1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Wake that as up in the morning. Breakfast club Morning. 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: Everybody is tj Envy, Angela Yee, showing me the God. 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: We're all the breakfast club. We got a special guest 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 1: with my guy, my friend. M oh wow, all of that. 5 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: Wow wow. Yeah, you know, this is my first time 6 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm up here, man, so you know we're gonna go here. 7 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: I got some bones to pick with everybody before leave. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah, 8 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 1: you're trying to be funny. Yeah, you're trying to be funny. 9 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: But I'm gonna go ahead and talk about I've seen 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:34,240 Speaker 1: DJ Envy in Houston smoking a hooker like a Instagram model. 11 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it before I'm talking about. 12 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: I thought he must have thought he was invisible or something. 13 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: He was smoking it and blowing the smoke out his 14 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: nose and his moke at the same time he rubbing 15 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: his levers. I'm like, man, he must be smoking Ecstacy flavor, Like, 16 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 1: what type of hooka is that? Then he gonna point 17 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: to who gave me, like Nick Cannon on drum Line. 18 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I'm straight. You keep that. You remember 19 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: the five, It's like the two five. This is what 20 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: it's like. The smoke ecstasy flavor. He was like man, man, 21 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 1: he was hitting now. I was like slim on drugs 22 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:15,559 Speaker 1: now Angela the morning, beautiful. Let me you're the only 23 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: person I know that got a new job and keep 24 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: coming to the old one, Like like, when is the 25 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: new job starts? You keep coming back? I miss you. 26 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 1: I would love to start my new job, but it 27 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: starting in January. I know before you walked in, I 28 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: know you were listen Angela leave that's her new name, 29 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: and Leonard listen. Man. Let me ask you a question, sir, 30 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: You up here every day on the biggest radio show 31 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 1: in the world. Yes, yes, how come you never talk 32 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: about the other show that I worked for you on, 33 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: Like why don't you ever mention me on the Breakfast Club? 34 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: Because you put me on some of the most I 35 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: mean extravagant missions in the world. You had me in 36 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: Queensbridge with five white men and camera equipment. Security, ain't 37 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: had no pistol and the only other black man had 38 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: on scrubs. You ain't saying nothing about me. You could 39 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: at least said, she go being made it out alive. 40 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: You ain't say nothing. You can send me to Brown 41 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,079 Speaker 1: That isn't even the worst one, he sent me to 42 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: Tennessee and had me asking the real Megamerica great again 43 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 1: white people to give me that Confederate flame. Then he 44 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: had two nations of Islam brothers with me like it's 45 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: a chapter in that part of Tennessee. It wouldn't have 46 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 1: been nobody that could have made it that helped me 47 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: get up out of there. Man, y'all turble, I should 48 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: take all this whole show. I should take and ain't 49 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 1: no welcome chicko being that what what cam? I'm on 50 00:02:38,120 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 1: this camera right here? What's up? America? You are now 51 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 1: tuning the power one oh five. This is the Brunch 52 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 1: brig Gade. That's right, the show formally known as The 53 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,920 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. I am your host, Chico being with my 54 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 1: co host Letting the Skin, Angel the League and dj 55 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: Ecstacy Flavor. That's why we got a special special show 56 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 1: coming up in nine forty five, We got The Life's 57 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: Getting Love let a segment with DJ Mvy will be 58 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,679 Speaker 1: reading three love letters. You must guess which one was 59 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: written by him gets a personalized personalized by DJ himself. 60 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: This is the Brush Brigade. Wig up sament because Envy 61 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: does write love letters. Because she posted them sometimes for real. Yeah, Puss, 62 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: he look how beautiful brilliant I am. I've been talking 63 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 1: about it. I don't believe sometimes that Envy really wrote them. 64 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 1: I feel like she helps him write all my love letters. 65 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 1: Even she would help him write a letter to her. 66 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 1: I don't know, because I can't see Envy like doing, 67 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: you know, like writing things six babies and she think 68 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: she thinks you dumb, you don't. Yeah, if you'd seen 69 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: him smoking, as you have known, he was capable of 70 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: writing love I'm talking. I ain't never see nobody smoker 71 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: who get rubbed their nipples. At the same time it was, 72 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: he was blowing the smoke through his teeth. I was like, Yo, 73 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: this dude, this legendary. But that'd be a good segment 74 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: if this is the first time Nbia has actually acknowledged you. See. No, 75 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: he did acknowledge me and Houston, and he was at 76 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: the We was at the Turkey Leg. And I think 77 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: the reason why you acknowledge me is because the owner 78 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: of the Turkey Leg Hut is so aggressively hospitable. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 79 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: he go a bottle of the the nineteen forty two and 80 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: three kids to claim on your taxes. Don't say so. 81 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: I felt like if he didn't say something to him, 82 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: shout out to let it, he would have, you know, 83 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: said something to him about not saying something. Now you 84 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 1: see that they have, but they should have a dress 85 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: code because I've been there on times where it's like, 86 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,239 Speaker 1: you know, you you looking like you in the strip 87 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 1: club and it's it's a little much, you know. I mean, 88 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: I enjoyed it, but you know, you got your kids. 89 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: You don't want them to know what that is. So 90 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: I feel them. But it's a business that. I mean, 91 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: the line will be wrapped around the corner. So you 92 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: think you got a line going down the street with 93 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 1: people with thongs and titties out and all that. You 94 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: don't want you bring people in their families and everything. 95 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: My kids went, so yeah, absolutely, yeah they ain't go 96 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: that there. You were smoking at hookah, I tell you 97 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 1: that day to judge you that day. Yeah yeah, well 98 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: hut yeah, yeah they got a hookah. I don't know 99 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: if anybody else can get them, but they had one 100 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: for envy the ecstasy flavors, so they got drinks and everything. 101 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 1: Yeah it's dope. It's dope, man, But you know, I'm 102 00:05:10,839 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: happy to be up here with y'all all the way 103 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 1: A movie Dirty Third Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I shot 104 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: that in Houston as well, so you know, it's a 105 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: remake of the movie that they did back in the day, 106 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 1: and um, you know, I was excited to do it 107 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: because I love Houston as a as a city. Man. 108 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 1: It's a beautiful city and they always show love down 109 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: that So I was excited about being in the movie. 