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Speaker 2: In the Morning Show, Dan Harris is here. We love

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Speaker 2: our Dan Harris. We love you Dan, love you guys.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for coming in. It was like a conversation. Uh,

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Speaker 2: how many days ago we were talking about thingsciety, this

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Speaker 2: and that. Nate call Dan Harris, Get Dan Harris on

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Speaker 5: The doctor is in ladies and Gellen what that pick

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Speaker 6: Yeah, the Dan phone.

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Speaker 4: So it's the lamer version of the batphone. No, well

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Speaker 2: So look, there's a conversation going on with our friends

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Speaker 2: and circles and their circle, their friends and so and

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Speaker 2: so on, and you can read about it with total

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Speaker 2: strangers writing about anxiety that's going on right now.

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Speaker 2: The other night, my husband Alex came in from the

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Speaker 2: other room watching the news. He said, I can't so

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Speaker 2: sweating his palm. He was all of the stories out there.

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Speaker 2: You can watch any newscast and at the end of

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Speaker 2: the newscast they always try to give you some nice

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Speaker 2: It doesn't help anymore.

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Speaker 5: You know what we call that in the news business,

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Speaker 5: the kicker.

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Speaker 2: The kicker.

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Speaker 5: Every night you have a kicker to make you feel

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Speaker 5: better about all the other stuff we just told you.

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Speaker 2: You know what makes me feel better? Just kicker. Come here, condy, no,

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Speaker 2: thank you, so here at iHeart Dan. I wanted to

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Speaker 2: share some information with you. We have an incredible department

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Speaker 2: in our organization that, in my opinion, is the most important.

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Speaker 2: They keep an eye on people are feeling and thinking

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Speaker 2: every week they give you kind of a little glimpse

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Speaker 2: So these results came in this past week, and I

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Speaker 2: and she's been doing this for at least a dozen years.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think there are a couple of things going on.

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Speaker 5: First of all, it's very hard to divorce what's happening

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Speaker 5: So we evolved social animals very much enmeshed in communities,

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Speaker 3: Think of you all the time. The remedy to anxiety

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Speaker 2: Was it so difficult for people to do one or

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Speaker 2: Why do we feel paralyzed because we it's this phone

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Speaker 5: You're the algorithm are designed to keep you anxious and angry.

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Speaker 2: maybe people aren't understanding what algorithms are all about, and

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Speaker 2: I'll give you an example, a simple example of than

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Speaker 5: I think that's the I think kids, especially teenagers are

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Speaker 2: Now it used just to be, in my opinion, more

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Speaker 10: one line a day, and every day you or wake

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Speaker 10: up in the morning or you do it before batt

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Speaker 10: and you write what you're grateful for that day. So

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Speaker 10: we just started it this morning. So it's like it

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Speaker 10: resonates perfectly.

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Speaker 5: Great because my point is, I totally understand the skeptical

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Speaker 5: line of thinking that you were articulating a moment ago.

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Speaker 5: And look, none of us as individuals can control how

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Speaker 5: on fire the world appears to be. But how do

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Speaker 5: we want to be in the midst of it? Do

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Speaker 5: we want to be nodes of sanity, little little vectors

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Speaker 5: of common sense and decency moving through the world creating

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Speaker 5: those ripple effects, or do we want to be miserable

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Speaker 5: and afraid and angry.

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Speaker 2: You got to do something, yes, yeah, and.

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Speaker 5: You can do little things in your world. As as

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Speaker 5: Gandhi said earlier, action, even really tiny action, absorbs your anxiety.

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Speaker 5: It can help you pull yourself out of that rut

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Speaker 5: and stay engaged. No matter how pessimistic you are about

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Speaker 5: the state of the world. That doesn't mean your life

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Speaker 5: has to be miserable. You being miserable helps no one

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Speaker 5: there is. We can fall into this performative misery because

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Speaker 5: the world is so distasteful, but that is not serving

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Speaker 5: you or the problem.

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Speaker 8: But it's also adding to the misery. Yes you can, Yes,

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Speaker 8: I think positive.

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Speaker 1: And focus on the positive.

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Speaker 8: I'm not saying forget everything bad going on, but like,

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Speaker 8: focus more on the positive.

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Speaker 1: You're adding more good in the world.

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Speaker 5: It's hard to understand because it's kind of a paradox.

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Speaker 5: It's like holding two competing ideas in your mind. One

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Speaker 5: way that I've heard this described is to engage joyfully

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Speaker 5: in the sorrows of the world.

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Speaker 4: And can you, Kristen, what did he just say, engage

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Speaker 4: joyfully in the sorrows of the world?

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Speaker 2: What do you think he meant by that?

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Speaker 10: I guess be more positive, stop complaining about all the

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Speaker 10: things that are going on, and focus on the good

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Speaker 10: stuff that's going on and just acknowledge the bad stuff. Yeah, yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 10: she understood.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well I know, well I did. I'm just you know,

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Speaker 2: this is.

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Speaker 5: What's your Christian what's your view on meatloaf?

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Speaker 10: You know, I've never had it, so I don't think.

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Speaker 13: I can.

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Speaker 5: Dim in How did she get through?

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Speaker 2: Not in your algorithm? Look, Kristen, best of up to

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Speaker 2: you and your husband and your life, and I thank

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Speaker 2: you so much for listening to us. It's much appreciated.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 10: Best some luck to all of you guys as well.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Look, this is going to be an ongoing thing.

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Speaker 2: I can tell we're living in a world where this,

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Speaker 2: these stories, some of them are just now beginning, right.

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Speaker 5: Really just beginning. And you know, if you look at

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Speaker 5: what's happening geopolitically and nationally, like in the world and

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Speaker 5: in our country, that it can I get it when

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Speaker 5: people feel disturbed, and there's all the more reason to

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Speaker 5: like fortify yourself, take care of yourself so that you

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Speaker 5: can be that is not self indulgent or selfish to

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Speaker 5: take care of yourself. The point is so that you

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Speaker 5: can be better to your children, better to your neighbors.

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Speaker 5: And that matters. That matters. We're not all the president

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Speaker 5: of the United States, we're not the most powerful people

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Speaker 5: in the world. But what we do in our little orbit,

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Speaker 5: I really believe it does matter everything.

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Speaker 2: Dan Harris, you can find it Dan Harris dot com.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you you hooked that one that you are

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Speaker 2: to pay for it. You have to pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Was there another? Was there a Dan Harris out there?

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Speaker 5: Somebody, some guy or some person went out and bought

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Speaker 5: the name?

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Speaker 1: And how much did you have to pay? Would you

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Speaker 1: tell us it was a.

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Speaker 5: Couple of thousand dollars?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 5: Not nothing worth every penny? Well, yeah, I'm glad I

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Speaker 5: have it. Otherwise it was gonna be Elvis Durant.

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Speaker 4: Dot com, which will be up for I'm gonna put

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Speaker 4: that on auction any day, which, by the way, redirects

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Speaker 9: So strange.

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Speaker 2: Just you wait, Dan. Thank you for coming in today.

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Speaker 5: Like I said at the beginning, I love you guys.

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Speaker 5: Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 2: We'll see you next week. Oh that's right. We forgot

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Speaker 2: to tell you. This is a weekly week I love that,

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Speaker 2: but but there's a lot of stuff going on at

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Speaker 2: Dan Harris dot com. Do you have any incredible appearances

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Speaker 2: coming up? Do you have any events that we need

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Speaker 2: to know about.

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Speaker 5: I host a podcast that's two or three times a week,

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Speaker 5: and I'm talking to some of the smartest people in

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Speaker 5: the world about it. How to get your stuff together

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Speaker 5: so that you can be happy and have a regulated

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Speaker 5: nervous system, so that you can be positive and productive

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Speaker 5: out in the world. That is my lane. That's what

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Speaker 5: I talk about, not only experts, but I talk to

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Speaker 5: and on and on.

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Speaker 2: Is your app live yet? Yes?

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Speaker 5: I have an app called ten Percent with Dan Harris

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Speaker 5: where I teach you how to meditate.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you can find everything all of the above at

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Speaker 2: Dan Harris dot com.

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Speaker 5: Thank you for letting me Dan. We love you, Thanks

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Speaker 5: for giving in. Thank you Elvis.

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Speaker 2: Enjoy your meeting with that conservative button dump.

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Speaker 5: Sure, enjoy your meat loaf and we know what I

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Speaker 5: mean by that.

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Speaker 2: Don't let your meat loaf. Very important information show see

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Speaker 2: one hundred wt of businesses closed today, We're not. We're

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Speaker 2: wide open and we're giving you horoscopes. Let's get into it.

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Speaker 2: Producer Sam, who do you want to do him?

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Speaker 14: With?

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Speaker 1: Elvis?

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Speaker 9: Why don't you do him today?

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Speaker 12: With me?

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Speaker 2: Pig me. If it's your birthday today, you celebrate with

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Speaker 2: Dolly Parton, Happy Birthday, Dolly for Day, Dolly, Sean Wayans

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Speaker 2: from The Incredible Wayans Family, and dread Matteo from The Sopranos. Yes,

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Speaker 2: lover and Oli fans and only fans as well. If

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Speaker 2: you're a Capricorn, you're taking something seriously that you used

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Speaker 2: to brush off. Think about what that means to you.

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Speaker 2: Your day's a five Aquarius.

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Speaker 15: Keep them guessing. The element of surprise offers you more

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Speaker 15: leverage in the future.

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Speaker 1: Your day's an eight.

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Speaker 2: Hate pis C's see your emotions as information and not chaos.

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Speaker 2: That's great advice. Actually paying attention to them is power,

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Speaker 2: So pay attention to your emotions. Your day is a

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Speaker 2: nine Airs.

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Speaker 15: You're realizing that consistency is a flex most people can't match,

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Speaker 15: so keep going quietly.

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Speaker 2: Your day's a nine hay Tarus. You're ready to stop

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Speaker 2: pretending something doesn't matter. Because it does. Go ahead and

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Speaker 2: deal with it and you'll feel relief. Your day's a seven. Gemini.

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Speaker 15: You need to be a little more selective. Not every

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Speaker 15: invitation deserves your presence.

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Speaker 2: Your day's of six, Hay, Cancer, you're reclaiming space in

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Speaker 2: the situation that you now hold more power than you realized. Wow,

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Speaker 2: your day's a nine.

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Speaker 15: Hey, Leo, you are walking into this week with an

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Speaker 15: undeniable presence and no one gets to dim that for you.

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Speaker 2: Your day's a ten. Hey, yeah, thank you, suck it it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Virgo, you're relearning what support actually feels like.

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Speaker 2: Let that change your standard. Your day's an eight.

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Speaker 1: Libra.

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Speaker 15: You are quietly deciding what is no longer worth negotiating.

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Speaker 15: Sometimes no is the right call. Your day's a seven.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Scorpio, you're letting your intensity work for you, not

589
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Speaker 2: against you. Fine, be intense, It's fine if not everyone

590
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Speaker 2: gets it. Your day is an eight.

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Speaker 15: And finally, Sagittarius, you are figuring out that impulse is

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Speaker 15: not momentum.

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Speaker 1: Patience is your secret weapon.

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Speaker 9: Today.

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Speaker 2: Your day's of six, and those are your Monday morning

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Speaker 2: horse copes. Okay, what do we not hit today? We

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Speaker 2: didn't get into dating behaviors red flags or green flags,

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Speaker 2: waiting get into that I had that bad will Oh

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Speaker 2: you want that?

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Speaker 3: I do?

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Speaker 2: So, okay, just red flag, green flag? All it is BuzzFeed.

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Speaker 2: They pulled their readers several dating behaviors this and that,

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Speaker 2: asked whether they're red flag green flags giving small gifts

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Speaker 2: early on in the dating process green.

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Speaker 1: Flag, Yeah, I see.

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Speaker 8: I don't think it's that. I think there's questions that

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Speaker 8: go with that, like how early is it?

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Speaker 1: How many? Like is it one date? Like you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean? Like it's there's there's questions that go

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Speaker 1: with that question.

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Speaker 3: But what if somebody says, for example, like I love raccoons, right,

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Speaker 3: you all know I love raccoons. Listeners send me raccoons

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Speaker 3: stuff all the time, and I appreciate it. If I

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Speaker 3: went on a first or second date with somebody and

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Speaker 3: then he showed up and said, hey, I saw this

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Speaker 3: little raccoon figuring it made me think of you, that's

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Speaker 3: kind of sweet.

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Speaker 1: That is sweet.

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Speaker 8: It also could be like, oh damn, he wants more

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Speaker 8: than I want from this.

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Speaker 2: Reships, you're you're you're in two different lanes. You're just

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Speaker 2: going to figure out how to merge without like knocking

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Speaker 2: each other off the road, okay, dating behaviors red or

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Speaker 2: green flags texting you all day? Oh no, well okay,

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Speaker 2: well you know they say here, it's kind of fifty

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Speaker 2: to fifty there. Forty seven percent say it's a green

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Speaker 2: flag that text me on. This isn't early, This is

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Speaker 2: just in a relationship period. So you think there should

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Speaker 2: be time that you don't have text coming in, Like

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Speaker 2: how long of a period of time needs to pass

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Speaker 2: before a new text can come in?

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Speaker 1: This is tough.

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Speaker 3: I'm in a long distance relationship. We definitely text each

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Speaker 3: other all day. I mean it's not incessant, but we

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Speaker 3: have things to say to each other that we might

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Speaker 3: not remember later on in the day. So it's just

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Speaker 3: a quick, you know, hey, this is what's going on

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Speaker 3: type of thing. So that I think it's okay in

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Speaker 3: a long distance relationship. But if you're not, if you're

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Speaker 3: gonna see that person when you go home, leave them

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Speaker 3: alone while they're at work.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah. See My issue with that is will

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Speaker 2: text almost everything that happens, and then by the time

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Speaker 2: it's our time to have our conversation at five o'clock,

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Speaker 2: there's nothing to say. Right, how is your day? I

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Speaker 2: told you I texted my day is good? Look on

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Speaker 2: your face, Nate, what Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's scary.

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Speaker 2: He's got a comment that I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Six hours what between texts? Yeah, what's the matter with that?

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Speaker 2: I just only talking to this person twice a day.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because you know what, leave me alone. I'm doing

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Speaker 6: my thing, You're doing your thing.

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Speaker 2: You're busy. I'm busy.

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Speaker 6: You know when we get together, that is when we

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Speaker 6: have the most fun, in the most common But if

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Speaker 6: you have.

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Speaker 16: To look at a clock when you can text somebody again,

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Speaker 16: I think that's.

660
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Speaker 2: The red flag. I'm on restriction for six hours. I

661
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: have to wait.

662
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 7: The only reason why I put a time on it

663
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 7: is because you just asked the question to put a

664
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 7: time on it. I'm like, I think a few hours

665
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 7: away from your phone with is healthy.

666
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 6: Otherwise you so. Yeah.

667
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 2: In other words, it's just text if need be, like,

668
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 2: I got I gotta ask you a question because I

669
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: got to make a reservation, okay. And sometimes you're having.

670
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 8: To send a text that says, hey, just thinking of you,

671
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 8: wanted to tell you I love you.

672
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: That's all that's nice to god.

673
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 2: I want one of those nice I want one of those.

674
00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 2: That sounds good. I don't know. But if you're busy,

675
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 2: do your thing and you don't hear from me in

676
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 2: six six hours, I don't hear from you, I don't

677
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 2: think it's the end of the world. I think maybe

678
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 2: that's what we're getting at.

679
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 14: Right.

680
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: There are some people who've had to probably have a

681
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 2: text every thirty minutes all day long. They go nuts

682
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 2: asking you to hang out more than twice a week. Okay,

683
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 2: red flag.

684
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 3: Hello, I think that's a good thing.

685
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm kidding calling you quote unquote mine. Oh is

686
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 2: that a red flag or a green flag?

687
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 6: You're mine?

688
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 2: You're all mine.

689
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 3: Some people love that crap. Yeah they love it.

690
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 2: Oh, that's crap, talk about that.

691
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 3: I don't believe in people being possessions. I think it's

692
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 3: nice that you can be in a relationship, But if

693
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 3: somebody said, you know, you're mine in a creepy way,

694
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 3: I don't think I would like that very much.

695
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 2: No, yeah, it can be taken as a creepy and

696
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 2: now I get that. What about I don't know, talking

697
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 2: about making long term plans like early on in the

698
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 2: conversation and early on in the relationship, like long term

699
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 2: how early.

700
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 1: Are we talking about early second date? That's not good.

701
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 2: We talked about texting? What about calling? Calling multiple times

702
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 2: a day? Is that a red flower?

703
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 8: Poor Sheldon? My mom says, will you leave that poor

704
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 8: man alone? That's what my mom says. I'm like, why

705
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 8: I have to tell him something? She goes it can wait?

706
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 3: Invasive?

707
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 2: What happens?

708
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: FaceTime?

709
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 2: We have actually we have sort of do not FaceTime

710
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 2: of someone trying to FaceTime n I'm like, no, don't

711
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: ever FaceTime me. Every first time is from Yeah, FaceTime

712
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: is from meetings. I don't want to go to a

713
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 2: meeting with you. Uh anyway, Yeah, we have we have

714
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 2: set call times, like when I get off the show,

715
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 2: I'll make a call because I know he's doing coffee,

716
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 2: or when he's sitting on the toilet he calls me.

717
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 2: I know that if Alex is calling me, it's going

718
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 2: to have an echoe effect in the background.

719
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 3: My sister, as soon as she sets foot in her

720
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 3: are she calls me because she has to talk to

721
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 3: me in her car on the way home. And then

722
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 3: as soon as she's she's like, okay, I'm home.

723
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:09,399
Speaker 17: By a click, said Alex facetimey right now to prove

724
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 17: you with your friends, right, you never would be a

725
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:15,760
Speaker 17: red flag yesterday flag.

726
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 2: That would be a flaming red.

727
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: Flag walk away.

728
00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 2: Please wait, hold on, Lisa's done that to Froggy. Prove

729
00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:26,359
Speaker 2: to me you're walking the dog right now. She's done

730
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 2: that to you.

731
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 16: Yeah, that was last week when she was out of

732
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 16: town and she said, listen, I need to know you

733
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 16: took him on a walk. And this is how I

734
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 16: know she did it because one point I was walking him.

735
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 16: I saw one of the neighbors who was friends with

736
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:38,279
Speaker 16: her take a picture of me walking.

737
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 2: Oh see, that's red flag, red flag on your wife,

738
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 2: red flag on Froggy.

739
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 3: Because he can't be trusted.

740
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 2: I said, I would do it. We got a flag

741
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 2: on the play flag on the play. I was in

742
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 2: an uber yesterday and we you know, look, you know

743
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: it can be competitive driving to the streets of New

744
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 2: York City. It's like playing a video game. I was

745
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 2: cut off. My car was cut off by a Jesus

746
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 2: Saves stickered car, and I thought it was kind of odd.

747
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 3: Yes, I always think the same thing when someone's driving

748
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 3: all irrationally or like flips you the bird and then

749
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 3: you see the Jesus sticker or the fish, I'm like.

750
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 2: Hey, what's up. It's like sometimes some of the people

751
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 2: who say the most cutting, awful, negative things on social media,

752
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 2: you look at their account, it's like, I'm following the

753
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:25,799
Speaker 2: footsteps of Jesus.

754
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 13: Right, you're not.

755
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 2: Jesus would never say that on my social media.

756
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 8: But they figure you have to forgive them because they're

757
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 8: followers of Jesus.

758
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 2: Not gonna I hold you to a higher whatever power.

759
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 6: You know.

760
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 18: Sometimes I have to be very careful because I'll be

761
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 18: driving the Elvis Duran truck and I'll be driving like

762
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 18: a jerk, and I'll be like, oh my god, I

763
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,520
Speaker 18: totally forgot that this day has logos all over we

764
00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 18: have an Elvis Durant truck.

765
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

766
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 18: Well the radio station has Elvis Durand logos all over

767
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 18: the Calus.

768
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 2: It doesn't have my picture on it, does No, no, no.

769
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:54,919
Speaker 2: I think we have a station somewhere on the East

770
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 2: coast that has my picture on it. It's the worst picture.

771
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 2: Get that off the road. I know, anyone looking at

772
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 2: my face he's driving by. It's like when you go

773
00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 2: buy like a bustop bench, it is a picture of

774
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 2: a real estate guy on it. I'm not going to

775
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 2: buy a house from you because you have your picture

776
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 2: on the bench. I think that. No, I'm glad your

777
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 2: husband doesn't do that.

778
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: Well, he's done.

779
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 8: He Every once in a while his face will show

780
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,720
Speaker 8: up on a bench or something, but not usually.

