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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. We understand that you have waited patiently.

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Speaker 1: We have been waiting patiently to get this podcast out

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Speaker 1: to you. My name is Ben in my coast. Ashley

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Speaker 1: will be arriving very quickly. She has been busy all

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Speaker 1: day doing pressed answering all the questions about the crazy

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Speaker 1: They're dramatic, be also exciting last episodes of this season

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Speaker 1: of The Bachelor. I would like to start this podcast

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Speaker 1: because I got the stage, and I'm all by myself

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Speaker 1: and and I got a moment just to talk to

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Speaker 1: you all. I'd like to start this this podcast by saying,

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Speaker 1: this season of The Bachelor is one that I feel

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Speaker 1: like we will remember only because of these last two episodes.

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Speaker 1: I watched the last night from my house in Denver, Colorado, UH,

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Speaker 1: pretty much in awe of the most sort roller coasters.

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Speaker 1: This show somehow took me through once again. It really

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Speaker 1: is crazy to me that The Bachelor, year over year

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Speaker 1: over year, no matter how you know, boring, no matter

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Speaker 1: how uh, non dramatic, the whole season is at some

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Speaker 1: awaiting the ending of the season, and last night was

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Speaker 1: was no different. Um. Just to quickly recap are season,

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Speaker 1: The Bachelor was was not without controversy. Um. You know,

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Speaker 1: Ari was criticized for sometimes being distant, not exactly being relatable.

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Speaker 1: But there's one thing that nobody ever criticized for. He

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Speaker 1: whole season. Um, even sometimes to to a fault, as

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Speaker 1: Even sometimes when Ari could have been a little more engaging,

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Speaker 1: a result, I feel like we got to know Ari

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Speaker 1: who was looking for love. Uh. Last night Uh, during

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Speaker 1: the final episode, are we fought off for the first time,

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Speaker 1: Ari with his his second choice, but but I guess

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Speaker 1: now his first choice Lauren. Uh. Lauren already got engaged

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Speaker 1: did it, if you found last night's engagement just it

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Speaker 1: just still feel felt a little odd. Please email us

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Speaker 1: and let us know it been in Ashley at i

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Speaker 1: heeart media dot com. I felt, uh, just like I

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Speaker 1: for um But with all that being said, uh, we

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Speaker 1: fairy tale is yet to be told. In a few

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Speaker 1: an email real quick, um from Kelsey just kind of

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Speaker 1: relating back to the Bachlor. It says, I was curious

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Speaker 1: The final episode always takes place in a distant location.

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Speaker 1: that from Hannah. It's called the Final Rose Broke. First

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Speaker 1: of all, I love this podcast, Hannah said. It is

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Speaker 1: As we all know, this episode was a train wreck, Hannah,

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Speaker 1: on Blessings, Hannah, thank you for the email. You make

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Speaker 1: of The Bachelorette. Beckett is definitely gonna be popular. She

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Speaker 1: if you felt like he explained himself well enough. Because

430
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: I remember going back and and this was one of

431
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 1: the hardest parts about the Bachelor for me is there

432
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 1: was very few days that I didn't shed a tear. Um,

433
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,360
Speaker 1: not because I have a big soft heart and I'm

434
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 1: super sensitive, just because you get tired of hurting people

435
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 1: all time. You feel like from day one to the

436
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 1: very last day. All you do every day is you

437
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,920
Speaker 1: have to hurt somebody. You have to stay goodbye to somebody.

438
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: You have to tell somebody that they're no longer wanted there,

439
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 1: and that hurts. You get really good at breaking up

440
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 1: with people, and as a result, you get really bad

441
00:22:42,119 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 1: at keeping a soft heart in your heart can easily

442
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 1: get hardened. And I think for all of us out there,

443
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 1: is we're watching this season kind of come to an end,

444
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 1: we have to remember that Ari is now starting to

445
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 1: recover in an emotional place that he he hasn't been

446
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: in three months. He's finally able to be happy publicly.

447
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 1: Let's think about that. For the first time in three months,

448
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 1: Ari is able to be happy publicly. He's now I

449
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 1: believed that was Lauren by his side, and it has

450
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 1: felt like last night, and I think I tweeted this out. Um,

451
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 1: Lauren is there for the long haul. She's sitting next

452
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: to her man and she's saying, all right, I've got

453
00:23:16,840 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 1: your back. I know this was hard, I know you

454
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,400
Speaker 1: made a mistake, but I've got you. And I think

455
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 1: he's looking at her hopefully saying, Lauren, I've got your back.

456
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,680
Speaker 1: I know this has been hard. I know I made

457
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 1: a mistake, but I love you, and I hope that

458
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 1: is the thought process that he has going into the

459
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: rest of their relationship. Is I mean, what an incredible

460
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 1: partner to have for Lauren to look at him last

461
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 1: night and say, you know what, this is a really

462
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,840
Speaker 1: hard situation for him, and I'm just glad that he

463
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: ends up with me in the end. I mean, I

464
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 1: I just felt this like unending, unnerving love and support,

465
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 1: uh that she was you know, portraying last night and

466
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: and exuding in their relationship. And I mean, if that's

467
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,959
Speaker 1: the case, if they can give that to each other,

468
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 1: or you can get that back to Laurence. I mean,

469
00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 1: this relationship is one that we might want to watch.

470
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 1: It could be one that is a love story. Uh

471
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,439
Speaker 1: that kind of mirrors are good buddy Jason, who, as

472
00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 1: I said, will be on this podcast later. So there's

473
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 1: a lot of questions for Jason coming up. We're all

474
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 1: excited to hear from. Actually, we'll be coming in the

475
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:19,199
Speaker 1: studio here pretty soon. Um. But before we do, UM,

476
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: I want to kind of take these last few minutes

477
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: here that I have all by myself and just kind

478
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: of hype up this next season, the back threat. We

479
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: have a we have a couple of months to wait. Uh,

480
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: they'll start filming this season here in the next week

481
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 1: or so. Um. You know we we got to meet

482
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: a couple of Becca's men last night, so over impressive. Uh.

483
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: You know, I think they're all pretty nervous. What a

484
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 1: weird situation to be in where you know, before you know,

485
00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,440
Speaker 1: you're standing out on stage on national television, on live television,

486
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 1: and you're introducing yourself to what could be your future wife. UM.

487
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 1: I felt like the guys did a fine job. They

488
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 1: all seem pretty confident. All of them seem a little nervous.

489
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 1: I thought the first guy with the accent, he stayed

490
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 1: a little long. I started to get that awkward feeling

491
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: like okay, you can go now. Um. But again, like

492
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: he has nothing to compare this to. Uh last night,

493
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: And I've got to talk to Dean about this before.

494
00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 1: Dean Ungler who has a podcast Without Heart Radio as well,

495
00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: and it's a good buddy of mine. Um, I talked

496
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 1: to you a couple of weeks ago about, you know,

497
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 1: what it was like to go out on stage because

498
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 1: if you remember, right for for Rachel's season, Dean was

499
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 1: one of those original guys that went out on stage

500
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 1: during after the final rows and introduced himself to her. Um,

501
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:26,400
Speaker 1: And I asked him what it was like, and it was,

502
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: it literally happens like this. The producers, you know, have

503
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: already chose you to be on the season. Um, You're

504
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: you're kind of in waiting to to enter into the

505
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 1: mansion or step out the limone introduce yourself. And they

506
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: call you up and they say, hey, tonight, the Bachelorette

507
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 1: is gonna be at a live show. We want you

508
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,959
Speaker 1: to introduce yourself to her. You know, we're gonna come

509
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 1: pick you up in a car, get your stud on,

510
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: let's go. And and so we have to give these

511
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: guys some grace last night. But what it did show

512
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 1: is there's a couple of guys there that, you know,

513
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 1: I did think Becca was interested, or at least her

514
00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: friends in said, we saw the reaction of all her

515
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: friends and then they seem thrilled about a couple of

516
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 1: these guys. Um, so throw off at a hot, hot start. Uh.

517
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: And I don't question that this whole season from here

518
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 1: on out will be one that people will not only watch,

519
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: but they really cheer Rebecca, and we need that invest

520
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: the nation. We need a season that we can really

521
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 1: get behind that We want to rise this journey out

522
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 1: with somebody from the start to finish. We want to

523
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: laugh at the very beginning of the season when people

524
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: are doing outrageous and quirky things, and we want to

525
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:29,959
Speaker 1: cry with them in the middle, when their hearts broken

526
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 1: and their hearts being pulled in a thousands of directions,

527
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: and we want to celebrate with them at the very end,

528
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: when when hopefully a potential engagement happens, or at least

529
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: a love story exists. We need that backination because we

530
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: haven't had it now for a few months, and I

531
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: think that Becky's season will will definitely definitely bring that.

532
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,360
Speaker 1: UM want to stop for a second and read an email,

533
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: UM kind of calling out on somebody that I would

534
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 1: now call his friends. UM, And so I want I

535
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 1: want to approach this and and speak to this email

536
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: says the emails titled not a fan of Caroline from

537
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,719
Speaker 1: Ash Matt Astley, I Connettie this Ash. It says, it's

538
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,680
Speaker 1: super unfortunate, but y'all had Caroline on. Seems like she's

539
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: stuck in duck is pain from all it's worth by

540
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,280
Speaker 1: being the one in the know. You can even hear

541
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 1: on Ben's Instagram story tonight, some comment is made and

542
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: someone goes to Caroline, what's going up your followers? Seems

543
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: like she was disappointed, she got kicked off too soon

544
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: and found a way to get back into the fold

545
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: and got fortunate to be someone in the know. Even

546
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: listening to this episode, she talked over all other women

547
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: in the studio just to get more airtime. She even

548
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: said in regards the breakup footage, I kind of needed this.

549
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 1: People are in my d N like be more selfish

550
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: and stuff self service reads. The absolute egotistical mindset are

551
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: is terrible. But he called one thing, Actually, these girls

552
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: are just finishing their trouts for Best in Paradise. The

553
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 1: desperation is palpable from here, glad to ask me and

554
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 1: Ben still still still seem to stay above some of

555
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: this juvenile, juvenile desperation after being passed their new found

556
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: fame as well, asked, I did just do back during

557
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 1: Winter Games. So I can't completely say that I've gotten

558
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: out of the Bachelor franchise, but I get what you're saying, uh,

559
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: And it's it's been said a lot and I think

560
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: there's been a few jokes made, is that this You know,

561
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 1: it seems like this show is turning into a constant

562
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 1: try out to you to be in Bachelor in Paradise

563
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 1: or to be the next Batch or of Bachat. But

564
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: what other options do you have? I mean, honestly, Uh,

565
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: this world kind of stocks you up in it, right. So,

566
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: so if we start at the beginning of each season,

567
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: everybody's on equal playing field. Everybody shows us the mansion

568
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: to date, either the bat or Bachat. Once you get

569
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: kicked off, Um, you know, you're excited to watch the season.

