WEBVTT - Vitamin D Live - 10.3.24

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<v Speaker 1>They say life is the greatest teacher, because first you

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<v Speaker 1>take the test and then you learn the lesson. So

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<v Speaker 1>then why don't we have more patience? Then why are

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<v Speaker 1>we allowing ourselves to be subject to anxiety instead? Why

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<v Speaker 1>aren't we making space essentially giving ourselves grace to learn,

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<v Speaker 1>to improve, to reflect, to experience something that we've never experienced.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, it's almost as though we put ourselves in

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<v Speaker 1>this sense of insanity because we do the same thing,

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<v Speaker 1>expecting different results, and then sometimes expecting different results while

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<v Speaker 1>doing the same things, or perhaps nothing at all. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>the fact of the matter is is that you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to make mistakes. You're not perfect. You are what be

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<v Speaker 1>called human, just like the rest of us. So what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of measurement or what kind of ridicule are you

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<v Speaker 1>holding yourself with? When I think about and I think

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<v Speaker 1>about space, I think of possibility, and I think of opportunity,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think oftentimes we strike ourselves out of a

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<v Speaker 1>situation because perhaps we feel as though we're not enough,

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<v Speaker 1>perhaps we don't feel like we deserve another chance, or

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<v Speaker 1>perhaps we've looked to our left and are right. We

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<v Speaker 1>looked at what's in front of us, and definitely have

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<v Speaker 1>looked what's behind us and said, hey, and why not worthy? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here to remind you God ain't done. We just

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<v Speaker 1>getting started. It made me think of the track God

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<v Speaker 1>Ain't Done. It's by Miles Minnick, Sam Rivera and DJ Molsky.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you got to bring God in your situation and

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<v Speaker 1>realize that it's not meant for you to handle it

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<v Speaker 1>all by yourself. Now you say, don well wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>what if I'm not religious? Hold up, slow down, Jim Shoe.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about religion. I'm talking about a faith

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<v Speaker 1>or a belief, something I side of you, whatever that

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<v Speaker 1>piece that's saying you know what, it's gonna be good

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<v Speaker 1>or what is that piece that you realize is that

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing more than you can do. So guess what.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta sit back so you can be good. You

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<v Speaker 1>gotta remind yourself my God ain't done. We just getting started.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you invite God or another entity outside of

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<v Speaker 1>you where you are not in control, well you can say,

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<v Speaker 1>if my God's in it, then you know is big

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<v Speaker 1>because it's outside of you. So remember, and I quote,

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<v Speaker 1>God ain't done with you, even if they try to

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<v Speaker 1>cancel you out, and even that's that person as you

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<v Speaker 1>all right, it's that damn Dawn like the break of day,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're tuned in to Vitamin D Live. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>good afternoon, good evening. You are tuned in to the

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<v Speaker 1>Vitamin D with Dawn Day podcast and I am your host,

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<v Speaker 1>Dawn Day, here to get you excited about your life

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<v Speaker 1>so that you can live life on purpose and for

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<v Speaker 1>a purpose. If this is your first time tuning in

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome a Vitamin D it's a pun off my name.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Dawn, and you get Vitamin D from

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<v Speaker 1>the sun. So I'm here shed light into your life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do this with inspirational insight and conversations with

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<v Speaker 1>celebrities and everyday people like you and me, Because if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be better and you want to do better,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're going to have to be able to see better.

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<v Speaker 1>So join me on this journey of living our best

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<v Speaker 1>lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest

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<v Speaker 1>ass at get your right.

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<v Speaker 2>In, Mandy, right with me, and get excited about your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy first day, Oh child, I'm feeling like a new woman. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>miss mine, I see you on Facebook? How you doing

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<v Speaker 1>over there? I want to welcome anybody else that is

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in watching on live. I am saying, hey, look,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to ask. I got my hair done.

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<v Speaker 1>Why is it we feel as though we are a

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<v Speaker 1>new person. You get your hair done, you get your

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<v Speaker 1>hair cut, you get those nails done, you get your

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<v Speaker 1>new outfit, your new shoes. You might be riding around

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<v Speaker 1>in your new car with a fresh wash. You just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like a new thing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>It had been a minute. But honey, I feel snolched

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel good. I hope you're doing good, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you had a moment to listen to the

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<v Speaker 1>vitamin D and realize that God ain't done with you yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you've experienced of what you're going through,

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<v Speaker 1>but I hear a lot of people keep talking about, well,

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<v Speaker 1>life is lifing, life been lifing? And what do I say?

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<v Speaker 1>If you fall down seven times, you get up eight

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<v Speaker 1>If you can look up, you can get up. Your

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<v Speaker 1>location is not your destination. We got Alvin Innaviilds and Hello, Passa.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited about this conversation that I'm gonna bring

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<v Speaker 1>to you today. I got some information from the news desk,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, I got some resources that you all have

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<v Speaker 1>emailed me and texted me, and in case, Vitamin D

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<v Speaker 1>at dawn daispeaks dot com resources and information with the

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<v Speaker 1>community that can be for us by us, And I

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<v Speaker 1>got a Vitamin D advice letter. And then after that,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm opening up the phone lines because I got something

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about now. If you are following

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<v Speaker 1>me on Facebook, you perhaps seeing me post up a video.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about trauma. I want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about conversation. I want to talk about the whole idea

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<v Speaker 1>of us living in a space where we aren't necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>talking about what's going on with us, and as a

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<v Speaker 1>result of that, that is causing generational curses. As a

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<v Speaker 1>result of that, we realize that we have various relationships

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<v Speaker 1>in our lives that are experiencing some sort of tension

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<v Speaker 1>simply because we haven't talked, simply because we haven't addressed

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<v Speaker 1>the mess. So I don't know who here right now,

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<v Speaker 1>But if you want to have a conversation with some

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<v Speaker 1>real people right now, then I'm saying I need you

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<v Speaker 1>to pull up on me, okay, please. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>make room for you, just like you've made room for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I gotta call it gratitude, So I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed this episode. Thank you so much. Hey Latasha, I

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<v Speaker 1>see you girl, Tasha, coming from a long beach in

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<v Speaker 1>the house. I read your information and I have to

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<v Speaker 1>remember to read it again. I have my PSA packet.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, guys, so thank you so much. I am

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<v Speaker 1>going to jump right in from front of the news

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<v Speaker 1>desk because I have some information and some stories to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about. We're talking about what's happening in our nation,

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening in our state, or perhaps what's happening with

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<v Speaker 1>a person near you now something that has happened recently.

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<v Speaker 1>You remember the story that was reported of the twenty

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<v Speaker 1>six year old woman who was at Disneyland. She got

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<v Speaker 1>arrested in front of her children. The children were crying

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<v Speaker 1>profusely saying are you to me? Which has helped me

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<v Speaker 1>in Spanish. All of this was captured on video. All

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<v Speaker 1>of this was plastered on social media. I'm talking about folks.

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<v Speaker 1>Have the pictures, I mean, the happiest place on earth

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<v Speaker 1>and you have children crying with their mother. Many have

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<v Speaker 1>raised the idea of what Dawn Well not doing? Other

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<v Speaker 1>person people conversation, was the arrest necessary? Well? On the

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<v Speaker 1>heels of that story, I have something else for you.

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<v Speaker 1>This was just announce I was on KTLA Disneyland is

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<v Speaker 1>bringing back discounts on kids tickets. That's right. Beginning October

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<v Speaker 1>twenty second, guests can purchase kids tickets for as low

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<v Speaker 1>as fifty dollars and this is per child, per day,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is valid from January seventh through March twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty Sorry March twentieth, twenty twenty five. Now the ticket

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<v Speaker 1>deals available for children's age three two nine. Guests can

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<v Speaker 1>also upgrade the tickets to the park Hopper tickets or

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<v Speaker 1>add on additional services like Lightning Lane, the Multi Pass

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<v Speaker 1>and formerly known as Disney Jeanie. Now currently, two day,

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<v Speaker 1>one day park passes have started as low as one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty five dollars per day, while kids three

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<v Speaker 1>day one park pass tickets have started its cost as

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and thirty dollars a day now. As I

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<v Speaker 1>reported with the previous woman that's twenty six year old.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember she was trying to sneak her kids under, so

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<v Speaker 1>they say, and they were over the age of three,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's something. Also. I don't know if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have been looking around but we know that we are

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<v Speaker 1>on the heels of the Olympics right and as a

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<v Speaker 1>result of that, we are cleaning up the streets of LA.

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<v Speaker 1>All the individuals that are part of the unhoused community

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<v Speaker 1>are finding what they want called home. This area, this

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<v Speaker 1>space is no more.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I've shared with you all that I am doing some

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<v Speaker 1>live hosting basically on the TikTok on the tic Lord

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<v Speaker 1>am I getting there? Jesus, I'm shunning anyway. I do

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<v Speaker 1>luxury bag selling and all times I do shoe selling.

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<v Speaker 1>I see all that to say, at this location where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm working at, usually there has been a whole row

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<v Speaker 1>of unhoused people and it is kind of like your

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<v Speaker 1>own neighborhood. And I've recently seen I was just there

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<v Speaker 1>earlier today and it's all cleaned up. The question has become,

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<v Speaker 1>where are they going to go? Well, one city in

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<v Speaker 1>California is no longer eligible to receive state housing and

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<v Speaker 1>homelessness funds pull up. This is according to KTLA. The

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<v Speaker 1>city of Norwalk is no longer eligible to receive state

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<v Speaker 1>housing and homelessness funds after the State Department of Housing

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<v Speaker 1>and Community Development revoked its compliance with the Housing Element

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<v Speaker 1>Law Additionally, the city can no longer deny certain affordable

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<v Speaker 1>housing projects, and this is according to Governor Gavin Newsman. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>The announcement comes weeks after the city extended its mortuarian

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<v Speaker 1>more moratorier child by on emergency shelters for the homeless,

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<v Speaker 1>single room occupancy and transitional housing now. A day earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>Governor Gavin Newsom threatened the city with a potential lawsuit

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<v Speaker 1>if the ordinance wasn't reversed. Now, it says, after the

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<v Speaker 1>state has provided cities and counties with unprecedented funding to

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<v Speaker 1>address the homelessness crisis, it is beyond cruel that Norwalk

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<v Speaker 1>would ban the building of shelters while people are living

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<v Speaker 1>on the city streets. This crisis is urgent and we

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<v Speaker 1>can't afford to stand by as communities turn their backs

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<v Speaker 1>on those in need. No more excuses. Every city, including Norwalk,

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<v Speaker 1>must do its part to allow state housing laws. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think about that? How do you feel about that? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>We know that we got because a small justice. Big

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<v Speaker 1>smiles who was on the meet with FM Dow who

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<v Speaker 1>was very candid about his experience of being unhoused in

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<v Speaker 1>the community, and now he has a thing where he

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<v Speaker 1>does if I spotted my got him. He sees somebody

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<v Speaker 1>with our shoes, clothes, hats, sneakers, and he's going to

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and provide that with them. But here's the question.

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<v Speaker 1>We have to realize in some areas. I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>that we've heard a lot in LA, but there are

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<v Speaker 1>individuals who are unhoused who are attacking individuals. Some individuals

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<v Speaker 1>are being sexually assaulted. If I'm not mistaken, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just reading a story or I came across it. A

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<v Speaker 1>woman who was sexually assaulted an unhoused guy who was

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<v Speaker 1>mentally unstabled had sexually assaulted more than two. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>it was three elderly women women that came forth and

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<v Speaker 1>reported it. Now here's the question. We can't leave our

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<v Speaker 1>people out on the street. Okay, that's what we know

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. Now, if we have funding and we have

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<v Speaker 1>housing in place, and individuals don't want to go to

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<v Speaker 1>the housing, don't want to stay in the housing, what

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<v Speaker 1>are we supposed to do? Because we have to realize

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<v Speaker 1>that each said and visual or some at least are

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<v Speaker 1>an adult, They have their free will. They have to

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<v Speaker 1>report up there if they want, and if times they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do we do in this instance? What does

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<v Speaker 1>this look like? Now? This Norwalk City Council adopted the

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<v Speaker 1>ordinance on August sixth, putting the moretarium on various establishments,

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<v Speaker 1>including emergency shelters along with transitional and supportive housing. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>in September, the City Council voted to extend it without discussion.

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<v Speaker 1>Before city council members voted on the extension, HCDS sent

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<v Speaker 1>city officials a notice of violation and corrective action letter

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<v Speaker 1>regarding the ordinance. So this is something to think about.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Another thing that's thinking about now, this is basically happening

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<v Speaker 1>on the East Coast and probably happening with us a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>but especially when we get our inboards. We've all heard

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<v Speaker 1>about the strikes that's happened in the docks right where

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<v Speaker 1>the workers are demanding more pay and if they aren't working,

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<v Speaker 1>all of our goods are on delay. As a country

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<v Speaker 1>where a lot of materials, products, goods are imported, what

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<v Speaker 1>happens if it stops before it gets to us? Have

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<v Speaker 1>you thought about what that looks like for food, for clothing,

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<v Speaker 1>for jobs. Like I said before, I was talking where

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<v Speaker 1>I do the live hosting for the bags and we

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<v Speaker 1>were in there and they were talking about the fact

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<v Speaker 1>there was an issue because a lot of the luxury

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<v Speaker 1>bags that we're getting in, well, they're getting stopped at

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<v Speaker 1>the docks. The union representing forty five thousand striking US

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<v Speaker 1>DOC workers at East and Gulf Coast ports has reached

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<v Speaker 1>a deal to suspend a three day strike until January

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen to provide time to negotiate a new contract. The union,

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<v Speaker 1>the International Longshoremen's Association, is to resume working immediately, I

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<v Speaker 1>said immediately. Both sides also reached agreement on wages, but

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<v Speaker 1>no details were given now. According to a statement from

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<v Speaker 1>the Ports and Union Thursday night, the union went on

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<v Speaker 1>strike early Tuesday after its contract expired in a dispute

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<v Speaker 1>overpay and the automation of tasks at the ports from

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<v Speaker 1>Maine to Texas. The strike came at the peak of

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<v Speaker 1>the holiday shopping season at thirty six ports that handle

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<v Speaker 1>about half the cargo from ships coming into and out

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<v Speaker 1>of the United States. Say what now. The walkout raised

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<v Speaker 1>the risk of shortages of goods on store shelves if

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<v Speaker 1>it lasted more than a few weeks, but also retailers

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<v Speaker 1>had stocked up or shipped its items early in anticipation

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<v Speaker 1>of the work stoppage. Now, the strike came at the

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<v Speaker 1>peak of the holiday season. Like I just said, it

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<v Speaker 1>raised Oh oh, that was redundant. So yes, what are

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<v Speaker 1>your thoughts on that?

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<v Speaker 4>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you were a tuned or tuned

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<v Speaker 1>in what was this on Tuesday? Did you hear the

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<v Speaker 1>audio I played of the whistleblower? You don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about. Listen all what I'm saying is that

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be some sort of wake up call. If

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<v Speaker 1>you don't believe, you better ask somebody or ask somebody else. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I was wondering if we were on the fence because

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<v Speaker 1>of what was happening at the docks, if there was

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<v Speaker 1>more stuff going on. I am going back in my

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<v Speaker 1>phone right now and I'm going to play this audio.

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<v Speaker 1>A whistle blower from the FBI had an important message

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<v Speaker 1>for folks, an important message that some people might get

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<v Speaker 1>a little nervous. Some people like to get a little scared.

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<v Speaker 1>But listen, don't say I and tell yourself. This whistle

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<v Speaker 1>blower is urging that Americans to vote for one arm themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>stock up three to four months of food and supplies,

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<v Speaker 1>and most importantly, pray, take a listen.

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<v Speaker 5>I would just say that I consider the hearing today

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<v Speaker 5>my last active service as a public servant for the

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<v Speaker 5>United States of America. Was an intel professional for our

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<v Speaker 5>country for many years, and I would give recommendations and

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<v Speaker 5>not also look at indications and warnings. So I would

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<v Speaker 5>offer this to the American people as my warning to them, says,

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<v Speaker 5>this is a warning is the American people, I say,

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<v Speaker 5>I personally have no confidence that the FBI will rein

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<v Speaker 5>in its own conduct. I've been persecuted along with Garrett,

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<v Speaker 5>Steve and Kyle and countless other whistleblowers. It is my

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<v Speaker 5>opinion that the bureau used a reprisal and fear to

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<v Speaker 5>control the workforce, and it's been a seemingly effective tactic.

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<v Speaker 5>I personally believe that there are no current effective checks

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<v Speaker 5>and balances against them conducting lawless action with any type

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<v Speaker 5>of correction in a legitimate time frame. Their ability to

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<v Speaker 5>overclassify information can allow them to stonewall forever. Arm yourself

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<v Speaker 5>and know how to defend yourself. Make three to four

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<v Speaker 5>friends in your neighborhood and promise to come to each

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<v Speaker 5>other's mutual aid in times of hardship and during the

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<v Speaker 5>great depression, people stocked up a pantry. So I think

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<v Speaker 5>that's a good practice, especially in our economic times, and

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<v Speaker 5>make sure you have three to four months of food.

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<v Speaker 5>As a person of faith, I'd say pray the Rosary,

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<v Speaker 5>go to the first Friday devotions that's for everybody, and

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<v Speaker 5>read the Gospel of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ,

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<v Speaker 5>and live it every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you catch it? Did you catch it because it's hired.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the kind of conversations we need to be

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<v Speaker 1>a realistic with. These are the things that we need

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about, especially when it comes about our livelihood,

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes about our community, there is always something underlining.

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<v Speaker 1>So how does that make you feel? When you get

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<v Speaker 1>moments when you got things happen at the dock. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>granted it has been suspended since January, but it's no

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<v Speaker 1>secret what they're talking about with the food. It's no secret.

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<v Speaker 1>While Governor Gavin Newsom just did a recall and signed

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<v Speaker 1>a bill that said, hey, we cannot sell any more

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<v Speaker 1>food that candains red dyed number forty and five other chemicals,

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<v Speaker 1>it's nothing shocking that you got individuals of young kids

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<v Speaker 1>doing breakouts, losing their lives because they eating ramen noodles.

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<v Speaker 1>Wake up everybody normal sleeping bend dunnam. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>the rest, but it's time to wake up. How does

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<v Speaker 1>that make you feel? Okay? Well, if that doesn't wake

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<v Speaker 1>you up enough, we know that the holiday seasons are abound,

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<v Speaker 1>and here is something to talk about. Did you know

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<v Speaker 1>that Southern California police seized nearly ten thousand stolen gift cards?

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<v Speaker 1>Pull up because you might be purchased at a gift

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<v Speaker 1>card and ain't nothing on it.

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<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Police in southern California have uncovered a scam in which

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<v Speaker 1>thousands of gift cards were stolen from stores across the region.

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<v Speaker 1>In a post on Instagram on Wednesday, the Chino Police

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<v Speaker 1>Department said an arrest was made after an investigation into

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<v Speaker 1>a large scale scam was wrapped up. While working with

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<v Speaker 1>security terms and law law and local law enforcement agencies,

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<v Speaker 1>the department discovered the thefts occurred that more than two

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and fifty department stores across San Bernardino, Los Angeles,

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<v Speaker 1>Sand dig in Orange Counties in just one month span.

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<v Speaker 1>Now upon execution of the search, warns about nine thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred stolen gift cards were seized. A photo was

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<v Speaker 1>shared by Chino Police, showed stacks of stolen gift cards

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<v Speaker 1>from stores like Target, Normstrom, the Home Depot, lu, Lul, Lemon,

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<v Speaker 1>and epay. Now. The suspects was only identified as an

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<v Speaker 1>individual from Elmonte. Was arrested on suspicion of multiple charges

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<v Speaker 1>and was booked in County jail.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>The Chino Police Department warned shoppers to be careful when

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<v Speaker 1>purchasing gift cards. If their cards packaging appears to be

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<v Speaker 1>tampered with, or if the pensticker on the back has

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<v Speaker 1>been removed, there is a likelihood that the card may

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<v Speaker 1>be part of a scam. Well, I be damned, say what,

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<v Speaker 1>say what? Wake up everybody? No one will sleeping in bed?

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<v Speaker 1>Who would have a You know, you have so many

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<v Speaker 1>ways that you gotta think off for things when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to the scam, I mean damned if it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>no resources, you call yourself being really nifty. Giving somebody

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity to purchase what they need for their birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>for they hollibate day, for their celebration, Oh what have you?

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<v Speaker 1>And there's nothing on the car Now, I'm just wondering,

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<v Speaker 1>how did the brother slip up? How did they come

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<v Speaker 1>across all these dang gonna gift cars. I mean, we

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<v Speaker 1>talking about over ten thousand, and let's just really think

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<v Speaker 1>about this Arab we're talking about Lululemon, were talking about Northstrum.

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<v Speaker 1>Now what they did not say? Hold on what they

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<v Speaker 1>did not say? What was the damn cash value? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know how much money was on the table,

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<v Speaker 1>because when you talk about a norsetrum, you can get

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<v Speaker 1>up to the thousands. Well no, he got for at

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<v Speaker 1>least five on it. And they got called like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>you just be slipping, you falling, you can't get up.

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<v Speaker 1>I sing, I'm slipping, I'm falling. I got to get it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know I'm slipping. I'm falling. I got to get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just start going off. Nobody would

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<v Speaker 1>have talked to me about any of these stories. It

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<v Speaker 1>is a crying Shane. You don't want to hear from you.

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<v Speaker 1>Call me in the studio, Call me in the studio

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Who want to call me? Call me in

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<v Speaker 1>a studio, Miss Mayan, She says, crying Shane. Uh huh,

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<v Speaker 1>it is a crying Shane. I got Alvin in here.

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<v Speaker 1>Alva said, say what the app didn't pick up what

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<v Speaker 1>your emoji was and how long to my aunt Brenda.

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<v Speaker 1>She recently celebrated the birthday the Big seven five. Y'all

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<v Speaker 1>throw us some birthday case from my aunt Brenda in

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<v Speaker 1>the house, and I want to encourage you to call

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<v Speaker 1>me in the studio if you have any comments on

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<v Speaker 1>the stories I just read eight one eight four six

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<v Speaker 1>one fifty four thirty two. Eight one eight four six

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<v Speaker 1>one fifty four thirty two. Let me know your thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>Put some comments on her. I gave you a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of stories. We're talking about in Norwalk. They're they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>they're taking away the funds when it comes down to

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<v Speaker 1>those who aren't housed. I just told you about Disneyland.

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<v Speaker 1>They want ahead and said, hey, now we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>offer a discount on kids tickets. This is on the

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<v Speaker 1>heels of the recent story about the twenty six year

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<v Speaker 1>old woman who I told you got escorted out of

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<v Speaker 1>Disneyland in handcuffs as her kids was crying. Say what,

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<v Speaker 1>let me know what you want. Are you concerned? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you concerned what's happening over at the dock with the goods.

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<v Speaker 1>Has your business been affected? I mean it was only

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<v Speaker 1>two days, but some people already felt the shock. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I told you they are suspending this up until January fifteenth.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we're gonna have a new conversation. So then the

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<v Speaker 1>question becomes, are you stocking up and doing what you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta do? Hey, man, Die, thank you so much. Uh

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<v Speaker 1>call me in the studio, y'all. I want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>from you. Don't be screwed. Eight one eight four six

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<v Speaker 1>one fifty four to thirty two. I told you we

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<v Speaker 1>back Dawnde here to make it do what it do. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how now, let me get to some resources. Where's my

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<v Speaker 1>cell follow net? Miss Felicia. She went ahead and texted

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<v Speaker 1>me a message really quickly. Oh, I just saw your message, Alvin.

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<v Speaker 1>I just picked up my phone. I want to give

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<v Speaker 1>out some information. You know. I'm all about making sure

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<v Speaker 1>that if you are in the community, if you have

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<v Speaker 1>some good news, if you have some resources, to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure we share well. Coming up this Saturday. This is

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<v Speaker 1>in Los Angeles. I don't know if Chuck is here. Chuck,

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<v Speaker 1>you usually give me the information that's happening in the South.

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<v Speaker 1>My phone is froze real quick. But AnyWho, this Saturday,

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<v Speaker 1>Fanny lou Hammer birthday celebration and voter education event is

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<v Speaker 1>happening right off of Crenshaw next to the McDonald's forty

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<v Speaker 1>to seventy six Crenshaw Boulevard. There will be light refreshments.

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<v Speaker 1>It's happening between four and six now we have of

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<v Speaker 1>the Fanny lou Hammer Institute. The director Achille will be

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<v Speaker 1>there as well as a poetry performance from Yasmin Mone Watkins.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I recognize her from the social medias. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why am I saying up? Social media is y'all?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, I got her information from the social media

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<v Speaker 1>and I've been looking at her poetry. But there is

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<v Speaker 1>a voting event that is happening taking place. Also, is

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<v Speaker 1>Latasha still here? Latasha said, coming from the LBC, sent

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<v Speaker 1>over some information and regarding Sunshine Community Resource Organization. This

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<v Speaker 1>is an organization in Long Beach. If you're in Long

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<v Speaker 1>Beach pull up. They offer services that can help with

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<v Speaker 1>supervise child visitation, monitoring, mobile AHA BLS and CPR certification course,

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<v Speaker 1>domestic violence classes, parenting skills, life skills, anger management classes,

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<v Speaker 1>food giveaway, mobile live scanning, fingerprinting, mobile drug testing, registered

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<v Speaker 1>process server, court mandated community service hours ordained Minister Services,

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<v Speaker 1>chemical dependency classes and free California ID application for low

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<v Speaker 1>income clients. This is happening right down in Long Beach

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<v Speaker 1>at the Sunshine Community Resource Organization. Our girl, Latasha says,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. She pulls up. Tasha, call me real quick,

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<v Speaker 1>because don't act like I wasn't with you during the

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<v Speaker 1>holiday and I came down there to the community center myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you call me in the studio, call me in

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<v Speaker 1>the studio and tell the good people about the work

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<v Speaker 1>that you're doing. You made sure that you sent me

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<v Speaker 1>this information on Tuesday and said, Dawn, can you please

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<v Speaker 1>list this out and shout this out to the listeners

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<v Speaker 1>and the viewers. Well, I want you to call me

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Eight one age four six one fifty four

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<v Speaker 1>thirty two. Don't be shine. Eight one age four six,

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<v Speaker 1>one fifty four thirty two. She said, Okay, I am,

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<v Speaker 1>She said, okay, I am. Oh, and this must be heard.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Gray, talk to me, Hey, don how are you well?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, not that I'm hearing from you. How you doing?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm blessing how they favorite like the rest?

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<v Speaker 1>You better talk that talk. It's good to hear.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I heard you. I can barely hear you just

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<v Speaker 6>a little bit. Can you stick up a little bit louder?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let me see. Can you hear me better now?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? A little bit better?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, we're working on what we got to do

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<v Speaker 1>with the equipment. But I know everybody can hear you well.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you tell me the good information you got in

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<v Speaker 1>regards to Sunshine Community Resource Organization?

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<v Speaker 6>So well everyone. We provide services to everyone no matter

0:26:34.160 --> 0:26:38.480
<v Speaker 6>what from Lancaster to the Long Beach area. Some services

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:41.120
<v Speaker 6>are free and some services you may have to pay

0:26:41.160 --> 0:26:43.919
<v Speaker 6>us fee, but we're always doing a full giveaway on

0:26:44.000 --> 0:26:49.520
<v Speaker 6>a fourth Thursday of every month. We teach, as Donde said, CPR,

0:26:50.440 --> 0:26:54.439
<v Speaker 6>Supervised Vegetation MONITORND do messy violence for the batter and

0:26:54.600 --> 0:26:58.119
<v Speaker 6>the victim. We also help out with housing. If you

0:26:58.119 --> 0:27:00.360
<v Speaker 6>guys would like to go to the website to help

0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:05.800
<v Speaker 6>you out better, you can go to www dot Sunshine

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<v Speaker 6>Community to zero one five dot o RG. Can everybody

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<v Speaker 6>get it myself either?

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<v Speaker 1>So yes? Can you hear yourself now?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>I can hear now?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sun Community, I got that downww.

