this is the first stop of our trip, Like

927
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 5: I got it, We're gonna make up. And then you

928
00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 5: luckily came out of the store and we're just like

929
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 5: what's going on?

930
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:20,600
Speaker 3: It's very nice and sweet and then hung and I

931
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 3: just feel like I just want to eat my bars

932
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 3: sitting down and I just don't want to eat them

933
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,280
Speaker 3: running around and you're not hungry and you're never hungry,

934
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 3: and I'm always hungry and I'm fat. And then you

935
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 3: were just like we're at the topography of terror, which

936
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 3: was a scale for.

937
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,879
Speaker 2: Me, and uh yeah, but you were.

938
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 5: Thank god, you were just so much more mature than

939
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 5: me that day. Like I always assume everyone's on my level.

940
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 5: So I'm like, he's gonna meet me where I'm at

941
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 5: and he's gonna do the same thing. And I'm like,

942
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:53,399
Speaker 5: where when are we gonna get back on the same track?

943
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:54,879
Speaker 5: But you got us back on right away.

944
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's it's hard to be sad. At

945
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: checkpoint Charlie, and I was also like, what is this?

946
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: I don't even understand what this place is. I feel stupid.

947
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 3: I feel like an idiot that I don't know any

948
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 3: about this history. I don't because you were trying to

949
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 3: explain the Berlin Wall and I was like, I literally

950
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,919
Speaker 3: don't understand why they couldn't climb over it, Like it's

951
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 3: not that tall, just climb over it. And then and

952
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 3: I just didn't and it made me. I was just

953
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 3: feeling all all the fields that day.

954
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: Early in the trip, I will say that we, the

955
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:30,320
Speaker 1: three of us, I think people that are listening to

956
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: this have probably traveled with friends and relatives and family.

957
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 1: Sometimes a group just can't travel well together. Nobody wants

958
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: to make a decision, nobody's in charge. Everybody is sort

959
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 1: of out, like trying to time, eating at different times,

960
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 1: and then everybody trying to out what is it like

961
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: like manners each other so that it's like, well, I

962
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: don't care, well, what do you want to do?

963
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 3: What do you But we were a good crew.

964
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:57,800
Speaker 1: Like when somebody wanted to make a decision, they would

965
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,319
Speaker 1: when somebody didn't. It wasn't a big deal and we

966
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 1: could have we could have been fighting the whole time.

967
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 1: So it was just that though we were honestly we

968
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: were all best buds. It feels like you and I.

969
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 5: I mean, I was more nervous about you and you

970
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 5: and me because I have traveled with Anya before. She's like,

971
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 5: and I know that you too are not going to

972
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 5: get into something because you're both agreeable people. But I

973
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 5: was worried about you and me. But I was surprised

974
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 5: that was the only time we fought. I would call

975
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 5: that maybe a fight if you were like, I don't

976
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:29,959
Speaker 5: like to say fight, but like, that was the most

977
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:30,839
Speaker 5: tense it got.

978
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't call it a fight because there wasn't

979
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 1: a back and forth.

980
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:38,320
Speaker 4: No, Yeah, that's amazing, that was right. I just capitulated.

981
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, there was just a lot of Yeah. But I

982
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 5: was I was really struggling with depression on that trip.

983
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 5: I look back on it and I was I was like, like,

984
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 5: the other day, my friend got depressed and she doesn't

985
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,359
Speaker 5: normally get depressed, and she said to me, she was like,

986
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,720
Speaker 5: it was really it was eye opening for me because

987
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,080
Speaker 5: Nikki always says when she's depressed like this, like I

988
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 5: can't imagine having children or like having some kind of

989
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 5: responsibility because I could never do it. And she was like,

990
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 5: I never feel that way, but I feel that way

991
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 5: right now, and I know how you feel, and it

992
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 5: just feels like you're like swimming in molasses or something like.

993
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 5: It felt like that a lot of times. But because

994
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 5: I was just like I was just too stuffed up

995
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 5: emotionally and physically. I don't think, just so uncomfortable in

996
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 5: my skin.

997
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,359
Speaker 1: I don't think people understand how difficult it is for

998
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 1: like you and onion creative people to to travel to

999
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 1: another country that you've never been before. There's pressure to

1000
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: sell tickets, there's pressure to you know, like is anybody

1001
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: gonna think, you know, English was not the first language

1002
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: for most of the people that came and saw your show.

1003
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 1: That's on your mind. You've never been to any of

1004
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 1: these places. You've barely ever been to Europe.

1005
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, yeah, just to Paris, Yeah.

1006
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: And so it's I mean, there was there was a

1007
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: lot of pressure on you for that. But then also

1008
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 1: you know, like I know that to do those shows

1009
00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,799
Speaker 1: is old hat for you, and it's you know, you

1010
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 1: go on autopilot and not autopilot because you're like, you know,

1011
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 1: you're working and stuff like that. But it's not easy

1012
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 1: to go out in a foreign country and do those shows.

1013
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,879
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it landed on you that

1014
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 1: that was part of it.

1015
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 3: It's probably subconsciously just in me.

1016
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 5: And it's not like once I did one show and

1017
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 5: you're a bos like, oh, they're all gonna be good.

1018
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 5: Every single one was a new like it's gonna be okay?

1019
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 5: Is there are these people gonna come out? Are they

1020
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 5: gonna even give a shit? Are they going to understand?

1021
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:29,320
Speaker 5: And how draining it is to be in that state

1022
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 5: and do commany. I know a lot of people are like, oh,

1023
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,240
Speaker 5: it's not that hard. She just gets up on stage

1024
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 5: and tells her jokes. But it's like, you know, it's

1025
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 5: an emotional experience for you. Whether you're doing what you

1026
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 5: perceive as doing well or or what you perceive as

1027
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 5: is doing poorly. You know, all of that stuff factors

1028
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 5: into even your mood the next day and three days later,

1029
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:51,720
Speaker 5: and it's not I don't know, it's it's not easy

1030
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 5: going up there and doing that, and you know, like

1031
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 5: a Anya, you know, handled it really well.

1032
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: You know, I didn't have any anything to.

1033
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 1: Do but be supportive of you guys, and so it

1034
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 1: was easier for me to just be like, I'm here

1035
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: to have fun with my girlfriend and my friend, so right,

1036
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: I didn't. I wasn't under those sort of the pressure

1037
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: of selling tickets in a country where people didn't that's

1038
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,799
Speaker 1: English is in their first language, and they not only

1039
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: they love you, they were there for every I couldn't

1040
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 1: believe how quickly this sounds like I'm being insult Like

1041
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 1: I was impressed with how savvy people can be with

1042
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: when English isn't their first language.

1043
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, they got all the jokes. Yeah, it was

1044
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 5: really never a struggle. There was maybe one or two

1045
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 5: references where I ended up having to like explain who

1046
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 5: John Banay Ramsey was. I thought that would be like

1047
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 5: kind of a worldwide thing, even though I didn't assume

1048
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 5: it at first, But it worked even better once I

1049
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 5: explained who it was.

