WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hoping For A Bad Date

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. Some guys feel this way. I

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<v Speaker 1>know I do. But as a man, if a person

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<v Speaker 1>on a dating side ever approaches me and is very

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<v Speaker 1>forward and direct in their pursuit, that sends up alarms.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny because it's like, boy, this person must be

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<v Speaker 1>really messed up if they actually want me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, actually yeah, actually, now that you like pinpoint

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<v Speaker 2>it to just you and me in the red flag?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually did they lose a bet or something? Am I

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<v Speaker 1>being lured and do a trap of some sort? What

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<v Speaker 1>is going on with you? I do for work, but

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<v Speaker 1>for our listener, Damon, he looked right past those blaring

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<v Speaker 1>alarms and went forward with a different type of date,

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<v Speaker 1>A date he says he's never been on before in

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<v Speaker 1>his life, and he's gone on a lot. So Damon,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. What type of date was it?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 4>I was on a dating app with this girl, Marissa,

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<v Speaker 4>and she called it a contradictory date.

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<v Speaker 1>Contradictory date? What is that date?

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<v Speaker 2>Like you do opposite things, You eat dessert and then

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<v Speaker 2>you work out.

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<v Speaker 4>It was?

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<v Speaker 3>It was?

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<v Speaker 4>It was weird. I had no idea what I was

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<v Speaker 4>getting into, and she told me it's kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>the person and the type of date that you would

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<v Speaker 4>normally not go on. So it's counter through what you're using.

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<v Speaker 5>So is she telling you a little offensive to you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>because basically she's saying you're not my type.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's the thing, is like, Yeah, it was kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like a backhanded compliment. She was like, nothing about

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<v Speaker 4>your profile really speaks to me. But I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean I could see where like you've been doing the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing for so long and you're like it's not

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<v Speaker 2>working on.

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<v Speaker 5>These apps, so let me do the good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe what she's saying isn't that like you're bad,

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<v Speaker 1>It's that I have bad taste, so I need to

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<v Speaker 1>switch its icky. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well she did say that I was cute, so

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<v Speaker 4>I took that as a good side.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, go on a date you Usually I go

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<v Speaker 2>with hot, muscular, but you're sick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so it's like going for a person who're not

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<v Speaker 1>normally going for. And what was the other part of

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<v Speaker 1>a contradictory.

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<v Speaker 4>Date, Well, it was like going for a person but

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<v Speaker 4>also going four experiences. And her friends apparently told her

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<v Speaker 4>about this type of date and she was like, screw it,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll try it. And apparently she was like, would I

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<v Speaker 4>be up for this? And I was like, sure, that

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<v Speaker 4>sounds interesting experimental? Why not well out there?

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<v Speaker 1>So like, did she explain what was contradicting? Like you

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<v Speaker 1>said the date itself.

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<v Speaker 5>Was even the activity atty is supposed to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Different exactly, So I guess. I mean, like from her

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<v Speaker 4>profile and from her photos and everything, it looked like

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<v Speaker 4>she was like a really outdoorsy type of person. And

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<v Speaker 4>don't get me wrong, I like going out, but when

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going out, I like to do more like urban

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<v Speaker 4>exploration stuff and.

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<v Speaker 3>Go to like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, Well you want to have five bars on

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<v Speaker 1>your phone signal wherever you're going. Make sense to me.

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<v Speaker 5>So what did you guys end up doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we went out to a bar. We went out

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<v Speaker 4>to a pool hall, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>And okay, you like, okay, yeah, so it was something

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<v Speaker 2>new for.

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<v Speaker 4>Really Yeah, yeah, because she was like, I want to

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<v Speaker 4>do stuff that I don't normally do.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe she's not calling you back because she hated it.

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, she seemed to enjoy it. And it's

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<v Speaker 4>weird too because she was like, do something you would

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<v Speaker 4>normally do, and I would normally go and play pool

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<v Speaker 4>at this pool hall with my friends, and so she

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<v Speaker 4>was like, you should also invite your friends so I

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<v Speaker 4>can get to know them and everything. And I was like, sure,

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<v Speaker 4>for a first day it was weird. I mean, don't

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<v Speaker 4>get me wrong, like that's not how I play it.

