1 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: It's a big Sunday. 2 00:00:07,000 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 2: We got super Bowl, but mostly what people are going 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 2: to be tuning into is now this the Sunday Sampler. 4 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:13,239 Speaker 2: That's right, And if you're not in a football maybe 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 2: catch up on some podcasts The Bobby Cast, Four Things 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 2: with Amy Brown, Sore Losers Movie, Mike's Movie podcast, Get 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 2: Real with Caroline Hobby. On Sore Losers, Ray talks about 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 2: life in the country now that is officially moved out 9 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: of his apartment. On Get Real with Caroline Hobby, she 10 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: sat down with Drake White and his wife Alex. They 11 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: talked about their struggle with infertility and their IVF journey. 12 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 1: And this week's Bobbycast was super cool. 13 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 2: I talked with director and photographer Spidey Smith, who shot 14 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 2: all the Morgan Wallen album covers. 15 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: He's directed eminem and of music video. 16 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: It was interesting to hear his life as a photographer 17 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 2: and then a video director and just being creative that way. 18 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 2: So here's a clip of this week's Bobby Cast. I 19 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: used to clat garbage belt kids. Oh yeah, when I 20 00:00:55,600 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 2: was a kid, and none of them brilliant, all of them. 21 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,639 Speaker 2: And I collected baseball cards too. Your son still likes 22 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 2: to collect cards. I'm assuming it's because your passion for 23 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 2: it that you've had it. What do you guys, like? 24 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 2: What's fun for you guys to find? And how do 25 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 2: you how do you do you buy them? Do you 26 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 2: do breaks? 27 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 3: Like? 28 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 4: What how do you do? We're not into that yet, 29 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 4: but I wanted to teach him. 30 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 3: He's a lot like me. 31 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 4: He's spassy and he's just all over the place, and 32 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 4: so I wanted to slow him down a little bit, 33 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 4: teach him, teach him a little business stuff. He loves 34 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 4: John Morant, so we we nerd out on the Grizzlies 35 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 4: and he collects. Actually, he doesn't like collecting sports because 36 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 4: he's like, ah, they get injured, they get suspended. I don't, 37 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 4: I don't. I don't like it. So he collects cards, buckets. 38 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: Oh really that's those? Huh? They still make them though, Yeah? 39 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 1: Oh they do. 40 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 4: Numbered graded all that stuff. I mean, like, yeah, fifteen 41 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 4: dollars cards. 42 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 2: You mentioned a minute ago you you mentioned tennis. I 43 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 2: assume you played tennis then at some level, because that 44 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: usually doesn't come up. 45 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:58,559 Speaker 1: Do you play tennis still? 46 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 4: I haven't played in the latter part of a year. 47 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 4: But I'll tell you why I was I started playing 48 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 4: tennis at five. I was one hundred and fifty and 49 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 4: one hundred and forty something in the nation as a 50 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 4: junior tennis player in California. In California is arguably probably 51 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 4: the best state for tennis. Florida's good too. Quit when 52 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 4: my best friend cheated on me in a big tournament, 53 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 4: broke like ten tennis rackets over a trash can, and 54 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 4: then never played until my wife about a couple of 55 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 4: years back, said you're a workaholic. You need to go 56 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 4: play tennis. I didn't have glasses, I'd have anything. I 57 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 4: got back into it so diligently that it was distracting 58 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 4: my work. It brought back that that thing that are 59 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 4: you obsessive? I'm I'm yeah, yeah, I'm yeah. 60 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 2: I'm not not even saying cassive. But are you do 61 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: you get obsessed? And then it's hard to not yes, yes. 62 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 4: Yes, I'm a I'm a go getter. You know, if 63 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 4: I put my mind to it, for it's something that 64 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 4: I've locked into my brain, I got. 65 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: To do it to an unhealthy state. Yep. 66 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 2: I'm on OCD medication, and for a long time I 67 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 2: was just like, I just you know, I really like stuff. 68 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,799 Speaker 2: But then I started to realize it wasn't natural how 69 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 2: much and I could not focus on anything else. And 70 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 2: I come from a family baddict, but I didn't always 71 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: put the two together. But I'm on an OCD medication, 72 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 2: so I asked that from somebody who also deals with that. 73 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: And it would be a bit unhealthy for me because 74 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 2: I would not I would have blinders on whatever I 75 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 2: was doing, and it would kill other relationships or romantic 76 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 2: but I would just be me and that that's it 77 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 2: until I either conquer it or am board with it. 78 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 4: Still I would be I would be on an anniversary, 79 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 4: not with my wife. But I remember back in the day, 80 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 4: I would be driving to a dinner and I would 81 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 4: get a phone call from the post facility saying, hey, uh, 82 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,839 Speaker 4: someone just canceled. We can bump you in like turn over, 83 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 4: go in and work, Hey, get dinner there. It's just 84 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 4: it's the way I am. It must come with some drawbacks, 85 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 4: but I also think it's a superpower. I honestly believe that. 86 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 4: I mean, I've met my family. No, I mean, I'm 87 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 4: not like organizing my shoes too crazy, but my office 88 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 4: is absolutely O c D organized. I mean, even before 89 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 4: our podcast. I'm looking at the we have a collage 90 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 4: of all my plaques and I'm like, you know, we 91 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 4: need to get at everything has to be all the squares, 92 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 4: like you're adjusting seven pictures when it's just a little off. 93 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:39,240 Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean the Morgan album covers, you know, 94 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 2: let's get back to that. 95 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: How did how. 96 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 2: Did those come about? And I'm assuming the first one 97 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 2: that's cool, but he wasn't what. 98 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 1: He is now. 99 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 4: No, the first one I think was kind of probably 100 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 4: something from the record label. But the first one you did, 101 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 4: I did, and they were like, they brought me in, 102 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 4: got it and we hit it off great. I think 103 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 4: all of our shoots, all albums, if I know me, 104 00:05:03,400 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 4: dangerous and one thing at a time, have all been 105 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 4: two hours or less quick. The first one was definitely 106 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 4: motivated by the label. We hit it off great, The 107 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 4: second got go into a quick story. 