WEBVTT - GECKS AND DOGS

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Is this is this Kaitlin.

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor? Yes, it is Kaylin.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you Kaitlin?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh good? You know you are a hard wizard to

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<v Speaker 2>get in contact with. I had to call it them

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<v Speaker 2>like two hundred times.

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<v Speaker 1>You called two hundred times. You said I had you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Well, isn't it Kayla?

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<v Speaker 1>If you Kaitlin, Kayla, Kaitlin. You know what's annoying about

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<v Speaker 1>your name is that it's so close to being Caitlin,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not, and it's not Kaylen. It's like something

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<v Speaker 1>in It's like Kayla and Caitlin divided by two. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Kayla plus Caitlin divided by two the average of those two.

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<v Speaker 1>And that bothers me. I wish it was just one

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<v Speaker 1>of them, But what what is it? One more time

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<v Speaker 1>and all internalize.

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<v Speaker 2>It forever, like and klan.

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<v Speaker 1>So she called two hundred times, and I assume if

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<v Speaker 1>you call two hundred times, there there is something that

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. So I really just need some petty

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<v Speaker 2>advice kind of m So I was pregnant, I was

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<v Speaker 2>dating this boy and a week before I had my baby.

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<v Speaker 2>She's on me and kicked me out, and so then

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<v Speaker 2>I was nice enough. I allowed him to be there

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<v Speaker 2>while I gave birth. In the whole time, I laid

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<v Speaker 2>up all night and watched him snapchat his new girlfriend

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<v Speaker 2>back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was hold on, hold.

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<v Speaker 3>On, so he was.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was in the room in the hot with

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital room. Yes to tufe it away from you

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<v Speaker 1>snapchat and his new girl. Yes, did he do any

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<v Speaker 1>did he do anything to like in any way, shape

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<v Speaker 1>or for I'm like, help you through the process of

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<v Speaker 1>of the pregnancy.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, we were together the whole pregnancy until a week

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<v Speaker 2>before I had the baby.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, so continue to continue with you with

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<v Speaker 1>your story.

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<v Speaker 2>So his new girlfriend is pregnant, but it's not his

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<v Speaker 2>it's her husband. So she left her husband the day

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<v Speaker 2>he left me and moved into his house to day

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<v Speaker 2>that I sent stuff out. So and I've been like

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<v Speaker 2>trying to think, like I don't know, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I've been really laid back about the whole ado. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>Like the pettiest thing I did when I moved out

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<v Speaker 2>was stole I. He had a bucket of change, and

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<v Speaker 2>I took the bucket of change with me and the

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<v Speaker 2>living room coffee table, so like I could have done,

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<v Speaker 2>and now I I don't know, he doesn't do anything

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<v Speaker 2>to help, and then he wants to sit and then,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, just like he wants to act like he's

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<v Speaker 2>such a good dad. It just makes me mad, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I try to piss him off as much as possible,

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<v Speaker 2>which isn't good and I shouldn't do that. I know that.

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<v Speaker 1>You say you try to piss him off as much

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<v Speaker 1>as possible. Besides stealing seventy cents in change and a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee table, what do you do to piss him What

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<v Speaker 1>other things do you do to try to piss him off?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay? Like, so, my son has his last name and

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<v Speaker 2>the other day I just texted him out of nowhere

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<v Speaker 2>and was like, so I think I'm gonna change his

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<v Speaker 2>last name to mine. Just little things like that, like

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<v Speaker 2>I know would make him angry.

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<v Speaker 1>And are you actually going to do that? Were you

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<v Speaker 1>just doing that or just telling him?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm just doing it. I'm just trying to pis

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<v Speaker 2>him off. He called me immediately and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not only gonna do it, I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>make you mad, and he's like, you're ignorant.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I don't know what. I don't know, please continue.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's it, Like, I just I need to know

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<v Speaker 2>what I can do.

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<v Speaker 1>You say you need to know what you can do?

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<v Speaker 1>So well, i'm hearing from you. You're saying that you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you've been well. Well, this is very interesting

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<v Speaker 1>to me because you're saying to me that you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you've been pretty chill despite the you know, craziness

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<v Speaker 1>of the situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Like, I feel like i've been I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>try to. I don't know. He just makes me so

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<v Speaker 2>mad all the time, and I just want I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on with this dog? My dog?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, she's so bad. Her name's Macie. She's in yelling

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>She's in what.

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<v Speaker 2>She's been dogs yelling right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh good. She sounds like, UH say that she did something.

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<v Speaker 1>I hear her. I hear her barks, translating into I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't do it, but I know she did.

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<v Speaker 2>She's so bad. She does everything. She choos up all

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<v Speaker 2>my son's toys.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you feel like you so like so like

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<v Speaker 1>the are you conflicted?

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<v Speaker 3>Here?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you like thinking you've been too chill?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I really have, Like that's what I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I've been bee chill and I want

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<v Speaker 2>to not be too chill like he's been.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you well, why what do you mean? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean? Why? Why do you say that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to not be chill? That dog gets some lunch.

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<v Speaker 2>That's weird. That is a weird thing to say that

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be chill. I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 2>just I feel like being petty. I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel like being petty. Well to me, so I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like there's a sort of like peace. Well, you

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<v Speaker 1>sound like you're It sounds like it's it's good that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be petty, right, because typically if

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<v Speaker 1>you're going out of your way to like get revenge

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<v Speaker 1>on people or piss people off, it like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of it is like at your own expense in a way,

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<v Speaker 1>because they're as as people like to say, uh, living

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<v Speaker 1>in your head of rent free. But it doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>like uh sounds like it's a good thing that you've

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<v Speaker 1>been chill about this situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it is. I don't know. Maybe I'm just angry.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a place that you could talk with where

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<v Speaker 1>the door the dog is not there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, hold on, So okay? Is that better?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's way better. Okay, So so you what do

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<v Speaker 1>you like want to not be chilled? Like, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling conflicted about?

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I think today we just had a conversation

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<v Speaker 2>and it made me really angry and then so like

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<v Speaker 2>I was just I don't know, and so now I'm

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<v Speaker 2>upset with him and I'm like, I just want to

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<v Speaker 2>be ignorant, but I'm not really that ignorant of a person.

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<v Speaker 2>So like I can't thinking I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You well, I saw it do but like I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I I I almost feel like, well, listen, if you're

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<v Speaker 1>going about your life in a way that is like

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<v Speaker 1>peaceful for you, I don't know why you're why you

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<v Speaker 1>feel this desire to to to want to be angry right,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're chilling, You got your dog, your son, you're

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<v Speaker 1>like your move you're sort of I'm not I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put words in your mouth and say that you've

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<v Speaker 1>moved on because I don't know, but like you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>you're living your life. You're on the path to moving on.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh sounds like fucking faster than a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>on average would. Uh would do you know? So I

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<v Speaker 1>I I'm I don't know. I think I think it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds to me like you're handling this in a good way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, probably, But I don't know. I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just angry today honestly at him, because I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>because some days I'm just angry at him.

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<v Speaker 1>How often do you do you, like, uh, interact with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Even not very often, maybe like three or four times

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<v Speaker 2>a month?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And are you going out and trying to to

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<v Speaker 1>meet someone new or are you focusing on Oh so

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<v Speaker 1>you have a boyfriend already?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, okay, well shit, I mean you you you have

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<v Speaker 1>a new relationship, you got your kid, you get the dog.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you're like four dogs. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you you you're you're sort of like quickly

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<v Speaker 1>moving up and onwards with your life. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's good, right because pettiness, to me, like being

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<v Speaker 1>petty and going out in secret revenge just means that

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<v Speaker 1>like the feelings that that you have of rage are like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, still boiling and influencing you and and and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but uh, I mean, I don't know. I like the

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<v Speaker 1>strategy you've taken on with this, you know, just fucking

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<v Speaker 1>moving on with your life. Yeah, okay, next, Caitlin.

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<v Speaker 2>What's next for me? I applied to college. Actually, next,

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<v Speaker 2>what's next for me?

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<v Speaker 1>Perfect? Listen, the best revenge is life well lived, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then keep living life well, Kaitlin.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think maybe I just needed to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>it beautiful, and I feel it does feel better.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I hope you.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that your dog. Uh. I don't know. You

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<v Speaker 1>can get some horse tranquilizer for that guy. He definitely

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<v Speaker 1>needs something. You know, you can give dogs like I

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<v Speaker 1>started like vets who like prescribe like xanax and weed

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<v Speaker 1>to dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Actually, so she is super hyper and no joke.

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<v Speaker 2>When she was little, she would just like randomly wake up,

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<v Speaker 2>like two o'clock in the morning and start chasing her jail.

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<v Speaker 2>So I used to give her beIN a drill when

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<v Speaker 2>I would go to bed. That way she would sleep

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<v Speaker 2>through the night, which I know sounds terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>But if not, she was that is that veterinarian recommended.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, dog's gonna have a drill.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I don't know. I was just joking when I

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<v Speaker 1>said to give your dogs annex and weed. I've fucking

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. I don't. I don't endorse. I don't endorse

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<v Speaker 1>taking my advice on anything about what to give to

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<v Speaker 1>your dog. All right, well you say that one, Klein. Huh,

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<v Speaker 1>have a good night, Klen. Thank you for calling too.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone in the chat said that it's that it is safe,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, I'm gonna add on to what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't endorse taking my advice on, uh, what to

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<v Speaker 1>give your dog. Don't endorse giving Uh, I don't endorse

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<v Speaker 1>taking the advice of a random Twitch commentator on what

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<v Speaker 1>you should to your dog. And yeah, I have no

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<v Speaker 1>idea give your dog dog's like cheese. I think give

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<v Speaker 1>your dog some parmesan cheese. Soon asked why I hate dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't hate dogs. I just hated I don't hate dogs.

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<v Speaker 1>I just hated that dog for I hated that dog

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<v Speaker 1>for that specific period of time, for one specific reason.

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<v Speaker 1>My hatred was very pointed, explained and specific toward that

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<v Speaker 1>one dog for that one purpose at that one time.

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<v Speaker 1>And now that time is over and the purpose is over,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm never gonna see that dog ever again. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't care what happens to it. Not

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<v Speaker 1>in like a bad. I don't. I don't wish it harm,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't. It's not I'm not gonna follow up

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<v Speaker 1>to know what happened to it in the future, which

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<v Speaker 1>is fair because why would I have no attachment to

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<v Speaker 1>the dog. Let's take a phone call. Hello, we have Bono,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty eight years old from Florida. That's me. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do a radio thing. But by saying your your

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<v Speaker 1>age and where you're calling from and your name in

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<v Speaker 1>like that way, what do you think about that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Man, is this really the gecko?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this really Bono?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>It is.

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<v Speaker 5>Man. That is great to hear you. Man, I've been

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<v Speaker 5>listening to you every day for eight hours when I

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<v Speaker 5>do my landscape being on spot.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and this is fucking.

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<v Speaker 5>Amazing that you answered. And it is my week vacation,

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<v Speaker 5>so it makes it even not much better?

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<v Speaker 1>Is your week vacation?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I took a whole week off the work man.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, I'm honored to be a part of this

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<v Speaker 1>valuable time that you're spending. Am I on the speakerphone

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Bono?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I could take you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, take me off the speakerphone. It's easy to hear

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<v Speaker 1>you on speak Yeah, there we go.