781
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 2: What's scary?

782
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 7: Anytime you put your your face on something for the public,

783
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 7: you're you're asking for trouble because it lends itself to

784
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 7: graffiti vandalism.

785
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna get a Salvador.

786
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 3: Dolly must That's nicer than what I would do if

787
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 3: given the options. Right, Yeah, you draw like a wiener

788
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: and aim it towards the Yeah. If your mouth is

789
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,959
Speaker 3: even slightly open, game overait.

790
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 8: I just tell my husband, Hey, I saw your face

791
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,280
Speaker 8: on a bench, and I went and sat on your face.

792
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 1: Scary? What's the moment?

793
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 2: Pipe down?

794
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 7: Scary?

795
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 2: Scary? I don't know that year sometimes Yeah, well no,

796
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 2: it's just like you hear someone say something on this

797
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:02,400
Speaker 2: and you're like, what is that? You would you do

798
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 2: that if the microphones were on. No, it's so funny.

799
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 2: When the mics are on, personalities change. Yeah, I don't

800
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 2: mind does when the mics are off. I'm a very

801
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: nice guy, I'm quiet right.

802
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 3: Oh, so silent.

803
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 2: I'm very passive. I am, yeah, I'm a sweetheart. After

804
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 2: ten am, oh.

805
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 4: After ten at a certain time. Yes, you're a different

806
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 4: person as a timer.

807
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: You don't think you're nice during this show?

808
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 2: Really no, because you know what it's we've got clock

809
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 2: ticking down, We've got we've got eighteen people trying to

810
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 2: all talk at the same time. This is a rough

811
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 2: gig turn. Like Alex is always making fun of me. Oh,

812
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,319
Speaker 2: you do you just played the same song over and

813
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 2: over they all that money. Well, yeah, that's okay, but

814
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 2: that's what I do.

815
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 3: I think all our significant others feel that way about us,

816
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 3: because I've definitely gotten that from Brandon, like, oh are

817
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 3: you tired? I was talking really hard today. I'm like,

818
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 3: I'll kill you.

819
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 2: I just got it a second ago. What what'd you get?

820
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 16: So when when you went to break last time, she

821
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 16: said to me, oh, how long do you have? I said,

822
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 16: I got about eight more minutes. Oh, I got a

823
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 16: couple of things that needs you to get done. I'm working, Like,

824
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 16: leave me alone. Yeah, don't talk to me right now,

825
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 16: I'll stop.

826
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 2: Take it.

827
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 4: A question kind of random, Why are you cheating with wordle.

828
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 4: What is the point, Froggy, No, I don't cheat. Well no,

829
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 4: not you, Froggy, but anyone and everyone?

830
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,720
Speaker 1: Why was it stupid? Defeats the purpose?

831
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 2: Why would you even do it if you're gonna cheat? Right? Okay?

832
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,760
Speaker 2: Who who do we have? Who's cheating on wordle?

833
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 9: Never?

834
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: No, you could just be like me and not give

835
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: a crap and not even do it.

836
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 2: Now, do you have the three words or the words

837
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:38,399
Speaker 2: you like to use to try to cover the entire

838
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 2: spectrum of a work totally? Like Alex has good ones?

839
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 2: Like the word audio is really good.

840
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 3: So is beach or lamps. Those are really good words

841
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 3: to pick too.

842
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, words that don't have letters that repeat, Yeah,

843
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 2: I used I use the same vowels. Yeah, snarl is

844
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 2: a good one. Yeah, you get the R.

845
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 6: Yes, the word start a lot of consonants.

846
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 2: But people who want to cheat with wordle, I just

847
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 2: don't know.

848
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 4: I don't get it. I don't no offense. I'll be

849
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 4: sure you're a great person.

850
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 3: There are whatever game you can find online, there is

851
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:12,919
Speaker 3: also an app that will help you cheat at that game.

852
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,399
Speaker 3: It's terrible words with friends. I stopped playing with certain

853
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 3: people because there was one coworker who I was like,

854
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 3: you don't even know that word. Stop it, and she

855
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 3: would come back with these amazing responses. I wanted to

856
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 3: poker in the eye.

857
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 2: There is another reason why you should be looking at

858
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 2: the world through rose colored glasses. They are telling us

859
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 2: that optimism is the secret to healthy aging. Absolutely later,

860
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:42,720
Speaker 2: Oh sorry, I gotta bounce. Researchers Boston University Madison studied

861
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 2: over two hundred and fifty senior adults over fourteen years

862
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 2: to see how being optimistic can affect your health without doubt,

863
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 2: with clear evidence, researchers conclude staying optimistic about life can

864
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:59,760
Speaker 2: help people cope with stress better and as a result

865
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 2: of I waid some health risks as they age.

866
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:02,840
Speaker 3: Totally true.

867
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: I could see that.

868
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 9: Yeah.

869
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 3: I mean you know they always say when you worry

870
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 3: about something, you're just putting yourself through it over and

871
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 3: over and over again. Cross that bridge when you come

872
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 3: to it.

873
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 2: Twenty one year old woman went on to Reddit to

874
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 2: talk about her disastrous birthday. She got a lot of

875
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:17,919
Speaker 2: support from people on social media. I want to see

876
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,239
Speaker 2: what you feel about this. It was her birthday, she

877
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,839
Speaker 2: woke up. No one acknowledged her special day at all.

878
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 2: She went downstairs to the kitchen. Her mom was reading

879
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 2: the newspaper, ignored her, even had some demands about cooking

880
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 2: and cleaning. So the day already started off a little off.

881
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 2: It was her birthday. Her dad and brother ignored her

882
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 2: as well. She said, Normally her dad always wished her

883
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 2: happy birthday. Hey, happy birthday, kitten, didn't do it this day.

884
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 2: She felt miserable and ignored on her birthday. And of course,

885
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 2: rather than saying hello, it's my birthday, she just let

886
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:49,399
Speaker 2: it ride, feeling crappy the whole day. She got home,

887
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 2: she had a little small birthday cake for herself. She

888
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 2: opened the door and there they were all of her

889
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 2: friends and family to wish her a surprise day.

890
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:57,720
Speaker 3: That's awesome.

891
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 1: She should have known something was well.

892
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 2: It turns out ignoring her uh was, of course an

893
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,720
Speaker 2: intentional part of the plan. Yeah, she was not happy

894
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 2: at all. She left. She walked out, went to McDonald's,

895
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 2: got a happy meal, and she was like, no, that

896
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 2: was not a birthday surprise. That was a prank.

897
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 1: Oh wow?

898
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 2: What people online blowing her up with messages agreeing with

899
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 2: her what she was. She was right to leave the bash.

900
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 2: She was right to get out out of there. These

901
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 2: people pranked her and pulled a horrible joke. I would

902
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 2: be relieved.

903
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 3: I would think that's so sweet. And they all put

904
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 3: effort in all day because it was probably difficult for

905
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 3: them too to not acknowledge her, knowing she's sad about it,

906
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 3: and then they surprised her with something wonderful and she

907
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:39,399
Speaker 3: walks out. I think that's brady, Yeah, that's yeah.

908
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 1: I agree with Dandy.

909
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 3: It's going to be harder than that.

910
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 2: What's that scary?

911
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:44,640
Speaker 6: I feel like if you don't make it a big

912
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 6: deal of your own birthday, no one else will do

913
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 6: it for you. Because you're your biggest fan, You're your

914
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 6: own champion.

915
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 2: You know that.

916
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:53,720
Speaker 7: People that celebrate on social media it's my birthday month,

917
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 7: you have to do that.

918
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 6: And then people jump on Well.

919
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 2: I don't think you should have to do that. I

920
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,799
Speaker 2: think someone wants to celebrate you just do it right,

921
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 2: should but.

922
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 6: People are into themselves, they're not into you.

923
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 2: Know, Okay, well then hey guess what. I guess this

924
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 2: is how we weed out the friends.

925
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 8: I still think the person that pushed you into this

926
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 8: world should get a present too.

927
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 3: That's what I say all the time. Celebrate my mom.

928
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 4: I didn't do anything, seriously, said the woman that had

929
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 4: two babies fall out of her gien.

930
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell you the second one was harder than

931
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 1: the first.

932
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 2: So come on, hey, did you hear about this playboy

933
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 2: model charging up to two thousand dollars to test your

934
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 2: guy's loyalty online?

935
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 3: That is a great idea. I tried to tell us

936
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 3: all we should do that and come up with that company,

937
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 3: but she beat.

938
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 1: Us to it.

939
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,959
Speaker 2: That's her. She's charging women up to two thousand dollars

940
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 2: to approach their boyfriends on social media and test how

941
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 2: faithful they are.

942
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 3: First of all, okay, you could do that yourself with

943
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 3: a fake profile and not stay two thousand dollars.

944
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 1: But okay, don't we know someone who did that? Who

945
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 1: made a fake profile for someone we do?

946
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 11: Yeah?

947
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 2: Remember curiosity, pete.

948
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 3: I have lots of people, yes, who.

949
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. I can't read it if you can't

950
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 2: say it all because.

951
00:42:58,560 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 1: I can't say the name. But people know.

952
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:04,720
Speaker 2: Oh that's right, Yeah that's not nice.

953
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,320
Speaker 1: But somebody did that to that person.

954
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 2: Yeah it wasn't me anyway. This model lives in Barcelona,

955
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 2: claims to have earned about ten thousand dollars so far

956
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 2: from the loyalty testing service, money she intends to spend

957
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 2: on further enhancing her looks in some way. This is awesome, Heidi.

958
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 2: We have so many things for juggling, so many topics. Hi, Heidi, Hi,

959
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 2: So which of all of the above are you calling.

960
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 19: About the word words to start with?

961
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 20: Oh?

962
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good to try to cover all your bases

963
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,359
Speaker 2: and to get as many letters out as possible. What

964
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 2: word do you love? What's your suggestion? Well?

965
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 19: I could never solve wordle, and it was making me irritated.

966
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 19: So I googled the best word to start with, and

967
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 19: wordle experts said crane is the best word to start with.

968
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 19: Since I've used it, I've started winning. So crane tacos

969
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:58,760
Speaker 19: is a good one too.

970
00:43:58,760 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 2: Crane and tacos.

971
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 3: That's not as bad, though, if you're just trying to

972
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 3: guess a word to start with, as much as the

973
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 3: people who go and figure out what the actual word

974
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 3: was and then oh I guess it and two tries.

975
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 2: Liar. Very good, Heidi? Are you addicted? Are you wordle?

976
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 2: Every day?

977
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 19: Every day?

978
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 2: There you go? All right, Look, thanks for listening, Thanks

979
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 2: for not ruining today's word. We appreciate it.

980
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 19: You're welcome.

981
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 2: Have a good day, you two. We have people here

982
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 2: in the office that love to ruin Ah. Today's word

983
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 2: is yeah. You're like, who do we ruined it for?

984
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 14: It?

985
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:28,280
Speaker 1: Was it scary?

986
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,280
Speaker 3: I ruined it for scary? Yeah, yes, it was intentional.

987
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 3: I regret nothing.

988
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 2: Uh what else? I have a whole list? You should

989
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,439
Speaker 2: have the values on Monopoly the game boards same today

990
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: as in nineteen thirty five. I should know. I was there.

991
00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: That's yeah.

992
00:44:52,080 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 2: Last night, Madison Beer's album Locket came out. Also, yes night,

993
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 2: right here at iHeart World headquarters, we had the very

994
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 2: first iHeart TikTok album preview with Madison Beer. If you

995
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 2: didn't watch it, it'll live on on TikTok. Don't worry.

996
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,439
Speaker 2: And guess who didn't go home last night after the event.

997
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 2: Madison beers last night. Yes, they did some deaths somewhere.

998
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 2: I know. Well, look where do we Startt's let's start

999
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 2: with album release day. Today is the day lock is

1000
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 2: out building an album with people you love, people you trust.

1001
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 2: M It's got to be so gratified to finally hear

1002
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 2: the final thing you put out or did you do enough?

1003
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 2: Were you ready for it to come out.

1004
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I definitely felt ready for it to come out.

1005
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 9: I think I. I mean, I honestly had sat on

1006
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 9: a lot of this music for months and months and months.

1007
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 9: There's not many songs that are like recent ads, so

1008
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 9: I was ready for sure. If anything, I was like,

1009
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 9: it needs to come out now before I like start

1010
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 9: the next thing, like I was already had. I already

1011
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 9: had banked a lot of this stuff a while ago.

1012
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,319
Speaker 9: So I'm so excited that it's out. And I was

1013
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 9: definitely ready.

1014
00:45:58,120 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 2: How many times we had a artists on the go no,

1015
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:06,959
Speaker 2: I kept changing it and changing it. They finally Charlie Poof, I.

1016
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 9: Needed to print vinyls like six months ago.

1017
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 2: So I look at you, see you're like, You're like me. Yeah,

1018
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 2: when I need to get something in the grocery store,

1019
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 2: I'll go to seven to eleven. I don't want to go.

1020
00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 2: I know what I'm gonna want. I know what I want.

1021
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 2: I know when I get it, I'm gonna walk out

1022
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 2: and get my car and leave. Absolutely, you did your

1023
00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,240
Speaker 2: album done? Next I also, I can't.

1024
00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 9: I've made this mistake in the past where like I'll

1025
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 9: make something and I'll love it and then I just

1026
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 9: overanalyze it and I go so ham on like every

1027
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 9: single tiny detail that nobody but me would hear, and

1028
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 9: then I end up delaying it for five years. And

1029
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:37,439
Speaker 9: so it's just like I was like, this is good.

1030
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,799
Speaker 9: I feel good about it. I'm not gonna like beat

1031
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 9: this into the ground. I'm just gonna like love it

1032
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:42,839
Speaker 9: for what it is and get it out there.

1033
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 2: It's all a part of getting rid of anxiety in

1034
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:44,919
Speaker 2: our lives.

1035
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 9: It was a great challenge for me though, because I

1036
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 9: really like in my day to day life as well,

1037
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 9: I feel like I'm someone who really does overanalyze things

1038
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 9: in a way that I will just ruin everything for myself.

1039
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 9: And so this was a great learning experience for me

1040
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 9: where I was like, let's not ruin this. This is

1041
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,680
Speaker 9: a good thing. You know, it's a good thing. Get

1042
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 9: it out there, send it to print. And then I

1043
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:04,760
Speaker 9: once it got sent to vinyls, it was just simply

1044
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 9: too late.

1045
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 2: You know how many people listening on the way to

1046
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 2: work right now are going I really need to start

1047
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 2: doing the Madison beer thing.

1048
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 9: Yeah, the Madison beer message.

1049
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 2: Okay, so you know, let me tell you what she did.

1050
00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 2: I don't know if this is too personal, but she

1051
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 2: got everyone together as a collective to put this album together.

1052
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 2: She rented this beautiful airbnb. They got together. We don't

1053
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 2: know what they did other than created. There's a create

1054
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 2: there to come out with songs creative for the album.

1055
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 3: Like a creative retreat.

1056
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:33,440
Speaker 9: Yeah, we did. We were in the studio for like

1057
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 9: many many months, and just I think a change of

1058
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 9: scenery is good for everyone's brain. And so I was like,

1059
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 9: where can we go? I really don't like flying. So

1060
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 9: I was just like, I want to go somewhere that's driveable.

1061
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 9: And there's this place called Ohi that's like an hour

1062
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 9: outside of La even oh Hi.

1063
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god.

1064
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 9: I fell in love with I would live there. That's

1065
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 9: my speed. That's more my energy is that. So I

1066
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 9: fell in love with it. And it was so beautiful

1067
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 9: and the food is great whatever, the people were awesome.

1068
00:47:56,560 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 2: And and so what results came out of this incredibly

1069
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 2: expensive retreat.

1070
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 9: Nothing literally, not one song we made there it got

1071
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 9: on the album. But it was definitely a very important

1072
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 9: trip because I think it really defined the sound of

1073
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 9: the album for me. I just don't think that we

1074
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 9: got weish having too much fun, to be honest, That's

1075
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 9: why writing camps can go one of two ways, where

1076
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 9: like they're really awesome, but you kind of are not

1077
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 9: so productive because you're just in like a great place

1078
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 9: that you want to enjoy. So for me, I just

1079
00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 9: wasn't very productive. But you had to be honest a

1080
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 9: great time, and it really did define the sound of

1081
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 9: the album. I got this little device like this, this keyboard,

1082
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 9: and I was able to play with it there and

1083
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 9: there was a lot of like great, very important finements

1084
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:41,320
Speaker 9: that needed to happen in order for the album to exist.

1085
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,480
Speaker 2: So I'm glad I went. You know, you don't have

1086
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 2: to be an artist producing and writing and creating your

1087
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,240
Speaker 2: own album. You can be in any industry in the world.

1088
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 2: Have a retreat with your friend. You did that, and

1089
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: you could write that off. That's a business expense. Look

1090
00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 2: it out for you.

1091
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 3: I appreciate it.

1092
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 2: So producing we think, oh, you just go into a

1093
00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 2: room and sing into a microphone and then a song

1094
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 2: comes out. Oh goodness, there's a business into this too,

1095
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:11,839
Speaker 2: and so taking charge of that is a challenge. What

1096
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:15,279
Speaker 2: made you want to grab it and own it?

1097
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 9: I just feel like I used to not be I

1098
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 9: started for you know, anyone that doesn't know. I started

1099
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 9: very very young. I got signed when I was twelve,

1100
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 9: and so it's just the industry is very different now

1101
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 9: than it was, and I think that back then it

1102
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 9: was like a different time, and I think that I

1103
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 9: didn't feel as confident in rooms, especially with a lot

1104
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 9: of men, to feel like I could say, oh, I

1105
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 9: think this line would be better if we said this.

1106
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 9: It just didn't feel like something I could really say.

1107
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,959
Speaker 9: So I used to kind of let people take take

1108
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 9: hold and do it themselves. And now I feel like

1109
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 9: I'm in a position where I really am leading the

1110
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 9: whole thing and all the ideas, and if I don't

1111
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 9: like something, I have no problem saying no, because then

1112
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 9: it's my project at the end of the day, and

1113
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 9: I'm not like hurting anyone's feelings. It's not personal. And

1114
00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 9: so I just have learned that. And then having producers

1115
00:49:56,680 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 9: also that are so collaborative and cool and they're not egotistical,

1116
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 9: and they're like, you are producing this just as much

1117
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 9: as we are, Like it's cool to work with people

1118
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 9: who want to share the credit. I guess.

1119
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 3: So on that note you talking about these things and

1120
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,280
Speaker 3: how it's changed so much, I read that you said

1121
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 3: about three years after you sort of popped into the

1122
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:17,760
Speaker 3: industry when you were fourteen, so and I were seventeen.

1123
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 9: You I was alway on seventeen. You're seen, I'm seventeen again.

1124
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 2: Oh no, I didn't get your car.

1125
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 3: No, no, when you were seventeen. That's sort of like

1126
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 3: everything fell apart right at that one time, all at

1127
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:31,479
Speaker 3: the same time, and you're not ready for that because

1128
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 3: you were fourteen years old, which when you started all

1129
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 3: of it. And now you found your power and you

1130
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 3: will not sit in the same places and let people

1131
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 3: tell you what to do. Was there a moment for

1132
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 3: you that you realized this is it, I'm not taking

1133
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 3: it anymore. And how did you find your voice?

1134
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 9: Yeah? I think it doesn't happen overnight. I think I'm

1135
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:49,920
Speaker 9: still learning how to do that. I'm I'm, you know,

1136
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 9: twenty six turning twenty seven. Now, I'm still super young.

1137
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 9: And I think that I'm just like navigating not only

1138
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 9: this industry, but also just like my personal life and

1139
00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:00,080
Speaker 9: how I conduct myself day to day. And I think

1140
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,399
Speaker 9: that I've done a lot of therapy and I think

1141
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 9: setting boundaries have been really huge for me and being

1142
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 9: like it's okay to say no to certain things and

1143
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 9: preserve my energy and myself, and I definitely to anyone listening,

1144
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 9: encourage you to do the same. And having a work

1145
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 9: life personal life balance is extremely important in any industry

1146
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 9: that you're in. And yeah, I don't know. I think

1147
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 9: it definitely happened overnight, though, so I can't say it

1148
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 9: was just one moment that I was like, oh, here

1149
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 9: we go. Now I feel empowered and like I can

1150
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 9: do this. I still have nights where I break down

1151
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 9: and cry and don't think I can. So it's not

1152
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 9: just like a completely one day it shifts. But I

1153
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 9: think that it's important to stay true to yourself and

1154
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 9: look out for yourself and advocate for yourself whenever you can.

