1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, it's Sophia. Welcome to work in progress. Welcome 2 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: back Whipsmarties. Let's dive right back into our fantastic conversation 3 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: with Rosie O'Donnell. When you came out in public, I mean, yes, 4 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: all bets were kind of off societally. I think people 5 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: realized so much of what they thought they cared about 6 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 1: was bullsh after nine to eleven happened, Like what are 7 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: we fighting about? Look what happens in the world. 8 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 2: You know. 9 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: It's it's that seismic experience of when you have a 10 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: death in the family and then everyone stops fighting. You're like, 11 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 1: I can't believe we waste it all this time. But 12 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: it was still I mean, it was still a risk. 13 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: Like I remember watching Ellen and she came out and 14 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: her show got canceled, Like I remember those things. 15 00:00:56,560 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: Yes, but I came out because we had a foster 16 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 2: child that we were not allowed to adopt, and because 17 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 2: we were gay. And there were two male nurses, Lofton 18 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:14,919 Speaker 2: and Cruteau, who had taken AIDS babies during the AIDS 19 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:17,960 Speaker 2: crisis when the parents had both died of drug addiction, 20 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 2: taken the HIV positive children and adopt it. Fostered them, 21 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: and then some of them zero converted to negative because 22 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 2: of their care and treatment, and sometimes that happens with babies. 23 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 2: So they went adopt the fourteen year old that had 24 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: Cyril converted as a toddler, and the Florida state government 25 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 2: wouldn't allow them to adopt the child that they raised 26 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 2: because he was now a viable adoption and they didn't 27 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: want gay people to adopt it, so they couldn't even 28 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: adopt the foster child they raised. And that was exactly 29 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 2: the position I was in. I could not adopt the 30 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 2: foster child I raised because I'm gay, So my choice 31 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 2: would be to lie are you now or have you 32 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 2: ever been? A homosexual? To lie on the court papers. 33 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 2: Therefore maybe having strange people try to nullify the adoption, 34 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 2: and it would have been probably nullified because I am 35 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 2: a lesbian and there's you know, nothing's going to change that. 36 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't expect any changes. But look at 37 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 2: Jojo Siwa, but she is very she's a very young person. 38 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: You know, she's finding herself. 39 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 2: She's figuring stuff out. That's what I say. I mean, 40 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,079 Speaker 2: every gay woman I know has a dalliance with men 41 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 2: at some time. I mean, there's very few gold star lesbians, 42 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 2: as they call themselves. 43 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know a few, but not a lot. I mean, 44 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: I spent a very long time thinking I was just 45 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: a bisexual woman out here. Turns out yeah, I don't 46 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: think so. 47 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, you know, it's hard to telling ourselves, right, 48 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: it's hard to figure out. You know. In my show, 49 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: I talked about my daughter saying to me, are you 50 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 2: non binary? And I said no? And they said are 51 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 2: you sure? And I said yes, And they said, then 52 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: what are you? And I said, I'm an og lesbian bitch. 53 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:21,400 Speaker 2: Bitch's pejorative, especially for a feminist even years old. 54 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, You're like, let me have my terms. 55 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 2: Well I was just like, that's a pretty elaborate thought 56 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 2: process for it. I'm little bit to go to. 57 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: But for an eleven year old to know pejorative in 58 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: the first place is already wildly impressive. 59 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 2: Well. She has a thing called hyperlexia, which means and echolalia, 60 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,839 Speaker 2: two things that a lot of autistic kids have. One 61 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: of them is when there's like a tape recorder in 62 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 2: your brain. This is echolalia, and if you hear something, 63 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 2: your brain records it and then you can recite it. 64 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 2: In the dialect that you heard it. Wow. So she 65 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 2: was at school and the boy kept calling her psycho. 66 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 2: So I asked the teacher which was the father, and 67 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 2: they told me. I went over to the father, introduced 68 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 2: myself and said, why does your kid call my kid 69 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 2: a psycho? And he goes, listen, it's very upsetting. But 70 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 2: my son is very sensitive and she tells them scary stories. 71 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 2: I said, really, I've never heard her tell a scary story. 72 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 2: What's the scary story? Says where's waldough? Se where's the 73 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 2: striped shirt? How scary is Where's Waldo? He goes, that's 74 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: what he tells me. I go home. I say, Clay, 75 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 2: do you have a story? Where's Waldo? She said yeah? 76 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:37,880 Speaker 2: I tell her at school a lot. Half the kids 77 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,679 Speaker 2: like it, half the kids hate it. Those are pretty 78 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 2: good odds. I said, yeah, you're right, there's a pretty 79 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,920 Speaker 2: good odds. Can you tell me the story? She says, yeah. 80 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 2: She takes a breath. She goes, it was a dark 81 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 2: and dreamy night in the bowels of the kingdom. The 82 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 2: dungeons were full of stink from rets and fitting. I 83 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 2: said to a stop, stop, what are you doing? She said, 84 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 2: that's that's the story of of where it's Waldo. That's 85 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 2: how it begins, and she can recite the entire thing 86 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 2: that's called echolalia. And then she has hyperlexia. When she 87 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 2: was in second grade, the teacher said, we have to 88 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 2: test her vocabulary. They give kids in second grade one 89 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 2: hundred words, and she got ninety nine right and the 90 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: only word she got wrong was broom and that's because 91 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 2: she said a sweeper because she used to watch pepper 92 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 2: Pig and that's what they called on pepper Pig. And 93 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:32,919 Speaker 2: when she was two to four and a half, she 94 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 2: spoke with a British accent where people would say, we'd 95 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 2: be at the park and she'd say, Mommy, might I 96 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 2: have a spot of tea? And the woman would say, 97 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 2: you adopted from London. I said, no, she's from Texas. 98 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 2: She has autism, echalia and hyperlexia. 99 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 1: Wow. 100 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: So she's like this little. 101 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: She's like a little linguistic prodigy. 102 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 2: Yes, incredible, and she has you know, she has moderate autism. 103 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 2: You know, not people say hers is very light. I'm 104 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 2: like their's is very light. I'm like, no, it's actually moderate. 105 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 2: And you know, I just don't always discuss the more 106 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 2: difficult stuff because I feel as though, you know, that's 107 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 2: her business. The light that I show her in is 108 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 2: the brilliance of her. 109 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. Of course, is it an interesting thing to have 110 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: a young one with neuro difference because one of the 111 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,720 Speaker 1: things that fascinates me even learning about my own where 112 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it's not just me, Like these are interesting, Okay, 113 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: nothing like being an overachiever who gets diagnosed in your forties. 114 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: That's a fun journey. 115 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 2: Yes, exactly. 116 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: I think about what it must be like to be 117 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: a kid learning how your brain works. Now because there's 118 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: so much research. I mean, even like a few months ago, 119 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: researchers believe that they've proven that ADHD is a developmental advantage, 120 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: and they sort of went through the whole reasoning of 121 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: this and what it offers in terms of creative problem 122 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: solving and how ADHD brains helped us survive crazier times 123 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: when there weren't guaranteed resources, and like, I wish I'd 124 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: known this. 125 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 2: I completely believe that. Wow. Yeah, I always tell people, 126 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: you know, add has really worked for me. Yea, So 127 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 2: you know, I don't know what to tell you. But 128 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 2: when I was on my show the University of Seattle, 129 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 2: I believe It was a Bill Gates study was doing 130 00:07:38,280 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 2: all this autism research, and they called and sent a letter. 