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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Bhie, Hello, how are you? I am okay? I had

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Speaker 2: to be good good? Oh my gosh, high aging backwards?

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Speaker 2: What the heck? God?

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Speaker 3: I wish I had a filter for every day?

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah, I don't have one now.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how to do it on this zoom thing.

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Speaker 2: But what else? What are you gonna do? I'll just

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Speaker 2: move quickly and it'll that's how you really look. This

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Speaker 2: is so unfair.

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Speaker 1: You're very cute. You look great. Oh my gosh, thank you.

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Speaker 3: When is the last time I saw you? Were we like?

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Speaker 3: We were obviously not of drinking age yet.

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Speaker 1: So I believe Tell me if this is some memory

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Speaker 1: I create in my brain that I was with you guys,

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Speaker 1: with my dad.

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Speaker 2: Something was happening and you were pregnant. Could this be it? God,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: If I me.

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Speaker 2: And my dad, why would I be there? Though I

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Speaker 2: can see it right now we're at somebody's house.

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Speaker 3: God, I don't I'm trying to remember if I was

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Speaker 3: pregnant and I saw you and your dad. I can't remember.

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about how amazing your dad is. By the way,

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Speaker 3: was I know I loved him?

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Speaker 2: So much.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. So I was trying to like go

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Speaker 1: back in my memory. It's so bizarre to grow up.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I grew up literally thinking of you.

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Speaker 2: As like the idyllic big sister. And we're only seven

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Speaker 2: years apart. I know it's.

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Speaker 1: Gonna say your age whatever. Everyone can, you can. I

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Speaker 1: don't care either, fifty nine. I'm fifty two. But in

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Speaker 1: my mind, like I just always looked up to you

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Speaker 1: like I had a younger brother.

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Speaker 2: I didn't have a big sister. I was just like you,

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Speaker 2: and it was the same age. I know, it just

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Speaker 2: when I was little.

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Speaker 3: It just seems I know, when you book, but when

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Speaker 3: we're young like that, it seems so you know, five

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Speaker 3: years seems like a delta. Ten years seems well it's

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Speaker 3: another generation.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, exactly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So, oh my goodness, I get it.

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Speaker 2: So I was sorry, I'm tm I, but we'll catch

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Speaker 2: up fast. I was sitting on the toilet this morning.

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Speaker 2: It was just every one too.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, but I have all my creative like thoughts

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Speaker 1: and a lot of floodback memories come on my toilet.

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Speaker 1: So grateful for my toilet, my throne. And I was

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Speaker 1: sitting there and I was like, wait, wait, wait, Love

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Speaker 1: Boat was not the first show you did for my dad?

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Speaker 3: You know, I did?

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Speaker 2: I did?

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Speaker 3: That was my first one.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know.

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Speaker 3: It was such a sweet little show. I loved it

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Speaker 3: so much.

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Speaker 1: I want to go, how how does one view something

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Speaker 1: like that? You would think I would have the library

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Speaker 1: because it's my father.

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Speaker 2: I do not. I would wonder that myself, but I

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Speaker 2: think it might.

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Speaker 3: You know, I've never googled it, but I would imagine

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Speaker 3: it has to be out there somewhere in the utubes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I've never knew either, but

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Speaker 3: that's my next assignment. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: When I'm on the toilet, perfect, Oh good. We should

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Speaker 2: text each other and see what happens this Wait.

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Speaker 3: I always have my phone in the toilet. You never

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Speaker 3: know what could happen when I might need it.

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Speaker 1: Right, I talked to my chat GPT and create lots

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Speaker 1: of projects on the toilet.

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Speaker 2: I love that. I love that idea.

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Speaker 3: I was just chat gpting what should I put in

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Speaker 3: wedding gift baskets for my son who's getting married in

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Speaker 3: Costa Rica. Literally before I was on the phone with you.

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Speaker 1: Your your kids are gorgeous. Sorry, I've gone down the

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Speaker 1: rabbit hole on your Instagram, and.

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Speaker 3: Oh, thank you. They are they're they're good looking kids.

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Speaker 3: So I'm I didn't keep any of the husbands, but

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Speaker 3: I did keep the kids. May I quote that, you

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Speaker 3: absolutely can't. You can also quote what my grandmother used

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Speaker 3: to say, which is that because I'm on my third marriage,

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Speaker 3: but I finally got it right third times a time,

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Speaker 3: my grandmother for me twice.

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Speaker 2: Of course.

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Speaker 3: Well, my grandmother always said that marriages are like pancakes.

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Speaker 3: You have to throw the first one out.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Wait, and she did, literally literally she did. She did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I come by.

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Speaker 2: You never go right the first time.

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Speaker 3: God, I'm not the person I was in my twenties.

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Speaker 3: I mean, well, my first marriage was such a crazy thing.

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Speaker 2: Though. God, I don't even I've ever talked about this.

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Speaker 2: But you were married young public.

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Speaker 3: No, I wasn't. But I was married at twenty eight.

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Speaker 3: But I was a very young twenty eight because I

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Speaker 3: was working for your father and I never got to date,

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Speaker 3: have time to date. I was very sheltered. This guy

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Speaker 3: was I can talk about him now because he's no

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Speaker 3: longer on this planet. But which had nothing to do

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Speaker 3: he had a gold mine. And why wouldn't I believe him?

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Speaker 3: Because I worked for your father and that group of

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Speaker 3: people that seemed perfectly normal. Robert Wagner would drive to

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Speaker 3: work driving the ex Caliber car. You know, I mean

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Speaker 3: it was.

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Speaker 2: Oh those were the days.

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Speaker 3: Those were the days. I know, I know.

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Speaker 1: So he said he had a gold mine, yes, really,

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Speaker 1: not like mining, like literally like he was that.

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Speaker 3: He had invested in Africa, in a plot of land

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Speaker 1: So, yes, in Africa, okay, yeah, And you were like, okay, great, yes,

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Speaker 1: I want.

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Speaker 2: To leave you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know, but you know, what are you going

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Speaker 3: to do? I got a beautiful kid out of it.

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Speaker 3: I would do the whole thing again to get my AE.

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Speaker 3: So and now he's getting.

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Speaker 1: Married, congratulations, thank you, thank you. Oh my gosh, your

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Speaker 1: babies eighteen, seventeen, fourteen, thirteen, and eight.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you're not going to be an empty nester

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Speaker 3: anytime soon?

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Speaker 2: Oh God, I hope not.

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Speaker 1: It's so interesting because I feel like we have such

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Speaker 1: that traditional stigmatism of like they turn eighteen, they leave

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Speaker 1: the time. Oh you're eighteen, now, when are you moving out?

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Speaker 1: And I said, whoha, no.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, wait wait.

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Speaker 1: There's there's a lot of cultures and families where the

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Speaker 1: kids stay in the family until marriage, like you don't.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like that, you know, I'm like.

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Speaker 1: Stay if you want to stay, don't feel the pressure

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Speaker 1: like you're eighteen you have to get an apartment, a job, move.

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Speaker 1: I encourage you to follow your passions and I want

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Speaker 1: you to work and be successful and do all that.

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Speaker 2: But there's no timeline anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, old fashion, And I agree with you. And it's

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Speaker 3: funny because when my I would have had them live

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Speaker 3: my older one, when when the pandemic happened, moved back in.

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Speaker 3: So we had my husband's two sons who were older,

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Speaker 3: the house, and I was just the best thing ever.