1155
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 9: And I know sometimes it might be hard, and I

1156
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 9: think that especially as women were kind of told to

1157
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 9: not really make waves and stuff, but I encourage you to.

1158
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 9: And I think that it's nothing feels better than looking

1159
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 9: out for yourself. And I always say it might be cheesy,

1160
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 9: but like you should treat yourself as if you're your

1161
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 9: own best friend. And I know the way that I

1162
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 9: look out for my best friend and the way that

1163
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 9: I would defend her and stand up for her you

1164
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 9: should do that for yourself, and it feels really good.

1165
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 2: There you go. Yeah, okay, And by the way, you've

1166
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:05,919
Speaker 2: been on with us for about ten minutes you haven't

1167
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 2: made any waves at all, and so I'm a little disappointed.

1168
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 2: Start shaking, Come on, come on, start start some.

1169
00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 8: Crap, man, this go are you're talking about balance, like

1170
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 8: with your personal life and and you know, work life

1171
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 8: and everything and finding time.

1172
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: How do you find time for that?

1173
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:23,799
Speaker 8: And how do you find like to stay out of

1174
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:25,840
Speaker 8: the tabloids or stay out of looking at like the

1175
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 8: bad stuff online?

1176
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 1: Because that, to me, that's gotta be not an easy thing.

1177
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 9: No, it's not. And I don't I'm not gonna sit

1178
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 9: here and lie to you and say, oh, I don't

1179
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 9: you know, I don't look at the comments and I

1180
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 9: don't read it.

1181
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 3: I do.

1182
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 9: I'm like a human being, and I'm very much so

1183
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,800
Speaker 9: online And so I definitely think though, again, like setting

1184
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,359
Speaker 9: boundaries even with myself or I'm like, if my best

1185
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 9: friend was sitting scrolling on TikTok and reading hateful things

1186
00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 9: about herself, I would be like, okay and enough at

1187
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 9: one point. And but it's also easier said than done,

1188
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 9: And so I think having grace there is important and

1189
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 9: being able to be like I just try not to

1190
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:58,399
Speaker 9: beat myself up over it too much because I think

1191
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:00,479
Speaker 9: that because I feel like I'm at a great place

1192
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:03,720
Speaker 9: in my healing journey or whatever, I feel sometimes guilty

1193
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 9: when I will find myself falling back into those habits.

1194
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 9: But then I'm like, I cannot blame myself, and it's

1195
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:11,879
Speaker 9: pretty normal. But then I mean, regarding my personal life,

1196
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 9: it's back to kind of what I said, I just

1197
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 9: I say no, and I don't have a problem saying no.

1198
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 1: We just said no is a full sentence.

1199
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 9: No one's going to make me feel bad about it either.

1200
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:20,760
Speaker 9: And I think there's a lot of discourse, and especially

1201
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 9: I see it online now where people are like, you

1202
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,400
Speaker 9: need to do everything all the time, or someone is

1203
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 9: going to take your place, and I'm like, well, then

1204
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 9: so be it. I think that I exist in my

1205
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,839
Speaker 9: own world and I have my own community, and if

1206
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 9: people you know, also like to be so real with you,

1207
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 9: this isn't everything to me. I have a lot more

1208
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 9: in my life that I think I value that isn't

1209
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 9: just my career and this persona and all these things

1210
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 9: and the lights of the cameras it's all really cool,

1211
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 9: and I'm definitely excited to be here and to be

1212
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,839
Speaker 9: releasing an album literally today. But I think that it's

1213
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 9: also important for me as I continue to grow, to

1214
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 9: not tether all my self worth to that stuff.

1215
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:57,319
Speaker 1: I love that.

1216
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, something you said sometimes you you we all we

1217
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:06,359
Speaker 2: all fall into a little little pothole from time to time,

1218
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 2: of course, and it's like just in meditation, you have

1219
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 2: to think about yourself on that bridge over a creek,

1220
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 2: a leaf comes by, you gotta let it just flow down,

1221
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:15,799
Speaker 2: float down the creek and let it go. Today is

1222
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 2: album release day from Madison Beer, who you're listening to

1223
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 2: right now. By the way, Locket is the album. Last

1224
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 2: night was our big iHeart TikTok album preview. It's a

1225
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 2: live on TikTok as we speak. Make sure you give

1226
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 2: that a watch. And you have to what are you

1227
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:31,240
Speaker 2: watching it on TV? Other than your own TikTok special?

1228
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 2: What's going on?

1229
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:33,799
Speaker 9: Oh goodness, I haven't really watched any of these like

1230
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 9: new shows that are very very popular, like Heated Rival.

1231
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 9: You're like, tell me.

1232
00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 2: Live, Oh, I know, I haven't seen it.

1233
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 9: It's like the last person on earth that hasn't seen it,

1234
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 9: but I want to. I just haven't had time. I'm

1235
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 9: excited to start Traders, right. I love Traders?

1236
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: Didn't you used to love Law and Order and one.

1237
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 9: Like Criminal Minds?

1238
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 11: Yeah?

1239
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 9: I love. I will rewatch that until I die.

1240
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 2: So what do they say about the psyche of the

1241
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:57,800
Speaker 2: person who loves.

1242
00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 9: These people who love true crime?

1243
00:54:59,320 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1244
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 3: Psychotic, especially committing game.

1245
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 2: You'll be committing true crime any moment now, you never know.

1246
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 9: I already have.

1247
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 2: So as far as where you live, the room Madison

1248
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 2: was born in actually used to live in Jericho, Long Island,

1249
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 2: right here on the East Coast.

1250
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:20,480
Speaker 9: No, I don't still live there.

1251
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 2: I wish I did. Well, No you did, I did?

1252
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 9: You don't I did?

1253
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:26,799
Speaker 2: But now you're your West Coast. So how do you

1254
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 2: like to come home? I mean, especially right now when

1255
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 2: it's you know, a thousand degrees below zero?

1256
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,279
Speaker 9: No, I love it, so I do devastatingly. I can't

1257
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:36,320
Speaker 9: really go back to the island like this week, just

1258
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 9: because it's been really busy, But I love coming here

1259
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 9: and just kind of like disappearing, and I just feel

1260
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:43,400
Speaker 9: I feel so I don't know how to explain. I

1261
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 9: just feel so back to like who I am at

1262
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:48,319
Speaker 9: my core and it's just so peaceful to me, and

1263
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 9: especially in the island, and I just I don't know. Yeah,

1264
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 9: I just love being at my house and my dogs

1265
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 9: with my dad.

1266
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:54,400
Speaker 2: Kind of dogs you have.

1267
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 9: My dad has three dogs. He has two golden doodles

1268
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:01,800
Speaker 9: and then a little teacup Pomeranian who was actually mine

1269
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:04,399
Speaker 9: and then he took him from me because he fell

1270
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 9: so in love with him. And to be fair, I

1271
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 9: was young and I was like, Okay, fine, you can

1272
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 9: have him. But he's his name is Zero from the

1273
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 9: Nmember for Christmas. He's very cute.

1274
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 20: Yea.

1275
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 2: I love my dogs, my Schnauzers. I got my miniature Snausers

1276
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 2: the best.

1277
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 9: His oldest golden noodles, like eighteen. It's crazy. Every time

1278
00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:21,319
Speaker 9: I come home, like still kicking. He's like he's still kicking.

1279
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. So we do have a little controversial something we

1280
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:30,160
Speaker 2: have to bring up. Scary I can't.

1281
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 6: I just want to know, why did you want to

1282
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 6: follow me on Instagram? We were friends?

1283
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 3: We were friends, No way I did? Did I really?

1284
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:46,920
Speaker 2: He goes down a slippery slope to hell starting right now?

1285
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 7: You know he did a gig togetherAnd what about Jingle

1286
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 7: Bowl after parties?

1287
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:55,800
Speaker 2: And we were best friends. We were besties, scary.

1288
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 6: We were following each other on Instagram and then.

1289
00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 7: One day and I said, yeah, since coming into the show, Yeah,

1290
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 7: like we follow each other on Instagram.

1291
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 6: And then I looked at my Instagram. I'm like, she followed.

1292
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:08,879
Speaker 2: Oh the hell?

1293
00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:10,479
Speaker 1: Wait wait, let me hold on a second.

1294
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 9: Let me defend myself here. How often do you post? Often?

1295
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 11: Or not? All?

1296
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 2: Too much?

1297
00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 3: Way too much?

1298
00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 2: Too much?

1299
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:19,760
Speaker 9: No, see that that doesn't make sense because I only

1300
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 9: really will unfollow someone if they're completely inactive and they

1301
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 9: literally haven't posted in five years, So that doesn't make sense.

1302
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 9: Like this guy literally probably was an accident because I

1303
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 9: don't unfollow people. I follow people that I literally met once,

1304
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,040
Speaker 9: like on omegl in twenty eleven.

1305
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 2: Like, I don't follow people.

1306
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 9: So now I'm like what you're just thinking back? I'm like,

1307
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 9: what happened there?

1308
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 3: Did you send a creepy d im scary No?

1309
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:44,120
Speaker 9: Right, I'm like, what there has to be more to

1310
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 9: this story.

1311
00:57:45,320 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 6: We've always talked about the music always.

1312
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 1: You guys go way back crazy exactly. None of us

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Speaker 1: follow him.

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00:57:53,080 --> 00:57:54,920
Speaker 3: We all have followed him, we all blocked him at

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Speaker 3: some point.

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Speaker 9: Definitely not on purpose, and I'm sorry, he's part of

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00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 9: the show. Because I hate when people unfollow me. I

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00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 9: take it so personally and it's like, actually really hurts

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Speaker 9: my feelings.

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00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I didn't mean and I feel like I

1321
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 2: told you jerk. I wasn't following you. Now I'm following you.

1322
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 4: There we go.

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00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 2: I know you have forty million followers. How do you

1324
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 2: keep up with each and every person?

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00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 9: No, I do every single.

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00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 6: I gotta follow you back down.

1327
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 2: This is like a good old fashion Christmas miracle.

1328
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 9: Hell, to be honest with you, I also don't even

1329
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 9: follow some of my very close friends because I just

1330
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 9: don't even think to follow them. If that makes sense.

1331
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:34,680
Speaker 9: It does, because times I'm like, I don't I don't

1332
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 9: even think about that. I don't follow you. I just like,

1333
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 9: sometimes it's not really in my thought. I don't know.

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00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:42,240
Speaker 2: People put way too much into following and unfollowing.

1335
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:45,760
Speaker 9: Definitely the modern age of like, I don't like you anymore. Yeah,

1336
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 9: it feels like it sends a message.

1337
00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 2: Is one of the most hideous.

1338
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,440
Speaker 3: Topics of conversation, Like when anyone ever corners you, why

1339
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 3: don't you follow me, You're never gonna get an actual answer.

1340
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 9: My goodness, whatever, it was no one's going to be

1341
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 9: like I've done that. People you have. I've literally been

1342
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:58,960
Speaker 9: like you unfollowed me. I've actually like said that to

1343
00:58:59,080 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 9: people before.

1344
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 3: But did they get you an actually answer?

1345
00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 1: This is why I'm following.

1346
00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 9: Everyone just like says whatever they want, but we're just like, well,

1347
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 9: what happens?

1348
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 2: It must be a technical Well, okay, before we get

1349
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 2: out of here, we got to talk about the music

1350
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 2: because we are here to celebrate Madison's new album lock It.

1351
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Madison Beer. We were talking earlier how you

1352
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 2: always us you should use the first and last name

1353
00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 2: in storytelling. So Madison Beer's new album lock It out today.

1354
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 2: Of course, we started here at Z one hundred and

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00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 2: on our network with Bittersweet I Love Yes Babe. We

1356
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 2: played Yes Baby for the first time the other day.

1357
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 2: Yes and it was I wanted I needed, I needed

1358
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 2: fog machines, I needed strokes, I needed all sorts of

1359
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 2: legal activities going on. It's such a great.

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00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 9: It does provoke legal activity.

1361
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 2: Talk about I mean, this is a stupid question that

1362
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 2: I'm sure you've ben asked a million times the album

1363
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 2: lock It. The music is what from your point of view,

1364
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:52,960
Speaker 2: this music is inter a word.

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00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 9: I think that it feels like a very how can

1366
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 9: I say this without it not making any sense, I

1367
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:04,720
Speaker 9: think that it feels like everything I've ever made kind

1368
01:00:04,720 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 9: of in one place. It feels like a really awesome

1369
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 9: if you had listened to any of my previous albums

1370
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 9: or previous work, it just feels kind of like a

1371
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,440
Speaker 9: combination of, to me at least, all the best of it.

1372
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 9: And I'm just so proud of it, and it feels

1373
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:18,959
Speaker 9: like I feel very proud of my writing, I feel

1374
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 9: proud of the production, I feel proud of the performance

1375
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 9: on it. I'm just like very very excited. I've never

1376
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 9: been so excited by an album. And I listen to

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01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:28,160
Speaker 9: it all day every day. And so you're a fan

1378
01:00:28,240 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 9: of your out, Oh my goodness. I literally I if

1379
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 9: I meet up with a friend who I haven't seen

1380
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 9: in a while, I'm like, get in my car and

1381
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:35,480
Speaker 9: let me play you like three songs. I just I'm

1382
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 9: so excited about it, and I just like love to

1383
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 9: see people's reactions to certain things. And I actually had

1384
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,480
Speaker 9: like a fan listening party in La where I played

1385
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 9: it or like a week early for about thirty of them,

1386
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 9: and it just was so rewarding and fun to watch

1387
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:50,280
Speaker 9: their reactions to certain songs and certain lyrics and like

1388
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 9: they're all they're also so tuned on and like they

1389
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 9: know they know me so well, they know everything I'm

1390
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 9: talking about. And I tried to thrown like a couple

1391
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:58,240
Speaker 9: of personal things on the album, like you'll hear an

1392
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 9: Adventure Times sample on one song and a severing sample

1393
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 9: on another song. And there's just like random things in

1394
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 9: there that I think go back to just my roots

1395
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 9: of Like in my album Life Support, which is my

1396
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 9: first one, there was a lot of very personal touches

1397
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 9: that I guess weren't so commercial, but they were very

1398
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,080
Speaker 9: personal to me. And I feel like that's why I

1399
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 9: wanted to return to is. I wanted this to feel

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01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 9: like you're getting to know me in a way.

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01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:24,760
Speaker 2: So Madison Beer last night here at iHeart World Headquarters,

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01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 2: the iHeart TikTok album preview. You got to watch that.

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01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 2: It's there right now, and of course Lockett is out

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01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:32,479
Speaker 2: today and of course down the street at Madison's Square Garden.

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01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 2: You'll be there on what date, July thirteenth. July thirteenth,

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01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 2: the heat of summer in New York City.

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01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 3: The tour yes, it's closing night of the tour. Please come.

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01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 9: I'm so scared no one's gonna show up listening scary.

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01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:51,200
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna ask one thing of you. I don't ask.

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01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 2: I don't like asking for favors, but we need one

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01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:56,440
Speaker 2: ticket to the show for Scary more than one ticket.

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01:01:58,840 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 4: I can get tickets on fill this room. So it's

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01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:04,480
Speaker 4: very important you gave him one ticket.

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01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:06,960
Speaker 9: Well, you can come alone. You can sing your soil.

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01:02:06,840 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 2: Everything with me and production people. Have one spotlight that

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01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 2: spotlights him in the middle of the garden.

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01:02:12,320 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 9: He could just be in the crowd and then when

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01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:15,080
Speaker 9: that song comes on, he can just look up and

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01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 9: the spotlight on.

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01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 3: Who's creepy down?

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01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:25,160
Speaker 2: Madison? Thank you for coming. I'm sorry, Madison Beer, thank

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01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 2: you for coming by today. Lockett is the album you

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01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 2: need now. And of course, head over to TikTok to

1424
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:32,479
Speaker 2: see the iHeart TikTok album preview that we all loved

1425
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 2: last night. All right, now, this is this is a

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01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 2: very delicate conversation. It's difficult to have, but I think

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01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 2: we need to have it. Uh oh, let's talk about

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01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:44,800
Speaker 2: stupid people.

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01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 1: Oh jeez, yeah, Okay, like stupid in what sense?

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01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know what, let's not overanalyze stupidity. Okay, look,

1431
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 2: you know, we all agree that the world is just

1432
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 2: filled with stupid people, all right, And and it sounds

1433
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,800
Speaker 2: sort of like an elitist pig by even saying it,

1434
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 2: But don't you agree. You're out about doing your own

1435
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 2: thing and someone does something so god awful stupid. Yeah,

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01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 2: you're like, uh, you feel a little more stupid because

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01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 2: you were near them, yes, when they did it, or

1438
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 2: when they said it yes or whatever. Stupid people. So

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01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 2: I was reading up on the stupid people, as you

1440
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 2: know me. I was like to read up on things.

1441
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 2: So there are five rules of surviving in a stupid

1442
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:31,440
Speaker 2: world I have found. Shall we investigate please? A professor

1443
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:35,280
Speaker 2: of economic history at University of California, Berkeley published an

1444
01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:37,920
Speaker 2: essay with the five rules we all need to survive

1445
01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 2: in a stupid world. They are Number one, you're understanding

1446
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:45,280
Speaker 2: just how many stupid people there are out there. Man,

1447
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 2: There's more.

1448
01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 6: Than you think.

1449
01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:49,680
Speaker 3: And we can all be stupid from time to time.

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01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 3: It's not just everybody else, it's us.

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01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,320
Speaker 2: Too, without doubt. Look, I agree, when I go to

1452
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:56,840
Speaker 2: the airport, my IQ level dips. I get really stupid.

1453
01:03:56,920 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 2: Therefore everyone else is around me stupid too, it exactly. Okay,

1454
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 2: so we're underestimating the number of stupid people. Yes, number two.

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01:04:04,600 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 2: Anyone can be stupid regardless of their job, income, or

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01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 2: education level. Right, Okay, here's one that we have to

1457
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 2: think about. The best definition of a stupid person is

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01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 2: someone who causes another person or people to lose something

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01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:24,120
Speaker 2: without gaining anything themselves, or maybe even losing something themselves.

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01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:27,479
Speaker 2: We kind of get this. Yeah, so I mean, Nate,

1461
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:29,360
Speaker 2: explain it, okay.

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01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:31,200
Speaker 4: And I use the example of Scary, and I don't.

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01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 2: I don't mean this offense. Scary is far from stupid,

1464
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 2: He's far from stupid. But we all occasionally and myself included,

1465
01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 2: to do stupid things. So every once in a while,

1466
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 2: and his around the room, he'll say something that doesn't

1467
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:48,520
Speaker 2: make sense. He wasted our time and we gain nothing

1468
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 2: by it. Neither did he.

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01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:51,760
Speaker 7: Because he makes sense to you, Maybe you're the stupid

1470
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:53,160
Speaker 7: person because you didn't understand what I.

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01:04:53,080 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 2: Was trying to Hell, I do it too, or or

1472
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 2: someone can just do something like a total stranger in

1473
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:06,960
Speaker 2: public do something so stupid. Not only do they make

1474
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 2: themselves look stupid, but you lose as well because they're

1475
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:12,919
Speaker 2: inconveniencing you for some reason. Yes, that make sense.

1476
01:05:13,040 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 3: Yes, I think a lot of people who do like

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01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 3: the hateful protests. We know that there are certain religious

1478
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 3: organizations that come out and just say awful things with

1479
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:24,120
Speaker 3: their signs. They're not gaining anything from it, They're hurting

1480
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,320
Speaker 3: other people by doing it, and we're all worse off

1481
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:27,840
Speaker 3: for having witnessed anything like that.

1482
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 2: I view that as stupidity, stupid, right, dear, all right,

1483
01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 2: the five rules of surviving in a stupid world. Number four,

1484
01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:38,440
Speaker 2: you're understanding you're underestimating just how much damage stupid people

1485
01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 2: are doing. Okay, look look at litter, look at the world,

1486
01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 2: the planet, you can look at people out there stealing

1487
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:50,040
Speaker 2: things from people, and I mean there's a billion and

1488
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 2: one on the list of stupid things people do all

1489
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 2: the time.

1490
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,520
Speaker 3: A lot of times. The people who run from the

1491
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:59,400
Speaker 3: back of the airplane. Why are you causing the chaos?

1492
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:00,160
Speaker 9: Why?

1493
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 2: Stupid?

1494
01:06:01,040 --> 01:06:01,400
Speaker 3: Yes?

1495
01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:05,960
Speaker 2: Okay. And finally, stupid people are the most dangerous types

1496
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 2: of people doing things for the wrong reasons and causing

1497
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 2: harm to other people. Stupid, terrible.

