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Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera

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Speaker 1: je Edge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of two Teas in

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Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp.

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Speaker 1: And Dolores Catana. Teddy, I had so much fun. I

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Speaker 1: don't think I've laughed harder since the last time I

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Speaker 1: spoke to you. But I'm not going to laugh this time.

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Speaker 2: Have anxiety this time.

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Speaker 1: I have anxiety. What the fuck? Like I want to

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Speaker 1: take a shot. I don't drink. I feel like I

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Speaker 1: want to take a shot of something. When he's going

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Speaker 1: on here? What an episode? Yeah, it was a lot.

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Speaker 1: It was a lot. The entire thing.

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Speaker 2: There wasn't even a moment of reprieve, not for a second. No,

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Speaker 2: not even for a second. Just to give a little

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Speaker 2: life update to you, guys, I had my immune therapy

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Speaker 2: yesterday and they did my scans and at this point

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Speaker 2: there is no detectable answer. Why.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh I'm so Teddy. Stop it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I still need to stay on immune therapy

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Speaker 2: for another year, and I'm not considered.

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Speaker 1: Carry on after this sucked the episode? Oh, Teddy, I

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Speaker 1: know so. I wish I could hug you. I love you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for telling me that. Of course I took

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Speaker 1: my breath away.

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Speaker 2: I and then when they told me, I was in

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Speaker 2: such shock. I was like numb.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: So I'm still gonna be having days when I'm feeling

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Speaker 2: sick and stuff because i still am in immune therapy.

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Speaker 2: So I'm still fighting because you have to be. It's

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Speaker 2: the way they said it works. It's like a year

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Speaker 2: than two years. Then at three years you're allowed to

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Speaker 2: be considered in remission and remission. So but that was

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Speaker 2: huge news.

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Speaker 1: You did it, girl. You didn't. You didn't give up

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Speaker 1: one day. You fought harder than anybody I know. So wow,

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Speaker 1: that's such good news. I'm so happy.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. So all the tumors continued to shrink and everything.

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Speaker 2: So it's it's been good. It's a good day.

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Speaker 1: God is good.

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Speaker 2: It's a good day until we have to recapital Housewives

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Speaker 2: of Orange County Away.

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Speaker 1: Do we really have to money up this news? Just

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Speaker 1: fucking call it a day right now. Nothing good is

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Speaker 1: coming out of this episode.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. Well it starts out a couple of

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Speaker 2: days after Temecula. Shannon texted Tamar that she was thinking

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Speaker 2: about me, and she also sent treatment programs for cancer.

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Speaker 2: Tamra thought maybe it was an olive branch Do you

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Speaker 2: think it was an olive branch or do you think

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Speaker 2: it was just her being nice?

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Speaker 1: I think it was just her being nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think it was an olive branch. I

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Speaker 1: don't see any type of her wanting to be fair.

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Speaker 1: I just don't see it.

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Speaker 2: I'm not seeing any branches of any sort really from

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Speaker 2: anybody here. Nobody here was holding any wood.

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Speaker 1: No, No, it was it was something. It was a

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Speaker 1: to have. Yeah, it wasn't. Hey, Tamra, hope you're doing well.

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Speaker 1: Can you you know I was thinking about Teddy it

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Speaker 1: was right. I mean, you know you've been on my mind.

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Speaker 1: Would you mind please sending this a Teddy? It was

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Speaker 1: nothing about Tamara. It was all about you and olive branches. Hey,

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Speaker 1: I hope you're doing well.

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Speaker 2: I know you've been going through a hard time. I've

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Speaker 1: And then say that yeah, nope, nope, not having it. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you. Do with the kids saying

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Speaker 2: The kids are like, well, mainly it's just slate that

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Speaker 2: good and bad because her nationals are this week in Washington,

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Speaker 2: just because you know the cancer is gone, that I

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Speaker 1: All right, So if anybody can do that, you can. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you'll get through it. More things you'll get through it.

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Speaker 1: I'll get through it. Then Tama tells Eddie she is

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Speaker 1: not happy with Heather. She feels Heather doesn't take doesn't

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Speaker 1: feel Heather is a good friend to Tamara? So I

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Speaker 1: think that she has been a good friend to Tamara. However,

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Speaker 1: if I had to just only see this episode, I

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Speaker 1: would say this wasn't the greatest friend episode. If I

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Speaker 2: No, Yeah, But I would also say that this kind

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Speaker 2: of feels like Tama was taking it out on who

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Speaker 2: she was closest with. Which is what we tend to do.

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Speaker 1: We all tend to do it. Yeah, but she was

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Speaker 1: mad at Heather in a previous episode.

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Speaker 2: Also, and Heather, I was mad at her in a

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Speaker 2: previous episode.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, so I think as friends. I don't see

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Speaker 1: them breaking up, I see, but I do see them

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Speaker 1: having going through a hard time in a relationship right now. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't see an end to this. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't see like, oh, this is like they're dumb.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't either. And I think they're

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Speaker 2: going to start getting closer again too, if.

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Speaker 1: This season is over. They need a break.

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Speaker 2: I think once they get on the trip. I think

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Speaker 2: once they get on the trip, once there's no more

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Speaker 2: I'm quitting. Once there's no more Muddy Waters, I think

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Speaker 2: they're going to start bonding again.

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Speaker 1: They will. I think that their past relationship was strong

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Speaker 1: enough to get them through this. This is just a

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Then Shannon tells Heather that her name came up

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Speaker 2: into Mecula on the trip, and Gina said she didn't

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Speaker 2: see Heather as a comedian or doing improv. Heather is

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Speaker 2: hurt by not feeling supported. I so what why can't

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Speaker 2: they just be supportive of something that she's doing.

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Speaker 1: Well, they can be, but they're not. They're caddy women

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Speaker 1: don't think that she should be that upset, especially from

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Speaker 2: But I think I would probably be upset about something

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Speaker 2: if I'm like, if I told you tomorrow, I'm going

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Speaker 2: to start taking dance classes, but that stated laughing at me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's me, right, And I have to say,

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Speaker 2: But could you imagine what Gina would have thought if

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Speaker 2: she said that about her real estate career.

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Speaker 1: Oh, she would have not liked it the way the

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Speaker 1: same way Heather didn't like it. But you know, I

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Speaker 2: Well, the way that she did her sing moan sex thing,

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Speaker 2: I'd say that improv classes are working. Sure, can you

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Speaker 2: do a sex mon? Laugh?

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Speaker 1: Can you No, I'm trying to think, work on it.

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Speaker 2: No, I've seen a very good ones sex and moan

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Speaker 2: all I could.

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Speaker 1: I can't do all three.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: You're asking. I'm like, that's a triple thread. I cannot.

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Speaker 1: What am I ventriloquis to.

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Speaker 2: You're like, hold on, how am I supposed to do

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Speaker 1: This is so stupid? I know.

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Speaker 2: Then this next part made me nervous, also gave me anxiety.

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Speaker 2: Jen takes her son to go get a tattoo. Jen's

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Speaker 2: ex husband sat their kids down and told okay before okay.

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Speaker 2: The entire scene was scary to watch, but Jen talks

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Speaker 2: about how their ex husband sat them down and told

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Speaker 2: Ryan as the one who took their mom. However, now

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Speaker 2: they like Ryan and they feel like he's a supportive guy,

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Speaker 2: which from what we've seen, he is a good stepdad

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Speaker 2: to them or future stepdad he is.

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Speaker 1: And she's crazy for him. She is wild about this guy.

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Speaker 1: Like I mean, I'm happy that she could feel that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he earned it.

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Speaker 1: He said they were like, listen, we found out for

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Speaker 1: for me, it means a lot. When somebody's good to

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Speaker 1: And I hope their dad didn't get mad at them

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Speaker 1: by the nice things they said about Ryan.

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Speaker 2: I hope so too. I hope.

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Speaker 1: So I was thinking that, I was like, fuck, it's

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Speaker 2: Their balls when I know, what is he going to say?

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Speaker 2: What is he going to think?

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Speaker 1: But you know, if he said that in the beginning,

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Speaker 2: Well, it really made me my heart race when he's

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Speaker 2: getting the tattoo. I mean, it was so scary to watch.

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Speaker 1: When he starts to like seize doings up fainting, and

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Speaker 1: boot camp at the Marine Corps. I have family. My

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Speaker 1: gets there. From this scene, if they know anything about this,

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Speaker 1: I feel bad for this guy.

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Speaker 2: How would you feel about getting tattoos and taking them?

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Speaker 1: I don't about my kids getting tattoos, Yeah, and bringing

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Speaker 1: them for it. I don't do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't think you would.

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Speaker 1: I saw my daughter had a bird tattoo on her ankle,

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Speaker 1: almost punched her teeth in.