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Speaker 3: It's just the best thing ever. Football season would happen,

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Speaker 3: and my husband's a former NFL player, and so all

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Speaker 3: the boys would be sitting there watching football, and I'd

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Speaker 3: be in the kitchen cooking, and it was just like

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Speaker 3: I love this more than anything else.

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Speaker 2: It's the best now it's in my dream.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's now they're both not the football part.

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Speaker 3: I don't like that part. I mean it's funny.

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Speaker 2: Is he okay with that?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean I'll I'll watch it. But here's

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Speaker 3: what happened is they all are playing fantasy football now.

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Speaker 2: So it's not like.

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Speaker 3: In the old days where you root for one team

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Speaker 3: and then everybody's like whoo, it's your rooting for one

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Speaker 3: So I think the only thing I can do because

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Speaker 3: in law from my husband's son just decided to.

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Speaker 2: Ooh, you just lost me. Wow, that was a lot.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: I don't well.

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Speaker 3: My husband's eldest son is married to a goal my

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Speaker 3: son is about to be married. Both of those women

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Speaker 3: have now shamed me because they both are doing fantasy

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Speaker 3: football with their husbands or fiancees. And now I'm like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, crap, I suppose I should probably get into fantasy football,

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Speaker 2: so I can, you know, have something to talk about.

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Speaker 1: I love that I know nothing about fantasy football of

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Speaker 1: guy friends that play, and I'm just like I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know anything about it either, but you know,

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Speaker 3: and I'm only doing it so that I can be

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Speaker 3: in the conversation when they start talking about their players,

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Speaker 3: you know, who's on the bench, all the stuff that

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Speaker 3: I'm like, but can you.

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Speaker 2: Still cook when people are doing fantasy football?

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Speaker 1: That's all I care about, Like, yes, you can still

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Speaker 1: have like a time together. Absolutely, absolutely, What are they

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Speaker 1: like this and then you can still yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well they just watch the screen and then they

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Speaker 3: watch their phone, and you know, they just that. There's

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Speaker 3: a something called I know this, We're going down a

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Speaker 3: rab hole. That's you're never going to use it again.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 3: There's something called red zone.

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Speaker 2: I like this shit. Okay, go on, okay, good.

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Speaker 3: It's something called red zone. And red zone is where

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Speaker 3: they's it's everything that happens right before the goal line

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Speaker 3: in football, and they call that box the red zone.

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Speaker 2: It's a show.

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Speaker 3: And they do a quad screen so you have like

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Speaker 3: four games playing at the same time so that you

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Speaker 3: could act actually see what your players are doing and

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Speaker 3: how they're scoring.

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Speaker 2: It's I mean, it's a huge thing.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, can we create a version? Sorry, I like ideas.

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Speaker 1: I am my father's daughter. Could we create a version

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Speaker 1: of this with something that actually interests us?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Do we want to do it about the housewives? Do

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Speaker 3: we want to do it? You know how many times

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Speaker 3: somebody's going to flip a table? Oh oh, do we

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Speaker 3: want to do it about HGTV or Food Network?

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Speaker 2: I mean, oh I love food? I do too, You

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Speaker 2: do too? Okay, my love language sameh.

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Speaker 3: My cook all the time.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: And that fast fashion that's happening now, that fast fashion.

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Speaker 1: I sage myself the other day I said the TikTok

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Speaker 1: and my brother who's only five years younger than me,

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Speaker 1: he goes, whoa, he's got old real fast.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but you didn't talk about the Facebook, so you're

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Speaker 2: okay the way? Yeah, just getting I'm remember my Space,

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Speaker 2: Oh so so long ago, so very very long ago,

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Speaker 2: I just love animals.

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00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 1: But it was a great excuse at the time to

444
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: tell my then husband, I'm sorry, I have to get

445
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: this dog to protect the flock.

446
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 3: Yes, from the coyotes.

447
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,199
Speaker 2: Yes, I know. I guess it was the first to

448
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,919
Speaker 2: kill the chicken. Oh no, no, oh, sweet baby.

449
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:19,439
Speaker 3: Well did he did he go to remedial school or

450
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 3: did she go to remedial garden?

451
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 1: It was like no, and it was like it was

452
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 1: a game, and in all honesty, I think perhaps she

453
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 1: was trying to protect the chicken. I'm because she grabbed

454
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 1: the chicken and threw it down a hole.

455
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 2: And so she didn't bite it. The chicken had a

456
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Speaker 2: heart attack.

457
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: Oh but I was like, Okay, in some weird way,

458
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 1: perhaps she thought I gotta save the chicken and throw it.

459
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, Oh I want I got to see you.

460
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: Look at this.

461
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 3: Look at him? Look at him? Do you see him?

462
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: Buddy, you're in trouble. You come lay down right here.

463
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 2: Oh no, see, well he's smallish. Oh no, he's a

464
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 2: big boy.

465
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 3: He's taller than me on his hind lips.

466
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 2: No, no, not at all.

467
00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 3: You know boys in size you know.

468
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: Tell me about it. I know, I know.

469
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 3: No, he's a you go lay down, mister, you're not

470
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 3: going out. I'm sorry, I'm really sorry.

471
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 2: Oh they are so beautiful. They are. I mean, we're

472
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 2: going to try it again and get another one. Oh

473
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 2: you must.

474
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 3: I'll tell you who who to find, because there's so

475
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,480
Speaker 3: many well, there's so many rescues.

476
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 2: Yes, race nearing knees.

477
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 3: That people I don't know how where it is in

478
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 3: their brain that they don't connect thinking this is going

479
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 3: to be a big dog. If you google what a

480
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 3: great pyode is is, you'll understand they're the size of

481
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 3: a bus literally. Yes, yes, you know those big buses

482
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 3: in LA that have like the accordion thing in the middle. Now,

483
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 3: like when they turn a corner, there's like an accordion. Yes, yet,

484
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 3: well that's I honestly feel that's like this dog.

485
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 2: Yes, my boy.

486
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,359
Speaker 1: So do you feel like that's why people get them

487
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: and then just discard.

488
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it breaks my heart. So he's going

489
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 3: to get a sister at some point, so we will

490
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 3: find him a sister, and you know, it'll probably be

491
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 3: a sister who that's what happened. I would have forty

492
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:26,439
Speaker 3: of them if I could, but I would like to

493
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,120
Speaker 3: have I wanted to do some beekeeping. My husband said,

494
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 3: no beekeeping.

495
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 2: I've always wanted to do that. I know.

496
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 3: I would very much like to have a donkey. I

497
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 3: would very much like to have a miniature Highland cow.

498
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:41,400
Speaker 2: Me too.

499
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 3: My husband just I keep sending him these pictures and saying,

500
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 3: you know, relationship goals, but it's you know, it seems

501
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 3: silly that we have the guard dog for these beautiful

502
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 3: animals and he doesn't get to guard anybody but the

503
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 3: two of us.

504
00:25:55,680 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: So, oh my goodness. Well hmm, but do you consider chickens?

505
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: They really are that don't listen to my story.

506
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 3: I would love chickens. I would love it.

507
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: You could tell your husband this because I've had many

508
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: incarnations of chickens. They are super easy and grete pets.

509
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: I find them to be super smart. And you can

510
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: make a mobile coop. You could do something that's not

511
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: It doesn't have.