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<v Speaker 5>I tak get off.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, beautiful, beautiful, bino. What's going on? Tell me everything?

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me nothing.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I mean I took a week off vacation. I

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<v Speaker 5>had a job interview last week, didn't get the job,

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<v Speaker 5>but happy that I got to talk to you. So

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<v Speaker 5>I mean it's a win win in my situation. And

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a vacation so I couldn't be happier.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess is there anything in particular that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about by him?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean there was a I mean I was telling

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<v Speaker 5>my old lady the other day that it was kind

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<v Speaker 5>of weird how when I was younger when a juvie

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<v Speaker 5>about five or six times, and ever since I turned eighteen,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm actually on the opposite side of the law. So

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<v Speaker 5>now I do like security, cut grass and sell fire.

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<v Speaker 5>So so that I was just kind of a weird

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<v Speaker 5>change that I did.

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<v Speaker 1>M hm. So you werean out of juvi, I guess.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I had have been like over ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Yeah, it was when I was in my younger age.

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<v Speaker 1>H And do you feel like you sort of learned

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<v Speaker 1>learned a lot from that experience?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean as I got older, I said Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>you kind of where you know, the younger guys are,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, prison is where the big boys are, so

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<v Speaker 5>you kind of don't want to end up going there.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's either turn your life around or keep going

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<v Speaker 5>a big pass. So decided to turn it around.

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<v Speaker 1>And you said you went multiple times. You said you

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<v Speaker 1>went like six times, do you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 7>I went?

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<v Speaker 5>First time, I got fourteen charges stood on note of

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<v Speaker 5>this day. Why my mom has all my paperwork somewhere,

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<v Speaker 5>so I haven't really got into it. And then the

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<v Speaker 5>second time was because I've been in a follow the roads,

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<v Speaker 5>I guess in probation, so I got sent back again.

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<v Speaker 5>Third time was just for a different charge that I had.

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<v Speaker 7>M hm.

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<v Speaker 1>So like when you went to Juvie, I'm curious, I

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<v Speaker 1>know this is a long time ago, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to just focus on the bad stuff because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to I want to sort of like hear about

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<v Speaker 1>the the flip that you're telling me about right now,

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<v Speaker 1>how you sort of you know, got on the other

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<v Speaker 1>side into security. But so you started out so so

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<v Speaker 1>apparently the first couple of times you went, was it

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<v Speaker 1>not awful enough to like prevent you from ever wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to go back.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, it wasn't that bad because I've been an arternative

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<v Speaker 5>school when I was younger. So I got kicked out

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<v Speaker 5>of my regular school and went to an alternative school

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<v Speaker 5>and it was basically just like a juvie, just without

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<v Speaker 5>the walls. I guess. So first two times didn't really

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<v Speaker 5>affect anything, but as I got to the thirty and

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<v Speaker 5>four ORF, I was like, I'm getting older, the charge

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<v Speaker 5>are going to be a bit bigger, and they're charging

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<v Speaker 5>people as adults now. So it's one of those things

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<v Speaker 5>that you're just gonna have to change before it gets

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<v Speaker 5>worse here.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then what set you back for the fifth

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<v Speaker 1>and sixth time, I guess let's.

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<v Speaker 5>Just say I was selling stuff that I wasn't too,

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<v Speaker 5>so I ended up getting charged for that. Well, I

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<v Speaker 5>got kicked out of school at first, right, and got

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<v Speaker 5>charged for it, and then got kicked out of the state.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, but so then, oh, you got kicked out of.

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<v Speaker 5>The state, Yeah, the whole state. They gave me twenty

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<v Speaker 5>four hours to leave the state. If I didn't leave,

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<v Speaker 5>I was either going to go to a foster home

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<v Speaker 5>for juvie for about a year or two till I

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<v Speaker 5>turned eighteen or a prison. So I left the left

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<v Speaker 5>about two hours later after they told me that.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I didn't even know. I didn't even know that

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<v Speaker 1>you could be banned from a state.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, you should have seen how I surprised my

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<v Speaker 5>family was. But I mean, that's the quickest ticket, o't

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<v Speaker 5>And I don't like planes, so I kind of don't

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<v Speaker 5>remember being on the plane half the time, because yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I was just too terrified to even realized I was

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<v Speaker 5>on the plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you Were you terrified of being on the plane?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you terrified of.

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<v Speaker 5>Leaving being on the plane? I actually wanted to come

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<v Speaker 5>back to my state because I didn't really like it

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<v Speaker 5>up there anymore, so I kind of wanted to just

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<v Speaker 5>come back. It was more of a country life over

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<v Speaker 5>there where I was instead of being in the city.

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<v Speaker 5>So I kind of wanted to come back to the

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<v Speaker 5>city life.

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<v Speaker 1>Mh. And are you still banned from this state? How

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<v Speaker 1>long does this ban last?

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<v Speaker 5>No, it was just a year banned, So I'm good

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<v Speaker 5>to go back and forth as I please now. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I was pretty shocked that they can actually kick you

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<v Speaker 5>out the whole stae.

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<v Speaker 1>How did your family react when you had to leave?

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<v Speaker 5>They just told me to go home and pack my

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<v Speaker 5>bags and get the quickest ticket I can and we

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<v Speaker 5>left a couple hours later.

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<v Speaker 7>M hm.

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<v Speaker 1>So all right, so you got kicked out of school

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<v Speaker 1>and you had to leave the States, but you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go You didn't end up going back to juvie? What what? So? What?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you like? What was your next sort of

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<v Speaker 1>move after that?

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<v Speaker 5>Basically I was already getting to that age where are

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<v Speaker 5>a team, So chargers are not as small as they

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<v Speaker 5>were when you were a teenager. So I decided to

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<v Speaker 5>take the right path because I didn't want to go

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<v Speaker 5>to the prison. And that's when I started changing up

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<v Speaker 5>and doing better.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, did you get like a gig of some

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<v Speaker 1>kind doing something? Did you? Were you able to get

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<v Speaker 1>a GED or go back to school or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, as soon as I came back, I went to school,

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<v Speaker 5>I jumped out. In about the same month I dropped out,

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<v Speaker 5>I got my GD because nowadays you can't really do

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<v Speaker 5>nothing without a GD if you didn't have one, So

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<v Speaker 5>made sure that was the first thing I did.

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<v Speaker 1>And you said you work at security now right.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, working security, sell firearms, you know a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Bit of everything, And are you enjoying what you're doing now.

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<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't say I enjoyed, but I mean a learning.

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<v Speaker 5>As I keep making money, I'll do whatever I need

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<v Speaker 5>to do, so that keeps me going.

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<v Speaker 1>To the point of what keeps you going? I'm curious, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what would you say are the most prominent motivating factors

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<v Speaker 1>in your life? We know that money is won, but

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<v Speaker 1>but is there anything else that that that you think

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<v Speaker 1>is a significant motivating factor for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, my mother and my younger sister. I mean, they've

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<v Speaker 5>seen it from where I used to be the tour now,

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<v Speaker 5>so that keeps me on my toes to keep doing

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<v Speaker 5>better decisions instead of making bad ones.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice. Nice? Do you still have a have a good

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with both of them?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I have a great relationship with even though they

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<v Speaker 5>say I eat a lot, But I don't think I

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<v Speaker 5>eat a lot. I think it's just I'm hungry all

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<v Speaker 5>the time. So what do you need to.

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<v Speaker 1>Eat a lot?

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<v Speaker 5>My mom? My mom is Mexican, so I basically have

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<v Speaker 5>like a Mexican restaurant in my house all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's cool. What like what specifically, like what kind of Mexican.

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<v Speaker 5>Food tacos, manulo, mola, floutes, some OLiS, basically anything I

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<v Speaker 5>can and ask her to make sure'll make and I

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<v Speaker 5>get to eat it the same day.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty awesome. Actually, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean a lot of people tell me why I

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<v Speaker 5>don't go you a Mexican restaurant, But like I said,

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<v Speaker 5>why go to a Mexican restaurant? I could just go home?

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<v Speaker 1>What your name was? Bono? Yep, Bono. Is there anything

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to say to the people before we go?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe something you would say to someone who was

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<v Speaker 1>in a similar position as you when they were younger,

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<v Speaker 1>or or any or anything at all that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to say to the people.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, anybody that's doing bad and I feel like they're

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<v Speaker 5>in a bad situation and they can't turn their lives around.

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<v Speaker 5>You can always turn your life around. You got to

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<v Speaker 5>put your mind to it, and you don't always have

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<v Speaker 5>to be doing the same task, just to choose a

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<v Speaker 5>different one to make sure that you're happy and make

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<v Speaker 5>sure you're family happy, beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for Colin, Bono, take.

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<v Speaker 7>It easy all right, man.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 7>To see someone in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Chat said that this paint has to be very bad

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<v Speaker 1>for my skin, and to that, I say, we will

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<v Speaker 1>find out in a few years, because I think I've

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<v Speaker 1>only been doing this a year and a half and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that the paint. I don't think it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that the paint attacks in the short term.

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<v Speaker 1>The short term. I think the paint plans ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>will kill me slowly over a long period of time.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know just yet, but we will see.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I remember reading somewhere that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no violent jay from the insane clown Polse. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if this was like if this might have

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<v Speaker 1>been a fake article, but I remember reading somewhere that

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<v Speaker 1>he got some kind of I don't know if it

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<v Speaker 1>was a cancer or does he something happened to him

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<v Speaker 1>because he was wearing the paint all the time. And

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<v Speaker 1>if hey, if that article is fake, then look if

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<v Speaker 1>he can do it, I can do it. Potentially, everyone

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<v Speaker 1>in the chat is like, oh, you gotta use here's

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<v Speaker 1>one more thing, and then we'll take phone calls. But

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<v Speaker 1>this happens all the time. I swear you guy, this

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<v Speaker 1>is always happening. I get on here and I complain

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<v Speaker 1>about this paint killing me, and then someone will DM

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<v Speaker 1>me on Instagram or something and be like, gek, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta hear the products that you got to use, the

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<v Speaker 1>fucking the primer, the the cleansing oil, moisturizer thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>I do them for like a day and then I

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<v Speaker 1>get I get lazy, and I said, up doing them?

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<v Speaker 1>How badly do I need to moisturize? Really? Can I

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<v Speaker 1>live a successful, happy, fulfilled life without moisturizing? I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I can. Hello is this Colby?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>It is hello, Colby.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, so nice to be on here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad, you know. I'm I think it's cool that

0:25:31.640 --> 0:25:35.640
<v Speaker 1>you were able to make that decision. After only being

0:25:35.640 --> 0:25:40.080
<v Speaker 1>on here for a second, you immediately felt like like

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<v Speaker 1>it was good to be on here, And I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>that's good. I think right, Maybe it's maybe it's too

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<v Speaker 1>snap of a judgment, maybe five minutes from maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know. I'll shut up. What's your

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<v Speaker 1>name again, Colby?

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<v Speaker 8>Yep?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Colby?

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<v Speaker 8>So I came on here to tell the story about

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<v Speaker 8>when I was like five years old, I went to

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<v Speaker 8>a Mexican restaurant in Bangor Main called Miguel's. I was

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<v Speaker 8>a very what I need to go to the bathroom, right,

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<v Speaker 8>very very dirty bathroom leaving, a shy five year old

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<v Speaker 8>decides to pee all over the floor.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, when you say you were OUs, you were five

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<v Speaker 1>years old on a Mexican restaurant. You go to the

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<v Speaker 1>use a bathroom, You go to use the bathroom alone,

0:26:27.840 --> 0:26:29.320
<v Speaker 1>your parents don't like take you.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh no, it's just how old.

