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Speaker 1: with our radio and I'm sitting in studio steering at

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Speaker 1: my beautiful co host Ashley. Could I just got a

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Speaker 1: But thanks for calling me beautiful. Wait what's that? Wait

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Speaker 1: we explain that a little bit. What do you do?

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Speaker 1: I noticed you weren't wearing makeup, but I just thought

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Speaker 1: He's like, I like to attack your face, like he can.

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Speaker 1: You know what is that? Remember on a podcast you

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Speaker 1: have to explain in detail, and so let's start at

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Speaker 1: the beginning. You've got an extraction, Okay, So when you

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Speaker 1: get a facial sometimes most of the time, they'll do extraction.

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Speaker 1: To me, it's like they can see your clog pores

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Speaker 1: either with the tool of their fingers, and they get

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Speaker 1: Like It's like the same thing I do to my face, right,

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Speaker 1: is it do that? Yeah? I take a little like

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Speaker 1: I buy the little Uh is this weird for me? No,

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Speaker 1: you don't. Might have a secret. I take, you know,

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Speaker 1: like when you have diabetes. So you can buy him

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Speaker 1: at like Walmart, you know, over the counter. And so

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Speaker 1: I buy those. And then when I have a pimple

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Speaker 1: a little bit. Ben. You know what's something that I've

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Speaker 1: learned about you over the past year and a half.

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Speaker 1: Have quite the beauty routine, Like you really care about

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Speaker 1: Jordan's This is Ben Higgins, This is Ashley I can Eddie.

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Speaker 1: to return to our interview with Jordan's. Now the lawyer

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Speaker 1: is saying that they're demanding you to make a public

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Speaker 1: apology or phase legal action. I'm assuming you're just doing nothing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I kept I didn't know what we can do everythine,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, like court. No, I'm not for what

482
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Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't have anything to prove. Look, I

483
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Speaker 1: didn't hear my head on the Bible today. I did

484
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Speaker 1: do this. Everyone knows. I talked aout every day. So

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Speaker 1: that's that's a big deal about quote. And I don't

486
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Speaker 1: need I don't need to battle. But look, and I

487
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Speaker 1: presented to the book. You're gonna put that n M.

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Speaker 1: I text the public that's and that's fine, that's that's

489
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Speaker 1: really fine. I'm gonna present the angle of ear taking

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Speaker 1: on me for the public. So um and then just

491
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Speaker 1: have a pull a trigger on if you're gonna attack

492
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Speaker 1: my character. Okay, here you go. This is this is

493
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Speaker 1: what on guys, this is what my day was like.

494
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Speaker 1: And then they sent me there was another email. Uh

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Speaker 1: that was sent, and they've sent that email and then

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Speaker 1: when they sent me the other emails came backed up

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Speaker 1: in between the other emails they sent and uh, they said, uh,

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Speaker 1: he said, this was a question. Now evidence of the

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Speaker 1: for myself. They also want to stame detectis to just

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Speaker 1: the clear reality see them myself next book. I've never

501
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Speaker 1: talked to reality ever until the evening at this news

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Speaker 1: came out. And that's when you decent me with the email,

503
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Speaker 1: and we we would not expand this of each other

504
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Speaker 1: at all. I mean, that's the last books I've goot

505
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Speaker 1: to hop on the pub with her or through the

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Speaker 1: message over too. And I think that there's so many

507
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Speaker 1: people you know, that are bloss in the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: It's not everyone's persisted to understand this. I had to.

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Speaker 1: I had to clear my name until my innocence by

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Speaker 1: presenting their own words against them in that tax. And

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Speaker 1: I took no jab to anybody I used to. I

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Speaker 1: just serve the public with the email of the sense,

513
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Speaker 1: and I tried to stay as classic as possible. It

514
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Speaker 1: is not easy as a prideful man to bite your

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Speaker 1: tongue until you practice feel like you're bleeding, and just

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Speaker 1: and just you know they're drink their own blood. You know,

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Speaker 1: you just throw it back because you can't open him out.

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Speaker 1: You just can't. Well, now you want to time and

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Speaker 1: attack my character. I've stayed the waren Sema Entertainment's right,

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Speaker 1: but I did not ever get this text. And you know,

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Speaker 1: I look, I've got nothing to proof here. Um, I

522
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Speaker 1: didn't do it, and anyone that does verything like anyway

523
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Speaker 1: that people watched me on PG watch the interact and

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Speaker 1: Dad and I would never caused me harm to her.

