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Speaker 1: M h.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Mila.

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Speaker 4: Your man will thank you.

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Speaker 3: Anyway.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hi, hi honey, how you doing I'm doing well.

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Speaker 3: You're so far.

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Speaker 4: I know. Hello, I'm on this is different side of

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Speaker 4: the room too.

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Speaker 3: If you're watching, if you're oh yes, oh, I feel

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Speaker 3: the enyway.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, this weight is so good. And I

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Speaker 2: fucking love these backwards. I'm I'm a backwood girl. I

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Speaker 2: love these honey backwoods with this lavender is my fucking

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Speaker 2: shit right now.

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Speaker 3: I think you've converted me to because the last time

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Speaker 3: we smoke this shit, I was like, first of all,

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Speaker 3: am I higher you are? I was like, am I higher?

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Speaker 3: Is this lasting longer? The weed is lasting longer.

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Speaker 5: It is.

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Speaker 4: It elevates the high a little bit. It burns slow.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 2: And then sometimes when in a little trick, y'all, I

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Speaker 2: seal my blunts, my backwood with a little I take

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Speaker 2: my honey backwood and I seal it with actual honey,

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Speaker 2: and it makes a little sticky on the outside, and

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Speaker 2: it makes it burn slower, and it makes it delicious.

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Speaker 3: Which this is a whole meal. It is.

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Speaker 4: It's a recipe.

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Speaker 3: Am I the cook?

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Speaker 2: I'm the recipe maker. Okay, I'm the blunt cook. I'm

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Speaker 2: the blunt chef, the blunt sche Oh, the blunt chef.

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Speaker 2: Bla map the Blunt Chef.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, we gotta add that's a LinkedIn next

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Speaker 3: to right Discovery.

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Speaker 4: Bitch and the Blunt Chef.

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Speaker 2: Take one honey backwood, a drop of honey, a little

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Speaker 2: bit of lavender from your garden, and some weed.

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Speaker 4: VOI la dessert.

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Speaker 1: O.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Well I'm sold. I'm convinced. Thank you. If you're watching

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Speaker 3: on YouTube, you should because I'm wearing pat leather boots,

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Speaker 3: latex gloves, and my afro is popping per usual.

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Speaker 2: And I'm in my favorite character, and that's a naughty

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Speaker 2: schoolgirl because if you've been listening, you know how much

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Speaker 2: that's my fantasy. So if you haven't tuned in, it's time.

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Speaker 2: It's time to see our finances. Get your ass on

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Speaker 2: YouTube and see all of this fineness.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Also, you guys, it's really a special episode because it's

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Speaker 3: my wife's birthday.

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Speaker 4: Happy birthday, thanks wife. It is my birthday.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're twenty two years old today.

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Speaker 2: I know, I feel like I'm getting so old. I'm

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Speaker 2: just crazy, twenty two and poppin'.

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Speaker 3: It's what is it? You're born on the cusp of magic.

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Speaker 5: Born.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I was born in the cusp of magic.

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Speaker 2: Today is June twenty second, guys, and it is the

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Speaker 2: cusp between cancer and Gemini, which makes it the cusp

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Speaker 2: of magic because clearly I am magic.

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Speaker 4: And happy birthday to me.

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Speaker 3: Happy birthday. I love you and in true you know,

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Speaker 3: I wanted to give you a really good birthday present

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Speaker 3: this year, and so got me some dick. Well, I

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Speaker 3: got you something better. You're gonna get dick regardless.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's true.

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Speaker 3: And I said, what could I possibly get my bestie

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Speaker 3: wife for her birthday? What is unique? What is special?

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Speaker 3: I know our guest King Helf himself.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Daddy Half, Welcome to the show. Hello, Thank you

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Speaker 2: wife for bringing Daddy Half.

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Speaker 3: I thought this would be such a beautiful gift for you.

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Speaker 3: You know, you are the ultimate sub. You know you

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Speaker 3: love to be dominated and he is the ultimate dom.

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Speaker 3: So I felt like this was going to be a

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Speaker 3: beautiful pairing for my wife's birthday.

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Speaker 2: You know, get your wife like Erica, who knows your fantasies,

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Speaker 2: helps fulfill them and you know, coordinates them correctly on

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Speaker 2: your actual birthday. Because if if your wife can't do it,

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Speaker 2: who the fuck is going to do it?

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Speaker 3: Orlando?

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is this is this is I don't

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Speaker 2: know if you can throw this one out of the water.

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Speaker 4: Good luck, good luck.

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Speaker 3: Oh it a effort. Orlando plans together right he's listening

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Speaker 3: right now, I know he is. Don't be mad at me.

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Speaker 3: I love you well.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, guys, thank you for coming and joining us.

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Speaker 2: If you guys don't know, King Daddy, hef he is

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Speaker 2: the ultimate dom.

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Speaker 4: He is very.

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Speaker 2: Much hot on the circuit. He has been for a

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Speaker 2: long time. He's the creator of the pussy doodle, which

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Speaker 2: if you haven't had it, it's the most fucking delicious snickerdoodle.

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Speaker 2: But it's for your pussy. It's all natural. It makes

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Speaker 2: it tastes good. I really like snickerdoodles, and they just

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Speaker 2: like snickerdoodles, and they're also for your pussy. King Daddy half,

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Speaker 2: tell us a little bit about yourself, King.

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Speaker 6: Daddy, Well, I am a reformed, shy and innocent and

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Speaker 6: bashful man.

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Speaker 7: I'm reformed.

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Speaker 6: Formerly those things. But I'm a professional dom. I've been

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Speaker 6: doing this for about five years. Also, the Heal's Lifestyle,

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Speaker 6: which the under the umbrella is pink Helfs and black Helfs.

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Speaker 6: Pink Hess is the original vagina vitamin and Black Helf's

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Speaker 6: is the goddig Peel. So I've been doing that since

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Speaker 6: twenty ten, created both formulas and been changing lives around

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Speaker 6: the world.

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Speaker 2: So you used to be shy and yeah, even.

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Speaker 7: Even right now, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I can see it. Yes, I'm looking at him, and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know you yet, but I just

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Speaker 3: had a flashback of like you as like a shy

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Speaker 3: young man. I see it in your.

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Speaker 4: Eyes, just baking cookies business.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you know a tender, always the shy one.

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Speaker 7: You know, a true Tenderoni.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Wow, I didn't see when I met you at

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Speaker 2: Orlando's Live show.

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Speaker 4: You didn't you.

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Speaker 2: Know, I was looking all sexy and fine with a

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Speaker 2: suit on with his chest out, and I don like

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 4: And I didn't think. I didn't think shy shy.

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Speaker 3: I didn't get shy.