131 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 2: They wanted to test me for autism because of my 132 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 2: ability to retain lyrics and ingles and songs, and they said, 133 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 2: it's really not normal what you're able to do. And 134 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: I was like, Wow, that's exciting, but I have a 135 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: kid and I can't I'm doing a show. I can't 136 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 2: really to be tested for three days and in case 137 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 2: I might have autism, which at the time, you know, 138 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 2: I didn't think twice about it, But now that I've 139 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 2: been raising this child, I go, I see. You know, 140 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 2: I used to think all my friends who had kids 141 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 2: who were autistic, I thought I should be the one 142 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: to get an autistic kid. I would understand. And I 143 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 2: think I do the way that you have to if 144 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:32,080 Speaker 2: you're an autism parent, and you learn your own language 145 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 2: and routines with them that are often misunderstood by people 146 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 2: who love you and love the child. Yes, you know, 147 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:41,080 Speaker 2: like my child sleeps in the bed with me still 148 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 2: and they're thirteen, and it's exhausting. It's exhausting to not, 149 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 2: you know, to be hit with, you know, a kid, 150 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:56,079 Speaker 2: you know, not in a violent way. Just sleeping. Sleeping. 151 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: Kids are very active. 152 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: Very active, and you know a lot of people have 153 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 2: judgment in my world and say, you know, you have 154 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 2: to do this, you have to do that. And I 155 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 2: thought she was out now she was out for about 156 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: six months, and then I went away to Australia to 157 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 2: work for three weeks. And when I came back back 158 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 2: in the bed right. So everyone that I talk to, 159 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 2: all of our helpers, everyone says, when they're ready, they 160 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 2: will go, I'll go, and then that will be that. 161 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 2: Don't worry, this is not going to be you know, 162 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 2: they're going to end up their whole life doing this. 163 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: You know, right, what a gift though to be in 164 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 1: this time. You know that your kid gets to be 165 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 1: raised by you, because if if you were your kid's 166 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: age with your parents, you might not have been given 167 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: the patience, no, no, to develop in the way you 168 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:53,080 Speaker 1: needed to. 169 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone thought that you have to be stricter with 170 00:09:57,120 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 2: these kids. My kids think that too, They're like, you 171 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 2: have to be stricter with them. I'm like, listen, you guys, 172 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 2: this is a different situation. You guys didn't sleep with me. 173 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 2: Remember what do you think I changed as a mom? 174 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 2: Or did the kid change what's and there's a diagnosis 175 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, there's a doctor's diagnosis of this. This 176 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 2: is someone who does not have Apple software. They have 177 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,559 Speaker 2: some strange computer that you have to figure out how 178 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: to use, and it's not one you've ever seen before, 179 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 2: and you're not good at coding, and you don't know 180 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 2: the lab and you just keep freaking hitting the keys 181 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 2: and trying this and trying that, and you know, and 182 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 2: mostly their self esteem. Now, if I were to send 183 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 2: you pictures of how they just went out, We're here 184 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: in the Jersey Shore and we are doing a family 185 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 2: two weeks hang out at the Jersey Shore, and my 186 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 2: son who just had a baby, and his wife are 187 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 2: coming with the baby who's three months old. So that's unbelievable. 188 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: But we were at the Jersey Shore and she had 189 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 2: on a green wig, she's thirteen goggles and leather gloves 190 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:24,240 Speaker 2: it's eighty five degrees and a skirt and boots, different 191 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:26,839 Speaker 2: kinds of she addresses like Cyndi Lauper in nineteen eighty. 192 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,440 Speaker 1: I was going to say this, this feels very Betsy Johnson 193 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 1: Cyndy Lauper. Yes, yes, yes. 194 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 2: Nineteen eighty so cool. Yeah, so many artists I know 195 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 2: have ADHD autism spectrum, they have something, they have some 196 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 2: four letter three little ditty. And you know, figuring out 197 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 2: yourself is a life journey. You know, it's not like you. 198 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 2: Oh well, that's what I am. So therefore I stop 199 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:53,079 Speaker 2: growing and I just stay in this one definition of 200 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: who I am. But moving to Ireland really forced me 201 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 2: to step back out of my comfort zone. 202 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: You know, I was going to ask if some of 203 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 1: this feels related to getting so far outside the system 204 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: you've been used to, because a different brain is, to 205 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: your point, a different operating system. And I'm so curious 206 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 1: what it's been like to live overseas and outside of 207 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: this sort of American ness we're all so steeped in. 208 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 2: Well, you know the greatest thing about it is the 209 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 2: lack of celebrity culture in Ireland, because you know, people 210 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 2: would say to us, welcome Clay, welcome Rosie, you belong 211 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 2: here in Ireland. Never can I have a picture? Can 212 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 2: I have? So Clay and I go to this place 213 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 2: and where it's an outdoor place, we can get a 214 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 2: burger and couple next to us with a little baby 215 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 2: and Clay's playing with the baby and me and the 216 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 2: couple are talking. So it turns out we sort of 217 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 2: had dinner together, but not at the same tabe really close. 218 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:04,839 Speaker 2: And yeah, after about two hours they said, thank you 219 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 2: for talking to us, Rosie and I just want to 220 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: let you know we're both big fans. And I said, oh, 221 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 2: you just thought you'd bring it up here at the 222 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 2: end of the dinner. And he goes, well, it's not 223 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 2: the most important thing, no, is it? And I was 224 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 2: like a sentence never heard in America. Wow. And so 225 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:24,680 Speaker 2: there's a lack of celebrity culture which allows you to 226 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 2: be seen and live as a full, completely integrated person, 227 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 2: you know, with no none of the tendrils of fame 228 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 2: right right. It drags behind you sometimes, and you know, 229 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,959 Speaker 2: it's very hard to talk about because in America it's 230 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 2: held up as the be all, end all. So if 231 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 2: you say anything about it that you know, people are 232 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 2: getting mad. 233 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: You know, God forbids you complain. 234 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:53,679 Speaker 2: You're ruining my dream of what it is. Just be 235 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 2: quiet and be happy you're there, you know. 236 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and now a word from our sponsors who make 237 00:13:58,840 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 1: this show possible. That thing that you said, you know, 238 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: to be able to really be a full, an integrated human, 239 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: what I think people don't understand is that the box 240 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: like it clamps around you and then it squeezes, you know, 241 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: like like one of those Indiana Jones kind of scenes 242 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 1: where the rocks are getting closer. And doesn't mean you 243 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 1: don't love what you do. It means you love it 244 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: so much that you put up with the weirdness of 245 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 1: people not treating you like a person anymore. 246 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 2: But sometimes it's gone before you know it. Right now, 247 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 2: it can be gone in a flash, like mine was 248 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 2: gone after the first day of my show. 249 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 1: Wow, really just overnight. 250 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 2: Overnight. 251 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: Holy Now. 252 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 2: I had done a bunch of movies I had, you know. 253 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: So it was different. 254 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:01,520 Speaker 2: I was not known, but to be superno and in 255 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 2: the category with someone as powerful and meteor aesque as 256 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 2: Oprah Winfrey. Yeah, oh, I mean that's a pretty powerful soul. Yes, 257 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 2: in every way that you can measure it. 258 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: You know, when you think about getting some of your 259 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: personhood back over there in a way, do you think 260 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: the space Ireland gave you is why you're ready to 261 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: come back and do your next show. 262 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 2: I think the space Ireland gave me made me want 263 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 2: to come back and see my son's baby. And I 264 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 2: had been doing it in Australia, in Scotland, and I 265 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 2: had been doing it in Europe, so I've done about 266 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 2: fifty or sixty show performances of it already. 267 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 1: My god, I didn't realize. 