1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Welcome back, Happy Hour listeners, and I've got a great 2 00:00:05,200 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: surprise for you. I also have a great special gift 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: for myself because we have none other than my girl, 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: Rachel back and I could not be more thrilled to 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: be looking at you right now, to be hearing your voice. 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: And before we begin, Rachel, I have to say I 7 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 1: was with one of my neighbors last night, Dustin, who 8 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: you've met. Yeah, he always talks about how much he 9 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: loves your voice, and I was like, I know your voice, 10 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: and I was like, I've been missing it for the 11 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 1: past couple of weeks. I thought you were gonna say 12 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: Dustin always talks about how much he loves copper, because 13 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: you know he loves copper. He does love copper, but 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: he also loves your voice. Oh, thank you. Shout out 15 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: to Dustin. Very all our bats are Happy Hour listeners. 16 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: It's good to be back. I swear what I was 17 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: listening to you say I have a surprise. I was like, 18 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: oh girl, what is it? What is the surprise? You 19 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: know I wasn't thinking me because I have been keeping 20 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: up you and say Shaw holds in it down. I'm 21 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: bachelor Happy Hour. Thank you. While I needed this much 22 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: needed break. I knew that you announced me coming back, 23 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: so that's why I was like, Oh, what's the surprise. 24 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: I'm just so excited to have you back on I mean, 25 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: I'm excited to be back with you. Good, good it. 26 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: You know, I missed you, of course, like we wanted 27 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 1: to be here and support you in any way, shape 28 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: or form. But um, let's do a quick little check. 29 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: And you have still been working like crazy. You've been busy. 30 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 1: You just hosted the Grammys. I know Brian's coming into 31 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: town soon to just feel us in on the life 32 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 1: of Rachel. Okay, so how how long has it been? 33 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: Maybe three weeks? Weeks? Listen, I took some time for myself, 34 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 1: which I encourage everyone to do. You know, often we're like, oh, 35 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: you know, you need to take a break, you need it. 36 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:50,280 Speaker 1: My grandmothers always like, listen to your body. Your body 37 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: will tell you when something's not right. I needed that 38 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 1: break from social just needed the break to like detox 39 00:01:56,520 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: a bit, and I feel refreshed, revitalized. Um what is 40 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: it that she says, this is just the way I 41 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: did that reminded me of um oh, I am ready 42 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: to day too. I saw it in my head but 43 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't verbalize it. So even though even 44 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: though full disclaimer, you guys we were just talking before 45 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: we got on the podcast, that we are not fully 46 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: adjusted todaylight savings time, even though we're we are several 47 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,960 Speaker 1: days in. It is late at night as we are 48 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: recording this podcast, so please excuse all errors, um mishaps, uh, 49 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: you know whatever. I'm also drinking a major margarita right now, 50 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: loose tonight. I'm old back you. I wish I wish 51 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 1: I was. I feel like I should be doing that, 52 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: making me even loopier than I am now, But no, 53 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: thank you for asking. Um. I've also been preparing for 54 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: a move, as you stated, Yes i am. The days 55 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: we're counting down the days. I'm so ready, like a 56 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: part of you gets um in a groove of just 57 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: like being a part of the routine which I've been 58 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,119 Speaker 1: doing for so long. But now I'm like, no, I'm 59 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 1: over it. Get here, get here, actually moving. Yes, in 60 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: less than two weeks, we found a place and then 61 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: hopefully after that this we can find a house. That's 62 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: the goal. So we'll look for a house while we're 63 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: doing this, but we needed a bigger spot. I'm in 64 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: a one bedroom. It is just for me and Copper, 65 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: and I'm already outgrowing this space, so it's gonna be 66 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: so good to have him back. And I'm also very 67 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: selfish because I am looking for a new chiropractor, so 68 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: I can't wait to have him ochl, I'm signing Brian up. 69 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm always like, anybody need a chiropractor, and 70 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: Brian's got you good. We'll have so many people once 71 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: he moves out here. I can't wait to just spend 72 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: more time with the both of you. Maybe who knows. Um, 73 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna manifest some double dates in the future. 74 00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: Dating double dating. Yeah, I'm right there with you. Which actually, 75 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: this is the perfect segment to get us into all 76 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: of our fan questions, because that's what we're going to 77 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: be doing today for all of you listening. Obviously, no 78 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: more recaps, thank goodness for a while. And so many 79 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: people have been writing both to our personal dms and 80 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: to the Bachelor Happy Hour Instagram account, wanting to know everything, 81 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: all the things, and so actually, one of the questions, 82 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: which we'll get too later we can answer, is if 83 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: I would ever trust you to set me up on 84 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: a blind date or would we double date? So let's 85 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: get into that, I think, shall we, because that's what 86 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: we're all here for, and those some of these episodes 87 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: are my favorite. When we can just like kick it. 88 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 1: It doesn't feel like work. We can just answer questions 89 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,159 Speaker 1: reminiscent memory lane for all the good things. So let's 90 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: get going, And I should start by saying thank you 91 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: to everybody who wrote into us, who still listens, who 92 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: still wants to hear from us about our points of 93 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: view from when we were on the show. You know, yeah, God, 94 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: we were on the show so long ago, I feel 95 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 1: a couple of lifetimes ago. I was like, reading through 96 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 1: some of the questions, I'm like, I don't remember a 97 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: lot of this, Like I really have to sit back 98 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: and take this deep walk down memory lane. Some of 99 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: it I tried. I've tried to black out. But so 100 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: thank you to all of you who have wrote in um. 101 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,799 Speaker 1: And let's, I think, just get into it. So first 102 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: and foremost rage, Let's started easy, because this is one 103 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: that people always ask still to this day, and it's 104 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,840 Speaker 1: about the stylinge on the show, and they always ask like, 105 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:31,720 Speaker 1: what were some of our favorite