1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. Y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 1: At all at all. 4 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 3: So don't given a black million bus boozy. 5 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: Listening to me to show. 6 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 3: I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you got to do that. 7 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 4: You gotta turn. 8 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: Got to turn the mouth, turn the probably, got to 9 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: turn the mouth, turn out, turn. 10 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,919 Speaker 2: The water the money up looking. 11 00:01:55,760 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 5: Come come on, you'll think that, I sure will. Good 12 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 5: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on, 13 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 5: dig me now one and only uh huh. Steve Harby 14 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 5: Man got a radio show. 15 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 2: M here I do. 16 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 5: Man. God been so good to me over the years, 17 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 5: in spite of all the mistakes I've made, in spite 18 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 5: of all the dirt I've done to myself. I'm talking 19 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 5: about went in knowing I was wrong. His grace and 20 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 5: mercy has forgiven me for all of my sins. God 21 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 5: can forgive you of all of your sins. Everything you've done, 22 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 5: God can forgive you. He can wipe your slate clean. Now, 23 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:49,799 Speaker 5: might you might have some you know, things you got 24 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 5: to deal with because of some of your actions. Understand that, 25 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 5: But you can wipe your slates. You can wipe your 26 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 5: slate clean with God and start again. You can repent. 27 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 5: God has mercy and grace. You could be forgiven by God. 28 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 5: Now people, AD's another story. Some people may never forgive 29 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 5: you for you've heard them, or or maybe they accusing 30 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 5: you of doing something else. But you know they may 31 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 5: never forgive you. But God, God is in the redemption 32 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 5: business man. God will forgive you for every sin you've 33 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 5: ever committed. But you gotta want forgiveness now and then 34 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 5: you got to come correct because what you can't do 35 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 5: is you can't shoot him the crap. Now, you can 36 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,959 Speaker 5: say that conversation with him. You know, whatever you told 37 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 5: your lawyer, whatever you told the victims, whatever you told, 38 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 5: whatever the story is you got going, if it ain't 39 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 5: the truth, you can say that with God, because please know, 40 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 5: he know, and he know your heart. He know if 41 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 5: you're trying to manipulate somebody just for the system, if 42 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 5: you're trying to say this just so you can get out, 43 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 5: He know all of that. So if you're planning on 44 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 5: shucking him and driving him, save your earth before you 45 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 5: wind up digging yourself in a deeper hole. Just let 46 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 5: me give you that piece of advice. Because he ain't 47 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 5: nothing to play with. He's too great to be played with. 48 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 5: And so with that in mind, I want to share 49 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 5: some positive stuff with you this morning. 50 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 6: Man. 51 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 2: I want to say this. I want to remind you 52 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 2: not to let your circumstance and your situations dictate your 53 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 2: future or your results. I'm gonna say this again. This 54 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 2: is important information. Man. 55 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 5: Don't let your circumstance and situations dictate your future or 56 00:04:35,240 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 5: your results. Do you know that in order to get 57 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 5: a different future or some different results, you control that 58 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 5: entire situation. 59 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 2: It is you. It is your thoughts that control the 60 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 2: entire situation. 61 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 5: It is how you look at the situation that will 62 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 5: determine how the situation is for you. See, the same 63 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 5: situation can be told different for two different people, because 64 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 5: you can say you look at the examples of history, just. 65 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 2: Just look look in your neighborhood. How can There was. 66 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 5: A book that a guy wrote one time who had 67 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,960 Speaker 5: the name. He had a name, and he did some 68 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 5: research and he found a god that grew up at 69 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 5: the same age in the same neighborhood as him, with 70 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 5: the exact same name. He went on to become a 71 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 5: corporate ceo. The other man was an inmate, and they 72 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 5: had the same name. Grew up in the same neighborhood. 73 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 5: They were both brothers, you know not, I'm just saying 74 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 5: brothers men. And they grew and they went two different 75 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 5: Because how can two different two people the same situation 76 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 5: and the results turn out so different. It is because 77 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 5: of the thought process of one was completely different from 78 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 5: the thought process of the other. 79 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 2: You control it. 80 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 5: You don't have to let your circumstances and your situations 81 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 5: dictate your future or your results. Here's the way it works. 82 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 5: This is so you can understand this. Your mind is 83 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 5: the controlling factor of your thoughts. Your thoughts are the 84 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 5: controlling factor of your outcome. The Bible says a man 85 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 5: is as he thinketh. Please don't short play this scripture here, 86 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 5: because this one is the real deal. This is the 87 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 5: basis of every self improvement book you'll ever read. It's 88 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 5: already written in the Bible. The Bible has all the 89 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 5: information you need. But in case you need a little 90 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 5: bit of clarity in some simple modern day language, then 91 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 5: they have self improvement books. 92 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 2: They are all based on Biblical scripture. A man is 93 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 2: as he thinketh. 94 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 5: That's why Norman Vincent Peelee wrote the book The Power 95 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 5: of Positive Thinking. That's why a book came out called 96 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 5: The Magic of Thinking Big. That's why a book came 97 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 5: out called Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon heell all 98 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 5: of you. All these titles that I've read that have 99 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 5: mattered in my life the most, These three major books 100 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 5: that I've read, they all say one thing. Think, thinking thoughts, 101 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 5: because that's what controls the outcome. Your brain works one 102 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 5: of two ways. It works positive or negative. It works good, 103 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 5: which is under the column of positive, or to work evil, 104 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 5: which is under the column of negative. It will have faith, 105 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 5: which is under the column of positive, or you will 106 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 5: operate in fear, which is in the column of negative. 107 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,559 Speaker 2: That is the only way your mind works. 108 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 5: Your mind is a factory that's comprised of workers. Those 109 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 5: workers are controlled by two foremans, forming positive and forming negative. 110 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 5: But guess what the CEO of the company, the headman, 111 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 5: the boss is you. You come to work in the 112 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 5: morning and you say, man, today is a great day. 113 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 5: I'm going to take steps towards brightening my future. I'm 114 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 5: going to take another step into making that dream come 115 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 5: true that I've been thinking about. I'm gonna take another 116 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,840 Speaker 5: step forward in the development and the changing of my life. 117 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 5: In a positive, good direction. If you come to work 118 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 5: and say that every day as the CEO the boss, 119 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 5: the foremans can only obey you, so that what you 120 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 5: just said was a series of positive statements, then forming 121 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 5: positive steps to the forefront. He said, I got your 122 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 5: boss right away. He turns around, He blows the whistle 123 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 5: sh He alerts all the workers in the factory. Today 124 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 5: is a good day. Today we will take steps towards 125 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 5: our future. Today we are putting ourselves on track to 126 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 5: get a little bit closer to making our dreams come true. 127 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 5: Today we will be assembling all the things we need 128 00:08:58,120 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 5: to make our dreams come true. 129 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: In our life, life better in the right direction. Everybody break. 130 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 5: The workers in the factory turn around and manufacture thoughts 131 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 5: to justify the orders given by the boss, which is you. 132 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 5: You are the CEO of your corporation. If you don't 133 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 5: own nothing else, you own everything that's going on between 134 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 5: your two ears. You are the CEO of that corporation. 135 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:28,079 Speaker 5: If that corporation is a good one, it's because you 136 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 5: set it up that way. If your corporation is a 137 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 5: bad one, it's because you set it up that day. 138 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,319 Speaker 5: If you try and if you pushing towards your dreams, 139 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:38,960 Speaker 5: and you see the possibility of things happening in your 140 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 5: life is because you, as the CEO, set it up 141 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 5: that way. If you ain't got nothing popping, if you 142 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 5: just want to be a criminal taking stuff from people, 143 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,080 Speaker 5: throwing your life out the window, you're gonna be an inmate. 144 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 5: You're gonna be sitting there there, and you're gonna be 145 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 5: mad at everybody. You't got nobody be mad at. But 146 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 5: you you understand what I'm telling you this morning? 147 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: Uh huh. 148 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 149 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen, Another blessing, another let's just call it 150 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 5: what it is. Another miracle has occurred. Another miracle has occurred. 151 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 5: You are partaking in a miracle. Well, see what miracle 152 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 5: you talking about? The miraculousness of a new day, the 153 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 5: simple amazement that God has done it again and again 154 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 5: and again so often that you consider it common. 155 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 2: It's nothing but a miracle. Who else do you know? 156 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:43,319 Speaker 5: Let me let me just clear it. Who do you 157 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 5: know make the sun come up? Give me a name, 158 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 5: what organization group? Give me what committee gets the sun 159 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 5: up every day? 160 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 7: Being? 161 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 5: Let me tell you who it is, God Lord, God 162 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:06,359 Speaker 5: Almighty the only one that can do it. That is miraculous. 163 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 5: You's a bad man, boy if you can do that 164 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:14,079 Speaker 5: every day. So let's give thanks, Anna and credit where 165 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 5: it belonged. Y'all, this ain't about you. Steve Hart, Marty Show, 166 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 5: Sheldon Strawberry calling for real Mississippi, Monica Junior and the 167 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 5: legend of Nephew Tommy Junr. 168 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 8: Hey Man, Can I just say this, uncle man? 169 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 9: Last night, I had the privilege of hosting the event 170 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 9: last night for your foundation, for the Steve Martin Hardy Foundations. 171 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 2: Can I just say say thank you for that? Sir. 172 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 8: You doing a lot, brother, You're really doing a lot. Brother. 173 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 8: You really into changing lives. You really believe in that, brother, 174 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:49,079 Speaker 8: you believe in it. 175 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 9: When I saw them kids talk about what that foundation 176 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 9: mean to them on it wasn't I was up there crying. 177 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:56,560 Speaker 8: I'm older than them. 178 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:57,359 Speaker 1: I'm crying. 179 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 2: The kids is man. 180 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 8: When that boy said I'm gonna be somebody's husband one 181 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 8: day and he. 182 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: Thirteen, Wow, yeah, wow, Yeah. 183 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:08,840 Speaker 3: Is that what your teaching? 184 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? 185 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 7: Yeah. 186 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 2: We go into that two things. 187 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 5: How to be a man, a real man, the principles 188 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 5: of manhood, and number two, how to make your dreams 189 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 5: come true. 190 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 2: That's that's what the whole program is about. 191 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 5: If you can get a young boy and a girl 192 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 5: locked in on them two things, you've accomplished something. Yeah, 193 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 5: because you're gonna be somebody's husband one day. So what 194 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 5: why don't you start preparing yourself for the day when 195 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 5: you gotta When you gotta put that crown on Junior, 196 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 5: you a husband, Tommy, you a husband. 197 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 2: When you put that crown on, man, that crown heavy, 198 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: man can wear it. 199 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 5: And here the thing about the crown, Man, you don't 200 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 5: get taken off. You get to set it down on 201 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 5: the nice stand. 202 00:12:58,400 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 2: You don't. 203 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 5: That's that's why you That's why you got to toss 204 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:04,839 Speaker 5: and turn at night, because you don't get to take 205 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 5: it off. You got to sleep in that crown sometime, 206 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:11,599 Speaker 5: that crown cut. So yeah, man, we get into it 207 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 5: with them boys. I just good man, I'm stop standing. 