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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: And Jasmine from the Jasmine.

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Speaker 3: Brand is here.

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Speaker 2: Good morning Angela, Good morning Jaz. Jasmin is a very

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Speaker 2: funny person in general, am I Yeah, sometimes like unconsciously, okay,

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Speaker 2: maybe subconsciously.

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Speaker 4: Maybe subconsciously, how which he's unconscious? I think you think

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Speaker 4: I'm funny when I'm not trying to be.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you gotta tell me later what you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: But yes, today's going to be a great day. We're

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Speaker 2: actually a little tired. We went to gala yesterday.

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Speaker 5: We did. You were honored.

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Speaker 2: I was honored at a gala for Union settlement and

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Speaker 2: they had this video that they played in the beginning.

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Speaker 2: I actually went to go visit the location. Yeah, that

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Speaker 2: and what it is. This is a great organization, right

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Speaker 2: and they've been around since like eighteen ninety five.

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Speaker 5: Yes, that's a long time.

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Speaker 2: And so they really do help with services in the

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Speaker 2: community when it comes to seniors, younger kids, making sure

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Speaker 2: that they have activities like boxing, dancing, basketball, but even

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Speaker 2: workforce training.

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Speaker 5: And there's really there in East Harlem, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this one is in East Harlem that we went

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Speaker 2: to yesterday. But they also have dance classes. Yes, Jazmine,

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Speaker 2: anytime you say dance classes, Jazzmine starts dancing for no reason.

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Speaker 5: It's not no reason you say dance. And I gotta

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Speaker 5: do a body role. I gotta do a body roll.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well today on the show, we do

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Speaker 2: have mastery of comedy. You know, I love a good comedian. Yes,

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Speaker 5: You may have been a comedian in your former life.

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Speaker 2: Now I just enjoy watching comedy. And Chloe Hilliard's going

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Speaker 2: to be joining us today. She has a book called

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Speaker 2: f Your Diet and that was and I actually met

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Speaker 2: She's a journalist, yes, like went to school for journalism journalists,

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Speaker 2: and so she used to write for Vibe, for Villleged

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Speaker 2: Voice or all these different publications and then she transitioned

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Speaker 2: into and now she is the head writer co writer

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Speaker 2: for the Black Lady Sketch Show, Yes, which is on

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Speaker 2: HBO and you can watch it streaming on HBO.

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Speaker 6: Max as well.

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Speaker 5: She has a great story. Season four just started.

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Speaker 2: But she has an amazing story and you guys are

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Speaker 2: gonna love to hear it. Yeah, just how the how

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Speaker 2: she got to where she's going. And she's really funny.

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Speaker 5: She Yeah, she's like smart funny.

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Speaker 2: She's smart funny and also conversational funny, like just in

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Speaker 5: She's lived a little bit too.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and let's start the show off. And I always

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Speaker 2: love talking about this segment. Shine a Light on them.

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Speaker 2: Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty is a number.

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Speaker 2: If there's anybody that you want to shine a light on,

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Speaker 2: somebody doing something positive in the community, or perhaps a

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Speaker 6: Whoever it is that you want to shine a light on.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you were watching the news and you're like, that's

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Speaker 2: amazing that this person helps somebody else, and I just

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Speaker 2: want to shout them out. Eight hundred two nine two

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Speaker 2: fifty one fifty is a number. Shine a light on them.

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Speaker 7: We gonna, I'm gonna shin. I'ma shine turn your lights on, y'all.

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Speaker 7: Light sce and love to those who are doing greatness.

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Speaker 7: Shine a light on. It's time to shine a light

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Speaker 7: on them.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is shine a light on him. It's way

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Speaker 2: up with Angela Gie, I'm here. Jasmine from the Jasmine

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Speaker 2: Brand is dancing in her seat.

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Speaker 5: Yes, happy Thursday, my favorite day of the week.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's right, today's your favorite day. She likes anticipation.

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Speaker 2: I did a lot about a person by their favorite

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Speaker 5: Yes, you can.

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Speaker 6: Mine is Friday.

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Speaker 5: And what does that mean about you?

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Speaker 6: That means that I'm.

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Speaker 2: Relieved to get things over with and ready to pass out.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, I want to shine a light on somebody. Now,

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Speaker 6: I was honored.

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Speaker 2: Yes, you were at Union Settlement, and I want to

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Speaker 2: shine a light on Jazzline. Now. She is somebody that

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Speaker 6: But she also has her own wine company she.

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Speaker 2: Does that she launched, and she spoke and one of

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Speaker 2: the things that we talked about was confidence, right, ending

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Speaker 6: Yes, trust me, I know, and we're going to discuss that.

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Speaker 6: Don't think about last night.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but it was just amazing for her to represent

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Speaker 2: for union settlement and the work that they're doing there,

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Speaker 2: So we just want to shine a light.

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Speaker 5: On you, Jazzlin, Yes, Jazzlin.

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Speaker 6: All right, now, who do you guys want to shine

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Speaker 2: Again? That is somebody who's doing something amazing, something positive.

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Speaker 2: Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty is the number.

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Speaker 2: Maybe somebody helped you do something, accomplish something, or maybe

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Speaker 2: it's a complete stranger who just brightened up your day. Marcus.

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Speaker 5: What's up?

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Speaker 8: How you doing today?

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Speaker 6: How you doing Marcus?

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Speaker 8: So you want to shine a light on I'm trying

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Speaker 8: to the light on my fi Pierre today. Okay, Pierre

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Speaker 8: Pierre with a pete oh tee.

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Speaker 6: Tierra, I didn't know what was going on.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what's up?

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Speaker 7: So go ahead?

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Speaker 6: Why do you want to shine a light on Tierra?

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Speaker 8: We've been together nineteen years and we had the first

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Speaker 8: three as I ain't had the money to do nothing

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Speaker 8: for and she was accepted man. She accepted and said

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Speaker 8: I'm just happy that she accepted my brokeness for today.

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Speaker 2: She nineteen.

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Speaker 5: Ye, that's crazy.

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Speaker 8: I love it, yes, ma'am.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, thank you, congratulations. Shout out to Tierra.

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Speaker 8: Yes'm have a good one.

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Speaker 5: Samaria. Hi, what's up lady?

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Speaker 9: Hi?

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Speaker 10: How you doing?

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Speaker 6: Who you want to shine a light on?

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Speaker 11: I want to turn the light on my spouse. His

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Speaker 11: name is Jermaine Gabriel to know. Yes, yes, I'm here

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Speaker 11: for me, for York. Okay, there for me for a

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Speaker 11: long time. When I met him, I was like in

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Speaker 8: But back to cool.

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Speaker 11: He paid my tuition.

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Speaker 10: Wow, well not my tuition.

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Speaker 11: He I owed four thousand dollars to pro College. He

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Speaker 10: Me, and I love it.

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Speaker 11: In My future is a keeper.

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Speaker 2: No, that's dope. That is amazing. You know what, we

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Speaker 2: have a gift that we want to give you for him.

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Speaker 11: Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna give you this Valentino cologne. It smells amazing.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna love it, so you can give him some cologne.

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Speaker 11: Oh, thank you so much.

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Speaker 10: I appreciate that. I know you were too.

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Speaker 6: Hold on the line.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Samario, we're gonna we're gonna get your information so

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Speaker 2: we can send it out.

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Speaker 11: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 8: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 5: Awesome, thank you, You're awesome.

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Speaker 10: Weesome.

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Speaker 8: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: All right.

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Speaker 2: Well that was Shine a Light on Him, brought to

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Speaker 2: you by Born in Roma, by Valentino. Smells good in here,

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Speaker 2: doesn't it available that Macy's And I want to shout

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Speaker 5: In the car. Wait, Sally, Hey, Yes, And.

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Speaker 2: When we come back we have a yet, we'll be

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Speaker 2: talking about Jonathan Majors. Yes, looks like there are more women,

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Speaker 2: On way up at Angela Yee.

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Speaker 12: They say in the rooms.

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Speaker 7: From industry, shade to all of gossip out.

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Speaker 2: Angela's feeling that, Yes, it's way up at Angela yee.

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Speaker 6: I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: And of course Jasmine from the Jasmine brand dot Com

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Speaker 5: Hey, ladies, I'm planning. I'm okay, real clap. I missed you, guys.

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Speaker 2: Let's she was making it through traffic to get here

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Speaker 9: I can't New York City. I feel like it's gotten

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Speaker 2: Really, she was living in La Yeah, but let's get

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Speaker 6: Jonathan Majors, do you know him personally?

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Speaker 9: I don't know him personally, But this is this story

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Speaker 2: Okay. Well, he's preparing for a May eighth court appearance

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Speaker 2: in addition to this right, according to his defense, you know,

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Speaker 2: he has a video that he says proves he didn't

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Speaker 2: But according to Jonathan Mage's attorney, they're saying that they

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Speaker 5: It's a complete lie.

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Speaker 2: They have hours of security videos showing that the woman

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Speaker 7: So about last night last night, last night, Liza I

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Speaker 5: Happy Thursday.

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Speaker 6: Melissa Ford is here.

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Speaker 2: And by the way, Melissa, you're you're on Joe Butten's podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh how you with public speaking? Jasmine?

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Speaker 4: I get nervous too, Okay, it's I get nervous every time.

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Speaker 5: It's pure fault.

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Speaker 2: I want to see what you guys think about that.

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Speaker 7: They are gurus of a gram.

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Speaker 2: Yes, what's up? It's way up at Angela Yee. I'm

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Speaker 6: Who do you Jasmine from the Jasmine brand is here.

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Speaker 2: Hmmm.

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Speaker 6: about that? Melissa?

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Speaker 9: I think it's a little generic and a little pandering,

451
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Speaker 9: even though even though there's you.

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Speaker 2: Know, oesome truth to it.

453
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Speaker 9: There's truth to it, but it's just it's so generic,

454
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Speaker 9: like treat people how you want to be treated kind

455
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Speaker 9: of thing. So it's not directed to any particular gender.

456
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Speaker 9: It's just like, treat people how you want to be treated.

457
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Speaker 2: But do you think a man leads in the relationship

458
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Speaker 2: when it comes to how things happen?

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Speaker 14: Like you know, like Ja, it depends on how emotionally

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Speaker 14: intelligent he is.

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Speaker 2: Right, because there are times when, like you could treat

462
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Speaker 2: a guy really well and then he starts doing whatever

463
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Speaker 2: he's doing, and then you reciprocate that and you're like,

464
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Speaker 2: I'm not going to do all this if he's not

465
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Speaker 2: even doing this right, that does happen, Yeah, and I'm

466
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Speaker 2: sure that happens the other way around too. Absolutely, what

467
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Speaker 2: do you think, Jasy?