looks and if we 106 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 1: were able to keep the clothes on the season, and 107 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: I think we talked about this when we had Carrie 108 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: and Gina on Oh my Gosh, almost a year ago now, 109 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: at least like when Quarantine first hit, when we had 110 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 1: the stylists and makeup artists on. But we unfortunately don't 111 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: get to keep most of the clothes. So some of 112 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 1: it we do, but like the gowns that you see 113 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: during the row ceremonies, we usually don't get to keep. 114 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: But Rachel, what was your favorite dress that you wore 115 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: through your time on the bout Shorette? My favorite al fits? Um, 116 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 1: I don't. I can't really think of day outfits. Definitely gowns, 117 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: Definitely Randy ROMs. I'll say one of my favorites is 118 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 1: one we fall for because it was a story. I 119 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: wore it when I had was after the Fantasy Suite 120 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: Final three. I sent Eric homb sadly, but I wore 121 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: this orange dress and it was see through, and I 122 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 1: remember we went back and forth with the producers about 123 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: or whoever. It wasn't not not even the producers, but 124 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: it wasn't the stereotypical dress you see the women wearing. 125 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 1: Because it was see through. We had to die the 126 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: bodysuit underneath to match my skin tone. Yeah, like it was. 127 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 1: It was almost like Xeno Warrior princess, Like it was 128 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: thin material and then the arms had like this blue pattern. 129 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I looked like I was going to battle. 130 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: But also walking down the runway, it was fears. I 131 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: remember that one. I remember when you first walked out. 132 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, that's a look like that wasn't 133 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: just a like a like a It wasn't just like 134 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 1: a dress. It was so much more. I was such 135 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: a statement and actually funny enough when I when I 136 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: then became babsurant and I was working with Carrie, he 137 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: kept talking about how how difficult that dress was to 138 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: get approved, if you will, from everyone, and and to 139 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: talking about like dyeing the body suit and everything. But oh, 140 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: that was one of my favorite looks of yours, Like 141 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: I thank you, and that I think we'll go down 142 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: in the history books and we might never see it 143 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: again because we had to really fight for it. Well 144 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: was your favorite look? Oh man? Um? Well, and we 145 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: give you two and one wasn't even my look. Okay, 146 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: there was one dress that I loved. It was a 147 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: gown that I was going to wear to a Roa ceremony. 148 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: I was gonna actually wear it to the Roa ceremony 149 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: in Thailand. It was the same week that you sent 150 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: Eric com. I was supposed to have three, but I 151 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 1: had ended up sending Jason home earlier, so I just 152 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: had the two guys left. And it was funny enough. 153 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: Taitia actually ended up wearing ended up wearing it on 154 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: her season. And it was this like a bubblegum pink 155 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: and had this deep v low back. It had like 156 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: this really pretty floral prant. It was silk, but it 157 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: was all beated. It was a Randy ram gown and 158 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: it was so heavy and because it had such a 159 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: long train and so that's a randy gown. It was 160 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: a randy yes for for you guys listening, some of 161 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 1: the dresses that the bachelrettes wear are so heavy. Like 162 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: my Night one gown, I had bruises on my collar 163 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: bones because it was all beated and like the bottom 164 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 1: saying and it was just like pulling. But m yeah, 165 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: I ended up not being able to wear it because 166 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: where the Rose ceremony was it was in like it 167 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: was kind of in the middle of nowhere in Thailand. 168 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: It took us. It was a hike to get there, 169 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: and it was like in this clay like outdoor factory, 170 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: I would say, and they were like, no, you don't 171 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 1: want to wear this like long, beautiful gown. It's gonna 172 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: get dirty, it doesn't fit with the vibe. And I 173 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: was just like, no, I don't care, like I will 174 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: wear it anywhere, like send me to McDonald's and don't 175 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: wear this gown. I just really want to wear this gown. 176 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: And they're like, no, it's gonna be too heavy, it's 177 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: too hot. And so I didn't end up wearing it. 178 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: But that's why I was so excited when I saw 179 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: Tasha wear it on her season, because I was like, 180 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 1: at least somebody can and at least like the world 181 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: can see this now. Yeah. So that was one of them, 182 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: but one that I actually ended up wearing again. The well, 183 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 1: the cocktail party got canceled before a roast ceremony. We 184 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: were in Virginia. I had maybe like six or seven 185 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: guys left, and it was kind of like yours. It 186 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: was see through and it started off with more layers, 187 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: but Carrie and I kept being like, oh, just just 188 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 1: cut one more out, just cut one more out and 189 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: it ended up being just like a couple of thin 190 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: layers of tool with like beating all over the front 191 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 1: like thoughts. It was like a silver gray, but then 192 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: it had floral beating all throughout, like crystal straps on 193 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: the back. Well, so that's one that I actually got 194 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: to keep because it was so fitted. They had to 195 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 1: do so much work to it, so I have it 196 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 1: in my closet actually. Um, but I wore it for 197 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 1: the Bathtub Challenge, remember like when people were taking Oh yeah, 198 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:10,679 Speaker 1: it was that down and at first I was like, 199 00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: oh shit, this isn't going to fit me anymore. Three 200 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: years later, Um, but that's probably one. But I was 201 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 1: I really wanted to wear it because, like I said, 202 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 1: it was see through, and the and the Rose Ceremony venue, um, 203 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: like all of the men were standing down below and 204 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: I had to like walk down these like big narrow, 205 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: beautiful elegant this big like long staircase, and I was like, oh, 206 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: they're going to see that it's see through. And I 207 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:34,480 Speaker 1: was so excited that I couldn't even wear it the 208 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: rest of the night because I got camels. No, well, 209 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 1: you'll wear it for somebody. You'll wear it for someone 210 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: day one lucky man, lucky is correct. Yeah, yeah, Oh 211 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: my gosh, that's so fun like reminiscing about all these things. 