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Speaker 1: You don't hear me confession.

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Speaker 2: I can't take back arm mouse speak.

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Speaker 3: Got a text into seven eighty five nine two that says,

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Speaker 3: some mornings, when I drive to work, I buckle a

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Speaker 3: banana into the passenger seat.

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Speaker 1: So I have a friend to ride with.

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Speaker 3: I'll even draw a face on him, and he's always smiling.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you're so safe with your friendships.

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Speaker 1: I have a secret brandan friend that I like to

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Speaker 1: use sometimes too. I'm never strapped.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 1: If you have a secret.

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Speaker 3: Fruit in your life that you just want to peel

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Speaker 3: once and for all, you can do it right here

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Speaker 3: on the mass speaker. One of our listeners she's chosen

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Speaker 3: the fake name.

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Speaker 1: Lily for herself. So Lily, welcome to the show. Not

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Speaker 1: take her fruit secret from her.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, hey, Lily, you're nervous.

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Speaker 3: We're used to that here. But the voice changer is on.

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Speaker 3: You are the mass speaker, So whenever you're ready, go

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Speaker 3: full banana on us.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay. So I'm in my late thirties right now.

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Speaker 4: That's when I was in high school. I met the

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Speaker 4: most incredible guy. He was one grade above me. He

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Speaker 4: was insanely handsome. I didn't have many friends at the time,

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Speaker 4: so he just made me feel so loved. You know,

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Speaker 4: I was only seventeen at the time, so I don't

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Speaker 4: really know if I knew what true love was, but

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Speaker 4: it really felt like that.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, it's so intense at that age.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think we all can think back to

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Speaker 3: that one guy from high school.

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Speaker 1: Well, I hate guy looks background.

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Speaker 2: I'm like you, I hate same that guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you were that guy for me too.

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Speaker 2: I understand what it's like. I mean, everyone does to

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Speaker 2: be wrapped up in young love like that. It's it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: That's gotta be nice, honestly to have that.

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Speaker 4: It was amazing. And then he went off to college.

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Speaker 4: We did the long distance thing. We were dating while

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Speaker 4: he was abroad. And the thing is he met this

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Speaker 4: other student from Italy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we all saw that coming.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry her longest. His relationships are so hard. That's

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Speaker 1: why don't let any of your boyfriend's travel.

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Speaker 2: No, I think, just be single maybe at that time, okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: well Tea, so were you heartbroken when he met somebody else?

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Speaker 4: Well, the thing is, I only found out that he

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Speaker 4: met somebody else after he had already gotten her pregnant.

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Speaker 2: Ooh boy, that Sucks's brutal. Yeah, I mean I assume

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Speaker 2: you just kind of moved on though with your life.

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Speaker 4: Well I had to. I mean, there really wasn't anything

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Speaker 4: I could do. He just stayed over there, he continued

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Speaker 4: to live his life, and he still lived there to

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Speaker 4: this day.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Do you still like his Italian Facebook photos?

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Speaker 1: Do you love reacting or with angry emoji? Maybe?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, But seriously, that sucks.

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Speaker 2: It's okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean I was heartbroken at the time, like I

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Speaker 4: thought my world had ended. I cried every single second. Eventually,

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Speaker 4: I did move on, and I finally found the right

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Speaker 4: guy and I married him and he's been my husband

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Speaker 4: now for a long time.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like you're secretly still harboring feelings for

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Speaker 2: your first boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: But it's fine.

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Speaker 4: Look, I've never actually forgotten about my first love. I mean,

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Speaker 4: how do you beat when you're so young and you

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Speaker 4: find somebody that has really loved you and cares for you.

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Speaker 1: Mean, well, I'm married, Yeah, you're married.

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Speaker 2: You have adult relationships. They're different, you know, they're more

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Speaker 2: I think, complicated and complex and deeper.

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Speaker 1: That's just a long way to say it's worse.

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Speaker 2: No, I think I can have a lot deeper connection

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Speaker 2: with somebody at this age.

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Speaker 1: What you have now should be greater than what that was.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, it worked out to you. Do you feel

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Speaker 1: that way, Lily.

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Speaker 4: I have a great husband, and when we actually had

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Speaker 4: our first son, I told my husband I had this

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Speaker 4: great name in mind and I was just in love

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Speaker 4: with this name. And my husband, you know, he wasn't

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Speaker 4: really into it, but I convinced him, and it was

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Speaker 4: my high school sweetheart's name.

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Speaker 2: What oh, oh, are you saying you've named your baby

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Speaker 2: after him? I did? Oh?

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Speaker 1: No, I can see you hits hard.

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Speaker 2: God, how did you convince your husband to name his

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Speaker 2: like son, your son after your Yeah.

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Speaker 4: My husband didn't know. I mean, nobody knew about my

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Speaker 4: sweetheart way back in the day. And oh, my son's

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Speaker 4: already thirteen because it was a long time ago. But

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Speaker 4: at this point nobody knows still. And every time I

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Speaker 4: look at my son, whenever I hear his name, I

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Speaker 4: just think of this high school guy.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, that's a good feeling to you, Lily.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, like, is that is that bad?

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Speaker 2: Wow? I would hope that the name now has a

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Speaker 2: new meaning and that that your thirteen year old son

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Speaker 2: owns it more than your act to you, you know.

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Speaker 3: Sure, how do you feel when you hear your husband's

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Speaker 3: name called out loud?

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Speaker 4: I feel great and I love my husband.

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Speaker 2: I think you're just up and in love with the

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Speaker 2: idea of what love was at seventeen. You know, it's

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Speaker 2: a very romantic idea, right, but the reality of it is.

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Speaker 2: I mean, who knows. You could have married that guy

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Speaker 2: and he could have sucked, and you know, you could

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Speaker 2: have been living this terrible life together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Do you think maybe your high school sweetheart named

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Speaker 3: his baby after Oh.

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Speaker 4: My gosh, Wow, that would be insane.

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Speaker 2: She's like, no, I stopped him on Instagram.

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Speaker 4: I already know what her name.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Carolina. I hope your kid never wants

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Speaker 1: to go to Italy found a new mom over there.

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Speaker 3: Serious question, though, Are you ever gonna tell your son

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Speaker 3: or your husband who was the same I would never know.

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Speaker 4: I don't think so, because I know a lot of

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Speaker 4: people have the same name, so it could have come

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Speaker 4: from anyone I talked to my parents.

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Speaker 3: Make your name? Yeah, I think we should all call

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Speaker 3: her parents into seven eighty five nine too. If you

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Speaker 3: have a confession, you've been holding on to will hide

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Speaker 3: your identity, mask your voice, and make you the next

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Speaker 3: mass speaker phone taps coming up next