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Speaker 5: I think that every relationship is different.

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Speaker 2: But this is, you know, in general.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. I don't The music was throwing

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Speaker 5: me off.

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Speaker 9: I'm gonna be honest, you didn't like it was a

473
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Speaker 9: little hokey.

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Speaker 4: No, I just feel like every I don't know, it's hard,

475
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Speaker 4: it's hard to tell. It just kind of depends on

476
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Speaker 4: the situation that you're in.

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Speaker 2: You know, I think about your own personal situations right now.

478
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Speaker 2: If you're dating a guy, things are going really well

479
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Speaker 2: at the beginning, at the beginning, but then sometimes as

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Speaker 2: you settle in, things change.

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, that's really only way you can judge is

482
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Speaker 4: once you settle in.

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Speaker 9: Right, yeah, so, or after you've had your first argument okay, yeah,

484
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Speaker 9: because you really get to see who somebody is when

485
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Speaker 9: they're angry. Because do you still love me when you're angry?

486
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Speaker 9: Are you still respectful when you're angry with me? Or

487
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Speaker 9: do you start throwing around all kinds of profanity?

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Speaker 14: Maybe you know, try and throw hands.

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Speaker 9: Or whatever the case is, your hand when you're angry, right,

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Speaker 9: and don't don't try to throw something back in my

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Speaker 9: face that I told you confidence?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 5: I hate those types.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Well, all that's important, But you know, sometimes

495
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Speaker 2: I feel like it is true that the relationship could be. Well, right,

496
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Speaker 2: I'm treating you the same way you treat me. Oh,

497
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Speaker 2: he loves me, I love him back. He's doing stuff

498
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Speaker 2: for me. I'm doing stuff for him. But once somebody

499
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Speaker 2: stops doing those things, it kind of makes you feel like, well,

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing that anymore. Yeah, and I'm gonna say this.

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Speaker 2: This may not be popular, but I do feel like

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Speaker 2: a lot of times it is the man.

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Speaker 5: You kind of whisper, can you say it? I'm not

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Speaker 5: a can you say that with your chest feminist?

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Speaker 2: But I do feel like in the beginning, I feel

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Speaker 2: like women are a lot more catering and nurturing period.

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Speaker 14: I would agree with that.

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Speaker 2: You know, so sometimes we have to train men to

509
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Speaker 2: treat us a certain way, so annoying.

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Speaker 4: I just want you to be consistent. So don't give

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Speaker 4: me a whole bunch at the beginning and then you know.

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Speaker 9: When it falls off, Yeah, just as you get come,

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Speaker 9: Just give me a little at the beginning, so I

514
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Speaker 9: know what I'm what the potential is.

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Speaker 2: It's like, don't try to get me to come over,

516
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Speaker 2: you cooking for me and then you never cook again,

517
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Speaker 2: like you got the draws.

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Speaker 5: Does that happen?

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Speaker 14: That happened?

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Speaker 6: All right? So we want to see what you guys think.

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Speaker 2: Eight hundred and two nine two fifty one fifty is

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Speaker 2: the number we're talking about.

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Speaker 6: Gurus of the gram all right?

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Speaker 2: Is it that you know everything could be great in

525
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Speaker 2: the relationship, but then later on when things change. It's

526
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Speaker 2: the man's fault. You need to look at yourself. Hey, Sherry,

527
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Speaker 2: what do you think?

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 15: Angela?

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 7: I'm doing well?

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Speaker 10: How about yourself?

533
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Speaker 2: I'm good. We got Melissa Ford here and Jasmine brand

534
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Speaker 2: is here.

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Speaker 10: Hi, Hi, jasminey.

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Speaker 6: So what did you think about gurus of the gram?

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Speaker 10: I didn't agree?

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Speaker 5: Okay, why only only.

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Speaker 11: Because, all right, the person when you first meet, you know,

540
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Speaker 11: when they're showing you them, obviously you want to be showing.

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Speaker 10: Them yourself as well. So if it doesn't work out.

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Speaker 16: It's not for you to take the blame.

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Speaker 11: They be the person that your inn relation that lifted

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Speaker 11: it up, So why would.

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Speaker 8: You just take the blame.

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Speaker 10: I don't think that's there.

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Speaker 2: So you think it's not the man's fault necessarily, It

548
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Speaker 2: could be both people, or it could be anyone.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, Angela, exactly.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's flair. Yeah, she's not blaming him. It

551
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Speaker 2: could be your own fuck yeah, I'm blaming him right. Well,

552
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Speaker 2: thank you, Thank you, have a great day, you too.

553
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Speaker 2: Good morning?

554
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Speaker 5: Who's this?

555
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Speaker 17: This is Omar? This is Omar falling from Virginia Portal

556
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Speaker 17: two up too down?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so, oh my, what are your thoughts about grous

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Speaker 2: of the gram.

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Speaker 10: Uh, I definitely agree when it comes to treating a woman.

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Speaker 8: Yes, you treat a woman how.

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Speaker 10: She how she's supposed to be treated, or how you

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Speaker 10: desire for a woman to be treated.

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Speaker 17: And that will tell you everything.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 10: If you if you grew.

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Speaker 17: Up and you see how your dad or how your

567
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Speaker 17: mom was treated, you should be you should treat a

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Speaker 17: woman according to that.

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Speaker 2: And if the right way, not a bad way, but

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Speaker 2: the right way, okay, and then she can reciprocate that

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 16: Absolutely absolutely, If if you treat a woman right, then

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Speaker 16: you're gonna feel good about yourself because when you see

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Speaker 16: your woman feeling good, a happy wife means a happy life.

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Speaker 2: Oh write that Okay, So he agreed, right, all right,

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Speaker 2: thank you ladies.

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Speaker 16: Man.

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Speaker 2: Hey, David, Hey, what's what's your thoughts on guruz at

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Speaker 2: the grammar?

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Speaker 6: Woman will treat you how you treat her?

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Speaker 7: No, not at all.

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Speaker 1: Everybody needs to take responsibility for themselves, men and women,

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Speaker 1: and each individual is totally different. No relationship is exactly

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Speaker 1: the same to me, in my opinion, all those guys

585
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Speaker 1: that do those videos do it for clouts.

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Speaker 7: And that's it, just clout.

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Speaker 1: They want to you know, go viral.

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Speaker 10: What's that?

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Speaker 2: What would your advice be?

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Speaker 1: My advice would be that if you love someone you know,

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Speaker 1: stick it out with them, try, try to set boundaries,

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Speaker 1: try to set goals, and if time goes by and

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Speaker 1: those goals aren't accomplished, then it's time to walk away.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people stay in relationships way too long,

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Speaker 1: and it has to stop because you're only you're making

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Speaker 1: yourself suffer it and that other person is getting over you.

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Speaker 18: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: They need to better themselves too, and if they stay

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Speaker 1: in that relationship and they're the problem, they will never

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Speaker 1: stop being the problem.

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Speaker 3: I feel like this.

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Speaker 6: I feel like this sounds a little personal.

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Speaker 1: It is very very personal, very personal.

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Speaker 2: Well, I do hope this works out for you or later.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for sharing with us though, bye, Thank you

606
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Speaker 2: so much. He needed to get that out. You speak

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Speaker 2: with passion, all right. Well that was Gurus of the

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Speaker 2: gram And when we come back, we have the EET

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Speaker 2: And a lot of people were triggered by some remarks

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Speaker 2: that Marcus Houston.

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Speaker 5: Made, including his own bandmates.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll tell you what was said and how Marcus

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Speaker 2: Houston responded to the triggering remarks about women fortying up.

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Speaker 2: It's way up with Angela.

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Speaker 10: Ye.

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Speaker 7: Yet next shore, she's about to blow the lid off

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Speaker 7: this spot. Let's get it. Angelus feeling that yet, come

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Speaker 7: and get your tea.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's the way you put Angela Ye.

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Speaker 2: I'm Angela Ghee and Melissa Ford is guest hosting today.

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Speaker 2: You're also Jasmine from the Jasmine brand is here.

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Speaker 5: Good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 6: I see you have on your be Yourself love sweatshirt.

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Speaker 5: I do.

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Speaker 2: That is from Dominique Fishback's line of clothing. By the way,

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Speaker 2: this is super confidences, super cute, Angeline, be Yourself.

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Speaker 5: Did you give this for me?

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Speaker 13: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I purchased some to support her brand.

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Speaker 14: I love her.

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Speaker 5: Did you guys watch Swarm? Yes? My god, and you

632
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Speaker 5: know she's from Brooklyn.

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Speaker 9: She is so talented, like so talented that was very

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Speaker 9: uncomfortable to watch.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'll just say that. But even before that, Judas

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Speaker 2: and the Black hyeh Project Power that hates you give

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Speaker 2: all of the movies that she was in. So shout

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Speaker 2: out to Dominique fish Back again. All right, Now, let's

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Speaker 2: start off with Marcus Houston. So we were talking about

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Speaker 2: this interview that he did with page six with our

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Speaker 2: girl to Shara, and he was basically talking about why.

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Speaker 9: He doesn't date women his own age, women over forty. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: he's forty. Yes, he's in his forties. Yeah, and his

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Speaker 9: wife is he's forty one. Actually, his wife is twenty two.

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Speaker 9: And this has been a big topic. Here's what he

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Speaker 9: said originally, Hey.

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Speaker 19: I'm forty one, right, she's twenty two. I could have

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Speaker 19: married a forty one year old woman and it could

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Speaker 19: have been disastrous. They could have felt like, you know,

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Speaker 19: because I'll talk, I'll sit and talk to women and

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Speaker 19: women that are my age, and they kind of have

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Speaker 19: a different outlook on life. You know, a lot of

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Speaker 19: women my age are very independent. I would never want

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Speaker 19: to be with a woman that felt like, oh I

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Speaker 19: don't need you or out of you know what I'm

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Speaker 19: saying like that, So, you know, and there's a lot

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Speaker 19: of women my age outdated women my age, and you know,

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Speaker 19: they may have baggage, they may have kids, they may.

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Speaker 9: Have not Ooh those comments, Oh my god, way to

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Speaker 9: generalize a whole population, a whole age group of women,

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Speaker 9: Like it's so pathetic.

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Speaker 14: It's like, it's so pathetic.

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Speaker 2: Well, his bandmate from Immature actually posted a comment In

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Speaker 2: response to that Young Rome, he said, it's unfortunate that

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Speaker 2: in a moment of morning and grieving my brother, I

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Speaker 2: would have to speak on statements that I do not

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Speaker 2: agree with. But as a member of Immature, I would

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Speaker 2: like to extend my sincerius apology in regards to the

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Speaker 2: insensitive statements made by my former group member Marcus Houston.

