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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in Withy and Tanya rep An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. It's Monday Funday, Monday Funday.

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Speaker 2: And it's also we haven't done this in a very

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Speaker 2: long time, but it is a mantle Monday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we haven't done a manel in years.

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Speaker 2: I think you know what I was thinking about last night

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Speaker 2: because we used to do mantals before.

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Speaker 4: Was I with Haley? Yet we need some.

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Speaker 1: Like last mantle I feel, I want to say it

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Speaker 1: was like Brad Kreski nik vayou and I.

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Speaker 4: Thought it was What's I think it was Hunter and Jack.

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Speaker 3: I forgot about that one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I was like, we you know,

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Speaker 2: we have like a newer audience now that I'm out

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Speaker 2: with Haley, so we should have had we should have

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Speaker 2: a woe mantle, which is a we needed like a

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Speaker 2: lesbian So.

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Speaker 3: She we a lesbian mantle?

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Speaker 4: No, well having ais mantle.

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Speaker 5: No lesbiano, Yes, it's kind of close to lesbianal.

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Speaker 3: Is that a word?

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Speaker 5: No, this podcast has taking a turn quickly.

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Speaker 4: Anyways, we have a mantle.

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Speaker 1: But you're right, we should get a lesbiano the lebian yeah,

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Speaker 1: or someone who is a woman who likes women, whatever,

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Speaker 1: that by side whatever.

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Speaker 2: We don't want to just like discriminate towards anyone.

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Speaker 4: But today is a mantle.

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Speaker 3: Today is a mantle.

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Speaker 2: And I'm excited because our two guests today, Yes you

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Speaker 2: heard that right. There's two of them are most famously

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Speaker 2: known for being on a Nickelodeon series, Turn boy Band.

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Speaker 1: One of them is from Texas and one is from Kansas.

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Speaker 1: But now they both live in LA and they may

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Speaker 1: be coworkers, but they are also best friends just like us.

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Speaker 2: I know we've known them for years and we love

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Speaker 2: seeing everything they've accomplished. Please help us give a warm

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Speaker 2: welcome to Logan Henderson and Kendall what's the last.

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Speaker 4: Name, Schmidt Schmidt.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why there's an R there, oh, said Schmidter.

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Speaker 2: I was like, what, okay, please help us give a

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Speaker 2: warm welcome to Logan Henderson and Kendall Schmidt from Big

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Speaker 2: Time rund.

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Speaker 5: Please it's enough, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm like really excited because I had you guys on

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Speaker 1: my weekend show on the Vibe.

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Speaker 3: This was maybe a year ago.

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Speaker 5: Maybe more could have been more.

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Speaker 3: Maybe less. No, tar say is less, so maybe it's less, but.

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Speaker 5: It was I feel like we've lived kind of a

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Speaker 5: couple of years.

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Speaker 1: So it was August, but I had you guys on

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Speaker 1: the Vibe, and when that show, the interviews are very quick.

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Speaker 3: It's very kind of like quick answers.

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Speaker 1: And I I remember like really hitting it off with

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Speaker 1: you guys, and I was like, I really want to

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Speaker 1: have you on the podcast because I just feel like

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Speaker 1: there's so much more like dig into and to share.

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Speaker 1: And so we've been plotting and planning, and now the

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Speaker 1: day is finally here.

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Speaker 5: I agree. We had the best time and now we're here.

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Speaker 5: Now we're here to do the real deal. And I've

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Speaker 5: been thinking. I've been thinking about what we're going to

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Speaker 5: get into. I don't know what to expect, but I'm

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Speaker 5: ready to be vulnerable.

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Speaker 4: Look at it?

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Speaker 2: Does this? What does this make you feel? These questions scared? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you used the highlighters so you mean business?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, Tony, I was like, I highlighted my favorite ones.

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Speaker 4: I was like, I need to do that too, But

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Speaker 4: we mostly highlighted.

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Speaker 3: We're not going to be able to get through all

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Speaker 3: of them, I feel.

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Speaker 4: Or so you think you think we can talk really fast.

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Speaker 1: So the scrubbers, we've done mantals, before where we get

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Speaker 1: like a man's perspective on things, and they have very

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Speaker 1: interesting questions, and so we compile the list of some

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Speaker 1: mantal questions for you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but first we want to get to do to

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Speaker 2: you guys, the two of you better. We don't want

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Speaker 2: the general male perspectively, want to know more about you.

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Speaker 4: You just got engaged, yes, after ten years?

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Speaker 5: Eight eight? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Is there a reason why you waited eight years or

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Speaker 2: did that feeling off fresh off of that? There's no time,

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Speaker 2: there's no time to wait. No, I am totally happy

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Speaker 2: to answer this question. So we kind of talked about

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Speaker 2: there was a lot of like struggle at that time

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Speaker 2: because you know, if you're not living with someone and

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Speaker 2: life has a lot of ups and downs at that time.

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Speaker 2: When you're not living together, you're not going through it

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Speaker 2: directly together living in the same house, so it's like

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Speaker 2: it might be a bad night and you're not together

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Speaker 2: as many of those years. I think we worked out

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Speaker 2: a lot of stuff then, and then also we just weren'

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Speaker 2: in hurry to get married. Yeah, because we're like common

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Speaker 2: law married at this point. Honestly, I'm sure the government

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Speaker 2: would see it that way, the gunment. But the gunment

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Speaker 2: you you all married, why they like that's true?

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Speaker 5: No, I mean, but think about how I felt, knowing

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Speaker 5: the entire relationship and being like, man, when is he

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Speaker 2: You?

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Speaker 5: This didn't seem to be in a hurry. And I

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Speaker 5: know we were kind of disagreeing about this. You're like,

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Speaker 5: you know, you're like, come on, like, let's get it,

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Speaker 5: let's get it gone.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, I do feel like putting pressure on

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Speaker 1: somebody to do something that they don't necessarily. And I

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Speaker 1: think if your girlfriend didn't really it wasn't such a

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Speaker 1: no pressure there, Like if she wasn't like really wanting it.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like if somebody really wants it, making

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Speaker 1: them wait eight years.

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Speaker 5: Little at any time from I mean honestly, i'd say

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Speaker 5: could have proposed and we could have we would have

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Speaker 5: gotten married at the courthouse, right, So there was never

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Speaker 2: Well, I've been with my girlfriend for five years and

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Speaker 2: we're both like neither of us are. So I'm not

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Speaker 2: saying that as someone who's like, what took you song,

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Speaker 2: I'm just curious, like when you you know, from if

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Speaker 5: I'm like, I really didn't even think about it that much.

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Speaker 5: We were just enjoying it. Enjoying it you have very much.

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Speaker 5: I think both of you have much more of a

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Speaker 5: kind of Hippi approach when it comes to that, right.

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Speaker 5: You know, you love each other, You are with each

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Speaker 5: other all the time. I mean, that's really your we're together,

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Speaker 5: you're together, and then now we're just making it official

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Speaker 5: and it's gonna cost money to have a wedding. It

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Speaker 5: didn't cost us anything before.

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Speaker 3: That's gonna cost a lot, and that's gonna cost money.

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Speaker 5: I don't understand that for eight years didn't cost a dime.

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Speaker 5: Now look at you, now look at us a trap. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: this marriage, it's so funny how that works. It's really,

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Speaker 4: It's for the vendors. Yeah, it's like, hey, are you

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Speaker 5: Because we have, you know, quota to make really yes, true,

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Speaker 4: Well I puit a room love there, so we're still

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Speaker 2: So happy for you and I'm happy for her that

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Speaker 2: y'all are in the same direction and together.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I know I know one person in here

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Speaker 2: would not be okay with an eight year wait.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh no, you.

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Speaker 5: Made that very clear. Yeah, yest time I remember it.

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Speaker 5: But I'm totally I get that said that, and you

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Speaker 3: Well there's again there's no judgment, but it would be

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Speaker 1: But I also think it has to do with age

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Speaker 1: and like where you are in life, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like I want you know, all that stuff,

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Speaker 5: So it's like, I mean, think about this week.

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Speaker 3: It'll never work out.

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Speaker 5: We got together, Sorry, we got together when I was

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Speaker 5: like twenty four, right, and and I'm thirty two now.

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Speaker 5: You know, we've been through a lot of life together.

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Speaker 5: She's seen I would say, twenty four to twenty five,

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Speaker 5: twenty six, twenty seven. Those were like particularly hard years

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Speaker 5: gave a chance. He goes things are gonna get rough,

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Speaker 1: I do want to get into that, because I find

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Speaker 1: I'm very curious about that. But I do want to

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Speaker 1: touch on on logan on your situation.

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Speaker 4: What's the situation?

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Speaker 5: What is the situation?

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Speaker 3: Long distance?

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Speaker 5: Long it is?

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Speaker 4: It's long distance relationship. Yeah, it's tough.

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Speaker 3: I mean, how long have you been long distance?

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Speaker 4: Four years now? Four years? Wow, it's a long time.

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Speaker 5: I think it's a little bit harder when you have

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Speaker 5: someone who's European, like English. I mean that's like that's

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Speaker 5: long distance. Yeah, we've done relatively well with it. I

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Speaker 5: mean we didn't really know what we were getting ourselves

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Speaker 5: into because right whenever we started to kind of, you know,

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Speaker 5: it's the easiest thing. I mean, it's tough. It's not

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Speaker 5: anything that I would be like, hey, yeah, go for it.

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Speaker 5: That's it is tough.

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Speaker 2: It is tough.

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Speaker 5: It seems like almost like it being London is almost

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Speaker 5: better than if she lived in like Chicago, because when

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Speaker 5: with that distance, you have to make the time really count.

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Speaker 5: And I feel like if it's someone who's just a

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Speaker 5: It almost allows for more apathy, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 5: and you make it count. But again, you can't really

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Speaker 5: very much like that, but you have to get past

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Speaker 5: that stage where it's like, now we have real things

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Speaker 5: which song is called Another Life, which actually is a

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Speaker 5: lot about kind of what we're talking about. Oh really yeah, yeah.

443
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Speaker 3: I'm into waves.

444
00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:06,160
Speaker 1: You like, yeah, good, we got some new Big Time

445
00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:08,280
Speaker 1: Rush music out out and about.

446
00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:11,280
Speaker 4: It's got that thousand Sphil. Yeah, the album coming out June.

447
00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:13,840
Speaker 3: Ninth, and the tours right after.

448
00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,120
Speaker 5: June twenty something, I think is the first just enough

449
00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,679
Speaker 5: time for everybody to learn June twenty second favorite songs.

450
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Speaker 3: I appreciate that.

451
00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's a thoughtful gesture.

452
00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:24,359
Speaker 5: He used to work out like that. It just happened

453
00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:25,720
Speaker 5: to work out this time. I mean, if we could

454
00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,600
Speaker 5: be a month earlier, we probably would have. We just

455
00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,840
Speaker 5: it was down to the like Big Time Rush is

456
00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,600
Speaker 5: not a we have trouble reality.

457
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Speaker 3: Are you procrastinators for sure? Oh?

458
00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:35,639
Speaker 5: Not really?

459
00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,080
Speaker 4: Well, I mean some of you.

460
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Speaker 3: Feel later Kendall k not.

