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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocates dot com.

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Speaker 2: Christian is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Kat.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him a second date. But first, Christian, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Cat.

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Speaker 3: In a little while. I'm like super confused. You and

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Speaker 3: I we Uh, So, I like playing golf. So that

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Speaker 3: was our first date. It's to play golf. And I

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Speaker 3: mean I I thought the date was cool. I thought

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Speaker 3: it was fun. We had gone and we played. It

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Speaker 3: was about like eighteen holes.

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Speaker 2: I guess does she like golf.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what we had talked about before, So I

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Speaker 3: thought it was good. I even got us like one

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Speaker 3: of those little golf cards too, so we didn't have

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Speaker 3: to walk everywhere. And she was laughing, you know, drinking

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Speaker 3: a little bit, and looked great in her golf clothes,

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Speaker 3: by the way. So we made up some good you know,

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Speaker 3: some dances, swing dances. Every time one of us made

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Speaker 3: a good shot, we would have this whole dance that

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Speaker 3: we would do and that was cool. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 3: like we were in our own little world, just annoying

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Speaker 3: everyone that was behind us playing. And I had texted

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Speaker 3: her probably like the next day, and I was just like,

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Speaker 3: you crossed that part, you know, I can't wait to

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Speaker 3: dance in the green with you again, like that's her thing,

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Speaker 3: and all she did just thumbs it up. Yeah, just

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Speaker 3: super passive, agressive. That was ghost mode.

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Speaker 4: Well, what could have happened? That's kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, like thinking about it, I I think

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Speaker 3: I might know why, but I'm just and I was

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Speaker 3: kicking myself for it because at the time, you know,

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Speaker 3: I thought it was I thought it was impressive. And

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Speaker 3: I wore these limited edition Jordan golf shoes and I

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Speaker 3: might have brought them up, but yeah, a few times,

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Speaker 3: for four or five times. I mean they're they're stickit.

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Speaker 4: I'm looking these up Lord Jordan's.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was blowing kisses to him. I was reminding

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Speaker 3: everyone that they were limited edition. But I was meaning

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Speaker 3: it to be funny, you know, like, look, I'm good

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Speaker 3: because of my shoes without them on trash. Oh okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you know. I was. I was more annoying

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Speaker 3: than endearing. And then we were supposed to go to

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Speaker 3: dinner after the play golf date, but Kat decided to

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Speaker 3: call it a day after the eighteenth hole, and.

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Speaker 4: Uh, maybe she just got tired and maybe she didn't

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Speaker 4: want to play golf again, you know, because that was

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Speaker 4: a long time. Then when you text her, I can't

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Speaker 4: wait to get back on the green. Maybe she's just

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Speaker 4: that was too long, right, I don't know, because these

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Speaker 4: shoes look pretty cool. Well, I've never seen Jordan before.

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Speaker 3: She had you know, like I said, we didn't really

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Speaker 3: eat or anything, but like she had some drinks and

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Speaker 3: she seemed to be okay.

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Speaker 5: But maybe she got like sick from not eating and

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Speaker 5: all the drinking. So maybe you're in the clear.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but I I just thought we really

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Speaker 3: hit it off, and it was kind of it's appointing

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Speaker 3: when I just got the thumbs up because we had

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Speaker 3: just spent all that time together golfing and then that's

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Speaker 3: all I got, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well we'll see if we can figure

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Speaker 2: it out for you. We'll play a song, come back

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Speaker 2: and then call her and see if she'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll get your first day follow up next

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us for today's first date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Christian is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a woman named Kat. So we're about to call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him

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Speaker 2: and maybe get him a second date. But before we

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Speaker 2: do that, Christian, why don't you break down your date

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Speaker 2: again for us?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? So Kat and I went out on that date.

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Speaker 3: We played golf because we're both into that, and there

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Speaker 3: was an eighteen holer and everything was going good. We

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Speaker 3: were laughing, drinking, and I think something must have happened.

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Speaker 3: You're on the date. I think maybe because I had

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Speaker 3: been kind of drawing attention to my new limited edition

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Speaker 3: Maybe it was annoying.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how to.

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Speaker 3: Think so, and then I just got a thumbs up

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Speaker 3: on a check.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, you ready for us to see if

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Speaker 2: we could figure out what that thumbs up is all about.

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Speaker 3: A little nervously, yeah, let's do it.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi man, speak to Cat.

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Speaker 5: Please? This is she?

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Speaker 2: Hi Kat, how are you this is a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jebile Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 5: I'm Nina.

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Speaker 3: Hi, I'm Victorian and.

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Speaker 2: My name is Jubel. How are you.

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Speaker 5: I'm good?

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Speaker 3: Sweet.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 5: H Yeah, but I'm a little confused.