1050
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 4: Sometimes it was just generational, you know, because some of

1051
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,959
Speaker 4: the people are like twenty years old or you know.

1052
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 2: Twenty Yeah, they weren't alive when that was a sight.

1053
00:46:57,600 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, but yeah, people, they were such warm audiences. I

1054
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 4: love everything you said, Chris, and and also, like you know,

1055
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,640
Speaker 4: to your point, sleep deprivation and jet lag are so real,

1056
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:10,879
Speaker 4: and for me, I feel like I can't even get

1057
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 4: to sea level if I am sleep deprived, like I

1058
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 4: am not in my right mind.

1059
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 2: Barely l levels level.

1060
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 5: I was also, and no one put this on me

1061
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 5: except myself. I want to be very clear about that,

1062
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:32,440
Speaker 5: but I was really exhausted at the idea of being

1063
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 5: a good partner in like being a tourist, Like.

1064
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:40,479
Speaker 3: I put that on myself. I did you were you

1065
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 3: never made me do anything or were like you got

1066
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:43,919
Speaker 3: to see this thing.

1067
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 2: There was none of that. But I am conditioned.

1068
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 5: I realized from therapy yesterday that I have a father

1069
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 5: who is really a go getter and always wants to

1070
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 5: go out and do things, and I have a mother

1071
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 5: who is more like me. And my mom did not

1072
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 5: have the same kind of leniency from her partner as

1073
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 5: I get from you. So I'm always expecting this kind

1074
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 5: of this connotation of with what I like to do

1075
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 5: means you're lazy and boring and less then and you're

1076
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 5: not cultured, you're not interested, you're not curious, You're not

1077
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 5: so My inclination to enjoy car rides and dinners where

1078
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 5: we just get to like sit and like look at

1079
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 5: things and just not have to walk around and go

1080
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:31,919
Speaker 5: see a thing may make me feel less.

1081
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 1: Then the problem is you do that to yourself. But

1082
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 1: it's like, you know, Anya would go off and she

1083
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 1: would go do things on her own, and I could

1084
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 1: go do things on my own. But the thing that

1085
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:49,959
Speaker 1: was like a bummer was you would you would sort

1086
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,760
Speaker 1: of feel so guilty about it or so you would

1087
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,959
Speaker 1: shame yourself, like as if it was being reflected off

1088
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 1: of me or Anya who wanted to go do something yes,

1089
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,399
Speaker 1: And it was like I don't. You can do whatever

1090
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 1: you want, yes, I because I love the the lazy

1091
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: times too.

1092
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:06,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1093
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 5: And you and you are fine going out by yourself,

1094
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 5: like you have a grand old time getting into four

1095
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 5: thousand steps. I mean you because I remember the day.

1096
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 4: That we just were talking about the Dead Sea trip.

1097
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 4: You were not going to come, and you were like,

1098
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 4: I'm going to bail. I'm not feeling it, and we were.

1099
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 3: Going to go to the Dead Sea the next day,

1100
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:28,839
Speaker 3: right yead?

1101
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 4: And I was like, Okay, that's totally cool.

1102
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 5: I'll go, But then I just thought we haven't done

1103
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 5: that many things, us three together, And that was the

1104
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:37,439
Speaker 5: discussion that led me to go to the Dead Seed

1105
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,520
Speaker 5: that day because we were going to go the following day.

1106
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 1: The thing that's hard is because you are so sensitive

1107
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,719
Speaker 1: about these things, and it's never just like, hey, I'm

1108
00:49:45,719 --> 00:49:47,920
Speaker 1: gonna go do this? Do you want to come, and

1109
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: it being yes or no based on however you were

1110
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: feeling that. Sometimes it's tough because you you will guilt

1111
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 1: yourself into going even though you don't want to. Yes,

1112
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: and I don't want anybody coming with me that doesn't

1113
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 1: want to be there.

1114
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 2: Yes, who does, right? But then I also have a

1115
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 2: good time sometimes.

1116
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: But then there's also there's a fine line because I'm like,

1117
00:50:08,719 --> 00:50:13,399
Speaker 1: I think, and yeah, you gots done right, we did?

1118
00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: I think Sometimes I'm like, I know Nicky enough to

1119
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: know I know she would prefer to stay in bed

1120
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: right now, But I think this hour long thing. I'm

1121
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 1: going to push on this and I'm going to say

1122
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: I think this is worth doing, and then you can

1123
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 1: go back and take yes your naps.

1124
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 3: That was already stay.

1125
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 4: I forgot that we had a show that night.

1126
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 5: We went an hour and the Dead Sea, the guy

1127
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 5: that the show couldn't either. He was like, you went

1128
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 5: to the dead seat today, What.

1129
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:46,879
Speaker 4: Did we do something wrong? Was it dangerous? And he's

1130
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 4: like no, just I can't believe because the show tonight,

1131
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 4: so you wouldn't have gotten back in time. I'm like, oh,

1132
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 4: he's like.

1133
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 2: Nothing, But that's that's what I would do.

1134
00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 1: So like if I had something at six o'clock at

1135
00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: night and I woke up at like eleven, the whole

1136
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 1: day would revolve around that moment and I wouldn't be

1137
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: able to do anything like anything.

1138
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:12,800
Speaker 5: Classic ADHD meme, like those people that say, like me,

1139
00:51:12,800 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 5: me with something to do at six pm?

1140
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 3: Oh, get so much done today?

1141
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 5: D D me actually today And it's like, yes, just

1142
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 5: sitting doing nothing until six pm.

1143
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 1: But that's what's impressive about what, like, you know, like

1144
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: that day in Munich, we had such a great time

1145
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:27,480
Speaker 1: because we just like kicked it on those scooter.

1146
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was really fun and I was.

1147
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,280
Speaker 4: I remember I was, I do nothing.

1148
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 5: I feel like I have to be looking at my

1149
00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 5: notes and going over things and preparing things, whereas if

1150
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 5: I'm like on a scooter running through and watching people

1151
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 5: surf in a green river, I'm like, I can't do

1152
00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 5: work right now. It's everything I do is to make

1153
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 5: me not feel guilty about the fact that if I'm

1154
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,320
Speaker 5: doing nothing, I should be working.

1155
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 3: You know my part of that.

1156
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:54,520
Speaker 2: Go ahead, Onya, Sorry.

1157
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 4: I was going to say, you know what, I cured

1158
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 4: my guilt over this years ago with with like Nikki

1159
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 4: what like I used to do this thing where I'd

1160
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 4: be like, I should go with Niki because Nikki and

1161
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 4: I lived together, as you know, for a couple of years,

1162
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 4: and then anytime she was in town and had stuff

1163
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 4: to do, She's very, very active, way more so than

1164
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 4: I am. I'd be like watching the Real Housewives and

1165
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:16,879
Speaker 4: she'd be like, I'm doing seven sets, do you want

1166
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 4: to come? And I'm having dinner and then I'm meeting

1167
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 4: me this for and I'd be like, I should go?