570
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 1: You're you're anxious to be on television. You're anxious to

571
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,200
Speaker 1: see your story unfold. And so you sit there with

572
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: your family and your friends are all asking you about it,

573
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: and they're getting you hyped about it. You're excited about

574
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: it before you know it. Uh. And this is this

575
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: is the balance that everybody has to take. And and

576
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 1: I'll speak to this and and my insight into this

577
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: here in a second. But the balance nobody has to

578
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: take it uh, to not let this become your identity.

579
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: But unfortunately, because of the excitement, and because some people

580
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: get overwhelmed, and and because they're getting so much pressure.

581
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: Fronnounced their world. The bachelor or Bachelorrette ends up being

582
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: the only thing you ever talked about, the only thing

583
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: you ever think about, the only thing you really think

584
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: has given you any type of excitement in life, because

585
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: it's such a new and weird experience that has shown

586
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: you this new side of life, you know. For me,

587
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 1: it was my very first time ever out of l

588
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: A was on the Bachelorette, So all of a sudden,

589
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: I spoke to l A and I stooked a mansion

590
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: and there's cameras, and then when I get kicked off,

591
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 1: there's there's articles written about me, and my family's asking

592
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: me about it, and I'm going through not only a

593
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,479
Speaker 1: breakup at the time, but I'm also trying to process

594
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: the fact that now people know me and weird small

595
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: talents all across the US, and it becomes not only

596
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 1: um sobering because you realize how small the world really is,

597
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: but also becomes almost eufork in the sense of, Wow,

598
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: I've done something that people now recognize, So I get it.

599
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: And we've got to give everybody, anybody, even if the

600
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: Business of the Deaths does the show, but we have

601
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,200
Speaker 1: to also stand beside them and support them and keep

602
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: them accountable. Effect that if the Bachelor or Bachelor at

603
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: is what you're known for, if that's through your identity exists,

604
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:25,320
Speaker 1: and you've made a great mistake that anybody out there

605
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: that has done anything like the Bachelor Bach Threat before

606
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 1: let's even break this down to your job, to your score,

607
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: if your identity is in those things, then you need

608
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: to take a step back. You need to realize that

609
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: those things cannot be idols in your life. And I think, unfortunately,

610
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 1: because of the world and the format and that the

611
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: Bachelor and Best Threat presents to each contestant, it does

612
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 1: become uh something that people don't or have a hard

613
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 1: time leaving until let's let's go back to the email

614
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: here and talk about Calin for a second. I got

615
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: to spend some time with Caroline Um over the last

616
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: few days. She was nothing but great to me. Um.

617
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 1: She was funny, UM, she was articulate. We we laughed,

618
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 1: we joked, she was open and honestly, she talked very

619
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: little about the show. Um. What she talked about most

620
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: was her excitement Rebecca and also her sadness Rebecca going

621
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 1: through this breakup. She just talked about her statinus for Ari,

622
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 1: that she she has a heart for our right now

623
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 1: because she doesn't want him to feel alone, that she

624
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: doesn't want him to suffer. Um, but she's still up sat.

625
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: I mean, her friend got broken up with and so

626
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: of course she's in the right to express that. You know,

627
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: if if one of my friends was hurt, I would

628
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: hope that I would stand up for them and say

629
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: I I don't like what happened. I don't think this

630
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 1: is fair. But let's not assume that Caroline is doing

631
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: this just um for her own self promotion. I think

632
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: that's the first draft. Actually, you know, we we all

633
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 1: know that Caroline could potentially um the ambassador in Paradise

634
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: uh here soon. But it was my understing that she

635
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: doesn't she doesn't even accepted it yet or I don't

636
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: even know if she's been asked, and so we can all.

637
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: You know, it's easy to judge, and it's easy to

638
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: expect the worst that each one of these contestants. UM,

639
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: but we can't do it. We got we were fans

640
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 1: of the show. Let's not judge these contestants based on

641
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: a few things they say on a live show. Okay,

642
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: especially somebody like Caroline whose friends with Becca. She came

643
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Speaker 1: into our podcast, UM, and I appreciate it. I don't

644
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: actually appreciate it. She came into our podcast to talk

645
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Speaker 1: about whatever was going on in that world. And I

646
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: know for us, anytime anybody steps into to help us

647
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: with our podcast, uh, we want them to speak openly,

648
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Speaker 1: we want them to speak comfortably. And that's exactly what

649
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Speaker 1: she was doing. Did she talk over that woman? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think they're all pretty excited trying

651
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Speaker 1: to get their voices out. Um. But from here and out,

652
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 1: when people come in, um and speak on our podcast,

653
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Speaker 1: we we know we've had our issues in the past

654
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Speaker 1: and we've learned our lessons. We hope that is a

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Speaker 1: place where you can kind of just take a deep breath,

656
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Speaker 1: speak openly, speak honestly, and hey, Drew upset about something

657
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: in the franchise, Let's talk about it, because honestly, Uh,

658
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Speaker 1: that's what people want to hear. Anyway, that's what you

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Speaker 1: want to hear, asked. I know it, and thank you

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Speaker 1: Better way to cook. Hey, Benn, guess what. I've just

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Speaker 1: been listening to you for the past ten to fifteen

710
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: minutes in your in your voice. You can talk to

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00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 1: yourself so long. But I know you're talking to an audience,

712
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 1: but it's like incredible how you can just talk to

713
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 1: an audience so naturally when they're not in front of you.

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00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:13,320
Speaker 1: In reality, it's amazing. I talked to myself often, so

715
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Speaker 1: it kind of correlates. Really, are you one of the

716
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Speaker 1: guys that talks out loud to himself around the house.

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00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm an only child. Actually, I live alone.

718
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 1: I drive in my car all the time. I talked

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00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 1: to myself often. I have great conversations. I've actually prept

720
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 1: for this podcast now for the last few days because

721
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: I walk in my house like, sorry, what the heck

722
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Speaker 1: were you thinking? That is so funny, it's so cute.

723
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Speaker 1: You're so good, and I think you need to get

724
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Speaker 1: into the ministry, like you need to do sermons. You

725
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:45,879
Speaker 1: really could have your own podcast where you just talk

726
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: about virtue all day and I would be encouraged to

727
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 1: be a better person just by listening to you talk

728
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:56,840
Speaker 1: to yourself. Oh. Actually, you're the sweetest you always have been.

729
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Speaker 1: It's good to it's good to have you in the studio.

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00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 1: I know today has been a crazy day. You following up,

731
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 1: I started the podcast by letting everybody know that you've

732
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: done pressed and you've answered a thousand questions about this

733
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: season of The Bachelor in the last two episodes, and

734
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: so thanks, uh, thanks for coming in, because I know

735
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: you're probably tired, and you're also probably tired of talking

736
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: about The Bachelor. But I got good news for you.

737
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 1: The day is the last, really, I'm sure I did.

738
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 1: And then from here on out, for every episode coming

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00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: up from this week, board, you and I are going

740
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: to open up some of our favorite segments again, like

741
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 1: who the heck are you? We're gonna talk about our

742
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: dating live, We're gonna talk about love life outside of

743
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: the Backtor franchise. Are you gonna be honest about your

744
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: love life outside. Yeah, I'll be as honest as I

745
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 1: want to be. Ashley, Well, I'm gonna put you on

746
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 1: the spot the Sting next week because I'm getting a

747
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,879
Speaker 1: lot of tweets about how people were so excited when

748
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:51,360
Speaker 1: you asked Cianne that what you were talking to Seanne about,

749
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: like you know how you're going to do her season

750
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 1: of the Bachelorette, And then you politician, you just knew

751
00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: how to swerve around and not answer that question directly.

752
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 1: But everybody, maybe one day I'll open up in honesty.

753
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: But hey, thanks for stopping in. I'm gonna hand this

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Speaker 1: off to you because I have a Generous coffee and

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Speaker 1: he meaning hope event that I have to go speak out,

756
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a few minutes late already, i gotta run.

757
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: I'm in Cincinnati, Ohio right now. I gotta go speak

758
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 1: because Generous is blowing up after last night's episode of

759
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, when Becca said that she would donate the

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00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: stand up to cancer, I said Generous would as well.

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00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 1: Now Katie Kerk has retweeted about Generous and Katie kerrit

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00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 1: fifty bags of Generous coffee today. Um, Holy freaking is

763
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Speaker 1: that's huge. I'm freaking out, and so now I have

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Speaker 1: to go speak at this event and try to raise

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Speaker 1: a little money, uh for some communities around the world,

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Speaker 1: and still some generous coffee or at it. So I apologize. Actually,

767
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: but it's now your times not only talked to our

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00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: good buddy Jason mesnick Um, but also yourself for a

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Speaker 1: little bit. You do that. Yeah, maybe I'm gonna try.

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Speaker 1: I wrote notes and I think it's gonna take me

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Speaker 1: about thirty seconds. All right, sounds good. Hey everybody there,

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00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 1: all of our listeners again email actually hurt me dot com. Actually,

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00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: I love you happy birthday yesterday. You're one of the

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00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: best people I know. And we'll talk to him. Thanks,

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00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 1: love you bye. All right, So we have a couple

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Speaker 1: of minutes before Jason's on the phone. So because I'm

777
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 1: sure you guys are all dying to know when I

778
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: felt about last night, I will let you in on this. Um.

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00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 1: Everybody's villainizing Ri. I'm tired of villainizing Ari. He made

780
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 1: a lot of mistakes, but we can't harp on it forever.

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00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,799
Speaker 1: This maybe exactly what Ben had said before I walked

782
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: into the studio. So I'm sorry if it is. Um,

783
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: I think it's funny because I think people expect that

784
00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: the Bachelor love stories need to be the most idealized

785
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 1: love stories, but they are. They can be as messed

786
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: up as our own real life love stories. Um. Nothing

787
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 1: goes smoothly there. Hearts are always broken. Um. As Jamie

788
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 1: Sullivan once said, if there wasn't suffering, would there be

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00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: any compassion? And I feel like heartbreak makes us stronger.

790
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:14,360
Speaker 1: It gets us to know ourselves better and betters ourselves

791
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: for our future relationships down the line. So, you know,

792
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: are messed up and his love story is not traditional,

793
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 1: but let's like let them live because they seem really

794
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: really happy. And yeah, it wasn't our chick flick. We

795
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:31,240
Speaker 1: didn't get that this season. Unfortunately, maybe Becca will deliver

796
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 1: something that makes our hearts pound in in like giddiness.

797
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 1: But let's just leave him alone because it's just love

798
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: isn't always pretty. But we'll just see what happens. We'll

799
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: just see what happens. And I think that's what they want.

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Speaker 1: All they're asking for is like give him a chance.

801
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: And I can't wait to talk to to Mesnic because

802
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 1: that's a beautiful role model for them to have eight

803
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: years of marriage to kids. Do we think Mesnic handled

804
00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: it better or worse? Um? I never saw mesnic season.

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00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was the first season. That was

806
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:07,399
Speaker 1: the last season I didn't watch. So I started watching

807
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: Ali's season right after his so O, no, no, that

808
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Speaker 1: was Jake. Oh wait, no, that was what's his name,

809
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 1: the pilot? Jake? Yeah. So I started watching a year

810
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: and a half after, after the shocking thing, and I

811
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 1: rewatched it recently. About Mesnic is that he I think

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00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: Melissa had some clue that he was going to end

813
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: things with her on the after the final Rose, but

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Speaker 1: I don't think Molly had any idea that he was

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Speaker 1: doing that and that he was going to say I

816
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Speaker 1: want another chance. Okay, so you're saying the difference is

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Speaker 1: that Molly didn't. Oh yeah, So the difference is that,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's equally kind of terrible. No, it's not.

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Speaker 1: It's not because because Mesnic didn't feel anything for Melissa anymore,

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Speaker 1: and he was willing to end that relationship even if

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Speaker 1: he thought that Molly wasn't going to be down. Correct,

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Speaker 1: I would say that that is a fair statement. You

823
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: could ask him about that, because he hadn't like pursued Molly,

824
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: he really didn't know if she was going to say

825
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 1: yes or no, and the genuine sort of like shock

826
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: on her face of I'm on camera. I don't know

827
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: what to do here. I've wanted this to happen because

828
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: I love this dude, but what is happening? Like it

829
00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: was very different than this in the same sort of situation,

830
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: but in the same way. Both women are going to

831
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: have to deal with their potential husbands um having picked

832
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 1: another woman over them at some point in their lives.

833
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 1: But everybody has to deal with that really in life.

834
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Speaker 1: That's true except for some times, but usually you don't

835
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: know the parts who've never dated anyone else. You've probably

836
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: got a past, and so do they that's probably probably

837
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 1: didn't break up with you on camera and they weren't

838
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 1: dating you at the same time. Although I'm sure there's

839
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 1: people out there who are dating two people at the

840
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: same time. They go at one and then they're like,

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00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 1: wait a minute, and then they switched. I bet you know,

842
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,839
Speaker 1: I bet you There are plenty of real life people.

843
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: So that's something you guys should think about. And also

844
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 1: just like think about all the marriages that come from

845
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: friendships and it's like that person was in your life

846
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: for so long, but you're probably dating people before you

847
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: realize that that was your person. So it's kind of

848
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:20,839
Speaker 1: the same. I don't know, it's kind of the same thing,

849
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 1: but it kind of every sort of He really kind

850
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Speaker 1: of blew it. At the same time, I think he

851
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:33,280
Speaker 1: seemed really nice yesterday. I have no problem with him whatsoever.

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00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: I mean, he's cool because if you really break it down,

853
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 1: he was engaged, he was about to get engaged to

854
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 1: one of them. It could have gone either way. Had

855
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 1: he just picked Lauren and been on his merry way,

856
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:49,759
Speaker 1: we'd all be bored and fine. Yeah, so it's like, so,

857
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: thank sorry for giving you a little excitement over the

858
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 1: past two days. Well we got where we were going

859
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 1: to go anyway. Yeah. Um, interesting questions I just came

860
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: about with. Have no idea. I wonder if, like during

861
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: that final two if he would have said, Rebecca, would

862
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:06,920
Speaker 1: you rather be the bachelorette or would you rather me

863
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: propose to you that I'd rather you propose to me.

864
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 1: I think so too. Yeah, I don't know that, I'm sure.

865
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. It takes me a lot longer to

866
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: get over things. Years in fact, so for her to

867
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,280
Speaker 1: sort of snap back so quick, it takes me forever

868
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: to But I will say I can I never really

869
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 1: get over something until the next next guy. Absolutely, I

870
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,320
Speaker 1: don't think I ever get over a guy until I

871
00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: find a new one. I mean, you do intend that

872
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 1: you can live life, but you don't kind of ready, yeah,

873
00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: but you still are daydreaming about the last guy, or

874
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 1: you don't fully close the book. Or you also don't

875
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: realize how terrible they were, because I didn't realize how

876
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: terrible someone was that I was dating until I dated

877
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: someone amazing. Ari and Laurence said during press today that

878
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 1: they do want to get married on TV if the

879
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 1: opportunity is there, uh um, and if you know that

880
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:05,560
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881
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,680
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882
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 1: get married. I'm pretty sure they want Jojo to get

883
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: married on TV. I don't know if they're going to

884
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: care about Ari and Lauren getting married on TV. What

885
00:45:15,239 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: is the word for that audacious that The question was

886
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 1: probably would you get married on TV if ABC offered

887
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Speaker 1: for them there. That's awesome, all right. Well, it sounds

921
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 1: like Jason Mesnick, the predecessor to Ari, is now on

922
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 1: the line. Jason, what's going on? Jason? Um, I met

923
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:49,240
Speaker 1: you briefly at Jaden Tanner's wedding. Didn't watch your season,

924
00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 1: So pardon me if I'm a little uneducated Amy will

925
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: fill in my gaps. Um. I was trying to sort

926
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: of explain the difference in the way you handled it

927
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: and in the way he handled it. How do you

928
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 1: sort of sum that up? Well, we all know that

929
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,759
Speaker 1: Jason is very emotional. There hence the other mesnic. You

930
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: you have coined two things now in the franchise. There's

931
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: the mesnic you crying over the balcony, and now there's

932
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 1: the mesnic, which is the switchero. Yeah. Well hopefully that's

933
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: the r Now you can take that, would you you

934
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 1: would rather? Of course the sobbing. Yeah, it's fine. Everyone

935
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 1: loves a man in touching somebody, you know, feel terrible

936
00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 1: on National TV. Yeah alright, so talk about how you

937
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 1: feel like you handled the situation differently. Uh, you know,

938
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: To be honest, I don't know if if if I

939
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 1: think I really did, because when I think about what

940
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 1: happened one yeah, and I read something already did this

941
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: movie said this morning is that he was trying to

942
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: give um back at the opportunity to be the bachelorette.

943
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: And that doesn't just come from his mind. And what

944
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: I mean by that is they said the same thing

945
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: to me. So I called the producers. You know, this

946
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:02,839
Speaker 1: is like fifty years ago, and I did it. Um.

947
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: So I called the producer and I said, hey, you know,

948
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,800
Speaker 1: so Melissa and I aren't working out, Can I, you know,

949
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: have a shot with Molly because I'm just really curious?

950
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: And they said, okay, so yes, but we've asked Mollie

951
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 1: to be the Bachelorette. So there's two conditions. One you

952
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: need to do this on TV because otherwise Molly is

953
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: going to go forward and be the bachelorette. And two,

954
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: we need Melissa, so the other girl, to be the Bachelorette,

955
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: and we need her to be emotional, so the audience

956
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 1: falls in love with her and everybody's part out to her.

957
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: So when I think about you know, you know, I

958
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 1: think the difference is how the producers and ABC decided

959
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: to air it. Right, So mine was like I think

960
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 1: they were they had learned a little bit, but they

961
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 1: also wanted everybody to feel Rebecca, so they could put

962
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 1: her on you know, a pedestal, but like the place

963
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: she in some sense they wanted her. So the audience

964
00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 1: falls in love with her, and they come back next

965
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 1: season even stronger than and before as a viewership. Right,

966
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: and that's what they were trying to do with Melissa too,

967
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: But you know, Molista already had some debts in her life.

968
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: So if you didn't want to do it, I don't like,

969
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 1: to be honest, I don't know how different it is.

970
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I understand the appearance is different, and maybe

971
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,720
Speaker 1: the words conveyed are different. Were you not I felt

972
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: like you ended with Melissa before you sort of told Molly,

973
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: whereas I feel like he was dabbling with Lauren feeling

974
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:29,400
Speaker 1: it out. It was probably a piece of that, Like

975
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: Melissa and I both had known that it was over,

976
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 1: and the TV, yeah, I mean we had talked. We

977
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,560
Speaker 1: had talked about that, but I mean the way that

978
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: it was portrayed. I think the only difference. I mean,

979
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 1: viewers might see it differently, um if they remember who

980
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 1: I am, But I mean I think the view is like, hey,

981
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 1: we did ours on set, a close set because it

982
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: hadn't happened before, and this one was, you know, in

983
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,080
Speaker 1: wherever house that they were flown into and their their

984
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: getaway weekend. So what you were saying about us needing

985
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,879
Speaker 1: to fall in love with Becca is something that I've

986
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: been kind of spewing out all week long. That's in

987
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 1: my opinion, why they showed the entire break up the

988
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: way they did. I want to know why you and

989
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: apparently Alrea went to production with this dilemma that you

990
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 1: were having. You're like, this isn't gonna last. What do

991
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 1: you guys suggest me do? And I just feel like

992
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 1: sometimes production would be the last person I'd go to

993
00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 1: because the last people I go to, because sometimes I

994
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,399
Speaker 1: would wonder if they were putting their interest before mine.

995
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 1: So I think going back to it, and like I

996
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:38,239
Speaker 1: was actually writing the moat on the plane, just kind

997
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 1: of think about, you know how my experience it was

998
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: different or similar to already. And I mean like when

999
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 1: I think about my experience there there are two times

1000
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 1: that I knew not to go to production and not

1001
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: talk talk about it with anybody, and it was that

1002
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 1: was one at the two times. But you know and

1003
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: like it actually come with it. But until you go

1004
00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 1: through and be like the bats are bachlor at. They

1005
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: are asking you for help, right, They're asking you to

1006
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: go on dates with people that you don't want to

1007
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 1: go on dates with. They're asking you to hold hands

1008
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:11,440
Speaker 1: of people you want to go on cold hands with,

1009
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: because realistically, if you walk literally just ask you this.

1010
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 1: If you walk into a bar and there are five

1011
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: guys in that bar, how many do you think you

1012
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: would be you would be in you could be in

1013
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 1: a relationship with honestly to at best zero, at very

1014
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 1: very best, but most likely zero. Okay, so somewhere between

1015
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: zero and two. So I would say the same thing

1016
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 1: with anybody who's the Bachelor and bachlor at it would

1017
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: be between zero and I give it three. There's somewhere

1018
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 1: between zero and three. So within the first week, right

1019
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:45,879
Speaker 1: when you're put in this position, within the first week,

1020
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 1: you know you're top two or three. Yeah, and the

1021
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 1: rest is just, hey, you know, we've got to make

1022
00:52:50,680 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 1: a TV show. And realistically, ABC is paying the productive

1023
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 1: producers two million dollars every week to make a show,

1024
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 1: and so you can't do that. There's no way you

1025
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: can do that. And so the producers are and they

1026
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: have to be. Sometimes they're pretending to be your friends.

1027
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: Sometimes they are your friends. But the one thing they're

1028
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 1: doing is trying to build trust. And so when you

1029
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:14,120
Speaker 1: go through that whole experience, you're not supposed to. They

1030
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 1: tell you not to talk to anybody like you sign

1031
00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 1: this giant contract. There's the heck out of you, right,

1032
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: And the bottom line is you I feel like the

1033
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: only people you can talk to are the producers because

1034
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,319
Speaker 1: they're calling you there. They're pretending to try to check

1035
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:32,720
Speaker 1: in with you throughout this whole experience after the finished filming.

1036
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: So in the real world, you're right, you shouldn't call

1037
00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: the producers, But in this bubble world, there are the

1038
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: only people that you've ever talked to about all this stuff.

1039
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:45,879
Speaker 1: So they're the only people that you feel understand. What's

1040
00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 1: so funny is that here I am I questioning this

1041
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 1: for you, But then when I think about my own

1042
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 1: relationships that started out on the show but now have

1043
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: developed off the show throughout the past two years to

1044
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: three years, I always go to them. They're always the

1045
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,680
Speaker 1: ones that I feel like ending to the most. I

1046
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: don't think anybody else until I mean, you probably understand it.

1047
00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: Just like I remember as a cast member on the

1048
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 1: Name Forever going the Bachelorette, I remember staying up tamperly

1049
00:54:11,600 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: every single night going, Okay, what do you guy with

1050
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 1: the producer? What are you guys trying to do? What

1051
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 1: are you guys trying to get us to stay? Like?

1052
00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:19,600
Speaker 1: And they would kind of dig in with me saying, hey,

1053
00:54:19,680 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 1: what do you know about this guy? This guy have

1054
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:24,120
Speaker 1: a girlfriend back at home. So everybody's kind of digging

1055
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,680
Speaker 1: in with each other. But at the end of the day,

1056
00:54:27,239 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 1: their job is to befriend you. Who was your girl?

1057
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,800
Speaker 1: I can't even remember who was the bachelorette when you

1058
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 1: were on it. Um, Marilyn Monroe, the AA PAPIs oh

1059
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: so funny. Who's a total twist to me because she

1060
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: married a bachelor guy's brother. Oh yeah, weird, But that's

1061
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think anybody really like and I'm

1062
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 1: not going to make excuses Ferri and I, but like

1063
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: until you're in there, and like everybody, I mean, everybody

1064
00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 1: is gonna a producer is gonna want this to happen,

1065
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 1: right because everybody's talking about it every news news outlet.

1066
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 1: So they want the conflicted guy or girl to be

1067
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 1: confused and do this on TV. It's great for the show,

1068
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,840
Speaker 1: right of course, by by a hundred times it is

1069
00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 1: great for the show. Well, so the problem is we

1070
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: trust them too much. We do trust them, but they

1071
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: are they do become our best friends, and in my case,

1072
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,640
Speaker 1: they've continued to be my best friends off camera. As well.

1073
00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to like, I don't want to like say, oh,

1074
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: why would you get a productions because they have the

1075
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: bad intentions of mine. Um, I am very trusting, but

1076
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 1: I've found in my own personal experiences that well, you

1077
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,000
Speaker 1: may have a bad episode or a bad seen or two,

1078
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: because they do truly want to get you the best

1079
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: in the long run with every decision that you make

1080
00:55:47,239 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: with them. Yeah maybe, I mean, I know, like talking

1081
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: to him just even last night, like I was texting

1082
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 1: with them before I went on and after I got off,

1083
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: and they're like, trust me, we got this handle, like

1084
00:55:57,239 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 1: we're working on it. We wanted to be the best.

1085
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: We want everybody to be happy. And I think in

1086
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: some ways, you know, I think I thought that I

1087
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:12,759
Speaker 1: wish already didn't propose, but really, yeah tell us, tell us, well,

1088
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 1: I think at some point, like he's already done enough

1089
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: and like you could do that like away, right, Like

1090
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 1: that was just my opinion. Everybody else could think whatever

1091
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 1: they want. I mean I would have just sad like

1092
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,879
Speaker 1: after with Molly and I like, you know, we wanted

1093
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 1: to take We took it almost a year before we

1094
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: got engaged, which is you know, which is not a

1095
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,759
Speaker 1: long time and for some people, but for us it

1096
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: felt like it did Neil Lane still give you a ring? No?

1097
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: Well no, not so no when I proposed, but five

1098
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,879
Speaker 1: year or five year anniversary? He helped us out. Yeah,

1099
00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 1: this is I had an interesting tidbit here. Um, yesterday

1100
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: they taped Jimmy Kimmel before they taped after the final rose,

1101
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:55,800
Speaker 1: and Lauren was wearing her engagement ring, so it was

1102
00:56:56,160 --> 00:57:00,839
Speaker 1: she he basically had already told her what you are

1103
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: you sure? Because he was leaving, Um was a fake engagement.

1104
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:08,720
Speaker 1: He was going straight to Jimmy Kimmel after we filmed.

1105
00:57:09,080 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 1: Oh really, are you sure? It would be hard for

1106
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 1: an actress too? I thought they. I don't know. Maybe

1107
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: you're right, jeez, he I mean, he had to out

1108
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 1: of their last night pretty quick be going to Jimmy Kimmel. Okay, okay,

1109
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:26,080
Speaker 1: maybe I'm totally wrong. I don't want to like start

1110
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 1: something the elephant in the room. And I'm sure Jason

1111
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 1: you've thought about this a thousand, million, bi jillion times,

1112
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 1: But why didn't you just propose to Molly on the finale? Well?

1113
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: I mean that so I was not going to pick Molly,

1114
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: I know, but why because you picked her, but you did,

1115
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:48,240
Speaker 1: but really and you're like, inner, sorry you did, are you?

1116
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: And I talked about this so that the similarities between

1117
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: Lauren and Molly are that when when we filmed, when

1118
00:57:55,160 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: I filmed with Molly and already, kind of the same

1119
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: thing with Lauren is they were really there. Weren't people

1120
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: that were super comfortable, comfortable on camera that couldn't open

1121
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: up just and it's it's some of it's on camera stuff,

1122
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: but it's also just a personality. You know. You can't

1123
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: expect everybody to be super comfortable on camera. They can't

1124
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 1: expect everybody to be gushing about how much they care

1125
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: about somebody. Because I remember on one of my days

1126
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: of Molly, you know, nine years ago now, I remember

1127
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 1: it was the one thing we walked away, we were

1128
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: on our exotic stuff and I was like, I don't

1129
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 1: even know if she likes me, and the producers would

1130
00:58:27,600 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, you know, don't worry, you know she

1131
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:33,439
Speaker 1: really does, and and they would go to Molly and say, hey, Molly,

1132
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: you've got to open up more, because she was not

1133
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: sure of it, um that you like him even and

1134
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: the truth was she was just having she just one

1135
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 1: she wasn't sure she wanted to get engaged with two.

1136
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: She was the type of person that had trouble opening up.

1137
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 1: And I think Lauren's the same way. I mean, I

1138
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 1: was writing this down, you know, on the plane, and like,

1139
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: you know, Melissa was the type of person on my

1140
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:56,360
Speaker 1: season that I always thought I would marry, and then

1141
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: after two months of you know, dating her, it just

1142
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: wasn't the right fit for either of us. That's what

1143
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 1: I wanted to know more about. Maybe, like because because

1144
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 1: your experience could be a reflection of ours, when did

1145
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: you start feeling like, oh, wow, this is probably not

1146
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:16,120
Speaker 1: my wife once you exited the Bachelor bubble? Um? I

1147
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:18,160
Speaker 1: mean because we I couldn't tell you. I mean, it's

1148
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 1: going to go back. It's nine years ago, more than

1149
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 1: nine years ago. So he dated I think, you know,

1150
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:27,439
Speaker 1: six seven, eight weeks afterwards, and we would do those

1151
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 1: kind of you know, getaways, and I think, you know,

1152
00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 1: I think part of it is that, like I like,

1153
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: I just after that whole experience, I didn't love her,

1154
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 1: and um after you know, and I also take a

1155
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 1: step back as well as I think when you look

1156
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:48,439
Speaker 1: at that experience, you're probably you've probably spent a total

1157
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,680
Speaker 1: of forty hours, but the person you end up proposing too,

1158
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 1: So that's really you know, in the real world, that's like,

1159
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 1: I really want to get to know you better. That's

1160
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 1: pretty incredible with already hours. How many married couples there

1161
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 1: actually are? Yeah, well, I mean that's it works for stuff,

1162
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: like in the real world, Like it works for some people,

1163
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 1: you know, I love it first night, and for some

1164
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:14,160
Speaker 1: people it doesn't. I do think it's still very fascinating.

1165
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:19,200
Speaker 1: There hasn't been one divorce that is super like what

1166
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 1: there aren't How many marriages are there? I can write

1167
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: it down, but I think it's seven seven marriages. Yeah,

1168
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 1: I like to count Sean Sean and Caitlin is married too.

1169
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: I think there's like seven. Yeah, I mean it's interesting

1170
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 1: any time. Yeah, people do get married a long time.

1171
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 1: I mean for a long time it was just tripped

1172
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:45,480
Speaker 1: to and then we were in our own way. Second,

1173
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:47,560
Speaker 1: and that was after there was sent you one after

1174
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 1: up until my season, which was one out of you

1175
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 1: know whatever, fifteen or sixteen. There's two things that are

1176
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: really interesting about you, Jason. One is that essentially it

1177
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 1: did work because you did meet your wife on this

1178
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 1: crazy Bananas show. Is it annoying when people say that

1179
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 1: Sean is the only quote successful bachelor. No, I don't

1180
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: care if it. No, I mean right he did, because

1181
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, it's just in the bubble. In the bubble,

1182
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:23,600
Speaker 1: I feel like it messed with your brain. Oh yeah,

1183
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 1: I mean that's that's the whole thing is like I

1184
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: you know, and I've said this like a billion times

1185
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,360
Speaker 1: that like I never at the end of my season,

1186
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 1: I didn't pick Molly, but I didn't want to propose

1187
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: to either of them, and why did you exactly? So,

1188
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 1: I mean I was writing this down, and like I've

1189
01:01:40,720 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 1: said this a million times. I I had called her parents,

1190
01:01:45,080 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 1: who never Melissa's parents, who never wanted to be on

1191
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 1: the show, and I called him up. This is maybe

1192
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 1: I think it's a day or two before proposal, and

1193
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 1: I just said, hey, like I've never got to meet

1194
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: you guys. You know, I'm a single dad, and I

1195
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 1: just like, I'm going to pick your her, but I

1196
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: don't want to. I can't propoch to her. And we

1197
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 1: were all on the same page and they're like, okay,

1198
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 1: I get it. I respected, and we left it at that.

1199
01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: So I go back to my room and literally a

1200
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:12,760
Speaker 1: few hours later, one of the UH producers comes into

1201
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,600
Speaker 1: the UH to my room and says, hey, like, listen,

1202
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 1: I know a lot of stress. I called Melissa's parents

1203
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 1: back and we told them that your ons are distress.

1204
01:02:21,040 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 1: Like you want to propose And I was like, what, like,

1205
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 1: but you can't do that? But then slowly over um over,

1206
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:32,120
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know if it's a day or

1207
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: two days. You know, everybody comes through and says, don't

1208
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 1: you don't you want to give her this moment? She's

1209
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:40,640
Speaker 1: the most amazing girl you ever met. You you will marry.

1210
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 1: Like there's there's a hundred different ways that a hundred

1211
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 1: different people who work on the show come through. And

1212
01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 1: at the end of it, you know, dumb guys like, oh,

1213
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 1: I must be an idiot, all right, America is going

1214
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 1: to hate you if you don't. Yeah, it's it's there's

1215
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 1: a bunch of different things, and our owners just like

1216
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:59,880
Speaker 1: people like people, producers owners, the owner of the show

1217
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:03,000
Speaker 1: basically says, that's not the way this works, right. Isn't

1218
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:06,200
Speaker 1: that funny that people would rather see a purpose and

1219
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:10,800
Speaker 1: get engaged and then the couple breakup than just them saying, hey,

1220
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 1: let's date. In real life, and then eventually end up

1221
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 1: together yes to no. I mean, I like the breakup

1222
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:20,200
Speaker 1: is a news story, the proposals, the TV action, the

1223
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 1: millions of people are watching, so they just want to

1224
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: They want to capture the audience of people who are

1225
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:26,320
Speaker 1: like I get it, like I've I've been through it

1226
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 1: enough times. So for me, I like, that was the

1227
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 1: biggest thing in my gut. I knew I should never

1228
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 1: propose to either of them, and I did, and that's

1229
01:03:36,200 --> 01:03:38,240
Speaker 1: what got me. I think he was trying to say

1230
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,720
Speaker 1: that same thing. It was like, I shouldn't have proposed

1231
01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 1: to you. I don't know if he's saying he should

1232
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 1: propose to Lauren, but like, realistically, some people aren't cut

1233
01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 1: out to propose to somebody after two months, and I was,

1234
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 1: and I was one of them. This is so informative.

1235
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 1: I think people are going to be really happy with

1236
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:56,240
Speaker 1: all this knowledge from you. I wonder how many other

1237
01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: bachelors have felt forced into proposing when they didn't feel

1238
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 1: like right. And I'd rather I'd rather watch Ari season

1239
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 1: and Jason season because as a viewer, if I'm putting

1240
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: real human feelings aside, Jason's after the Final Rose was

1241
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 1: one of the best things I've ever seen. I mean,

1242
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: I've rewatched it on YouTube. The only thing that is

1243
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:23,400
Speaker 1: better is Vienna and Jake Pavelta's breakup. Talk about this

1244
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 1: all the time as the juiciest moment in a bad

1245
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: mood or feeling bad about yourself, simply YouTube that and

1246
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 1: you will is so good. But yours was pretty juicy

1247
01:04:34,600 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 1: because Molly's sort of shock is one of the greatest

1248
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 1: things I've ever seen. Like she just did not know

1249
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,600
Speaker 1: what to do with the information you were giving. What

1250
01:04:45,880 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: made you say I want to give Molly another chance

1251
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: because you seem like a little bit unsure of her

1252
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: during in the Bachelor bubble, So what was like, I'm

1253
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:58,240
Speaker 1: going to go back and try that girl again. So okay,

1254
01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: So that's Molista, Like I could never say in my

1255
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: entire life anything bad about it. She was sweet, she

1256
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 1: was carrying, she was beautiful, she was good with my son.

1257
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 1: You know, was just for a day where you met him.

1258
01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:11,120
Speaker 1: So there's all these good things. But then when we

1259
01:05:11,160 --> 01:05:14,440
Speaker 1: got off camera, there was not the just the chemistry

1260
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 1: that you want in a marriage, right So with so

1261
01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: with Molly, there was just curiosity, and I knew that

1262
01:05:21,600 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 1: there was nobody else in the show that I was

1263
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 1: interested in dating, but Molly was the only one. So

1264
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 1: when I talked to the producers, they said, okay, yes,

1265
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:32,960
Speaker 1: but she's going to be the bat Florette unless you

1266
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 1: do something now. So the only I mean the really realistically,

1267
01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 1: the only reason that all that happened was she would

1268
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:41,280
Speaker 1: have started filming a week later, and it would have

1269
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:44,720
Speaker 1: been I would not have ever had that opportunity would

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01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 1: started filming the bats Florette. So the reason why I

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01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 1: was so condensed like that, I was like, Okay, if

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this, I've got to do it when

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01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 1: they say the cameras are ready. Otherwise, you know, they

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01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:58,640
Speaker 1: kind of hold your I don't know how real it is,

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01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: your contract over your head, which is a massive you know,

1276
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:04,120
Speaker 1: I know you worked with Brian Seacraft, like I don't

1277
01:06:04,120 --> 01:06:07,120
Speaker 1: have that kind of money. You know, I live in

1278
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,400
Speaker 1: a in a in a rig like I was living

1279
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 1: in a tiny little rambler trying to make me to

1280
01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 1: pay the mortgage for my son. And no, I get it.

1281
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 1: These are big life things that you kind of have

1282
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: to factor in, even though the audience doesn't know. It's

1283
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 1: just until you being on the bat, being a cast member.

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01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:31,440
Speaker 1: One of the is easy. I mean you go like

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01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:33,960
Speaker 1: either a become friends with a lot of girls with

1286
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:37,240
Speaker 1: guys and you go on date sometimes you hang out

1287
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:41,480
Speaker 1: with people, you drink, you get free meals, get to

1288
01:06:41,560 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: travel a little bit. It's like there's no worries when

1289
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 1: you become the bats or bats are at They ask

1290
01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:50,160
Speaker 1: you as it goes along to be part of the production,

1291
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:54,280
Speaker 1: and that means being nice to people on dates, being

1292
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 1: asking yourself and getting forced into doing things that you

1293
01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 1: don't want to do because it's the TV show. Is

1294
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 1: it possible to stand up to every producer and say no,

1295
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that, that's the wrong thing

1296
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 1: to do. It possible to do that retrospectively, but when

1297
01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 1: you're there, you don't know that you know, Like for example,

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01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:17,120
Speaker 1: I know Molly, Molly tells the story all the time.

1299
01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: Like one of the days she went on with me,

1300
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: they wanted her to um so it was the talent competition.

1301
01:07:25,280 --> 01:07:28,000
Speaker 1: They said, you need to tell Jason your secret talent

1302
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:30,720
Speaker 1: is kidding and she's like, that is the dumbest thing

1303
01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:34,560
Speaker 1: I've ever heard. I'm not secret because it's not it's

1304
01:07:34,600 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 1: not true. That's stupid, right, And they said that's fine.

1305
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: If you don't do that, then he's not going to

1306
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 1: pick you and we're gonna send you. He's gonna send

1307
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,439
Speaker 1: you off. Is that true? Who knows, But when you're

1308
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 1: on the show, you believe that story. That's pretty charge.

1309
01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 1: I've never heard anything said like that before. What's that

1310
01:07:50,880 --> 01:07:53,720
Speaker 1: I've never heard somebody's ever say that. They just do

1311
01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 1: a little bit of mind melting a little mind maybe

1312
01:07:56,400 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 1: not so like verbal. I've got a gazillion story, and

1313
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: I don't like in some sense, I get it, like

1314
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:08,680
Speaker 1: they're making a TV show, right right, Like everybody was

1315
01:08:08,880 --> 01:08:11,520
Speaker 1: so upset that the cameras were there for the breakup,

1316
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:16,639
Speaker 1: But if you remove feelings and your production, of course

1317
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna have cameras. They're like, that was the greatest

1318
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:22,720
Speaker 1: thing I've ever seen. So nobody is going to say no, no,

1319
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:25,479
Speaker 1: we shouldn't bring cameras, Like, of course we should bring cameras.

1320
01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:28,719
Speaker 1: And a million, million, million, million, million, million million people

1321
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:31,640
Speaker 1: watched it, and if you didn't, if they didn't do it,

1322
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:33,760
Speaker 1: would they would be like, well, what happened? How come?

1323
01:08:33,960 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 1: Like what like are you serious? Like now together, Lauren? Whatever?

1324
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:40,799
Speaker 1: What happened? Right? You're fired? If you have the camera already.

1325
01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:43,240
Speaker 1: Did say that he did it because he knew he

1326
01:08:43,320 --> 01:08:45,680
Speaker 1: was going to have to answer those questions eventually, and

1327
01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:47,639
Speaker 1: his might as well just have it on the record

1328
01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:51,240
Speaker 1: for everyone. I agree in some respect, but I think

1329
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:55,880
Speaker 1: Ari is also deep under contract with them, right, I'm yeah,

1330
01:08:56,040 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 1: like I'm like a contract clearly. Yeah, if they didn't

1331
01:09:02,040 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 1: even have right, they didn't have paperback, then yeah, clearly.

1332
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:07,639
Speaker 1: Everything you're saying is making me very nervous. It's fine

1333
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 1: because they still like you, so you're fine. Well, I mean,

1334
01:09:11,880 --> 01:09:13,800
Speaker 1: all this stuff has been said before. I think people

1335
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:18,080
Speaker 1: might listen now more just because um, people are asking

1336
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,479
Speaker 1: me questions again. But I'm not like, I'm not saying

1337
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 1: anything that I've never said before. I do think what's

1338
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:24,800
Speaker 1: interesting that you're saying that I'd love to know if

1339
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 1: you asked Ari, because people always say it is easy

1340
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:31,000
Speaker 1: being one of the and really a lot of work

1341
01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 1: to be the lead, as they call it, no idea.

1342
01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 1: I think Ari went into it thinking this is the

1343
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 1: greatest thing that ever happened to me, and if you

1344
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 1: asked him now is probably like, not the greatest thing

1345
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:45,439
Speaker 1: that ever happened. I remember you, for I did the Bachelor.

1346
01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:47,800
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to a couple of guys that

1347
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:50,479
Speaker 1: had done it. And I talked to a couple of

1348
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:52,760
Speaker 1: guys and they both did the same thing. They said,

1349
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:54,800
Speaker 1: we're going to tell you not to do it, but

1350
01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:56,960
Speaker 1: you're going to do it every anyway, Who did you? Ask?

1351
01:09:57,040 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 1: And I talked to Brad Womack, who did it again?

1352
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:05,000
Speaker 1: After you? After telling you that, Yeah, he goes and

1353
01:10:05,080 --> 01:10:09,880
Speaker 1: does it again. And who was the other one? And

1354
01:10:10,640 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 1: who's the other guy right before me? The British there's

1355
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:18,800
Speaker 1: a British guy. Oh, like one of those that nobody watched. Yeah,

1356
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:23,200
Speaker 1: I mean grand remember that. I don't. I don't know this, Okay, Yeah,

1357
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:25,360
Speaker 1: that's it was. And I said the same thing like

1358
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:27,439
Speaker 1: Jake Volco called me and I said, listen, I tell

1359
01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 1: you not to do it. I remember talking to Jillian

1360
01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:32,559
Speaker 1: and Ali, like I talked to all the people before

1361
01:10:32,600 --> 01:10:34,400
Speaker 1: they do it, and I said, I said the same thing.

1362
01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:37,639
Speaker 1: It's so hard. I said the same thing to Becca

1363
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:40,720
Speaker 1: last night. I'm like, it's so hard and you'll get it,

1364
01:10:40,920 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 1: like all you'll get it in three months? How hard

1365
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:46,600
Speaker 1: it really is? Right? Oh my gosh, I don't know.

1366
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:49,120
Speaker 1: I don't think anybody could ever say, of course I'd

1367
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:50,679
Speaker 1: want to be the bachelor if they were to ask

1368
01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: me and now a single But if you were to

1369
01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 1: be like, but if you really were to lay it

1370
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:57,680
Speaker 1: out like this, Hey, would you like to go on

1371
01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 1: a date with somebody for every day for the next

1372
01:11:00,680 --> 01:11:02,639
Speaker 1: two months, I'd be like, oh my god, that sounds

1373
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:05,360
Speaker 1: like hell. I wouldn't do it. If you offered me

1374
01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:11,519
Speaker 1: a hundred million way, I would literally have to be

1375
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 1: hospitalized in in some form of special place because I

1376
01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 1: could not mentally handle it. Think about like, not only

1377
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 1: are you going on dates every single day for two months,

1378
01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:25,280
Speaker 1: but also when you're not on a date or in

1379
01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 1: between dates, you're talking about your feelings and you're constantly talking, talking, talking,

1380
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:33,840
Speaker 1: Please give me a couch and some take out so

1381
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 1: that I can just vege out at we take your

1382
01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:40,240
Speaker 1: phone away come out. That's still I still love that

1383
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:42,759
Speaker 1: very It was very different when I did it, because

1384
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:46,680
Speaker 1: you know, I think iPhones could just come out. It

1385
01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: was like, can I take your BlackBerry please? Yeah? That

1386
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:53,040
Speaker 1: like it just crawls when you try to get on

1387
01:11:53,080 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 1: the internet. Yeah, yeah, exactly. M I have one more

1388
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:59,960
Speaker 1: question before we actually have to One is an unanswered question.

1389
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:02,840
Speaker 1: Since from before you said that Melissa already had a

1390
01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:05,560
Speaker 1: guy and that's why she wasn't going to be the bachelorette.

1391
01:12:06,680 --> 01:12:10,800
Speaker 1: So she had a guy from before the show years,

1392
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:13,560
Speaker 1: she met him, she knew him, she knew him beforehand,

1393
01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:17,479
Speaker 1: they ate him beforehand. Okay, a lot of the girls

1394
01:12:18,240 --> 01:12:23,240
Speaker 1: I find to the guy from before. Yeah, I know that.

1395
01:12:23,479 --> 01:12:27,320
Speaker 1: And then they married. Yeah I didn't know. It's fine,

1396
01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:29,600
Speaker 1: Like I didn't know any of that, but it was

1397
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:31,240
Speaker 1: the right obviously, the right thing for her to do.

1398
01:12:32,400 --> 01:12:35,920
Speaker 1: And then the second question is, Um, did already ever

1399
01:12:36,040 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 1: reach out to you, like personally because the situations are

1400
01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:41,880
Speaker 1: so similar, or was it like productions would have, like

1401
01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 1: I I had found out about it. I don't know.

1402
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:48,960
Speaker 1: It was sometime in January, um, and I remember reaching

1403
01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 1: out to him and like not hearing back for a

1404
01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:53,000
Speaker 1: little while and finally try to be like I'll get

1405
01:12:53,040 --> 01:12:55,639
Speaker 1: a hold, and you never did. You know. What's funny

1406
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:58,519
Speaker 1: is that I think part of that is because the

1407
01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:01,120
Speaker 1: production is thing, if Jason reaches out to you, don't

1408
01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:04,760
Speaker 1: talk right because we're gonna have a conversation with them

1409
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 1: later on camera. Okay, Okay, So what I was gonna say.

1410
01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:11,360
Speaker 1: It was interesting because back back in your day, you

1411
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:14,200
Speaker 1: couldn't slide into her d M S and do it privately.

1412
01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:16,880
Speaker 1: You would have to find her number, and production would

1413
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,160
Speaker 1: never give you her number. Yeah. Really, you're the crap

1414
01:13:20,200 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 1: out of you. Yeah, there's no way to secretly. Yeah

1415
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:24,080
Speaker 1: there was. I mean I've joked around about this, Like

1416
01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 1: back then Twitter it just started. It was using Twitter,

1417
01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 1: and my Space was bigger than Facebook, Like right, what

1418
01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:35,720
Speaker 1: happened to you know? Facebook was just this kind of

1419
01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:38,320
Speaker 1: new thing. You know, it's been around a couple of years,

1420
01:13:38,400 --> 01:13:41,519
Speaker 1: but my Space was king back then. That's really funny.

1421
01:13:41,920 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 1: All right, Well, Jason, this is so informative, very interesting. Yes,

1422
01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:51,320
Speaker 1: we're gonna love this well. And you're like, you know,

1423
01:13:51,400 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 1: and you're kind of like, hey, give Aria a break.

1424
01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 1: You know. I think people are starting to sort of

1425
01:13:55,640 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 1: like give this a break. I mean, you guys, I

1426
01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:01,240
Speaker 1: would like, over and over again, he shouldn't have feel

1427
01:14:01,360 --> 01:14:03,400
Speaker 1: like he should have figured out a way to not film,

1428
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:05,439
Speaker 1: and I would have told him that, but he would

1429
01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 1: have listened to producers anyway, the audio would it would

1430
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 1: have been confused. And I would say, for somebody, if

1431
01:14:12,240 --> 01:14:15,720
Speaker 1: he's that confused, he's a. He's an emotional guy. Maybe

1432
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:18,080
Speaker 1: he didn't show his emotions like that as much as

1433
01:14:18,120 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 1: people would have liked. But it takes a lot of

1434
01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:24,080
Speaker 1: balls to go and know that you're gonna get crushed

1435
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: like he is and still go through with it. He's

1436
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,519
Speaker 1: handled it pretty well, and I've been texted him today.

1437
01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:34,559
Speaker 1: He seems good. Yeah. When I asked him about three

1438
01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:37,240
Speaker 1: weeks ago at woman til all ago, are you dreading

1439
01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:39,600
Speaker 1: after the final rows? Are you looking forward to it?

1440
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:41,200
Speaker 1: He was like, I'm honestly looking forward to it so

1441
01:14:41,240 --> 01:14:44,880
Speaker 1: I can just breathe fresh air after afterward. All right, Jason,

1442
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 1: I love you. You're great. Thank you so much. You're welcome.

1443
01:14:49,280 --> 01:14:51,600
Speaker 1: Someone pulls a mesnic again, Yeah, tell him to go

1444
01:14:51,720 --> 01:14:53,759
Speaker 1: to UH. If they need to buy a house in Seattle,

1445
01:14:53,800 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 1: call me. Oh, we will tell him right now. Oh yeah, Hey,

1446
01:14:57,160 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 1: anybody looking to buy a house, tell a house in Seattle.

1447
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm your guy. I worked my butt off, even pressure

1448
01:15:02,439 --> 01:15:07,799
Speaker 1: wash myself. I have houses where Molly Molly is taking pictures.

1449
01:15:07,960 --> 01:15:10,800
Speaker 1: I took them by and I'm pressure washed driveway. I

1450
01:15:10,920 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: built a headboard for somebody's uh bed before staking their house.

1451
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:21,639
Speaker 1: Oh my god, who servant Jason Mesnick. Yeah, Jason Mesnick,

1452
01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:24,839
Speaker 1: Jason Mesnick Group dot Com. All right, well, thanks Jason,

1453
01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:28,519
Speaker 1: we'll talk to you soon. Bye. Al right, guys, Well

1454
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: after this Bachelor for Neale week, I need some sleep

1455
01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:33,559
Speaker 1: like I've never had sleep before. I'm going to hibernate

1456
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Speaker 1: for the next three days, and um, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: They really is the most comfortable bed. Sleep all day

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Speaker 1: and right now. I do do most of your work

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Speaker 1: from your sep number work, so I take conference calls

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01:16:57,200 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 1: on my laptop. I do emails all day long. People

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01:16:59,840 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 1: think I'm working in an office and I'm working in

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01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:03,759
Speaker 1: my sleep and see I'm a couch I'm a couch worker.

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01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:06,200
Speaker 1: But if I you know, but I shouldn't move over

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Speaker 1: to the bedroom. So here's a little thing I will say.

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Speaker 1: When I used to work at a desk, I got

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01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:14,040
Speaker 1: horrible back aches, and now that I work from my

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Speaker 1: sleep Number bed, I don't get them anymore because it's

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Speaker 1: like it's comfortable and sit up and you're on your

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Speaker 1: laptop and I don't have the same back aches headaches

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Speaker 1: that I used to get. That so it's worth it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, Well you guys you heard from Ami. You know,

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Speaker 1: all right, I want to talk talk about some emails, UM,

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01:17:34,160 --> 01:17:36,160
Speaker 1: do a couple of ones that are off topic of

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01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:39,760
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, because, UM, I need a break. I'm gonna

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01:17:39,760 --> 01:17:41,320
Speaker 1: be honest, I need a break. I'm losing it. If

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01:17:41,320 --> 01:17:43,679
Speaker 1: you guys haven't haven't been able to tell I don't

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01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:46,200
Speaker 1: feel like I've been at my finest game today that

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01:17:46,560 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 1: I think. It's just like a little bit of overkiller

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Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, we had a lot of Bachelor, a

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Speaker 1: lot of Winter Games. Now we're going to have some

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01:17:53,040 --> 01:17:55,759
Speaker 1: fun until I know that's what we get to talk about,

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01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:59,880
Speaker 1: like relationships, and that makes me happy. This I love

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01:18:00,040 --> 01:18:03,559
Speaker 1: keep everybody informed on what all the Bachelor people are doing. Yeah, okay,

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01:18:03,640 --> 01:18:07,240
Speaker 1: so I love this email. UM. The topic is how

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01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:10,400
Speaker 1: do you know they're the one? This is from Kelly, Hi, Ashley,

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01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:12,519
Speaker 1: and Ben. I am reeling from the finale and I

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01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:14,120
Speaker 1: can't wait for after the final Rose. It's a couple

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01:18:14,160 --> 01:18:16,679
Speaker 1: of days old. I wanted to comment on the question

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01:18:16,760 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: of how do you know when you're with the right person.