212 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: When people ask if you, like, what's the one thing 213 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: you remember about being Bachelord, I'm like, I was just 214 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 1: exhausted the entire time. It's like you're sleep walking for 215 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:58,760 Speaker 1: two months. Like towards the end, you just kind of 216 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 1: get delirious. This is what it is, and there's just 217 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 1: so many factors that make you tired. But yeah, do 218 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: you do you have um the funniest memory? Um? Oh man, Well, 219 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: looking back, I feel like they're funny now. In the 220 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: moment they weren't. But like, well, one time I ended 221 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: up having a nip slip, like week two. I'm sure 222 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: that wasn't that that got the guys, but no one 223 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: even told me at first, no one even said anything, 224 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 1: like why would they. It wasn't until I, like, I 225 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: think it was Kaylin, my producer, who at one point 226 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: was like standing farther away and was like pointing to 227 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: my dress. And I think I was indoors, like next 228 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: to the fireplace, so I didn't feel that it wasn't cold, 229 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 1: but um, I think it happened because I remember who 230 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: it was, but like some guy came up from around 231 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 1: the corner and like kind of pushed me up against 232 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 1: the wall to kiss me. And then and then we 233 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: just like kept on talking and like walking, and I 234 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: just wasn't paying attend. But I wouldn't say like one 235 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,679 Speaker 1: And when I say it's like funny, in the moment, 236 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,719 Speaker 1: it wasn't. I was really I just felt terrible and 237 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: I was really embarrassed. But when I forgot Jason's name 238 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: on a group date, that was funny, and I was like, 239 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: I was so and like, Jason was one of my 240 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: favorites and so I was mortified that I forgot him. 241 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 1: And it's especially because my girlfriends were there on this date, 242 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: hosting it for me, and I was like, okay, we 243 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: have so and so and so and so and so 244 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 1: and so, and then I was like, oh, Kirk, screw Kets. 245 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: I was like Jason and I just I felt so 246 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 1: bad for him in the moment. But he's like, oh, 247 00:12:36,400 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: he got over it, and he's such a good sport 248 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: that I'm like he you know, I mean he made 249 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: it top three. He's okay, but he had so many 250 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 1: names to remember, you know what. I mean, like they 251 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 1: get it. It's not like it was one on one. Yeah, 252 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that was funny. I thought, I remember 253 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 1: I remember that scene, and I'm like, oh, I'm so 254 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: glad day aired. This is actually quite funny because it 255 00:12:57,880 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: could happen any of us. That's why I would have 256 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: void names table. Hey, hey, Bay, hey you that's actually 257 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 1: your advice for future about shirts is just having these 258 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 1: like cute little pet names for anyone because yeah, yourself 259 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: sulf failure. Yeah, because like it's a win win. You 260 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: don't have to say the name. You don't have to 261 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: pretend like you don't know what and you call them 262 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: something affectionate, like hey you, it's so good to see you. 263 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,439 Speaker 1: Like man, they don't they don't realize you don't know 264 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 1: their name. Many cute little pet names for you. No, 265 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:35,119 Speaker 1: he says, like a more love. They typical stuff, Yeah, 266 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: typical stuff. Nothing often I think crazy cute win men 267 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: call like their kids like sweetie or Sweetheart's. Oh yeah, 268 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: for sure, we were not there yet. That's not why 269 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 1: I took a break. So would you ever be a 270 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:56,079 Speaker 1: contestant on another reality show? And part B of the question, 271 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,280 Speaker 1: have you been asked to be a contestant of another 272 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:07,280 Speaker 1: reality TV show reality like a dating show, any kind 273 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,280 Speaker 1: of reality TV show. Um, that's a good question. Well 274 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: so the second part. Yes, I have been asked a 275 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: couple times for details for other two other dating shows. 276 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: One I think was an MTV dating show I don't 277 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: remember the name, and then one like X on the 278 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 1: Beach Are you the one? I don't even know if 279 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: they gave me the name. To be honest, I just 280 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 1: said no real quick, so I didn't even get to 281 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: that point. And TV is really loving the Bachelor crossover 282 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: and like at yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I just I like, okay, 283 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: probably not. No, I don't think I would actually ever 284 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: do another dating show unless I got paid like a lot, 285 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: but also then going into it, I would do it 286 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 1: for the money, Like I don't I want to now 287 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: meet somebody organically, like I really I'm really hoping for 288 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: like a meat cute in my life. Oh, but I 289 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 1: don't know it. Like I would probably do another reality show, 290 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 1: like depending on what it is. Like if I had 291 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: like a great partner for amazing race or something like that, 292 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: I could see you doing that. I wouldn't say no 293 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:25,320 Speaker 1: to that, but I wouldn't do like actually though, no, no, no, 294 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 1: I still live in like the nineties, early two thousands 295 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: when real world was so big, Like the real world 296 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: I could see on the house, like my fourteen year 297 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: old self would be so excited. So those ones, yes, dating, 298 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: probably not. And also you said there were two shows 299 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 1: you were asked to be on. What was the second one? 300 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 1: There was another one and it was another dating show 301 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: and I don't know the name of it, but it 302 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: was four It was like a YouTube series for dating, 303 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: like a six part series. I don't know. I said 304 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 1: no again to that one real quick. It's just not 305 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 1: for me. Um, like I did The Bachelor, because it's 306 00:16:04,240 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 1: like the Boucher is the show, you know, it's like, yeah, 307 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 1: when you think of a dating show, that's so Now 308 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: that I've checked that off my list, I don't know 309 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 1: if i'd go back to anything else. Totally get it. 310 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: I was about to say I wouldn't go on a 311 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: dating who I would if Michael Strahan was a contestant, 312 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:29,920 Speaker 1: then I would manifestation, manifest this, manifest this, Um I 313 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: would I I don't think I would do. I'm not 314 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: I would consider myself athletic, but I don't think I 315 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 1: would be great on amazing Race. Um, I would not 316 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 1: do well on Survivor. I don't know, Like I don't, 317 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like i'd be impatient. I just 318 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: don't know if that would work with me. I don't. 319 00:16:46,160 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: Maybe if I was doing the race by myself, you 320 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: would need like a real good partner. But like, do 321 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: you and Brian balance each other out so well? And 322 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: like you are athletic, you're so intelligent, Like I feel 323 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 1: like you would go really far in that show. Well, 324 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:06,239 Speaker 1: we did do Fear Factor and we did make it 325 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 1: to the finals. They had a Bachelor version of Fear 326 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 1: fact or like Bachelor people, and Brian and I did 327 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 1: make it to the finale. Now we lost to Vanessa 328 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 1: and Danielle, but we did make it to the valley. 