Speaker 1: Second date up day got an email from a woman
Speaker 1: named Monica who said she can't believe she's not getting
Speaker 1: another date with lips like these. That was all I
Speaker 1: had to read before I told our producer to contact
Speaker 1: this woman right now. Monica, use those lips to say
Speaker 1: hello to the Brook and Jeffrey family.
Speaker 2: Hello, you sound luscious, Yes, luscious lips.
Speaker 3: Shout out your filler, lady.
Speaker 1: That's too much. He's like, hi everyone. Yeah, what do
Speaker 1: you mean lips like these from your email?
Speaker 4: I mean they are very beautiful, full fulent, natural.
Speaker 3: I love your confidence coming into this.
Speaker 1: But that sounds like it's been a little bit shook
Speaker 1: because this guy isn't calling you back. What's his name?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Nick?
Speaker 1: So tell us about Nick and how you met.
Speaker 4: Yeah we met on one of the apps, of course,
Speaker 4: but to meet up for some drinks.
Speaker 3: Okay, do you do any lip prep before a first date?
Speaker 5: Maybe I actually was working.
Speaker 4: And I was an hour late. Oh, I was stuck
Speaker 4: at work. But I did let him.
Speaker 2: Know in advance, like in advance enough where he wasn't
Speaker 2: sitting at the restaurant or.
Speaker 1: Right before the hour mark happened.
Speaker 4: Give it about twenty minutes before I thought I was
Speaker 4: going to get out there because you know where we
Speaker 4: were going. It's near where I work and everything, so
Speaker 4: I thought I was going to be there.
Speaker 1: But okay, su, that's not like the worst it could be. Well,
Speaker 1: what was Nick's reaction when you said you're running an
Speaker 1: hour behind?
Speaker 4: Well it wasn't. I just said I was running late.
Speaker 4: He said he'll be there, and then it turned into an.
Speaker 2: Hour, so he was sitting there waiting.
Speaker 4: For I told him that it was work deadline. He said,
Speaker 4: take your time. I understand, I'll be here because.
Speaker 3: He has to say that, you know, like he actually
Speaker 3: waited an hour for you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 1: Man, was the date awkward? Like was he upset at all?
Speaker 4: If he was, he didn't say anything or didn't look
Speaker 4: like it. So yeah, so we had our good conversations
Speaker 4: some he ordered sushi, and then the night was still
Speaker 4: kind of young. So I was like, well, around the corner,
Speaker 4: there is this really good spot to go dancing. He
Speaker 4: seemed excited because he was like, oh my gosh, I
Speaker 4: haven't done that years.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he seriously was excited to go out dancing.
Speaker 3: You don't believe a man likes to dance, Jeffrey, you
Speaker 3: love dancing.
Speaker 1: After after he waited an hour and they had dinner
Speaker 1: and drinks, and then he's like, I never dance, but
Speaker 1: I guess this time I will. Yeah, for the first time.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I don't think that he was making it up. He
Speaker 4: seemed like he was genuinely interested in doing it.
Speaker 1: He's a good liar.
Speaker 3: Okay, her lips are yeah right, yeah.
Speaker 1: He'll follow those Anyways, waiting for that kid.
Speaker 2: Was it like a club type of dancing or was
Speaker 2: it like country or Latin?
Speaker 4: No, it was in a hotel, you know, only have
Speaker 4: like a little lounge area.
Speaker 5: But once we.
Speaker 4: Got there we sat down, there was like firepits, you know.
Speaker 4: It was a whole vibe.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, so like more romantic than what I pictured
Speaker 2: in my head, like with fire pits and stuff.
Speaker 1: I was picturing like poles going up.
Speaker 4: No, I would not take him to the club.
Speaker 1: Okay, So did you actually dance at this dance club?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Like I got up and started dancing. He decided
Speaker 4: he didn't want to dance, even though I trying to
Speaker 4: coax him up, but needed.
Speaker 1: It's stupid question. Were other people dancing too or was
Speaker 1: it just you can imagine like the fire pits and everything.
Speaker 4: You know, I am a person I will watch to
Speaker 4: my own drum.
Speaker 3: That's right with me, okay.
Speaker 1: And then you show up to a place and no
Speaker 1: one else if you out with Brook, then you know
Speaker 1: what this is like?
Speaker 3: Did how can you not move your body when there's
Speaker 3: good music?
Speaker 2: I mean, honest, for sure, dude, I have no shame
Speaker 2: in my dancing game.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe maybe that could have been a little bit
Speaker 1: awkward for him to just be sitting there while you
Speaker 1: were the only person in the entire room dancing, or.