110 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: It's coming out in a couple of weeks, I think, Okay, 111 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: not next week, you know what I mean. I think 112 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: it's coming out there. What's the most fun about everything 113 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: that you're doing right now? Man? The most fun? Well, 114 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: I would say the most fun is just being able to, 115 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: you know, be happy with everything that's going on. You know, 116 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: I hadn't been through a lot. You know, I lost 117 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 1: my mom last year in the COVID, you know, so 118 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: you know, when you go through that type of trauma, 119 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: you really have to you know, kind of replace the 120 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 1: hole that's filled when you lose your matriarch like that. 121 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: And I realize that I find a lot of solace 122 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: and just knowing that what I do bring other people 123 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: so much joy, you know, in the response that I 124 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 1: get so it's just like being in New York. I 125 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: loved this city because when I came up here, I 126 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: didn't I didn't have anything. I was just nobody that 127 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: was trying to make something of myself. So every time 128 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: I come up here, I love a feeling that I get. 129 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: Even though I've made a name for myself, I still 130 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: get that same nostalgic feeling that I had when I 131 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 1: wasn't anybody and I was trying to make it work. 132 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: That's why I love New York so much. So it's 133 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: just the feeling overall that I think is the best 134 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: part you wanted in ran Comedians though, that literally takes 135 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: your life and brings it to the stage or brings 136 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: it to whatever you do. Because I remember when your 137 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 1: mom passed and you was telling a story that sounded 138 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: like it could have been a stand up but it 139 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: was real life. That it's true story. I mean, because 140 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:41,919 Speaker 1: that's the way I was raised. Man, I have a 141 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: unique upbringing. To say the least. I say my mother 142 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: raised me in a reverse because a lot of the 143 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: coddling and everything that you see a woman give the child, 144 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: especially somebody like me. My father got murdered when I 145 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 1: was two years old, so it was just me and 146 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 1: my mom, and she was not protective in any way. 147 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 1: You know, she was to get out there, you got 148 00:06:57,839 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: to learn how to be a man. And then once 149 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 1: I became aim a man and she saw that I 150 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: was functional and everything that she trained me to do, 151 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: that's when she opened up to me and started letting 152 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 1: me know all of the things that she kept to 153 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: herself when I was young. So by the time she 154 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: passed away, we was locked in and I had no 155 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: inhibition about talking about our relationship. Like I always say, 156 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: like when she first passed away, I watched her passed away. 157 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: I watched her die, held her hand, rubbed her back, 158 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 1: and she passed away. Then I had to go home 159 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: and tell my little brother that she was gone. And 160 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: then next morning, I mean we cried all night, and 161 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: then next morning we was looking at each other, like, 162 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: you know, we got to get the information to take 163 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: to the funeral home. Which one of us going to 164 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: search the room because I know that deal though in there, 165 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: and I don't I don't want to find it. I 166 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: know it's in there. I know, my Mama, it's in there. 167 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: I God, that's why I like it's in there. I 168 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: don't want to find it. I don't want to be 169 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm serious, but listen, I don't want to be answer it. 170 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: Don't you have the toys that you use in your room? 171 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: Every woman has them. My MoMA ain't no difference was 172 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: the rules. I wasn't looking my brother, you got to them. 173 00:07:57,880 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: I refused to go in there. But you know this 174 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: is uh, you know, it's just like I said, it's 175 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: just a process. I miss her every day, you know 176 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: what I mean. You know it's I'm gonna walk a 177 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: reflection of what she made me because she did it 178 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: on her own. You know, it's hard for a woman 179 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: to raise a man. And she always used to tell me, 180 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: I can't teach you how to be no man. Some 181 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: things you're gonna learn on your own. But I'm damn 182 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: sure gonna teach you how not to be a bitch. 183 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: And that's what she did. Don't you swung in the 184 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: funeral director? Oh listen, man, what the hell? Listen man? 185 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: Black Businesses Salute to Gilly. You know I've seen him 186 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: go through what he went through yesterday at the airport, 187 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. He the first rapper to 188 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 1: ever check his own bag for the police. Put that 189 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 1: out there, Gilly, you're the first rapper to ever check 190 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: your own band. Soldier Boy ain't did that yet. Many 191 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: times Gilly been stopped that he knew how to search. 192 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 1: He knew how to search his own band. That right, 193 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 1: there's a skill set, you know what I mean? Wallow 194 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: Probbly told him, like, bro, I've been in jail for 195 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: twenty years. If they ever say to search your band, 196 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,959 Speaker 1: go left, right, then up down like a cheek. Cool. 197 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: But m I used the Black Funeral Service, you know 198 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: what I mean? Because my mother passed away from COVID. 199 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: So you know what, when she was in a hospital, 200 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 1: they had her something called prone which was on one 201 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: side of her body to try to open up her 202 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: lungs so I couldn't see the other side of her face. 203 00:09:07,320 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: So everybody that I called didn't have any experience with 204 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: dealing with COVID deaths. This one guy that I called, 205 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: he had experience. He told me every answer to every 206 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 1: question that I had before I can ask him. So 207 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 1: I chose to use him. But he was in New 208 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: Jersey and then my mother passed away in DC. I'm 209 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: going to raise in DC, of course, So when he 210 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: had to come get her body. They were giving them 211 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: problems in the transfer. So he called me one night. 212 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: She was probably had been did a week now. She 213 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 1: called me like, yo, man, they're giving me problems getting 214 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: mom's body. Do you mind if I just sign your 215 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: name and fact this paperwork over so I can get 216 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:41,719 Speaker 1: your mom's body. I said, no problem to mind you. 217 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: I hadn't met him already, I hadn't pay them for 218 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: all the services. You know. Next day they called me like, yeah, 219 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: mister Bean, we were gonna release your mom's body, but 220 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 1: the funeral director signed your name is Chico'beans. The nigga 221 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: put cheek O'bean on the paper to get hunger shut up. 222 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: It might have been now any wouldn't know what to 223 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: put because he don't know who I am. But yeah, 224 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: that's a true story. So it's like the process that 225 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: I went through. You know, it taught me a lot 226 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: about just myself because I dealt with so much death, 227 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: you know what. Death was one of the first things 228 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 1: I had to learn how to deal with it. My 229 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: father being murdered, so you know, and then my uncle 230 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: got killed, who was like my father. I've lost multiple 231 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,599 Speaker 1: people to violence growing up, you know, and death was 232 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: a part of my life, so I felt like I 233 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: was prepared to deal with it whenever it came. But 234 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: your mother's different, like and you know, ripped a hole 235 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 1: in me that I've been trying to feel every since. 236 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: But the process of going through planning the funeral and 237 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 1: doing all of that shit changed me as a person. 238 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: So I tell people all the time now that the 239 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: book of my life with my mother and it has 240 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 1: the end on it, I can't add no more chapters. 