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<v Speaker 6>Dot Sunshine Community to zero one five dot org. And

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<v Speaker 6>thank you so much Donza for coming out to give

0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:39.760
<v Speaker 6>out toys to the children with us. We're looking forward

0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:43.160
<v Speaker 6>to seeing you this year. We have a Christmas toy

0:27:43.240 --> 0:27:46.760
<v Speaker 6>giveaway you guys with Donze that's going to be pregnant

0:27:47.160 --> 0:27:50.880
<v Speaker 6>on December twentieth. Please mark your calendar December to twenty

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<v Speaker 6>up from twelve to five. The address will be four

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<v Speaker 6>O one seven Long Beach Boulevard, Long Beach, Califoya, nine

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<v Speaker 6>zero eight O seven once again four oh four oh

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<v Speaker 6>one seven Long Beach Boulevard, Long Beach, California, nine oh

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<v Speaker 6>eight O seven are feel free to reach me as

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<v Speaker 6>well on my self, Eric Coach Fix two six six

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<v Speaker 6>one seven oh three oh nine once again Fix two

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<v Speaker 6>six six one seven oh three oh nine. Hope to

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<v Speaker 6>hear from everyone soon. Please tell a friend thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, well, that was a that was a commercial in itself.

0:28:34.920 --> 0:28:40.960
<v Speaker 1>I heard that. I know. Oh God, you better catch

0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:42.960
<v Speaker 1>it Wallace. Oh my gosh. Well, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be talking about more stuff for commercial later.

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<v Speaker 1>But thank you, Natasha, thank you, and I guess I'm

0:28:48.160 --> 0:28:50.040
<v Speaker 1>gonna be saying you all on December twentieth.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, yes, and can you help us out again pass

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<v Speaker 6>out the toys?

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. I would love to.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, then thank you, Dona. I'm gonna allow back yet.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, have a wonderful day.

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<v Speaker 1>Die by my, oh my gosh. And there it is, Natasha.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be doing something, you know. Yes, I did

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<v Speaker 1>pull up, oh man, and I just want to thank

0:29:11.520 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Natasha so much for believing in me, having me come

0:29:15.160 --> 0:29:17.560
<v Speaker 1>up to the kids. It was an extreme joy. And

0:29:17.600 --> 0:29:21.320
<v Speaker 1>if that's not enough, I have some more information. A

0:29:21.360 --> 0:29:25.560
<v Speaker 1>great organization. We are thirty days away. The African American

0:29:25.600 --> 0:29:29.960
<v Speaker 1>Male Wellness Agency is handling and hosting their third annual

0:29:30.280 --> 0:29:34.520
<v Speaker 1>Black Men's Wellness Day. Will be employing our black men

0:29:34.600 --> 0:29:38.040
<v Speaker 1>to know your numbers, because when you know better, you

0:29:38.080 --> 0:29:41.040
<v Speaker 1>can do better, and therefore you can be better. The

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:43.240
<v Speaker 1>fact of the matter is is that black men are

0:29:43.320 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 1>dying from preventable diseases. And guess what you can be

0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:49.840
<v Speaker 1>part of the solution. Come out to Jesse Owen's Park, yes,

0:29:50.000 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 1>the Michelle and Barack Obama Sports Complex also known as

0:29:53.760 --> 0:29:57.640
<v Speaker 1>Rancho Sienega Park on November two at seven am seven

0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:03.360
<v Speaker 1>am between twelve pm for Black Men's Wellness Day. You

0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:06.760
<v Speaker 1>can walk for your dad, your brother, your uncle, your nephew, whomver,

0:30:06.920 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 1>even your son. This is a free family event. KJLH

0:30:10.920 --> 0:30:13.400
<v Speaker 1>will be out there, The LA Sentinel will be out there.

0:30:13.600 --> 0:30:15.720
<v Speaker 1>We got black pages that are going to be out there.

0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:18.480
<v Speaker 1>LA Focus is going to be out there. Johnson and

0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:20.680
<v Speaker 1>Johnson's is going to be out there. I mean, this

0:30:20.800 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 1>is the most fun that you will have at a

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:25.400
<v Speaker 1>doctor's appointment. And guess what, you're a walking. You are

0:30:25.440 --> 0:30:27.960
<v Speaker 1>having fun in order to save your life. Each one

0:30:28.040 --> 0:30:30.560
<v Speaker 1>teach one will guess what each one reach one. And

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 1>that's happening on Saturday, November Teco. Now. The reason why

0:30:33.680 --> 0:30:35.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited about this organization is that I had

0:30:35.840 --> 0:30:37.920
<v Speaker 1>them on the FM DOW. I'm doing some work with

0:30:38.000 --> 0:30:40.440
<v Speaker 1>Jay Barnes, who is in the chat. If you don't

0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 1>see just scroll down you'll see his name. Make sure

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:45.640
<v Speaker 1>you contact and you reach out because if you know

0:30:45.720 --> 0:30:48.440
<v Speaker 1>somebody that needs to know somebody, well let's help somebody.

0:30:48.440 --> 0:30:51.520
<v Speaker 1>And I got another thing. There's a real man, real

0:30:51.640 --> 0:30:55.400
<v Speaker 1>talk that's happening October seventeenth. We know that men are

0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:58.840
<v Speaker 1>suffering from emotional distress twenty percent more than their counterparts.

0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:01.640
<v Speaker 1>And you need somebody to talk to, my brother, somebody

0:31:01.640 --> 0:31:04.160
<v Speaker 1>that can understand you, somebody that speaks the language that

0:31:04.200 --> 0:31:05.720
<v Speaker 1>you speak, that can look you in the eyes and

0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 1>say I got you. October seventeenth. I'll make sure I

0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:10.720
<v Speaker 1>put the link in the chat. But this is all

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:14.120
<v Speaker 1>happening with the Africanamerican Male Wellness Agency, and I want

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:15.680
<v Speaker 1>to give you the website so that you can find

0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:20.240
<v Speaker 1>more information about it. It's La dot AA Wellness dot org. Okay,

0:31:20.480 --> 0:31:24.760
<v Speaker 1>that's La dot AA Wellness dot org. You see Jbarnes.

0:31:24.840 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Hit them up, stalk them, tell them that Dawn Day

0:31:27.040 --> 0:31:29.360
<v Speaker 1>sent you. Okay. In fact, Jade, I guess we can

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:31.959
<v Speaker 1>need to talk about you coming up on here so

0:31:32.040 --> 0:31:34.400
<v Speaker 1>you can talk about the walk. Okay, so you know

0:31:34.440 --> 0:31:40.960
<v Speaker 1>it's the real deal. Now, mister officer, missus officer, are

0:31:41.000 --> 0:31:43.040
<v Speaker 1>you looking for a John. If you are, I got

0:31:43.040 --> 0:31:46.120
<v Speaker 1>some information for you. R and B Global Security is

0:31:46.160 --> 0:31:49.760
<v Speaker 1>now accepting applications Monday two Friday, between eight am to

0:31:49.800 --> 0:31:52.880
<v Speaker 1>two thirty pm, located down in Long Beach at thirty

0:31:53.040 --> 0:31:57.040
<v Speaker 1>thirteen fifty five Redundo Avenue, Sweet nine. Now, you'll need

0:31:57.080 --> 0:31:59.600
<v Speaker 1>to bring some documents with you. You'll need a valid ID,

0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:01.959
<v Speaker 1>You'll need your Social Security card, you will need your

0:32:02.000 --> 0:32:05.320
<v Speaker 1>guard card and your certification. If you have any questions,

0:32:05.400 --> 0:32:08.440
<v Speaker 1>or to schedule an appointment, feel free to contact three

0:32:08.600 --> 0:32:12.080
<v Speaker 1>one zero four three eight three zero four four. Again

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:16.480
<v Speaker 1>that's three one zero four three eight three zero four four. Now,

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:18.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if we got any senior citizens in

0:32:18.480 --> 0:32:20.600
<v Speaker 1>the house. We know the guys the rent is too

0:32:20.640 --> 0:32:23.120
<v Speaker 1>damn high, But how about them damn bills too? I

0:32:23.200 --> 0:32:25.720
<v Speaker 1>got something for you. Now, seniors, you have to be

0:32:25.800 --> 0:32:28.640
<v Speaker 1>sixty years old and plus. Do you need help with

0:32:28.680 --> 0:32:32.280
<v Speaker 1>your utility bills? Well, if you need some help with

0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:35.600
<v Speaker 1>your ladw and so called bill, well, we have some

0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:38.200
<v Speaker 1>discounts available. How they can help you apply for some

0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:42.960
<v Speaker 1>rebates and apply for financial assistance to pay them. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is happening in Van nine's up in the valley.

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<v Speaker 1>The address is seventeen four hundred seventeen four hundred Victory Boulevard.

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 1>The ZIP gold is nine one four zero six, nine

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<v Speaker 1>one four zero six. You'll need to bring a few items, okay,

0:32:59.600 --> 0:33:02.520
<v Speaker 1>So tell loved one one. You need a current state

0:33:02.600 --> 0:33:06.600
<v Speaker 1>ID or a driver's license, both current bills, your electric

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:08.760
<v Speaker 1>and your gas bill. We need to put the proof

0:33:08.800 --> 0:33:10.880
<v Speaker 1>in the pull in. Don't give anything that does not

0:33:10.960 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 1>have all the pages. Third rent, we need a proof

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:17.680
<v Speaker 1>of your mortgage receipt, your most current we need to

0:33:17.720 --> 0:33:19.800
<v Speaker 1>know and I keep saying we they need to know

0:33:19.840 --> 0:33:22.120
<v Speaker 1>how much you're going to be paying and the proof

0:33:22.200 --> 0:33:25.240
<v Speaker 1>of your current household income. Again, want to be sure

0:33:25.280 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 1>to help those in need, those who cannot help themselves.

0:33:27.920 --> 0:33:30.880
<v Speaker 1>This is for our senior citizens who need help playing

0:33:31.120 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 1>their gas and electric bills. Now, this is in partnership

0:33:35.640 --> 0:33:39.160
<v Speaker 1>with LADWP And if you need the information, I would

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<v Speaker 1>like for you to call eight one eight seven zero

0:33:42.680 --> 0:33:46.480
<v Speaker 1>eight forty seven fifty nine. Again, that is eight one

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<v Speaker 1>eight seven zero eight forty seven fifty nine or eight

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<v Speaker 1>one eight seven zero eight sixty six oh three. That's

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<v Speaker 1>eight one eight seven zero eight sixty six oh three.

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<v Speaker 1>This is for any individuals who are needing a support,

0:34:01.160 --> 0:34:04.360
<v Speaker 1>any type of help when it comes to their electric

0:34:04.720 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 1>and their gas bill. And since we are in the

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:12.279
<v Speaker 1>month of October, there's a hiring spree happening. They say,

0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:14.000
<v Speaker 1>if you stay ready, you don't have to get ready.

0:34:14.440 --> 0:34:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Pull up family. It's happening on the October twenty fourth.

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<v Speaker 1>What day is that, I don't know. I won't have

0:34:19.560 --> 0:34:22.400
<v Speaker 1>my calendar. I need my calendar up because miss Felicia

0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:27.000
<v Speaker 1>got stay focused on East Los Angeles Civic Center is

0:34:27.080 --> 0:34:30.799
<v Speaker 1>hosting a hiring shopping spree from nine am to two

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:35.520
<v Speaker 1>pm forty eighth one East third Street in Los Angeles.

0:34:35.640 --> 0:34:38.720
<v Speaker 1>The zip code is nine hundred and twenty two. Bring

0:34:38.760 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 1>your resume and dress to impress. Nothing less but the best, hey. Now,

0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:50.360
<v Speaker 1>what you can expect is to connect with employers, explore

0:34:50.400 --> 0:34:53.680
<v Speaker 1>a variety of job openings on the spot interviews, get

0:34:53.719 --> 0:34:58.160
<v Speaker 1>supportive help, and leave with opportunities. If you want information

0:34:58.239 --> 0:35:03.000
<v Speaker 1>about that, check out the website hiring Spreela dot org.

0:35:03.200 --> 0:35:07.799
<v Speaker 1>That's Hiring Spree LAI dot org. And this is sponsored

0:35:07.840 --> 0:35:13.480
<v Speaker 1>by America's Works. Now. I gave this information a bit ago.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's another verse binder. You know it's that time

0:35:15.840 --> 0:35:20.000
<v Speaker 1>of year again, cold and flu season. If you had

0:35:20.040 --> 0:35:23.840
<v Speaker 1>no idea, here is We are giving away COVID nineteen

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:26.279
<v Speaker 1>tests if you are going to sign up at the

0:35:26.440 --> 0:35:31.280
<v Speaker 1>USPS dot com website. Each order includes four individual rapid

0:35:31.320 --> 0:35:35.960
<v Speaker 1>antigen COVID nineteen tests, including the extended shelf life and

0:35:36.120 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 1>updated expiration dates. Now orders will ship as early as

0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:42.960
<v Speaker 1>the thirtieth I got mine on the first right when

0:35:43.000 --> 0:35:45.960
<v Speaker 1>I came from the show on that Tuesday. It was

0:35:46.000 --> 0:35:48.200
<v Speaker 1>at the dough. At first, I got excited because I

0:35:48.239 --> 0:35:50.319
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you know when you see a package checker.

0:35:50.520 --> 0:35:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I was saying, oh, who thought? I mean, girl, you

0:35:52.920 --> 0:35:56.359
<v Speaker 1>thought of yourself? Okay, you thought of yourself. I need

0:35:56.400 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 1>a repeat, I guess, Miss Mayan. This is when you

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:02.080
<v Speaker 1>call him as Mayan when you need to get updated

0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:05.240
<v Speaker 1>off some information. This is where you call in say hey, Dawn,

0:36:05.480 --> 0:36:08.760
<v Speaker 1>what was the information that you had for the hiring

0:36:08.840 --> 0:36:13.440
<v Speaker 1>spree that is happening on October twenty fourth. Located at

0:36:13.560 --> 0:36:18.200
<v Speaker 1>the East Los Angeles Civic Center. The address is four

0:36:18.480 --> 0:36:24.200
<v Speaker 1>eight zero one East third Street, four eight zero one

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:29.760
<v Speaker 1>East third Street. The zip code is nine one hundred

0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:33.040
<v Speaker 1>and twelve. Don't be shocked. Pull up on me and

0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:36.279
<v Speaker 1>call me eight one eight four six fifty four thirty two.

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:43.799
<v Speaker 1>Come hey, mister Joe. Good evening to the Queen of

0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:47.080
<v Speaker 1>morning radio. You know that made me feel good. You

0:36:47.120 --> 0:36:48.759
<v Speaker 1>know we say we here for a good time, not

0:36:48.840 --> 0:36:51.640
<v Speaker 1>a long time. Thank you for pulling up. So here's

0:36:51.640 --> 0:36:55.439
<v Speaker 1>the formum one Tuesdays and Thursdays, Vitamin D Live five

0:36:55.480 --> 0:36:58.000
<v Speaker 1>pm to six thirty until we get our morning show.

