Speaker 1: They say life is the greatest teacher, because first you
Speaker 1: take the test and then you learn the lesson. So
Speaker 1: then why don't we have more patience? Then why are
Speaker 1: we allowing ourselves to be subject to anxiety instead? Why
Speaker 1: aren't we making space essentially giving ourselves grace to learn,
Speaker 1: to improve, to reflect, to experience something that we've never experienced.
Speaker 1: In fact, it's almost as though we put ourselves in
Speaker 1: this sense of insanity because we do the same thing,
Speaker 1: expecting different results, and then sometimes expecting different results while
Speaker 1: doing the same things, or perhaps nothing at all. Listen,
Speaker 1: the fact of the matter is is that you're going
Speaker 1: to make mistakes. You're not perfect. You are what be
Speaker 1: called human, just like the rest of us. So what
Speaker 1: kind of measurement or what kind of ridicule are you
Speaker 1: holding yourself with? When I think about and I think
Speaker 1: about space, I think of possibility, and I think of opportunity,
Speaker 1: and I think oftentimes we strike ourselves out of a
Speaker 1: situation because perhaps we feel as though we're not enough,
Speaker 1: perhaps we don't feel like we deserve another chance, or
Speaker 1: perhaps we've looked to our left and are right. We
Speaker 1: looked at what's in front of us, and definitely have
Speaker 1: looked what's behind us and said, hey, and why not worthy? Well,
Speaker 1: I'm here to remind you God ain't done. We just
Speaker 1: getting started. It made me think of the track God
Speaker 1: Ain't Done. It's by Miles Minnick, Sam Rivera and DJ Molsky.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you got to bring God in your situation and
Speaker 1: realize that it's not meant for you to handle it
Speaker 1: all by yourself. Now you say, don well wait a minute,
Speaker 1: what if I'm not religious? Hold up, slow down, Jim Shoe.
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about religion. I'm talking about a faith
Speaker 1: or a belief, something I side of you, whatever that
Speaker 1: piece that's saying you know what, it's gonna be good
Speaker 1: or what is that piece that you realize is that
Speaker 1: there's nothing more than you can do. So guess what.
Speaker 1: You gotta sit back so you can be good. You
Speaker 1: gotta remind yourself my God ain't done. We just getting started.
Speaker 1: And when you invite God or another entity outside of
Speaker 1: you where you are not in control, well you can say,
Speaker 1: if my God's in it, then you know is big
Speaker 1: because it's outside of you. So remember, and I quote,
Speaker 1: God ain't done with you, even if they try to
Speaker 1: cancel you out, and even that's that person as you
Speaker 1: all right, it's that damn Dawn like the break of day,
Speaker 1: and you're tuned in to Vitamin D Live. Good morning,
Speaker 1: good afternoon, good evening. You are tuned in to the
Speaker 1: Vitamin D with Dawn Day podcast and I am your host,
Speaker 1: Dawn Day, here to get you excited about your life
Speaker 1: so that you can live life on purpose and for
Speaker 1: a purpose. If this is your first time tuning in
Speaker 1: and welcome a Vitamin D it's a pun off my name.
Speaker 1: My name is Dawn, and you get Vitamin D from
Speaker 1: the sun. So I'm here shed light into your life.
Speaker 1: And I do this with inspirational insight and conversations with
Speaker 1: celebrities and everyday people like you and me, Because if
Speaker 1: you want to be better and you want to do better,
Speaker 1: then you're going to have to be able to see better.
Speaker 1: So join me on this journey of living our best
Speaker 1: lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest
Speaker 1: ass at get your right.
Speaker 2: In, Mandy, right with me, and get excited about your life.
Speaker 1: Happy first day, Oh child, I'm feeling like a new woman. Hey,
Speaker 1: miss mine, I see you on Facebook? How you doing
Speaker 1: over there? I want to welcome anybody else that is
Speaker 1: tuning in watching on live. I am saying, hey, look,
Speaker 1: I don't know how to ask. I got my hair done.
Speaker 1: Why is it we feel as though we are a
Speaker 1: new person. You get your hair done, you get your
Speaker 1: hair cut, you get those nails done, you get your
Speaker 1: new outfit, your new shoes. You might be riding around
Speaker 1: in your new car with a fresh wash. You just
Speaker 1: feel like a new thing.
Speaker 3: You know what.
Speaker 1: It had been a minute. But honey, I feel snolched
Speaker 1: and I feel good. I hope you're doing good, and
Speaker 1: I hope you had a moment to listen to the
Speaker 1: vitamin D and realize that God ain't done with you yet.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you've experienced of what you're going through,
Speaker 1: but I hear a lot of people keep talking about, well,
Speaker 1: life is lifing, life been lifing? And what do I say?
Speaker 1: If you fall down seven times, you get up eight
Speaker 1: If you can look up, you can get up. Your
Speaker 1: location is not your destination. We got Alvin Innaviilds and Hello, Passa.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited about this conversation that I'm gonna bring
Speaker 1: to you today. I got some information from the news desk,
Speaker 1: of course, I got some resources that you all have
Speaker 1: emailed me and texted me, and in case, Vitamin D
Speaker 1: at dawn daispeaks dot com resources and information with the
Speaker 1: community that can be for us by us, And I
Speaker 1: got a Vitamin D advice letter. And then after that,
Speaker 1: I'm opening up the phone lines because I got something
Speaker 1: I want to talk about now. If you are following
Speaker 1: me on Facebook, you perhaps seeing me post up a video.
Speaker 1: I want to talk about trauma. I want to talk
Speaker 1: about conversation. I want to talk about the whole idea
Speaker 1: of us living in a space where we aren't necessarily
Speaker 1: talking about what's going on with us, and as a
Speaker 1: result of that, that is causing generational curses. As a
Speaker 1: result of that, we realize that we have various relationships
Speaker 1: in our lives that are experiencing some sort of tension
Speaker 1: simply because we haven't talked, simply because we haven't addressed
Speaker 1: the mess. So I don't know who here right now,
Speaker 1: But if you want to have a conversation with some
Speaker 1: real people right now, then I'm saying I need you
Speaker 1: to pull up on me, okay, please. I want to
Speaker 1: make room for you, just like you've made room for me.
Speaker 1: And I gotta call it gratitude, So I hope you
Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode. Thank you so much. Hey Latasha, I
Speaker 1: see you girl, Tasha, coming from a long beach in
Speaker 1: the house. I read your information and I have to
Speaker 1: remember to read it again. I have my PSA packet.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, so thank you so much. I am
Speaker 1: going to jump right in from front of the news
Speaker 1: desk because I have some information and some stories to
Speaker 1: talk about. We're talking about what's happening in our nation,
Speaker 1: what's happening in our state, or perhaps what's happening with
Speaker 1: a person near you now something that has happened recently.
Speaker 1: You remember the story that was reported of the twenty
Speaker 1: six year old woman who was at Disneyland. She got
Speaker 1: arrested in front of her children. The children were crying
Speaker 1: profusely saying are you to me? Which has helped me
Speaker 1: in Spanish. All of this was captured on video. All
Speaker 1: of this was plastered on social media. I'm talking about folks.
Speaker 1: Have the pictures, I mean, the happiest place on earth
Speaker 1: and you have children crying with their mother. Many have
Speaker 1: raised the idea of what Dawn Well not doing? Other
Speaker 1: person people conversation, was the arrest necessary? Well? On the
Speaker 1: heels of that story, I have something else for you.
Speaker 1: This was just announce I was on KTLA Disneyland is
Speaker 1: bringing back discounts on kids tickets. That's right. Beginning October
Speaker 1: twenty second, guests can purchase kids tickets for as low
Speaker 1: as fifty dollars and this is per child, per day,
Speaker 1: and this is valid from January seventh through March twenty
Speaker 1: twenty Sorry March twentieth, twenty twenty five. Now the ticket
Speaker 1: deals available for children's age three two nine. Guests can
Speaker 1: also upgrade the tickets to the park Hopper tickets or
Speaker 1: add on additional services like Lightning Lane, the Multi Pass
Speaker 1: and formerly known as Disney Jeanie. Now currently, two day,
Speaker 1: one day park passes have started as low as one
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty five dollars per day, while kids three
Speaker 1: day one park pass tickets have started its cost as
Speaker 1: one hundred and thirty dollars a day now. As I
Speaker 1: reported with the previous woman that's twenty six year old.
Speaker 1: Remember she was trying to sneak her kids under, so
Speaker 1: they say, and they were over the age of three,
Speaker 1: so that's something. Also. I don't know if you guys
Speaker 1: have been looking around but we know that we are
Speaker 1: on the heels of the Olympics right and as a
Speaker 1: result of that, we are cleaning up the streets of LA.
Speaker 1: All the individuals that are part of the unhoused community
Speaker 1: are finding what they want called home. This area, this
Speaker 1: space is no more.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 1: I've shared with you all that I am doing some
Speaker 1: live hosting basically on the TikTok on the tic Lord
Speaker 1: am I getting there? Jesus, I'm shunning anyway. I do
Speaker 1: luxury bag selling and all times I do shoe selling.
Speaker 1: I see all that to say, at this location where
Speaker 1: I'm working at, usually there has been a whole row
Speaker 1: of unhoused people and it is kind of like your
Speaker 1: own neighborhood. And I've recently seen I was just there
Speaker 1: earlier today and it's all cleaned up. The question has become,
Speaker 1: where are they going to go? Well, one city in
Speaker 1: California is no longer eligible to receive state housing and
Speaker 1: homelessness funds pull up. This is according to KTLA. The
Speaker 1: city of Norwalk is no longer eligible to receive state
Speaker 1: housing and homelessness funds after the State Department of Housing
Speaker 1: and Community Development revoked its compliance with the Housing Element
Speaker 1: Law Additionally, the city can no longer deny certain affordable
Speaker 1: housing projects, and this is according to Governor Gavin Newsman. Now.
Speaker 1: The announcement comes weeks after the city extended its mortuarian
Speaker 1: more moratorier child by on emergency shelters for the homeless,
Speaker 1: single room occupancy and transitional housing now. A day earlier,
Speaker 1: Governor Gavin Newsom threatened the city with a potential lawsuit
Speaker 1: if the ordinance wasn't reversed. Now, it says, after the
Speaker 1: state has provided cities and counties with unprecedented funding to
Speaker 1: address the homelessness crisis, it is beyond cruel that Norwalk
Speaker 1: would ban the building of shelters while people are living
Speaker 1: on the city streets. This crisis is urgent and we
Speaker 1: can't afford to stand by as communities turn their backs
Speaker 1: on those in need. No more excuses. Every city, including Norwalk,
Speaker 1: must do its part to allow state housing laws. What
Speaker 1: do you think about that? How do you feel about that? Now?
Speaker 1: We know that we got because a small justice. Big
Speaker 1: smiles who was on the meet with FM Dow who
Speaker 1: was very candid about his experience of being unhoused in
Speaker 1: the community, and now he has a thing where he
Speaker 1: does if I spotted my got him. He sees somebody
Speaker 1: with our shoes, clothes, hats, sneakers, and he's going to
Speaker 1: go ahead and provide that with them. But here's the question.
Speaker 1: We have to realize in some areas. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: that we've heard a lot in LA, but there are
Speaker 1: individuals who are unhoused who are attacking individuals. Some individuals
Speaker 1: are being sexually assaulted. If I'm not mistaken, I was
Speaker 1: just reading a story or I came across it. A
Speaker 1: woman who was sexually assaulted an unhoused guy who was
Speaker 1: mentally unstabled had sexually assaulted more than two. I believe
Speaker 1: it was three elderly women women that came forth and
Speaker 1: reported it. Now here's the question. We can't leave our
Speaker 1: people out on the street. Okay, that's what we know
Speaker 1: for sure. Now, if we have funding and we have
Speaker 1: housing in place, and individuals don't want to go to
Speaker 1: the housing, don't want to stay in the housing, what
Speaker 1: are we supposed to do? Because we have to realize
Speaker 1: that each said and visual or some at least are
Speaker 1: an adult, They have their free will. They have to
Speaker 1: report up there if they want, and if times they don't.
Speaker 1: So what do we do in this instance? What does
Speaker 1: this look like? Now? This Norwalk City Council adopted the
Speaker 1: ordinance on August sixth, putting the moretarium on various establishments,
Speaker 1: including emergency shelters along with transitional and supportive housing. Now,
Speaker 1: in September, the City Council voted to extend it without discussion.
Speaker 1: Before city council members voted on the extension, HCDS sent
Speaker 1: city officials a notice of violation and corrective action letter
Speaker 1: regarding the ordinance. So this is something to think about.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 1: Another thing that's thinking about now, this is basically happening
Speaker 1: on the East Coast and probably happening with us a lot,
Speaker 1: but especially when we get our inboards. We've all heard
Speaker 1: about the strikes that's happened in the docks right where
Speaker 1: the workers are demanding more pay and if they aren't working,
Speaker 1: all of our goods are on delay. As a country
Speaker 1: where a lot of materials, products, goods are imported, what
Speaker 1: happens if it stops before it gets to us? Have
Speaker 1: you thought about what that looks like for food, for clothing,
Speaker 1: for jobs. Like I said before, I was talking where
Speaker 1: I do the live hosting for the bags and we
Speaker 1: were in there and they were talking about the fact
Speaker 1: there was an issue because a lot of the luxury
Speaker 1: bags that we're getting in, well, they're getting stopped at
Speaker 1: the docks. The union representing forty five thousand striking US
Speaker 1: DOC workers at East and Gulf Coast ports has reached
Speaker 1: a deal to suspend a three day strike until January
Speaker 1: fifteen to provide time to negotiate a new contract. The union,
Speaker 1: the International Longshoremen's Association, is to resume working immediately, I
Speaker 1: said immediately. Both sides also reached agreement on wages, but
Speaker 1: no details were given now. According to a statement from
Speaker 1: the Ports and Union Thursday night, the union went on
Speaker 1: strike early Tuesday after its contract expired in a dispute
Speaker 1: overpay and the automation of tasks at the ports from
Speaker 1: Maine to Texas. The strike came at the peak of
Speaker 1: the holiday shopping season at thirty six ports that handle
Speaker 1: about half the cargo from ships coming into and out
Speaker 1: of the United States. Say what now. The walkout raised
Speaker 1: the risk of shortages of goods on store shelves if
Speaker 1: it lasted more than a few weeks, but also retailers
Speaker 1: had stocked up or shipped its items early in anticipation
Speaker 1: of the work stoppage. Now, the strike came at the
Speaker 1: peak of the holiday season. Like I just said, it
Speaker 1: raised Oh oh, that was redundant. So yes, what are
Speaker 1: your thoughts on that?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 1: I don't know if you were a tuned or tuned
Speaker 1: in what was this on Tuesday? Did you hear the
Speaker 1: audio I played of the whistleblower? You don't know what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Listen all what I'm saying is that
Speaker 1: needs to be some sort of wake up call. If
Speaker 1: you don't believe, you better ask somebody or ask somebody else. Now,
Speaker 1: I was wondering if we were on the fence because
Speaker 1: of what was happening at the docks, if there was
Speaker 1: more stuff going on. I am going back in my
Speaker 1: phone right now and I'm going to play this audio.
Speaker 1: A whistle blower from the FBI had an important message
Speaker 1: for folks, an important message that some people might get
Speaker 1: a little nervous. Some people like to get a little scared.
Speaker 1: But listen, don't say I and tell yourself. This whistle
Speaker 1: blower is urging that Americans to vote for one arm themselves,
Speaker 1: stock up three to four months of food and supplies,
Speaker 1: and most importantly, pray, take a listen.
Speaker 5: I would just say that I consider the hearing today
Speaker 5: my last active service as a public servant for the
Speaker 5: United States of America. Was an intel professional for our
Speaker 5: country for many years, and I would give recommendations and
Speaker 5: not also look at indications and warnings. So I would
Speaker 5: offer this to the American people as my warning to them, says,
Speaker 5: this is a warning is the American people, I say,
Speaker 5: I personally have no confidence that the FBI will rein
Speaker 5: in its own conduct. I've been persecuted along with Garrett,
Speaker 5: Steve and Kyle and countless other whistleblowers. It is my
Speaker 5: opinion that the bureau used a reprisal and fear to
Speaker 5: control the workforce, and it's been a seemingly effective tactic.
Speaker 5: I personally believe that there are no current effective checks
Speaker 5: and balances against them conducting lawless action with any type
Speaker 5: of correction in a legitimate time frame. Their ability to
Speaker 5: overclassify information can allow them to stonewall forever. Arm yourself
Speaker 5: and know how to defend yourself. Make three to four
Speaker 5: friends in your neighborhood and promise to come to each
Speaker 5: other's mutual aid in times of hardship and during the
Speaker 5: great depression, people stocked up a pantry. So I think
Speaker 5: that's a good practice, especially in our economic times, and
Speaker 5: make sure you have three to four months of food.
Speaker 5: As a person of faith, I'd say pray the Rosary,
Speaker 5: go to the first Friday devotions that's for everybody, and
Speaker 5: read the Gospel of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ,
Speaker 5: and live it every day.
Speaker 1: Did you catch it? Did you catch it because it's hired.
Speaker 1: This is the kind of conversations we need to be
Speaker 1: a realistic with. These are the things that we need
Speaker 1: to talk about, especially when it comes about our livelihood,
Speaker 1: when it comes about our community, there is always something underlining.
Speaker 1: So how does that make you feel? When you get
Speaker 1: moments when you got things happen at the dock. Now,
Speaker 1: granted it has been suspended since January, but it's no
Speaker 1: secret what they're talking about with the food. It's no secret.
Speaker 1: While Governor Gavin Newsom just did a recall and signed
Speaker 1: a bill that said, hey, we cannot sell any more
Speaker 1: food that candains red dyed number forty and five other chemicals,
Speaker 1: it's nothing shocking that you got individuals of young kids
Speaker 1: doing breakouts, losing their lives because they eating ramen noodles.
Speaker 1: Wake up everybody normal sleeping bend dunnam. I don't know
Speaker 1: the rest, but it's time to wake up. How does
Speaker 1: that make you feel? Okay? Well, if that doesn't wake
Speaker 1: you up enough, we know that the holiday seasons are abound,
Speaker 1: and here is something to talk about. Did you know
Speaker 1: that Southern California police seized nearly ten thousand stolen gift cards?
Speaker 1: Pull up because you might be purchased at a gift
Speaker 1: card and ain't nothing on it.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 1: Police in southern California have uncovered a scam in which
Speaker 1: thousands of gift cards were stolen from stores across the region.
Speaker 1: In a post on Instagram on Wednesday, the Chino Police
Speaker 1: Department said an arrest was made after an investigation into
Speaker 1: a large scale scam was wrapped up. While working with
Speaker 1: security terms and law law and local law enforcement agencies,
Speaker 1: the department discovered the thefts occurred that more than two
Speaker 1: hundred and fifty department stores across San Bernardino, Los Angeles,
Speaker 1: Sand dig in Orange Counties in just one month span.
Speaker 1: Now upon execution of the search, warns about nine thousand,
Speaker 1: five hundred stolen gift cards were seized. A photo was
Speaker 1: shared by Chino Police, showed stacks of stolen gift cards
Speaker 1: from stores like Target, Normstrom, the Home Depot, lu, Lul, Lemon,
Speaker 1: and epay. Now. The suspects was only identified as an
Speaker 1: individual from Elmonte. Was arrested on suspicion of multiple charges
Speaker 1: and was booked in County jail.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 1: The Chino Police Department warned shoppers to be careful when
Speaker 1: purchasing gift cards. If their cards packaging appears to be
Speaker 1: tampered with, or if the pensticker on the back has
Speaker 1: been removed, there is a likelihood that the card may
Speaker 1: be part of a scam. Well, I be damned, say what,
Speaker 1: say what? Wake up everybody? No one will sleeping in bed?
Speaker 1: Who would have a You know, you have so many
Speaker 1: ways that you gotta think off for things when it
Speaker 1: comes to the scam, I mean damned if it ain't
Speaker 1: no resources, you call yourself being really nifty. Giving somebody
Speaker 1: an opportunity to purchase what they need for their birthday,
Speaker 1: for they hollibate day, for their celebration, Oh what have you?
Speaker 1: And there's nothing on the car Now, I'm just wondering,
Speaker 1: how did the brother slip up? How did they come
Speaker 1: across all these dang gonna gift cars. I mean, we
Speaker 1: talking about over ten thousand, and let's just really think
Speaker 1: about this Arab we're talking about Lululemon, were talking about Northstrum.
Speaker 1: Now what they did not say? Hold on what they
Speaker 1: did not say? What was the damn cash value? Okay,
Speaker 1: I want to know how much money was on the table,
Speaker 1: because when you talk about a norsetrum, you can get
Speaker 1: up to the thousands. Well no, he got for at
Speaker 1: least five on it. And they got called like, yo,
Speaker 1: you just be slipping, you falling, you can't get up.
Speaker 1: I sing, I'm slipping, I'm falling. I got to get it.
Speaker 1: You know I'm slipping. I'm falling. I got to get it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just start going off. Nobody would
Speaker 1: have talked to me about any of these stories. It
Speaker 1: is a crying Shane. You don't want to hear from you.
Speaker 1: Call me in the studio, Call me in the studio
Speaker 1: right now? Who want to call me? Call me in
Speaker 1: a studio, Miss Mayan, She says, crying Shane. Uh huh,
Speaker 1: it is a crying Shane. I got Alvin in here.
Speaker 1: Alva said, say what the app didn't pick up what
Speaker 1: your emoji was and how long to my aunt Brenda.