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Speaker 4: You well, he looked confident and sexy to me.

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Speaker 3: Not the sex party in his robe. I don't recall.

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Speaker 6: I don't know who that must have been, my shadow guy,

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Speaker 6: because I was. I was back in my my Airbnb.

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Speaker 4: Reading verses as in the Bible or.

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Speaker 7: Like Penthouse form versus Erotica.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, because you know that's that's that's a we're

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Speaker 6: doing the Lord's work around here.

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Speaker 3: We are we are.

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Speaker 4: Doing the Lord's work.

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Speaker 2: And for anyone tuning in who thinks otherwise, God bless you.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 2: This is the Lord's work. And if you don't know,

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Speaker 2: pleasure is created by the good Lord. And if you

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Speaker 2: don't believe in pleasure, then you are truly going against

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Speaker 2: the Lord. So indulge, indulge, indulge, get in tune with

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Speaker 2: what you like, and tap the fucking with daddy. Hef

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Speaker 2: and your inner dom or inner sub if you're me

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Speaker 2: and Erica.

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Speaker 3: And you know, this month we are focusing on we're

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Speaker 3: interviewing all male guests, which is as a first for us,

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Speaker 3: and we have been interviewing a lot of fathers and

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Speaker 3: I actually don't are you. Are you a daddy, like

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Speaker 3: a real like a father of a.

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Speaker 6: I am, well, I don't have any biological children, but

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Speaker 6: my primary has two kids, so I've been raising her

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Speaker 6: two kids for eleven years.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's beautiful.

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Speaker 3: But also the name daddy, I was like, we need

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Speaker 3: to just have daddy.

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Speaker 4: Well, she was like, should we have all dads? I

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Speaker 4: was like, I don't know if he's a dad? I

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Speaker 4: was like, who cares he's a zaddy. I was like,

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Speaker 4: he's daddy half and he's a zaddy and this is

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Speaker 4: a this month is really about zaty.

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Speaker 3: But I even like that love. I love that though, too,

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Speaker 3: because that's something we haven't actually really tapped into. Is

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Speaker 3: like someone who comes in and raises, helps raise, you know,

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Speaker 3: your partner's children, because that's that's the role of a

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Speaker 3: father as well. Yes, definitely, Yeah, so that's really cool.

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Speaker 4: I mean that's the role we're going to have when

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Speaker 4: we get we find a zaddy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, I am interested to know about that,

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Speaker 2: just because I think that I don't know, I think

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Speaker 2: it's not talked about enough that that's a fucking hard ask,

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Speaker 2: you know, to ask anyone to raise someone else's kids,

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Speaker 2: or like kids that are not biologically yours is the

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Speaker 2: is a huge fucking ask. Like sometimes with my own kid,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I want to trip you, and you came

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Speaker 2: straight out of my pussy. So I can just like

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Speaker 2: when people come in and can really take on that

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Speaker 2: responsibility and step up in that way, I'm always enamored,

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Speaker 2: and I think it takes a very special man to

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Speaker 2: to do that, especially two kids. But I don't know

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Speaker 2: how old they were when you came in. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: how old were they?

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Speaker 7: Okay? Three and six?

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, those are really important ages.

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Speaker 6: No, sorry, three and five, my bed, it's still very

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Speaker 6: important age.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So another like sixteen and fourteen or something. Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: Other girls are boys one boy?

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Speaker 4: Oh wow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And girls are spicy listen. And boys can be

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Speaker 2: mean when you know there's another and in the house

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Speaker 2: is their father and the in their life.

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Speaker 7: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 2: Okay that's even that can even more tricky. Do you

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Speaker 2: have any baby daddy drama?

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Speaker 4: Did you meet him?

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Speaker 7: I haven't met him. Yes, I mean we've dinner and stuff.

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Speaker 4: Okay, he's cool, he's mature. I don't know if that's

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Speaker 4: gonna happen for us.

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Speaker 3: Don't put that on us.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm just being honest.

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Speaker 3: I know, I actually don't want don't know. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if it's a requirement.

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Speaker 4: I think, especially for black people, it's like.

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Speaker 4: I think it's this whole thing.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean she got a job. I don't

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Speaker 3: A conversation that's actually happened, a conversation that actually happens.

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Speaker 4: It's happened several times. I tried to volunteer her and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm actually this is I have been separated from

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Speaker 4: It's very clear.

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Speaker 2: And so, you know, I've been struggling, because not struggling,

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Speaker 4: So and so?

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Speaker 8: Can?

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Speaker 2: And I'm on FaceTime like giving her the trying not

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Speaker 4: God, how corny.

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Speaker 3: Shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 2: But also, you know, like you know, I aspire for

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Speaker 2: to have at least a friendship because we were friends

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Speaker 2: for a very long time. I've known my baby daddy

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Speaker 2: for like fucking twenty years at this point, and yes,

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Speaker 2: I'm thirty four today, I'm a distinguished one. She's twenty

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Speaker 2: that journey been for you and co parenting and like

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Speaker 2: Was that something that you think that you would be

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Speaker 4: Like, how is that gone?

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Speaker 7: You know what?

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Speaker 6: I have foundly decided that in this lifetime, in this iteration,

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Speaker 6: I'm just supposed to help raise one's kids, not actually

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Speaker 7: I have I skeyed it up in someone's daughter in

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Speaker 7: my life, yes.

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Speaker 4: With intention of her getting prediant.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, oh no, none of that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, have you said do you want to have my

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Speaker 6: No, I've had some women say you got some pretty

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Speaker 6: brown eyes, I want to have your baby. No, no,

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Speaker 6: that's not a it's not a goal to achieve that

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Speaker 6: pretty brown eyes.

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Speaker 4: No, that's not that's not if you are wanting to

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Speaker 4: have a baby to just recreate pretty brown eyes, just

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Speaker 4: don't do it.

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Speaker 3: Then I get ghots, like, how do you and your

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Speaker 3: partner navigate, you know, the lifestyle having children?

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Speaker 4: Well, is she in the lifestyle?

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Speaker 7: No, she's not.

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Speaker 6: But she's sort of lifestyle adjacent, but like, really, let's

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Speaker 6: just say, this has been the longest relationship I've had

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Speaker 6: in my life.

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Speaker 4: How long has it been?

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Speaker 7: Years?

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Speaker 5: Wow?

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Speaker 7: Right, so.

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Speaker 6: You know I've been married before, She's been married before.

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Speaker 6: So she came in knowing what I do, like this

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Speaker 6: is this is this is my baby here, and I'm

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Speaker 6: here to help people have incredible sexual experiences and understand.

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Speaker 7: About freedom love.

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Speaker 6: But it's really all about communication, right, So we communicate

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Speaker 6: very well with a lot of things. So she didn't

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Speaker 6: the truth, I can't just be popping it up.