329 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: Because I was gonna say, no, we wouldn't do well together, 330 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 1: but we have we have done well together. Um No, 331 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 1: I just I love to watch reality TV, not the 332 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:33,360 Speaker 1: dating shows, but I do love to watch so like 333 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 1: I couldn't be a part of it. Yeah, do you 334 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, I like, I love the Housewives, 335 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 1: I love all that stuff. Right, I'd host a reality 336 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 1: TV show in two seconds? Are you kidding? Me. But um, yeah, no, 337 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if you could. If you could be 338 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: part of any Real Housewives series for or city for 339 00:17:54,560 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 1: a week one, wouldn't you pick backup? Fantastic question. It 340 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 1: is something that I've thought about multiple time, I know. 341 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: So I can't just pick one franchise. Sorry, I cannot. 342 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 1: If I'm going to participate for one week, I would 343 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 1: do Potomac obviously. All those women are beautiful, they are funny, entertaining, 344 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: and I just like want to hang out with them, Like, 345 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:29,840 Speaker 1: please sit me next to Karen Huger all day, every day, 346 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:34,199 Speaker 1: and let's just shade people. Okay, let's just be shady, shady, shady. 347 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: And then on the other hand, I'd want to hang 348 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: out with the New York Housewives just for my pure 349 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: for them to entertain me right, like they seem fun, 350 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 1: you know, like we go out, we'll go drinking. But 351 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,960 Speaker 1: the New York never disappoints. Top two franchises for sure. 352 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: In Real Housewives, I would be a part of it 353 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: just for a week, just for a weeks. For a week, 354 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: I'll hang with Lisa Arenna. Garcella's already my girl, but 355 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 1: I'll hang with Lisa Renna all day. But collectively they're 356 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: boring and they really need to step step it up. 357 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: None of these one storyline seasons, even though I have 358 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 1: heard from Garcel though that this season of Beverly Hills 359 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:16,199 Speaker 1: is fantastic. Like normally they have the very uptight like 360 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:18,679 Speaker 1: they don't want to let you in. They used to 361 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,760 Speaker 1: and they stopped, but I hear they're letting it all 362 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:24,159 Speaker 1: hang out this season. They should hire there's no more. 363 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 1: A matter of fact, they do hire me to promote it. 364 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 1: What am I saying? If I do it on Instagram 365 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 1: all the time? Would you produce for any of them? No? No, no, 366 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't want to be a producer. I 367 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 1: just rather hang with them. Yeah yeah, yeah, no, no no, no, no. Um. 368 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 1: The only I would only want to be part of 369 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 1: one season for one episode, and that would be throwing 370 00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 1: it way back to New Jersey. I think it was 371 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 1: season one with the with the table flip Teresa. A 372 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:57,239 Speaker 1: lot has happened to Teresa over the years. I know, 373 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 1: I know, I have to say, I haven't call up lately, 374 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 1: but oh my gosh, the tableflip was iconic. It was 375 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: five times prostitution or engage. That was terrible. That's my 376 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:20,359 Speaker 1: new Jersey accent. They did not need our invitation. Judici 377 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: or Judy whatever. Does anyone know how to pronounce her 378 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: last name? I think it's Judici, but don't don't quote 379 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 1: me on that. I would not bet on that. Listen. 380 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:39,639 Speaker 1: That's that's might be the most accurate thing that has 381 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 1: been said on the podcast right now. Okay, you know 382 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: what I think is a super fun question. Give it 383 00:20:46,760 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: to me a favorite nineties nostalgia? Oh, oh my god, 384 00:20:52,840 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: where do we even nostalgia or nostalgia? I okay, yeah, nostalgia? Yeah, 385 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I mean Lisa Frank. I actually I 386 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 1: actually tried, um looking for a Lisa Frank face mask recently, 387 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: because shut up, I'm so serious a good idea. I 388 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 1: found one, but it was a kid size and I'm like, gosh, shoot, 389 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 1: that's not gonna fit my face. But um, if anyone 390 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 1: knows where to get a good Lisa Frank face map 391 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:27,160 Speaker 1: face still make it? I think so? I mean, if 392 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: if they aren't still making Lisa Frank items like the 393 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: trapper keepers and the back I used to get a 394 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,440 Speaker 1: back wrapper every year and it would get so cold 395 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,399 Speaker 1: in Minnesota that they would crack because it was like 396 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: that plastic material that they would always crack. So my 397 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: mom would get me one like at the start of 398 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: the year, and then it would break within a week 399 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:48,360 Speaker 1: or two, and then she'd get me like a jam 400 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,640 Speaker 1: Sport one, you know, like jam. Okay, you are really 401 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 1: taking me back here. So that's actually a really really 402 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: good um thing to bring up because I always forget 403 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 1: about Lisa Frank and I was such a fan, Like 404 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: just the colors. I don't know, it's just something beautiful 405 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 1: and bright about like you can't be when you look 406 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:11,040 Speaker 1: at a Lisa Frank piece of art, not at all. 407 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: And we all had to have it. As tacky as 408 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,239 Speaker 1: that stuff was, we all had to have it. I mean, 409 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 1: there was just colorful shit. So I okay. The little 410 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: known facts about Rachel. I love playlists on like whether 411 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: it's Apple Music, Spotify or whatever. And I love decades 412 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 1: playlist and I love to listen to the nineties playlist. 413 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 1: Nineties music. That's what I was just looking up on 414 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:44,120 Speaker 1: my phone. Nineties music. It's like these one hit wonder songs. 