0:26:33.920 --> 0:26:35.560
<v Speaker 1>How old are kids usually when you got to go

0:26:35.600 --> 0:26:37.399
<v Speaker 1>take them to the bathroom or when they can go

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:43.600
<v Speaker 1>on their own. It's five ah, right, five years so

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<v Speaker 1>let's see. So well, Okay, when you say you peed

0:26:46.359 --> 0:26:49.080
<v Speaker 1>all over the floor, is it something where you attempted

0:26:49.080 --> 0:26:50.840
<v Speaker 1>to use the urinal but you failed and you peed

0:26:50.840 --> 0:26:53.600
<v Speaker 1>on the floor, or you in the middle of the

0:26:53.640 --> 0:26:56.320
<v Speaker 1>bathroom intentionally just went straight for the floor.

0:26:57.760 --> 0:27:00.439
<v Speaker 8>Oh, right out the door. Honestly, it was very very

0:27:00.480 --> 0:27:04.920
<v Speaker 8>dirty bathroom. As I said, it was, yeah, kind of

0:27:04.920 --> 0:27:06.480
<v Speaker 8>like a gas station bathroom, you know what I mean.

0:27:06.960 --> 0:27:07.080
<v Speaker 6>Mm.

0:27:12.000 --> 0:27:14.359
<v Speaker 8>And then after that, I mean, the waiter came up

0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:15.919
<v Speaker 8>to me and looked at me and my mom and

0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:18.000
<v Speaker 8>her partner and looked at us and was like, I

0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:20.800
<v Speaker 8>know what you did, And me, being a shy five

0:27:20.840 --> 0:27:23.840
<v Speaker 8>year old, looked back at him and asked, what do

0:27:23.880 --> 0:27:26.280
<v Speaker 8>you mean? My mom stuck up for me and like.

0:27:26.240 --> 0:27:26.919
<v Speaker 5>He didn't do that?

0:27:27.160 --> 0:27:30.560
<v Speaker 8>Like, yes, yeah, but I did. I mean, I'm a

0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:34.200
<v Speaker 8>fier would be ashamed for that. M.

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:38.800
<v Speaker 1>So you denied it, and your mother believed you, and

0:27:38.840 --> 0:27:40.880
<v Speaker 1>she joined you in your denial.

0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:43.919
<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

0:27:45.920 --> 0:27:50.480
<v Speaker 1>Did you feel at the time any guilt for bringing

0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:51.720
<v Speaker 1>your mother into your lie?

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:56.280
<v Speaker 8>Honestly? Now? I was kind of afterwards, continued to eating

0:27:56.320 --> 0:27:57.120
<v Speaker 8>my food.

0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Really didn't think about it at all in any sort

0:28:02.920 --> 0:28:09.879
<v Speaker 1>of guilt framed way, honestly, now and contemporarily, how do

0:28:09.880 --> 0:28:10.560
<v Speaker 1>you feel about it?

0:28:13.200 --> 0:28:15.120
<v Speaker 8>Honestly, I don't know how to feel about it now

0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:17.840
<v Speaker 8>now that I have my own hit of my own

0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:18.480
<v Speaker 8>you know what I mean.

0:28:19.800 --> 0:28:20.800
<v Speaker 1>You have a child of your own now?

0:28:21.960 --> 0:28:22.480
<v Speaker 8>Yes, I do.

0:28:23.359 --> 0:28:25.399
<v Speaker 1>And how would you feel if if you were in

0:28:25.440 --> 0:28:29.280
<v Speaker 1>a similar situation as your mother with your current child?

0:28:31.119 --> 0:28:33.160
<v Speaker 8>You know, I'd stick off for my daughter as well,

0:28:33.200 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 8>But afterwards, I don't know how i'd feel, like what

0:28:36.320 --> 0:28:38.840
<v Speaker 8>I would say to her? M.

0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:48.560
<v Speaker 1>Well, here's the thing is it sounds like, and correct

0:28:48.600 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 1>me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you did

0:28:50.000 --> 0:28:55.000
<v Speaker 1>not pee on the floor intentionally out of malice. Sounds

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.080
<v Speaker 1>like you peeed on the floor out of like some

0:28:57.160 --> 0:29:01.520
<v Speaker 1>sort of maybe it was shock. I don't I don't,

0:29:01.640 --> 0:29:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what what like propelled the pee out

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:05.520
<v Speaker 1>of your body, but it was. It feels like it

0:29:05.560 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 1>was like an involuntary emotional response to something more than

0:29:09.280 --> 0:29:12.920
<v Speaker 1>it was an act of malice.

0:29:13.360 --> 0:29:17.400
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I would agree with that. I mean, I didn't

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:20.120
<v Speaker 8>do it to do it right, You didn't want to

0:29:20.120 --> 0:29:21.520
<v Speaker 8>walk any further into the bathroom.

0:29:22.120 --> 0:29:27.880
<v Speaker 1>Mhm. What was the name of this restaurant.

0:29:28.440 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 8>It was Miguel's in Bangor, Maine.

0:29:30.640 --> 0:29:39.320
<v Speaker 1>Is it still there? Yeah, go back there, stand by

0:29:39.520 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 1>the bathroom and next time somebody peas in there on

0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:48.840
<v Speaker 1>the floor, you bring a rag, you clean it up yourself.

0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>You clean up pissing that bathroom once, and then you're

0:29:54.720 --> 0:29:58.600
<v Speaker 1>done forever. Your your deaths have been repaid. But you

0:29:58.640 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 1>got to go back there and you gotta clean up

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:02.520
<v Speaker 1>someone's piss just to sort of.

0:30:04.720 --> 0:30:06.200
<v Speaker 8>Or I never thought of doing.

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:10.640
<v Speaker 1>You gotta find the owner of the restaurants and let

0:30:10.680 --> 0:30:13.560
<v Speaker 1>their kid piss in your mouth.

0:30:13.760 --> 0:30:13.840
<v Speaker 6>That.

0:30:14.000 --> 0:30:16.440
<v Speaker 1>No, it's too far, you don't have to do that,

0:30:20.320 --> 0:30:21.120
<v Speaker 1>but you could.

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:23.920
<v Speaker 8>I kind of feel like it's one of those acts

0:30:23.920 --> 0:30:25.880
<v Speaker 8>that was just kind of frown upon, you know what

0:30:25.960 --> 0:30:27.160
<v Speaker 8>I mean, Like masturbating on a place.

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 1>I also I also think it would be very frowd upon.

0:30:32.240 --> 0:30:33.040
<v Speaker 1>What's your name again?

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 7>Colby?

0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:43.360
<v Speaker 1>Colby? Thank you very much? Calling hello, Dinkas, Hello, how

0:30:43.360 --> 0:30:44.440
<v Speaker 1>are you dinkis?

0:30:45.560 --> 0:30:52.600
<v Speaker 7>So my calling topic probably isn't too good now about uh,

0:30:52.800 --> 0:30:55.280
<v Speaker 7>your rant about how much you hate talks?

0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:58.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't go on to do you all right? Clearly

0:31:00.800 --> 0:31:03.920
<v Speaker 1>nobody was listening to I was very I never said

0:31:03.960 --> 0:31:07.120
<v Speaker 1>I hate dogs. I like dogs. I just said I

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:11.160
<v Speaker 1>hated like that specific dog for that I no longer

0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 1>hate that dog, by the way, but I just hated

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:17.200
<v Speaker 1>that dog for that specific time, for that specific reason.

0:31:17.280 --> 0:31:19.520
<v Speaker 1>Did that? Did that not cut? Did I not make myself?

0:31:19.520 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I made myself pretty clear. I feel

0:31:21.400 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 1>like no, you did. I'm sorry.

0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:28.400
<v Speaker 7>It's when you were talking about it. When you were

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:32.360
<v Speaker 7>talking about it, I had the feeling of, Uh, you

0:31:32.440 --> 0:31:37.720
<v Speaker 7>were going to pick my call for comedic bits.

0:31:38.360 --> 0:31:39.600
<v Speaker 1>You thought I was going to pick your call for

0:31:39.640 --> 0:31:41.960
<v Speaker 1>comedic bits. I'm sorry. I drank a bunch of whole

0:31:42.000 --> 0:31:44.440
<v Speaker 1>milk before the stream, so I'm a little amped up.

0:31:46.480 --> 0:31:51.760
<v Speaker 1>M tell me, tell me what you wanted to talk about.

0:31:52.920 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 7>Why I called in is tomorrow I have to put

0:31:56.720 --> 0:32:02.400
<v Speaker 7>down my dog, and I don't know. I don't know

0:32:02.440 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 7>if advice is the right question, because you know, advice

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:12.480
<v Speaker 7>about what, But I guess I don't know just how

0:32:12.520 --> 0:32:16.720
<v Speaker 7>to process that. I guess looking for information with that.

0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:19.440
<v Speaker 1>How old is your dog?

0:32:21.720 --> 0:32:23.960
<v Speaker 7>Eleven and a half eleven and a half.

0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:24.840
<v Speaker 1>What kind of dog is it?

0:32:27.080 --> 0:32:27.880
<v Speaker 7>Golden Retriever?

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:36.040
<v Speaker 1>What's their name? Maggie, Maggie.

0:32:39.440 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, so they get Golden Retrievers for some reason get

0:32:43.480 --> 0:32:51.360
<v Speaker 7>like tumors really bad. So she now is like she's

0:32:51.360 --> 0:32:53.240
<v Speaker 7>been doing fine, and then all of a sudden, like

0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 7>she's not eating and she has a bunch of tumors

0:32:55.200 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 7>and stuff. So I think tomorrow is the day. Unfortunately.

0:33:00.640 --> 0:33:01.120
<v Speaker 7>Mm hmmm.

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:05.240
<v Speaker 1>I have a Golden Retriever too, and I love gold Numbertrievers. See,

0:33:05.280 --> 0:33:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't hate dogs. I hated that dog, but I

0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>don't hate dogs in general. I love Golden Retrievers. They're

0:33:14.480 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 1>good dogs, They're very active, they're very sweet, the very

0:33:18.040 --> 0:33:19.040
<v Speaker 1>affectionate dogs.

0:33:21.000 --> 0:33:21.440
<v Speaker 6>Mm hmm.

0:33:23.160 --> 0:33:23.680
<v Speaker 1>How would you.

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:26.000
<v Speaker 7>Describe what the name of the dog you hate?

0:33:27.040 --> 0:33:29.040
<v Speaker 1>The name? I don't know. I don't even I don't

0:33:29.040 --> 0:33:32.240
<v Speaker 1>hate them enough to know their name. I'm over it completely.

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:34.640
<v Speaker 1>Tell me more about Maggie. What what is Maggie like?

0:33:39.600 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 7>Well, she used to be very hyper and run around

0:33:43.920 --> 0:33:48.840
<v Speaker 7>and stuff and you know, typical dog stuff. Now she

0:33:49.080 --> 0:33:51.280
<v Speaker 7>just pisses and ships everywhere.

0:33:51.960 --> 0:33:54.640
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm hm. That's where we.

0:33:54.600 --> 0:33:58.520
<v Speaker 7>All are her body.