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Speaker 2: I can kind of understand because I'm lifestyle adjacent. I

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Speaker 2: myself am lifestyle adjacent. Don't let these outfits.

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Speaker 4: Full you are you?

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Speaker 3: What are you lifestyle adjacent?

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Speaker 4: Sorry?

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Speaker 3: Which, no, you're not in the lifestyle.

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Speaker 4: No, I think in the lifestyle. You got to be

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Speaker 4: like in the lifestyle.

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Speaker 3: Okaya, tell us what would.

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Speaker 4: Be different for people who are like, what are you

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Speaker 4: talking about? Including us?

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Speaker 3: That's the way Yeah, we went.

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Speaker 7: We get ahead.

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about what you do first of all.

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Speaker 7: All right, so let's clear this up.

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Speaker 6: Are you talking which part which lifestyle you talk about,

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Speaker 6: because you're speaking very broad, you could be swingers lifestyle

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Speaker 6: or BDSM lifestyle lifestyle.

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Speaker 7: Are you in both of them?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so they're not the same.

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Speaker 2: You can swinger lifestyle BDSM lifestyle are not the same,

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Speaker 2: not the same.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So there's BDSM lifestyles dom sub lifestyle.

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Speaker 7: That's correct.

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Speaker 6: So that's what we're here to talk about, not swingers. Okay,

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Speaker 6: But I am in the BDSM lifestyle.

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Speaker 4: Okay. I have a question. Let's go back.

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Speaker 2: If she's lifestyle adjacent and your swinger lifestyle, doesn't it

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Speaker 2: generally mean that you swing with your partner?

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Speaker 4: So what she swing with you?

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Speaker 5: Or no?

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Speaker 6: We've been places that she'll watch Okay. Sometimes you know

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Speaker 6: she's a warrior.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I'm an exhibitionist because usually you know you're here.

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Speaker 2: I always I just try to be cool, like I

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Speaker 2: know what's going on, Like you have the life style.

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Speaker 4: I grouped it in on one like oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I know they're from the last style.

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Speaker 6: Because because you said that, some people be like, oh man,

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Speaker 6: you know they which lifestyle?

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Speaker 4: I didn't even think about that.

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Speaker 7: Which life are you fully about?

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Speaker 4: I just like the sex life? Are you about that?

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Speaker 3: Sound to know how you got into what you do

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Speaker 3: and how how this shy young man tapped into his domb.

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Speaker 6: All right, so here's my here's my opinion, and this

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Speaker 6: to be a sub in some way, some form of fashion.

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Speaker 6: Now saying at somebody's feet, kissing their feet, drinking out

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Speaker 6: a bowl, that's.

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Speaker 7: Just not me.

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Speaker 6: However, I have I enjoy getting spanked and choked, so

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Speaker 6: I know what it's like to get spank choked.

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Speaker 7: I get that. So that's why I'm really great at

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Speaker 4: What you said, that's your specialty.

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Speaker 6: Amongst other things, and spanking properly hand spanking a booty

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Speaker 6: and activating a tendence.

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Speaker 3: So when you were we shy young lady, you also

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Speaker 3: liked to be choked and spank during Okay.

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Speaker 7: So I didn't listen. I did not know those things until.

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Speaker 6: I was at this sexual retreat, no sacred sexuality retreat,

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Speaker 7: Sister she choked me. It was amazing, she was playing

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Speaker 3: Right, this shy young lide skipped How did you go

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Speaker 3: from shy to the sacred. So you out, okay, you painted,

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Speaker 3: I was I've painted a store.

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Speaker 6: I never said Virgil okay, okay, okay, or you know

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Speaker 3: I was always been a sexual, yes, be interested in

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Speaker 3: the explorations, definitely.

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Speaker 6: I used to like read stuff like players magazines and

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Speaker 6: just really like like I seen porn and stuff like that,

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Speaker 6: but I'm like, it's more to that. And I would

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Speaker 6: I wonder what that's about. So, you know, with my business,

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Speaker 6: I'm in sort of I've been around BDSM doms and

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Speaker 6: so not saying that I wasn't open to it, but

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Speaker 6: I was like, okay. So one of my associates like,

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Speaker 6: hell man, why don't you try this dumb stuff?

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Speaker 7: I was like, really, what I gotta do?

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Speaker 6: He was telling me, you know, so the choke and

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Speaker 6: stuff like that, and so I was like should I'll

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Speaker 6: give it a try, research it and see what it's about.

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Speaker 7: Thank you so much. And so for me really.

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Speaker 6: Once I found out what I could do, I was like, oh,

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Speaker 6: I'm jumping all the way in, like all right, And

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Speaker 7: When I was choking and spanking her. I was like, oh, wow,

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Speaker 7: I got the power, Like wow, I got the fucking power.

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Speaker 7: And then it's like.

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Speaker 6: A very clear about loving myself and trusting myself fully,

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Speaker 6: very clear on that. So all I attract and all

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Speaker 6: I project is unconditional love and immediate trust. Like you know,

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Speaker 6: you may not trust nobody, but when you're come into

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Speaker 6: mind to my soon.

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Speaker 7: Learn how to trust.

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Speaker 6: You know that that you're safe and you're protected, and

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Speaker 6: if you fall back, I'm gonna catch you straight up.

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Speaker 7: I'm not gonna.

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Speaker 6: Abandon you unless you do something that will allow me

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Speaker 6: to do that. But it's just it's been a real

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Speaker 6: it's been a real fun journey.

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Speaker 7: It really has been.

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Speaker 6: Met a lot of I met a lot of great

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Speaker 7: I really enjoy what I do.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like.

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Speaker 4: That's very true. When I met you, I was like

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Speaker 4: I don't want to give him a hug. I felt

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Speaker 4: I have a.

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Speaker 2: Picture on my Instagram. Actually I look very nestled on

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Speaker 2: King Hab. It was the first time meeting him that weekend.

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Speaker 2: I think I was dating someone at the time. They're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you look real comfortable. I was like I was, I

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Speaker 2: was very comfortable. Yes, I have a question, like.

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Speaker 4: So you just kind of were exploring your sexuality and

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Speaker 4: a sex.

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Speaker 7: Retreat you're going back to.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you got choked and someone someone just casually

452
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Speaker 4: recommended like you maybe you should try being a domb

453
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Speaker 4: That seems like.

454
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Speaker 7: Something oh did that was years years later.

455
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Speaker 4: But and then you remember that experience and it's and

456
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Speaker 4: then that was what. So what would you say.

457
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Speaker 2: For like a young lad somewhere now who's you know,

458
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 2: maybe thinks that they should get.

