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Speaker 1: Here's a question. Guys. Have you heard of the term

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Speaker 1: dry begging?

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. We all do it. You may

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Speaker 1: not know that you're doing it, but we all do it.

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Speaker 1: We may just not know what it's called. Okay. Imagine

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Speaker 1: looking at a basket of laundry and saying to your

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Speaker 1: spouse or your partner, whatever, I guess I'll just fall

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Speaker 1: the clothes myself or you or you mumble something like

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Speaker 1: must be nice to have a husband who cooks, or

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Speaker 1: I know you've heard that one, or something like I

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Speaker 1: guess I'll go.

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Speaker 2: Wash my own car.

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Speaker 1: And that's called what dry begging. That's what dry begging is. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So do you guys do this instead of asking for

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Speaker 1: someone to tell you what you want? I mean, instead

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Speaker 1: of you know, just asking for something you want.

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Speaker 3: This is how I talk and my husband I don't

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Speaker 3: even understand begging.

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Speaker 2: This is called conversation. Yeah, what I want?

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Speaker 1: How to get what I want out of you?

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Speaker 2: I guess here's.

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Speaker 4: My main one. Here's my main one. Are you going

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Speaker 4: to the kitchen?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 2: Bring me back?

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Speaker 4: I wanted some water, but no pressure if you're going

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Speaker 4: if you're going that way.

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Speaker 1: Like my aunt used to say, now, if you don't mind,

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Speaker 1: could you could you bring me the newspaper whatever? If

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Speaker 1: you don't mind. She would always start, if you wouldn't mind,

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Speaker 1: what are you say?

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Speaker 2: What are you gonna say?

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Speaker 1: No, I don't mind, unty, I get up for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but seriously, that's how I talk. I don't I

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Speaker 2: don't know how to fix this. This is conversation. You're right.

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Speaker 1: What you're doing is dry begging.

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Speaker 4: I do it all the time.

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Speaker 2: I know, like what, Oh, mine's based around the stove.

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Speaker 2: That's mine? Is mine? I was based around the stove.

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Speaker 2: What I run on stands like this? Merch bay, babe?

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Speaker 2: Do you do pilots on that store?

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Speaker 1: Work? Try?

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Speaker 2: Have you tried to turn them on? Did it work?

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Speaker 1: Who have heard these same things before?

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Speaker 2: You're triggering me? You're your trauma. I'll go out there

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Speaker 2: and just tell you. You know, there's some's some chicken in

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Speaker 2: the frieze. Did you see that?

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Speaker 1: I'm triggered.

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Speaker 2: She will cook nothing in here.

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Speaker 4: I go even deeper, mind mine, y'all can't take this

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Speaker 4: one though.

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Speaker 2: They just say it, what.

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Speaker 4: Baby going there in the freezer?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh?

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Speaker 4: And it's a bag of sex in that when you

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Speaker 4: take it out and throw it out in here bringing.

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Speaker 3: That let me add at my dry bag game because

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Speaker 3: this is really hot. Okay, So I guess you're not

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Speaker 3: gonna put no gas in the car. When is that happening?

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Speaker 2: Because I need to know. Oh, I guess you just

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Speaker 2: you're just gonna let the trash pile up. What time

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Speaker 2: you're gonna take that out?

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Speaker 1: All of that? Yet?

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Speaker 2: Oh I's gonna do it to you? Right? Oh, I

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Speaker 2: guess we're just not gonna go on vacation. You just

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Speaker 2: froze the budget. And see, I mean that's how I talk.

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Speaker 2: So I'm in trouble right.

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Speaker 1: Begging, You're dry begging, that's what you're doing.

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Speaker 2: Yes, well, let me say this. Hi, I'm Carla. I'm

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Speaker 2: a dry beggar. I say, Hi, Carla. Yet you don't.

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Speaker 2: We're not saying you need help for it.

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Speaker 1: You don't need you You're good because you get what

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Speaker 1: you want right.

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Speaker 2: Right, So I identify, Yes, you're good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess I'm going in here and do it

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Speaker 4: by myself.

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Speaker 3: And then my husband will say bye.

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Speaker 2: May you learned something new?

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Speaker 1: Every day listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show, this is

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Speaker 1: really passive aggressive, right, here though, it really is.

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Speaker 2: I'm so tired sign, I'm so tired of saying this. Hey,

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Speaker 2: what for the fourth night in the row? Ober, each

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Speaker 2: is at the door. Are they moving in? Is they

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Speaker 2: moving in?

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Speaker 4: Because they're here again.

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Speaker 1: So and your wife is like, oh, you didn't want

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Speaker 1: me to cook anything, did you?

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Speaker 2: She acknowledge nothing. I'm saying, that's what makes that, that's

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Speaker 2: what's hertful.

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Speaker 4: Welcome to be maried.

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Speaker 1: You didn't know this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.