Speaker 3: Maybe it was awkward that and that's why he didn't.
Speaker 2: But he would think that, wouldn't He be impressed by
Speaker 2: her confidence and her like zest for life.
Speaker 1: You're really hoping for that, Brook?
Speaker 4: You don't think you don't really think that somebody would
Speaker 4: want to live.
Speaker 3: That's right, Okay, live your life like no, it's good.
Speaker 1: You were leading the charge on having fun that night.
Speaker 1: How did you two end it?
Speaker 4: Well, I going back to where his car was and
Speaker 4: I gave him a hug. But I showed him my phone.
Speaker 4: It was his profile picture from the dating app, and
Speaker 4: I was just like, well, what do I.
Speaker 5: Do with this?
Speaker 3: Oh, that's a funny question.
Speaker 4: Do I delete or do I make them?
Speaker 5: Tell you?
Speaker 1: He's like, delete it? What did he say?
Speaker 4: He said, do whatever you like?
Speaker 1: That could car?
Speaker 3: I don't know what was your vibe? Did that feel
Speaker 3: like a good answer to you?
Speaker 4: I mean, I wasn't sure. He just got in his
Speaker 4: car and rolled out.
Speaker 1: Oh well, he could be trying to play hard to
Speaker 1: get where it's like, yeah, you know, do whatever you want?
Speaker 1: So hard to get. He's not even calling her impossible.
Speaker 3: He'll say some men don't know how to play the
Speaker 3: line on that one.
Speaker 1: You know, maybe he just like was nervous and he
Speaker 1: didn't know what to say. That's why he had to
Speaker 1: get out.
Speaker 3: He didn't say, don't call it radio stations.
Speaker 1: If he didn't want that, he should have set the
Speaker 1: boundaries early on. So we're gonna call him whether he
Speaker 1: likes it or not. Practically try and get those lips
Speaker 1: the second date update after this hold on Second Date update.
Speaker 1: Doesn't every romantic movie end with the dude hopping in
Speaker 1: his car, peeling out and yelling do whatever you want,
Speaker 1: I don't care. They should In that way, it'd be
Speaker 1: way more realistic, because that's what happened to one of
Speaker 1: our listeners. Monica, who showed up an hour late to
Speaker 1: her date with Nick, but once she finally arrived, they
Speaker 1: had a good time, that is till the end of
Speaker 1: the night, when he kind of hopped in his vehicle,
Speaker 1: left in a hurry, and didn't seem very enthusiastic about
Speaker 1: meeting up another time. Yeah, Brooke, didn't your husband come
Speaker 1: home late smelling like sushi and fire pits recently? Or
Speaker 1: is that just the new scent from old spice?
Speaker 3: Wait a minute, he doesn't eat sushi.
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, scent. Okay, he only.
Speaker 3: Likes really bland chicken breast. Oh, I know it's not him.
Speaker 1: We'll rule that one out. Yeah, I'm not sure what
Speaker 1: went wrong with Nick, Monica. Do you have any theories?
Speaker 4: I actually really thought that everything was great, Okay.
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean maybe we're reading too far in
Speaker 2: Jeffrey into that do whatever you want line, because it
Speaker 2: could have been like it depends on tone, right, It
Speaker 2: could be like do whatever you want? Yeah, you know, like,
Speaker 2: I hope it wasn't like that, or it could have
Speaker 2: been his do.
Speaker 1: Whatever you want, whatever you need, a lot of emotions
Speaker 1: that could have been. We have no idea. We got
Speaker 1: to just reach out to Nick and see where his
Speaker 1: head is at. You ready, Monica? It could just be
Speaker 1: his thing. We call him and he picks up and
Speaker 1: he's like, do whatever you want. Yeah, his catchphrase, let's
Speaker 1: find out. I'm gonna dial his number. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: is this Nick?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 5: Yes?
Speaker 1: You know to be afraid. We're just a friendly neighborhood
Speaker 1: radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Don't
Speaker 1: fear us.
Speaker 5: What is what?
Speaker 1: This is a segment that we're doing. It's called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update, and we're reaching out because you went
Speaker 1: out with one of our listeners the other night named Monica.
Speaker 3: Remember Monica with the good lips?
Speaker 5: I mean I remember Monica.
Speaker 1: She remembers you too, and she had a great time
Speaker 1: hanging out with you the other night. Was thinking that
Speaker 1: there was going to be another date that came from it,
Speaker 1: but it hasn't happened yet. So really we're trying to
Speaker 1: help her figure out if there's a reason for that she.
Speaker 5: Thought there was going to be another date. Cool, wow,
Speaker 5: cool Wow.