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01:18:20,120 --> 01:18:22,880
Speaker 1: I am someone who has been in a successful relationship

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01:18:22,920 --> 01:18:24,320
Speaker 1: for the past three years of my life, and I

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01:18:24,360 --> 01:18:28,720
Speaker 1: am constantly mulling over this question. Long story short, you

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01:18:28,840 --> 01:18:30,559
Speaker 1: know when you're with the right person if they bring

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01:18:30,640 --> 01:18:32,600
Speaker 1: out the parts of you that you want to emphasize

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01:18:32,640 --> 01:18:37,280
Speaker 1: in yourself. I genuine believe that a human can love

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01:18:37,400 --> 01:18:40,759
Speaker 1: more than one person. We open our hearts to endless friends,

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01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:42,840
Speaker 1: and I believe it is possible to open your heart

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01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:46,639
Speaker 1: to loving more than one person. Different soulmates bring out

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01:18:46,720 --> 01:18:49,800
Speaker 1: different parts of yourself, and to choose to be with

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01:18:49,880 --> 01:18:51,840
Speaker 1: a person is to choose to be with the part

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01:18:51,880 --> 01:18:53,800
Speaker 1: of yourself that you like to be with the very most,

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Speaker 1: whether that is your fund self, your spiritual self, or

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01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:00,280
Speaker 1: a part of your personality you cannot compensate for, and

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01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:03,920
Speaker 1: other friendships and relationships such as sexual and romantic selves.

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Speaker 1: So I don't think the question is if you're choosing

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Speaker 1: the person that you love the most, but are you

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Speaker 1: choosing the person who makes you love yourself the most? Wow?

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Speaker 1: That is a good point. I love that, hoping you

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01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:20,639
Speaker 1: guys are interested in my theory. I love the almost podcasts.

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01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,680
Speaker 1: I know Ashley, you with Kevin make me cry like

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01:19:23,840 --> 01:19:26,559
Speaker 1: it was a bachelor proposal. Wishing you the best. That's

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01:19:26,600 --> 01:19:28,880
Speaker 1: so sweet. Thank you, Kelly. Yeah, she makes really good points.

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Speaker 1: What do you think, um, I think that's actually incredible.

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Speaker 1: That makes me wonder if she believes in monogamy though,

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01:19:33,960 --> 01:19:37,840
Speaker 1: I mean she's obviously in a relationship. But okay, so yes,

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Speaker 1: you choose to be with the person who brings out

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Speaker 1: that quality that you like the very most, like it's

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Speaker 1: your most important I suppose the thing I've been learning

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01:19:45,080 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 1: lately is that, Look, it's still hard work, and you

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01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:50,640
Speaker 1: still have to sort of work on yourself. But I

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01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 1: think when you're really in love, you want to I

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01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:59,120
Speaker 1: want to be a better person for my person. Does

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01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:02,160
Speaker 1: that make sense? Totally makes anything? Again? Like I said

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01:20:02,200 --> 01:20:04,840
Speaker 1: with the sacrifices the other day, it's not work. It's

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01:20:04,880 --> 01:20:07,960
Speaker 1: something I want to do because it makes me happy

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01:20:08,280 --> 01:20:10,679
Speaker 1: and them happy. I don't know. I think the greatest

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01:20:10,720 --> 01:20:12,639
Speaker 1: thing I've ever been told is you make me happy.

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01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:17,439
Speaker 1: I could just die happy from that. It was like,

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01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:21,720
Speaker 1: that is just life changing. Um, I personally like it

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01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:24,240
Speaker 1: when my fun self and my funny self comes out

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01:20:24,800 --> 01:20:27,400
Speaker 1: and like my flirty, bantery self. So if I'm with

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01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:30,080
Speaker 1: somebody who I'm not laughing with a lot, which this

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01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:32,240
Speaker 1: is kind of like a new it's kind of like

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01:20:32,320 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 1: something new. Like if you had asked me a couple

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01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 1: of years ago, I wouldn't say, like a guy who

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01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:38,720
Speaker 1: makes me laugh, which is so weird because I think

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01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:40,439
Speaker 1: all girls say that. But I was like, oh no,

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01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:41,960
Speaker 1: it's not gonna say it's like a decent sense of

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01:20:42,040 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 1: human but like, no, I need to have like that flirty,

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01:20:44,520 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 1: witty banter. Yeah, it makes me feel more like alive

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01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:49,600
Speaker 1: and it makes me feel really connected. I think that

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01:20:49,720 --> 01:20:51,880
Speaker 1: is a great You want something that makes you feel alive,

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01:20:52,080 --> 01:20:54,840
Speaker 1: even if it's sometimes you're crying, or sometimes you're happy,

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01:20:55,000 --> 01:21:00,559
Speaker 1: or sometimes you're passionate, whatever you feel. Feelings. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: I mean, Kelly, I don't think you really have a question.

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01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:05,280
Speaker 1: I think we love your theory and it's something that

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Speaker 1: I'm going to keep in on the back of my

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01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 1: mind always. Thank you m hm. Thinking of another man

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01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:16,519
Speaker 1: from anonymous Bett and Ashley, I believe when you know

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Speaker 1: you found the one, you definitely just know. You feel

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01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:21,280
Speaker 1: in your soul, you crave to be around them and

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Speaker 1: you can't get your mind off of them. With that

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Speaker 1: being said, I'm in a very serious relationship. We've been

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Speaker 1: together for five years and I love him to death,

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Speaker 1: but recently there's someone else that has stopped my world completely.

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01:21:32,560 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 1: Get this achy, lovely feeling that I haven't before. Literally

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Speaker 1: I can't get him off my mind, and I just

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01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:41,639
Speaker 1: have this feeling that there's something more, or there could

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01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 1: be something more if I wasn't a relationship with someone else.

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01:21:45,080 --> 01:21:47,479
Speaker 1: I'm not going to end my relationship for him, and

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01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:50,120
Speaker 1: I would never cheat on my significant other. But I

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01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:54,320
Speaker 1: still can't help but think about this guy all the time.

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01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,200
Speaker 1: I think about all the things that could happen between

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01:21:57,320 --> 01:22:01,120
Speaker 1: us if my relationship ever ended, and just being ridiculous

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01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:03,760
Speaker 1: or doing the whole grass is greener on the other

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01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:06,960
Speaker 1: side thing. Or could I actually have strong, real feelings

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01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:09,519
Speaker 1: for two people? Thinks? Okay, well, going off of what

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01:22:09,720 --> 01:22:12,280
Speaker 1: Kelly said before, I think you can definitely have strong

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Speaker 1: feelings for both people. And if Ben were here, he

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01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 1: would obviously say the same thing. He was in love

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01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:19,200
Speaker 1: with two girls, maybe in different ways, but you know,

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01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:22,840
Speaker 1: similar enough when he was a bachelor. What do what

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01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:24,920
Speaker 1: do you do? I know this. I saw this email

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01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:27,040
Speaker 1: and was like, I don't know how to I mean,

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01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:29,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know what this is. This is horrible,

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01:22:29,400 --> 01:22:31,439
Speaker 1: this is I'm gonna be But I'm gonna tell you

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01:22:31,560 --> 01:22:33,880
Speaker 1: what I would probably do. I think you'd have to

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01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:36,200
Speaker 1: experiment a little bit with this guy. Not physically and

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01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:39,040
Speaker 1: not deeply emotionally, but I think you need to hang

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01:22:39,080 --> 01:22:41,240
Speaker 1: out with him enough to really know whether this is

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01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:43,360
Speaker 1: something that your mind is just making up or if

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01:22:43,400 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 1: this is something that could really be there. It's just yeah,

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01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:48,599
Speaker 1: you have to invest a little time. Agree with Ashley,

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01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:50,400
Speaker 1: although I feel like we might get a lot of

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01:22:51,080 --> 01:22:52,320
Speaker 1: I think we might get a lot of hate. Two.

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01:22:52,360 --> 01:22:54,080
Speaker 1: But then, what are you gonna do? Are you gonna

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01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:56,080
Speaker 1: end your relationship for a guy that you just like

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01:22:56,200 --> 01:22:59,920
Speaker 1: got a little buzz crossover, which I would assume if

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01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:02,799
Speaker 1: you're with somebody for five years and you're not married,

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01:23:03,280 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 1: that if you if somebody else piques your interest, I

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01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:08,639
Speaker 1: think you could probably develop a crush while still really

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01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:10,679
Speaker 1: wanting to be with the person that you're in the relationship.

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01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 1: This is a big this is a complicated one and

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01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 1: I almost feel like we should put you on the

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01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:21,599
Speaker 1: mike since you're the married guy in this house. Okay, Easton,

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01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:24,760
Speaker 1: you're married. You've been with your wife for how long?

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01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:27,639
Speaker 1: I've been with her for five years? Five years? Perfect

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01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:31,440
Speaker 1: have you ever developed any sort of interest or curiosity

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01:23:31,520 --> 01:23:38,640
Speaker 1: in somebody else? Okay, So, then going back to anonymous,

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01:23:39,040 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 1: I also I've never been in a relationship as serious

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01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:44,880
Speaker 1: as five years. But I do tend to like to

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01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:47,400
Speaker 1: think that if I was with the person that I

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01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 1: want to spend the rest of my life with and

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01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:52,560
Speaker 1: my soul mate, that I wouldn't develop that crush. That

1625
01:23:52,760 --> 01:23:57,240
Speaker 1: is a concern. Yeah, because I think that too. This

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01:23:57,400 --> 01:23:59,840
Speaker 1: whole email is very concerning. I feel like we might

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01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:02,280
Speaker 1: want to address it when we're when we do our

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01:24:02,320 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 1: next show like a therapist. Yeah, Anonymous, Um, I'd love

1629
01:24:06,120 --> 01:24:08,439
Speaker 1: to know if you would like to come on and

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01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 1: describe the situation. Save this email because I want to

1631
01:24:13,360 --> 01:24:16,240
Speaker 1: go back to it next time. I think this is

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01:24:16,280 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 1: a question that a lot of people have and encounter

1633
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,120
Speaker 1: in their life, and I think, yeah, we should dive

1634
01:24:20,160 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 1: a little bit deeper, especially when we have because I

1635
01:24:22,200 --> 01:24:24,560
Speaker 1: hate to say this, Oh God, I hate to say this,

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01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:29,120
Speaker 1: So Anonymous, don't listen to this everybody else because there

1637
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:34,320
Speaker 1: might be a reason that, how do I say this,

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01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:37,719
Speaker 1: she may not be in the perfect relationship if she's

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01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:43,080
Speaker 1: having these someone else. Like in an ideal world, I

1640
01:24:43,160 --> 01:24:44,719
Speaker 1: would like to think that when I'm with the person

1641
01:24:44,760 --> 01:24:46,519
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be with, I would never crush on

1642
01:24:46,600 --> 01:24:49,479
Speaker 1: anyone else. Okay, but I don't really know yet because

1643
01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:51,680
Speaker 1: I think someone's cute or like they give you like

1644
01:24:51,760 --> 01:24:54,840
Speaker 1: a little flutter, but but not to this. This is

1645
01:24:55,000 --> 01:25:00,360
Speaker 1: really more Yeah, all right, one last email and I

1646
01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:02,639
Speaker 1: love the headline of this. Do women do their own makeup?