1168
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 4: Why am I so lazy? So I always had this thing,

1169
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,919
Speaker 4: but I remember Nikki told me, like, I will never

1170
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 4: be mad at you ever for flaking or not wanting

1171
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 4: to come ever, like, so just know that. And I

1172
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 4: heard that enough times that I started to believe it,

1173
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 4: and so that now it's like I never feel bad

1174
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:39,800
Speaker 4: about flaking, So I really only go when I want.

1175
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 3: To go the greatest gift you can give your friends.

1176
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:44,360
Speaker 1: The problem with is with NICKI and I really love it.

1177
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: If you worked on this in therapy, give me something.

1178
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:54,360
Speaker 1: It's a constant dis being, constantly dissatisfied with what you're doing.

1179
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: So if you're if you're napping, you're not saying because

1180
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:01,160
Speaker 1: I'm different, like I don't relate to this at all.

1181
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, when I'm napping, I'm like, this is good

1182
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,359
Speaker 1: for me. I need to be doing this. And then

1183
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: when i'm when i'm like out in you know, if

1184
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: you go home early in Munich and I'm just exploring,

1185
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm this is what I want to be doing,

1186
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: so like this is what I'm doing, This is exciting.

1187
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,239
Speaker 1: Or when I'm like, oh shoot, I got I really

1188
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 1: have to be working. Yes, But when you're you know,

1189
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 1: when you're working or when you're not working, everything is

1190
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: the wrong You're doing the wrong thing, yes, And that's

1191
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: a that is not like a fun place for you

1192
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: to live, which is like when I'm out having fun,

1193
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 1: I'm not working on sets.

1194
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 2: When I'm I'm trying to move out. When I'm sleeping, I.

1195
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 3: Don't live here anymore.

1196
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 2: I'm just why I'm working with a therapist.

1197
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,319
Speaker 4: It seems like you really got a good to run

1198
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 4: dimpany about your dad's stuff, like it really.

1199
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was a big thing of like, I I

1200
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 5: can't stand my mom wanting to Like even my dad

1201
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 5: will if he hears this, he'll be so mad. But

1202
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 5: we were coming back from New York and my mom

1203
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:59,839
Speaker 5: is exhausted because we went to Dave Matthews. I flew

1204
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 5: out last minute. The air is disgusting. We go to

1205
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 5: Dave Matthews, She's like, has a couple drinks. We go

1206
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 5: to the cell afterwards.

1207
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:06,399
Speaker 2: It was a late night.

1208
00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 5: She didn't sleep well because she like her heart rate

1209
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,720
Speaker 5: was like spiking, and she didn't sleep till three am.

1210
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 5: We get up in the morning at seven to go

1211
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:17,439
Speaker 5: to the airport, and then she doesn't sleep on the plane.

1212
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 5: And then I'm like, you got a nap today? Please

1213
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 5: just tell me you do nothing today, because she really

1214
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:24,720
Speaker 5: deserves it in a way that I would even feel

1215
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 5: like I deserved it. And I go, don't let dad

1216
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 5: give you shit about taking a nap. Holla's with us,

1217
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 5: by the way, and she goes, I would her Dad's

1218
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,399
Speaker 5: in not gonna say anything about that. I can nap

1219
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 5: when I want to, and I go, I just predict

1220
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 5: that dad might have a problem with you going on

1221
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 5: a little vacation that he didn't get to go on

1222
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 5: even though I invited him and he turned it down,

1223
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 5: and then you coming back and then sleeping all day.

1224
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 5: Based on my twenty five years off and on of

1225
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,760
Speaker 5: living at home, I think he might have an issue

1226
00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 5: with it. But she was like, that is ridiculous. Your

1227
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 5: dad doesn't care if I nap. I nap whatever the

1228
00:54:57,120 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 5: hell I want to. So can you get in car?

1229
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 5: We're driving to my place. My dad drops me off.

1230
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:06,160
Speaker 3: Holla's in the car with them too, because she's getting

1231
00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 3: dropped off at her parents, which is in my parents subdivision.

1232
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 2: And she wrote to me later and she goes, did

1233
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 2: your mom tell you? And I go, no, what?

1234
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 5: And she goes, you were right, and I go what

1235
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 5: And she goes, seconds after pulling out of your apartment,

1236
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 5: your mom said I'm gonna need a nap today, and

1237
00:55:22,120 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 5: your dad goes, oh, of course you are. You're gonna

1238
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 5: nap all days. That what you're gonna do?

1239
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 3: Had that whole thing, and I was like, I fucking

1240
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 3: knew it, and it's not my dad's fault.

1241
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 5: My dad is just an active person who does not

1242
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 5: relate at all to people who need would ever need

1243
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 5: to nap, or wouldn't want to go. Look at a

1244
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:43,919
Speaker 5: plaque that says Thomas Jefferson took a shit here once

1245
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 5: or whatever, is like he can't understand that someone wouldn't

1246
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 5: be interested, Like he can't understand this person, which I

1247
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 5: only know I'm not. I used to feel like a

1248
00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:55,239
Speaker 5: fucking pariah because my dad would get so mad at me.

1249
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 5: In high school, I would see someone at Schnooks that

1250
00:55:57,400 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 5: I knew, or I wouldn't want to go to show.

1251
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:01,239
Speaker 2: You'd be like, let's go to Schnooks get some groceries, and.

1252
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:02,319
Speaker 5: I go, I don't want to go because I don't

1253
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 5: want to see anyone I know, And you go, what

1254
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 5: are you even talking? You don't want to see someone

1255
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 5: you know? And I go, I might see someone I know,

1256
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 5: I don't want to talk. And he used to be like,

1257
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 5: why would you ever say that or think that you

1258
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 5: don't like seeing people? And then you get the Internet,

1259
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 5: and that's literally what every meme is about, that no

1260
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:21,680
Speaker 5: one wants to see each other. Everyone clocks someone at

1261
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 5: the grocery store pretends like they didn't see him.

1262
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 3: I'm not alone.

1263
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 2: Everyone doesn't like seeing people they know.

1264
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 5: But I grew up in a house where that makes

1265
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 5: you crazy, not normal. So you have a problem, You're lazy,

1266
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 5: you're you're just weird. And so I relate all of

1267
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 5: the things that I am naturally to that and I

1268
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 5: have to break free of it. And I'm grateful that

1269
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 5: I have a boyfriend who accepts me, who exectes me

1270
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 5: for who I am.

1271
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:53,279
Speaker 2: I'm going to that. Yeah.

1272
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 5: No, And Nikki, he's the best. I am the best

1273
00:56:58,760 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 5: dad ever. But I do. He does not under he

1274
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 5: doesn't relate to nappers, Yeah those things.

