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Speaker 1: Metro boomin kiss them all right, thank you for listening

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Speaker 1: to us. I have Emily who's been holding here for

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Speaker 1: a few minutes. So Emily, thank you for reaching out

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Speaker 1: to us on Kiss FM on this Tuesday morning. How

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Speaker 1: are you. I'm okay. I'm kind of in a weird

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Speaker 1: spot right now with my boyfriend. Okay, so they're telling

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Speaker 1: me your boyfriend thinks he's living with you, but he's

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Speaker 1: not your mind, he's just staying with you. What happened?

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Speaker 1: So we started dating a few months ago at the

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Speaker 1: end of last year, and he's been staying at my

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Speaker 1: apartment a lot, because you have three roommates and lives

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Speaker 1: like almost an hour away and I live alone. So

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Speaker 1: it's great and I enjoy having him over. But we

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Speaker 1: were at a party last weekend and he kept staying

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Speaker 1: things like our apartment and our kitchen and talking about

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Speaker 1: like living together, which is not true. Like he doesn't

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Speaker 1: pay me rent, he doesn't help out with utilities, so

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of worried. I'd be worried. Now, what do

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Speaker 1: you like about this guy? I mean, good guy. We

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Speaker 1: like have the same values. I actually like could see

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Speaker 1: myself living with him in the future. But overall, like

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Speaker 1: we aren't living together, and I don't know how to

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Speaker 1: like bring this up to him, like hmm, how long

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Speaker 1: have you guys been together since the end of last

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Speaker 1: year like November? Is there a way too fast? But

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Speaker 1: is there a way to be honest with him? Like

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Speaker 1: can you just in a way that's I think, just

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Speaker 1: correct him every time he says mine, or say every

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Speaker 1: time he says ours, Just say well, this is mine, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is mine. No, no, no, I don't know why

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Speaker 1: in a joking way, no, this is mine, but be

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Speaker 1: like my place, yeah, my place. I just don't want

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Speaker 1: him to like get the like wrong impression that I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't want to in the future, like I don't want

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Speaker 1: to make it like the negative. To just be clear

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Speaker 1: with him about it in a very thoughtful way about

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Speaker 1: exactly kind of how you're telling us here's not wrong

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Speaker 1: what you're telling us, right, I'm trying to know. I

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Speaker 1: feel like its count sounds mean. I know, well, it's

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Speaker 1: mean that he's doing this to you. Okay, So how

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Speaker 1: many times a week does he spend the night like

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Speaker 1: almost like four or five? Does he have a droid?

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Speaker 1: Is his space in your closet? I cleared some space.

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Speaker 1: I've been a good girlfriend. I mean, it wouldn't be

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Speaker 1: a problem if, like you know, I do see a

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Speaker 1: future with him. So it's like I just don't want

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Speaker 1: like like it's not our apartment. So I think you

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Speaker 1: can say, look, I always want to say bro, but

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Speaker 1: I can't call him brou because he's got a name. Um,

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Speaker 1: you can say to him, hey, boyfriend. Uh, you know,

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Speaker 1: like this is like we have so many just I

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Speaker 1: don't know, this is a tough one. Um. I think

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Speaker 1: you can say to him that you need some shared responsibility.

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Speaker 1: Why don't start charging him? Okay, no, but you gotta

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Speaker 1: share some responsibility because we want to make this work

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Speaker 1: for the long run and there needs to be balanced

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Speaker 1: between responsibility. But no, why is it bothering you that

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Speaker 1: he's saying our because he's not paying for anything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't want to give this Like we're

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Speaker 1: heading in a good direction. But it only has been

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Speaker 1: like a couple months. Like I'm not My friends are like, wait,

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Speaker 1: you guys are living together, and it's like, no, we're

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Speaker 1: not living together yet. Oh what is he saying again?

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Speaker 1: He's just like saying things like our apartment and like

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Speaker 1: talking about like our kitchen. You gotta stop you gotta

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Speaker 1: stop him from saying it, even if you have it

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Speaker 1: with a laugh. It's like, hey man, this is like

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Speaker 1: I work and pay for this. This is not our yet.

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Speaker 1: We could, we could, We should talk about our hour,

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Speaker 1: our hour, but we're not at our R yet and

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Speaker 1: have a laugh, have a margariteforehand too needs to be laughy, laughy,

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Speaker 1: and then you shouldn't let it keep going or this

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Speaker 1: is going to become a bigger like that. Right pretty

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Speaker 1: soon you're gonna come home. He's gonna be redecorating. But

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Speaker 1: our we don't have an hour yet. This is a mine,

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Speaker 1: but we're are we so we need to create an

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Speaker 1: r See there it is again. I'm just confusing. We

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Speaker 1: may have we don't have an our apartment or an

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Speaker 1: our kitchen yet. We have a wee in this relationship,

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Speaker 1: but this is mine and if we want to create

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Speaker 1: an hour, we should talk about that because we are

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Speaker 1: doing great together. That's the speech. That's that's good, that's good.

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Speaker 1: Remember that, Emily, remember that, Emily. Yes might be cute too.

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Speaker 1: I think I think that's cute. I like that. Thanks, guys,

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Speaker 1: We can send you the tape if you need to

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Speaker 1: write that down confusing. Please, that's perfect. That was good.

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Speaker 1: Look at that. I just pulled that out of your

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Speaker 1: really did take a sip of your coffee. Yeah, focus

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Speaker 1: on the pronouns of the wei and the me and

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Speaker 1: the our and we are great. But let's create and

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Speaker 1: r because this is me. Okay, we got it. Now,

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Speaker 1: you're just showing off. I'm just trying to give her

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Speaker 1: more tape. All right, let's get you tickets to go

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Speaker 1: see Blink one eighty two. Hang on,