WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Silent Dancer

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up day got an email from a woman

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<v Speaker 1>named Monica who said she can't believe she's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>another date with lips like these. That was all I

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<v Speaker 1>had to read before I told our producer to contact

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<v Speaker 1>this woman right now. Monica, use those lips to say

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<v Speaker 1>hello to the Brook and Jeffrey family.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, you sound luscious, Yes, luscious lips.

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<v Speaker 3>Shout out your filler, lady.

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<v Speaker 1>That's too much. He's like, hi everyone. Yeah, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean lips like these from your email?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean they are very beautiful, full fulent, natural.

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<v Speaker 3>I love your confidence coming into this.

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<v Speaker 1>But that sounds like it's been a little bit shook

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<v Speaker 1>because this guy isn't calling you back. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Nick?

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about Nick and how you met.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah we met on one of the apps, of course,

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<v Speaker 4>but to meet up for some drinks.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, do you do any lip prep before a first date?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe I actually was working.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was an hour late. Oh, I was stuck

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<v Speaker 4>at work. But I did let him.

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<v Speaker 2>Know in advance, like in advance enough where he wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>sitting at the restaurant or.

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<v Speaker 1>Right before the hour mark happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Give it about twenty minutes before I thought I was

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<v Speaker 4>going to get out there because you know where we

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<v Speaker 4>were going. It's near where I work and everything, so

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<v Speaker 4>I thought I was going to be there.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, su, that's not like the worst it could be. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what was Nick's reaction when you said you're running an

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<v Speaker 1>hour behind?

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<v Speaker 4>Well it wasn't. I just said I was running late.

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<v Speaker 4>He said he'll be there, and then it turned into an.

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<v Speaker 2>Hour, so he was sitting there waiting.

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<v Speaker 4>For I told him that it was work deadline. He said,

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<v Speaker 4>take your time. I understand, I'll be here because.

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<v Speaker 3>He has to say that, you know, like he actually

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<v Speaker 3>waited an hour for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, was the date awkward? Like was he upset at all?

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<v Speaker 4>If he was, he didn't say anything or didn't look

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<v Speaker 4>like it. So yeah, so we had our good conversations

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<v Speaker 4>some he ordered sushi, and then the night was still

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<v Speaker 4>kind of young. So I was like, well, around the corner,

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<v Speaker 4>there is this really good spot to go dancing. He

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<v Speaker 4>seemed excited because he was like, oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 4>haven't done that years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he seriously was excited to go out dancing.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't believe a man likes to dance, Jeffrey, you

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<v Speaker 3>love dancing.

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<v Speaker 1>After after he waited an hour and they had dinner

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<v Speaker 1>and drinks, and then he's like, I never dance, but

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<v Speaker 1>I guess this time I will. Yeah, for the first time.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think that he was making it up. He

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<v Speaker 4>seemed like he was genuinely interested in doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a good liar.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, her lips are yeah right, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>He'll follow those Anyways, waiting for that kid.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it like a club type of dancing or was

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<v Speaker 2>it like country or Latin?

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<v Speaker 4>No, it was in a hotel, you know, only have

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<v Speaker 4>like a little lounge area.

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<v Speaker 5>But once we.

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<v Speaker 4>Got there we sat down, there was like firepits, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a whole vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, so like more romantic than what I pictured

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<v Speaker 2>in my head, like with fire pits and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I was picturing like poles going up.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I would not take him to the club.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So did you actually dance at this dance club?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Like I got up and started dancing. He decided

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<v Speaker 4>he didn't want to dance, even though I trying to

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<v Speaker 4>coax him up, but needed.

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<v Speaker 1>It's stupid question. Were other people dancing too or was

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<v Speaker 1>it just you can imagine like the fire pits and everything.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I am a person I will watch to

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<v Speaker 4>my own drum.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right with me, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you show up to a place and no

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<v Speaker 1>one else if you out with Brook, then you know

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<v Speaker 1>what this is like?

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<v Speaker 3>Did how can you not move your body when there's

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<v Speaker 3>good music?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, honest, for sure, dude, I have no shame

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<v Speaker 2>in my dancing game.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, maybe maybe that could have been a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>awkward for him to just be sitting there while you

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<v Speaker 1>were the only person in the entire room dancing, or.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it was awkward that and that's why he didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>But he would think that, wouldn't He be impressed by

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<v Speaker 2>her confidence and her like zest for life.

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<v Speaker 1>You're really hoping for that, Brook?

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<v Speaker 4>You don't think you don't really think that somebody would

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<v Speaker 4>want to live.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, Okay, live your life like no, it's good.

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<v Speaker 1>You were leading the charge on having fun that night.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you two end it?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I going back to where his car was and

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<v Speaker 4>I gave him a hug. But I showed him my phone.

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<v Speaker 4>It was his profile picture from the dating app, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was just like, well, what do I.

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<v Speaker 5>Do with this?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's a funny question.

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<v Speaker 4>Do I delete or do I make them?

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<v Speaker 5>Tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, delete it? What did he say?

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<v Speaker 4>He said, do whatever you like?

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<v Speaker 1>That could car?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what was your vibe? Did that feel

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<v Speaker 3>like a good answer to you?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I wasn't sure. He just got in his

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<v Speaker 4>car and rolled out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, he could be trying to play hard to

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<v Speaker 1>get where it's like, yeah, you know, do whatever you want?

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<v Speaker 1>So hard to get. He's not even calling her impossible.

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<v Speaker 3>He'll say some men don't know how to play the

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<v Speaker 3>line on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, maybe he just like was nervous and he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what to say. That's why he had to

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<v Speaker 1>get out.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't say, don't call it radio stations.

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<v Speaker 1>If he didn't want that, he should have set the

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<v Speaker 1>boundaries early on. So we're gonna call him whether he

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<v Speaker 1>likes it or not. Practically try and get those lips

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update after this hold on Second Date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't every romantic movie end with the dude hopping in

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<v Speaker 1>his car, peeling out and yelling do whatever you want,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care. They should In that way, it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>way more realistic, because that's what happened to one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners. Monica, who showed up an hour late to

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<v Speaker 1>her date with Nick, but once she finally arrived, they

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<v Speaker 1>had a good time, that is till the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night, when he kind of hopped in his vehicle,

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<v Speaker 1>left in a hurry, and didn't seem very enthusiastic about

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<v Speaker 1>meeting up another time. Yeah, Brooke, didn't your husband come

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<v Speaker 1>home late smelling like sushi and fire pits recently? Or

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<v Speaker 1>is that just the new scent from old spice?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait a minute, he doesn't eat sushi.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, yeah, scent. Okay, he only.

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<v Speaker 3>Likes really bland chicken breast. Oh, I know it's not him.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll rule that one out. Yeah, I'm not sure what

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<v Speaker 1>went wrong with Nick, Monica. Do you have any theories?

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<v Speaker 4>I actually really thought that everything was great, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I mean maybe we're reading too far in

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey into that do whatever you want line, because it

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<v Speaker 2>could have been like it depends on tone, right, It

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<v Speaker 2>could be like do whatever you want? Yeah, you know, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I hope it wasn't like that, or it could have

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<v Speaker 2>been his do.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you want, whatever you need, a lot of emotions

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<v Speaker 1>that could have been. We have no idea. We got

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<v Speaker 1>to just reach out to Nick and see where his

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<v Speaker 1>head is at. You ready, Monica? It could just be

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<v Speaker 1>his thing. We call him and he picks up and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, do whatever you want. Yeah, his catchphrase, let's

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<v Speaker 1>find out. I'm gonna dial his number. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Nick?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>You know to be afraid. We're just a friendly neighborhood

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<v Speaker 1>radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>fear us.

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<v Speaker 5>What is what?

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<v Speaker 1>This is a segment that we're doing. It's called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and we're reaching out because you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with one of our listeners the other night named Monica.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember Monica with the good lips?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I remember Monica.

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<v Speaker 1>She remembers you too, and she had a great time

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with you the other night. Was thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>there was going to be another date that came from it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it hasn't happened yet. So really we're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help her figure out if there's a reason for that she.

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<v Speaker 5>Thought there was going to be another date. Cool, wow,

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<v Speaker 5>cool Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>We're okay, we're good. We're kind of optimistic for her,

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<v Speaker 1>but we don't know what the reason is. If there

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<v Speaker 1>is one, maybe you could help help us understand because.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't either.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds like it should be really obvious to her and

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<v Speaker 3>it's not.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I assume you talked to her. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know what she's told you.

