WEBVTT - Macy & Kent - Not Looking for Gold

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at adjucuslaw dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Kents is on the phone today for a first day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named

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<v Speaker 2>Macy that he went out with. So in a few minutes,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us

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<v Speaker 2>why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date.

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<v Speaker 2>But first, kids, how long has it been since you

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<v Speaker 2>heard from Macy?

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<v Speaker 3>Dude, It's been like five days. And I know I'm

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<v Speaker 3>getting ghosted. Like absolutely, no, I am getting ghosted.

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<v Speaker 4>What makes you say it like that?

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<v Speaker 3>I knew that when she showed up to the place

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<v Speaker 3>where I took her out, Like she just wasn't impressed,

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<v Speaker 3>she wasn't having it, And I just I don't clearly

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<v Speaker 3>quite one hundred percent of her sam But like I

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<v Speaker 3>do know that.

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<v Speaker 5>She is avoiding me.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, what is it about her though that makes you

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<v Speaker 4>want to get a hold of her? If you're being avoided,

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<v Speaker 4>then why are you running towards the avoidee?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh No, she's like she's great, she's professional, she is

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<v Speaker 3>you know, just like you know, we really like I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to really hit it off, but like it's like

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, like I gave her an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 3>choose the place, and she didn't choose to put so

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<v Speaker 3>I took her to this like old like kind of

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<v Speaker 3>haunt that like Scott like some character.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>She called it muddy, Yeah, because I don't know, like

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<v Speaker 3>I love like things like that, like I don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 3>go for I don't know. I gave her the opportunity

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<v Speaker 3>to choose.

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<v Speaker 4>So do you feel like the experience that you gave

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<v Speaker 4>her wasn't normal for you? Or what do you want

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<v Speaker 4>to tell her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I just want to tell her that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like did I could tell that she was like getting

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<v Speaker 3>quote work calls through the whole date and stuff, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's like, you know, I'm start of one, Like dude,

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<v Speaker 3>if you're really not having a great time. I at

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<v Speaker 3>least said she had to leave after like five or

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<v Speaker 3>six calls. Like all I'm trying to say is like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not that bad a guy. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>it is exactly that I did. The plan was for

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<v Speaker 3>her we were gonna eat after she got off work.

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<v Speaker 3>It just it seemed weird that like it doesn't take

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<v Speaker 3>much for me.

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<v Speaker 6>To pick up on it, like so you could tell

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<v Speaker 6>there was like a vibe vibe that she wasn't into it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm just like I just kind of want to

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<v Speaker 3>like get her to like I want to figure out

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<v Speaker 3>the real reason why she was ghosting me, because I

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<v Speaker 3>know it wasn't work and I don't know what I

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<v Speaker 3>did wrong, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Like she's a great She's a great girl. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>That's really what I'm trying to figure out.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, cool, Well, we'll play a song come Back, and

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<v Speaker 2>then call her see if she'll tell us why she's

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting you and hopefully get you another date. Then all right, cool,

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<v Speaker 2>all right man, we'll play song come Back and get

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<v Speaker 2>your first Day follow up the next Right in the

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<v Speaker 2>middle of our first day follow up and if you're

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<v Speaker 2>just joining us, Kent is on the phone and he's

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<v Speaker 2>getting ghosted by Macy. So we're about to call her

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<v Speaker 2>and ask her why she's ghosting him and maybe get

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<v Speaker 2>him another date if he still wants him. But before

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<v Speaker 2>we do that, can why don't you catch everybody up

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<v Speaker 2>on your situation?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, like I went out with this girl,

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<v Speaker 3>I gave her an opportunity to choose anywhere to go

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<v Speaker 3>in the world, and you know, she let me choose that.

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<v Speaker 5>My place was musty. And I know for sure I'm

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<v Speaker 5>getting ghosted, but I don't know why. But I just

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<v Speaker 5>don't feel like I deserve that. I want to know.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to know why she won't talk to me anymore.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, and you really liked her?

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<v Speaker 5>Huh No, she's fantastic. All right?