Speaker 1: She recently celebrated the birthday the Big seven five. Y'all
Speaker 1: throw us some birthday case from my aunt Brenda in
Speaker 1: the house, and I want to encourage you to call
Speaker 1: me in the studio if you have any comments on
Speaker 1: the stories I just read eight one eight four six
Speaker 1: one fifty four thirty two. Eight one eight four six
Speaker 1: one fifty four thirty two. Let me know your thoughts.
Speaker 1: Put some comments on her. I gave you a couple
Speaker 1: of stories. We're talking about in Norwalk. They're they're they're
Speaker 1: they're taking away the funds when it comes down to
Speaker 1: those who aren't housed. I just told you about Disneyland.
Speaker 1: They want ahead and said, hey, now we're going to
Speaker 1: offer a discount on kids tickets. This is on the
Speaker 1: heels of the recent story about the twenty six year
Speaker 1: old woman who I told you got escorted out of
Speaker 1: Disneyland in handcuffs as her kids was crying. Say what,
Speaker 1: let me know what you want. Are you concerned? Are
Speaker 1: you concerned what's happening over at the dock with the goods.
Speaker 1: Has your business been affected? I mean it was only
Speaker 1: two days, but some people already felt the shock. Now
Speaker 1: I told you they are suspending this up until January fifteenth.
Speaker 1: Then we're gonna have a new conversation. So then the
Speaker 1: question becomes, are you stocking up and doing what you
Speaker 1: gotta do? Hey, man, Die, thank you so much. Uh
Speaker 1: call me in the studio, y'all. I want to hear
Speaker 1: from you. Don't be screwed. Eight one eight four six
Speaker 1: one fifty four to thirty two. I told you we
Speaker 1: back Dawnde here to make it do what it do. Hey,
Speaker 1: how now, let me get to some resources. Where's my
Speaker 1: cell follow net? Miss Felicia. She went ahead and texted
Speaker 1: me a message really quickly. Oh, I just saw your message, Alvin.
Speaker 1: I just picked up my phone. I want to give
Speaker 1: out some information. You know. I'm all about making sure
Speaker 1: that if you are in the community, if you have
Speaker 1: some good news, if you have some resources, to make
Speaker 1: sure we share well. Coming up this Saturday. This is
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. I don't know if Chuck is here. Chuck,
Speaker 1: you usually give me the information that's happening in the South.
Speaker 1: My phone is froze real quick. But AnyWho, this Saturday,
Speaker 1: Fanny lou Hammer birthday celebration and voter education event is
Speaker 1: happening right off of Crenshaw next to the McDonald's forty
Speaker 1: to seventy six Crenshaw Boulevard. There will be light refreshments.
Speaker 1: It's happening between four and six now we have of
Speaker 1: the Fanny lou Hammer Institute. The director Achille will be
Speaker 1: there as well as a poetry performance from Yasmin Mone Watkins.
Speaker 1: Now I recognize her from the social medias. I don't
Speaker 1: know why am I saying up? Social media is y'all?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 1: But yes, I got her information from the social media
Speaker 1: and I've been looking at her poetry. But there is
Speaker 1: a voting event that is happening taking place. Also, is
Speaker 1: Latasha still here? Latasha said, coming from the LBC, sent
Speaker 1: over some information and regarding Sunshine Community Resource Organization. This
Speaker 1: is an organization in Long Beach. If you're in Long
Speaker 1: Beach pull up. They offer services that can help with
Speaker 1: supervise child visitation, monitoring, mobile AHA BLS and CPR certification course,
Speaker 1: domestic violence classes, parenting skills, life skills, anger management classes,
Speaker 1: food giveaway, mobile live scanning, fingerprinting, mobile drug testing, registered
Speaker 1: process server, court mandated community service hours ordained Minister Services,
Speaker 1: chemical dependency classes and free California ID application for low
Speaker 1: income clients. This is happening right down in Long Beach
Speaker 1: at the Sunshine Community Resource Organization. Our girl, Latasha says,
Speaker 1: I'm here. She pulls up. Tasha, call me real quick,
Speaker 1: because don't act like I wasn't with you during the
Speaker 1: holiday and I came down there to the community center myself.
Speaker 1: Can you call me in the studio, call me in
Speaker 1: the studio and tell the good people about the work
Speaker 1: that you're doing. You made sure that you sent me
Speaker 1: this information on Tuesday and said, Dawn, can you please
Speaker 1: list this out and shout this out to the listeners
Speaker 1: and the viewers. Well, I want you to call me
Speaker 1: right now. Eight one age four six one fifty four
Speaker 1: thirty two. Don't be shine. Eight one age four six,
Speaker 1: one fifty four thirty two. She said, Okay, I am,
Speaker 1: She said, okay, I am. Oh, and this must be heard.
Speaker 1: Hey Gray, talk to me, Hey, don how are you well?
Speaker 1: I'm good, not that I'm hearing from you. How you doing?
Speaker 6: I'm blessing how they favorite like the rest?
Speaker 1: You better talk that talk. It's good to hear.
Speaker 6: Yes, I heard you. I can barely hear you just
Speaker 6: a little bit. Can you stick up a little bit louder?
Speaker 1: Okay, let me see. Can you hear me better now?
Speaker 4: Yeah? A little bit better?
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we're working on what we got to do
Speaker 1: with the equipment. But I know everybody can hear you well.
Speaker 1: Can you tell me the good information you got in
Speaker 1: regards to Sunshine Community Resource Organization?
Speaker 6: So well everyone. We provide services to everyone no matter
Speaker 6: what from Lancaster to the Long Beach area. Some services
Speaker 6: are free and some services you may have to pay
Speaker 6: us fee, but we're always doing a full giveaway on
Speaker 6: a fourth Thursday of every month. We teach, as Donde said, CPR,
Speaker 6: Supervised Vegetation MONITORND do messy violence for the batter and
Speaker 6: the victim. We also help out with housing. If you
Speaker 6: guys would like to go to the website to help
Speaker 6: you out better, you can go to www dot Sunshine
Speaker 6: Community to zero one five dot o RG. Can everybody
Speaker 6: get it myself either?
Speaker 1: So yes? Can you hear yourself now?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I can hear now?
Speaker 1: Okay, sun Community, I got that downww.
Speaker 6: Dot Sunshine Community to zero one five dot org. And
Speaker 6: thank you so much Donza for coming out to give
Speaker 6: out toys to the children with us. We're looking forward
Speaker 6: to seeing you this year. We have a Christmas toy
Speaker 6: giveaway you guys with Donze that's going to be pregnant
Speaker 6: on December twentieth. Please mark your calendar December to twenty
Speaker 6: up from twelve to five. The address will be four
Speaker 6: O one seven Long Beach Boulevard, Long Beach, Califoya, nine
Speaker 6: zero eight O seven once again four oh four oh
Speaker 6: one seven Long Beach Boulevard, Long Beach, California, nine oh
Speaker 6: eight O seven are feel free to reach me as
Speaker 6: well on my self, Eric Coach Fix two six six
Speaker 6: one seven oh three oh nine once again Fix two
Speaker 6: six six one seven oh three oh nine. Hope to
Speaker 6: hear from everyone soon. Please tell a friend thank you.
Speaker 1: Well, well, that was a that was a commercial in itself.
Speaker 1: I heard that. I know. Oh God, you better catch
Speaker 1: it Wallace. Oh my gosh. Well, thank you so much.
Speaker 1: We're gonna be talking about more stuff for commercial later.
Speaker 1: But thank you, Natasha, thank you, and I guess I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be saying you all on December twentieth.
Speaker 6: Yes, yes, and can you help us out again pass
Speaker 6: out the toys?
Speaker 1: Absolutely. I would love to.
Speaker 6: Okay, then thank you, Dona. I'm gonna allow back yet.
Speaker 4: All right, have a wonderful day.
Speaker 1: Die by my, oh my gosh. And there it is, Natasha.
Speaker 1: We're gonna be doing something, you know. Yes, I did
Speaker 1: pull up, oh man, and I just want to thank
Speaker 1: Natasha so much for believing in me, having me come
Speaker 1: up to the kids. It was an extreme joy. And
Speaker 1: if that's not enough, I have some more information. A
Speaker 1: great organization. We are thirty days away. The African American
Speaker 1: Male Wellness Agency is handling and hosting their third annual
Speaker 1: Black Men's Wellness Day. Will be employing our black men
Speaker 1: to know your numbers, because when you know better, you
Speaker 1: can do better, and therefore you can be better. The
Speaker 1: fact of the matter is is that black men are
Speaker 1: dying from preventable diseases. And guess what you can be
Speaker 1: part of the solution. Come out to Jesse Owen's Park, yes,
Speaker 1: the Michelle and Barack Obama Sports Complex also known as
Speaker 1: Rancho Sienega Park on November two at seven am seven
Speaker 1: am between twelve pm for Black Men's Wellness Day. You
Speaker 1: can walk for your dad, your brother, your uncle, your nephew, whomver,
Speaker 1: even your son. This is a free family event. KJLH
Speaker 1: will be out there, The LA Sentinel will be out there.
Speaker 1: We got black pages that are going to be out there.
Speaker 1: LA Focus is going to be out there. Johnson and
Speaker 1: Johnson's is going to be out there. I mean, this
Speaker 1: is the most fun that you will have at a
Speaker 1: doctor's appointment. And guess what, you're a walking. You are
Speaker 1: having fun in order to save your life. Each one
Speaker 1: teach one will guess what each one reach one. And
Speaker 1: that's happening on Saturday, November Teco. Now. The reason why
Speaker 1: I'm so excited about this organization is that I had
Speaker 1: them on the FM DOW. I'm doing some work with
Speaker 1: Jay Barnes, who is in the chat. If you don't
Speaker 1: see just scroll down you'll see his name. Make sure
Speaker 1: you contact and you reach out because if you know
Speaker 1: somebody that needs to know somebody, well let's help somebody.
Speaker 1: And I got another thing. There's a real man, real
Speaker 1: talk that's happening October seventeenth. We know that men are
Speaker 1: suffering from emotional distress twenty percent more than their counterparts.
Speaker 1: And you need somebody to talk to, my brother, somebody
Speaker 1: that can understand you, somebody that speaks the language that
Speaker 1: you speak, that can look you in the eyes and
Speaker 1: say I got you. October seventeenth. I'll make sure I
Speaker 1: put the link in the chat. But this is all
Speaker 1: happening with the Africanamerican Male Wellness Agency, and I want
Speaker 1: to give you the website so that you can find
Speaker 1: more information about it. It's La dot AA Wellness dot org. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's La dot AA Wellness dot org. You see Jbarnes.