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Speaker 2: We were raised by a tribe of strong, independent women

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Speaker 2: who face hardships.

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Speaker 6: We will never fully understand.

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Speaker 2: Women today have enough battles to endure, including the policing

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Speaker 2: of their bodies, equal pay in the workplace, and beauty standards.

675
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 2: It is never okay to degrade one group of women

676
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 2: in order to praise another. Black women in particular are

677
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 2: often on the receiving end of the constant negative stereotypes

678
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 2: they fight against daily.

679
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Speaker 5: I appreciate this statement. I forgot about Immature for why.

680
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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, so young Rome seems like he's not immature

681
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:34,120
Speaker 2: right anymore.

682
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 5: He's very much on our pomp now.

683
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 2: Marcus Houston also posted a response very brief, So all

684
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,120
Speaker 2: my fans, supporters and real truth seekers. I can see

685
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: how the media would love to pin people against people

686
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 2: from monetary gain, But when you're at peace. And by

687
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 2: the way, it's why o you apostrophyary, loving life and

688
00:27:54,520 --> 00:27:56,920
Speaker 2: able to still make a positive impact in the entertainment

689
00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,120
Speaker 2: world for over two decades. It's so easy to move

690
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 2: out the way I let bottom feeders eat, protect your piece.

691
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Speaker 2: I love you all.

692
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Speaker 4: Can I just say, I can't stand when people blame

693
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 4: the media. You literally said this out of your mouth.

694
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Speaker 4: How are you going to blame the media for something

695
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 4: that you say? Yeah, it's so corny.

696
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 9: Yeah, and it's like pinning people together. No, he came

697
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:19,120
Speaker 9: out and spoke against what you said, your exact words, right,

698
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 9: like he first of all, to all my fans and supporters,

699
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Speaker 9: do you have any left?

700
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Speaker 14: That's what I just really want to find out.

701
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Speaker 5: I'm not over. There'll have to be under forty exactly.

702
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Speaker 2: And you know, he just did the uncensored. So that's

703
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 2: also why.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, I was wondering why is he doing so much talking?

705
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 14: So does he have an album coming out? Does he

706
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 14: have a project coming out?

707
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Speaker 9: Because he's doing all these interviews and just telling on

708
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 9: himself in a way that it's like, you know, you

709
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 9: could have kept a lot of this to yourself.

710
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, but yeah, and The other thing that

711
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 2: people been talking about was when he met his wife,

712
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 2: because he says that he met her.

713
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 9: When she was seventeen, but he had no interest in

714
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 9: her whatsoever until she became legal child.

715
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Speaker 14: Gnight, and not for nothing.

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Speaker 4: When you're twenty two and you're forty two, you you

717
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 4: do have different life experiences. You've lived an extra twenty years,

718
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 4: so you would have a different so experience.

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Speaker 9: It says something about your emotional maturity or lack thereof.

720
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 14: If you have an enormous amount in compare you know, in.

721
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Speaker 9: Similar, yes silarities to a twenty two year old with

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00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 9: all your lived experiences.

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Speaker 2: All right, and that is your yet. We have so

724
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 2: much more we need to talk about. But I know

725
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: we were very triggered. Sorry, I was triggered yesterday.

726
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 5: I couldn't take it. I was like, I hated him.

727
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 6: So what happened?

728
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 2: I thought somebody died jas and was like, I was like,

729
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 2: are you okay? What happened? He was like, Marcus Houston,

730
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Speaker 2: all right, Well that is your yet. And when we

731
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 2: come back, we have under the radar. These are some

732
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 2: of the stories that are flying under the radar that

733
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 2: may not necessarily be headline news. I have a couple

734
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: of different things that I want to talk about. One

735
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:53,719
Speaker 2: is an attempted murder on somebody who resembled a person,

736
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 2: and then we're going to talk about John like Guizamo

737
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 2: and his tipping habits.

738
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Speaker 6: It's way up at the Angelouee.

739
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Speaker 7: Yeah, news just in the news that related to you.

740
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,000
Speaker 7: These stories are flying under the radar.

741
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Speaker 2: Yes, it's way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

742
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 2: My grand Melissa Ford is guest hosting today and Jasmine

743
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: is here from the Jasmine Brand.

744
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Speaker 5: Happy Thursday, Happy Friday, Happy your favorite day of the week.

745
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 2: Yes, all right, and we're talking about these under the

746
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: radar stories, not necessarily headline news stories.

747
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 6: Now, this one was very strange.

748
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 2: A woman from New York City was convicted of trying

749
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Speaker 2: to kill her friend by the way with a sedative

750
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Speaker 2: lace cheesecake. She was sentenced yesterday to twenty one years

751
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 2: in prison. So what they are saying is that forty

752
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 2: seven year old Victoria Nasairova of Brooklyn actually lace a

753
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Speaker 2: cheesecake with sedatives because she was planning to steal her

754
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 2: victim's identity. Her friend looked like her, oh physically resembled

755
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Speaker 2: each other, and prosecutors feel that she poisoned her so

756
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 2: she could take her identity and did not want to

757
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 2: be forced to return to Russia. She's actually wanted for

758
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 2: a murder back in twenty fourteen in Russia.

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Speaker 5: Oh, this is one brand for her.

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Speaker 6: Yes, tracks, she has no problem trying to you.

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Speaker 2: So she was convicted of second degree attempted murder, first

762
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Speaker 2: degree attempted assault, second degree AsSalt, first degree on lawful imprisonment,

763
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Speaker 2: and petit larceny. So she had faced up to twenty

764
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 2: five years in prison. They do plan to appeal the

765
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Speaker 2: conviction and the sentence. They feel like it was excessive

766
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 2: and they said there's other evidence and legal issues. But

767
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Speaker 2: the woman did survive.

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Speaker 4: By the way, So cheesecake she okay, because you know

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Speaker 4: that will be a way to take me out, to

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Speaker 4: put something in my food.

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Speaker 9: I was about to say, if you're gonna go, I mean,

772
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Speaker 9: like there's no I don't think there's a better way

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Speaker 9: than like, you know, cheesecake and going to sleep.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, or some wings the Junior's cheesecake particular. All right.

775
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Speaker 2: So fortunately the woman did live though that she she

776
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: tried to poison look at God. But they did take

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Speaker 2: her Ukrainian passport and around four thousand dollars in cash. Okay,

778
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 2: all right, now, let's talk about John Leguizamo. He recently

779
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 2: did an interview on Good Morning America, and he talked

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Speaker 2: about how he tips. Okay, I think it's great that

781
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:02,440
Speaker 2: he tips everybody, but he tips way more than I do.

782
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Speaker 2: Here's what he said. We saw you dropping hundreds.

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Speaker 7: Just a little bit of this one for you too.

784
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Speaker 2: Cash.

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00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 7: Yeah, I gotta tip folks.

786
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 8: I got to.

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Speaker 7: You're tipping them with hundreds, Yeah, you.

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Speaker 5: Got you gotta give it back. I mean, people are

789
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Speaker 5: giving you their best service and.

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Speaker 7: You don't tip them. Come on, what do you?

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Speaker 13: Who are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm not a cheap scape. He says that it's not

793
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 2: the seventies anymore. You can't tip a twenty dollars bills.

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Speaker 5: Listen.

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Speaker 4: So around the holiday season, my business partner, we tipped

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Speaker 4: the bills. So if it's like the bills won seventy

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Speaker 4: five tip, that's just like some certain times of the year.

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Speaker 4: I don't tip one hundred dollars every time because I

799
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Speaker 4: don't have it.

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Speaker 3: I definitely got it. I ain't got it.

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Speaker 4: So but if I had it, I understand it. You

802
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 4: have it's just not this is not my ministry. One

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00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 4: hundred dollar tip and everything's not my ministry.

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Speaker 6: I mean that's nice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just don't have it like I just yeah,

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Speaker 4: I ain't got it.

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Speaker 5: God bless them all right.

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Speaker 6: Well, speaking of.

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Speaker 2: Money, a woman went on the internet to the am

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Speaker 2: I the Ahole forum and she said she doesn't want

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Speaker 2: to share her recent lottery winnings with her husband. Her

812
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 2: husband wants the money and the couple's joint savings. And

813
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: she said she had recently won the lottery from a scratchy.

814
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 2: She was excited. She didn't say how much it was,

815
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Speaker 2: but it was tens of thousands of dollars, semi life changing.

816
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:13,959
Speaker 2: She said she wanted to use some money to go

817
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Speaker 2: traveling on an overseas holiday, but her husband thought that

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Speaker 2: she was being unreasonable. He said she should add the

819
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Speaker 2: money to the joint savings account so they could continue

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Speaker 2: saving for things like a house and a car.

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Speaker 5: But she said that's not fair.

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Speaker 2: I bought the tickets, scratched it, and I cashed in

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Speaker 2: the money for myself, all right, She said, my husband

824
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Speaker 2: isn't owed half the money just because we are married.

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Speaker 2: Is that a red flag in a relationship.

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Speaker 14: It sounds like she don't.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, she sounds like she doesn't like her husband very

828
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:38,719
Speaker 9: much because she wants to take the winnings and go travel.

829
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Speaker 9: It doesn't sound like she wants to take them with her.

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Speaker 9: I don't like him telling her what to do with it, though.

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Speaker 9: I'm about sharing. I'm cool with the sharing, but but

832
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Speaker 9: let me do what with my portion. Let me do

833
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Speaker 9: what I want to do with my portion.

834
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Speaker 2: You know what would be?

835
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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, maybe we split it in half.

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Speaker 2: I do me and you the rest be put in

837
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Speaker 2: the sit if you want to do the savings, yeah,

838
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 2: you know, but you can't keep it.

839
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Speaker 6: Off for yourself. No, I'm with you on that, all right.

840
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 2: I do believe.

841
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 6: And yes, he is owed half the money just because

842
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 6: we're married.

843
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 7: Because when you're.

844
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Speaker 2: Married, whatever you make you share share Now. I do

845
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 2: think whatever you have before that is yours. If I

846
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: own a house or properties and things like that, I

847
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 2: can keep that for myself, right, And.

848
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Speaker 4: Everyone shared it splits things differently, so everyone doesn't do

849
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Speaker 4: fifty fifty. But whatever you guys typically do, I feel

850
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Speaker 4: like it's fine to do it in this case.

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Speaker 2: Right, What if he pays all the bills and then

852
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 2: she won this scratchy and she's like, nah, it's.

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Speaker 5: Then she's foul.

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00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, you come on.