1275
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

1276
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 5: And if you don't relate, you can't understand. You can't

1277
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:09,239
Speaker 5: fathom why people we would need this much, Russ, And

1278
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 5: I'm one of those people, and so it boggles his mind,

1279
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 5: like where did you get this from?

1280
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 2: Who are you?

1281
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: But also I think people are like, oh, you want

1282
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 1: you left town? So you were on a vacation, and

1283
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 1: a vacations vacations are easy and relaxing, and now you're

1284
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 1: back from that. Yes, but some vacations are not like

1285
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: an this.

1286
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 3: One was not.

1287
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 5: It was go go go, all right, We'll be right

1288
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 5: back after this and short break, short break, and we're

1289
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 5: back from a short break.

1290
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 3: So let's do some Reddit dumb, shall we. This is

1291
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 3: your redit dumb.

1292
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,600
Speaker 2: She's taken deep. God, my voice can re record that

1293
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: if you want. We should.

1294
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 5: It makes me cringe because I thought that sounded good

1295
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 5: at the time, but now it shows how far I've grown.

1296
00:57:57,560 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1297
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 3: I just pulled up my phone and on your earlier

1298
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 3: today on the Girl's Chat, was saying that Matt was

1299
00:58:01,680 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 3: listening to some music last night. I won't say who.

1300
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 4: I won't say who, okay, And.

1301
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 3: You're like, who is this? What are you playing? It

1302
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:10,920
Speaker 3: sounds like a bunch of guys who have never had

1303
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 3: sex before. And I was like, please tell me who

1304
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 3: it is.

1305
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 2: And this is the name of the band, babe.

1306
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 4: Don't say it.

1307
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 2: I won't play it. It's so funny.

1308
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 3: And I did listened to them. They were pretty good.

1309
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 3: I think I kind of like that. I like those

1310
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:31,040
Speaker 3: little virginal eunuchs. Okay, it's time for Reddit dump.

1311
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 5: I will say that Reddit is like trying to go

1312
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 5: dark right now because they're trying to protest the banning

1313
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 5: of third party apps. Because if third party apps, if

1314
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:44,960
Speaker 5: people can download those and use those to look on Reddit.

1315
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 5: Then Reddit does not get to have the data from

1316
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 5: those to sell, which is how Reddit makes all of

1317
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 5: its money.

1318
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:54,760
Speaker 1: And the third party apps are much easier for like

1319
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 1: moderators and the people that are that are like, you

1320
00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: know the kind of the heart and soul of.

1321
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 2: Reddit to use? Yeah, I use just the Reddit app?

1322
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 3: Do you use that? Thirty two?

1323
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 1: The more I've been reading about all this time, like

1324
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 1: I got to get this third part people are like, yeah,

1325
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 1: these third party apps are way better, way better.

1326
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 4: Ye make it more user friendly?

1327
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 5: Well they're like parties. No, yes, I think they're more

1328
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 5: user friendly too, just a better way.

1329
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 4: And I do want to say that one of the

1330
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:26,720
Speaker 4: most soothing for me things is Nikki doing a Stero

1331
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 4: Silverman impression.

1332
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 3: It's so weird.

1333
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 4: It's like my ASMR, which I don't have a SMR,

1334
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:33,280
Speaker 4: but you were doing it over the weekend. I was like,

1335
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:35,800
Speaker 4: oh my god, this is so good.

1336
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 5: Really yeah, It's like I'm trying to figure out why

1337
00:59:42,760 --> 00:59:49,439
Speaker 5: that would make you feel soothed. Let me just think

1338
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 5: deep inside my pussy walls, and.

1339
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1340
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to so good you cannot that's so nice. Okay,

1341
00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 3: I'll do it this whole segment. Okay, First off, my.

1342
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:07,640
Speaker 5: Voice teacher would be like, please stop doing that, so

1343
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 5: I will no. Uh, first up, let's do the one

1344
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 5: I sent you. The This is entitled this is from

1345
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 5: TikTok Cringe, which by the way, is not I told

1346
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:18,960
Speaker 5: you this recently.

1347
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 2: It's not all things that are cringe.

1348
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 5: Sometimes it's just like a good TikTok which makes no

1349
01:00:22,680 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 5: fucking sense.

1350
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:25,600
Speaker 3: But sometimes they're cringe. This one's not cringe. It was

1351
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 3: just interesting.

1352
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:29,240
Speaker 5: It's a guy on some podcast who probably has some

1353
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 5: kind of science degree, and because it's a TikTok clip,

1354
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 5: I trust what he's say, even though there was no

1355
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:37,640
Speaker 5: photographic evidence or any evidence to support what he said.

1356
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:40,240
Speaker 3: But I think it's interesting. And it's called wild mice

1357
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 3: love hamster wheels.

1358
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 2: I think happens.

1359
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 3: If you put mouse wheels out in the forest.

1360
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:46,919
Speaker 7: I would imagine that mice would not use it. They do,

1361
01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 7: they do. They love it. It has nothing to do with

1362
01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 7: needing an outlet. It's just that they love doing it.

1363
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 7: There's amazing video of these like wheels there's just been

1364
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 7: put out in a forest and like wild mice who

1365
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 7: have the entire world to run in are still like hey,

1366
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 7: and I think that's us too. We look at these

1367
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 7: wheels and we think wheels in cages.

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01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 3: That's that's what the Internet is.

1369
01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 7: We love running on wheels, That's what it is. We

1370
01:01:10,840 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 7: love gossip, and it's not just the Internet that caused it.

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01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 7: We've always loved it. We're just typing it now rather

1372
01:01:16,320 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 7: than whispering.

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01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 5: I thought that was pretty interesting because I do enjoy

1374
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:22,600
Speaker 5: going on Reddit. I do enjoy looking at my phone.

1375
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 5: I do enjoy a lot of things that seem like mindless.

1376
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 5: I think growing up watching a ton of TV was

1377
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 5: actually great for me, and I would actually raise a

1378
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 5: child with them being able to watch hours of TV

1379
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 5: a day if they wanted, because as long as it

1380
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 5: was like good stuff that made enriched them and like

1381
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:41,240
Speaker 5: was well written, I would have no problem with that.

1382
01:01:41,400 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 5: So I kind of liked this because we do like

1383
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 5: a wheel. Isn't that so cute?

1384
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 3: I'm just.

1385
01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:51,160
Speaker 4: Wild mice. I was waiting.

1386
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 3: I want to see the footage.

1387
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:54,320
Speaker 2: There was no footage back up.

1388
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 3: You just got to trust this guy that it's out there.

1389
01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:00,479
Speaker 2: Trust this guy before doing videos like this. He's legit.

1390
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 1: He seems to be an authority on certain things. All right,

1391
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 1: I'll buy what this guy said.

1392
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean they made a clip about it, and

1393
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:08,960
Speaker 3: there's another guy across from him who's looking interested in

1394
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 3: going really with this sneakers cross.

1395
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 1: Well, no, there's like there's like an evolutionary reason for

1396
01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:19,280
Speaker 1: like us wanting news and liking news because if something,

1397
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:22,160
Speaker 1: you know, if there was something that was outside that

1398
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: was going to kill you, you would want to tell

1399
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 1: everybody about it, and so wanting and needing that information

1400
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: was like essential y yes, years and years and years.

1401
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:35,960
Speaker 2: Ago, and like I just love and novelty.

1402
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:39,000
Speaker 5: We just love anything new because it excites us, and

1403
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 5: it also is Yeah, new things equal like wait, danger,

1404
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 5: that could be danger, whereas stuff that we know and

1405
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 5: trust your system does not respond to it because there's

1406
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 5: no danger. It wouldn't affect you in the tribe for

1407
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 5: this normal thing to come on through. Anya, what did

1408
01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:55,760
Speaker 5: you have thoughts about the wheel?

1409
01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 4: Hey? I was thinking about dear Abbey saying once a

1410
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 4: long time ago, or maybe it was sister and whatever,

1411
01:03:02,120 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 4: I don't know one of the landers. Yes, that gossip

1412
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 4: is not inherently bad. It's like shit talking is bad,

1413
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 4: but gossip is really just idle chatter, and then it got.

1414
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 3: A bad rap over love. Gossip. Yeah, it's my favorite

1415
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 3: thing in the.

1416
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 2: World, and I have to quit.

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01:03:20,240 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 3: I have. I just heard something on gossiping that really

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01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 3: tell me some gossip about gossip.

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01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 4: I know what it is. What Noah's gonna say? The

1420
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:33,960
Speaker 4: thing didn't you send it to us? Nicky about how

1421
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:36,880
Speaker 4: women are conditioned to gossip? Is that you're going to say, Noah.

1422
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 3: No, no, okay, not at all. It's just about like

1423
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,720
Speaker 3: a perspective of gossip. So I have a group of

1424
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 3: friends who are you know, like they know about like

1425
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 3: Jewish text way.

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01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 2: More than I do. And you know, like the Toro

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01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 2: or whatever Jewish text.

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01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 3: You mean Hebrew it's a third party app that allows

1429
01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:01,760
Speaker 3: you to search red app so anyway, so they it

1430
01:04:01,800 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 3: talks about, you know, like gossiping is not good. And

1431
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 3: basically this thing was was really I don't know it.

1432
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 3: It just really made me think about gossip in a way.

1433
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 3: Gossiping you're basically like slaughtering someone's soul, but they can't

1434
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 3: defend themselves because when you're gossiping, you're talking about a

1435
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:24,960
Speaker 3: third party. So the that third party is not able

1436
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 3: to join the conversation and talk about themselves. So you're

1437
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 3: basically like slaughtering their soul. Yes, in front of the

1438
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 3: people that you're you're talking.

1439
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:35,000
Speaker 5: I love that so Jewish, by the way, the words

1440
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 5: just like that's it's just so so biblical to be

1441
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:39,640
Speaker 5: like slaughtering in a soul.

1442
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:42,760
Speaker 2: I love that because it is. And that's what it

1443
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 2: feels like when.

1444
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 5: I when I when I do gossip, and I also

1445
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 5: know from all the stuff that I'm reading that for

1446
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 5: every negative thought you have about something, you're slaughtering your

1447
01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 5: own soul. Like you, it's so bad to put out

1448
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 5: bad vibes about anyone, Like I just trying so hard

1449
01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 5: to counter every negat thing I say with five positive things,

1450
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:04,360
Speaker 5: because that's what my therapist said that the damage that

1451
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:08,480
Speaker 5: a negative thought does on your brain, you can only

1452
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,840
Speaker 5: counteract with five times the positive to make it go away.

1453
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:13,440
Speaker 5: I thought it was three times. So now when I

1454
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 5: go like, ugh to my body, have.

1455
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 3: To be like you look great, you look amazing, you're beautiful,

1456
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 3: you're smart, look at your curves, like I have to

1457
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 3: do five.

1458
01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 4: Things like Sarah, you're amazing, you're smart, look at your girl.

1459
01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 3: Dull, look at your curves.

1460
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 5: But I love gossip so much, but it's one thing,

1461
01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 5: like cigarettes or something I have to quit.

1462
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 2: It's just it's poison for you.

1463
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 3: It's slow poison.

1464
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:42,000
Speaker 4: I have a good remedy.

1465
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:42,760
Speaker 2: It's so fun.

1466
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 4: Imagine the person is in the room, say whatever you

1467
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 4: wouldn't mind saying if they were in the room.

1468
01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 3: I try to do that, but it's hard to remember.

1469
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 2: That so fun to gossip.

1470
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:58,880
Speaker 1: You guys think, I think it's probably you probably do.

1471
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:01,320
Speaker 1: But do you, guys, ever think people are doing it

1472
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:01,840
Speaker 1: about you?

1473
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean I assume they are, but I don't.

1474
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 1: Care, you know, logically, but it doesn't like land on

1475
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 1: you that it's probably happening.

1476
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 2: No, it does not.

1477
01:06:09,080 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 5: The only times is when I post something that I'm

1478
01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 5: really embarrassed by and I picture a certain female comedian

1479
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 5: sending it to other female comedians and them being like

1480
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 5: she's unhinged or.

1481
01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 3: She got fat.

1482
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 5: Like that's that's all I care about, right, is that

1483
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:27,880
Speaker 5: one snarky, mean girl comedian. And you know, everyone in

1484
01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:30,640
Speaker 5: here knows what I'm talking about, but like I could

1485
01:06:30,720 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 5: not that's the one person. But overall, you know, I've

1486
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:37,200
Speaker 5: stumbled upon things written about me that are really mean,

1487
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:40,160
Speaker 5: and they've affected me greatly. But and I know they're

1488
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 5: being said constantly, but I don't look at it, so

1489
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 5: I don't care.

1490
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:46,960
Speaker 2: Like my dad is always like, you're Reddit, they are weird.

1491
01:06:47,560 --> 01:06:50,640
Speaker 5: Oh they're just pictures of your legs and just say,

1492
01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:54,320
Speaker 5: I'm like, those are not even as bad as the

1493
01:06:54,360 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 5: ones that are you know, talking about my speculating that

1494
01:06:58,800 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 5: I'm on drugs, Like, don't even read those ones, like, oh,

1495
01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:08,600
Speaker 5: I mean people, Yeah, there are people that are constantly

1496
01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 5: talking about all of us. And I know that my

1497
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:14,720
Speaker 5: friends who talk about people to me talk about me

1498
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:17,720
Speaker 5: behind my back, and you should assume the same for me.

1499
01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 4: No one is talking about me. That's what I tell myself.

1500
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:26,480
Speaker 2: You wouldn't like that, though, what you I think?

1501
01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 4: No one's talking about me?

1502
01:07:29,360 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I don't care.

1503
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 4: I just really don't care either. I'm sure I care

1504
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 4: how you commenters are like people on Reddit like, I

1505
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:42,439
Speaker 4: don't care.