512
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 3: To we have the space for it. It's about the

513
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 3: I would like to be a gentleman chicken farmer where

514
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 3: I'm not the one who's cleaning out the stalls. So

515
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 3: that I thought, well, what if I just put out

516
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,439
Speaker 3: a huge sheet of plastic, so all I'd have to

517
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 3: do every time I clean it is just pick it

518
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 3: up and throw it at I don't want to do

519
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 3: the dirty part. This is what it is. I'd like

520
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 3: to go in and collect the eggs.

521
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 2: That is wild. So the old fashioned term I forgot

522
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:53,120
Speaker 2: about this is.

523
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:59,400
Speaker 3: A gentleman farmer. Yes, this is the life I'm looking for.

524
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 3: I'd like a ranch where I don't muck out the

525
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 3: stalls of the horses. I would like.

526
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I don't want to do any of that.

527
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: No pun intended, every pun intended as well.

528
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 3: Yes, And if we're going to get into that, I'd

529
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 3: like a llama. I fantasize about having some sheep that

530
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 3: someone takes the wool off, and I'm sitting on my

531
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 3: loom knitting sweaters for Christmas presents. But none of that

532
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 3: is going to be a reality in my life.

533
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: Unfortunate.

534
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: I love that you just said that, because everything you

535
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: are saying is a dream of mine. But then I

536
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 1: have to reality check and be like, never going to happen.

537
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 2: But it's a great. Yeah, this is so wild.

538
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 1: To kind of ish grow up with someone and then

539
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: reconnect all these years later and be like, we have

540
00:27:57,320 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 1: so much in commonness about what blowing my mind?

541
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 3: We should do a cooking show together.

542
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,160
Speaker 2: Oh I would love to, Yes, cooking.

543
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 3: So do I Ian. I don't mind because the rule

544
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 3: in the house is whoever cooks, either the kids or

545
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 3: if they're not around, my husband will do the dishes.

546
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 3: And that's the rule. When they were you tell my

547
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 3: kids this, it's you know, it's here's what happens. It's

548
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 3: very hard to get them started. But once they realize

549
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 3: that's the answer. Then the fun part is watching them

550
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 3: negotiate it at the table, going, well, I'll do I

551
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 3: don't want to do tonight, but if you do mine tonight,

552
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 3: I'll do yours the next two times. And that's kind

553
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,160
Speaker 3: of the fun part. But it's it's hard to get

554
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 3: them to start. But once you get them into the habit,

555
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 3: you know, it's like any habit, it takes what is

556
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 3: it seven days to establish a habit or whatever it is.

557
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 2: The rule is is that true? I think so.

558
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 3: I don't know. Let's ask Google. She seems to have

559
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 3: all the answers.

560
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I know, like when you're like on social

561
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,920
Speaker 1: or something, it takes someone three times, or when you're

562
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: telling someone something three times to really process in their brain.

563
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:15,880
Speaker 3: But that is unless you're talking to me about math,

564
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 3: and then I will never get it.

565
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 2: Never. I'm not ashamed to say my second grader, I'm out.

566
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 2: I can't do it. But they also do these new

567
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 2: bubble like square things and like.

568
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 3: The new math.

569
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 2: Oh, oh yeah, you are lucky you got to second grade.

570
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 2: Oh I was out at first grade.

571
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: Fine, I was out of kindergarten. I I can't lie

572
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 1: to you.

573
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 2: Oh this is great. I love this friendship. Okay, yeah, no,

574
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:42,320
Speaker 2: no, no no.

575
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: But it's also a little bit like I'm unwilling to

576
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: learn and if I say I'm out, oh you know,

577
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: I can't do that, and I one of the other.

578
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 2: Kids will have to.

579
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: But I literally look at this new math now that

580
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 1: the second graders have, which is very different even then.

581
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm sure when your kids were young. Yeah, like it's

582
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: some my older kids, it's different. It's like this new

583
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: stuff and I just watch my little bit older kids

584
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: trying to help the eight year old and I sit

585
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: there on my mom chat drinking wine and we're all like,

586
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 1: what is going on and not doing this, and they're like,

587
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: we're going to call the school and just say we're

588
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: working moms, we can't do this.

589
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 2: And we're all like l lol, cheers, drink wine.

590
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 3: It's like, well, the homework situation is insane because it's

591
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 3: our homework. And this is the part that I didn't

592
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 3: sign up for.

593
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 2: There's so many things in life I didn't sign up for.

594
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: But okay, yes, yeah, I heard a word.

595
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 2: Well this is a discussion.

596
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: The other day again, it's always the homework conversation, and

597
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: a mom at school was like I heard Kim Kardashian

598
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: is trying.

599
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: To get a law passed about homework. I was like, well,

600
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 2: if anyone can do it, it's hers.

601
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 3: So yeah, well I would welcome that, even though mine

602
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 3: are out now. I was lucky because with my older

603
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 3: one had a lot of learning differences, so and he

604
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 3: thinks exactly like I do.

605
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: So for him, you know, it was tutors and tutors

606
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 2: and hours and all of that. With my younger one,

607
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 2: he picks everything up on the first bounce.

608
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,719
Speaker 3: Thank god, because as I got older, I thought, oh,

609
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 3: if I have a kid ten years later, I'm going

610
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 3: to have so much more patience. No, I'm just ten

611
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 3: years more tired. Yes, yes, and no patience. So thank

612
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 3: oh god. He never needed help with homework ever.

613
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 2: Wow.

614
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, so thank god for that.

615
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: Life balanced it out there for you. Yeah, a little

616
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: bit of a way. But your kids will have kids,

617
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 1: and we don't want them to have to go through it.

618
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: And you're right, and as working parents, it's like we

619
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 1: have so much on our plate and I do feel like,

620
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: you know, that's their job. They're there eight hours a day,

621
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: Like when they come home, I want them to be

622
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: able to have family time and even the second grader

623
00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: is getting like four pages of homework.

624
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 2: And I'm like, what the nights, and like, what are you.

625
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 3: Doing during the day, what's happening during the day. And

626
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 3: I really hate the idea that my older son never

627
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 3: had like a finance class. They like they didn't teach

628
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 3: life skills like that, which, oh honey, you are preaching

629
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 3: to the choir. My younger one had it. He went

630
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 3: to Notre Dame High School in LA and they did

631
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 3: have that class where they taught him how to balance

632
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 3: a checkbook. They taught him about stocks and about all

633
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 3: of those things.

634
00:32:55,560 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 2: I was like, where was this, I mean, where was

635
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 2: this at Buckley exactly? It was not like.

636
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 3: I don't get it. And also why don't they have

637
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 3: hall mech classes like cooking classes and all that stuff.

638
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 3: I know, I loved that. I mean I taught my

639
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 3: boys to cook, and I'm sure you taught your kids

640
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 3: to cook too. We yeah, we all cooked together every

641
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 3: single day.

642
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: But it's the checkbook one is a hard one because

643
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 1: and I don't I don't know how it was for you.

644
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: But growing up in you know, on screen in the

645
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: Hollywood family, like loved my mom and dad, they did

646
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: not teach me all right, and my dad maybe, you know,

647
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 1: he was probably I don't think he did it himself,

648
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: you know, like my mom was always the finance person

649
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: and she's very good at it, and he, you know,

650
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: he was the creative and he was working and he

651
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 1: hadn't handled that stuff. But for some reason, you know,

652
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: they probably thought my dad really thought she'll be fine,

653
00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:01,720
Speaker 1: she'll be fine, Like I didn't. I I like moved

654
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: on on my own, not knowing how to write a check.

655
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 2: You've never been to.