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Speaker 2: With its some limits here, guys. I'm all right, well

856
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 2: that is your under the radar and we do have

857
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Speaker 2: the Way Up Mixed coming at the top of the hour,

858
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 2: plus comedian writer a journalist Chloe Hilliard will be joining

859
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Speaker 2: us as well. You know her from the Black Ladies

860
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Speaker 2: Sketch Show too. It's way up with Angela Ye.

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Speaker 9: She's like the like they Angela ye, like they Angela gee.

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00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 7: Man, she's spilling it all. This is yeaky, way off.

863
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: Yes, it's way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

864
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 2: And Jasmine from the Jasmin brand dot Com is here. Yes,

865
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Speaker 2: it's your type of.

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Speaker 5: Thing right here. That's not fine.

867
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Speaker 2: And Melissa Ford is here guest co host and we're

868
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Speaker 2: gonna hear some more from her shortly. Yes, I'm putting

869
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Speaker 2: you in these stories, Melissa.

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Speaker 3: Oh god. All right.

871
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Speaker 6: Well, let's start it with the Kardashians.

872
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,959
Speaker 2: They are returning to E and this is a Variety exclusive.

873
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 2: The Kardashians a billion dollar Dynasties, a two part series

874
00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 2: that they have acquired and it's going to air on May. First,

875
00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 2: it's the family's return to e after Keeping Up with

876
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 2: the Kardashians was on for more than twenty seasons. You know.

877
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 2: Now they're on Hulu with the Kardashians, which just launched

878
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 2: last year and was recently renewed for season three. So

879
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 2: this is being sold internationally and it details how the

880
00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 2: family became one of the world's most recognized brands and

881
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 2: changed the face of social media while achieving extreme and

882
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 2: I mean extreme. Weltha, you think there's a lot we

883
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: don't know about the Kardashian.

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00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 14: I think there's lots of speculation.

885
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 2: You think they'll tell it all.

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00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 14: No, they're not kidding me.

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00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 5: They're not gonna tell it all.

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00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 14: We see what they want us to see.

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Speaker 2: Yep, you guys excited to watch this?

890
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 5: No, Melissa, are you excited to watch this?

891
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 2: I might catch it, you know.

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00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 9: Just it's gonna be trending for sure. Angela, Sure, it's

893
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Speaker 9: going to be interesting to see.

894
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Speaker 2: How do they promote this because I also feel like

895
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,800
Speaker 2: if they're involved, they're gonna have a lot of control

896
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 2: over what we see.

897
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 5: It would be different if we did if they didn't

898
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:21,400
Speaker 5: have conta.

899
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 9: This was like an unauthorized that would be juicy, would

900
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:25,760
Speaker 9: be juicy.

901
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 5: I love that they would shut that down so fast.

902
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 2: All right now, speaking of coming to TV, Shug Knight

903
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:36,760
Speaker 2: has revealed information about his TV biopic and he actually

904
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 2: talked to TMZ and here's what he has to say

905
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 2: about plotting out a ten season TV series.

906
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 13: If you're gonna do someone cut, you've got to deliver

907
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 13: it to the right way, because is how to cheot

908
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 13: phones out because always be entertain also be a learning process,

909
00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 13: but a crime. It's different because data first platform to

910
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 13: say hey, we're gonna be it's agressive. If she wanted

911
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 13: to be doing kill the truth, We're never gonna one

912
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 13: that down. It is what it is.

913
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 2: He also plans to provide voiceover for the series, kind

914
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 2: of like ray Leota did is Henry Hill and Goodfellas,

915
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 2: and each season were chronicle a different era of his life.

916
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 2: So season one is Tupocket death Row, Season two is

917
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 2: Biggie's presence and the death Row, bad Boy Beef. Season

918
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:26,520
Speaker 2: three shugs friendship with Diddy turn that turned into a rivalry,

919
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 2: and then seasons four and five dre Snoop five. Other

920
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 2: seasons also dig into NW A easy E East and

921
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 2: West Coast, Tensions, crips, Bloods and Shugs, Trial and conviction.

922
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 4: Ten seasons sounds like a lot of seasons. There's a lot, though,

923
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 4: it is a lot. I feel like gonna drag it out.

924
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 14: I mean I was exactly I was gonna say the

925
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 14: same thing.

926
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 9: I mean, Snowfall just had like six seasons and that

927
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 9: and that.

928
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:48,879
Speaker 7: Was a lot.

929
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 14: You know, like that is that's shooting for the sky.

930
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,320
Speaker 6: Well, the Kardashians had over twenty guys.

931
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 9: You can't plan for ten seasons though, because who's ordering that.

932
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 14: No network is ordering that off the basis of just

933
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 14: of the pitch.

934
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 2: But you know what, they could always cancel it to

935
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 2: They could be like, all right, yeah after one season.

936
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 9: It's like Melas Serena Williams is launching a production company

937
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 9: that will amplify women's stories.

938
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 2: That's really dope. It was recently announced by The Hollywood Reporter.

939
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 2: It's a multimedia production company, nine to six Productions. She said,

940
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 2: we aim to elevate female and diverse voices through content

941
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 2: that speaks to everyone. I'm so excited to begin this

942
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 2: next chapter of my career alongside Caroline, a woman who

943
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,800
Speaker 2: understands the art of storytelling. And is passionate about evolving

944
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: the entertainment industry and new directions. You need a story

945
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 2: on there, Melissa, Melissa, Yeah, yeah, maybe. And BuzzFeed News

946
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 2: is shutting down, according to reports. The chief executive Donna Peretti,

947
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 2: announced this just today, just a little while ago, and

948
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 2: that's because there's been broader layoffs across bud Feed BuzzFeed.

949
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 2: Bud Feed would be a good name for a week

950
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 2: a company, Busfeed. The company is going to slash fifteen

951
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 2: percent of the workforce. So they said, basically, he loved

952
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 2: that platform, BuzzFeed News as a standalone organization, but he

953
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,320
Speaker 2: put a lot of money into it, and I guess

954
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: it just wasn't profitable. Layoff suck, Yes, they do. I've

955
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 2: been laid off a couple of times. Yeah, well no,

956
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:22,520
Speaker 2: once I've fired. But fired is like sometimes they tell

957
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 2: you're getting laidoff, fired, but you're really getting fired, right.

958
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:26,840
Speaker 20: And R.

959
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 2: Kelly has filed for an appeal in his federal sex

960
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 2: crimes case in New York. He says the government did

961
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 2: not meet its burden of proof in court and it

962
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 2: is filing. The legal team brings up issues with several

963
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:40,240
Speaker 2: pieces of evidence. Prosecutors were allowed to submit during the trial.

964
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 2: So for the original conviction, he was sentenced to thirty

965
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 2: years in prison for the charges, and he's also serving

966
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 2: an additional twenty years for a similar case in Chicago.

967
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 6: Now, Melissa, I want to point this out that one

968
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 6: time that I.

969
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 10: Did meet R.

970
00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,839
Speaker 2: Kelly, I was actually with Melissa Ford. He was having

971
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: an album release party I remember, was outdoors and.

972
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 9: We had just finished interviewing him too wards with New York.

973
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 9: This was in New York. Yeah, all right, we're gonna.

974
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 2: Talk about it when we come back because I want

975
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,319
Speaker 2: to discuss because R. Kelly started crying and I was like,

976
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 2: what is it opening. It's way up with Angela Yee.

977
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 7: I you rib way up with Angela Yee.

978
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 6: Yes, it is way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.

979
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 2: Jasmine from the Jasmine brand dot Com is here, Yes,

980
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 2: and my grandma Elyssa Ford is here. Melissa Ford. You

981
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 2: can watch her, by the way on the Joe Button podcast.

982
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 2: You've been bringing a lot to that, so I appreciate

983
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 2: you being on there, hold it down, holding me down

984
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 2: for the women. And I was saying earlier Melissa and

985
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 2: I first met. We both worked as serious at the

986
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 2: same time.

987
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:40,279
Speaker 14: A million years ago.

988
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 2: And it was an interesting time because I feel like,

989
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 2: and this still happens. And I actually was just talking

990
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 2: to my girl, Jasmine, who was on with D. L. Hugley.

991
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 2: How people always try to like pit women against each other, like, oh,

992
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 2: there's another woman coming, y'all not going to get along.

993
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 2: It's only you know this person or that person. But

994
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 2: we actually got along from the very beginning, from when

995
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 2: we first met. We were able to bond over all

996
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 2: of our different stories of things that we had gone through. Yeah,

997
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 2: and one incident, because Melissa and I used to really

998
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 2: hang tough. We both lived in Brooklyn and we were

999
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 2: when I say outside, we were outside.

1000
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 5: We were out, y'all were outside before outside was called outside.

1001
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, we were outside when it was just we were

1002
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 2: running these New York City streets, right. But one incident,

1003
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 2: we did go to an event and Melissa had interviewed R.

1004
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,480
Speaker 2: Kelly prior to this event, and it was like an

1005
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 2: R Kelly launched part listening party. I don't remember what

1006
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 2: it was for an album release.

1007
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:33,720
Speaker 14: It was something.

1008
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 2: It was something, but it wasn't nice event. It was outdoors.

1009
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 2: R Kelly was there, but he was like sitting by

1010
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 2: himself in some corner. No one was anywhere near him. Wow,

1011
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 2: And Melissa had just interviewed him, so she saw me.

1012
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 2: He called her over and so I was like, let

1013
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,359
Speaker 2: me just mind my business, you know, walk back here.

1014
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,160
Speaker 2: And then I see her over there and he's crying,

1015
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: and I'm like, what did Melissa say?

1016
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 5: Cadel and Angela? Tears are coming down his face.

1017
00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Melissa, I never really I asked you about

1018
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 2: what happened that.

1019
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 9: Night because I'm still to this day wondering what was

1020
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 9: going on. Like literally, he just he just got so emotionally,

1021
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 9: just started crying.

1022
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 14: And I was like, is anybody else seeing this?

1023
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 5: What did you say to him? And what did he

1024
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 5: say to you?

1025
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 14: Nothing that warrented tears. It was just it was I

1026
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 14: don't know, it just seemed a little performative.

1027
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 2: You were like, you did that, so he started crying.

1028
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,480
Speaker 2: We were also discussing how they were always rumors about

1029
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,800
Speaker 2: r Kelly and these young girls, because a lot of

1030
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,239
Speaker 2: people will say, well, why didn't somebody do something? But

1031
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 2: I always thought and you did too, right, because it

1032
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 2: was always like the juggle. He liked the young girls.

1033
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 9: Yeah, with all the charges that came out, all the speculations,

1034
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 9: social media did a whole lot to you know, end

1035
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 9: him up where he is right now.

1036
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 14: Honestly, that wasn't that didn't exist twenty years.