1506
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:43,439
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

1507
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 1: My dad says that all the time. He says, what

1508
01:07:45,680 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 1: other people think of me is none of my business.

1509
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 5: My favorite quote, yeah that is ever stuck with me

1510
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 5: is that is to remember that because it isn't your business,

1511
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 5: but it is slaughtering your soul.

1512
01:07:57,120 --> 01:08:00,120
Speaker 4: When I was a child, my number one fantasy, this

1513
01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 4: is so weird, aside from having virgins float or no,

1514
01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,880
Speaker 4: I think it was the people that have had sex.

1515
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 4: And I used to have a fantasy that, like, right,

1516
01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:09,960
Speaker 4: all the people who have had sex would have flowed

1517
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:10,440
Speaker 4: up so.

1518
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 2: I could see the ones, she could see who's done.

1519
01:08:12,800 --> 01:08:15,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I was a virgin. But my number one

1520
01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:17,640
Speaker 4: fantasy when I was like seven, eight, nine, ten was

1521
01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 4: that I would have a tape recorder and I could

1522
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:23,439
Speaker 4: just press play and it would have recorded everything everyone's

1523
01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:25,720
Speaker 4: ever said about me, and I'd be like, Oh, I

1524
01:08:25,760 --> 01:08:28,600
Speaker 4: can't believe so and so said this about me, and

1525
01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:29,759
Speaker 4: it was all mean stuff.

1526
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 3: I want to hear that.

1527
01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:32,080
Speaker 2: It was always mean, I.

1528
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 4: Think so yeah, but maybe it was like I just

1529
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 4: want to hear what people are saying about me, because

1530
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 4: you're just looking for an identity when you're young.

1531
01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 3: That's what people do. I mean, I have friends that

1532
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,439
Speaker 3: still read all the comments and stuff. I don't know

1533
01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:46,080
Speaker 3: how they haven't killed themselves yet. Even I was talking

1534
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:48,240
Speaker 3: to Rachel Findstein yesterday and she was talking about some

1535
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 3: clips she came across with me talking about my.

1536
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:52,880
Speaker 5: Dead cousin JD and she said it was so sweet.

1537
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 5: And she was like in the comments and I go, no, no, no, no, no,

1538
01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 5: no no no.

1539
01:08:55,800 --> 01:08:58,160
Speaker 2: She was like they were so you like helped so

1540
01:08:58,240 --> 01:08:58,799
Speaker 2: many people.

1541
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 5: There were people in there saying me week sober and

1542
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:03,479
Speaker 5: I needed this, and like it sucks that you have

1543
01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 5: to miss out on those things because of it.

1544
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 2: Okay.

1545
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 3: This one is from Reddit's Psychology and it says good

1546
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:13,799
Speaker 3: looking female students no longer get straight a's when classes

1547
01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 3: become virtual, when the professor can't like maybe fuck them.

1548
01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:23,040
Speaker 3: Is that a real study, Yes, it's a real study.

1549
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 4: I'll look at the good the great Equal.

1550
01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:29,280
Speaker 3: Research and Psychology published in the journal Economic Letters. Who

1551
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 3: knows what that is, It reveals that attractive students tend

1552
01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:34,240
Speaker 3: to achieve higher grades in school. However, the studies suggests

1553
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 3: that this beauty premium disappears when classes are taught remotely,

1554
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:38,519
Speaker 3: especially for female students.

1555
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:44,439
Speaker 2: That is, I mean, I mean you could have predicted that.

1556
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:47,240
Speaker 5: Data obtained from five different cohorts of engineering students from

1557
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:49,439
Speaker 5: a Swedish university, resulting in a final sample of three

1558
01:09:49,520 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 5: hundred and seven students. Two of these cohorts attended a

1559
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 5: portion of their classes remotely. The content of these courses

1560
01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 5: stayed the same, but lectures and seminars were conducted online

1561
01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:02,840
Speaker 5: an independent sample of whatever. They explain the study, but yeah,

1562
01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 5: they discussed several reasons why physical attractivists might enhance productivity

1563
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 5: for male students. Male students who are physically attractive tend

1564
01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 5: to be more persistent and have a greater influence on

1565
01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 5: their peers. Attractive people also tend to have more social skills,

1566
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 5: which have been linked to creativity. Since non core quantitative

1567
01:10:19,640 --> 01:10:25,040
Speaker 5: quantitative quantitative courses tend to involve creative assignments and group work,

1568
01:10:25,280 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 5: men who are more attractive might be more likely to

1569
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:33,639
Speaker 5: excel in this coursework anyway, Yeah, hot people get stuff easier.

1570
01:10:34,320 --> 01:10:35,760
Speaker 5: And then there was this post the other day on

1571
01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 5: Instagram that was like the struggle of hot people, how

1572
01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:40,640
Speaker 5: no one takes them seriously and every and that was

1573
01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:41,040
Speaker 5: just like.

1574
01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 1: I hate those like, yeah, I cannot stand those things

1575
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,960
Speaker 1: where it's like they've got it so rough, like.

1576
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:50,919
Speaker 2: Give me a break.

1577
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:52,920
Speaker 5: They do have it rough in the sense that when

1578
01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 5: they I will say, one thing, final song, when they

1579
01:10:56,680 --> 01:11:00,680
Speaker 5: do age, it is so much harder, and it is

1580
01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 5: and they do question. A lot of people always go well,

1581
01:11:05,439 --> 01:11:07,639
Speaker 5: you're a pretty faci, you'll be fine. And they dismiss

1582
01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 5: that these people have an emotional depth or intelligence that

1583
01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 5: they do have.

1584
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:13,800
Speaker 3: So am I sorry for them?

1585
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 4: No?

1586
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 5: Because they're hot and they get everything. Yes, but do

1587
01:11:17,040 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 5: they struggle still? Of course, of course they do.

1588
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:20,840
Speaker 2: No, one would deny that.

1589
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:23,599
Speaker 1: I just don't like it when people use them being

1590
01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:26,639
Speaker 1: attractive as one of the things that make their lives hard,

1591
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 1: because that's not true. It's just not true. It may

1592
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:33,000
Speaker 1: be worse when they get older, but it's just the

1593
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:38,360
Speaker 1: world is so unfair when you see how varied people are,

1594
01:11:39,040 --> 01:11:41,560
Speaker 1: and some people get way more. I always hate it

1595
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 1: when somebody's like really good looking, really good athlete, really

1596
01:11:46,160 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 1: good musician, funny, and you're just like this, This world

1597
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 1: is not fair.

1598
01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:55,280
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, Taylor Swift. It's like to make Taylor Swift

1599
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:57,479
Speaker 3: a lot of things. If she would have been born

1600
01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 3: in a different country, under different circumstance, is perhaps into poverty,

1601
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:03,680
Speaker 3: she would not be who she is. It has to

1602
01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 3: be a mixture of like the talent, plus the loving parents,

1603
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 3: encouragement from your community, a certain time you were born

1604
01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 3: in where the music industry is like, and then also

1605
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 3: a ton of hard work having a brain that's good

1606
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:19,920
Speaker 3: at hard work. It's all a fucking crap shoot to get.