0:36:58.400 --> 0:37:01.279
<v Speaker 1>Because we know what we're working on, right, You know

0:37:01.320 --> 0:37:06.520
<v Speaker 1>what we got called here to do right? Uh so

0:37:06.680 --> 0:37:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to let you know. Now I want to

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:10.200
<v Speaker 1>open up the phone lines. Anybody want to call me?

0:37:10.400 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 1>Eight one eight to four six one fifty four thirty two,

0:37:12.719 --> 0:37:15.239
<v Speaker 1>eight one eight fifty four thirty two. I gave you

0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:18.240
<v Speaker 1>out some resources information. Next up, I got the Vitamin

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:21.279
<v Speaker 1>D advice letter. And then I want to open up

0:37:21.280 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 1>the conversation. And I hope y'all call in because I

0:37:23.960 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 1>feel like a couple of y'all can be affected or

0:37:26.120 --> 0:37:30.719
<v Speaker 1>would be affected by this. I ran into an FM

0:37:30.760 --> 0:37:33.719
<v Speaker 1>down listener. I went to go get my hair dead.

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:38.200
<v Speaker 1>We had a conversation when we're talking about traumas, h

0:37:40.000 --> 0:37:43.160
<v Speaker 1>traumas and whether or not we are dealing with them, traumas,

0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:46.160
<v Speaker 1>how they are affecting our lives, traumas of how we

0:37:46.200 --> 0:37:49.520
<v Speaker 1>are going to grow with them. Oh, what's my arm?

0:37:50.080 --> 0:37:54.880
<v Speaker 1>Get ready, y'all hold on to you, niggah. Hey, I

0:37:55.000 --> 0:37:57.040
<v Speaker 1>Brenda hell.

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<v Speaker 7>Darn dave done to the day after break of day

0:38:00.280 --> 0:38:02.400
<v Speaker 7>to take some sunshine and some love.

0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:05.480
<v Speaker 8>And some small loll smiles.

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<v Speaker 9>Getting bigger and bigger as I talk to you. I'm

0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:11.320
<v Speaker 9>calling from La Lord, Alabama.

0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:13.879
<v Speaker 7>Eye to La Los Angeles. I just called.

0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:17.480
<v Speaker 1>He said, holler at you girl, Hey, sister girl, love.

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<v Speaker 10>You're doing great.

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:23.719
<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna shine out to love you.

0:38:23.800 --> 0:38:27.879
<v Speaker 1>Okay, love you too. Thank you with you. I didn't

0:38:27.880 --> 0:38:29.439
<v Speaker 1>mean to hang up, Bronda, I thought you were done.

0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:31.919
<v Speaker 1>Never is my umbrada shot. She was in and out,

0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:38.160
<v Speaker 1>in and out, in and out. That's my umbrenda. You

0:38:38.160 --> 0:38:39.840
<v Speaker 1>see how we rhyme all the time. We drop it

0:38:39.880 --> 0:38:42.000
<v Speaker 1>at the drop of a dime, and our lyrics and

0:38:42.000 --> 0:38:45.000
<v Speaker 1>our words will blow your mind right in time with

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:48.880
<v Speaker 1>that sunshine. Don't be blind because I'm also fun. I

0:38:48.920 --> 0:38:51.239
<v Speaker 1>only did that because my umbrenda. Okay, listen, are you

0:38:51.239 --> 0:38:56.719
<v Speaker 1>all ready for this advice letter? Okay, uh you hear it.

0:38:57.160 --> 0:38:59.319
<v Speaker 1>I need another jingle when it's time to go into

0:38:59.320 --> 0:39:02.080
<v Speaker 1>the Vitamin D vice letter. But right now this is

0:39:02.080 --> 0:39:07.760
<v Speaker 1>what we got subject how do I start living my life?

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<v Speaker 4>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me just say this, Oh where I get my

0:39:13.120 --> 0:39:15.480
<v Speaker 1>hair to shoot? They ought to pay me. I'll let

0:39:15.560 --> 0:39:20.840
<v Speaker 1>you know. Offer here that on, my sister Charlotte, you

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:23.200
<v Speaker 1>right in time? You not too. Let I'm about to

0:39:23.200 --> 0:39:25.880
<v Speaker 1>do this advice letter and then let's pull up to

0:39:25.880 --> 0:39:27.680
<v Speaker 1>see if you if you're a viround. Around nine o'clock,

0:39:28.440 --> 0:39:30.840
<v Speaker 1>nine o'clock, Give me ten minutes to get this letter, Charlotte,

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:33.440
<v Speaker 1>and then we can still do what we got to do. Babe.

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:37.319
<v Speaker 1>Let's jump into this advice letter subject how do I

0:39:37.360 --> 0:39:39.640
<v Speaker 1>start living my life? Oh? I forgot When I get

0:39:39.680 --> 0:39:42.000
<v Speaker 1>to this advice and letter, know that it's all about

0:39:42.080 --> 0:39:44.640
<v Speaker 1>vitamin D. Vitamin D is all about shedding the light

0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:46.799
<v Speaker 1>on the good and the bad. Because if you want

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:48.839
<v Speaker 1>to be better and you want to do better, when

0:39:48.840 --> 0:39:51.400
<v Speaker 1>you're going to have to be able to see better.

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:53.759
<v Speaker 1>That means you're gonna have to get out the shadows.

0:39:53.920 --> 0:39:55.440
<v Speaker 1>That means you're gonna have to step in the light.

0:39:55.680 --> 0:39:57.440
<v Speaker 1>That means you're gonna have to eat the meat and

0:39:57.480 --> 0:40:00.000
<v Speaker 1>spin out the bones. Understand that these are my views

0:40:00.040 --> 0:40:03.040
<v Speaker 1>and opinions. Take what you need and keep it moving.

0:40:03.560 --> 0:40:07.960
<v Speaker 1>Dear Dawn. So I'm thirty two, decent job, live in

0:40:07.960 --> 0:40:10.440
<v Speaker 1>a small town in the Midwest. I have a good

0:40:10.440 --> 0:40:13.920
<v Speaker 1>amount of savings, a relationship that could be healthier. She

0:40:14.040 --> 0:40:16.600
<v Speaker 1>thinks I don't emote enough and I don't do it

0:40:17.040 --> 0:40:22.840
<v Speaker 1>just fine. But I feel comfortable and things are good sometimes. Really,

0:40:22.880 --> 0:40:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've evolved into working our debt delved

0:40:26.640 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 1>into working barely maintaining social contacts and watching shows in

0:40:31.000 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>my free time could be the pandemic that was the effect,

0:40:35.400 --> 0:40:39.040
<v Speaker 1>but also feel like this could last longer. I feel

0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:43.640
<v Speaker 1>unfulfilled and alone. How do I really start living life? Honey,

0:40:43.640 --> 0:40:47.839
<v Speaker 1>It's time to wake up now. I want to make

0:40:47.960 --> 0:40:50.359
<v Speaker 1>room and make space because we all handle and deal

0:40:50.400 --> 0:40:56.279
<v Speaker 1>with things differently. Twenty twenty is when we embarked on

0:40:56.440 --> 0:41:02.600
<v Speaker 1>the pandemic. We're now in twenty twenty four. Wake up

0:41:02.800 --> 0:41:08.120
<v Speaker 1>everybyde and Norm will sleep it and bed. If you

0:41:08.160 --> 0:41:10.400
<v Speaker 1>want to be somebody and if you want to go somewhere,

0:41:10.640 --> 0:41:13.440
<v Speaker 1>you better wake up and pay attention. Now. I'm not

0:41:13.480 --> 0:41:15.600
<v Speaker 1>saying this in the harsh way because you simply wrote

0:41:15.640 --> 0:41:18.480
<v Speaker 1>in this letter that means that you are waking up.

0:41:19.080 --> 0:41:21.520
<v Speaker 1>That means you are walking into the light. But you

0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:23.879
<v Speaker 1>have to remind yourselves in the times that you don't

0:41:23.960 --> 0:41:30.360
<v Speaker 1>you feel stuck. Remember, things function, but people live, and

0:41:30.480 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 1>right now you're functioning with your day to day just existing.

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:38.120
<v Speaker 1>But I need you to live, strive for something, step

0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:39.279
<v Speaker 1>out of your comfort zone.

0:41:39.320 --> 0:41:39.480
<v Speaker 11>Now.

0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:41.720
<v Speaker 1>You say you got a decent job, but how about

0:41:41.719 --> 0:41:44.560
<v Speaker 1>we make a great job. Oftentimes people are writ in

0:41:44.680 --> 0:41:47.520
<v Speaker 1>or they call in for advice and they say, well, Dawn,

0:41:47.560 --> 0:41:49.959
<v Speaker 1>how do I find out what I'm supposed to be? Oh, Dawn,

0:41:50.000 --> 0:41:51.799
<v Speaker 1>what is it that I'm supposed to be doing? You

0:41:51.840 --> 0:41:54.239
<v Speaker 1>gotta stretch out and reach You're gonna have to take

0:41:54.239 --> 0:41:56.759
<v Speaker 1>a chance on yourself now. Men, oftentimes, if you've been

0:41:56.800 --> 0:41:59.400
<v Speaker 1>a long time Vitamin D listener, can we be honest.

0:41:59.680 --> 0:42:01.680
<v Speaker 1>It's no secret that you guys have been on the

0:42:01.719 --> 0:42:04.319
<v Speaker 1>roller coaster ride with me. It's no secret that I've

0:42:04.320 --> 0:42:06.759
<v Speaker 1>talked about the ups and the downs in the all

0:42:06.800 --> 0:42:09.360
<v Speaker 1>the way around. But we have to remind ourselves the

0:42:09.400 --> 0:42:11.800
<v Speaker 1>bottom of one heel is the top of the next.

0:42:12.160 --> 0:42:15.680
<v Speaker 1>And just as though we are living and not functioning beings, well,

0:42:15.719 --> 0:42:19.280
<v Speaker 1>let's just think of a pulse up down, Why would

0:42:19.280 --> 0:42:23.359
<v Speaker 1>you think that your life would be any different? You

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 1>do realize that you have survived one hundred percent of

0:42:26.719 --> 0:42:29.600
<v Speaker 1>the worst days of your life. Again, why would today

0:42:29.640 --> 0:42:33.200
<v Speaker 1>be any different? And if you didn't survive today, you

0:42:33.200 --> 0:42:35.960
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't know what you But now what you do know

0:42:36.120 --> 0:42:38.359
<v Speaker 1>is that you are doing the same thing day in

0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:41.120
<v Speaker 1>and day out, and you realize that time is ticking.

0:42:41.280 --> 0:42:44.520
<v Speaker 1>They say time is our most valuable asset. Once it's spent,

0:42:44.640 --> 0:42:47.359
<v Speaker 1>it's gone forever. You can't get this time back, You

0:42:47.400 --> 0:42:49.839
<v Speaker 1>can't get this youth back, you can't get this state

0:42:49.880 --> 0:42:51.920
<v Speaker 1>of your mind back. So when are you gonna show

0:42:52.000 --> 0:42:59.120
<v Speaker 1>up and step up and grow up? You start living

0:42:59.120 --> 0:43:02.759
<v Speaker 1>by doing things you feel afraid. You start living by

0:43:02.800 --> 0:43:05.600
<v Speaker 1>doing things you've never done before. You start living by

0:43:05.880 --> 0:43:10.240
<v Speaker 1>forgiving yourself. Should we really talk on that for a minute.

0:43:11.200 --> 0:43:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I think oftentimes things that get us stuck in not

0:43:13.719 --> 0:43:16.000
<v Speaker 1>living is simply because we haven't stepped out of our

0:43:16.000 --> 0:43:19.200
<v Speaker 1>comfort zone, simply because we have been in Parihlyasi's afear.

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:25.840
<v Speaker 1>If a caterpillar was so afraid to stretch out of

0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:29.680
<v Speaker 1>this encasement of darkness, enclosure, we would never see the

0:43:29.719 --> 0:43:33.600
<v Speaker 1>wonders in the beauty of a butterfly. If a tadba

0:43:33.840 --> 0:43:36.320
<v Speaker 1>was so comfortable by being this little table just swimming

0:43:36.320 --> 0:43:38.279
<v Speaker 1>in the water, he never would what it means to

0:43:38.680 --> 0:43:41.840
<v Speaker 1>jump on it, jump on it to hop to the

0:43:41.880 --> 0:43:47.000
<v Speaker 1>next thing. And we have beings that are physically able,

0:43:47.280 --> 0:43:49.319
<v Speaker 1>and this is not going to anybody that has any

0:43:49.320 --> 0:43:54.960
<v Speaker 1>stipulations didn't under stand the concept of walk, crawling to walk,

0:43:55.000 --> 0:43:57.920
<v Speaker 1>to run, then how would you know it's going to

0:43:58.000 --> 0:44:00.719
<v Speaker 1>require you to exercise some muscles, and it's going to

0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:05.040
<v Speaker 1>require you to be uncomfortable because the magic happens outside

0:44:05.040 --> 0:44:07.440
<v Speaker 1>of the comfort zone. The best thing that you can

0:44:07.440 --> 0:44:11.319
<v Speaker 1>do is take a chance on yourself because you have

0:44:11.360 --> 0:44:13.359
<v Speaker 1>more confidence and in fact that this job is going

0:44:13.400 --> 0:44:15.480
<v Speaker 1>to provide you for your needs the next day in

0:44:15.600 --> 0:44:17.839
<v Speaker 1>and out, not realizing at the end of the day

0:44:17.880 --> 0:44:23.600
<v Speaker 1>you are just a number. Are we having a real

0:44:23.680 --> 0:44:28.520
<v Speaker 1>conversation and if we know that the only way out

0:44:28.680 --> 0:44:32.000
<v Speaker 1>is down, you best believe I'm gonna live it while

0:44:32.040 --> 0:44:34.680
<v Speaker 1>I can. So here's what I say to you, darling,

0:44:35.800 --> 0:44:38.919
<v Speaker 1>thirty two year old, decent job living in a small

0:44:38.960 --> 0:44:43.120
<v Speaker 1>town in Midwest. Well, I'm a Detroit girl, and I

0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:45.040
<v Speaker 1>had to realize I had to take a chance on myself.