Speaker 1: Hit them up, stalk them, tell them that Dawn Day
Speaker 1: sent you. Okay. In fact, Jade, I guess we can
Speaker 1: need to talk about you coming up on here so
Speaker 1: you can talk about the walk. Okay, so you know
Speaker 1: it's the real deal. Now, mister officer, missus officer, are
Speaker 1: you looking for a John. If you are, I got
Speaker 1: some information for you. R and B Global Security is
Speaker 1: now accepting applications Monday two Friday, between eight am to
Speaker 1: two thirty pm, located down in Long Beach at thirty
Speaker 1: thirteen fifty five Redundo Avenue, Sweet nine. Now, you'll need
Speaker 1: to bring some documents with you. You'll need a valid ID,
Speaker 1: You'll need your Social Security card, you will need your
Speaker 1: guard card and your certification. If you have any questions,
Speaker 1: or to schedule an appointment, feel free to contact three
Speaker 1: one zero four three eight three zero four four. Again
Speaker 1: that's three one zero four three eight three zero four four. Now,
Speaker 1: I don't know if we got any senior citizens in
Speaker 1: the house. We know the guys the rent is too
Speaker 1: damn high, But how about them damn bills too? I
Speaker 1: got something for you. Now, seniors, you have to be
Speaker 1: sixty years old and plus. Do you need help with
Speaker 1: your utility bills? Well, if you need some help with
Speaker 1: your ladw and so called bill, well, we have some
Speaker 1: discounts available. How they can help you apply for some
Speaker 1: rebates and apply for financial assistance to pay them. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is happening in Van nine's up in the valley.
Speaker 1: The address is seventeen four hundred seventeen four hundred Victory Boulevard.
Speaker 1: The ZIP gold is nine one four zero six, nine
Speaker 1: one four zero six. You'll need to bring a few items, okay,
Speaker 1: So tell loved one one. You need a current state
Speaker 1: ID or a driver's license, both current bills, your electric
Speaker 1: and your gas bill. We need to put the proof
Speaker 1: in the pull in. Don't give anything that does not
Speaker 1: have all the pages. Third rent, we need a proof
Speaker 1: of your mortgage receipt, your most current we need to
Speaker 1: know and I keep saying we they need to know
Speaker 1: how much you're going to be paying and the proof
Speaker 1: of your current household income. Again, want to be sure
Speaker 1: to help those in need, those who cannot help themselves.
Speaker 1: This is for our senior citizens who need help playing
Speaker 1: their gas and electric bills. Now, this is in partnership
Speaker 1: with LADWP And if you need the information, I would
Speaker 1: like for you to call eight one eight seven zero
Speaker 1: eight forty seven fifty nine. Again, that is eight one
Speaker 1: eight seven zero eight forty seven fifty nine or eight
Speaker 1: one eight seven zero eight sixty six oh three. That's
Speaker 1: eight one eight seven zero eight sixty six oh three.
Speaker 1: This is for any individuals who are needing a support,
Speaker 1: any type of help when it comes to their electric
Speaker 1: and their gas bill. And since we are in the
Speaker 1: month of October, there's a hiring spree happening. They say,
Speaker 1: if you stay ready, you don't have to get ready.
Speaker 1: Pull up family. It's happening on the October twenty fourth.
Speaker 1: What day is that, I don't know. I won't have
Speaker 1: my calendar. I need my calendar up because miss Felicia
Speaker 1: got stay focused on East Los Angeles Civic Center is
Speaker 1: hosting a hiring shopping spree from nine am to two
Speaker 1: pm forty eighth one East third Street in Los Angeles.
Speaker 1: The zip code is nine hundred and twenty two. Bring
Speaker 1: your resume and dress to impress. Nothing less but the best, hey. Now,
Speaker 1: what you can expect is to connect with employers, explore
Speaker 1: a variety of job openings on the spot interviews, get
Speaker 1: supportive help, and leave with opportunities. If you want information
Speaker 1: about that, check out the website hiring Spreela dot org.
Speaker 1: That's Hiring Spree LAI dot org. And this is sponsored
Speaker 1: by America's Works. Now. I gave this information a bit ago.
Speaker 1: And here's another verse binder. You know it's that time
Speaker 1: of year again, cold and flu season. If you had
Speaker 1: no idea, here is We are giving away COVID nineteen
Speaker 1: tests if you are going to sign up at the
Speaker 1: USPS dot com website. Each order includes four individual rapid
Speaker 1: antigen COVID nineteen tests, including the extended shelf life and
Speaker 1: updated expiration dates. Now orders will ship as early as
Speaker 1: the thirtieth I got mine on the first right when
Speaker 1: I came from the show on that Tuesday. It was
Speaker 1: at the dough. At first, I got excited because I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know when you see a package checker.
Speaker 1: I was saying, oh, who thought? I mean, girl, you
Speaker 1: thought of yourself? Okay, you thought of yourself. I need
Speaker 1: a repeat, I guess, Miss Mayan. This is when you
Speaker 1: call him as Mayan when you need to get updated
Speaker 1: off some information. This is where you call in say hey, Dawn,
Speaker 1: what was the information that you had for the hiring
Speaker 1: spree that is happening on October twenty fourth. Located at
Speaker 1: the East Los Angeles Civic Center. The address is four
Speaker 1: eight zero one East third Street, four eight zero one
Speaker 1: East third Street. The zip code is nine one hundred
Speaker 1: and twelve. Don't be shocked. Pull up on me and
Speaker 1: call me eight one eight four six fifty four thirty two.
Speaker 1: Come hey, mister Joe. Good evening to the Queen of
Speaker 1: morning radio. You know that made me feel good. You
Speaker 1: know we say we here for a good time, not
Speaker 1: a long time. Thank you for pulling up. So here's
Speaker 1: the formum one Tuesdays and Thursdays, Vitamin D Live five
Speaker 1: pm to six thirty until we get our morning show.
Speaker 1: Because we know what we're working on, right, You know
Speaker 1: what we got called here to do right? Uh so
Speaker 1: I want to let you know. Now I want to
Speaker 1: open up the phone lines. Anybody want to call me?
Speaker 1: Eight one eight to four six one fifty four thirty two,
Speaker 1: eight one eight fifty four thirty two. I gave you
Speaker 1: out some resources information. Next up, I got the Vitamin
Speaker 1: D advice letter. And then I want to open up
Speaker 1: the conversation. And I hope y'all call in because I
Speaker 1: feel like a couple of y'all can be affected or
Speaker 1: would be affected by this. I ran into an FM
Speaker 1: down listener. I went to go get my hair dead.
Speaker 1: We had a conversation when we're talking about traumas, h
Speaker 1: traumas and whether or not we are dealing with them, traumas,
Speaker 1: how they are affecting our lives, traumas of how we
Speaker 1: are going to grow with them. Oh, what's my arm?
Speaker 1: Get ready, y'all hold on to you, niggah. Hey, I
Speaker 1: Brenda hell.
Speaker 7: Darn dave done to the day after break of day
Speaker 7: to take some sunshine and some love.
Speaker 8: And some small loll smiles.
Speaker 9: Getting bigger and bigger as I talk to you. I'm
Speaker 9: calling from La Lord, Alabama.
Speaker 7: Eye to La Los Angeles. I just called.
Speaker 1: He said, holler at you girl, Hey, sister girl, love.
Speaker 10: You're doing great.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna shine out to love you.
Speaker 1: Okay, love you too. Thank you with you. I didn't
Speaker 1: mean to hang up, Bronda, I thought you were done.
Speaker 1: Never is my umbrada shot. She was in and out,
Speaker 1: in and out, in and out. That's my umbrenda. You
Speaker 1: see how we rhyme all the time. We drop it
Speaker 1: at the drop of a dime, and our lyrics and
Speaker 1: our words will blow your mind right in time with
Speaker 1: that sunshine. Don't be blind because I'm also fun. I
Speaker 1: only did that because my umbrenda. Okay, listen, are you
Speaker 1: all ready for this advice letter? Okay, uh you hear it.
Speaker 1: I need another jingle when it's time to go into
Speaker 1: the Vitamin D vice letter. But right now this is
Speaker 1: what we got subject how do I start living my life?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 1: Let me just say this, Oh where I get my
Speaker 1: hair to shoot? They ought to pay me. I'll let
Speaker 1: you know. Offer here that on, my sister Charlotte, you
Speaker 1: right in time? You not too. Let I'm about to
Speaker 1: do this advice letter and then let's pull up to
Speaker 1: see if you if you're a viround. Around nine o'clock,
Speaker 1: nine o'clock, Give me ten minutes to get this letter, Charlotte,
Speaker 1: and then we can still do what we got to do. Babe.
Speaker 1: Let's jump into this advice letter subject how do I
Speaker 1: start living my life? Oh? I forgot When I get
Speaker 1: to this advice and letter, know that it's all about
Speaker 1: vitamin D. Vitamin D is all about shedding the light
Speaker 1: on the good and the bad. Because if you want
Speaker 1: to be better and you want to do better, when
Speaker 1: you're going to have to be able to see better.
Speaker 1: That means you're gonna have to get out the shadows.
Speaker 1: That means you're gonna have to step in the light.
Speaker 1: That means you're gonna have to eat the meat and
Speaker 1: spin out the bones. Understand that these are my views
Speaker 1: and opinions. Take what you need and keep it moving.
Speaker 1: Dear Dawn. So I'm thirty two, decent job, live in
Speaker 1: a small town in the Midwest. I have a good
Speaker 1: amount of savings, a relationship that could be healthier. She
Speaker 1: thinks I don't emote enough and I don't do it
Speaker 1: just fine. But I feel comfortable and things are good sometimes. Really,
Speaker 1: I feel like I've evolved into working our debt delved
Speaker 1: into working barely maintaining social contacts and watching shows in
Speaker 1: my free time could be the pandemic that was the effect,
Speaker 1: but also feel like this could last longer. I feel
Speaker 1: unfulfilled and alone. How do I really start living life? Honey,
Speaker 1: It's time to wake up now. I want to make
Speaker 1: room and make space because we all handle and deal
Speaker 1: with things differently. Twenty twenty is when we embarked on
Speaker 1: the pandemic. We're now in twenty twenty four. Wake up
Speaker 1: everybyde and Norm will sleep it and bed. If you
Speaker 1: want to be somebody and if you want to go somewhere,
Speaker 1: you better wake up and pay attention. Now. I'm not
Speaker 1: saying this in the harsh way because you simply wrote
Speaker 1: in this letter that means that you are waking up.
Speaker 1: That means you are walking into the light. But you
Speaker 1: have to remind yourselves in the times that you don't
Speaker 1: you feel stuck. Remember, things function, but people live, and
Speaker 1: right now you're functioning with your day to day just existing.
Speaker 1: But I need you to live, strive for something, step
Speaker 1: out of your comfort zone.
Speaker 11: Now.
Speaker 1: You say you got a decent job, but how about
Speaker 1: we make a great job. Oftentimes people are writ in
Speaker 1: or they call in for advice and they say, well, Dawn,
Speaker 1: how do I find out what I'm supposed to be? Oh, Dawn,
Speaker 1: what is it that I'm supposed to be doing? You
Speaker 1: gotta stretch out and reach You're gonna have to take
Speaker 1: a chance on yourself now. Men, oftentimes, if you've been
Speaker 1: a long time Vitamin D listener, can we be honest.