208 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 5: I'm proud of the good God is good man, God God. 209 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,439 Speaker 5: Your career is what you're paid for. Your calling is 210 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 5: what you're made for. 211 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: Right man, When you. 212 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 2: Host the last night, did you we hat you what 213 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 2: you heard on? 214 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:35,719 Speaker 1: Why is that we gotta go? 215 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 10: We gotta go coming up at thirty two minutes after 216 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 10: the hour, we'll hear from the nephew as he runs 217 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 10: that prank back. Right after this, you're listening to Harvey 218 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:54,959 Speaker 10: Morning Show. Around the holidays, it's hard to find the 219 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 10: right gifts, but you know it's even harder getting the 220 00:13:58,400 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 10: right gift. 221 00:13:59,160 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 1: But get this. 222 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 10: Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. They have incredible 223 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 10: gift bundles. You get the latest phone with a new 224 00:14:08,480 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 10: line on my plan and a brand new smartwatch and tablet, 225 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 10: no trade in needed. You can give a couple away 226 00:14:15,679 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 10: and get yourself one two, or you could keep them 227 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 10: all to yourself. No one has to know. Stop by 228 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 10: your local Verizon. It is time now for the nephew 229 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 10: to run that prank back. WI you got for us 230 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 10: neph today. You want to run it back, run it back? 231 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 7: I will run it back. This is Auntie Deborah K. 232 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 7: Auntie Deborah K. You know you Auntie got had that's 233 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 7: a good aunt tie name. What's what's what's some aunties 234 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 7: y'all got? It's got their good name? Auntie Deborah K. 235 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 1: Dying dying. I used to have one. 236 00:14:56,680 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 2: Beatrice by who's on a damn aunt sash Man aunt 237 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 2: Ruby I had real aunts. Yeah, good people. You sound 238 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 2: like she could cook. 239 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:22,239 Speaker 1: Loretta and Loretto. 240 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 7: All right, this right here is Auntie Deborah k let's 241 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 7: go cat dog give you would. 242 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 2: Speak? Let me tell you some of you. My name 243 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 2: is Wayne. 244 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 7: You did my auntie's hair yesterday. And now I don't 245 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 7: know what you did. I don't know what kind of 246 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:42,720 Speaker 7: glue you'd used with weaves or whatever. But my auntie 247 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 7: hadn't fell out in church today. 248 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 5: I don't. 249 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 11: I don't even use because I don't even know why 250 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 11: you're coming at me on the side him anyway about 251 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:51,360 Speaker 11: your auntie, my. 252 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 2: Aunt My auntie is Deborah, and I have felt like. 253 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:04,560 Speaker 11: Juice glue up and so that since nineteen ninety two. 254 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 2: You come coming that means. 255 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 7: Some glue on glue po pull you think you tripping 256 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 7: with Look, let me tell you. 257 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 2: Look, let me say this to you all. 258 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 11: I'm saying you gotta say. You gotta say it because 259 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 11: I'm serious about my heart. You coming at me with 260 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 11: some glue. It's not for some glob be that nothing 261 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 11: on the side of your age. 262 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 2: Well that's what happened. 263 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 7: And I have fell off in service, and all the 264 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 7: church members and sitting there laughing now. 265 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 11: But she shouldn't have been. Maybe she's trying to get 266 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 11: the devil out of them because she ain't no business 267 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 11: shouting hard anyway. But I don't switch double glove. 268 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 7: You ain't in the city and talk about my ain't it? 269 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 7: And Jesus, don't you talk about how she shouted. 270 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 11: I don't even know that. 271 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 6: Glue. 272 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 2: They call her miss del Brook. 273 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:54,400 Speaker 11: I don't know no Miss del Brook. 274 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 7: She just got her hair done from you yesterday. How 275 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 7: you gonna sit here and act like you ain't cutting yesterday? 276 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 11: God, you're just saying blue count. Come tell him be 277 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 11: a real woman and common me. Tell me mistake made? 278 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 11: Because I don't have no and I ain't use no good. 279 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,679 Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell everybody in Atlanta jeorgan not to come 280 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:16,280 Speaker 7: to your house. 281 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:20,959 Speaker 11: Wait, wait a minute? Wait what minute? You wait one minute? 282 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 11: That's my livelihood? Why I don't need you? 283 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,159 Speaker 6: What is this you? 284 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: My name is Wayne? 285 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 7: Why? 286 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 11: Look here, Waite? 287 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:32,159 Speaker 2: I know you know Wayne, but you you. 288 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 11: I got her brother named Big Jay, and he bringing 289 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 11: bring out Bringwayne. 290 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 2: Look, look, let me tell you something. 291 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 7: I don't want no problem, but I will throw these 292 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 7: hands if I got you what they ain't. 293 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 11: Gonna throw them. Look here, look here, I ain't got 294 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 11: time to tell you. Ain't it whatever? Ain't some mistake 295 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 11: and whatn't it? 296 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 7: Now? 297 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 11: Look, you don't got me out here on good Sunday. 298 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 11: I just came from church. It's hot as hell, and 299 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,640 Speaker 11: you're telling me about blue. You ain't got no joy 300 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 11: got you today? 301 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 7: Do? 302 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 11: I't got nothing to do. 303 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 7: I got to find out why my ain't and half 304 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 7: falling out in church? 305 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 6: And ain't me so. 306 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 11: Called somebody else in that land? Because I'm I am 307 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 11: the hated two. 308 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 2: Well you ain't you? 309 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:15,359 Speaker 7: You must not be in right now? You got people 310 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 7: hair falling out in church and glue fallowing all off 311 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 7: on the pews. 312 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 11: Ain't y'all ain't the podlely glue her? Honest? And that's 313 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 11: only why it fell like I'm gonna tell you what now, 314 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 11: I'm the horhest silence in that laughter. So I don't 315 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 11: know who know, deblty. Ain't nobody if I ain't say 316 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 11: I ain't doing half? I don't some half? You go 317 00:18:33,280 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 11: in and everybody in Atlanta Dad say the same thing. 318 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 7: Look, all I'm saying is you to mess up my 319 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 7: ain't and hair. I wanna get it rectified. I need 320 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 7: you first of all to call and apologize to her. 321 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 2: I apologize. 322 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 11: I'm gonna roast show you and drinking on some Jesus 323 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 11: juice with y'all ain't and that's why you wasn't Michael 324 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 11: Jackson and y'all ain't a devil seats to you or 325 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 11: whatever her name is. 326 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 7: Look, let me tell you first of all, you go, 327 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 7: you'll go respect my ain't. 328 00:18:58,080 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 11: Okay, whatever you say her name is. 329 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 7: If I put up, I want you to redo my 330 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 7: ain't and half for free and give her her money 331 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 7: back from the first time she paid you. 332 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:09,199 Speaker 11: I don't know who this old. I don't know who 333 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 11: this I don't know who you are. I'm Wayne, you 334 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 11: coming way, ain't look you Wayne. 335 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 6: I'm gonna go ahead. 336 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 11: I'm gonna hang up in your face. 337 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 3: Now hold up. 338 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 2: I'm Jeffer nephew. Wayne. Nah, I ain't fIF two years old. 339 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 7: Now, if you ain't gonna respect your elders, how you 340 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 7: expect to be blessed? 341 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: You say you just went to church this month. 342 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 11: See that's the problem. You calling me on Sunday with 343 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 11: some got me cutting like this. Now I gotta go. 344 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:32,920 Speaker 6: I'm with my past. 345 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 2: I got one more thing I need to say to 346 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 2: you before I get off the phone. 347 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 11: What you got to say because you wasted one minutes. 348 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:45,120 Speaker 7: This is Nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. 349 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 2: You just got brank from your girlfriend. 350 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 11: I was about my brother. 351 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 4: Get me. 352 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 7: Your girl told me, she said, trust me going off the. 353 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 2: Third twelve second. 354 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 11: Know what it is if you tell me. 355 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 2: Hey, baby, let man, you don't do no, you don't 356 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 2: do no glue. 357 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 7: No, I don't know glue. 358 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 11: I don't I don't tell you no glue. 359 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:30,640 Speaker 2: It's too. 360 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 7: All right baby, ain't nobody, ain't nobody half fell out 361 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:37,359 Speaker 7: of church and that you still they say you the 362 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 7: bomb down there. So I just wanted to call and 363 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:47,919 Speaker 7: make sure I prank my girl. She the one, all 364 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 7: right baby, answer one thing from it? What is the 365 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 7: baddest I mean, the baddest radio show in the. 366 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:57,120 Speaker 11: World, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 367 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 2: And ladies and gentlemen, you have it. 368 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 7: There you go, all right, be back in another hour, 369 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 7: same stupid don't turn the channel. 370 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 2: Ti'm it gonna be right here. 371 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:15,399 Speaker 10: Just Yesessey promise, I'm not in the guarantee not change 372 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 10: my stripes. 373 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do it. Look where it's got me. 374 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:20,840 Speaker 2: That was a question. 375 00:21:21,760 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 1: That's good, all right, all right, thank you NEV. 376 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is asked the CLO or Chief 377 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 10: Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right after this, 378 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,160 Speaker 10: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 379 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 4: Christmas is a time for joy, and joy is most 380 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:45,479 Speaker 4: powerful when it's shared. 381 00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 1: At the Salvation Army. 382 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 4: Your twenty five dollars monthly gift helps provide warm meals, 383 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,479 Speaker 4: safe sheltered and Christmas hope for families right in your 384 00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 4: neighborhood this season. 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This time around he called her piggy 391 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 10: while they were a board Air Force one. 392 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,360 Speaker 1: Geez yeah. 393 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 10: Legendary singer performer Smokey Robinson is facing new sexual battery 394 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 10: charges and accusations, I should say, And the halftime show 395 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 10: entertainment has been announced for the Thanksgiving Day NFL games. 396 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 10: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top 397 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 10: of the hour, but right now it is time to ask, 398 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 10: please do the clo. 399 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 1: You don't care about the Super Bowl. I don't know 400 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: that was a thing. Yeah, I think you're trying to 401 00:22:58,520 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 1: make it a thing now? 402 00:22:59,720 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 5: Yeah? 403 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:05,640 Speaker 2: What halftime at it? Thanksgiving? Thanksgiving? Dame man, I don't 404 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,880 Speaker 2: I care about that? When you go get another plate? 405 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: All right? 406 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 10: Ready, Colo, Yes, all right? Angel and Philly Wrights. I 407 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,920 Speaker 10: danced for six years and I met my husband in 408 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 10: the strip club. We've been married for twenty two years. 409 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 10: Our daughter turned twenty one and decided she wants to dance. 410 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 10: I think because it's glorified in movies, and she knows 411 00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 10: that I fell in love with her daddy when I 412 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 10: was a dancer. 413 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 1: How do I discourage her from doing what I did? 414 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 4: Wow? 415 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 2: Well, why don't you? 416 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 5: Why don't you show her the dark side of that business? 417 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 5: Because it is a dark side to that business. You know, 418 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 5: it's a dark side to that business. And she would 419 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:54,640 Speaker 5: be I mean, I ain't never been a stripper, Bud, Yeah, 420 00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 5: you know it don't look it just don't look like no. 421 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 2: Times I went it's not for me now enjoying myself, yes, 422 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 2: but it's. 423 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 7: Not for me. 424 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: One more time, did you enjoy yourself? 425 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 2: Yes, but it's not it ain't for me here. 426 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,159 Speaker 5: Because you know, it's sort of crazy, man, because I 427 00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 5: be feeling sorry for the people, the women, because you 428 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 5: know why you got yourself out here like this for 429 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 5: some money? You ain't You ain't got no dreams, no visions. 430 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 2: And you see it. 431 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 5: Most women that come off the pole don't come off 432 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 5: the pole with a husband. 433 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, well she's angel and Philly did so. 434 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:41,640 Speaker 6: Well. 435 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:45,360 Speaker 5: Most people don't come off the cold with a husband. 436 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,360 Speaker 5: Just tell her the dark side, yeah, yeah. 437 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 1: And they make a lot of money, don't They don't that. 438 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 2: Your body is abused. 439 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 5: It ain't that much. You see all that money on 440 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:02,399 Speaker 5: the floor, ain't yours, y'all? Yeah, this is a side. 441 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it is. They see the money. 442 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 5: There's some pipping going on as some strip clubs. There's 443 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 5: some prostitution going on at some strip clubs. It's a 444 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 5: lot of drug abuse going on at the strip club. 445 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 5: It's all's in him, not a bed of roses, you know, no, man, 446 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 5: it's some dark side. 447 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 10: So teller, all right, Moving on to Denise in Kansas City, 448 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 10: Denise writes, early in our relationship, my new guy told 449 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:34,920 Speaker 10: me that his deceased wife loved orchids. So yesterday, when 450 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 10: he sent a big orchid to my job, I told 451 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 10: him to pick another flower next time. 452 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,679 Speaker 1: I heard his feelings. Why would he think I wanted 453 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 1: an orchid? 454 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 5: Well, he he just since it was a favorite, favorite flyer. 455 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,159 Speaker 5: He thought maybe some women like orchids. 456 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: Women love orchids. 457 00:25:55,440 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, beautiful, But you know, well he tell her about 458 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 7: the ocus from the past, that that's the stupid part. 459 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,360 Speaker 2: The man, I know what you're gonna say. 460 00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 1: I already know what all honesty about, what is? 461 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:15,920 Speaker 10: What is? 462 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 5: We're here fall You're not gonna have nothing with all 463 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 5: this stop? 464 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, get her Rod, Stop pulling your heart out out? 465 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:30,960 Speaker 2: What do you hear you like? 466 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 11: Yeah? 467 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: Some people do like honesty, though, Steve, some people. 468 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 2: That everybody like honesty till they hear. 469 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 1: What did you hear yourself? You said, stop pouring your 470 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: heart out? 471 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 3: Did you? 472 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:46,920 Speaker 11: Well? 473 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:51,200 Speaker 2: Hey, open communication is overrated. 474 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 5: God, you gotta waiting man stuff to yourself? 475 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 1: What what you just want to surface relationship? Nothing deep? 476 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 5: No, you could tell some deep stuff how you felt 477 00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 5: when you lost your mama. Now you got to go 478 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 5: into that how you feel about children, the things you 479 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 5: love about her? You you go all that is good? 480 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 5: Everything quick? Talking about what your dead wife liked. 481 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,400 Speaker 7: Now, what other plants could he buy? He could bought 482 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:30,640 Speaker 7: some dandelions? What I mean he could nobody won't no dandelion? 483 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 7: Orcand had he not told what your orchid? 484 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're the probably like. 485 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,120 Speaker 2: That plant if you hadn't a told the story. 486 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 1: Yes, that's shut up quick bringing up. 487 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 2: Stop that talking about your dead wife. 488 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, moving on. 489 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,440 Speaker 2: I don't know you are hurt, and I don't want 490 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 2: to hear about it. 491 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 10: Moving on to Maurice and Albany, Maurice writes, I was 492 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 10: out with my cousin and a woman came over and 493 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,119 Speaker 10: bought me a drink. She said I was fine, and 494 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 10: I look like I'm a good lover. I'm married. But 495 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 10: I played along until she asked me to have sex 496 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:26,359 Speaker 10: that same night. It scared me, so I stopped talking 497 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 10: to her. Why are some women willing to degrade themselves 498 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 10: like this? 499 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 2: Hey, bro, bro, you need to stop. 500 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 1: What's he lying about? 501 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 6: Bro? 502 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 2: I played along until she wanted to have six that night. 503 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 5: That's where he drew the line, and he gonna write 504 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 5: a letter in why do women degrade they self? 505 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 10: Like that? 506 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 2: She just told you she thought you was. 507 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: Fine, fine, because you're fine, baby, And that he looked 508 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 1: like he was a good lover. She said that too. 509 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: Can you tell that by looking at someone really? Perhaps 510 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 1: what they do? 511 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll tell you one thing. I thought it at 512 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 2: least ninety eight. 513 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 1: Is there one thing that you look for ever. 514 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 2: Moment I've ever dated or walked up to? That's what 515 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 2: I was thinking. 516 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 1: If not, I'll just make the most of it. 517 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 2: If she ain't gonna look good laying now? 518 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,840 Speaker 10: But is there one thing that you you know, one 519 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 10: thing that makes you tell be able to tell if 520 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 10: somebody is a good lover? 521 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 1: Because how do you know by just looking at them? 522 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:52,680 Speaker 2: I can't. I can't let that out. 523 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 1: Or your formula. 524 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 2: You can looking at me a tale? I know you can. 525 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 6: What is this? What was that? 526 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 2: Laugh? 527 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 7: What is that. 528 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 9: Hard? 529 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 2: You can't look at me too, Tommy. I'll tell you 530 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 2: one thing. 531 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 7: You know? 532 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 2: When I look at you, I know right off? You stupid? 533 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 8: Coming on? 534 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 7: Well? 535 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 2: Some entertains for you? What's not laughing? 536 00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 1: This show is funny? You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 537 00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 10: Musical Icon that Smokey Robinson has yet another person accusing 538 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 10: him of sexual battery slash assault. This time it's a man, though, 539 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 10: who is accusing Smoky of trying to put his hand 540 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 10: on his private parts. According to Tamz, the accuser cleaned 541 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 10: and detailed Smoky's cars back in twenty thirteen. During this 542 00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 10: alleged incident, Smokey walked outside and just his underwear and 543 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 10: made sexual gestures towards the man, and then grabbed his 544 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 10: hand and tried to force him to touch his private area. 545 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 10: The man said he was fired after the incident. The 546 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 10: accuser is now the sixth person to file against Smoky. 547 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 10: According to Yahoo dot com, Smokey's lawyer released a statement 548 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 10: that read, in part quote, the new complainants are part 549 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 10: of the same group conspiring against the Robinsons. He said 550 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 10: that they're laying out these allegations for publicity. 551 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 1: That's what he said. 552 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 2: The lawyer, Yeah, huh, yeah, So that's about I've known 553 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 2: Smoky for years, you know not. 554 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 5: Here's what I will say if any of this turns 555 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:44,200 Speaker 5: out to be false. This is just me saying, let's 556 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 5: say that nobody validates it. And it goes away. No proof, 557 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:51,240 Speaker 5: lack of proof, no evidence. 558 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: We hope it's false, right, absolutely? 559 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 2: What happened to them people right there? 560 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 5: See that's what I want to know, because see, when 561 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:02,120 Speaker 5: you go at a person and I'm not claiming guilt 562 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 5: or innocence here, y'all, so don't don't understand that. But 563 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 5: if you go after person to shake him down for 564 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 5: some money and the shakedown don't work, something need to 565 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 5: happen to. 566 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 1: You for false allegation, yeah, because you. 567 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 2: Know, you just can't go cuting in him now. Now, 568 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 2: this man's reputation is suffering. 569 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he's on he was on tour and everything. Yeah, 570 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 1: all right. 571 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 5: I can't see smoking coming outside in his drawers. Why 572 00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 5: you get why you're washing his car? 573 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: I can't see it, and I don't want to see it. 574 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 5: It don't look like you get a lot of sun, 575 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:49,040 Speaker 5: you know, old pale dude coming outside drawl. 576 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 2: Past ain't tight? 577 00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 7: You know what. 578 00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 2: Elastic about? 579 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 8: You? 580 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 2: Remember the fruit of loons. 581 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 5: We used to wear the hat them for a long time, 582 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 5: and the thighs ain't tight no more. Remember Remember remember 583 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,200 Speaker 5: when you wash them and then the thighs don't be 584 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:18,000 Speaker 5: tight no more. 585 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 2: That's a hard underwear right there. 586 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 10: So did you make up your mind this morning? You're 587 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 10: just gonna be ignorant today. Just come to work and 588 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 10: just well, you know, Tommy inspired me. You know you said, 589 00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 10: you know, you can look at me and tell he 590 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 10: started it. In other news, have you guys seen this 591 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:42,480 Speaker 10: viral clip of President Trump pointing at a female reporter. 592 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 1: They were on the Air Force one and he told 593 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:48,760 Speaker 1: her quiet, piggy. Did you see that? My diets? 594 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:52,680 Speaker 2: Piggy, Hey, listen to me. On any job you have 595 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:53,880 Speaker 2: in this thank you. 596 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 5: Any job if a person is talking in a meeting 597 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 5: and you turn around and you call the woman piggy, 598 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 5: I don't care what job in America, You're not gonna 599 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,360 Speaker 5: have that job. Yeah. 600 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:12,959 Speaker 2: In fact that we don't hold him accountable for nothing. 601 00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:13,320 Speaker 7: He does. 602 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:18,600 Speaker 2: Speaks volumes for the morality of this country. 603 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 5: The fact that he is president speaks volumes to the 604 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 5: morality of this country. You have overlooked the sexual assault charges, 605 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 5: the thirty four convictions, you've overlooked all the lies, you've 606 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 5: overlooked everything he did that was wrong and still voted 607 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,680 Speaker 5: him in. That speaks to the morality of this country. 608 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 10: Wow, her name is Catherine Lucy, and she's with Bloomberg. 609 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,920 Speaker 10: According to multiple medial media outlets, watch this. 610 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:56,239 Speaker 2: Right here, watching surely talking right, surely get through talking and. 611 00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:58,399 Speaker 1: Cut her off. 612 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,439 Speaker 10: Actually he didn't even let like I just did you yeah, 613 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,160 Speaker 10: uh huh he cut her off. She asked the president 614 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,280 Speaker 10: a question about the Jeffrey Epstein files. She said, quote, 615 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 10: if there's nothing incriminating, incriminating in the files, sir, why not? 616 00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 10: Quiet piggy, quiet, quiet, piggy, That's what he said, and 617 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:20,440 Speaker 10: he pointed his finger at her. People on social media 618 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,400 Speaker 10: are upset, posting comments like this is the president of 619 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 10: the United States. One user wrote, imagine if another president 620 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:33,359 Speaker 10: had said that, of course, yeah, boy, you're right. 621 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,840 Speaker 1: If any man. 622 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:48,799 Speaker 5: At the post office, fan x, government building, at traffic controller, lawyer, any. 623 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,080 Speaker 1: Any company, any job, says. 624 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 2: That to an employee another. 625 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,960 Speaker 1: Coworker, Yeah, a woman can't say it. 626 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 10: Shut up, piggy, yeah quite quiet, yeah, quiet quiet piggy. Wow, gosh, women, 627 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,240 Speaker 10: He may as well has said that, I mean, seriously, 628 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:16,640 Speaker 10: calling this woman a pig. 629 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:18,439 Speaker 2: Wow. 630 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,880 Speaker 10: And this is coming from the president, the nation's highest office. 631 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 10: Where's the respect. 632 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,920 Speaker 1: I'm not well, no, I'm. 633 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've been hearing this forever. 634 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not surprised. I'm very disappointed. 635 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 7: Then when they get through opening them files, do not 636 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 7: be surprised that ain't nothing in there. 637 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:50,919 Speaker 2: Yeah. They that ran this through the car wash. 638 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:55,280 Speaker 1: Clean, sanitized. 639 00:36:59,239 --> 00:36:59,479 Speaker 2: Wow. 640 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 10: Yeah, you know it's not going to be anything in there, incriminating, 641 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 10: nothing gone, Yeah, nothing, Yeah, all right. Coming up at 642 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 10: twenty minutes after the hour, there's more outrage over the 643 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 10: viral video of a Chicago mother and her young son 644 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 10: brutally attacked while walking home from school. 645 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:21,280 Speaker 1: Right after this, we'll talk about it. 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See Miko three on the Miko website 656 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 10: and Amazon. 657 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:00,399 Speaker 2: News. 658 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 10: From our home station v one O three in Chicago, 659 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:07,719 Speaker 10: Chicagoans and people around the country are outraged about a 660 00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:11,279 Speaker 10: viral video showing a group of young kids attacking a 661 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 10: mother and her nine year old son while she was 662 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:17,279 Speaker 10: walking him home from school. These kids surrounded the mom, 663 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 10: surrounded the sun, ridiculed them, bullied them, beat them, and 664 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,640 Speaker 10: stumped them. The victims were taken to the hospital in 665 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,320 Speaker 10: serious condition. Now take a listen to Illinois State Senator 666 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:32,040 Speaker 10: Willie Preston, who recently spoke at a community rally right 667 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:32,960 Speaker 10: outside the school. 668 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,640 Speaker 1: The video is a symptom of something that's been going 669 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: on for a long time. We haven't held these kids accountable. 670 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 1: We haven't held parents accountable for the violent actors that 671 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 1: they children. 672 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:45,759 Speaker 2: They are doing it, that they aware of. 673 00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:51,880 Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, this is a problem. That video, that what 674 00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:52,520 Speaker 1: we saw. 675 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 2: Can I see the video because I haven't seen it. 676 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but this I know, we don't want to 677 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,719 Speaker 1: see it. But how old the sun was? Nine? The 678 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 1: sun was nine years old? 679 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,400 Speaker 2: Were talking elementary to junior high. 680 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:10,399 Speaker 1: Right and there, I mean bullying and yeah, it's been 681 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:11,359 Speaker 1: going on for years. 682 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,399 Speaker 2: Said, yes, that boy's been getting bullied for years. 683 00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 4: And I think the people in the community, you know, 684 00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:21,080 Speaker 4: in the area, they are calling for the Chicago Public 685 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 4: school system and the leadership to do a better job 686 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 4: of protecting, you know, the kids, their safety and they're 687 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,000 Speaker 4: well being and prioritizing that. 688 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,000 Speaker 2: Well, you know, you know, bullying. 689 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,400 Speaker 5: You're right, carl it because bullying is a major issue 690 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 5: at school, always being oh yeah, I. 691 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:39,680 Speaker 1: Was bullied at school. 692 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 7: Yeah. 693 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:44,719 Speaker 5: Now it's cyberspace creates a whole nother level to it 694 00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 5: because they can communicate, organize, meet you to follow this. 695 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 2: Probably, I don't know what happened. 696 00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:55,400 Speaker 5: Seems like the mother went up to the school for 697 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 5: some reason and was walking the boy home. 698 00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:01,400 Speaker 1: Or something that I don't know, walking home and and. 699 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 2: And and here that oh you're gonna go get your mind. 700 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,719 Speaker 1: They followed them. They followed them. You see it on 701 00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:12,319 Speaker 1: the video. They followed them while walking on a boy 702 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 1: and his mind and his mom. Yeah, yeah, yes, it's unbelievable. 703 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:23,520 Speaker 1: It is unbelievable. 704 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 4: You have to hold these kids responsible with the actions parents. 705 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:34,800 Speaker 5: This is parenting, Yes, this is parenting, allowing your kids. 706 00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 5: This is the laws we have allowing your kids. 707 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:40,879 Speaker 2: This is the freedoms we got. 708 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,000 Speaker 5: We gotta shut this down, and we got to do 709 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,400 Speaker 5: a better job of policing ourselves in our community. 710 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:51,640 Speaker 1: Yes, because this was ours, this is our community for 711 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,920 Speaker 1: no reason. Is disappointing. Yeah, it really really is. 712 00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,520 Speaker 2: A lot of it weighs on the parents. To me, 713 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 2: this is walking home. All right. 714 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:05,520 Speaker 1: We're going to switch gears. 715 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:08,359 Speaker 10: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, We're 716 00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:10,279 Speaker 10: going to ask you, guys, what are some off limit 717 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 10: limit topics and conversations coming up at next week's Thanksgiving dinner. 718 00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:18,520 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it. Like I said, right after this 719 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,919 Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 720 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 10: Well, Thanksgiving as next Thursday, guys, and we all know 721 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,440 Speaker 10: how family gatherings and you know the conversations can get 722 00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,359 Speaker 10: a big awkward sometimes. So Steve, Tommy and Junior, here's 723 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,759 Speaker 10: some questions that people don't want to be asked this 724 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:44,399 Speaker 10: holiday season. And then maybe you can help, you know too, 725 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:48,319 Speaker 10: with other questions. So when are you going to lose 726 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,440 Speaker 10: some weight? That's one of the questions they do not 727 00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,879 Speaker 10: want to be asked, right. 728 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 8: Asking me. 729 00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 7: What did you vote for? 730 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 5: Hanging out your use right right with some foil hanging 731 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 5: out your person? 732 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:11,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, who did you vote for? We're not talking politic, Huh, 733 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:11,880 Speaker 1: you can't. 734 00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:16,480 Speaker 10: That's the fight right there, fight starter, Okay, uh, when 735 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 10: do you think you're going to go back to work? 736 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:20,239 Speaker 1: When do you think you're talking to. 737 00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:22,960 Speaker 2: I will get it started. 738 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 1: When do you think you're going back to work? 739 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 10: Okay, here's one they don't want to be asked, are 740 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,000 Speaker 10: you pregnant again? 741 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 2: That's every year. 742 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:38,239 Speaker 9: I keep telling you that that girl keep coming here 743 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,839 Speaker 9: every year pregnant. She ain't to get the table, she's 744 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:46,399 Speaker 9: always away from the tape. She always somebody pass every year. 745 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:49,319 Speaker 1: Here's another one. 746 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,320 Speaker 10: How come I have to pay for everything and you 747 00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 10: all don't help mama with any of the bills. 748 00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 1: That's a fight starter? Yeah, uh huh. 749 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 4: But Johnny with the number of the responses though, what 750 00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:03,839 Speaker 4: were somebody said? 751 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:07,600 Speaker 2: If somebody said what I. 752 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:09,360 Speaker 1: Thought, they were gonna let me finish it n do 753 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:09,919 Speaker 1: their own. 754 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you can stop now. 755 00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead, you already got your list. 756 00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:23,640 Speaker 2: I know it's some subject you can't bring up. Is 757 00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:25,799 Speaker 2: that the same white girl you had here last year? 758 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,719 Speaker 8: Who gonna tell him that's not his daddy? Who gonna 759 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:33,080 Speaker 8: tell her. 760 00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:42,120 Speaker 11: What? 761 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 2: Steve? That's what I was going to said. Have you 762 00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:47,560 Speaker 2: figured out which one was your daddy? 763 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,960 Speaker 1: Okay, y'all all on the same page. 764 00:43:53,040 --> 00:44:00,560 Speaker 5: So You're just gonna keep on making addressing. You don't 765 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:07,440 Speaker 5: won't give nobody else a chance. You still messing around 766 00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:08,360 Speaker 5: with past his wife. 767 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:15,960 Speaker 1: That's at the dinner word on the street. 768 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,480 Speaker 2: When you'll getting married. 769 00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 1: That's on the list, right, would you say, Junior? 770 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 8: So how long you're gonna stay with cl. 771 00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:43,080 Speaker 2: That's his initial cl So you just gonna bring somebody 772 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:49,080 Speaker 2: different every year, and you got to just keep on it. 773 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:53,400 Speaker 1: Just a lot of friends, a lot of friends. 774 00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 2: They told me you just got out of jail. How 775 00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:58,720 Speaker 2: long would have been about a week. 776 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:00,319 Speaker 1: Now that was coming. 777 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,920 Speaker 9: That's that's one. But over here we'll be asking is 778 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:07,960 Speaker 9: he out? Is the markets out yet? 779 00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:12,239 Speaker 6: One? 780 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:14,399 Speaker 2: That a stars? So that the higgle war right here. 781 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,560 Speaker 2: She looks so much like your last girlfriend. 782 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 6: That that's a. 783 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:28,360 Speaker 2: She looks so much like you. 784 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:30,880 Speaker 1: Oh you're gonna flip the table. 785 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,000 Speaker 8: So how long you gonna keep doing drugs? 786 00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:36,160 Speaker 2: Your what. 787 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:39,800 Speaker 1: Dang everything? 788 00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 8: They're gonna bring that up. 789 00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 2: Hollo, So he higo one from your grandmama. So do 790 00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:48,360 Speaker 2: you have panties. 791 00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,319 Speaker 1: Like that commando you came to dinner? 792 00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:56,880 Speaker 7: Do you have? 793 00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,680 Speaker 2: I ain't from got last year? They whooped you about 794 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,120 Speaker 2: them dominoes. You remember that they Yeah. 795 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 8: Man, it's gonna be my rings is missing. 796 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 1: Happy Things. 797 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,439 Speaker 10: Coming up next, and is a nephew with today's prank 798 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 10: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 799 00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:27,959 Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour, 800 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:31,200 Speaker 10: right about four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today, 801 00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 10: and the subject is my success is intimidating. My success 802 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 10: is intimidating. We'll get into that find out what it's 803 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 10: all about in just a few because right now the 804 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,560 Speaker 10: nephew is here with today's prank phone call. 805 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,360 Speaker 1: What you got for us, nepht I got it. 806 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 2: This is not intimidating at all. I don't mind saying it. 807 00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,680 Speaker 2: I've said it a bunch of times. I need you 808 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,040 Speaker 2: to wash me to what? 809 00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:55,400 Speaker 1: Yes, what's that? 810 00:46:55,719 --> 00:47:01,319 Speaker 2: I need you to wash me? You wash? That's all? 811 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:03,279 Speaker 7: What is that? 812 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna look that up. Somebody looked that up. W 813 00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 2: h wash wash me? I need you to wash me. 814 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:16,640 Speaker 1: You can't bathe yourself. You need to somebody. 815 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:24,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, wash you can ask you can always. 816 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 7: Okay, we've been co working a long time, We've been friends, 817 00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,719 Speaker 7: all of you. If I get in situay, y'all can't 818 00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:38,040 Speaker 7: wash me. We'll take kind of friends of y'all. 819 00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:45,480 Speaker 2: No, no, I got to be washed. I'll know that. 820 00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:51,839 Speaker 1: I wish you could say it that wash wash wash. 821 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,480 Speaker 1: Did you sing it? Did you just sing it? 822 00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:58,719 Speaker 7: It came out better though, didn'h Yeah? 823 00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:03,040 Speaker 2: Key, There's some kids riding school with their mom and 824 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 2: the don go man, what is what is he trying to? 825 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:06,800 Speaker 6: Just? 826 00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 2: Wash? Man? 827 00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:10,840 Speaker 1: What did he trying to keep me? 828 00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 2: He's saying wash baby while he say that, mama. 829 00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 7: And. 830 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:17,880 Speaker 2: Can you wash me? 831 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:18,200 Speaker 4: This? 832 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:21,800 Speaker 7: Go all out to just go out to William This. 833 00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,719 Speaker 7: I'll go out to quash Needle. Just go out to 834 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:28,560 Speaker 7: all the will your families. Wash, let's going. 835 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 12: It's a great day. Nursery. This is Felicia. 836 00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:34,919 Speaker 6: I'm trying to get somebody come down here to five 837 00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:35,359 Speaker 6: on one. 838 00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:37,680 Speaker 12: I'm sorry, five one. 839 00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,759 Speaker 6: I need somebody to come down here to five on 840 00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:42,839 Speaker 6: one and and clean me up. 841 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 12: Sir, I think you might have the wrong number. 842 00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,319 Speaker 6: The nurse. I need the nurse to come out here 843 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:52,880 Speaker 6: to five on one and clean me up. 844 00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 12: So this is the nursery, not the nurse. I think 845 00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:56,920 Speaker 12: you might have down the wrong number. 846 00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 6: No, I need to talk to the uh where nuts cithy. 847 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:05,239 Speaker 6: That's who's the only clean me up? I need to 848 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:07,000 Speaker 6: come down here and clean me up, sir. 849 00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:10,759 Speaker 12: I really do think you have the wrong number. Where 850 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 12: are you calling from? 851 00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:14,439 Speaker 6: Who is this here? 852 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,840 Speaker 12: This is Felicia. I'm the director here at the nursery. 853 00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,200 Speaker 6: That's what I say. I need the nurse to come 854 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 6: down here and clean me up. I'm this bad playing 855 00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:27,839 Speaker 6: and all this stuff to clean me up because I've 856 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,800 Speaker 6: been sitting here a long time now. Ain't nobody to 857 00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:30,960 Speaker 6: come well, sir? 858 00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:33,799 Speaker 12: I think you dial the wrong number. If you tell 859 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,120 Speaker 12: me where you are, I can try to help you. 860 00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:38,880 Speaker 6: But I ain't down the wrong number. I need somebody 861 00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:41,600 Speaker 6: to come down here and clean me up. This ain't right. 862 00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 6: Y'all supposed to be able. Y'all supposed to get here 863 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:47,719 Speaker 6: every a something I supposed to come to check on. 864 00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,239 Speaker 6: Ain't nobody come check on me yet? 865 00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:52,840 Speaker 12: Okay, well, I apologize, but you have the wrong number. 866 00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:54,800 Speaker 12: Try hanging up and then dialing. 867 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,640 Speaker 6: Is just a nurse station, sir. 868 00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,719 Speaker 12: This is a nursery. We take care of children here. 869 00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,440 Speaker 12: This is not the nurse station. 870 00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 6: I'm not no child, I said, it's just the nurse station. 871 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:10,840 Speaker 12: I'm sorry you're not listening to me. This is not 872 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:15,279 Speaker 12: the nurse station. This is a nursery. We have children here, 873 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,600 Speaker 12: We take care of children. So I think you're down 874 00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:18,439 Speaker 12: the wrong number. 875 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,200 Speaker 6: No, they said that that they're supposed to come clean 876 00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,239 Speaker 6: up every hour they spot to come check on. Now 877 00:50:24,280 --> 00:50:26,640 Speaker 6: I been, I've been on my near three hours. Didn't 878 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:29,800 Speaker 6: nobody come check on me? Hat another? I need somebody 879 00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:32,360 Speaker 6: to come clean me out? And the uh, there's a 880 00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:36,920 Speaker 6: bad plan in full and they just they they just 881 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,239 Speaker 6: don't come check on us like they pull to check 882 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,320 Speaker 6: on them. They checkolder. 883 00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:44,080 Speaker 12: I'm really sorry that they have not come to check 884 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 12: on you in your your bed hands. 885 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,560 Speaker 6: So Roy, would they learning sit here like they do? 886 00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:52,040 Speaker 12: Okay, so just listen to what I'm saying. This is 887 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:56,640 Speaker 12: a nursery, we take care of small children. This is 888 00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 12: not the nurses station. 889 00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:02,040 Speaker 6: So I'm my brown kid, got small children as my grandkids. 890 00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,839 Speaker 6: I got bout forty two grandkids. 891 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 12: Forty two that comes in on Sunday. 892 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:10,279 Speaker 6: But soon did they leave the people at the nurse 893 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,560 Speaker 6: stands and that they ain't treating the bag and leave 894 00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,480 Speaker 6: me here like this here two or three hours. I'm 895 00:51:14,520 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 6: about to come check on Can you come down here 896 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 6: and check. 897 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,839 Speaker 12: This bad bad, sir. I can't do that. I need 898 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,759 Speaker 12: to get back to the kids here that if we 899 00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 12: take care of at sea, my kids. 900 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 6: No, my kids don't come tell they come on Sunday. 901 00:51:28,520 --> 00:51:30,520 Speaker 6: They come every Sunday after church and they come. 902 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,560 Speaker 12: See me, do they Okay? Okay, Well I'm glad your 903 00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,520 Speaker 12: kids come see you. And I'm going to get off 904 00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:38,960 Speaker 12: the phone now, but I hang up. You just now 905 00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:39,959 Speaker 12: down the number. 906 00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,319 Speaker 6: Right when you get off, you're gonna come down here 907 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,840 Speaker 6: and come sick and clean me up. 908 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,440 Speaker 12: I'm not going to do that, but I'm going to 909 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 12: let you call back. 910 00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:50,319 Speaker 6: And why you don't come clean me up? Why gonna 911 00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,160 Speaker 6: do that? Fathers do it? 912 00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:52,920 Speaker 4: Sir. 913 00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,560 Speaker 12: I'm not a nurse. I'm a teacher. 914 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:57,160 Speaker 6: When when when when? 915 00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:57,319 Speaker 5: When? 916 00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,120 Speaker 6: When? When? When I was coming through through papas to 917 00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:03,920 Speaker 6: do the job. You do what the joby whatever your 918 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:07,200 Speaker 6: job or that's what you do. I want forty two 919 00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,239 Speaker 6: years straight and I did my job. 920 00:52:09,520 --> 00:52:11,240 Speaker 12: Okay, I'm a teacher. 921 00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:13,879 Speaker 6: That's why come on down here and do what you're 922 00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:14,480 Speaker 6: supposed to do. 923 00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 12: Because I don't clean their you know. 924 00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,680 Speaker 6: Why I go on, y'all, young folks, don't do your 925 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 6: job that you're gonna make me mad. You don't get 926 00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:24,239 Speaker 6: your get your dot here. 927 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,000 Speaker 12: Uh, I'm going to ask that you not talk to 928 00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 12: me like that. 929 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,080 Speaker 6: You get your down here, come clean this bad pen 930 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,560 Speaker 6: and clean me up. I ain't supposed to be sitting 931 00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:37,040 Speaker 6: here like this all the time. What's your name. 932 00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:41,160 Speaker 12: Again, It's Felicia, and I have nice, really really nice 933 00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:45,520 Speaker 12: to get down here right now. Please do not speak 934 00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,360 Speaker 12: to me like that. I'm trying to. 935 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:49,120 Speaker 7: Right. 936 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,960 Speaker 12: You gonna calm down and quit talking to me like that. 937 00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,320 Speaker 12: I'm trying to help you now. That's just rude speaking 938 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:58,800 Speaker 12: to me like that that this is a nurser reach. 939 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:00,880 Speaker 6: Noise. 940 00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,120 Speaker 12: But you're not gonna talk to me like that. That's 941 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,680 Speaker 12: just rude and disrespectful. Don't speak to me like that. 942 00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:16,160 Speaker 12: You talk it, I will kick yo in the wheelchair. 943 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,600 Speaker 12: This seems to be the only language you understand is 944 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:20,920 Speaker 12: me talking to you crazy. Since you talking to me 945 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 12: crazy is not coming down there. You stay in that space. 946 00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:27,880 Speaker 12: How about bet. 947 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:30,440 Speaker 4: You heard me? 948 00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:32,880 Speaker 12: I said, you stay in that stank. I'm not cleaning though. 949 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,440 Speaker 12: I've been trying to tell you for the past five minutes, 950 00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:40,200 Speaker 12: but you won't shut up long enough to listen. I 951 00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:45,040 Speaker 12: am not coming down there to clean your Why not, 952 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:48,000 Speaker 12: I've been trying to tell you that is not my job. 953 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 12: You dial the wrong number. I'm talking to you. Who 954 00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:55,680 Speaker 12: are you talking to like that? We'll bring it on 955 00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,759 Speaker 12: there if you think you can get in your wheelchair 956 00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:59,680 Speaker 12: and make it down here to the nursery, to what 957 00:53:59,880 --> 00:54:01,800 Speaker 12: my and come the hell owns? 958 00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,080 Speaker 6: Listen, well you would take a message from it and 959 00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:06,280 Speaker 6: give it to somebody. 960 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 12: What what's your what's your? Missag? 961 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:12,440 Speaker 6: Write this down and e e. 962 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:18,840 Speaker 12: Uh huh what else? H uh huh uh huh. 963 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:24,200 Speaker 6: DoD willy what? Okay? You not? You got that part? 964 00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:24,919 Speaker 1: Yeah? 965 00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:26,200 Speaker 12: I got that for okay? 966 00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:32,400 Speaker 6: Gee? Oh h m m whah? 967 00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:33,560 Speaker 11: What is that? 968 00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:35,040 Speaker 4: What do it spell? 969 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:36,360 Speaker 12: I don't know what is it? 970 00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:37,879 Speaker 6: Let's spell it out. 971 00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:39,719 Speaker 12: I'm not feeling as you. 972 00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:42,080 Speaker 6: Tell me what it is? What don't I say? 973 00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:42,960 Speaker 1: Don't know? 974 00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 12: Nephew taught me down. 975 00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,200 Speaker 6: Nephew tell me there's his nephew Tommy from the Steve 976 00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:54,640 Speaker 6: Bolly Morning Show. Baby, you just got bragged by your 977 00:54:54,840 --> 00:55:03,480 Speaker 6: sister Rittnita. Oh my god, why you were sitting up 978 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,000 Speaker 6: there like what in the world? 979 00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:09,480 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, you got me, you got me? 980 00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,719 Speaker 6: Oh, I got you, I got you, I got one 981 00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:15,840 Speaker 6: question for you though, what is what is the baddest 982 00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:18,399 Speaker 6: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. 983 00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,919 Speaker 12: It is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 984 00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,600 Speaker 3: You got me good? Well? 985 00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:26,200 Speaker 2: Well, well, what's. 986 00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:30,000 Speaker 7: Then? 987 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:31,000 Speaker 2: I get washed? 988 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,200 Speaker 1: Still? No pay too much? 989 00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:36,160 Speaker 2: All right? 990 00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:36,920 Speaker 1: Thanking nephew. 991 00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,759 Speaker 10: Coming up next to this Strawberry letter, the subject my 992 00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:43,640 Speaker 10: success is intimidating. We'll get into that right after this. 993 00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:48,200 Speaker 10: Around the holidays, it's hard to find the right gifts. 994 00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:51,440 Speaker 10: But you know what's even harder getting the right gift. 995 00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:52,239 Speaker 1: But get this. 996 00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:57,439 Speaker 10: Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. They have incredible 997 00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:01,280 Speaker 10: gift bundles. You get the latest with a new line 998 00:56:01,400 --> 00:56:04,800 Speaker 10: on my plan and a brand new smartwatch and tablet, 999 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 10: no trade in needed. You can give a couple away 1000 00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:10,880 Speaker 10: and get yourself one two, or you can keep them 1001 00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:11,800 Speaker 10: all to yourself. 1002 00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:13,000 Speaker 1: No one has to know. 1003 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:17,240 Speaker 10: Stop by your local Verizon you're listening to the Steve 1004 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:25,399 Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 1005 00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,960 Speaker 10: And if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 1006 00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:32,040 Speaker 10: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HAARBFM 1007 00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,600 Speaker 10: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 1008 00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:35,960 Speaker 1: We could be. 1009 00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:38,960 Speaker 10: Reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 1010 00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:41,440 Speaker 10: going to read this one right here, right now, and 1011 00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:43,880 Speaker 10: you never know it could be yours. 1012 00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:46,120 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buggle up and hold on tight. 1013 00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:49,200 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here. It is strawberry letter. 1014 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:55,040 Speaker 10: Thank you, nephew. Subject, my success is intimidating. Dear Stephen Shirley. 1015 00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:58,200 Speaker 10: I'm thirty seven and never been married. I was in 1016 00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:01,080 Speaker 10: a four year relationship and when I got promoted, my 1017 00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:05,520 Speaker 10: boyfriend left the relationship. We met on an online dating 1018 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:09,720 Speaker 10: site for professionals, and we were compatible on so many levels. 1019 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 10: He is an administrator at his job and I was 1020 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,759 Speaker 10: a team leader. When we started dating, I wanted love 1021 00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,680 Speaker 10: and he provided that. But he also added a lot 1022 00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:22,320 Speaker 10: of competition to our relationship. When I get dressed in 1023 00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:24,400 Speaker 10: the morning to head out to work, he'd say I 1024 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,720 Speaker 10: looked powerful instead of beautiful, and he would tell me 1025 00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:30,680 Speaker 10: to boss up if I complained about stress at work. 1026 00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,560 Speaker 10: He treated me like he was my mentor and I 1027 00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:37,640 Speaker 10: was beneath him professionally, but I actually made more money 1028 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:41,160 Speaker 10: than him. Then I got a promotion and a company car, 1029 00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:43,960 Speaker 10: and he overheard me telling my mom what I'd be 1030 00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:47,640 Speaker 10: making annually. He insinuated that I was too close to 1031 00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:50,880 Speaker 10: my boss and that's why I got a promotion. We 1032 00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:54,800 Speaker 10: argued for days, and then he moved out. Since we 1033 00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,600 Speaker 10: broke up, I've had a few dates, but I haven't 1034 00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:01,800 Speaker 10: found a man that matches me intellectually or financially. One 1035 00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:05,800 Speaker 10: guy told me that my success is very intimidating. I 1036 00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:08,720 Speaker 10: wish men could see my sweet and nurturing side, but 1037 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:11,000 Speaker 10: as soon as I tell them what I do for 1038 00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:14,360 Speaker 10: a living, they decide that I don't have time for 1039 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,520 Speaker 10: a relationship. I have thought about telling guys that I 1040 00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:20,320 Speaker 10: have an entry level job, just to see if they 1041 00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:23,600 Speaker 10: would ask me out again. There are so many sides 1042 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,120 Speaker 10: of me, and I would hate to have to diminish 1043 00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:29,360 Speaker 10: all that I am to satisfy a man. My ex 1044 00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:33,920 Speaker 10: married and art teacher go figure. So are women expected 1045 00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 10: to bet our eyelashes and act needy to get a husband. 1046 00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:43,640 Speaker 10: That's true for insecure, controlling men. If you want that 1047 00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:46,840 Speaker 10: for your husband, they do try to compete with you 1048 00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:50,080 Speaker 10: and knock you down a few pegs. But you shouldn't 1049 00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:52,400 Speaker 10: have to dim your light or make yourself smaller. 1050 00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:52,880 Speaker 1: For any man. 1051 00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:55,200 Speaker 10: A real man would want you to be all that 1052 00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:58,640 Speaker 10: you can be and would support you every step of 1053 00:58:58,760 --> 00:58:59,080 Speaker 10: the way. 1054 00:58:59,160 --> 00:58:59,960 Speaker 1: He would celebrate. 1055 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:05,160 Speaker 10: Relationships are supposed to be partnerships that lead to marriage 1056 00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:08,479 Speaker 10: or whatever, and unfortunately a lot of women do dumb 1057 00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:11,160 Speaker 10: themselves down to get a man. My advice to you 1058 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:14,920 Speaker 10: is simply to be yourself. Don't change who you are, 1059 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,800 Speaker 10: shine brightly, wait for the right man to come along 1060 00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:20,960 Speaker 10: and to accept you for who you are a strong, 1061 00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:21,920 Speaker 10: confident woman. 1062 00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,040 Speaker 1: I mean, the people at your job see it. Why 1063 00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:26,960 Speaker 1: can't he? Why can't you your ex see it? Steve? 1064 00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:30,640 Speaker 2: Real men are not intimidated by women, period. 1065 00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:32,600 Speaker 5: Uh huh. 1066 00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,640 Speaker 2: Real men are not intimidated by women. Period. 1067 00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:43,200 Speaker 5: Now, if you're dating an underdeveloped man, that was your pick, 1068 00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:44,760 Speaker 5: you picked him. 1069 00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:46,320 Speaker 1: So listen. 1070 00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,240 Speaker 2: I understand the narrative that women have created. 1071 00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:53,360 Speaker 5: And this is more or less about an open discussion 1072 00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:56,320 Speaker 5: between me and the ladies on the show, because this 1073 00:59:56,560 --> 01:00:00,520 Speaker 5: letter is how many times have we heard this that 1074 01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:08,360 Speaker 5: women live under the guys, or the illusion or delusion 1075 01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:11,760 Speaker 5: that men are intimidated by your success. 1076 01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:14,520 Speaker 2: Now I offer this to you. 1077 01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:25,360 Speaker 5: Sometimes men are not intimidated, but ashamed. Sometimes men are 1078 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:28,960 Speaker 5: not where they want to be and are a bit 1079 01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:33,360 Speaker 5: embarrassed by it. When they find out that you are, 1080 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:39,760 Speaker 5: and because it becomes a bit of shame and embarrassment. 1081 01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:43,440 Speaker 2: But there are so many women that have taken this 1082 01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:44,640 Speaker 2: and turned. 1083 01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:49,280 Speaker 5: It into I intimidate them. And I guess that was 1084 01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:52,640 Speaker 5: a fair thing for you all to say, because it 1085 01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:57,240 Speaker 5: sounds empowering. But I want to just offer you an 1086 01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:02,400 Speaker 5: alternative line of thinking. And if you had this alternative 1087 01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:07,680 Speaker 5: line of thinking, it can help you cope with it. Now, Steve, 1088 01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:10,720 Speaker 5: why women always got the dummy down? And figure this out? 1089 01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:13,320 Speaker 7: You do? 1090 01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,440 Speaker 5: Wan who wrote the letter in say you want somebody? 1091 01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:20,240 Speaker 5: I ain't never wrote a letter in and said I 1092 01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:25,920 Speaker 5: wanted nobody. So now if you want somebody, there's a 1093 01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:30,919 Speaker 5: game to this. There's some gamesmanship. It's gamesmanship that men 1094 01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,600 Speaker 5: have to play to get you, and you know it. 1095 01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,360 Speaker 5: And it's things that you require and you know it. 1096 01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:41,600 Speaker 5: So when something gets required of you some type of gamesmanship, 1097 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,120 Speaker 5: you ain't got to get mad at Uncle Steve because 1098 01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:47,160 Speaker 5: he telling you the game. I'm just trying to help 1099 01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:47,880 Speaker 5: you with the game. 1100 01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:48,400 Speaker 7: Now. 1101 01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:51,640 Speaker 5: I could use this letter, which I think I'll do, 1102 01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:54,680 Speaker 5: but I wanted to say that first so we could 1103 01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,320 Speaker 5: get on the same page. I really want women to 1104 01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:03,160 Speaker 5: understand this. Y'all met online for professionals, and we were 1105 01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:06,920 Speaker 5: compatible on so many levels. He's an administrator. I was 1106 01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:10,800 Speaker 5: a team leader. I wanted love and all this here. 1107 01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:12,919 Speaker 5: When I got dressed in the morning, they had to work, 1108 01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:16,600 Speaker 5: He'd say I look powerful instead of beautiful. He would 1109 01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:19,200 Speaker 5: tell me the boss up if I complained about stress 1110 01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:22,640 Speaker 5: at the work. He treated me like my mentor, and 1111 01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:26,320 Speaker 5: I was beneath him professionally. You the one went on 1112 01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:32,200 Speaker 5: this dating site for professionals. That's where you went. You 1113 01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:39,880 Speaker 5: looked for people with similar mind sets. You want a 1114 01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:44,720 Speaker 5: professional man, but what you oftentimes forget is a lot 1115 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:46,320 Speaker 5: of men bring their jobs home. 1116 01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:51,840 Speaker 2: So that God, that's a professional at work. He tried. 1117 01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:56,320 Speaker 2: He acted like here a professional at the house too. 1118 01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 2: Boss up, you look powerful today. 1119 01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:01,000 Speaker 1: Goodbye? 1120 01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:05,440 Speaker 10: All right, we'll have part two of your response coming up. 1121 01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:09,200 Speaker 10: Steve at twenty three minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry letter, 1122 01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:13,360 Speaker 10: subject my success is intimidating. We'll get back into it 1123 01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:17,680 Speaker 10: right after this. 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All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 1134 01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:59,960 Speaker 10: today's strawberry letter. The subject is my success is in timid. 1135 01:04:01,120 --> 01:04:03,440 Speaker 5: Okay, I've told you the way that I want you 1136 01:04:03,600 --> 01:04:06,080 Speaker 5: all sometimes to consider this, and I appreciate it. I 1137 01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:09,440 Speaker 5: understand why you say it's intimidating, because intimidating is a 1138 01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:10,600 Speaker 5: more empowering term. 1139 01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:13,400 Speaker 2: I give it to you. And you've earned what you've earned, 1140 01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:16,480 Speaker 2: and you deserve to be where you are, and congratulations. 1141 01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:20,600 Speaker 2: But a real man is not intimidated by your success. Now, 1142 01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:25,240 Speaker 2: some men are ashamed of where they are, so there's 1143 01:04:25,280 --> 01:04:27,760 Speaker 2: a bit of shame when they meet a woman who 1144 01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:31,360 Speaker 2: has it together and a bit of what do you 1145 01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:36,000 Speaker 2: call it, disappointment in themselves. But if you want to 1146 01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:38,480 Speaker 2: call it intimidation for the sake of the letter, okay, 1147 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:43,000 Speaker 2: so you're intimidating. I'm just off in your way. So now, 1148 01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:44,880 Speaker 2: but I want to show you something in this letter 1149 01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:48,400 Speaker 2: that I just noticed you. So you were in a 1150 01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:52,280 Speaker 2: four year relationship then and when you got promoted, your 1151 01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:56,400 Speaker 2: boyfriend left the relationship. Now you met on an online 1152 01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:59,320 Speaker 2: dating site for professionals right here. 1153 01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,960 Speaker 5: If you went seeking this type of man, well you 1154 01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:05,560 Speaker 5: got it. We would compare on so many levels. He's 1155 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,760 Speaker 5: an administrator at his job. I was a team leader. 1156 01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:11,320 Speaker 5: When we started dating. I wanted love and he provided that. 1157 01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:16,640 Speaker 5: But he also added a lot of competition to our relationship. Okay, 1158 01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:19,360 Speaker 5: you're in the professional zone. Now, that's what y'all do 1159 01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:22,360 Speaker 5: in corporate America. When I got dressed in the morning 1160 01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:24,880 Speaker 5: to head out the work, he said I look powerful 1161 01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:28,000 Speaker 5: instead of I look beautiful. He would tell me to 1162 01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:30,880 Speaker 5: boss up if I complained about stress at work. See, 1163 01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:34,400 Speaker 5: you meet these professional men, so you think, and they 1164 01:05:34,480 --> 01:05:37,560 Speaker 5: bring their job home because he thinks that's what you like. 1165 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:40,000 Speaker 2: And now that's what he trying to be. Now here, 1166 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 2: go to park right here. 1167 01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:45,640 Speaker 5: He treated me like he was my mentor and I 1168 01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:49,520 Speaker 5: was beneath him professionally. Whoa wait a minute, now hold up, 1169 01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:52,320 Speaker 5: Now you either want a man in charge. You want 1170 01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:55,320 Speaker 5: a man that was shureley you can crown. You want 1171 01:05:55,360 --> 01:06:01,960 Speaker 5: a man that's a what you want because when he 1172 01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:05,760 Speaker 5: acts like he you mintor mentor, and then you say 1173 01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:10,280 Speaker 5: I was beneath him professionally, But I actually made more 1174 01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:15,680 Speaker 5: money than him. Okay, See, you got to make up 1175 01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:21,320 Speaker 5: your mind now. Oh, because you make more money than him, 1176 01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:25,320 Speaker 5: he can't tell you nothing. He can't act like he 1177 01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:27,920 Speaker 5: mentor you. He do know the male side of things 1178 01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:31,360 Speaker 5: that he can offer to you and that you may 1179 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:34,120 Speaker 5: not have from female perspective. 1180 01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:36,560 Speaker 2: Okay, but actually mailed more money him. 1181 01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:39,440 Speaker 5: Then I got a promotion and a company car, and 1182 01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:42,960 Speaker 5: he overheard me telling my mom what I'd be making annually. 1183 01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,840 Speaker 5: He insinuated that I was too close to my boss 1184 01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:48,360 Speaker 5: and that's why I got a promotion. Oh now he 1185 01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:50,600 Speaker 5: gonna make you think you slip your way to the tongue. 1186 01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:55,160 Speaker 5: I understand your ankle. Like I said, systems. You got 1187 01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,520 Speaker 5: your education, you did the credentials, you put your time in. 1188 01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:01,120 Speaker 5: You deserve to be who you gonna be. We arguing 1189 01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:05,200 Speaker 5: for days, and then he moved out. Couldn't take it 1190 01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:10,480 Speaker 5: no more because I think he got ashamed of where 1191 01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:14,160 Speaker 5: you were getting too, and he wasn't because now he 1192 01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:18,800 Speaker 5: mentoring you getting promotions, company cars, making most salary. 1193 01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:19,560 Speaker 2: All this help. 1194 01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:22,680 Speaker 5: Now, since we broke up, you had a few dates, 1195 01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:25,640 Speaker 5: and I ain't found a man that matches me intellectually 1196 01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:28,920 Speaker 5: or financially. One guy told me that my success was 1197 01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:32,560 Speaker 5: very intimidating. I told you, real men, not intimidate that 1198 01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,200 Speaker 5: this little boy you'd have met with all these little 1199 01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:37,200 Speaker 5: hang ups in his own little life. That's what he 1200 01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:40,200 Speaker 5: gonna tell you. I wish men could see my sweet 1201 01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:42,200 Speaker 5: and nurture inside. But as soon as I tell him 1202 01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:43,840 Speaker 5: what I do for a living, they decided that I 1203 01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:48,040 Speaker 5: don't have time for the liasship. I've thought about telling 1204 01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:50,520 Speaker 5: guys that have an entry level jug just to see 1205 01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:51,920 Speaker 5: if they would ask me how to care. 1206 01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:53,240 Speaker 2: All right, go ahead, try to. 1207 01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,200 Speaker 5: There are so many sides of me. I would hate 1208 01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:01,080 Speaker 5: to have to diminish all that I am to satisfy 1209 01:08:01,120 --> 01:08:06,360 Speaker 5: a man. So let me ask you a question. When 1210 01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:12,440 Speaker 5: you say you don't want to diminish all that I 1211 01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:16,800 Speaker 5: am just to satisfy man, So are you leading with 1212 01:08:17,000 --> 01:08:20,439 Speaker 5: all this in the conversation? Have you made this a 1213 01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:23,840 Speaker 5: level of importance to you because you don't want you. 1214 01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:27,680 Speaker 5: You can't find a man that intellectually matches you or 1215 01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:31,000 Speaker 5: financially that seems to be a package deal with you. 1216 01:08:31,560 --> 01:08:37,240 Speaker 5: So now, are you looking for a good man or 1217 01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:41,760 Speaker 5: are you looking for a certain type of man? And 1218 01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:45,800 Speaker 5: it's okay, you got every right to want what you want, 1219 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:51,559 Speaker 5: but in here can be part of the problem because 1220 01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:53,680 Speaker 5: if you're not just looking for a good man, if 1221 01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:56,400 Speaker 5: you're looking for a good man with a certain type 1222 01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:59,880 Speaker 5: of job making a certain amount of money, then get 1223 01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:06,280 Speaker 5: in line, because everybody looking for him. So I'm not 1224 01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:09,920 Speaker 5: gonna be able to help you because you've created all 1225 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:12,479 Speaker 5: of the stereotypes that keep you right where you need 1226 01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:16,400 Speaker 5: to be. You're intimidating to men. You make more money 1227 01:09:16,439 --> 01:09:16,800 Speaker 5: than him. 1228 01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:17,519 Speaker 2: How he met her? 1229 01:09:17,560 --> 01:09:17,760 Speaker 12: In me? 1230 01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:21,240 Speaker 5: Okay, I don't know what to tell you. My ex 1231 01:09:21,360 --> 01:09:26,280 Speaker 5: married an art teacher. Go figure, Well, yeah, yeah he 1232 01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:31,479 Speaker 5: got he married an art teacher. Go figure, what's see you? 1233 01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:31,720 Speaker 7: You? 1234 01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:34,200 Speaker 2: You you throwing me a little bit? What's the matter 1235 01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:35,160 Speaker 2: with the art teacher? 1236 01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:42,599 Speaker 5: Oh, she ain't a professional, she ain't a team leader, 1237 01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:47,600 Speaker 5: or she don't make the money you may Oh, all right, so. 1238 01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,600 Speaker 2: Now you ain't happy what men make all other women. 1239 01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:56,080 Speaker 10: From Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey f them on Instagram. 1240 01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:58,680 Speaker 2: And so women expected to better our lives and that 1241 01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:01,879 Speaker 2: needed for a husband. I like our last Biden best. 1242 01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:02,519 Speaker 1: Oh stop that. 1243 01:10:02,800 --> 01:10:05,519 Speaker 10: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free art 1244 01:10:05,720 --> 01:10:08,960 Speaker 10: radio app. Three Never sounded so good. 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We got Junior and Sports Talk right after this. 1247 01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:17,679 Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1248 01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:22,320 Speaker 2: Parents. 1249 01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:25,599 Speaker 7: Meet Miko Mini Plus, the small AI robot that talks 1250 01:10:25,640 --> 01:10:28,280 Speaker 7: to your kids and turns curiosity into learning. 1251 01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:31,240 Speaker 1: And the deal is big right now at Costco. 1252 01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:35,040 Speaker 10: It's seventy nine to ninety nine originally one forty nine 1253 01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:35,960 Speaker 10: ninety nine. 1254 01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:39,360 Speaker 7: Screen lights, super fun and built for reading, math, science, 1255 01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:40,640 Speaker 7: and creative storytelling. 1256 01:10:40,880 --> 01:10:45,160 Speaker 1: Ideal for ages five to ten. Price and availability may vary. 1257 01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:47,280 Speaker 2: Get Miko Mini Plus today at. 1258 01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:50,400 Speaker 10: Costco and for older kids see Miko three on the 1259 01:10:50,560 --> 01:10:52,840 Speaker 10: Miko website and Amazon. 1260 01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:57,040 Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What 1261 01:10:57,200 --> 01:10:57,880 Speaker 1: you got, Junior? 1262 01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:00,920 Speaker 9: You can't make everybody happy, don't matter or what Shirley, 1263 01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:02,160 Speaker 9: Look what theyre doing to your boy? 1264 01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:03,640 Speaker 8: Jalen hurts in Philadelphia. 1265 01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:06,720 Speaker 9: Some of the Eagle players, they are upset at the 1266 01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:09,639 Speaker 9: way Jalen Hurts is playing. They don't like his approach 1267 01:11:09,680 --> 01:11:13,400 Speaker 9: to the game this season. You know, whatever he does, 1268 01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:15,479 Speaker 9: it ain't good enough. They won't you know, they got 1269 01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:17,040 Speaker 9: some problems with him at quarterback. 1270 01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:22,040 Speaker 1: Well, they eighting too, World champions. 1271 01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:23,639 Speaker 8: Yeah, they don't want to name themselves. 1272 01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:25,960 Speaker 9: They just said some of the Eagles players don't like 1273 01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:28,240 Speaker 9: the way he's playing the position this year. 1274 01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:30,360 Speaker 2: He won't throw the ball in the tight windows. 1275 01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:33,800 Speaker 9: He don't, they said, he won't throw the ball in 1276 01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:34,559 Speaker 9: the tight window. 1277 01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:38,840 Speaker 2: You don't play quarterback. Ask them do they know how 1278 01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:39,679 Speaker 2: to play quarterback? 1279 01:11:45,160 --> 01:11:46,880 Speaker 8: Do you want to be the Saints. 1280 01:11:52,479 --> 01:11:52,760 Speaker 12: And eight? 1281 01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:54,040 Speaker 1: You don't like eight and two? 1282 01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:55,320 Speaker 2: You want to be you want to go? 1283 01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, he said the Saints to. 1284 01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:03,840 Speaker 8: The Raiders twenty eight, the Browns to you want to 1285 01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:04,280 Speaker 8: go play with? 1286 01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,040 Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you a question. What is the 1287 01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:15,280 Speaker 2: Texans five and five? We five five? We're five, five 1288 01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:18,960 Speaker 2: and five? What that get wild card? 1289 01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:20,280 Speaker 1: It's still in the game. 1290 01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:23,800 Speaker 2: Five five ain't getting no wild card. We're still in 1291 01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:25,519 Speaker 2: the game. We still I'm telling you we're still in 1292 01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:25,920 Speaker 2: the game. 1293 01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:29,880 Speaker 8: You still five, Lord, We're going twelve and five. 1294 01:12:29,920 --> 01:12:34,599 Speaker 2: We want to that's all. If you win out, if 1295 01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:35,840 Speaker 2: you win all the rest of the game. 1296 01:12:35,760 --> 01:12:36,200 Speaker 7: We went up. 1297 01:12:36,240 --> 01:12:37,960 Speaker 2: We were in the rest of these seven games we 1298 01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:42,280 Speaker 2: were in. Okay, let's say how that goes well? We 1299 01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,400 Speaker 2: played tonight, junr. So you know that. 1300 01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:47,439 Speaker 8: Hey, hey, hey man, don't don't bring it up right now? 1301 01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:48,680 Speaker 8: Times Why you want to bring that up? 1302 01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:54,839 Speaker 2: We were talking about we're doing sports. Who y'all playing Buffalo? 1303 01:12:57,280 --> 01:12:57,920 Speaker 2: Play Buffalo? 1304 01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:02,360 Speaker 8: Why I didn't want to bring it up? 1305 01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:13,240 Speaker 2: Buffalo, y'all gonna y'all gonna actually go to the game? 1306 01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:16,759 Speaker 2: I got tickets? 1307 01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:22,080 Speaker 1: Then why why can't they go to the game? See? 1308 01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:25,720 Speaker 9: All I'm saying is why are they riding him so hard? 1309 01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:28,000 Speaker 9: It's this don't make no sense. He's eight and two. 1310 01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:30,400 Speaker 8: You can't be happy with aight and too. There's nothing 1311 01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:30,960 Speaker 8: wrong and two. 1312 01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:33,080 Speaker 1: If you don't want. 1313 01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:40,160 Speaker 2: That, here's a wide receiver and we know number where 1314 01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:41,080 Speaker 2: number living. 1315 01:13:42,360 --> 01:13:42,640 Speaker 7: A J. 1316 01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:49,960 Speaker 1: Brown We got it saying saying a J All right, junior, 1317 01:13:50,120 --> 01:13:53,680 Speaker 1: thank you go Texans. Coming up at the top of. 1318 01:13:57,000 --> 01:13:59,720 Speaker 10: A woman on social media needs some advice, Steve, She says, 1319 01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:03,920 Speaker 10: am I wrong for disinviting my cousin to Thanksgiving dinner. 1320 01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:05,640 Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. 1321 01:14:05,960 --> 01:14:12,680 Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is 1322 01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:16,759 Speaker 10: from Lucretia on Steve Harvey FM. Lucretia says, I'm hosting 1323 01:14:16,880 --> 01:14:21,439 Speaker 10: Thanksgiving this year, and I've disinvited my cousin because he's 1324 01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:26,680 Speaker 10: currently facing charges for armed robbery. Nothing has been proven yet, 1325 01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:30,320 Speaker 10: but it's still a case anyway. His mother, my Auntie, 1326 01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:34,560 Speaker 10: is furious and keeps saying, quote, I'm ruining the holiday, 1327 01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:38,960 Speaker 10: acting like I'm overreacting instead of acknowledging that her son's 1328 01:14:39,040 --> 01:14:43,400 Speaker 10: bad choices put everyone in this position. Am I wrong 1329 01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:46,400 Speaker 10: for keeping my cousin out of my home even if 1330 01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:48,519 Speaker 10: it upsets the rest of my family? 1331 01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:53,799 Speaker 2: Yes, you are wrong for that. Really, it's just all Robbie. 1332 01:14:57,680 --> 01:15:03,040 Speaker 1: You did not say that armed it's the key word. 1333 01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:10,920 Speaker 13: Yes, he had house, he went in there, took something 1334 01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:15,919 Speaker 13: widget gun that right now and what ain't they charges? 1335 01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:21,479 Speaker 10: He's currently facing charges for armed robbery. Nothing has been 1336 01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:22,120 Speaker 10: proven yet. 1337 01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:26,120 Speaker 2: It is silly case, proven guilty. What that guy do 1338 01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:26,960 Speaker 2: with him? Eating? 1339 01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:32,400 Speaker 1: She does not want him in her house kind of year? 1340 01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:33,120 Speaker 7: Next? 1341 01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:33,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I. 1342 01:15:35,400 --> 01:15:35,720 Speaker 7: Get it. 1343 01:15:35,800 --> 01:15:40,080 Speaker 2: I don't know, m He's gonna up. 1344 01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:42,559 Speaker 1: Here to get one of the security things in your house. 1345 01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:44,960 Speaker 2: I get on and I wanting them now. Yeah did it? 1346 01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:49,600 Speaker 2: Hard to see, but I did it. 1347 01:15:50,520 --> 01:15:51,120 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? 1348 01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:51,240 Speaker 7: What? 1349 01:15:51,439 --> 01:15:52,920 Speaker 8: Junr rob a plate? 1350 01:15:56,960 --> 01:16:00,040 Speaker 2: Hey don't. We wouldn't have had nobody at our house. 1351 01:15:59,880 --> 01:16:05,519 Speaker 9: If you just went on charges, charges and records. 1352 01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:15,840 Speaker 1: I think the part about him being just designed. 1353 01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:19,000 Speaker 2: Steve, Steve, Steve, put that plate down and get out 1354 01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:19,240 Speaker 2: of here. 1355 01:16:21,439 --> 01:16:21,800 Speaker 5: Uh huh. 1356 01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:26,240 Speaker 1: So you're saying he deserves the chance to come and 1357 01:16:26,320 --> 01:16:28,479 Speaker 1: be with the family. Yeah, just family. 1358 01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:31,800 Speaker 2: What y'all turning your back on him fault even if 1359 01:16:31,840 --> 01:16:32,520 Speaker 2: he wronged. 1360 01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:37,240 Speaker 10: Because he faces charges for armed robbery and it's the 1361 01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:39,360 Speaker 10: case and she doesn't want that in her house. 1362 01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:42,479 Speaker 2: Don't turn your back, keep behind on it. Don't turn 1363 01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:44,800 Speaker 2: your back, turn your back on your. 1364 01:16:46,880 --> 01:16:47,920 Speaker 1: What about your purse? 1365 01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:50,639 Speaker 5: We all. 1366 01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:53,800 Speaker 2: Keep it close, leave it in the car. 1367 01:16:54,600 --> 01:16:55,559 Speaker 1: He might take the car. 1368 01:16:56,640 --> 01:17:01,360 Speaker 5: Oh this is a terrible Yeah, he was just in 1369 01:17:01,520 --> 01:17:06,560 Speaker 5: there for theft, you know, petty theft. Yeah, it's the 1370 01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:09,120 Speaker 5: gun crackhead. Yes, you got to keep him out. 1371 01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:15,880 Speaker 1: But arm robbery, Oh no, yes, too much. Steve is 1372 01:17:15,920 --> 01:17:16,519 Speaker 1: saying it's. 1373 01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:21,040 Speaker 10: Not Steve saying, that's not what saying yeah, you're saying 1374 01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:21,920 Speaker 10: it's okay. 1375 01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:26,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh I thought you changed mid No, are you're 1376 01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:28,920 Speaker 1: still you're you're still going with. 1377 01:17:30,400 --> 01:17:32,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, he should be able to come to the house. 1378 01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:35,439 Speaker 2: He's on charges for arm Robbie. 1379 01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:41,799 Speaker 1: Yes, it's a it's an ongoing case. It's an open case. Okay, 1380 01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:45,800 Speaker 1: So invited him. You'll have some turkey and dressing and 1381 01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:46,519 Speaker 1: mac and cheek. 1382 01:17:46,960 --> 01:17:49,040 Speaker 2: Right, you know it could be his last one. 1383 01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:51,880 Speaker 8: Be uncomfortable. 1384 01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:56,280 Speaker 5: You'll let him in your high but thanksgiving on death 1385 01:17:56,439 --> 01:17:58,120 Speaker 5: roading that you have a last meal. 1386 01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:00,799 Speaker 2: This ain't. 1387 01:18:05,400 --> 01:18:11,040 Speaker 1: So how he can't come from logic here? Don't you think. 1388 01:18:10,920 --> 01:18:12,880 Speaker 2: It'll be everybody gonna be uncomfortable? 1389 01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:17,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, And that's what she's going in the circle. 1390 01:18:17,120 --> 01:18:19,479 Speaker 8: I'm not bowing my head and closing my eyes. If 1391 01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:20,959 Speaker 8: Demarcaus is in the certain. 1392 01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:25,920 Speaker 1: Why DeMarcus get up? 1393 01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:27,599 Speaker 2: He got all rough? 1394 01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:28,880 Speaker 1: All right, I'm not doing it. 1395 01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:30,559 Speaker 8: Everybody closed the head by the head. 1396 01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:31,839 Speaker 2: Not with democracy. 1397 01:18:32,960 --> 01:18:33,479 Speaker 1: You come over. 1398 01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:35,679 Speaker 2: Look, we're gonna hey, you come over, but my daddy 1399 01:18:35,720 --> 01:18:40,599 Speaker 2: gonna pat him down at the door. Fine, I can 1400 01:18:40,640 --> 01:18:40,880 Speaker 2: do that. 1401 01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:46,479 Speaker 1: From you. Got some rules again. Happy, Thanks. 1402 01:18:49,280 --> 01:18:51,840 Speaker 10: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1403 01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:53,639 Speaker 10: up at twenty minutes after the hour. 1404 01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:57,280 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1405 01:19:01,479 --> 01:19:03,519 Speaker 10: Hey, listen, guys, have you ever felt like you had 1406 01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:06,360 Speaker 10: a close relationship with a celebrity or of friendship with 1407 01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:09,360 Speaker 10: a celebrity even though you've never met them, Then the 1408 01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:13,320 Speaker 10: friendship you actually have is parasocial, which happens to be 1409 01:19:13,520 --> 01:19:19,000 Speaker 10: Cambridge Dictionary's word of the year. Parasocial describes those one 1410 01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:24,040 Speaker 10: sided relationships some people form with celebrities where you feel super. 1411 01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:27,200 Speaker 1: Connected to them while they don't have a clue who 1412 01:19:27,360 --> 01:19:27,720 Speaker 1: you are. 1413 01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:32,519 Speaker 10: The word received a surge of attention on Internet surge 1414 01:19:32,600 --> 01:19:36,880 Speaker 10: browsers after Taylor Swift and Travis Kelcey announced their engagement, 1415 01:19:37,200 --> 01:19:40,640 Speaker 10: and fans felt a deep connection to the couple. So 1416 01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:43,719 Speaker 10: here's a question for you, guys, who do you feel 1417 01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:45,720 Speaker 10: like you have a parasocial relationship with? 1418 01:19:47,560 --> 01:19:50,240 Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship with me. What did you talk about? 1419 01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:53,800 Speaker 1: You're in a full, full fledged relations. 