241 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: So if you still have the luxury of having your 242 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 1: mother on this plane, appreciate the fact that you can 243 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 1: add chapters, because one day, if the circle of life 244 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: go to way it's supposed to go, then you're gonna 245 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: have to put the end on yours too. So you 246 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: know that's just how I go drop. No, no, no, no, 247 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: he didn't almost Now this is an exclusive. I don't 248 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 1: think I even talked about that before. No, no, no, no, 249 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 1: I don't mind like this. I'm not gonna put him 250 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 1: out there because you know, he actually did a good service. 251 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 1: But it wasn't him either. The dude that was transferring 252 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: my mother's body. Me and my manager go to you know, 253 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: view my mama's body to see before she goes out 254 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: to New Jersey and the dude who's taking her body 255 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: out of the back of the van sees me and like, 256 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:28,320 Speaker 1: oh shit, going to Chico Bean something. Emby would never do. 257 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, he recognized me and 258 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 1: acknowledged me and was like, oh shit. So he freaked 259 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,679 Speaker 1: out and see me walking and then he pulled her 260 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: out and then drop her body on the ground. So 261 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: then he goes to try to pick her up again 262 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 1: and it drops her again. And then I say, man, 263 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: I walk up to him. He's sweating. I'm talking. I 264 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: ain't never seen nothing like this. I mean, he poured sweat, 265 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: just dripping sweating. I'm like, bro, you're okay, you're straight. 266 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: He was like, I'm just I'm just so nervous. I'm like, look, man, 267 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: it's somebody that's really special to me in this bag. Man, 268 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta get yourself together. So, you know, 269 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: I calmed them down. We picked her up, put her 270 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: back on the thing. My manager walk over and gave 271 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: him some type of pep talk like nigga if anything, 272 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:08,679 Speaker 1: then fell off her and this goddamn bag. I'm a kid. 273 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: But the way the reason I was so calm in 274 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 1: that manner is because it it took so long for 275 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 1: her to get to that point. Now, mind you, if 276 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: this would have happened to day that she died or 277 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 1: the day after she died, I probably would have did 278 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,200 Speaker 1: something completely different in that pocket line. But the fact 279 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:27,040 Speaker 1: that I had enough time to you know, get myself 280 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 1: together and figure out how I felt about her being gone, 281 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 1: and by that time I knew that that was just 282 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: the remains. It wasn't anything that I needed to be. 283 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 1: You know, he ain't punched my mom and dropped her somebody, 284 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,439 Speaker 1: so I was able to keep myself calm. And it's 285 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: just you can use that as an example of, you know, 286 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,560 Speaker 1: just learning grace and patience, because that was the level 287 00:12:43,559 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: of patience that I would have never thought that I 288 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: had before I had it. So you know that that's 289 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: the true story though that happened. It was nice that 290 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 1: your mom had a chance to see you be successful. 291 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: That's the best part of it, man, Like, she had 292 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: a chance and an opportunity to actually see me make 293 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: it and be a part of my process because, like 294 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: I said, she raised me by herself. My mother was 295 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 1: getting up at three o'clock in the morning to go 296 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,199 Speaker 1: to work every day my whole life. So for her 297 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: to be able to see her son make it. I 298 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 1: know that she had. I mean, she loved me to death. 299 00:13:09,559 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 1: And that's the biggest part that I've been having to 300 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:14,959 Speaker 1: feel now, was just knowing that that matriarch is not here. 301 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 1: That's the first time I've ever felt loneliness in my 302 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 1: life is when I lost her. You know, I don't 303 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: get man. Listen, I don't give a fuck about with 304 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: nobody think about me because of the way you know, 305 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:24,599 Speaker 1: this is nigga, this is what this is. You know 306 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: what I mean that. Come on, Angela, why are you 307 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: looking like that you is gonna? Why would you braid that? 308 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 1: Why you take your head off? Oh no, I mean both. 309 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: I think it's great that you are confident enough to 310 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, because during the pandemic, I feel like 311 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 1: that's when we've been That's when we kicked it off. 312 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 1: And the reason why I did this is just to 313 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: show people. Man, fun what people think about you, if 314 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: it make you happy to do it. I'm proud of 315 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: my side braids. I don't give a fun with nobody 316 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 1: to say. And the reason why I would braided is 317 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: just because I could. I think the for real, I 318 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: think the reason why i'm, you know, in a position 319 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: that I'm in as far as I'll just say, the 320 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: people that really are supporters of everything that I do 321 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: is because they see that as genuine, Like I don't 322 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: care what anybody has to say about me. You entitled 323 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: to your opinion, but I'm entitled not to give a 324 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: fuck about it, just like you entitled to have it. 325 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: So you know, this is just a part of who 326 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,559 Speaker 1: I am at this point, and let it grow out. 327 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: I'm talking about I can, and it's three hairstyles I'm 328 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: gonna get before I cut it. I'm gonna get a 329 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: Jerry Curl. I'm gonna get the Frankie Lineman. What's Love got? 330 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: I mean the Whitle Foods fall in Love and the 331 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: big Red from the file Hot Beasts after that, and 332 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: then I'm cutting it off with the Frankie line. You 333 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: probably gonna have to get like a little weave and 334 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: I no, no, I'm just gonna do the swoop over. 335 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: I got another, get a little bang down all the way. 336 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: You know, I appreciate you'all for helping me with head styles. 337 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: That's nice. I told him. I told you yesterday. I 338 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: got the PRP but and I grew it out when 339 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: you when when I was going the high line headline 340 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: during the pandemic game on that looking like the nigga 341 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: from Lean On Me contry the popular belief I am 342 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: the head nigga, and Chalda was like, damn snip, you 343 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: could remake that movie all the way. Oh man, when 344 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: we're getting cheeko being stand up special, you even want 345 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: to do that right now? Nigga? You need to get 346 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: me a stand up special for all I'm specialist. You'd 347 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: be making me shoot for you? Does he does he 348 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: pay you well for that? Does he what? Pay you 349 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: well for that? Say that one more time? Pay you 350 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: well for that? Huh? Yeah that I'm not even on that. Yeah, 351 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: I don't think he pays me. I don't think he 352 00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: pays himself well for that. But that's probably a reason 353 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: why he don't talk about it up here. You know, man, 354 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: But we've been we've been at body com for a while. 355 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 1: That's bad, yeah, I know. Yeah, but you know we're 356 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: working on it, you know what I'm saying, like we uh, 357 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: you know, of course we got the eighty five South, 358 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: then we're doing something special with that. But you know 359 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff that you know I've been 360 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 1: doing is just you know, just I don't rush anything. 