1647
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:05,320
Speaker 1: This is from Annie in California. She goes, how do

1648
01:25:05,520 --> 01:25:07,720
Speaker 1: all the women look so flawless on the show? Do

1649
01:25:07,840 --> 01:25:10,360
Speaker 1: they do their own makeup? And how do all the

1650
01:25:10,439 --> 01:25:12,320
Speaker 1: women know how to do their makeup so well? What

1651
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:16,759
Speaker 1: brands are they using? All right? So yeah, um, everybody

1652
01:25:16,800 --> 01:25:19,960
Speaker 1: asked this question. I think we've addressed it before. About clothing,

1653
01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:22,880
Speaker 1: at least your clothes are all on you that first season.

1654
01:25:23,120 --> 01:25:25,640
Speaker 1: Once you do Paradise, there's lots of clothing brands that

1655
01:25:25,800 --> 01:25:29,200
Speaker 1: want to send you clothing. So in my past I've

1656
01:25:29,280 --> 01:25:36,280
Speaker 1: had purchase clothes in Paradise and um given clothes. But makeup, Yeah,

1657
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:40,720
Speaker 1: makeup is all on us. I I did it. I

1658
01:25:40,880 --> 01:25:42,640
Speaker 1: love doing my own makeup for camera. I feel like

1659
01:25:42,720 --> 01:25:44,800
Speaker 1: I know my face best and it just seems like

1660
01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:46,479
Speaker 1: the other girls in the house really know how to

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01:25:46,520 --> 01:25:49,439
Speaker 1: do it too. I don't know what to tell you, um,

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01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:54,240
Speaker 1: but we do it, and UM my favorite brands if

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01:25:54,240 --> 01:25:55,760
Speaker 1: you want to if you want my favorite brands I

1664
01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:59,800
Speaker 1: like I like Mabelin, I like Becca, I like Tar

1665
01:26:00,800 --> 01:26:04,360
Speaker 1: and I love cat Bondie for things like powdery substances

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01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:10,400
Speaker 1: like eyeshadows and um, you know um powder foundation because

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01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:12,639
Speaker 1: it has really really good strong pegment. Can I say

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01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:14,960
Speaker 1: something crazy because I don't wear very much makeup? But

1669
01:26:15,080 --> 01:26:19,040
Speaker 1: do you want to know what has been life changing? Goop? Goop?

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01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:22,480
Speaker 1: I know maybe loves a group which is Gwyneth Paltrow's

1671
01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:27,160
Speaker 1: beauty and Gwyneth because she will give like a little

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01:26:27,479 --> 01:26:31,560
Speaker 1: things on her Instagram and I thought too, and like

1673
01:26:32,120 --> 01:26:36,400
Speaker 1: game change. What is what products? Illuminators? Is that the

1674
01:26:36,479 --> 01:26:39,280
Speaker 1: right thing? Like highlighters? Yeah, like a little and then

1675
01:26:39,320 --> 01:26:44,599
Speaker 1: this little creamy blush thing. I mean, Gwyneth is my girl,

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01:26:46,400 --> 01:26:51,400
Speaker 1: kidding she is. I could see using organic foundation, no makeup.

1677
01:26:51,439 --> 01:26:55,000
Speaker 1: I don't wear foundation. I only wear that little illuminator

1678
01:26:55,040 --> 01:26:58,599
Speaker 1: or whatever it's called blush and lip gloss. Okay, well

1679
01:26:58,640 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 1: that you know what that's really the basics. That is

1680
01:27:01,160 --> 01:27:03,879
Speaker 1: what every new girl nick needs to feel her prettiest.

1681
01:27:04,240 --> 01:27:07,280
Speaker 1: And you know, beyond that is when guys starts saying

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Speaker 1: like it's too much. Guys, like you know, this is

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Speaker 1: what I hear guys like a little lip stuff, a

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01:27:12,800 --> 01:27:15,680
Speaker 1: little mascara and a little blush and highlight. I hear

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01:27:15,720 --> 01:27:17,760
Speaker 1: you want to look the same in the morning as

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Speaker 1: you do at night. My only caveat about that is like,

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01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:24,200
Speaker 1: my I've got a whole bunch of post acne spotting,

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01:27:24,439 --> 01:27:26,280
Speaker 1: so in like a little bit of rosasha. So like

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01:27:26,360 --> 01:27:29,000
Speaker 1: I need to wear a foundation, but that sucks because

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01:27:29,080 --> 01:27:33,160
Speaker 1: foundation is always like the telltale makeup, Like you know

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01:27:33,280 --> 01:27:36,439
Speaker 1: a girl is wearing foundation. Which it's the one thing

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01:27:36,680 --> 01:27:39,360
Speaker 1: My goal in life is to be able to feel

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Speaker 1: really pretty without foundation. That's it. That's a good This

1694
01:27:46,200 --> 01:27:49,559
Speaker 1: is what I dream you do? One more? Do one more? Okay,

1695
01:27:49,600 --> 01:27:52,000
Speaker 1: we'll do this because it's fun. Alright, So back to

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01:27:52,080 --> 01:27:55,840
Speaker 1: the Bachelor talk. This is from Lovely on after the

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01:27:55,880 --> 01:27:58,080
Speaker 1: Final Rose, we saw the first five contestants of Becca

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01:27:58,200 --> 01:28:00,400
Speaker 1: season eke, I wanted to know your earlier pinions and

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01:28:00,439 --> 01:28:02,599
Speaker 1: guesses on who we think will go the furthest out

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01:28:02,600 --> 01:28:04,840
Speaker 1: of the five we saw tonight, and if you read

1701
01:28:04,880 --> 01:28:07,559
Speaker 1: my question or answer, it thinks if not also thinks,

1702
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:11,080
Speaker 1: here's to a better season, hopefully slash most likely Lovely.

1703
01:28:11,280 --> 01:28:13,240
Speaker 1: Let's all remember Dean was one of those. I know

1704
01:28:13,439 --> 01:28:16,280
Speaker 1: Dean was sitting with me watching that and I was like, Dean,

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01:28:16,320 --> 01:28:18,400
Speaker 1: you're such a husband. Now this is this was you

1706
01:28:18,600 --> 01:28:21,360
Speaker 1: last year. Um okay, So these are the guys that

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01:28:21,400 --> 01:28:24,000
Speaker 1: stuck to me. One That first guy so cute, they

1708
01:28:24,000 --> 01:28:27,400
Speaker 1: want with the accent, so charming. I just knew all

1709
01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:30,240
Speaker 1: the right things to say. Loved him. Love the guy

1710
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:34,120
Speaker 1: with the banjo so cute. Also, I thought the whole

1711
01:28:34,160 --> 01:28:37,160
Speaker 1: horse move was pretty cute. I mean, start of a

1712
01:28:37,200 --> 01:28:39,280
Speaker 1: fairy tale. You're gonna get back up on the horse

1713
01:28:39,400 --> 01:28:41,160
Speaker 1: and that's how she's going to exit the stage. I

1714
01:28:41,200 --> 01:28:44,680
Speaker 1: mean pretty perfect. Um, there's that second guy up. He

1715
01:28:44,800 --> 01:28:46,599
Speaker 1: was a little too swab. I can see him being

1716
01:28:46,720 --> 01:28:50,120
Speaker 1: like a Robbie character. Yeah, it's all blurred to me.

1717
01:28:50,160 --> 01:28:53,040
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be on no way. I don't know.

1718
01:28:53,560 --> 01:28:56,640
Speaker 1: But that banjo guy was so freaking cute. I was

1719
01:28:56,760 --> 01:28:59,160
Speaker 1: stoked over him. I was like kind of like, oh man,

1720
01:28:59,800 --> 01:29:01,519
Speaker 1: I want to see more of this guy. I think

1721
01:29:01,600 --> 01:29:04,000
Speaker 1: he's going to go really far. I think the first time,

1722
01:29:04,160 --> 01:29:10,200
Speaker 1: remember when do we see the Bachelorette went May? So, guys,

1723
01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:13,280
Speaker 1: we have um over two months, but you know what

1724
01:29:13,560 --> 01:29:16,960
Speaker 1: they're going to breeze by. It's going to be alarmingly fast. Yeah,

1725
01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:19,639
Speaker 1: and then we go Bachelor right into Paradise. Yeah. It's

1726
01:29:19,680 --> 01:29:24,400
Speaker 1: a whole string of string of all the good stuff. Okay, guys, um,

1727
01:29:24,800 --> 01:29:27,960
Speaker 1: if you are looking to be on the next season

1728
01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:31,519
Speaker 1: of The Bachelor, first send your audition tapes in now.

1729
01:29:31,720 --> 01:29:35,920
Speaker 1: They cast way ahead of time to make it an awesome,

1730
01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:39,000
Speaker 1: awesome audition tape. I'm thinking about ripping out my old

1731
01:29:39,040 --> 01:29:42,080
Speaker 1: audition tape and actually posting its Instagram. It's so embarrassing.

1732
01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,200
Speaker 1: It's so embarrassing that I actually haven't posted mine in

1733
01:29:45,240 --> 01:29:48,320
Speaker 1: the past. Like, I'm not embarrassed by anything that I do.

1734
01:29:48,880 --> 01:29:51,800
Speaker 1: I just like embrace the awkwardness. This is like the

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01:29:51,920 --> 01:29:54,000
Speaker 1: one thing where I'm like, that's a little bit over

1736
01:29:54,080 --> 01:29:56,880
Speaker 1: the edge. I know, so I think I'm going to

1737
01:29:57,320 --> 01:29:59,120
Speaker 1: but yeah, So this is my advice to you guys, like,

1738
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Speaker 1: if you really want to be on the next season,

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Speaker 1: so good, Oh my gosh. I was looking at Flair

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Speaker 1: just figure out if it doesn't really fit perfectly, I

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Speaker 1: And that's all I got. Next week, moving on to

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Speaker 1: more real life things between Ben and myself and um,

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Speaker 1: I'll talk to you then. Until then, email Ben and

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