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Speaker 1: So uh, and that's that's why that's where I stand

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Speaker 1: right now. So not going after her. I'm not trying

527
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Speaker 1: to call her home, but I mean it totally say,

528
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: you know, more into a real life before So Jordan,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think I think one thing that we're

530
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Speaker 1: getting is this is this is an ugly breakup. Obviously,

531
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: this is a breakup unlike most breakups that we've ever

532
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Speaker 1: heard about. It is now. Uh, you know, we'll go

533
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Speaker 1: back to the famous world saying when this happened, it

534
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 1: opened up a can of worms that has still yet

535
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Speaker 1: to be closed. But you do have feelings for Jenny.

536
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Speaker 1: You did have feelings for Jenna. I'm sure at some

537
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Speaker 1: level you still do. You've mentioned that you know she

538
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Speaker 1: had a special place in your heart in your opinion.

539
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Speaker 1: How is she doing emotionally with all of this, because

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Speaker 1: we've gotten to hear how you're doing, and it's not

541
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Speaker 1: been easy. It's been hard. How is she doing? Um?

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00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 1: And I'm worried. I am worried about her, but I can't.

543
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Speaker 1: I mean, there's nothing I can do at this point

544
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Speaker 1: retain out to her. If not, it's practicing. It's very

545
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Speaker 1: very smart for me to do. And I wish he

546
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Speaker 1: was best Right now currently, I'm assuming that she's feeling

547
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Speaker 1: worse than ever for the first time turned her comments off. UM,

548
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Speaker 1: So I'm assuming that she's not very happy with with

549
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Speaker 1: how these things developed. Whether or not it was the

550
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Speaker 1: lawyer was gonna send me, it still happened. It's still

551
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Speaker 1: her counsel, her legal representation, and she is going to

552
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Speaker 1: have to deal with that at some extent. So I

553
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 1: feel for her to have to deal with it. But

554
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Speaker 1: at the same time, look at the way astolt with it.

555
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Speaker 1: That was the way seized out with it well, and

556
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Speaker 1: and yeah, that is action is not It's not our

557
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: place to judge on who's handle it better. I do

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Speaker 1: wanna Actually yeah, and my sorry, UM. The question I

559
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: have for you though, if you if you overly see

560
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: this whole situation, it's ugly, it's difficult, there's lawyers involved,

561
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: and it's a breakup. And granted, these breakups that are

562
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: public can be really hard. I've been through them, but

563
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: this has taken the next level in your opinion, and

564
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 1: maybe in considering Jenny here, how does this get resolved?

565
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: Because I feel like right now, even listening to you

566
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Speaker 1: and in all honesty Jordan's, it just doesn't seem like

567
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: it's coming to any resolution that, if anything, it just

568
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 1: continues to open up more wounds and more pains and

569
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: more he said. She said, how can you resolve this?

570
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: And how can you get it to maybe just end

571
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: You're done, the relationship is over, let's move on. Well, Uh,

572
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: I've got no resolution, said, I'm just so if they

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Speaker 1: are faked, um, if they all real, then I have

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Speaker 1: to Um, but I think answers I have. I have

575
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: no way to help. I've tried to help first off

576
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: it and there's nothing that I can do going further. Unfortunately,

577
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: I don't I think that her next movement maybe the

578
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: last out of me. I don't think it would be

579
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: her best move, but hey, that seems to be her

580
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: style of it. I don't know when it's to be resolved,

581
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 1: if there ever, if anyone will ever know the truth. Um,

582
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: but my truth day that I am done with the relationship.

583
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 1: I'm moving forward and I'm doing so, you know, with

584
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Speaker 1: potentially finding a relationship you know, wherever I may be.

585
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not necessarily looking very hard. But if

586
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Speaker 1: I meet the right person, and I meet someone that

587
00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: makes me happy, I'm gonna place right now where I can.

588
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: I can try to start really slow and you know,

589
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 1: and Steve Stewart, things go. Um, I've got to move

590
00:32:52,760 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 1: on from this. I'm twenty years old and I'm traveling

591
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: to all these places right now, the times to live

592
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: like I would have loved to have taken her to

593
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Speaker 1: all of my adventures and share adventures with her and

594
00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: you know, do everything that we plan to do. However,

595
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: it's uh that has expired and it's time to move on.

596
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: And it's the assence that has occurred after the fact

597
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 1: of the channel being released has really made it, like

598
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: I said, made it a little easier for me. Unfortunately, Jordan,

599
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 1: I have two big questions for you left. Were there

600
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: any red flags about Jenna that you had prior to

601
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: this reality Steve Newsbreaking. Uh, there was a red flag. Um,

602
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: there was a writ an article that was sent to me.

603
00:33:36,720 --> 00:33:39,160
Speaker 1: It stated very similarly the kind of stuff that's in

604
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: these text messages and uh, there's something I could I

605
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 1: could disclose to you right now, it was said, and

606
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 1: I have it in my phone. I'm not going to

607
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: do that to her. But it gave me an indication

608
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: that there was something. But I didn't think that it

609
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: was this. I truly didn't think it was this. Uh So, um,

610
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Speaker 1: this was very blindsiding, even with that red flag that

611
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 1: occurred for very early on after uh you know bat

612
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Speaker 1: the States from Paradise, and I definitely that took a

613
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Speaker 1: relationship that article because it was I said to myself,

614
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Speaker 1: this has got to be hurt. I mean, this is

615
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Speaker 1: the spoiler. Were can't even really out that butchers the

616
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 1: information that was being said. So, yes, there was that

617
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 1: red flag, and I kind of just simply moved forward

618
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 1: from it and uh, yeah, where it is. So there

619
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 1: was that one red flag. So it was just a

620
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: very similar situation that you read about. That's correct, Okay,

621
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Speaker 1: and then do you have like you think that she

622
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Speaker 1: just straight up cheated, that she was talking to one

623
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Speaker 1: or more other guys during this period of time that

624
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: you were engaged. Do you think there's more than one?

625
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: I mean, do I think there was more than one?

626
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Speaker 1: I think there's a time for um. Do I think

627
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Speaker 1: it was but I think that they were So I

628
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: think that. Okay, So I'm I'm gonna say this. It's generally,

629
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Speaker 1: if possible, this person that that sent the emails that

630
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: breaks out reality know her in a sexual manner. I

631
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 1: know this for a fact, and this is the one

632
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 1: person that's stepped up. There are other things that are

633
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,919
Speaker 1: stating that, hey, this is probably not the only guy.

634
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Speaker 1: But I'm not going to speculate on that. I'm not

635
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Speaker 1: gonna heard that kind of state. Uh is it in

636
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 1: the back of my mind? Sure? Am I ever going

637
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: to say it afterlutely or not? Do you think that

638
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:41,879
Speaker 1: I've read rumors about possibly there just possibly it could

639
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 1: have been like a sugar daddy situation. Do you believe

640
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: that it was really her being romantically involved with someone,

641
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:51,439
Speaker 1: or that possibly it was a financial thing. I don't

642
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: think there was a romantic relations I don't think it was.

643
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: I think that, to be honest with the athlete, I

644
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 1: think that's gonna be. I think that she did fall

645
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: for me, However I didn't know how to handle it.

646
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: For trust to that individual so much that she could

647
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 1: get away with it for a little longer. And how long?

648
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: How much longer is that continue? How much longer to

649
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 1: you continue to cope the other relationship going? I'm not sure,

650
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 1: but I'm not here to answer. Ever, I'm not here

651
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: looking for an answer to that. But yeah, I think

652
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: you're romantic. Job I don't. I don't really thinks bro Okay,

653
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: so you're saying that you do genuinely think that she

654
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 1: was in love with you, but there's just like some

655
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: other relationship that possibly she couldn't sever. I think that

656
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: she grew to love me. I think that anyone that

657
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: spends time with me would have a hard time. Now

658
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,840
Speaker 1: I'm a gold distribut you know. I think everyone wants to,

659
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: you know, watching file, give me a set here and

660
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 1: there for me a frite. But you know, for me,

661
00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,720
Speaker 1: I think this sit in the falling trap and therein

662
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 1: this happened. So we're working, we're both hurting, and both

663
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 1: of all the sasiness for the whole term feature long

664
00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 1: term teuture has been you know, affective. Uh you know

665
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: in the last tun kind that's something that we can

666
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: do about it. We can't come back and change. And

667
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 1: the people that are paying and that's I'm playing that

668
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 1: they're against me, or that the people are saying the

669
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: Gordon and that they're against her. If anyone's godon guys,

670
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: you don't have to be against her. It doesn't mean

671
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 1: if she actually we don't did this. It just mean

672
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: because she hasn't provided proof to show you. No one

673
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: needs to be attacking with her. If you're a King

674
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 1: Gordon's person. Hey, Fallow, what the stud does? I'm being

675
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 1: very very Everyone needs to go out. There's no resim.

676
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: Thing has to turn to time myself on it today.

677
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,919
Speaker 1: Everyone needs to stop attacking her. It's hard enough already. Yeah,

678
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: Okayeka's coming at me, let me handle that. What's the

679
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,839
Speaker 1: big dog hand? A lot of kay I've got I've

680
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 1: got this and wasn't attact like it. So anyone that stops,

681
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 1: they're trying to attack her. So that's really nice that

682
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: you're still supportive of her in that sense. Is there

683
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: any chance that maybe a couple of years down the line,

684
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: you'd be down to forgive and maybe continue a relationship

685
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: romantically with her. I've I've forgiven her, Um, I forgive

686
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: her right away. I look, guys, there's so many things

687
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: that I can forgive. Oh my god, I mean there's

688
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: so many things I could forgive. These tetes were so evil. Yeah,

689
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 1: I have to know fault ever ever, even almost at

690
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:25,280
Speaker 1: this point, you even ever talked to her again? Um? Whoever?

691
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: Who who never did for me? They that reading that

692
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 1: long techt teesta about how she's start to me and

693
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: all and and that she never loved me and all

694
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: these things. I mean that that hurts. And so is

695
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 1: there a chance on that? I mean, honestly, even after

696
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,280
Speaker 1: her trying to pend us on me? Now there's shot shot.

697
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: So this is Um Jordan. This is something it's always surprising.

698
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: You've been in the Bastel Nation now for a few years,

699
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: and there's always something new it seems to pop up,

700
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: always something that surprises us. And this is one that

701
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: hurts Um. You obviously hurts Jenna. Um. People were rooting

702
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 1: for you, guys. We appreciate you being honest and open

703
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 1: and sharing your thoughts. I hope there's a resolution, but

704
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: it feels like we're gonna close out this this interview

705
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 1: without any end in sight. UM. And so hopefully next

706
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: time we talk to you there can be some clarity,

707
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,840
Speaker 1: there can be a happy ending or an ending. But

708
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: until then, UM, just we encourage you and Jenna both

709
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 1: Um to continue to try to fight for resolution. Jordan,

710
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 1: thank you for coming on the podcast. We appreciate your

711
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 1: honesty and openness. Thank you. Bye. Jordan's all right by,

712
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: enjoy the gondola. I don't know how I feel about this,

713
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: Actually no, I don't know. I just feel like there's

714
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: a lot of unknowns, a lot of questions. It feels

715
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: like it always the case, which with these kind of sagas,

716
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: there's no clarity. You know, Jordan's a talker, UM, very charming,

717
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: very charming. I I would imagine, just like all of these,

718
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 1: both sides are at fault at some level. M at

719
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 1: some level. Do you think it happened. I think that

720
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: she did not have a romantic relationship with the man

721
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: that she was texting. That's just my opinion on it.

722
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: It doesn't make anything more right obviously. I just don't

723
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: know if there you know, here's a frustrating part to me.

724
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 1: I'm trying, we do this podcast. I'm trying to really

725
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: love this this show, and I really love the Bachelor

726
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: and the Bachelor and Bachelor. I really love you know,

727
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:40,839
Speaker 1: the show has been good to me. It's I think

728
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 1: it can work. I know the ins and outs of it.

729
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: It's real, you know, I invest and so now you

730
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: know you knew about two years ago. Maybe when we

731
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 1: first started this, I was having a hard time getting

732
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 1: back into the show. It was just hard for me.

733
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: I was in a weird season. I don't really like

734
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: watching it. I didn't really like any of like the storylines.

735
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because like Jojo was a Bachelor and I

736
00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: was like, this is just weird. Um. And then even

737
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 1: the season after that with Nick, like Nicks a buddy,

738
00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: and I didn't really like get into that too much.

739
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm separated, and now like over the last I mean,

740
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: I feel like uh Becca's season was one of them,

741
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 1: and even our season a little bit. I kind of

742
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: emotionally invested into her, got angry and felt things for

743
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: and then Paradise happened, and I really enjoyed Paradise. There

744
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: was it was a great season and and I came

745
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,760
Speaker 1: out out of it like a fan does, and I said, Okay,

746
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: there's a few things I really want to see happen here, like, yes,

747
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: it was christ and Crystal, my favorite couples and my

748
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: favorite characters on the show. Ever, no, but they found

749
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:34,919
Speaker 1: each other and that's awesome, and I and I'm I'm

750
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 1: all four I would feel for them if they broke up.

751
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,800
Speaker 1: And then and then you have Jordan and Jenna and

752
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: a couple that I was rooting for the whole time.

753
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, how cool is it when you

754
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: have a polarizing, complicated figure like Jordan's who that America

755
00:41:49,080 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: doesn't like me, has a complicated relationship with definitely, but

756
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,800
Speaker 1: and and then coming off, he finds a person to

757
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 1: compliment him, to kind of break through his layers, and

758
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: you see a side of the America loves because you

759
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: see him kind of become comfortable, become normal, stop speaking

760
00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: in parables and civilies, and he just starts speaking like

761
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: I like this guy. And then this happens, Ashley coach me,

762
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: how am I supposed to continue to engage in this

763
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 1: show as a fan and invest emotionally into these relationships

764
00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 1: if they keep burning me and this is about me

765
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 1: right now? Really, you know it's about me? I don't know.

766
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: I think you're just gonna have to go in with

767
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: the expectation that maybe half of them are going to fail.

768
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: Let's brutal. Well, I think that's kind of Um, the

769
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: modern average of bachelor couples is that how I go

770
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:45,879
Speaker 1: into my relationships? Now, Well, no, you shouldn't. I don't

771
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: think not. No, I don't think so. I think you

772
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: should go all in. Okay, let's talk about this. Let's

773
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 1: switch this. Let's make this about me for a little bit. Um,

774
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 1: you're about to go on a date. I'm about to

775
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: go on day. Let's say, and do I enter into

776
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 1: these how do I what's my mindset? Do I tern

777
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: into this? Going? Okay, I'm looking for my wife? Kay? Absolutely,

778
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: I've always believed that the only reason for me to

779
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: date husband to find my husband. I don't believe in

780
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:12,919
Speaker 1: dating for fun because I don't really think that dating

781
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: is fun. Yeah, okay, so you you going to eat

782
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: the first date even like this could be my husband,

783
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,839
Speaker 1: this could be my wife, and the pressure isn't there.

784
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: You're not like pushing this person to to make that commitment,

785
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 1: but you're saying I'm viewing this through the lens of this,

786
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 1: this is either going to be a long term thing

787
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: or not. And then the second part is, am I

788
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: going in with the expectation that this will fail? You

789
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 1: shouldn't go in with the expectation that it'll fail. I'm

790
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: always a very much of positive optimistic thinker, So I

791
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 1: always think things are going to kind of be a success.

792
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 1: Like I always even when I was at the depths

793
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 1: of being single and never having a boyfriend and all that,

794
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: and I would say things like I haven't gonna die alone.

795
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: I never really believed I was going to die alone.

796
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 1: So no matter how many failures, I'd always be like,

797
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 1: it's going to come through one day. So I think, like,

798
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 1: you have to be long term optimistic, long term optimistic. Okay,

799
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 1: so that's kind of my mindset now when I go

800
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: into watching The Bachelor is I want to believe these

801
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: couples will be forever. I want to believe. You know

802
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: that Colton is going to meet his wife, but I

803
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: also know that it might it probably won't happen, but

804
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 1: when it does, here's a cool part. When it does happen,

805
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: we need to celebrate those couples like the Tanner and

806
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: Jade's and the Carly and Evans. We need to celebrate

807
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 1: those couples because that is a huge success story. Yeah right,

808
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: that's cool. So we need to celebrate Arian Lauren. Right,

809
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: We've we've kind of pushed him aside. I think his

810
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: bachel Nation for you know, reasons that everybody knows that

811
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,920
Speaker 1: this his season was you know, criticized, he made you know,

812
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,839
Speaker 1: he made the switcher. U. Okay, however it worked out.

