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Speaker 1: Actually did they lose a bet or something? Am I

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Speaker 1: for our listener, Damon, he looked right past those blaring

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. What type of date was it?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 4: I was on a dating app with this girl, Marissa,

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Speaker 1: Contradictory date? What is that date?

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Speaker 2: Like you do opposite things, You eat dessert and then

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Speaker 4: It was?

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Speaker 4: It was weird. I had no idea what I was

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Speaker 5: So is she telling you a little offensive to you? Yeah,

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Speaker 4: So that's the thing, is like, Yeah, it was kind

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Speaker 2: Mean I could see where like you've been doing the

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Speaker 5: These apps, so let me do the good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well she did say that I was cute, so

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Speaker 2: She's like, go on a date you Usually I go

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's like going for a person who're not

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Speaker 4: Date, Well, it was like going for a person but

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Speaker 5: Was even the activity atty is supposed to be.

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Speaker 4: Different exactly, So I guess. I mean, like from her

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Speaker 1: If you want to do stuff that you normally don't do,

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Speaker 4: Well no, So she was actually asking me, like, what

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Speaker 1: Okay? All, so maybe it's like Alexus said, it's a

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Speaker 4: So I told her, I mean, you know, at that point,

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Speaker 4: You owe me at this point. How about I get

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Speaker 5: I love that. I mean that's cute.

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Speaker 3: Try to leave it open.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I've been texting her only like once or twice.

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Speaker 5: Once or twice an hour.

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Speaker 6: Like even if she had a bad date, she can

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Speaker 5: Her if you have one bad date, who doesn't want

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I would love a BA date with her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk to her, get her on the phone,

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Speaker 1: Update if you're just joining us. We've been talking to

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Speaker 1: Damon about his contradictory date with Marissa, which is a

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Speaker 2: Oh man, that's a lot of wood. It's there, you know,

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Speaker 2: like maybe we just do the one, not both.

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Speaker 1: Well, like if we were to do that on our show,

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Speaker 1: he'd walk it. Yeah, not even uber eats guy to

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Speaker 1: no so. But our listener Damon was challenged to do

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Speaker 5: Yeah, do you regret Damon?

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Speaker 2: If? Like, because I know now you want her to

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Speaker 5: Like, maybe you should have started with.

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Speaker 2: That, you know what I'm saying, Like the first date

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Speaker 5: Well, it's too late now, bru.

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Speaker 1: Try to read through the pity of what she just said.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like maybe you could have done a

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Speaker 1: So I like that if she didn't like any part

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Speaker 5: Blame your friends.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I wouldn't throw it in her face like that.

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Speaker 1: Well I will. You don't have to. Guy, I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: Have a good Is that what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 1: Well, we'll convince her to take you on the worst

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Speaker 1: to do it. Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Marissa?

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Speaker 1: I it is Hey Marissa. I think that you think

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Speaker 1: But Marissa, you're on the radio right now with a

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Speaker 3: Hi, what's happening right now?

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Speaker 1: What's happening is a segment that we do on the

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Speaker 5: Hey, you're on the show.

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Speaker 2: Show. Okay, try to be pop, jeff it's not coming through.

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Speaker 1: It sounds very sarcastic if I but no, we are.

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Speaker 5: We're all I'm not going to try anymore.

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Speaker 1: That's the spirit broke anyway, Marissa. We actually are excited

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Speaker 1: guy that you went on a date with named Damon.

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Speaker 2: Oh Man, you'd say somebody else's name.

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Speaker 3: At first, I don't know what I was. I was hoping.

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Speaker 3: You guys have caught me so off guard.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's okay. I mean maybe you're just kind of taking.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, we're contacting you for a good reason because

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Speaker 1: Damon said he had a really nice time with you.

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Speaker 1: He actually told us about the whole idea, which we

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Speaker 1: it is kind of silly. We heard about it. It

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Speaker 2: I mean, I gotta say good for you for proposing

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Speaker 3: I felt so bad saying it, but you know, I

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Speaker 3: I actually did have a good time. I mean, this

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Speaker 5: Well that's that's great news.

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Speaker 3: Normally, like it was hanging out, it was watching sports,

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Speaker 2: Was this like something to get you out of your

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I didn't want it to be right.

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Speaker 1: Why aren't you calling Damon back? If you guys had

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Speaker 5: What's embarrassing about it?

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Speaker 3: Well, he's he is normally not not my type. That's

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Speaker 3: Well, when you put it that way, it doesn't sound so.

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Speaker 1: Good, doesn't But that sounds like what you're saying you want.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that what dating should be?

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Speaker 5: You're supposed to be with. I don't know about forever,

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Speaker 3: You saying that, actually scarce, say a lot?

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Speaker 1: Are you doing? Why are you scaring the women on

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Speaker 5: Good just because you like him?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, people for like two years and we're still

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Speaker 3: I mean, like, nothing in my body says like I

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Speaker 4: I'm glad I've made you feel good. I'm sorry that

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Speaker 1: She doesn't want to, she doesn't want to enjoy your time.

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Speaker 3: Scared. Oh boy boy, you are so cute.

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Speaker 7: Are you opening to feel more good in the future,

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Speaker 7: I'm down to have a contradictory date the other way, Yeah, around.

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Speaker 3: Would definitely make me feel more comfortable.

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Speaker 5: One of my sure friends. As the shirt says, don't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, damon, are you capable of that? Can you be

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Speaker 4: I mean, that would be way outside my own comfort zone,

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Speaker 4: and that's not exactly what I had in mind for

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Speaker 4: a contradictory date. But that's what she's into.

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Speaker 5: It's different, that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: It is possible. Like Brooks said that, maybe there's a

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Speaker 5: They do say that, so this contradicting thing may be onto.

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Speaker 1: Something makes me sick to say it. But yeah, you

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering.

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Speaker 4: I'm wondering if Marissa has been out with you before, mister.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's not my type, so yeah, him. Anyway, Look,

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Speaker 1: That's the whole reason that we called you, Marissa. We

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Speaker 5: If you don't say yes, I'm going to call all

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, all my girlfriends are going to start

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Speaker 3: dating this way. This is going to be crazy. I

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Speaker 3: think they would kill me if I if I said no, Gamon,

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Speaker 3: I would like to go on another date with you.

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Speaker 1: It's so cute, It's disgustingly beautiful. Congratulations too.

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Speaker 4: I'm so excited to go on the worst date of

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Speaker 3: I will do whatever I can to make it terrible.

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Speaker 1: This is a come we needed, Yeah, rookie Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Was that the most sweetest, touching second date

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Speaker 1: update we've done all year?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 5: And my soul needed that. It was so good. Look,

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Speaker 5: there's hope for love out there. People don't give up.

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Speaker 5: Try something new, try something different. You can do it right.

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Speaker 1: Tell me you don't want to hear a part three

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Speaker 1: from these two? Get an update update. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if I could stomach it.

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Speaker 5: Unless they go on the second date and it's terrible.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, heartbroken.

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Speaker 5: I want to know is that she gonna have just

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Speaker 5: as much fun as he.

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Speaker 1: This is just making all of our single listeners feel

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Speaker 1: bad listening to stuff like this.

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Speaker 5: Did you give him hope?

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Speaker 1: Nobody wants hope.

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Speaker 6: Yes, Johan, Yeah, Well if you do have any hope left, yikes,

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Speaker 6: But you can always email the show.

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Speaker 1: We'll call that person who's not calling you back. Go

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Speaker 1: check out all of our second dates wherever you get

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Speaker 1: your podcasts at Brooke

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning