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Speaker 4: Thank you, dear blog. So you guys in here, No,

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Speaker 4: but I don't talk about it a ton on the air.

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Speaker 5: I don't think that my dad is a care rick

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Speaker 5: ur I mean, this man has a urinal in his house.

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Speaker 5: He used to have a tanning bed in his bedroom,

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Speaker 5: Like he is just you know, Jeff has lived, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Urinal in the house. It is a flex is it?

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Speaker 3: You don't see it? You just don't see it that often.

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Speaker 4: That's like his signature thing. And every guy that finds.

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Speaker 5: Out about it is like, that's the coolest thing ever.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, you know, the tanning bed in

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Speaker 2: the bedroom is strange, but you.

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Speaker 5: Know, okay, yeah he's Italian. We we got rid of

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Speaker 5: that one though. You know where you're spf. But yeah,

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Speaker 5: he's just he's just a character and he always like

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Speaker 5: talking to him, we go a million different directions.

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Speaker 4: He's got friend drama.

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Speaker 5: He's talking about you know, the nature all the time,

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Speaker 5: like he thinks he's snow white.

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Speaker 4: I swear like he's like you don't.

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Speaker 5: Understand, like a beer a deer spoke to me less

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Speaker 5: like he's just my phone calls with him are chef's

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Speaker 5: kiss anyways, So he has a super long bestie and

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you guys have any like thing

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Speaker 5: like agreements with your friends or like I know some

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Speaker 5: people have like a marriage packed or some people have

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Speaker 5: you know, if we do X, Y or Z.

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Speaker 4: Or if we make it the song where doing this?

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Speaker 5: Anyways, he had a very long standing lottery pact with

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Speaker 5: his best friend. My dad is someone who is he

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Speaker 5: doesn't just play the lottery. He is convinced that he

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Speaker 5: will win the lottery, to the point that we have

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Speaker 5: extensive conversations of specifically like what he will do for me,

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Speaker 5: what he will do for himself, Like we have a condo,

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Speaker 5: we're going to buy in floor, like we know everything.

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Speaker 3: Anyways, so it's exciting. I'm happy for you guys.

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Speaker 5: Right, Well, I'm the Debbie Downer who's like, Dad, like,

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Speaker 5: we're not winning the lottery, Like I love you so much.

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Speaker 5: But he lives, you know, he's pissiest if you know,

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Speaker 5: if you know, you know, he lives in a fantasy lands.

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Speaker 5: So anyways, he told me the new drama is that

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Speaker 5: he ended his long standing lottery contract that he has

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Speaker 5: I'm like, okay, why did you do this?

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Speaker 4: How do you even go about because coming.

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Speaker 2: Is that why the jackpot is is just around the corner,

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Speaker 2: And it's like, you know, I don't I no longer

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Speaker 2: want to share it with you, this jackpot that I'm

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Speaker 5: I see what he's doing, Okay, because for years and

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Speaker 5: years they've had this and they literally knew they were

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Speaker 4: So my dad I asked him how he ended it.

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Speaker 4: He's like, well, needed to be in writing, obviously.

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Speaker 5: So he takes a documents right, Well, yeah, he's leaving

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Speaker 5: a paper trail. Okay, because again they're still friends. So

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Speaker 5: if I'm the friend, I'm like, what's going on here?

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Speaker 5: So he put in writing to his friend via text message,

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Speaker 5: I am letting you know today the date that this

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Speaker 5: will be the end to our lottery agreement. Now, he

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Speaker 5: a little, I'll still take care of you, but I

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Speaker 5: am I want to end our longstanding lottery agreement, which

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Speaker 4: Hey, I don't know how you're still friends after that.

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Speaker 5: And be like I'm just like why, And he's like,

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Speaker 5: you know what, I just decided, I just he wants

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Speaker 2: Did you have any agreements with people growing up that,

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Speaker 2: like if you turned the ripe old age of twenty

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Speaker 3: Did you have that?

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Speaker 2: I did have that deal with with someone and then

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Speaker 2: they got married and they're still married.

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Speaker 3: So oh that's I don't have to do it. No,

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Speaker 3: it's okay, Oh you're good. I don't have to do it.

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Speaker 2: One I mean, lovely person, but I don't think I

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Speaker 2: Looking back now at this age, I'm thinking I got

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Speaker 2: away with one here, you know, by not I think

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Speaker 2: I think I've saved at least one.

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Speaker 3: Divorce in my life already.