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Speaker 2: I'm like I thought, feeling he wouldn't be the mom

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Speaker 2: to take somebody to get a tattoo.

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Speaker 1: No, anyway, my son would pass out, just like he did.

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Speaker 1: My son's in finance. He's not even going into the Marines,

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Speaker 1: and he passes out when he gets shots. I'm not

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Speaker 1: taking him definitely. My daughter had to do it behind

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then it was a surprise.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what's what's that? And and I was like,

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Speaker 2: Well. I had a friend and right when we graduated

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Speaker 1: You know, grown women, grown women can't keep running out

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Speaker 1: Do you think I'm confused? Teddy? Can you explain what

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Speaker 1: Well, not like Tamra bringing out something that like they

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Speaker 2: No, she follows him on social media and then Tamara

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Speaker 1: I can tell you what I think it is. Go

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Speaker 2: Okay, when someone says my truth, they are usually referring

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Speaker 2: tells her that Gretchen told Katie that Tama drugged her

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00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 2: and went to the hospital. Emily now says she is

440
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 2: hurt that Tama's meeting up with her. How do you

441
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 2: feel about Emily being upset at Tama for meeting with Katie.

442
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,200
Speaker 1: I don't think Emily should be upset with Tama. I

443
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 1: think Tamara needs disclosure and needs to know this, And

444
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: it's got nothing to do with Emily's meeting Emily. I mean,

445
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: she's not meeting Katie to become friends with her. She's

446
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: not meeting Katie to go against Emily or find something

447
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: out about Emily. She's meeting her for herself and something

448
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: that she needs to know for sure.

449
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 2: I mean, Tamar made an excellent point and that when

450
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 2: they were all fine to sit around with Gretchen who

451
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 2: was saying Tama drugged her and also that Tamar had

452
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: an affair. But she can't meet with Katie.

453
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I'm so like not into that, Like I'm

454
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: not buying that she can meet with Katie as she

455
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: did yesterday and posted huh.

456
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 2: I didn't even see that then, So much for that.

457
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: And anyway, you guys all don't what he's all worried about.

458
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,479
Speaker 1: So what if she meets with Katie and then Katie

459
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,199
Speaker 1: turns on her, that's on her. Yeah, he do you

460
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 1: care if she wants to meet.

461
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:46,119
Speaker 2: She wants more information because clearly Gretcher's which clearly Gretcher's

462
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 2: isn't being honest.

463
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:52,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's not one person there that would not do

464
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,680
Speaker 1: that for their own information.

465
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 2: Yeah.

466
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 1: Sorry, And I feel like, how come I didn't ask

467
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: Tamra if Katie told her what she needed to know? Fuck,

468
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: you'll get the information.

469
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 2: I'll get it. I'll get it for us.

470
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: Then will you text me or can tem? Can someone

471
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: tell me? Was it at a productive lunch? That's all

472
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: I want to know? She got a hammer? She did

473
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 1: she get? Was it worth the abuse that she took going? However,

474
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: Tamora should sit there and say, none of you fucking

475
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: guys trust me anyway? So what do I have to

476
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 1: lose your friend?

477
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:29,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

478
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: Because when you're my friend, there is no more I'm

479
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 1: nothing offends me more than you telling me you don't

480
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 1: trust me. Then somebody does that doesn't trust me. I'm

481
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: offended because guess what if you're accusing me of that,

482
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 1: maybe I shouldn't trust you.

483
00:26:48,760 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 2: Right. Then, tamar tells Heather that this is the last

484
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 2: time she will film after what Heather did to her.

485
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 2: Tamra says, Emily told her Heather doesn't trust her. Heather

486
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: says she is hurt by her She brings up the

487
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: ground links conversation, and she brings up the comments about

488
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:28,600
Speaker 2: her dad, the about how yeah, and how that's what

489
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:33,879
Speaker 2: she was meaning. Do you believe that I believe that

490
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 2: Heather was trying to share a moment with Tama about

491
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 2: her family and how she's affected and as much as

492
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 2: I hate to use the word triggered by certain responses, Yes,

493
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 2: but I don't know that I necessarily believe she would

494
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 2: have said that Tamar's the person she trusts the least

495
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 2: if Tamar what had been sitting there.

496
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 1: She said it pretty freely. Yeah, she didn't hesitate, she

497
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: didn't say, oh jeez, let me think about it. She

498
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: just I knew. I I think I don't. I don't

499
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: find a lot of things Heather did so really horrible

500
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: this season, And you couldn't agree. Yeah, I think I

501
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 1: think Tamora is very sensitive and I felt like I

502
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 1: think she felt she was on an island by herself.

