WEBVTT - Conversations With Women About Marriage 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.400 What's up? And welcome back to another episode of No 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.520 Sealer's Podcast with your hosts Now fuck that with your 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:09.240 loap glasses, Malone. 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:17.200 Please don't worry, trust me. The last thing I'm scared 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:17.759 of is. 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:24.279 Anything, And that's the problem. It's the fucking problem my 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:26.560 drinking and dropping. My last thing I'm worried about is 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:33.120 any exactly. Oh, let me ask you a question, Pete, 0:00:34.120 --> 0:00:36.280 what's the best age to get married? 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:42.959 Shoesh that's a good question. Not for Pete, No, I'm 0:00:42.960 --> 0:00:43.559 not saying. 0:00:43.600 --> 0:00:44.880 Okay, for regular human beings. 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:46.559 Yeah, death is not an age. 0:00:47.440 --> 0:00:50.160 If you're asking you, there's never a time to die, 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:55.640 There's never a good time to die. 0:00:56.520 --> 0:01:02.360 Shout be told. It's probably it's probably mid twenties, early 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:03.560 mid twenties. 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:08.520 Britt, When is the best time the best age for 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:10.240 a woman to get married for. 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:17.959 A woman, I would say somewhere in the early thirties. 0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:22.959 Red, When is the best time for a woman to 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:23.640 get married? 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:30.520 I say twenties, early twenties. 0:01:30.560 --> 0:01:34.240 Siah, when is a great time the best time for 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:35.119 a woman to get married? 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:37.800 Thirty seven and a half or something the other side 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:38.600 of thirty. 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:42.760 Okay, So let me ask you a question for the 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:46.440 thirty year olds, right, the guys that said thirty brit side, 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:50.200 Why is it thirty years old? Why is that? 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:58.280 Because I think, Okay, she's gonna do. I just think that. 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:00.720 I don't know why. I think it's a good age. 0:02:00.720 --> 0:02:03.240 I just think in your twenties you're kind of still 0:02:03.280 --> 0:02:06.640 trying to figure it out. Most times, you probably if 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:09.000 you some most some people go to college and do 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:12.079 all that and then live on they you know, lead 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:14.519 their the nest and do all that. So I think 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:17.679 that's why I said thirties because usually thirties you kind 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:21.000 of somewhat kind of figured it out a little bit, 0:02:21.040 --> 0:02:22.760 and then you kind of know yourself because I feel 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:26.720 like when you get married, like shit, it's just a 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:30.079 little different that I've never been married. But that's why 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:36.480 I said thirties. Is that realm. 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:40.080 I've seen the difference in ages and getting married, and 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:45.560 I think that thirties is good, Yes, good, because. 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:47.120 In your twenties, depending on how you. 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:50.720 Were raised, that's the time that you get to yourself 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:52.040 to figure out some shit. 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:55.359 What are you figuring out? Brett? And sayah, in your twenties, 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:57.639 who you are, what you want? 0:02:58.240 --> 0:03:00.680 I don't say like whether you know you're career like 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:04.040 things in that nature, like better yourself, Like I don't know. 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:06.760 In my twenties, like I said, I had a kid 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:09.200 and so I was definitely trying to figure a whole 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:11.920 lot of things out. But for those like my sister, 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:15.520 you know, she's twenty seven, I could not see her 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:19.880 being married right now. Like she's like literally traveling and 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.079 doing a lot of things with her career and stuff 0:03:22.120 --> 0:03:25.160 like that, and she's she's really understanding what she wants 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.920 in life. So I think right now wouldn't be a 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.160 good time for her. But shit like in her thirty 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:32.680 should be straight. She already established the things that she wanted. 0:03:33.120 --> 0:03:34.840 And you got to remember when you get married, like 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:37.600 you guys come as one, so you know you gotta 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:40.920 I feel like you need to know yourself. I didn't 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:43.320 take the time to get to know myself until way later, 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:46.280 and that was bullshit. Be honest with you. 