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Speaker 1: Hello, Is this is this Kaitlin.

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Speaker 2: Taylor? Yes, it is Kaylin.

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Speaker 1: How are you Kaitlin?

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Speaker 2: Oh good? You know you are a hard wizard to

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Speaker 2: get in contact with. I had to call it them

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Speaker 2: like two hundred times.

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Speaker 1: You called two hundred times. You said I had you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, isn't it Kayla?

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Speaker 1: If you Kaitlin, Kayla, Kaitlin. You know what's annoying about

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Speaker 1: your name is that it's so close to being Caitlin,

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Speaker 1: but it's not, and it's not Kaylen. It's like something

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Speaker 1: in It's like Kayla and Caitlin divided by two. It's

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Speaker 1: Kayla plus Caitlin divided by two the average of those two.

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Speaker 1: And that bothers me. I wish it was just one

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Speaker 1: of them, But what what is it? One more time

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Speaker 1: and all internalize.

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Speaker 2: It forever, like and klan.

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Speaker 1: So she called two hundred times, and I assume if

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Speaker 1: you call two hundred times, there there is something that

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. So I really just need some petty

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Speaker 2: advice kind of m So I was pregnant, I was

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Speaker 2: dating this boy and a week before I had my baby.

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Speaker 2: She's on me and kicked me out, and so then

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Speaker 2: I was nice enough. I allowed him to be there

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Speaker 2: while I gave birth. In the whole time, I laid

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Speaker 2: up all night and watched him snapchat his new girlfriend

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Speaker 2: back and forth.

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Speaker 1: So he was hold on, hold.

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Speaker 3: On, so he was.

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Speaker 1: So he was in the room in the hot with

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Speaker 1: the hospital room. Yes to tufe it away from you

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Speaker 1: snapchat and his new girl. Yes, did he do any

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Speaker 1: did he do anything to like in any way, shape

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Speaker 1: or for I'm like, help you through the process of

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Speaker 1: of the pregnancy.

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Speaker 2: Oh, we were together the whole pregnancy until a week

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Speaker 2: before I had the baby.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so continue to continue with you with

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Speaker 1: your story.

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Speaker 2: So his new girlfriend is pregnant, but it's not his

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Speaker 2: it's her husband. So she left her husband the day

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Speaker 2: that I sent stuff out. So and I've been like

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Speaker 2: trying to think, like I don't know, I feel like

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Speaker 2: I've been really laid back about the whole ado. You know,

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Speaker 2: Like the pettiest thing I did when I moved out

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Speaker 2: was stole I. He had a bucket of change, and

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Speaker 2: and now I I don't know, he doesn't do anything

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Speaker 2: so I try to piss him off as much as possible,

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Speaker 2: which isn't good and I shouldn't do that. I know that.

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Speaker 1: You say you try to piss him off as much

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Speaker 1: as possible. Besides stealing seventy cents in change and a

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Speaker 1: other things do you do to try to piss him off?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Like, so, my son has his last name and

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Speaker 2: the other day I just texted him out of nowhere

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Speaker 2: I know would make him angry.

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Speaker 1: And are you actually going to do that? Were you

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Speaker 2: make you mad, and he's like, you're ignorant.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's it, Like, I just I need to know

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Speaker 2: what I can do.

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Speaker 1: You say you need to know what you can do?

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Speaker 1: So well, i'm hearing from you. You're saying that you

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Speaker 1: feel like you've been well. Well, this is very interesting

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Speaker 2: Right, Like, I feel like i've been I mean, I

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this dog? My dog?

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's so bad. Her name's Macie. She's in yelling

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Speaker 2: She's been dogs yelling right now?

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Speaker 2: She's so bad. She does everything. She choos up all

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Speaker 1: So do you feel like you so like so like

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Speaker 1: the are you conflicted?

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Speaker 1: Are you like thinking you've been too chill?

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've been bee chill and I want

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Speaker 1: Why do you well, why what do you mean? What

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Speaker 1: You feel like being petty. Well to me, so I

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Speaker 1: you don't want to be petty, right, because typically if

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Speaker 1: because they're as as people like to say, uh, living

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Speaker 1: It's just a place that you could talk with where

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Speaker 1: the door the dog is not there.

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Speaker 2: You know, I think today we just had a conversation

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Speaker 1: you have a boyfriend already?

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Speaker 2: What's next for me? I applied to college. Actually, next,

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Speaker 1: Perfect? Listen, the best revenge is life well lived, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: That's true?

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Speaker 1: Well, then keep living life well, Kaitlin.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think maybe I just needed to talk about

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Speaker 1: I hope that your dog. Uh. I don't know. You

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Speaker 2: When she was little, she would just like randomly wake up,

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Speaker 2: So I used to give her beIN a drill when

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dog's gonna have a drill.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know. I was just joking when I

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Speaker 1: your dog. All right, well you say that one, Klein. Huh,

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Speaker 1: have a good night, Klen. Thank you for calling too.

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Speaker 1: Someone in the chat said that it's that it is safe,

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Speaker 1: you should to your dog. And yeah, I have no

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Speaker 1: idea give your dog dog's like cheese. I think give

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Speaker 1: your dog some parmesan cheese. Soon asked why I hate dogs.

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Speaker 1: I don't hate dogs. I just hated I don't hate dogs.

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Speaker 1: I just hated that dog for I hated that dog

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Speaker 1: for that specific period of time, for one specific reason.

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Speaker 1: My hatred was very pointed, explained and specific toward that

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Speaker 1: And now that time is over and the purpose is over,

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't care what happens to it. Not

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Speaker 1: the dog. Let's take a phone call. Hello, we have Bono,

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Speaker 1: Is this really Bono?

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Speaker 5: Man. That is great to hear you. Man, I've been

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Speaker 5: Amazing that you answered. And it is my week vacation,

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Speaker 1: Now, beautiful, beautiful, bino. What's going on? Tell me everything?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean I took a week off vacation. I

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Speaker 5: Uh, it wasn't that bad because I've been an arternative

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Speaker 5: Just say I was selling stuff that I wasn't too,

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Speaker 5: The state, Yeah, the whole state. They gave me twenty

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, you should have seen how I surprised my

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Speaker 1: Mh. And are you still banned from this state? How

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Speaker 5: No, it was just a year banned, So I'm good

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Speaker 5: to go back and forth as I please now. But yeah,

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Speaker 5: They just told me to go home and pack my

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Speaker 1: So all right, so you got kicked out of school

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Speaker 1: go You didn't end up going back to juvie? What what? So? What?

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Speaker 1: What did you like? What was your next sort of

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Speaker 5: Basically I was already getting to that age where are

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Speaker 1: I guess, did you get like a gig of some

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Speaker 5: Yeah, as soon as I came back, I went to school,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, working security, sell firearms, you know a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit of everything, And are you enjoying what you're doing now.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't say I enjoyed, but I mean a learning.

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Speaker 5: As I keep making money, I'll do whatever I need

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Speaker 5: Uh, my mother and my younger sister. I mean, they've

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Speaker 1: Nice. Nice? Do you still have a have a good

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I have a great relationship with even though they

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Speaker 1: Eat a lot?

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Speaker 5: My mom? My mom is Mexican, so I basically have

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Speaker 1: That's cool. What like what specifically, like what kind of Mexican.

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Speaker 5: Food tacos, manulo, mola, floutes, some OLiS, basically anything I

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Speaker 1: What your name was? Bono? Yep, Bono. Is there anything

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Speaker 5: Yeah, anybody that's doing bad and I feel like they're

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Speaker 5: You can always turn your life around. You got to

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Speaker 1: Thanks for Colin, Bono, take.

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Speaker 7: It easy all right, man.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: To see someone in the.

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Speaker 1: Chat said that this paint has to be very bad

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Speaker 1: find out in a few years, because I think I've

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Speaker 1: I don't think that the paint. I don't think it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that the paint attacks in the short term.

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Speaker 1: The short term. I think the paint plans ahead and

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Speaker 1: So I don't know just yet, but we will see.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I remember reading somewhere that you know,

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Speaker 1: there's no violent jay from the insane clown Polse. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if this was like if this might have

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Speaker 1: he got some kind of I don't know if it

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Speaker 1: he can do it, I can do it. Potentially, everyone

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Speaker 1: in the chat is like, oh, you gotta use here's

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Speaker 1: one more thing, and then we'll take phone calls. But

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Speaker 1: this happens all the time. I swear you guy, this

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Speaker 1: gotta hear the products that you got to use, the

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Speaker 1: How badly do I need to moisturize? Really? Can I

443
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: live a successful, happy, fulfilled life without moisturizing? I feel

444
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 1: like I can. Hello is this Colby?

445
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 7: Yes?

446
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 1: It is hello, Colby.

447
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 8: Oh, so nice to be on here.

448
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: I'm glad, you know. I'm I think it's cool that

449
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:35,640
Speaker 1: you were able to make that decision. After only being

450
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: on here for a second, you immediately felt like like

451
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 1: it was good to be on here, And I'm I'm

452
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: that's good. I think right, Maybe it's maybe it's too

453
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: snap of a judgment, maybe five minutes from maybe I

454
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. I'll shut up. What's your

455
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 1: name again, Colby?

456
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 8: Yep?

457
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: What's going on? Colby?

458
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 8: So I came on here to tell the story about

459
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 8: when I was like five years old, I went to

460
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 8: a Mexican restaurant in Bangor Main called Miguel's. I was

461
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:10,400
Speaker 8: a very what I need to go to the bathroom, right,

462
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 8: very very dirty bathroom leaving, a shy five year old

463
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 8: decides to pee all over the floor.

464
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: Okay, when you say you were OUs, you were five

465
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: years old on a Mexican restaurant. You go to the

466
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: use a bathroom, You go to use the bathroom alone,

467
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: your parents don't like take you.

468
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 8: Oh no, it's just how old.

469
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 1: How old are kids usually when you got to go

470
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,399
Speaker 1: take them to the bathroom or when they can go

471
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: on their own. It's five ah, right, five years so

472
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: let's see. So well, Okay, when you say you peed

473
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: all over the floor, is it something where you attempted

474
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: to use the urinal but you failed and you peed

475
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 1: on the floor, or you in the middle of the

476
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: bathroom intentionally just went straight for the floor.

477
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 8: Oh, right out the door. Honestly, it was very very

478
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 8: dirty bathroom. As I said, it was, yeah, kind of

479
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 8: like a gas station bathroom, you know what I mean.

480
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 6: Mm.

481
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 8: And then after that, I mean, the waiter came up

482
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 8: to me and looked at me and my mom and

483
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 8: her partner and looked at us and was like, I

484
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 8: know what you did, And me, being a shy five

485
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 8: year old, looked back at him and asked, what do

486
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 8: you mean? My mom stuck up for me and like.

487
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 5: He didn't do that?

488
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 8: Like, yes, yeah, but I did. I mean, I'm a

489
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 8: fier would be ashamed for that. M.

490
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: So you denied it, and your mother believed you, and

491
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: she joined you in your denial.

492
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 8: Yeah.

493
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: Did you feel at the time any guilt for bringing

494
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: your mother into your lie?

495
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 8: Honestly? Now? I was kind of afterwards, continued to eating

496
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 8: my food.

497
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: Really didn't think about it at all in any sort

498
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 1: of guilt framed way, honestly, now and contemporarily, how do

499
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 1: you feel about it?

500
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 8: Honestly, I don't know how to feel about it now

501
00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 8: now that I have my own hit of my own

502
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 8: you know what I mean.

503
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: You have a child of your own now?

504
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 8: Yes, I do.

505
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,399
Speaker 1: And how would you feel if if you were in

506
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: a similar situation as your mother with your current child?

507
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 8: You know, I'd stick off for my daughter as well,

508
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 8: But afterwards, I don't know how i'd feel, like what

509
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 8: I would say to her? M.

510
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing is it sounds like, and correct

511
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you did

512
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: not pee on the floor intentionally out of malice. Sounds

513
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: like you peeed on the floor out of like some

514
00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: sort of maybe it was shock. I don't I don't,

515
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: I don't know what what like propelled the pee out

516
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: of your body, but it was. It feels like it

517
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: was like an involuntary emotional response to something more than

518
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: it was an act of malice.

519
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, I would agree with that. I mean, I didn't

520
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 8: do it to do it right, You didn't want to

521
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 8: walk any further into the bathroom.

522
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 1: Mhm. What was the name of this restaurant.

523
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 8: It was Miguel's in Bangor, Maine.

524
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: Is it still there? Yeah, go back there, stand by

525
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: the bathroom and next time somebody peas in there on

526
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: the floor, you bring a rag, you clean it up yourself.

527
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: You clean up pissing that bathroom once, and then you're

528
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 1: done forever. Your your deaths have been repaid. But you

529
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: got to go back there and you gotta clean up

530
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 1: someone's piss just to sort of.

531
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 8: Or I never thought of doing.

532
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: You gotta find the owner of the restaurants and let

533
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: their kid piss in your mouth.

534
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 6: That.

535
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: No, it's too far, you don't have to do that,

536
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 1: but you could.

537
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 8: I kind of feel like it's one of those acts

538
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 8: that was just kind of frown upon, you know what

539
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 8: I mean, Like masturbating on a place.

540
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: I also I also think it would be very frowd upon.

541
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: What's your name again?

542
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 7: Colby?

543
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 1: Colby? Thank you very much? Calling hello, Dinkas, Hello, how

544
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: are you dinkis?

545
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 7: So my calling topic probably isn't too good now about uh,

546
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 7: your rant about how much you hate talks?

547
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: I didn't go on to do you all right? Clearly

548
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: nobody was listening to I was very I never said

549
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: I hate dogs. I like dogs. I just said I

550
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: hated like that specific dog for that I no longer

551
00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: hate that dog, by the way, but I just hated

552
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: that dog for that specific time, for that specific reason.

553
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 1: Did that? Did that not cut? Did I not make myself?

554
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I made myself pretty clear. I feel

555
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 1: like no, you did. I'm sorry.

556
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 7: It's when you were talking about it. When you were

557
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 7: talking about it, I had the feeling of, Uh, you

558
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 7: were going to pick my call for comedic bits.