503
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: I think Heather tried at times to really be there

504
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: for her. But this whole thing rub me the wrong way. Yeah.

505
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 2: I didn't like it either. I did not like it

506
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 2: one bet, and I felt like it was mean. It

507
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: was me.

508
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: You know my import. What I would have said to

509
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: everybody there is you know what, I love all you girls,

510
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: but there isn't one here sitting here that I would

511
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: actually want to share my deepest darkness with, because at

512
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: some point you're probably going to turn on me. If

513
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: I piss you off, you'll anybody will probably bring it up,

514
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: and everybody has shown to do that.

515
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was an easy way to answer that question

516
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 2: without singling out one person.

517
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 1: There was a diplomatic way correct and if somebody cared

518
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: enough to give it some thought. I think she was

519
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you the truth. I think she

520
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: was mad at Tamora when she said that. Yeah, I

521
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 1: think she's holding some grudges for her yelling at her.

522
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 2: And you know, yeah, because I think because I do

523
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 2: think Tamara and Heather are close.

524
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: They are close, and I think that I think that

525
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: Heather is holding some resentment towards Tamra and that's why

526
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 1: she said it so easily. She might believe it and

527
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: she might mean it. I could be wrong, but I

528
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: think that Heather finds other ways to answer things without

529
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: giving actual answer, and I think she could have done

530
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:00,360
Speaker 1: it here too.

531
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, she could have actually done it a lot differently,

532
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 2: because I think it just started the whole evening off

533
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 2: wrong and made everything This is a hard episode for

534
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 2: us to even talk about, guys, and we love to talk.

535
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm told you. I didn't. I'm so happy to

536
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: see you. I was not interested in talking about this

537
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: episode right now, and we started off with the best

538
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,280
Speaker 1: news ever, So how bad could it be from here?

539
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: After hearing that you're okay, everything else is very trivial

540
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 1: to me.

541
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: Well, thank you, thank you. Then Gina and Heather sit

542
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 2: down to continue their conversation. Heather wants to be surrounded

543
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 2: by people who emotionally support her and thought that that

544
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 2: was Gina. Gina apologizes. I will say Gina going up

545
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 2: against Heather and making Heather work a little for her

546
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 2: check this season, even though Heather did have a right

547
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 2: to be upset.

548
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: So I'm going to tell you why Gina got so offended,

549
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: Because Gina was like, why do you so? Why is

550
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: it when I do it it's so bad? Why do

551
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: you come hard on me when everybody else sitting there

552
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: was saying it and she's not wrong, but she was.

553
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 2: The one kind of saying it the most.

554
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: She was she's like, I don't think she's funny. I

555
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: just don't think who thinks she's funny? Like I don't

556
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: think she's funny. Like that's what Gina was saying.

557
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like, uhh, but she does know that

558
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 2: she was like a sitcom actor and she knew those things,

559
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 2: and if she wants to better herself and she wants

560
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 2: to go in and do something new, like there could

561
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 2: have been a bet they could have made one little

562
00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 2: comment like, oh, that's interesting. Never thought she was that funny,

563
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 2: But I.

564
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: Can't believe it. Hey, listen, Yeah, yeah, I think anybody

565
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 1: who's smart and witty could be a comedian. I think

566
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: you have to have a brain, which I think Heather has.

567
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: She could be witty, and I think that it'll be

568
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 1: just fine. I mean, she's been in the game a while.

569
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: We forget because she's on the Housewife. She did do

570
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: this stuff.

571
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she did have to audition to get into

572
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 2: the Groundlings exactly, so it's not like they just let

573
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 2: anybody in.

574
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 1: So you know what, Heather, I'm going to let you

575
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: know that I will come to one of your shows

576
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: when you become a comedian.

577
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 2: Only one haha.

578
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: Well, I've never gone to see Lawan's show. There's a

579
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: few shows I've never gone to see. But I am

580
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: going to go out on the limb, Heather and tell

581
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: you that I will even fly to come see you.

582
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 2: Okay, I love it. I love it.

583
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: Only if you make up with Tamra, because I'm not

584
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: getting Tamra madt me.