1498
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 3: I think the biggest thing you hit on was something

1499
01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 3: that wastes your time. Anytime somebody is wasting my time,

1500
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 3: I get so angry because the time is the one

1501
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:23,919
Speaker 3: thing you don't get back. You can make money back,

1502
01:06:24,000 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 3: you cannot make time back. So please don't waste my

1503
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 3: time with something stupid.

1504
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:29,680
Speaker 2: Please, Maybe this whole conversation was it just it could

1505
01:06:29,760 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 2: be mad the person? What's that?

1506
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 16: The worst person is somebody who's stupid and doesn't know

1507
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 16: they're stupid. Like, at least if your dumb and you

1508
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 16: know your dumba you're like hey, But when you have

1509
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 16: like stupid confidence, that's really bad.

1510
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 1: I think most people don't know they're stupid.

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01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 2: I don't think stupid because anowledge their stupid.

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01:06:46,520 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 8: I don't think they do the dumbest things they do

1513
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 8: if they you know, if they knew, like you would

1514
01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 8: do that.

1515
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 2: You're doing things and not thinking them through. You're not

1516
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 2: thinking about what the devastation will look like. What was

1517
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 2: that text? Okay?

1518
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 4: The text that we just saw is a true definition

1519
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 4: of stupid. It says, how about the stupid person I

1520
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 4: was driving behind in the dark that didn't have their

1521
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:05,200
Speaker 4: lights on?

1522
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 2: That is stupid because that's dangering and dangering other people.

1523
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 2: That's true you know, sometimes you can accidentally be stupid

1524
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 2: and do stupid things. Maybe they're just stupid and didn't

1525
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:16,160
Speaker 2: turn them. It's the people that actually think things through

1526
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:17,520
Speaker 2: then do them. They're stupid.

1527
01:07:20,160 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 6: What scary?

1528
01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 12: Now?

1529
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 6: Can you be a victim of being stupid?

1530
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:23,240
Speaker 14: Like?

1531
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 6: Can you be stupid if somebody cheats you out of money?

1532
01:07:26,360 --> 01:07:29,480
Speaker 6: For instance, and you they get something and then you

1533
01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 6: don't get.

1534
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 2: That we're taking advantage of. I don't know if that's stupid, right,

1535
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 2: make me stupid forgetting I don't cheat it, and someone

1536
01:07:35,560 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 2: will ask me for a loan, I'll give them a loan,

1537
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 2: knowing full well I'm never gonna see that money again.

1538
01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 2: Am I the stupid one yet?

1539
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 4: Of?

1540
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:42,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1541
01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 3: What about like anybody who bought Firefest tickets? Would we

1542
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:46,280
Speaker 3: count them?

1543
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:47,160
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1544
01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 3: Or a Magnesi's card?

1545
01:07:49,120 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 2: Scary?

1546
01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:55,920
Speaker 8: I feel its Firefest was just somebody getting taken advantage of. Yes,

1547
01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:58,880
Speaker 8: I don't feel like they were technically stupid. The other thing,

1548
01:07:58,920 --> 01:07:59,440
Speaker 8: maybe you.

1549
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:02,200
Speaker 4: Know, stupidity is something you set out to dude, and

1550
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:04,480
Speaker 4: you you don't think it through.

1551
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:05,920
Speaker 2: And it's gonna harm someone in the long run.

1552
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:08,520
Speaker 8: When you throw litter out your window while you're driving,

1553
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 8: because that's just dumbat stuff right there?

1554
01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:16,439
Speaker 2: Evil, all right, what crowding the mourning lane when your

1555
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:18,519
Speaker 2: zone isn't called at the airport? Infuriating that.

1556
01:08:20,200 --> 01:08:23,719
Speaker 7: No, if I'm group one, I'm going first, So that's logical,

1557
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 7: that's not stupid.

1558
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 8: He always says, I'm standing here because I'm getting that overhead.

1559
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 6: If you're group five and you're standing over the lane,

1560
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:30,599
Speaker 6: you're stupid.

1561
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:33,599
Speaker 2: All right, Well, I mean, we could dissect stupidity until

1562
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 2: the cows come home. But you know, I don't know,

1563
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 2: So st steer clear of stupid people. Yeah, and you

1564
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,800
Speaker 2: and identify the ones in your life that maybe they

1565
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:47,200
Speaker 2: are prone to be stupid. Back off, I'm not I'm

1566
01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 2: not saying we're a bunch of geniuses. That's not what

1567
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:57,679
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like, oh my gosh, don't.

1568
01:08:57,479 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 8: Answer the phone, Elvis durand the Elvis the phone tap.

1569
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:04,759
Speaker 2: Here we go, Danielle Monaro has today's phone tap. Go ahead, Danielle.

1570
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 8: All right, Chrissy email does and said, my dad puts

1571
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 8: those crane game machines and prizes in stores, and he's

1572
01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:12,840
Speaker 8: always afraid that someone's gonna steal one of the machines.

1573
01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:14,840
Speaker 2: I love the crane game. I love those machines. I

1574
01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:15,400
Speaker 2: never won anything.

1575
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 1: May neither, she says, Call him, tell him.

1576
01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:20,400
Speaker 8: Someone walked away with this huge game machine and nobody

1577
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 8: knows why or how it happens.

1578
01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 2: All right, who's this coming from?

1579
01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 1: This is from Chrissy.

1580
01:09:24,400 --> 01:09:27,120
Speaker 2: Chrissy is a phone tapping her father, the guy who's

1581
01:09:27,160 --> 01:09:30,639
Speaker 2: in charge of Crane games. Yes, we have all types listening.

1582
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:34,719
Speaker 1: Hello is CNF Amusement?

1583
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:37,599
Speaker 8: Yes, Oh my gosh, I'm calling from ninety nine cents

1584
01:09:37,600 --> 01:09:40,560
Speaker 8: and more and am Yes, I got a problem.

1585
01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:43,280
Speaker 1: I opened up the store this morning and the ball

1586
01:09:43,360 --> 01:09:44,640
Speaker 1: machine was gone.

1587
01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 14: With the animal.

1588
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:48,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, that with the crane, the whole machine.

1589
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:49,639
Speaker 1: The machine is gone.

1590
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:51,160
Speaker 14: How could be gone?

1591
01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:53,720
Speaker 1: Somebody walks away with it? I don't know. And we

1592
01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 1: don't have video cameras or anything on.

1593
01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:57,479
Speaker 14: Yeah, but what was behind the register?

1594
01:09:57,720 --> 01:09:58,560
Speaker 10: It's you.

1595
01:09:58,960 --> 01:10:00,840
Speaker 1: Larry was on the regis so. But Larry says he

1596
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:01,639
Speaker 1: didn't see anything.

1597
01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 14: How could you not see somebody take a machine out

1598
01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:04,679
Speaker 14: of the store.

1599
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 1: Maybe Larry fell asleep and he doesn't even realize.

1600
01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 14: It, throw asleep with the store open.

1601
01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:11,679
Speaker 1: I don't know. All I know is the damn machine's gone.

1602
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:14,439
Speaker 14: Somebody had to hold the door and two people had

1603
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:16,719
Speaker 14: to put that on the truck. Now that doesn't happen

1604
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 14: in five minutes. Look, what are your employees know? What

1605
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 14: happened to that machine?

1606
01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:23,240
Speaker 1: And no, I'm not paying for it.

1607
01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:26,640
Speaker 14: The machine just got their Saturday. It's a play new machine.

1608
01:10:26,680 --> 01:10:27,960
Speaker 1: How much is the machine worth?

1609
01:10:28,320 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 14: Two thousand dollars?

1610
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:31,479
Speaker 8: The whole entire ninety nine cents store is worth like

1611
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:32,559
Speaker 8: two thousand dollars.

1612
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 14: What are your employees? Let somebody take the machine. Larry's

1613
01:10:36,160 --> 01:10:36,599
Speaker 14: a young.

1614
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:37,800
Speaker 1: Kid, Yeah, lea, Larry's a guy.

1615
01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 14: Wasn't we let his friends take the machine?

1616
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:41,440
Speaker 1: No, Larry's a good employee.

1617
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:43,639
Speaker 14: He let them take the machine. You just can't walk

1618
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:44,919
Speaker 14: out the doore with the machine.

1619
01:10:44,960 --> 01:10:47,680
Speaker 1: Is this gonna hurt our relationship? Of course it is,

1620
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:48,760
Speaker 1: But I didn't do it.

1621
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:51,400
Speaker 14: You can't tell me you're not gonna pay for the machine.

1622
01:10:51,439 --> 01:10:54,759
Speaker 14: But it's not employee. Let his friends take that machine.

1623
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 14: Now you're not gonna tell me no, somebody's paying for

1624
01:10:57,600 --> 01:10:59,880
Speaker 14: that machine. I'll tell you this is gonna infect the

1625
01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:01,759
Speaker 14: that you haven't dreamt would happen.

1626
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 1: Please don't blame my employees. It's not their fault.

1627
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:05,560
Speaker 14: I have to blame your employees.

1628
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 1: If the machine it's a ninety nine cent store. These

1629
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:09,559
Speaker 1: people don't even make five dollars.

1630
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:13,840
Speaker 14: With a gigantic machine. This is not a little machine.

1631
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 14: If you could pick up and put in your pocket.

1632
01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 1: Are you sure one of your guys didn't come back

1633
01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:17,720
Speaker 1: and take it.

1634
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 14: No, my guys didn't take it.

1635
01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:21,799
Speaker 1: You can't prove that we did anything to that machine.

1636
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:23,880
Speaker 14: I know you did. You you let the machine go

1637
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 14: out the door.

1638
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:26,559
Speaker 1: How do I let a machine that they go out

1639
01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:27,599
Speaker 1: the door? I would have seen it.

1640
01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 14: I'm gonna have whoever was behind that register locked up

1641
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 14: unless you make good for that machine. Larry was in

1642
01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 14: the store, and Larry let some punks come in and

1643
01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:39,639
Speaker 14: take the machine. And Larry was in on listen.

1644
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 1: Larry's trying to feed his kids.

1645
01:11:40,840 --> 01:11:42,719
Speaker 8: You make a lot more money than two thousand dollars

1646
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:44,759
Speaker 8: in a stupid machine. Can't you just let it slide?

1647
01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:50,200
Speaker 14: No, because Larry sold my machine. That's exactly what he did.

1648
01:11:50,320 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 1: How do you know? You don't know?

1649
01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:53,960
Speaker 14: Pro let the machine go out the door? Will you

1650
01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 14: let your registered leaf?

1651
01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 1: What if he got hit over the head by a thug?

1652
01:11:57,479 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 14: He didn't get hit over the head by your thought.

1653
01:11:59,160 --> 01:11:59,720
Speaker 1: How do you know?

1654
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:02,200
Speaker 14: No thug's gonna hit him to take the machine. It

1655
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:04,840
Speaker 14: was an inside job, that Larry liquor machine go out

1656
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:05,200
Speaker 14: that book.

1657
01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:07,080
Speaker 1: Look, I saw a bump on Larry's head, so I

1658
01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 1: know someone hit him.

1659
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:09,680
Speaker 14: No, you know what. Now, you're making it up.

1660
01:12:09,720 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 1: No I'm not.

1661
01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 14: You're making it up. And that's exactly what I'm going

1662
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 14: to tell the cops.

1663
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 1: The big man is shaking down the little people.

1664
01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 14: I'm not shaking down anybody, No, big man. I'm a

1665
01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 14: working man. What do you think I'm rich?

1666
01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah you are.

1667
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 14: Let people walk up with my machines. I pay for

1668
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:23,759
Speaker 14: those machines.

1669
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 1: How many machines do you have in total?

1670
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:28,480
Speaker 14: You know what you've got into four o'clock this afternoon.

1671
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:30,639
Speaker 14: If you don't come up with a decision by four

1672
01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:32,599
Speaker 14: o'clock this afternoon, I'm going to call the police.

1673
01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 1: What if I just make a decision now?

1674
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 14: Oh okay, what is it?

1675
01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:38,640
Speaker 8: Well, Frank, this is Danielle Monaro from Elvis Durant in

1676
01:12:38,680 --> 01:12:40,439
Speaker 8: the Morning Show, and you just got phone tapped.

1677
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:44,960
Speaker 14: Bohha, Dad, Chris, you gotta choke around like this, Christine

1678
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 14: choking around on a radio shape? Yees, Oh my god,

1679
01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:51,880
Speaker 14: I got you.

1680
01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:54,599
Speaker 1: Elvis Durant's phone tap.

1681
01:12:56,040 --> 01:13:00,240
Speaker 18: Eisode table was pre recorded permission granted by all participates.

1682
01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 9: Elvis Duran phone tab only on Elvis Duran in the

1683
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:05,240
Speaker 9: Morning show see one hundred.

1684
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:06,080
Speaker 6: We're in a room.

1685
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:08,960
Speaker 2: Let's go round the road. I love to see what's

1686
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:10,759
Speaker 2: on your mind. We have a special guest, Lee Schrager

1687
01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:14,120
Speaker 2: is gonna be contributing in just a moment. Don't be nervous.

1688
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:18,639
Speaker 2: I'm nervous. Oh God, uh, Lee nervous. Never, We'll start

1689
01:13:18,680 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 2: with you, Gandhi. What's on your mind today?

1690
01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:22,719
Speaker 3: Well, you guys are always giving me crap about wanting

1691
01:13:22,720 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 3: to domesticate certain animals, and every day I see more

1692
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:28,559
Speaker 3: hope in how it can happen. A good friend of

1693
01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:32,639
Speaker 3: mine just domesticated a pigeon that landed outside her home.

1694
01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:35,479
Speaker 3: She moved the thing in because it was injured. It

1695
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 3: will not leave now. And now she lives with this

1696
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:40,599
Speaker 3: pigeon named Lula, and they are having the best time ever.

1697
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:42,400
Speaker 3: She's potty training Lula.

1698
01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 2: How do you potty train a pigeon?

1699
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:45,960
Speaker 3: It's a great question. I'm glad you asked. So she

1700
01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 3: puts a little piece of paper towel and Lula has

1701
01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:50,559
Speaker 3: just started to go on the paper.

1702
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:50,880
Speaker 1: Towel.

1703
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:53,280
Speaker 3: Then she moved it over by the toilet. Lula comes

1704
01:13:53,320 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 3: in tries to go in the toilet. It's crazy, but

1705
01:13:56,360 --> 01:13:57,519
Speaker 3: I can domesticate these animals.

1706
01:13:57,560 --> 01:13:57,840
Speaker 11: I know it.

1707
01:13:57,880 --> 01:13:58,839
Speaker 3: There's proof everywhere.

1708
01:13:59,040 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 2: My god, you're so you'd like to doctor do little

1709
01:14:01,479 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 2: of our show.

1710
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 3: I wish she takes bath to the sink.

1711
01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 2: Oh, so, next, you're gonna get a raccoon.

1712
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:08,280
Speaker 3: I want the rack. Well, I want two raccoons because

1713
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:09,200
Speaker 3: I want them to have company.

1714
01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,719
Speaker 2: Oh God, that's gonna be the biggest mess. They have thumbs.

1715
01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:14,599
Speaker 2: They will wreck your house. Hey, what's going on there?

1716
01:14:14,680 --> 01:14:17,320
Speaker 15: Producer Sam, This might sound ridiculous, but trust me, you

1717
01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:19,599
Speaker 15: can give it a shot. If you want just something

1718
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 15: on in the background of your life at home that's

1719
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:24,640
Speaker 15: just a little zen and not music, go to YouTube,

1720
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:30,600
Speaker 15: live TV, turn on cat television, turn on cat television.

1721
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 15: There's television for dogs and there's television for cats.

1722
01:14:33,040 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 2: I watched they did drag a string across the floor.

1723
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:39,599
Speaker 15: Of I've been watching this little stump of wood and

1724
01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:42,080
Speaker 15: birds and squirrels eat snacks off it, to the little

1725
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 15: sounds of nature.

1726
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:44,360
Speaker 2: It is so lovely.

1727
01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 15: At first, we did dog TV because you know, Savannah

1728
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:49,000
Speaker 15: but it's just a bunch of dogs playing and it's

1729
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:50,680
Speaker 15: not it's distracting to me. I just want to watch

1730
01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:52,639
Speaker 15: the dogs have a good time. This is just nature

1731
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:54,400
Speaker 15: and birds and it's been lovely. And I say it's

1732
01:14:54,400 --> 01:14:55,719
Speaker 15: on for Savannah, but really.

1733
01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 9: It's it's on for me.

1734
01:14:56,520 --> 01:14:57,679
Speaker 3: Cat TV curious.

1735
01:14:57,800 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 9: It's so nice.

1736
01:14:58,439 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put this on for Diggy in front.

1737
01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:02,720
Speaker 2: Here's the thing, cats and dogs, you put them in

1738
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 2: front of the TV. Some cats and dogs do see

1739
01:15:05,280 --> 01:15:07,639
Speaker 2: what's on the TV. Some don't. It's kind of funny.

1740
01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 2: I don't know. Like one of my dogs can see

1741
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:12,599
Speaker 2: an animal running, a squirrel running across the TV screen

1742
01:15:13,200 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 2: and Max can't, and Maxwell much I don't know.

1743
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:16,040
Speaker 12: I don't know.

1744
01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:18,000
Speaker 2: It's kind of weird. So this works for the humans.

1745
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 2: What's going on there? Straight innate.

1746
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:22,680
Speaker 4: I don't drink nearly enough water throughout the day. The

1747
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:24,599
Speaker 4: only way that I can kind of do it. Danielle

1748
01:15:24,600 --> 01:15:26,320
Speaker 4: and I have figured this out is.

1749
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 2: Have a bottle that you carry around.

1750
01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:32,240
Speaker 4: And you've got a gift from our friends at Sandals,

1751
01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 4: and they gave us these Yettie bottles. And this is

1752
01:15:35,280 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 4: not a commercial for anybody. I just know that you're

1753
01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:40,440
Speaker 4: going to drink more water if you have a dedicated

1754
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:41,799
Speaker 4: bottle that you carry around.

1755
01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:43,920
Speaker 2: That is the only way.

1756
01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 4: If you're thinking, oh, I'll grab a cup of water

1757
01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:48,640
Speaker 4: here and there, Lee, I know you look extremely dehydrated

1758
01:15:48,760 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 4: right now.

1759
01:15:51,520 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 21: I would like to tell you that the first thing

1760
01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:55,760
Speaker 21: in the morning when I walk into my office. But

1761
01:15:55,800 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 21: I want to steal your moment of whatever you're talking about.

1762
01:15:58,520 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 21: I put out six bottles of okay, and I drink

1763
01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:05,160
Speaker 21: them throughout the day. I am a kidney donor and

1764
01:16:05,200 --> 01:16:09,320
Speaker 21: I have to stay hydrated, so I.

1765
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 2: Drinking water is really really important for they go back

1766
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:11,680
Speaker 2: to you.

1767
01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:13,880
Speaker 4: Some of us don't have enough money for ebyon. But

1768
01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:20,920
Speaker 4: oh my god, yeah, there were such a little bit. Yes,

1769
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:23,720
Speaker 4: but you carry around a water bottle, you'll drink more wine,

1770
01:16:23,720 --> 01:16:25,080
Speaker 4: all right and clean it out please?

1771
01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:25,760
Speaker 6: Yes?

1772
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 2: Every week? What's up there, Danielle.

1773
01:16:28,680 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 8: So you guys remember the Pine Brothers cough drops. They

1774
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 8: were the chewy glass drop. Okay, So I hadn't found

1775
01:16:34,360 --> 01:16:36,120
Speaker 8: I couldn't find them for the longest time, though they

1776
01:16:36,120 --> 01:16:38,519
Speaker 8: didn't make them anymore. Well, I stumbled upon them in

1777
01:16:38,600 --> 01:16:40,599
Speaker 8: CBS and I bought them.

1778
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:42,799
Speaker 2: There's thirty cough.

1779
01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:44,400
Speaker 1: Drops in the bag and I finished the bag in

1780
01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:46,559
Speaker 1: one day. You ate them like candy?

1781
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:48,040
Speaker 2: Yes, sugar?

1782
01:16:48,080 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 9: Is it?

1783
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:49,080
Speaker 10: No?

1784
01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:50,880
Speaker 1: But I don't know. Is it a bad thing to

1785
01:16:50,920 --> 01:16:53,679
Speaker 1: eat that many cough drops in a day? Probably thirty?

1786
01:16:56,439 --> 01:16:57,760
Speaker 2: What's the active ingredient in there?

1787
01:16:58,040 --> 01:16:59,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I didn't know.

1788
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,040
Speaker 6: Cough dropped it for pard He is me chewing not

1789
01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:05,639
Speaker 6: true them?

1790
01:17:08,800 --> 01:17:09,360
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know.