0:44:46.000 --> 0:44:48.480
<v Speaker 1>And what that first looked like. I went to Howard,

0:44:49.040 --> 0:44:52.600
<v Speaker 1>no family, some people I went to high school with

0:44:52.640 --> 0:44:55.160
<v Speaker 1>that I knew out there, and then I took a

0:44:55.239 --> 0:44:59.520
<v Speaker 1>chance on myself. All I had was the promise of

0:44:59.560 --> 0:45:02.200
<v Speaker 1>a fellow that was three months, but I knew the

0:45:02.280 --> 0:45:04.239
<v Speaker 1>vision was either to move to New York, LA. And

0:45:04.239 --> 0:45:10.000
<v Speaker 1>guess what, I moved to New York. I made it work.

0:45:10.480 --> 0:45:12.080
<v Speaker 1>Then it came to me my time when that New

0:45:12.160 --> 0:45:14.480
<v Speaker 1>York was up and I had this opportunity, this window.

0:45:14.960 --> 0:45:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Think of it as my wind shield. I saw the

0:45:17.040 --> 0:45:19.640
<v Speaker 1>sunny La. My sister would tell you. I was down

0:45:19.680 --> 0:45:24.400
<v Speaker 1>in Vegas and she was celebrating her thirtieth and I said,

0:45:24.600 --> 0:45:29.600
<v Speaker 1>I want to live someplace where there's beaches and palm trees.

0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:33.440
<v Speaker 1>And I had to jump up. I jumped up to

0:45:33.480 --> 0:45:35.120
<v Speaker 1>get up, and I moved to LA. And I've been

0:45:35.120 --> 0:45:38.520
<v Speaker 1>making it working. Honey. We've had our ups and downs. Hey,

0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:43.960
<v Speaker 1>we experienced it. And the best thing I can say

0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:48.440
<v Speaker 1>is live. So how does that sound? Live your life,

0:45:49.160 --> 0:45:52.560
<v Speaker 1>and living your life simply means taking a chance on yourself.

0:45:53.239 --> 0:45:55.080
<v Speaker 1>So that's the first step. Now. I hope I didn't

0:45:55.120 --> 0:45:57.880
<v Speaker 1>come off harsh in the beginning, because you're on the

0:45:57.960 --> 0:46:00.080
<v Speaker 1>right path. I think the first step to say so

0:46:00.080 --> 0:46:02.200
<v Speaker 1>he can get answer is first to ask the question

0:46:03.120 --> 0:46:07.040
<v Speaker 1>and doing it so even if your voice shakes, Because

0:46:07.040 --> 0:46:09.880
<v Speaker 1>what do I say, If you can look up, you

0:46:09.920 --> 0:46:13.960
<v Speaker 1>can get up. If you fall down seven times, you

0:46:14.080 --> 0:46:17.000
<v Speaker 1>get up eight And guess what your location is? Not

0:46:17.080 --> 0:46:22.200
<v Speaker 1>your destination? Yeah, you're located in the Midwest right now,

0:46:22.360 --> 0:46:24.880
<v Speaker 1>in this little city. But guess what it is so

0:46:25.040 --> 0:46:30.600
<v Speaker 1>more over in Yonder. All right, all right, y'all, you

0:46:30.680 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 1>all ready to have a conversation. Call me in the

0:46:32.920 --> 0:46:37.319
<v Speaker 1>studio right now, Call me in the studio. Here's the number.

0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:39.839
<v Speaker 1>Eight one eight four six one fifty four thirty two.

0:46:40.080 --> 0:46:44.640
<v Speaker 1>Eight one, eight four six one fifty four thirty two. Now,

0:46:45.760 --> 0:46:52.160
<v Speaker 1>I was interested in having a conversation, a conversation that

0:46:52.280 --> 0:46:57.160
<v Speaker 1>spearheaded just for some coincidences of what happened on uh

0:46:57.800 --> 0:47:00.520
<v Speaker 1>yesterday or the during the day. And then I got

0:47:00.560 --> 0:47:03.279
<v Speaker 1>home and I was talking to my sister and it

0:47:03.360 --> 0:47:06.200
<v Speaker 1>really evoked another conversation, and I wanted to bring it

0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:09.600
<v Speaker 1>to the Vitamin D family. Now, listen, some things are

0:47:09.600 --> 0:47:12.799
<v Speaker 1>gonna get uncomfortable just by the looks of it. We

0:47:12.920 --> 0:47:17.319
<v Speaker 1>got people that are on different generational timelines. So what

0:47:17.400 --> 0:47:20.240
<v Speaker 1>we did in one generation may be different from the next.

0:47:20.719 --> 0:47:24.280
<v Speaker 1>But who's to say which one is best. Now Charlotte

0:47:24.400 --> 0:47:26.439
<v Speaker 1>is still driving, and I want her to be safe.

0:47:26.480 --> 0:47:28.439
<v Speaker 1>I don't want her to be talking on the phone

0:47:28.440 --> 0:47:30.480
<v Speaker 1>while driving. If we don't we do it all the time.

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:34.360
<v Speaker 1>But if she were comfortable, I would say come and

0:47:34.880 --> 0:47:36.880
<v Speaker 1>but it's fine, we're on the go. But what I

0:47:36.960 --> 0:47:39.560
<v Speaker 1>want to talk to you about today. There's no secret.

0:47:39.680 --> 0:47:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Life is life and for a lot of folks out here. Okay,

0:47:43.880 --> 0:47:51.279
<v Speaker 1>I was talking, Charlotte said, I can talk. Okay, y'all

0:47:51.280 --> 0:47:55.560
<v Speaker 1>want to talk to my sister. I'm gonna call her

0:47:55.600 --> 0:47:58.680
<v Speaker 1>right now now. She's driving. Luckily, I know she'll be

0:47:58.680 --> 0:48:01.040
<v Speaker 1>able to hear me. Let's just see how this goes.

0:48:01.239 --> 0:48:05.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm calling Charlotte right now, y'all hear the phone ringing?

0:48:06.120 --> 0:48:17.799
<v Speaker 1>Hold on one second, Chuck, Yeah, Hello, Hello, is this Carlota? Oh?

0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:20.080
<v Speaker 1>Is the service bad?

0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:22.040
<v Speaker 4>Is it?

0:48:22.400 --> 0:48:22.560
<v Speaker 3>Am?

0:48:22.560 --> 0:48:23.680
<v Speaker 4>I coming in clearly?

0:48:23.960 --> 0:48:26.399
<v Speaker 1>Now I can hear you. Is this safe to talk

0:48:26.440 --> 0:48:28.440
<v Speaker 1>to you while you're driving on the road?

0:48:29.160 --> 0:48:29.680
<v Speaker 4>I think so.

0:48:30.280 --> 0:48:35.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm all right, Well we cut at the right time.

0:48:35.040 --> 0:48:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you told me. Now. At any point, if

0:48:37.560 --> 0:48:39.040
<v Speaker 1>it does come back, just let me know if you

0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:39.600
<v Speaker 1>can't hear me.

0:48:39.719 --> 0:48:41.279
<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm getting a little feedback.

0:48:42.520 --> 0:48:44.440
<v Speaker 1>And so, oh did you cut off the Facebook? Are

0:48:44.480 --> 0:48:46.680
<v Speaker 1>you still watching me on Facebook? Well?

0:48:46.760 --> 0:48:48.480
<v Speaker 4>Yes, I am. Let me cut off there, Yeah.

0:48:48.400 --> 0:48:51.760
<v Speaker 1>Cut off off the Facebook. You gotta cut off the Facebook.

0:48:54.120 --> 0:48:54.239
<v Speaker 4>Now.

0:48:54.239 --> 0:48:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna have it where because I'm hoping when

0:48:56.680 --> 0:48:58.799
<v Speaker 1>the caller's calling, you should be able to hear. We

0:48:58.840 --> 0:49:02.600
<v Speaker 1>should be good. We're working okay, So now is there

0:49:02.600 --> 0:49:07.160
<v Speaker 1>any feedback? Now everything's okay, perfect. So now we're in

0:49:07.239 --> 0:49:09.520
<v Speaker 1>the last thirty minutes of the show. And so I

0:49:09.640 --> 0:49:12.400
<v Speaker 1>was briefly teasing how I had a conversation or how

0:49:12.400 --> 0:49:15.120
<v Speaker 1>we were talking last night, and we talked about an

0:49:15.200 --> 0:49:19.160
<v Speaker 1>array of things. We talked about trauma, what it was like,

0:49:19.600 --> 0:49:22.600
<v Speaker 1>whether or not folks talked about it, and the whole

0:49:22.640 --> 0:49:25.640
<v Speaker 1>idea of talking too much and telling your business but

0:49:26.440 --> 0:49:31.200
<v Speaker 1>being able to lie into positivity with ourselves. I'm going everywhere, Charlotte,

0:49:31.400 --> 0:49:32.120
<v Speaker 1>help me out here.

0:49:33.520 --> 0:49:37.680
<v Speaker 3>All we talked about self talk and how self talk

0:49:38.360 --> 0:49:41.480
<v Speaker 3>you have to There are five steps, and please don't

0:49:41.560 --> 0:49:43.479
<v Speaker 3>quote me. I don't have all the steps, but once

0:49:43.520 --> 0:49:46.239
<v Speaker 3>you get through the steps, it is telling.

0:49:45.920 --> 0:49:47.080
<v Speaker 4>Yourself I am great.

0:49:47.160 --> 0:49:49.360
<v Speaker 3>Even if you don't think you're great. You keep telling

0:49:49.360 --> 0:49:53.319
<v Speaker 3>yourself until you believe it. Or I have quit a

0:49:53.440 --> 0:49:56.879
<v Speaker 3>habit where there it's smoking or eating sweets. I don't

0:49:56.880 --> 0:50:00.080
<v Speaker 3>eat those anymore. I don't desire those things anymore. And

0:50:00.080 --> 0:50:04.200
<v Speaker 3>if you do, is still desire those things. So that's

0:50:04.200 --> 0:50:05.320
<v Speaker 3>what we were talking about.

0:50:05.520 --> 0:50:07.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And it stemmed over because I had once to

0:50:07.320 --> 0:50:09.359
<v Speaker 1>get my hair to everybody like ding you got your hair? Yes,

0:50:09.400 --> 0:50:11.200
<v Speaker 1>I went to Joel Off. If you didn't catch it

0:50:11.200 --> 0:50:13.520
<v Speaker 1>too late, I'm not giving free advertising. We need to

0:50:13.560 --> 0:50:17.759
<v Speaker 1>talk about payment later anyway. And I came across f

0:50:18.320 --> 0:50:21.440
<v Speaker 1>FM dial listener April, and I hadn't seen her in

0:50:21.440 --> 0:50:22.879
<v Speaker 1>a while, and I said, you know how you doing?

0:50:22.920 --> 0:50:25.040
<v Speaker 1>She said, life has been lifing and that has been

0:50:25.040 --> 0:50:27.480
<v Speaker 1>a tagline that so many of us have experienced, that

0:50:27.880 --> 0:50:30.040
<v Speaker 1>life is life and and it's just, without going too

0:50:30.120 --> 0:50:33.279
<v Speaker 1>much in information, a relationship somebody near and dear with

0:50:33.280 --> 0:50:35.759
<v Speaker 1>to her, it was strained and she was working on

0:50:35.840 --> 0:50:38.920
<v Speaker 1>repairing it, and she realized there was so much friction

0:50:39.040 --> 0:50:43.320
<v Speaker 1>between this relationship because of this said individual, This loved

0:50:43.360 --> 0:50:49.560
<v Speaker 1>one was actually depressed, actually grew up in some trauma.

0:50:50.360 --> 0:50:52.920
<v Speaker 1>And we talked about how the self talk correlates with

0:50:52.960 --> 0:50:56.719
<v Speaker 1>that is more so because one being honest about what

0:50:56.760 --> 0:51:01.840
<v Speaker 1>we've experienced. Two on when life is not feeling its best,

0:51:01.920 --> 0:51:04.160
<v Speaker 1>how do you put yourself in the self talk to

0:51:04.239 --> 0:51:07.400
<v Speaker 1>make sure that you can optimistically go throughout. But here's

0:51:07.440 --> 0:51:09.680
<v Speaker 1>the thing, Charlotte, a lot of us aren't talking now.

0:51:09.719 --> 0:51:12.360
<v Speaker 1>I know that you studied psychology in school, so you

0:51:12.440 --> 0:51:14.360
<v Speaker 1>have a bit of a background on that. What is

0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:16.000
<v Speaker 1>your thoughts on that? What are your thoughts?

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<v Speaker 3>I think the hardest thing to do is looking in

0:51:19.680 --> 0:51:21.720
<v Speaker 3>the mirror and admitting your faults and when.

0:51:21.600 --> 0:51:22.200
<v Speaker 4>You were wrong.

0:51:22.360 --> 0:51:26.320
<v Speaker 3>And I heard you talk about forgiving ourselves and also

0:51:26.400 --> 0:51:31.680
<v Speaker 3>forgiving others. Sometimes they're when we start unpacking things, there

0:51:31.680 --> 0:51:33.080
<v Speaker 3>are things that come.

0:51:33.000 --> 0:51:35.239
<v Speaker 4>Up that we had no idea that we're there.

0:51:35.840 --> 0:51:38.680
<v Speaker 3>And I often liking it to like I don't know,

0:51:38.719 --> 0:51:41.279
<v Speaker 3>going on vacation and you come home, maybe you leave

0:51:41.320 --> 0:51:44.560
<v Speaker 3>your suitcase for a few days. Some people unpack as

0:51:44.560 --> 0:51:46.520
<v Speaker 3>soon as they get home. Some people wait a minute

0:51:47.200 --> 0:51:50.560
<v Speaker 3>and you start unpacking that suitcase and next thing.

0:51:50.480 --> 0:51:52.479
<v Speaker 4>You know, you find a shirt that you forgot you had.

0:51:53.520 --> 0:51:56.319
<v Speaker 3>Maybe you looked forward and put it behind, But now

0:51:56.400 --> 0:51:58.719
<v Speaker 3>this shirt is there. And that's the same thing with

0:51:58.800 --> 0:52:04.000
<v Speaker 3>our emotions and dealing with the man or woman in

0:52:04.040 --> 0:52:04.480
<v Speaker 3>the mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, for those who are listening and even those who

0:52:10.160 --> 0:52:13.040
<v Speaker 1>are watching right now, y'all didn't have to pack a

0:52:13.080 --> 0:52:16.960
<v Speaker 1>bag before. Right, you've went on vacation, you've traveled somewhere.

0:52:17.440 --> 0:52:21.759
<v Speaker 1>Now you've gotten back to said start wherever you start at,

0:52:21.760 --> 0:52:26.040
<v Speaker 1>whether that's home, and you've left the suitcase on the

0:52:26.040 --> 0:52:27.800
<v Speaker 1>ground because you don't feel like getting into it. Perhaps

0:52:27.840 --> 0:52:29.520
<v Speaker 1>you're in a brush, you got something else to do,

0:52:29.960 --> 0:52:31.880
<v Speaker 1>and you realize it just stays stuck in there, and

0:52:31.920 --> 0:52:34.720
<v Speaker 1>you're constantly trying to find stuff, throwing stuff around, moving

0:52:34.719 --> 0:52:37.719
<v Speaker 1>things around, trying to find something. Heck, you probably even

0:52:37.840 --> 0:52:42.440
<v Speaker 1>forgot that you got things right there. It's collecting dust,

0:52:42.760 --> 0:52:46.279
<v Speaker 1>it's getting in the way, it's causing clutter, and most importantly,

0:52:46.520 --> 0:52:48.000
<v Speaker 1>it's causing confusion.

0:52:49.440 --> 0:52:53.200
<v Speaker 3>Can anybody do that with our emotions? Sorry to interject,

0:52:53.239 --> 0:52:55.080
<v Speaker 3>We do that with our emotions often.

0:52:58.000 --> 0:53:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Hey, uncle Michael, Yes, we do this, so with emotions.

0:53:00.160 --> 0:53:00.680
<v Speaker 1>Why is that?

0:53:03.320 --> 0:53:08.040
<v Speaker 3>Because it's hard to face the things that bother us.

0:53:08.080 --> 0:53:10.160
<v Speaker 3>It's hard to face it's hard to be honest with

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:12.200
<v Speaker 3>yourself and say, you know what, I shouldn't have done that,

0:53:12.360 --> 0:53:17.560
<v Speaker 3>or you know what I was wrong? And this year

0:53:17.760 --> 0:53:21.000
<v Speaker 3>especially I know with myself. I've we talked about this

0:53:21.080 --> 0:53:24.360
<v Speaker 3>last night. Just being vulnerable, it's uncomfortable. It feels naked.

0:53:24.600 --> 0:53:29.040
<v Speaker 3>It's like walking outside without your clothes on. And whereas

0:53:29.080 --> 0:53:31.799
<v Speaker 3>for some that could be freeing, for others you feel

0:53:31.840 --> 0:53:34.040
<v Speaker 3>completely exposed and that's uncomfortable.

0:53:34.360 --> 0:53:37.759
<v Speaker 4>Who wants to be uncomfortable? I certainly don't.

0:53:38.640 --> 0:53:42.160
<v Speaker 3>But in order to grow, we have to The most

0:53:42.160 --> 0:53:44.080
<v Speaker 3>beautiful things go through the most pressure.

0:53:44.120 --> 0:53:46.400
<v Speaker 4>We've all heard that before. Diamonds.

0:53:46.920 --> 0:53:52.040
<v Speaker 3>I mean, look at am. I can't think of the flower,

0:53:52.080 --> 0:53:53.440
<v Speaker 3>but it grows in the mud.

0:53:54.200 --> 0:53:56.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh it is. I was thinking of the rolls that

0:53:56.120 --> 0:53:58.040
<v Speaker 1>think from the concrete, but I don't know about the

0:53:58.040 --> 0:53:59.240
<v Speaker 1>flowers that concrete.

0:53:59.280 --> 0:54:01.120
<v Speaker 3>There are a different things that go through a lot,

0:54:01.440 --> 0:54:03.680
<v Speaker 3>and they're some of the most beautiful things. Some of

0:54:03.719 --> 0:54:06.320
<v Speaker 3>the most beautiful and colorful things are the most poisonous.

0:54:06.360 --> 0:54:07.959
<v Speaker 4>I want to go down the rabbit hole.

0:54:08.600 --> 0:54:13.080
<v Speaker 3>But just highlighting the fact that we, like you said,

0:54:13.160 --> 0:54:15.920
<v Speaker 3>life is lifing, and when life gets to lifing, we

0:54:16.080 --> 0:54:18.040
<v Speaker 3>have to look at ourselves.

0:54:17.480 --> 0:54:20.680
<v Speaker 4>And say, hey, what do I need to do differently?

0:54:20.760 --> 0:54:23.279
<v Speaker 3>And sometimes those things catch up with us and it's

0:54:23.320 --> 0:54:26.000
<v Speaker 3>decisions that we've made, things that we said, people that

0:54:26.040 --> 0:54:28.799
<v Speaker 3>we've let go, or people we need to let go.

0:54:30.239 --> 0:54:34.080
<v Speaker 3>And it can get rough, it gets tough, but that's

0:54:34.120 --> 0:54:36.400
<v Speaker 3>when you really have to pull your bootstraps on and

0:54:36.440 --> 0:54:41.640
<v Speaker 3>sometimes it's hard and say I'm going to be intentional

0:54:41.680 --> 0:54:45.279
<v Speaker 3>about today and I'm going to do this today and

0:54:45.360 --> 0:54:46.880
<v Speaker 3>set yourself up for success.

0:54:47.560 --> 0:54:50.359
<v Speaker 1>And doing that self talk that you initially talked about

0:54:50.360 --> 0:54:52.960
<v Speaker 1>about being delusional. What it is that you want? You

0:54:53.080 --> 0:54:55.680
<v Speaker 1>gotta be outside of your mind for your dreams. When

0:54:55.680 --> 0:54:58.840
<v Speaker 1>you're looking around and with the results that you cannot see,

0:54:58.960 --> 0:55:02.480
<v Speaker 1>you got to rely on them. Vision. What is that vision?

0:55:02.520 --> 0:55:04.799
<v Speaker 1>What is that moment? What does that serene feel that

0:55:04.880 --> 0:55:08.640
<v Speaker 1>you feel when you've ualize the life that you want?

0:55:09.640 --> 0:55:14.920
<v Speaker 1>And something else that you said, Uncle Mike Goldlanda, Linda Deborah,

0:55:15.000 --> 0:55:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Everybody says they lovest thank you guys.

0:55:18.000 --> 0:55:18.840
<v Speaker 4>What all?

0:55:19.719 --> 0:55:23.560
<v Speaker 1>Charlotte says all? I think it's also a thing that

0:55:23.600 --> 0:55:25.279
<v Speaker 1>we don't do enough. And I know we got a

0:55:25.320 --> 0:55:28.160
<v Speaker 1>couple of generations on here, and I hope that you

0:55:28.200 --> 0:55:30.440
<v Speaker 1>know we still have the phone lines open for anyone

0:55:30.480 --> 0:55:32.960
<v Speaker 1>to call and join the conversation with Charlotte and I.

0:55:33.280 --> 0:55:35.960
<v Speaker 1>It's eight one, eight four six fifty four thirty two.

0:55:36.440 --> 0:55:38.480
<v Speaker 1>One thing that I don't feel as though we're talking

0:55:38.480 --> 0:55:40.880
<v Speaker 1>about enough is the fact that there isn't enough talking.

0:55:42.239 --> 0:55:45.280
<v Speaker 1>Growing up, you always say keep your business to yourself.

0:55:45.880 --> 0:55:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Everybody ain't gotta know your business. Don't tell anybody your businesses.

0:55:49.400 --> 0:55:52.000
<v Speaker 1>They gonna wish negativity on you. Now. I know we

0:55:52.000 --> 0:55:55.520
<v Speaker 1>were talking about this there'sn't two folds of this. Ain't

0:55:55.560 --> 0:55:58.319
<v Speaker 1>no sense of talking about the milk that been spilled over,

0:55:58.520 --> 0:56:01.759
<v Speaker 1>especially if you wanted to be clean up. But at

0:56:01.760 --> 0:56:05.080
<v Speaker 1>the same time, we need to visualize it cleaned up,

0:56:05.160 --> 0:56:07.520
<v Speaker 1>act like it's cleaned up, walk and talk like it's

0:56:07.560 --> 0:56:11.160
<v Speaker 1>cleaned up, so that it can be cleaned up. Charlotte can.

0:56:12.160 --> 0:56:13.399
<v Speaker 4>Talk about it, clean it up.

0:56:13.920 --> 0:56:16.959
<v Speaker 3>Like you said, there's no sense in crying over spilled milk.

0:56:17.400 --> 0:56:20.080
<v Speaker 3>But at the same time, sometimes that's spilled milk, there's

0:56:20.120 --> 0:56:22.759
<v Speaker 3>still some milk and the cracks and the crevices, and

0:56:22.800 --> 0:56:24.919
<v Speaker 3>it starts to smell, and it's like, well, what is that?

0:56:25.200 --> 0:56:29.040
<v Speaker 4>What is that? I smell something? Using an analogy, but

0:56:29.400 --> 0:56:32.200
<v Speaker 4>I smell something. It's like I cleaned it up, but

0:56:32.280 --> 0:56:33.320
<v Speaker 4>it's still there.

0:56:34.040 --> 0:56:36.320
<v Speaker 3>Because you never You didn't you didn't clean you wiped

0:56:36.320 --> 0:56:37.759
<v Speaker 3>it up just a little bit.

0:56:37.840 --> 0:56:41.319
<v Speaker 4>You just grazed over it. You didn't get down on

0:56:41.320 --> 0:56:45.120
<v Speaker 4>your knees and really scrub. So if we're if we're

0:56:45.160 --> 0:56:45.759
<v Speaker 4>liking it.

0:56:45.680 --> 0:56:48.920
<v Speaker 3>To to spilled milk, so when that milk spilled, we

0:56:49.040 --> 0:56:50.919
<v Speaker 3>really got to get it up because we know milk

0:56:50.960 --> 0:56:53.319
<v Speaker 3>can spit smell if it sits for too long.

0:56:55.360 --> 0:56:55.919
<v Speaker 1>Yes, it can.

0:56:58.520 --> 0:57:01.440
<v Speaker 3>It's really getting down to the nitty gritty and and

0:57:01.440 --> 0:57:04.640
<v Speaker 3>and like going back to that suitcase. When you start

0:57:04.760 --> 0:57:07.480
<v Speaker 3>unpacking things, then you realize, well that really bothers me,

0:57:07.680 --> 0:57:10.560
<v Speaker 3>bothered me, and being brave enough, I know I have

0:57:10.760 --> 0:57:14.279
<v Speaker 3>avoided conversations, things that have hurt me, things that have

0:57:14.360 --> 0:57:18.040
<v Speaker 3>bothered me, people that for whatever reason. But that's not

0:57:18.120 --> 0:57:20.840
<v Speaker 3>a healthy way of living because you're carrying you think

0:57:20.880 --> 0:57:23.120
<v Speaker 3>you're getting rid of the baggage, but you're actually just

0:57:23.160 --> 0:57:25.240
<v Speaker 3>carrying it with you into the next phase of life.

0:57:25.560 --> 0:57:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Bad lady, I'm sorry.

0:57:27.840 --> 0:57:33.280
<v Speaker 12>Go ahead, yes, bag lady, you you hurt joke back

0:57:34.520 --> 0:57:38.760
<v Speaker 12>dragon dragging, nolling back like like.

0:57:38.920 --> 0:57:41.040
<v Speaker 1>That, because I guess nobody was.

0:57:43.840 --> 0:57:46.360
<v Speaker 4>Nobody ever told you.

0:57:46.880 --> 0:57:52.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I want to mess you up, but all

0:57:52.040 --> 0:57:54.400
<v Speaker 1>you must hold on to is you. And I'm looking

0:57:54.440 --> 0:57:56.280
<v Speaker 1>at a comment. I have a listener. If you are

0:57:56.720 --> 0:58:01.280
<v Speaker 1>commented right now, Natasha Jackson, and longbe says in my time,

0:58:01.400 --> 0:58:05.360
<v Speaker 1>this is nineteen seventy six. Children must be seen but

0:58:05.480 --> 0:58:06.200
<v Speaker 1>not heard.

0:58:06.120 --> 0:58:08.960
<v Speaker 4>And not heard and that is a that is a

0:58:09.040 --> 0:58:10.080
<v Speaker 4>generational curse.

0:58:13.280 --> 0:58:15.160
<v Speaker 1>That was heavy and I felt it because I was

0:58:15.240 --> 0:58:17.560
<v Speaker 1>just talking to Eddie. You're over here, at the station,

0:58:18.040 --> 0:58:21.080
<v Speaker 1>at the studio, at the office, and he was saying

0:58:21.080 --> 0:58:25.200
<v Speaker 1>that at time, we lacked patience, so we wanted them

0:58:25.200 --> 0:58:28.520
<v Speaker 1>the hush. So now we're in the area era where

0:58:28.560 --> 0:58:31.520
<v Speaker 1>we have patients and we're asking children how they feel.

0:58:31.520 --> 0:58:33.960
<v Speaker 1>But when they tell us, we still tell them, well,

0:58:34.040 --> 0:58:35.920
<v Speaker 1>you're too young to understand.

0:58:36.120 --> 0:58:39.600
<v Speaker 4>You know, why would you like to know why?

0:58:39.680 --> 0:58:41.480
<v Speaker 1>I want to know why? Do y'all want to know why?

0:58:41.560 --> 0:58:45.680
<v Speaker 3>Because we do not have the work, We don't understand.

0:58:45.760 --> 0:58:48.280
<v Speaker 3>We haven't explored those feelings. So how can we teach

0:58:48.320 --> 0:58:51.520
<v Speaker 3>somebody else to explore feelings that we haven't explored ourselves?

0:58:51.800 --> 0:58:55.600
<v Speaker 1>Wake up, everybody, I didn't normal sleep in them beds.

0:58:56.080 --> 0:58:58.800
<v Speaker 3>So as adults, if we want to impart that knowledge

0:58:58.840 --> 0:59:04.480
<v Speaker 3>to our younger generations, we have to allow them. Oftentimes,

0:59:04.600 --> 0:59:07.760
<v Speaker 3>I know my children, they are their emotional intelligence.

0:59:07.760 --> 0:59:09.000
<v Speaker 4>I'm impressed with it a lot.