459
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 4: Into dombin because I do. I mean, I don't know

460
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 4: now because.

461
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 2: I'm more life stylid jacent than I used to be

462
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Speaker 2: that I'm noticing, you know, more doms and professional doms

463
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Speaker 2: professional subs pop up. But like, what is some advice

464
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 2: you to give someone who thinks that that could be

465
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Speaker 2: their calling or what are some things that are you

466
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:26,160
Speaker 2: think are indications that you would be a good dom.

467
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Speaker 6: Well, first of all, you have to have an incredible

468
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 6: level of honesty. Right, you have to be a stand

469
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Speaker 6: up person. So if you are a scumbag in regular life,

470
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 6: you're gonna be a real scumbag in BDSM.

471
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Speaker 7: Right.

472
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Speaker 6: If you are a stand up a guy or a

473
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Speaker 6: person in regular life, in BDSM, you.

474
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Speaker 7: Will be too. So. And also you have.

475
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Speaker 6: To see how it is that you treat and think

476
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Speaker 6: about women, right because on so real shit, a lot

477
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 6: of a lot of men and let's just be very

478
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 6: clear at a black men really have a lot of

479
00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:03,679
Speaker 6: issues with Black women.

480
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 7: And that's just historically in life. So really, how do

481
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:10,360
Speaker 7: you how do you.

482
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 6: Treat women like on your regular like do you just

483
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 6: touch women what I can sent?

484
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 7: Right?

485
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,399
Speaker 6: Do you not respect their boundaries? So if you are

486
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,400
Speaker 6: a person who don't really respect consent and just grab women,

487
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 6: hey boove us up grab women to spect them on

488
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,400
Speaker 6: their ass just because then this is not the life

489
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 6: for you. You can't transition that into dealing with someone

490
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 6: who might You may do something and they make something,

491
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,159
Speaker 6: may come out that they're triggered. You got to know

492
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,159
Speaker 6: how to respond to it. You can't be like stop crying,

493
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 6: stop crying, bitch, you know what I mean?

494
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Speaker 3: I do that I feel like most men, I mean,

495
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,360
Speaker 3: I guess someone would maybe admit that they do that,

496
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Speaker 3: but like, I feel like most niggas are not going

497
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:53,280
Speaker 3: to say that I abuse women like I should not be.

498
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Speaker 3: You know, this doesn't sound like the job for me.

499
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 3: I think I think that I don't. I mean, I

500
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Speaker 3: don't know this. Do you have you ever encountered like

501
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 3: I guess men that are dombs in your space that

502
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Speaker 3: you're like you and a shit nigga, Like you're not,

503
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Speaker 3: like you're irresponsible because I feel like that's like something

504
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,160
Speaker 3: that doesn't get talked about a lot in the lifestyle.

505
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 3: It's all about obviously, like consent. It's like a huge

506
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 3: you know, it's the it's the only like it's like

507
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,880
Speaker 3: the number one rule. But I think we don't talk

508
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:28,480
Speaker 3: a lot about like the misuse of power in that space.

509
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Speaker 3: I'm curious, like how often you encounter that in your

510
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 3: space and how it's is it addressed? Is it handled?

511
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 3: Like how as you as a man in this space,

512
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Speaker 3: like do you navigate that?

513
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 7: Well?

514
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 6: What happens is a lot of times you may not

515
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 6: even notice it, but eventually you'll sort of see how

516
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 6: the women are around this person and how they how

517
00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 6: they sort of every now needed to come up it

518
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 6: all fess itself.

519
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 7: You'd be like it's not right.

520
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:03,400
Speaker 6: And a lot of times it goes unchecked because nobody.

521
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 6: Nobody says something, they see something else say nothing because

522
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 6: they just think that's some domb shit.

523
00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,880
Speaker 7: They just think that's some BDSM stuff, right.

524
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 3: I would imagine that it could get the lines get

525
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 3: very blurred.

526
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 6: But but you know, there are there are doms out

527
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 6: here who have who actually.

528
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 7: Do stuff to their subs.

529
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 6: And they damage them like mentally, like you have someone

530
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 6: that's coming to you, opening up, fully trusting you, surrendering,

531
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 6: and you you treat them like shit and then or

532
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 6: or you just drop them like say like say you

533
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 6: just ghosted yourself, Like that's horrible.

534
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 3: Because it's like if you have abandon right. I feel

535
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 3: like that's with any relationship though, But I mean I

536
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 3: feel like there's some great subs that probably sucked up.

537
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,919
Speaker 6: However, however, there's a level of there's a level of

538
00:24:55,960 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 6: respect and in BDSM that you can't you can't do

539
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 6: regular scumback shit like in your regular shit, how you

540
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 6: drop and not communicate like you have someone that's trust

541
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 6: they're fully trusting you, like I trust you. I may

542
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 6: not trust nobody else, but I trust you. And that's

543
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:16,920
Speaker 6: a very delicate relationship between a dome and a sub right,

544
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 6: and it's like no matter what, like that's that is

545
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 6: the whole foundation. So when you have that and then

546
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 6: you just drop your sub like what why what did

547
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 6: I do? So now they're like what did I do?

548
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 6: If you don't communicate why you did it properly, now

549
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 6: what happens is now you're adding on to one more

550
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 6: fucked up thing that happens to them, and it adds

551
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 6: more crust around the heart and less trust. So if

552
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 6: they come around there and counter another dom the A

553
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:53,439
Speaker 6: number one, that's gonna be really hard for that that

554
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 6: dom has to be a really incredible being that allows

555
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 6: them to be like I can finally be comfortable. Otherwise

556
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 6: they might just lea BDS totally right, and it happens

557
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 6: like so, but there are those times when you find

558
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 6: out that you you must as a as a man,

559
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 6: you must check that check that other man, like it's

560
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,120
Speaker 6: not right, man, what are you doing? Like you need

561
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 6: to stop, Like sometimes you got to tell people that

562
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 6: this life is not for you because it can get

563
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 6: very abusive.

564
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would imagine that there's a there's definitely a line.

565
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Speaker 7: And there's this thing I hear called a sub collector.

566
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 3: The bone collector, the bone collector, so a sub collector.

567
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 7: So that means when you just you just collect them, you.

568
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Speaker 3: Just ain't ship down. You just like like a nigga

569
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 3: that just collects bitches, you know, not not like a

570
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:55,200
Speaker 3: sub collect.

571
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572
00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 6: We have a play scene and I'm like, I'm feel

573
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 6: you my soub now like what you know, and.

574
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 7: It's like every ding of some people be like okay,

575
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 7: but then.

576
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 6: That basic level of communication like have truths and it

577
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,959
Speaker 6: comes out to be bad.

578
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Speaker 3: Well, I'm thinking of what goes to my head is training,

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Speaker 3: Like like is there like a school training like certification,

637
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Speaker 3: Like what is it called? Like uh approved dom approved training?

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Speaker 6: We'll see the academy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do you need daddies have a dom academy? I

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Speaker 6: But I think so because a lot of times, like

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Speaker 6: it's just like with everything else, like when you get

643
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645
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646
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Speaker 6: I got fifty floggers anything, a knife, right, and a paddle,

647
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Speaker 6: and I'm you And so you can't be like I'm

648
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Speaker 6: just gonna do this and stay there. Like what if

649
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650
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Speaker 6: gonna learn that, You're just gonna.

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652
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Speaker 6: So I teach seminars where I teach people how to.

653
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Speaker 7: Do BDSM and domb stuff. But this is what you said.

654
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Speaker 6: It's confirmation that I really need to make it happen

655
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Speaker 6: because it's needed.

656
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Speaker 4: And then there's there's a community built around it.

657
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Speaker 2: And so if you go against those guidelines and you

658
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Speaker 2: are associated with you know, my my standards, then maybe

659
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Speaker 2: women will feel more safe because honestly, like I don't

660
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Speaker 2: know if I'm high, but at some point I'm like,

661
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Speaker 2: because I and how are all these relationships with the

662
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 2: sub are they sexual? And also like how do you

663
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Speaker 2: make it? Because it can resemble like a pimp and

664
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Speaker 2: a whole type of because because what I think of,

665
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Speaker 2: because if I'm listening to this episode and I'm not

666
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Speaker 2: lifestyle adjacent, and I'm thinking of like in general, in

667
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Speaker 2: traditional like the situations that we're familiar with, of like

668
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Speaker 2: women being manipulated by men. And then then you're saying,

669
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Speaker 2: when I was thinking, you're saying not shit. Yeah, like

670
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 2: if you're not shit, nigga, and you're manipulating a woman's

671
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 2: a woman's mind that you know is vulnerable in a way,

672
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 2: you know, which this happens all the time.

673
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 4: And then you're like, yeah, go do.

674
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: This for me, give me all your money, go do

675
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 2: this like that is such a manipulative manipulation of power.

676
00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 2: But in ways that person is dominating, and for a

677
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 2: lot of women, that is the most familiar relationship that

678
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 2: sounds that way, So they're probably thinking, like why the

679
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 2: fuck would I do that?

680
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 6: You know, so I'm gonna give I'm give an fy

681
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 6: to any of the submissives out there or either not

682
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 6: behaich I speak at gender wise, but men or women

683
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 6: out there who are in a submissive Right, here's the thing.

684
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 6: If you start something, if you start with gifts and

685
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 6: you start with tributes, then you can't fall off because

686
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 6: now what you're doing is like if you can if you.

687
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 7: Always send me money for my nails or just because.

688
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 6: Hey, what's up, I'm spoiled now, right right, But some

689
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 6: people really want to do that. So it's just like

690
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 6: in regular relationships, like you really have some women that

691
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 6: love giving men money, and vice versa. You have men

692
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 6: who really love giving women money, so and that pleases them.

693
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 7: So that's not a bad that's not a bad dynamic.

694
00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 6: To have because it doesn't have to be sexual, Like

695
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 6: all DS dynamics don't have to be sexual, right, But

696
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 6: at some point in time, depending on the relationship and

697
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 6: how it's constructed in the foundation, that has to be

698
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 6: something that you'll both agree on. I can't be like damn,

699
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 6: damn Erica. Then you find and we don't have some

700
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:23,479
Speaker 6: play scenes or whatever. And just because you're my sub,

701
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 6: don't mean that I'm worthy of your beautiful yoni or your.

702
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 7: Booty hole or yah it is beautiful, or or or

703
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 7: that beautiful mouth. You know what I mean, Jesus, I mean.

704
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:45,040
Speaker 6: This is my other side, like my shy, innocent bashtal

705
00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 6: signe him out, let me pray Lord to protect me.

706
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 3: What is your ideal sub?

707
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 7: I don't you know what.

708
00:34:56,920 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 6: I don't have an ideal sub. I don't have an

709
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:02,320
Speaker 6: idea like perfect thing.

710
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,399
Speaker 3: That you don't have, like like, well, you're five non

711
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 3: negotiables for your sub. You know they say that. They

712
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 3: say that people in relationships have like on average, five

713
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,319
Speaker 3: non negotiables when they're looking for a partner, like whether

714
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 3: that's I must have money, you know, it's fun or

715
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 3: it's successful. Paul has a big dick. I don't know.

716
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 3: The list goes on.

717
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 6: All right, Okay, his his one. I don't desire a

718
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 6: so it doesn't have money, And I'm just saying this

719
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 6: period like just in your regular life, it's not appealing.

720
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 7: Like you don't have no money.

721
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, broke up, right.

722
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 7: And that's I'm not knocking.

723
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 3: Well, Oh my god, I just thought of a rap song,

724
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 3: we don't do no like broke subs. I just heard it.

725
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 3: Where's the verse?

726
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 6: So that's important because you know, like it's it can't

727
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 6: it can't just be just like can't be give, give give,

728
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 6: It can't always be like receive has We have to

729
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 6: have some ballance here, So definitely not they broke up

730
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 6: a submissive who has no money, Okay, who's struggling financially, right,

731
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 6: But you know, I'm saying that there's different levels to it.

732
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 6: But like if you don't have no money.

733
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's that's one of yours. Because I

734
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:22,439
Speaker 3: feel like maybe there's a dom out there that really

735
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 3: likes a bitch with no money, like you feel good

736
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,959
Speaker 3: to provide and step in and.

737
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 7: I got this broke thing.

738
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, if I feture, you're gonna be real happy if

739
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 3: I If I don't, you don't eat like the control?

740
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 7: Yes, you know you like that that sounds good.

741
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:39,879
Speaker 4: Reconsidered us.

742
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 3: You don't eat tonight because I'm not that sad. Don't

743
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: do that ship you ain't got no pussy none, I

744
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 3: must eat.

745
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:52,759
Speaker 7: Yeah, you got to.

746
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:57,479
Speaker 6: Keep the sub happy at some point. Reward them.

747
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 3: How do you reward them?

748
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 6: It could be any type of impact they want or

749
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 6: maybe they maybe they want like pussy grab or something.

750
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: Wow.

751
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 4: Maybe I just thought of something. I mean, yeah, like

752
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 4: a firm like yeah, like does feel good?

753
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,880
Speaker 3: It's like, hey, that needs to happen more often.

754
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so. It's like a grounding.

755
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 7: Firm, bring bringing to me? Yes, make pussy grabbers great again?