108 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:18,600 Speaker 1: You're going to a long story. 109 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 4: COVID happened, And probably the second rock bottom that I've 110 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 4: gone through, maybe third, But this rock bottom was worse 111 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 4: than anything I've ever felt because I was married with 112 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 4: kids and it was I hadn't worked in eight months, 113 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 4: didn't make a penny living this down the street and 114 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 4: driving a Tesla and I had to change things up. 115 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 4: It was a real tough time. Anyway, I got a 116 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 4: phone call in the new house and I was off 117 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:53,479 Speaker 4: doing checklists while the kids are off of school, wife 118 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 4: is trying to make some money. I'm home alone doing 119 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 4: checklist you know, like, this is not what I'm meant 120 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 4: to be doing. And this is on the we month 121 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 4: nine and I get a phone call from Morgan's manager, Tracker. 122 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 4: He's like hey, and I see it. I'm like, whoa, 123 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 4: what's this? He's like, how are you? 124 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 5: What? 125 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 1: You doing. 126 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 3: Nothing? 127 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 4: He's like, hey, how would you What were you doing Saturday? 128 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 4: And this was like Thursday, would you like to photograph 129 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 4: arguably going to be the one of the biggest albums 130 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,719 Speaker 4: covers of in country music for Morgan? I was like yes, 131 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 4: because he told me a little bit about it. It's 132 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 4: gonna be a double thing. We've already done some photos, 133 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 4: but Morgan didn't think they were fitting. He did he 134 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 4: requested you and that meant everything to me at that time. 135 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 4: I can't even I can't. It brought me out of it. 136 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 4: It brought me out. It brought me out of the 137 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 4: dark to know that someone really at that time, there's 138 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 4: a first phone call. The first phone call for work 139 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 4: is Morgan wanting to work with me because he wasn't 140 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 4: happy with what he got. He really wanted something unique. 141 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 4: It's because of that he called me. That's the that's 142 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 4: that was big. 143 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: Was there a pressure then for you to go, Okay, 144 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: he wants something unique. Yeah, I gotta figure something out that. 145 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, isn't traditional, but not too wacky or no, it's 146 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 2: gonna be overboard. 147 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 4: My style is is two unarm the artists to just 148 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:33,119 Speaker 4: shoot a bit of the candidness, but make it feel 149 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 4: like lightning just struck in a perfect location, you know. 150 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 4: So like, you know, I'm obsessed with the four corners 151 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 4: of the frame. If I got a great photo but 152 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 4: the background is not great, or it's off or this, 153 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 4: and if somebody's coming I don't like, I won't use it. 154 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 4: I don't care if it's eminem or or or or Madonna, 155 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 4: I don't care. It's it's it's got to go through 156 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 4: my criteria process. And so I guess the only pressure 157 00:07:55,920 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 4: I have is me because Morgan's just he's streaming gentlemen 158 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 4: to me, and he's just like he really does kind 159 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 4: of yes, sir, Yes, sir, whatever you want, it means 160 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 4: it's awesome. So I think the pressure is me and 161 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 4: I put a lot of it, a lot. 162 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:28,119 Speaker 6: Cats up, little food for yourself life. 163 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,920 Speaker 3: Oh it's pretty, but hey, it's pretty beautiful. 164 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: Beautiful. 165 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 4: That for a little more exciting, said he your kick 166 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 4: in with full. 167 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 1: With Amy Brown. 168 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 5: Hey it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown. 169 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 5: And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast. 170 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 5: All right, Lisa, let's talk lost seasons of life and 171 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:53,959 Speaker 5: sitting in discomfort. 172 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 7: So this is a really hot one for me, and 173 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 7: I'm really passionate about it, and I'm also very experienced 174 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 7: in it. The last six months I got completely lost 175 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:05,520 Speaker 7: and who I am, what my purpose is? If I 176 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 7: was even ever going to do something like being on 177 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 7: your podcast, do my own podcast show up on Instagram, 178 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:12,199 Speaker 7: I'm like, I was just kind of like I need 179 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 7: to let myself turn into a puddle. I happened to 180 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:18,120 Speaker 7: have a very intense last year. For anybody who's been 181 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 7: through intense things or seasons of life, we all have, right, 182 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 7: you know, what comes after is kind of like it's 183 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:28,079 Speaker 7: just all feels very daunting and heavy, and it can 184 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 7: also feel very hard to do simple things, and that 185 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 7: was kind of where I found myself burnt out, maybe running, anxious, depressed, 186 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 7: and I had to really just like remove all of 187 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 7: my identities and let myself get lost. Now you might 188 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 7: not have to do all of those things that I 189 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:44,599 Speaker 7: did in order to find yourself lost. You might just 190 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 7: be feeling lost. But what I found from this experience 191 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 7: that I think we can all extract is how important 192 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 7: it is to reframe our relationship to being lost. I 193 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 7: think a lot of us think of like lost as bad, 194 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,599 Speaker 7: found as being good right, But instead, like, if we 195 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 7: remove the attachment, the good, the bad, the labels to it, 196 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 7: they're just