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<v Speaker 4>But at the same time, like she was gung ho

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<v Speaker 4>about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, all right, oh my god, what

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<v Speaker 2>were your friends reactions when you told them what they

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<v Speaker 2>were meeting you up and meeting up with you for I.

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<v Speaker 4>Mean before the date, they were like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 4>she's gonna be a catfish or whatever. And then when

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<v Speaker 4>we got there, and when she got there and we

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<v Speaker 4>were all playing pool and we were all getting a long,

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<v Speaker 4>they kind of pulled me aside. They were like, dude,

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<v Speaker 4>she's actually really hot.

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<v Speaker 1>So did the friends sign of approval?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>And so at this first point, I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>speaking of a contradictory date and everything, I was. I

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<v Speaker 4>was kind of like, usually on one of my dates

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<v Speaker 4>at this point, I would have gotten a second base

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<v Speaker 4>by now. So you should contradict yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to do stuff that you normally don't do,

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<v Speaker 1>you should start kissing that that's funny.

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<v Speaker 5>Did she laugh?

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<v Speaker 6>She did?

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<v Speaker 4>She did laugh.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but she didn't kiss you right then?

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<v Speaker 4>No, No, no, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So was that the whole date? You guys just

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<v Speaker 1>did beer and pool with your buddies.

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<v Speaker 4>Well no, So she was actually asking me, like, what

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<v Speaker 4>do you normally do from here? And the game was on,

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<v Speaker 4>so we went to a sports bar and we're drinking

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<v Speaker 4>and watching college football.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure she asked you normally do with your friends,

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<v Speaker 2>not what you normally do on a date, you're.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean she was trying to like kind of get

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<v Speaker 4>out of her comfort zone.

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<v Speaker 1>Got it.

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<v Speaker 4>So she was like, how do you normally hang? How

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<v Speaker 4>do you normally chill? And we can turn that into

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<v Speaker 4>a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? All, so maybe it's like Alexus said, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>fun night with the bros, but nothing necessarily romantic unless

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, how did it end?

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<v Speaker 4>So I told her, I mean, you know, at that point,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I tell you what, this isn't over.

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<v Speaker 4>You owe me at this point. How about I get

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<v Speaker 4>a contradictory date and I will do all of the

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<v Speaker 4>things that are outside of my comfort zone and more

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<v Speaker 4>within your realm.

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<v Speaker 5>I love that. I mean that's cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Try to leave it open.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and I've been texting her only like once or twice.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not trying to be like super pushy about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Once or twice an hour.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel like at least you gave her the out,

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<v Speaker 6>Like even if she had a bad date, she can

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<v Speaker 6>drag you on a bad date next, Like, now it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Her if you have one bad date, who doesn't want

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<v Speaker 5>another life.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, I would love a BA date with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's talk to her, get her on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and try to convince her to take you on the

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<v Speaker 1>absolute worst date of your entire life when you come

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<v Speaker 1>back for a second date. Update right after that second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Update if you're just joining us. We've been talking to

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<v Speaker 1>Damon about his contradictory date with Marissa, which is a

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<v Speaker 1>new thing that we just learned about, where you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with someone you normally wouldn't go for and do

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<v Speaker 1>activities you normally wouldn't do.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, that's a lot of wood. It's there, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like maybe we just do the one, not both.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, like if we were to do that on our show,

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<v Speaker 1>jose would run a five k oh my god, well

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<v Speaker 1>he'd walk it. Yeah, not even uber eats guy to

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<v Speaker 1>do it for you. An Alexis would go out with

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<v Speaker 1>an American man to a comedy pun off, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>think about, Oh my god, a pun off American. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>no so. But our listener Damon was challenged to do

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<v Speaker 1>that go on a contradictory date with Marissa, and that

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<v Speaker 1>consisted of her drinking beers, playing pool, and watching football

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<v Speaker 1>because she normally doesn't do any of that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, do you regret Damon?

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<v Speaker 2>If? Like, because I know now you want her to

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<v Speaker 2>take you out doing stuff you don't normally do.

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<v Speaker 5>Like, maybe you should have started with.

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<v Speaker 2>That, you know what I'm saying, Like the first date

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<v Speaker 2>should have been all about things she likes that you

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<v Speaker 2>have never done.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it's too late now, bru.