1607
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:21,559
Speaker 2: A tea swift Conan says about it.

1608
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:22,920
Speaker 3: What he's.

1609
01:12:24,360 --> 01:12:28,040
Speaker 1: Where, He's like, He's like, you know, fifty sixty years ago,

1610
01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:30,679
Speaker 1: one hundred years ago, I would just be the town

1611
01:12:30,840 --> 01:12:32,120
Speaker 1: idiot in Ireland.

1612
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:35,160
Speaker 2: Like everybody'd be like, oh, there it goes, and the

1613
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:38,559
Speaker 2: town idiot. He would have had nothing to contribute. There

1614
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 2: was no there's no need for him.

1615
01:12:41,880 --> 01:12:43,439
Speaker 3: Or me nothing.

1616
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:45,760
Speaker 2: At least they had music back then.

1617
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:48,320
Speaker 3: You would have had a job. Noah, you would have.

1618
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:53,440
Speaker 3: You would have produced something.

1619
01:12:52,120 --> 01:12:53,600
Speaker 2: Like an assistant or something.

1620
01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:56,920
Speaker 3: Assist you.

1621
01:12:57,080 --> 01:12:58,640
Speaker 1: Thinking about what you would have been like in the

1622
01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:01,880
Speaker 1: Renaissance or the wild Wet or all these different.

1623
01:13:01,560 --> 01:13:03,879
Speaker 4: Erasure I think i'd be a hand.

1624
01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:06,240
Speaker 3: With a ton of children. Yes, I mean I would

1625
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 3: have so many different.

1626
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:10,639
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1627
01:13:11,200 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 5: Well, as a woman, you know what you would have

1628
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:17,680
Speaker 5: been nothing a mother and a housekeeper, that's all you

1629
01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:18,160
Speaker 5: would have been.

1630
01:13:18,280 --> 01:13:18,839
Speaker 2: Or a witch.

1631
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 4: I was told I was a male soldier your last life.

1632
01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:23,920
Speaker 2: Male soldier.

1633
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:27,679
Speaker 3: Who wasn't It wasn't everyone and like that's ever.

1634
01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 6: Lived before us soldier, Like everyone fought like there was

1635
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:34,760
Speaker 6: no getting out of that if you were a man

1636
01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 6: anytime before seventeen hundred, you were fighting all the time.

1637
01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:41,120
Speaker 3: I wanted to say that. Share this text I got

1638
01:13:41,200 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 3: last night from my sister to my family. Oh, I

1639
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 3: wanted to get to a couple of things, but this

1640
01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:51,200
Speaker 3: is uh she sent it to. Where is it? Sorry?

1641
01:13:51,240 --> 01:13:54,720
Speaker 2: Noah, I know it's in our text or in the rundown. Okay, Oh,

1642
01:13:54,920 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 2: so it's such. It's my biggest fear.

1643
01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 3: I'm not kidding you. I have Everyone knows I have

1644
01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:01,080
Speaker 3: certain phobias. Air shows.

1645
01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:06,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, two lane highways over thirty five miles per hour

1646
01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:10,320
Speaker 5: going directly at each other. Okay, add to the list

1647
01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:12,880
Speaker 5: which I have never even come across this again, except

1648
01:14:12,920 --> 01:14:15,599
Speaker 5: one time we went to a circus in fucking fourth

1649
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 5: grade or some shit, and it has been It is

1650
01:14:18,560 --> 01:14:19,800
Speaker 5: one of my biggest years. I don't even like to

1651
01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 5: bring it up because I don't want people sending me

1652
01:14:21,280 --> 01:14:24,639
Speaker 5: photos of it or talking about it. But those cages

1653
01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:27,880
Speaker 5: that are circle with the motorcycles going round and round

1654
01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 5: and almost hitting each other are so fucking terrifying. I'm

1655
01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 5: getting anxiety just thinking about it. I don't like them.

1656
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:35,880
Speaker 5: Do you love them?

1657
01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:39,519
Speaker 1: I think it is when I see those it makes

1658
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:46,040
Speaker 1: me think I'm so impressed with like humanity, like with

1659
01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:48,760
Speaker 1: the human race, like I cannot believe. First of all,

1660
01:14:48,800 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 1: somebody had that idea. Then somebody was like, well, I'll

1661
01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 1: get in it in a motorcycle and I'll just go around.

1662
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 1: They're like, well, there's plenty of room in here for

1663
01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, two more motorcycles. And they're like, all right,

1664
01:14:57,720 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: well we'll come and practice it with you. It's insane.

1665
01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:02,280
Speaker 1: You don't even know how do you even start to

1666
01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:03,760
Speaker 1: practice something like that?

1667
01:15:03,800 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 3: You're so right, it's it fucking it doesn't make sense.

1668
01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 1: It doesn't make any sense, like all of it, none

1669
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:10,720
Speaker 1: of it makes sense. And then when you watch it,

1670
01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:13,839
Speaker 1: you cannot believe that it is not a disaster.

1671
01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:15,400
Speaker 3: It's perfect.

1672
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:20,840
Speaker 5: Will you google motorcycles motorcycle circus accidents because I want

1673
01:15:20,840 --> 01:15:21,720
Speaker 5: to know if there are any.

1674
01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 2: Because my sister Willy Nilly William.

1675
01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 5: Nilliam of Nothing Apropos of nothing, sends our group chat

1676
01:15:29,520 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 5: this video. I'm not even gonna look at it. And

1677
01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 5: they are in a tiny little ball and motorcycles are

1678
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:40,519
Speaker 5: going round and round, were back. They're at the circus,

1679
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:41,960
Speaker 5: I guess, And she just sent that.

1680
01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:46,639
Speaker 3: There's a bunch of okay circus performers crash during Globe

1681
01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 3: of death, globe of terrifying moments, circus entertainers writing the

1682
01:15:51,360 --> 01:15:55,240
Speaker 3: Cage of Death died. It's just like a bunch the

1683
01:15:55,280 --> 01:15:59,240
Speaker 3: hamsters people just like being with the exception of like

1684
01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 3: real feet of courage. I think this is the most

1685
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:03,120
Speaker 3: impressive thing.

1686
01:16:03,240 --> 01:16:04,519
Speaker 5: Do you want to go watch it? Would you like

1687
01:16:04,640 --> 01:16:06,679
Speaker 5: want to go see it? And you can just sit

1688
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:07,400
Speaker 5: there and watch it?

1689
01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 2: Was part of it, was a part of it.

1690
01:16:10,240 --> 01:16:12,200
Speaker 3: I want to die.

1691
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:16,240
Speaker 2: You could see the most impressive ever. I'm not kidding you.

