1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Maya in Jacksonville. Maya writes, 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 1: my father brought his new wife to my son's birthday party. 4 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 2: That was the first time I met her. 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: I wasn't invited to the wedding, and he thinks it's 6 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: no big deal since they got married at the courthouse. 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I don't matter to him. Is this 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: the case? 9 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 3: No, that's not the case. 10 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 4: He didn't invite nobody to the way and they got 11 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 4: married down at the courthouse. 12 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 3: Now you're reading too much into it. The lady. 13 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 4: He didn't marry the lady to replace you. You steal 14 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 4: his daughters? Yeah, no, stop no, but he needs somebody 15 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 4: to take care of him. Oh, in a lot of ways, 16 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 4: you know. Okay, So no, man, let your daddy have life. 17 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 4: He came to the birthday party, see his grandson. He 18 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 4: loved you, and he brought the new wife. Yeah, got 19 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 4: married at the courthouse. Wasn't nobody there? 20 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 3: You have been to one of them, mom, You have 21 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:10,760 Speaker 3: been on the courthouse. When have I been married in? 22 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 3: When you've been to one? 23 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 4: Not? 24 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 3: Have you participated? Have you been coughing chicken. 25 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've got married one time in God, just in 26 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 4: time for I see it. 27 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 2: What is that her mouth bitscit? 28 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 3: I heard it sound muffled crazy? 29 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: Right, all right, hurry you all right, this is wrong. 30 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 2: We're moving on now. This is from Travis and Evanston. 31 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: Travis writes, my wife is expecting our first baby. She 32 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: has asked her mom to come stay with us, but 33 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: her mom is just coming too early. The baby is 34 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: due at the end of May, but her mom is 35 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: moving in with us on Easter weekend. How do I 36 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:07,279 Speaker 1: get her mom to wait until May, a whole month early? 37 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 3: East is in April. 38 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, boy, you're gonna appreciate that help though, don't 39 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 4: don't don't, don't turn this away. 40 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:24,839 Speaker 3: I don't care. 41 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 4: It's a lot going that happened in that last month, 42 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 4: and a lot ain't gonna be happening in that last month. 43 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 3: I must understand this. That probably ain't happening now. 44 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 2: Broun away from your wife goes on. 45 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 4: To talk all the time, her mama right there, and 46 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 4: then your wife will have some complaints. 47 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 3: She's gonna register. You don't know nothing about nothing. 48 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, bruh, bruh. 49 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 4: You need this woman who would have been there, done that. 50 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 4: Women appaviate that man, lead that alone. Yeah, she a 51 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 4: month early. 52 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, the baby a month earlier. Yeah, don't know, Travis. 53 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: All right, all right, great advice, Celo. All right, Moving 54 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: on Annie and Roanoke. Annie writes, I had an affair 55 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 1: over ten years ago and the guy just moved back 56 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: in town. He wants to see me, and I'm not 57 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: sure I can see him without catching feelings. I'm not 58 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: as savvy as I once was, so I'm scared to 59 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: cheat at my age. 60 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 2: Should I see him or not? 61 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 3: What she meaning? 62 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: You're in a relationship, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, she's probably married. 63 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh oh, oh, I see Oh and she had 64 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 4: an affair with. 65 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:48,000 Speaker 1: Him before over ten years Now, you're not as savvy. 66 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: The guy that she had an affair would just move 67 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: back to town. 68 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 3: Oh he want to see m h and she might. 69 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 2: Catch feelings with him. 70 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 3: You you go, you go? 71 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 2: So she's should she see him? 72 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: They don't say no, you shouldn't see him, but you're 73 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 3: going to so. 74 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, make sure you can't have bad hell trying 75 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: to cheat him? 76 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 2: What will happen? 77 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 3: You know, anything that happened to get in that in 78 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 3: that room somehow you gotta lead it up. 79 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, in that glue, close drop and you don't know 80 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 4: what's happening. 81 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 2: Give out them locked up? 82 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 4: You done left that nitrol peel out in the car. 83 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 4: You got the plan. 84 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 2: You're chowing. 85 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 3: You try to cheat them? 86 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 4: You know that that ain't that ain't your girl? She 87 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 4: don't know what to do, you girl? 88 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and she she says she's not as savvy as 89 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 1: she once was, so she's scared to cheat at her age. 90 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, so she at the house. 91 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, my wife, no, get him some cold water and 92 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 3: a cold towel. I'd be right back. 93 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't know that I'm in that dying. 94 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 2: I'm all right. 95 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 1: Stay at the house, Annie, stay at the house, all right. 96 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: Last one, Steve, Last one. This is from Quandra in Montclair. 97 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: Quandra writes, I'm engaged, but my fiance hasn't hasn't given 98 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 1: me a ring yet. He wants to put a down 99 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: payment on my ring with money from our joint savings account. 100 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: I am against it, but I want a ring. It 101 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 1: feels like I'm buying my own engagement ring. 102 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 4: Your thoughts, Yeah, from the joint account. 103 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. 104 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:42,679 Speaker 3: You want the ring? You're finna help out. 105 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 2: Clearally she's engaged even without a ring. 106 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know how that worked. How did 107 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 3: that happen? What did he put on your finger when 108 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 3: he asked you? Yes, she does want me in a hand, 109 00:05:59,000 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 3: that's all he did. 110 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: Sounds like, yeah, they're now we're engaged. 111 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 112 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 113 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:07,159 Speaker 1: He wants to put a down payment on it with 114 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 1: the money from their joints. They a down payment, not 115 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: the whole thing. 116 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 4: I don't think y'all need to get married. Yeah, just 117 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 4: look like y'all heading put some doom. 118 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, financial issues. You don't want to go in a 119 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: marriage like that. Yeah yeah, okay, So don't do it 120 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,239 Speaker 1: as your is your final answer? 121 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 3: I mean, y'all going in scraping now? You know, it 122 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 3: depends on how you are. 123 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 4: Maybe y'all can build this life together and you're willing 124 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 4: to climb down in the fox hole with your man. 125 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 3: I'm all for that. Do a lot of women by 126 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 3: the rings? Is this a new new era? Does that happening? Tommy? 127 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 3: They do everything wrong? They're different now. 128 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 4: They proposing to men, getting on their knee, proposing you 129 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 4: guys down. 130 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 2: How do you guys feel about that? Women proposing to men? 131 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: I know you guys didn't do it, and yeah, if 132 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:05,839 Speaker 1: you don't want me, yeah, Jackie, women in general, because 133 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 1: you know, they say everything's equal now, and it seems 134 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: like you're taking away the men's one of the men's jobs. 135 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 2: They you guys like doing that right when you did it. 136 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 3: Up here? Flustered, she proposed me. I'm flustered. You got 137 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 3: your hand across your chin. Yeah, I got my hair 138 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 3: on my chest. This is so beautiful. 139 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 2: All right, guys, thank you Clo. 140 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 141 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. 142 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 2: Hey, what's up everybody. This is your girl Candy. 143 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 3: This is Anthony Anderson, this is Janet And you can't 144 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 3: get no sleep when you're listening to Steve Carlos, Shirley 145 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 3: and nephew Tommy on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 146 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,600 Speaker 2: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.