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<v Speaker 1>Try to read through the pity of what she just said.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like maybe you could have done a

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<v Speaker 1>better job.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, don't get it wrong, Like that is a

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<v Speaker 4>smart idea. I would have gone with that. But at

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<v Speaker 4>the same time, she was the one that kind of

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<v Speaker 4>came at me with this notion that's has egged on

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<v Speaker 4>by her friends.

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<v Speaker 1>So I like that if she didn't like any part

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<v Speaker 1>of the date, when we call her, were just like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's your fault. You wanted this, you brought it upon yourself.

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<v Speaker 5>Blame your friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I wouldn't throw it in her face like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I will. You don't have to. Guy, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call her right now and we're gonna make her feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad if she didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Have a good Is that what we're gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we'll convince her to take you on the worst

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<v Speaker 1>date ever. That was what you want, the worst date ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go. Okay, let's make you hate this. We're going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Marissa?

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<v Speaker 1>I it is Hey Marissa. I think that you think

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<v Speaker 1>you said yes, Yeah, she did said phone's not great.

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<v Speaker 1>But Marissa, you're on the radio right now with a

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, what's happening right now?

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening is a segment that we do on the

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<v Speaker 1>show called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, you're on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Show. Okay, try to be pop, jeff it's not coming through.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds very sarcastic if I but no, we are.

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<v Speaker 5>We're all I'm not going to try anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the spirit broke anyway, Marissa. We actually are excited

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you because we've spoke earlier to a

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<v Speaker 1>guy that you went on a date with named Damon.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh Man, you'd say somebody else's name.

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<v Speaker 3>At first, I don't know what I was. I was hoping.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys have caught me so off guard.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's okay. I mean maybe you're just kind of taking.

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<v Speaker 7>It all in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, we're contacting you for a good reason because

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<v Speaker 1>Damon said he had a really nice time with you.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually told us about the whole idea, which we

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<v Speaker 1>thought was really interesting. You wanted to do a contradictory date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is kind of silly. We heard about it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I gotta say good for you for proposing

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<v Speaker 2>this and telling him you're not someone that would normally

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<v Speaker 2>go for and then having him still agree to a date.

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<v Speaker 3>I felt so bad saying it, but you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to be upfront with him, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he wasn't insulted at all. He was actually really

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<v Speaker 2>excited about you know how different you were.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just trying to get a vibe of, like, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you think about your contradictory day? Did you have

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<v Speaker 1>a good time?

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<v Speaker 3>I actually did have a good time. I mean, this

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<v Speaker 3>was not my idea, right. It was my friends who

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<v Speaker 3>suggested it. I thought they were insane, but clearly what

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing wasn't working for me anyway. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, Okay, we'll just try something. And it was

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<v Speaker 3>probably the most relaxed date I've ever been on.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that's that's great news.

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<v Speaker 3>Normally, like it was hanging out, it was watching sports,

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<v Speaker 3>it was you know, going to bars, and like.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, oh my gosh, wait were your friends right?

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<v Speaker 2>Was this like something to get you out of your

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<v Speaker 2>comfort zone and find somebody you actually like?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I didn't want it to be right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, but you did have a good time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like embarrassed to say that I did have a

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<v Speaker 3>good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Why aren't you calling Damon back? If you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>a blast together?

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<v Speaker 5>What's embarrassing about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, he's he is normally not not my type. That's

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<v Speaker 3>not something that I've ever done before. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>we just like leapt to the like the third date,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, where you just get to hang out, you

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<v Speaker 3>know what I mean. It was so it was so

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<v Speaker 3>chill and it was so comfortable, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what to do with that. That's like not what I'm

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<v Speaker 3>used to.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it freaks you out that you are so

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable with him? Is that what you're getting to?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I guess Okay, does that sound crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>So now you want to go back to your normal.

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<v Speaker 5>Type the ones that make are really uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>On edge and you're not having fun or everything.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I don't feel like you're self.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, when you put it that way, it doesn't sound so.

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<v Speaker 1>Good, doesn't But that sounds like what you're saying you want.