756
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 4: Wow, bring back?

757
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 5: Wow.

758
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 3: That's the problem.

759
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 7: Honestly, I want to I want to sub.

760
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:54,400
Speaker 6: Who is who is willing to do the work? H

761
00:37:54,760 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 6: r who's willing to like go deep with then? And

762
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, you know, trust in the

763
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 6: process and not fight it.

764
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: What do you think, Like what if someone's sitting in

765
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: the car on this saying, am I a sub?

766
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 5: You know?

767
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 4: What are some three things to know that maybe you're

768
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 4: seeking it?

769
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 7: Dumb? Oh?

770
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? Like am I a true sub? I wonder I

771
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 3: wanted not like what what? What is there like a

772
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 3: level of subness that categorizes you as like a true sub.

773
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 7: Well okay, so.

774
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 6: Like, would you like someone who audio your food for

775
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 6: you and audio like now you'll tell them.

776
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 4: What you want like cut.

777
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 3: It almost gave me anxiety because I was like, wait,

778
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 3: do I get to let him know first the order?

779
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 6: But you could say it want the other thing like

780
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 6: you you're allergend enough, and they'd be like, we can

781
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 6: get some of this pad time for her.

782
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 7: It's like.

783
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 6: Sir you yeah.

784
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:04,879
Speaker 7: All right?

785
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:06,879
Speaker 3: So but yeah, I mean I think yes, that would

786
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 3: be I think me Andmela that's a yes. So with

787
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 3: we have that's step step number one, you notice.

788
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 4: But it's so strange. I would like that.

789
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: But I remember, like as a waitress, when I would

790
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: see women like that, I would be like.

791
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 4: What the fuck is wrong with her? Why is not talking?

792
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 4: Like bitch? Okay, I can't you.

793
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 3: Healed?

794
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:27,399
Speaker 4: But I would if someone going to order my food,

795
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 4: I'm with it.

796
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 7: What about oh man, just that's what happens when.

797
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 4: You have forgot what they haven't all the time.

798
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 7: Nowhere I get it. What about you're tired of just

799
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 7: always being in control?

800
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 3: Yeah that's me sexually. I'm submissive because I'm I'm control

801
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 3: freaking my everyday life so so sexually, like I want

802
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:49,919
Speaker 3: to be like on the way over here, my nigger

803
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 3: was like, what did you say? He said, you called

804
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 3: me basically a hoe and and but was like, but

805
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,600
Speaker 3: he said, I'm his little home. And I was like,

806
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 3: stop talk respect me like this. I was like, how

807
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 3: dare you?

808
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 7: How?

809
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 3: Why do I disrespect me? Because I know he's not

810
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 3: disrespecting me, because I know he cares for me. But

811
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 3: there's something about being disrespected as someone who it's a

812
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 3: requirement for you to respect me to be in my

813
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 3: presence that sexually, When that happens, it's like I love

814
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 3: that shit, you know I do. I actually like need it.

815
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 3: I didn't. I don't think I could be with a

816
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,280
Speaker 3: partner who didn't give me that sometimes a lot of times.

817
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 4: Okay, right, yeah for sure, Yeah I can. I agree

818
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:30,879
Speaker 4: with that.

819
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 6: So those two qualities my candidate for some Yes, I am, yes,

820
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:36,879
Speaker 6: thank you.

821
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 4: I knew it. Yeah, I think you knew I did.

822
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 3: I just had to confirm though. I have a real

823
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 3: dom here and I am sub certified. I do hear

824
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 3: that verified check MARKO. I'm gonna put it in my

825
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put it in my bio certified sube. I'm a certified.

826
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 4: Sub put it in your bio for ninety ninety.

827
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna work out my rap song. Ain't no

828
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 3: brooks ups and brookes up to here, bitch, brokes up

829
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 3: to here, bitch. We don't do that broke shit because

830
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 3: we are subservient. Listen, it's gotta flush it out coming.

831
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 3: We need to get maybe better like on Spotify.

832
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, I'm high to you guys.

833
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 3: Okay, so listen, it's my bitch's birthday. Yes, what are

834
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 3: we going to do for her birthday?

835
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 9: Like?

836
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 3: What my love like? Actually, I don't even want her

837
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:37,160
Speaker 3: to choose. I want you to choose, because that's that's

838
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 3: what I feel like should happen. Because she's a real sub.

839
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:40,759
Speaker 7: I know what.

840
00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 6: She has a little scugarl outfit on, and she could

841
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 6: just be bent over right here, and I can choke

842
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 6: her and lift her skirt up.

843
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 7: I have to lift your skirt up.

844
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 4: You can lift up a little you can lift up

845
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 4: a little bit, Daddy, have girl?

846
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 3: I approve.

847
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 2: Okay, well, this seems seems appropriate. So should I come

848
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 2: over there?

849
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 3: All right?

850
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 7: Takes the water, get hydrated myself?

851
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 4: Oh my god, speaking of hydration, have you, guys heard

852
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 4: of those flint mints?

853
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 3: Did you? Did you put it in and it worked?

854
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 4: This is not an ad. There's these new mints. If

855
00:42:29,280 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 4: you have dry mouth, it makes mhm am I knocking

856
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:35,399
Speaker 4: anything over?

857
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 3: Can we see it's the camera. It's very this is

858
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 3: very crucial, tailor. Can we see all these.

859
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 4: I wore like adult panties so we wouldn't get flagged.

860
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 3: Let me get on one second.

861
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 4: Is very important, Lily rely m hm. I'm nervous.

862
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:00,959
Speaker 3: I get to look her right in the eyes.

863
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 4: Guys, this is very sexual.

864
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 7: Such a nice ass spanking.

865
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 4: Mm hmm. If you sent to spanking, you have your

866
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 4: MI consent to daddy as m h m hmmm mm hmm.

867
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 7: Just squeak ass.

868
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:29,959
Speaker 4: Yes, my concent.

869
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 7: Dig my nails in just a little man.

870
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 4: Please do.

871
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 7: Like this?

872
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 4: H that's just right, yes, m h.

873
00:43:54,840 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 8: M mm hmm mh like that mm hmmm. A squeezes

874
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 8: like I do, write it through, yes do.

875
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:28,840
Speaker 7: Mm hmm.

876
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:31,879
Speaker 3: Yes, study.

877
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm.

878
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 5: Mm hm.

879
00:44:51,120 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 3: She said she's lifestyle adjacent, bitch. H I see what

880
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 3: you're doing there. It's that muscle right there, because I

881
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 3: know what it feels like when that's sweete.

882
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 8: Mm hmm.

883
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 3: If you want to teach your nigga how to spank,

884
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:23,280
Speaker 3: you should join YouTube and watch this right now. Because

885
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 3: I'm jealous a little bit.

886
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 4: Remember that time of the sex party, guys, give you

887
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 4: for her massage and I had to watch.

888
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 3: This revenge.

889
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 7: Too much talk.

890
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, sorry.

891
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 7: Want me to stop, want me to send you back

892
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 7: to your chair? Sure, get it right, get your ship.

893
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 5: Oh oh.

894
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 3: Oh oh ship, Oh happy birthday.

895
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:30,760
Speaker 4: Wow, that was really nice.

896
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 8: Mm hmmm.

897
00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 5: Mm hm.

898
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 3: After care is important, you guys, mm hm m hm

899
00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 3: mm hmmm.

900
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 8: Mm hmmm mm hmmm.

901
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 3: M hm.

902
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 7: M hmmmm.

903
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:29,760
Speaker 4: Thank you.

904
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 3: That was so beautiful. I love that. You know what

905
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 3: I made me think of one time me and Jamila

906
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,919
Speaker 3: did mushrooms in the desert and she said she wanted

907
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 3: to be carried like a little baby, and I got that.

908
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 3: I felt like I in that moment. It was like

909
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:47,840
Speaker 3: the healthy version of that.

910
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,879
Speaker 4: Oh I thought about that too, like quickly.

911
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, like feeling safe and cared for after you know,

912
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 3: something vulnerable like that. So that was beautiful. Thank you

913
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 3: for taking my wife welcome.

914
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,560
Speaker 4: Wow, that was really beautiful. Thank you, welcome my pleasure.

915
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:10,080
Speaker 4: That was wonderful. Why I didn't know I needed that.

916
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:15,840
Speaker 2: At first, I was nervous and then I just went away, wow,

917
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 2: you do you have a power. That's some tantric a

918
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,919
Speaker 2: ship wow, and.

919
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,919
Speaker 6: So really for me, just because I remember the first time,

920
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 6: like I was having sex during my younger bashful days

921
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 6: and I.

922
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 7: Remember rubbing my hand over woman's skin and she was like,

923
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 7: please stop touching me. I was like, I wasn't touching

924
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 7: it with my hands, Like oh wow. So one of

925
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:46,280
Speaker 7: my one of my soul brothers.

926
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:47,440
Speaker 4: Said, you're just touching like closely.

927
00:48:47,560 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 6: Yeah, like like so energy right, So let me see

928
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 6: your hand, so you feel that, so but now you

929
00:48:58,000 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 6: keep your hand there.

930
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:06,760
Speaker 7: Oh hold up, wait a minute, mm hmm.

931
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 6: Okay, so what i'm your energy is projecting all the

932
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 6: way out here.

933
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 7: Oh my god, it's delicious.

934
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm. No, no, oh that's crazy.

935
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 2: That's powerful because I didn't feel you here, but when

936
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 2: you came here, and then when I focused on it,

937
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 2: then I fail you.

938
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 4: But when you come closer, I felt.

939
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 6: It so like man said to touch your leg. Yeah,

940
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 6: so I was doing this. I was rubbing like this.

941
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 6: After she after we had sex shoes, she climax and then.

942
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 7: She was like, I feel like you're touching me. I

943
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 7: was like, oh shit.

944
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 6: So I was sort of telling him about it years ago.

945
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 6: He was like, oh man, that's some contra stuff. I

946
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 6: was like, really, I didn't really know what I was doing.

947
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 6: Like so so for me, even when I spank, like

948
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,200
Speaker 6: left hand is always receiving, so I'm built for this.

949
00:49:56,320 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 6: So I'm receiving the energy circulating around up and out.

950
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 6: It's healing projection. So even though I'm spanking or whole

951
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 6: squeezing the assving, I'm projecting love.

952
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:14,080
Speaker 3: It's like like love.

953
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 7: Yes, So when I'm squeezing her neck with my right hand,

954
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 7: I'm projecting love and.

955
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 4: All that drownded.

956
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:26,879
Speaker 3: I felt that, and you know, I think so many

957
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 3: people don't have sex with that, like with even knowing,

958
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 3: like everyone possesses this ability, you know, to like be

959
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 3: able to feel energy and move it around, but like

960
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,680
Speaker 3: when you're that intentional, like in the sex, because I

961
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:43,359
Speaker 3: think a lot of times sex is just surrounded by

962
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 3: like climax, like getting to the pleasure, getting to the release,

963
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 3: instead of like really enjoying the whole experience and energy exchange.

964
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 8: You know.

965
00:50:54,760 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 4: Morning yeah, me too.

966
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,479
Speaker 2: While now I really you know, as a birthday gift

967
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 2: to myself. I'm going to Tantric certification by the Authentic

968
00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 2: School of Tantra, so it seems appropriate and I feel

969
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:18,320
Speaker 2: aligned even more. And I'm really excited for their journey

970
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:22,840
Speaker 2: and to explore that because that's really powerful and be

971
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:24,239
Speaker 2: more lifestyle, a jacent.

972
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 3: The lifestyle.

973
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 5: Girl.

974
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:29,840
Speaker 3: You went initiator, you went to the School of Daddy.

975
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 3: Have it happened tonight? This was your first client.

976
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 4: Perfect. I'm on my way, but yeah, thank you so

977
00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 4: much for that experience and for coming on the show

978
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:43,240
Speaker 4: and educating us.

979
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:50,200
Speaker 3: Before we leave. You guys, I wouldn't be proper wife

980
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:51,040
Speaker 3: than I am.

981
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:56,600
Speaker 2: She's you know what, this is my fucking wife. How

982
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 2: it's going to be so hard hard as like my

983
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 2: husband because my wife treats me so well. We have

984
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:10,720
Speaker 2: a bank account together, we have two bank accounts together,

985
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 2: we raise kids together, you know, and it's my birthday.

986
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 2: But I'm so also thankful for you being my wife

987
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 2: and my friend and all of the things, like this

988
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 2: is such a special relationship. And the more you can

989
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 2: read my mind, the more it's confirm that, Wow, this

990
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 2: is fucking crazy really in my head, and I love you.

991
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 4: A're you gonna sing, I love you too, bitch.

992
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:43,200
Speaker 10: Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday, so beautiful. Happy birthday,

993
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 10: Miss Jamila, Happy birthday.

994
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 4: I'm dling soon because it's so beautiful.

995
00:52:53,920 --> 00:53:04,240
Speaker 3: You're twenty four. Okay. What is your birthday wish? Besides

996
00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 3: daddy half that such.

997
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 4: A good one. My birthday wish is for an endless

998
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 4: well of healthy love, peace, success, protection, just abundance and

999
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:21,319
Speaker 4: peace and attracting beautiful things and all forms, and experiencing

1000
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 4: pleasure and all forms with beautiful people that are aligned

1001
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 4: and growing and healing.