268 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. So then when I'm going to be in America 269 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 2: to see my son's baby, I said, can we just 270 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 2: do like, you know, four, like twelve shows, maybe four 271 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 2: a week and in a little theater. Daryl Roth, who's 272 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 2: a big Broadway producer I've worked with before and I 273 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 2: really enjoy her. She's just one another Tony and so 274 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 2: she said, you know, let me present it and we'll 275 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 2: do twelve shows. What do you say? And you know, 276 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 2: so we're going to do that, and you know, I 277 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 2: wanted to see with the changes that I've made because 278 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: the play is essentially a love letter to Ireland, it 279 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 2: really is, and so I had to take out a 280 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 2: lot of the Irish stuff. The second part of the 281 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 2: show is really much more about all the Irish stuff, right, 282 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 2: And it starts with the day my mother died and 283 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 2: it ends with the last day I saw her. So 284 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 2: there are very sad parts in it as well, and 285 00:16:57,240 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 2: sometimes people in the audience cry, you know, and where 286 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 2: they're very startled at the beginning when that's how it starts. 287 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 2: They're like, right, wa, wait a minute, isn't it supposed to 288 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 2: be a comedy. 289 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: Show, right, They're like, wait, Rosie, you're. 290 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:13,880 Speaker 2: So where's the trump jokes? Right? Right? 291 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 1: Right? We thought we thought you were gonna call him patty. 292 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 2: Little bit exactly, come on, do it? Do it? 293 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: Yeah? Wow? Well, so you kick off next week in 294 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 1: New York Wednesday, the twenty second. What do you think 295 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:32,199 Speaker 1: it's going to feel like to be back in New 296 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: York for you? Because like this, I know, Ireland's home, 297 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: but like this is home too, right. 298 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is definitely home. You know. It feels good 299 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 2: and familiar. It also feels very loud. I feel a 300 00:17:43,280 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 2: little bit more anxiety, just you know, in New York. 301 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 2: Sometimes the day's New York wins. You know. New York 302 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:53,640 Speaker 2: is is a beast, right And that's where I'm staying 303 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:57,400 Speaker 2: and where I'm doing the show, And you know, I'm 304 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:00,199 Speaker 2: I'm home. I sold everything before I left, and so 305 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 2: I'm hoping to get like a place in New Jersey 306 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 2: near my kids so that I could when i'm home, 307 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 2: we can have a home base here as well. You know. 308 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 2: So I'm planning on doing that, and you know, I 309 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:15,199 Speaker 2: don't know how long we'll stay there. I think it 310 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 2: really does depend on what happens politically in the country 311 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 2: and if I feel mentally healthy enough to you know, 312 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:30,439 Speaker 2: battle those those demons. And some days I do. Some 313 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 2: days I feel very strong, and other days I feel like, 314 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:36,640 Speaker 2: oh boy, this is a lot. You know. Yeah, he's 315 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 2: like bombards you. It's always he's doing something. You can't 316 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 2: even watch the soccer game or you know, he ruins everything. 317 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: In Really like dealing with him is like a very 318 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 1: horrible version of the Tomato festival that happens in Italy 319 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 1: every summer. Well, just getting compelted in the face all 320 00:18:57,840 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: the time. 321 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 2: It's like stop, you know. 322 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 1: And I know that's their whole thing. Like him and Bannon, 323 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 1: they're like flood the zone wich shit and they won't 324 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: know what to But it's like nobody wants to be 325 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: on the receiving end of a fire hose of shit, 326 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:15,120 Speaker 1: and that that's your goal, just like says so much 327 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 1: about you, So I get it. There are days like 328 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: I got asked this morning if I'd seen something horrible, 329 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,919 Speaker 1: and I was like no, I just like sometimes I 330 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:25,919 Speaker 1: need a day where I don't look at the news. 331 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 1: But then because I'm such a communicator of the news 332 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 1: to people, I get yelled at if I haven't communicated 333 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: about the most recent and I'm like, I don't know 334 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:35,399 Speaker 1: what to tell you, guys. I'm just one person, and 335 00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: sometimes I got to turn off. 336 00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I gotta tell you, I took all of 337 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,879 Speaker 2: the American news channels off of my TV and I 338 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 2: only watch Irish and English Now and sometimes wash Al 339 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:52,639 Speaker 2: Jazeera just to see what's happening over there. And I 340 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 2: have so much commer for it. I can't tell you 341 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 2: the difference that it makes in my mental health and 342 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 2: my happines this level, you know, to experience joy still, 343 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 2: and because it's very, very hard to experience joy when 344 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:16,120 Speaker 2: you're in the thick of the Epstein Library, Yes, when 345 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 2: you're in the thick of that young boy that was 346 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 2: left on the island. 