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:03.760
<v Speaker 1>I had a dog, Yeah, I had a right my

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I had a gold I had a Golden Retriever that

0:34:06.600 --> 0:34:11.480
<v Speaker 1>died as well. Her name was it was Jessica, And

0:34:12.400 --> 0:34:17.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry I remember she uh. Shortly before she died,

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:21.600
<v Speaker 1>I watched her take a full shit on her own leg.

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:26.239
<v Speaker 1>And that's it's not that I don't think that's the

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:28.359
<v Speaker 1>place where anyone wants to be.

0:34:32.360 --> 0:34:37.400
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it's just sucks for you know, like humans, it

0:34:37.440 --> 0:34:39.520
<v Speaker 7>takes eighty years to get to that. But you watch

0:34:39.560 --> 0:34:44.359
<v Speaker 7>a dog in this lifespan of ten years, you know.

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:51.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you know this dog? Do you own the dog

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:57.200
<v Speaker 1>with anyone, like a partner or like or is it

0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 1>just you and the dog.

0:35:00.960 --> 0:35:03.719
<v Speaker 7>I got the dog when I was a kid, and

0:35:03.760 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 7>then so it's been at my parents since that's where

0:35:09.719 --> 0:35:13.160
<v Speaker 7>I lived. And then I just bought a house and

0:35:13.200 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 7>so I didn't bring her with me because I knew

0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:20.000
<v Speaker 7>this point was coming sometime this year. So to then

0:35:20.120 --> 0:35:22.799
<v Speaker 7>up end everything that she's used to and be like, oh,

0:35:22.800 --> 0:35:27.279
<v Speaker 7>we're living here for three months and then die. So

0:35:27.440 --> 0:35:30.160
<v Speaker 7>she's right, she's with my parents right now.

0:35:30.719 --> 0:35:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, And how how are your parents? How are

0:35:34.920 --> 0:35:39.040
<v Speaker 1>your parents feeling? Did they also have as as strong

0:35:39.040 --> 0:35:40.359
<v Speaker 1>a connection to the dog as you do?

0:35:42.480 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:35:43.880 --> 0:35:48.000
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, My my mom's gonna have kind of brought it up,

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:51.640
<v Speaker 7>you know, since for these last few months I haven't

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:55.160
<v Speaker 7>been there that you know, she thinks now is the time.

0:35:56.239 --> 0:36:00.040
<v Speaker 7>M So it's not just my call I'm making, So

0:36:01.200 --> 0:36:03.279
<v Speaker 7>it's kind of a joint.

0:36:03.239 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Call, right, I mean, that's that that it's you know,

0:36:06.800 --> 0:36:10.319
<v Speaker 1>I uh, you know, all the circumstances considered, it is

0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:13.840
<v Speaker 1>it is nice to be able to celebrate the life

0:36:13.880 --> 0:36:18.800
<v Speaker 1>of your dog alongside other people who also cared about Maggie.

0:36:20.360 --> 0:36:23.319
<v Speaker 3>Mm hm, m hm.

0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:26.160
<v Speaker 1>And you guys said you're going tomorrow.

0:36:29.280 --> 0:36:32.600
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, because what it is is she's been off and

0:36:32.640 --> 0:36:37.520
<v Speaker 7>on in you know, she's very sick, but at the

0:36:37.560 --> 0:36:40.800
<v Speaker 7>same time, there's been weeks to a month where she's

0:36:40.840 --> 0:36:45.640
<v Speaker 7>been perfectly healthy and happy or act at least acting healthy.

0:36:46.960 --> 0:36:49.200
<v Speaker 7>But the last three days she hasn't eaten at all.

0:36:49.520 --> 0:36:52.640
<v Speaker 7>And then uh so we called the vet and she

0:36:52.840 --> 0:36:57.600
<v Speaker 7>said that if she doesn't eat by the third day, right,

0:36:58.640 --> 0:37:00.680
<v Speaker 7>I got Tomorrow will be the third day that she

0:37:00.800 --> 0:37:03.000
<v Speaker 7>hasn't eaten, And if she hasn't eaten by then, it's

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:07.520
<v Speaker 7>kind of a sign mm hm. Which it's been. It's

0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 7>been downhill, uh for close to a year or two years.

0:37:12.480 --> 0:37:18.319
<v Speaker 7>So do you I went over, I was trying to

0:37:19.440 --> 0:37:21.400
<v Speaker 7>I was trying to like give her cheese and stuff

0:37:21.560 --> 0:37:24.799
<v Speaker 7>and like all the stuff she normally would eat she

0:37:24.880 --> 0:37:25.840
<v Speaker 7>has no interest in.

0:37:27.440 --> 0:37:27.839
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm.

0:37:30.640 --> 0:37:31.080
<v Speaker 3>Have you.

0:37:33.440 --> 0:37:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Sort of taken uh have you have you have you

0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:41.200
<v Speaker 1>reflected on I don't know, maybe maybe maybe nice memories

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:44.600
<v Speaker 1>that you have that you have had with Maggie, anything

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:53.239
<v Speaker 1>in particular that you want to share. Uh.

0:37:53.760 --> 0:37:57.680
<v Speaker 7>Well, last year we kind of knew like she was.

0:37:57.800 --> 0:38:01.399
<v Speaker 7>She started getting bad last year, like real bad, and

0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:05.839
<v Speaker 7>so when we went to the beach, we took her

0:38:05.880 --> 0:38:09.719
<v Speaker 7>with us and that was I mean, she lives in

0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:13.000
<v Speaker 7>my backyard. Other than not living out there all the time.

0:38:13.040 --> 0:38:13.800
<v Speaker 7>I'm just saying.

0:38:13.600 --> 0:38:14.360
<v Speaker 3>She she.

0:38:16.560 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 1>Has a very limited uh, travel experience, as most dogs do.

0:38:24.400 --> 0:38:28.120
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, so I guess you know from her perspective, knowing

0:38:28.120 --> 0:38:32.880
<v Speaker 7>that there's an ocean and the beach is probably surprising

0:38:32.920 --> 0:38:36.080
<v Speaker 7>and weird. So that was kind of like a nice

0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:38.520
<v Speaker 7>last thing to do, even though it was.

0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:46.759
<v Speaker 1>A half ago. That's interesting, right because you you almost like,

0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I like the way you're talking about that, Like, you know,

0:38:49.200 --> 0:38:52.360
<v Speaker 1>your dog is a very limited worldview, only to like

0:38:52.400 --> 0:38:54.359
<v Speaker 1>your backyard. But then they're like, oh, there's a whole

0:38:55.280 --> 0:39:00.239
<v Speaker 1>ocean and beach and stuff. I almost almost almost feel

0:39:00.280 --> 0:39:02.040
<v Speaker 1>like I almost feel like that every time I go

0:39:02.120 --> 0:39:03.960
<v Speaker 1>to the beach, you know, because we're all spending all

0:39:03.960 --> 0:39:07.000
<v Speaker 1>of our time in our fucking rooms and offices and

0:39:07.040 --> 0:39:09.839
<v Speaker 1>caves and shit. You get the guy You're like, as

0:39:09.840 --> 0:39:12.239
<v Speaker 1>a whole, we're all we're all kind of dogs too

0:39:12.360 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 1>in a way, you know, we all live sedentary lives

0:39:21.200 --> 0:39:27.520
<v Speaker 1>and then shut ourselves and die, and.

0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 7>People standing around talking about us dying, and one will

0:39:31.239 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 7>die and then it actually happens.

0:39:34.400 --> 0:39:38.279
<v Speaker 1>Does that feel? Do you feel weird talking about you're

0:39:38.400 --> 0:39:40.359
<v Speaker 1>the fact that your dog will around the dog?

0:39:44.760 --> 0:39:47.240
<v Speaker 7>I wouldn't say so. I mean, she was right there

0:39:47.600 --> 0:39:49.040
<v Speaker 7>today when I was talking about it.

0:39:49.800 --> 0:39:50.200
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm.

0:39:51.880 --> 0:39:55.279
<v Speaker 7>But yeah, she's just she's not doing good at all,

0:39:55.320 --> 0:39:56.920
<v Speaker 7>Like when I was petting her. She kind of just

0:39:57.320 --> 0:40:01.520
<v Speaker 7>now feels like a skin with a sack of in it,

0:40:01.680 --> 0:40:02.640
<v Speaker 7>if that makes sense.

0:40:03.400 --> 0:40:05.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that makes sense kind of.

0:40:05.400 --> 0:40:07.720
<v Speaker 7>I mean it's a gross description.

0:40:07.480 --> 0:40:11.680
<v Speaker 1>But it's a little it's a little gross, but still

0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:17.280
<v Speaker 1>a good dog, you know, Maggie. What's your name again?

0:40:19.440 --> 0:40:24.919
<v Speaker 1>Dinks Dinkas, Dinkas. I'm sorry I didn't give you any

0:40:26.040 --> 0:40:35.400
<v Speaker 1>advice because I don't necessarily necessarily no, but is there No,

0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:41.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't hate dogs, Dinkers. I love dogs. I have

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:43.439
<v Speaker 1>a dog. I have a Golden Retriever. I have too

0:40:43.480 --> 0:40:46.160
<v Speaker 1>gold I two Golden retrievers. One of them died. One

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:47.719
<v Speaker 1>of them took a ship on her leg and then

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:53.280
<v Speaker 1>died right after. But I like dogs. I love dogs.

0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I love your dog, dude, I love your dog. I'm

0:40:57.239 --> 0:41:00.560
<v Speaker 1>proud to hear. But she had a wonderful time at

0:41:00.560 --> 0:41:02.880
<v Speaker 1>the beach, and proud of you for giving her a

0:41:02.920 --> 0:41:05.880
<v Speaker 1>good life. You take some time, you take some time

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:08.880
<v Speaker 1>on these next few days, when you're reflecting on the

0:41:08.960 --> 0:41:11.880
<v Speaker 1>life of this dog. You give yourself a pat on

0:41:11.920 --> 0:41:14.600
<v Speaker 1>the back, thinkers, for all the good work you've done

0:41:14.600 --> 0:41:16.560
<v Speaker 1>to give that dog a good life. You feel good

0:41:16.560 --> 0:41:19.440
<v Speaker 1>about that. You reflect, you think about her life. You

0:41:19.480 --> 0:41:22.000
<v Speaker 1>feel good about her life. She had a good life.

0:41:22.040 --> 0:41:26.680
<v Speaker 1>You gave one to her, and you know, I don't know,

0:41:26.719 --> 0:41:29.719
<v Speaker 1>I hope, I hope that as as as you're bathing

0:41:29.800 --> 0:41:34.680
<v Speaker 1>in the reflection of of your dog's life, of of

0:41:34.680 --> 0:41:37.480
<v Speaker 1>of what she meant to you, you're you're almost given

0:41:37.520 --> 0:41:40.160
<v Speaker 1>this like, I don't, I don't, I don't know how

0:41:40.280 --> 0:41:44.160
<v Speaker 1>you would say it, but this this rejuvenation for all

0:41:44.239 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 1>the all the various joys in your life, not just

0:41:47.239 --> 0:41:50.080
<v Speaker 1>the joy that this dog gave to you. You're like, oh,

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:54.160
<v Speaker 1>maybe I should, you know, appreciate the the sky while

0:41:54.200 --> 0:41:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I could still see it, or my my my parents

0:41:56.640 --> 0:41:58.399
<v Speaker 1>while I can still see them. You know, I hope,

0:41:58.480 --> 0:42:00.239
<v Speaker 1>I hope it gives you a greater appreciation and for

0:42:00.280 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 1>all the other things that are bringing to joy in

0:42:01.680 --> 0:42:06.520
<v Speaker 1>your life. That's a great point, you know, so so

0:42:06.520 --> 0:42:09.600
<v Speaker 1>so thank you very much for calling Dinkas and and

0:42:10.440 --> 0:42:12.800
<v Speaker 1>real quick, of course you can say something real quick.

