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Speaker 2: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fread Show.

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Speaker 2: AJ Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you?

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Speaker 3: Good morning? I'm doing all right?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing great? What's going on with this woman? Natalie?

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Speaker 2: We got to know on waiting metaphone here? How you met?

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Speaker 2: Tell us about any dates you've been on? And then

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Speaker 2: why do you think you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I think I'm being ghosted. We had a good first date.

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Speaker 3: We met on the apps, nothing crazy. We went out

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Speaker 3: for a couple of drinks. I had a great time.

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Speaker 3: I thought she did too. To the date, I sent

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Speaker 3: her a hope you got home safe text? To be courteous,

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Speaker 3: and I got a very kurt response, very short, not.

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Speaker 2: A correct response. Oh you got to wow, very short response.

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Speaker 2: What did she say to you? You were like, hey,

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Speaker 2: you know, great time, and she was like she.

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Speaker 3: Said something along the line of thanks, pretty short, very sweet,

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Speaker 3: very simple. I hit her up the next day, no answer,

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Speaker 3: being ghosted, not really sure what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Wow? All right?

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Speaker 2: And I asked the question every time. But you look

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Speaker 2: back on the date and you felt like everything went smoothly.

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Speaker 2: The conversation was good, the subject matters were good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Really, I felt like we had a lot in common.

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Speaker 3: There was laughter shared. I thought it was a good time.

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Speaker 1: Laughter was shared. There was laughter shared.

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Speaker 2: It was shared. It wasn't just on one side. It

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Speaker 2: was shared, which is what we want to hear. And

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Speaker 2: so you're puzzled and it bothers, you know, as it

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Speaker 2: would most people. You thought you had a good time

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Speaker 2: and you thought you met someone, except this person's not

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Speaker 2: talking to you, and you want to know why. So

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call Natalie a j. You'll be on the

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Speaker 2: phone the whole time. We're gonna some questions on your behalf,

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Speaker 2: and at some point you're welcome to jump in, and

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Speaker 2: the hope is that we can straighten out whatever's going on,

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Speaker 2: set you guys up on another date and pay for that.

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Speaker 3: All right, all righty, I appreciate it, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Hey, AJ, all right, let's call I'm still good, still good,

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Speaker 2: by the way, thanks for asking. We're gonna call Natalie.

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Speaker 2: You guys met on a dating app and you went

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Speaker 2: in a date that you thought was a success, except

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Speaker 2: you've reached out. Well, you reached out right after the

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Speaker 2: date and you got kind of a I don't know,

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Speaker 2: cold response, and then you've reached out since then, trying

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Speaker 2: to plan a second date. She's not responding at all,

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Speaker 2: and you want to know why.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I gotta know.

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Speaker 3: I gotta know what's going on.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call Natalie now, good luck?

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Speaker 2: AJ. Hello, Hi, this is Natalie. Hi Natalie, good morning.

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Speaker 2: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show,

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Speaker 2: the morning radio show. The whole crew is here. Did

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Speaker 2: I mention it's called the Fred Show? I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I'm Fred Fred Show whatever. But you are on the

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Speaker 2: radio right now, and I would need your permission to

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Speaker 2: continue with the call. Can we chat for just a

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Speaker 2: couple of minutes. You can hang up anytime.

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Speaker 1: Sure, Okay, well, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I know it's kind of strange to get a call

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Speaker 2: like this, but we're calling on behalf. Maybe you've heard

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Speaker 2: this before, but we're calling on behalf of A guy

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Speaker 2: named AJ says that you guys met on a dating

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Speaker 2: app and went out recently.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I remember. Well what happened with him?

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Speaker 2: Because you know, he called us and we just chatted

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Speaker 2: and he said that he enjoyed going out with you

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Speaker 2: and was excited to go out with you again. He

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Speaker 2: says he's reached out, uh to see you, and that

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Speaker 2: you're not responding at all. Now, I guess you were

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Speaker 2: kind of cold after the date and now you're it

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Speaker 2: would appear you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 1: So what happened? Why are you doing that?