1037
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 9: Ago when he was reported to have married a Leah

1038
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 9: and everyone was like, well, how could anybody let that happen? Well,

1039
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 9: there was a lot of like, you know, confusion as

1040
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 9: to what her actual birth date was because they were

1041
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 9: they produced a birth certificate that showed that she was

1042
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 9: eighteen when she was in actuality like fifteen years old.

1043
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 9: And also there was like, well the parents seemed to

1044
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 9: be okay with this, so nobody knew what the hellp what.

1045
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 2: Did the parents give permission? It was just a life.

1046
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 2: It wasn't like he did a lot of interviews either.

1047
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you've been on one of his video in

1048
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 4: one of his videos before.

1049
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 5: I was, I was in Happy People, Okay, I like

1050
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 5: that song.

1051
00:43:25,080 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 14: Yeah, the song was great.

1052
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 5: You did listen to it?

1053
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 14: Uh no, no, no, I definitely.

1054
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 4: Do so, Melissa, you did not make r Kelly cry,

1055
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 4: but you try to console him.

1056
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 2: It was very strange, and I was like, what is

1057
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: going on?

1058
00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 5: And why is he crying?

1059
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 10: I was.

1060
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 14: I was literally like they're there.

1061
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 2: Tears of joy at that time.

1062
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:48,320
Speaker 5: I know, listen, Melissa has lived.

1063
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, Melissa, you honestly like she knows everybody, and so

1064
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: she said it was always interesting. Yeah, and people would

1065
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 2: be like, whenever there was something happening, They're like, yeah,

1066
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 2: why don't you invite Melissa to see if she'll come out.

1067
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 5: Everyone loves Melissa Ford, Thank you, thank you.

1068
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 2: But listen, I also want people to catch up with

1069
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 2: everything that you've been doing now too, because I want

1070
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 2: to make sure while you're up here guest hosting, you know,

1071
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 2: you let us know.

1072
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,400
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, well, hit me up on Instagram, you know,

1073
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 9: that's where you're gonna find out what I'm doing. But really, honestly, like,

1074
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 9: I just moved here in January.

1075
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 2: You know, to New York.

1076
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 9: Yeah, back to New York from LA. I've been gone

1077
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 9: for eight years. I swore that my time here in

1078
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 9: New York was done, kind of like a boyfriend that

1079
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 9: you finally say, all right, it's over time, it.

1080
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 2: Says, she's coming up. Next, she talks about the difference

1081
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 2: between New York and LA.

1082
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 14: Yeah, you know, this is how I put it.

1083
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 9: Okay, whenever people are like, what's the difference, I was

1084
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 9: like New York is very hard on your body, but

1085
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:45,320
Speaker 9: LA's very hard on your soul. That's how that is

1086
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 9: how I would put the differences between living in these cities.

1087
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 14: New York beats you up a lot.

1088
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 9: You know, it's physical, you know you're you're physically exhausted.

1089
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:56,320
Speaker 14: But La is a very, very very lonely.

1090
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 4: It's very subtle to Yeah, the things you experience are

1091
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:00,760
Speaker 4: subtle and you look up You're like, oh my gosh,

1092
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 4: what in La?

1093
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 20: Yeah?

1094
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, you have to have a place there.

1095
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:03,919
Speaker 12: Yeah.

1096
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:05,839
Speaker 14: You literally look up one day and you're like, oh

1097
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 14: my soul is eroding?

1098
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 3: Got it?

1099
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 2: And to claim Melissa is from Toronto, From Toronto, Canada.

1100
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 9: Yeah, so I'm on my third lifetime. I feel like

1101
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 9: a Canadian girl.

1102
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 3: Yes?

1103
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 2: Is that the accident? All right, well, listen, I know

1104
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 2: that you're going to be up here in the future

1105
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 2: too all the time.

1106
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,399
Speaker 9: Anytime you need me, I'm here to support my girl.

1107
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 9: Come up on the show, have some fun. Next time,

1108
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:28,919
Speaker 9: I'm bringing some counktings.

1109
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 6: She's really great at that too.

1110
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Speaker 2: All right. I just wanted to talk. We were talking

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00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,480
Speaker 2: about this whole r Kelly situation, and so that is

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00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 2: why I wanted to make sure you got to because

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00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 2: when I was reading this story and you were here,

1114
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 2: I put it all together, like I remember the time.

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00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, crying, crying in your lap?

1116
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 14: Basic.

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00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 5: I mean like I was just like, wait, what's happening here?

1118
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,479
Speaker 9: Melissa was R Kelly's therapist for like for like five

1119
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 9: five or six minutes.

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Speaker 2: You're responsible?

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00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 5: All right, all right, I could have done that.

1122
00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 2: But Lista for It is here again guest hosting, and

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00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 2: Chloe Hilliard is coming up next, he said, journalist.

1124
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 6: She's a comedian. She does talk about the difference.

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00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 2: Between LA and New York because she is actually from

1126
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 2: Brooklyn living in LA. It's way up at Angela.

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00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 13: Ye.

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00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 2: You guys are gonna love this, especially if you watch

1129
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:10,919
Speaker 2: the Black Lady Skeed show.

1130
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 7: Hey, yeah, she back at it. Bring in the Way

1131
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 7: Up with Angela Yee is on.

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00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,440
Speaker 6: Yes, it's way up at Angela.

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00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 8: Ye.

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00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 6: I'm Angela Yee. And Jasmine from the Jasmine Brand is here.

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00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:24,959
Speaker 5: Yes.

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00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,600
Speaker 2: Also, Melissa Ford is guest hosting for the day. And

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00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:32,720
Speaker 2: how appropriate today is for twenty We haven't even talked

1138
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,959
Speaker 2: about that yet, and we were just saying we feel

1139
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 2: like it's lost its luster since Weed is like pretty

1140
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 2: much illegal. It used to be such a big deal.

1141
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 2: And you know four twenty I did a deep die

1142
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 2: of course she did. And it actually started in nineteen

1143
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:48,919
Speaker 2: seventy one with five high school students in Calli. Now,

1144
00:46:48,920 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 2: what do y'all have you guys ever done a four

1145
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 2: to twenty celebration? Oh my god, I lived in La Yeah,

1146
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 2: so it didn't have a choice.

1147
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 14: It's like church.

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00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:57,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it was crazy to me when I

1149
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 4: first moved to LA. I remember going to then events

1150
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 4: and people would they would give you like pre rolls,

1151
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:04,280
Speaker 4: like as gifts, like it was just so common.

1152
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 14: It's such a huge part of the culture out in LA.

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00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 9: Yeah, and it wasn't but it wasn't legal, right, No, Yeah, yeah,

1154
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 9: I think by the time I've been yeah, I feel like, oh.

1155
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 2: How scary. It used to be like if you were

1156
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 2: driving and you were like, we can't get pulled over

1157
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 2: this car smugg like we right, and that it doesn't even

1158
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,439
Speaker 2: really matter, but you're still not supposed to smoke because

1159
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 2: that's still under the influence.

1160
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it definitely La was ahead of the curve

1161
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 4: in terms of having we eat marijuana shops.

1162
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 5: And stuff like that.

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00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 14: So absolutely you.

1164
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 4: Could tell it out of town because they like first time.

1165
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:33,879
Speaker 4: When they get intown, they're like, we gotta go doubt.

1166
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 2: Remember everybody used to go to Amsterdam back the day

1167
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 2: and could not handle it.

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00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I still can't handle it, I'm sure. Now.

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00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 2: Have you guys ever had any bad experiences with weed,

1170
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:45,320
Speaker 2: with edibles, anything?

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00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 9: Oh my god, yes, I mean I think that after

1172
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 9: a certain age, you just can't be just taking edibles

1173
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 9: and smoking all willy nilly. You have to designate a

1174
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 9: time and a place because the paranoia is real.

1175
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 14: The anxiety is raird.

1176
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:03,800
Speaker 2: I smoke with whisk Lyfa twice?

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00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 5: How did that go?

1178
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 6: Not well for me?

1179
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 14: I smoked with Snoop?

1180
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 3: Oh oh, how did.

1181
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 5: Never?

1182
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 9: I've never seen anything like it, like he can. He

1183
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:14,760
Speaker 9: smokes so much.

1184
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 2: When I used to work for Wu Tang, one of

1185
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:20,720
Speaker 2: my friends smoked with method man and she she studied.

1186
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 5: Like it was bad. I know where you're going with this.

1187
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 2: I started, and I saw Tony Yayo the other day

1188
00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 2: and he brought up a situation where somebody who was

1189
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 2: interning from me smoked with him and she fell on

1190
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,720
Speaker 2: the ground after where it passed out cold.

1191
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 5: Wow, that's awful, Thank you. I started crying when I

1192
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 5: had a edile too many edibles.

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00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 2: Okay, that's not bad, all right, Well, happy for twenty everybody,

1194
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 2: and get ready for ask ye. Eight hundred two nine

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00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 2: two fifty one fifty is a number. Call us up

1196
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 2: right now. We are here to help. Also, Chloe Hilliard

1197
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: will be joining us. She's a comedian, author, writer, journalist.

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00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 2: All of that is way up at the Angela yee.

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Speaker 7: Up, Angela yee is way up.

1200
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 6: You know, comedians are some of my favor for people.

1201
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 5: And Chloe Hilliard is here.

1202
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 3: Hey, what's up.

1203
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 2: Thanks for having me, but thank you for showing up. Absolutely,

1204
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 2: we appreciate you. We had you on on lip Service

1205
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 2: before too. That was the time everything.

1206
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 3: I just want to.

1207
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 20: Say, you are a pioneer because everybody is popping ap

1208
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 20: on podcasts and you was.

1209
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 3: You laid down a foundation.

1210
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, you did it first the first. Yeah that p

1211
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:29,600
Speaker 2: is for podcasts. Okay, But honestly, like, congratulations to you

1212
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,840
Speaker 2: on everything. You know, it's been a while since we

1213
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 2: sat down like this, but Black Ladies Sketch Show.

1214
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 6: We saw the new season just premier.

1215
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:40,399
Speaker 20: That's right, Season four premiere just this past Friday, and

1216
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 20: I had the honor of serving as co head writer

1217
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 20: co executive producer.

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00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you.

1219
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 20: Know what, I think it's so important for people to

1220
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 20: know that, like, this is a show that's created by

1221
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 20: black woman Robin Thieti. We are the only all black

1222
00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,479
Speaker 20: women writers room in Hollywood. So everything that you see,

1223
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,239
Speaker 20: every d we hear, makeup, wardrobe, everything that you see

1224
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 20: has come from the minds of black women.

1225
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Speaker 3: And you know, we're funny. So we're excited for season four.