656
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: A bank, And I'm like, wait, So it's uncomfortable at

657
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:15,879
Speaker 1: even fifty two to start because my brain doesn't think

658
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: that way to teach my kids. So they're kind of

659
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 1: thing on the go seeing me do it all now,

660
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, I pray for you.

661
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's it's and I'm not good at it.

662
00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 3: So thank god I have a husband who is good

663
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 3: at it. And it's so different for you and I

664
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 3: than it is for our kids because there's everything's on

665
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 3: your phone now. You don't have to balance a check book.

666
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 2: All you have to do is look at your phone.

667
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 3: I mean, they're very lucky in that way, but it

668
00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 3: was really hard for us.

669
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 2: I mean, did you have a business manager always I did.

670
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 3: I had a really good one and then I had

671
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:56,400
Speaker 3: a really bad one. The second one was a bad one.

672
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: But because of that, because people look at me all

673
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: the time, like maybe my perception is they're like, are

674
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: you dumb? Like how do you not know these things?

675
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: And I'm like, we had somebody to do it, someone

676
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 1: was always doing it. And you know, when you're an actor,

677
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: especially a young actor, it's just always taken care of,

678
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: so you don't learn to do it. You know, we're

679
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: learning lines. We're not learning how to balance a checkbook

680
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: and bank account and what to pay and what to invest.

681
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 2: In and all of those things.

682
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, all of that stuff now, of course not And

683
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 3: you know there's a lot of Charlotte's out there that well,

684
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 3: I don't know if you.

685
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: Ever got taken or whether any time did, but I

686
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: got to know I've taken so many kindness manager. It

687
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 1: was like my finances went up and down, up and down,

688
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: and at the end of the day, you know, when

689
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: people would be like, why are you in this position?

690
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 2: Or what happened with tax is?

691
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: You know, it's my name on there, so I guess

692
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: I got to take responsibility. But what I want to

693
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: explain to them, is nothing came to my house mail like,

694
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 1: it all went to my business manager.

695
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,959
Speaker 2: It all here. They that was their job.

696
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 1: They got paid from what I made to handle all that,

697
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 1: and when they didn't and then it went missing, otherwise

698
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: that's on them. But people don't understand that. So then

699
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 1: I just you know, I don't sell anyone nowt And

700
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: I just go.

701
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah.

702
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 3: I mean the bottom line is, you're right, the buck

703
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 3: stops here.

704
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, but now we know better. And I'm just gonna say,

705
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like we know better. Oh my gosh,

706
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 2: so do I, so do I? But yeah, yeah, we

707
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 2: do have like a first memory of my.

708
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 3: Dad, you know, I you know what I just remember

709
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 3: about your dad? Your dad is was just here's my

710
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:54,839
Speaker 3: favorite memory about your dada.

711
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,720
Speaker 2: Okay, this is my favorite memory.

712
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 3: So when I was doing the sho Show and we

713
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 3: would give out Christmas gifts and whatever to everybody, I mean,

714
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 3: your dad was Aaron Spelling. What do you give the

715
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 3: man that has everything? It's very hard to give him something.

716
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,479
Speaker 3: So what we would do is do what was.

717
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 2: Coming from our hearts. My mom and I would bake.

718
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 3: And so she sewed this huge Christmas stocking. It was

719
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 3: as tall as I was, and we just filled.

720
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 2: It with homemade cookies and banana breads and this, that

721
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 2: and the other thing, and we brought it to the office.

722
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,359
Speaker 3: And Renee was in the front of the office. And

723
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 3: your dad could my dad, yes, who adored.

724
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 2: Aunt Renee for life, because she was always.

725
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, loved loved Renee. And he was there with

726
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 3: his pipe and brought in the gift, and he could

727
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 3: not have been more gracious and lovely, like he'd never

728
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,880
Speaker 3: seen anything like this, like it was the most precious

729
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 3: thing ever. And so we would always give sweets. And

730
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 3: then I read when he was young. So what I

731
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 3: under the impression of, and you'll have to tell me

732
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 3: if this is true, is that when he was young,

733
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 3: they didn't have a lot of money, and they lived

734
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,399
Speaker 3: above a bakery, and at the end of the day

735
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 3: the baker would feel badly for them and bring up

736
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 3: all of the baked goods. So he always associated those

737
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 3: kinds of things with being poor, and he didn't like sweets.

738
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 3: Don't know if that's true.

739
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 2: But I can answer all of this for you.

740
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 3: Oh good, But I love the story because he was

741
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 3: so gracious and never let that come into his thank

742
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 3: you so when he was receiving those things from us.

743
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: So for some reason, I don't remember this part, but

744
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: you could be right, and it's in his book. I'm

745
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: sure about living above the Bakery, Yeah, I know.

746
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 2: I'm wonder if that parts here.

747
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: I know they grew up in Browner Street, like literally,

748
00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: there were like five kids. They lived in one bedroom.

749
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: They didn't have shoes, like it was that they were

750
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 1: that poor. Yeah, and he would go and when at

751
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: the end of the day, when they would throw it out,

752
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: they would take the bread that was thrown out or

753
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:16,280
Speaker 1: left over the next day and take it home and

754
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: or perhaps the baker at some point.

755
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 2: Gave it to him. My dad was also a great storyteller, so.

756
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: You know, it sounds great to be like we would

757
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: climb in the trash and get it, but they're probably

758
00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 1: a little bit of both stories to that. And they

759
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 1: would bring it home and that would be the bread

760
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 1: they would all split and do for like the week,

761
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: for like all seven of them. But he did love sweets.

762
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 1: My dad actually loved sweets more than food. Yes, yes,

763
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,840
Speaker 1: that's interesting. Yes, I'm trying to think. Did he like

764
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: bake stuff? Yeah, I mean he had every morning, he

765
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: had his tea and his toast.

766
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 2: That's how he started his day.

767
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, but he loved chocolate, a good ice

768
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 1: cream bar. My mom used to have to negotiate with

769
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:03,720
Speaker 1: him and be like, honey, if you.

770
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 2: Eat your meal like a kid, like here's.

771
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 1: A genius man, that's like ruling the networks. And at

772
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: dinner time, you know, once he got home, she you know,

773
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 1: she took over and she was really good with him,

774
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: and you know she'd be like, Okay, if you eat

775
00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: your meal, you will get and he would love a

776
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 1: Nestley Ice chocolate ice cream bar.

777
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 2: And he would I love that.

778
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 3: Well. I do remember in his office he had all

779
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 3: of those little biscuit jars full of candy.

780
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 2: I do remember that.

781
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, dad might have been my mom thing because

782
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: she had that.

783
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: That was at our house. Oh okay as well, Yeah.

784
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 1: Always said can't My friends would come over in their

785
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: late teens and lose their minds because my mom would

786
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: and this is back you know, back in the day.

787
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 1: She would have jars out on every table in the

788
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: house filled with candy. You know, she would have big

789
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: cigarette holders filled with cigarettes.

790
00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 3: Yes, I remember.

791
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 2: That, Okay, yep.

792
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 1: And and then you would like open the refrigerator and

793
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: there'd be every soda and everything, and my friends.

794
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 2: Would be like what. And it was so weird because

795
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 2: I grew up like that.

796
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 1: I never like in my teens, I never like, I

797
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:15,720
Speaker 1: never was eating the candy.

798
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 2: I never smoked the cigarettes. I was like, you know,

799
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 2: I never was.

