WEBVTT - Eight Seconds in Afghanistan: The Quick Heroism of Florent Groberg

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<v Speaker 2>Since the dawn of time, running has been an act

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<v Speaker 2>of escape. People ran to evade wild animals, to flee

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<v Speaker 2>from warring tribes. Even in the modern world, we run

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<v Speaker 2>to get away from things, the stresses of the job,

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<v Speaker 2>the confinement of our apartments, the bang of trailing bloodhounds.

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<v Speaker 2>But what you're about to hear is a story about

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<v Speaker 2>someone who did the exact opposite. He defied the thousands

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<v Speaker 2>of years of primal wiring telling us to run from

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<v Speaker 2>danger and instead ran towards it, sprinted into harm's way

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<v Speaker 2>without thinking to help another. I'm excited to share this

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<v Speaker 2>story with you. Thanks for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had a feeling in your gut that

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<v Speaker 1>something was off, a sense of quiet that doesn't feel right,

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<v Speaker 1>a movement at the edge of your vision that seems

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<v Speaker 1>out of place, or just a weird vibration in the air.

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<v Speaker 1>Florent Groberg had that feeling.

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<v Speaker 3>I know there's something wrong, There's something that I can't

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<v Speaker 3>put my finger on about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I just don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was August eighth, twenty twelve, and Flow was in

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<v Speaker 1>the Kunar province of Afghanistan. He was in charge of

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<v Speaker 1>security for a colonel and other army officials. He and

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<v Speaker 1>his team were escorting this group of VIP through a

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<v Speaker 1>small city towards a meeting with local leaders. Flow was

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<v Speaker 1>twenty nine, a dark haired, dark eyed guy, just shy,

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<v Speaker 1>is six feet tall. He done walks like this one

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<v Speaker 1>for months. It was his job to be on high alert,

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<v Speaker 1>scanning everyone and everything. The air was hot and dry.

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<v Speaker 1>The dusty road curved along a river which shimmered in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning light. Rugged mountains loomed in the distance. The

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<v Speaker 1>meeting wasn't far away, a little over half a mile,

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<v Speaker 1>but as the group walked the sun baked streets, it

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<v Speaker 1>felt like the air was crackling with tension. The team

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<v Speaker 1>moved away from the river. Following the road through town,

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<v Speaker 1>they passed run down buildings and abandoned cars, groups of

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<v Speaker 1>people shopping and walking, and then Flow saw a young

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<v Speaker 1>man dressed in black traditional clothes heading in their direction.

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<v Speaker 1>That's normal, it was a busy city, a busy day.

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<v Speaker 1>But this guy was walking backwards and he was getting closer.

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<v Speaker 3>He just was out of place. I remember thinking, where

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<v Speaker 3>did you come from?

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<v Speaker 4>What is going on here? And at that point everything changes.

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<v Speaker 1>The young man turned and faced them, and Flora Groberg

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<v Speaker 1>began to run. I'm j R. Martinez and this is

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<v Speaker 1>Medal of Honor Stories of Courage. The Medal of Honor

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<v Speaker 1>is the highest military decoration in the United States. It's

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<v Speaker 1>awarded for gallantry and bravery and combat at the risk

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<v Speaker 1>of life, above and beyond the call of duty. Each

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<v Speaker 1>candidate must be approved all the way up the chain

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<v Speaker 1>of command, from the supervisory officer in the field to

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<v Speaker 1>the White House. This show is about those heroes, what

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<v Speaker 1>they did, what it meant, and what their stories tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the nature of courage and sacrifice. Flow Groberg's

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<v Speaker 1>action in Afghanistan is a classic Medal of Honor story.

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<v Speaker 1>Incredible bravery, a decision to put his life on the

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<v Speaker 1>line and check this out. It all took place in

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<v Speaker 1>just eight seconds. But there's another thing about Flow. He

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<v Speaker 1>was a super talented runner, a Division I college athlete.

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<v Speaker 1>He could run a mile in a little over four minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>I can only do that in my car. But why

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<v Speaker 1>does that matter? Hear me out? There's something really inspiring

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<v Speaker 1>about elite runners. Some of it comes from how they're built,

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<v Speaker 1>how their bodies consume oxygen, their stamina, their leg muscles.

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<v Speaker 1>You could be borne with the raw materials to be fast,

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<v Speaker 1>but you won't get fast. You won't reach that potential

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<v Speaker 1>without work, a grinding focus to push your body harder,

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<v Speaker 1>do the reps, take the strides, go further than you

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<v Speaker 1>think you possibly can. Listen. I've done a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>distance running, and there's plenty of times where the body

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<v Speaker 1>tells the mind okay, let's just quit now. But you

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<v Speaker 1>make it through the pain and you keep going. You

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<v Speaker 1>keep the promise you made to yourself. That's how you

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<v Speaker 1>get as fast as Flow grow Berg, and that speed

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<v Speaker 1>would be the difference between life and death. Even though

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<v Speaker 1>he would become a decorated American soldier. Flow Groberg was

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<v Speaker 1>actually born in France. He was raised in a suburb

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<v Speaker 1>of Paris to a mom from Algeria and a biological dad.

