Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Kents is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named
Speaker 2: Macy that he went out with. So in a few minutes,
Speaker 2: we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us
Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date.
Speaker 2: But first, kids, how long has it been since you
Speaker 2: heard from Macy?
Speaker 3: Dude, It's been like five days. And I know I'm
Speaker 3: getting ghosted. Like absolutely, no, I am getting ghosted.
Speaker 4: What makes you say it like that?
Speaker 3: I knew that when she showed up to the place
Speaker 3: where I took her out, Like she just wasn't impressed,
Speaker 3: she wasn't having it, And I just I don't clearly
Speaker 3: quite one hundred percent of her sam But like I
Speaker 3: do know that.
Speaker 5: She is avoiding me.
Speaker 4: Okay, what is it about her though that makes you
Speaker 4: want to get a hold of her? If you're being avoided,
Speaker 4: then why are you running towards the avoidee?
Speaker 3: Oh No, she's like she's great, she's professional, she is
Speaker 3: you know, just like you know, we really like I
Speaker 3: wanted to really hit it off, but like it's like
Speaker 3: I don't know, like I gave her an opportunity to
Speaker 3: choose the place, and she didn't choose to put so
Speaker 3: I took her to this like old like kind of
Speaker 3: haunt that like Scott like some character.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: She called it muddy, Yeah, because I don't know, like
Speaker 3: I love like things like that, like I don't necessarily
Speaker 3: go for I don't know. I gave her the opportunity
Speaker 3: to choose.
Speaker 4: So do you feel like the experience that you gave
Speaker 4: her wasn't normal for you? Or what do you want
Speaker 4: to tell her?
Speaker 3: Well, I just want to tell her that, you know,
Speaker 3: like did I could tell that she was like getting
Speaker 3: quote work calls through the whole date and stuff, and
Speaker 3: it's like, you know, I'm start of one, Like dude,
Speaker 3: if you're really not having a great time. I at
Speaker 3: least said she had to leave after like five or
Speaker 3: six calls. Like all I'm trying to say is like
Speaker 3: I'm not that bad a guy. I don't know what
Speaker 3: it is exactly that I did. The plan was for
Speaker 3: her we were gonna eat after she got off work.
Speaker 3: It just it seemed weird that like it doesn't take
Speaker 3: much for me.
Speaker 6: To pick up on it, like so you could tell
Speaker 6: there was like a vibe vibe that she wasn't into it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just like I just kind of want to
Speaker 3: like get her to like I want to figure out
Speaker 3: the real reason why she was ghosting me, because I
Speaker 3: know it wasn't work and I don't know what I
Speaker 3: did wrong, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: Like she's a great She's a great girl. You know,
Speaker 5: That's really what I'm trying to figure out.
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Well, we'll play a song come Back, and
Speaker 2: then call her see if she'll tell us why she's
Speaker 2: ghosting you and hopefully get you another date. Then all right, cool,
Speaker 2: all right man, we'll play song come Back and get
Speaker 2: your first Day follow up the next Right in the
Speaker 2: middle of our first day follow up and if you're
Speaker 2: just joining us, Kent is on the phone and he's
Speaker 2: getting ghosted by Macy. So we're about to call her
Speaker 2: and ask her why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date if he still wants him. But before
Speaker 2: we do that, can why don't you catch everybody up
Speaker 2: on your situation?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Well, you know, like I went out with this girl,
Speaker 3: I gave her an opportunity to choose anywhere to go
Speaker 3: in the world, and you know, she let me choose that.
Speaker 5: My place was musty. And I know for sure I'm
Speaker 5: getting ghosted, but I don't know why. But I just
Speaker 5: don't feel like I deserve that. I want to know.
Speaker 5: I want to know why she won't talk to me anymore.
Speaker 6: Okay, and you really liked her?
Speaker 5: Huh No, she's fantastic. All right?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 6: Well here you are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 5: I'm ready as I can be.