0:42:15.520 --> 0:42:18.880
<v Speaker 7>You might ignore this question. That's fine and do that

0:42:18.960 --> 0:42:21.400
<v Speaker 7>thing where you say good night Denkas.

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:24.400
<v Speaker 1>We've had to sincere a conversation for me to do that.

0:42:24.520 --> 0:42:27.480
<v Speaker 1>Now I would normally do that, but that we've had

0:42:27.480 --> 0:42:29.680
<v Speaker 1>we're at it sincere point. Now where if I did that,

0:42:30.040 --> 0:42:31.799
<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't come off as funny. I would just look

0:42:31.880 --> 0:42:32.400
<v Speaker 1>like a dick.

0:42:32.640 --> 0:42:37.640
<v Speaker 7>So well, it's very it's very off. It's very off topic.

0:42:38.200 --> 0:42:42.640
<v Speaker 7>Oh sure, is there a chance that you will ever

0:42:43.360 --> 0:42:47.160
<v Speaker 7>do a an Age three team up again for Collins?

0:42:48.719 --> 0:42:51.200
<v Speaker 1>If if? I mean, look, if he ever calls me,

0:42:51.280 --> 0:42:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I'll come on anytime that they that they want me

0:42:53.680 --> 0:42:55.839
<v Speaker 1>to come on, you know, mm.

0:42:55.800 --> 0:42:59.279
<v Speaker 7>Hmm, all right. I just figured I asked because I

0:42:59.320 --> 0:42:59.880
<v Speaker 7>was curious.

0:43:01.280 --> 0:43:04.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't hate dogs. I hated that one, I explained

0:43:04.480 --> 0:43:07.480
<v Speaker 1>myself already. I refuse to do it again. I love dogs.

0:43:07.480 --> 0:43:08.440
<v Speaker 1>I love your dogs.

0:43:09.000 --> 0:43:10.799
<v Speaker 7>I love you, I said, now was a chance I

0:43:10.800 --> 0:43:13.640
<v Speaker 7>didn't say you hate dogs. I fully believe you love dogs.

0:43:14.480 --> 0:43:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Think it's yep, thank you for calling. Much love to you.

0:43:18.719 --> 0:43:21.400
<v Speaker 1>I have a good rest of the night. Hello is

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:22.200
<v Speaker 1>this Joshua?

0:43:24.680 --> 0:43:24.879
<v Speaker 6>Yes?

0:43:24.960 --> 0:43:25.359
<v Speaker 7>It is?

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:26.319
<v Speaker 6>What is going on in Lisle?

0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:29.040
<v Speaker 1>What's up, Joshua? How you doing? Man?

0:43:30.880 --> 0:43:31.439
<v Speaker 5>Good man?

0:43:32.760 --> 0:43:34.080
<v Speaker 6>Just walking back from the store.

0:43:35.000 --> 0:43:35.680
<v Speaker 1>What'd you get?

0:43:38.160 --> 0:43:40.719
<v Speaker 6>I had to unfortunately use the restroom up there.

0:43:42.040 --> 0:43:44.000
<v Speaker 1>You had to use the restroom at the store. What's

0:43:44.000 --> 0:43:45.000
<v Speaker 1>wrong with your restroom at home?

0:43:47.000 --> 0:43:47.239
<v Speaker 8>Man?

0:43:47.280 --> 0:43:50.520
<v Speaker 6>So my apartment complaces are kind of old. SORRYR cars

0:43:50.560 --> 0:43:55.200
<v Speaker 6>passing my apartments are kind of old and the setic

0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:58.279
<v Speaker 6>tints kind of got backed up, and for the last

0:43:58.320 --> 0:43:59.920
<v Speaker 6>four days I haven't been able to use the rest

0:44:00.080 --> 0:44:03.560
<v Speaker 6>room in no form of fashion unless I want to

0:44:03.560 --> 0:44:08.160
<v Speaker 6>pretend to be a plumber. Get the plunger everything, draino

0:44:08.800 --> 0:44:10.440
<v Speaker 6>and go add a little elbow grease.

0:44:11.640 --> 0:44:14.319
<v Speaker 1>At what point does it I mean, how far away

0:44:14.360 --> 0:44:14.759
<v Speaker 1>is the story?

0:44:17.520 --> 0:44:20.960
<v Speaker 6>You're walking up to my door now, Oh, it's like

0:44:21.000 --> 0:44:21.799
<v Speaker 6>a two minute walk.

0:44:23.160 --> 0:44:26.920
<v Speaker 1>How at what point does it become more efficient for

0:44:27.040 --> 0:44:32.640
<v Speaker 1>you in terms of your energy to just fix the toilet?

0:44:34.480 --> 0:44:37.080
<v Speaker 6>Well? See, I live in a apartment complex, so I

0:44:37.480 --> 0:44:40.879
<v Speaker 6>complained to the office and they're like, well, we come

0:44:41.040 --> 0:44:42.920
<v Speaker 6>little use the hose and put it in there and

0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:45.120
<v Speaker 6>drill it out. But it's the whole complex, so they're

0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:49.040
<v Speaker 6>just kind of postpone and fixing the whole septic system.

0:44:49.560 --> 0:44:51.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, so the septic system is fucked for the

0:44:51.760 --> 0:44:53.120
<v Speaker 1>whole apartment complex.

0:44:54.360 --> 0:44:56.720
<v Speaker 7>Absolutely wow?

0:44:56.920 --> 0:44:59.160
<v Speaker 1>And how long has it been fucked? Four days?

0:45:00.520 --> 0:45:01.560
<v Speaker 6>About four days?

0:45:01.840 --> 0:45:06.040
<v Speaker 1>How is there not rioting going on at the fucking office? Man?

0:45:07.200 --> 0:45:09.520
<v Speaker 6>Man? So like, as of as of this morning, I

0:45:09.600 --> 0:45:12.080
<v Speaker 6>literally going door to door, I'm walking in my house now,

0:45:12.800 --> 0:45:17.480
<v Speaker 6>I started going door to door, like you're.

0:45:16.080 --> 0:45:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Building a fucking militia to go tear down the apartment

0:45:20.880 --> 0:45:22.719
<v Speaker 1>complex office and get that.

0:45:22.640 --> 0:45:25.840
<v Speaker 6>Shit fixed exactly, Like we need some free rant and

0:45:25.880 --> 0:45:27.239
<v Speaker 6>we need to be able to shit when we want

0:45:27.239 --> 0:45:27.520
<v Speaker 6>to see it.

0:45:28.160 --> 0:45:31.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, dude, no, literally, get everywhere. Here's what you do.

0:45:31.320 --> 0:45:34.000
<v Speaker 1>You get everyone to go out, You get everyone like

0:45:34.000 --> 0:45:39.319
<v Speaker 1>you like, Okay, Wednesday, five pm, we all take a

0:45:39.440 --> 0:45:42.680
<v Speaker 1>ship in the middle of the hallway. They can't evict

0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:46.560
<v Speaker 1>all of us at once. If we do that strength.

0:45:46.280 --> 0:45:50.400
<v Speaker 6>In numbers, that's the next level.

0:45:52.840 --> 0:45:56.480
<v Speaker 1>You're already going around campaigning for the for the your cause.

0:45:57.239 --> 0:45:59.480
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's the only way you're gonna get

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:05.440
<v Speaker 1>them to really pay attention. Joshua Bom and your fucking

0:46:05.440 --> 0:46:06.960
<v Speaker 1>smoke detector needs batteries.

0:46:09.000 --> 0:46:10.239
<v Speaker 6>Oh oh, that was my son.

0:46:10.280 --> 0:46:12.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I thought it was a smoke detector.

0:46:14.480 --> 0:46:15.279
<v Speaker 6>My son came in.

0:46:15.280 --> 0:46:19.319
<v Speaker 1>He yelled, hey, Dode, you hold you take a ship.

0:46:19.360 --> 0:46:21.879
<v Speaker 1>You hold your son, you in what you take off

0:46:21.880 --> 0:46:25.040
<v Speaker 1>his diaper? You ship with your son in the middle

0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:32.880
<v Speaker 1>of the hallway. Yeah, yeah, how's he eat?

0:46:35.560 --> 0:46:36.640
<v Speaker 7>He's good, he's great.

0:46:36.719 --> 0:46:39.360
<v Speaker 6>He we went to the park today. We've been playing.

0:46:39.360 --> 0:46:42.760
<v Speaker 6>He's been on his tablet, but you know, he ships

0:46:42.760 --> 0:46:45.320
<v Speaker 6>in the diaper so he doesn't feel my pain.

0:46:46.160 --> 0:46:50.400
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm hmm. Well wait a minute, what do you

0:46:50.440 --> 0:46:51.759
<v Speaker 1>what do you do with the diapers? You don't you

0:46:51.760 --> 0:46:53.399
<v Speaker 1>don't flush me in the toilet, do you? You just throw

0:46:53.440 --> 0:46:54.600
<v Speaker 1>them away? Oh?

0:46:54.680 --> 0:46:56.840
<v Speaker 6>No, See, yeah, I have a dumpster, like it's not

0:46:56.880 --> 0:46:58.359
<v Speaker 6>too far from my house to take him out there.

0:46:58.480 --> 0:46:59.239
<v Speaker 7>Put him in a bag.

0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:01.480
<v Speaker 6>Diaper genie stuff like that.

0:47:04.600 --> 0:47:07.239
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel stuff? And he know what is a

0:47:07.320 --> 0:47:08.040
<v Speaker 1>diaper genie?

0:47:09.600 --> 0:47:12.640
<v Speaker 6>It's like so it's like a little container where you

0:47:12.680 --> 0:47:14.640
<v Speaker 6>put all its like, has a scented bag and you

0:47:14.680 --> 0:47:17.200
<v Speaker 6>put all the diapers in there so it doesn't make

0:47:17.200 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 6>your house smell like shit. And then you take one

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:21.279
<v Speaker 6>bag out it holds like thirty diapers in it at

0:47:21.280 --> 0:47:21.719
<v Speaker 6>one time.

0:47:23.840 --> 0:47:25.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh, it's a scented well, I'm familiar with the concept

0:47:25.880 --> 0:47:28.560
<v Speaker 1>of a scented garbage bag to make the garbage less.

0:47:28.800 --> 0:47:30.799
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, scented, same thing.

0:47:30.840 --> 0:47:33.360
<v Speaker 6>It just has like a latch and it holds up

0:47:33.480 --> 0:47:37.440
<v Speaker 6>the diapers and whatnot. It's just made specifically.

0:47:38.760 --> 0:47:41.879
<v Speaker 1>Hypergenie. Do I detect a podcast sponsor somewhere in the.

0:47:41.840 --> 0:47:46.359
<v Speaker 6>Future, Oh, look at us diaper Genie is on the way.