0:59:10.680 --> 0:59:12.920
<v Speaker 3>And that's what a lot of us adults lack, is

0:59:12.960 --> 0:59:16.040
<v Speaker 3>emotional intelligence, because we've been like we've been taught, well,

0:59:16.240 --> 0:59:18.280
<v Speaker 3>you don't don't say stay in a child's place, Well,

0:59:18.280 --> 0:59:19.320
<v Speaker 3>where is a child's place?

0:59:19.360 --> 0:59:21.479
<v Speaker 1>Where is the damn child's play side?

0:59:22.280 --> 0:59:24.360
<v Speaker 4>Now, of course you respect your elders.

0:59:24.680 --> 0:59:27.360
<v Speaker 3>I believe in that, but at the same time, me

0:59:27.480 --> 0:59:30.560
<v Speaker 3>respecting my elders and I know I'm gonna get some

0:59:30.920 --> 0:59:33.640
<v Speaker 3>might get some pushback on this, but that doesn't mean

0:59:33.760 --> 0:59:35.880
<v Speaker 3>I don't get to tell you how I feel.

0:59:36.680 --> 0:59:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, what do you mean by that?

0:59:37.720 --> 0:59:41.200
<v Speaker 4>In a respectful way? Like I should be able My

0:59:41.280 --> 0:59:42.200
<v Speaker 4>children should.

0:59:41.920 --> 0:59:44.120
<v Speaker 3>Be able to come to me and say, you know, mommy,

0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:47.640
<v Speaker 3>that bothered me and we have a conversation about it,

0:59:47.720 --> 0:59:50.840
<v Speaker 3>instead of me being offended and saying, well, how dare

0:59:50.880 --> 0:59:52.600
<v Speaker 3>you come to me as your mother and tell me

0:59:52.640 --> 0:59:58.800
<v Speaker 3>something bothered you. I'm the adult in this situation when

0:59:58.840 --> 1:00:01.800
<v Speaker 3>really you're just You're that's that scared child coming out

1:00:01.920 --> 1:00:04.960
<v Speaker 3>being afraid to face something that you maybe you did wrong.

1:00:07.680 --> 1:00:09.520
<v Speaker 1>And the last thing we want to hear is that

1:00:09.600 --> 1:00:13.560
<v Speaker 1>something's wrong with us. Do you think perhaps that's even

1:00:13.600 --> 1:00:16.320
<v Speaker 1>another reason why we don't talk to therapist, while we

1:00:16.360 --> 1:00:19.520
<v Speaker 1>don't seek therapy, while we are afraid of counseling.

1:00:19.640 --> 1:00:20.520
<v Speaker 4>And the stigma.

1:00:21.520 --> 1:00:23.800
<v Speaker 3>Do you have to admit that you have a problem

1:00:23.920 --> 1:00:26.280
<v Speaker 3>or something is bothering you, or something is wrong to

1:00:26.480 --> 1:00:31.160
<v Speaker 3>even seek out speaking to another person about it and

1:00:31.320 --> 1:00:33.760
<v Speaker 3>unpacking that suitcase that you know dog gone?

1:00:33.760 --> 1:00:35.479
<v Speaker 4>Well, you should have unpacked weeks ago.

1:00:35.880 --> 1:00:38.120
<v Speaker 1>And here's the thing, Charlot, I love how you're using

1:00:38.120 --> 1:00:41.880
<v Speaker 1>the analogy about this suitcase, because what we realize is

1:00:41.920 --> 1:00:45.000
<v Speaker 1>that we keep carrying the baggage to every new chapter

1:00:45.080 --> 1:00:47.920
<v Speaker 1>of our life, wondering why we keep hitting the same wall,

1:00:48.160 --> 1:00:51.040
<v Speaker 1>wondering why we keep ourselves in the same situations, why

1:00:51.160 --> 1:00:53.760
<v Speaker 1>we keep feeling the way we feel. And we said, dang,

1:00:54.080 --> 1:00:56.240
<v Speaker 1>I've been going through this for how long? Well, guess

1:00:56.240 --> 1:00:58.160
<v Speaker 1>what did you unpack?

1:00:58.200 --> 1:00:59.600
<v Speaker 4>Your changed anything?

1:01:00.360 --> 1:01:00.520
<v Speaker 6>Oh?

1:01:00.600 --> 1:01:00.880
<v Speaker 4>My god?

1:01:00.960 --> 1:01:04.880
<v Speaker 1>And here can we just be honest on another front too? Don't?

1:01:05.200 --> 1:01:06.880
<v Speaker 1>And I say this to you as I say this

1:01:06.960 --> 1:01:09.080
<v Speaker 1>to myself. I do. And I say, not you, Charlotte,

1:01:09.120 --> 1:01:14.160
<v Speaker 1>but people whoever, y'all know what the deal is. When

1:01:14.240 --> 1:01:20.760
<v Speaker 1>you are truly ready to change, you will change. I

1:01:20.760 --> 1:01:23.240
<v Speaker 1>don't give it that you have a choice. You won't

1:01:23.240 --> 1:01:27.360
<v Speaker 1>have a choice now. It just depends on how hot

1:01:27.400 --> 1:01:30.240
<v Speaker 1>you need it to get, how much pressure you need

1:01:30.280 --> 1:01:35.120
<v Speaker 1>to be placed on your neck for you to change.

1:01:35.800 --> 1:01:37.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why it's so dramatic, Charlotte. I don't know.

1:01:38.680 --> 1:01:40.880
<v Speaker 4>Well, you know that's don day, all day.

1:01:40.800 --> 1:01:44.400
<v Speaker 1>Every day, you know. I see you guys in the

1:01:44.480 --> 1:01:46.360
<v Speaker 1>chat commentsing I'm want to welcome you all to call

1:01:46.400 --> 1:01:48.320
<v Speaker 1>in the studio. Let's all get a three way talk

1:01:48.360 --> 1:01:50.400
<v Speaker 1>to my sister, talk to me, call me right now.

1:01:50.560 --> 1:01:52.680
<v Speaker 1>Eight one eight four, six one fifty four thirty two

1:01:53.000 --> 1:01:55.720
<v Speaker 1>eight one eight four sixty one fifty four to thirty two.

1:01:55.920 --> 1:01:58.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't care which generation you're a part of. I

1:01:58.240 --> 1:01:59.840
<v Speaker 1>would love to hear for you to share your ex

1:02:00.800 --> 1:02:03.400
<v Speaker 1>being told to stay in the child's face, being told

1:02:03.440 --> 1:02:06.000
<v Speaker 1>or being able to feel that you should not speak

1:02:06.040 --> 1:02:09.080
<v Speaker 1>your emotions, and perhaps let us know how this affected you.

1:02:09.440 --> 1:02:11.120
<v Speaker 1>Do you have any other children in your life in

1:02:11.120 --> 1:02:13.160
<v Speaker 1>which you found that to be affected them in a

1:02:13.240 --> 1:02:15.520
<v Speaker 1>kind of negative way. I want to welcome it only

1:02:15.560 --> 1:02:18.000
<v Speaker 1>if you're ready for a real conversation, because at the

1:02:18.120 --> 1:02:20.680
<v Speaker 1>end of the day, life is life, and people are

1:02:20.680 --> 1:02:22.960
<v Speaker 1>going through some things. And until we get to a

1:02:23.000 --> 1:02:26.720
<v Speaker 1>point of just talking collectively, until we get to a

1:02:26.760 --> 1:02:29.120
<v Speaker 1>point to all of us start talking, we will not

1:02:29.280 --> 1:02:31.840
<v Speaker 1>start healing. And we understand in order to heal, we

1:02:31.880 --> 1:02:40.240
<v Speaker 1>gotta feel, point blank period and feel. But I don't

1:02:40.280 --> 1:02:46.560
<v Speaker 1>always feel good, and that's the thing's the part. But

1:02:46.720 --> 1:02:49.160
<v Speaker 1>it was kind of like what you said, like even

1:02:49.160 --> 1:02:52.280
<v Speaker 1>in the wound, oftentimes what we have to realize that

1:02:52.320 --> 1:02:55.280
<v Speaker 1>we will experience that even in a wound that is healing,

1:02:55.760 --> 1:02:57.560
<v Speaker 1>you have to allow air to let it be through.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's gonna get itchy. I mean, it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be irritating because you're gonna start looking in the areas

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<v Speaker 1>where you don't want to shed the light at You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna start looking or having to look in the areas

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<v Speaker 1>that are uncomfortable. You're gonna have to put in the

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<v Speaker 1>laborer's work of literally lifting and unpacking that suitcase. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you got some clothes in there, are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to wash them? Catch you, Chuck. You keep saying we

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<v Speaker 1>having a good conversation. Chuck called me in the studio, Brenda,

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<v Speaker 1>express yourself helping somebody? Yes, why can't I hear her

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<v Speaker 1>saying no, uh uh, express yourself. Indeed, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>open that up before we wrap up out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for that conversation, because what we

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<v Speaker 1>realize in this lack of conversation, how many of us

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<v Speaker 1>have grown up in households where people that are guardians,

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<v Speaker 1>people that are responsible for taking care of us are

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<v Speaker 1>literally depressed, and we don't understand why the temper We

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand why the house is in normal We don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why we don't go anywhere and why opportunities aren't presented,

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<v Speaker 1>simply because, like you said, we haven't done and work

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<v Speaker 1>within ourselves to figure out what's going on.

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<v Speaker 3>And let's not forget that that little kid that was

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<v Speaker 3>told to stay in their place, who maybe for one

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<v Speaker 3>reason or another and was raised in these environments that

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<v Speaker 3>you speak of, that child just gets larger and more

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<v Speaker 3>responsibilities are placed upon them.

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<v Speaker 4>We're all just we're still that sane person.

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<v Speaker 3>Of course, life experiences, we've gotten older, we've learned other things,

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<v Speaker 3>but have we learned emotionally how to function? And that

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<v Speaker 3>is what it's often missing. We hear about childhood trauma,

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<v Speaker 3>childhood trauma at nauseum, but I think it does need

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<v Speaker 3>to be talked about and it does need to be

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<v Speaker 3>ran into the ground because we often we're just that

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<v Speaker 3>little that little girl who've grown up maybe suppress some things,

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<v Speaker 3>and it comes out in our action, that comes out

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<v Speaker 3>in our decision making. And not until you start talking

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<v Speaker 3>to a therapist or unpacking that suitcase or even seeking

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<v Speaker 3>out a trusted friend, you've realized, like, my goodness, this

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<v Speaker 3>stems from a long, long time ago.

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<v Speaker 1>And even though I talked about before about giving grace

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<v Speaker 1>and space and realizing this isn't going to be the

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<v Speaker 1>next Bay thing, you spend thirty, forty, fifty, sixty, even

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<v Speaker 1>seventy years dealing with the same thing. All right, Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>we got a call. Oh talk to me, is Chuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this shoe?

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Chuck?

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<v Speaker 1>Hy Chuck, Charlotte. Can you hear Chuck?

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<v Speaker 13>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Chuck?

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<v Speaker 4>I can't, Chuck.

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<v Speaker 9>Let me think, Let me get off Liave. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 9>can y'all hear my building?

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<v Speaker 3>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we can hear you. Can you hear it?

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<v Speaker 3>Here?

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<v Speaker 13>You go hear y'all?

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<v Speaker 6>Pretty well?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Chuck? What you got to say, Chuck about

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<v Speaker 1>this topic of self talk and healing within our family?

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<v Speaker 9>So when I when I'm from the South, so I'm

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<v Speaker 9>from Georgia. We were younger, you know, uh my mom

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<v Speaker 9>was always say, you know, listen to grown folks. You know,

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<v Speaker 9>it doesn't matter. They'll stop us from talking. Even if

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<v Speaker 9>you try to talk, you know, you're being rude and

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<v Speaker 9>disrespredfl But as as we got older and my sons

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<v Speaker 9>and our grandchildren started doing it, you know, they kind

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<v Speaker 9>of leading it back off of it. Mm hm, so

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<v Speaker 9>you know, and and that and that kind of confused

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<v Speaker 9>me because when we were younger, it's like our carears

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<v Speaker 9>was more script on this than they do. The grandchildren now, well.

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<v Speaker 3>For sure, because they've they've they've learned more, their patience

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<v Speaker 3>has gotten greater. As Don talked about patients, Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 3>see the world differently.

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<v Speaker 9>Hey you're yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>And how does that feeling?

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<v Speaker 9>What you say?

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<v Speaker 1>How does that have you feeling right now? Chuck? I

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<v Speaker 1>think you might still have Do you have me still

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<v Speaker 1>open on Facebook? Cause I think I hear a bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a reverb.

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<v Speaker 9>No, I don't have you open on facebo.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So how does that make you feel now? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel as though that has effected you as an

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<v Speaker 1>adult as far as healing communication? I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you have children, so you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know I do.

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<v Speaker 9>I have a son and a daughter, and also, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>the thing is with them, it's like it's like I

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<v Speaker 9>try these sometimes I do get winged off and do

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<v Speaker 9>things my parents taught me how to do it, and then

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<v Speaker 9>I kind of be a little lenient now, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>as my kids got older, So that's I saw it

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<v Speaker 9>doing a little thing diversing them in a different way.

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<v Speaker 9>So it didn't It helped me, but it didn't really

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<v Speaker 9>hurt me.

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<v Speaker 8>I wouldn't say it hurt me because just like the

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<v Speaker 8>thing is, my parents instilled in me in a good way,

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<v Speaker 8>so I wouldn't look at that as a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 8>And then I say it. But the only reason I

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<v Speaker 8>say that.

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<v Speaker 9>Is because it's like, you know, back then versus now

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<v Speaker 9>is a whole different generation.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true.

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<v Speaker 4>You see that.

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<v Speaker 3>You recognize that that's the difference, So you see it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just like any lesson that we've learned. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>like the way that feels, so you might do things differently.

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<v Speaker 3>Not that it harmed you, but you recognized.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I don't like that. I might tweak some things.

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<v Speaker 3>I might take a little bit from here and a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit from there and put it all together.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>Think of it like a recipe. We're all trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get the recipe over for this.

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<v Speaker 4>You took the word, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's gonna require you to put a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more water, maybe put some in the dry it out.

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<v Speaker 1>It may take it that it has to rest a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, or maybe you got to step into fire

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<v Speaker 1>and put it under the heat, but let you know

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<v Speaker 1>that the end result is going to be amazing. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much, Chuck, Yeah, thank you too.

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<v Speaker 4>All Right, the great evening.

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<v Speaker 8>You have a good night.