1226
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 20: And we got amazing guest stars like Bobby Brown and

1227
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:13,720
Speaker 20: oh yeah, so many Tracy Ellis Ross, isn't it, Tank

1228
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:15,800
Speaker 20: Tank Kell and Jay Ellis.

1229
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, some moments we take.

1230
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,239
Speaker 20: Yeah yeah, they were our Three Wives men and our

1231
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 20: Biblical sketch. So yeah, so we got a lot of

1232
00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 20: great stuff and we're going bigger and broader and raunchier.

1233
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 20: So if you you want to get some laughs on.

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00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:29,719
Speaker 2: Saturday runt, How is it being a New Yorker in

1235
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,360
Speaker 2: LA We suck some of your stand up where you

1236
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: talk about it.

1237
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 20: The difference is okay, okay, So New York is an

1238
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:40,920
Speaker 20: abusive place, but we love it. But you know what

1239
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:42,799
Speaker 20: I'm saying, It's like that it's at that drunk, ab

1240
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 20: abusive uncle that come over. That's great, you know for

1241
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 20: like the family events, but like when he turned the

1242
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 20: table of you kick him out, Like that's New York

1243
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 20: and in LA is like this sweet caring place on

1244
00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 20: the surface, but behind the back, it's like really sent

1245
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 20: a certain dark and you got to be mindful of it.

1246
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 20: So I think my approach being a native New Yorker,

1247
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 20: I call out stuff and I can't help but to

1248
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 20: be honest, and so in LA, I think that's really

1249
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 20: helped me because when I'm in conversations and meetings and

1250
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 20: i just say.

1251
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 3: What it is, and people like, you're so refreshing, and

1252
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 3: I'm like.

1253
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 2: Okayang yeah, And people ask you all the time, what

1254
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:17,040
Speaker 2: do you do in LA?

1255
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 6: Because I know that's an LA thing.

1256
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 20: Oh yeah, I don't tell people anymore. And you know why,

1257
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 20: it's honestly because of men. Because men are like gold

1258
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 20: diggers up like they are. They're sluts in a nice way,

1259
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 20: like they really want to know how can they get

1260
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 20: into your life? And now these dudes are really good

1261
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 20: at like playing the long game, because they'll like be

1262
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 20: cool and friendly and then like six months and they'd

1263
00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 20: be like, you know, I was thinking about writing a

1264
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 20: TV show you like right like you Oh no, dang,

1265
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 20: do you feel like I want to help him?

1266
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 3: Never, I'll help men. Those days are over. I'll help men.

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00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 3: I don't defend men. I don't. I don't vouch for men.

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00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 3: I don't speak on their behalf. I don't. I can't.

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00:51:58,160 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 3: I can't.

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Speaker 20: I don't, like not even my brother. I'm like, I

1271
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 20: don't know what he did over there. I cohones speak

1272
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Speaker 20: for what I know, but I can't. I'm not getting

1273
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 20: to know what to stand from. No man, ever, I

1274
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 20: can't do it.

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Speaker 3: I just can't.

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00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 2: Because they they be doing two months, yes they do,

1277
00:52:11,760 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 2: and you'll be all here, it's just like he's.

1278
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:13,879
Speaker 3: A good man.

1279
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:15,879
Speaker 20: And then they'd be like, well, here's a video on him,

1280
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,400
Speaker 20: and he'd be like, damn, now, I gotta now look crazy.

1281
00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:22,399
Speaker 2: Comedian journalist writer Chloe Hilliard is here with us. Let's

1282
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 2: talk about girls trips because that's on the first episode

1283
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 2: fleut out.

1284
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 6: All right, so do you remember your first girl's trip?

1285
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:31,959
Speaker 20: Absolutely? Yeah, it was. It was cheap because we didn't

1286
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 20: have a lot of money. Yet it's always like that.

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00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 3: Yeah. We took a bus to Atlantic City and we

1288
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:36,799
Speaker 3: had a.

1289
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 2: Time and we had a time, but your dominatedic's best

1290
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 2: friend with you.

1291
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 3: No, no, this is a different group of friends.

1292
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 20: But a guy that I knew he was a stripper,

1293
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 20: so we went to like the strip party and then

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00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:48,320
Speaker 20: that was a whole time.

1295
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a fun Some people think, I feel like

1296
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:53,880
Speaker 2: women feel like that's not fun. You know how guys

1297
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 2: love going to strip clubs and we do too to

1298
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 2: go see women. But for some reason they think like

1299
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:02,160
Speaker 2: male strippers aren't fun. And I've actually hosted a couple

1300
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:03,799
Speaker 2: and had so much fun at them.

1301
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh, first of all, they're real showmen.

1302
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 20: Now women's strippers are more athletic because like back in

1303
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 20: the day they were just like doing a little woo.

1304
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 20: Now they're doing like Olympics style gymnastics. Oh yeah that

1305
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:18,280
Speaker 20: snack packed Yeah. Like I mean, I think, honestly, stripping

1306
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 20: should be an Olympics. I think it's it is.

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00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 6: Do they have it now? Is it okay to go

1308
00:53:22,320 --> 00:53:23,760
Speaker 6: live on Instagram?

1309
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 3: No you can't, No, you can't. We lay the rules down.

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00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,799
Speaker 20: You cannot go live on anything, on a girl's night,

1311
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 20: girls ship, anything, No live. You gotta take video and

1312
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 20: then get approval from all parties presents. Because I feel like,

1313
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 20: if you go on live, you are op. You're trying

1314
00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 20: to You're trying to destroy my life for something.

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00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:42,359
Speaker 3: You don't like me. If you won't live, you don't

1316
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:42,839
Speaker 3: like me, and.

1317
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:45,520
Speaker 2: People be like who I remember I went live when

1318
00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 2: I was in Where were we We were at a

1319
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,279
Speaker 2: casino somewhere. I did not know this was going to happen.

1320
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 2: One of my friends was drunk and she started talking crazy.

1321
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:53,560
Speaker 5: About her job.

1322
00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:57,439
Speaker 2: I turned it right off. I was like, my job,

1323
00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 2: you just see that came about?

1324
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 5: Like, oh, I know who you're talking about.

1325
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and I said, oh, let me delete this

1326
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Speaker 2: and make sure this doesn't go up anywhere. She started

1327
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Speaker 2: talking crazy.

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Speaker 20: Yeah, but you gotta be careful because the thing is

1329
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 20: people will record your lives and so now it's there

1330
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 20: in perpetuity and you can't do anything to get rid

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Speaker 20: of it.

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Speaker 2: How do you feel like your shows doing stand up

1333
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:17,839
Speaker 2: when people have their phones out?

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Speaker 6: Do you have a no phone's rule? Do you make

1335
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Speaker 6: that announcement?

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Speaker 20: Well, I'm here in New York for the week, so

1337
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Speaker 20: I've been at the Comedy Cell all week and they

1338
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 20: have ironclad no phones. And I think that is so freeing,

1339
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 20: not only for me before the audience. Could you get

1340
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 20: to be present and also allows me the creativity to

1341
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 20: like work through stuff because I'm just working on new

1342
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 20: material and now I don't want to worry about you

1343
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 20: posting it when it's not ready and people judge me

1344
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 20: by something that could have been like an ad lib

1345
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Speaker 20: off the top of my head. And so I think

1346
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 20: we need to like really be more mindful of like

1347
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 20: this is art, this is work.

1348
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Speaker 3: People are not ready to be on camera all the time.

1349
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 2: You got to be mindful of that because as you're

1350
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 2: working through things, there's gonna be times that you say

1351
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 2: the wrong thing, absolutely to get canceled.

1352
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Speaker 3: Absolutely, I don't want I'm barely here. I don't want

1353
00:54:58,680 --> 00:54:59,439
Speaker 3: you to cancel yet.

1354
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Speaker 2: I feel like that you still feel like you're barely here.

1355
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Speaker 3: I feel I do feel like that. Well, this is

1356
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,320
Speaker 3: my third career, like I've done so many different things.

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Speaker 6: I know you from being a writer.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I was a journalist. I was an editor

1359
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 3: of Vibe.

1360
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Speaker 2: The journalist side, not just a writer journals, just because

1361
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Speaker 2: there's a difference, there's a difference.

1362
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Speaker 3: But yeah, I was a journalist. I was an editor.

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Speaker 20: I was at Vibe, I was at the Source magazine,

1364
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Speaker 20: I was writ at the Village Voice, and then from

1365
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Speaker 20: there I decide decided to go into comedy. I did

1366
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Speaker 20: that for ten years, and then I wrote a book

1367
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 20: and Your Diet, and then a pandemic happened and everything

1368
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 20: shut down. And in that time I used all the

1369
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Speaker 20: things I had learned up until that point, and that

1370
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,799
Speaker 20: got me into TV writing and producing that I moved

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Speaker 20: to La. So like, I feel like I'm constantly going

1372
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:39,200
Speaker 20: like up a hill and down a hill and trying

1373
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 20: to figure.

1374
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Speaker 3: Out like new things about myself.

1375
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,319
Speaker 20: And so I'm introducing myself to new people now, Like

1376
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 20: people in Hollywood don't know the journalists and me, or

1377
00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:48,840
Speaker 20: the comedian and me. They know the writer, and so

1378
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:51,280
Speaker 20: I'm always thinking, I never take for granted that people

1379
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Speaker 20: know me.

1380
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Speaker 2: All right, Chloe Hilliard is here again. She is an amazing,

1381
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 2: hilarious comedian, but I know her from being a journalist first,

1382
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 2: and we have a lot more to talk about. You

1383
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,719
Speaker 2: can catch her writing for The Black Lady's Sketch Show.

1384
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:04,920
Speaker 2: We'll get into all of that. It's way up with Angela.

1385
00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 7: Yee Comedy, Way up with Angela Yee.

1386
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 5: What's up?

1387
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:12,240
Speaker 2: Its way up with Angela Yee I'm here and Jasmine

1388
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 2: from the Jasmine brand dot com is here, and we

1389
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:17,399
Speaker 2: are talking to author Chloe Hillier, not just an author,

1390
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 2: but also a journalist, also a TV writer, also a comedian.

1391
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Speaker 5: Where do you think your sense of humor comes from?

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00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 20: I was bullied tremendously. I had no friends. I was

1393
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 20: a social misfit. I was the tallest kid. I was

1394
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 20: the youngest kid, like all my life. So I'm six one.

1395
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:32,960
Speaker 20: I've been this height since I was twelve.

1396
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 3: Like so I was. I never fit in.

1397
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 20: I grew up in a Hasitic Jewish neighborhood in Brooklyn,

1398
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 20: and everybody else was like in Crown Heights, Clinton Hill,

1399
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Speaker 20: and I just didn't.