0:47:47.040 --> 0:47:48.360
<v Speaker 6>It's not a friend though, it's.

0:47:48.160 --> 0:47:50.279
<v Speaker 1>Just like the concept.

0:47:50.360 --> 0:47:51.840
<v Speaker 7>It's not a brain, it's just a concept.

0:47:54.400 --> 0:47:59.120
<v Speaker 1>So okay, So Joshua, aside from the fact that you

0:47:59.239 --> 0:48:06.239
<v Speaker 1>have to go, Actually, I'm curious, has the store noticed

0:48:07.160 --> 0:48:14.879
<v Speaker 1>a strong influx of people coming to use its toilets

0:48:14.920 --> 0:48:15.840
<v Speaker 1>from your apartment?

0:48:17.400 --> 0:48:19.200
<v Speaker 6>See me, I live so close and I go there

0:48:19.239 --> 0:48:22.320
<v Speaker 6>so frequently. I told him, I'm like, hey, tween toilets

0:48:22.320 --> 0:48:24.880
<v Speaker 6>fucked up, got to use the restroom. And he's like,

0:48:25.040 --> 0:48:27.399
<v Speaker 6>you're the third person today, and I'm like, oh my god,

0:48:27.560 --> 0:48:29.600
<v Speaker 6>So he definitely noticed it.

0:48:30.520 --> 0:48:33.080
<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, every single person your apartment's got to

0:48:33.120 --> 0:48:35.480
<v Speaker 1>go use his fucking toilet somewhere.

0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:38.080
<v Speaker 6>It's like it's only like two it's two gas stations

0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:40.759
<v Speaker 6>and a Dairy Queen. Everything else you have to drive to.

0:48:41.719 --> 0:48:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that Dairy Queen bathroom is probably fucked.

0:48:50.160 --> 0:48:51.160
<v Speaker 1>It's fucked.

0:48:57.680 --> 0:48:59.719
<v Speaker 7>How many people do My girlfriends is?

0:49:00.400 --> 0:49:02.600
<v Speaker 6>It's my girlfriend and my son, and she's watching the

0:49:02.600 --> 0:49:04.520
<v Speaker 6>stream in the other room and she heard me mention

0:49:04.640 --> 0:49:06.880
<v Speaker 6>the dairy Queen bathroom and since she's been happening to go,

0:49:07.040 --> 0:49:07.880
<v Speaker 6>she's like, yeah.

0:49:07.880 --> 0:49:08.920
<v Speaker 5>Definitely gross.

0:49:09.239 --> 0:49:10.759
<v Speaker 1>Would does she go with you to take a ship.

0:49:10.880 --> 0:49:11.799
<v Speaker 1>Is it almost like a date?

0:49:14.760 --> 0:49:17.080
<v Speaker 6>No, I wouldn't say a date, but it's definitely We

0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:19.399
<v Speaker 6>got to try to plan the trips at the same time,

0:49:19.480 --> 0:49:22.319
<v Speaker 6>so we're not just alternating trips, you know.

0:49:23.080 --> 0:49:27.839
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm. Lemansha is just the worst thing that's going

0:49:27.880 --> 0:49:38.040
<v Speaker 1>on in your life right now. Yeah, that's pretty good.

0:49:38.440 --> 0:49:45.560
<v Speaker 6>Bills are caught up, sunstead, girlfriend's happy dogs, chilling, got

0:49:45.560 --> 0:49:47.480
<v Speaker 6>a good job, well, a decent job, you know.

0:49:47.600 --> 0:49:49.120
<v Speaker 3>So just can't ship.

0:49:49.920 --> 0:49:52.080
<v Speaker 1>You just can't ship well.

0:49:52.600 --> 0:49:55.480
<v Speaker 6>And like I told your call representative, I was really

0:49:55.560 --> 0:49:57.560
<v Speaker 6>kind of was in an upset move because I really

0:49:57.600 --> 0:50:00.359
<v Speaker 6>had to go. And then like I called sixty times

0:50:00.360 --> 0:50:02.680
<v Speaker 6>on my girlfriend's phone and forty times on my phone,

0:50:02.719 --> 0:50:04.920
<v Speaker 6>and then it finally went through and my day changed around.

0:50:05.719 --> 0:50:08.040
<v Speaker 1>Did did the wait? So are you telling me that

0:50:08.080 --> 0:50:09.440
<v Speaker 1>you had to take a ship at the beginning of

0:50:09.440 --> 0:50:11.080
<v Speaker 1>this call, but then you got so engrossed in the

0:50:11.080 --> 0:50:12.520
<v Speaker 1>call that you forgot you had to take a shit.

0:50:14.239 --> 0:50:16.480
<v Speaker 6>No, When I walked to the store and then I

0:50:16.480 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 6>came back walking from the store.

0:50:18.960 --> 0:50:20.479
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm sorry.

0:50:20.480 --> 0:50:24.279
<v Speaker 6>I thought I did something, so so on, Hold, I

0:50:24.360 --> 0:50:26.160
<v Speaker 6>was in the ship at some point.

0:50:27.800 --> 0:50:31.160
<v Speaker 1>You were in the Were you prepared? Were you prepared

0:50:31.320 --> 0:50:33.800
<v Speaker 1>to have this conversation while you were on the toilet?

0:50:34.440 --> 0:50:35.280
<v Speaker 7>Absolutely?

0:50:35.800 --> 0:50:37.440
<v Speaker 6>I was going to be like, but I didn't want

0:50:37.480 --> 0:50:40.000
<v Speaker 6>to feel contradicted because I didn't want to be like, oh,

0:50:40.120 --> 0:50:42.440
<v Speaker 6>my toilet's not working, but I'm sitting on the toilet

0:50:42.520 --> 0:50:42.759
<v Speaker 6>right now.

0:50:42.840 --> 0:50:45.280
<v Speaker 1>You would, I would have allowed you to explain yourself.

0:50:47.239 --> 0:50:48.880
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I know you would because I listened to your

0:50:48.880 --> 0:50:52.160
<v Speaker 6>podcast while I'm at work, So I do understand that

0:50:52.239 --> 0:50:54.319
<v Speaker 6>you do give everybody a fair chance, even if they

0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:57.960
<v Speaker 6>don't understand the question or whatever, to explain themselves.

0:50:59.040 --> 0:51:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Thank you man, Thank you. Do you ever listen to

0:51:01.160 --> 0:51:05.520
<v Speaker 1>it while you're taking a ship? Yes?

0:51:05.800 --> 0:51:09.080
<v Speaker 6>Sometimes, like if I'm at work and I'm moving the boxes, man,

0:51:09.080 --> 0:51:10.480
<v Speaker 6>it's like, oh I gotta take a ship. I don't

0:51:10.520 --> 0:51:12.360
<v Speaker 6>stop the podcast to keep it rolling.

0:51:13.040 --> 0:51:19.320
<v Speaker 1>That's awesome, Joshua, Joshua, I appreciate your your your kind words,

0:51:19.320 --> 0:51:21.000
<v Speaker 1>and your listenership, and uh, do you have any Do

0:51:21.000 --> 0:51:22.479
<v Speaker 1>you have anything else that you want to say before

0:51:22.520 --> 0:51:24.600
<v Speaker 1>we go to the people?

0:51:25.560 --> 0:51:27.319
<v Speaker 3>No chat?

0:51:27.520 --> 0:51:31.080
<v Speaker 6>You guys are awesome. Thank you, Lyle. You're awesome. Keep

0:51:31.120 --> 0:51:31.719
<v Speaker 6>doing what you do.

0:51:31.800 --> 0:51:35.719
<v Speaker 1>Get beautiful. Talk to you soon, josh.

0:51:35.080 --> 0:51:39.759
<v Speaker 6>Hey, bing bomb up bing.

0:51:38.520 --> 0:51:41.479
<v Speaker 1>Bong, Dude. I don't know what that means, but I'm signing.

0:51:41.520 --> 0:51:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I'll sign off on it. James, Yeah, James, how's it going? Yeah?

0:51:49.320 --> 0:51:49.960
<v Speaker 9>It's going good?

0:51:49.960 --> 0:51:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Man, Yes, sir, it's going good. Why is it going

0:51:55.280 --> 0:51:57.279
<v Speaker 1>so well? What's what's so good about it?

0:52:00.600 --> 0:52:02.480
<v Speaker 9>I'm just enjoying myself.

0:52:02.880 --> 0:52:03.640
<v Speaker 1>How was going for you?

0:52:03.719 --> 0:52:03.919
<v Speaker 7>Get?

0:52:05.760 --> 0:52:08.160
<v Speaker 1>Uh's going pretty well? If you had a really good

0:52:08.400 --> 0:52:12.000
<v Speaker 1>night of calls, I've been enjoying the whole the whole

0:52:12.040 --> 0:52:14.799
<v Speaker 1>damn thing. Am I on the speakerphone? By chance?

0:52:17.000 --> 0:52:19.000
<v Speaker 9>You're not on the speakerphone, but I had you on

0:52:19.200 --> 0:52:22.959
<v Speaker 9>Reddit while I was watching you, so now you're You're

0:52:23.040 --> 0:52:23.880
<v Speaker 9>just on my AirPod.

0:52:24.520 --> 0:52:30.200
<v Speaker 1>It's just me and you. So what's going on? James?

0:52:30.200 --> 0:52:33.239
<v Speaker 9>Not much? Man. Actually started up a video game to

0:52:33.280 --> 0:52:36.319
<v Speaker 9>play while I was waiting, but you hit me up

0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:38.040
<v Speaker 9>in the middle. So here I am with you.

0:52:39.000 --> 0:52:41.200
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything in particular that you wanted to talk about?

0:52:43.320 --> 0:52:46.880
<v Speaker 9>So my issue I spoke to the individual on the

0:52:46.920 --> 0:52:54.040
<v Speaker 9>phone was as recently became a manager of a bar,

0:52:55.120 --> 0:52:58.640
<v Speaker 9>and I never had an issue while I was bartending

0:52:58.760 --> 0:53:03.160
<v Speaker 9>or serving in a restaurant with talking to people, But

0:53:03.239 --> 0:53:07.879
<v Speaker 9>since I've became a manager. I'm kind of timid about it.

0:53:09.160 --> 0:53:12.080
<v Speaker 9>I don't know if it's the responsibility that is expected

0:53:12.160 --> 0:53:12.520
<v Speaker 9>of me.

0:53:14.760 --> 0:53:18.040
<v Speaker 3>Or what, but I just.

0:53:19.480 --> 0:53:22.440
<v Speaker 9>I don't feel like myself going up to people and

0:53:22.480 --> 0:53:26.439
<v Speaker 9>talking to them, Like I don't feel comfortable doing it.

0:53:27.120 --> 0:53:30.880
<v Speaker 9>Before I did and now I don't. So I was

0:53:30.880 --> 0:53:34.640
<v Speaker 9>wondering if it's an anxiety issue which I've never had

0:53:34.640 --> 0:53:38.759
<v Speaker 9>before in my life, or what could be going on.

0:53:38.960 --> 0:53:41.359
<v Speaker 9>So I was wanting a second opinion and seeing if

0:53:41.360 --> 0:53:42.439
<v Speaker 9>you could help me out with it.

0:53:43.840 --> 0:53:48.360
<v Speaker 1>MM, so this is interesting. So you were, well, no,

0:53:48.520 --> 0:53:52.960
<v Speaker 1>I you know, it's funny you say that because I

0:53:53.160 --> 0:54:01.280
<v Speaker 1>used to like throw illegal bar, like running a legal

0:54:01.360 --> 0:54:04.000
<v Speaker 1>bar out of my fucking basement, and I felt like

0:54:04.040 --> 0:54:06.080
<v Speaker 1>the man when I was there. I felt like it

0:54:06.120 --> 0:54:09.920
<v Speaker 1>was way easier to talk to people because I was like,

0:54:10.080 --> 0:54:12.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, because you're the guy in charge, you know,

0:54:12.480 --> 0:54:15.799
<v Speaker 1>it makes you feel like you belong there. Whereas you know,

0:54:15.880 --> 0:54:18.839
<v Speaker 1>if I were just like a patron at a bar,

0:54:19.000 --> 0:54:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you know, fucking I would wouldn't talk to anyone.

0:54:22.320 --> 0:54:25.239
<v Speaker 1>So it's interesting to me that you're feeling sort of

0:54:25.719 --> 0:54:31.000
<v Speaker 1>an opposite feeling. That's that's very interesting to me. So

0:54:31.120 --> 0:54:33.400
<v Speaker 1>tell me all right, So when you were just a bartender,

0:54:33.440 --> 0:54:36.040
<v Speaker 1>you weren't a manager. And by the way, are you

0:54:36.080 --> 0:54:39.560
<v Speaker 1>a do you own this? Do you own this establishment

0:54:39.640 --> 0:54:41.200
<v Speaker 1>now or just a manage?

0:54:42.080 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 9>So it's a it's a corporate owned establishment. It became

0:54:46.560 --> 0:54:52.240
<v Speaker 9>corporate within the past few years, within the past four months,

0:54:52.239 --> 0:54:57.400
<v Speaker 9>I believe, or four or five months, given I became

0:54:57.440 --> 0:55:01.760
<v Speaker 9>a manager from a bartender. I bartended for eight years

0:55:01.800 --> 0:55:05.440
<v Speaker 9>before that, and I've been in the industry for fourteen

0:55:07.239 --> 0:55:09.720
<v Speaker 9>So this is like brand new to me, like straight

0:55:09.800 --> 0:55:14.400
<v Speaker 9>up never done it before, brand new type stuff. But

0:55:14.560 --> 0:55:18.600
<v Speaker 9>before I never had an issue. Now it's kind of.

0:55:19.560 --> 0:55:20.400
<v Speaker 5>If if.

0:55:21.680 --> 0:55:24.920
<v Speaker 9>There's there's a problem with the table, I like you

0:55:25.000 --> 0:55:27.000
<v Speaker 9>sure you don't want somebody else to go to it?

0:55:28.440 --> 0:55:32.240
<v Speaker 9>And in like in any other instance, I was always

0:55:32.280 --> 0:55:35.360
<v Speaker 9>the first person, like I would I would deal with

0:55:34.960 --> 0:55:37.440
<v Speaker 9>the problem.

0:55:37.840 --> 0:55:42.200
<v Speaker 1>So you said that when you were a bartender, when

0:55:42.200 --> 0:55:43.840
<v Speaker 1>you were just a bartender, you were and a manager.

0:55:45.160 --> 0:55:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel did you feel okay? I want you

0:55:48.719 --> 0:55:54.160
<v Speaker 1>to rank you? Okay, between you as a patron at

0:55:54.160 --> 0:55:57.239
<v Speaker 1>a bar, you as a bartender at a bar, and

0:55:57.280 --> 0:56:01.560
<v Speaker 1>you as a manager of a bar. Who is where

0:56:01.600 --> 0:56:05.440
<v Speaker 1>would you rank those? In one to three from outgoing this,

0:56:08.000 --> 0:56:08.799
<v Speaker 1>outgoing this.

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<v Speaker 9>I would say actually being a bartender would be number one, okay,

0:56:14.920 --> 0:56:20.640
<v Speaker 9>Second would be a patron at a bar and bullshit

0:56:20.719 --> 0:56:24.760
<v Speaker 9>during the manager. Three would be the actual actual manager.

0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so crazy, okay, So that all right? So so

0:56:28.080 --> 0:56:32.280
<v Speaker 1>then this is interesting to me because that you put patron,

0:56:32.480 --> 0:56:34.640
<v Speaker 1>that you put working at the bar above the patron,

0:56:34.840 --> 0:56:38.439
<v Speaker 1>because tell me, what is it about being the bartender

0:56:39.239 --> 0:56:43.920
<v Speaker 1>that actively gives you, uh let's call it confidence?

0:56:46.520 --> 0:56:51.440
<v Speaker 9>So so being the bartender, I don't necessarily say it

0:56:51.480 --> 0:56:58.040
<v Speaker 9>would be confident, but it would be that you you

0:56:58.160 --> 0:57:01.040
<v Speaker 9>have to come before me before you come before anybody else.

0:57:01.480 --> 0:57:04.960
<v Speaker 9>So if I tell you know, if I'm cutting.

0:57:04.760 --> 0:57:06.399
<v Speaker 5>You off, if say, the.

0:57:06.360 --> 0:57:09.520
<v Speaker 9>Get comes to my to my bar and you've had

0:57:09.600 --> 0:57:13.640
<v Speaker 9>too many Woodfords, I'm telling you know, right you keep

0:57:13.680 --> 0:57:15.799
<v Speaker 9>going on and on with me. I'm telling you know.

0:57:16.560 --> 0:57:17.960
<v Speaker 1>It's an authoritative position.

0:57:19.440 --> 0:57:23.880
<v Speaker 9>Authority exactly exactly, and I'm not used to it. This

0:57:23.960 --> 0:57:27.600
<v Speaker 9>is never I've never been in that authoritative position, and

0:57:27.720 --> 0:57:32.920
<v Speaker 9>I don't know how to not I wouldn't say mentally,

0:57:33.160 --> 0:57:35.840
<v Speaker 9>but I don't know how to process that.

0:57:37.520 --> 0:57:40.000
<v Speaker 1>So you well, well, no, I'm saying that being the

0:57:40.000 --> 0:57:43.880
<v Speaker 1>bartender in a way is an authoritative position because you

0:57:43.880 --> 0:57:46.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, you cut people off and you'll feel as

0:57:46.480 --> 0:57:49.800
<v Speaker 1>though you are in command of the place. But now

0:57:49.960 --> 0:57:52.800
<v Speaker 1>as a manager, you like actually are in command of

0:57:52.840 --> 0:57:56.720
<v Speaker 1>the place. Is that like give you anxiety? This is

0:57:56.720 --> 0:57:59.640
<v Speaker 1>so I don't know, this is so like it's hard

0:57:59.640 --> 0:58:04.240
<v Speaker 1>to crack because it feels so counterinto it.

0:58:03.960 --> 0:58:07.840
<v Speaker 9>It it's foreign to me as well. That's why I

0:58:07.920 --> 0:58:09.120
<v Speaker 9>figured i'd give you a call.

0:58:09.800 --> 0:58:12.960
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like do you feel like there's like

0:58:13.080 --> 0:58:14.560
<v Speaker 1>more pressure on you now?

0:58:16.160 --> 0:58:16.400
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:58:16.880 --> 0:58:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Okay, maybe that's it.

0:58:20.240 --> 0:58:24.080
<v Speaker 9>I came I came from an establishment before the place

0:58:24.120 --> 0:58:26.560
<v Speaker 9>I'm working at. I came from an establishment to where

0:58:27.360 --> 0:58:30.680
<v Speaker 9>as a bartender I would have to call the cops,

0:58:30.720 --> 0:58:35.560
<v Speaker 9>like at least once a weekend. It was given to

0:58:35.720 --> 0:58:39.320
<v Speaker 9>Now I'm kind of in a nicer, kind.

0:58:39.120 --> 0:58:40.960
<v Speaker 5>Of upscale.

0:58:42.680 --> 0:58:43.760
<v Speaker 9>Type of environment.

0:58:44.200 --> 0:58:46.400
<v Speaker 1>Sure, yeah, and it's uh interesting.

0:58:46.440 --> 0:58:48.840
<v Speaker 9>I think it's kind of messed with my head a

0:58:48.920 --> 0:58:55.840
<v Speaker 9>little bit. And and I can't I can't figure out

0:58:55.840 --> 0:58:58.920
<v Speaker 9>how it's messed with me. I know it's there, but

0:58:59.080 --> 0:59:02.320
<v Speaker 9>I can't cross fit in my head that this is

0:59:02.400 --> 0:59:04.880
<v Speaker 9>why or this is this is the reason this is

0:59:04.920 --> 0:59:09.160
<v Speaker 9>going on. And that's kind of that's kind of what's

0:59:09.200 --> 0:59:11.640
<v Speaker 9>thrown all of this off. And I want to be

0:59:11.720 --> 0:59:17.120
<v Speaker 9>great at what I do, but it's throwing your arrangement.

0:59:20.160 --> 0:59:23.680
<v Speaker 1>So you're not new, as you said, to the industry.

0:59:23.720 --> 0:59:25.840
<v Speaker 1>You've been here, you know for years and years and years.

0:59:25.960 --> 0:59:30.320
<v Speaker 1>But are you new to this sort of upscale establishment?

0:59:30.400 --> 0:59:32.000
<v Speaker 1>Is this your first time working in what you would

0:59:32.000 --> 0:59:34.280
<v Speaker 1>consider an upscale an upscale establishment?

0:59:35.680 --> 0:59:40.880
<v Speaker 9>Yes, sir, you're you're correct for probably about maybe that's it. Yes,

0:59:41.880 --> 0:59:44.439
<v Speaker 9>And and see that that's kind of what I thought

0:59:44.560 --> 0:59:51.680
<v Speaker 9>as well. So I wasn't sure, but I never went

0:59:51.960 --> 0:59:55.400
<v Speaker 9>like so I started the establishment as a server, became

0:59:55.440 --> 1:00:03.280
<v Speaker 9>a bartender, put me through management training, and uh like,

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<v Speaker 9>throughout the whole process, I was like, this is freaking awesome.

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<v Speaker 9>Like I had confidence, I felt great in myself until

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<v Speaker 9>they sent me back to the store I was going

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<v Speaker 9>to be at. And then once I got back to

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<v Speaker 9>the store, it was kind of like I hit my

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<v Speaker 9>head into a wall. It was like, Damn, this is

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<v Speaker 9>completely a different environment than I envisioned.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I feel like and uh, this could be

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<v Speaker 1>a load of shit, but I feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, well look at it like this, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you've been in the industry for what fifteen years? And

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<v Speaker 1>you said you've been working mostly at the CD sort

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<v Speaker 1>of places where you would always have to call the

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<v Speaker 1>cops when you first show like when you were when

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<v Speaker 1>you first showed up, whatever, when you were eighteen or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>The fuck uh at one of these places to be

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<v Speaker 1>a bartender. Were you not sort of having to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with and adjust to this, to this environment.

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<v Speaker 9>Dude, I my first month bartending, no shit, I googled

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<v Speaker 9>how to talk to people. So I googled what what

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<v Speaker 9>I should be doing as a bartender. I figured out,

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<v Speaker 9>you talk about the news, you talk about sports, you

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<v Speaker 9>talk about you talk about non non confrontational stuff, and

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<v Speaker 9>I would. I would sit there before I went to

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<v Speaker 9>work every day. I would read non confrontational stuff so

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<v Speaker 9>I could have something.