states of being right. Sometimes we're lost, sometimes 197 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:11,959 Speaker 7: we're found. And every time I felt afraid to be lost, 198 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 7: I'd imagine myself like swimming up to the top of 199 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 7: the ocean looking for air, and I find my heart beating, 200 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 7: and I felt so scared to be lost that I 201 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 7: was like, I got to figure this out. I got 202 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:22,719 Speaker 7: to come back to the surface. And right before i'd 203 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 7: come back to get air, I'd dive back down and 204 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 7: I'd be like, okay, be okay being lost, be okay 205 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 7: being lost. When this happened a few times in my life, 206 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 7: especially with like going off of social media even for 207 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 7: personal use, I found that I became kind of obsolete 208 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 7: in knowing like what was going on in pop culture 209 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 7: and things like that, where I'd go out with my 210 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 7: friends and I didn't know what they were talking about. 211 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 7: That made me feel like I didn't have a sense 212 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,440 Speaker 7: of like belonging. I was becoming too weird over there, 213 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 7: but I stuck with it. I felt nervous, but I 214 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 7: stayed with it. And the more I stayed with lost, 215 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 7: the more lost became my state of found And I 216 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 7: know this sounds really strange, but it's like the ego dissolved, 217 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 7: all of my fears dissolved, and the more I stayed 218 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 7: in this state, the more I kept opening doors that 219 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 7: I didn't even know existed to myself and just information 220 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,959 Speaker 7: about who I truly am. So I really want to 221 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 7: help people recognize that you will be lost again, you 222 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 7: will be found again. You will be lost again, you 223 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 7: will be found again. There is no permanency to either 224 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 7: of these states. And if we can lean into the 225 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 7: lost feeling and just remove the ego, the fear, the 226 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 7: feeling like we need to figure it all out right now, 227 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 7: I can't stay in the state. If we can stay 228 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 7: with the discomfort, it actually gets so comfortable that the 229 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 7: state of being changes how it feels. 230 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 5: I had to spend a lot of time getting comfortable 231 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 5: in the uncomfortable, and how. 232 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 7: Did it feel? 233 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:50,200 Speaker 5: And I think, yeah, it felt really uncomfortable for a 234 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 5: while because what I was used to was what was 235 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 5: normal for me in that season. I mean, I have 236 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 5: a lot of different seasons, but one in particular was 237 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:04,840 Speaker 5: very chaotic, and I think when things weren't chaotic, I'm like, well, 238 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 5: wait a second, I kind of need them to be. 239 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 5: So sometimes I was my own worst enemy because I 240 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 5: was then creating chaos so I could feel comfortable again. 241 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 5: So that was something that showed me, oh wow, I 242 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 5: am really uncomfortable with something that actually would be healthier 243 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 5: for me. And I keep going back to the pattern, 244 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 5: back to this other thing, because that's what I know, 245 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 5: even though it's toxic or not healthier. And I was 246 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 5: part of the problem, like it's it was me, and 247 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 5: it's sure there were other players involved, but if I 248 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 5: ever wanted to get unstuck from that, I was. I 249 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:47,760 Speaker 5: had to learn to be comfortable with the uncomfortable, So 250 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 5: I could work my way through it. 251 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 7: Right, So whenever you got uncomfortable, you found yourself latching 252 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 7: to chaos, creating it, creating drama in some way, rather 253 00:12:56,800 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 7: than being sitting with the state of act right. So 254 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:03,959 Speaker 7: I think that's also really beautiful and important to recognize 255 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 7: that when you sit in the puddle of lost in 256 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 7: the difficult seasons, you're going to start grasping for things, 257 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 7: whether that's amy creating chaos or whatever your version of 258 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 7: like rushing to the surface back is the best thing 259 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 7: you can do is recognize and become aware. And these 260 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 7: are normal things like amy. I hear you say it's 261 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 7: a me problem, and it's like, that's a wee problem 262 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 7: and it's not even a problem. When we are in 263 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 7: any state of fear, we try to run. That is biological. 264 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 7: But at some point we need to put a hand 265 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 7: on our heart and say, yes, this is scary, but 266 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 7: I am safe and I'm going to sit with this. 267 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 7: And that can be really hard, especially because stillness tending 268 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 7: to yourself are not things that we are necessarily taught 269 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 7: are normalized. In fact, they're probably very insidiously shamed, like 270 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 7: we're told to not be sensitive as little girls. We're 271 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 7: told not to cry. We're told to get over it, 272 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 7: you know, and even possibly worse for men too. So 273 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:01,679 Speaker 7: really being able to show up for yourself when you're 274 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 7: that most vulnerable takes becoming so acutely aware of the 275 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 7: inner state and your patterns and then dropping even further 276 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 7: into the discomfort. But the coolest part of that is 277 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 7: if you drop back into that discomfort and you stay 278 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 7: with it for just a minute, it gets comfortable and 279 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 7: then the magic starts up. 280 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 5: It's cool to get to know the different versions of you. 281 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 5: And you know you mentioned that it's this isn't going 282 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 5: to be You're not just lost once and then found. 283 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 5: There's gonna be times where you feel lost again and 284 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 5: then you feel found again but terrifies. But each time 285 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 5: you get to learn new things about you that you 286 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 5: never knew. And that used to be a little bit scary, 287 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 5: but now I'm like, oh, hey, new part of me 288 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 5: that was probably there all along, I just didn't know it. 289 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 5: But nice to meet you, and thanks for being here 290 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 5: to like help me on this journey. 