461
00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:43,959
Speaker 5: I can't be well. I mean I don't think so,

462
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,640
Speaker 5: I don't think up my phone. And I also tried

463
00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,920
Speaker 5: to reschedule. By the way, you guys have full right

464
00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,359
Speaker 5: to make fun of me for going to a golf

465
00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,560
Speaker 5: tournament and rescheduling trying to.

466
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Speaker 3: Oh with us.

467
00:19:54,640 --> 00:20:01,760
Speaker 5: Yes, it's very.

468
00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 4: Char You're just happier here.

469
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,760
Speaker 5: Honestly, I feel the weight coming off already.

470
00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,159
Speaker 4: You were like stressed, just we're so scared.

471
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:09,879
Speaker 3: Wait, how long are you guys so you leave June

472
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,920
Speaker 3: eighteenth for Fort Worth and then tell me gone.

473
00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:16,440
Speaker 4: Will be gone until August twelfth.

474
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,240
Speaker 5: So August Love Veguas is the last show.

475
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:20,879
Speaker 4: Dang, wait, can I ask a question?

476
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:24,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, do your fiance and girlfriend ever get jealous of

477
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:27,080
Speaker 2: all the like fan attention? Like is there ever convers

478
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,320
Speaker 2: like not to put them on blast, but like, are

479
00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:30,960
Speaker 2: there conversations where it's like this is.

480
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,960
Speaker 4: Hard for me? I think they probably think it's like

481
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:35,560
Speaker 4: they're like this.

482
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:39,720
Speaker 3: Guy, you know, so.

483
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,399
Speaker 5: She might like Mika thinks I'm cool. She thinks I'm cool,

484
00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:47,640
Speaker 5: but like not that cool, you know. For the most part,

485
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:50,359
Speaker 5: because we're working so much, it's usually me and Kendall

486
00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,880
Speaker 5: hanging out and they're like, god, you guys are hanging

487
00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 5: out again, Like get a life.

488
00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:56,359
Speaker 4: Like we said, we spend a lot of time together.

489
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Speaker 5: I don't.

490
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Speaker 2: So they're not jealous of the fans. They're jealous of

491
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 2: the time. Maybe at the time we spend a lot

492
00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 2: of time together, maybe that more much more. I mean

493
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,160
Speaker 2: it's always like I mean, even for me, it would

494
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 2: be one thing if she was seeing it from a

495
00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 2: different perspective and saw me being like, you know, like

496
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 2: why yes, come on up, you know.

497
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:15,679
Speaker 5: Let's do it.

498
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,560
Speaker 4: But it's weird for me too. Yeah.

499
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:19,919
Speaker 1: But also, you guys aren't like making out with people

500
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:22,639
Speaker 1: in the videos and stuff, so it's not like.

501
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,480
Speaker 5: This isn't a Chris Brown meet and greet. Oh my gosh, no,

502
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 5: the concert but they love it. But yeah, he's definitely

503
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 5: he's getting a handful of every I feel like every

504
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,400
Speaker 5: they think like they pay for that.

505
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:35,480
Speaker 3: I've never seen it.

506
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,040
Speaker 2: Chris Brown is going in on his meet and greet.

507
00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,119
Speaker 2: He has a lap dance on the stage every night.

508
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:43,000
Speaker 2: And one couple broke up because the girl posted the video,

509
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 2: and well.

510
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,000
Speaker 4: I also give lap dances. But it's nothing to be

511
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:50,120
Speaker 4: jealous of. That's a creative decision that.

512
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,120
Speaker 5: Is more like a magic mic thing.

513
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't wait for the toury.

514
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:02,680
Speaker 5: That's where I learned.

515
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:04,960
Speaker 3: From the best.

516
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 2: I feel like we should take a break and come

517
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 2: back with the Mantle questions. Yes, all right, we'll be

518
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 2: right back. All right, you guys, We are back with

519
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Speaker 2: the Questions from the Scrubbers.

520
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Speaker 1: Yes, And just so you guys know what's going on here,

521
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 1: we had to switch studios and so we're in a

522
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Speaker 1: new studio and Becca and I are having to share

523
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: a microphone.

524
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Speaker 4: And super cute.

525
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:42,200
Speaker 3: I know, I've never been happier.

526
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,159
Speaker 4: And we're basically in the same seats, so.

527
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 5: You talking over each other like we want to be.

528
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 2: That actually brings up a question from the scrubbers, and

529
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Speaker 2: we were talking about this briefly, but what are your

530
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 2: thoughts of same side seating when you go eat at

531
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Speaker 2: a restaurant?

532
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 5: If go on, like Mika and I sometimes will sit

533
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,359
Speaker 5: on the same side, like most of the time. If

534
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:13,720
Speaker 5: we sit apart, like, it only takes like ten twenty

535
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,480
Speaker 5: minutes before it's like, oh, come back over here. You know.

536
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 5: I love sitting on the same side. Ye, if it's

537
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 5: Logan and I because I can get to be very dependent.

538
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,439
Speaker 5: It's like even if I want to be able to

539
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 5: touch you or put my leg on you, it's super annoying,

540
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 5: I think, but I like that also.

541
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 4: I like to tell secrets, you know, when things are going.

542
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 5: On, you'll be like, yo, You're like, yo, look at

543
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Speaker 5: this guy over you know you want to I don't logo?

544
00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, said same side.

545
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,240
Speaker 5: Too, Yeah, Tonka, Like I'm not going to sit on

546
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 5: the same side, but there's no reason for us to

547
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 5: sit together. We're usually talking the entire time, like having

548
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 5: a usually like a business talk, right, and so we're like,

549
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:54,400
Speaker 5: you know, yeah, mono mono, back and forth. Yeah, we're

550
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 5: going back and forth the idea. Guys. Yeah. We also

551
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 5: don't mind interrupting each other. I think it's really funny

552
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 5: people get weird about interruption. I think that's just like

553
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 5: a passionate conversation. You know, it's never bothered me. It

554
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:06,719
Speaker 5: doesn't bother me. Some people talk, let me talk, let

555
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,679
Speaker 5: me talk. I'm sorry, excuse me?

556
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, okay, okay.

557
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 1: If you're at a bar and someone is being obviously

558
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Speaker 1: flirtatious and super forward, is that a turn on or

559
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: a turn off?

560
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 4: It depends the setting.

561
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Speaker 5: I can be flirtatious a little loud, you guys, right there,

562
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 5: a little loud and out there, and sometimes that's the

563
00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:38,680
Speaker 5: best thing to break the ice. If someone is doing

564
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:43,959
Speaker 5: if they're loud and forwards obnauxious, that's different. Is that

565
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 5: obnoxious is no good forward? I feel like there's a limit.

566
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 5: I mean, for me now, it's a turnoff because I'm

567
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 5: about to get married. But well no, no, no. So these

568
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 5: are like like as an ingeneral.

569
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Speaker 1: You're a single, Yeah, you're a single and you're like

570
00:24:58,119 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 1: bopping around town at a bar.

571
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Speaker 5: Also, is it? You know it can be someone is

572
00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 5: it to turn on just emotionally in general, if someone's

573
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 5: out in loud and forward. Yeah, I mean there's a

574
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:06,640
Speaker 5: limit for me.

575
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,919
Speaker 4: Because sometimes I can be the guy at the bar as.

576
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 5: Beer in the corner pretty.

577
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 4: Quietly comes and really breaks that up.

578
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 5: It's a good thing.

579
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 2: Wait, how did you meet your significant others? Well, you

580
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 2: haven't talked about that. What was What was the moment

581
00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 2: where you were like, oh, I want to hang around

582
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 2: this person.

583
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 5: So we met ten years ago at Radio City Music

584
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 5: Hall at a big time rush show. Mika was nannying

585
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 5: for Sima Zargami, who was the president of Nickelodeon at

586
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 5: the time. Oh right, And so we just met casually,

587
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 5: like just we always saw the boys, the three Boys,

588
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 5: her kids at every show in New York, and so

589
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 5: it was like, oh hey good. We were all used

590
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 5: to yeah, hey, hey hey, and then oh this is Meekah.

591
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 5: You know, it just wasn't It wasn't like some profound moment.

592
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 5: But what was the profession?

593
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 4: Was it?

594
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 2: Then?

595
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 5: You go, I think this We actually talked about this

596
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 5: the other day. I just kind of started flirting without

597
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 5: It wasn't like she was like giving me that sign

598
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 5: like flirt with me. I just kind of started becoming comfortable,

599
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 5: and I think she was kind of caught off guard.

600
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 5: Like we would see them at it was wherever the kids,

601
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 5: like they would come to, like the Universal Studio shows,

602
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 5: like the Summer concert series in Florida, So I'd see

603
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 5: her there and we'd like held hands on a roller

604
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 5: coaster before we were even dating. Just I grabbed her hand.

605
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 5: We sat together and it was flirting there. And then

606
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,920
Speaker 5: we went out to dinner one time in New York,

607
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 5: and then mom and dad New York again, Mom and Dad, Yeah,

608
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 5: and then hung out so many times in LA before

609
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 5: we were even like official. We definitely was a slow role,

610
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 5: very sweet though it's a very very slow role.

611
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 2: What was the time from when you met her, like

612
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 2: we're introduced to her to when you started dating officially?

613
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 5: Almost three years? Oh wow, Yeah, nothing happened after the meeting.

614
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 5: That wasn't anything. That was like we met cool, and

615
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 5: then time went on. We still a bunch of stuff

616
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 5: to do, so that wasn't I wasn't even thinking about

617
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 5: dating anybody at the time. And then when she moved

618
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 5: out to LA. That's when we started like really dating.

619
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 5: We had gone on a couple of dates, but that's

620
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 5: when we got together.

621
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 4: Okay, that's when you became a cup Yes.

622
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, Tinder No no, no, it wasn't. Sometimes sometimes I

623
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 5: say that just because it's easier, But no, we did.

624
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,359
Speaker 4: We didn't, which is not you can.

625
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 5: Meet on tender. Yeah, there you go, Now we didn't.

626
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 5: I was at this meeting at the London in LA,

627
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 5: which is weird. She's English and I was, yeah, in

628
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:45,919
Speaker 5: this meeting it was really boring, and she had walked

629
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 5: in and I had that kind of chemical thing where

630
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 5: it's like do I know this person, like I've met.

631
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 3: Her before, love at first sight.

632
00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 5: Well, it just was one of those weird things like

633
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 5: I swear I've known you somehow, And I was like,

634
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 5: might be rude to not go over and say anything,

635
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,440
Speaker 5: which she's in a meeting as well. I don't want

636
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 5: to interrupt that. So the night goes on a little bit.

637
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,919
Speaker 5: We keep on looking back over. She's looking at me,

638
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 5: I'm looking at her. We're trading eyes a little bit,

639
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 5: and I go out to get my car, like I'll

640
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 5: go out to get my car if she goes out there,

641
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 5: it's my green light. And sure enough I went to

642
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 5: go get the ballet and she was in the lobby

643
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 5: and I went over and talked to her. I don't

644
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 5: know what I said, probably something really stupid. I had

645
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,360
Speaker 5: a couple of chimpags. So I went over and talked

646
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 5: to her, and I'm not exactly sure what went down,

647
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 5: but she said that she was going to be there

648
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 5: for a while, she have anybody to show around, so

649
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 5: I just wanted to. I was like, let me show

650
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 5: you around to talk a little bit. Yeah. It feels

651
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 5: like a very old fashioned way to meet now at

652
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 5: this point, but it was awesome.

653
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 1: That was always my go to move. Not quite what

654
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: you did, but I would always go up to a

655
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: guy and say, ah, I feel like I I feel

656
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: like we have a friend in common, don't we.

657
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I know I would just like lie whatever it is.

658
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think for mine it really did feel

659
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 5: like someone. It was one of those things she felt. Yeah, Yeah,

660
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 5: you felt like I'd known her, which is, uh, it's interesting.

661
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that.

662
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,719
Speaker 2: What is something you could say about when you were

663
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 2: single with girls in general or your significant other, although

664
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 2: be very careful, What is something that a girl does

665
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 2: that gives you the ick?

666
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 5: You know, thankfully, Mika doesn't give me the ick at all.

667
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 5: That's great, that's a great answer. And we've actually talked

668
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 5: about this. She told me about like when you know,

669
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 5: one of her first high school boyfriends and getting the

670
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 5: ick at some point, and I was like, yeah, I

671
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 5: think maybe I've had that once in a relationship when

672
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 5: I was younger. But what's one thing. I don't know nothing.

673
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 5: It doesn't bother me like the whole Like, you know,

674
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 5: some girls like they think it's funny to burp and stuff,

675
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 5: which is whatever. I mean, I don't. It's like it's

676
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 5: sort of like sometimes I feel like it's this equalizing

677
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 5: thing like, well, you know, guys do it, so I'm

678
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 5: gonna do it too. But I don't burp out loud

679
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 5: like at uh.

680
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 3: You know, really impressive, just like that.

681
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,239
Speaker 5: Was a fake one. But I don't. I don't do that.

682
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 5: So it's not like in every guy. It's not like

683
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 5: guys are just all gross and disgusting.

684
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 4: You know.

685
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 5: I think some guys like like to keep it together.

686
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 5: I don't know. I am probably don't really, you know,

687
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 5: we don't know, I know for sure. Logan doesn't like

688
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,479
Speaker 5: just belch out in public, just like it, Like right here,

689
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:22,080
Speaker 5: if we were drinking water and he had to burp,

690
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 5: he would do one of those.

691
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 4: Like right, you know, what does it look like? Are

692
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 4: you a actor?

693
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 5: I'm a yeah, I'm a expert in this interview, So

694
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 5: don't test the life of me. But I can okay, fake,

695
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 5: don't test me.

696
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I haven't.

697
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 5: I want to hear you.

698
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:41,959
Speaker 2: Uh.

699
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 5: One that applies to the conversation we just had. I

700
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 5: would say, being English, you say a few words that

701
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 5: are different, but I think you know when you over

702
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 5: here you I'm like, don't use that word. No one

703
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 5: uses like rubbish, Yeah, things like that where you're just like,

704
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 5: I know you're Tuesday. I'm more aware you did it first.

705
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,480
Speaker 5: But doesn't mean it doesn't mean that it's right, you know,

706
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 5: just certain words you're like, come on, got it? That

707
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 5: is not That's not how we say it exactly.

708
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: On this one, I find very interesting. Do men notice

709
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 1: beauty things about women like eyebrows, nails, eyelashes, hair extensions,

710
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: et cetera.

711
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 5: Something changes drastically, of course, you know, like Meka, for example,

712
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 5: does just doesn't wear a lot of makeup, so if

713
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 5: suddenly she went out and got like like fully got

714
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 5: the full spread and like was you know, eyelashes and

715
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 5: had her eyebrows shaped, and I would be like, oh

716
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 5: my god, like I would of course notice it. But no,

717
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 5: I'm really detail oriented. So I noticed these things, and

718
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 5: I always call it out. Actually I've seen Meka a

719
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:52,160
Speaker 5: few times, like, Meka is your head? Yes, Okay, what

720
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, I noticed. I noticed Mika doesn't like

721
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 5: do a lot in that way. Sure, hair's beautiful all

722
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 5: the time, it's always, you know, but you always look good.

723
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 5: I always look good. But no, I mean if she

724
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 5: like got like really dressed up, I would of course

725
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 5: notice it because normally we're like oh natural.

726
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

727
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: I think it's funny because I feel like I remember,

728
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 1: like before every first day, I would obsess I'd have

729
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: to get my nail done, I'd have to have my

730
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: root's done, like, I'd have to have all that stuff,

731
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: and I feel like I just didn't really matter, but

732
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,479
Speaker 1: you put so much pressure on yourself to make sure

733
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: everything's done.

734
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 2: Well.

735
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 5: I noticed those things, but let me just say so,

736
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 5: it's good that you like that that happens. But for me,

737
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,479
Speaker 5: I think some of the most beautiful is like waking

738
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,959
Speaker 5: up and you're just like, damn, you wake up like this,

739
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 5: Like that's you don't even have to do anything. It's

740
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 5: more about just the way that you do you. I

741
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 5: can't say this for sure, but I feel like most

742
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 5: guys would probably agree with that. I have a strange

743
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 5: feeling that maybe it's one of those things where I

744
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 5: could say, I think girls do it more for themselves.

745
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 5: Yeah right, but maybe if it never happened, maybe I

746
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 5: would notice. I don't know, but I think it's more

747
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:01,120
Speaker 5: for themselves than it is. Like I it's not something

748
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 5: I worry about.

749
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, ladies do it for yourself, not for the

750
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 2: hope that the guy is going to be wild. I

751
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 2: can tell you why your eyebrow red lipstick. I know

752
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 2: that we're not making out. Yeah, you know what I mean.

753
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 5: So they'll just take that as a sign I'm in

754
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 5: my independent woman mode. I'm putting fire red like Taylor

755
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 5: swift Red. I noticed that. I'm like, damn, girl, get it.

756
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 6: I love it. Definitely for her, then that's that's for her.

757
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 6: You probably dark red bright lipstick, that's for you.

758
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 2: Wait. When I was on one of the seasons of

759
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 2: the Bachelor, a few of the girls were like bright

760
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: colored lipsticks, and so then Chris would have it like

761
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:42,920
Speaker 2: like remnists.

762
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 4: And I'm like, okay, we know you kissed it.

763
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 5: Yeah exactly.

764
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

765
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 2: Do you think that you can truly have platonic friends

766
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 2: of the opposite sex, Like I'm not talking friends like friendly,

767
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 2: I'm talking like friends that you have intentional hangout time with.

768
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 5: I think so, I think so.

769
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 2: Yeah.

770
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 5: I was just thinking if I have any friends like that,

771
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 5: I would say most of the time, if I'm hanging

772
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 5: out with a girl that I'm really fond of, it's

773
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 5: probably as a couple ninety nine percent of the time.

774
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 5: But I do have a couple. It is now stage,

775
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 5: but I do have a couple friends that are like

776
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 5: my sisters that I grew up with, And there wouldn't

777
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 5: even be a second thought as to us going and

778
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 5: getting dinner together or whatever. That wouldn't even be a question.

779
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 5: If you like having sister having think people as well

780
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 5: you both know, Yeah, this is what it is. It's

781
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:37,720
Speaker 5: not anything other than that. I think if I started

782
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,640
Speaker 5: a new friendship with somebody who happened to be very cute, yes,

783
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 5: and maybe there was flirtation there a couple of definitely

784
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 5: be a problem. Yeah, a couple off.

785
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 2: That's actually a good point though, because I think it's

786
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 2: it's starting in a new friendship with someone of the

787
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 2: opposite sex when you're already in a relationship. That's almost

788
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 2: like that feels suspicionous.

789
00:34:57,760 --> 00:34:58,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, why.

790
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 5: I mean, like, if she spend as much time with

791
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 5: a if she spent as much time with a guy

792
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 5: that was of dating caliber, right, as much as I

793
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 5: hang out with Logan like my you know, my best

794
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 5: friend hanging out all the time, I would be very concerned. Yeah,

795
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 5: you know, as a work husband. Yeah, this is my

796
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 5: work husband.

797
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 3: He's my work wife, right, yeah, exactly. Okay, this one

798
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 3: is very interesting.

799
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy for three years and he

800
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 1: hasn't introduced me to his family yet.

801
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 3: Should I be worried?

802
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 5: I've been dating this guy for three years and he

803
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 5: hasn't introduced me to his family yet. Maybe his family's

804
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 5: all messed up? Okay, we don't have context, context context.

805
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 5: It could be that he is maybe not super proud

806
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 5: of his family. And that's okay, you know.

807
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 3: An interesting perspective. I did not think about, you know,

808
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 3: I was thinking about this the other day.

809
00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 4: You don't.

810
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 2: People don't choose who they're what family they're born into.

811
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 2: So if people are able to create a family for

812
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: themselves outside of their biological family, you say the same thing,

813
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 2: that's a really beautiful thing.

814
00:35:58,600 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 4: So I think, I.

815
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 5: Think if you're getting introduced to people that mean a

816
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 5: lot to the other, to the other partner, then then

817
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 5: that's that's something I would how about this consider to

818
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 5: be special? If he talked to his mom every day,

819
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,879
Speaker 5: you know, Mom, Hey, I love you. You know, I'm

820
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 5: here with Jessica. You know, when we're it's great. And

821
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,280
Speaker 5: he and he hasn't introduced them in person, that would

822
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 5: be weird. But if he doesn't have a relationship with

823
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 5: his family or when he does see them, it's really,

824
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 5: you know, kind of mostly depressing or sad. There's been

825
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 5: times I've been with my family and it's like, oh gosh, sorry,

826
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 5: you know, you know, it's good for them to it's

827
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 5: good for them to meet. But I'm like a couple

828
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,280
Speaker 5: of dates and you're meeting the family.

829
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm so that.

830
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 5: Bringing so my mom is a harsh critic. So I

831
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,320
Speaker 5: I had to make sure that this was going somewhere

832
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:53,120
Speaker 5: before I you know, which isn't true at all. I

833
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 5: don't know what I'm saying. I lived with my mom,

834
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 5: got to get through Mama Schmidt. Mama Schmidt is tough.

835
00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 5: Like she knew Mika for quite a long time, she

836
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 5: still gave her a like just you know, she's defensive.

837
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 5: I'm also the youngest boy.

838
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,240
Speaker 4: I was about to say, say baby boy, and.

839
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 5: So she's just like no one could be good enough

840
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 5: now obviously, yeah right, yeah, now they're besties.

841
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,800
Speaker 3: But that would be rough.

842
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 2: What having if your significant other's mom didn't like you?

843
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, think about this, Like I said, maybe the

844
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,399
Speaker 5: guy's not super proud of his family, Like maybe it's

845
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 5: a messed up situation and he'd rather just not get

846
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 5: her involved.

847
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 3: That's an interesting perspective that I honestly didn't.

848
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 5: Could be protecting her.

849
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 2: I also like what Logan said that if he's introduced

850
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,839
Speaker 2: you to other people that are very important to him,

851
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 2: then I wantn't stress about that. Right If he hasn't

852
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,879
Speaker 2: introduced you to anyone in his life, yeah, yeah, there's

853
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,240
Speaker 2: calls for concern totally. Does he have any friends?

854
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 5: Is he a killer?

855
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 2: Okay?

856
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 6: Wait?

857
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: Do you like to stay in touch throughout the day?

858
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 1: Is it considered needy if your partner likes to text

859
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: you all day long.

860
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 5: I'm actually much more interested in text messaging than long

861
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 5: phone calls. I just don't have a lot to say

862
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 5: on the phone, and I'm not very good at it.

863
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 5: I'm not good at texting back to begin with. In general,

864
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,720
Speaker 5: for anybody, you can ask him where were you today?

865
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,360
Speaker 5: Like throughout the day, I'll call, even if it's for

866
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 5: a couple of seconds. I just want to say, Hi,

867
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 5: what are you doing? Okay, little check in, little check ins?

868
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 5: What are you guys?

869
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 4: Loving it? I just it's literally Tanya.

870
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, me and male form very I feel very seen.

871
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 5: We're here, Tanya.

872
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 2: I'll be like, She'll be calling and I'm like, is

873
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,760
Speaker 2: this a text? Like can you do this over text message?

874
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 2: Or does it require FaceTime?

875
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 4: But you don't have to talk long. I just want

876
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 4: to say what's up?

877
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, I am. I will say I'm really down with

878
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 5: like this is for Mika especially. I'm down with like, Hey,

879
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 5: I just wanted to call you and tell you I

880
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 5: love you. I love you too, Okay, I'll talk to

881
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 5: you later, you know, Like I'm down with that unless

882
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 5: I have something really important to share, like you'll never

883
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 5: believe what happened.

884
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:51,760
Speaker 3: What about your friends?

885
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 5: Much rather text phone calls, Yeah, depends on the depends

886
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 5: on the on the zone.

887
00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 1: She'll literally answer my face time and she's like, is

888
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 1: this something I can answer on a text message?

889
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 5: I'm a call I'm a call kind of guy.

890
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 7: Yeah.

891
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 5: We have a lot of We have a lot of

892
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 5: chats though, because you'll text and it's like a paragraph

893
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 5: and I'll go just call me, yeah, and then easy

894
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 5: two minutes. Right.

895
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 4: What do you think about voice note? Like the voice messages?

896
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 5: I also love voice it's nice. Try to be extra

897
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 5: funny on those.

898
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 4: I sent Tonya a few and she was like, this

899
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 4: is not it. I hate it.

900
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: So I actually find them to be offensive because I

901
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: work in radio, so I'm constantly recordings. I can't listen

902
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: to your voice message.

903
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 5: And I know the trauma this sp.

904
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't listen to this for another hour and

905
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:40,720
Speaker 1: a half.

906
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:41,399
Speaker 3: It me and me.

907
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 7: Just send me a text that's funny.

908
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 2: Would you be worried or like, would it be a

909
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 2: turnoff if you were dating someone or going out with

910
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 2: someone who's a virgin?

911
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:11,240
Speaker 5: Now, well, when you at the time.

912
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, like when you were just dating and going out.

913
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 5: I don't think so.

914
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 2: No.

915
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 5: I think everybody learns does their thing at their own point.

916
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know. I guess I never really

917
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,479
Speaker 5: give it so much thought. Look, I mean I'm thirty

918
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 5: two now.

919
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: I mean.

920
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 5: It would be interesting. It'd be certainly interesting. I wouldn't

921
00:40:29,000 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 5: have a problem with them, would like judge you, but

922
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 5: it would certainly be interesting. You know, how do we

923
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 5: approach that?

924
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 2: Are you going to say? Is it kind of like

925
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 2: almost age dependent? Like at a certain like maybe in

926
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 2: your younger.

927
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 5: Twenty or seventeen or eighteen or nineteen or twenty whatever,

928
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 5: and it was like I was dating someone who was

929
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 5: a couple of years younger than me or whatever. I

930
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 5: wouldn't probably think twice about it. I would actually maybe

931
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 5: be like, oh that makes sense. Yeah, I think if

932
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 5: you have a plan, I think it would be good

933
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 5: to see how things still maybe progress. I don't know

934
00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 5: you ever heard of soaking? Oh my god, it reminds

935
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 5: me of what was it? Yes, that was one of

936
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 5: my favorite James Mars jumping on the I love it.

937
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 3: We do love Jury Duty.

938
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 5: I love it. I finished it in two days.

939
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 3: Okay, I watched the show.

940
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 1: Is very polarizing because my boyfriend and I watched it

941
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:22,800
Speaker 1: and we like were the same way. We were obsessed

942
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 1: with it, were telling everybody to watch this show. We're like,

943
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 1: it's the best show, the best show. And then our

944
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: friends start watching it and they're texting us like, what

945
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 1: is this?

946
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 3: This is the worst I've ever seen it. So I

947
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:33,280
Speaker 3: realized it's very polariz.

948
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 4: Well, it's like Joe Millionaire.

949
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 5: You remember how it was only one person, like everybody

950
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:39,800
Speaker 5: else was in on the joke except for one person.

951
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 5: And I loved the idea of that type of show.

952
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 5: And James Marsen is also amazing. What I thought was

953
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 5: Eddie was that they made the actors act like the

954
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 5: act act like the characters all the way through. Even

955
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 5: in the interview they did, they gave character breakdowns the guy,

956
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 5: they still made him act like that kind of wild. Yeah,

957
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 5: it is what happened. She's like, you were talking about Soaking,

958
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:05,760
Speaker 5: that's happened.

959
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 1: No, But I really I really love the show so

960
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: much so it makes me really like I feel even

961
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:12,839
Speaker 1: closer to you guys.

962
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 5: Sorry, if I went there.

963
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:22,760
Speaker 2: Level straight to that was a great shift. Yeah, Soaking

964
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 2: to jury duty. Okay, let's end on this one, how

965
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,719
Speaker 2: would you react if your wife, girlfriend, fiance approached you

966
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 2: about a threesome with another man?

967
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,319
Speaker 5: I actually I have a response to this question because

968
00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,440
Speaker 5: it actually applies to quite a few of the things

969
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 5: that you've talked about already, which is how would you

970
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 5: feel with this and whatever? I always just think if

971
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,320
Speaker 5: if the roles were reversed. This is actually the reverse

972
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 5: question here, because normally it's like would she do a threesome?

973
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 5: Like why wouldn't you know why? It's like, well, if

974
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 5: I wouldn't do it, the opposite right, right? With an

975
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 5: I ever asked, right, and that's how I feel. So no,

976
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 5: I probably would say no.

977
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 4: What if she approached you with a threesome with another woman?

978
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:12,239
Speaker 5: Well, well, now I'm just saying it would be I

979
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 5: would be kind of caught off guard because I'd be

980
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 5: surprised by that, and so then I would think, what's

981
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:17,439
Speaker 5: going on here?

982
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 2: Right?

983
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 3: Like there's more to it?

984
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was going on, is this a trick?

985
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 2: You know?

986
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 5: Like, wouldn't be like panting like a dog, like oh boy,

987
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 5: you know.

988
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 2: I'd be like something was from nineteen sixties bully like goofy.

989
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 5: I would be I would be kind of like I'd

990
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 5: have some questions for sure. Yeah, yeah, why is this

991
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 5: happening now? Yeah, I'm I'm a one on one kind

992
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 5: of gal.

993
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:50,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, like all the attention on really Yeah, and yeah

994
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 2: i'd be jealous.

995
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 5: Guy, I wouldn't like it.

996
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that self awareness. Yeah, I'm a jealous

997
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 4: girl too.

998
00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 5: So yeah, I just think if I wouldn't do it,

999
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,040
Speaker 5: then I couldn't. I couldn't ask for.

1000
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 4: Right, She's not pleased by these anieties.

1001
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 1: To me, the idea of it is just so problematic,

1002
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,200
Speaker 1: Like I wouldn't want it with a girl or a guy.

1003
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 5: I'm just like, we're getting out his friends and different

1004
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 5: people relationships, everyone's different. I would never knock it, right,

1005
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 5: no judgment. More often than not, I've seen that at

1006
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 5: some point down the line, it can cause some let

1007
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 5: me put it this way, shoes. I don't know anyone

1008
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 5: who I've heard say that. Yeah, me and my girl,

1009
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,359
Speaker 5: they say they always just say me and my girl

1010
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 5: used to do a couple of threesomes, point being not

1011
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 5: together anymore. It was a past or we don't do

1012
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 5: it anymore, we don't do it anymore, or I just

1013
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 5: don't know anyone who like went down that path and

1014
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 5: then is like still having a thriving, great relationship. I've

1015
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 5: never really heard that story, and we're better than ever.

1016
00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: I don't even like doing anything physical with like my

1017
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 1: dog in the room, so I can't even imagine another

1018
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: person in there.

1019
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 3: Where does she going.

1020
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: She's in the room, they know, they know, and then

1021
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 1: she'll start humping her stuff down.

1022
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 5: Oh really, it's time.

1023
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 3: I swear that.

1024
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: We like ruined her because I think we like did

1025
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: it in front of her when she was like with

1026
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 1: us the first day or something, and then like now

1027
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: every night at nine o'clock she humps her.

1028
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 2: This really took a turn, started with soaking and we

1029
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 2: ended up here.

1030
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 5: You know, from people humping the dog.

1031
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 2: It was.

1032
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 4: Honestly, this was so much fun.

1033
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:48,919
Speaker 2: We haven't done a mantle in so long, and I'm

1034
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 2: so happy we brought it back with you too.

1035
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 5: We shed some light on some questions from a man's

1036
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 5: point of view, but I feel like we're very in

1037
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,839
Speaker 5: touch with her feminine size. I really appreciate that what

1038
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 5: you see is what you get.

1039
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, where can everybody get tickets for the tour?

1040
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:03,280
Speaker 1: They want to see you this summer?

1041
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 5: Big Time Rush official dot com or Ticketmaster or wherever

1042
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,240
Speaker 5: you buy tickets.

1043
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 2: Right and where can they follow you on Instagram social media?

1044
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 5: Under time Rush. It's just my name, Logan Henderson. We

1045
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 5: have a single Waves coming up May third, and if

1046
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 5: you're listening to it then it's already come out. You

1047
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,919
Speaker 5: should listen to it. And Kendall Schmidt here and uh

1048
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 5: look up at Kendl Schmid and you have an album.

1049
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 5: Google me an album coming out June ninth. We start

1050
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:29,839
Speaker 5: June twenty second and fort Worth. I'm just plugging away.

1051
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's what we were at.

1052
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 5: Our show is August eleventh at the Forum.

1053
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 4: Oh nice, love the Forum.

1054
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 5: You are excited. I said this the other day to somebody.

1055
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, but I was like, yeah, he is at

1056
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 5: Foreman's and that's aid Bar and Burbank and they were like, really, wow,

1057
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 5: this band is not going very well.

1058
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1059
00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 5: They were like, you're going to be at Pormans. I

1060
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 5: was like, yeah, Foremans. I just had one of those.

1061
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

1062
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 5: He's like, so what do you got into like one

1063
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 5: hundred and ten people. I was like, I think it's

1064
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 5: I thought it was like a joke. I was like

1065
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 5: a little more than that.

1066
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 4: I think, yeah, you're like where Joe, where do they

1067
00:46:59,200 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 4: all sit?

1068
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 5: But anyways, yes, you also find us at Foreman's Yeah,

1069
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 5: the drink where you guys go after no, we go

1070
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 5: to Whole Foods yeah or Era one. Yeah.

1071
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 4: All right, thank you so much for Chris.

1072
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you guys so much