Speaker 1: We're okay, we're good. We're kind of optimistic for her,
Speaker 1: but we don't know what the reason is. If there
Speaker 1: is one, maybe you could help help us understand because.
Speaker 4: It doesn't either.
Speaker 3: Sounds like it should be really obvious to her and
Speaker 3: it's not.
Speaker 5: I mean, I assume you talked to her. I don't
Speaker 5: know what she's told you.
Speaker 3: She did say she was an hour late, is that?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yes, she was over an hour late.
Speaker 3: I can't believe you waited.
Speaker 5: I was there early. I was already there when she
Speaker 5: texted me.
Speaker 1: Oh, you were there.
Speaker 3: Twenty minutes early, because she said she texted twenty minutes.
Speaker 3: Don't do that.
Speaker 5: Oh no, yeah, I got there early because it's a
Speaker 5: busy place. Parking's kind of tough. I want her to
Speaker 5: be comfortable. I wanted to be ready when she was there.
Speaker 3: Okay, that is really thoughtful.
Speaker 1: But she didn't ask you to get there twenty minutes early,
Speaker 1: so you can't blame it on her.
Speaker 2: This is why you're not supposed to be You can
Speaker 2: let me not about the hour, not the hour twenty Yes,
Speaker 2: but it does sound from her description that you guys
Speaker 2: were able to move past that.
Speaker 3: I mean, she definitely felt bad.
Speaker 5: You know, I get it. Stuff happens, so I thought,
Speaker 5: you know, I give a shot, see how things go.
Speaker 1: Okay, how was the rest of the date after she
Speaker 1: got there.
Speaker 5: Well, you know, pretty quickly I regretted not ever talking
Speaker 5: to her on the phone beforehand. For moment one. The
Speaker 5: vibes are just real bad.
Speaker 1: Okay, it was the attitude.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you mean?
Speaker 5: Well, she comes in hot, She's like, sorry, I'm late.
Speaker 5: You should know. I never eat after six?
Speaker 3: Oh is it after six?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 3: Is it after six?
Speaker 5: At this point, it's around seven, Like we've planned on
Speaker 5: getting dinner at six. Okay, I think she eats all
Speaker 5: my food?
Speaker 3: Wait, what what do you mean?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'd already ordered it because she was like, I'm
Speaker 5: on my way, and I was like, the food'll be
Speaker 5: here ready for her.
Speaker 3: Oh no, and.
Speaker 5: She's like, no, I'm not gonna eat any of it,
Speaker 5: and then proceeds to eat all of it.
Speaker 2: She's not cheap, dude, I mean, but the good news
Speaker 2: is you were ordering for just yourself right when you
Speaker 2: put the order in, when she was arriving, and you
Speaker 2: were planning on her.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was planning out her eating roughly half of it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, faster than keep up. Wait, what do you mean
Speaker 3: how about you?
Speaker 5: She eat She ate all of it, She ate my half,
Speaker 5: she ate her hat. There was also the.
Speaker 1: Wine she drank all the wine.
Speaker 5: The waitress came up and asked if she would like
Speaker 5: a drink. She doesn't even look at the server, and
Speaker 5: it's just like, give me a cab That's what she yelled.
Speaker 5: She'll give me a cab like a cabernet.
Speaker 1: Okay, what's wrong with that?
Speaker 5: The server then asked what kind, and she just goes
Speaker 5: give me the best, waves her hand and goes give
Speaker 5: me the best glasses. Later, she's like, let's do another,
Speaker 5: and I'm like, no, I think you're done. I think
Speaker 5: you're cut off at three.
Speaker 3: Oh bad day.
Speaker 4: It worked for her.
Speaker 5: It was getting so expensive. Oh my god, I've heard
Speaker 5: enough of this.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, you are lying. Hold on, Monica, whoa man?
Speaker 1: Slow down a little bit, Nick, I need to inform you,
Speaker 1: just real quick. That's Monica. She's been quietly waiting on
Speaker 1: the other line to jump in and talk to you.
Speaker 5: Both should be the other answer. I've been over here
Speaker 5: seating because he is a liar.
Speaker 4: I ate everything.
Speaker 5: Really, you had not one iota of that sushi.
Speaker 4: You didn't have a couple of cocktails your damn self.
Speaker 1: Are you okay? Monica?
Speaker 5: You know I.
Speaker 1: Appreciate your passion. Let's let Nick respond to you, Nick Monica.
Speaker 5: As always, that's a pleasure something which specifically I made
Speaker 5: up from that story because I'm pretty sure I told
Speaker 5: the truth. I didn't make up anything.
Speaker 4: You had no sishi. You had no sishi.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you ate all of it. I didn't have time
Speaker 5: to eat any other There.