415 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 1: Do you remember the song? The way? Sing it? For me? 416 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,439 Speaker 1: Even even though they the road that they walk on 417 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 1: is paved and I think I'm making up the worst 418 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: as I'm saying it, but you don't, I know, you 419 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about to hit wonder. I'm looking 420 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: at this list right now. Um, these aren't one hit wonders. 421 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:10,679 Speaker 1: But like remember mister Jones, oh wonder wall, oh sign 422 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 1: loveful love be love be same in me home. I 423 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 1: just it takes go ahead. I saw the sign and 424 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: it's on the list. Said, oh, do we need to 425 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: start about your happy hour playlist? With all these old 426 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 1: old we can totally good. Okay, are you ready for 427 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: this one? Y'all? Tell you what a wall? What I 428 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 1: really really wants? Wait, okay, just Spice Girls? Oh my well, 429 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: so that yes, Spice Girls a thousand percent. Like when 430 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,959 Speaker 1: I think of nineties, that's what I think about. Um. 431 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: I was always sporty Spice growing up, which is so 432 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,199 Speaker 1: funny now because I'm the most inathletic person in the 433 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,639 Speaker 1: entire universe. I don't know why. I think it's just 434 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 1: because I kind of looked like her. The brown hair, Yeah, 435 00:23:56,119 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: I see it. What was your faans? Obviously scary? Oh 436 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: um want to be Probably because I knew the rap 437 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 1: and it was I thought I was so cool because 438 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,679 Speaker 1: they would like and obviously it was scary rapping so well, 439 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: actually he was back and it was scary and sporty 440 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 1: baby together yea too much. Baby didn't do all that much. 441 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: Maybe it wasn't ginger, but I think sport obviously. Now 442 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:25,120 Speaker 1: I'm drawing, I'm actually embarrassed that. It's definitely scary, but 443 00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: I feel like somebody else rast with her anyways. I 444 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: want to be I would say, but there's a slow 445 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:34,640 Speaker 1: song that I love too that I can't think of 446 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: right now forever. It's not Oh wait, what about when 447 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 1: to become on? I need yeah, like I never need 448 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 1: love be phone, wanna make love to ye baby? Okay, 449 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 1: we should not have been singing that at that age. 450 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,680 Speaker 1: We should not have been singing now that I'm hearing 451 00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: about stop right now? Th much? Oh gosh, body with 452 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 1: the human touch. Hey, I'm doing for a listeners, I'm 453 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: trying to do you remember that in the movie. I 454 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: don't see this is This is why I love the nineties. Okay, 455 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:15,239 Speaker 1: we could keep we could keep singing nineties songs, but 456 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,399 Speaker 1: I love the nineties because it takes me back. Doesn't 457 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: it take you back to like being young? Dancing with 458 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:26,359 Speaker 1: your friends, having a slumber party, no responsibilities, not a 459 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 1: care in the world, just like a care free time, 460 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 1: eating piles like it was no one's business, like it's 461 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 1: not gonna see for life, wearing matching pjs. Somebody just 462 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: wrote bitch in the um in the chat and it 463 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: just makes me think of the I'm a bitch, I'm 464 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 1: a lother, I'm a child, I'm i'm a mother, I'm 465 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: a sinner, aroun, I'm a saying please wait, please tell 466 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: me you know Robin. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll still 467 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 1: listen to Robin. Always been told that I got too 468 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: much to ride. Okay, I've listen. This is gonna go 469 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 1: for an hour, see because it brings back that like 470 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:12,880 Speaker 1: young girl's spirit. A great question for whoever put that out. 471 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: Like I feel so good. I feel like I could 472 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 1: go run a mile. Yeah that's how I feel right now. Okay, 473 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,920 Speaker 1: I'm nine years old again. One day, once Brian's here 474 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:25,120 Speaker 1: and maybe you are my wing woman for the night 475 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 1: we can go do karaoke when the world is open again. 476 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 1: I am a fantastic wing woman. I've said this again. Now. 477 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:34,280 Speaker 1: I don't mean to brag, but I have to on 478 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: this and I'm perfect because I'm married, right, so I 479 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 1: don't care about embarrassing myself. I'm not trying to take 480 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,120 Speaker 1: the guy in the room. It's like, I'm so good. 481 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, I could karaokee, but I can also 482 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 1: we can hit your local a local bar near you 483 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 1: or club or whatever. So yes, whoever asked if I 484 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,080 Speaker 1: would let Rachel set me up on a date, Um, yes, 485 00:26:56,119 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 1: it's happening. We're back one day very soon hopefully. Oh 486 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,720 Speaker 1: that'd be so fun. Um okay, well, this is another 487 00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: cute question because I feel like we always need to 488 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,320 Speaker 1: have women build each other up. And so I always 489 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 1: love when people ask me about you because you know, 490 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 1: I just love your rage. So um, somebody asked, what 491 00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: is my favorite thing about working together? What's our favorite 492 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,399 Speaker 1: thing about working together? And then the other one was 493 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: what was one of your favorite traits of the other person? 494 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,360 Speaker 1: So Rachel, I can start if you too, Okay, go ahead. 495 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 1: So when we do the podcast together, like, yes, at 496 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: the end of the day, it's work, but it doesn't 497 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 1: feel like work with you. It's just it's always fun. 498 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: Like it's like, look at us, we just had a 499 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: karaoke jam. Sessh talking about Real Housewives and Lisa Frank 500 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 1: like it just it's fun, it's just easy. It's just 501 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 1: a good girl time, like things that we would do 502 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,960 Speaker 1: that we would be doing at home and not on 503 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 1: the podcast. It's like what we're doing here and we 504 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 1: just have a lot of people listening it to us 505 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: singing so much fun. And then one, Oh my gosh, 506 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 1: I don't even think I can just pick like one 507 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:11,320 Speaker 1: trait that I love about you, but I would say, 508 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I can't just say one. I mean 509 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 1: some that come to mind, Like you are such a loyal, 510 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 1: patient person and just such a good friend. And I 511 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 1: feel like people just see us on the podcast that 512 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: it is like this working platform, but like you have 513 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:34,640 Speaker 1: been there for me, I mean, especially within this past 514 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: year through so much and people, you know, like they 515 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: like to blame you for certain things