1791
01:17:10,040 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 8: They're delicious and I don't think you're supposed to eat

1792
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:14,040
Speaker 8: them like candy. I didn't even have a cough. I

1793
01:17:14,120 --> 01:17:15,960
Speaker 8: just saw them, wanted them, and eate all thirty in

1794
01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:19,040
Speaker 8: one day. Oh my god, that explains a lot today.

1795
01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:23,280
Speaker 3: You ate a lot of potentially menthol oh d xam,

1796
01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 3: which is a cough's a present that works.

1797
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:25,960
Speaker 1: In the line coughing.

1798
01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:28,520
Speaker 3: You b loook the soil and benzocaine.

1799
01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:31,400
Speaker 2: Okay, addiction.

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01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:34,760
Speaker 1: I knew I could breathe better all that menthol line.

1801
01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:37,920
Speaker 2: Let's give it him with oh boy, all right? That's

1802
01:17:37,920 --> 01:17:39,160
Speaker 2: why Daniel is the way she.

1803
01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:41,519
Speaker 20: So.

1804
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:43,599
Speaker 7: I had an issue with an airline recently, and I've

1805
01:17:43,600 --> 01:17:46,800
Speaker 7: been going back and forth through email with the customer care.

1806
01:17:47,640 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 7: I called up the help desk and they said, look,

1807
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 7: we can't touch your case because you already started it.

1808
01:17:52,479 --> 01:17:54,840
Speaker 2: But here's how you get your way.

1809
01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 7: And your next correspondence say, I need you to escalate

1810
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:02,599
Speaker 7: this to the tea lead please and have them call

1811
01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:06,160
Speaker 7: me back asap at this phone number. Well, lo and behold,

1812
01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:09,519
Speaker 7: they solved my problem on the very next exchange email.

1813
01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:11,960
Speaker 6: So the people on the phone helped me With the

1814
01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:12,879
Speaker 6: people in the email.

1815
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:15,760
Speaker 7: There were different departments, but apparently as soon as you

1816
01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:19,200
Speaker 7: go and you escalate on their ass, you're gonna, you know,

1817
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 7: good chances of getting your way or getting the keywords

1818
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:24,960
Speaker 7: are team lead. I need to speak to the team

1819
01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 7: lead immediately by phone, not buy this email correspondence, because

1820
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,400
Speaker 7: then they sit there and they get worried, like, oh

1821
01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:35,000
Speaker 7: my god, you know I have to You know, they

1822
01:18:35,040 --> 01:18:37,400
Speaker 7: don't want to escalate it to their boss, so they

1823
01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:39,120
Speaker 7: solve the problem right then and there.

1824
01:18:39,200 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 2: The next time someone tells me they need to talk

1825
01:18:40,960 --> 01:18:42,120
Speaker 2: to the team lead, I'm gonna.

1826
01:18:42,640 --> 01:18:44,719
Speaker 21: Do you know what I do to leave anyone's curious.

1827
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,280
Speaker 21: I don't waste my time because it's so annoying. I

1828
01:18:47,320 --> 01:18:50,080
Speaker 21: was dealing with an airline this weekend. Literally I could

1829
01:18:50,160 --> 01:18:53,599
Speaker 21: not get any closure on trying to change my airline

1830
01:18:53,600 --> 01:18:57,320
Speaker 21: ticket to Bogata. My whole Saturday morning was trying to

1831
01:18:57,320 --> 01:18:58,880
Speaker 21: get out of two hundred dollars. I mean I spent

1832
01:18:58,960 --> 01:19:00,799
Speaker 21: five hours trying to save two hundred dollars.

1833
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:02,720
Speaker 2: So what'd you do? I posted it?

1834
01:19:02,880 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 21: I said, will somebody at blank airline be in touch

1835
01:19:06,520 --> 01:19:09,519
Speaker 21: with me? I can't get any response from anybody. No

1836
01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:12,599
Speaker 21: one's able to help me. And did they within the

1837
01:19:12,640 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 21: hour on a Saturday.

1838
01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:17,840
Speaker 2: Morning on social media? Closer than they listened to phones? Absolutely?

1839
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 21: And if they and if you if they made they said,

1840
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 21: would you take it down?

1841
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:24,680
Speaker 2: I said immediately, which I did, And there you go.

1842
01:19:25,040 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 2: And I won't mention what airline it was, Avianca? Why

1843
01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:28,400
Speaker 2: you did?

1844
01:19:29,840 --> 01:19:29,960
Speaker 13: So?

1845
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:31,880
Speaker 2: You are our special guest on around the room. What

1846
01:19:31,960 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 2: is on your mind today?

1847
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:35,679
Speaker 21: Lee Schreeger? I, you know the disappointment about what happened

1848
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:37,000
Speaker 21: to Sprinkles cupcakes.

1849
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 2: That is a sad story. So we started by that

1850
01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 2: incredible human being, Andy Nelson started.

1851
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:47,719
Speaker 21: I remember the first time in LA having a Sprinkles

1852
01:19:47,720 --> 01:19:51,600
Speaker 21: cupcake waiting in line for a coconut cupcake, and I

1853
01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:55,280
Speaker 21: thought it was game changing. I think they sold it

1854
01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 21: and people ruined the brand and they're closing up and

1855
01:19:58,840 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 21: this morning I also was reading about what happened to

1856
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:05,880
Speaker 21: sweet greens. Sweet greens stock was worth forty three dollars

1857
01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 21: a few years ago. Now it's worth eight dollars.

1858
01:20:09,400 --> 01:20:11,360
Speaker 2: What's happening you? Are they growing too fast? Are these

1859
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 2: selling to people who don't know what they're doing?

1860
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:15,599
Speaker 21: I think it's a combination of things. Something that they

1861
01:20:15,600 --> 01:20:18,360
Speaker 21: did that was probably not smart. And I know these

1862
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:20,280
Speaker 21: guys very well. I put them on the Forbes list

1863
01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:25,240
Speaker 21: of the most entrepreneur list that I do many years ago,

1864
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 21: before they were really famous, and I've watched them grow.

1865
01:20:28,320 --> 01:20:31,080
Speaker 21: They started doing things to compete with people, and they

1866
01:20:31,120 --> 01:20:38,880
Speaker 21: started introducing French fries. What's it called a heater pan,

1867
01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:41,599
Speaker 21: you know one of those. Yeah, they started having air

1868
01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 21: fried French fries, Sweet greenswets.

1869
01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:47,200
Speaker 2: Oh, and I don't think that's the reason.

1870
01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:49,759
Speaker 21: You know that they are into shape and they're really smart,

1871
01:20:49,800 --> 01:20:51,160
Speaker 21: so I'm sure they'll figure out the way.

1872
01:20:51,160 --> 01:20:53,639
Speaker 2: But something like Sprinkles which.

1873
01:20:53,640 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 1: Took off, and Sprinkles in my in Disney and they

1874
01:20:57,200 --> 01:20:57,799
Speaker 1: were everywhere.

1875
01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:01,680
Speaker 8: The springs had like a Sprinkles cupcake machine, an ATM

1876
01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:02,479
Speaker 8: for the cupcake.

1877
01:21:02,640 --> 01:21:05,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, I'm sure they were great. The same story

1878
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 2: as Kathleen's cookies in the Habitas's and then she sold

1879
01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:11,880
Speaker 2: to this big company, ruined the brand, and now she

1880
01:21:11,960 --> 01:21:15,640
Speaker 2: started takes and now she sold it for billion dollars.

1881
01:21:16,160 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 2: It was great having you here today, Lee Schreger, as

1882
01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:18,639
Speaker 2: our special guest.

1883
01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 6: See you in South Beach.

1884
01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:29,559
Speaker 2: Yesterday. I was doing some work here at the house

1885
01:21:29,640 --> 01:21:32,800
Speaker 2: and I had a text message, uh, conversation going on

1886
01:21:32,840 --> 01:21:35,479
Speaker 2: with someone in Los Angeles in order to get this

1887
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:38,000
Speaker 2: thing done for the company. And then I had a

1888
01:21:38,000 --> 01:21:40,840
Speaker 2: thing going on on another text message at the same

1889
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:43,920
Speaker 2: time back in New York. So I'm having these two

1890
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:51,080
Speaker 2: business conversations. Meanwhile, I'm a part of a a text

1891
01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:53,439
Speaker 2: a chat room, right or whatever it is a text

1892
01:21:53,600 --> 01:21:56,760
Speaker 2: what is it called when? Yeah? Group? So there's a

1893
01:21:56,760 --> 01:21:59,360
Speaker 2: group text going on with Alex and some other friends

1894
01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:01,719
Speaker 2: of ours, and they're just talking about just funny stuff.

1895
01:22:01,720 --> 01:22:05,000
Speaker 2: They're being funny, and I'm like, so, you know, I'm

1896
01:22:05,040 --> 01:22:07,320
Speaker 2: waiting for a text from West Coast so I could

1897
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:09,799
Speaker 2: reply to East Coast and then I get a text boom.

1898
01:22:10,040 --> 01:22:12,360
Speaker 2: It's like a meme with like some you know, a

1899
01:22:12,439 --> 01:22:16,000
Speaker 2: kid falling off a tractor or something. I don't so

1900
01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 2: I left the room. I didn't block I left that

1901
01:22:21,080 --> 01:22:23,799
Speaker 2: that that chat that was going on with Alex.

1902
01:22:24,080 --> 01:22:26,679
Speaker 16: So everybody gets a notification on their phone that says

1903
01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:27,840
Speaker 16: Elvis has left the room.

1904
01:22:27,880 --> 01:22:30,080
Speaker 2: Okay, fine, I don't care. So I get a so

1905
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:32,640
Speaker 2: I get a fourth text from Alex. Where'd you go?

1906
01:22:32,720 --> 01:22:35,800
Speaker 2: Why'd you leave us? I'm like, And so I called him.

1907
01:22:35,800 --> 01:22:37,960
Speaker 2: I said, look, I'm sorry, I'm really busy. It's just

1908
01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:42,080
Speaker 2: it's too much. I gotta go. And so I haven't

1909
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:44,080
Speaker 2: talked to him since then. He doesn't want to talk

1910
01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 2: to meet mad at me.

1911
01:22:47,120 --> 01:22:49,360
Speaker 16: It is a bad feeling, though, when you're like, everybody's

1912
01:22:49,400 --> 01:22:51,880
Speaker 16: having fun and you realize that you've made somebody upset.

1913
01:22:52,080 --> 01:22:54,960
Speaker 2: Well, no, everybody wasn't having fun. I'm raising my hand.

1914
01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:56,160
Speaker 2: Wasn't having fun.

1915
01:22:57,160 --> 01:22:58,120
Speaker 1: But here's my question.

1916
01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 8: Could you have said, hey, Alex, exit him separately, I'm

1917
01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:03,719
Speaker 8: leaving the chatges so you know, well, no, because.

1918
01:23:03,479 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 2: I was busy. That's the thing, you know, when it

1919
01:23:06,960 --> 01:23:10,479
Speaker 2: comes to this is another chapter in the saga of

1920
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:14,160
Speaker 2: texting where you don't really truly know one hundred percent

1921
01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:18,479
Speaker 2: what's going on with everyone. Like they could say something

1922
01:23:18,520 --> 01:23:20,320
Speaker 2: that they thought were they were being funny, but you

1923
01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 2: perceive it as something that was being really rude. You know,

1924
01:23:23,439 --> 01:23:27,240
Speaker 2: it's like, ugh, what could have done? Oh you can absolutely,

1925
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:28,960
Speaker 2: you can tell me a million things. I could have

1926
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:30,760
Speaker 2: blocked them or what.

1927
01:23:30,960 --> 01:23:33,040
Speaker 16: Now At the top, if you click on info, you

1928
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:36,200
Speaker 16: can scan down and it says hide alerts. And then

1929
01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 16: therefore that little text conversation will go on in the

1930
01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:40,960
Speaker 16: background and you don't get the alerts anymore.

1931
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:42,439
Speaker 2: And then that way you don't leave the chat. You

1932
01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:44,479
Speaker 2: can go back and look at it when you want it. Okay, well,

1933
01:23:44,560 --> 01:23:46,479
Speaker 2: why would I Why should I have to do that?

1934
01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:50,160
Speaker 2: Is my question? If I have a valid reason to, like,

1935
01:23:50,200 --> 01:23:51,320
Speaker 2: I got to get out of here, you got to

1936
01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:55,439
Speaker 2: go do something. Don't just trust me, you know what.

1937
01:23:55,640 --> 01:23:59,320
Speaker 4: So I guess they're thinking, oh god, we must have

1938
01:23:59,360 --> 01:24:02,439
Speaker 4: offended him, or oh lord, did we say something that

1939
01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 4: hit a nerve.

1940
01:24:03,960 --> 01:24:05,479
Speaker 2: No, I'm busy. What's scary?

1941
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:08,760
Speaker 7: I think the path of least resistance is exactly what

1942
01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:11,800
Speaker 7: Froggy said, So you don't offend people because nobody wants

1943
01:24:11,840 --> 01:24:13,840
Speaker 7: to see that little line go across the screen and

1944
01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:16,400
Speaker 7: says Elvis left the chat. I have five of these

1945
01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:19,680
Speaker 7: group texts going on at any given time, and they

1946
01:24:19,680 --> 01:24:22,040
Speaker 7: always come in at the most inopportune moments when I'm

1947
01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:24,759
Speaker 7: trying to do real work. They're all like very active.

1948
01:24:24,880 --> 01:24:27,639
Speaker 7: So I have them all with a little half moon crescent.

1949
01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 7: That's I good to go there whenever I want to

1950
01:24:29,880 --> 01:24:31,080
Speaker 7: see those text messages.

1951
01:24:31,439 --> 01:24:33,320
Speaker 6: Okay, I know.

1952
01:24:33,320 --> 01:24:36,040
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, should you really

1953
01:24:36,080 --> 01:24:41,480
Speaker 2: be so upset and unhinged because someone left a chat?

1954
01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:44,200
Speaker 3: Really, I'm not gonna lie. If one of my friends

1955
01:24:44,240 --> 01:24:45,960
Speaker 3: left a chat and we were all having a good time,

1956
01:24:46,040 --> 01:24:50,600
Speaker 3: I just started again and keep harassing.

1957
01:24:50,520 --> 01:24:51,840
Speaker 2: Pret even like to hear of the problem.

1958
01:24:51,880 --> 01:24:51,960
Speaker 19: Here.

1959
01:24:52,040 --> 01:24:54,160
Speaker 2: I got Alex on the phone, all right, let me okay,

1960
01:24:54,160 --> 01:24:57,360
Speaker 2: here's my husband, Alex him. Well, I think we know.

1961
01:24:57,479 --> 01:24:59,840
Speaker 2: We had one exchange where he was very cold to

1962
01:24:59,880 --> 01:25:03,960
Speaker 2: me and he said, I've gotta go watching TV. Click, Hi, Alex,

1963
01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:04,639
Speaker 2: how you doing?

1964
01:25:04,880 --> 01:25:05,960
Speaker 13: Good morning?

1965
01:25:06,280 --> 01:25:09,200
Speaker 2: Are you still but hurt over me leaving the chat

1966
01:25:09,240 --> 01:25:11,120
Speaker 2: room yesterday or whatever? That thing is?

1967
01:25:11,160 --> 01:25:13,240
Speaker 13: No, because I don't look like a fool.

1968
01:25:13,280 --> 01:25:17,400
Speaker 2: You look like a fool because because you get.

1969
01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:20,000
Speaker 11: Your pants, you get your panties in a twist, and

1970
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:23,880
Speaker 11: the littlest things upset you and it's no big deal,

1971
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:26,759
Speaker 11: but you you carry it on and on.

1972
01:25:27,080 --> 01:25:29,320
Speaker 2: I don't carry on. I just left the room. That's

1973
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:30,760
Speaker 2: my point. I didn't carry on.

1974
01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:34,200
Speaker 11: Every morning I send you a good morning text when

1975
01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:37,920
Speaker 11: I wake up and it's been one hour and seven minutes,

1976
01:25:37,960 --> 01:25:39,040
Speaker 11: and you never respond.

1977
01:25:39,240 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 2: Okay, to be fair, See this is my point. You

1978
01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:44,559
Speaker 2: when you don't know what someone else on the other

1979
01:25:44,640 --> 01:25:47,679
Speaker 2: side is going through, you should ask first, you guys,

1980
01:25:47,680 --> 01:25:50,120
Speaker 2: someone here, tell him what I've been doing the last hour.

1981
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:51,679
Speaker 1: None of his equipment is working.

1982
01:25:51,840 --> 01:25:54,800
Speaker 8: He's every commercial break, he's off the mic, and he's

1983
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:55,479
Speaker 8: in the back.

1984
01:25:55,600 --> 01:25:58,000
Speaker 1: Technically, he's had a day.

1985
01:25:58,040 --> 01:25:59,960
Speaker 3: He's having the dogs poop the kitchen.

1986
01:26:00,200 --> 01:26:02,720
Speaker 2: The dog's pooped in the kitchen. I'm having to go

1987
01:26:02,800 --> 01:26:07,200
Speaker 2: downstairs to reset computers every three minutes. Nothing's working, and

1988
01:26:07,280 --> 01:26:09,719
Speaker 2: so it's and I was going through kind of a

1989
01:26:09,760 --> 01:26:12,040
Speaker 2: crazy day yesterday when I left that text room, and

1990
01:26:12,080 --> 01:26:14,640
Speaker 2: you didn't know what was going on. I'm having a

1991
01:26:14,760 --> 01:26:18,280
Speaker 2: rough time of it. But you think it's my panties

1992
01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:18,719
Speaker 2: in a wad.

1993
01:26:18,720 --> 01:26:26,360
Speaker 4: See what I'm saying, he's a twist whatever in the twist.

1994
01:26:24,479 --> 01:26:28,000
Speaker 2: But I'm not See. This is my point, is this,

1995
01:26:28,439 --> 01:26:31,400
Speaker 2: When you don't fully understand what the other person is

1996
01:26:31,439 --> 01:26:34,360
Speaker 2: going through, then you know what just wait until you do. Know,

1997
01:26:34,960 --> 01:26:38,120
Speaker 2: I've been trying my best to be nice, to do

1998
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:41,519
Speaker 2: my right thing, and it's just difficult when you're on

1999
01:26:41,560 --> 01:26:43,960
Speaker 2: the other side, going, well he's being an a hole.

2000
01:26:44,120 --> 01:26:46,400
Speaker 2: Well no, I'm just I don't know what to do.

2001
01:26:47,240 --> 01:26:49,480
Speaker 13: Hey, scary play the violin music.

2002
01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:56,000
Speaker 6: In the middle of this. Turn the mics off.

2003
01:26:57,840 --> 01:27:03,800
Speaker 2: God, this is the typical Alex thing. Kick them when

2004
01:27:03,800 --> 01:27:07,800
Speaker 2: they're down. It's okay, your permission to play the viol

2005
01:27:08,040 --> 01:27:09,880
Speaker 2: can do what you want to do. I don't care anymore,

2006
01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:14,639
Speaker 2: you know, you know what? Here's oh here it is.

2007
01:27:15,640 --> 01:27:18,920
Speaker 2: My computer is not working and I'm computer. There's too

2008
01:27:18,960 --> 01:27:23,360
Speaker 2: many text mess and Jane the dogs put in the kitchen,

2009
01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:27,200
Speaker 2: and I keep pushing control all delete because I don't

2010
01:27:27,240 --> 01:27:29,400
Speaker 2: know how to use a PC because I'm a Mac person.

2011
01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:33,599
Speaker 3: And the TV don't forget the TV doesn't work now either,

2012
01:27:33,640 --> 01:27:36,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

2013
01:27:35,160 --> 01:27:37,479
Speaker 4: The TV's oh yeah, now my TV's off. I can't

2014
01:27:37,520 --> 01:27:39,599
Speaker 4: watch I can't watch fake news.

2015
01:27:41,920 --> 01:27:52,120
Speaker 2: Then you're laughing at my life's and Shine malls the

2016
01:27:52,120 --> 01:27:57,040
Speaker 2: person the text What a crappy thing to do? Gotdi

2017
01:27:57,200 --> 01:27:59,800
Speaker 2: she do you hear what she says? Alex, we have

2018
01:27:59,800 --> 01:28:02,680
Speaker 2: so and leaves her chat room. She readds them, she

2019
01:28:03,080 --> 01:28:03,920
Speaker 2: frees them back.

2020
01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:10,479
Speaker 20: Insation, someone on tex said they taking a step further

2021
01:28:10,520 --> 01:28:12,439
Speaker 20: than only they add them back, but they changed the

2022
01:28:12,479 --> 01:28:14,360
Speaker 20: group chat name to so and so.