1400
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Speaker 3: I never connected. I was in the church all the time,

1401
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:43,439
Speaker 3: like I had.

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00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 20: I was a kid that knew nothing, Like I had

1403
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 20: no idea who the top artist was. I remember one

1404
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 20: day after school, elementary school, somebody was like, do you

1405
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 20: what do you listen to this radio station or district?

1406
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:54,319
Speaker 20: I was like, I never heard any of one of these,

1407
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:57,080
Speaker 20: Like I listened to Algerou because my mom be playing Algio,

1408
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:58,480
Speaker 20: Like yeah.

1409
00:56:58,360 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 3: But I was like I knew nothing.

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00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 20: I had no street cred, nothing nothing, And I had

1411
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 20: no big cousins to beat nobody up. So I just

1412
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 20: it was just me out in the world. And so

1413
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 20: because of that, it was a defense mechanism to just

1414
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 20: not care. So it was nothing that you could say

1415
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 20: or bully me about that would get me because I

1416
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 20: could say something way worse about you or myself and

1417
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 20: then just like kind of stuck. And so it was

1418
00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 20: like my armor that just got me through a lot

1419
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 20: of like hard times. And then as I got older,

1420
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,600
Speaker 20: it just made me observe things because when you aren't

1421
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 20: in the scene, when you aren't in the popular group,

1422
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 20: you get to see everything. And so I got to

1423
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 20: see and learn people and not think helped me a lot.

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00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 5: So the bullying was helpful.

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00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 20: I want to think, I want to thank my bully

1426
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 20: me to camera, and I want to say my bullies

1427
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 20: because they truly did help me, Like and I had

1428
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 20: this conversation because I did not realize like how much

1429
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 20: it impacted me, because it made me so independent and

1430
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 20: it made me not care what anybody think. So to

1431
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 20: this day, I don't care what anybody has to say

1432
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 20: about my creativity, my work, my book, me and my

1433
00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 20: family nothing, because I know who I am and I

1434
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 20: know in my heart that I'm a good and I

1435
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 20: know that I want to do things for people. I

1436
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 20: want to help other people too. So if you don't

1437
00:58:04,760 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 20: like me, that's a you problem, that's not me problem.

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Speaker 2: And before the show started, we were also talking back

1439
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 2: to your father. Yeah, being in prison from when you

1440
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 2: were four until nine, So how do you think that

1441
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:14,200
Speaker 2: affected you?

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00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 3: Oh?

1443
00:58:14,760 --> 00:58:17,800
Speaker 20: I mean that definitely made me really independent. You know,

1444
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 20: my mom and I was the only child at the time.

1445
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 20: My mom and I really held on to each other

1446
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 20: and we made sure that we took care of each other,

1447
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:27,440
Speaker 20: and that made me a person that became a protector

1448
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 20: and I think that's still a part of who I am.

1449
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Speaker 3: I always look out for people.

1450
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 20: I always look to see who needs help, who feels weak,

1451
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 20: who needs to be you know, poured into I'm always

1452
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 20: big on like letting people know that they have value

1453
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 20: and that they're special. And I think I did that

1454
00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 20: for my mom, and my mom did that for me

1455
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 20: because it was a hard time my family. You know,

1456
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 20: my parents are still married to this day, and they

1457
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 20: were newly West it's not newly was, but they were

1458
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 20: young when they got married and.

1459
00:58:50,360 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 3: So it was us.

1460
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 20: It was just the three of us, And so when

1461
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 20: my dad went to prison, it pulled that family structure away.

1462
00:58:56,720 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 20: And I still knew that my dad was there, so

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00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 20: I didn't feel like I was abandoned.

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Speaker 3: But it was a trust system.

1465
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:05,000
Speaker 20: Not only the trust system, like the system, but like

1466
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 20: being aware of what the system is at four or

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00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 20: five years old, like traveling to prison and being like

1468
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 20: why there's so many bars, Like why can't I sit

1469
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:13,440
Speaker 20: on his lap? Like it's so many things that you

1470
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 20: become aware of as a kid that I think most

1471
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,120
Speaker 20: people don't understand that it doesn't pack you because when

1472
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 20: you try to have deep, meaningful relationships, it's always in

1473
00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:23,000
Speaker 20: the back of your mind, like trust is just gonna

1474
00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 20: be taking away, pulled away from me. How much can

1475
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 20: I like confide in this person and will they be

1476
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 20: here tomorrow? And so you know, I gotta I gotta

1477
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 20: give a shout out to therapy because it definitely helps.

1478
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 20: It definitely helps when you get to like dig down

1479
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 20: to the root of like the triggers in your life.

1480
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 20: So I'm grateful that I was able to kind of

1481
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:38,920
Speaker 20: like heal those wounds.

1482
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 2: And Jazzon has been going to therapy. I've been talking

1483
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 2: about doing it.

1484
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 20: You have an angela angela needs You've never you've never

1485
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 20: been you've never been therapy.

1486
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 6: No, but I'm going to. Yeah, I'm scheduling it.

1487
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 3: Let's get a date. Let's get a date.

1488
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:54,840
Speaker 2: Let's get get help.

1489
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 15: Now.

1490
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Speaker 6: Another thing I want to ask you, I already know

1491
00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:58,000
Speaker 6: the answer.

1492
00:59:58,080 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 20: This.

1493
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: Are you glad that you never went to freaking nick?

1494
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 20: Oh? Yeah, I missed it. I just missed it. I

1495
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 20: mean I used to care about it. I just missed it.

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01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 3: I'm so glad. I'm so glad.

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01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 2: I think about all these women who are now very concerned.

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01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 20: First of all, why are you snitching on yourself? Mama,

1499
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 20: that's twenty plus years ago. You can act like it's

1500
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 20: not you.

1501
01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 6: But can I just put you in this documentary without

1502
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 6: your consent?

1503
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 20: Probably? Yeah, they've shot it in public. So if you're

1504
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:26,720
Speaker 20: shot in the street in the public domain.

1505
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 4: Usually when you're shooting in the see there's street or

1506
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 4: out public, it's usually they'ressigning camquarders. I know, but I'm

1507
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,520
Speaker 4: saying you have to you have to provide consents, some

1508
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 4: type of awareness.

1509
01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 3: No, I think it's I think it's not.

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01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 5: I'm not.

1511
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 3: I can't, I mean, I can't, I don't.

1512
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 20: I can't quote this directly, but I believe it's like

1513
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:46,880
Speaker 20: when you go into a facility, when you go into

1514
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 20: a venue, a private venue, then you have to say

1515
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 20: this thing is being recorded, but if you're out in

1516
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 20: the street, it's public domain. And also we don't know

1517
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:56,560
Speaker 20: what's going to be in there, so like nobody knows

1518
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 20: what the actual like storyline is, Like are they talking

1519
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:01,439
Speaker 20: about the celebrat of black excellence that got a little

1520
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 20: raunchy or they're talking about like straight predator energy like

1521
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 20: either way, so.

1522
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 5: I want meant to be concerned.

1523
01:01:08,840 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, they should be. Yeah, Well listen, Chloe, I want

1524
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 2: to make sure we got touched on everything that you

1525
01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:14,959
Speaker 2: want to talk about, because the Black Lady Sketch Show

1526
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:15,760
Speaker 2: is back.

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01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 20: Yes, season four, watching HBO streaming on HBO Max.

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01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 2: That's how I watch everything streaming for me HBO which

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01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 2: is soon going to be only Max. Yes, all right, well,

1530
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 2: Chloe Hilliard, thank you so much.

1531
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 3: Thank you for having me.

1532
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:28,920
Speaker 6: And how can people find you online?

1533
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 3: Yes, follow me.

1534
01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 20: You can go to Chloe Hillier dot com or if

1535
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 20: your diet dot com you can get a copy of

1536
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 20: my book.

1537
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 3: I'm also dropping a clothing line at.

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01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:40,480
Speaker 20: Leisure were COVID type of yesh, I'm gonna make sure

1539
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 20: y'all get some stuff up here.

1540
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 3: If the line is called f your diet, so.

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01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 6: You don't even We're gonna go on line.

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01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 20: Yeah, yes, yes, it's over for us, Yes, soon dropping

1543
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:52,400
Speaker 20: the summer, so I'm excited about it.

1544
01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you so much. I appreciate you always.

1545
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 2: You got to make sure we make this a regular.

1546
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 3: Thing whenever I'm in New York.

1547
01:01:57,280 --> 01:02:00,520
Speaker 2: I'm here, okay, Mastery of Comedy, Chloe Hilliard, thank you.

1548
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 2: When we come back, we have asked yee. Eight hundred

1549
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 2: two nine fifty one fifty is the number we are

1550
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 2: here to help. We want to give you guys some advice.

1551
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:08,640
Speaker 2: It's way up with Angela.

1552
01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 8: Ye're going everybody since with its relationship for career advice.

1553
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 7: Angela's dropping facts.

1554
01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 6: This is ask What's up? It's way up with Angela.

1555
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 16: Yee.

1556
01:02:19,040 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 2: I'm here Angela ye, and Melissa Ford is guest hosting,

1557
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 2: and Jasmine from the Jasmin brand dot Com is here

1558
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 2: and we are doing ask yee, lamark, what's your question?

1559
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 10: Hey? So, my ex boyfriend that cheated on me last

1560
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:34,080
Speaker 10: year recently hit me up to apologize and to be Frank,

1561
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:36,240
Speaker 10: but he's still the relationship with the guy that he

1562
01:02:36,320 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 10: cheated on me with. Now should I be friends with

1563
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:40,520
Speaker 10: him and get my lisks back to get the boyfriend?

1564
01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 13: Titan?

1565
01:02:42,160 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 2: You want to get revenge, You want to waste your

1566
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 2: time and energy getting revenge.

1567
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 6: But the problem is that maybe you still care though.

1568
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:54,320
Speaker 21: I feel like maybe Lo'll keep you because you.

1569
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,120
Speaker 6: Know, getting your link back a lot of times.

1570
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 2: What that means is I care enough to want to

1571
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 2: get revenge and end up backfire.

1572
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 9: I was gonna say, the universe isn't gonna reward you

1573
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 9: for that, honey.

1574
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:07,160
Speaker 21: Yeah, Okay, Well I'm gonna be I'm gonna be genuine

1575
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 21: and not be alone.

1576
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:08,720
Speaker 2: Mark.

1577
01:03:08,760 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 6: How did you catch him?

1578
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:13,600
Speaker 21: Well, he told me I did a whole birthday thing friends,

1579
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:15,720
Speaker 21: and the next day he told me that he cheated on.

1580
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 2: Me, oh the next day after his birthday thing, and

1581
01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 2: then stay with the guy.