813
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: Becca is happy. He's happy. He's on his way to

814
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 1: get married in January. Mari, if you're listening, I gotta

815
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:57,919
Speaker 1: change that up. Man. Um, they're gonna get married. Let's

816
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: celebrate them. That's a huge sess. That's awesome. Um, prepping

817
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: for weddings is tough. Actually is doing it now? Actually

818
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 1: you're you're in full um workout mode, workout mode. I

819
00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,760
Speaker 1: wish I've been. Really, this is my wish for myself

820
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,719
Speaker 1: to become a vegetarian. All I want to do is

821
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 1: be a vegetarian. But I love cheeseburgers and tacos so much.

822
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,320
Speaker 1: It's you know what I would say with you, Ashley,

823
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: You're gonna be able to pull off whatever it is

824
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: you walk into that wedding with and so it leads

825
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: me to my next email. Uh, it's from Kylie says, Hey,

826
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: y'all huge fans of the podcast and a lot of

827
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 1: the earlier episodes actually always said that Ben was going

828
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,640
Speaker 1: to officiate your wedding, and I was wondering, is he

829
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 1: going to Actuley? Am I going to afficiate your wedding? Well, um,

830
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 1: I don't know that I really mentioned that once. I mean,

831
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 1: I think you'd be a great efficiant for weddings. I

832
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 1: think you should really get into that. I mean, how

833
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: many people around this country would hire you for that job. Well,

834
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 1: we actually had a couple in Indianapolis, Indiana reach out once.

835
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 1: We said that once in the podcast and they were great.

836
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: I really wanted to, but it it wasn't fitting into

837
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 1: my schedule ers previous obligations. I would have loved to

838
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: be there for their wedding. I think it'd be a

839
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 1: blast to celebrate marriage, love and life with somebody. I'd

840
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: love to speak some truth. But I am doing my

841
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: cousin's wedding, Rebecca and Cody. Uh, they're getting married next year,

842
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 1: so I will be there for that. I'm practicing prepping Um,

843
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna actually call them. Uh this week, I have

844
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: on my list. I'm gonna start doing pre marital counseling.

845
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: I don't know how to counsel anybody, but I want

846
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: to hear their story. I want to hear why they

847
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 1: love each other. I think it's gonna make it fun

848
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 1: for me to stand up there and be proud to

849
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 1: to speak to them and with them. Um, so, Rebecca

850
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: and Cody, I know they listen, wait for the phone call.

851
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: I'm excited. It's it's fun. Love is a cool thing,

852
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: and to be there for the Efficient as the Efficient

853
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: is a massive deal to me. Well, you won't be officiating,

854
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:57,560
Speaker 1: that's cool, No, no, nobody. I was just kidding, right, Yeah,

855
00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: I want you to be an Efficient all over the country.

856
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 1: But Tanner Tolbert's going to appreciate our wedding. That's that's cool.

857
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: Mainly been because Tanner has been with us like every

858
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: step of the way, and I haven't. You have been around,

859
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: but you haven't been as involved with pairing us together

860
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,960
Speaker 1: as Tanner has always been. Yeah, and you will crack

861
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 1: up watching Tanner officiating. Come on, Tanner with a slate

862
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: little smile. You're selling me on this right now, just

863
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: let me be heard for a little bit. We'll be

864
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 1: here for a little bit. Okay, Eastern, can we get

865
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Speaker 1: that music again? That little thing you did, that's how

866
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Speaker 1: I feel. That's how I feel. Hey, Uh, something that's

867
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896
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,879
Speaker 1: do right now. This is this podcast just feels heavy.

897
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: I knew it was going to be heavy. I want

898
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: to talk to you about smaller serious things. Aren't my wedding? Okay,

899
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,879
Speaker 1: let's talk ash Okay. First off, I think your goal

900
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: should be to get a plus one. And this is

901
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 1: a question that I have for you but also our audience,

902
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: So please email Benn and Ashley at iHeart Media dot com.

903
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: Jared and I think that will probably do plus ones

904
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 1: for anybody who is like in a serious relationship six

905
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 1: months prior to the wedding. Do you think that is? Like, wait,

906
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: when's this wedding? If I'm if you're hoping I get

907
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 1: a plus one? Okay, I got how many months? So

908
00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: I go, like, you have to get the girlfriend in March? Okay?

909
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: The hunt? The hunt is on. Do you think that's

910
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 1: a good amount of time it's somebody to like have

911
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 1: a plus one? I think it's fair. I think for

912
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: me it would be helpful if you told me I

913
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 1: don't have a plus one if I wasn't in a

914
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: serious relationship, like if you know, I'm not dating somebody

915
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,080
Speaker 1: and I felt the pressure to show up. Like what

916
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: what that does is it sets up the scenario where

917
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 1: there's a lot more single people, which makes me feel

918
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 1: less pressured. Oh, you shouldn't feel pressured, I know. And

919
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 1: that's why I think it's good for that six month RL.