2023
01:28:14,600 --> 01:28:20,240
Speaker 7: We'll never get out of this room.

2024
01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:24,000
Speaker 16: Did you get to leave the chat? But you don't

2025
01:28:24,000 --> 01:28:25,920
Speaker 16: get to leave my friendship? So we're we doing this.

2026
01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:30,519
Speaker 2: Again, right? I tell you what, Alex, I'll make a

2027
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:36,280
Speaker 2: deal with you. I will be better at assuming that

2028
01:28:36,360 --> 01:28:39,439
Speaker 2: you're having, not assuming what kind of day you're having

2029
01:28:39,479 --> 01:28:41,639
Speaker 2: before I start in on you, asking why you're being

2030
01:28:42,439 --> 01:28:44,640
Speaker 2: in a mood, and as you will do with me

2031
01:28:44,680 --> 01:28:46,280
Speaker 2: in the future. Can we do that? Can we go

2032
01:28:46,320 --> 01:28:49,479
Speaker 2: down that road? Because it's been all right, because you're

2033
01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:52,400
Speaker 2: seeing something that's not happening, You're seeing something that's not

2034
01:28:53,000 --> 01:28:56,519
Speaker 2: that's not I'm not being mean. I'm just having a crazy,

2035
01:28:56,920 --> 01:28:57,519
Speaker 2: crazy time.

2036
01:28:57,560 --> 01:29:01,560
Speaker 13: That's it, Okay, I fully understand.

2037
01:29:02,040 --> 01:29:03,320
Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, I love.

2038
01:29:03,200 --> 01:29:04,080
Speaker 1: You, I love you.

2039
01:29:04,240 --> 01:29:05,920
Speaker 13: I love you.

2040
01:29:05,800 --> 01:29:09,360
Speaker 4: You should have to tell someone to say, all right,

2041
01:29:09,400 --> 01:29:12,439
Speaker 4: I hope you have a chat right in the center

2042
01:29:12,479 --> 01:29:12,640
Speaker 4: of it.

2043
01:29:12,720 --> 01:29:14,559
Speaker 2: Oh no, I will. I won't leave that chat. I

2044
01:29:14,600 --> 01:29:14,840
Speaker 2: love you.

2045
01:29:14,880 --> 01:29:16,880
Speaker 13: I'll talk to you later, okay, And I hope your

2046
01:29:16,960 --> 01:29:17,800
Speaker 13: day gets better.

2047
01:29:18,320 --> 01:29:20,800
Speaker 2: I'm me too, because if it doesn't get better, then

2048
01:29:20,800 --> 01:29:21,639
Speaker 2: we all got trouble.

2049
01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:24,439
Speaker 11: Well, you got to turn the negative into a positive

2050
01:29:24,479 --> 01:29:29,599
Speaker 11: and just enjoy it. You know, you're breathing, you're doing well,

2051
01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:32,759
Speaker 11: so you know, just take the good with the bands.

2052
01:29:33,439 --> 01:29:36,400
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree. But it's just when the person

2053
01:29:36,400 --> 01:29:38,559
Speaker 2: you love more than anyone else on earth is not

2054
01:29:38,720 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 2: fully understanding what you're going through and they make it worse,

2055
01:29:42,439 --> 01:29:44,639
Speaker 2: that's when I have a problem. That's what I'm saying.

2056
01:29:45,479 --> 01:29:47,680
Speaker 13: All right, you could take me back to the woodshed

2057
01:29:47,760 --> 01:29:48,639
Speaker 13: and give me a spanking.

2058
01:29:48,920 --> 01:29:53,960
Speaker 4: Oh yes, that's that's how it all started. You know

2059
01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:56,360
Speaker 4: what I gotta remind me. I got to build a woodshed,

2060
01:29:58,920 --> 01:30:01,200
Speaker 4: all right, Love you gotta, I love you.

2061
01:30:02,160 --> 01:30:03,880
Speaker 8: My favorite is when we're all in a group chat

2062
01:30:03,920 --> 01:30:05,680
Speaker 8: that Elvis starts and at the end of it he

2063
01:30:05,720 --> 01:30:08,080
Speaker 8: always says, please do not reply to these.

2064
01:30:10,640 --> 01:30:16,680
Speaker 2: Our buddy Andrew is here. Hello Andrew. So Andrew comes

2065
01:30:16,720 --> 01:30:20,679
Speaker 2: from a very very fun, festive family, very interesting characters

2066
01:30:20,680 --> 01:30:23,920
Speaker 2: in this family. We love him, but we just found

2067
01:30:23,960 --> 01:30:25,720
Speaker 2: out something else. Can we talk about it? Is it?

2068
01:30:25,760 --> 01:30:27,759
Speaker 2: Is it okay to talk about it outlive, out loud?

2069
01:30:27,840 --> 01:30:28,000
Speaker 7: Yeah?

2070
01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:32,920
Speaker 5: Absolutely, tell them. My parents are meeting the Pope, so.

2071
01:30:35,040 --> 01:30:38,080
Speaker 4: Casual, I guess, yeah, they're meeting the pope suit and

2072
01:30:38,120 --> 01:30:41,160
Speaker 4: they just start like flying out to Italy to go

2073
01:30:41,760 --> 01:30:42,439
Speaker 4: meet him.

2074
01:30:43,160 --> 01:30:47,479
Speaker 2: Oh you mean your dad isn't summoning the Pope to America.

2075
01:30:48,080 --> 01:30:49,200
Speaker 3: That's what I would have expected.

2076
01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:51,160
Speaker 2: Nope, he's not coming home. They're not doing private meeting

2077
01:30:51,160 --> 01:30:53,720
Speaker 2: in Chicago. Okay, can we can we talk about this?

2078
01:30:54,040 --> 01:30:55,639
Speaker 2: How do you get a meeting with the Pope?

2079
01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:56,200
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2080
01:30:57,040 --> 01:30:59,679
Speaker 4: I think he knows, like I'm on senior, who knows somebody?

2081
01:30:59,720 --> 01:31:00,639
Speaker 2: Who somebody?

2082
01:31:00,680 --> 01:31:03,720
Speaker 4: But like, in short, a donation is made and you

2083
01:31:03,760 --> 01:31:06,400
Speaker 4: do actually make a check out to the Pope.

2084
01:31:06,560 --> 01:31:12,920
Speaker 2: What the h e? P op the Pope?

2085
01:31:13,200 --> 01:31:14,320
Speaker 1: Is it a crazy donation?

2086
01:31:14,479 --> 01:31:14,559
Speaker 9: Like?

2087
01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:16,000
Speaker 1: Is it like insane?

2088
01:31:16,040 --> 01:31:18,240
Speaker 4: They're going with like a group of friends, so the

2089
01:31:18,320 --> 01:31:23,719
Speaker 4: collective donation is insane. Your individual one was like, it's

2090
01:31:23,960 --> 01:31:27,719
Speaker 4: it's considerable, but the group donate.

2091
01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:29,240
Speaker 3: We don't need to know what your parents donated.

2092
01:31:29,280 --> 01:31:29,840
Speaker 4: The group in.

2093
01:31:29,800 --> 01:31:30,639
Speaker 3: General about how much?

2094
01:31:30,680 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 13: Was it.

2095
01:31:32,760 --> 01:31:33,000
Speaker 2: Enough?

2096
01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:39,160
Speaker 3: Like my figures before the uh decimal uh seven five five?

2097
01:31:39,320 --> 01:31:39,599
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2098
01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:42,040
Speaker 1: Oh I thought we could all afford that.

2099
01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:44,760
Speaker 4: Oh my god, why didn't you say this earlier? We

2100
01:31:44,760 --> 01:31:47,599
Speaker 4: could hang out with the pope weekly? Yeah, at these prices.

2101
01:31:47,680 --> 01:31:50,960
Speaker 2: I love that. Well, that's so cool. So so how

2102
01:31:51,040 --> 01:31:53,000
Speaker 2: excited are they? I mean, has it sunk in? Are

2103
01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:55,080
Speaker 2: your mom and dad just like flying around the room.

2104
01:31:55,280 --> 01:31:58,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, they're like really freaking out. My mom was like

2105
01:31:58,680 --> 01:32:00,920
Speaker 4: she brought a bunch of things in a white bag

2106
01:32:00,960 --> 01:32:08,719
Speaker 4: to get blessed, like a blessing. So my mom literally

2107
01:32:08,720 --> 01:32:10,960
Speaker 4: printed out a picture of like my sister's dog, a

2108
01:32:11,000 --> 01:32:13,679
Speaker 4: picture of all of us. She's like throwing a bunch

2109
01:32:13,720 --> 01:32:15,240
Speaker 4: of stuff in like a little white bag, and I

2110
01:32:15,240 --> 01:32:17,240
Speaker 4: guess he just like waves his hands and it's a blessed.

2111
01:32:17,320 --> 01:32:19,160
Speaker 2: That's so cool bag of objects.

2112
01:32:19,320 --> 01:32:20,880
Speaker 6: So what do you like?

2113
01:32:20,920 --> 01:32:22,080
Speaker 1: What is your mom wearing?

2114
01:32:22,120 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 14: Like?

2115
01:32:22,800 --> 01:32:26,000
Speaker 2: OK, hold that thought. I'm glad you brought that up,

2116
01:32:26,000 --> 01:32:27,560
Speaker 2: and then we'll get an answer about your mom and

2117
01:32:27,600 --> 01:32:30,320
Speaker 2: what she's wearing. I just looked up etiquette meeting the Pope.

2118
01:32:30,360 --> 01:32:34,760
Speaker 2: You want to hear what it says? Yes, it says respectful,

2119
01:32:34,800 --> 01:32:40,840
Speaker 2: attire modest, dark colors for most, using titles like your holiness,

2120
01:32:41,520 --> 01:32:46,759
Speaker 2: standing for his entrance, generally, keeping interactions brief and polite,

2121
01:32:46,960 --> 01:32:51,120
Speaker 2: and uh bending the right knee or shaking hands as appropriate,

2122
01:32:51,200 --> 01:32:59,280
Speaker 2: but avoiding overly familiar gestures like hugging or slapping his back. Okay,

2123
01:32:59,680 --> 01:33:06,960
Speaker 2: it's for men. Danielle jacket, tie, polished shoes, dark colors best. Really,

2124
01:33:07,080 --> 01:33:09,040
Speaker 2: you can't wear just you know, shorts and a fanny pack.

2125
01:33:09,600 --> 01:33:10,519
Speaker 2: I'm tracked about that.

2126
01:33:11,120 --> 01:33:15,320
Speaker 4: Women, dresses or suits that cover the shoulders and elbows

2127
01:33:15,320 --> 01:33:16,679
Speaker 4: with hemlines below the knees.

2128
01:33:16,760 --> 01:33:20,600
Speaker 2: Dark colors are recommended. A shawl can cover your shoulders

2129
01:33:20,640 --> 01:33:21,320
Speaker 2: if needed.

2130
01:33:21,479 --> 01:33:25,200
Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, my mom is freaking out about her shawl attire.

2131
01:33:25,640 --> 01:33:28,120
Speaker 4: We share an Amazon account. So I just saw like

2132
01:33:28,120 --> 01:33:32,440
Speaker 4: like in my cart or a bunch of just black shawls.

2133
01:33:32,479 --> 01:33:35,360
Speaker 6: No flashy jewelry or say anything about that.

2134
01:33:36,600 --> 01:33:38,640
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know about that. I feel like

2135
01:33:38,680 --> 01:33:39,799
Speaker 2: you could wear jewelry.

2136
01:33:40,320 --> 01:33:41,559
Speaker 3: He's d gonna wear his ice.

2137
01:33:41,840 --> 01:33:44,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, does Ganda have to take her grill

2138
01:33:44,680 --> 01:33:45,280
Speaker 2: out of her mouth?

2139
01:33:46,160 --> 01:33:47,519
Speaker 4: He could bless it if you just put it in

2140
01:33:47,560 --> 01:33:50,880
Speaker 4: the white bag. My mom, God, bless my grill. Okay,

2141
01:33:50,920 --> 01:33:53,559
Speaker 4: so it says, and I wouldn't mind you guys talking

2142
01:33:53,560 --> 01:33:57,280
Speaker 4: to me like this. Address him as your holiness and

2143
01:33:57,400 --> 01:34:02,760
Speaker 4: holy father, stand in a plawed respectfully when he enters. Okay, wait,

2144
01:34:02,800 --> 01:34:06,080
Speaker 4: you got a clap like I guess if he walks

2145
01:34:06,080 --> 01:34:06,679
Speaker 4: into the room.

2146
01:34:06,720 --> 01:34:08,920
Speaker 2: People applaud the pope. I would assume that, wouldn't you

2147
01:34:08,920 --> 01:34:09,240
Speaker 2: assume that?

2148
01:34:09,400 --> 01:34:12,519
Speaker 1: I mean they applaud the president when a president walks.

2149
01:34:14,640 --> 01:34:16,840
Speaker 2: Walk into the room.

2150
01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:22,439
Speaker 4: Honestly, when I met the president last year, I had

2151
01:34:22,479 --> 01:34:24,160
Speaker 4: to do like the stand. You have to wear the

2152
01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:26,320
Speaker 4: pile of shoes to tie the whole nine yards of

2153
01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:28,960
Speaker 4: that too, So I guess it's the same rules.

2154
01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:32,240
Speaker 2: It's just a pope. Just all right. Here's what you

2155
01:34:32,280 --> 01:34:34,240
Speaker 2: need to do if he approaches you. If the pope

2156
01:34:34,280 --> 01:34:36,920
Speaker 2: approaches you, bend your right knee to the floor as

2157
01:34:36,960 --> 01:34:40,240
Speaker 2: a sign of respect. Wow, oh that's that's if you're

2158
01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:43,920
Speaker 2: gonna dotal. I guess them would be genuflect.

2159
01:34:44,320 --> 01:34:47,920
Speaker 4: My dad's got bad knee, so I don't know that.

2160
01:34:48,800 --> 01:34:53,679
Speaker 2: Sorry, Pope, we got a bad need. Catholics might kiss

2161
01:34:53,720 --> 01:34:57,519
Speaker 2: the ring if offered. Others shake hands a handshake his fine.

2162
01:34:57,560 --> 01:34:59,679
Speaker 2: Catholics may kiss the ring if offered, but not required.

2163
01:35:00,040 --> 01:35:04,160
Speaker 2: Introduce yourself brief Introduce yourself briefly. Let him lead the conversation.

2164
01:35:04,520 --> 01:35:07,160
Speaker 8: Magine if he starts just having like a regular conversation

2165
01:35:07,240 --> 01:35:11,040
Speaker 8: about like football, like who knows and does your dad.

2166
01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:11,639
Speaker 6: Give him the check?

2167
01:35:11,760 --> 01:35:16,240
Speaker 2: When I don't know how the check presentation goes down.

2168
01:35:17,080 --> 01:35:18,519
Speaker 6: Does he pulm it? Like he just shakes it?

2169
01:35:18,720 --> 01:35:25,520
Speaker 2: Can you like slip him a fifty.

2170
01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:25,679
Speaker 6: Paid for play idea? Yeah, we should collect some money

2171
01:35:25,680 --> 01:35:28,840
Speaker 6: and go Seriously, Danielle like, I'll stop, I'll chip in.

2172
01:35:30,240 --> 01:35:33,599
Speaker 8: Catholic, I already gave him some something to get blessed,

2173
01:35:33,680 --> 01:35:34,599
Speaker 8: so I'm covered.

2174
01:35:34,800 --> 01:35:37,280
Speaker 2: She's covered. It says you're Pobolio. I'd get their names

2175
01:35:37,280 --> 01:35:40,439
Speaker 2: mixed up. It's Poblio often sets a side straight photocol,

2176
01:35:40,520 --> 01:35:43,960
Speaker 2: interacting warmly. He might step out to greet people, but

2177
01:35:44,360 --> 01:35:48,640
Speaker 2: standard etiquette still applies. Wow, that's heavy duty stuffs in

2178
01:35:48,800 --> 01:35:50,280
Speaker 2: essence is a meet and greet?

2179
01:35:50,560 --> 01:35:50,720
Speaker 12: Yeah?

2180
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Speaker 2: Right, like we do on a cage like kJ McLean.

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01:35:53,520 --> 01:35:55,599
Speaker 2: Do you think the Pope is like, oh God, I

2182
01:35:55,600 --> 01:35:58,840
Speaker 2: got to meet with these. I hope more sweaty handshakes.

2183
01:36:00,080 --> 01:36:02,240
Speaker 8: I mean maybe if he's not having a good day too,

2184
01:36:02,400 --> 01:36:03,280
Speaker 8: Does he want to meet you?

2185
01:36:03,360 --> 01:36:05,120
Speaker 1: What if he says I I'm not feeling it?

2186
01:36:05,400 --> 01:36:06,320
Speaker 3: What if he is canceled?

2187
01:36:06,400 --> 01:36:07,840
Speaker 2: Gandhi? Do you want to meet the pope one day?

2188
01:36:07,840 --> 01:36:08,960
Speaker 2: They'd be kind of cool, right.

2189
01:36:08,960 --> 01:36:10,920
Speaker 3: I would love to meet the Pope. Actually, this pope

2190
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:13,320
Speaker 3: seems super cool. But I was going to tell you

2191
01:36:13,320 --> 01:36:15,120
Speaker 3: guys that I met the Dalai Lama once and it

2192
01:36:15,240 --> 01:36:16,240
Speaker 3: was the coolest ever.

2193
01:36:16,479 --> 01:36:16,839
Speaker 6: Wow.

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01:36:16,840 --> 01:36:17,439
Speaker 2: Where was it.

2195
01:36:17,720 --> 01:36:20,320
Speaker 3: It was in South Florida, actually on my school there.

2196
01:36:20,400 --> 01:36:22,479
Speaker 3: Picks a handful of people to meet him, and I

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01:36:22,520 --> 01:36:23,200
Speaker 3: got to be one.

2198
01:36:23,040 --> 01:36:24,240
Speaker 1: Of them, and it was awesome.

2199
01:36:24,280 --> 01:36:24,439
Speaker 4: Wow.

2200
01:36:24,560 --> 01:36:26,519
Speaker 3: And he was so funny and so nice. And I

2201
01:36:26,560 --> 01:36:28,640
Speaker 3: didn't pay any money for it, but it was like

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01:36:28,720 --> 01:36:30,800
Speaker 3: one of the best experiences of my life. Easily the

2203
01:36:30,800 --> 01:36:32,160
Speaker 3: most famous person I've ever met.

2204
01:36:32,280 --> 01:36:35,240
Speaker 2: So Gandhi. Yes, So, we were in Central Park and

2205
01:36:35,320 --> 01:36:38,519
Speaker 2: Dalai Lama and his entourage wasn't a huge entourage by

2206
01:36:38,520 --> 01:36:41,479
Speaker 2: the way. They were walking past us. And of course

2207
01:36:41,680 --> 01:36:47,000
Speaker 2: my friends got upset when I started singing Hello Dolly.

2208
01:36:46,680 --> 01:36:46,920
Speaker 4: See.

2209
01:36:47,040 --> 01:36:49,320
Speaker 3: I think he well appreciated it. He's a funny guy.

2210
01:36:49,720 --> 01:36:53,080
Speaker 2: Oh my friend, she slapt her hand over my mouth.

2211
01:36:54,479 --> 01:36:57,080
Speaker 2: All friend, what, I'm scary.

2212
01:36:57,280 --> 01:37:01,400
Speaker 7: While I have full and total compla respect for the Pope,

2213
01:37:01,800 --> 01:37:05,120
Speaker 7: I have to tell you I might not be nervous

2214
01:37:05,160 --> 01:37:07,680
Speaker 7: if I ever got to meet him, because this guy,

2215
01:37:07,720 --> 01:37:07,920
Speaker 7: you know.

2216
01:37:07,880 --> 01:37:09,400
Speaker 6: He's a Chicago White Sox fan.

2217
01:37:09,439 --> 01:37:11,439
Speaker 7: He's been seen at games Like to me, he's just

2218
01:37:11,439 --> 01:37:15,320
Speaker 7: like an American guy who who went up the ranks

2219
01:37:15,360 --> 01:37:18,719
Speaker 7: and now has the highest holiest title in the land.

2220
01:37:18,840 --> 01:37:22,400
Speaker 7: So so, but I was still I feel like I humanized.

2221
01:37:22,439 --> 01:37:25,000
Speaker 7: I would humanize him in that way, you know, because

2222
01:37:25,000 --> 01:37:26,679
Speaker 7: I could feel like, you know, he's one of us.

2223
01:37:26,720 --> 01:37:28,960
Speaker 1: Patton on the back, do everything you're not supposed to do.

2224
01:37:29,479 --> 01:37:33,360
Speaker 7: But yeah, previous popes, i'd be nervous, but I feel

2225
01:37:33,360 --> 01:37:35,040
Speaker 7: like it wouldn't be as nervous with him.

2226
01:37:35,200 --> 01:37:39,000
Speaker 2: He seems so normal and approachable. Well, the good news

2227
01:37:39,120 --> 01:37:40,639
Speaker 2: is scary, and you know how you are around people

2228
01:37:40,680 --> 01:37:43,519
Speaker 2: who don't speak English. This one speaks English, so you

2229
01:37:43,560 --> 01:37:46,840
Speaker 2: don't have to scream at them like hi, Pope, Hello,

2230
01:37:47,000 --> 01:37:53,800
Speaker 2: mister Pope sor Pope.

2231
01:37:56,200 --> 01:37:58,000
Speaker 4: I don't even know the people I don't know if

2232
01:37:58,000 --> 01:37:59,720
Speaker 4: they didn't know the Pope wore a ring.

2233
01:38:00,240 --> 01:38:05,800
Speaker 2: Yeah he wears. That's where it comes from. Yeah, and

2234
01:38:05,840 --> 01:38:07,519
Speaker 2: I went to Catholic school for twelve years.

2235
01:38:09,560 --> 01:38:11,479
Speaker 6: Pay it off break?

2236
01:38:12,120 --> 01:38:14,920
Speaker 1: Wait what, I didn't know that everyone gets a new ring.

2237
01:38:14,960 --> 01:38:15,720
Speaker 1: It's not the same ring.

2238
01:38:16,160 --> 01:38:16,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what.

2239
01:38:17,120 --> 01:38:23,120
Speaker 4: Past sales is the official. In fact, my nation pays

2240
01:38:23,160 --> 01:38:24,920
Speaker 4: for the next pope ring exactly.

2241
01:38:24,880 --> 01:38:27,320
Speaker 1: Wait the kiss begins with K.

2242
01:38:27,520 --> 01:38:29,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know then they go back and forth to

2243
01:38:29,479 --> 01:38:36,920
Speaker 4: three K sales. They did alert their banks just in case.

2244
01:38:37,640 --> 01:38:39,880
Speaker 3: Are you sure about the five figure number?

2245
01:38:39,920 --> 01:38:40,439
Speaker 1: You're positive?

2246
01:38:40,520 --> 01:38:42,519
Speaker 2: Yes, one hundred percent? Okay, yea, So it's.

2247
01:38:42,479 --> 01:38:45,639
Speaker 3: It's like ninety nine thousand dollars is the max. It's

2248
01:38:45,640 --> 01:38:47,800
Speaker 3: in that ballpark, so it's not five figures.

2249
01:38:47,840 --> 01:38:51,200
Speaker 2: But also they they know people so that.

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01:38:54,160 --> 01:38:55,799
Speaker 6: He does accept PayPal.

2251
01:39:05,920 --> 01:39:06,760
Speaker 1: Is it like when you do.

2252
01:39:06,760 --> 01:39:08,920
Speaker 8: The Disney like you know, behind the scenes tour and

2253
01:39:08,960 --> 01:39:10,640
Speaker 8: you're like allowed ten people.

2254
01:39:10,439 --> 01:39:11,599
Speaker 2: Perth like is that?

2255
01:39:11,800 --> 01:39:15,400
Speaker 4: Well, that's what happened, like last or a day or

2256
01:39:15,400 --> 01:39:17,639
Speaker 4: two ago, they got like a private tour of the Vatican.

2257
01:39:18,200 --> 01:39:19,280
Speaker 2: Wow, where I was.

2258
01:39:19,520 --> 01:39:22,240
Speaker 4: I'm interested to know what's underneath the Vatican because that's

2259
01:39:22,240 --> 01:39:24,000
Speaker 4: a parent would love the scene with all the crazy

2260
01:39:24,080 --> 01:39:27,360
Speaker 4: rooms and all the fun things. Yeah, I want to see.

2261
01:39:27,479 --> 01:39:30,479
Speaker 2: But if it's like backstage at Disney, just when your backstage,

2262
01:39:30,760 --> 01:39:36,599
Speaker 2: does the Pope take his head off? Like, let let

2263
01:39:36,720 --> 01:39:39,080
Speaker 2: us know how it goes, and please tell your mom

2264
01:39:39,080 --> 01:39:42,519
Speaker 2: and dad congratulations. If I got to go meet the Pope,

2265
01:39:43,120 --> 01:39:45,320
Speaker 2: my favorite part was would be like well going into

2266
01:39:45,360 --> 01:39:53,400
Speaker 2: Rome and having great pasta. Why not when's the last

2267
01:39:53,400 --> 01:39:57,040
Speaker 2: time you went on a job interview. Yeah, we're in

2268
01:39:57,080 --> 01:40:03,080
Speaker 2: a weird business for that. Anyway, if you're hiring someone

2269
01:40:03,600 --> 01:40:08,400
Speaker 2: for a position at your whatever, sometimes you know the

2270
01:40:08,439 --> 01:40:13,439
Speaker 2: old mundane like, so what excites you about this job?

2271
01:40:13,560 --> 01:40:16,120
Speaker 2: Those questions are kind of out. Don't you want to

2272
01:40:16,120 --> 01:40:19,040
Speaker 2: get deep and kind of cerebral?

2273
01:40:19,240 --> 01:40:19,719
Speaker 12: Oh?

2274
01:40:20,040 --> 01:40:22,000
Speaker 3: I mean I would love to. But doesn't that make

2275
01:40:22,040 --> 01:40:23,439
Speaker 3: it really weird for the interview?

2276
01:40:24,200 --> 01:40:25,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2277
01:40:25,080 --> 01:40:27,080
Speaker 1: It depends on what like you're asking me, Like, I

2278
01:40:27,120 --> 01:40:28,840
Speaker 1: don't want you to ask Mike, you know well.

2279
01:40:28,720 --> 01:40:30,800
Speaker 2: I mean I want to ask you questions. I want

2280
01:40:30,800 --> 01:40:32,760
Speaker 2: to put you on a meaning of love. I want

2281
01:40:32,760 --> 01:40:34,960
Speaker 2: to put you in a situation in my questioning that

2282
01:40:35,280 --> 01:40:37,559
Speaker 2: makes you get creative. I want to see how creative

2283
01:40:37,600 --> 01:40:40,160
Speaker 2: you are. So Nate and I were talking earlier about

2284
01:40:40,160 --> 01:40:42,120
Speaker 2: something he saw on Reddit or somewhere. I don't know,

2285
01:40:43,080 --> 01:40:46,200
Speaker 2: a strange question that was asked during a job interview

2286
01:40:46,200 --> 01:40:49,200
Speaker 2: to interview questions. I happen to like it, and I

2287
01:40:49,240 --> 01:40:51,760
Speaker 2: have another one to add to it. Okay, okay, but

2288
01:40:51,840 --> 01:40:53,080
Speaker 2: go ahead. Here's the question.

2289
01:40:53,680 --> 01:40:57,559
Speaker 4: You've been given an elephant. You can't give it away

2290
01:40:57,720 --> 01:41:01,200
Speaker 4: or sell it. What would you do with the elephant?

2291
01:41:02,439 --> 01:41:05,240
Speaker 2: Wow? First of all, you delay the response by saying, wow,

2292
01:41:05,280 --> 01:41:07,960
Speaker 2: that's a good question. Thank you for asking, Thank you

2293
01:41:08,000 --> 01:41:09,519
Speaker 2: for asking, Thank you for asking.

2294
01:41:09,720 --> 01:41:11,800
Speaker 1: I would ask if you did drugs this morning?

2295
01:41:11,880 --> 01:41:16,479
Speaker 4: If you okay, you could do that, And I'm not

2296
01:41:16,479 --> 01:41:19,200
Speaker 4: discounting that answer, what'd you do drugs this morning? I

2297
01:41:19,240 --> 01:41:22,360
Speaker 4: think that's a fun, playful thing to say to your interviewer.

2298
01:41:22,439 --> 01:41:23,599
Speaker 1: Okay, what would you do?

2299
01:41:23,680 --> 01:41:26,599
Speaker 2: Gandhi? I gave you an elephant. You can't sell it.

2300
01:41:26,960 --> 01:41:29,920
Speaker 2: You can't, you can't. You can't give it away or

2301
01:41:29,960 --> 01:41:32,000
Speaker 2: sell it nothing about eating. What are you gonna do

2302
01:41:32,000 --> 01:41:32,639
Speaker 2: with that elephant?

2303
01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:33,439
Speaker 1: Keep it?

2304
01:41:33,520 --> 01:41:33,840
Speaker 3: Hello?

2305
01:41:34,160 --> 01:41:36,479
Speaker 2: Okay, keep it? Yeah, that's your final answer.

2306
01:41:36,520 --> 01:41:38,280
Speaker 3: I would absolutely keep it. I would want to get

2307
01:41:38,280 --> 01:41:41,040
Speaker 3: a second elephant, because elephants are social creatures and they

2308
01:41:41,040 --> 01:41:43,599
Speaker 3: don't like being alone, so it needs to have more elephants.

2309
01:41:43,640 --> 01:41:43,880
Speaker 12: Maybe.

2310
01:41:43,920 --> 01:41:45,360
Speaker 3: In that case, you then have to take it to

2311
01:41:45,439 --> 01:41:48,160
Speaker 3: a sanctuary, which I would love to go to because

2312
01:41:48,200 --> 01:41:50,160
Speaker 3: I donate a lot of money to elephant sanctuaries, and

2313
01:41:50,200 --> 01:41:51,320
Speaker 3: it would all work out well for me.

2314
01:41:51,360 --> 01:41:53,800
Speaker 2: I knew you would have an elephant answer, really, anyone else.

2315
01:41:54,880 --> 01:41:56,720
Speaker 3: It's not giving it away. It's not my elephant. I'm

2316
01:41:56,720 --> 01:41:57,639
Speaker 3: gonna go see it all the time.

2317
01:41:57,800 --> 01:41:59,320
Speaker 2: No, no, no, you're giving it away.

2318
01:41:59,360 --> 01:42:02,120
Speaker 3: Fine, then I buy a sanctuary and I live on

2319
01:42:02,200 --> 01:42:03,800
Speaker 3: it with my elephants.

2320
01:42:03,280 --> 01:42:05,519
Speaker 1: With the money you're gonna pay me at this new job.

2321
01:42:05,439 --> 01:42:08,920
Speaker 2: Because you give me you know, that's that's you know what,

2322
01:42:09,080 --> 01:42:11,960
Speaker 2: that's a great answer. I mean, because it's a strange question.

2323
01:42:11,960 --> 01:42:13,839
Speaker 2: Anyone else have an answer for this? Yes, a producer,

2324
01:42:13,880 --> 01:42:14,320
Speaker 2: Sam well.

2325
01:42:14,280 --> 01:42:17,280
Speaker 15: I'd immediately get it registered as an emotional support elephant

2326
01:42:17,280 --> 01:42:18,680
Speaker 15: so that I could take it everywhere with me and

2327
01:42:18,720 --> 01:42:19,639
Speaker 15: it wouldn't be a problem.

2328
01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:21,800
Speaker 2: Okay, well, see that would be a problem.

2329
01:42:21,920 --> 01:42:23,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, not if it's registered legally.

2330
01:42:23,880 --> 01:42:26,559
Speaker 2: I mean, questioning about the elephant in and of itself

2331
01:42:26,600 --> 01:42:29,160
Speaker 2: is not real life. But that's even beyond don't take

2332
01:42:29,160 --> 01:42:29,760
Speaker 2: that away from me.

2333
01:42:30,080 --> 01:42:32,400
Speaker 8: I seriously would not have an answer. I would just

2334
01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:34,759
Speaker 8: be like what I would think about elephant.

2335
01:42:34,760 --> 01:42:37,840
Speaker 2: I would think about teaching other people about elephants. I

2336
01:42:37,840 --> 01:42:40,559
Speaker 2: would showcase it in a way, in a safe way.

2337
01:42:40,800 --> 01:42:42,840
Speaker 2: I'd have to put it in a large enclosure because

2338
01:42:42,840 --> 01:42:45,160
Speaker 2: they need lots of room to walk around and do

2339
01:42:45,200 --> 01:42:48,600
Speaker 2: their thing. It caused me very costly, but you know what,

2340
01:42:48,760 --> 01:42:51,120
Speaker 2: teaching other people about the beauty of elephants. But you

2341
01:42:51,160 --> 01:42:53,240
Speaker 2: know what, you're right, Gandhi. They are very social creatures.

2342
01:42:53,240 --> 01:42:55,160
Speaker 2: You need another elephant, at least one.

2343
01:42:55,400 --> 01:42:56,479
Speaker 3: You need a heard man.

2344
01:42:56,880 --> 01:42:57,880
Speaker 2: You do, yeah, scary.

2345
01:42:58,000 --> 01:43:00,400
Speaker 7: I would teach you how to draw, I see in

2346
01:43:00,439 --> 01:43:03,080
Speaker 7: those YouTube videos. I would try and I would try

2347
01:43:03,120 --> 01:43:05,320
Speaker 7: and help it along in its journey in life.

2348
01:43:06,080 --> 01:43:07,519
Speaker 2: How's that helping it along? Them strung?

2349
01:43:07,720 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 6: You teaching how to paint or something like?

2350
01:43:09,360 --> 01:43:11,280
Speaker 1: You know, will you're keeping it and you back your it?

2351
01:43:11,880 --> 01:43:14,240
Speaker 6: Did ask that question? I don't know. Is there any

2352
01:43:14,280 --> 01:43:14,759
Speaker 6: wrong answer?

2353
01:43:15,240 --> 01:43:15,479
Speaker 4: Answer?

2354
01:43:15,600 --> 01:43:17,240
Speaker 2: I don't think there are. I don't know.

2355
01:43:17,800 --> 01:43:19,839
Speaker 4: Well, okay, so I did a little bit of googling

2356
01:43:20,000 --> 01:43:22,320
Speaker 4: on this question because it seems to be a popular one,

2357
01:43:22,640 --> 01:43:24,759
Speaker 4: and some person says they have the correct answer.

2358
01:43:24,800 --> 01:43:26,000
Speaker 2: Do you want to know what the correct answer? What

2359
01:43:26,120 --> 01:43:27,599
Speaker 2: is their Well, they think it is. Let's see.

2360
01:43:27,760 --> 01:43:30,200
Speaker 4: This is what they say is the correct answer, don't

2361
01:43:30,240 --> 01:43:33,519
Speaker 4: accept the elephant. The question says you can't give it

2362
01:43:33,560 --> 01:43:35,720
Speaker 4: away or sell it, but not accepting it in the

2363
01:43:35,720 --> 01:43:40,240
Speaker 4: first place is still an option. Because they say this

2364
01:43:40,400 --> 01:43:43,719
Speaker 4: is their response. They say that it's sometimes you're supposed

2365
01:43:43,760 --> 01:43:46,320
Speaker 4: to say no to something when you're being coerced to

2366
01:43:46,400 --> 01:43:46,920
Speaker 4: say yes.

2367
01:43:46,920 --> 01:43:53,040
Speaker 2: Oh okay. Turned down on Ellison someone in their right mind.

2368
01:43:52,920 --> 01:43:55,240
Speaker 1: We know who is not getting the job in this room.

2369
01:43:57,120 --> 01:43:59,120
Speaker 2: But that's a very good point, and I'm sorry we

2370
01:43:59,120 --> 01:44:02,439
Speaker 2: overlooked that. I mean, and realistically, none of us, at

2371
01:44:02,520 --> 01:44:05,680
Speaker 2: least on this show have the wherewithal to deal with

2372
01:44:05,680 --> 01:44:07,920
Speaker 2: an elephant, So why would we want to put an

2373
01:44:07,920 --> 01:44:09,080
Speaker 2: elephant in harm's way?

2374
01:44:09,320 --> 01:44:11,599
Speaker 3: We wouldn't. But why is someone giving me a stupid

2375
01:44:11,600 --> 01:44:14,080
Speaker 3: gift that I'm not allowed to keep and not allowed

2376
01:44:14,120 --> 01:44:15,800
Speaker 3: to turn down or whatever it is. You can't turn

2377
01:44:15,840 --> 01:44:17,240
Speaker 3: it down. You just gave me a gift. That's so

2378
01:44:17,320 --> 01:44:18,360
Speaker 3: rude to say I'm not taking it.

2379
01:44:18,439 --> 01:44:20,400
Speaker 2: So now we're circling the drain. We have really nowhere

2380
01:44:20,439 --> 01:44:22,639
Speaker 2: to go with this. Well, you said you had another

2381
01:44:22,680 --> 01:44:24,800
Speaker 2: interview question, okay, and this comes from a story I

2382
01:44:24,840 --> 01:44:28,479
Speaker 2: read I think a few days ago from Orlando. Very

2383
01:44:28,800 --> 01:44:31,599
Speaker 2: bad timing, a very bad place to ask this question.

2384
01:44:31,760 --> 01:44:36,120
Speaker 2: In a high school teacher asked his students what they

2385
01:44:36,120 --> 01:44:41,080
Speaker 2: were right for their own obituary. Now, I think in

2386
01:44:41,160 --> 01:44:43,880
Speaker 2: a school, especially on the day they were going to

2387
01:44:43,960 --> 01:44:48,160
Speaker 2: have a shooting drill. Maybe no, not maybe most definitely

2388
01:44:48,439 --> 01:44:52,240
Speaker 2: bad timing, bad place. I think they asked him to resign.

2389
01:44:52,320 --> 01:44:53,960
Speaker 2: He said no, I didn't do anything wrong and they

2390
01:44:54,040 --> 01:44:57,920
Speaker 2: let him go. But if I look at you and say, hey,

2391
01:44:58,040 --> 01:45:01,080
Speaker 2: if you had to write your obituary right now out,

2392
01:45:01,320 --> 01:45:05,280
Speaker 2: what would you write? Okay, I'm not going to say

2393
01:45:06,120 --> 01:45:08,080
Speaker 2: anything beyond that, what would you write about you?

2394
01:45:08,240 --> 01:45:10,840
Speaker 3: I have no idea. I don't have an answer to

2395
01:45:10,880 --> 01:45:11,320
Speaker 3: that question.

2396
01:45:11,439 --> 01:45:13,679
Speaker 2: Okay. See that's that's very telling. What about you, Danielle?

2397
01:45:13,720 --> 01:45:15,560
Speaker 1: I mean I talk about my family.

2398
01:45:15,680 --> 01:45:18,439
Speaker 2: Right, you make the list of siblings and.

2399
01:45:18,400 --> 01:45:21,120
Speaker 8: Who I left behind, and you know that stuff. But

2400
01:45:21,200 --> 01:45:22,440
Speaker 8: I don't know about anything.

2401
01:45:22,120 --> 01:45:26,720
Speaker 2: Else, all right, I believe, and we've talked about this

2402
01:45:26,760 --> 01:45:33,439
Speaker 2: before leaving your legacy like Gandhi, you know what, may

2403
01:45:33,520 --> 01:45:36,559
Speaker 2: the Gandhi fill in the blanks all the things you

2404
01:45:36,600 --> 01:45:40,040
Speaker 2: did while you were on Earth that enhanced the lives

2405
01:45:40,040 --> 01:45:44,080
Speaker 2: of others in service for others? You see, if you

2406
01:45:44,160 --> 01:45:47,080
Speaker 2: can't come up with those, then maybe that's what we

2407
01:45:47,080 --> 01:45:49,439
Speaker 2: should be doing with our lives. We should be thinking

2408
01:45:49,439 --> 01:45:51,680
Speaker 2: about what we can do to pump up that old

2409
01:45:51,760 --> 01:45:53,160
Speaker 2: bit when we're kicking the bucket.

2410
01:45:53,240 --> 01:45:55,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, can you lie in your old bit like you

2411
01:45:55,200 --> 01:45:55,960
Speaker 1: lie on your resume?

2412
01:45:56,400 --> 01:45:59,680
Speaker 11: You could, but.

2413
01:45:59,680 --> 01:46:01,960
Speaker 2: Really, you know, I guess you know if you took

2414
01:46:02,000 --> 01:46:04,400
Speaker 2: it to another way of looking at it, rather than

2415
01:46:04,439 --> 01:46:06,360
Speaker 2: what do you write in the obituary? Like what are

2416
01:46:06,400 --> 01:46:08,479
Speaker 2: people going to say about you when you do pass away?