559
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 1: You thought I was going to pick your call for

560
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: comedic bits. I'm sorry. I drank a bunch of whole

561
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: milk before the stream, so I'm a little amped up.

562
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: M tell me, tell me what you wanted to talk about.

563
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 7: Why I called in is tomorrow I have to put

564
00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 7: down my dog, and I don't know. I don't know

565
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 7: if advice is the right question, because you know, advice

566
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 7: about what, But I guess I don't know just how

567
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:16,720
Speaker 7: to process that. I guess looking for information with that.

568
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 1: How old is your dog?

569
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 7: Eleven and a half eleven and a half.

570
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 1: What kind of dog is it?

571
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 7: Golden Retriever?

572
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 1: What's their name? Maggie, Maggie.

573
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, so they get Golden Retrievers for some reason get

574
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 7: like tumors really bad. So she now is like she's

575
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 7: been doing fine, and then all of a sudden, like

576
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 7: she's not eating and she has a bunch of tumors

577
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 7: and stuff. So I think tomorrow is the day. Unfortunately.

578
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 7: Mm hmmm.

579
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: I have a Golden Retriever too, and I love gold Numbertrievers. See,

580
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: I don't hate dogs. I hated that dog, but I

581
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 1: don't hate dogs in general. I love Golden Retrievers. They're

582
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: good dogs, They're very active, they're very sweet, the very

583
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: affectionate dogs.

584
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 6: Mm hmm.

585
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 1: How would you.

586
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 7: Describe what the name of the dog you hate?

587
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 1: The name? I don't know. I don't even I don't

588
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 1: hate them enough to know their name. I'm over it completely.

589
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: Tell me more about Maggie. What what is Maggie like?

590
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,920
Speaker 7: Well, she used to be very hyper and run around

591
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 7: and stuff and you know, typical dog stuff. Now she

592
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 7: just pisses and ships everywhere.

593
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm hm. That's where we.

594
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 7: All are her body.

595
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: I had a dog, Yeah, I had a right my

596
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: I had a gold I had a Golden Retriever that

597
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 1: died as well. Her name was it was Jessica, And

598
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I remember she uh. Shortly before she died,

599
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: I watched her take a full shit on her own leg.

600
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: And that's it's not that I don't think that's the

601
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,359
Speaker 1: place where anyone wants to be.

602
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's just sucks for you know, like humans, it

603
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 7: takes eighty years to get to that. But you watch

604
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:44,359
Speaker 7: a dog in this lifespan of ten years, you know.

605
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: Do you know this dog? Do you own the dog

606
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: with anyone, like a partner or like or is it

607
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 1: just you and the dog.

608
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 7: I got the dog when I was a kid, and

609
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 7: then so it's been at my parents since that's where

610
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 7: I lived. And then I just bought a house and

611
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 7: so I didn't bring her with me because I knew

612
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 7: this point was coming sometime this year. So to then

613
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 7: up end everything that she's used to and be like, oh,

614
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 7: we're living here for three months and then die. So

615
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 7: she's right, she's with my parents right now.

616
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, And how how are your parents? How are

617
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 1: your parents feeling? Did they also have as as strong

618
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 1: a connection to the dog as you do?

619
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 5: Yeah?

620
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, My my mom's gonna have kind of brought it up,

621
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 7: you know, since for these last few months I haven't

622
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 7: been there that you know, she thinks now is the time.

623
00:35:56,239 --> 00:36:00,040
Speaker 7: M So it's not just my call I'm making, So

624
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 7: it's kind of a joint.

625
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: Call, right, I mean, that's that that it's you know,

626
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: I uh, you know, all the circumstances considered, it is

627
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 1: it is nice to be able to celebrate the life

628
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:18,800
Speaker 1: of your dog alongside other people who also cared about Maggie.

629
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 3: Mm hm, m hm.

630
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: And you guys said you're going tomorrow.

631
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, because what it is is she's been off and

632
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 7: on in you know, she's very sick, but at the

633
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 7: same time, there's been weeks to a month where she's

634
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 7: been perfectly healthy and happy or act at least acting healthy.

635
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 7: But the last three days she hasn't eaten at all.

636
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 7: And then uh so we called the vet and she

637
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 7: said that if she doesn't eat by the third day, right,

638
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 7: I got Tomorrow will be the third day that she

639
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 7: hasn't eaten, And if she hasn't eaten by then, it's

640
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 7: kind of a sign mm hm. Which it's been. It's

641
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 7: been downhill, uh for close to a year or two years.

642
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 7: So do you I went over, I was trying to

643
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 7: I was trying to like give her cheese and stuff

644
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 7: and like all the stuff she normally would eat she

645
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 7: has no interest in.

646
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:27,839
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

647
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 3: Have you.

648
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,840
Speaker 1: Sort of taken uh have you have you have you

649
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: reflected on I don't know, maybe maybe maybe nice memories

650
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: that you have that you have had with Maggie, anything

651
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: in particular that you want to share. Uh.

652
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 7: Well, last year we kind of knew like she was.

653
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 7: She started getting bad last year, like real bad, and

654
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:05,839
Speaker 7: so when we went to the beach, we took her

655
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 7: with us and that was I mean, she lives in

656
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 7: my backyard. Other than not living out there all the time.

657
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:13,800
Speaker 7: I'm just saying.

658
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:14,360
Speaker 3: She she.

659
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: Has a very limited uh, travel experience, as most dogs do.

660
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, so I guess you know from her perspective, knowing

661
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 7: that there's an ocean and the beach is probably surprising

662
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 7: and weird. So that was kind of like a nice

663
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 7: last thing to do, even though it was.

664
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 1: A half ago. That's interesting, right because you you almost like,

665
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: I like the way you're talking about that, Like, you know,

666
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 1: your dog is a very limited worldview, only to like

667
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: your backyard. But then they're like, oh, there's a whole

668
00:38:55,280 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: ocean and beach and stuff. I almost almost almost feel

669
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 1: like I almost feel like that every time I go

670
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: to the beach, you know, because we're all spending all

671
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: of our time in our fucking rooms and offices and

672
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,839
Speaker 1: caves and shit. You get the guy You're like, as

673
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 1: a whole, we're all we're all kind of dogs too

674
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: in a way, you know, we all live sedentary lives

675
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: and then shut ourselves and die, and.

676
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 7: People standing around talking about us dying, and one will

677
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 7: die and then it actually happens.

678
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: Does that feel? Do you feel weird talking about you're

679
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 1: the fact that your dog will around the dog?

680
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,240
Speaker 7: I wouldn't say so. I mean, she was right there

681
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 7: today when I was talking about it.

682
00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

683
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 7: But yeah, she's just she's not doing good at all,

684
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 7: Like when I was petting her. She kind of just

685
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 7: now feels like a skin with a sack of in it,

686
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 7: if that makes sense.

687
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense kind of.

688
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,720
Speaker 7: I mean it's a gross description.

689
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: But it's a little it's a little gross, but still

690
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:17,280
Speaker 1: a good dog, you know, Maggie. What's your name again?

691
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:24,919
Speaker 1: Dinks Dinkas, Dinkas. I'm sorry I didn't give you any

692
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 1: advice because I don't necessarily necessarily no, but is there No,

693
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 1: I don't hate dogs, Dinkers. I love dogs. I have

694
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:43,439
Speaker 1: a dog. I have a Golden Retriever. I have too

695
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: gold I two Golden retrievers. One of them died. One

696
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 1: of them took a ship on her leg and then

697
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:53,280
Speaker 1: died right after. But I like dogs. I love dogs.

698
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: I love your dog, dude, I love your dog. I'm

699
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: proud to hear. But she had a wonderful time at

700
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 1: the beach, and proud of you for giving her a

701
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 1: good life. You take some time, you take some time

702
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 1: on these next few days, when you're reflecting on the

703
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 1: life of this dog. You give yourself a pat on

704
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: the back, thinkers, for all the good work you've done

705
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 1: to give that dog a good life. You feel good

706
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 1: about that. You reflect, you think about her life. You

707
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: feel good about her life. She had a good life.

708
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: You gave one to her, and you know, I don't know,

709
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 1: I hope, I hope that as as as you're bathing

710
00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: in the reflection of of your dog's life, of of

711
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 1: of what she meant to you, you're you're almost given

712
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: this like, I don't, I don't, I don't know how

713
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: you would say it, but this this rejuvenation for all

714
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: the all the various joys in your life, not just

715
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: the joy that this dog gave to you. You're like, oh,

716
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 1: maybe I should, you know, appreciate the the sky while

717
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: I could still see it, or my my my parents

718
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 1: while I can still see them. You know, I hope,

719
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 1: I hope it gives you a greater appreciation and for

720
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: all the other things that are bringing to joy in

721
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 1: your life. That's a great point, you know, so so

722
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: so thank you very much for calling Dinkas and and

723
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 1: real quick, of course you can say something real quick.

724
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 7: You might ignore this question. That's fine and do that

725
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 7: thing where you say good night Denkas.

726
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 1: We've had to sincere a conversation for me to do that.

727
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: Now I would normally do that, but that we've had

728
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: we're at it sincere point. Now where if I did that,

729
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: it wouldn't come off as funny. I would just look

730
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 1: like a dick.

731
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 7: So well, it's very it's very off. It's very off topic.

732
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 7: Oh sure, is there a chance that you will ever

733
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 7: do a an Age three team up again for Collins?

734
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: If if? I mean, look, if he ever calls me,

735
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 1: I'll come on anytime that they that they want me

736
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:55,839
Speaker 1: to come on, you know, mm.

737
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 7: Hmm, all right. I just figured I asked because I

738
00:42:59,320 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 7: was curious.

739
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: I don't hate dogs. I hated that one, I explained

740
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: myself already. I refuse to do it again. I love dogs.

741
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: I love your dogs.

742
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 7: I love you, I said, now was a chance I

743
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 7: didn't say you hate dogs. I fully believe you love dogs.

744
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: Think it's yep, thank you for calling. Much love to you.

745
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: I have a good rest of the night. Hello is

746
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: this Joshua?

747
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:24,879
Speaker 6: Yes?

748
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:25,359
Speaker 7: It is?

749
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 6: What is going on in Lisle?

750
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: What's up, Joshua? How you doing? Man?

751
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:31,439
Speaker 5: Good man?

752
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 6: Just walking back from the store.

753
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: What'd you get?

754
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 6: I had to unfortunately use the restroom up there.

755
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: You had to use the restroom at the store. What's

756
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: wrong with your restroom at home?

757
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 8: Man?

758
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 6: So my apartment complaces are kind of old. SORRYR cars

759
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 6: passing my apartments are kind of old and the setic

760
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 6: tints kind of got backed up, and for the last

761
00:43:58,320 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 6: four days I haven't been able to use the rest

762
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,560
Speaker 6: room in no form of fashion unless I want to

763
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 6: pretend to be a plumber. Get the plunger everything, draino

764
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 6: and go add a little elbow grease.

765
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 1: At what point does it I mean, how far away

766
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 1: is the story?

767
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 6: You're walking up to my door now, Oh, it's like

768
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 6: a two minute walk.

769
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 1: How at what point does it become more efficient for

770
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 1: you in terms of your energy to just fix the toilet?

771
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 6: Well? See, I live in a apartment complex, so I

772
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 6: complained to the office and they're like, well, we come

773
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 6: little use the hose and put it in there and

774
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 6: drill it out. But it's the whole complex, so they're

775
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 6: just kind of postpone and fixing the whole septic system.

776
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: Oh wait, so the septic system is fucked for the

777
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,120
Speaker 1: whole apartment complex.

778
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,720
Speaker 7: Absolutely wow?

779
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 1: And how long has it been fucked? Four days?

780
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 6: About four days?

781
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: How is there not rioting going on at the fucking office? Man?

782
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 6: Man? So like, as of as of this morning, I

783
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 6: literally going door to door, I'm walking in my house now,

784
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 6: I started going door to door, like you're.

785
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 1: Building a fucking militia to go tear down the apartment

786
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: complex office and get that.

787
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,840
Speaker 6: Shit fixed exactly, Like we need some free rant and

788
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 6: we need to be able to shit when we want

789
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 6: to see it.

790
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, no, literally, get everywhere. Here's what you do.

791
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: You get everyone to go out, You get everyone like

792
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 1: you like, Okay, Wednesday, five pm, we all take a

793
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: ship in the middle of the hallway. They can't evict

794
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: all of us at once. If we do that strength.

795
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 6: In numbers, that's the next level.

796
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: You're already going around campaigning for the for the your cause.

797
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: I feel like that's the only way you're gonna get

798
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 1: them to really pay attention. Joshua Bom and your fucking

799
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: smoke detector needs batteries.

800
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 6: Oh oh, that was my son.

801
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I thought it was a smoke detector.

802
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 6: My son came in.

803
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 1: He yelled, hey, Dode, you hold you take a ship.

804
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,879
Speaker 1: You hold your son, you in what you take off

805
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: his diaper? You ship with your son in the middle

806
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 1: of the hallway. Yeah, yeah, how's he eat?

807
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 7: He's good, he's great.

808
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 6: He we went to the park today. We've been playing.

809
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,760
Speaker 6: He's been on his tablet, but you know, he ships

810
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 6: in the diaper so he doesn't feel my pain.

811
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm hmm. Well wait a minute, what do you

812
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: what do you do with the diapers? You don't you

813
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,399
Speaker 1: don't flush me in the toilet, do you? You just throw

814
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: them away? Oh?

815
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 6: No, See, yeah, I have a dumpster, like it's not

816
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:58,359
Speaker 6: too far from my house to take him out there.

817
00:46:58,480 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 7: Put him in a bag.

818
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 6: Diaper genie stuff like that.

819
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: Do you feel stuff? And he know what is a

820
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 1: diaper genie?

821
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 6: It's like so it's like a little container where you

822
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 6: put all its like, has a scented bag and you

823
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 6: put all the diapers in there so it doesn't make

824
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 6: your house smell like shit. And then you take one

825
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 6: bag out it holds like thirty diapers in it at

826
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 6: one time.

827
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: Oh, it's a scented well, I'm familiar with the concept

828
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: of a scented garbage bag to make the garbage less.

829
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 7: Yeah, scented, same thing.