Speaker 6: I guess. Okay, Hello, Hi Massik to Macy.
Speaker 5: Please, this is me see how can I help you?
Speaker 6: MACI? Hi, how are you? My name is Jewbell and
Speaker 6: I host a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Macy, I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hi, my
Speaker 4: name Victoria.
Speaker 6: How are you?
Speaker 5: Hi? I'm good?
Speaker 6: How are you great? Thank you for asking? Have you
Speaker 6: ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 5: No, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 6: So we do a segment on the show it's called
Speaker 6: the first Date follow Up.
Speaker 2: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 2: somebody and they end up ghosting you, you can have
Speaker 2: us get them on the phone and ask them why
Speaker 2: they're ghosting you.
Speaker 6: So we got an email you.
Speaker 5: Oh you got it. Oh that's how you were offering.
Speaker 6: Oh god, yeah, we got an email about you and
Speaker 6: his name is Kent.
Speaker 5: What Sorry? No, thank you? No, I don't want The
Speaker 5: first date was terrible. I don't really want to relive that.
Speaker 6: Oh no, okay, well could you tell us why? He
Speaker 6: just wants to know. He said he really liked you,
Speaker 6: and he doesn't know you know, why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 5: Oh he should know. Okay, Well we'll put it very simply.
Speaker 5: He took me to have you guys ever been there? No,
Speaker 5: because you're normal people. Okay. It's a little place that
Speaker 5: you take a first date. It is a place that
Speaker 5: you will take a future or victim. It's cheery.
Speaker 6: Is that bad?
Speaker 3: It was?
Speaker 5: I thought it was going to be a cute little bar,
Speaker 5: you know, nice happy hour. I walked in, I got scared.
Speaker 5: I almost walked right out, but he had already seen me,
Speaker 5: and so I was like, oh, well, this will be
Speaker 5: my life for the next two hours. Yay. He was terrible.
Speaker 5: From the beginning. It wasn't good, and so you know,
Speaker 5: after like fifteen minutes, I went to the bathroom and
Speaker 5: I called my friends and I was like, hey, I
Speaker 5: need you to call me like every ten minutes until
Speaker 5: I can get out of here and be like, oh
Speaker 5: work emergency. It was so bad. He like, I come in.
Speaker 5: I had just gotten off of work. He's wearing jeans
Speaker 5: and a T shirt. I thought we were both coming
Speaker 5: from work. And then he tells me that he quit
Speaker 5: his job a few weeks ago. That's a big deal
Speaker 5: breaker for me because I want someone that I can
Speaker 5: work with and we can grow together. I do not
Speaker 5: want to be the soul redwinner.
Speaker 4: Well did he explain why he quit his job, what
Speaker 4: his plan is for the future.
Speaker 5: No, No, I didn't get that far. I was already
Speaker 5: so turned off. I was like, can I cut in here?
Speaker 2: Eo, yes you can. Maeh, that's Kent. He's been actually
Speaker 2: listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: What's up? First of all, sorry, wait, you're what you listening? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm listening because I was trying to figure out why
Speaker 5: you were ghosting me. But like I'm listening to you,
Speaker 5: I'm like, dude, like, what the Like, what the hell?
Speaker 6: That's ken?
Speaker 5: And you like you the place that we went? Okay, Well,
Speaker 5: first of all, that bar is disgusting. In the future
Speaker 5: never take any woman there.
Speaker 1: They will call the police on you. But you you
Speaker 1: you emailed them and a secret phone call.
Speaker 5: So you could listen to me. You understand that weird
Speaker 5: o behavior. Tent right, No, you is a place like
Speaker 5: I know everybody's there. It's just like a really chill place.
Speaker 5: That's a good vibe. And I gave you the opportunity
Speaker 5: to choose anywhere you wanted.
Speaker 3: We could have gone anywhere, like if you were so,
Speaker 3: I knew that you didn't like it, but you could
Speaker 3: have said something.