361 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 1: I'm on my own clock now, nobody else's, so when 362 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: it's time is signed. But I'm working on it. You know, 363 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: I got a couple of shows coming up. I'm excited 364 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: about the Wilber Theater in Boston. You know, I'm doing 365 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: a run with the MGM. All the casinos, so I'm 366 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: excited about that Foxwoods Casino and all that, and so 367 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 1: you know, I'm prepared whenever it come, you know what 368 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: I mean, whenever it comes. It's not gonna rush it 369 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: because everybody else says you need this, you need that. 370 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: Because you think about the game. Now, now it's Netflix, 371 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: but ten years ago it was HBO. So we don't 372 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: know where the game gonna go. You just make sure 373 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: you stay in it long enough to be able to 374 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: move whichever way. It feel like it's YouTube now too, 375 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: when you see like Andrew and Andrew shows doing it, 376 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:26,800 Speaker 1: all of them. Yeah, it's all different types of platforms, 377 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 1: you know, so the game is different. I tell people 378 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: all the time. I remember when Ryan Davis was up here, 379 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 1: he said, I always used to call him stupid for 380 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 1: living in LA and that was true because you don't 381 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 1: have to do it the same way that you did 382 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: it back in the gap, like in the nineties, you 383 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 1: had to be in LA or New York to get recognized. Now, 384 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: all you have to do is just have a presence. 385 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: And I started in North Carolina, you know, I started 386 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: at the Greensboro Comedy Zone. And I told myself when 387 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 1: I first started doing comedy, I'm gonna make a presence 388 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 1: felt where I live, and even if I go to LA, 389 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: I'll always have something to go back to because I 390 00:16:56,480 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: didn't built the following. So that's just the way you 391 00:16:58,280 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: got to do it. To all the young people out 392 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: here thinking about doing this as a living, making a 393 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: living off entertainment, just make a following, build your following 394 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 1: wherever you had, and there come to you. Now you 395 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 1: ain't got to go to where a But everything is 396 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: so sensitive. Do you ever watch what you say now? 397 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 1: Because the world is sensitive. It wasn't where where it 398 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 1: was five years ago or ten years ago. Everything is 399 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: so sensitive. Yeah, you gotta be mindful of that because 400 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 1: it's so easy to be offended. Now. We were just 401 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 1: talking yesterday, like I was watching The Living Color and 402 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 1: that couldn't be on TV now. But you know, people 403 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 1: were offended back then, but it just took longer for 404 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: you to know that they were offended, and you had 405 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: to put an effort in to be offended. You had 406 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 1: to get up and make a picket sign and go 407 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 1: to Tower Records or wherever they were shooting the show 408 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 1: at and stand outside. It took effort. Now it doesn't 409 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: take any effort to be offended. I think that's the 410 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: reason why it's such a problem, because all you gotta 411 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 1: do is take out your phone and say something, and 412 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: you can get millions of people to agree with you 413 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 1: just from you saying something from the comfort of your couch. 414 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 1: So you gotta be careful of that. But at the 415 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: same time, as long as you're telling your truth, I 416 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 1: don't care who get mad at my truth. That's that's 417 00:17:58,280 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 1: on you, you know what I mean? Apologize for something 418 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: like for offending anybody. He hasn't had too yet yet. 419 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: God damn, n, what the why are you gonna put 420 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: that on me? I ain't apolier. You need to apologize 421 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:12,240 Speaker 1: for a lot of this shit you said. You said, 422 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 1: Kanye West gonna kill itself it's going to commit suicide. 423 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:24,040 Speaker 1: I said that he's moving like a man who feels 424 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 1: like he's not gonna be here much longer, which means 425 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: that you've been around people who haven't been here much longer. 426 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 1: They killed themselves, and you can recognize that behavior. I 427 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: recognize the manic episode, and manic episodes don't anywhere unless 428 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,400 Speaker 1: somebody in the I don't care that you put that 429 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: jargon on there, you know what you said. But you know, 430 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 1: some comedians feel like it's a joke. If I start 431 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 1: apologizing for things, that's a slippery slope, and then people 432 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 1: will come at me, and I'm I don't want to 433 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 1: be apologizing for jokes that don't have ill intentions. Yeah, 434 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: I mean you as long as like you said that 435 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: it's not malicious, you know what I mean. One of 436 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 1: the one of the things that helps me is I 437 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 1: before I started doing comedy, for a time, I was 438 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 1: a QP, a qualified professional, And what that is is 439 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 1: I work with people with substance abuse issues. You know, 440 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 1: people on the autism spectrum, all different types of stuff, 441 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 1: and one of the first rules of working with people 442 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: that have disabilities is that they tell you they want 443 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 1: to be treated normally, they don't want you to look 444 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 1: at them like they're lesson in and don't want you 445 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 1: to look at them like something that's wrong with them. 446 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 1: And then that I've seen just being around people like that, 447 00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:25,399 Speaker 1: if they can laugh at themselves and they can, you know, 448 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: be okay with something that they have no control over, 449 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 1: why can't you be okay with something you do have 450 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 1: control over. You have control over what you allowed to 451 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: offend you words or words, as long as the actions 452 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,640 Speaker 1: behind the words aren't something that is going to cause 453 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,439 Speaker 1: you detriment. You should be able to take somebody saying 454 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: anything that they say as long as it doesn't affect 455 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 1: you directly. Now, mind you, we do live in a 456 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 1: time where you have to be sensitive about what you say. 457 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,959 Speaker 1: With me personally, I don't get on stage to hurt 458 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: people's feelings. I get on stage to tell my truth 459 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 1: and make people laugh. So if you get offended by that, 460 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 1: then it is what it is. I was giving some 461 00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: great advice. If you do a joke that don't offense 462 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: I'm body and it's a horrible joke. So you know 463 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 1: you gotta take that in there. And you never know 464 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:07,200 Speaker 1: what people triggers are personally, yeah, and you can't tell 465 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 1: nobody what they can get offended by it. That's that's true. 466 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:11,159 Speaker 1: You know, if you choose, you have the right to 467 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,119 Speaker 1: be offended by whatever you want to be offended by. 468 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: But I just think that now that we live in 469 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:16,879 Speaker 1: a time where it's so easy to be offended, I 470 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,920 Speaker 1: think if you took away social media, it'd be a 471 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 1: lot easier for you to say whatever it is you 472 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: want to say, because people don't have the energy to 473 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,640 Speaker 1: really get up and go out and show that they 474 00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,119 Speaker 1: really mean that they feel the way that they feel. 475 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 1: So I just I just try to you know, I 476 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: told a line. I know, it's certain things that you 477 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: can't say. I mean, the nineties was different, you know, 478 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 1: you just say nineties. The nineties was a different game. 479 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 1: Like I said, I was watching and Living Color. I 480 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 1: was watching some sixty minute interviews from the nineties and 481 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 1: it was like, ain't no way you can get away 482 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 1: with this now. So, I mean, you know, the most 483 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 1: ruthless interviewer was Barbara Goddamn. Yeah, oh yeah, it was vicious. 