585
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't. Nobody wants that. Then Tama brings

586
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 2: up the screenshots to the group. Jen initially denies following

587
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 2: him for nefarious reasons, but in her confessional she says

588
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 2: she was hoping the guy would say something once he

589
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 2: saw Jen follow him. The fact that Jen tried to

590
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 2: make an issue out of the screenshot being printed and

591
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 2: waiting until her talking head to admit she wanted info

592
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 2: like your mask is slipping gen like Jen, Jen Jen.

593
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 1: I don't know that Jen can handle being a housewife,

594
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: a well rounded housewife, like she could handle getting like

595
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 1: piled up on. But I don't know that she could.

596
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: She's tough enough to come back because she doesn't handle

597
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: it well, do you know what I'm saying?

598
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 2: Well, because she just doesn't in the moment, she doesn't

599
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 2: fight back, right, she.

600
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: Doesn't fight back in the moment, and then when she

601
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: goes and tries to do something, it just she looks bad.

602
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then she can't handle it.

603
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: She can't handle it.

604
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 2: She can't.

605
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: You're not a fighter, Jen, so just be what you are, yeah,

606
00:33:56,120 --> 00:34:00,120
Speaker 1: just right, Yeah, or just to say like, yeah, that's

607
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: what I did. I did it.

608
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 2: I did do it, and I wanted to see why.

609
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: I wanted to stalk him. But you can stock somebody

610
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:13,439
Speaker 2: without following them.

611
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: And anyway, duh, get a fucking fensta.

612
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, but you don't even need that. It's

613
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 2: not like he's private. He's a public figure, so you

614
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 2: can just go on his page and look, what did

615
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 2: he think? She was like she was hoping he was

616
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:28,280
Speaker 2: going to reach out to her.

617
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let me reach out to you about something.

618
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: You know.

619
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:36,879
Speaker 2: Ridiculous.

620
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:40,319
Speaker 1: It's a ridiculous nonsense that I don't want any part

621
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 1: of gossip.

622
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 2: Like what, there's no sense.

623
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying. It's like amateur moves. Don't be

624
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 1: something you're not. Don't try to be it's not gonna work.

625
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,879
Speaker 2: Then we watch a lot of awkward cake making, which

626
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: I was surprised by. Some How some of the cakes

627
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 2: turned out looking so good.

628
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:04,320
Speaker 1: I know, I you know, that's a really a little

629
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: thing I would have enjoyed. That's why I was mad

630
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 1: that she had a ruin And when she walked in Emily,

631
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 1: couldn't we get the cake shit going?

632
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 2: Get the cake shit going? Then fight outside later with

633
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 2: some champs. Thank you, that's what.

634
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: We need over whose cake was better? Let's start with

635
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: that fight and then digress onto the real problems.

636
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't need all that. Then Tamar starts crying

637
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 2: to Heather about how Heather can't trust her, and Heather

638
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 2: feels like Tamar gets angry when she talks about her feelings,

639
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 2: and then Tamar says she's dealing with a difficult thing

640
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: and Heather is not helping. Heather says they should talk

641
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 2: about it at another time, and Tamar says, have a

642
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 2: great season, walks off upstairs. Tam no more walking off

643
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 2: and quit, No more.

644
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,920
Speaker 1: That's it, you know, Tamra, This isn't This isn't how

645
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 1: we do things. This isn't how we get things done.

646
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,439
Speaker 2: No. So, so, all in all, what do we even

647
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 2: have to say about this episode? It sucked, Yeah, it

648
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 2: really sucks.

649
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: I don't really have a lot to say except that.

650
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 2: No, this was a painful episode to reach.

651
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: Oh everything about it sucked, the poor kid going to

652
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: the Marines, fainting when he's getting insane, like we can't.

653
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 2: It was at one moment where I was like, ooh,

654
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 2: this makes me so happy. The entire thing sucked.

655
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: It sucked. It just everything about it really just.

656
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 2: I mean even Emily's son thought it sucked because they

657
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 2: didn't deliver as cheese pizza. They gave him pepperoni. He

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Speaker 2: thought it sucked too.

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Speaker 1: He agreed.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, so, you know, to say about it, we

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Speaker 2: thought it felt that.

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Speaker 1: I hope the next episode you could. You're only as

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Speaker 1: good as your last episode, so we have some more

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Speaker 1: to go before the reunion. The union hasn't filmed yet,

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Speaker 1: and we'll see what happens, but we need some redemption

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Speaker 1: from this episode. Hate to tell you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, we do. We do. Thanks guys for

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Speaker 2: tuning in to another episode of to Teas in a Pod.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you, guys, We appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you