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<v Speaker 3>Isn't that what dating should be?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, like, yes, for a little bit, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that when you meet somebody that you feel

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<v Speaker 2>more yourself with than anyone else, then that's the sign

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<v Speaker 2>that that could be it like, that could be the person.

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<v Speaker 5>You're supposed to be with. I don't know about forever,

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<v Speaker 5>but at least for right now.

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<v Speaker 3>You saying that, actually scarce, say a lot?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you doing? Why are you scaring the women on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone we're talking about them feeling.

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<v Speaker 5>Good just because you like him?

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<v Speaker 1>Rush into anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, people for like two years and we're still

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<v Speaker 2>not doing.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to feel like uncomfortable and like you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what's going on, then let me do this

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<v Speaker 1>to you and surprise you by telling you Damon has

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<v Speaker 1>been secretly listening to this conversation wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't that you out?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh So it sounds like you were shocked that you

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<v Speaker 4>had such a good time with me.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh Oh, yeah, I didn't expect to, but I did.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, like, nothing in my body says like I

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<v Speaker 3>should have had a good time, but I I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I've kind of been thinking about you, which.

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<v Speaker 1>Is weird, and you're making her feel too comfortable.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm kind of blushing on my end. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm glad I've made you feel good. I'm sorry that

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<v Speaker 4>apparently other dates haven't made you feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>She doesn't want to, she doesn't want to enjoy your time.

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<v Speaker 3>Scared. Oh boy boy, you are so cute.

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<v Speaker 7>Are you opening to feel more good in the future,

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<v Speaker 7>because I, like I said at the end of our date,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm down to have a contradictory date the other way, Yeah, around.

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<v Speaker 2>A bad date like you want it, or you just

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<v Speaker 2>tell them to treat you poorly all night long, because that.

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<v Speaker 3>Would definitely make me feel more comfortable.

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<v Speaker 5>One of my sure friends. As the shirt says, don't

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<v Speaker 5>be mean it turns me on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, damon, are you capable of that? Can you be

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite of what you normally are?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that would be way outside my own comfort zone,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's not exactly what I had in mind for

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<v Speaker 4>a contradictory date. But that's what she's into.

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<v Speaker 5>It's different, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>It is possible. Like Brooks said that, maybe there's a

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<v Speaker 1>chance you two are just made for each other opposite.

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<v Speaker 5>They do say that, so this contradicting thing may be onto.

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<v Speaker 1>Something makes me sick to say it. But yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys sound cute, and that's contradictory to everything that I

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<v Speaker 1>believe in. So yeah, I mean, this is disgusting. I

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<v Speaker 1>am I want to get off the phone with these two.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm wondering if Marissa has been out with you before, mister.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she's not my type, so yeah, him. Anyway, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>we want to send you guys out on another date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the whole reason that we called you, Marissa. We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for it if you say yes.

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<v Speaker 5>If you don't say yes, I'm going to call all

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<v Speaker 5>your girlfriends. I'm gonna let them know listeners.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, all my girlfriends are going to start

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<v Speaker 3>dating this way. This is going to be crazy. I

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<v Speaker 3>think they would kill me if I if I said no, Gamon,

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<v Speaker 3>I would like to go on another date with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so cute, It's disgustingly beautiful. Congratulations too.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so excited to go on the worst date of

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<v Speaker 4>my life.

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<v Speaker 3>I will do whatever I can to make it terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a come we needed, Yeah, rookie Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Was that the most sweetest, touching second date

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<v Speaker 1>update we've done all year?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 5>And my soul needed that. It was so good. Look,

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<v Speaker 5>there's hope for love out there. People don't give up.

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<v Speaker 5>Try something new, try something different. You can do it right.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me you don't want to hear a part three

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<v Speaker 1>from these two? Get an update update. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I could stomach it.

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<v Speaker 5>Unless they go on the second date and it's terrible.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, heartbroken.

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<v Speaker 5>I want to know is that she gonna have just

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<v Speaker 5>as much fun as he.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just making all of our single listeners feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad listening to stuff like this.

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<v Speaker 5>Did you give him hope?

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants hope.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, Johan, Yeah, Well if you do have any hope left, yikes,

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<v Speaker 6>But you can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call that person who's not calling you back. Go

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