830
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 6: It just has like a latch and it holds up

831
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 6: the diapers and whatnot. It's just made specifically.

832
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 1: Hypergenie. Do I detect a podcast sponsor somewhere in the.

833
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:46,359
Speaker 6: Future, Oh, look at us diaper Genie is on the way.

834
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 6: It's not a friend though, it's.

835
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: Just like the concept.

836
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 7: It's not a brain, it's just a concept.

837
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: So okay, So Joshua, aside from the fact that you

838
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: have to go, Actually, I'm curious, has the store noticed

839
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:14,879
Speaker 1: a strong influx of people coming to use its toilets

840
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:15,840
Speaker 1: from your apartment?

841
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 6: See me, I live so close and I go there

842
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:22,320
Speaker 6: so frequently. I told him, I'm like, hey, tween toilets

843
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,880
Speaker 6: fucked up, got to use the restroom. And he's like,

844
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,399
Speaker 6: you're the third person today, and I'm like, oh my god,

845
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 6: So he definitely noticed it.

846
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, every single person your apartment's got to

847
00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 1: go use his fucking toilet somewhere.

848
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 6: It's like it's only like two it's two gas stations

849
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 6: and a Dairy Queen. Everything else you have to drive to.

850
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that Dairy Queen bathroom is probably fucked.

851
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: It's fucked.

852
00:48:57,680 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 7: How many people do My girlfriends is?

853
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 6: It's my girlfriend and my son, and she's watching the

854
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 6: stream in the other room and she heard me mention

855
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 6: the dairy Queen bathroom and since she's been happening to go,

856
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 6: she's like, yeah.

857
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 5: Definitely gross.

858
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:10,759
Speaker 1: Would does she go with you to take a ship.

859
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:11,799
Speaker 1: Is it almost like a date?

860
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 6: No, I wouldn't say a date, but it's definitely We

861
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 6: got to try to plan the trips at the same time,

862
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 6: so we're not just alternating trips, you know.

863
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. Lemansha is just the worst thing that's going

864
00:49:27,880 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: on in your life right now. Yeah, that's pretty good.

865
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 6: Bills are caught up, sunstead, girlfriend's happy dogs, chilling, got

866
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 6: a good job, well, a decent job, you know.

867
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 3: So just can't ship.

868
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: You just can't ship well.

869
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 6: And like I told your call representative, I was really

870
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 6: kind of was in an upset move because I really

871
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 6: had to go. And then like I called sixty times

872
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 6: on my girlfriend's phone and forty times on my phone,

873
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 6: and then it finally went through and my day changed around.

874
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: Did did the wait? So are you telling me that

875
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 1: you had to take a ship at the beginning of

876
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: this call, but then you got so engrossed in the

877
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: call that you forgot you had to take a shit.

878
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 6: No, When I walked to the store and then I

879
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 6: came back walking from the store.

880
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:20,479
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sorry.

881
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 6: I thought I did something, so so on, Hold, I

882
00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 6: was in the ship at some point.

883
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: You were in the Were you prepared? Were you prepared

884
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:33,800
Speaker 1: to have this conversation while you were on the toilet?

885
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:35,280
Speaker 7: Absolutely?

886
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 6: I was going to be like, but I didn't want

887
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 6: to feel contradicted because I didn't want to be like, oh,

888
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 6: my toilet's not working, but I'm sitting on the toilet

889
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 6: right now.

890
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,280
Speaker 1: You would, I would have allowed you to explain yourself.

891
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, I know you would because I listened to your

892
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 6: podcast while I'm at work, So I do understand that

893
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 6: you do give everybody a fair chance, even if they

894
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 6: don't understand the question or whatever, to explain themselves.

895
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: Thank you man, Thank you. Do you ever listen to

896
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 1: it while you're taking a ship? Yes?

897
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 6: Sometimes, like if I'm at work and I'm moving the boxes, man,

898
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 6: it's like, oh I gotta take a ship. I don't

899
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,360
Speaker 6: stop the podcast to keep it rolling.

900
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:19,320
Speaker 1: That's awesome, Joshua, Joshua, I appreciate your your your kind words,

901
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: and your listenership, and uh, do you have any Do

902
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:22,479
Speaker 1: you have anything else that you want to say before

903
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 1: we go to the people?

904
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 3: No chat?

905
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 6: You guys are awesome. Thank you, Lyle. You're awesome. Keep

906
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 6: doing what you do.

907
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 1: Get beautiful. Talk to you soon, josh.

908
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 6: Hey, bing bomb up bing.

909
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:41,479
Speaker 1: Bong, Dude. I don't know what that means, but I'm signing.

910
00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: I'll sign off on it. James, Yeah, James, how's it going? Yeah?

911
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 9: It's going good?

912
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 1: Man, Yes, sir, it's going good. Why is it going

913
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 1: so well? What's what's so good about it?

914
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 9: I'm just enjoying myself.

915
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: How was going for you?

916
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:03,919
Speaker 7: Get?

917
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 1: Uh's going pretty well? If you had a really good

918
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 1: night of calls, I've been enjoying the whole the whole

919
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 1: damn thing. Am I on the speakerphone? By chance?

920
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,000
Speaker 9: You're not on the speakerphone, but I had you on

921
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:22,959
Speaker 9: Reddit while I was watching you, so now you're You're

922
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:23,880
Speaker 9: just on my AirPod.

923
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: It's just me and you. So what's going on? James?

924
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 9: Not much? Man. Actually started up a video game to

925
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 9: play while I was waiting, but you hit me up

926
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 9: in the middle. So here I am with you.

927
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: Is there anything in particular that you wanted to talk about?

928
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 9: So my issue I spoke to the individual on the

929
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 9: phone was as recently became a manager of a bar,

930
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 9: and I never had an issue while I was bartending

931
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 9: or serving in a restaurant with talking to people, But

932
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:07,879
Speaker 9: since I've became a manager. I'm kind of timid about it.

933
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 9: I don't know if it's the responsibility that is expected

934
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 9: of me.

935
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:18,040
Speaker 3: Or what, but I just.

936
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 9: I don't feel like myself going up to people and

937
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:26,439
Speaker 9: talking to them, Like I don't feel comfortable doing it.

938
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 9: Before I did and now I don't. So I was

939
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 9: wondering if it's an anxiety issue which I've never had

940
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 9: before in my life, or what could be going on.

941
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,359
Speaker 9: So I was wanting a second opinion and seeing if

942
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:42,439
Speaker 9: you could help me out with it.

943
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:48,360
Speaker 1: MM, so this is interesting. So you were, well, no,

944
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: I you know, it's funny you say that because I

945
00:53:53,160 --> 00:54:01,280
Speaker 1: used to like throw illegal bar, like running a legal

946
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: bar out of my fucking basement, and I felt like

947
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 1: the man when I was there. I felt like it

948
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,920
Speaker 1: was way easier to talk to people because I was like,

949
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 1: you know, because you're the guy in charge, you know,

950
00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 1: it makes you feel like you belong there. Whereas you know,

951
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: if I were just like a patron at a bar,

952
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, fucking I would wouldn't talk to anyone.