484 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 1: Go watch the sitcom I'm Not the sitcom to talk 485 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 1: shows Jenny Jones and Ricky Lake and the original Oprah 486 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 1: and all that. Like, but I'm lad I was raised 487 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,199 Speaker 1: in that era because for me, I think that a 488 00:21:04,240 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 1: lot of things that you know, people complain about the 489 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,160 Speaker 1: way the world is now, a lot of like, man, 490 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 1: it wasn't like this when I was growing up. I'm 491 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: kind of you know, on both sides of defense. There's 492 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: certain things that I'm glad in use now that wasn't 493 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: in use when I was little, And I'm also upset 494 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,359 Speaker 1: to the certain things that can't be said and done, 495 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 1: like watching the old Jenny Jones and Jerry Springer, Like 496 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 1: I love that era just because you see the freedom, 497 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: you know what people just had the freedom to even 498 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 1: get on TV and say. But you know, I also 499 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,440 Speaker 1: appreciate that, you know, you have mental health talk now, 500 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 1: like like depression. There wasn't no depression when I was little. 501 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: You know how depressed I would have been if I 502 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: could have used depression to get out of school. Like 503 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: that's a great thing because you think about it. Like 504 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: like I said, talking about my mom, it's so much 505 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 1: that I realized as a man that I didn't understand 506 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,880 Speaker 1: as a young man. Like for example, you know, I 507 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: love my mother to death, but I never had to 508 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 1: be in a relationship with her. I don't know who 509 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,639 Speaker 1: she was in a relationship, just like I don't know 510 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: who she was as a person having to raise two 511 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 1: boys by herself. So who was before your parents or 512 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: who she was? And I didn't find that out until 513 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: she passed away who she was before she was my mother? 514 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 1: So when you think about that, it was so much 515 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: that she was concealing and hiding from us that if 516 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: we had an outlet for as a family that we 517 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: could have went and talked about mental health, it could 518 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: have helped our situation tremendously because now you have children 519 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 1: who you know, being affected by this social media in 520 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: ways that we never had to deal with. I went 521 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: back to my alma mater, went to sell them state 522 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: and talked to the kids in my program. I graduated 523 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 1: from the communications program, and all of them was like, man, 524 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: I just feel like I ain't moving fast enough. I 525 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 1: ain't moving fast enough. I'm like, how old are you? Eighteen? 526 00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 1: And I understand it because they up against the phone. 527 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: I'd only had to, you know, see what was around me, 528 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 1: who went to school with me, the success stories at 529 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 1: the school, and you went to an HBC. You know, 530 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,719 Speaker 1: it was two three niggas with money where you went 531 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:02,400 Speaker 1: to Hamptons, so it might be different. There's a lot 532 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 1: of a lot of money at Hampton. But you know, 533 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,400 Speaker 1: usually you're only competing with what you see. But now 534 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: they got to compete with everybody. They competing with their phone, 535 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 1: everybody's highlight reel, everybody highlight real is in front of you. 536 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 1: So now you feel like you are inadequate because you 537 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 1: got to compete with that. So we didn't have to 538 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: deal with that. So that creates a level of mental 539 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: you know, you make you unstable in ways that we 540 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: never had to deal with. So I appreciate that, you know, 541 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: those conversations are going on, but I do wish the 542 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: world was a lot less sensitive. You know what the 543 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: thing about Cheeko man, you know you hit Cheeko talking clearly, 544 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: could tell he's intelligent, You don't. I don't know if 545 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 1: you talk about your educational background enough? Why why should 546 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,440 Speaker 1: I just because I mean, I don't think that's something 547 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 1: that you know, you know, you should hang your hat 548 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: on because I know a lot of people that went 549 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 1: to school that's dummies, and I love a lot of 550 00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 1: people who never went to school that are brilliant. So 551 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: I just think that that's something that you should utilize 552 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 1: on your own. If somebody asked me that I go 553 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 1: to college or that I get an education, of course, 554 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna hang my hat on that because 555 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,440 Speaker 1: I feel like i'm short myself because there's somebody who 556 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,640 Speaker 1: didn't have that level of education that you can learn 557 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 1: from that. I'm open. I don't I'd say all the 558 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,439 Speaker 1: time one of my monstresses. I don't know nothing. So therefore, 559 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm always open to learning. I'm always open to having 560 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 1: a conversation with somebody who can teach me something, no 561 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 1: matter what I read out of a book. I think 562 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 1: that's a problem with people. Now. You see all these 563 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 1: people regurgitating information that they just read without doing any 564 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: of these experience or the life experience. So you know, 565 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 1: school don't teach you that, life teaches you life experience communication. Okay, yeah, yeah, 566 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 1: thank you, and you've been my f That's what it is. Man. 567 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,080 Speaker 1: You still tuned this to the Brunch Brigade. I am 568 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 1: your host, Chico Bean, just in case she was wondering, 569 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 1: that's right. Coming up, we had the next segment, when 570 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: does Angela leave? That's right, We're gonna have all of 571 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: the callers come in. The third team caller who gets 572 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 1: just the date that she actually leaves will get a 573 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,959 Speaker 1: ticket to come see her work wherever she's going. That's right, 574 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:54,880 Speaker 1: This is the bunch Brigade. Wake up. But who instilled 575 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 1: that in you? Early? Though? Just just to educate yourself, 576 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,720 Speaker 1: whether it was academically or true books are through the 577 00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 1: life experience, like who who put that in you? Everybody? 578 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 1: Like I said, you know, my father was murdered, so 579 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 1: I never had that relationship. But you know, I've learned 580 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,120 Speaker 1: to look at the bright side of death and bad 581 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 1: the things that most people look at detriments in life. 582 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,960 Speaker 1: Like for example, I never knew my father, but I 583 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: also never had to live up to a standard for me. 584 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:23,000 Speaker 1: I never had to live up to what he wanted 585 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 1: me to be. And I also never had to see 586 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: him do anything that disappointed me or see him do 587 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 1: anything that made me feel like damn man. Why I 588 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 1: got to use this as an example, so I was 589 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,320 Speaker 1: able to take influence from everybody because I didn't have 590 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 1: to worry about my daddy coming up and saying we 591 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: don't like him. I saw you put a post up 592 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 1: the other day to say, the woman teaches you how 593 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 1: to I can't remember exactly. Basically, Sny need men to 594 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:51,440 Speaker 1: re man. A man teaches you what to believe. So 595 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 1: because I didn't have the man that created me, there, 596 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: as unfortunate as it was, I still was able to 597 00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: take influence from places that I'm sure I probably wouldn't 598 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 1: have been able to or wouldn't have known because I 599 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: would have been up under my daddy. So my uncles, 600 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: you know, I mean all of my uncles, all of 601 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,359 Speaker 1: the people. I come up in a household I lived with, 602 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,640 Speaker 1: all my family. I was surrounded by everything. I had 603 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 1: two uncles that was dope dealers. I had, you know, 604 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 1: two cousins that was like uncles and aunts that was 605 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 1: on drugs, My mother and my aunt Mary, you know 606 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: what I mean. My uncle Ricky, who was the youngest, 607 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: who I gravitated towards, and that's why I got my 608 00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 1: musical influence from. But I come up from in a 609 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,119 Speaker 1: household where there was no gray area. I never got 610 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: anything hidden from me. And I've always had responsibility in 611 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 1: my life. There's never been a time where I didn't 612 00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: have responsibility. So you learn that like I've learned to 613 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 1: be okay with walking a role less travel because I've 614 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,879 Speaker 1: always had to When my friends was playing football and 615 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: you know, outside riding bikes, I had to walk to 616 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: the safe way to get the groceries with a cart 617 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 1: at nineteen years old. I got my first job when 618 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,479 Speaker 1: I was nine, working at Bluebirds Bobershop, brushing people off 619 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: for dollars. So you learn in those experience through life 620 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 1: when you walking down the street mad that you gotta 621 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: take care of responsibility. Doing those times, you pick up 622 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: how to be okay with things that you don't realize 623 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 1: in that time. But when you become a man that 624 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,600 Speaker 1: trained me. A lot of my friends you know that 625 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 1: I grew up with, are still in the same place, 626 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,160 Speaker 1: not because they have to be, just because they hadn't 627 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: learned how to be okay with moving outside of the box. 628 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 1: You know, for you growing up in DC, did you 629 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,520 Speaker 1: pay attention to politics? No? No, no, not at all. 630 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: Marion Berry is the greatest statesman of all time, like 631 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 1: to us because of what he did for the community. 632 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: Like Marionberry for DC is what I wish that all 633 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 1: you know, inner cities had somebody like that that worked 634 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 1: in our favor, like he created the Summer Job program 635 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,880 Speaker 1: where everybody in the city from twelve to eighteen were 636 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,959 Speaker 1: able to get a summer job, and that saved so 637 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,000 Speaker 1: many lives in the city because you know, DC was 638 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: a very violent city growing up, and you know, of 639 00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:50,239 Speaker 1: course you still had people who feel victim to it, 640 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:52,880 Speaker 1: but us being able to go get those jobs kept 641 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,879 Speaker 1: a lot of us out of jail. And you know 642 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 1: one thing I say about DC, which makes in my opinion, 643 00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 1: the hardest city to grow up in that comes to 644 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: politics is if you from you from where Angelie, you 645 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 1: from Brooklyn, queens and monks South Carolina, all of y'all 646 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 1: send people to where I'm from to get things changed 647 00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: in your communities. But these people that you send ride 648 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 1: past us, living in their conditions that you want changed 649 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 1: every day and don't do nothing. So you got to 650 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 1: understand that we come from the city where the capital 651 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,719 Speaker 1: is right here, then two blocks down you got searchin Quarters, 652 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 1: one of the worst hoods in the world, and they 653 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 1: ride past this place, they come get food in these communities, 654 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: and they walk right past us and see us every day. 655 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: So we don't have no reason to pay attention to 656 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: politics because they don't pay attention to us, and we 657 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: get to see them not pay attention to us. So 658 00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 1: DC is a different city, man, you know, and I 659 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 1: hate that. You know, it's been gentrified the way that 660 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: it has. You know, Now I go home and it 661 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 1: breaks my heart to places that I grew up and 662 00:28:48,760 --> 00:28:52,239 Speaker 1: frequent it best buys and whole foods and all that 663 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 1: now And there's nothing wrong with that, with improving the community. 664 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 1: But it is something wrong with improving the community. And 665 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: when you know the people who were living there aren't 666 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 1: gonna be able to build to fit from the improvement, 667 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: that ship is horrible, man. So you know, salute to 668 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 1: the whole DC man, the whole city man. And everywhere 669 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 1: I go, I went on my back because I know that, 670 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: you know, the city that I grew up and is 671 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 1: being demolished, as being wiped away, and the people that 672 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 1: come from it to being scattered all around the world. 673 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: So you know, I mean, we don't really pay attention 674 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,480 Speaker 1: to politics. To answer you a question, though I never 675 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 1: really cared long as Marion Barry was the mayor. That's 676 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 1: all we cared about. Well made you plant your flag 677 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 1: in North Carolina the way that you did. I went 678 00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 1: to college, you know what I mean DC TAG DC Leake, 679 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: which was a program that Bill Clinton put in the 680 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: place right before he left office that let DC students 681 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 1: pay in state tuition wherever they went, which really meant 682 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: that DC paid the difference. So whatever the difference is 683 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: between in state and out of state tuition, they paid. 684 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,480 Speaker 1: So once they did that, influx of us were able 685 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: to go to school, because without that, I wouldn't have 686 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: been able to go to college. I didn't even know 687 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: nothing about college. It wasn't until my uncle Reggie got 688 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 1: murdered in two thousand and two that I even started 689 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 1: to pay attention to school because I wanted to be 690 00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 1: in the streets, you know what I mean. I've always 691 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: been blessed to be good at whatever I did, and 692 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 1: you know I you know, it's documented. I was always 693 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 1: a hustler, like my whole life. I've been getting my 694 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 1: own money since I was nine, and I was good 695 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 1: at it. So that's all I wanted to do. But 696 00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 1: once I saw him get murdered, it changed my whole 697 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 1: perspective because I knew he was ten times tougher than 698 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 1: I ever could be. So if that was his faith, 699 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 1: I thought he was above it. You know, you think 700 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 1: certain people are invincible and they can't have certain things 701 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 1: happened to him, So I thought he was above having, 702 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: you know, that be his fate. He had been to 703 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: jail already and survived that, so I knew he was 704 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:30,800 Speaker 1: a warrior gladiator in that regard. But once I saw 705 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 1: him get killed, and once I watched him pass away, 706 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: it was like, you know what, man, this is, If 707 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: this is his faith, then I know I'm going to 708 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 1: jail or should have graved y'all a whole lot quicker 709 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 1: than if I go to school. So I went on 710 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,720 Speaker 1: a college tour. I pay for me and my man 711 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 1: to go on to college. Tool We went to all 712 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:53,040 Speaker 1: the HBCUs from DC to Florida. Morgan, I mean Howard BCU, 713 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: but Jane stayed all of them, all of them and 714 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 1: all the way down to Florida, A and M. And 715 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,280 Speaker 1: I went to the ones in North Carolina, and mind 716 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 1: you you know, going to an HBCU. Whenever they had 717 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 1: fall break the school he did. So whichever once is 718 00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 1: on fall break, I'm like, all this did. Hampton was 719 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: on fall break and t was on fall break. Then 720 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: I went to Winston Salem State and saw twenty girls 721 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 1: before I saw one dude. I was like, Nigga, this 722 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: ain't that bad. I'm coming down here. And then we 723 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: went to more House and I liked more House, but 724 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 1: then I found out it was an all dude school. 725 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 1: But not knowing that Spellman was right, they didn't tell 726 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: us that. They were just like this is all boys school. 727 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,479 Speaker 1: They came out dressed like Braxton Harten a brig. I 728 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: was like, nah, straight, I'm going with the twenty girls that. 729 00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,840 Speaker 1: But you know, I went to Winston Salem State for 730 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 1: that to go to school. And I thought I was 731 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 1: a man before I went to North Carolina, but I 732 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,440 Speaker 1: became a man in North Carolina, like I learned how 733 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: to be a man because that was the first time 734 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: I didn't have, you know, anybody in close proximity that 735 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: I can lean on when things got rough in times 736 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 1: got hard, I thought I knew how to move as 737 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 1: a man. But I always had the luxury of going 738 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,960 Speaker 1: back to Wanderhouse. And that's something that a lot of 739 00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,280 Speaker 1: men don't realize. You think you hustling, and you think 740 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 1: you're moving around, but you really just still depending on 741 00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 1: your mama. You're just doing it a little bit less 742 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: than your partner might be doing it on the environment 743 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: might allow you to, but the reality is, if you 744 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 1: can go home to mama house, you know you got 745 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: somewhere to go. But when you separate and it's five 746 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: hours away and you can't just go and get a 747 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: meal and go and get your clothes, walls, what you're 748 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 1: gonna do and then things as simple as that is 749 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: what I realized became made me a man. So once 750 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: I decided to become a comedian, I stayed because I 751 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 1: knew going home wouldn't have been the best decision for me. 752 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 1: There's not having that now make you feel like less grounded, No, 753 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 1: not at often, because I've you know, I've been trained. 754 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: I know how to do it now. You know I'm domestic. 755 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 1: You know that's one of the reasons why I don't 756 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 1: need no girlfriend or need no woman to do nothing 757 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: for me, because the women in my life taught me 758 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 1: how to be self sufficient in those ways, not to 759 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 1: depend on anybody. Now. Of course, the thing that I 760 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: missed the most is being able to get those phone calls, 761 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: and it's to check ins and all of that. But 762 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: as far as the things that I need to do 763 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:58,640 Speaker 1: for me, and I'm good that I'm already got that training. No, no, no, 764 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 1: we're not doing that. Our niggage is not about to 765 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,760 Speaker 1: hit me with the Alderman interview. Y'all not about to 766 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: give me twenty minutes and then no, no, no. This 767 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: was the brunch Brigade. This is that was the breakfast Club. 768 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: This b No, it doesn't matter. Listen, coming up on 769 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 1: a brunch Brigade. That's right. We got another segment where 770 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: Lynda Skin will be giving his morning make up ritual. 771 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: That's right. I want to make up all the things 772 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 1: that he used, all the soaps, all the creams, all 773 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: the living sticks and chest sticks, and the winter will 774 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: received the personal package from lend the Skin. This is 775 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 1: the Bunch Brigade. Wake up. I use Jones Rod by 776 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 1: the way, okay, and see that you go all the 777 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 1: way Info man, Chico band everywhere. You know what I mean. Angela, 778 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,120 Speaker 1: I'm surprised, man, you ain't coming with it. I appreciate you. 779 00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 1: It's about to go ahead, go ahead and ask me one. 780 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and let you. When you were 781 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: talking about how yourself sufficient, we've had a conversation up 782 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: here before. I did think it is a couple of 783 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,160 Speaker 1: things I wanted to go ahead. Noa, this is the 784 00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 1: bunch brigade, baby, y'all working over time every time I 785 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:06,280 Speaker 1: come up here. Go ahead. She's about to ask you 786 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 1: if you I was not going to ask that. I 787 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 1: don't know where you got to go to the doctor? 788 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:14,839 Speaker 1: Hold up, Just let her ask the question. I'm going 789 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 1: to ask you. How do you feel about when it 790 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,680 Speaker 1: comes to dating for a woman? Do you think women 791 00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 1: should be independent in a relationship? Do I think women 792 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: should be independent while they're in a relationship, While they're 793 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 1: in a relationship human being like I can I'm self sufficient, 794 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 1: I can handle all these things. Because a lot of 795 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: people talk about how women are so independent now that 796 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 1: it's hard for them to be in relationships because guys 797 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 1: kind of want you to be a little dependent on them. 798 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I think independence is masked as being an adult. 799 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 1: You're an adult, so it's certain things that you should 800 00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 1: do on your own, you shouldn't, you know. I think 801 00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 1: a lot of women are looking for men to do 802 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,440 Speaker 1: the things for them that their father was supposed to, 803 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And the unfortunate part is 804 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 1: you can't be looking for somebody to be your daddy. 805 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 1: And not be obedient like a childhood. So the independent 806 00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 1: that men are looking for dependence rather than men are 807 00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,919 Speaker 1: looking for in women. They're looking for them to be 808 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: in a sense of you know, like you've seen the 809 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,319 Speaker 1: memes that people put out. You know that daddy hand 810 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 1: me the salt, and then the boyfriend and the father 811 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: reach you know what I'm saying. I think it's that 812 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 1: men want that level of being able to provide a 813 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 1: woman with that. But at the same time, if you're 814 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,319 Speaker 1: not going to look at this man as somebody who 815 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,000 Speaker 1: can provide you with the level of protection, assurance, you know, 816 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 1: safety that your father would, then it's a waste of time. 817 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 1: So your independence should come anyway as a woman, I think. 818 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: So what do you think about the bills in a relationship? 819 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 1: The bills? Yeah, like is it happening or do you 820 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,200 Speaker 1: feel like you should be paying for Like what's your breakdown? 821 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 1: I feel like you should do whatever it is you 822 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: capable of doing. Communication is key, It's the most important 823 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 1: part of any relationship. So if you're comfortable with paying 824 00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 1: half the bills, then do that. But if it's a 825 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 1: man that's you know, something that you want to do, 826 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 1: make sure you in a position to be able to 827 00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 1: see you mean, well, if I would never be in 828 00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,399 Speaker 1: a relationship, so I don't have to worry about that. 829 00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 1: I don't never want to be married or be in 830 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:02,960 Speaker 1: a relationship. You don't never want to be in a relationship. No, 831 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 1: my girlfriend, No, why would I do that? That is no. 832 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 1: Look at my man over in the corner. You wish 833 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 1: somebody would have said that on the mic before Want 834 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 1: five wats good for you? Good for you? As long 835 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:16,680 Speaker 1: as you can afford him, you should be able to 836 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 1: have No. No, no, no no, no, no, no no. I 837 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 1: don't you know, like I said, I you know, I 838 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 1: get most of my you know, interaction and relationship, you know, 839 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,439 Speaker 1: dependence from the environment that I come on, come from. 840 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,840 Speaker 1: Rather and I watched my mother go through my whole life, 841 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 1: never finding a man to keep it real with her 842 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,640 Speaker 1: and tell her exactly what it was that was going on. 843 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,520 Speaker 1: So I'm being I'm out here just trying to be 844 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:41,839 Speaker 1: the nigga that my mother never had. I don't have 845 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:44,959 Speaker 1: no lies to tell you. I don't have no lies 846 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 1: to tell you. I feel like if somebody would have 847 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: gave one to the opportunity, she would have been a 848 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: hell of a soldier for somebody who was worth it, 849 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,919 Speaker 1: and it would have made our life easier. So for me, 850 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 1: I don't have no lives to tell you, you're not 851 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,799 Speaker 1: going to be the only woman that I ever. That's 852 00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 1: if it's logical to me to even allow a woman 853 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:02,840 Speaker 1: to think that. If I love you and care about you, 854 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 1: there's no way I would allow you to think that 855 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,160 Speaker 1: as a man, that you are going to be the 856 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 1: only woman that I want to do. But that's cool. 857 00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 1: But it's the thing is, I'm gonna be honest with 858 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,800 Speaker 1: you about that from the jump. My goal, My whole 859 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 1: mantres no victims, only volunteered. You'll never be a victim 860 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,160 Speaker 1: of no bullshit, only a volunteer to my truth. So 861 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 1: you have a choice as to whether or not you 862 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:24,520 Speaker 1: want to deal with me or not. But you have 863 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 1: to understand that you won't be the only woman that 864 00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,239 Speaker 1: I deal with now. In fairness, you have, but you 865 00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 1: have a lot of men who say that and then like, 866 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:34,400 Speaker 1: I do what I want you to do, what I 867 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: tell you. I'm also not that way, and when it 868 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,719 Speaker 1: comes to women, I don't care what you do when 869 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,719 Speaker 1: I'm not around as long as no, well no, it's not. 870 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,239 Speaker 1: It's not I ain't having no bunch of kids, you 871 00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 1: know what I mean. But salute the nick that Nigga 872 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:48,760 Speaker 1: can take care. He about to have a whole nother cast. 873 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 1: I know that Nigga. I don't know what he's doing 874 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: trying to have a whole nother cast. So we can 875 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:57,399 Speaker 1: file us. But like I said, I'm not the type 876 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,239 Speaker 1: of person that's gonna tell you. I can do what 877 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 1: I want you to do what I tell you as 878 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 1: long as whatever you do don't bring me no problems. 879 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,120 Speaker 1: I don't care what you do. My uncle taught me 880 00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 1: a long time ago. If you don't wake up in 881 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 1: the morning to wash your pussy, it don't belong to you. 882 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,560 Speaker 1: It's yours. You're gonna do what you want to do 883 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,719 Speaker 1: with it, as long as they ain't mad. When it's 884 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: my turn re straight, do you take women on vacations? 885 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: And no, I don't do none of that. I don't 886 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 1: do none of that. Yeah, depending on who it is, 887 00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:21,399 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And how safe I feel 888 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: with my belongings there when I'm sleep, Yeah, it's been 889 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 1: in the night. But the thing about me, like I said, 890 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: it's about it's about honesty. Women always say they want 891 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 1: a man to keep it one hundred with them until 892 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:35,880 Speaker 1: they run into one. Most of them have never had 893 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: a man keep it twenty with them, So you have 894 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,840 Speaker 1: no idea what that other eighty percent in tails that 895 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,840 Speaker 1: you think that you're looking for. The lives hurt so 896 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 1: bad that you just think you want the opposite. But 897 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: the majority of the women that I have conversations with 898 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 1: don't want a man to be honest with them. You 899 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,319 Speaker 1: want a man to fit into the character that you 900 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,359 Speaker 1: have in your mind, and you want him to play 901 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 1: that out in front of the world. I don't operate 902 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:56,799 Speaker 1: like that. This is what it is, This is what 903 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 1: it Ain't you down with it cool, You're not cool. 904 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,520 Speaker 1: I like the way I explained it is like we 905 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,239 Speaker 1: all are professors of ourselves, and I'm the I'm the 906 00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 1: dean of Chico Mean University. When you've you've been to college, 907 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:11,360 Speaker 1: you've been around when the first thing you've been around 908 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 1: lend the skin. Uh. The first thing that they teach 909 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 1: you when you or the first thing that you do 910 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,800 Speaker 1: when you come into a college, you know, classroom is 911 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 1: they give you the syllabus and the first week of 912 00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 1: classes you're going over the syllabus so you can make 913 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:26,880 Speaker 1: a decision as the weather, not just a class you 914 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,800 Speaker 1: want to take a drop. That's how I operate with women. 915 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,319 Speaker 1: When you meet me, I'm handing you my syllabus. This 916 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,239 Speaker 1: is what it is with me. You have a choice 917 00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:35,640 Speaker 1: as to whether or not you want to take this 918 00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: course or drop it. Would you say I love you? 919 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 1: Have you said I love? I love all the women 920 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,839 Speaker 1: I deal with Kevin Samuel, I gotta know it ain't no. 921 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 1: Don't put me and see that you go. Now you 922 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: want to say, motherfucker's that's gonna die. You keep saying that. 923 00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:52,120 Speaker 1: You say, Kanye West, you gonna put me into Kevin Samuel. 924 00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 1: So the women can say, I'm not salute to Kevin 925 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: Samuel though I don't, you know, God rest his soul. 926 00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 1: But I'm not one of those people who's telling any 927 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 1: woman what they need to do. I'm just telling you 928 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,400 Speaker 1: what I'm going to do. What you decide to do 929 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 1: based upon that is your choice. I don't have no 930 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 1: say so in that. I just am going to tell 931 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: you what I'm gonna do, and I'm not gonna do 932 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,600 Speaker 1: after that. It's on you. That's my man. Chico being Yeah, 933 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,319 Speaker 1: you nigga trying to go and get out. You're trying 934 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:21,719 Speaker 1: to get out of here. Hey, Angela, whenever you leave, 935 00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,759 Speaker 1: let me know so I can come do your new job. 936 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 1: Oh absolutely please. We gotta get you on lip service. 937 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,160 Speaker 1: We would love that. Oh yeah, I gotta come do 938 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:32,160 Speaker 1: that to very serious. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, salute salute 939 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,319 Speaker 1: to my girl. Man. We worked on the radio together, 940 00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 1: my girl Laurie. Yeah, that's my partner. But you notice 941 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,600 Speaker 1: ever since then, we'd have been locked in. But yeah, 942 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 1: I would love to come do it because you know, 943 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,400 Speaker 1: you get to ask the nasty questions and hey, for real, like, 944 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 1: I gotta asked you before I go. Though, this is 945 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 1: gonna be the last question. Matter of fact, it's coming 946 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,880 Speaker 1: up in the next segment on the French Brigade. Make 947 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,279 Speaker 1: sure you stay tuned then wake up America. Yes, her