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<v Speaker 3>Man?

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<v Speaker 6>Well here you are you ready for us to call her?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm ready as I can be.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess. Okay, Hello, Hi Massik to Macy.

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<v Speaker 5>Please, this is me see how can I help you?

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<v Speaker 6>MACI? Hi, how are you? My name is Jewbell and

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<v Speaker 6>I host a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Macy, I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hi, my

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<v Speaker 4>name Victoria.

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<v Speaker 6>How are you?

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<v Speaker 5>Hi? I'm good?

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<v Speaker 6>How are you great? Thank you for asking? Have you

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<v Speaker 6>ever listened to the show before?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 6>So we do a segment on the show it's called

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<v Speaker 6>the first Date follow Up.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 2>somebody and they end up ghosting you, you can have

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<v Speaker 2>us get them on the phone and ask them why

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<v Speaker 2>they're ghosting you.

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<v Speaker 6>So we got an email you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you got it. Oh that's how you were offering.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh god, yeah, we got an email about you and

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<v Speaker 6>his name is Kent.

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<v Speaker 5>What Sorry? No, thank you? No, I don't want The

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<v Speaker 5>first date was terrible. I don't really want to relive that.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh no, okay, well could you tell us why? He

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<v Speaker 6>just wants to know. He said he really liked you,

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<v Speaker 6>and he doesn't know you know, why you're ghosting him.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh he should know. Okay, Well we'll put it very simply.

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<v Speaker 5>He took me to have you guys ever been there? No,

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<v Speaker 5>because you're normal people. Okay. It's a little place that

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<v Speaker 5>you take a first date. It is a place that

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<v Speaker 5>you will take a future or victim. It's cheery.

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<v Speaker 6>Is that bad?

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<v Speaker 3>It was?

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was going to be a cute little bar,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, nice happy hour. I walked in, I got scared.

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<v Speaker 5>I almost walked right out, but he had already seen me,

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<v Speaker 5>and so I was like, oh, well, this will be

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<v Speaker 5>my life for the next two hours. Yay. He was terrible.

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<v Speaker 5>From the beginning. It wasn't good, and so you know,

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<v Speaker 5>after like fifteen minutes, I went to the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 5>I called my friends and I was like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 5>need you to call me like every ten minutes until

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<v Speaker 5>I can get out of here and be like, oh

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<v Speaker 5>work emergency. It was so bad. He like, I come in.

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<v Speaker 5>I had just gotten off of work. He's wearing jeans

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<v Speaker 5>and a T shirt. I thought we were both coming

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<v Speaker 5>from work. And then he tells me that he quit

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<v Speaker 5>his job a few weeks ago. That's a big deal

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<v Speaker 5>breaker for me because I want someone that I can

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<v Speaker 5>work with and we can grow together. I do not

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<v Speaker 5>want to be the soul redwinner.

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<v Speaker 4>Well did he explain why he quit his job, what

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<v Speaker 4>his plan is for the future.

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, I didn't get that far. I was already

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<v Speaker 5>so turned off. I was like, can I cut in here?

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<v Speaker 2>Eo, yes you can. Maeh, that's Kent. He's been actually

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<v Speaker 2>listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>What's up? First of all, sorry, wait, you're what you listening? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm listening because I was trying to figure out why

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<v Speaker 5>you were ghosting me. But like I'm listening to you,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, dude, like, what the Like, what the hell?

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<v Speaker 6>That's ken?

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<v Speaker 5>And you like you the place that we went? Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 5>first of all, that bar is disgusting. In the future

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<v Speaker 5>never take any woman there.

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<v Speaker 1>They will call the police on you. But you you

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<v Speaker 1>you emailed them and a secret phone call.

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<v Speaker 5>So you could listen to me. You understand that weird

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<v Speaker 5>o behavior. Tent right, No, you is a place like

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<v Speaker 5>I know everybody's there. It's just like a really chill place.

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<v Speaker 5>That's a good vibe. And I gave you the opportunity

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<v Speaker 5>to choose anywhere you wanted.