920
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody should feel um upset with you

921
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: for not letting letting them bring a random date to

922
00:50:16,760 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: the wedding, because your wedding is going to be one

923
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 1: that's sought after. People are gonna want to come, and

924
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: so this is what happens with those types of weddings. Um,

925
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,359
Speaker 1: let's just say Billy Bob, you know, is a part

926
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 1: of the Bachelor franchise, and he gets an invite to

927
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: your wedding and he gets a plus one, he's going

928
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: to look for the one person he can invite or

929
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 1: somebody's gonna reach out to him wanting to be invited,

930
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 1: and it's going to cause fake and flawed relationships, and

931
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 1: it's gonna cause drama amongst the group. And so for you,

932
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: let's keep it amongst people that care about you and

933
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,400
Speaker 1: really love you both. And then if you know they

934
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,279
Speaker 1: have somebody that they love as well, then they can

935
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: bring that person. But if not, let's just have a

936
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: big singles mingle. That's that's what I like. I like

937
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: to be a serious relationship. And also, you don't really

938
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 1: invite people to weddings unless you really see a future

939
00:50:56,960 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: with them too. Write casual have been to wedding like years,

940
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 1: So really, yeah, what does that say about me? I

941
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 1: have been just so many. I have to upcoming on

942
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 1: the East Coast. We're staying at home in Virginia. We're

943
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 1: going back to back to weekends. But see a lot

944
00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: of my friends we got married young. I mean I

945
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:14,920
Speaker 1: had a buddy who got married at two. He now

946
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,440
Speaker 1: has three kids. I had most of my friends by

947
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: the time they were twenty seven were married. And so

948
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm done with weddings in a sense. I mean I

949
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:23,920
Speaker 1: still got a couple, but yeah, we're pretty much done

950
00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:27,400
Speaker 1: with weddings, um, except for years and um. And so

951
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 1: I'm actually I'm pumped for your wedding. I will start

952
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: hunting now. Is that the right term? Is that just?

953
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: Is that it's just in a very a very direct term.

954
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna start cordially dating, being relationship I'm gonna start

955
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: being relationship minded so I can get a date to

956
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: Ashley and Jared's wedding. Hey, it's off season. Uh, we've

957
00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 1: pulled up some great episodes for the offseason so far.

958
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: Off season one of my favorite times because we get

959
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 1: to bring back the segment that that none of you love, um,

960
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: but I love been bitches in this segment. You know,

961
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: actually you've known me a little bit of time. Here,

962
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:02,879
Speaker 1: there's a very there's a couple of things that really

963
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:05,279
Speaker 1: irk me. Let's see if you can guess. You get

964
00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:09,160
Speaker 1: two guesses on items in life that really irk me. Go, well,

965
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: I know that Jordan's self described a bit there and

966
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:19,240
Speaker 1: you're cringing. That's number one, and number two is usually

967
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 1: like airplane travel and etiquette, you're close, see as that's

968
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 1: why I love you. You listening and you remember, um,

969
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: you're close. So the same kind of scenario here as

970
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 1: an airplane, but we're not on an airplane. But it's

971
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: the same mindset. It's patients, it's respect, it's manners. You're

972
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,880
Speaker 1: standing in a grocery store, Okay. I stopped at a

973
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: grocery store right by my house in Denver, Colorado, every

974
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 1: day for a kombucha kombucha. Kombucha kombucha. Same Yet does

975
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:53,720
Speaker 1: it make you regular? It? Does? It helps u? A kombucha? Okay,

976
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 1: that's all I want. That's all I need is a kombucha.

977
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:57,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk in, I'm gonna walk out. It's gonna

978
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:00,919
Speaker 1: take me no amount of time. The other day, which

979
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: isn't the first time it's happened, I had to show

980
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:05,560
Speaker 1: up to the grocery store around twelve o'clock. My workout

981
00:53:05,600 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 1: ran over. I was feeling strong. When I show up

982
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: at twelve o'clock. The lunch rush hour had came in

983
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:12,239
Speaker 1: and the grocery store was a little more full than

984
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: it was a typically nine o'clock in the morning, when

985
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:17,240
Speaker 1: there's no lines. But this time there's lines in every

986
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: single aisle, and I find myself looking at the fifteen

987
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: nimes or less line. It's full packed. I don't want

988
00:53:24,600 --> 00:53:27,919
Speaker 1: to go there. But as I turned the corner, there's

989
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,840
Speaker 1: an open line with only two people standing in it.