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<v Speaker 3>She did say she was an hour late, is that?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Yes, she was over an hour late.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't believe you waited.

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<v Speaker 5>I was there early. I was already there when she

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<v Speaker 5>texted me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you were there.

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<v Speaker 3>Twenty minutes early, because she said she texted twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, yeah, I got there early because it's a

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<v Speaker 5>busy place. Parking's kind of tough. I want her to

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<v Speaker 5>be comfortable. I wanted to be ready when she was there.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that is really thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 1>But she didn't ask you to get there twenty minutes early,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can't blame it on her.

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<v Speaker 2>This is why you're not supposed to be You can

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<v Speaker 2>let me not about the hour, not the hour twenty Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>but it does sound from her description that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>were able to move past that.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she definitely felt bad.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I get it. Stuff happens, so I thought,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I give a shot, see how things go.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how was the rest of the date after she

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<v Speaker 1>got there.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, pretty quickly I regretted not ever talking

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<v Speaker 5>to her on the phone beforehand. For moment one. The

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<v Speaker 5>vibes are just real bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it was the attitude.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, she comes in hot, She's like, sorry, I'm late.

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<v Speaker 5>You should know. I never eat after six?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh is it after six?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it after six?

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<v Speaker 5>At this point, it's around seven, Like we've planned on

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<v Speaker 5>getting dinner at six. Okay, I think she eats all

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<v Speaker 5>my food?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, what what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'd already ordered it because she was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>on my way, and I was like, the food'll be

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<v Speaker 5>here ready for her.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, and.

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<v Speaker 5>She's like, no, I'm not gonna eat any of it,

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<v Speaker 5>and then proceeds to eat all of it.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not cheap, dude, I mean, but the good news

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<v Speaker 2>is you were ordering for just yourself right when you

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<v Speaker 2>put the order in, when she was arriving, and you

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<v Speaker 2>were planning on her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I was planning out her eating roughly half of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, faster than keep up. Wait, what do you mean

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<v Speaker 3>how about you?

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<v Speaker 5>She eat She ate all of it, She ate my half,

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<v Speaker 5>she ate her hat. There was also the.

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<v Speaker 1>Wine she drank all the wine.

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<v Speaker 5>The waitress came up and asked if she would like

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<v Speaker 5>a drink. She doesn't even look at the server, and

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<v Speaker 5>it's just like, give me a cab That's what she yelled.

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<v Speaker 5>She'll give me a cab like a cabernet.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 5>The server then asked what kind, and she just goes

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<v Speaker 5>give me the best, waves her hand and goes give

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<v Speaker 5>me the best glasses. Later, she's like, let's do another,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm like, no, I think you're done. I think

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<v Speaker 5>you're cut off at three.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh bad day.

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<v Speaker 4>It worked for her.

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<v Speaker 5>It was getting so expensive. Oh my god, I've heard

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<v Speaker 5>enough of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, you are lying. Hold on, Monica, whoa man?

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<v Speaker 1>Slow down a little bit, Nick, I need to inform you,

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<v Speaker 1>just real quick. That's Monica. She's been quietly waiting on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line to jump in and talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Both should be the other answer. I've been over here

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<v Speaker 5>seating because he is a liar.

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<v Speaker 4>I ate everything.

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<v Speaker 5>Really, you had not one iota of that sushi.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't have a couple of cocktails your damn self.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you okay? Monica?

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<v Speaker 5>You know I.

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<v Speaker 1>Appreciate your passion. Let's let Nick respond to you, Nick Monica.

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<v Speaker 5>As always, that's a pleasure something which specifically I made

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<v Speaker 5>up from that story because I'm pretty sure I told

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<v Speaker 5>the truth. I didn't make up anything.

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<v Speaker 4>You had no sishi. You had no sishi.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you ate all of it. I didn't have time

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<v Speaker 5>to eat any other There.

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<v Speaker 2>Is no shavings over there, major painting.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, I'm just shoveling it in statement.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's fine, Like maybe you just were so

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<v Speaker 2>excited about the date you just weren't paying attention to

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<v Speaker 2>his needs whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>He had some food, Okay, he's making things up.