800
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:20,720
Speaker 1: My friends would come over and hide in the pantry

801
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: like chugging like Coca cola, and I'd.

802
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 3: Be like, I still have this little lilask cigarette holder.

803
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 3: It's like a little round because I wanted to be

804
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 3: very Your mother was just so glamorous and fabulous, so

805
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 3: I remember having those that it's filled with makeup brushes

806
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:41,399
Speaker 3: now because I'm not a smoker, But yes, yes, your

807
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,919
Speaker 3: mother left such an impression on me. She did when

808
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 3: she had her party company. She did my sweet sixteen invitations.

809
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 2: What yes, oh in spelling Laren spelling.

810
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,680
Speaker 1: She had she had a store in Beverly Hills on

811
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:02,440
Speaker 1: Kemp Drive, and then she litterally, I mean she she

812
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 1: was behind my dad like planning all of his company parties.

813
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 2: All but sure he did it all and did it.

814
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,879
Speaker 1: Herself like she took great pride in that. But yes,

815
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 1: they did invitations. Oh my gosh, they did your sweet sixteen?

816
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 2: They did, they did it. I know, I know. Oh

817
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 2: my gosh, do you have a copy.

818
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 3: Of one somewhere? Uh I got to look and see.

819
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 2: Uh my mom might have some of that stuff. Did

820
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 2: invitation to my sweet sixteen too?

821
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 3: They were lavender and and cream. That's what I yeah,

822
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 3: that's what I remember. And the party was at it

823
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 3: was called the Malibu Beach Club, but there was no

824
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 3: beach around. It was in the Malibu Hills. I can't remember.

825
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 3: I think there's like.

826
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 2: A winery there now, Okay, you know it's in the mountains.

827
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 2: Is it where Klamigo's Ranches?

828
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 3: No? Maybe maybe I can't remember. I have to ask

829
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 3: my mom. But yeah, your dad and your mom were there.

830
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, I know, I know. It was so cute.

831
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 2: I remember being a little kid and they had a party.

832
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 3: It was one of their big, fabulous parties.

833
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 2: And it was downtown La. I remember that.

834
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 3: And your mom let me put her her engagement ring on,

835
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 3: or her wedding ring, the.

836
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: Big one, the big one, the one when you put

837
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:27,919
Speaker 1: it on, you're like your hand drawn.

838
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, And she let me put it on and

839
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 3: I'm running around this party room and my mother is apoplectic.

840
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 3: She's losing her shit because she's like, come back here,

841
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 3: come back here.

842
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 2: Imagine I mean that thing.

843
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't her original engagement ring because my

844
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 1: dad was still building his career, but he kept updating

845
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 1: it in the one I think you're referring to you.

846
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 2: Oh god, I want to know the carrot size.

847
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,280
Speaker 3: It was like thirty nine carrots.

848
00:43:58,680 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 2: Here you go.

849
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 3: I remember he gave it to her in a glass

850
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 3: of champagne.

851
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 1: Whoa, I just remember something I didn't remember. In a

852
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: glass of chic.

853
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 2: She is very very Oh my god, very chic.

854
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh my goodness, you were running around.

855
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 2: That is so classic.

856
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 1: But like I love that story because you know, I

857
00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: think my parents people perceived them as like they were

858
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 1: really fun and really like It's hard to explain because

859
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: I think from the outside they just see the wealth

860
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 1: and they see, you know, what was it like? But yeah,

861
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: it was a crazy wealth, but it was always very

862
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 1: family oriented.

863
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 3: Yes, very much. Your parents were absolute family people that

864
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 3: I that I remember. That's what That's what I remember.

865
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,439
Speaker 3: And now doesn't it make more sense that I would

866
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 3: believe somebody had a gold mine. When we're talking about

867
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 3: your mom thirty nine diamond served to her in a

868
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,800
Speaker 3: glass of champagne. I mean, it's just it's that's the

869
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 3: way I was back then.

870
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, did you I'm gonna say, did you

871
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 1: ever of course you did go to Chasin's.

872
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that was Oh I used to fall asleep

873
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 3: on the Banquettes game. Yeah, we would have been if

874
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 3: we'd been there together, we probably would have been under

875
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 3: the table playing with barbies or something.

876
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, for sure. I used to be fascinated

877
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: as a kid going into that because I mean then,

878
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 1: I'm not sure what people do now, but like, depending

879
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: on which parent you go to the bathroom with, little

880
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:43,919
Speaker 1: girls were allowed to go, is it's gonna sound weird

881
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 1: with their dad, and you know, little boys like go

882
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: with their mom, like you know whatever. But I remember

883
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: going with my head to go to the bathroom and

884
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 1: going into the rest of the male restroom and with

885
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 1: my dad and I just like the Burt Reynolds, Did

886
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 1: you ever go in there?

887
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 2: No?

888
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,879
Speaker 3: But are you talking about the big poster or on.

889
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 2: The shag rug and like all his hair out a coverard.

890
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:12,960
Speaker 1: But it was like in the mail restroom. And then

891
00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: that's where I first at Chasin saw a urinal and

892
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 1: I was like, what is that? I mean, it was

893
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 1: a high end one. They had like you know, the

894
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 1: ice cubes.

895
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 3: Right right, not the urinal cake.

896
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god, a urinal cake. I've only seen that

897
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 2: on TV.

898
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,479
Speaker 1: Like the place that my parents took me had only

899
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 1: the fine ice and they.

900
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 2: Would always change it out. It would be our generation's

901
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 2: form of like what is the best ice out there? Oh?

902
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 2: All the kids love the Chick fil at ice? You

903
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 2: know this.

904
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 1: It's like a thing's had, like the perfect cubes. It

905
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 1: was like just the right side. Am I talking about

906
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 1: this right now? I'm so because we started talking about bathrooms.

907
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, we did? I know? Okay, Okay, it.

908
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 3: All goes back to the boys.

909
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 2: I look for signs, Daly and like everything's meant to be. Okay,

910
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 2: this is just go with it.

911
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 1: Going back to the gifts and the gift that you

912
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 1: and your mom gave my dad. I got to tell

913
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: you how much special gifts meant from his actors so on.

914
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: So on Christmas Day it was one of his favorite things.

915
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: My mom shopped extensively so we would have a huge

916
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 1: Christmas tree and we would have our piles and my

917
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 1: dad was like, not comfortable with gifts, and he was like,

918
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 1: I don't need anything, you know. He wanted us to

919
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 1: enjoy and he loved watching us open everything. But the

920
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 1: one thing he really enjoyed is Renee would pack up

921
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,439
Speaker 1: any of his actors' gifts that were sent to him

922
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: and as a family we opened those together.

923
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,760
Speaker 2: Oh I love that. I'm sure I ate your big goods.

924
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:57,880
Speaker 1: Yes, and he it was like, oh my god. You

925
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 1: could just see the joy and how proud he was.

926
00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: And he didn't want things he loved. He would read

927
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 1: the handwritten cards out loud, the handmade gifts he would

928
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:12,840
Speaker 1: talk about extensively, and that brought him joy. He didn't

929
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: want anything fancy, he didn't want my mom to buy

930
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 1: him anything.

931
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:18,359
Speaker 2: It was just like he loved it.

932
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 3: I loved that stuff.

933
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 2: Really special to him. You were really special to him.

934
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 3: Well, he was extremely special to me. I was very

935
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 3: lucky that that was my foray into the business that

936
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 3: we call show. Very lucky because it could have been

937
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 3: a lot of people that were a lot different than

938
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:42,880
Speaker 3: your dad was, I understand. Yeah, So I was extremely lucky.