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Speaker 2: Oh well then maybe I can clear that up for you. No,

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Speaker 2: we're calling you today because we do a segment on

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Speaker 2: the show called the First Date follow Up. That's where

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Speaker 2: if you go out on a date with somebody and

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Speaker 2: ghost them, they can email us to get you on

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Speaker 2: the phone and ask why you're ghosting. And we got

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Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 3: Is this about Christian?

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Speaker 2: Yes it is. Christian said that all you did since

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Speaker 2: his date was give him a big thumbs up and

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Speaker 2: that's it.

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Speaker 5: Your text, welles is hilarious.

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Speaker 4: Do you think it's funny what happened?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 5: So, okay, he took me on a four hour outdoor

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Speaker 5: date in.

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Speaker 1: The sun with no snacks.

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Speaker 5: You were food. It was just vibes. We were living

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Speaker 5: off of vibes and golf balls. And I was basically

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Speaker 5: two tequila selters deep by Whole six and I nearly

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Speaker 5: ate one of those dibbits.

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Speaker 4: Did you tell me you were hungry.

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Speaker 1: Oh I told I needed food twice, and he goes,

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Speaker 1: we'll eat after golf takes focus and I was like, bro,

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Speaker 1: I'm not Tiger Woods, I'm hungry. And then I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what kind of man thinks that four hours of day

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Speaker 1: drinking doesn't require snacks.

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Speaker 5: But to give him the benefit of the doubt, he

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Speaker 5: actually tried to take me to dinner after playing golf,

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Speaker 5: But honestly, I was just ready to punch him in

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Speaker 5: the face and eat a burrito. I mean, I needed

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Speaker 5: to get out of there.

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Speaker 2: So that's that's it. Because you were angry.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was starving.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's fair, all right. Well, hey, thank you

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Speaker 2: for telling us why you gohos seeing him. Christian is

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Speaker 2: actually on the phone by the way, listening and wants

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Speaker 2: to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Wait. Cut, you're telling you about the snacks, Christian, it

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Speaker 3: was about the complete absence of snacks.

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Speaker 5: I was borderline barrel by hotwelve.

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Speaker 3: Well, I probably more after you said you were down

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Speaker 3: for golf.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't know golf. With the hunger game. You

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Speaker 1: played a date that was four hours in the sun,

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Speaker 1: and you all you gave me was seltzer.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, but I mean it was a good felt.

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Speaker 5: It was to show oh delicious, nothing pairs with electro

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Speaker 5: like gloss, like carbon and regrets.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, I didn't think that I was responsible for

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Speaker 3: your snacks. I ifigured you were an adult, and you know,

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Speaker 3: I maybe that was my bad, like we didn't talk

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Speaker 3: about it before, but I just don't think that I

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Speaker 3: should be. I don't know, you could have brought a

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Speaker 3: granola bar or something like that, right.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so hold on. If I have to pack a

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Speaker 5: survival kit for our date, absolutely not. And I'm sorry,

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Speaker 5: but are you insinuating that I'm a toddler that I

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Speaker 5: need snacks?

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Speaker 3: You're not?

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Speaker 5: So, okay, hold on, because you were the one that

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Speaker 5: was driving the golf cart around like it was a

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Speaker 5: power wheel in the driveway, showing off your shiny shoes

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Speaker 5: to anyone that would look at them. They were like,

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Speaker 5: we're blowing kisses. But yeah, cool, I'm the one that

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Speaker 5: needs taken care of and I'm the one that's a toddler.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I mean, you went four hours without having

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Speaker 3: a snack and now you're throwing a fit.

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Speaker 5: I mean I don't drinking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all I'm saying is when I was driving the

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Speaker 3: golf cart around. You were whooping and screaming, and you

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Speaker 3: look like you're having a good time.

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Speaker 5: I was whooping and screaming for help.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like someone else is a toddler to me. I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 5: That's absolutely unaccessible that you did not properly plan that

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Speaker 5: date at all. Who goes who goes drinking outdoors in

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Speaker 5: the sun and doesn't bring any type of food?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, next time if I were to go golfing

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Speaker 3: with you, I would be sure to bring some milk

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Speaker 3: in an app square. That's what you need.

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Speaker 5: No, but thank you, but a little bit of advice.

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Speaker 5: Just make sure to feed your future dates.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, my future dates will be adults and they'll

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Speaker 3: bring your on snacks, So thanks to be a bet, and.

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Speaker 5: My future dates will be adults who don't over compensate

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Speaker 5: with their shoes.

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Speaker 2: That's the question, Kat. Would you like to go on

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Speaker 2: another day with Christian? Will pay for its?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely not. I rather iron my socks oh for going

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Speaker 5: on a future date with him, And I'd rather eat

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Speaker 5: a heart than going on the sad Wow Wow.

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Speaker 1: Jubile's first date follow up