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<v Speaker 1>Good night you too.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, bye bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we can always rely on check. That was a

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<v Speaker 1>great comments. You know, somebody that's coming from vulnerability, coming

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<v Speaker 1>from down the south. I saw my aunt Linda was

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<v Speaker 1>on here, on Brenda was on here. So you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure definitely different generations of what we talked about

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<v Speaker 1>and we didn't talk about. And realizing that these traumas,

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<v Speaker 1>these secrets, they pass on from generation to generation. But

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<v Speaker 1>whind dos it stop? And you know, just to be honest, Charlie,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think we do need to make room

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<v Speaker 1>for the little child that was affected and understanding that

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<v Speaker 1>the comprehension of that that hurt is from the little

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<v Speaker 1>child's point of view. But we do have to step

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<v Speaker 1>and walk into the adult and realize that now it's

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<v Speaker 1>our responsibility to be the change that we want to see.

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<v Speaker 3>Amen, you cannot use that as an excuse, but Tama,

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<v Speaker 3>the way it affects that, I'm not I won't go

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<v Speaker 3>down that rabbit hole either, but I'm just gonna make

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<v Speaker 3>this comment.

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<v Speaker 4>The way it affects the brain.

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<v Speaker 3>It literally can't affect the electrical synapses in your brain literally,

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<v Speaker 3>so you can be stuck.

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<v Speaker 4>But that doesn't mean oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, this happened when I was a kid, So that's

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<v Speaker 3>why I recognize that and worked through it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we got another call, not a crutch talk to.

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<v Speaker 11>Me, Hello, Hello, I can't hear you.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody from Alabama. I saw two five six, going to

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<v Speaker 1>need you to call again. I'm not sure it's I

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<v Speaker 1>think two five six is up.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me say, no, Tita, try calling.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see that is and I'll.

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<v Speaker 4>Say this gone there. Conversation that I've avoided. I said

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<v Speaker 4>that earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I had to face some head on, like

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<v Speaker 1>even today, I felt uncomfortable, but I had to share

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<v Speaker 1>where It's kind of like I was in a role

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<v Speaker 1>for something and I would have uncomfortable that somebody called

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<v Speaker 1>me out. Was like, down, you were wrong on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see Hello, Hello, are you watching? They must be

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<v Speaker 1>watching the Hello hello, hello.

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<v Speaker 9>Hello, Yes, this is Linda.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, Hello, how are you You know?

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<v Speaker 13>This goes for young people and old people. Clean it up.

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<v Speaker 13>Clean it up because it hurts. It hurts older people.

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<v Speaker 13>It hurts the young people. So when is it going

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<v Speaker 13>to stop? And you know we talk about generation generational curses.

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<v Speaker 13>We were gonna clean it up, right, we clean and

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<v Speaker 13>then you know I was sitting here listening. I can't

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<v Speaker 13>I can't see you now, but I was sitting here

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<v Speaker 13>just listening to Charlotte and I was listening to the

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<v Speaker 13>hun day. We got to clean it up, thank you.

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<v Speaker 13>You know I hurt today. I hurt m h. And

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<v Speaker 13>it's not good. You know, we get depressed and we

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<v Speaker 13>just come down, but you know we get back up.

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<v Speaker 13>God brings us back up. So I just want you

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<v Speaker 13>to know, Charlotte, I love you, I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you too. I London. Just for the listeners

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<v Speaker 1>who may not know, just give us an idea. What

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<v Speaker 1>is your generation that you grew up in? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>was the time period?

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<v Speaker 13>Well, I will tell you how old I am. I

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<v Speaker 13>am seventy six years old, are you right? I am

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<v Speaker 13>seventy six?

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, and you just said something important. You

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<v Speaker 1>said you're still hurting. So there are things that happened

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<v Speaker 1>to you in your childhood that us seventy six are

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<v Speaker 1>still experiencing.

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<v Speaker 13>What no, no, But it's just things that are happening today.

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<v Speaker 9>That hurts, and.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah it's still it hurts, and things that happen well

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<v Speaker 13>not I can't picture anything that happened in my childhood

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<v Speaker 13>that's hurt me today. I'm just talking about just daily,

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<v Speaker 13>daily living things that are happening today, things that happened yesterday,

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<v Speaker 13>things that may have happened last year. Mm hmm. It's

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<v Speaker 13>just a it can go way back. But uh, I

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<v Speaker 13>can't say that there was anything that happened in my

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<v Speaker 13>childhood that I'm hurting from. However, I will say this,

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<v Speaker 13>things that are happening today, well, it just goes on

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<v Speaker 13>and on, it goes home out and you know, depression

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<v Speaker 13>brings a lot. You know people people don't look at depression,

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<v Speaker 13>but what just they do because it's been talked about

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<v Speaker 13>a lot. Depression is an illness.

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<v Speaker 4>And that you cannot help.

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<v Speaker 13>Right. Yeah. So anyway, I just wanted to call Agen

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<v Speaker 13>to let you know that I want listening and I

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<v Speaker 13>thank you. Yeah, like I said, not just with the

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<v Speaker 13>young people, are the general.

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<v Speaker 8>Uh.

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<v Speaker 13>Anyway, it's all good, it's not good. Anyway. I want

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<v Speaker 13>y'all to know, love you much, keep it up, keep

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<v Speaker 13>it up, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Love you too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll let you all go all right, love you, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>loved to thank you, love you.

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<v Speaker 4>The next time, Yes, till the next time. That's what

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<v Speaker 4>she's saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That's down there at Baoma. Now, that's it's something interesting

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<v Speaker 1>to say. And I'm so glad that we have generations

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<v Speaker 1>from different realms of spec yeah, to just really talk

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<v Speaker 1>about like this is real and how we got to

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<v Speaker 1>sit down and I'm just so glad that it's not

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing like how we started out. Go stay

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<v Speaker 1>in the child place, go stand in the corner, don't

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<v Speaker 1>say nothing to nobody else. We having some real conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>Clean it up.

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<v Speaker 1>But she said clean it up, clean it up, and

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<v Speaker 1>you might have to get on your knees. You might

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<v Speaker 1>have to get club scrub that because, like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>if you spilled some milk, you wonder where the funk

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<v Speaker 1>coming from.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's up in the cracks.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna have to open it up. Almost have to

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<v Speaker 1>go talk to my sister.

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<v Speaker 4>Girl.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey up, the girl, this is not Brendan. You know,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna keep read. In order for you to know something,

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<v Speaker 7>you got to tell somebody something.

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<v Speaker 10>And then when you know better.

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<v Speaker 6>You can do better.

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<v Speaker 7>And sometimes when you be trying to send something, somebody says, MP,

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<v Speaker 7>shut up. So you be speaking all these things in

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<v Speaker 7>your mind. But and you said, you got to press

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<v Speaker 7>down to stand up. And when you stand up.

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<v Speaker 9>You're gonna look up.

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<v Speaker 10>And when you look up, look somebody straight in the face, eyebile, eyeballs,

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<v Speaker 10>and say what you gotta say. It's all about freedom,

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<v Speaker 10>because we ain't going back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we know.

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<v Speaker 7>It's a new day.

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<v Speaker 10>It's a new time.

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<v Speaker 9>It's a new generation.

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<v Speaker 7>And these young curre these days, they speak.

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<v Speaker 6>Their mind and they chad it like it is. They

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<v Speaker 6>had all.

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<v Speaker 10>This this internet and they know how they work those

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<v Speaker 10>computers and get all the information and everything.

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<v Speaker 7>I tell you one thing, we have some small young

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<v Speaker 7>people rising up now.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's a new generation.

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<v Speaker 6>We ain't taking them stuff.

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<v Speaker 7>Nobody's gonna step on your toes and they expect you

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<v Speaker 7>not to holler, or we're gonna holler and say something.

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<v Speaker 10>Right, it's having to holler there aloud. It's all gonna

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<v Speaker 10>be pround. Yeah, black and white.

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<v Speaker 7>They're all pressures in this sight.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey god.

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<v Speaker 6>As us girl, break it down deep.

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<v Speaker 11>Pay yeah, show you right, that is you.

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<v Speaker 10>Already know the rest of the story.

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<v Speaker 7>Show your right for real, real, it's the real deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Look they throwing up, they said I love her. They

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<v Speaker 1>didn't listen.

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<v Speaker 6>O love joy peace in heavens. Oh so.

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<v Speaker 7>We all got a store. It needs to be jop

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<v Speaker 7>story like you have to reach out your mattery.

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<v Speaker 9>You got to reach out the matter with vitamin de pa.

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<v Speaker 1>You better talk that talk baby.

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<v Speaker 7>You couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you can't survive.

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<v Speaker 10>You already know real deal. I just have to holler.

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<v Speaker 4>At the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, sister girl, thank you for calling here.

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<v Speaker 4>I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right here, You're right, blow your mind all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Brenda Joyce. Oh so fine. Happy birthday to miss aunt.

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<v Speaker 1>Brenda turned seventy five. Was it Saturday or Friday, which

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<v Speaker 1>is in the last week, but then the happy belated birthday. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I really enjoyed this conversation. Thank you so much Pearlan

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<v Speaker 1>for calling in. Of course, you know this is really imprompted,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, and you know we gotta do it again.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, have one of the topics. You're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be driving, you'll be able to be you know,

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<v Speaker 1>doing whatever. But I think it was great and refreshing

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<v Speaker 1>to hear the voice and then it definitely have family

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<v Speaker 1>call in.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was good, amen, it was it was put

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<v Speaker 3>some things into perspective.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hm. Now we only don't just watch what we have.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to listen, and so I want to thank

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<v Speaker 1>all of you for tuning in and pulling up on

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<v Speaker 1>some Vitamin D. Now I told you this is what

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do Tuesdays and Thursdays, live at five not

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<v Speaker 1>din stretch it out today. So we on Facebook, they

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<v Speaker 1>also looking at us on the YouTube. Then we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>go to the IG. But it's happening. What do I say,

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<v Speaker 1>inch by inch life's a sench yard by yard life

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<v Speaker 1>is hard. I think it's a good time to live

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<v Speaker 1>on purpose and for a purpose. So I want to

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<v Speaker 1>welcome you. If you felt inspired, if you felt entertained,

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<v Speaker 1>if you felt like you got some information, can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell somebody to tell somebody to tell somebody else to

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<v Speaker 1>Dawn Day got a podcast and it's Live Vitamin D

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<v Speaker 1>with Dawn Day. You can play back and listen wherever

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<v Speaker 1>you may be. It would mean the world to me

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<v Speaker 1>because it's my baby. And also if you would like

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<v Speaker 1>to be a guest or you have any interest of

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<v Speaker 1>being a guest, I want to encourage you to send

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<v Speaker 1>me an email Vitamin D at dawn Dai speaks dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, it's Vitamin D at dawn Dai speaks dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to hear from you, and thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much to my sister Charlotte who joined on. Charlotte,

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<v Speaker 1>now you're the first guest that I've actually had or

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<v Speaker 1>another person you know as a guest there. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>so I do this thing and I'm gonna continue to

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<v Speaker 1>do this. If you have somebody I don't know, just

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<v Speaker 1>let me know. Is there anybody that you would like

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<v Speaker 1>to pass the baton to who you would like to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out that perhaps have a good message, a good word,

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<v Speaker 1>or just a great guest to be on Vitamin D.

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<v Speaker 4>Let me ponder on that. All right, Well, are you

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<v Speaker 4>urry on the spot real quick?

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<v Speaker 1>You got to step into the life babbay All right?

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<v Speaker 1>But Charlotte, you are in Michigan and you have your

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<v Speaker 1>own hair business. You are a hairstylist amongst other things.

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<v Speaker 1>Where can the good people follow you and to book

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<v Speaker 1>you for your services?

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<v Speaker 4>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Notice, if you give your number out there, the whole

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<v Speaker 1>world won't know it.

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<v Speaker 14>But if people do kissing my number out okay, but

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<v Speaker 14>they can follow me on Instagram at the hair Snob,

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<v Speaker 14>at the Underscore Hair Underscore Snob and I am local

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<v Speaker 14>in downtown Royal Lake.

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<v Speaker 1>And is there a Google Voice number or any number

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<v Speaker 1>that can call you just now it if they wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to make it, they want.

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<v Speaker 4>To actually reach out to me.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a contact button on my Instagram page and you

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<v Speaker 3>can press that button and contact me there or DM me.

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<v Speaker 3>I just give me at least twenty four hours to

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<v Speaker 3>get back to you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. There you have it. If you're in Lost,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're in Detroit, if you're in the Detroit metro area,

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<v Speaker 1>in rural log I'll reach out to the hair Snap.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the Underscore Hair Underscore Snap. Her name is Charlotte

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<v Speaker 1>Henry and yeh, she can get you hooked up from

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<v Speaker 1>your neck up. Okay, hi yah? Latasha said, will you

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<v Speaker 1>come to California? Latasha want you to get the hair done?

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<v Speaker 1>Recy coming in mad late Recy. We about to go, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>You want to say how to recy? Racy is watching Racy?

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<v Speaker 1>She said, Hey, hey girl, Hey, so I'm Donda and

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<v Speaker 1>it's time to call it a day again. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much and make sure you see the email. Thank you, Charlott.

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<v Speaker 1>We fight for the dream. Thank you, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>It's gonna be great.

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<v Speaker 1>It is great, right because we said that's ourself talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Yes, it is great.

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<v Speaker 1>Speak it as it is, speak it as it is.

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<v Speaker 1>So uh you guys, thank you so much. I told

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<v Speaker 1>you we're gonna be live at five Tuesdays and Thursdays.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure you get those resources and information. Make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you keep inspiring, and make sure you remember to take

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<v Speaker 1>a chance on yourself because we here for a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>not a long time.

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<v Speaker 13>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to keep up with us and keep

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<v Speaker 1>up with everything we're doing with Vitamin D, make sure

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<v Speaker 1>you check us out on all platforms Vitamin D with

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<v Speaker 1>Dawn Day, follow on social media at Vitamin D Dawn Day.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you want your own personal Vitamin D that

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<v Speaker 1>be me, baby, you can follow me on all social

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<v Speaker 1>media at dawn D A I speaks, you know. I

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<v Speaker 1>always say I'm in the business of making dreams come

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<v Speaker 1>true and I damn show ain't gonna forget about mine.

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<v Speaker 1>So until next family, always remember you are your greatest

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<v Speaker 1>bass at

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<v Speaker 2>Get your item, Indy right here with me and get

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<v Speaker 2>excited about your life,