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Speaker 4: Okay, you guys have to promise not to judge me,

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Speaker 4: because what I will?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: No, sure, sure, we promised to give to do our

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Speaker 2: best not to judge you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, buckle up.

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Speaker 4: I know, which is really shallow, but I think I

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Speaker 4: just had trouble getting past it. Every time that a

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Speaker 4: J thought something was funny, instead of just laughing like

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Speaker 4: let's say a normal person would do, he would say

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Speaker 4: laugh out loud.

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Speaker 1: It was in like l like you would use on

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Speaker 1: your phone. Would he would say l l out loud? Yes,

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Speaker 1: he would say the thing laugh out loud. He would

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Speaker 1: say laugh out loud.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so instead of laughing, he would say laugh

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Speaker 2: out loud.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, he would say laugh out loud. Yeah, that's annoying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: And I kept being like, oh, maybe I'm like, you know,

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Speaker 5: maybe it's like a one time thing or I misheard him,

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Speaker 5: And then he said then he even went to sit

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Speaker 5: on to say laughing my ass off like l m

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Speaker 5: F A O.

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Speaker 2: And laugh like if it's that funny, then actually laugh, like,

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Speaker 2: don't say exactly.

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Speaker 1: And this is like multiple times. Is that's terrible?

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Speaker 2: I know?

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: A J's here by the way, Natali, I'm sorry, I forgot.

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Speaker 2: I'm very forgetful. I get caught up in the story. Natalie,

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Speaker 2: Why don't you Why don't you just laugh if something funny?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you just laugh like a normal person? I

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Speaker 2: would like to.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's like a cool thing that people say lol,

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Speaker 3: laugh out loud.

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Speaker 2: Really no, I mean it's something you say in text

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Speaker 2: form because you can't they can't hear you laughing.

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Speaker 3: Natalie did I not laugh at all? Was there no haha?

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Speaker 1: Has?

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Speaker 3: It was all l o ls and laugh out loud?

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Speaker 3: Maybe it's just a response. I didn't even realize.

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Speaker 4: I mean, there was more laugh out louds than there

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Speaker 4: were laughs.

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Speaker 2: That would be so weird if I said something funny

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Speaker 2: and then you're like, laugh out loud, I don't like

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Speaker 2: just laugh like.

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Speaker 1: Or don't it sounded cool?

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Speaker 3: I thought it sounded cool.

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Speaker 2: Kids were saying, oh no, no, they're not. Though they're not.

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Speaker 2: They're not saying that. They're saying that in written form

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Speaker 2: only maybe someone will go lo o l but like,

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Speaker 2: I don't think anyone wi laugh out loud. I'm man, Okay,

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Speaker 2: Well that didn't sound cool either, And I'm not judging

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Speaker 2: your girl.

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Speaker 1: I'm not and I'm not that cool.

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Speaker 2: But even I know that that's not cool, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: to do like, why are you trying to be cool?

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Speaker 2: Why don't you just act naturally like maybe she would

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Speaker 2: like that a j if you just like laugh like

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Speaker 2: a normal person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean she was the one shoeing her food

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Speaker 3: with her mouth though, But you don't see me complain about.

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Speaker 2: It, you know, to get another date with her? And

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Speaker 2: now she's making fun of you for trying to be cool.

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Speaker 2: You're admitting that you were trying to be cool. It

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Speaker 2: wasn't and so now you now you're coming up with

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Speaker 2: complaints about her. But then, let's not forget that you

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Speaker 2: asked us to call her. So stop it.

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Speaker 1: Laugh out loud, loud, lap loud. Do you see why

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Speaker 1: I goes? Do you see why I this is not?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta get going. It is very strange. Natalie,

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Speaker 2: thank you for answering. I wish you the best. Ah,

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Speaker 2: don't do that anymore, man, Good luck out there,