291 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 7: I love what you said, because you said part of 292 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 7: myself that's always been there. And the purpose of a 293 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 7: retreat is not to trans we use the word transformal 294 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 7: because you'll leave transformed, but you leave transformed because you're 295 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 7: coming home to yourself. And that's something that I think 296 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 7: I'm also really passionate about sharing when it comes to wellness, 297 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 7: is like you don't have to change, you just have 298 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 7: to go inside, right, And it's like then you go 299 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 7: inside and yes, things change, but they're coming from your 300 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 7: place of truth. And the way you said that was 301 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 7: really beautiful. 302 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: Let's do alive. We are the world. 303 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:44,080 Speaker 6: You're sore losers. 304 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 3: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. 305 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 6: I know the most about sports, so I'll give you 306 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 6: the sports facts, my sports opinions because I'm pretty much 307 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 6: a sports genius. 308 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 3: What up, y'all? Ha Iscison, I'm from the North. 309 00:15:55,760 --> 00:15:56,640 Speaker 1: I'm in Alpha Male. 310 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 8: I live on the West Side in Nashville with Baser, 311 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 8: my wife. We do have a white picket fence at 312 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 8: the apartment complex. Soon I'm gonna have two point five 313 00:16:04,600 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 8: kids and yes, sadly, I will die of a heart 314 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 8: attack when I'm seventy two years old. Here's a clip 315 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 8: from the last podcast, Wired Up and We're Live. 316 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,479 Speaker 3: I mean, I just don't understand you look it live. 317 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 6: Like, I just don't understand I'm not mad. I guess 318 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 6: annoyed would be more of a. 319 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 3: Junctive. I don't know. Well, you gotta explain it. You're 320 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 3: not speaking sentences. 321 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 6: Well, we come to do the pod, right. We come 322 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 6: in the other studio playing buck whatever. Their signs up 323 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 6: like they own this studio, they've been in here twice 324 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 6: in their life. 325 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 3: And I walk in and. 326 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 6: There's a bunch of people just sitting in here with 327 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 6: a bunch of guard like gear everywhere, like lights, camera action, 328 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 6: like I don't even travel back and just and this 329 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 6: woman is working on her computer and we're just like, oh, 330 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 6: we're gonna do our pod in here. She goes, okay, well, 331 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 6: there just be some noise in the background then, because 332 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 6: we're gonna be coming in and out getting things. 333 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 3: What are you doing in my seat? 334 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 9: Woman? 335 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 3: Like using this as a storage unit. 336 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:19,360 Speaker 6: And I'm like what, Like, what do you mean you're 337 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 6: gonna Yeah, yeah, we're just gonna We're gonna be coming 338 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 6: in and out. We're doing that thing over there with 339 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 6: the cameras and the film and something. I'm like, but 340 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 6: why are you in here then? Why are we using 341 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 6: us as a storage locker? 342 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 10: That gym locker? 343 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 3: Like am I crazy. 344 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 8: No, I think you explained it beautifully. 345 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 6: I mean, and then I love right there they come, 346 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 6: they're taking all the chairs. 347 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:49,400 Speaker 3: Now it's the orthopedic. They took one of the chairs. Sorry, hey, 348 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 3: don't mind us. 349 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 6: My favorite part is one the one stage hand didn't 350 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 6: exactly know what all their gear was, so he started 351 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 6: just grabbing ship from ourstitutions. He grab my back back 352 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 6: and goes, it's ours. Up, No, it's my backpack. Man said, 353 00:18:02,000 --> 00:18:03,640 Speaker 6: what's next? Are they gonna take our bike? 354 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,959 Speaker 3: Here have my computer? Dude, go ahead, I don't mean it. 355 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 3: Take Arnold. He get up me, don't touch me. I 356 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:17,439 Speaker 3: belong to the sword Lanzer. They tried to take Arnold 357 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:19,160 Speaker 3: out of here. Dude, he's ours. 358 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 6: I mean so. So the funny part is Ray comes. 359 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:28,640 Speaker 6: I just like, okay, whatever, I don't know what we're 360 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 6: gonna do. And I just I was having a snack 361 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 6: and I was like, we'll figure out the minute Ray 362 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:33,479 Speaker 6: comes in here. 363 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 3: There's a jump scare. 364 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:34,880 Speaker 2: Ray. 365 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 6: Ray comes in here, and this girl, I don't know 366 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:39,920 Speaker 6: what she does. I don't know if she she's working 367 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 6: on her computer. She's got her leather pants on and 368 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 6: she's typing on her computer. She's sitting where I sit 369 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 6: to do. 370 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 3: The pod, get out of my throat. 371 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:51,240 Speaker 6: And Ray looks at her and goes, oh, can you 372 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 6: just move to the seat next to you? We're about 373 00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 6: to do a podcast in here. And she goes okay 374 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 6: and gets up and just moves one seat over. 375 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:00,960 Speaker 3: Not oh, let me get out of room. Oh you're 376 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 3: gonna do a podcast in this room. 377 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 6: Maybe I shouldn't sit in here, Maybe I should go 378 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 6: somewhere else. 379 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 3: She goes okay. She literally just moved one microphone over. 380 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:12,880 Speaker 1: She's a new listener, trying not rip on her. 381 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,240 Speaker 3: No, she's not gonna listen to this, she said, you will? 382 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 3: She right. 383 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 8: I said, we get to swear on this podcast. It's unregulated, 384 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 8: and she goes no, And I said yeah no, And 385 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 8: so she's gonna start listening. 386 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 6: And I said, oh, you're gonna listen. She goes, yeah, 387 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:30,400 Speaker 6: I can't wait, which sounded like a very sarcastic that 388 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 6: she's not going to listen, But it was just so baffling. 