Speaker 2: Is no shavings over there, major painting.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I'm just shoveling it in statement.
Speaker 2: I think it's fine, Like maybe you just were so
Speaker 2: excited about the date you just weren't paying attention to
Speaker 2: his needs whatever.
Speaker 4: He had some food, Okay, he's making things up.
Speaker 3: She's saying that the whole time.
Speaker 5: She also thought I was ugly.
Speaker 1: Told you now, I.
Speaker 3: Don't believe you. There, she told you ugly to your face.
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, like I would call you ugly.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I'm calling a radio ship because I wanted
Speaker 5: another date.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 5: You you couldn't believe anybody would message me on my
Speaker 5: dating purpose?
Speaker 3: Who did you say that?
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, he said he would get a lot
Speaker 5: of messages. I was a little shocked.
Speaker 4: But you think it's a.
Speaker 2: I mean, a man who waits an hour for a
Speaker 2: date probably doesn't have a lot of other options.
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean that is a dick.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry we're focusing so much on the negatives here.
Speaker 1: There must have been some positive things that you liked
Speaker 1: about the date.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I remember. One thing would happen on the date
Speaker 5: is I asked if a medical assistant was the same
Speaker 5: as a nurse, and you just told me to google
Speaker 5: it questions.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's what Google is there for.
Speaker 5: You said your job was as a medical assistant, and
Speaker 5: I was making conversation.
Speaker 4: I made the conversation back google it.
Speaker 5: I kind of like that.
Speaker 3: I might steal that too.
Speaker 1: Someone's like personality and they're like, what is that? You're like,
Speaker 1: google it.
Speaker 2: I wish more than anything, I was a table sitting
Speaker 2: next year table on the first day, watching the whole
Speaker 2: dancing at the club happening.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we didn't even get to the dance.
Speaker 5: I'm good.
Speaker 3: Was it was a hotel lobby for Nick?
Speaker 1: All right, So this, this whole call is kind of
Speaker 1: getting away from us here. We we were hoping that
Speaker 1: after like the hour long bounce back, that we could
Speaker 1: maybe salvage this. And there's still a chance.
Speaker 4: I'm about to go out with him, go out with liars.
Speaker 1: Well, he's not a liar, he's an ugly liar, at
Speaker 1: least according to Monica.
Speaker 3: So we should give him.
Speaker 5: Your words, your words. I didn't say that.
Speaker 1: I don't know what was said.
Speaker 5: You did, you did all I can do.
Speaker 1: All I can do here is offer to send you
Speaker 1: guys out on another date.
Speaker 4: And I'm good.
Speaker 2: We figured Monica, you are a spirited woman and I
Speaker 2: appreciate you.
Speaker 4: You know what, I've already had some kissers anyway, so
Speaker 4: it doesn't.
Speaker 1: Matter you've been kissing. Plus, ask him for this.
Speaker 2: I got a roster.
Speaker 4: I am like NBA.
Speaker 5: You got to have a start in five.
Speaker 3: All right.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we just got cut from the team.
Speaker 1: Nicky been bench dude.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, man, How will I ever get over it?
Speaker 1: Rookie Jeffrey in the morning. Does anybody else think Monica
Speaker 1: is going to look back at this as the one
Speaker 1: that got away?
Speaker 3: You're the only one.
Speaker 1: Are you sure? Here's a man who allows you to
Speaker 1: be as late as you want, eat all of the suits.
Speaker 1: She on the plate, drink the best wine in the
Speaker 1: entire establishment, and then she puts down his dating profile.
Speaker 3: Wow it, but he didn't tell her. He was like
Speaker 3: super passive aggressive about it.
Speaker 1: That's as polite as you can get as a man.
Speaker 1: You don't tell her exactly what you're thinking. Yes, if
Speaker 1: Monica really does have a roster, I wonder when we're
Speaker 1: going to be hearing from her power forward or her
Speaker 1: shooting guard next, Like, who.
Speaker 2: Knows, I don't know that she's ever going to come
Speaker 2: back for our help.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she does really enjoyed her.
Speaker 4: So I bet you what.
Speaker 1: She takes the center off for days. He eats the most,
Speaker 1: So he's probably the most fun to go out.
Speaker 3: With because they're big.
Speaker 5: They're huge.
Speaker 1: Yes, she sounded pretty fired up by it, so I
Speaker 1: just hope she doesn't take it out on the rest
Speaker 1: of her team. But you can always Yeah, take your
Speaker 1: dating struggles out on us. We don't mind. We'll call
Speaker 1: that person who isn't calling you back and go check
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