Speaker 1: It's no secret that you guys have been on the
Speaker 1: roller coaster ride with me. It's no secret that I've
Speaker 1: talked about the ups and the downs in the all
Speaker 1: the way around. But we have to remind ourselves the
Speaker 1: bottom of one heel is the top of the next.
Speaker 1: And just as though we are living and not functioning beings, well,
Speaker 1: let's just think of a pulse up down, Why would
Speaker 1: you think that your life would be any different? You
Speaker 1: do realize that you have survived one hundred percent of
Speaker 1: the worst days of your life. Again, why would today
Speaker 1: be any different? And if you didn't survive today, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't know what you But now what you do know
Speaker 1: is that you are doing the same thing day in
Speaker 1: and day out, and you realize that time is ticking.
Speaker 1: They say time is our most valuable asset. Once it's spent,
Speaker 1: it's gone forever. You can't get this time back, You
Speaker 1: can't get this youth back, you can't get this state
Speaker 1: of your mind back. So when are you gonna show
Speaker 1: up and step up and grow up? You start living
Speaker 1: by doing things you feel afraid. You start living by
Speaker 1: doing things you've never done before. You start living by
Speaker 1: forgiving yourself. Should we really talk on that for a minute.
Speaker 1: I think oftentimes things that get us stuck in not
Speaker 1: living is simply because we haven't stepped out of our
Speaker 1: comfort zone, simply because we have been in Parihlyasi's afear.
Speaker 1: If a caterpillar was so afraid to stretch out of
Speaker 1: this encasement of darkness, enclosure, we would never see the
Speaker 1: wonders in the beauty of a butterfly. If a tadba
Speaker 1: was so comfortable by being this little table just swimming
Speaker 1: in the water, he never would what it means to
Speaker 1: jump on it, jump on it to hop to the
Speaker 1: next thing. And we have beings that are physically able,
Speaker 1: and this is not going to anybody that has any
Speaker 1: stipulations didn't under stand the concept of walk, crawling to walk,
Speaker 1: to run, then how would you know it's going to
Speaker 1: require you to exercise some muscles, and it's going to
Speaker 1: require you to be uncomfortable because the magic happens outside
Speaker 1: of the comfort zone. The best thing that you can
Speaker 1: do is take a chance on yourself because you have
Speaker 1: more confidence and in fact that this job is going
Speaker 1: to provide you for your needs the next day in
Speaker 1: and out, not realizing at the end of the day
Speaker 1: you are just a number. Are we having a real
Speaker 1: conversation and if we know that the only way out
Speaker 1: is down, you best believe I'm gonna live it while
Speaker 1: I can. So here's what I say to you, darling,
Speaker 1: thirty two year old, decent job living in a small
Speaker 1: town in Midwest. Well, I'm a Detroit girl, and I
Speaker 1: had to realize I had to take a chance on myself.
Speaker 1: And what that first looked like. I went to Howard,
Speaker 1: no family, some people I went to high school with
Speaker 1: that I knew out there, and then I took a
Speaker 1: chance on myself. All I had was the promise of
Speaker 1: a fellow that was three months, but I knew the
Speaker 1: vision was either to move to New York, LA. And
Speaker 1: guess what, I moved to New York. I made it work.
Speaker 1: Then it came to me my time when that New
Speaker 1: York was up and I had this opportunity, this window.
Speaker 1: Think of it as my wind shield. I saw the
Speaker 1: sunny La. My sister would tell you. I was down
Speaker 1: in Vegas and she was celebrating her thirtieth and I said,
Speaker 1: I want to live someplace where there's beaches and palm trees.
Speaker 1: And I had to jump up. I jumped up to
Speaker 1: get up, and I moved to LA. And I've been
Speaker 1: making it working. Honey. We've had our ups and downs. Hey,
Speaker 1: we experienced it. And the best thing I can say
Speaker 1: is live. So how does that sound? Live your life,
Speaker 1: and living your life simply means taking a chance on yourself.
Speaker 1: So that's the first step. Now. I hope I didn't
Speaker 1: come off harsh in the beginning, because you're on the
Speaker 1: right path. I think the first step to say so
Speaker 1: he can get answer is first to ask the question
Speaker 1: and doing it so even if your voice shakes, Because
Speaker 1: what do I say, If you can look up, you
Speaker 1: can get up. If you fall down seven times, you
Speaker 1: get up eight And guess what your location is? Not
Speaker 1: your destination? Yeah, you're located in the Midwest right now,
Speaker 1: in this little city. But guess what it is so
Speaker 1: more over in Yonder. All right, all right, y'all, you
Speaker 1: all ready to have a conversation. Call me in the
Speaker 1: studio right now, Call me in the studio. Here's the number.
Speaker 1: Eight one eight four six one fifty four thirty two.
Speaker 1: Eight one, eight four six one fifty four thirty two. Now,
Speaker 1: I was interested in having a conversation, a conversation that
Speaker 1: spearheaded just for some coincidences of what happened on uh
Speaker 1: yesterday or the during the day. And then I got
Speaker 1: home and I was talking to my sister and it
Speaker 1: really evoked another conversation, and I wanted to bring it
Speaker 1: to the Vitamin D family. Now, listen, some things are
Speaker 1: gonna get uncomfortable just by the looks of it. We
Speaker 1: got people that are on different generational timelines. So what
Speaker 1: we did in one generation may be different from the next.
Speaker 1: But who's to say which one is best. Now Charlotte
Speaker 1: is still driving, and I want her to be safe.
Speaker 1: I don't want her to be talking on the phone
Speaker 1: while driving. If we don't we do it all the time.
Speaker 1: But if she were comfortable, I would say come and
Speaker 1: but it's fine, we're on the go. But what I
Speaker 1: want to talk to you about today. There's no secret.
Speaker 1: Life is life and for a lot of folks out here. Okay,
Speaker 1: I was talking, Charlotte said, I can talk. Okay, y'all
Speaker 1: want to talk to my sister. I'm gonna call her
Speaker 1: right now now. She's driving. Luckily, I know she'll be
Speaker 1: able to hear me. Let's just see how this goes.
Speaker 1: I'm calling Charlotte right now, y'all hear the phone ringing?
Speaker 1: Hold on one second, Chuck, Yeah, Hello, Hello, is this Carlota? Oh?
Speaker 1: Is the service bad?
Speaker 4: Is it?
Speaker 3: Am?
Speaker 4: I coming in clearly?
Speaker 1: Now I can hear you. Is this safe to talk
Speaker 1: to you while you're driving on the road?
Speaker 4: I think so.
Speaker 1: I'm all right, Well we cut at the right time.
Speaker 1: I'm glad you told me. Now. At any point, if
Speaker 1: it does come back, just let me know if you
Speaker 1: can't hear me.
Speaker 4: Well, I'm getting a little feedback.
Speaker 1: And so, oh did you cut off the Facebook? Are
Speaker 1: you still watching me on Facebook? Well?
Speaker 4: Yes, I am. Let me cut off there, Yeah.
Speaker 1: Cut off off the Facebook. You gotta cut off the Facebook.
Speaker 4: Now.
Speaker 1: I was gonna have it where because I'm hoping when
Speaker 1: the caller's calling, you should be able to hear. We
Speaker 1: should be good. We're working okay, So now is there
Speaker 1: any feedback? Now everything's okay, perfect. So now we're in
Speaker 1: the last thirty minutes of the show. And so I
Speaker 1: was briefly teasing how I had a conversation or how
Speaker 1: we were talking last night, and we talked about an
Speaker 1: array of things. We talked about trauma, what it was like,
Speaker 1: whether or not folks talked about it, and the whole
Speaker 1: idea of talking too much and telling your business but
Speaker 1: being able to lie into positivity with ourselves. I'm going everywhere, Charlotte,
Speaker 1: help me out here.
Speaker 3: All we talked about self talk and how self talk
Speaker 3: you have to There are five steps, and please don't
Speaker 3: quote me. I don't have all the steps, but once
Speaker 3: you get through the steps, it is telling.
Speaker 4: Yourself I am great.
Speaker 3: Even if you don't think you're great. You keep telling
Speaker 3: yourself until you believe it. Or I have quit a
Speaker 3: habit where there it's smoking or eating sweets. I don't
Speaker 3: eat those anymore. I don't desire those things anymore. And
Speaker 3: if you do, is still desire those things. So that's
Speaker 3: what we were talking about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it stemmed over because I had once to
Speaker 1: get my hair to everybody like ding you got your hair? Yes,
Speaker 1: I went to Joel Off. If you didn't catch it
Speaker 1: too late, I'm not giving free advertising. We need to
Speaker 1: talk about payment later anyway. And I came across f
Speaker 1: FM dial listener April, and I hadn't seen her in
Speaker 1: a while, and I said, you know how you doing?
Speaker 1: She said, life has been lifing and that has been
Speaker 1: a tagline that so many of us have experienced, that
Speaker 1: life is life and and it's just, without going too
Speaker 1: much in information, a relationship somebody near and dear with
Speaker 1: to her, it was strained and she was working on
Speaker 1: repairing it, and she realized there was so much friction
Speaker 1: between this relationship because of this said individual, This loved
Speaker 1: one was actually depressed, actually grew up in some trauma.
Speaker 1: And we talked about how the self talk correlates with
Speaker 1: that is more so because one being honest about what
Speaker 1: we've experienced. Two on when life is not feeling its best,
Speaker 1: how do you put yourself in the self talk to
Speaker 1: make sure that you can optimistically go throughout. But here's
Speaker 1: the thing, Charlotte, a lot of us aren't talking now.
Speaker 1: I know that you studied psychology in school, so you
Speaker 1: have a bit of a background on that. What is
Speaker 1: your thoughts on that? What are your thoughts?
Speaker 3: I think the hardest thing to do is looking in
Speaker 3: the mirror and admitting your faults and when.
Speaker 4: You were wrong.
Speaker 3: And I heard you talk about forgiving ourselves and also
Speaker 3: forgiving others. Sometimes they're when we start unpacking things, there
Speaker 3: are things that come.
Speaker 4: Up that we had no idea that we're there.
Speaker 3: And I often liking it to like I don't know,
Speaker 3: going on vacation and you come home, maybe you leave
Speaker 3: your suitcase for a few days. Some people unpack as
Speaker 3: soon as they get home. Some people wait a minute
Speaker 3: and you start unpacking that suitcase and next thing.
Speaker 4: You know, you find a shirt that you forgot you had.
Speaker 3: Maybe you looked forward and put it behind, But now
Speaker 3: this shirt is there. And that's the same thing with
Speaker 3: our emotions and dealing with the man or woman in
Speaker 3: the mirror.
Speaker 1: Now, for those who are listening and even those who
Speaker 1: are watching right now, y'all didn't have to pack a
Speaker 1: bag before. Right, you've went on vacation, you've traveled somewhere.