389 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 4: Ray. 390 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 3: Those are the Hulu people, was it not? I don't know. Whatever, Hey, 391 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 3: they're out, they're good. 392 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 8: Well, thanks for warning me. I came around the corner 393 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 8: and had an equally bad jump scare. You go to 394 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 8: a space where you try to find some sort of normalcy. 395 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 3: I'd like you, new, dude. 396 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 8: I walk into a room and there's eighteen Duffel bags 397 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 8: like a minor league hockey team was in here. I 398 00:19:57,320 --> 00:20:00,920 Speaker 8: thought you knew, but Amy Radio Amy from Things podcasting 399 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 8: for four days with Amy Brytt in Bone's office. They 400 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 8: had four different cameras right around this table. 401 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 3: Lights. There counna be any. 402 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,640 Speaker 8: More gear in there, and Amy goes and plops down 403 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 8: right in the middle of it all and starts doing 404 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 8: commercials recording them. 405 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 3: I mean she didn't give two ships. Hey, Amy is he? 406 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 3: She lets nothing stop her? 407 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 5: Hey? 408 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 6: Maybe shooting a commercial or whatever they're shooting in there. 409 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,920 Speaker 6: Amy's gonna get her work done. We're in here, in 410 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 6: the middle of doing our pod. Amy's gonna come in 411 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 6: and ask her question about do you have anything from 412 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 6: San Antonio tomorrow San Antonio Day for my kids' school? 413 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 3: I mean, Amy, Yeah, I have an Amordillo in my pants. 414 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 6: If there's one thing Amy's gonna do, it's gonna get 415 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 6: the job done. 416 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 2: Hey. 417 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:46,120 Speaker 1: Oh all right, that was a hell of an intro. 418 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 3: Oh my god, dude, that was fun. I mean, what 419 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 3: was your reaction, Like, what did you say to the girl? Ray, 420 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,439 Speaker 3: I'm gonna sound off, but what did you say to her? Like, 421 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 3: cause you kind of walked in here. 422 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 8: I was trying to be social and actually talk to 423 00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:59,479 Speaker 8: them and see how they're doing, and you just go, 424 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 8: I don't know, I don't know. And then you were 425 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:04,400 Speaker 8: walking around and not explaining yourself. So then I had 426 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 8: to tell them we have a podcast, and she said, oh, 427 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 8: is it a little podcast? 428 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 1: I said, yes, it's a little one. 429 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,920 Speaker 3: It's not the big show. But we have a convention. 430 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 3: So how little is that? Mother? 431 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 5: Oh? 432 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 1: Oh, well, yeah, I think she liked us. 433 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 3: I don't think, you know, I think she was. 434 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 6: I think I think I'm just gonna go out on 435 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 6: a limb and say that. She was more annoyed that 436 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 6: she had to leave the room. She had to pack 437 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 6: up and leave, like they had to pack up twenty 438 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 6: six bags and move it somewhere else. 439 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 8: But I will tell you, guys, it was an old 440 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 8: fashioned rivalry. It was TV Verse Radio Baby and who won? 441 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 9: Hey it's my d And this week on Movie Mike's 442 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,160 Speaker 9: Movie podcast, I talked about movie birthdays, the bit I'm 443 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 9: Metigan too, is pretty self explanatory. So while I have 444 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 9: you here, I just want to highly recommend for you 445 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 9: to go over and sobscribe to movie Mike's movie podcast 446 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,360 Speaker 9: talk about movie history. I give you spoiler free movie reviews, 447 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 9: and I break down the latest trailers to let you 448 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 9: know what is good coming out or what looks a 449 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 9: little bit bad coming out in theaters or streaming at home. 450 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 3: So check it out. 451 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 9: But right now, here's a little piece from the latest episode. 452 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,600 Speaker 9: I got a big old list of movies celebrating birthdays 453 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 9: this year, talking about movies turning ten, twenty, thirty, forty, 454 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 9: fifty years old. 455 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 3: So what I did. 456 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:31,199 Speaker 9: I compiled the top ten from each of these years 457 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 9: which to go into consideration. I scoured the internet, looking 458 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 9: at box office numbers, looking at critics scores, looking at 459 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 9: the most searched about movies according to Google. And for 460 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,400 Speaker 9: each of these years, I have what made the top ten. 461 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 9: I'll rank them one through ten, and then we're gonna 462 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 9: play the fun game where I picked the one movie 463 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 9: that I would save out of all of those ten. 464 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 9: And then also just for fundies, we're gonna set one 465 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 9: on fire if I could eliminate one of these movies 466 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 9: from existence. Out of these tens from the year, we're 467 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 9: gonna get rid of him. So let's get right into 468 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 9: the list, right into the game. Movies turning ten years 469 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,199 Speaker 9: old this year that came out in twenty fourteen. I 470 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 9: was twenty three years old at the time. The number 471 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 9: ten movie of the year is Night Crawler, which is 472 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 9: such a good movie starring Jake Jillenhall. This was the 473 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,360 Speaker 9: one that solidified him in my mind as somebody who 474 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,679 Speaker 9: could really do it all. He had the look in 475 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 9: this movie. He went to places that I kind of 476 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 9: question exactly what happens with Jake Jillenhall behind closed Doors 477 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 9: because he played this character so well. Who is this 478 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 9: photographer who really takes it up as a hobby and 479 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 9: realizes he can make money by taking pictures and videos 480 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 9: from crime scenes because if it bleeds, it leads. So 481 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 9: he got so obsessed with it that he went a 482 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 9: step further, and a step further than the whole movie. 483 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 9: He gets crazy. 