939
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I'm so excited to reconnect.

940
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 2: Can we talk about the love Boat podcast? Yes you can,

941
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 2: just started.

942
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 3: We have to have you on, will you yep?

943
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 2: Course I was on two episodes. I can do.

944
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 3: I know, I know that God. Actually, yes, yes, we are.

945
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 3: She and I. I did an episode of Celebrity Wife

946
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 3: Swap and we swapped and kind of got reconnected.

947
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 2: Now and I'm finding and watching tonight.

948
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 3: Okay, well we kind of we reconnected and became I

949
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 3: mean I would go over to her house and she

950
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 3: would make paea in her backyard in the huge piea oven.

951
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 3: But it's not an oven that her father built in

952
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 3: her house in Beverly Hills.

953
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness you Okay, So here's my favorite Charles story.

954
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 3: She had Charol Love's animals, and she's one of the

955
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:56,280
Speaker 3: She's almost solely responsible for getting bullfighting illegal in Spain

956
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 3: and she's almost single handedly did that. And also people

957
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 3: need to understand she's all this Cuci couci stuff. But

958
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 3: she's one of the brightest people I know. She's the

959
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 3: number three classical flamenco guitarist still to this day in

960
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 3: the world. She practices four hours every day. But anyway,

961
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,040
Speaker 3: so this is my favorite story, so she rescued a

962
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 3: little bully named Manolo. That was the bull's name before

963
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 3: Manolo blonneck.

964
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, this has handed me before. Yeah, no, no, no, yeah.

965
00:50:25,880 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 3: And in Manolo I think, I don't know what it

966
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 3: means in Spanish, but I think it's like, I don't

967
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 3: know if it means bull.

968
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 2: I don't know.

969
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 3: But anyway, she and she had it in her house

970
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 3: in Beverly Hills. This is like on Lexington and is

971
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:43,839
Speaker 3: it Lexington and Canon? What's the big corner house? It's

972
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 3: definitely Lexington and I can't remember. But sunset wait, no,

973
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 3: not Sunset.

974
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:52,640
Speaker 2: Where the all the corner?

975
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, it's it's north of north of that.

976
00:50:56,640 --> 00:50:59,919
Speaker 3: But I think it's like Lexington and Can.

977
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 2: I think. I don't know.

978
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 3: It doesn't matter. It's a house in Beverly Hills.

979
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 1: These are the details don't focus on exactly exactly.

980
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 3: So the bull just kept getting bigger. And one day

981
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 3: somebody did not close the bullpen that they built in

982
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:21,279
Speaker 3: the backyard, and the slider was open, and she was

983
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 3: upstairs singing, and all of a sudden she hears this

984
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 3: clip clop, clip clop, and she has satio floors. Her

985
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 3: house is very Spanish.

986
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 2: What a shock.

987
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 3: And she sees the bulls starting to come up the

988
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:41,239
Speaker 3: stairs because he hears his mama singing. The thing is,

989
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,839
Speaker 3: bulls can climb stairs, but they can't go down them.

990
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 3: So he's halfway up the stairs and her husband Shell,

991
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 3: She's screaming, shell Shell, come help me with me. Now

992
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 3: it's combing up these aves, and all of a sudden

993
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 3: he's pulling on the bowl from behind by the tail,

994
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 3: and she's.

995
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:08,399
Speaker 2: Pushing the bull down the stairs to get the well.

996
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, so this is this is her life like on

997
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 3: the daily. This is how she lives her life. She

998
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,240
Speaker 3: is one of the greatest people ever. Her sister, Carmen

999
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:18,760
Speaker 3: makes all her costumes.

1000
00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:19,680
Speaker 2: Carmen.

1001
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,799
Speaker 3: We went over for paye one night and Carmen had

1002
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 3: a pair of lower rise jeans on but had her

1003
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 3: nylons up at her waist to cover you know. It's

1004
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 3: like a little sort of a skim spank.

1005
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 2: Situation in now. Yes, it is very in So they

1006
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 2: are They're amazing people. They are amazing people.

1007
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 1: I love hearing this story, Oh my gosh, because yeah,

1008
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 1: I mean, I grew up like my dad obviously loved

1009
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,920
Speaker 1: Tarro and I was like Tarro and then I reconnect.

1010
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 1: I did a show in my thirties called So Notorious,

1011
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 1: and it was like a flash like kind of a flashback,

1012
00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 1: but not really. It was like me and I wanted

1013
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 1: Tarrow because one of my dad's faves. And she came

1014
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: and did it and that's a film with her all

1015
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 1: day and I was like, oh my god, as an

1016
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: adult and it was amazing.

1017
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 2: Wait, so she was ahead of her time.

1018
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 1: People get pigs often and then they out go them

1019
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 1: like pet pigs.

1020
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 2: And they're like, oh, I thought they were going to

1021
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 2: stay small. She had a bull. Get a bull?

1022
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, as one does.

1023
00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 2: Drops the horn like what she?

1024
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1025
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,799
Speaker 2: Wait? Will wait? Could we set that up? Can we

1026
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 2: go over and have Paia with her?

1027
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 3: I'm sure we could. I'm going to see her next.

1028
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 2: Week for the podcast. Now, well, I don't know.

1029
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 3: We're gonna We're doing a love boat reunion cruise next week.

1030
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:46,760
Speaker 3: What yes on Princess cruises, So.

1031
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:48,719
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yes, and it would be amazing.

1032
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 3: We're going to try to get her to do it,

1033
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:55,320
Speaker 3: so we'll see, but otherwise I'll talk to her. It

1034
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,160
Speaker 3: would be so fun to set up. I have all

1035
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,359
Speaker 3: this footage. I can send it to you if her

1036
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 3: in the backyard doing paiea and it's you know, she

1037
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 3: doesn't do anything small. She has a big chef's hat

1038
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 3: that she puts on, and.

1039
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 2: God, she's so cute. I can't stand it.

1040
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 3: I can't stand it.

1041
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 2: Is it true that nobody knows her age?

1042
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 3: Well? Yes, but my friend who worked on love Boat

1043
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 3: for Dennis Hammer, I don't know if you remember. Well, uh,

1044
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 3: she actually had to have for passport information. So Elaine

1045
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 3: knows her age. And you know, when she was married

1046
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 3: to Xavier Ku got she had to be older because

1047
00:54:33,560 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 3: she was underage.

1048
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 2: Okay, so that's why it.

1049
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 3: Gets so foggy. And she says in her act, she goes.

1050
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 2: I know all of you, ju Jill, how old I am?

1051
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 3: Always say how old is this beach? That's one of

1052
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 3: the things she says in her show. And I did remember,

1053
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:53,680
Speaker 3: but I can't she got to be in her late seventies.

1054
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 2: I'm going to say, she's, well, I'm not that much older,

1055
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 2: like how No?

1056
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it's like he was having children when we

1057
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 3: were young.

1058
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:12,960
Speaker 2: Yes, and it's her second marriage already. That's my mom

1059
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:16,399
Speaker 2: is eighty four. Your mom's eighty four. My mom's eighty.

1060
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:19,799
Speaker 1: Okay, it's so hard as we get older, it's just

1061
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm still like forever thirty one.

1062
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:24,280
Speaker 2: Like it's like, what same?

1063
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, So you're doing the cruise? When is

1064
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,240
Speaker 1: the cruise happening next week?