Speaker 1: Now you've gotten back to said start wherever you start at,
Speaker 1: whether that's home, and you've left the suitcase on the
Speaker 1: ground because you don't feel like getting into it. Perhaps
Speaker 1: you're in a brush, you got something else to do,
Speaker 1: and you realize it just stays stuck in there, and
Speaker 1: you're constantly trying to find stuff, throwing stuff around, moving
Speaker 1: things around, trying to find something. Heck, you probably even
Speaker 1: forgot that you got things right there. It's collecting dust,
Speaker 1: it's getting in the way, it's causing clutter, and most importantly,
Speaker 1: it's causing confusion.
Speaker 3: Can anybody do that with our emotions? Sorry to interject,
Speaker 3: We do that with our emotions often.
Speaker 1: Hey, uncle Michael, Yes, we do this, so with emotions.
Speaker 1: Why is that?
Speaker 3: Because it's hard to face the things that bother us.
Speaker 3: It's hard to face it's hard to be honest with
Speaker 3: yourself and say, you know what, I shouldn't have done that,
Speaker 3: or you know what I was wrong? And this year
Speaker 3: especially I know with myself. I've we talked about this
Speaker 3: last night. Just being vulnerable, it's uncomfortable. It feels naked.
Speaker 3: It's like walking outside without your clothes on. And whereas
Speaker 3: for some that could be freeing, for others you feel
Speaker 3: completely exposed and that's uncomfortable.
Speaker 4: Who wants to be uncomfortable? I certainly don't.
Speaker 3: But in order to grow, we have to The most
Speaker 3: beautiful things go through the most pressure.
Speaker 4: We've all heard that before. Diamonds.
Speaker 3: I mean, look at am. I can't think of the flower,
Speaker 3: but it grows in the mud.
Speaker 1: Oh it is. I was thinking of the rolls that
Speaker 1: think from the concrete, but I don't know about the
Speaker 1: flowers that concrete.
Speaker 3: There are a different things that go through a lot,
Speaker 3: and they're some of the most beautiful things. Some of
Speaker 3: the most beautiful and colorful things are the most poisonous.
Speaker 4: I want to go down the rabbit hole.
Speaker 3: But just highlighting the fact that we, like you said,
Speaker 3: life is lifing, and when life gets to lifing, we
Speaker 3: have to look at ourselves.
Speaker 4: And say, hey, what do I need to do differently?
Speaker 3: And sometimes those things catch up with us and it's
Speaker 3: decisions that we've made, things that we said, people that
Speaker 3: we've let go, or people we need to let go.
Speaker 3: And it can get rough, it gets tough, but that's
Speaker 3: when you really have to pull your bootstraps on and
Speaker 3: sometimes it's hard and say I'm going to be intentional
Speaker 3: about today and I'm going to do this today and
Speaker 3: set yourself up for success.
Speaker 1: And doing that self talk that you initially talked about
Speaker 1: about being delusional. What it is that you want? You
Speaker 1: gotta be outside of your mind for your dreams. When
Speaker 1: you're looking around and with the results that you cannot see,
Speaker 1: you got to rely on them. Vision. What is that vision?
Speaker 1: What is that moment? What does that serene feel that
Speaker 1: you feel when you've ualize the life that you want?
Speaker 1: And something else that you said, Uncle Mike Goldlanda, Linda Deborah,
Speaker 1: Everybody says they lovest thank you guys.
Speaker 4: What all?
Speaker 1: Charlotte says all? I think it's also a thing that
Speaker 1: we don't do enough. And I know we got a
Speaker 1: couple of generations on here, and I hope that you
Speaker 1: know we still have the phone lines open for anyone
Speaker 1: to call and join the conversation with Charlotte and I.
Speaker 1: It's eight one, eight four six fifty four thirty two.
Speaker 1: One thing that I don't feel as though we're talking
Speaker 1: about enough is the fact that there isn't enough talking.
Speaker 1: Growing up, you always say keep your business to yourself.
Speaker 1: Everybody ain't gotta know your business. Don't tell anybody your businesses.
Speaker 1: They gonna wish negativity on you. Now. I know we
Speaker 1: were talking about this there'sn't two folds of this. Ain't
Speaker 1: no sense of talking about the milk that been spilled over,
Speaker 1: especially if you wanted to be clean up. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, we need to visualize it cleaned up,
Speaker 1: act like it's cleaned up, walk and talk like it's
Speaker 1: cleaned up, so that it can be cleaned up. Charlotte can.
Speaker 4: Talk about it, clean it up.
Speaker 3: Like you said, there's no sense in crying over spilled milk.
Speaker 3: But at the same time, sometimes that's spilled milk, there's
Speaker 3: still some milk and the cracks and the crevices, and
Speaker 3: it starts to smell, and it's like, well, what is that?
Speaker 4: What is that? I smell something? Using an analogy, but
Speaker 4: I smell something. It's like I cleaned it up, but
Speaker 4: it's still there.
Speaker 3: Because you never You didn't you didn't clean you wiped
Speaker 3: it up just a little bit.
Speaker 4: You just grazed over it. You didn't get down on
Speaker 4: your knees and really scrub. So if we're if we're
Speaker 4: liking it.
Speaker 3: To to spilled milk, so when that milk spilled, we
Speaker 3: really got to get it up because we know milk
Speaker 3: can spit smell if it sits for too long.
Speaker 1: Yes, it can.
Speaker 3: It's really getting down to the nitty gritty and and
Speaker 3: and like going back to that suitcase. When you start
Speaker 3: unpacking things, then you realize, well that really bothers me,
Speaker 3: bothered me, and being brave enough, I know I have
Speaker 3: avoided conversations, things that have hurt me, things that have
Speaker 3: bothered me, people that for whatever reason. But that's not
Speaker 3: a healthy way of living because you're carrying you think
Speaker 3: you're getting rid of the baggage, but you're actually just
Speaker 3: carrying it with you into the next phase of life.
Speaker 1: Bad lady, I'm sorry.
Speaker 12: Go ahead, yes, bag lady, you you hurt joke back
Speaker 12: dragon dragging, nolling back like like.
Speaker 1: That, because I guess nobody was.
Speaker 4: Nobody ever told you.
Speaker 1: Okay, so I want to mess you up, but all
Speaker 1: you must hold on to is you. And I'm looking
Speaker 1: at a comment. I have a listener. If you are
Speaker 1: commented right now, Natasha Jackson, and longbe says in my time,
Speaker 1: this is nineteen seventy six. Children must be seen but
Speaker 1: not heard.
Speaker 4: And not heard and that is a that is a
Speaker 4: generational curse.
Speaker 1: That was heavy and I felt it because I was
Speaker 1: just talking to Eddie. You're over here, at the station,
Speaker 1: at the studio, at the office, and he was saying
Speaker 1: that at time, we lacked patience, so we wanted them
Speaker 1: the hush. So now we're in the area era where
Speaker 1: we have patients and we're asking children how they feel.
Speaker 1: But when they tell us, we still tell them, well,
Speaker 1: you're too young to understand.
Speaker 4: You know, why would you like to know why?
Speaker 1: I want to know why? Do y'all want to know why?
Speaker 3: Because we do not have the work, We don't understand.
Speaker 3: We haven't explored those feelings. So how can we teach
Speaker 3: somebody else to explore feelings that we haven't explored ourselves?
Speaker 1: Wake up, everybody, I didn't normal sleep in them beds.
Speaker 3: So as adults, if we want to impart that knowledge
Speaker 3: to our younger generations, we have to allow them. Oftentimes,
Speaker 3: I know my children, they are their emotional intelligence.
Speaker 4: I'm impressed with it a lot.
Speaker 3: And that's what a lot of us adults lack, is
Speaker 3: emotional intelligence, because we've been like we've been taught, well,
Speaker 3: you don't don't say stay in a child's place, Well,
Speaker 3: where is a child's place?
Speaker 1: Where is the damn child's play side?
Speaker 4: Now, of course you respect your elders.
Speaker 3: I believe in that, but at the same time, me
Speaker 3: respecting my elders and I know I'm gonna get some
Speaker 3: might get some pushback on this, but that doesn't mean
Speaker 3: I don't get to tell you how I feel.
Speaker 1: Well, what do you mean by that?
Speaker 4: In a respectful way? Like I should be able My
Speaker 4: children should.
Speaker 3: Be able to come to me and say, you know, mommy,
Speaker 3: that bothered me and we have a conversation about it,
Speaker 3: instead of me being offended and saying, well, how dare
Speaker 3: you come to me as your mother and tell me
Speaker 3: something bothered you. I'm the adult in this situation when
Speaker 3: really you're just You're that's that scared child coming out
Speaker 3: being afraid to face something that you maybe you did wrong.
Speaker 1: And the last thing we want to hear is that
Speaker 1: something's wrong with us. Do you think perhaps that's even
Speaker 1: another reason why we don't talk to therapist, while we
Speaker 1: don't seek therapy, while we are afraid of counseling.
Speaker 4: And the stigma.
Speaker 3: Do you have to admit that you have a problem
Speaker 3: or something is bothering you, or something is wrong to
Speaker 3: even seek out speaking to another person about it and
Speaker 3: unpacking that suitcase that you know dog gone?
Speaker 4: Well, you should have unpacked weeks ago.
Speaker 1: And here's the thing, Charlot, I love how you're using
Speaker 1: the analogy about this suitcase, because what we realize is
Speaker 1: that we keep carrying the baggage to every new chapter
Speaker 1: of our life, wondering why we keep hitting the same wall,
Speaker 1: wondering why we keep ourselves in the same situations, why
Speaker 1: we keep feeling the way we feel. And we said, dang,
Speaker 1: I've been going through this for how long? Well, guess
Speaker 1: what did you unpack?
Speaker 4: Your changed anything?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 4: My god?
Speaker 1: And here can we just be honest on another front too? Don't?
Speaker 1: And I say this to you as I say this
Speaker 1: to myself. I do. And I say, not you, Charlotte,
Speaker 1: but people whoever, y'all know what the deal is. When
Speaker 1: you are truly ready to change, you will change. I
Speaker 1: don't give it that you have a choice. You won't
Speaker 1: have a choice now. It just depends on how hot
Speaker 1: you need it to get, how much pressure you need
Speaker 1: to be placed on your neck for you to change.
Speaker 1: I don't know why it's so dramatic, Charlotte. I don't know.
Speaker 4: Well, you know that's don day, all day.
Speaker 1: Every day, you know. I see you guys in the
Speaker 1: chat commentsing I'm want to welcome you all to call
Speaker 1: in the studio. Let's all get a three way talk
Speaker 1: to my sister, talk to me, call me right now.
Speaker 1: Eight one eight four, six one fifty four thirty two
Speaker 1: eight one eight four sixty one fifty four to thirty two.
Speaker 1: I don't care which generation you're a part of. I
Speaker 1: would love to hear for you to share your ex
Speaker 1: being told to stay in the child's face, being told
Speaker 1: or being able to feel that you should not speak
Speaker 1: your emotions, and perhaps let us know how this affected you.