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<v Speaker 1>He never knew. He adored his mom. They were super close,

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<v Speaker 1>but there were two men who really shaped him growing up.

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<v Speaker 1>The first was his uncle, Abdu. Flow's mom had a

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<v Speaker 1>big Muslim family back in Algeria, and she took Flow

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<v Speaker 1>to visit them often. Flow and her brother, Abdu had

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<v Speaker 1>a tight bond.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody has that one individual that did drawn to and

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<v Speaker 3>they want to be around him, and that's what I

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<v Speaker 3>was towards this man. I just thought he was just

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<v Speaker 3>as a kid, I thought he was incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>Abdu was an he mom, a Muslim cleric, and he

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<v Speaker 1>taught Flow about the things that meant the most to him,

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<v Speaker 1>doing good, standing up for what's right. The other man

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<v Speaker 1>in Flow's life was his stepfather, Larry. Larry met Flow

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<v Speaker 1>when he was three and instantly became his dad.

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<v Speaker 3>He took me in as his son, even though I

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't his blood Swedish background, so he looked completely different

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<v Speaker 3>than me.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, he's about sixty.

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<v Speaker 3>Two, blonde, green eyes, so people were always confused when

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<v Speaker 3>I said, Hey, that's my dad. He gave me his name,

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<v Speaker 3>and he taught me how to be the person that

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<v Speaker 3>I am today. He just taught me how to be

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<v Speaker 3>a good person, because he's a great person. Probably the

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<v Speaker 3>most important part about him is that he was always

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<v Speaker 3>there for me. If there's a hero that I have,

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<v Speaker 3>it's going to be him.

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<v Speaker 1>Larry was American, and when Flow was eleven, the family

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<v Speaker 1>moved to the States. Flow was psyched. It was hard

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<v Speaker 1>to learn the language at first, but he stepped up fast.

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<v Speaker 1>They lived in Bethesda, Maryland, just outside of Washington, d c.

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<v Speaker 3>By the time I was in high school, I was

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<v Speaker 3>bought in. I was sold I knew at that point

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<v Speaker 3>that I would rather stay in the United States one

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<v Speaker 3>hundred times out one hundred over going back to France.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow became a naturalized citizen, but in the meantime, life

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<v Speaker 1>for his family in Algeria had gotten incredibly hard. A

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<v Speaker 1>radical Islamist group known as the GIA was terrorizing innocent civilians,

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<v Speaker 1>and so Flow's uncle Abdu changed this path.

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<v Speaker 3>When these terrorists came in, he left his role as

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<v Speaker 3>an e mom and he joined the army.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>During the cease fire in February nineteen ninety six, he

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<v Speaker 3>was shot.

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<v Speaker 4>He was beheaded.

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<v Speaker 3>He was dismembered, and he was putting a box he

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<v Speaker 3>sent back to my grandfather, warning that anybody that defires

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<v Speaker 3>their beliefs, they would be killed.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow was twelve when Larry sat him down and told

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<v Speaker 1>him the news.

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<v Speaker 3>My reaction was just anger, and I went into my room.

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<v Speaker 3>I picked up all my toys that I had collected

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<v Speaker 3>over the years on my Gi Joe's, and I put

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<v Speaker 3>them in a bag and I took them to the trash.

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<v Speaker 4>That's the last time I played with toys pretending to

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<v Speaker 4>be military.

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<v Speaker 3>The next time I would pretend to be military, I

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<v Speaker 3>would actually be military and wear the uniform myself.

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<v Speaker 1>He made a promise to himself he would join the

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<v Speaker 1>United States Army. At first, he considered enlisting right after

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<v Speaker 1>high school, but then he discovered that he could run,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean really run. He was among the best distance

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<v Speaker 1>runners in the state, and he was recruited to the

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<v Speaker 1>cross country and track teams at the University of Maryland.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a great team player, fast on his own,

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<v Speaker 1>but even faster when he was running a relay, passing

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<v Speaker 1>the baton to a member of his squad. Competitive running

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<v Speaker 1>is all about grit, and Flow knew that every long

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<v Speaker 1>training day, every hill workout could shave a second or

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<v Speaker 1>two office times. But then nine to eleven happened and

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<v Speaker 1>Flow's life shifted again.