484 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 3: So if you have just. 485 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 9: One vision of Jake Jillenhall in your head, maybe it's 486 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 9: more on the rom com side, maybe it's more just 487 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 9: on the straight on action side. If you haven't seen 488 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 9: Night Crawler, could not recommend it more. But that one 489 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,119 Speaker 9: comes in at number ten. At number nine is Fury, 490 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 9: which is one of my favorite war movies of all time. 491 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 9: Maybe it's because Brad Pitt's in it, maybe because it 492 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,920 Speaker 9: has a little bit of Shila above. The entire cast 493 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 9: is amazing in Fury and just a really powerful story 494 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 9: and told with just the right amount of grit and 495 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 9: the right amount of war action. At number seven is 496 00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 9: Gone Girl. It is one of those movies that will 497 00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:24,880 Speaker 9: blow your mind the first time you watch it. At 498 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 9: number six American Sniper, which gave me quite the trip 499 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 9: to go see this movie in theaters, one that I'd 500 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 9: remember vividly. This was one where very specific moments I 501 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 9: remember in this movie where the entire theater was shocked 502 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,679 Speaker 9: and you could just almost feel that energy. It was 503 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 9: palpable and man, some really great war stories here in 504 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:49,120 Speaker 9: twenty fourteen. That one's at number six. At number five, 505 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 9: we're getting into the marvel stuff. You have Captain America, 506 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 9: the Winter Soldier at number four. Guardians of the Galaxy 507 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 9: At number three is Whiplash, which to some people this 508 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 9: is their favorite movie of all time. This one took 509 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 9: me a little bit to get. First time I watched Whiplash, 510 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 9: I was like, that was interesting. JK. Simmons is good, 511 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 9: Miles Teller is good. But it really took all the 512 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 9: nominations to come out and people hyping this movie up 513 00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 9: so much that it had to go back and watching 514 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 9: and think was that really that good? And every now 515 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 9: and then a clip of it will get posted on 516 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 9: TikTok and I'll be like, Okay, I get it now. 517 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 9: But it took me a little bit to really warm 518 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 9: up to the impactfulness of Whiplash. And yes, on the surface, 519 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,439 Speaker 9: it is a movie about drumming, but there's also so 520 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 9: much more to that. At Number two is Boyhood, which 521 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 9: was a movie that was shot over several years, and 522 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 9: that was really the whole I don't want to call 523 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 9: it a gimmick, but the whole premise in this movie 524 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,160 Speaker 9: really made this movie appealing to critics. And why people 525 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,879 Speaker 9: really made this a notable movie was because of the 526 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 9: way they filmed it got together every few years and 527 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,560 Speaker 9: film parts of the movie that way. In the film, 528 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 9: you were actually watching these characters age. Aside from that, 529 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,200 Speaker 9: I really don't run were exactly what happens in Boyhood 530 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,719 Speaker 9: just a story about well kid growing up. But at 531 00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 9: number one on the list from twenty fourteen is Interstellar. 532 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 9: You could argue this is one of the best sci 533 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 9: fi movies of all time. And I wouldn't call you 534 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,399 Speaker 9: crazy if you told me that a Northern movie that 535 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,439 Speaker 9: took me a couple of watches to really love and 536 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,160 Speaker 9: understand more than a couple maybe even three or four 537 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,679 Speaker 9: that once I actually went back and it is a 538 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:27,160 Speaker 9: long movie and sat with the idea of it, appreciated 539 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 9: the way that Matthew McConaughey just oozes the motion at 540 00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 9: all the right moments in this movie. And you think 541 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 9: about the entire idea behind Interstellar quite magnificent, but you 542 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 9: would really expect no less from Christopher Nolan. So out 543 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 9: of those top ten, if I could only keep one, 544 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,440 Speaker 9: call me basic. But I'm keeping number one mainly because 545 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,479 Speaker 9: out of all the sci fi movies in the last 546 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 9: ten years, this one barely makes the cut. It is 547 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,640 Speaker 9: the one that just has it all when it comes 548 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,800 Speaker 9: to the visual aspect of it. The storyline, the cast, 549 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 9: the cinematography, and the score in Interstellar is one of 550 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:08,040 Speaker 9: Christopher Nolan's best. So I'm gonna have to keep Interstellar 551 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 9: and the movie that I'm going to burn. And maybe 552 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 9: I was a little biased when talking about it earlier, 553 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 9: but it's Boyhood. Boyhood is going up in flames, and 554 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 9: the reason is everybody told me how amazing Boyhood is, 555 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,919 Speaker 9: and when I watched it, quite honestly, I was bored. 556 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 3: I got it. 557 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:34,679 Speaker 9: I understood the appeal of it, the dramatic side of it. 558 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 9: It's about a family, people getting divorced, all these coming 559 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 9: of age things that happened to one kid in particular, 560 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,399 Speaker 9: and you see the kid actually grow up on screen. 561 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,439 Speaker 9: But aside from that, I don't really think it's that 562 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 9: good of a movie. It's fine, it's artistic, but I 563 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 9: watched it once and I never need to watch it again. 564 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 9: So if I had to get one movie, so if 565 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,400 Speaker 9: I had to get rid of one movie turning tend year, 566 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 9: it would be Boyhood. See you later, all right, Adam, Adam, Adam. 567 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 11: Carol Line, she's a queena talking and you was, so 568 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 11: you know, she's getting really not. 569 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 3: Afraid to feel as episode, and so just let her flow. 570 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 9: No one can do it quiet like Carl Line. 571 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 1: It's time for Caroline. 572 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 11: Hey, y'all, it's Caroline Hobby from Get Real with Caroline 573 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 11: Hobby and here is a clip from this week's episode, 574 00:28:54,920 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 11: because honestly, you going from your you're roke to you 575 00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 11: going to diabetes with your autummune disorder, with your infertility 576 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 11: stroke on, with your impertility on top of it, with 577 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 11: the fact that you, Drake are a superstar and everyone 578 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 11: knows it, and it's like, why have you not had 579 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 11: your Chris Stableton moment yet? You know, It's like when 580 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 11: is it coming? Which, by the way, I ran into 581 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 11: Chris Stapleton at Walgreens looking for candy canes and I 582 00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,200 Speaker 11: did not know that it was Christapleton and I he 583 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 11: was standing in front of the candy canes and I 584 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 11: was like going up, looking around, there's this guy standing 585 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 11: in for the candy canes and it was freaking Chris 586 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 11: Stapleton and I was like, Hi, Christableton, is that my 587 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 11: Chris Tableton moment? I think that was my Chris Tableton 588 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 11: and Michael had a song out with him at the 589 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 11: time that they wrote seven years ago called Roomful of Strangers, 590 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 11: and I played him his song in Walgreens. 