1002
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:41,280
Speaker 9: Yes, yay, it's a bad bitch's birthdays.

1003
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 4: So we have an album.

1004
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 3: My album is dropping any moment.

1005
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:56,720
Speaker 4: Do you have an affirmation for us today?

1006
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 6: Yes, every day and every way. I'm getting better and better.

1007
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:05,840
Speaker 3: Every day in every way, I'm getting better and better.

1008
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 4: I know that's the fuck right. Every day gets stronger,

1009
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:15,520
Speaker 4: more witchy, more powerful. We pulled a card today. Earlier

1010
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 4: pulled two cards.

1011
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 3: This is a first. This i'd be a Tarot card.

1012
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:23,720
Speaker 4: First they were stuck together, so let's see.

1013
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 7: Initially when I had them to it was the one.

1014
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 4: Card it was, and there was one behind. The one

1015
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 4: in front was the five of cups, which is a

1016
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,720
Speaker 4: very interesting looking cut. I mean because the man looks

1017
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 4: cloaked and he's away from us, he's facing water. I

1018
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 4: know cups are sometimes about emotion.

1019
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 7: Okay.

1020
00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 2: The Five of Cups often appears in a tarot reading

1021
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 2: when a situation hasn't turned out the way you expected

1022
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:53,439
Speaker 2: and you are sad, regretful, and disappointed. Instead of moving

1023
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 2: on with your life, you're choosing to wallow and self pity.

1024
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:57,320
Speaker 3: Allow.

1025
00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 2: All you can focus on right now is what went

1026
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 2: wrong and how you failed. Sweetheart, it's time to get

1027
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 2: over it. Sure feels, Sure, feel the feels, but set

1028
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,919
Speaker 2: yourself a time limit for yourself pity and then pull

1029
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 2: yourself together and move on. It suggests you're stuck in

1030
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 2: the past and can't let go. Does this resonate with you?

1031
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:21,319
Speaker 2: Forgiveness is vital with the Five of Cups, both of

1032
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 2: yourself and others. If someone has disappointed you, find it

1033
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 2: within your heart to forgive that person, releasing yourself from

1034
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 2: the disappointment. And if you're frustrated with yourself, know that

1035
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 2: you did the best that you could under the circumstances,

1036
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 2: and now you've learned from your mistakes. Okay it do

1037
00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 2: you feel like it relates to the own ways. Okay,

1038
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 2: I don't know you know what you're going through personally,

1039
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 2: but it says remember too that in hindsight is much

1040
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:52,839
Speaker 2: clearer than foresight, and wisdom in the present moment comes

1041
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 2: from the mistakes of the past. Reflect on what led

1042
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 2: you to this point and understand what valuable lessons you

1043
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 2: can take from the experience. Even when things go pear shaped,

1044
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 2: you can always take away something positive by reflecting on

1045
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 2: the learned lessons, and it shows that things even though

1046
00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:11,359
Speaker 2: things aren't going your way, new opportunities and possibilities are

1047
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:15,680
Speaker 2: waiting for you, but only when you are ready. And

1048
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 2: then you got the High Priestess. So the High Priestess

1049
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 2: is the magician. Oh look at that on the cusp

1050
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,320
Speaker 2: of magic. While the magician is the guardian of the

1051
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,920
Speaker 2: conscious mind and the tangible world, the High Priestess is

1052
00:56:29,960 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 2: the guardian of the subconscious mind and the teacher of

1053
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 2: sacred knowledge and hidden mysteries. Sitting at the threshold of

1054
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 2: conscious and subconscious mind, the High Priestess has an innate

1055
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 2: ability to travel between these realms effortlessly. She teaches you

1056
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 2: that the world is not always set as it seems,

1057
00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,440
Speaker 2: and more profound influences are often at play. She ushers

1058
00:56:52,480 --> 00:56:55,320
Speaker 2: you through the veil of awareness, offering you deep intuitive

1059
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 2: understanding of the universe and a high ended awareness of

1060
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:03,279
Speaker 2: secret or hidden information. The High Priestess signifies spiritual enlightenment,

1061
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:06,880
Speaker 2: inner illumination, divine knowledge, and wisdom. She shows up in

1062
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:08,920
Speaker 2: the Tarit readings when the veil between you and the

1063
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 2: underworld is thin and you have the opportunity to access

1064
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:15,320
Speaker 2: the knowledge deep within your soul. Now is the time

1065
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 2: to be still so you can tune into the intuition.

1066
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 2: The answers you're seeking will come from within. I think

1067
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 2: it's very interesting that we pulled this cups first and

1068
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 2: what was behind was the High Priestess, because it seems

1069
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 2: like whatever you want to release or forgive, there's something

1070
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 2: right behind it, Like literally that is so fucking aligned

1071
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 2: and so fucking spiritual, and it's like right there.

1072
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 3: That's calling you to be still and trust yourself.

1073
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 4: So wow, wow, sir, I don't know if that's accurate.

1074
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 7: But I'm gonna be still and trust myself.

1075
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:56,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is quite the episode.

1076
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:00,120
Speaker 7: Happy I could make it that way.

1077
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:01,920
Speaker 4: Yes, I thank you for coming.

1078
00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,920
Speaker 7: You guys, it's the first time you've gotten spanked on camera.

1079
00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 2: I got a little spanked once on camera, but that

1080
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 2: was that was the most spanked I ever got on camera.

1081
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:19,919
Speaker 2: That who that's for only fans, Oh my goodness. Tell

1082
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:21,120
Speaker 2: the people where they can find you.

1083
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 7: Well on Twitter, I think I'm like Shadow Band everywhere.

1084
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:26,000
Speaker 7: I have no idea.

1085
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:29,520
Speaker 6: So Twitter's daddy underscore health trust mean you got it.

1086
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 6: It's hard to find than on Instagram. King Helf's h

1087
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 6: g ffs and then you have Pink Heafs and Black Heaf's.

1088
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 4: And those are the treats.

1089
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:41,920
Speaker 3: And we'll make sure to leave his info in this

1090
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 3: week's episode description. You know where to find us. Good

1091
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 3: Mom's Bad Choices on all podcast platforms, Good Mom's Underscore

1092
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 3: Bad Choices on Instagram.

1093
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 2: Go to Patreon to see the uncensored version of this

1094
00:58:54,560 --> 00:59:00,440
Speaker 2: episode and also join the retreat. It's like it's it's

1095
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 2: probably sold out, so hopefully you've got you got in

1096
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 2: and we'll see you later.

1097
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,920
Speaker 4: Bye bye, m.

1098
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 1: M m m mm hmmm