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<v Speaker 3>I remember being very emotional, just like the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>this country was very angry, confused, and in disbelief. I

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<v Speaker 3>remember having comes to my father telling him, I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to drop out of school and I'm going to go

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<v Speaker 3>join the units's army. I'm going to come an army

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<v Speaker 3>ranger because i want to find, fix, and destroy these individuals.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to be a part of the solution.

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<v Speaker 1>But his father wasn't having it. Flow had made a

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<v Speaker 1>commitment to his school and to his running teams, and

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<v Speaker 1>his dad reminded Flow, Grobergs don't quit.

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<v Speaker 4>When you start something, you finish it. That's what Grobergs do.

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<v Speaker 3>Because if you find an excuse to quit and drop

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<v Speaker 3>out of school because you are angry at the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that he's individuals that this to our country, you will

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<v Speaker 3>always find an excuse to quit everything that you.

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<v Speaker 4>Start in life.

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<v Speaker 3>If you quit now, you will quit on the army,

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<v Speaker 3>you quit on yourself, you will quit in relationships, you

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<v Speaker 3>will quit in everything you start. But if you learn

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<v Speaker 3>to push on and accomplish whatever task that you started.

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<v Speaker 4>No long run, you will be successful.

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<v Speaker 1>So Flow stayed in school. He got even faster, but

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<v Speaker 1>as soon as he graduated, he began sprinting towards his

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<v Speaker 1>dream of joining the army. But he hit a hurdle

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<v Speaker 1>right out of the gate. In order to get the

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<v Speaker 1>security clearance to become an army officer, he had to

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<v Speaker 1>renounce his French citizenship. He was happy to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>but the paperwork took more than a year. Once that

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<v Speaker 1>was behind him, he went to officer training and then

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<v Speaker 1>Ranger School, one of the toughest programs in the military.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember being at Basic training and we would be

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<v Speaker 1>on runs and the drill sergeant would lead us in

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<v Speaker 1>these cadences about being a ranger and Airborne. Have so

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<v Speaker 1>much respect for those guys that go through that program.

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<v Speaker 1>And here's a crazy thing. Remember Sal Junta from last season.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow was in Ranger school with Eric Gayaddo, the sergeant

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<v Speaker 1>who was on that hill in Afghanistan with Sal. When

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<v Speaker 1>Flow was feeling like he couldn't hack it, Gayadado kept

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<v Speaker 1>him going. They both made it through. Of the three

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<v Speaker 1>hundred plus soldiers in his original Ranger school class, only

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<v Speaker 1>sixty nine of them graduated, and by two thousand and nine,

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<v Speaker 1>Flow was in Afghanistan. He was a lieutenant, which meant

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<v Speaker 1>he was leading troops for the first time.

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<v Speaker 4>I wanted to go out there and fight for what

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<v Speaker 4>I believed in.

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<v Speaker 3>But when I got there and someone told me, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>by the way, you're in charge of twenty four lives.

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<v Speaker 3>Make the right decisions and make sure that you're right

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<v Speaker 3>type of leader for these men, because their lives are

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<v Speaker 3>in your hands.

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<v Speaker 4>That changed the whole ballgame.

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<v Speaker 3>It was no longer about me, It was about them,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was about accomplish in a mission.

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<v Speaker 1>They were stationed near the border with Pakistan and a

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<v Speaker 1>valley controlled by the Taliban. The action was really lentless

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<v Speaker 1>and lethal. His tour was two hundred and seventeen days long,

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<v Speaker 1>and during that timeframe his platoon engaged with the enemy

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<v Speaker 1>more than two hundred times. That deployment ended then in

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<v Speaker 1>February of twenty twelve, less than two years later, he

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<v Speaker 1>was back in Afghanistan. By now he was a first

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<v Speaker 1>lieutenant assigned to the fourth Infantry Brigade Combat Team. His

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<v Speaker 1>job was to coordinate all air and ground movements for

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<v Speaker 1>Colonel James Mingus as he traveled the country for high

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<v Speaker 1>level meetings with Afghan leaders.

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<v Speaker 4>The job was simple.

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<v Speaker 3>I organized travels around a different forty five outstations and

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<v Speaker 3>five provinces for the boss, and once we got on station,

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<v Speaker 3>I ran his security.

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<v Speaker 1>When they walked to meetings, Flow and his men would

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<v Speaker 1>surround Mingus and any other VIPs in a diamond formation.

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<v Speaker 1>Their only job was to protect them, literally using their

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<v Speaker 1>bodies as human shields. They were always escorted by a

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<v Speaker 1>perimeter team of US soldiers. If they were attacked or

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<v Speaker 1>in danger, that escort team would stay behind and fight.

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<v Speaker 3>In case we took fire from the enemy, my job

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<v Speaker 3>was to collapse in diamond take them to safety while

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<v Speaker 3>the twelve to fifteen escort all fought the enemy and

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<v Speaker 3>allow us to maneuver out of the engagement area.

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<v Speaker 4>So for six months, this was the easiest job in

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<v Speaker 4>the world.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to see Afghanistan from a completely different perspective,

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<v Speaker 3>and I got to see the bigger picture, and I

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<v Speaker 3>loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>Then came August eighth. Flow had just gotten the news

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<v Speaker 1>he was approved for promotion. It would be his very

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<v Speaker 1>first day as a captain in the army, but it

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<v Speaker 1>would also be the worst day of his life. For

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<v Speaker 1>Flora Groberg, august A, twenty twelve started out the way

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<v Speaker 1>he was expecting. Busy, but not crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>We were going to the Kunat Provincial Security meeting. It

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<v Speaker 3>happened every once at ten o'clock for years.

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<v Speaker 1>That day Flow and his team would be protecting more

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<v Speaker 1>than just Colonel Mingus. There were extra high ranking officers

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<v Speaker 1>in the group, two battalion commanders, two brigade commanders, two

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<v Speaker 1>sergeant majors, and an Afghan National Army general, plus a

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<v Speaker 1>State Department diplomat and a Foreign Service officer from USAID.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the sergeant majors was Kevin Griffin. Flow and

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<v Speaker 1>Griffin were really close. He was Flow's mentor. He had

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<v Speaker 1>a huge presence, confident but caring, plus incredible experience six

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<v Speaker 1>combat deployments to four different war zones. He had a

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<v Speaker 1>wife and two kids waiting for him stateside. Another of

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<v Speaker 1>the group was Major David Gray, an Air Force officer

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<v Speaker 1>who Flow also knew well. Biggest smile in the world

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<v Speaker 1>with him was Major Tom Kennedy. He'd been in Afghanistan

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<v Speaker 1>for less than two weeks, but he was an elite soldier.

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<v Speaker 1>Both of those men had families too. The group landed

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<v Speaker 1>at Ford Operating based FIAS and Assadabad, and right away

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<v Speaker 1>things were off.

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<v Speaker 4>When we got there.

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<v Speaker 3>That outer security element that I always requested for, it

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't there. They had left fifteen minutes prior, and I

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<v Speaker 3>guess they had walked through our route and cleared it,

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<v Speaker 3>but they didn't secure it. By secure, I mean they left.

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<v Speaker 3>It's one on one, right rule, one on one. Once

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<v Speaker 3>you clear an area, if you leave, it is no

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<v Speaker 3>longer clear.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow and his team were only supposed to protect the VIPs.

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<v Speaker 1>If anything bad happened, they would take them to safety,

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<v Speaker 1>not fight the enemy. That role was supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>for the perimeter team. But now there wasn't a perimeter team,

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<v Speaker 1>not really. Where there were usually twelve to fifteen US

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<v Speaker 1>soldiers today there were just two plus an American contractor.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow and his guys would have to play offense and defense.

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<v Speaker 3>And so I took in some Afghan National Army that

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<v Speaker 3>were stationed at the base, and I put him up

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<v Speaker 3>front of my patrol and I sped them out a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit, and I switched the way we were configured

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<v Speaker 3>for the first time in six months.

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<v Speaker 4>I just didn't feel comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>I think part of it is I had so much

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<v Speaker 3>leadership in this patrol and such little security that in

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<v Speaker 3>the back of my head, I'm like, I don't like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow positioned himself at the very top of the diamond.

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<v Speaker 1>He was usually at the rear. The VIPs would be

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle, except for Sarte Major Kevin Griffin. He

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<v Speaker 1>saw what Flow was up against and he insisted on

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<v Speaker 1>going to the back of the formation to help with

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<v Speaker 1>the rear guard. The Afghan soldiers would be at the

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<v Speaker 1>very top in front of the diamond. That way, Flow

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<v Speaker 1>and his men could keep their eyes on them too,

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<v Speaker 1>not that they didn't trust them, but things were dicey.

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<v Speaker 1>They started their walkthrough with Sadabad. It was about one

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<v Speaker 1>thousand meters to the Governor's compound where the meeting was

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<v Speaker 1>being held. The road traveled along the side of a

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<v Speaker 1>river and then it curved in towards town and a

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<v Speaker 1>small bridge.

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<v Speaker 3>As we maneuver through, everything was going well for about

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<v Speaker 3>seven hundre years. We're about to reach that bridge when

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<v Speaker 3>two motorcycles come from in front of us and they're

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<v Speaker 3>going fast. We're going kind of looking forward, thinking like

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<v Speaker 3>what the heck African National Army guy a point of

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<v Speaker 3>our patrol did a heck of a job. Raiser's rifle

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<v Speaker 3>started screaming at the guy. Guys dumped their bikes and

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<v Speaker 3>started running away. Now that guy on Afgan National Army

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<v Speaker 3>started chasing.

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<v Speaker 1>Them, Flow in his team instantly raised their own rifles.

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<v Speaker 1>The motorcycles had them spooted, and suddenly Flow noticed something else.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a structures who are left and a kid

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<v Speaker 3>walked out a structure when the motorcycles were coming.

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<v Speaker 1>The kid, in his late teens or early twenties, was

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<v Speaker 1>dressed in flowing black clothes. He sort of stumbled out

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<v Speaker 1>of the building, almost as if he was drunk. Normally,

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<v Speaker 1>the escort team would have stopped him, but today there

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<v Speaker 1>was no escort.

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<v Speaker 4>And he was walking backwards pallel to our patrol. It

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<v Speaker 4>looked suspicious. Obviously he's a threat.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't see any weapon, But when he did a onet

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<v Speaker 3>eighty and then another ninety degree turn and cut into

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<v Speaker 3>our patrol, I knew at that point that there was

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<v Speaker 3>something really fishy about what was going on, so I

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<v Speaker 3>started yelling at him.

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<v Speaker 1>The kid was just twenty or third thirty feet away,

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<v Speaker 1>so without even really thinking about it, Flow started sprinting

0:19:15.981 --> 0:19:17.821
<v Speaker 1>his runner's instincts kicked in.

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<v Speaker 3>I went towards him as fast that I could. I

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<v Speaker 3>yelled at him, no response. He never even looked at me.

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<v Speaker 1>It only took a heartbeat for him to reach the kit,

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<v Speaker 1>but it felt like an eternity.

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<v Speaker 3>When I got to him, I hit him my rifle

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<v Speaker 3>real hard across the chest, and I remember thinking, oh goodness,

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<v Speaker 3>what is this? Is there something you know's what's on hand?

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<v Speaker 3>So I let go of my rifle, which was slung

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<v Speaker 3>to my kit, and I grabbed him by the chest.

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<v Speaker 3>That's when I realized, okay, this is a suicide vest.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow placed his hands on the guy's chest and started

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<v Speaker 1>shoving him back away from the formation.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't care about my well being because I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to make sure he was far away as possible, as

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<v Speaker 3>quickly as possible from everybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>The suicide bomber had attached a fake right hand to

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<v Speaker 1>the outside of his clothes to hide the fact that

0:20:07.581 --> 0:20:11.221
<v Speaker 1>his right arm was actually tucked inside with his thumb

0:20:11.301 --> 0:20:14.340
<v Speaker 1>pressing a trigger. All he had to do was release

0:20:14.421 --> 0:20:18.101
<v Speaker 1>the button and the bomb would go off. By now,

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<v Speaker 1>one of Flow's team members, Sergeant Andrew Mahoney, had run

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<v Speaker 1>to Flow side. The two men pushed the bomber as

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<v Speaker 1>hard as they could, trying to get him.

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<v Speaker 3>Back, and so I just threw him as fire as

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<v Speaker 3>I could, And when he landed at my feet, he detonated.

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<v Speaker 1>A massive cloud of fire and dust and shrapnel filled

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<v Speaker 1>the air. The explosion shook the city, but for a

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<v Speaker 1>few moments, FLOW heard and felt nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Everything went black, and he threw me about twenty feet

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<v Speaker 3>right side of the road. I've been waking up thinking

0:20:57.941 --> 0:21:04.141
<v Speaker 3>what just happened. My head was just on fire, you know, spinning,

0:21:04.221 --> 0:21:07.661
<v Speaker 3>And so I took my helmet. All the straps were loose,

0:21:07.741 --> 0:21:11.821
<v Speaker 3>my helmet, took my pilmmet through it. We're looking at myself.

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<v Speaker 3>There's blood everywhere and blood over myself. And I saw

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<v Speaker 3>my leg. My foot's facing me. My fibula was sticking out.

0:21:19.141 --> 0:21:21.461
<v Speaker 3>It felt like my leg was melting, but I couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>feel anything. So I remember looking at my leg and thinking, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>this is not good. Now.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember closing my eyes coming back. Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 4>not a dream, this is reality. I got hit.

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<v Speaker 1>He knew one thing, a suicide bombing was usually part

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<v Speaker 1>of a larger attack. More was probably coming.

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<v Speaker 3>Started thinking all right, and I am in a kill

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<v Speaker 3>zone and this is going to be followed up by

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<v Speaker 3>a small arms fire. I was in that bush, so

0:21:46.541 --> 0:21:48.461
<v Speaker 3>I remember looking for my rifle. I couldn't find my rifle.

0:21:48.741 --> 0:21:50.981
<v Speaker 3>I took out my pistol. I made sure I had

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<v Speaker 3>a round in the chamber, and I started dragging myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Out, dragging himself across the dusty street, pistol in hand,

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<v Speaker 1>still trying to do his job. But then out of

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<v Speaker 1>the cloud of smoke, one of his sergeants came running.

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<v Speaker 1>He dragged Flowed to a ditch to safety, and as

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<v Speaker 1>the medic put a tourniquet around his leg, Flow could

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<v Speaker 1>only think of one thing, the people he was there

0:22:16.261 --> 0:22:20.421
<v Speaker 1>to protect, so he asked where they were. Colonel Mingus

0:22:20.501 --> 0:22:25.461
<v Speaker 1>was safe, Okay, just a concussion. The Sergeant Major, Kevin Griffin,

0:22:26.061 --> 0:22:29.461
<v Speaker 1>Flow's friend, his mentor, was gone.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's when I got really, really angry, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was just confused. How why no, I don't believe this.

0:22:38.781 --> 0:22:40.661
<v Speaker 3>I need to see this. Get me out of his ditch,

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<v Speaker 3>Get me up. I got a good leg, I can

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<v Speaker 3>hop as I'm walking with them towards where Sar Major

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<v Speaker 3>was at. There was a leg right here to the

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<v Speaker 3>right it was just also blood everywhere, bodies, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was just thinking, like, what the heck just happened?

0:22:57.741 --> 0:23:00.781
<v Speaker 4>And when I got to SA Major, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Noticed he wasn't alone, and he was laying there with

0:23:04.301 --> 0:23:08.581
<v Speaker 3>Major Gray, Major Kennedy, and then one of the USAID individuals,

0:23:08.621 --> 0:23:10.340
<v Speaker 3>Reggae a Delfata.

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<v Speaker 1>They were lion in a circle in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>the street.

0:23:14.581 --> 0:23:18.860
<v Speaker 3>And they were all killed in action. And that's when

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<v Speaker 3>my life changed again.

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<v Speaker 1>Almost everyone on the twenty eight man patrol had been

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<v Speaker 1>hit in the explosion. Four had died. It was terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>but it could have been so much worse because Flow

0:23:35.981 --> 0:23:40.261
<v Speaker 1>had done two things. He moved the explosion further from

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<v Speaker 1>the group, and he caused it to happen on the

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<v Speaker 1>ground instead of the open air, where it would have

0:23:46.341 --> 0:23:50.461
<v Speaker 1>caused more damage. Plus, while Flow didn't know this at

0:23:50.461 --> 0:23:54.701
<v Speaker 1>the time, there had been a second suicide bomber. The

0:23:54.781 --> 0:23:58.100
<v Speaker 1>first explosion caused the second one to detonate before it

0:23:58.141 --> 0:24:02.461
<v Speaker 1>was in place. Had both gone off as planned, who

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<v Speaker 1>knows how many more would have been killed, But none

0:24:06.901 --> 0:24:10.541
<v Speaker 1>of that mattered to Flow. He had lost his friends,

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<v Speaker 1>the people he was there to protect.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how to describe a fils I had

0:24:16.341 --> 0:24:23.301
<v Speaker 3>at that specific moment, But you can definitely combine anger, fury, sadness, devastation,

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<v Speaker 3>everything into one ball of just suck. That would be

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<v Speaker 3>the last time I would ever be in combat as

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<v Speaker 3>an army guy. That would be the last time I

0:24:33.861 --> 0:24:36.061
<v Speaker 3>would ever lead men in combat, would be the last

0:24:36.061 --> 0:24:39.461
<v Speaker 3>time I'd ever wear a uniform in combat, And so

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<v Speaker 3>my entire life changing him out of eight seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>Two days after the suicide bombing and the Sadabad Flogrolberg

0:25:01.021 --> 0:25:05.741
<v Speaker 1>opened his eyes. He wasn't sure what he was looking at.

0:25:06.141 --> 0:25:08.620
<v Speaker 1>He knew he had tubes coming out of him. He

0:25:08.661 --> 0:25:11.421
<v Speaker 1>assumed he was in the hospital. That would makes sense,

0:25:12.461 --> 0:25:15.221
<v Speaker 1>But there was also a guy with long dreadlocks and

0:25:15.301 --> 0:25:20.101
<v Speaker 1>tattoos standing over him, staring into his eyes. That made

0:25:20.181 --> 0:25:24.461
<v Speaker 1>literally no sense at all, because that guy looked just

0:25:24.781 --> 0:25:28.541
<v Speaker 1>like the lead singer of one of Flow's favorite bands.

0:25:29.221 --> 0:25:34.901
<v Speaker 1>Flow thought he was hallucinating. Well he wasn't. Jonathan Davis,

0:25:35.141 --> 0:25:38.821
<v Speaker 1>the lead singer of Korn, was really there in the

0:25:38.901 --> 0:25:44.141
<v Speaker 1>hospital in Germany. Korn happened to be touring with the USO.

0:25:44.821 --> 0:25:49.501
<v Speaker 1>Davis's grandfathers had both served in the military. I mean,

0:25:50.181 --> 0:25:53.941
<v Speaker 1>who knew, He told Flow that he was proud of

0:25:53.981 --> 0:25:57.901
<v Speaker 1>him and that everyone was rooting for him. Flow needed

0:25:57.901 --> 0:26:01.061
<v Speaker 1>to hear it because the next day was Flow's first surgery,

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<v Speaker 1>which would be followed by many many more, all to

0:26:04.661 --> 0:26:08.981
<v Speaker 1>try to save his leg. From Germany, Flow was sent

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<v Speaker 1>to Maryland. On the long flight overseas, he wrote apology

0:26:13.461 --> 0:26:15.421
<v Speaker 1>letters to the families of the men who had died

0:26:15.501 --> 0:26:20.501
<v Speaker 1>or been wounded. He felt responsible for their losses. His

0:26:20.701 --> 0:26:26.941
<v Speaker 1>entire action had only taken eight seconds, but he kept thinking,

0:26:27.421 --> 0:26:28.581
<v Speaker 1>why wasn't I faster?

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<v Speaker 3>You love the men to your right, to you left,

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<v Speaker 3>to your front of your ear, with everything that you

0:26:36.621 --> 0:26:37.181
<v Speaker 3>have inside.

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<v Speaker 4>You're willing to die for him. You will to die

0:26:39.661 --> 0:26:40.341
<v Speaker 4>for your country.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want to die, obviously, but as part of responsibility,

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<v Speaker 3>it's part of reality. I just did my job. Every

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<v Speaker 3>single one of my guys did their job. They all

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<v Speaker 3>went out there and were incredible. And that's it. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just the reality of it. I tell you what, I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't do the job well enough, because for my brothers

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<v Speaker 3>died and so to me it will always be a failure.

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<v Speaker 1>He went to Walter Read Hospital and over the next

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<v Speaker 1>few months he had twenty seven surgeries to save his leg.

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<v Speaker 1>He was we were totally sure whether it would still

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<v Speaker 1>be attached when he woke up. He never slept more

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<v Speaker 1>than a few hours at a time, but when he

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<v Speaker 1>did sleep, he was back in the side of body

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at the suicide bomber. Being awake wasn't much better.

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<v Speaker 1>The guilt was overwhelming, but slowly, over time he started

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<v Speaker 1>to realize something important. But the second chance at life came,

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<v Speaker 1>the opportunity for another change, a new opportunity to do

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<v Speaker 1>good in the world, even though he was no longer

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<v Speaker 1>a soldier in combat.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I have the responsibility to live my life to

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<v Speaker 3>the best of my abilities for the rest of my

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<v Speaker 3>days and make sure that iron it every single day.

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<v Speaker 3>He's a reminder that I am on bard time. My

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<v Speaker 3>life is no longer just mine. It represents my fourth

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<v Speaker 3>brothers that didn't come home, and you know what it

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<v Speaker 3>represents all the guys prior to that who didn't come home.

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<v Speaker 1>He made a new promise to himself. He decided to

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<v Speaker 1>be better for them.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not changing the world every day, but every day

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<v Speaker 3>I tried to do something positive in the world, and

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<v Speaker 3>I hope that eventually that builds up to me being

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<v Speaker 3>a good person and earning the effect that I'm still

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<v Speaker 3>in dissert.

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<v Speaker 1>He would be in and out of Walter Reed for

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<v Speaker 1>the next two and a half years. The doctors did

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<v Speaker 1>save his leg, but the damage was permanent. His ankle

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<v Speaker 1>was fused in place, unable to move the same way,

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<v Speaker 1>but he started to move forward. After all, Grobergs don't

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<v Speaker 1>quit right. He was thrilled when Sergeant Andrew Mahoney received

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<v Speaker 1>a silver Star for his actions that day, but Flow

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<v Speaker 1>never wanted recognition for himself.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't care about medals. I don't want to medal.