1582
01:03:20,480 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 7: Wow.

1583
01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:23,080
Speaker 21: Yeah, because he wanted the whole I did a whole

1584
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 21: I got the whole tittle room, I rest out. I mean,

1585
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:27,040
Speaker 21: it's pretty. But he didn't tell me that night. He

1586
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 21: wants to, you know, have the experience.

1587
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, Lamark, I've always found in

1588
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 2: my life, that what goes around comes around, and the

1589
01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 2: best advent is for me to be doing well.

1590
01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 5: Right.

1591
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so I do feel like you need to

1592
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:41,439
Speaker 2: just let that go because it's not going to work out.

1593
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 2: The type of person that your ex is, it sounds

1594
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 2: like he's a real a hole, And the best thing

1595
01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:49,919
Speaker 2: that you could do is be like, all right, cool

1596
01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 2: forgiving past that, because clearly he's trying to reach out

1597
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:57,080
Speaker 2: to you to maybe try to rekindle things, and you don't.

1598
01:03:57,520 --> 01:03:59,080
Speaker 2: You don't need to do that. You need to just

1599
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:01,439
Speaker 2: move on with y'all life and find somebody that treats

1600
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 2: you the way that you deserve to be treated. Because

1601
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 2: it sounds like you did some great things for him

1602
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 2: and then he just kicks you in the stomach.

1603
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1604
01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 10: I thank you guys so much. I appreciate it.

1605
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 2: You about to call him, I could tell all right, okay,

1606
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 2: we want accountability, We need you to follow up.

1607
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, keep us posted.

1608
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:21,280
Speaker 10: I got you all right?

1609
01:04:21,320 --> 01:04:22,160
Speaker 2: Bye?

1610
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 6: All right?

1611
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:27,880
Speaker 2: Well that was ask ye that look back never works out, right, Yeah,

1612
01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,360
Speaker 2: and then then you fall in love again, get hurt again.

1613
01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 6: All right, Well, that.

1614
01:04:31,680 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 2: Was ask you again. Eight hundred two nine fifty fifty

1615
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 2: is a number. If you ever need help, we are

1616
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 2: here for you, and you can always leave a message

1617
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 2: and we'll respond that way too. And speaking of leaving

1618
01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:42,600
Speaker 2: a message, when we come back, we have the last word.

1619
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:44,680
Speaker 2: That's when you guys call in and you have the

1620
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 2: last word on the show, it's way up with Angela.

1621
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:46,880
Speaker 18: Ye.

1622
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 15: Take up the phone taping to get your voice heard.

1623
01:04:51,600 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 7: What the word is is the last word on Way

1624
01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 7: Up with Angela?

1625
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 2: Yee yes, it's way up with Angela Ye.

1626
01:04:58,480 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 6: I'm Angela.

1627
01:04:59,160 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1628
01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 2: Fun today because my friends are here. Judsmin from the

1629
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:05,520
Speaker 2: Jasmin brand dot Com is here, Melissa Ford is here.

1630
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 3: The show flew by.

1631
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 2: Hey did I had a good time? This is why

1632
01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:11,160
Speaker 2: it's good to have your own show. You just put

1633
01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 2: your friends on.

1634
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 4: You're like, hey, come on girl, come up here, Melissa, Melissa,

1635
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:15,040
Speaker 4: did you have a good time?

1636
01:05:15,160 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 14: I mean, I always have a good time when I'm

1637
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 14: hanging out with you guys.

1638
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:19,960
Speaker 2: Not By the way, I'm so glad that Melissa has

1639
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 2: moved back to the coast.

1640
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,600
Speaker 9: From La Yes, but I have a feeling that our

1641
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 9: hangout will probably be a little bit different from.

1642
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 14: You years ago, our younger years.

1643
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 2: We actually went out to eat already when she first

1644
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 2: got back here, we went to where'ch I go Katsuya? Okay,

1645
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:39,160
Speaker 2: I gotta take you there. Jasmin gets so jealous if

1646
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 2: I don't take her places.

1647
01:05:40,400 --> 01:05:43,520
Speaker 4: No food places not. I don't want to go nowhere else.

1648
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:45,600
Speaker 4: I just want to go eat. Don't don't do me

1649
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 4: like that.

1650
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 2: By the way, I posted a picture with my best

1651
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 2: friend the other day and people think that we're a

1652
01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 2: lesbian couple.

1653
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 5: That's funny, that is.

1654
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 10: I know.

1655
01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 14: I'm like, okay, this thing from it.

1656
01:05:57,560 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 2: But you know what's different about for us, Like I

1657
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 2: think Melissa and I we've slept in the bed together,

1658
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:05,720
Speaker 2: definitely Jasmine has, but not for anybody. It's what women

1659
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 2: like guys, I think they get like really cicked out.

1660
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 9: You know what, I'm gonna have to ask the guys

1661
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:14,360
Speaker 9: on to tomorrow. Do you guys when you go away,

1662
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 9: are you ever do you feel comfortable sleeping in the

1663
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 9: same bed with each other?

1664
01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 14: Because we're just like, okay.

1665
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 2: It's no big deal. Yeah, it's like, come on, you

1666
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:23,080
Speaker 2: can just stay in my room here. Just get on

1667
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:25,520
Speaker 2: that side. Like I have a king sized bed and

1668
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 2: I feel like it's not that big a deal. But

1669
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 2: guys always make such a big deal out of showing

1670
01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 2: on door.

1671
01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 5: Right, I don't think guys do it at all. Was

1672
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 5: there adults?

1673
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:32,840
Speaker 17: Right?

1674
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 2: Shout out to our producer Dan. He had a really

1675
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:38,120
Speaker 2: bad incident at his place. He did in his bed,

1676
01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 2: got ruined the people upstairs at Fleas, So he's gonna

1677
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:44,120
Speaker 2: have to share a bed if anybody anyone wants to

1678
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 2: share a Dan. But listen, I'm looking for somewhere to

1679
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 2: sleep tonight. I do want to thank Chloe Hillier for

1680
01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 2: coming through today. I love her. She's so funny. She's

1681
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 2: actually from Brooklyn like me, you know, I love Brooklyn people.

1682
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:59,520
Speaker 2: And she's a comedian, she's a journalist. She's our TV

1683
01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,520
Speaker 2: right Black Lady Sketch show. She writes for that. This

1684
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 2: new season just started, so make sure you guys check

1685
01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:07,680
Speaker 2: that out and make sure you're smart and funny, and

1686
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:09,920
Speaker 2: make sure you get her buck to f your diet.

1687
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 14: Oh yeah, well I already agree with that mantra, so I'm.

1688
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:15,920
Speaker 2: Picking that up all right. Also, of course, thank you

1689
01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 2: to Melissa Ford for joining us today, and you can

1690
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 2: catch her on the Joe Button podcast as well. I'm

1691
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 2: waiting for your book, Melissa.

1692
01:07:23,800 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 9: It's been I'm still trying to figure out how to

1693
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 9: write that sucker a long time come. Every time I

1694
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 9: start to write, I'm just like, Nope, can't see that

1695
01:07:31,280 --> 01:07:32,880
Speaker 9: because you have lived Melissa.

1696
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:35,080
Speaker 6: But you gotta make just get fake names.

1697
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:38,160
Speaker 9: It's gonna have to be Yeah, that's all. Definitely gonna

1698
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 9: have to be that way. And then you tell me

1699
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 9: who it is.

1700
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, and Jasmine from the Jasmine brand will

1701
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:44,080
Speaker 2: be back tomorrow of course.

1702
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, rocking racking with me from day one.

1703
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,320
Speaker 2: Today I got a host of gala American Foundation for

1704
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 2: the University of the West Indies. So make sure you

1705
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 2: guys go to a fuye a fu wi dot org

1706
01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 2: to donate because this is an organization I'm on the

1707
01:07:58,040 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 2: board and they are amazing.

1708
01:07:59,360 --> 01:08:00,160
Speaker 5: But you guys.

1709
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 2: Always had the last word. Eight hundred two nineteen fifty

1710
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:03,920
Speaker 2: one fifty is a number.

1711
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 5: Let terry.

1712
01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 16: Yeah, I totally agree with the guru in regards to

1713
01:08:09,400 --> 01:08:13,360
Speaker 16: how the relationship turns out when one person is not

1714
01:08:13,440 --> 01:08:15,960
Speaker 16: treating the other person in which the way they want

1715
01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 16: to be treated, because I was in a relationship for

1716
01:08:19,560 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 16: what's similar to that. By the way, my name is me,

1717
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:26,759
Speaker 16: but you know the guy started out all flowers, open doors,

1718
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 16: just that in the third and then after a while

1719
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:30,800
Speaker 16: the guys.

1720
01:08:30,520 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 10: Took who you on the phone with who?

1721
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:34,680
Speaker 15: But then when I would go into his computer to

1722
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 15: see who was he on messing during and all these

1723
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 15: different websites and stuff, you know, or he didn't like

1724
01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 15: that process.

1725
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:45,000
Speaker 10: So yeah, I agree, have a good day.

1726
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 17: Listen, people get dating mixed up. Dating it's like being

1727
01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 17: an employee hiring employee. You're hiring a lifetime mate, So

1728
01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 17: people get dating mixed up. When you go for a job,

1729
01:08:57,479 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 17: it's a probation period to see if you're qualified. So

1730
01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:03,960
Speaker 17: it's the same thing with dating and meeting and mate.

1731
01:09:04,040 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 17: You're hiring a lifetime mate to see their qualifications. You

1732
01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 17: gotta check their resumes. You gotta look into your mate

1733
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 17: to see if they're even compatible with you, which is

1734
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:16,200
Speaker 17: a lifetime job that you're hiring somebody for.

1735
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 10: How you doing that?

1736
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 13: Congratulations?

1737
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 18: I was listening, uh, and I think a lady was

1738
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:26,240
Speaker 18: talking about sleeping with twenty thighs within to find four

1739
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,040
Speaker 18: months to five months.

1740
01:09:27,800 --> 01:09:29,080
Speaker 7: Because her husband cheated.

1741
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 18: I guess I'm dealing with the same situation where my girlfriend,

1742
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 18: she was doing a lot the most parting in different

1743
01:09:37,520 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 18: guys and I'm a coorpiod, so in this case, guy,

1744
01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:43,920
Speaker 18: I didn't do twenty for a bit, like about two

1745
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:48,000
Speaker 18: within the year and everything's back to normal. She said

1746
01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 18: she was talking to the guys anymore, and she has

1747
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 18: a foundery.

1748
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:54,800
Speaker 8: She would respects her boundary.

1749
01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 7: You bray the way up with Angelae.