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.840 What did you learn about yourself when you knew yourself? 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:56.520 Shit that I I was putting. I needed to focus 0:03:56.560 --> 0:04:00.880 more on myself. I gave a lot of myself and 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:04.160 I did a lot. I don't get emotional, but basically 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:07.680 I just I do get emotional do don't do that 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:10.320 to me. But I'm just saying like, I just felt like, 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:13.120 I just felt like I gave myself a lot and 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:15.960 a lot of different things and I sacrificed a lot 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:22.400 when there was no reciprocation of any of that through 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:25.479 any of those times in my life. So I think 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:29.880 as now as I got older, I just feel like 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:33.560 I'm just meaning like and this is my fault. This 0:04:33.800 --> 0:04:38.279 is the learning. You can't always expect people to be 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:42.640 like you. All my life, I've always stepped out and 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:46.200 I'm that that person that you can call I'm gonna come, 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:52.080 I'm gonna show up, milestones whatever, I'm hurt. 0:04:52.279 --> 0:04:53.000 Are you person? 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:55.960 I don't know, Man, I can't explain to you why 0:04:56.080 --> 0:04:58.720 she lives out of her heart space. I can't even 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:01.800 tell you why. I honestly g I just that's just hard. 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.760 So as I got as I got older, I started 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:09.680 feeling like, damn, I've really been this person. And when 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:13.680 I needed shit the most, I literally was like, Damn, 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.680 I look at my hand, I'm damn. 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:17.040 Are you really that person? Then? 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:20.760 I am that person? Because that's why it hurt me 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:23.719 so much, because that that was me and I really 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:26.000 I don't know just now. 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:26.640 It's just. 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:31.839 That was me, because I wouldn't have done it if 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:32.280 it wasn't. 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:35.840 The reason I'm asking is because like, why would it 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:37.640 bother you if somebody else is you? If you're just 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:41.039 being you, Like even like when I'm being me, right, 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:43.480 it's like, it don't matter what nobody else is doing. 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:47.360 Like if I'm giving you energy, it's because I want 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.640 to give you energy. That's who I am. I'm not 0:05:49.839 --> 0:05:52.240 looking for it to be reciprocated. 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:55.080 Well, okay, I showed the wrong word as far as reciprocate. 0:05:55.120 --> 0:05:57.800 I'm just feeling I just feel like I've always just 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:02.440 been that person and important person and doing a lot 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:06.480 of things, and in my head I'm thinking like the 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:09.039 world would do the same, like you know what I mean, 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.520 like and it just it's not like that. 0:06:12.000 --> 0:06:14.400 But that's why I asked, is it really you? Because 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:16.360 I don't think I've ever looked for the world. 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:18.880 Well I'm not saying I look for it, but I 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.760 just it just feels a certain type of way, like 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:23.360 if you wake up in the morning and you can't 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:27.599 fucking call motherfucker whatever it is that what you need, 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:30.840 it's just like, damn that makes you feel a certain 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:32.359 type of way. I'm not saying I looked for it, 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:35.120 but it did hit you when it actually happened, though, 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:36.480 and that's how it hit me. 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:40.520 So I think if you if you were looking at 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:44.960 it as an expectation that they would do it for you, Yeah, 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:46.920 then that's where it's gonna end. 0:06:46.839 --> 0:06:49.840 Because disappointment only lives where expectation exists. 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:52.000 Yeah, you're right about that, But I don't think, like 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:54.200 I said, guys, I don't think at that moment when 0:06:54.200 --> 0:06:57.480 I was doing it, I wasn't expecting anything at that moment. 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:02.440 When you're always for someone and then when you're going 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:07.640 through something you may need something, nobody is able to 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:08.520 give you what you. 0:07:08.600 --> 0:07:13.880 Need or not even won't even give a fuck to Okay, 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:17.520 like you know so, and it's and it's cool because 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:20.480 I made that decision. No one woke me up and said, hey, 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.000 go over there and do this and that. No one 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:25.520 told you to do any of those things. So I'm saying, 0:07:25.560 --> 0:07:28.800 as me getting older, that's how I learned myself. Like, well, 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:31.800 maybe I wasn't shit. I don't know. Maybe talking to 0:07:31.840 --> 0:07:34.440 you guys right now is making anythink, But I'm telling 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:36.320 you I didn't. I didn't go into it as a 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:40.040 like I want something from you, but that's me, Like, 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:42.960 I'm just that my mama says I'm her carrying most 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:43.720 carrying child. 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:46.360 I totally get it, but I'm just saying the reason 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:49.280 I'm saying that, right, and because I still haven't figured 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:51.640 out quite why you would need to be thirty something, 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:52.600 I don't think. 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:56.560 I got a hypothesis on that. 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:04.360 No settlings, glasses, love. My boy Peter is in the house, 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:11.760 Bred is in the house, the sister Siah is in 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:15.360 the house. I'm gonna make this your simple, give me 0:08:15.360 --> 0:08:15.880 your hyppot. 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:21.840 This is peak, I think, quote unquote finding yourself. And 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:27.200 that's sort of a context means I need to build 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:34.000 myself up to be more independent and less vulnerable so 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:37.199 that I can be in a relationship that has more 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:41.680 defined barriers, where I can exist comfortably without being so 0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:45.120 exposed to being dependent on somebody else because there's risk 0:08:45.240 --> 0:08:47.520 involved in that. 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:48.840 That could be it down, which. 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:51.559 Kind of set to that for failure. 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:56.000 Though it does, it's a mentality that's not really all 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:58.920 that great when the expectation is this is the singular 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:02.880 individual that you have chosen to commit the rest of 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:04.040 your life to sharing with. 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:06.880 You shouldn't have those inhibitions. If you're gonna, if you 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:08.040 if you're gonna take that. 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:13.280 Journey, take on that journey, you shouldn't bring that with 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:14.520 you for that journey. 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:19.559 You can't shoot the shot worried about missing. Yeah. Yeah, 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:25.360 I saw something on Instagram and it was like, yeah, girl, 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:27.840 you need to travel and see the world and you 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:32.560 need to date. And I thought to myself, like, like, 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:35.600 the worst thing you can do is like go through 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:39.720 me and other experiences. Yes, like literally, because what you 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:42.480 do is start to compare everything. 0:09:42.520 --> 0:09:43.280 I agree with that. 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:48.240 I think it's best twenties. You're young, you're growing, you're learning, 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:50.199 but you're doing it with your mate. That's the only 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:53.880 person like that you're with, So you your guard is 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:58.200 down because you're everything is new to you. I think 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:00.880 the later that you wait, you've really just had a 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:05.400 chance to just you know, you having a party. Yet 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:07.319 we're getting to know each other, but I mean getting 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:08.240 to know yourself. 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:10.520 True, that has to. 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:15.360 Happen, but you're really just you're just going through men 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:20.480 and you're just kind of learn unless you're not dating, 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:24.240 unless you're not dating, well not fu Yeah, Okay, yes 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:24.920 you're not. 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:25.800 Yeah, you're right. 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:30.360 You could date, yes, unless you're not having sex and 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:35.760 you're not, you know, in these relationships that are marriages, 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:38.280 but they're not marriages. 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:42.480 Gotcha, then okay, But otherwise. 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:46.840 I mean, get married, be with that person, commit, do it, learn, 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:50.960 be vulnerable, to be able to just take it all in. 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:55.520 I mean, I just know too many. I personally know 0:10:55.600 --> 0:11:00.480 too many. Well, three people I know that it was 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:03.400 with their person from like nineteen all the way up 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:07.199 until their forties, and they're not together no more. 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:10.200 Yeah, listen, you know what I'm saying. You're not gonna 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:12.120 shoot every You're not gonna make every shot you take. 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:15.120 No, But I'm saying that that that's probably another reason 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:16.959 why I would say to kind of like wait a 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:19.960 little bit, But I don't. They were together more really 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:20.559 long time, but. 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:24.800 More times than not, though young marriages last the longest. 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:26.160 I do agree. 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:27.599 It's actually like a statistic. 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:31.680 You're like learning when you're when you're learning about yourself, 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:34.080 you're learning how to be a partner through all those 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:36.640 learning years, as opposed to when you're a single. You 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:39.160 learn to be learning how to be single for all those. 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:41.880 And you become more selfish. I agree with that. 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:42.280 Longer. 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:44.200 I agree with that by yourself. 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:47.560 I've learned is more? Is it? 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:51.120 I've just learned it's too much, a series of more 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:52.120 and more and more things. 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:52.719 I don't think that. 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:57.480 You don't like that's true, that is really true. 0:11:56.320 --> 0:11:59.079 I got it, okay, So I didn't know guys, but 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:01.880 like that too, because I didn't think that, and. 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.559 I like that. I think about it when you If 0:12:04.559 --> 0:12:07.920 I'm gonna go with them, then I'll just I'm already with. 0:12:07.920 --> 0:12:16.480 The I'm learning to love myself more. Somebody else I 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:16.959 don't like it. 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:24.600 Yeah, I know all. I'm just no longer and longer. 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:26.320 Honestly, he's not lying. 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:27.839 Ship. 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:32.240 That's how I feel about being a parent. As every 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:34.679 I look at everybody I know who's a parent. I 0:12:34.720 --> 0:12:37.560 look at kids, and I be like, yo, this is 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:40.719 not a good idea. It's not going the other way. 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:42.600 Like I don't wake up every day like, oh man, 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:44.640 one day I hope to be a parent. It's like 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:47.800 every day I look, I'll be like when I was young, 0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:51.440 Like it's almost like you ignorant, right, and you don't know. 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:54.120 So it's like you're excited I'm a parent, and I 0:12:54.160 --> 0:12:56.960 get to raise a child, and it takes a little 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:59.480 bit of ignorance to even want to do some ship 0:12:59.600 --> 0:13:02.000 like that. Like if you think about why two people 0:13:02.040 --> 0:13:04.800 come together and have a kid, it's like, it's the 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:08.080 most selfish fucking reason in the world. We want a 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:11.439 product of our love. I want to continue. I want 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:14.400 to continue my legacy when I'm dead. I'm like, you're 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.160 that like you're that special on planet fucking Earth that 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:20.360 we need you here. How much you want. 0:13:20.000 --> 0:13:25.560 If we look age. 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:27.800 Of like first child born again, like if we were 0:13:27.800 --> 0:13:32.000 to look at a chart, you know, so like that 0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:36.920 determined how old people were at their first at the 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:39.800 age of their first child being born, it's probably to 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:45.640 some degree you shaped you have young and ignorant, then 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:48.640 you have smart enough to know not to do it 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:51.720 right now. Then you have oh shit, if I don't 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:53.040 do it now, it's never gonna happen. 0:13:53.120 --> 0:13:53.640 Let's do it. 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:55.160 That would be a great chart. 0:13:56.040 --> 0:13:58.760 That is because some women be like, oh, my class ticking. 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:03.400 So Sia is mad because we had a conversation because 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:06.040 she because she said that right there. But what we 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:07.719 were just playing in the side, because I was talking 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:11.520 about spirituality and nature and I was like nature when 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:12.880 a woman that. 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:15.880 Her period cut cut, don't just let's not go. 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:20.000 Into we're going there. So when I told her, when 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:26.440 a woman has her period, that's nature entering her into womanhood. Okay, right, 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:30.440 Pete was explaining to her, like she Pete just talked 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:32.920 about He said, what's the word you use with Sida 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.320 when she wants to find the small nuances and make 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:36.360 that the whole point. 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:38.280 Of defining the rule by the exception? 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:40.840 Exactly right. So she was like, what if somebody had 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.600 a period at nine? I'm like, bro, like, what are 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:47.560 you doing? Why would you say? Why would you say that? 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:48.360 Lazy ship? 0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:53.560 Most people don't find no period? 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:56.560 You're doing it. 0:14:56.680 --> 0:15:00.240 You're doing it. You guys are all doing it. Ag again, 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:03.600 you're defining the rule by the essex. 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:08.400 And you have your period. It's okay to pro create. 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:12.320 That's literally, it's not that's not what it's said. I said. 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:15.840 Nature makes it to where she can pro create. 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:17.320 But she's still growing and learning. 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:19.800 She's gonna you're you're still growing and learning, and. 0:15:19.880 --> 0:15:23.640 You're between a woman twelve and a woman at forty 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:25.160 is negligible, exactly. 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:25.720 I agree. 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:27.240 I hate this conversation. 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:30.440 I understand because the truth and facts are hard for 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:32.320 you because you live in a space where you want 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:33.600 to feel good about anything. 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:34.160 Converted. 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:38.280 It's not it has nothing to do pervert perverted listen, Yes, 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.200 but but but how do you care strong? Yeah, but 0:15:41.240 --> 0:15:43.120 that's because you're not existing in facts. You know what? 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:47.920 Wing Still you're going, you're growing, still have That. 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:51.080 Doesn't mean they're ready, they're they're they're being prepared. 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:53.160 Nature totally disagrees. 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:58.280 Yeah, Nature says that the nature told that. 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:00.240 They're having a period. Nature, you have to learn, learn 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:02.120 what it is and how it feels and what it is. 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:03.840 No, they do not, Yes they do. 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:07.360 Why for some animal wants to come and just take 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:11.720 over what they're experiencing right away, because no, nature's not 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:12.280 saying that. 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:14.880 Nature is saying that, So you just. 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:16.480 Don't snore what nature is saying. 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:19.040 It's saying that, but it's not yet. 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:22.280 They're mothering that it's about to be ready after you 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:23.160 understand it. 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:27.800 You don't understand your ship. Now, fine, what the hell 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:29.520 are you talking about again? 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:32.840 That's not kind of like, yes, when I got pregnant, 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:33.640 I was just like. 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:37.000 Oh, yeah, when you got pregnant, you were alone when 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:40.360 the baby came out, No, you weren't eleven, but I 0:16:40.480 --> 0:16:42.280 know anyway. 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:43.960 You mean you you mean you didn't have it figured 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:44.920 out and you wasn't eleven. 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:47.320 And I was like, it feels like alien. 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:52.400 So anyway, that's not so, that's not like I have 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:58.480 another human to be so but that's not the point 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:04.560 that So we were explaining to her that that's nature's 0:17:04.600 --> 0:17:09.280 way of saying she is ready to procreate. So so 0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:11.439 I had a problem with that. I'm like, don't like 0:17:11.520 --> 0:17:13.919 if they're thirst like, don't take that up with me, 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:17.159 to take it up with fucking nature. Like, And we 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:21.440 were talking about standards versus emotions, and we're like, California 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:24.320 has set a standard that says the legal age of 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:25.920 consent for a woman. 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:28.879 Is eighteen, Okay, so is that. 0:17:30.240 --> 0:17:33.560 In Nevada the legal age of consent the standard is sixteen. 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:38.760 And I'm telling her nature says it's when she has 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:42.720 her period. Now again, we live in a society with 0:17:42.960 --> 0:17:46.360 standards because we exist in here, even to the point 0:17:46.400 --> 0:17:49.280 where people from California be telling about she ain't eighteen, 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:52.439 it's nasty, but in Nevada, like if it's sixteen, she's nasty. 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:54.840 If it's in Germany, like she if she's fifteen, if 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:57.320 she ain't fifteen, it's it's like you got a bunch 0:17:57.320 --> 0:18:01.720 of motherfuckers arguing standards set forth, and I explained, the 0:18:01.800 --> 0:18:09.800 sigh of nature doesn't care about humanity's standards. That's what 0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:11.600 we were talking about. So that's how we got there. 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:13.680 But the point I was saying about marriage, and and 0:18:13.720 --> 0:18:17.240 that's the point we were saying, is like you have to, 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:22.600 like if you wait till you thirty. First off, you're 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:24.000 trying to give him some used product. 0:18:25.600 --> 0:18:29.320 You don't necessarily yes, like A just said, you probably yes, 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:31.639 do it doesn't You don't have to. Why do you 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:33.240 always think people just just. 0:18:34.800 --> 0:18:37.200 Why do I think everybody out here fucking no, not 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:37.600 like that? 0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:39.439 But you just you don't have to. 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:44.000 But more than likely they were fucking what are we 0:18:44.040 --> 0:18:47.000 talking about? 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:47.360 All the time? 0:18:47.640 --> 0:18:48.120 You can date. 0:18:48.200 --> 0:18:49.320 It's plenty of guys I dated. 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:51.960 There's plenty of guys you dand that you fucked, and. 0:18:51.880 --> 0:18:54.840 I sure did. But but what I'm saying is. 0:18:55.400 --> 0:18:55.800 You don't. 0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:02.880 Went on and keep it one hundred? 0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:05.120 Did you roll it back like a car of the knowledge? 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:08.240 Was it like off? 0:19:08.920 --> 0:19:09.080 No? 0:19:09.480 --> 0:19:11.879 Isn't nothing like that in my face right now? 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:16.200 I'm not about that's what drawing loan backwards. 0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:22.000 But no, I don't know. All the thing that's crazy 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:25.320 ain't because us product. 0:19:25.320 --> 0:19:25.480 Man. 0:19:25.520 --> 0:19:26.960 I was just saying, as far as. 0:19:27.359 --> 0:19:29.520 I think the term is certified. 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:34.159 Pre hey, well, I mean as long as was it 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:36.240 the car facts, I mean you could get them. 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:38.160 I don't know. You don't want nobody to check your 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:38.680 car fact? 0:19:38.760 --> 0:19:42.040 What you mean you better get recorded. 0:19:45.240 --> 0:19:45.800 Something like that? 0:19:45.960 --> 0:19:49.080 You let me know, right like for real? 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:53.639 Because never never I'm saying, think about how many owners 0:19:53.640 --> 0:19:54.600 they would switch hands. 0:19:55.320 --> 0:19:58.960 I always like to let my cars appreciate on someone else's. 0:19:59.840 --> 0:20:01.200 I about a valance. 0:20:01.840 --> 0:20:02.920 Since we're being. 0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:04.440 Honest, well that's a difference. 0:20:04.800 --> 0:20:05.080 Boy. 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:08.520 Of course it should have brought the real, real, good, 0:20:10.000 --> 0:20:11.480 full flash form to night. 0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:12.879 I just want to know. 0:20:12.960 --> 0:20:15.280 I know it's not the same when girls have a 0:20:15.320 --> 0:20:16.760 certain amount of people they sleep with. 0:20:16.760 --> 0:20:18.280 Its terrible both men. It's okay. 0:20:18.359 --> 0:20:20.080 So I just want to know, what do you want 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:20.360 to know? 0:20:20.520 --> 0:20:23.160 How many women have you been with? What's your maleage? 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:26.399 We never asked nobody mind because I have to laugh it. 0:20:26.680 --> 0:20:28.960 We never ad guy, I ain't never had to do 0:20:29.040 --> 0:20:32.800 that ship like that. I never asked guys don't I 0:20:32.840 --> 0:20:34.639