990
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:35,959
Speaker 1: But I can confront it by a lady. I'm gonna

991
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: say between forty and seventy with a full cart staring

992
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: at me, knowing that this line is either hers or mine.

993
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: Remember I only have a kombucha. Yeah, she should definitely

994
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: say go ahead, sir, yes, but no, no, no, no,

995
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 1: she moves in front of me. She moves in front

996
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 1: of me and makes me stand in line behind two

997
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:59,600
Speaker 1: grocery carts while they check out. Now, this is this

998
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 1: is the that's very in Guess what happens. The light

999
00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:05,720
Speaker 1: on top turns off. That line is now shut down

1000
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,080
Speaker 1: because of timing, so I have to move to my

1001
00:54:08,239 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: next line. And here's the point of the matter. When

1002
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:12,960
Speaker 1: you're in a grocery store, when you're in an airplane,

1003
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 1: or you're standing in line in security, or you're at

1004
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 1: a restaurant, have the proper decency to surround yourself, look around,

1005
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: surround yourself and get a knowledge of what's happening and go.

1006
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 1: How can I let their life the people around me

1007
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:28,839
Speaker 1: be a little bit easier? Am I gonna take up

1008
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: all of their time and make them wait another thirty

1009
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: minutes checking out my groceries? I'm gonna allow this poor

1010
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 1: guy who has to be on a call in a meeting,

1011
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 1: take his kimbucha and go, because as soon as he

1012
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 1: drinks it, he doesn't have a lot of time before

1013
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: he needs to be in his proper office the bathroom. Hey,

1014
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: here's the thing. Here's the thing, and this is one

1015
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:50,320
Speaker 1: of last times I talk about it, and I mean it.

1016
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 1: Let's go back to how we were his five year olds.

1017
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,480
Speaker 1: Would somebody standing over you sit telling weight line, wait

1018
00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 1: your turn, respect people around you. Let's learn how stand

1019
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: in line again. Let's learn how to weigh our turn.

1020
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 1: Let's learn how to respect people around you. And when

1021
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 1: you find yourself in a standoff at a grocery store,

1022
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: please let the other person with the less amount of

1023
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:19,360
Speaker 1: items go first. When it's significant different. No, yeah, we

1024
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 1: had to stare down I Honestly, I think I think

1025
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 1: she was just like wanting to one up. You know,

1026
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: I get it, like life gets long, and maybe it

1027
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,400
Speaker 1: was a tough weekend, it was a you know, whatever

1028
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: it was. And she looked at me and it was

1029
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 1: almost like, bring it on, are you really are you

1030
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:38,280
Speaker 1: really going to step in front of a fifty five

1031
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: ish lady with a grocery car or are you gonna

1032
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 1: wait your turn? Been? And so I had to wait

1033
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 1: my turn, which is now that I'm saying it, I

1034
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: guess I did the right thing. You did. But she

1035
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 1: should have just been like, oh my gosh. You know,

1036
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 1: anybody else out there for us to her with this stuff,

1037
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 1: please write us in with your life frustrations, your everyday

1038
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 1: issues at Ben and Ashley at heart meat dot com. Uh,

1039
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,760
Speaker 1: they're fun, They're fun for me to write down. Actually,

1040
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: I have a whole list on my phone right now

1041
00:56:06,120 --> 00:56:08,400
Speaker 1: of things that irk me and and the problem with

1042
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 1: this list is it just keeps getting larger, which makes

1043
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 1: me question myself more and more. Um, next week's m

1044
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 1: it's really Good's about acts body spray? Oh yeah, anytime

1045
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 1: I get really angry, actually, I write it down. Um, everybody,

1046
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 1: it's the off season. Like we said, uh, we will

1047
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 1: always keep you up today on the Best Bachelor News.

1048
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:36,320
Speaker 1: Make sure you review us on anywhere you listen to

1049
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: this podcast. UM, tell your friends we uh we have

1050
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:43,279
Speaker 1: some exciting news coming up. I Am going to be

1051
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,160
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