2417
01:46:08,520 --> 01:46:10,400
Speaker 2: And I don't want to be morbid with the you know,

2418
01:46:10,640 --> 01:46:14,160
Speaker 2: the death thing. Yeah, I mean mortality is mortality makes

2419
01:46:14,200 --> 01:46:15,000
Speaker 2: people very nervous.

2420
01:46:15,080 --> 01:46:17,720
Speaker 8: Right, they should just take our bios from here, like

2421
01:46:18,040 --> 01:46:19,240
Speaker 8: big fan of Disney.

2422
01:46:19,439 --> 01:46:23,760
Speaker 2: Okay, and that's fine, you can keep it simple. But

2423
01:46:23,840 --> 01:46:26,360
Speaker 2: I know, you know what're you have an opportunity in

2424
01:46:26,400 --> 01:46:29,360
Speaker 2: this world to do things that are great and maybe

2425
01:46:29,360 --> 01:46:31,000
Speaker 2: you're doing them and don't even know it. You're not

2426
01:46:31,040 --> 01:46:33,120
Speaker 2: giving yourself credit for it. But I'm just saying, huh,

2427
01:46:33,240 --> 01:46:33,960
Speaker 2: what's that scary?

2428
01:46:34,479 --> 01:46:36,879
Speaker 7: Well, I feel like I haven't contributed much to society

2429
01:46:36,920 --> 01:46:38,160
Speaker 7: now that you made me think about it, So I

2430
01:46:38,160 --> 01:46:39,639
Speaker 7: think I'm screwed for now.

2431
01:46:39,680 --> 01:46:41,840
Speaker 2: Well, okay, by the way, this conversation isn't meant to

2432
01:46:41,840 --> 01:46:43,880
Speaker 2: make anyone feel that way.

2433
01:46:44,600 --> 01:46:45,600
Speaker 6: There's time to change it.

2434
01:46:46,120 --> 01:46:49,639
Speaker 2: Well, that's it. I mean, what can you do now

2435
01:46:50,160 --> 01:46:52,479
Speaker 2: while you can, while you're breathing, while you still have

2436
01:46:52,520 --> 01:46:55,760
Speaker 2: your brain cells or in this room somewhat we have

2437
01:46:55,880 --> 01:46:57,960
Speaker 2: brain cells. But what can you do that's going to

2438
01:46:58,000 --> 01:47:04,280
Speaker 2: make an everlasting impression on people and life. Yeah, and like,

2439
01:47:04,360 --> 01:47:07,080
Speaker 2: what mark are you leaving? I think that's a very

2440
01:47:07,080 --> 01:47:09,720
Speaker 2: important thing to think about. What can you do to

2441
01:47:09,920 --> 01:47:14,160
Speaker 2: leave a positive change? You found the earth in life

2442
01:47:14,200 --> 01:47:16,400
Speaker 2: a certain way and when you came in and now

2443
01:47:16,400 --> 01:47:18,360
Speaker 2: you're leaving, and because the things you did there are

2444
01:47:18,439 --> 01:47:20,200
Speaker 2: things that are better. What is that?

2445
01:47:20,560 --> 01:47:24,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have a lot to think about today. Well, yeah,

2446
01:47:24,760 --> 01:47:26,840
Speaker 3: I would hope that the legacy I leave behind is

2447
01:47:26,880 --> 01:47:29,000
Speaker 3: good enough that my friends and family can put together

2448
01:47:29,000 --> 01:47:30,360
Speaker 3: a really good obituary for me.

2449
01:47:30,720 --> 01:47:31,679
Speaker 2: We'll do a great job.

2450
01:47:31,720 --> 01:47:33,320
Speaker 1: Thank you, my mom.

2451
01:47:33,360 --> 01:47:34,960
Speaker 2: My mom will make you promise.

2452
01:47:36,280 --> 01:47:38,400
Speaker 8: She used to write oh bits for she used to work.

2453
01:47:38,600 --> 01:47:41,320
Speaker 8: Really yeah, she would come up with like these the

2454
01:47:41,320 --> 01:47:43,240
Speaker 8: whole thing. Give her I guess all the information, and

2455
01:47:43,240 --> 01:47:44,280
Speaker 8: then she'd come up with it.

2456
01:47:45,160 --> 01:47:47,120
Speaker 2: But when if you pass away and someone says and

2457
01:47:47,160 --> 01:47:49,360
Speaker 2: your mom writes a no bit, it says, hey, you

2458
01:47:49,439 --> 01:47:51,920
Speaker 2: know what, this deserves more than a column. We may

2459
01:47:51,960 --> 01:47:55,920
Speaker 2: need a whole page to talk about the life changes.

2460
01:47:55,960 --> 01:47:57,240
Speaker 2: This person may just think about it.

2461
01:47:57,280 --> 01:47:57,639
Speaker 1: That's good.

2462
01:47:57,880 --> 01:47:59,479
Speaker 2: What are you doing today? What are you doing today

2463
01:47:59,479 --> 01:48:01,679
Speaker 2: to change the world into a better place. It may

2464
01:48:01,720 --> 01:48:04,760
Speaker 2: never be noted, It may never be noticed, but you know,

2465
01:48:05,400 --> 01:48:06,200
Speaker 2: you know what you've done.

2466
01:48:06,439 --> 01:48:09,240
Speaker 3: I would hope mine says something like she accepted not one,

2467
01:48:09,280 --> 01:48:14,679
Speaker 3: but two elephants, took them to a sanctuary forever exactly.

2468
01:48:15,640 --> 01:48:18,759
Speaker 2: But Nate would be he did a lot of great things,

2469
01:48:18,760 --> 01:48:23,000
Speaker 2: but he he turned down the elephant offer because he

2470
01:48:23,000 --> 01:48:24,280
Speaker 2: felt that'd be better in a job in her.

2471
01:48:26,240 --> 01:48:26,400
Speaker 14: Room.

2472
01:48:27,160 --> 01:48:31,920
Speaker 2: You've read the answer, and there you have it. One

2473
01:48:31,960 --> 01:48:33,920
Speaker 2: little thing you can do today that could change the

2474
01:48:34,080 --> 01:48:37,000
Speaker 2: trajectory of someone's life. You may not even know it,

2475
01:48:37,200 --> 01:48:39,880
Speaker 2: but if you're nice and you're kind, you don't send

2476
01:48:40,040 --> 01:48:43,599
Speaker 2: rude texts to people like people send us. You don't

2477
01:48:43,600 --> 01:48:47,000
Speaker 2: say mean things in the headlines of your newspaper. You're oh,

2478
01:48:47,120 --> 01:48:48,720
Speaker 2: you know, I love this text. It came through. I'm

2479
01:48:48,760 --> 01:48:49,880
Speaker 2: so glad we called her back.

2480
01:48:49,920 --> 01:48:50,040
Speaker 7: Now.

2481
01:48:50,080 --> 01:48:53,519
Speaker 2: Her name is Lindsay. She is so excited. She's going

2482
01:48:53,520 --> 01:48:56,160
Speaker 2: on her first date in like four and a half years.

2483
01:48:56,360 --> 01:48:56,639
Speaker 3: Nice.

2484
01:48:56,960 --> 01:49:00,479
Speaker 2: Let's see how she's doing with this, Lindsay. Welcome the show.

2485
01:49:00,520 --> 01:49:01,600
Speaker 2: Welcome today. How are you?

2486
01:49:02,840 --> 01:49:03,759
Speaker 12: Good morning, ladies.

2487
01:49:03,760 --> 01:49:04,400
Speaker 19: I'm doing well.

2488
01:49:04,439 --> 01:49:05,000
Speaker 12: How are you?

2489
01:49:05,320 --> 01:49:07,559
Speaker 2: We're doing well? So, okay, let's talk about it. So

2490
01:49:07,600 --> 01:49:10,120
Speaker 2: you haven't been on a date in over four years?

2491
01:49:11,240 --> 01:49:13,519
Speaker 2: Was it by choice is because you were tied up

2492
01:49:13,560 --> 01:49:14,720
Speaker 2: with someone else ago, what's going on?

2493
01:49:16,080 --> 01:49:19,519
Speaker 12: Uh? It was by choice. For most of my twenties,

2494
01:49:19,560 --> 01:49:22,559
Speaker 12: I've always been in a relationship and both of them

2495
01:49:22,600 --> 01:49:24,880
Speaker 12: didn't really end well, so I didn't get to enjoy

2496
01:49:24,920 --> 01:49:27,759
Speaker 12: my twenties as much. So I wanted to take time

2497
01:49:28,000 --> 01:49:31,759
Speaker 12: to do things for myself and enjoy things for myself

2498
01:49:31,800 --> 01:49:32,600
Speaker 12: that I never got to.

2499
01:49:33,120 --> 01:49:33,400
Speaker 6: Good.

2500
01:49:33,520 --> 01:49:37,000
Speaker 2: I like that absolutely, But all the while, were you

2501
01:49:37,040 --> 01:49:39,880
Speaker 2: missing dating a little bit? Or we're totally fine? Just

2502
01:49:40,040 --> 01:49:44,000
Speaker 2: like sitting on the sidelines was purposely.

2503
01:49:43,960 --> 01:49:46,000
Speaker 12: Like I was really honestly fine. Like a lot of

2504
01:49:46,040 --> 01:49:49,280
Speaker 12: people thought I wouldn't see okay, my family, but like

2505
01:49:49,479 --> 01:49:51,559
Speaker 12: I actually just really enjoyed it.

2506
01:49:52,200 --> 01:49:52,519
Speaker 3: Nice.

2507
01:49:53,160 --> 01:49:54,960
Speaker 2: Well, that's the thing. I guess you hung out with

2508
01:49:55,160 --> 01:49:59,040
Speaker 2: a great group of friends or are you like me,

2509
01:49:59,160 --> 01:50:00,679
Speaker 2: like more of a loner? What's your deal?

2510
01:50:02,360 --> 01:50:05,080
Speaker 12: Actually, I have four roommates and I spend a lot

2511
01:50:05,080 --> 01:50:07,240
Speaker 12: of time with them, and I spend a lot of

2512
01:50:07,240 --> 01:50:08,439
Speaker 12: time with my family as well.

2513
01:50:08,840 --> 01:50:12,280
Speaker 2: Okay, nice, nice, So what happened here four and a

2514
01:50:12,320 --> 01:50:14,360
Speaker 2: half years past the last time you had a date?

2515
01:50:14,920 --> 01:50:17,519
Speaker 2: What click? Did you meet someone you're like? Okay, let's

2516
01:50:17,520 --> 01:50:19,639
Speaker 2: give this a tribe tell us this story.

2517
01:50:21,000 --> 01:50:24,000
Speaker 12: I've been trying internet dating for a while because my

2518
01:50:24,080 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 12: work schedule was a little bit more hectic, and it's

2519
01:50:28,040 --> 01:50:32,320
Speaker 12: been really rocky just trying to keep conversation nowadays. And

2520
01:50:32,560 --> 01:50:37,000
Speaker 12: something actually did kind of click and it happened pretty

2521
01:50:37,080 --> 01:50:40,719
Speaker 12: quickly in the last week or so. But he's local

2522
01:50:40,760 --> 01:50:42,920
Speaker 12: and he actually knows one of my roommates, which I

2523
01:50:42,960 --> 01:50:47,120
Speaker 12: thought was a little strange. So we're just going off

2524
01:50:47,120 --> 01:50:47,400
Speaker 12: by that.

2525
01:50:48,360 --> 01:50:50,360
Speaker 2: I love that. So are you excited? I mean, what

2526
01:50:50,720 --> 01:50:51,280
Speaker 2: are you feeling?

2527
01:50:52,560 --> 01:50:56,840
Speaker 12: I'm feeling so nervous and anxious, like my anxiety is

2528
01:50:56,880 --> 01:51:00,000
Speaker 12: getting a little bit more of me. But I'm really

2529
01:51:00,160 --> 01:51:03,200
Speaker 12: excited though, I have a picture of emis motions.

2530
01:51:03,439 --> 01:51:05,360
Speaker 1: How even pick what to wear? Do your first date?

2531
01:51:06,560 --> 01:51:08,439
Speaker 1: I know, but it's so exciting. Where are you going?

2532
01:51:09,600 --> 01:51:10,280
Speaker 1: Where are you going?

2533
01:51:10,360 --> 01:51:10,439
Speaker 11: Like?

2534
01:51:10,439 --> 01:51:11,439
Speaker 1: What do you what can you wear?

2535
01:51:12,880 --> 01:51:15,280
Speaker 12: We're doing dinner in a movie because we both like

2536
01:51:15,400 --> 01:51:18,080
Speaker 12: horror movies, so we decided we wanted to do that

2537
01:51:18,600 --> 01:51:21,640
Speaker 12: horror movies.

2538
01:51:23,600 --> 01:51:29,840
Speaker 2: Horror. Okay, okay, I didn't sorry about horror. Horror. I

2539
01:51:29,880 --> 01:51:32,360
Speaker 2: can see if if you start to think about it

2540
01:51:32,360 --> 01:51:33,840
Speaker 2: and obsessed over it a little too much, you're gonna

2541
01:51:33,880 --> 01:51:37,960
Speaker 2: drive yourself nuts, but you're excited. I mean, it's okay

2542
01:51:38,000 --> 01:51:40,680
Speaker 2: to I don't know, Don't get me wrong. I've been

2543
01:51:40,680 --> 01:51:44,719
Speaker 2: married several years now, you know, and uh, that feeling

2544
01:51:44,760 --> 01:51:47,840
Speaker 2: you get the butterflies when you're in the dating world,

2545
01:51:48,760 --> 01:51:51,080
Speaker 2: you kind of forget what that feels like after you've

2546
01:51:51,160 --> 01:51:52,639
Speaker 2: been in a relationship for a while.

2547
01:51:52,439 --> 01:51:57,880
Speaker 12: Right, And yeah, it makes me really happy though it should.

2548
01:51:58,080 --> 01:52:00,720
Speaker 2: This is awesome. Good for you, I'm I mean, you

2549
01:52:00,760 --> 01:52:03,040
Speaker 2: know you deserve happiness no matter how you get it,

2550
01:52:03,200 --> 01:52:05,320
Speaker 2: dating or not dating. You know, it's it's totally up

2551
01:52:05,320 --> 01:52:08,800
Speaker 2: to you. But yeah, here's the other thing. Oh god,

2552
01:52:08,840 --> 01:52:10,880
Speaker 2: I don't want to like put wood on the on

2553
01:52:10,960 --> 01:52:14,559
Speaker 2: the fire here. It's when you meet someone and you know,

2554
01:52:14,800 --> 01:52:16,320
Speaker 2: you know you want to take it slow. You want

2555
01:52:16,360 --> 01:52:19,439
Speaker 2: to just like be careful with it. You know, you

2556
01:52:19,439 --> 01:52:20,880
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. You just like you don't want

2557
01:52:20,880 --> 01:52:23,800
Speaker 2: to rush into anything crazy. At the same time, you know,

2558
01:52:23,840 --> 01:52:25,360
Speaker 2: when you start to kind of fall for someone a

2559
01:52:25,360 --> 01:52:27,080
Speaker 2: little bit, and you're way too early for this in

2560
01:52:27,120 --> 01:52:30,360
Speaker 2: this situation, But when you start falling for someone, I

2561
01:52:30,439 --> 01:52:32,320
Speaker 2: remember that feeling used to get going. Oh god, I've

2562
01:52:32,360 --> 01:52:35,080
Speaker 2: talked to myself out loud don't don't do this. Don't

2563
01:52:35,080 --> 01:52:37,559
Speaker 2: give him your heart. They're gonna they're gonna stomp on it.

2564
01:52:38,240 --> 01:52:42,559
Speaker 4: Don't seriously, you open you Actually, as the song goes,

2565
01:52:42,640 --> 01:52:44,120
Speaker 4: you give them your heart to break.

2566
01:52:44,200 --> 01:52:47,360
Speaker 2: You know, you're like, okay, oh yeah, no turning back.

2567
01:52:47,439 --> 01:52:49,719
Speaker 2: And I know you're not there yet. But the excitement

2568
01:52:49,720 --> 01:52:51,559
Speaker 2: of just getting out there and getting to know someone

2569
01:52:52,040 --> 01:52:53,280
Speaker 2: like that, what do you guys think? What do you

2570
01:52:53,280 --> 01:52:54,719
Speaker 2: think Gandhi? Really?

2571
01:52:54,840 --> 01:52:56,960
Speaker 3: Have you googled him? Do you know anything about him

2572
01:52:56,960 --> 01:52:58,960
Speaker 3: that you're not supposed to know yet?

2573
01:53:00,280 --> 01:53:03,920
Speaker 12: Actually? I haven't googled him, but my roommate has told

2574
01:53:03,920 --> 01:53:08,839
Speaker 12: me a bunch about him because they're both in different bands,

2575
01:53:09,080 --> 01:53:12,240
Speaker 12: so they play it, you know, the same shows and

2576
01:53:12,280 --> 01:53:14,400
Speaker 12: stuff together. So he's told me a little bit about them.

2577
01:53:14,400 --> 01:53:16,559
Speaker 3: Okay, so we think he's safe and he's okay because

2578
01:53:16,600 --> 01:53:17,920
Speaker 3: you have some mutual friends.

2579
01:53:17,920 --> 01:53:18,400
Speaker 5: Maybe.

2580
01:53:19,400 --> 01:53:23,320
Speaker 12: Yeah, he has a really good job from what I've

2581
01:53:23,360 --> 01:53:26,599
Speaker 12: been told and whatnot. So and he likes cats, which

2582
01:53:26,640 --> 01:53:29,479
Speaker 12: is a big thing for me. So yeah, so far,

2583
01:53:29,640 --> 01:53:30,040
Speaker 12: so good.

2584
01:53:30,439 --> 01:53:33,360
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, and he's a musician. What could go wrong?

2585
01:53:33,520 --> 01:53:38,360
Speaker 8: Yeah, he doesn't try the popcorn trip check while they're

2586
01:53:38,360 --> 01:53:40,040
Speaker 8: at the movie, The oh my god.

2587
01:53:40,200 --> 01:53:45,320
Speaker 16: Yeah, oh my god, the movie theater with scissors. You know,

2588
01:53:45,360 --> 01:53:46,960
Speaker 16: we've got a problem. He's cutting a hole in the

2589
01:53:46,960 --> 01:53:49,120
Speaker 16: bottom of the bucket. All right, all right, I don't

2590
01:53:49,120 --> 01:53:51,080
Speaker 16: know what the slips, slippery slope to hell.

2591
01:53:51,360 --> 01:53:52,240
Speaker 2: We're trying to have a good time.

2592
01:53:52,320 --> 01:53:53,920
Speaker 1: He's like, why did I call them?

2593
01:53:54,320 --> 01:53:56,719
Speaker 2: Well, lindsay, you know, I've bet a lot of people

2594
01:53:56,760 --> 01:53:58,880
Speaker 2: listening right now are going. I think exactly what we're

2595
01:53:58,880 --> 01:54:01,360
Speaker 2: thinking about. That the butterfly in the stomach, excitement about

2596
01:54:01,360 --> 01:54:02,920
Speaker 2: going on on a date. I think it's so cool.

2597
01:54:03,200 --> 01:54:03,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, awesome.

2598
01:54:03,880 --> 01:54:06,559
Speaker 2: And you know what with a date, without a date,

2599
01:54:07,280 --> 01:54:09,920
Speaker 2: a life in a relationship or a life with friends, whatever,

2600
01:54:10,320 --> 01:54:12,360
Speaker 2: your happiness is all that matters. And so you look

2601
01:54:12,400 --> 01:54:14,920
Speaker 2: out for number one. You get out there and you

2602
01:54:15,000 --> 01:54:16,599
Speaker 2: own it. Girl, you have a great time.

2603
01:54:16,640 --> 01:54:19,800
Speaker 12: Okay, all right, thank you. I'll let you guys know

2604
01:54:19,840 --> 01:54:20,559
Speaker 12: how it goes.

2605
01:54:20,920 --> 01:54:24,120
Speaker 2: Please do absolutely. Yeah, well maybe we should go with you.

2606
01:54:24,160 --> 01:54:25,160
Speaker 2: Where are you going now you're.

2607
01:54:26,880 --> 01:54:27,880
Speaker 3: Sitting at the other table.

2608
01:54:28,439 --> 01:54:29,840
Speaker 2: Thank you, Lindsea. You have a great day. Thanks for

2609
01:54:29,880 --> 01:54:33,920
Speaker 2: listening to us. All right, let's go, let's go do something.

2610
01:54:34,000 --> 01:54:36,120
Speaker 2: Let's do something with our life, something productive other than

2611
01:54:36,120 --> 01:54:38,200
Speaker 2: what we've been doing for the past four hours. Till

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Speaker 2: next time. See peace out. Everybody PA everybody,