that have happened 516 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 1: in my life, which is so not the case, and 517 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: if anything, like you've helped me through and you've just 518 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 1: been so steadfast and loyal. But also you're just like 519 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,920 Speaker 1: you just have this pizzazz and this like fun are 520 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: to you and like you're just like your charisma and 521 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,719 Speaker 1: like fun and like energy just like rubs off on me, 522 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: and I think I see it with other people too, 523 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: and so those are so I would say some of 524 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,479 Speaker 1: the top that I talked traits that I love about you, 525 00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: Oh Becca, so sweet? You know, well, okay, it's interesting 526 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 1: because I feel what you just said on the last part, 527 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 1: like you light up a room when you're in it. 528 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: It's one of my favorite traits about you. See like 529 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: I feel like I do it with a dry sense 530 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 1: of humor and you do it with like much more positivity, 531 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 1: Like it's you just like you're just a light. And 532 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 1: I feel like other people say that to me about you. 533 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,440 Speaker 1: They're like, Becka, there's just an aura about you, Like 534 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: even when we joke about this, but even dear Astro, 535 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 1: who I don't believe you've quite ever met, has an 536 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: obsession with you's she's in a different country. I mean, 537 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: there's just truly something about you, your presence that's infectious. 538 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 1: That's my favorite trait about you. But one of the 539 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: things I love about our friendship too, is I am 540 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 1: a person who can get so buried down in my 541 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 1: day and my schedule, and I lose track of text 542 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: messages and emails and myself sometimes in my day. I 543 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: don't even know how I get through it. You are 544 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: a connector you're a gatherer, if that's that's the correct term. 545 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,560 Speaker 1: But like, you're very good at saying, hey, let's get 546 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 1: together and do this. Hey, And I wish I'm like 547 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 1: envious of that. I wish I had more of that. 548 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 1: So like, take a beat and connect with my girlfriends 549 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: or my guy friends or whatever and bring people together. 550 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: You're so great at that. And um, you've always got 551 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: to have a friend who reminds you to step step 552 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:40,160 Speaker 1: back and do that. So yes, oh thanks, Rage, I 553 00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 1: got my knees are tingling again. I saw sid I 554 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 1: just just throw a nineties song. I'm telling you we 555 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 1: are starting a big rage Becca Bachelor. Have you our playlist? 556 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: And you, guys, it's gonna be fire. Can I just 557 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 1: say that we are probably enjoying this podcast more than 558 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:03,160 Speaker 1: our listeners because we're happy we're back together, and they're like, you, guys, 559 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 1: they're gonna be like I listened to thirty eight minutes 560 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 1: worth of them singing the nineties music. You're welcome, But 561 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,360 Speaker 1: don't you guys feel like you're at a slumber party 562 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: with Becca and I like that's kind of how it 563 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 1: is like Becca and I are just girl chatting and 564 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: you guys are just listening in all right, this is 565 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:19,920 Speaker 1: how it would be, This is how it happened to 566 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 1: accept when the when the mics aren't on and the 567 00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: cameras are arling, we get into a lot more in 568 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 1: detailed people. Um wait, totally such a side note. Your 569 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: sister Canvas is visiting, right, Constance Constant. Oh my gosh, Okay, 570 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: your sister Constance is visiting. Yes, Constance, and she okay crazy. 571 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 1: She came in Tuesday. She's already gone. She came from Dallas. Yes, 572 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: I said. She literally hit me up. She really came 573 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 1: to check on me to make sure that I was 574 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,760 Speaker 1: doing okay. And I was like, yeah, I'm fine, and 575 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,240 Speaker 1: I was fine. But then just having my sister here, 576 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,640 Speaker 1: I haven't seen her since Christmas. I didn't know I 577 00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: needed it until she was actually here. So but then, remember, 578 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 1: I get caught up in my schedule, caught up what 579 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm doing. I'm like, Tuesday to Thursday, I gotta work, 580 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 1: I have to podcast, I have things to do. How 581 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: are you coming during the middle of the week. She 582 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 1: was fine. One of her best friends lives here too, 583 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: so she was doing her thing, but it was It 584 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: was really great to have her here, to spend time 585 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 1: with her again. You know, it's revitalized, refresh nothing like 586 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,840 Speaker 1: a good sister bother will say that. Okay, a couple 587 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 1: of more questions here, Oh, okay, this is good because 588 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: it's a good tip for people. What shows are you're 589 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: currently binging? If you've been following me, you know I'm 590 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,840 Speaker 1: smack dab in the middle of Gray's Anatomy still, because 591 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 1: there are seventeen seasons, I am quite far along. I'm 592 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 1: almost done. I am in season fourteen. That's right. I 593 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 1: have gotten past some of the biggest heartaches of the season, 594 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,480 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be honest with you. Spoiler alert. Let 595 00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:56,880 Speaker 1: me just announce a spoiler alert. I knew that mc 596 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 1: dreamy was going to not be with us. I just 597 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 1: didn't know when it was going to happen. I had 598 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 1: been told so much that I had pictured in my 599 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 1: head how it would happen. By the time it happened, 600 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 1: I was not into it. I was not into it. 601 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 1: I didn't like Meredith's reaction. She wasn't as upset as 602 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,400 Speaker 1: I wanted her to be. She was cold, so I 603 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 1: was cold. And the way they led up to it, 604 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,800 Speaker 1: like they were highlighting him so much. It was like, Okay, 605 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 1: something's about to happen. It was very weird. I was 606 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: much more upset when Danny left us. I'm still not 607 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 1: over Danny Duquette. I have to say I was with 608 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 1: Rachel on Monday when the Crazy Anatomy teaser commercial came on, 609 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: and I forgot about you guys. Her whole demeanor changed, 610 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:45,720 Speaker 1: and I wasn't even watching the TV, so I didn't 611 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 1: know like what she was like so upset about or 612 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 1: like hyped up about. And then I was like, oh, no, 613 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 1: I get it. They were showing previews, y'all. I had 614 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,240 Speaker 1: my ears covered, I was my eyes closed, and I 615 00:33:56,320 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 1: was screaming to the entire twenty seconds the commercial. Yeah, 616 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 1: so I'm currently stuck in Gray's Anatomy's world. I'm living 617 00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 1: in Seattle in my head. I gotta get caught up. 618 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 1: I stopped watching. It was probably like season three or four. 619 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 1: Remember when the to torpedo got stuck in the guy's 620 00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: stomach and she had Yeah, that was tough, and so 621 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 1: that one got me stopped. I think I was maybe 622 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 1: in ninth thirteenth grade, but I mean, I'm always looking 623 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 1: for a good show to like leisurely watch, and I 624 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 1: feel like this is a good one because it'll probably 625 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 1: take me seventeen years. No, no, no, it's great to watch. 