Speaker 1: Do you have any other children in your life in
Speaker 1: which you found that to be affected them in a
Speaker 1: kind of negative way. I want to welcome it only
Speaker 1: if you're ready for a real conversation, because at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, life is life, and people are
Speaker 1: going through some things. And until we get to a
Speaker 1: point of just talking collectively, until we get to a
Speaker 1: point to all of us start talking, we will not
Speaker 1: start healing. And we understand in order to heal, we
Speaker 1: gotta feel, point blank period and feel. But I don't
Speaker 1: always feel good, and that's the thing's the part. But
Speaker 1: it was kind of like what you said, like even
Speaker 1: in the wound, oftentimes what we have to realize that
Speaker 1: we will experience that even in a wound that is healing,
Speaker 1: you have to allow air to let it be through.
Speaker 1: And it's gonna get itchy. I mean, it's going to
Speaker 1: be irritating because you're gonna start looking in the areas
Speaker 1: where you don't want to shed the light at You're
Speaker 1: gonna start looking or having to look in the areas
Speaker 1: that are uncomfortable. You're gonna have to put in the
Speaker 1: laborer's work of literally lifting and unpacking that suitcase. And
Speaker 1: if you got some clothes in there, are you ready
Speaker 1: to wash them? Catch you, Chuck. You keep saying we
Speaker 1: having a good conversation. Chuck called me in the studio, Brenda,
Speaker 1: express yourself helping somebody? Yes, why can't I hear her
Speaker 1: saying no, uh uh, express yourself. Indeed, I want to
Speaker 1: open that up before we wrap up out of here.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for that conversation, because what we
Speaker 1: realize in this lack of conversation, how many of us
Speaker 1: have grown up in households where people that are guardians,
Speaker 1: people that are responsible for taking care of us are
Speaker 1: literally depressed, and we don't understand why the temper We
Speaker 1: don't understand why the house is in normal We don't
Speaker 1: understand why we don't go anywhere and why opportunities aren't presented,
Speaker 1: simply because, like you said, we haven't done and work
Speaker 1: within ourselves to figure out what's going on.
Speaker 3: And let's not forget that that little kid that was
Speaker 3: told to stay in their place, who maybe for one
Speaker 3: reason or another and was raised in these environments that
Speaker 3: you speak of, that child just gets larger and more
Speaker 3: responsibilities are placed upon them.
Speaker 4: We're all just we're still that sane person.
Speaker 3: Of course, life experiences, we've gotten older, we've learned other things,
Speaker 3: but have we learned emotionally how to function? And that
Speaker 3: is what it's often missing. We hear about childhood trauma,
Speaker 3: childhood trauma at nauseum, but I think it does need
Speaker 3: to be talked about and it does need to be
Speaker 3: ran into the ground because we often we're just that
Speaker 3: little that little girl who've grown up maybe suppress some things,
Speaker 3: and it comes out in our action, that comes out
Speaker 3: in our decision making. And not until you start talking
Speaker 3: to a therapist or unpacking that suitcase or even seeking
Speaker 3: out a trusted friend, you've realized, like, my goodness, this
Speaker 3: stems from a long, long time ago.
Speaker 1: And even though I talked about before about giving grace
Speaker 1: and space and realizing this isn't going to be the
Speaker 1: next Bay thing, you spend thirty, forty, fifty, sixty, even
Speaker 1: seventy years dealing with the same thing. All right, Charlotte,
Speaker 1: we got a call. Oh talk to me, is Chuck?
Speaker 1: Is this shoe?
Speaker 13: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Chuck?
Speaker 1: Hy Chuck, Charlotte. Can you hear Chuck?
Speaker 13: Hi?
Speaker 1: Chuck?
Speaker 4: I can't, Chuck.
Speaker 9: Let me think, Let me get off Liave. Okay, So
Speaker 9: can y'all hear my building?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we can hear you. Can you hear it?
Speaker 3: Here?
Speaker 13: You go hear y'all?
Speaker 6: Pretty well?
Speaker 1: All right, Chuck? What you got to say, Chuck about
Speaker 1: this topic of self talk and healing within our family?
Speaker 9: So when I when I'm from the South, so I'm
Speaker 9: from Georgia. We were younger, you know, uh my mom
Speaker 9: was always say, you know, listen to grown folks. You know,
Speaker 9: it doesn't matter. They'll stop us from talking. Even if
Speaker 9: you try to talk, you know, you're being rude and
Speaker 9: disrespredfl But as as we got older and my sons
Speaker 9: and our grandchildren started doing it, you know, they kind
Speaker 9: of leading it back off of it. Mm hm, so
Speaker 9: you know, and and that and that kind of confused
Speaker 9: me because when we were younger, it's like our carears
Speaker 9: was more script on this than they do. The grandchildren now, well.
Speaker 3: For sure, because they've they've they've learned more, their patience
Speaker 3: has gotten greater. As Don talked about patients, Yeah, they
Speaker 3: see the world differently.
Speaker 9: Hey you're yeah, you're right.
Speaker 1: And how does that feeling?
Speaker 9: What you say?
Speaker 1: How does that have you feeling right now? Chuck? I
Speaker 1: think you might still have Do you have me still
Speaker 1: open on Facebook? Cause I think I hear a bit
Speaker 1: of a reverb.
Speaker 9: No, I don't have you open on facebo.
Speaker 1: Okay, So how does that make you feel now? Do
Speaker 1: you feel as though that has effected you as an
Speaker 1: adult as far as healing communication? I don't know if
Speaker 1: you have children, so you.
Speaker 4: Know I do.
Speaker 9: I have a son and a daughter, and also, you know,
Speaker 9: the thing is with them, it's like it's like I
Speaker 9: try these sometimes I do get winged off and do
Speaker 9: things my parents taught me how to do it, and then
Speaker 9: I kind of be a little lenient now, you know,
Speaker 9: as my kids got older, So that's I saw it
Speaker 9: doing a little thing diversing them in a different way.
Speaker 9: So it didn't It helped me, but it didn't really
Speaker 9: hurt me.
Speaker 8: I wouldn't say it hurt me because just like the
Speaker 8: thing is, my parents instilled in me in a good way,
Speaker 8: so I wouldn't look at that as a bad thing.
Speaker 8: And then I say it. But the only reason I
Speaker 8: say that.
Speaker 9: Is because it's like, you know, back then versus now
Speaker 9: is a whole different generation.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 4: You see that.
Speaker 3: You recognize that that's the difference, So you see it.
Speaker 3: It's just like any lesson that we've learned. I don't
Speaker 3: like the way that feels, so you might do things differently.
Speaker 3: Not that it harmed you, but you recognized.
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't like that. I might tweak some things.
Speaker 3: I might take a little bit from here and a
Speaker 3: little bit from there and put it all together.
Speaker 9: Yeah, you're right.
Speaker 1: Think of it like a recipe. We're all trying to
Speaker 1: get the recipe over for this.
Speaker 4: You took the word, and.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's gonna require you to put a little bit
Speaker 1: more water, maybe put some in the dry it out.
Speaker 1: It may take it that it has to rest a
Speaker 1: little bit, or maybe you got to step into fire
Speaker 1: and put it under the heat, but let you know
Speaker 1: that the end result is going to be amazing. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much, Chuck, Yeah, thank you too.
Speaker 4: All Right, the great evening.
Speaker 8: You have a good night.
Speaker 1: Good night you too.
Speaker 4: All right, bye bye.
Speaker 1: Now we can always rely on check. That was a
Speaker 1: great comments. You know, somebody that's coming from vulnerability, coming
Speaker 1: from down the south. I saw my aunt Linda was
Speaker 1: on here, on Brenda was on here. So you guys,
Speaker 1: I'm sure definitely different generations of what we talked about
Speaker 1: and we didn't talk about. And realizing that these traumas,
Speaker 1: these secrets, they pass on from generation to generation. But
Speaker 1: whind dos it stop? And you know, just to be honest, Charlie,
Speaker 1: you know, I think we do need to make room
Speaker 1: for the little child that was affected and understanding that
Speaker 1: the comprehension of that that hurt is from the little
Speaker 1: child's point of view. But we do have to step
Speaker 1: and walk into the adult and realize that now it's
Speaker 1: our responsibility to be the change that we want to see.
Speaker 3: Amen, you cannot use that as an excuse, but Tama,
Speaker 3: the way it affects that, I'm not I won't go
Speaker 3: down that rabbit hole either, but I'm just gonna make
Speaker 3: this comment.
Speaker 4: The way it affects the brain.
Speaker 3: It literally can't affect the electrical synapses in your brain literally,
Speaker 3: so you can be stuck.
Speaker 4: But that doesn't mean oh.
Speaker 3: Well, this happened when I was a kid, So that's
Speaker 3: why I recognize that and worked through it.
Speaker 1: I think we got another call, not a crutch talk to.
Speaker 11: Me, Hello, Hello, I can't hear you.
Speaker 1: Somebody from Alabama. I saw two five six, going to
Speaker 1: need you to call again. I'm not sure it's I
Speaker 1: think two five six is up.
Speaker 4: Let me say, no, Tita, try calling.
Speaker 1: Let me see that is and I'll.
Speaker 4: Say this gone there. Conversation that I've avoided. I said
Speaker 4: that earlier.
Speaker 1: I know I had to face some head on, like
Speaker 1: even today, I felt uncomfortable, but I had to share
Speaker 1: where It's kind of like I was in a role
Speaker 1: for something and I would have uncomfortable that somebody called
Speaker 1: me out. Was like, down, you were wrong on that.
Speaker 1: Let's see Hello, Hello, are you watching? They must be
Speaker 1: watching the Hello hello, hello.
Speaker 9: Hello, Yes, this is Linda.
Speaker 7: Hey, Hello, how are you You know?
Speaker 13: This goes for young people and old people. Clean it up.
Speaker 13: Clean it up because it hurts. It hurts older people.
Speaker 13: It hurts the young people. So when is it going
Speaker 13: to stop? And you know we talk about generation generational curses.
Speaker 13: We were gonna clean it up, right, we clean and
Speaker 13: then you know I was sitting here listening. I can't
Speaker 13: I can't see you now, but I was sitting here
Speaker 13: just listening to Charlotte and I was listening to the
Speaker 13: hun day. We got to clean it up, thank you.
Speaker 13: You know I hurt today. I hurt m h. And
Speaker 13: it's not good. You know, we get depressed and we
Speaker 13: just come down, but you know we get back up.
Speaker 13: God brings us back up. So I just want you
Speaker 13: to know, Charlotte, I love you, I love you.
Speaker 1: I love you too. I London. Just for the listeners
Speaker 1: who may not know, just give us an idea. What
Speaker 1: is your generation that you grew up in? Like what
Speaker 1: was the time period?
Speaker 13: Well, I will tell you how old I am. I
Speaker 13: am seventy six years old, are you right? I am
Speaker 13: seventy six?
Speaker 1: So you know, and you just said something important. You
Speaker 1: said you're still hurting. So there are things that happened
Speaker 1: to you in your childhood that us seventy six are
Speaker 1: still experiencing.