1692
01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:18,559
Speaker 5: You couldn't pay me ten thousand dollars to sit down

1693
01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:20,720
Speaker 5: and watch it for a minute. A live one, one

1694
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 5: that I knew wasn't going to crash. I could maybe

1695
01:16:22,520 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 5: watch like this video, I'm predicting. I only watched it

1696
01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 5: for a second before I crashed. What about front row?

1697
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:30,040
Speaker 4: Sorry third row? At Taylor Swift?

1698
01:16:30,920 --> 01:16:32,200
Speaker 3: What do you mean that's surprise?

1699
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:34,719
Speaker 5: If this was happening, I would not go I would

1700
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 5: never go see her again if she had this going

1701
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:38,719
Speaker 5: on again, I don't even want to be I would.

1702
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 4: Not even go for watching it.

1703
01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 5: You get no nothing, No, I wouldn't I'm not kidding you.

1704
01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:46,720
Speaker 5: This is the it gives me switching guy. So it's

1705
01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:48,800
Speaker 5: so weird that they sent this to me. So I

1706
01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:51,240
Speaker 5: wrote back, this is one of my biggest anxieties as

1707
01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:53,600
Speaker 5: a young girl up there with air shows. I'm going

1708
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:55,639
Speaker 5: to send something that's just as upsetting to you.

1709
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:55,880
Speaker 7: Now.

1710
01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 2: So I know my mom and sister have tripophobia.

1711
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 5: I don't know if that's the way to pronounce it,

1712
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:05,960
Speaker 5: but it's it's If you google it, try p oh

1713
01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:09,360
Speaker 5: phobia you will see it's like the fear of little

1714
01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 5: circles all together in a condensed area.

1715
01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:12,679
Speaker 2: This is an.

1716
01:17:12,600 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 5: Example of what I'm talking about. Oh yeah, it looks

1717
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:17,320
Speaker 5: like rotting flash kind of. There's a reason why we

1718
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:19,840
Speaker 5: don't like this kind of thing. But I sent them

1719
01:17:19,880 --> 01:17:23,479
Speaker 5: this like classic, like you know flower that has this

1720
01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:25,920
Speaker 5: going on and it makes you want to barf.

1721
01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:27,000
Speaker 2: And I send it to my mom.

1722
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:31,560
Speaker 3: She goes no, and I go sorry, mom, and my

1723
01:17:31,640 --> 01:17:33,160
Speaker 3: dad goes the screw in the pond at the river

1724
01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:36,880
Speaker 3: ships they're pleasing. They're pleasing to me, Well that's weird

1725
01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 3: because they definitely are unsettling to me as well. And

1726
01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:42,600
Speaker 3: my mom goes, oh, stop it, and I go sickening

1727
01:17:42,880 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 3: and then she put a big paragraph she went done

1728
01:17:45,040 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 3: to you know, space bar and she goes getting these

1729
01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 3: off my screen by moving them up. It was just

1730
01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:51,160
Speaker 3: a fun moment of.

1731
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:53,479
Speaker 2: Uh trolling.

1732
01:17:53,760 --> 01:17:55,920
Speaker 4: I didn't even know that was a phobia. I see

1733
01:17:55,960 --> 01:17:58,240
Speaker 4: those things all the time, those little plants with all

1734
01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 4: the holes in them. Did you google typophobia and look

1735
01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 4: at all the images? No I saw. Noah sent us

1736
01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 4: a picture of that.

1737
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:07,920
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, those things make me sick too, because any

1738
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:10,479
Speaker 5: just like circles, they are closely all together. Because it's

1739
01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:12,920
Speaker 5: the same as when like maggots eat rotting flesh and

1740
01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:16,040
Speaker 5: they like burrow in little holes. But it's also want

1741
01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:18,439
Speaker 5: I like planters worts because there's dots and I want

1742
01:18:18,479 --> 01:18:20,720
Speaker 5: to scrape amount and I want to get them and

1743
01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:22,680
Speaker 5: I want to maybe chew on them. But I'm never

1744
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:24,599
Speaker 5: going to do that because it's a virus. But I

1745
01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 5: what have I good? I do someday? Want to dig

1746
01:18:28,120 --> 01:18:29,520
Speaker 5: out someone's warta.

1747
01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:32,920
Speaker 1: Have you talked about the meme the guy who's doing

1748
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:34,759
Speaker 1: the memes for the podcast?

1749
01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:37,519
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we love him so much. He's killing it,

1750
01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 2: killing it. Yeah right, yeah, this is like a dream

1751
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Speaker 2: come true.

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Speaker 5: I know, it's so fun to be memed and he'll

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01:18:44,439 --> 01:18:46,680
Speaker 5: take like clips from things I've done the show and

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01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 5: like make them move and stuff.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny. His finger on the pulse of memes

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Speaker 1: and this show and the show. It's like come true.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I wonder who he is and I wonder if

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Speaker 5: he has any other meme accounts.

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Speaker 2: I ever want to find out. Isn't a he? I mean,

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Speaker 2: we have no idea.

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Speaker 4: Why do we assume I thought I was a woman?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, I think it's a man one hundred percent, but

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Speaker 3: I could be wrong. When we had you up, we

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Speaker 3: had out of context now as an account, and that

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Speaker 3: was I think her name was sqeeze.

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Speaker 4: She was great.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, well we shall see reveal your tell us

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Speaker 3: what gender you are or what you identify?

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Speaker 5: Stay a mystery, Okay, don't tell Chris. I won't tell him,

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Speaker 5: but I want to know. Thank you guys so much

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Speaker 5: for listening to the podcast. Chris, thank you for being here.

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Speaker 2: To thank Thank you so much. I really love being

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Speaker 2: here with you guys.

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Speaker 5: Brian will be back in a couple of weeks. I

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Speaker 5: think he's taking a couple of weeks off to get married.

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01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 5: We're going to his wedding this weekend. We'll talk about

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Speaker 5: that next week, but we have another show before next week,

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Speaker 5: so we'll see you.

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Speaker 3: Tomorrow on the show. Thank you for da oh yeah.

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Speaker 5: And I have some tour dates on January or January

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Speaker 5: June twenty fourth, I'm going to be in Highlands, California,

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Speaker 5: I believe, and then I'm going to be in Vegas

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Speaker 5: with David Spade on June thirtieth and July first, and

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Speaker 5: then I have so many tour dates that I just announced,

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Speaker 5: all new for the fall, Chicago being a very important

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Speaker 5: one that I want to sell out desperately because it's

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Speaker 5: the Chicago Theater September fifteenth. Yes, Nikki Glazer dot com

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Speaker 5: for all the tour dates in ticket info and I

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Speaker 5: can't wait to see you guys out there.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, don't be cut and just don't ever send

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Speaker 3: me a picture of the kay to dot O don't please, don't.

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Speaker 3: I'm serious, don't no, Okay, Senator to Chris, he loves it.

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Speaker 5: I do everything