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<v Speaker 1>To talk to people about, like local news stories.

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<v Speaker 9>Not necessarily local, but local, national, weather, sports, all that,

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<v Speaker 9>just because I didn't I wasn't acclimated to being a

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<v Speaker 9>bartender and actually having people right there in front of

1:02:01.520 --> 1:02:04.240
<v Speaker 9>me like I was used to being a server, and

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<v Speaker 9>I would. I would take your orders walk away, wouldn't

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<v Speaker 9>have anything to do with you being a bartender. I would.

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<v Speaker 9>I'd be there in front of you. I would always

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<v Speaker 9>have shit to do in front of you, so it

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<v Speaker 9>always if you wanted to talk to me, I'd have

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<v Speaker 9>to be there. So I looked this stuff up, and

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<v Speaker 9>every single day before I went into work, I would

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<v Speaker 9>I would do research, and I mean for like three

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<v Speaker 9>or four months until I got the confidence too not

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<v Speaker 9>not to have to do this. So that's where the

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<v Speaker 9>anxiety part comes into, is that I was thinking that

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<v Speaker 9>it comes from that or it stems from that issue,

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<v Speaker 9>and but I've never had that issue before in my life,

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<v Speaker 9>so that that's what kind of throws me off.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to google how to talk to rich people.

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<v Speaker 1>See if you get any other responses. See what Googles

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<v Speaker 1>say about that.

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<v Speaker 9>You know, I wouldn't say you're you're too too far

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<v Speaker 9>off there if you throw old in the mix, that

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<v Speaker 9>would that would be.

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<v Speaker 1>Like on point, well, I get well, So I mean

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<v Speaker 1>to like to throw it back to the reason I

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<v Speaker 1>was I was originally asking, is like, you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>when you when you were eighteen, you were like you

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<v Speaker 1>were googling how to talk to people like you were

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<v Speaker 1>you were you were clearly, like you know, in a

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<v Speaker 1>brand new environment that you were adjusting to but then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, X amount of years later, you you adjusted

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<v Speaker 1>to the environment, you know, and then you're you became

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<v Speaker 1>a pro And I believe that, you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds to me like this is a brand new

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<v Speaker 1>sort of position for you. I believe that as time

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<v Speaker 1>moved on you you became more socially ept in in

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<v Speaker 1>this uh like c D environment as you say, you

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<v Speaker 1>became comfortable with that. And then you're in a new environment,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're naturally going to be uncomfortable. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as as you've already proven you will naturally over time,

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<v Speaker 1>I think at least from from what you've told me

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<v Speaker 1>uh acclimate to that new environment. Okay, I would think, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>see what Google has to say. It seems to like

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<v Speaker 1>it works for you the first time.

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<v Speaker 9>And I don't necessarily want to just jump to Google.

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<v Speaker 9>That that was I mean, but no, most definitely, But

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<v Speaker 9>that was my first persons think. To be honest, Now

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<v Speaker 9>that I'm in my thirties, I'm kind of kind of

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<v Speaker 9>like I need to like, are my people still wearing

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<v Speaker 9>thin or what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't think you're people. No, this isn't no. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think your people's skills are ranked in because

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<v Speaker 1>it you just had a new environment, dude, Like like

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know that has to be that has

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<v Speaker 1>to be it right, Like maybe it's not. But but

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<v Speaker 1>as we've talked and explored the different possible variables, if

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<v Speaker 1>I had to pick one based on the information give me,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you're just in a new environment. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean again, there there there are infinite variables, but that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like it's the one. Because if you're telling me

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<v Speaker 1>that when you're in other environments you're feeling socially appt

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, it sounds like that's the right variable.

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<v Speaker 1>So so would you say your name was again?

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<v Speaker 9>H James? James?

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<v Speaker 1>James James. Do you have any any final things that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to say before we go?

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<v Speaker 9>No, sir, I just appreciate you taking my call and

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<v Speaker 9>you look dream today.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro. Oh, thank you man. That's the nicest thing anyone's

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<v Speaker 1>ever said to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, sir, I know it is beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to you soon, James.

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<v Speaker 9>Good luck all right, brother, take care of yourself. Have

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<v Speaker 9>a happy Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, folks, this is Lyle. In this next call, I

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<v Speaker 1>am joined by my sister. So if you hear a

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<v Speaker 1>voice that is not mine or a callers that is

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<v Speaker 1>my sister. Okay, back to the podcast. Jeremy, Jeremy, Jeremy. Okay, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing good. It's uh four am in Germany.

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<v Speaker 4>You're in Germany? Are you German?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 10>Actually, I'm from the Washington State, but I've been here

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<v Speaker 10>for since two thousand and four.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm just four.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, but this is two thousand and four and you

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<v Speaker 1>still have an American phone number.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey Google Voice.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh it's it's free. It's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, what are you doing. I'm a translator, so he

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<v Speaker 1>speaks just fluent German. Hey, better, dude, tell us something

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<v Speaker 1>in German? Was in Germany?

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<v Speaker 4>She was in Germany, had a cousin in Germany for

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<v Speaker 4>a while.

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<v Speaker 3>But I don't think how was that working out for you? Guys?

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<v Speaker 4>It's working out really well. We never went to Germany.

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<v Speaker 4>Wants to visit her.

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<v Speaker 1>It's working out for us as much. It's working out

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<v Speaker 1>for us very neutrally.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it really isn't working out either way. It's fine,

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<v Speaker 4>but she doesn't live there anymore. So the conversation was mute.

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<v Speaker 1>We were just trying to connect to you. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you say gecko in German?

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<v Speaker 3>That's not one of my husbands.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you not know what to say lizard? Can

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<v Speaker 1>you say lizard?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>What lizards?

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<v Speaker 3>More calm, I don't.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't don't talk about geckos.

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<v Speaker 3>I do stupid.

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<v Speaker 10>Translations about like product manuals and like how did like

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<v Speaker 10>insert part a into like lot be and ship?

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<v Speaker 4>So, but you've never had a conversation with anyone about

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<v Speaker 4>like animals, believe.

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<v Speaker 1>What is how about lizard? What is the lizard?

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<v Speaker 8>Ia?

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<v Speaker 1>Ex I think ex I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I don't think we've said one portion of

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<v Speaker 4>that correctly.

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<v Speaker 3>It's good, I think I think.

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<v Speaker 4>Ex exa sound like fucking idiots? What's up, Jermy? What's

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<v Speaker 4>you want to tell us about?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely nothing? I'm just watching you guys without a calling.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I'm thinking what do you think about Germany on

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<v Speaker 1>this topic? Beforehand? What do you think about Germany as

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<v Speaker 1>a place to abandon your current life and start a

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<v Speaker 1>new one?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, so I did. I moved here when I was

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<v Speaker 3>twenty one and here I'm like it, that's what I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I have like more or less no contact with the

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<v Speaker 3>US at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>And cool, you didn't know anyone when you went over there.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, it's a long story, but yeah, I moved here

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<v Speaker 10>to work with the band.

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<v Speaker 1>Any band we know?

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<v Speaker 3>Rumsteinine kind of music?

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of music does Rumstein do?

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<v Speaker 10>Industrial metalish pop stuff more or less?

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<v Speaker 1>But metalish pop stuff? What industrial metal?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know that metal music had different types of

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<v Speaker 4>Is there electrical.

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<v Speaker 10>Heavy, heavy guitars, the distorted stuff?

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<v Speaker 1>You got the is there manufacturing and you got the

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<v Speaker 1>and you got the keyboard? What?

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<v Speaker 7>Sorry, let's luck.

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<v Speaker 4>But no, I'm just being stupid, so I wouldn't worry

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<v Speaker 4>too much about what i'd say.

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<v Speaker 1>Rumstine.

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<v Speaker 7>Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>So you went there when you were twenty one to

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<v Speaker 1>work with the band. How did you even connect with

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<v Speaker 1>this band? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you know it?

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<v Speaker 10>I mean, oh yeah, I did three years in high school,

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<v Speaker 10>which is apparently enough for me.

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<v Speaker 1>How'd you connect with the band?

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<v Speaker 3>I found them?

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<v Speaker 8>Do you know?

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<v Speaker 10>It's a long story, but I basically I made a

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<v Speaker 10>fan pagement I was in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>You were a super fan of Rumstein. Wow, so you

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<v Speaker 1>made a fan page when you were in high school?

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<v Speaker 1>I made page with them, and they just what, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what was the when you're like sixteen?

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<v Speaker 10>I was sixty eh, and like I was like post

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<v Speaker 10>like the track listening to the new album before it

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<v Speaker 10>was supposed to be posted.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting. So, so you were sixteen you got this crazy

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<v Speaker 1>you're like the president of the Rumshtein fan club. How

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<v Speaker 1>did how did they first make contact with you? What

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<v Speaker 1>did they like?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Like, how do you take that offline?

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<v Speaker 7>God? Damn it?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh really? So friend the first message or a pissed

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<v Speaker 1>off Oh that's funny. And now then you work with them,

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<v Speaker 1>he still talks, You still keep up with them?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean it's been at least ten years since

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<v Speaker 3>I was really actively involved in anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they still together? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, they're still They're still putting stuff up rum Sty.

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<v Speaker 7>That's how I got my story.

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<v Speaker 1>That's so interesting. Hell, I really I really need to

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<v Speaker 1>close the gap here because between because I'm still not

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<v Speaker 1>closed for me. Before we move on to this call,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to close the gap between sixteen year old

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<v Speaker 1>kid running fan page two five years later moving to

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<v Speaker 1>Germany to work with the band again.

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<v Speaker 11>That's a long story, but I had basically I was

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<v Speaker 11>in contact with them and they were asking to take

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<v Speaker 11>the off line or whatever. But we had a sort

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<v Speaker 11>of working relationship, like we knew each other sort of

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<v Speaker 11>that the management and me, not the band directly, and

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<v Speaker 11>then I just said, hey, did you guys maybe have

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<v Speaker 11>a job for me in Berlin and they're like okay,

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<v Speaker 11>and then I came here. Basically it was like a

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<v Speaker 11>shitty an internship, hardly.

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<v Speaker 10>Paid for anything.

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<v Speaker 7>And a year later they're like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we don't really need a webmaster anyway, because the

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<v Speaker 3>internets are bad.

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<v Speaker 1>The internet is such a bad So then they just

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<v Speaker 1>they just they didn't up break you into a full

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<v Speaker 1>time job. But then there you were in Germany. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were just like a stick around.

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<v Speaker 10>I pivoted to translation because I was already doing that

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<v Speaker 10>with them anyway, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Speak that's very interesting topics. Wow, Jeremy, Wow that you

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<v Speaker 1>know that that kid who wanted to be a mom. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's an inspiring story for him, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because he's in fucking whatever college stuff, and he could

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<v Speaker 1>just go to Tibet, become a month, find out being

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<v Speaker 1>a monk sucks, but that the bet is sick, and

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<v Speaker 1>just hang out there for you know, until he's dead.

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<v Speaker 3>Not everything in Germany works out perfectly, but so far

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<v Speaker 3>it's working.

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<v Speaker 1>Good for me, beautiful. Thank you for sharing, Jeremy, you

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<v Speaker 1>have a good rest of the night.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>That Bah never goes on the line making his on

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<v Speaker 1>calls every night, never goes to teach you.