1065
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 2: It's happening next week. We will be filming our podcast

1066
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:36,880
Speaker 2: on there as well, Brilliance, which would be super fun.

1067
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 3: And that's you know. I just got back from doing

1068
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 3: an off Broadway play in New York, so I'm looking

1069
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 3: forward to just sitting at home once all this is done.

1070
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 2: No, you're too bad asked to sit at home. Oh

1071
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 2: you're so cute.

1072
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:49,879
Speaker 3: I mean just for like two weeks. I just made

1073
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 3: for two weeks, That's all I mean. Because I just

1074
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 3: got back yesterday from a work trip, and you gotta

1075
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,839
Speaker 3: get Yeah, I know, I know you too. I'm telling

1076
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:00,560
Speaker 3: you we should do a cooking show. It'd be funny

1077
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,280
Speaker 3: as af.

1078
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:04,360
Speaker 2: You can say, rock up the show. I did it.

1079
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:04,879
Speaker 2: Oh I can't.

1080
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 3: Fuck yeah, it would be funny as fuck.

1081
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,880
Speaker 1: So when I read the podcast, it's Fred ted and

1082
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: Jill correct correct?

1083
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:17,120
Speaker 2: What was the decision process there?

1084
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 3: Okay, So what happened was that Fred's son Charlie Randy,

1085
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 3: who is a prolific producer. He is Mindy Kaling's producing partner,

1086
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 3: and he was one of the writers on SNL. He

1087
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:32,239
Speaker 3: went to Harvard like Fred did. He was one of

1088
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:35,360
Speaker 3: the showrunners for the Office. He used to come on

1089
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:37,319
Speaker 3: the cruises with us. And he called his dad one

1090
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 3: day and he's like, you know, why aren't you doing

1091
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 3: a love boat podcast? You guys have all of these

1092
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:48,360
Speaker 3: great stories about these icons and you're not why don't

1093
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,359
Speaker 3: And Fred was like, all right, well you produce it.

1094
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 3: And Charlie said okay.

1095
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 2: So that was it.

1096
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 3: And Fred and Ted and I have been doing a

1097
00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 3: couple of plays together. I mean, it's hilario hilarious that

1098
00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 3: we have been, but we have such a good time

1099
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 3: doing theater together that we were just like, yep, let's

1100
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 3: do it. So that's kind of it.

1101
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: You still can give the reason why your name's last, But.

1102
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 3: Oh, because the two the boys were gonna do it first,

1103
00:57:17,960 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 3: and then they realized they need someone.

1104
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: Fabous, fabulously funny, just you know, they needed somebody for

1105
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: a generation.

1106
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 2: I hear you.

1107
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: You know, I'm going to tell you when I was

1108
00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:35,320
Speaker 1: growing up, I had the biggest crush on Fred Grandy, Like,

1109
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 1: who didn't, Oh really, because he's smart, he's funny.

1110
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 2: I get it. I get that.

1111
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 3: A crush too well, I had a crush when I

1112
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 3: was in my when I was an adult, like my twenties.

1113
00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 2: Okay, when I was a kid, I didn't, but I

1114
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 2: did in my twenties.

1115
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 1: No, like I'd watched from home on Saturday nights and

1116
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 1: be like, I love go for I want to marry Gopher.

1117
00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 2: Like like, I get that.

1118
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 3: Okay, I get it. I totally see that.

1119
00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 2: You know, he was funny and smart and sensitive and lovely.

1120
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 2: I got it. He was great. Oh and Ted is

1121
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 2: so great.

1122
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: I love him, Teddy Bear, he's my teddy Bear. I

1123
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 1: three of you together. I mean, I know you do

1124
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 1: a lot together. But doing a podcast, I think is

1125
00:58:23,160 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 1: brilliant because I think you can blend old and new. Yes,

1126
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 1: because I know a lot of like the older generation

1127
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 1: are like podcasts. I don't know that, but just bringing

1128
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 1: like bringing everything. It's interesting. Our generation, our generation, our

1129
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: kids generation. Thank god for TikTok. And people are like, no,

1130
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:46,280
Speaker 1: not thank god. I'm like no, honestly, because my kids

1131
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 1: are seeing clips of shows that they would never know

1132
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 1: about our shows my dad's shows, Like it's like it's wild,

1133
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 1: it's all becoming in again. So it's like everything that

1134
00:58:58,280 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 1: is old is new again. This nostalgia is never it's like, yeah,

1135
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 1: and we.

1136
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:06,960
Speaker 3: Got our last baby, We got our last interview with

1137
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 3: our last interview with Loretta Switt that she ever did.

1138
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 3: We got that, which is great. But I also want

1139
00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 3: to and I think the guys are on board with this.

1140
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 3: I also want to get I hear all the time

1141
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 3: about people who are current on shows today who were

1142
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,840
Speaker 3: huge Love Boat fans and always wanted to be on

1143
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 3: the show. Snoop Dogg wanted to be on Love Boat,

1144
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:29,959
Speaker 3: Reba McIntire. So we're going to interview those people too.

1145
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 2: That's brilliant.

1146
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 1: Yes, there's this big viral thing going around about guest stars.

1147
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 2: You never knew that mons, didn't you. Of course people

1148
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 2: don't know that you were on the show. I see

1149
00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 2: like huge stars on it that like we're younger than

1150
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 2: I'm just happy to be included.

1151
00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:54,520
Speaker 1: But your own podcast is still continuing, Yeah, yeah, okay, great.

1152
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 2: Yes it will continue. Yes.

1153
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 3: And then I have a different podcast with my bestie.

1154
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 3: It called Empty Nesters, and it's basically about women of

1155
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 3: our age, whose kids are out? And who the hell

1156
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 3: are we now? What do we do with our lives

1157
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 3: at this point? And there's so many things that we

1158
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 3: are all going through. I mean, we all have aging

1159
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 3: parents and now we're becoming the parents of our parents.

1160
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:23,439
Speaker 3: And I don't that's not I don't have a book

1161
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 3: for that.

1162
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 2: What do we do about that?

1163
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 3: And now that the kids are out of the house,

1164
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 3: what happens between the relationship between your partner and you?

1165
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 3: What does that look like? So there's that podcast too

1166
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 3: that we do.

1167
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:40,520
Speaker 2: Yes, No, I know, empty nesters. I think it's great.

1168
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 2: So God, what don't you do math?

1169
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 3: I don't do math, and I don't do toilets.

1170
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 2: I would like to plunge them.

1171
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 3: I don't want to clean them. I don't like it, remember,

1172
01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 3: gentleman farmer.

1173
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 1: Okay, so this has to be done. I get it,

1174
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: like I might of force needed to happen. Yep, it's

1175
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: much better. My ex and I are in a good

1176
01:01:10,760 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 1: place now, that's what. And it's better for the kids,

1177
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: and it's everything is better except I gotta say, and

1178
01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 1: I hate I pride myself on being like you know,

1179
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 1: I can do everything.

1180
01:01:26,000 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 2: And I do.

1181
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: But it's the boys stuff, And I'm sorry, I'm not

1182
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:35,120
Speaker 1: being sexist here. It's the stuff that my ex used

1183
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:37,560
Speaker 1: to do. I do miss that.

1184
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know.

1185
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,720
Speaker 1: And you know, like I'm like, I don't know how

1186
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,040
Speaker 1: to put a light bulbin. I don't have to plunge

1187
01:01:45,040 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 1: a toilet.