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<v Speaker 3>She's saying that the whole time.

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<v Speaker 5>She also thought I was ugly.

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<v Speaker 1>Told you now, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't believe you. There, she told you ugly to your face.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Yeah, like I would call you ugly.

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I'm calling a radio ship because I wanted

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<v Speaker 5>another date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>You you couldn't believe anybody would message me on my

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<v Speaker 5>dating purpose?

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<v Speaker 3>Who did you say that?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, yeah, he said he would get a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of messages. I was a little shocked.

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<v Speaker 4>But you think it's a.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, a man who waits an hour for a

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<v Speaker 2>date probably doesn't have a lot of other options.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I mean that is a dick.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry we're focusing so much on the negatives here.

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<v Speaker 1>There must have been some positive things that you liked

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<v Speaker 1>about the date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I remember. One thing would happen on the date

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<v Speaker 5>is I asked if a medical assistant was the same

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<v Speaker 5>as a nurse, and you just told me to google

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<v Speaker 5>it questions.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's what Google is there for.

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<v Speaker 5>You said your job was as a medical assistant, and

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<v Speaker 5>I was making conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>I made the conversation back google it.

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<v Speaker 5>I kind of like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I might steal that too.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone's like personality and they're like, what is that? You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>google it.

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<v Speaker 2>I wish more than anything, I was a table sitting

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<v Speaker 2>next year table on the first day, watching the whole

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<v Speaker 2>dancing at the club happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we didn't even get to the dance.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>Was it was a hotel lobby for Nick?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So this, this whole call is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>getting away from us here. We we were hoping that

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<v Speaker 1>after like the hour long bounce back, that we could

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<v Speaker 1>maybe salvage this. And there's still a chance.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm about to go out with him, go out with liars.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, he's not a liar, he's an ugly liar, at

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<v Speaker 1>least according to Monica.

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<v Speaker 3>So we should give him.

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<v Speaker 5>Your words, your words. I didn't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what was said.

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<v Speaker 5>You did, you did all I can do.

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<v Speaker 1>All I can do here is offer to send you

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<v Speaker 1>guys out on another date.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>We figured Monica, you are a spirited woman and I

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what, I've already had some kissers anyway, so

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<v Speaker 4>it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Matter you've been kissing. Plus, ask him for this.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a roster.

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<v Speaker 4>I am like NBA.

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<v Speaker 5>You got to have a start in five.

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<v Speaker 3>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, we just got cut from the team.

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<v Speaker 1>Nicky been bench dude.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry, man, How will I ever get over it?

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<v Speaker 1>Rookie Jeffrey in the morning. Does anybody else think Monica

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<v Speaker 1>is going to look back at this as the one

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<v Speaker 1>that got away?

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<v Speaker 3>You're the only one.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure? Here's a man who allows you to

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<v Speaker 1>be as late as you want, eat all of the suits.

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<v Speaker 1>She on the plate, drink the best wine in the

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<v Speaker 1>entire establishment, and then she puts down his dating profile.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow it, but he didn't tell her. He was like

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<v Speaker 3>super passive aggressive about it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's as polite as you can get as a man.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't tell her exactly what you're thinking. Yes, if

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<v Speaker 1>Monica really does have a roster, I wonder when we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be hearing from her power forward or her

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<v Speaker 1>shooting guard next, Like, who.

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<v Speaker 2>Knows, I don't know that she's ever going to come

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<v Speaker 2>back for our help.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she does really enjoyed her.

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<v Speaker 4>So I bet you what.

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<v Speaker 1>She takes the center off for days. He eats the most,

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<v Speaker 1>So he's probably the most fun to go out.

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<v Speaker 3>With because they're big.

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<v Speaker 5>They're huge.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, she sounded pretty fired up by it, so I

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<v Speaker 1>just hope she doesn't take it out on the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of her team. But you can always Yeah, take your

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<v Speaker 1>dating struggles out on us. We don't mind. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>that person who isn't calling you back and go check

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<v Speaker 1>out all of our second dates wherever you get your

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts at Brooke

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<v Speaker 4>And Jeffrey Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning