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Speaker 1: eight podcast. And can I just start by apologizing to

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Speaker 1: What do you do wrong?

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Speaker 1: He had texted in to seven eight five nine two

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Speaker 1: a nightmare waking up to a text from Broken to

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Speaker 1: it apologize. Let's do less harm on the comment section, Well,

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Speaker 1: Kai said, therapist here, you guys always make my day

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Speaker 1: and are my self care between cases instead of being

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Speaker 1: It's an awkward Tuesday day. It begins right now.

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Speaker 5: It can be complicated changing careers later in life.

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Speaker 1: Oh check, Oh yeah, are you planning something.

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Speaker 6: That you know about? Not me.

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Speaker 5: It just made me think of when Brooks Uncle Soupy

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Speaker 5: the Clown decided to hang up his balloon animal gig

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Speaker 5: and transition to oversized shoe salesman.

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Speaker 1: It's sponging whatever.

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Speaker 3: How could you not remember when it happened.

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Speaker 5: I just know the whole family scoffed at him, saying,

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Speaker 5: you're besmirching the good Fox family clown legacy.

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Speaker 1: Come on, I say, we haven't seen him at a

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving table, And.

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Speaker 5: They said it all while honking their noses at him

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Speaker 3: Everyone's spraying with your flower tough crowd.

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Speaker 5: Well, we've got another dramatic career change that's affecting one

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Speaker 5: young couple and it could throw a giant clown wrench

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Speaker 1: If you don't know, that's not good. In cloud work,

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Speaker 5: And you're gonna hear why in your brand new awkward

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Speaker 3: It's awkward, it's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: When you're in a relationship with someone for long enough,

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Speaker 5: it's natural to worry about them.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean, like when you care about someone, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: about their safety, total happiness.

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Speaker 5: You start thinking like are they eating healthy enough to

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Speaker 5: live a long, happy life with me? Are they dressing

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Speaker 5: nice enough to attend this fancy dinner with me? Are

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Speaker 5: they not drinking enough at this house party? So everyone's

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Speaker 5: gonna think we're the boring couple.

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Speaker 1: But you can't be fun without alcoholic. Who do you

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Speaker 1: hang out with?

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Speaker 5: These are just natural things that come up in normal relationships.

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Speaker 5: You wouldn't know anything about that. But one of our

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Speaker 5: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Look, so guys, how are you.

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Speaker 4: Hey?

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Speaker 1: We're good? How long have you and your girlfriend been together?

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Speaker 6: Almost four years?

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Speaker 5: You're starting to get into a serious party.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, So, uh, you said that in your

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Speaker 4: She worked an office job, you know, an administrative assistance.

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Speaker 4: But he's been kind of feeling bored and doesn't feel

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Speaker 6: Happy there, so she wants to switch her career up.

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Speaker 4: He's decided to become a cop instead.

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Speaker 5: Really needed right now. It's quite a shift from office

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Speaker 6: Is what I'm saying. I'm just nervous because I see

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Speaker 4: And I see what they have to deal with and

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Speaker 1: And maybe she feels like true calling to go out

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but like I feel like there's other ways to

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Speaker 4: And maybe that's true, and like they.

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Speaker 6: Need more people in law enforcement, but I never.

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Speaker 5: Get bonuses and stuff sometimes and you sign up?

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Speaker 1: Is she in police school? What do you call that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, she's looking into it, but like, I think

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Speaker 4: she has decided that and she's just gonna do it

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Speaker 6: I don't know she really understands all the.

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Speaker 4: Anytime I try to say anything about the dangerous stuff,

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean I think it's natural to worry,

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Speaker 1: Like that would be a job that I think anyone

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Speaker 3: Totally. She also wants you to take her seriously.

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Speaker 4: I'm saying that Blake, maybe start off as the.

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Speaker 5: Mall cop, mall cop, work your way up in the danger.

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Speaker 3: I can see why she's like, no, I don't want

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Speaker 4: I want to have this conversation about all the risks

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Speaker 6: Like it's hard to sit her down and really.

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Speaker 1: Liked a man's playing being a cop to her.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, but not a passion of her. It's been

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Speaker 5: Month, that you know of, right, Okay, So Brooke, let

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Speaker 1: I think it's normal to feel hesitation. I think to

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Speaker 5: I would trust what her boyfriend of four years has

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but Aaron, I swear we're not mocking you. Right now.

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Speaker 5: We're just trying to get all of this out before

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Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 6: We're not gonna bru it this for you.

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Speaker 5: You can do your thing.

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Speaker 3: He's kind of regretting. He's totally regretting calling in.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna come back give you some solid advice and

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Speaker 5: cop coming up right after this. It's awkward. It's an

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Speaker 3: The advice that you want to hear.

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Speaker 1: Why did you come to us free advice? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Because one of our listeners, Aaron, has a girlfriend of

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Speaker 1: Well, he did a lot of like, she doesn't understand

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Speaker 5: I agree that could come across as I know better

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Speaker 6: Whatever she wants to do, I will fully support her.

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Speaker 4: I'm just more worried because she's focused on the money aspect.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So you need advice because you feel like she's

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Speaker 4: That need to to think more about the safety parts

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Speaker 1: Right, money comes and goes. Your life is precious, right.

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Speaker 5: So, Brook, what's your advice to Aaron here before we

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Speaker 1: Well, I think no matter what you do, have to

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Speaker 1: And I think the way you can show that is

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Speaker 1: I get to better understand why you want to do this.