1188
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 3: My dishwasher just uh the light just came on and

1189
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 3: said it's not draining, and.

1190
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you know what to do? No, well I googled.

1191
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 3: Just you take out the fan spray thing on the

1192
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:04,120
Speaker 3: bottom and then you have to take the water out

1193
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 3: and clean the filter. But it's above my pay rade

1194
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 3: now because that's not happening. And I just said to

1195
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:13,800
Speaker 3: my husband last night. He has an issue with his eye.

1196
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:16,959
Speaker 3: He's got it's a terrible thing. But anyway, a whole

1197
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 3: other story. But he is also mechanically uninclined as well,

1198
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 3: and I was just like, why is it that you

1199
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 3: do not know how to do these things?

1200
01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 2: He can't do them either. It's that's a problem. It

1201
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:36,000
Speaker 2: is a problem. It's well, I lied about football, and

1202
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 2: he lied about being able to do the man stuff.

1203
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 3: The man, the Man.

1204
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 2: There's some show here too as well. Oh my god,

1205
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 2: I know.

1206
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: No, I just like I want to like rent a husband,

1207
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 1: and I don't want to think physical.

1208
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 2: I just want him to come in and like fix stuff.

1209
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 3: Yes, isn't that the best?

1210
01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 2: That's the best. Oh.

1211
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 1: I can tell us the friends and they're like, uh,

1212
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 1: that's called a handy man.

1213
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 2: That's right. But then I refuse to look it up.

1214
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, yeah, it's my list.

1215
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,720
Speaker 3: Well, you gotta find you got to be handyman. Are

1216
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 3: like getting on a date. You have to have a

1217
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 3: referral from somebody that you trust.

1218
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:16,640
Speaker 2: Same thing. That's it.

1219
01:03:16,760 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 1: So you know what, I go online, I look up

1220
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 1: all and I'm like, I can't.

1221
01:03:21,920 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 2: You're right, they're coming into my home. That's right.

1222
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 1: You should kill two birds my toilet like it's an

1223
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: intimate relationship and has very personal You're right, you're right.

1224
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 3: You should maybe kill two birds with one stone. And

1225
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 3: if you decide to start dating, make sure they are

1226
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 3: handy as well. Some of them aren't.

1227
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 2: Some of them aren't.

1228
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:47,720
Speaker 3: Although it doesn't really matter the most important things. You

1229
01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 3: find somebody fabulous that you want to share.

1230
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 1: You're right, it's just five kids. Like you said that

1231
01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 1: and I was like, yeah, no.

1232
01:03:54,920 --> 01:03:56,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know as it came out.

1233
01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 2: That's not wrong.

1234
01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:01,439
Speaker 1: Here daily with five kids, and it's just like I

1235
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 1: cannot imagine starting to date someone and putting that pressure

1236
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:05,600
Speaker 1: of like.

1237
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:07,919
Speaker 3: Because that's a lot.

1238
01:04:08,040 --> 01:04:11,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a lot. Well would certainly weeds some out.

1239
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 2: Yeah what My daughter in law.

1240
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 3: Has five kids, so I know it's there's there's a

1241
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 3: meme and it's this woman sitting in her car and

1242
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 3: the kids in the back and she's in the car

1243
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 3: with an open can and they're like, Mama, why are

1244
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 3: you Why are you drinking at eleven o'clock? She turns out,

1245
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 3: She says, because I have five goddamn kids. Well I

1246
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 3: fix one problem, the next one's got a problem, and

1247
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 3: then with that problem solved, then the next one has

1248
01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 3: a problem and I don't have a break.

1249
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:39,440
Speaker 2: So I this is correct.

1250
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, I have one friend. I mean she

1251
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 1: has two kids. But for me, I always say God

1252
01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 1: bless everyone that has kids. Like it's whether you have

1253
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:54,480
Speaker 1: one kid or you have five kids, it's all it's.

1254
01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 2: Just a lot. Because you don't go into this knowing

1255
01:04:57,680 --> 01:04:59,479
Speaker 2: what to do. You just don't.

1256
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 1: You think you can do it. You think it's gonna end.

1257
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 1: Then it changes on you. They go through different phases

1258
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: and just when you think you.

1259
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:07,520
Speaker 2: Got it down. They're out of toddlerhood. Then they go.

1260
01:05:07,480 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 1: Into pre It's just like the middle school drama is

1261
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: now happening, and I'm just like, okay, I didn't know

1262
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 1: that was coming.

1263
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 2: It's like boom, boom, boom. It never stops. Yeah, she didn't.

1264
01:05:16,000 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 1: She doesn't drink. She doesn't, she's not sober. She's just like, yeah,

1265
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: I don't really like to drink. And I'm like, huh,

1266
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 1: what's that?

1267
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:26,959
Speaker 2: Like what Yeah, I'm like, it's my best friend Jess,

1268
01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 2: And I'm like Jess. I'm like, she's like oh yeah.

1269
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:31,760
Speaker 1: I'm like I'll go over to her house and I'm like,

1270
01:05:31,920 --> 01:05:34,240
Speaker 1: just you have wine, and she's like somewhere I don't know.

1271
01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, are you.

1272
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: Like it's not what I signed up for. You're my

1273
01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 1: best friend. Yeah, anyway, we need we need to have

1274
01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 1: some alcohol. Yeah, at times when I want I want it.

1275
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:52,800
Speaker 2: Anyway.

1276
01:05:52,840 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 1: I can talk to you forever. This is this, This

1277
01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 1: should be another episode. We should we should get back

1278
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 1: together and do another episode because I talked so many

1279
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:03,160
Speaker 1: places here, but I could keep talking to you and

1280
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:04,120
Speaker 1: then I'm going to come.

1281
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:05,400
Speaker 2: On your podcast.

1282
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 3: Yes you are, Yes, I love it.

1283
01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:09,720
Speaker 2: I can't come on empty nesters yet because I'm not

1284
01:06:09,840 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 2: well you're not.

1285
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 3: You're a long way away from that.

1286
01:06:12,920 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 2: Yes, but he ut on the cruise. Thank you, thank you.

1287
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:19,880
Speaker 2: It should be fun looking forward to it.

1288
01:06:20,200 --> 01:06:23,680
Speaker 1: I am so happy we reconnected all these years later.

1289
01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. I was actually right before. I was

1290
01:06:26,520 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 2: super excited, but.

1291
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:30,800
Speaker 1: Nervous because you never know if you can go back

1292
01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:34,000
Speaker 1: again and what it's going to be like. And you

1293
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:39,720
Speaker 1: just blew my mind everything I knew you as growing up.

1294
01:06:40,680 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm like this human now connecting as friends, as adults,

1295
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 1: as moms and wife xuf. But you know, it's like,

1296
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: I Wow, this is someone I want to be friends with.

1297
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 2: Crow, I love it.

1298
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,160
Speaker 3: I right back at you. I feel the same.

1299
01:06:54,480 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 2: So now we'll connect perfect they drink wine together, okay.

1300
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 1: Thing goodness, Okay, Well have fun on Alito deck next week.

1301
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:05,720
Speaker 3: Thank you very much.

1302
01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:07,680
Speaker 2: I plan to.

1303
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 3: And it was so great to connect with you. And

1304
01:07:10,360 --> 01:07:14,920
Speaker 3: I'm so proud of everything you've done and you got this.

1305
01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:19,480
Speaker 2: Girl team me too. Oh love you all right? Speak

1306
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:25,320
Speaker 2: soo okay bye