347 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: My friends, it's so awful. 348 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,159 Speaker 2: That you can't believe what the Supreme Court is doing, 349 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:34,199 Speaker 2: and doing boldly in front of everyone. And is he 350 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 2: going to let us have elections? That's my big question. 351 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 2: Is he going to let us or is he going to, 352 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 2: you know, make some sort of tragic event occur and 353 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 2: then declare that it's too dangerous and this is a 354 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 2: time of war and we can't all vote, right, so 355 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 2: you know, I think it's scary. 356 00:20:51,840 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, and now a word from our sponsors. Part of 357 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: the practice for me, because I can really get sucked 358 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 1: under with it all, you know. And then I'm not 359 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,520 Speaker 1: sleeping and then it's like two o'clock and I haven't 360 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,439 Speaker 1: eaten anything, and I'm just like, oh, this is not 361 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 1: a good I'm not treating my body kindly like I 362 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 1: would never treat my kid this way? What am I doing? 363 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: And I think about it and I come back a lot. 364 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 1: There's a poem I love by a poet, Jack Gilbert, 365 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 1: and he it's called a Brief for the Defense. After 366 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:36,880 Speaker 1: our show, I'm going to send it to you, but 367 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,879 Speaker 1: the sort of thesis of it, and he talks about how, 368 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: no matter what, you could essentially be having the most 369 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 1: glorious day, and then you look over there and somebody's 370 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: suffering in the most hideous way. And the thesis of 371 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 1: the point when of the poem, when he really drills 372 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: it down, is there's all sorts of things we can't 373 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: live without, even hope sometimes, but we cannot survive without delight, 374 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 1: Like the human spirit has to have delight, and so 375 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 1: when you when you claim it, you keep it alive 376 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: for everyone else who can't touch it in the moment. 377 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,400 Speaker 1: And it's kind of my reminder, you know, if I've 378 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: spent all day calling representatives or on forty six zooms 379 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: and then raging about a thing, and I'm writing an 380 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 1: op ed, I go, I gotta like get outside and 381 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 1: listen to the kid's laugh exactly because I have to 382 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: remember what I'm fighting for, Like I have to have 383 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: that exactly. 384 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,760 Speaker 2: You have to do it, and you know, and that's 385 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 2: what I'm you know, I'm fighting for peace of mind 386 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 2: and my own mental health, and I know enough to 387 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 2: take it seriously. Some people don't survive, people I know 388 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 2: in love, you know, ye I lost family members and 389 00:22:55,240 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 2: loved ones, and you know, nobody gets out of this unscathed, right. 390 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, but I hear delight even when you talk 391 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 1: about the show, when you talk about going to host 392 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: Jimmy Kimmel, like. 393 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 2: Fine, grand baby, I have pure delight being here on 394 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,159 Speaker 2: the Jersey Shore. Even though there was a horrible storm 395 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 2: last night and the lightning hit so close to the 396 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 2: house that the fire alarm went off and kept saying 397 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 2: fire fire. Every time strike the alarm went off and 398 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 2: screamed fire fire, which was not good for anyone. I 399 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 2: don't think, wow, but there was no fire. 400 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,399 Speaker 1: Knock woodna, I'll knock on my wood too, thank god. 401 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 1: You know, it's my favorite question to ask everybody, But 402 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 1: I'm really curious for you because you everyone's holding their world, 403 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: but you're a person who holds really like you hold 404 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 1: your arms outstretched wide for a lot of people and 405 00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 1: a lot of experience. Is you know you're in this season, 406 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: that this refamous, as your kids say, like a reinvention, 407 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 1: a moving, a reclamation, all these things. For you, what 408 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,639 Speaker 1: feels like you're work in progress right now? 409 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 2: You know, my work in progress is to maintain my equilibrium. 