626 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,439 Speaker 1: I was warned by somebody who's on the podcast now 627 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 1: that you lose interest because you lose the originals, right, 628 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 1: And she's right. I don't like the new interns. Every 629 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,840 Speaker 1: time they bring in new interns, there maybe one that 630 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 1: sticks out, maybe one. Stop bringing in family members. Stop 631 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,240 Speaker 1: if they were dead for ten years, don't bring them back. 632 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:56,840 Speaker 1: We don't. We all want to say it. That's what 633 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 1: you're early dealing with right now. Speaking of the originals, 634 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 1: what was her name? Izzy? Catherine? He had to go 635 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 1: she Have you watched Firefly Lane? No? But I heard 636 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 1: it's really good. Are you benching that? That's one I'm 637 00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 1: benching right now? And I had like so for me, 638 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,439 Speaker 1: I don't really watch a town of TV just because 639 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 1: I can't just sit and like focus on one thing. 640 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 1: But I started watching it the other day and I'm 641 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,240 Speaker 1: already on like episode eight or nine, and it's actually 642 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:26,040 Speaker 1: really good. I think you would like it. It's it's 643 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: cute with the way that they put it together. Where 644 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,880 Speaker 1: it's like the same two girls who are best friends. 645 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 1: It goes between current day so like one's a mom, 646 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: they're a little bit older, established, going through different life things, 647 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 1: and then it flashes back to when they first met 648 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 1: when they were I think fourteen, and then like in 649 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 1: the early twenties when they're like really getting out of 650 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 1: college and in their careers, and it's just a cute 651 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: way that they piece it all together. Yeah, it's good. 652 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 1: I actually told one of our friends, well, you know, Sam, 653 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: and she bench it in one night. I was like, damn, 654 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 1: but but it's head. He's good. Yeah I did. I did, 655 00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:03,760 Speaker 1: And then I just watched like a lot of weird 656 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 1: true crime murder stuff, which I shouldn't a single woman 657 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,239 Speaker 1: living alone, but hey, I like to, uh you know, 658 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 1: I like to know what I'm up against in life. 659 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,440 Speaker 1: So do you know what I'm binging in my ears 660 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:20,960 Speaker 1: right now? Dateline podcast? Oh? Actually I started that, Like, 661 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 1: well I can't, but I started it, and then I 662 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,640 Speaker 1: should keep up with it. I can't get enough of it. 663 00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:29,720 Speaker 1: I listened to them all the time, and it freaks 664 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,480 Speaker 1: me out. I'm always like looking, you know, behind my 665 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,719 Speaker 1: back or whatever. But that's as true crime as I 666 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,600 Speaker 1: can get. I know you're into it, date line guys 667 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 1: to check that out. For all of our listeners, I 668 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,960 Speaker 1: just need to do a nice little psam for somebody 669 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 1: who never pays attention to detail listening to um like 670 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 1: Crime Junkies podcast. I now like every time I'm walking, 671 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 1: no matter no matter what time of day it is, 672 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:54,720 Speaker 1: or if I'm with minno or with friends, I'm always 673 00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 1: paying attention to like what people are wearing now, like 674 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,239 Speaker 1: what they look like. In case there's ever were a 675 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 1: murderer crime that takes place and I have to go 676 00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: to the place, we're like, hey, I saw this person 677 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,719 Speaker 1: walking and this is what he was wearing. And so yeah, 678 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,239 Speaker 1: you actually learned a lot of good life skills from 679 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:15,760 Speaker 1: knowing what is smart in the past. Smart. Yes, smart? Okay, 680 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 1: last question, you want to do the honors? Oh? When 681 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:24,879 Speaker 1: do we go with Rage? Oh? There's so many. Oh. 682 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,520 Speaker 1: I actually like this one because I feel like it's 683 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,799 Speaker 1: gonna be different for everyone. But somebody wrote in and 684 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 1: asked us if we still feel like the pressure to 685 00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 1: be perfect coming from the show and like in the 686 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:38,799 Speaker 1: public eye, and how do you feel now? I'm sure 687 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,080 Speaker 1: it's been like a roller coaster in the last four 688 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 1: years since you've come off the show. Yeah, when you 689 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,399 Speaker 1: first come off the show, you definitely still feel that 690 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 1: that way because you've been on TV for so long. 691 00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 1: Then your seasonaires and you just feel like you have 692 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: to live up to the way people saw it last 693 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:58,560 Speaker 1: saw you on television, especially if you come off as 694 00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 1: a couple, because you're people, You're like, oh my gosh, 695 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:02,920 Speaker 1: we have to be talking all the time, we have 696 00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 1: to be laughing together, we have to be holding hands 697 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 1: because people think that you're unhappy even though you walk 698 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,879 Speaker 1: around and you see most couples not doing any of that. 699 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,319 Speaker 1: That wears off. I would say after about a year. 700 00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 1: It's probably a year now. Do I feel the pressure 701 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:23,080 Speaker 1: to be perfect in public? Absolutely not, especially after all 702 00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 1: this stuff that I've gone through. No, I don't care. 703 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,080 Speaker 1: I think at this point. You know, it's it's interesting 704 00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 1: because I think part of that pressure comes from people. 705 00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,800 Speaker 1: You have to reinvent yourself, you know what I mean. People. 