591 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 10: This my husband, I. 592 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,120 Speaker 11: Said, never when you read this song with Michael's that 593 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 11: right now? Can I play it for you and he's like, uh, 594 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 11: what I'm like here, Chris Stapleton and I just played 595 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 11: on the song on Walmens, so I had a Christableton 596 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 11: moment and this need to announced my Chris Tableton moment. 597 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 11: But it's like, why have you not had your Chris 598 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 11: Stapleton moment yet? You know, because you know you're supposed 599 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 11: to have it. Everyone knows you're supposed to have it. 600 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 11: Anybody who knows you, anyone who's followed your career, anyone 601 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 11: who sees you on stage, who knows your song round 602 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 11: in your heart, all it knows you're supposed to be 603 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 11: this huge thing. But it's like, why has that moment 604 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 11: not happened? And you fought for it for so long 605 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 11: and you got knocked down for so long, and it's 606 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,120 Speaker 11: like it's so fresh, it's beyond frustrating. 607 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 10: Actually right, I mean not battle it every day, a 608 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 10: battle that I call it the battle between your ears. 609 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 10: And alex Is she she sees I'm such a deep personality, 610 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 10: like as far as driven, Like I'm driven so hard 611 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 10: and like even though you know we've had Hawk and 612 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 10: he is a massive priority. The biggest priority music is 613 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,520 Speaker 10: for me is something that I don't even I don't 614 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 10: even think about I don't even try. It just consumes. 615 00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 10: And I mean, you know that you're you're a musician. 616 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 10: You you live with one and as far as what 617 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 10: I've came, I'm super competitive, and I just I really 618 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,480 Speaker 10: try to live in the fact that everything's happening as 619 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 10: it should. Everything. Everybody's for me, everybody's for me, nobody, 620 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 10: nobody is. Nobody's trying to manipulate the system. So Drake 621 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 10: White doesn't have his Chris Stapleton moment sometimes. I mean, 622 00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 10: I definitely feel that way, and I have felt that way, 623 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,720 Speaker 10: and Alex talks me off the ledge and I do 624 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 10: it might happen tomorrow, I mean, because I am human. Uh, 625 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 10: I don't have it all figured out. I never will 626 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 10: have it all figured out. My goal is to play 627 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 10: Madison Square Garden three nights in row, and I'm going 628 00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 10: to do it. But there are voices in my head 629 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 10: every day that says, you're forty, your window of opportunity 630 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 10: is gone, your song is not enough. If you're not 631 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 10: right with Natalie Henby, you're not going to get the thing. 632 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 10: If you're not writing with this guy, if you're not 633 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,480 Speaker 10: in this click if you're not looking like this, if 634 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,280 Speaker 10: you don't, you know, have more. 635 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 11: Hair talks, perfect talk. Generation. 636 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 10: Now I'm like, oh God, there's a lot of pressure. 637 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 10: But that's where the peace comes in of I always 638 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 10: pray this prayer or my two I call them the 639 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 10: two thirty am shakes. You know, when you wake up 640 00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 10: at two thirty and you got a pee and then 641 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 10: how you're going to pay the bills creeps in or something, yeah, 642 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 10: and you're like hmm, and. 643 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 11: Then the mind starts racing. It's like, Okay, I have 644 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:29,640 Speaker 11: all this face in God, but I got to get 645 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:31,719 Speaker 11: back to my human right now because my bills are 646 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,479 Speaker 11: due and now I got a kid. 647 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 10: The prayer is like, please protect my mind, protect my 648 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,280 Speaker 10: put a hedge of protection around this house, around my 649 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 10: baby and around my wife, and help me, help me, 650 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,400 Speaker 10: help because I know what I want to do. 651 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 9: And when I put that in you, yeah, with. 652 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 10: The platform, and you put these seeds of people in 653 00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 10: front of me. You put my dreams in front of me, 654 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 10: and I know it's coming. I know that everything's setting 655 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 10: up and I'm going to be blown away by because 656 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 10: why would he have brought us through what he brought 657 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 10: us through? If he didn't have something massive on the 658 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,760 Speaker 10: other side. I know whatever that that may look like, 659 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 10: and I surrender. And I'll say this, this is hard 660 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 10: because I know what I want, and I think I 661 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 10: know what he wants. But whatever my prayer is, you know, 662 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 10: whatever is your will, that's what I want to happen. 663 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 10: And if it's for me to go playing nursing homes 664 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 10: and all that stuff, that would right now. I hate 665 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 10: saying that because I love the fact of the I'm 666 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 10: so competitive and I see people and I'm like, man, 667 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 10: you know I'm better than them, but it's not really that, 668 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 10: but it is that, but it's not that much. 669 00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 11: But you're like, listen, you're a twenty three year old 670 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 11: guy who just started singing yesterday. 