410 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:26,680 Speaker 2: I don't think I'm at my best when I am raging. 411 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 2: And that's why, you know, the view for me was 412 00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 2: very difficult because there were things that were enraging by 413 00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,919 Speaker 2: the way the show was run and the subjects that 414 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,680 Speaker 2: we were often asked to talk about. That I thought, 415 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 2: you know, this is the meaning to women or you know, 416 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 2: whatever the issues were, that is not the best use 417 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:51,160 Speaker 2: of my time or talent. You know, when I know that, 418 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 2: and I took a while to learn that, And so 419 00:24:54,960 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 2: you know, my philanthropy can't interrupt my ability to find 420 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 2: the delight in life. And that means you have to participate. 421 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:09,879 Speaker 2: You have to participate. You know. I used to smoke 422 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:14,680 Speaker 2: pot before I went to Ireland because it's illegal there. 423 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 2: So in a year and a half, I haven't smoked 424 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:20,880 Speaker 2: any pot, right, And I feel a little bit clearer, 425 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:25,159 Speaker 2: to tell you the tea. I feel more present, obviously 426 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 2: in my life, and less forgetful, less taken out of something, 427 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 2: you know. And if you would have told me a 428 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 2: year and a half or two years ago, oh, you're 429 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 2: gonna go there and you're gonna quit pot and you're 430 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,880 Speaker 2: gonna feel better, I would have said, no freaking way, 431 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,639 Speaker 2: you know, no way. And I'm not advocating it for 432 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,320 Speaker 2: anyone besides someone who thinks they'd like to participate more 433 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 2: in their own life and spend less time trying to 434 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 2: quell the twelve monkeys in your brain. 435 00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 1: Right, But I think what I'm here hearing you say 436 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 1: is you're really open to possibilities you didn't see coming totally, 437 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,159 Speaker 1: and that feels like a really cool place to be. 438 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like what you're supposed to, what's 439 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: supposed to happen, will happen. And I'm at peace with that, 440 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,879 Speaker 2: you know. I'm like, they're like, what what do you 441 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 2: want to do after Jimmy Kimmel. I just want to 442 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:24,119 Speaker 2: do my best. I just want to, you know, be 443 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 2: as good as I can be and be joyful and 444 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:32,399 Speaker 2: be uh, be happy, and and know that some of 445 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 2: those people who believed in him are good people and 446 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 2: they were led astray and and we have to lay 447 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,400 Speaker 2: our arms open for them too. We all have been there, 448 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:49,200 Speaker 2: and this is liberty and justice for all. Still. 449 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 1: I also think when you've got when you've gone full 450 00:26:55,920 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 1: circle through the emotions of it, I understand the anger 451 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 1: is righteous. I'm angry all the time. I think when 452 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:08,040 Speaker 1: you're frustrated people haven't been listening, great, but you can't 453 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,480 Speaker 1: stay in the frustration or the anger. The whole point 454 00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 1: of knowing better is also doing better. And so if 455 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: we can do better, if we've known better, we have 456 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 1: to be willing to say, oh, you're ready to do better, 457 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 1: then come do it with us, because the the other 458 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 1: part of it is like, well, we're going to cut 459 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 1: off our nose despite our face, like, no, we're not. 460 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 2: We're not freeing the insurrectionists. No we're not. We're not saying, 461 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 2: you know, every crime that you've ever committed is forgiven 462 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,719 Speaker 2: over your new found understanding of who this man is. 463 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 2: But I do think there has to be you know, 464 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,120 Speaker 2: that roomy quote right in the field next to right 465 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 2: and wrong, there's the people. I'll go. 466 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 1: I'll meet you there, ya Right. 467 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,199 Speaker 2: So that's what I'm what I'm hoping for, that's what 468 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 2: I'm trying to manifest. That's what I'm meaning and knowing. Like, listen, 469 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:08,639 Speaker 2: Jimmy asked me to do. This is quite an honor. 470 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to do it, you know. I love that 471 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 2: for you, and I'm going to try my best, you know, 472 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:21,479 Speaker 2: and have fun and enjoy it, you know, enjoy it. 473 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: Yeah,