953
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 1: So it's interesting to me that you're feeling sort of

954
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: an opposite feeling. That's that's very interesting to me. So

955
00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,400
Speaker 1: tell me all right, So when you were just a bartender,

956
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: you weren't a manager. And by the way, are you

957
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 1: a do you own this? Do you own this establishment

958
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: now or just a manage?

959
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 9: So it's a it's a corporate owned establishment. It became

960
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:52,240
Speaker 9: corporate within the past few years, within the past four months,

961
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:57,400
Speaker 9: I believe, or four or five months, given I became

962
00:54:57,440 --> 00:55:01,760
Speaker 9: a manager from a bartender. I bartended for eight years

963
00:55:01,800 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 9: before that, and I've been in the industry for fourteen

964
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,720
Speaker 9: So this is like brand new to me, like straight

965
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:14,400
Speaker 9: up never done it before, brand new type stuff. But

966
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 9: before I never had an issue. Now it's kind of.

967
00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:20,400
Speaker 5: If if.

968
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 9: There's there's a problem with the table, I like you

969
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 9: sure you don't want somebody else to go to it?

970
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:32,240
Speaker 9: And in like in any other instance, I was always

971
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 9: the first person, like I would I would deal with

972
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 9: the problem.

973
00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:42,200
Speaker 1: So you said that when you were a bartender, when

974
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 1: you were just a bartender, you were and a manager.

975
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 1: Do you feel did you feel okay? I want you

976
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 1: to rank you? Okay, between you as a patron at

977
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,239
Speaker 1: a bar, you as a bartender at a bar, and

978
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: you as a manager of a bar. Who is where

979
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 1: would you rank those? In one to three from outgoing this,

980
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 1: outgoing this.

981
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:14,280
Speaker 9: I would say actually being a bartender would be number one, okay,

982
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 9: Second would be a patron at a bar and bullshit

983
00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:24,760
Speaker 9: during the manager. Three would be the actual actual manager.

984
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 1: Yes, so crazy, okay, So that all right? So so

985
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:32,280
Speaker 1: then this is interesting to me because that you put patron,

986
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: that you put working at the bar above the patron,

987
00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:38,439
Speaker 1: because tell me, what is it about being the bartender

988
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:43,920
Speaker 1: that actively gives you, uh let's call it confidence?

989
00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 9: So so being the bartender, I don't necessarily say it

990
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 9: would be confident, but it would be that you you

991
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 9: have to come before me before you come before anybody else.

992
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 9: So if I tell you know, if I'm cutting.

993
00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:06,399
Speaker 5: You off, if say, the.

994
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 9: Get comes to my to my bar and you've had

995
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 9: too many Woodfords, I'm telling you know, right you keep

996
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:15,799
Speaker 9: going on and on with me. I'm telling you know.

997
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 1: It's an authoritative position.

998
00:57:19,440 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 9: Authority exactly exactly, and I'm not used to it. This

999
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 9: is never I've never been in that authoritative position, and

1000
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 9: I don't know how to not I wouldn't say mentally,

1001
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 9: but I don't know how to process that.

1002
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 1: So you well, well, no, I'm saying that being the

1003
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: bartender in a way is an authoritative position because you

1004
00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:46,480
Speaker 1: you know, you cut people off and you'll feel as

1005
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: though you are in command of the place. But now

1006
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: as a manager, you like actually are in command of

1007
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 1: the place. Is that like give you anxiety? This is

1008
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 1: so I don't know, this is so like it's hard

1009
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 1: to crack because it feels so counterinto it.

1010
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 9: It it's foreign to me as well. That's why I

1011
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 9: figured i'd give you a call.

1012
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 1: Do you feel like do you feel like there's like

1013
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: more pressure on you now?

1014
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 2: Yes?

1015
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, maybe that's it.

1016
00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 9: I came I came from an establishment before the place

1017
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 9: I'm working at. I came from an establishment to where

1018
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 9: as a bartender I would have to call the cops,

1019
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 9: like at least once a weekend. It was given to

1020
00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 9: Now I'm kind of in a nicer, kind.

1021
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 5: Of upscale.

1022
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 9: Type of environment.

1023
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:46,400
Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, and it's uh interesting.

1024
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 9: I think it's kind of messed with my head a

1025
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 9: little bit. And and I can't I can't figure out

1026
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,920
Speaker 9: how it's messed with me. I know it's there, but

1027
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 9: I can't cross fit in my head that this is

1028
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 9: why or this is this is the reason this is

1029
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 9: going on. And that's kind of that's kind of what's

1030
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,640
Speaker 9: thrown all of this off. And I want to be

1031
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 9: great at what I do, but it's throwing your arrangement.

1032
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: So you're not new, as you said, to the industry.

1033
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 1: You've been here, you know for years and years and years.

1034
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 1: But are you new to this sort of upscale establishment?

1035
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 1: Is this your first time working in what you would

1036
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 1: consider an upscale an upscale establishment?

1037
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 9: Yes, sir, you're you're correct for probably about maybe that's it. Yes,

1038
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:44,439
Speaker 9: And and see that that's kind of what I thought

1039
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 9: as well. So I wasn't sure, but I never went

1040
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 9: like so I started the establishment as a server, became

1041
00:59:55,440 --> 01:00:03,280
Speaker 9: a bartender, put me through management training, and uh like,

1042
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 9: throughout the whole process, I was like, this is freaking awesome.

1043
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 9: Like I had confidence, I felt great in myself until

1044
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 9: they sent me back to the store I was going

1045
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 9: to be at. And then once I got back to

1046
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 9: the store, it was kind of like I hit my

1047
01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 9: head into a wall. It was like, Damn, this is

1048
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 9: completely a different environment than I envisioned.

1049
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 1: You know, I feel like and uh, this could be

1050
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: a load of shit, but I feel like, you know,

1051
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,520
Speaker 1: I mean, well, well look at it like this, right,

1052
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: you've been in the industry for what fifteen years? And

1053
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 1: you said you've been working mostly at the CD sort

1054
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:45,760
Speaker 1: of places where you would always have to call the

1055
01:00:45,760 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 1: cops when you first show like when you were when

1056
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:51,400
Speaker 1: you first showed up, whatever, when you were eighteen or whatever.

1057
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: The fuck uh at one of these places to be

1058
01:00:55,840 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: a bartender. Were you not sort of having to deal

1059
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:03,240
Speaker 1: with and adjust to this, to this environment.

1060
01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 9: Dude, I my first month bartending, no shit, I googled

1061
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:15,440
Speaker 9: how to talk to people. So I googled what what

1062
01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:17,880
Speaker 9: I should be doing as a bartender. I figured out,

1063
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 9: you talk about the news, you talk about sports, you

1064
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:28,439
Speaker 9: talk about you talk about non non confrontational stuff, and

1065
01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 9: I would. I would sit there before I went to

1066
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:35,960
Speaker 9: work every day. I would read non confrontational stuff so

1067
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 9: I could have something.

1068
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 1: To talk to people about, like local news stories.

1069
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 9: Not necessarily local, but local, national, weather, sports, all that,

1070
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 9: just because I didn't I wasn't acclimated to being a

1071
01:01:56,120 --> 01:02:01,480
Speaker 9: bartender and actually having people right there in front of

1072
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 9: me like I was used to being a server, and

1073
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 9: I would. I would take your orders walk away, wouldn't

1074
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 9: have anything to do with you being a bartender. I would.

1075
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 9: I'd be there in front of you. I would always

1076
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:15,160
Speaker 9: have shit to do in front of you, so it

1077
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:18,000
Speaker 9: always if you wanted to talk to me, I'd have

1078
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:22,439
Speaker 9: to be there. So I looked this stuff up, and

1079
01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 9: every single day before I went into work, I would

1080
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,240
Speaker 9: I would do research, and I mean for like three

1081
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:32,440
Speaker 9: or four months until I got the confidence too not

1082
01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 9: not to have to do this. So that's where the

1083
01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 9: anxiety part comes into, is that I was thinking that

1084
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 9: it comes from that or it stems from that issue,

1085
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 9: and but I've never had that issue before in my life,

1086
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 9: so that that's what kind of throws me off.

1087
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 1: You have to google how to talk to rich people.

1088
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: See if you get any other responses. See what Googles

1089
01:02:59,800 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 1: say about that.

1090
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 9: You know, I wouldn't say you're you're too too far

1091
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 9: off there if you throw old in the mix, that

1092
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 9: would that would be.

1093
01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 1: Like on point, well, I get well, So I mean

1094
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 1: to like to throw it back to the reason I

1095
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 1: was I was originally asking, is like, you know, okay,

1096
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 1: when you when you were eighteen, you were like you

1097
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: were googling how to talk to people like you were

1098
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Speaker 1: you were you were clearly, like you know, in a

1099
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,240
Speaker 1: brand new environment that you were adjusting to but then

1100
01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:36,000
Speaker 1: you know, X amount of years later, you you adjusted

1101
01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: to the environment, you know, and then you're you became

1102
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: a pro And I believe that, you know, I mean,

1103
01:03:42,080 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 1: it sounds to me like this is a brand new

1104
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 1: sort of position for you. I believe that as time

1105
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:53,919
Speaker 1: moved on you you became more socially ept in in

1106
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 1: this uh like c D environment as you say, you

1107
01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 1: became comfortable with that. And then you're in a new environment,

1108
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 1: so you're naturally going to be uncomfortable. But you know,

1109
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:07,480
Speaker 1: as as you've already proven you will naturally over time,

1110
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 1: I think at least from from what you've told me

1111
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:18,440
Speaker 1: uh acclimate to that new environment. Okay, I would think, oh, yeah,

1112
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 1: see what Google has to say. It seems to like

1113
01:04:22,200 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: it works for you the first time.

1114
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 9: And I don't necessarily want to just jump to Google.

1115
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 9: That that was I mean, but no, most definitely, But

1116
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 9: that was my first persons think. To be honest, Now

1117
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:47,200
Speaker 9: that I'm in my thirties, I'm kind of kind of

1118
01:04:47,240 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 9: like I need to like, are my people still wearing

1119
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 9: thin or what's going on?

1120
01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: No, I don't think you're people. No, this isn't no. Look,

1121
01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 1: I don't think your people's skills are ranked in because

1122
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: it you just had a new environment, dude, Like like

1123
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 1: like I don't know that has to be that has

1124
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 1: to be it right, Like maybe it's not. But but

1125
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 1: as we've talked and explored the different possible variables, if

1126
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: I had to pick one based on the information give me,

1127
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 1: it sounds like you're just in a new environment. I

1128
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 1: mean again, there there there are infinite variables, but that

1129
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 1: sounds like it's the one. Because if you're telling me

1130
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 1: that when you're in other environments you're feeling socially appt

1131
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 1: and you know, it sounds like that's the right variable.

1132
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:32,520
Speaker 1: So so would you say your name was again?

1133
01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:35,280
Speaker 9: H James? James?

1134
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 1: James James. Do you have any any final things that

1135
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 1: you want to say before we go?

1136
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 9: No, sir, I just appreciate you taking my call and

1137
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:46,200
Speaker 9: you look dream today.

1138
01:05:46,240 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 1: Bro. Oh, thank you man. That's the nicest thing anyone's

1139
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: ever said to me.

1140
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 5: Yes, sir, I know it is beautiful.

1141
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:55,000
Speaker 1: Talk to you soon, James.

1142
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:58,440
Speaker 9: Good luck all right, brother, take care of yourself. Have

1143
01:05:58,520 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 9: a happy Christmas.

1144
01:06:00,640 --> 01:06:04,720
Speaker 1: Hey, folks, this is Lyle. In this next call, I

1145
01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 1: am joined by my sister. So if you hear a

1146
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 1: voice that is not mine or a callers that is

1147
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: my sister. Okay, back to the podcast. Jeremy, Jeremy, Jeremy. Okay, guys,

1148
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:24,280
Speaker 1: how are you.

1149
01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:28,800
Speaker 3: I'm doing good. It's uh four am in Germany.

1150
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:31,960
Speaker 4: You're in Germany? Are you German?

1151
01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:33,800
Speaker 3: No?

1152
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 10: Actually, I'm from the Washington State, but I've been here

1153
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:38,520
Speaker 10: for since two thousand and four.

1154
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 9: I'm just four.

1155
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 1: Wait, but this is two thousand and four and you

1156
01:06:44,600 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 1: still have an American phone number.

1157
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:48,600
Speaker 5: Hey Google Voice.

1158
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 7: Oh it's it's free. It's awesome.

1159
01:06:54,560 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 1: Wow, what are you doing. I'm a translator, so he

1160
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 1: speaks just fluent German. Hey, better, dude, tell us something

1161
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 1: in German? Was in Germany?

1162
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 4: She was in Germany, had a cousin in Germany for

1163
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:12,400
Speaker 4: a while.

1164
01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 3: But I don't think how was that working out for you? Guys?

1165
01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 4: It's working out really well. We never went to Germany.

1166
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:20,400
Speaker 4: Wants to visit her.

1167
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 1: It's working out for us as much. It's working out

1168
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:24,920
Speaker 1: for us very neutrally.

1169
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, it really isn't working out either way. It's fine,

1170
01:07:29,840 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 4: but she doesn't live there anymore. So the conversation was mute.

1171
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 1: We were just trying to connect to you. How do

1172
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 1: you say gecko in German?

1173
01:07:38,440 --> 01:07:39,640
Speaker 3: That's not one of my husbands.

1174
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:46,760
Speaker 1: How do you not know what to say lizard? Can

1175
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:47,480
Speaker 1: you say lizard?

1176
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 3: I don't.

1177
01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 1: What lizards?

1178
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 3: More calm, I don't.

1179
01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 7: I don't don't talk about geckos.

1180
01:07:52,720 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 3: I do stupid.

1181
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:57,920
Speaker 10: Translations about like product manuals and like how did like

1182
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 10: insert part a into like lot be and ship?

1183
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 4: So, but you've never had a conversation with anyone about

1184
01:08:04,520 --> 01:08:06,760
Speaker 4: like animals, believe.

1185
01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:09,160
Speaker 1: What is how about lizard? What is the lizard?

1186
01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 8: Ia?

1187
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:19,960
Speaker 1: Ex I think ex I don't know.

1188
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 4: I think I don't think we've said one portion of

1189
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:23,839
Speaker 4: that correctly.

1190
01:08:24,960 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 3: It's good, I think I think.

1191
01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 4: Ex exa sound like fucking idiots? What's up, Jermy? What's

1192
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 4: you want to tell us about?

1193
01:08:38,439 --> 01:08:41,599
Speaker 3: Absolutely nothing? I'm just watching you guys without a calling.

1194
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 1: Wow, I'm thinking what do you think about Germany on

1195
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:51,120
Speaker 1: this topic? Beforehand? What do you think about Germany as

1196
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 1: a place to abandon your current life and start a

1197
01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 1: new one?

1198
01:08:57,120 --> 01:08:58,360
Speaker 3: Well, so I did. I moved here when I was

1199
01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:01,920
Speaker 3: twenty one and here I'm like it, that's what I did.

1200
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:05,280
Speaker 3: I have like more or less no contact with the

1201
01:09:05,360 --> 01:09:06,040
Speaker 3: US at this point.

1202
01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:09,680
Speaker 1: And cool, you didn't know anyone when you went over there.

1203
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:15,120
Speaker 10: Well, it's a long story, but yeah, I moved here

1204
01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 10: to work with the band.

1205
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:20,160
Speaker 1: Any band we know?

1206
01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 3: Rumsteinine kind of music?

1207
01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:30,519
Speaker 1: What kind of music does Rumstein do?

1208
01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 10: Industrial metalish pop stuff more or less?

1209
01:09:36,640 --> 01:09:42,200
Speaker 1: But metalish pop stuff? What industrial metal?

1210
01:09:43,160 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 4: I didn't know that metal music had different types of

1211
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 4: Is there electrical.

1212
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:54,360
Speaker 10: Heavy, heavy guitars, the distorted stuff?

1213
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:57,920
Speaker 1: You got the is there manufacturing and you got the

1214
01:09:58,560 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 1: and you got the keyboard? What?

1215
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:02,000
Speaker 7: Sorry, let's luck.

1216
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 4: But no, I'm just being stupid, so I wouldn't worry

1217
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 4: too much about what i'd say.

1218
01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:09,600
Speaker 1: Rumstine.

1219
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:11,040
Speaker 7: Damn.

1220
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:13,840
Speaker 1: So you went there when you were twenty one to

1221
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:15,640
Speaker 1: work with the band. How did you even connect with

1222
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 1: this band? Yeah?

1223
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:18,320
Speaker 3: Did you know it?

1224
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 10: I mean, oh yeah, I did three years in high school,

1225
01:10:21,360 --> 01:10:22,519
Speaker 10: which is apparently enough for me.

1226
01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 1: How'd you connect with the band?

1227
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 3: I found them?

1228
01:10:28,120 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 8: Do you know?

1229
01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 10: It's a long story, but I basically I made a

1230
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 10: fan pagement I was in high school.

1231
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:36,200
Speaker 1: You were a super fan of Rumstein. Wow, so you

1232
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:37,839
Speaker 1: made a fan page when you were in high school?

1233
01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 1: I made page with them, and they just what, like,

1234
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:46,400
Speaker 1: what was the when you're like sixteen?

1235
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 10: I was sixty eh, and like I was like post

1236
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 10: like the track listening to the new album before it

1237
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:53,519
Speaker 10: was supposed to be posted.

1238
01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:57,200
Speaker 1: Interesting. So, so you were sixteen you got this crazy

1239
01:10:57,360 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 1: you're like the president of the Rumshtein fan club. How

1240
01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: did how did they first make contact with you? What

1241
01:11:04,400 --> 01:11:04,960
Speaker 1: did they like?

1242
01:11:05,560 --> 01:11:07,400
Speaker 3: Oh? Like, how do you take that offline?

1243
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 7: God? Damn it?

1244
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:10,679
Speaker 1: Oh really? So friend the first message or a pissed

1245
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 1: off Oh that's funny. And now then you work with them,

1246
01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:16,559
Speaker 1: he still talks, You still keep up with them?

1247
01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 3: No, I mean it's been at least ten years since

1248
01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:21,919
Speaker 3: I was really actively involved in anyway.

1249
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 1: Are they still together? Yeah?

1250
01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:27,759
Speaker 11: Yeah, they're still They're still putting stuff up rum Sty.

1251
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 7: That's how I got my story.

1252
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:35,240
Speaker 1: That's so interesting. Hell, I really I really need to

1253
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 1: close the gap here because between because I'm still not

1254
01:11:39,120 --> 01:11:40,960
Speaker 1: closed for me. Before we move on to this call,

1255
01:11:41,040 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 1: I need to close the gap between sixteen year old

1256
01:11:43,880 --> 01:11:48,680
Speaker 1: kid running fan page two five years later moving to

1257
01:11:48,840 --> 01:11:51,679
Speaker 1: Germany to work with the band again.

1258
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 11: That's a long story, but I had basically I was

1259
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:58,040
Speaker 11: in contact with them and they were asking to take

1260
01:11:58,080 --> 01:12:01,320
Speaker 11: the off line or whatever. But we had a sort

1261
01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:03,640
Speaker 11: of working relationship, like we knew each other sort of

1262
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:08,560
Speaker 11: that the management and me, not the band directly, and

1263
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,519
Speaker 11: then I just said, hey, did you guys maybe have

1264
01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:15,360
Speaker 11: a job for me in Berlin and they're like okay,

1265
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:17,760
Speaker 11: and then I came here. Basically it was like a

1266
01:12:17,840 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 11: shitty an internship, hardly.

1267
01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 10: Paid for anything.

1268
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:23,400
Speaker 7: And a year later they're like.

1269
01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:27,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't really need a webmaster anyway, because the

1270
01:12:27,920 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 3: internets are bad.

1271
01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:34,360
Speaker 1: The internet is such a bad So then they just

1272
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:36,240
Speaker 1: they just they didn't up break you into a full

1273
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 1: time job. But then there you were in Germany. Yeah, yeah,

1274
01:12:39,240 --> 01:12:40,559
Speaker 1: and you were just like a stick around.

1275
01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 10: I pivoted to translation because I was already doing that

1276
01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:47,280
Speaker 10: with them anyway, and I.

1277
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 1: Speak that's very interesting topics. Wow, Jeremy, Wow that you

1278
01:12:57,320 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 1: know that that kid who wanted to be a mom. Yeah,

1279
01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 1: I feel like that's an inspiring story for him, you know,

1280
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:06,720
Speaker 1: because he's in fucking whatever college stuff, and he could

1281
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 1: just go to Tibet, become a month, find out being

1282
01:13:09,920 --> 01:13:12,320
Speaker 1: a monk sucks, but that the bet is sick, and

1283
01:13:12,439 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 1: just hang out there for you know, until he's dead.

1284
01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:19,479
Speaker 3: Not everything in Germany works out perfectly, but so far

1285
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 3: it's working.

1286
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:23,160
Speaker 1: Good for me, beautiful. Thank you for sharing, Jeremy, you

1287
01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:23,920
Speaker 1: have a good rest of the night.

1288
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.

1289
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 1: That Bah never goes on the line making his on

1290
01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:38,080
Speaker 1: calls every night, never goes to teach you.