671 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 3: And now you're blowing on TikTok and oh my god. 672 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 11: It's like and you're not. It's not even to like 673 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 11: hate on them, because I'm so happy for everyone to 674 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,920 Speaker 11: have their moment, But it's like, when you truly are 675 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 11: this artist and this craftsman and this like it's so 676 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 11: deep in you and you've given your entire existence in 677 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,440 Speaker 11: life and soul to it and you've had like so 678 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 11: many things, but it's's never ticked over. You're just like, 679 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:17,120 Speaker 11: there it comes in the moments You're like, what am 680 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:19,439 Speaker 11: I even doing this story? You know? 681 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, I'll tell you this story. I've never told this 682 00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 10: story publicly, but it's the Riley story. Raley had this 683 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 10: thing during the pandemic called the Golden Grain. Yeah, and 684 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 10: he had this thing that's he lives. He's from five 685 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:35,879 Speaker 10: five miles away from where I'm from. 686 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 11: Were real friends growing up. 687 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:42,399 Speaker 10: No, he was like five years younger and honestly, and 688 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 10: I'm really good buddies with him now, support him. I 689 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 10: love Raleigh. I think he's He's an amazing dude. And 690 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 10: shout out to Raleigh. Okay, he wants me to come 691 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 10: do this Golden Sauce series. You're in the pandemic. I 692 00:34:56,600 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 10: didn't know Rally yet. I can't really walk, I can't 693 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:04,399 Speaker 10: play guitar. I'm getting to the point wh drive him there, 694 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,360 Speaker 10: and Alex goes, you're doing it. I said, I'm not 695 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 10: doing it. I'm not doing it. 696 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:09,080 Speaker 2: I was. 697 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 10: So it wasn't jealousy. It was just, you know, I'd 698 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:19,319 Speaker 10: been dropped by basically everybody that was my team was 699 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 10: now his team. 700 00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 11: Oh God, talk about rubbing salt in the womb. 701 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 10: And so everybody, every I mean literally verbatim, like everybody, 702 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 10: and then. 703 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,839 Speaker 3: You just had this stroke on top of it. 704 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,680 Speaker 11: So it's not just it's you're just like on the mat. 705 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 10: So that was one of the cell phones that broke. 706 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:39,239 Speaker 10: Was he he said, if anybody, And dude, he's like 707 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 10: I said, he's a good buddy. Now, he said, if 708 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 10: there's anybody, if there's anything me or my team can 709 00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 10: do to help y'all, let me know, like, oh, maybe 710 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,360 Speaker 10: don't drop me break the cell phone. 711 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:48,719 Speaker 1: Maybe you wouldn't have dropped. 712 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,240 Speaker 11: Me and you could have pushed my song up the charts. 713 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 9: That would have helped. 714 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:55,640 Speaker 10: So we we go do the saw the Golden Sauce series. 715 00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 11: Swallowing your pride right there, I mean, talk about taking 716 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 11: a humble pill, like not only you just got dropped, 717 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 11: you just had your stroke. And now the hot new 718 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,239 Speaker 11: thing's calling you and asking you to come play, and 719 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 11: you're supposed to show up with a good attitude. 720 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:10,640 Speaker 3: Man talking and he's. 721 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 10: Got to play guitar on my songs, and. 722 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 11: He's so cute on top of it, a little star 723 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 11: out there, and you're just like, well, ship. 724 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,920 Speaker 12: He's like he's the most kind of good heart is human. 725 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 12: And that's why when I when he called and was 726 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 12: checking on Drake, and you know, we you know, there's 727 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 12: a full circle moment. But I was like, if God 728 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:32,719 Speaker 12: has done. 729 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 10: Wait a minute, I got that's my punchline. You're going 730 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,880 Speaker 10: to take the punchline, don't You're about to take that. 731 00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 10: You're about to say it, Yes you are. No, we 732 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:47,319 Speaker 10: come into the we we go and we go and 733 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,920 Speaker 10: do the thing, and and I'm I'm still like, I 734 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:52,120 Speaker 10: do not want to go do this? 735 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 12: Why would you? 736 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 10: And she's she's like, you're I think you should do it. 737 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 11: That's a good wife right there, pushing you well through 738 00:36:58,800 --> 00:36:59,120 Speaker 11: it all. 739 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 10: Now that we're good buddies, we hunt together. We you know, 740 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 10: we've wrote I don't know why he hasn't cut some 741 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 10: of the songs we wrote because they're great, but cut 742 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 10: the songs. But we are buddies and I love this, dude, 743 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 10: I really do. We'll be buddies forever. God showed me 744 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 10: through that that if you will help him do what 745 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,359 Speaker 10: you want to do. I'll hope you do what you 746 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:20,799 Speaker 10: want to do. 747 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 11: But man, that's one of the you'll have gotten some 748 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:26,280 Speaker 11: This is why it's. 749 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:26,799 Speaker 3: Going to be so big. 750 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,040 Speaker 10: I'm just sitting here pissed off. I mean, if it's 751 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:29,440 Speaker 10: some of the. 752 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 11: Hardest lessons though, you had to do the hardest lessons 753 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,520 Speaker 11: and you've had to put your face on through it, 754 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:36,800 Speaker 11: you know. 755 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 12: It's tough, you know when you're going through the thick 756 00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 12: of it, of like, you know, why are we going 757 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 12: through this? Why are we going through this? Well, they're 758 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 12: not going through it, they're not having to deal with this. Well, 759 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 12: if God will do it for them, he'll do it 760 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 12: for us. If God will do it for you know, Riley, And. 761 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:52,920 Speaker 11: Who knows what riley struggles are. 762 00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:56,279 Speaker 10: Probably you never know what a man's going through. 763 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,799 Speaker 11: It's so just like who knows what he's had to 764 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 11: deal with, because that's what I've learned to thank you. 765 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:04,360 Speaker 11: Everybody is silently struggling. 766 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 1: And that was this week's Sunday Sampler. Listen to the 767 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 1: full episodes. 768 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,239 Speaker 2: New episodes about every week so there's something new to 769 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,480 Speaker 2: listen to. Make sure you subscribe and rate and review. 770 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:20,080 Speaker 2: Have a good Super Bowl Sunday. Thank you everybody.