1420 01:19:56,840 --> 01:19:59,920 Speaker 8: This is really happening in my mind, it is, yeah. 1421 01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:03,400 Speaker 5: Friend, Yes, this is different from fantasy. They ain't say 1422 01:20:03,400 --> 01:20:05,639 Speaker 5: who you're fantasized about in your mind? 1423 01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:09,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, to me, it's Jay Z and Beyonce. I'm 1424 01:20:09,880 --> 01:20:10,599 Speaker 1: friends with him. 1425 01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:14,600 Speaker 2: You're friends with him? Who are you friends with? 1426 01:20:14,760 --> 01:20:20,439 Speaker 1: Shirley Denzel and Paul Etta. We're having things get together? 1427 01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:22,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. 1428 01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:24,599 Speaker 1: What about you, Steve? 1429 01:20:24,720 --> 01:20:25,040 Speaker 6: You are? 1430 01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:30,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I'm really really close to the Obamas. 1431 01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:34,040 Speaker 1: For rocking Michelle in your head. 1432 01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:34,439 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1433 01:20:34,520 --> 01:20:38,880 Speaker 2: He called me, you know all time, be man, what. 1434 01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:42,559 Speaker 1: You want, We'll play around him. Would you rather? Right 1435 01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:45,840 Speaker 1: after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1436 01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:53,760 Speaker 7: Parents, meet Miko Mini Plus, the small AI robot that 1437 01:20:53,880 --> 01:20:56,800 Speaker 7: talks to your kids and turns curiosity into learning. 1438 01:20:57,040 --> 01:21:00,360 Speaker 10: And the deal is big right now at Costco. It's 1439 01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:04,479 Speaker 10: seventy nine ninety nine originally one ninety nine. 1440 01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:07,879 Speaker 7: Screen lights, super fun and built for reading, math, science, 1441 01:21:07,920 --> 01:21:09,200 Speaker 7: and creative storytelling. 1442 01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:13,719 Speaker 1: Ideal for ages five to ten. Price and availability may vary. 1443 01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:16,400 Speaker 2: Get Miko Mini Plus today at Costco and. 1444 01:21:16,479 --> 01:21:20,120 Speaker 10: For older kids see Miko three on the Miko website 1445 01:21:20,439 --> 01:21:21,360 Speaker 10: and Amazon. 1446 01:21:22,320 --> 01:21:23,840 Speaker 1: Time for a round? Would you rather? 1447 01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:24,280 Speaker 2: Guys? 1448 01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:28,160 Speaker 10: Would you rather be shipwrecked on a desert island? Or 1449 01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:30,800 Speaker 10: would you rather be stuck in space for a year 1450 01:21:31,280 --> 01:21:31,959 Speaker 10: by yourself? 1451 01:21:32,360 --> 01:21:32,840 Speaker 1: Which one? 1452 01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:34,560 Speaker 12: I'm on? 1453 01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:40,960 Speaker 1: I'm on that island I'm sighting you're gill again, sending. 1454 01:21:40,720 --> 01:21:45,040 Speaker 5: Up smoke signals, drawing in the sand, eating banana. I'ma 1455 01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:47,000 Speaker 5: be out there fishing. I'm gonna catch some fish. I'm 1456 01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:47,559 Speaker 5: gonna eat. 1457 01:21:47,680 --> 01:21:52,000 Speaker 10: Tommy might be all right, though, wear a whole year 1458 01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:55,720 Speaker 10: by yourself and spearlessness, all of that. 1459 01:21:56,560 --> 01:21:58,080 Speaker 2: I'm me a nice planet to kick it on. 1460 01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:00,760 Speaker 5: You ain't got a chance, and nobody there driving by 1461 01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:06,479 Speaker 5: seeing you up there, at least on this island. 1462 01:22:06,800 --> 01:22:07,360 Speaker 7: So bad? 1463 01:22:09,160 --> 01:22:11,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right? 1464 01:22:11,160 --> 01:22:13,720 Speaker 1: Would you rather sleep for a whole year or not 1465 01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:17,120 Speaker 1: sleep at all for a whole year? Which one? 1466 01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:21,560 Speaker 2: Well, I'm doing the second one? You are ready to be? 1467 01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:22,040 Speaker 12: Yeah? 1468 01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:26,400 Speaker 2: Sleep? You ain't sleep? You cold? I can't sleep no hole. 1469 01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:32,000 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, no, I'm stay up and it'll be hard 1470 01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:33,040 Speaker 5: to talk to though. 1471 01:22:34,640 --> 01:22:40,960 Speaker 10: You are to talk to now, you need some rest, 1472 01:22:44,040 --> 01:22:47,559 Speaker 10: all right? Would you rather have terribly chapped lips? 1473 01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:54,240 Speaker 1: Yeah? Or scratch a constant it she knows? 1474 01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:54,679 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1475 01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:56,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I suggest that for you? 1476 01:22:58,000 --> 01:23:00,120 Speaker 2: What from the scratch you took a month minute to 1477 01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:00,639 Speaker 2: get that out. 1478 01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:02,960 Speaker 1: I suggest that for you. 1479 01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:12,439 Speaker 8: In the world the lips severe check, yep, go it? 1480 01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:13,920 Speaker 2: You know stee all. 1481 01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:14,679 Speaker 1: Right every time? 1482 01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:17,640 Speaker 2: Would you rather have stick for your lips? Look like 1483 01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:18,600 Speaker 2: the sidewalk. 1484 01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:25,080 Speaker 1: Why are you talking like this, my mama? 1485 01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:31,360 Speaker 5: Oh, get some chapstick bacon grease on your lips and 1486 01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:33,760 Speaker 5: look they look like the sidewalk. 1487 01:23:34,160 --> 01:23:35,920 Speaker 1: Dang concrete. 1488 01:23:36,479 --> 01:23:39,160 Speaker 10: Would you rather have to eat every meal with thirty 1489 01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:43,639 Speaker 10: people or eat every meal alone for the next six months? 1490 01:23:45,240 --> 01:23:46,320 Speaker 2: Say what? Eat? 1491 01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:46,600 Speaker 7: What? 1492 01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:49,240 Speaker 10: Would you rather have to eat every meal with thirty 1493 01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:52,880 Speaker 10: people or eat every meal alone for the next six months? 1494 01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:54,400 Speaker 2: By by myself? 1495 01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:55,920 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1496 01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:56,879 Speaker 8: Talk by myself? 1497 01:23:59,200 --> 01:24:02,479 Speaker 2: Yeah. Because we don't know who was on the thirty people? 1498 01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:03,639 Speaker 2: Why am I eating with them? People? 1499 01:24:05,280 --> 01:24:07,680 Speaker 1: You're gonna have that many over your house for Thanksgiving? 1500 01:24:07,760 --> 01:24:10,080 Speaker 2: But I know him and and they leave it that day. 1501 01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:11,800 Speaker 1: We didn't say thirty strangers. 1502 01:24:11,920 --> 01:24:12,760 Speaker 2: We said thirty three. 1503 01:24:12,960 --> 01:24:15,240 Speaker 7: Uh huh, I'm not gonna eat with them, saying them 1504 01:24:15,320 --> 01:24:17,360 Speaker 7: thirty now, be ready for them to go in for 1505 01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:17,720 Speaker 7: a while. 1506 01:24:18,640 --> 01:24:21,360 Speaker 10: That far tom, Why are you having them over if 1507 01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:22,519 Speaker 10: you're gonna kick them out. 1508 01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:24,920 Speaker 2: So they can tell him how good he make a turkey? 1509 01:24:25,000 --> 01:24:25,760 Speaker 2: That's all this is. 1510 01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:29,599 Speaker 1: Oh, that's what it is for you sure can't fry 1511 01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:30,120 Speaker 1: a turkey? 1512 01:24:31,160 --> 01:24:31,439 Speaker 2: All right? 1513 01:24:31,520 --> 01:24:31,720 Speaker 6: God? 1514 01:24:31,880 --> 01:24:33,519 Speaker 1: That's today's round of would you rather? 1515 01:24:33,960 --> 01:24:35,960 Speaker 10: Coming up at forty nine minutes after it is our 1516 01:24:36,080 --> 01:24:38,879 Speaker 10: last break of the day, and we'll have some closing 1517 01:24:39,000 --> 01:24:41,040 Speaker 10: remarks from the one and only Steve. 1518 01:24:40,840 --> 01:24:44,240 Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey 1519 01:24:44,320 --> 01:24:44,920 Speaker 1: Morning Show. 1520 01:24:49,000 --> 01:24:51,759 Speaker 10: Around the holidays, it's hard to find the right gifts, 1521 01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:55,000 Speaker 10: but you know what's even harder getting the right gift. 1522 01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:59,160 Speaker 10: But get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. 1523 01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:03,479 Speaker 10: They have have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest 1524 01:25:03,520 --> 01:25:06,280 Speaker 10: phone with a new line on my plan and a 1525 01:25:06,360 --> 01:25:10,120 Speaker 10: brand new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. You 1526 01:25:10,360 --> 01:25:13,040 Speaker 10: can give a couple away and get yourself one too, 1527 01:25:13,600 --> 01:25:15,400 Speaker 10: or you could keep them all to yourself. 1528 01:25:15,680 --> 01:25:16,600 Speaker 1: No one has to know. 1529 01:25:16,920 --> 01:25:20,920 Speaker 10: Stop by your local Verizon. All right, guys, here we 1530 01:25:21,000 --> 01:25:24,000 Speaker 10: are our last break of the day. It's been a 1531 01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:24,479 Speaker 10: good day. 1532 01:25:24,640 --> 01:25:26,439 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for listening to. 1533 01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:33,200 Speaker 5: My closing remarks is just basically thank you to everybody 1534 01:25:33,280 --> 01:25:38,560 Speaker 5: who has supported the Steven Margie Harvey Foundation, who was 1535 01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:46,360 Speaker 5: at the event last night, Benjamin Krunk for speaking, all 1536 01:25:46,439 --> 01:25:52,320 Speaker 5: the female speakers, everybody that came, Kim performing a special 1537 01:25:52,400 --> 01:25:53,840 Speaker 5: shout out to Junior for hosting. 1538 01:25:53,920 --> 01:25:57,040 Speaker 2: I got some great reviews on Junior's hosting the event. 1539 01:25:58,200 --> 01:26:03,040 Speaker 5: And I got a lot of calls and stuff about 1540 01:26:03,080 --> 01:26:08,160 Speaker 5: the event and how effective the young people are who 1541 01:26:08,960 --> 01:26:12,559 Speaker 5: stood up to speak. And you know, for me, that's 1542 01:26:12,600 --> 01:26:16,200 Speaker 5: what it's really all about. You can feel how you 1543 01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:20,439 Speaker 5: want to feel about me. But if somebody can stand 1544 01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:25,719 Speaker 5: up and say that my work, our work changed their life, 1545 01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:30,960 Speaker 5: that our work gave them a mission, that our work 1546 01:26:31,200 --> 01:26:35,360 Speaker 5: helped give them the keys to success, that I will 1547 01:26:35,520 --> 01:26:40,719 Speaker 5: work propelled them to a level of greatness, that's really 1548 01:26:40,800 --> 01:26:44,360 Speaker 5: all I care about. You know, some funny thing about 1549 01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:47,519 Speaker 5: the internet, because it's not a lot about the gala 1550 01:26:47,920 --> 01:26:51,759 Speaker 5: that was on the internet. When I do my program 1551 01:26:51,920 --> 01:26:54,519 Speaker 5: this week, when Marjorie, I mean this year, when Marjorie 1552 01:26:54,560 --> 01:26:57,000 Speaker 5: does her Girls Rule the World and I do the 1553 01:26:57,040 --> 01:27:00,160 Speaker 5: Boys Mentoring Camp, it's not gonna flood the internet. That 1554 01:27:00,800 --> 01:27:03,960 Speaker 5: that be, not a whole lot of blogs picking it 1555 01:27:04,080 --> 01:27:07,479 Speaker 5: up talking about it. It's not gonna happen. Now, let 1556 01:27:07,560 --> 01:27:10,800 Speaker 5: me go out here and make a mistake. Let me 1557 01:27:10,880 --> 01:27:15,080 Speaker 5: go out here and do something that's gossipy. Have a 1558 01:27:15,200 --> 01:27:18,200 Speaker 5: picture of me walking in or out of a strip club. 1559 01:27:19,880 --> 01:27:23,719 Speaker 5: Oh man, that'll make every blog I'll here be on CNN. 1560 01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:30,000 Speaker 5: Because that's all we care about. It's something that we 1561 01:27:30,080 --> 01:27:33,320 Speaker 5: can sensationalize and then get on there and make comments 1562 01:27:33,320 --> 01:27:36,639 Speaker 5: about But if a person, and I'm not just talking 1563 01:27:36,680 --> 01:27:38,760 Speaker 5: about myself, if a person. 1564 01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:43,200 Speaker 2: Is doing something good, how come we don't ever Why 1565 01:27:43,280 --> 01:27:47,360 Speaker 2: we don't blow that up? Why don't we do that? 1566 01:27:49,640 --> 01:27:52,880 Speaker 2: And yesterday was a rough day for me because I 1567 01:27:52,960 --> 01:27:54,280 Speaker 2: lost a friend yesterday. 1568 01:27:56,800 --> 01:27:59,320 Speaker 5: I had only known this guy, this guy for about 1569 01:27:59,360 --> 01:28:03,439 Speaker 5: four years, and I met him down in Barsville, Georgia, 1570 01:28:05,760 --> 01:28:09,040 Speaker 5: and he worked on the technical crew. But as he 1571 01:28:09,200 --> 01:28:11,639 Speaker 5: was doing some internet work for me on my ranch, 1572 01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:18,360 Speaker 5: I found out that he fished. It's kind of late 1573 01:28:18,439 --> 01:28:20,679 Speaker 5: for me to give him his flowers because he passed. 1574 01:28:22,560 --> 01:28:24,880 Speaker 5: But he was thirty some years old man with two 1575 01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:28,000 Speaker 5: little boys eight and ten, and a beautiful wife, and 1576 01:28:28,120 --> 01:28:34,040 Speaker 5: he had some type of a rare blood cancer and 1577 01:28:34,160 --> 01:28:37,800 Speaker 5: it had gotten all in his bones. And you know, 1578 01:28:37,920 --> 01:28:40,800 Speaker 5: I tried to help in ways. You know, I don't 1579 01:28:40,800 --> 01:28:42,760 Speaker 5: want to get into that, but I did what I 1580 01:28:43,040 --> 01:28:46,800 Speaker 5: thought was the right thing to do. And his wife 1581 01:28:46,880 --> 01:28:51,439 Speaker 5: text me and said he passed. And it ain't gonna 1582 01:28:51,479 --> 01:28:55,280 Speaker 5: be a lot of social media about this dude. But 1583 01:28:55,400 --> 01:28:59,200 Speaker 5: let me tell you something about the dude. He was 1584 01:28:59,280 --> 01:29:04,679 Speaker 5: a young white guy in his thirties from Barnsville, Georgia, 1585 01:29:05,320 --> 01:29:08,240 Speaker 5: who met a group of all black men. Some of 1586 01:29:08,360 --> 01:29:13,599 Speaker 5: my friends are seventy years old today in the late 1587 01:29:13,720 --> 01:29:17,880 Speaker 5: sixties and seventies and have never fished a day in 1588 01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:21,479 Speaker 5: day life. And because he and I had a fishing 1589 01:29:21,520 --> 01:29:24,560 Speaker 5: relationship after I learned that he could fish, but he 1590 01:29:24,680 --> 01:29:27,479 Speaker 5: was doing some technical work around my ranch, I asked 1591 01:29:27,520 --> 01:29:30,040 Speaker 5: him what he come when my partners came to help 1592 01:29:30,120 --> 01:29:32,920 Speaker 5: him learn how to fish? Every year he was there, 1593 01:29:33,040 --> 01:29:35,439 Speaker 5: wouldn't miss it, man, and he looked forward to it, 1594 01:29:35,880 --> 01:29:40,600 Speaker 5: and he loved them dudes. A young white dude was 1595 01:29:40,680 --> 01:29:43,559 Speaker 5: teaching a bunch of old black men how to fish. 1596 01:29:43,760 --> 01:29:46,320 Speaker 5: Because it's fifteen of us. I couldn't teach everybody. He 1597 01:29:46,479 --> 01:29:52,519 Speaker 5: was just helping and he passed. Ain't nobody gonna write 1598 01:29:52,520 --> 01:29:55,800 Speaker 5: about that. That he was a Scout leader. His name 1599 01:29:55,920 --> 01:30:02,360 Speaker 5: was Scott, Scott Gallagher from bar Georgia. He was a 1600 01:30:02,400 --> 01:30:05,920 Speaker 5: Scout leader. He had two little boys. This little dude's 1601 01:30:06,160 --> 01:30:09,640 Speaker 5: This boy could fish so good. I just love the 1602 01:30:09,720 --> 01:30:13,040 Speaker 5: guy he passed. But he was just a great human 1603 01:30:13,120 --> 01:30:16,040 Speaker 5: being man, just a great human being. But they don't 1604 01:30:16,160 --> 01:30:21,400 Speaker 5: right about that. But thet cancer and he died. I'm 1605 01:30:21,520 --> 01:30:23,439 Speaker 5: just taking my time just to say, hey, man, I 1606 01:30:23,560 --> 01:30:23,880 Speaker 5: miss you. 1607 01:30:24,240 --> 01:30:24,720 Speaker 2: I love you. 1608 01:30:24,840 --> 01:30:25,040 Speaker 7: Man. 1609 01:30:26,720 --> 01:30:31,960 Speaker 5: Sorry I couldn't do more. But back to what I 1610 01:30:32,080 --> 01:30:37,439 Speaker 5: was also saying, we don't glorify people for the good 1611 01:30:37,640 --> 01:30:42,360 Speaker 5: they do. We castraight people for the wrongs they do. 1612 01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:46,360 Speaker 5: Oh man, we can't wait to eat you up for 1613 01:30:46,479 --> 01:30:49,439 Speaker 5: making your mistake. But when you're out here helping people 1614 01:30:49,880 --> 01:30:53,080 Speaker 5: and moving the way you out there moving, and you 1615 01:30:53,200 --> 01:30:56,360 Speaker 5: out there doing stuff for somebody that ain't even in 1616 01:30:56,520 --> 01:31:00,280 Speaker 5: your family, when you out there celebrating people, and nobody 1617 01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:01,360 Speaker 5: got nothing to say about that. 1618 01:31:03,840 --> 01:31:07,599 Speaker 2: So I just wanted to stop for a moment today 1619 01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:10,400 Speaker 2: and say thank you for everybody. 1620 01:31:10,479 --> 01:31:13,280 Speaker 5: Now we're talking about me now, for everybody that's ever 1621 01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:16,439 Speaker 5: made a contribution to the Steven Marjorie Harvey Foundation, for 1622 01:31:16,520 --> 01:31:20,559 Speaker 5: every volunteer, for everybody that's ever came down and spoke 1623 01:31:21,040 --> 01:31:25,800 Speaker 5: to anybody that's ever cared. Man, thank you, thank you, 1624 01:31:26,000 --> 01:31:29,960 Speaker 5: thank you. Because here's what I've always said. Your career 1625 01:31:30,200 --> 01:31:32,880 Speaker 5: is what you paid for, but your calling is what 1626 01:31:33,040 --> 01:31:35,840 Speaker 5: you made for. I'm in the calling phase of my 1627 01:31:36,000 --> 01:31:38,800 Speaker 5: life and I thank God for being that way. I 1628 01:31:38,880 --> 01:31:42,240 Speaker 5: thank Junior for hosting it last night. I thank Benjamin 1629 01:31:42,320 --> 01:31:45,519 Speaker 5: Crump for speaking at it last night. I think everybody 1630 01:31:45,560 --> 01:31:49,160 Speaker 5: who contributed in any way that they can thank you 1631 01:31:49,560 --> 01:31:52,439 Speaker 5: and let the good work continue. And y'all do me 1632 01:31:52,520 --> 01:31:56,720 Speaker 5: a favor, right about that, sometime right about that. Sometimes 1633 01:31:57,680 --> 01:31:59,519 Speaker 5: talk to God today, love to hear from it. 1634 01:32:01,600 --> 01:32:05,040 Speaker 10: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. 1635 01:32:05,080 --> 01:32:08,599 Speaker 10: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1636 01:32:08,720 --> 01:32:12,960 Speaker 10: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM 1637 01:32:13,120 --> 01:32:16,639 Speaker 10: dot com. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.