Speaker 13: What no, no, But it's just things that are happening today.
Speaker 9: That hurts, and.
Speaker 13: Yeah it's still it hurts, and things that happen well
Speaker 13: not I can't picture anything that happened in my childhood
Speaker 13: that's hurt me today. I'm just talking about just daily,
Speaker 13: daily living things that are happening today, things that happened yesterday,
Speaker 13: things that may have happened last year. Mm hmm. It's
Speaker 13: just a it can go way back. But uh, I
Speaker 13: can't say that there was anything that happened in my
Speaker 13: childhood that I'm hurting from. However, I will say this,
Speaker 13: things that are happening today, well, it just goes on
Speaker 13: and on, it goes home out and you know, depression
Speaker 13: brings a lot. You know people people don't look at depression,
Speaker 13: but what just they do because it's been talked about
Speaker 13: a lot. Depression is an illness.
Speaker 4: And that you cannot help.
Speaker 13: Right. Yeah. So anyway, I just wanted to call Agen
Speaker 13: to let you know that I want listening and I
Speaker 13: thank you. Yeah, like I said, not just with the
Speaker 13: young people, are the general.
Speaker 8: Uh.
Speaker 13: Anyway, it's all good, it's not good. Anyway. I want
Speaker 13: y'all to know, love you much, keep it up, keep
Speaker 13: it up, and.
Speaker 4: Love you too.
Speaker 1: I'll let you all go all right, love you, I'm
Speaker 1: loved to thank you, love you.
Speaker 4: The next time, Yes, till the next time. That's what
Speaker 4: she's saying.
Speaker 1: That's down there at Baoma. Now, that's it's something interesting
Speaker 1: to say. And I'm so glad that we have generations
Speaker 1: from different realms of spec yeah, to just really talk
Speaker 1: about like this is real and how we got to
Speaker 1: sit down and I'm just so glad that it's not
Speaker 1: the whole thing like how we started out. Go stay
Speaker 1: in the child place, go stand in the corner, don't
Speaker 1: say nothing to nobody else. We having some real conversation.
Speaker 1: So thank you so much.
Speaker 4: Clean it up.
Speaker 1: But she said clean it up, clean it up, and
Speaker 1: you might have to get on your knees. You might
Speaker 1: have to get club scrub that because, like you said,
Speaker 1: if you spilled some milk, you wonder where the funk
Speaker 1: coming from.
Speaker 4: But it's up in the cracks.
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to open it up. Almost have to
Speaker 1: go talk to my sister.
Speaker 4: Girl.
Speaker 7: Hey up, the girl, this is not Brendan. You know,
Speaker 7: I'm gonna keep read. In order for you to know something,
Speaker 7: you got to tell somebody something.
Speaker 10: And then when you know better.
Speaker 6: You can do better.
Speaker 7: And sometimes when you be trying to send something, somebody says, MP,
Speaker 7: shut up. So you be speaking all these things in
Speaker 7: your mind. But and you said, you got to press
Speaker 7: down to stand up. And when you stand up.
Speaker 9: You're gonna look up.
Speaker 10: And when you look up, look somebody straight in the face, eyebile, eyeballs,
Speaker 10: and say what you gotta say. It's all about freedom,
Speaker 10: because we ain't going back.
Speaker 1: That's what we know.
Speaker 7: It's a new day.
Speaker 10: It's a new time.
Speaker 9: It's a new generation.
Speaker 7: And these young curre these days, they speak.
Speaker 6: Their mind and they chad it like it is. They
Speaker 6: had all.
Speaker 10: This this internet and they know how they work those
Speaker 10: computers and get all the information and everything.
Speaker 7: I tell you one thing, we have some small young
Speaker 7: people rising up now.
Speaker 1: And it's a new generation.
Speaker 6: We ain't taking them stuff.
Speaker 7: Nobody's gonna step on your toes and they expect you
Speaker 7: not to holler, or we're gonna holler and say something.
Speaker 10: Right, it's having to holler there aloud. It's all gonna
Speaker 10: be pround. Yeah, black and white.
Speaker 7: They're all pressures in this sight.
Speaker 4: Hey god.
Speaker 6: As us girl, break it down deep.
Speaker 11: Pay yeah, show you right, that is you.
Speaker 10: Already know the rest of the story.
Speaker 7: Show your right for real, real, it's the real deal.
Speaker 1: Look they throwing up, they said I love her. They
Speaker 1: didn't listen.
Speaker 6: O love joy peace in heavens. Oh so.
Speaker 7: We all got a store. It needs to be jop
Speaker 7: story like you have to reach out your mattery.
Speaker 9: You got to reach out the matter with vitamin de pa.
Speaker 1: You better talk that talk baby.
Speaker 7: You couldn't.
Speaker 1: Okay, you can't survive.
Speaker 10: You already know real deal. I just have to holler.
Speaker 4: At the girl.
Speaker 1: All right, sister girl, thank you for calling here.
Speaker 4: I love you.
Speaker 1: You're right here, You're right, blow your mind all the time.
Speaker 1: That's Brenda Joyce. Oh so fine. Happy birthday to miss aunt.
Speaker 1: Brenda turned seventy five. Was it Saturday or Friday, which
Speaker 1: is in the last week, but then the happy belated birthday. Well,
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed this conversation. Thank you so much Pearlan
Speaker 1: for calling in. Of course, you know this is really imprompted,
Speaker 1: of course, and you know we gotta do it again.
Speaker 1: And you know, have one of the topics. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna be driving, you'll be able to be you know,
Speaker 1: doing whatever. But I think it was great and refreshing
Speaker 1: to hear the voice and then it definitely have family
Speaker 1: call in.
Speaker 3: So that was good, amen, it was it was put
Speaker 3: some things into perspective.
Speaker 1: Mm hm. Now we only don't just watch what we have.
Speaker 1: We need to listen, and so I want to thank
Speaker 1: all of you for tuning in and pulling up on
Speaker 1: some Vitamin D. Now I told you this is what
Speaker 1: we're gonna do Tuesdays and Thursdays, live at five not
Speaker 1: din stretch it out today. So we on Facebook, they
Speaker 1: also looking at us on the YouTube. Then we're gonna
Speaker 1: go to the IG. But it's happening. What do I say,
Speaker 1: inch by inch life's a sench yard by yard life
Speaker 1: is hard. I think it's a good time to live
Speaker 1: on purpose and for a purpose. So I want to
Speaker 1: welcome you. If you felt inspired, if you felt entertained,
Speaker 1: if you felt like you got some information, can you
Speaker 1: tell somebody to tell somebody to tell somebody else to
Speaker 1: Dawn Day got a podcast and it's Live Vitamin D
Speaker 1: with Dawn Day. You can play back and listen wherever
Speaker 1: you may be. It would mean the world to me
Speaker 1: because it's my baby. And also if you would like
Speaker 1: to be a guest or you have any interest of
Speaker 1: being a guest, I want to encourage you to send
Speaker 1: me an email Vitamin D at dawn Dai speaks dot com.
Speaker 1: I said, it's Vitamin D at dawn Dai speaks dot com.
Speaker 1: I would love to hear from you, and thank you
Speaker 1: so much to my sister Charlotte who joined on. Charlotte,
Speaker 1: now you're the first guest that I've actually had or
Speaker 1: another person you know as a guest there. Of course,
Speaker 1: so I do this thing and I'm gonna continue to
Speaker 1: do this. If you have somebody I don't know, just
Speaker 1: let me know. Is there anybody that you would like
Speaker 1: to pass the baton to who you would like to
Speaker 1: reach out that perhaps have a good message, a good word,
Speaker 1: or just a great guest to be on Vitamin D.
Speaker 4: Let me ponder on that. All right, Well, are you
Speaker 4: urry on the spot real quick?
Speaker 1: You got to step into the life babbay All right?
Speaker 1: But Charlotte, you are in Michigan and you have your
Speaker 1: own hair business. You are a hairstylist amongst other things.
Speaker 1: Where can the good people follow you and to book
Speaker 1: you for your services?
Speaker 4: Now?
Speaker 1: Notice, if you give your number out there, the whole
Speaker 1: world won't know it.
Speaker 14: But if people do kissing my number out okay, but
Speaker 14: they can follow me on Instagram at the hair Snob,
Speaker 14: at the Underscore Hair Underscore Snob and I am local
Speaker 14: in downtown Royal Lake.
Speaker 1: And is there a Google Voice number or any number
Speaker 1: that can call you just now it if they wanted
Speaker 1: to make it, they want.
Speaker 4: To actually reach out to me.
Speaker 3: There's a contact button on my Instagram page and you
Speaker 3: can press that button and contact me there or DM me.
Speaker 3: I just give me at least twenty four hours to
Speaker 3: get back to you.
Speaker 1: All right. There you have it. If you're in Lost,
Speaker 1: if you're in Detroit, if you're in the Detroit metro area,
Speaker 1: in rural log I'll reach out to the hair Snap.
Speaker 1: That's the Underscore Hair Underscore Snap. Her name is Charlotte
Speaker 1: Henry and yeh, she can get you hooked up from
Speaker 1: your neck up. Okay, hi yah? Latasha said, will you
Speaker 1: come to California? Latasha want you to get the hair done?
Speaker 1: Recy coming in mad late Recy. We about to go, girl,
Speaker 1: You want to say how to recy? Racy is watching Racy?
Speaker 1: She said, Hey, hey girl, Hey, so I'm Donda and
Speaker 1: it's time to call it a day again. Thank you
Speaker 1: so much and make sure you see the email. Thank you, Charlott.
Speaker 1: We fight for the dream. Thank you, thank you.
Speaker 4: It's gonna be great.
Speaker 1: It is great, right because we said that's ourself talk.
Speaker 4: Right, Yes, it is great.
Speaker 1: Speak it as it is, speak it as it is.
Speaker 1: So uh you guys, thank you so much. I told
Speaker 1: you we're gonna be live at five Tuesdays and Thursdays.
Speaker 1: Make sure you get those resources and information. Make sure
Speaker 1: you keep inspiring, and make sure you remember to take
Speaker 1: a chance on yourself because we here for a good time,
Speaker 1: not a long time.
Speaker 13: Now.
Speaker 1: If you want to keep up with us and keep
Speaker 1: up with everything we're doing with Vitamin D, make sure
Speaker 1: you check us out on all platforms Vitamin D with
Speaker 1: Dawn Day, follow on social media at Vitamin D Dawn Day.
Speaker 1: And if you want your own personal Vitamin D that
Speaker 1: be me, baby, you can follow me on all social
Speaker 1: media at dawn D A I speaks, you know. I
Speaker 1: always say I'm in the business of making dreams come
Speaker 1: true and I damn show ain't gonna forget about mine.
Speaker 1: So until next family, always remember you are your greatest
Speaker 1: bass at
Speaker 2: Get your item, Indy right here with me and get
Speaker 2: excited about your life,