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<v Speaker 3>We could have gone anywhere, like if you were so,

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<v Speaker 3>I knew that you didn't like it, but you could

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<v Speaker 3>have said something.

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<v Speaker 5>We could have gone elsewhere, tent. If I had known

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<v Speaker 5>that you were gonna say let's go to I would

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<v Speaker 5>have been.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, let's just meet in the alley way behind

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<v Speaker 1>the Arby's.

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<v Speaker 5>And we could just forage in.

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<v Speaker 1>That would have been time.

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<v Speaker 5>It was not. It is not that bad, Like, come on, man,

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<v Speaker 5>like that was a man making You're making my own

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<v Speaker 5>shirt in the corner of the bar. And is that normal?

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<v Speaker 5>Is he just one of the regulars? Is he one

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<v Speaker 5>of those characters we always hear about that you.

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<v Speaker 4>Want another date?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want any date with any man after this.

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<v Speaker 5>If I go on a date with another man and

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<v Speaker 5>he says, where do you want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say I have strong objections to in

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<v Speaker 1>case you wanted.

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<v Speaker 5>To take me there. Other than that everywhere else is acceptable.

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<v Speaker 5>Then why didn't you have a suggestion? And now you're

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<v Speaker 5>just like you're just hating all my people.

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<v Speaker 6>Mazie, I have a question for you. Would you like

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<v Speaker 6>to go out on another date with Kent? We'll pay

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<v Speaker 6>for it.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, I'm so sorrying and be washing my

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<v Speaker 5>hair that night, whatever night is supposed to be a

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<v Speaker 5>washing my hair that night. I'm so sorry. Oh I

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<v Speaker 5>want to ken you have them call me up so

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<v Speaker 5>that you can listen in and being be sneaky peaty.

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<v Speaker 1>About this and want to want to know why I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to go out on a date with you.

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<v Speaker 5>You should have known the way that you were dressed.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't care, Like you quit your job, I would

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<v Speaker 5>You don't care about life. You're going to bum around

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<v Speaker 5>for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>I quit my j oh my god, dude, when I

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<v Speaker 3>told you I quit my job, I mean like I

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<v Speaker 3>sold my company for like six hundred K and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>moving on.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you didn't even take a second to even like

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<v Speaker 5>ask anything about me. Yeah, that's true, Okay, I apologize,

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<v Speaker 5>but also, congratulations doesn't matter. You're still not working, You're

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<v Speaker 5>still just bumming around. I'm not bumming around.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 5>When I told you that I would take you anywhere,

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<v Speaker 5>I meant it. I could take you anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't have a po If I had said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go to Mississippi and I want.

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<v Speaker 5>To ride on a on a steamboat and have dinner,

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<v Speaker 5>you would have done that on a first date. You

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<v Speaker 5>know what, That sounds cool? Why not I've got I've

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<v Speaker 5>got the resources to do that. But like, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>brag about my money like you are. Obviously it really

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<v Speaker 5>really matters to you to be like a princess everywhere

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<v Speaker 5>you go. Like, I'm really are you sure? Maybe let

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<v Speaker 5>me tell you something. If you really want to dig

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<v Speaker 5>some gold, I got its numbers for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I got some duds that they'll like, knock your socks off.

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<v Speaker 5>Good ahead, But like I don't think it. Oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>so sad. Maybe I need to be a worst person.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you want me to get in some alley sits

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<v Speaker 5>woman for you? I gros get out of here. I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know if you could be the worst person. Give

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<v Speaker 5>it a shot. Oh my god, you are such a weirdo,

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<v Speaker 5>weirdo behavior.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry you didn't get another.

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<v Speaker 5>Date or your fault. Thank you, damn shocker, shocker, there's

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<v Speaker 5>no second date. Come on, all right, I guess we're done.

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<v Speaker 5>This is to what. I'm just really glad that you

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<v Speaker 5>guys called me. Thank you for reminding me why my

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<v Speaker 5>standards are so hi.

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<v Speaker 4>I love you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm going to start listening to you now.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh well, if you'r standards are high, don't do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Jube's first day follow