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Speaker 3: So they're just offering it.

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Speaker 7: Well, she probably knows what it takes to be a

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Speaker 1: Because the schedules are terrible.

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Speaker 5: That's interesting threatening her with divorce, but.

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Speaker 1: Divorce rates were already high. Cops.

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Speaker 1: That's on the cons list for just in case you weren't.

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Speaker 5: You were wondering, all right, So that's our advice for you,

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Speaker 5: We're gonna call your girlfriend here. Sorry, what was her

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Speaker 6: Hello, babe, babe, how are you?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, give me two seconds to walk away from my

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Speaker 7: What's going on?

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Speaker 6: You know I love you and you know that whatever

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, I just want it to be a

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Speaker 6: You know, we can go through the pros, the cons

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Speaker 2: I mean, sure, but I don't understand. Yes, look, we're

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Speaker 4: I mean, you're going out at night, first of all,

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Speaker 6: Like it's.

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Speaker 2: I will not be going out at night. I will

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Speaker 6: So but how do you know that?

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Speaker 4: And even if you were in the daytime, daytime can

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Speaker 2: What what are you even saying? Why is it risky?

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Speaker 6: But like, what do you mean how is it riskicked?

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Speaker 6: I'm worried.

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Speaker 4: I'm care about you, and all you're thinking about in

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Speaker 2: Well, of course it is good money and it's gonna

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Speaker 6: Us, a boat. We're talking about it, and you care

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 2: No one's gonna get shot at my job. No one

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Speaker 7: What do you mean.

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Speaker 6: Nobody has gunns? I've watched TV suites. You have to

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Speaker 2: No, nobody has guns when they're a mortgage officer.

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Speaker 1: What I mean?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever seen that an episode of House Hunters

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Speaker 6: Oh I'm so confused.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm confused now too.

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 2: Aaron, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: Ye, Fiona, I'm just going to jump in here because

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Speaker 1: Your guys' killer a couple communication. Yeah, don't killer a

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Speaker 1: good point?

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Speaker 4: Say good point?

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Speaker 1: The dangerous words you're using you to what's going on? Guy, Fiona?

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Speaker 5: This is called an awkward Tuesday phone call. Your boyfriend,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I am not going to be a police officer.

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Speaker 2: A mortgage officer was the plan all along?

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Speaker 1: Oh you never thought police? How did you get police

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Speaker 5: From the word officer, Aaron, where was your head at.

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Speaker 4: A mortgage officer, A police officer who evicted people that

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Speaker 2: That is not what I wantage officer.

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Speaker 5: Stars, Aaron, I think you're thinking about dep who evict

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Speaker 5: That's just a normal police officer.

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Speaker 1: Officer, someone you go to when you need a house loan,

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Speaker 1: and they do all the paperwork and figure out if

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think they make good money too.

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Speaker 1: It's literally so boring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would work for like a bank or a

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Speaker 5: You've spoken about the dangers of banking paper cuts, Aaron,

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Speaker 5: Is this making sense to you?

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Speaker 6: So it's not dangerous?

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Speaker 1: No, we all just heard the light bulb, so you

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I guess I just never heard the term.

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Speaker 4: I just heard officer, and you know, different type of officer,

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I just.

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Speaker 1: If it makes you feel better. Erin has been thought

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Speaker 1: taxidermy was for taxes, like doing paperwork.

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Speaker 5: So okay, okay, he's still hearing about it from Brook

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Speaker 5: and that was five years ago.

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Speaker 1: That is part of my arsenal for sure. That's a

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Speaker 1: funny story.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so clearly this was a giant misunderstanding. I'm really

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you use your pros and cons list.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you could still make a pros and cons for

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Speaker 6: Can we just forget this call I've ever happened?

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Speaker 1: The definitely not, She says, that'ship for the rest of

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Speaker 5: The good news is your boyfriend, Aaron was genuinely concerned

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Speaker 3: Reach out and just make sure that his points were heard.

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Speaker 1: So it makes sense why he thought you didn't understand

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Speaker 5: Actual about it, because the basically are none.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yes, this does make a lot more sense now, Okay.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, good luck to the two of you as

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Speaker 1: And hey, and let's hope those Feds drop the rate

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no kidding, brooking Jeffrey in.

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Speaker 5: The morning, getting a lot of texts into seven eight, five,

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Speaker 3: It was that extreme?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I get it, though, if you've never bought a

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Speaker 5: Ever, it's confusing if you've never heard mortgage officer before.

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Speaker 5: But basically, take the most boring job you could think of.

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Speaker 1: I mean not to insult any mortgage officers listening or anything.

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Speaker 5: No, No, I mean I say that in the most

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Speaker 1: Why do you do the paperwork?

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 5: I do have a feeling though, when Aaron and Fiona

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Speaker 5: are you sure you can't do like a little bit

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it sounds like he just wanted the handcuffs.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you don't need a job title for those,

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Speaker 1: No you don't.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll send you a link to get your own

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Speaker 5: eron if you want those. But if you ever want

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Speaker 5: always email the show. We'll try and help you through

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Speaker 5: whatever awkward personal family situation you're dealing with.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, misunderstanding.

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Speaker 5: Either way, we're there for you. Just find us online

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Speaker 5: at Brook and Jeffrey