706 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 1: It's almost as if people think you were born the 707 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 1: day that you walked out of the limo from whoever season, 708 00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,520 Speaker 1: and that's the image that they have of you, and 709 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,239 Speaker 1: that's it. And so you feel like you have to 710 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 1: live up to that. And then as you start to 711 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,680 Speaker 1: let that go and kind of reinvent yourself back into 712 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 1: society or re establish yourself and back into society, you 713 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,839 Speaker 1: start you start to not care about those things. Yeah, 714 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:07,279 Speaker 1: so yeah, well definitely what about you, um Now, I 715 00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:10,879 Speaker 1: would say no, I did very much. So, I mean, 716 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:12,799 Speaker 1: and I've gone through a couple of different stages because 717 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,439 Speaker 1: obviously when I came from the show, I was saying 718 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 1: a relationship for two years. So like you said, it's 719 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:21,520 Speaker 1: one thing when you're in that relationship and like wanting 720 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 1: to not even like put on a public facade or 721 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 1: like a brave face. But it's like people will, you know, 722 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 1: like they'll DM you or they'll write or they'll post 723 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 1: and be like, oh my gosh, they're not together one weekend, 724 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:35,360 Speaker 1: or someone's not wearing the ring, or they're not talking. 725 00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,799 Speaker 1: It didn't it like all the weird things that It's 726 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 1: just a lot, and it's just like a weird world 727 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,480 Speaker 1: to transition to, especially like coming from like where what 728 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 1: I was doing beforehand. So at that point, yes, and 729 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 1: then obviously like going through a very public breakup, m 730 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,279 Speaker 1: I kind of like not that I felt pressure to 731 00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:00,959 Speaker 1: be perfect, but I felt pressure to, like I didn't 732 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:04,360 Speaker 1: want to like give too much to the public to 733 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,239 Speaker 1: have them feed into any sort of narrative. So I 734 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,759 Speaker 1: felt pressured to, like, Okay, how do I walk this 735 00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:10,759 Speaker 1: fine line of like still being who I am and 736 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,479 Speaker 1: like trying to navigate this new world that I'm living 737 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 1: in and being a single woman, versus like still giving 738 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,920 Speaker 1: like especially our listeners, because I know they put so 739 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 1: much stock into into us in the podcast, and you know, 740 00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 1: like want to hear from us and feel relatable to them. 741 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:29,000 Speaker 1: So it was like this weird fine line that I 742 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:32,000 Speaker 1: was walking. But you know, these days, my give a 743 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,800 Speaker 1: shit level is so I'm just I've gotten to the 744 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,320 Speaker 1: point where, like I realize I'm never going to please everyone. 745 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:40,239 Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna please probably the majority. But as 746 00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 1: long as I say true to who I am and 747 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 1: what fuels me and is still respectful to my friends, 748 00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 1: my family and what I believe in, like that's all 749 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,640 Speaker 1: I can do. And so I feel like I've gotten 750 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:55,759 Speaker 1: to the point now where I can feel better about 751 00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,319 Speaker 1: not always having to be perfect or saying the right 752 00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:02,399 Speaker 1: things or appeasing everyone on social media. And so it 753 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,759 Speaker 1: finally feels good to like kind of come into my 754 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 1: own in this new chapter of my life. I would say, 755 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 1: good for you. That's the perfect way to end the podcast. Yeah, 756 00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,480 Speaker 1: So I hope, yeah, I hope people realize, like, at 757 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 1: the end of the day, we are all humans, whether 758 00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,359 Speaker 1: we are on a TV show or not, whether we 759 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:24,879 Speaker 1: are a host of a show or of a podcast, 760 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,280 Speaker 1: or working in public relations or a lot like whatever, 761 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 1: it might be, at the end of the day, like 762 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 1: we're all humans, and like, I know, people look at 763 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: us like we're these characters and that's not the case. 764 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:38,719 Speaker 1: And so yeah, it's it's been a journey, but but 765 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,080 Speaker 1: it's been so fun and Rachel, I'm just so happy 766 00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 1: you're back. This was just the best way to end 767 00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:46,800 Speaker 1: the night. Honestly, it feels good to be back talking 768 00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 1: with you. So yes, I'm happy as even though it's late, 769 00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter because I had so much fun. I swear. 770 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,719 Speaker 1: You know what is going to happen when we get 771 00:41:55,760 --> 00:42:00,400 Speaker 1: off this podcast. We're gonna play Alexa like nineties. Oh 772 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 1: you know, Robert's happening. I'm so glad that you mentioned 773 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:14,360 Speaker 1: Robert Amazon music. Is that copper Alexa'sn't it played? Nineties country, Alexa, 774 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,839 Speaker 1: and it's country all on my roots. I showed up 775 00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:22,720 Speaker 1: in boots. Do you hear this? And ruined your black 776 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:29,839 Speaker 1: tie affair? Last one to know, the last one to show. 777 00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:32,960 Speaker 1: I was the last one you thought. Ju see there 778 00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:39,320 Speaker 1: gotta know I do nineties country. I love Garth friends Zaga. 779 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,960 Speaker 1: What a way to go out. We don't even really 780 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,320 Speaker 1: needn't do the outro. Let's just sing this song and 781 00:42:47,520 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 1: ended on your chorus, Alexa started up, seeing look is 782 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:07,759 Speaker 1: not the way you want to stop. I think I 783 00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 1: really appreciate this, but we're gonna let one person down, Rachel, 784 00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,239 Speaker 1: and that's gonna be Dustin, because he's gonna want to 785 00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: hear you sing because he loves your voice so much. 786 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,160 Speaker 1: Oh he doesn't listen, Dustin, No, you know what you're 787 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,279 Speaker 1: I just disappointed you because you did not like that, 788 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,840 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh so much. That's so hilarious. And that 789 00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:29,560 Speaker 1: Alexa pick nineties country, what is that? Hey? She must 790 00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 1: know she knows my heart. She knows what a way 791 00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,200 Speaker 1: to end to night, you guys, and I'm that and like, 792 00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:36,560 Speaker 1: we can't beat that. So we just have to say 793 00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:39,280 Speaker 1: thank you for listening in for another week and Rachel, 794 00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:41,439 Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming back. Like I said, 795 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:43,319 Speaker 1: I missed you so much, so it's so good missed 796 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,720 Speaker 1: you to see you, to hear you, to catch up. Um, 797 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:48,759 Speaker 1: I missed you. I just really missed you, so you 798 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:52,440 Speaker 1: guys to thanks for hanging out again. Um and to 799 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,320 Speaker 1: all of our listeners as always, you know where to 800 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,399 Speaker 1: find us, but keep writing to us because we love 801 00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 1: these questions and we're going to continue to do these 802 00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:01,319 Speaker 1: fun little episode when we don't have to recap and 803 00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 1: do anything else like these are the moments that make 804 00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,359 Speaker 1: this for me, at least personally so worthwhile. So if 805 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,279 Speaker 1: you guys don't already know where to find us, you 806 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,000 Speaker 1: can find us at Bachelor Happy Hour on Instagram and 807 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,799 Speaker 1: apt batch Happy Hour on both Facebook and Twitter. 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