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to go on my life, so I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't hear anything. And I left the Army on July

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<v Speaker 3>twenty third, twenty fifteen, with nothing, and that was good

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<v Speaker 3>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>He joined the Department of Defense. He went back to

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<v Speaker 1>get his master's degree, and then he met Carson Ze,

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<v Speaker 1>a gorgeous, dark haired girl who is the friend of

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<v Speaker 1>a friend.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a group of girls sitting in this satio and

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<v Speaker 3>one of them drops her phone, so I pick it up.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna give it to look at him like wow, okay, hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, and that was it. They had just started planning

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<v Speaker 1>to move in together when he got a call in

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<v Speaker 1>September of twenty fifteen on the phone. Barack Obama, the President,

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<v Speaker 1>was calling to tell Flow that he would be a

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<v Speaker 1>recipient of the Medal of Honor. Carson was sitting next

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<v Speaker 1>to him as he hung up the phone.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember looking at her.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I think things are going to change again, baby,

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<v Speaker 3>and she said, I think you're right.

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<v Speaker 4>And did they ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow had only one request for his Medal of Honor ceremony.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted the families of Kevin Griffin, David Gray, and

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<v Speaker 1>Tom Kennedy to be there. If they weren't there, he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to be either.

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<v Speaker 3>I called the Gostar families asking them to be a

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<v Speaker 3>par part of the ceremony and the reception, because this

0:30:13.621 --> 0:30:16.461
<v Speaker 3>metal belongs to them, what in me. They're the ones

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<v Speaker 3>that have to live with the consequences of August eight,

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<v Speaker 3>twenty twelve more than I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>They agreed to attend, along with so many of FLOE's

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<v Speaker 1>friends and brothers and arms. His parents were there, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>in Carson Io, all listening as President Obama spoke.

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<v Speaker 5>Flow says that day was the worst day of his life,

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<v Speaker 5>and that is the stark reality behind these medal of

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<v Speaker 5>honor ceremonies for all the valor we celebrate, all the

0:30:47.181 --> 0:30:52.981
<v Speaker 5>courage that inspires us. These actions were demanded amidst some

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<v Speaker 5>of the most dreadful moments of war. That's precisely why

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<v Speaker 5>we honor heroes like Flow, because on his very worst day,

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<v Speaker 5>he managed to summon his very best. That's the nature

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<v Speaker 5>of courage, not being unafraid, but confronting fear and danger

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<v Speaker 5>and performing in a selfless fashion. He showed his guts,

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<v Speaker 5>he showed his training. How you put it all on

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<v Speaker 5>the line for his teammates. That's an American we can

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<v Speaker 5>all be grateful for.

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<v Speaker 1>No other way to put it. An American we can

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<v Speaker 1>all be grateful for. That's so true and yet so interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>given that this isn't the country of his birth, it's

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<v Speaker 1>the country he chose.

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<v Speaker 3>I hear a lot about the fact that I'm an immigrant.

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<v Speaker 3>Then people would say, well, how could you do this?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, for the United States of America. I got

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<v Speaker 3>to live in a different country, and I came here

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<v Speaker 3>and had an opportunity to truly understand how lucky I

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<v Speaker 3>am and what to appreciate. And sometimes it's hard to

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<v Speaker 3>appreciate something been their entire life. And I was lucky

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<v Speaker 3>that I was born somewhere else, spoke a different language,

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<v Speaker 3>and I got to come here immerse myself in something great,

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<v Speaker 3>and I understand it, and I'm grateful for it.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got a point. Maybe it does take an outsider

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<v Speaker 1>to see the value in something we all take for granted,

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<v Speaker 1>to see how much there is to fight for. To

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<v Speaker 1>this day, Flow wears a bracelet with the names of

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<v Speaker 1>the men who were lost, and in twenty seventeen, he

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<v Speaker 1>and Carson returned to that base in Afghanistan. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>memorial there to honor the men who died that day.

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<v Speaker 1>They paid their respects together. The couple got married the

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<v Speaker 1>following year.

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<v Speaker 4>She's my life, man, She's everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Flow and Carson now have two little kids. Flow works

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<v Speaker 1>for a private investment firm that focuses on technology and

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<v Speaker 1>national security. Can't run anymore. His eight second race, the

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<v Speaker 1>most important race of his life, was his last. Those

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<v Speaker 1>seconds mattered, but what mattered even more was his courage,

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<v Speaker 1>his willingness to race forward for the sake of his team,

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<v Speaker 1>for the sake of his country, as fast as he

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<v Speaker 1>possibly could. Medal of Honor, Stories of Courage is written

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<v Speaker 1>by Meredith Rollins and produced by Meredith Rollins and Ryan Schwiker.

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<v Speaker 1>Our editor is Lydia Jean Kott. Sound designed by Jake Gorski.

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<v Speaker 1>Our executive producer is Gonstanza gayardro Fact checking by Arthur Gomperts.

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<v Speaker 1>Original music by Eric Phillips. Special thanks to the Congressional

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<v Speaker 1>Medal of Honor Society, the American Legion, and the Army

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