Speaker 5: We could have gone elsewhere, tent. If I had known
Speaker 5: that you were gonna say let's go to I would
Speaker 5: have been.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, let's just meet in the alley way behind
Speaker 1: the Arby's.
Speaker 5: And we could just forage in.
Speaker 1: That would have been time.
Speaker 5: It was not. It is not that bad, Like, come on, man,
Speaker 5: like that was a man making You're making my own
Speaker 5: shirt in the corner of the bar. And is that normal?
Speaker 5: Is he just one of the regulars? Is he one
Speaker 5: of those characters we always hear about that you.
Speaker 4: Want another date?
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 5: I don't want any date with any man after this.
Speaker 5: If I go on a date with another man and
Speaker 5: he says, where do you want to go.
Speaker 1: I'm going to say I have strong objections to in
Speaker 1: case you wanted.
Speaker 5: To take me there. Other than that everywhere else is acceptable.
Speaker 5: Then why didn't you have a suggestion? And now you're
Speaker 5: just like you're just hating all my people.
Speaker 6: Mazie, I have a question for you. Would you like
Speaker 6: to go out on another date with Kent? We'll pay
Speaker 6: for it.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I'm so sorrying and be washing my
Speaker 5: hair that night, whatever night is supposed to be a
Speaker 5: washing my hair that night. I'm so sorry. Oh I
Speaker 5: want to ken you have them call me up so
Speaker 5: that you can listen in and being be sneaky peaty.
Speaker 1: About this and want to want to know why I
Speaker 1: didn't want to go out on a date with you.
Speaker 5: You should have known the way that you were dressed.
Speaker 5: You don't care, Like you quit your job, I would
Speaker 5: You don't care about life. You're going to bum around
Speaker 5: for a little bit.
Speaker 3: I quit my j oh my god, dude, when I
Speaker 3: told you I quit my job, I mean like I
Speaker 3: sold my company for like six hundred K and I'm
Speaker 3: moving on.
Speaker 5: Like you didn't even take a second to even like
Speaker 5: ask anything about me. Yeah, that's true, Okay, I apologize,
Speaker 5: but also, congratulations doesn't matter. You're still not working, You're
Speaker 5: still just bumming around. I'm not bumming around.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 5: When I told you that I would take you anywhere,
Speaker 5: I meant it. I could take you anywhere.
Speaker 1: You didn't have a po If I had said, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to go to Mississippi and I want.
Speaker 5: To ride on a on a steamboat and have dinner,
Speaker 5: you would have done that on a first date. You
Speaker 5: know what, That sounds cool? Why not I've got I've
Speaker 5: got the resources to do that. But like, I don't
Speaker 5: brag about my money like you are. Obviously it really
Speaker 5: really matters to you to be like a princess everywhere
Speaker 5: you go. Like, I'm really are you sure? Maybe let
Speaker 5: me tell you something. If you really want to dig
Speaker 5: some gold, I got its numbers for you.
Speaker 3: I got some duds that they'll like, knock your socks off.
Speaker 5: Good ahead, But like I don't think it. Oh, I'm
Speaker 5: so sad. Maybe I need to be a worst person.
Speaker 5: Do you want me to get in some alley sits
Speaker 5: woman for you? I gros get out of here. I
Speaker 5: don't know if you could be the worst person. Give
Speaker 5: it a shot. Oh my god, you are such a weirdo,
Speaker 5: weirdo behavior.
Speaker 6: I'm sorry you didn't get another.
Speaker 5: Date or your fault. Thank you, damn shocker, shocker, there's
Speaker 5: no second date. Come on, all right, I guess we're done.
Speaker 5: This is to what. I'm just really glad that you
Speaker 5: guys called me. Thank you for reminding me why my
Speaker 5: standards are so hi.
Speaker 4: I love you.
Speaker 5: I'm going to start listening to you now.
Speaker 6: Oh well, if you'r standards are high, don't do that.
Speaker 5: Jube's first day follow