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Speaker 2: But I was just curious if any of you had,

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Speaker 2: Speaking of deals that people make, did you guys know,

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Speaker 2: there was no one like you you were friends with

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Speaker 2: and you were like in high school or college, you're like,

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Speaker 2: i'll tell you what you know, if you're not married

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Speaker 2: by thirty, let's get married kind of thing.

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Speaker 6: You never did that, absolutely not, no, No, No, I

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Speaker 6: did with my best friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: We were younger though, and then we said, like, because

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Speaker 6: he's gay, So if he couldn't get married or if

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Speaker 6: he didn't find like his partner.

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Speaker 3: I saw him that I would marry him, and.

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Speaker 6: I even said, like we could have a baby because

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Speaker 6: I know he wants to be a dad and I

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Speaker 6: wanted to be a mom. That can't happen, probably will

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Speaker 6: not happen, but he does push my kid around a lot,

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Speaker 6: and people are very confused of who's baby.

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Speaker 3: There you go, Yeah, basically you have two husbands.

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Speaker 4: Wait, we kind of lived that fantasy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, mine was also with a gay bustie, but then

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Speaker 5: he like went on to become a really successful DJ.

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Speaker 5: So I don't think that I think that's null and

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Speaker 5: interested in My friends are talking very seriously about this,

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Speaker 5: which is I know you guys are like why are

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Speaker 5: you obsessed with your friends? But co living with friends

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Speaker 5: and like raising families in like a big like house,

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Speaker 5: and we're like genuinely like talking about this, like we

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Speaker 5: like we're very much wanting.

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Speaker 2: Wow, so you're gonna buy like a plot of land somewhere.

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Speaker 5: And then yeah, I mean logistically it's hard with everyone's job,

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Speaker 5: but like, we really want that and we want like the.

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Speaker 4: Old It takes a village, like we want to just

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Speaker 4: like I like this.

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Speaker 2: Go to Indiana. They got lots of land out there.

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Speaker 2: They're trying to give it away. You know, it's a

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Speaker 2: great place.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: By the way, speaking of the lottery, there is some

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Speaker 2: We only have a second, but there is some Arizona

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Speaker 2: lottery drama going on that I read about yesterday, and so,

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Speaker 2: you know, to piggyback on what you're saying. This Circle K,

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Speaker 2: legal dispute over a twelve point eight million dollar lottery

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Speaker 2: ticket purchased by a store manager after a customer left

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Speaker 2: it unsold. So this happened in November of last year.

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Speaker 2: I guess this guy was the manager of the circle K.

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Speaker 2: And then somebody bought too many tickets and didn't want

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Speaker 2: if he knew that it was a winning ticket or

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Speaker 2: didn't know, But all I know is he is not

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Speaker 2: entitled to buy it because he works at the store.

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Speaker 2: I guess if you work at the store, you can't

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Speaker 2: buy a ticket if you're on duty.

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Speaker 3: Okay, at the store where you're working, if you're on duty.

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Speaker 2: So he clocked out, changed out of his uniform, went

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Speaker 2: but it's twelve point eight million dollars, So technically, I

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Speaker 2: guess by the letter of the policy of the store,

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Speaker 2: he was supposed to be working. Circle K is suing him,

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Speaker 2: saying that they're entitled to the winning ticket because according

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Speaker 2: to lottery administrative code, if a retailer generates a ticket

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Speaker 2: and a customer doesn't buy it, the retailer becomes the owner.

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Speaker 2: So they're trying to get him on a technicality, saying

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Speaker 2: you shouldn't have bought First of all, we own that ticket,

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Speaker 2: and you shouldn't have been able to buy it because you

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Speaker 2: multi one hundreds of millions billion dollar company where they

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Speaker 2: need another twelve million.

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Speaker 4: So like a friend checked him out.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I guess I guess like he went out of the

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Speaker 2: parking lot, clocked out, took his uniform off, went back in,

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Speaker 2: and they sold him the ticket again. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if he knew that it was a winner yet or not,

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Speaker 2: but either way, right, but they were like, no, you

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Speaker 2: were supposed to be working, so you can't have that.

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Speaker 2: So there, So yeah, we'll have to we'll keep an

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Speaker 2: eye on that. Waiting by the phone. Why did somebody

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Speaker 2: get ghosted?

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Speaker 1: More Fread Show NeXT's never been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 3: It's the Fread Show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Brianna, Hi Brianna, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: I want to hear about this guy Alex. Tell us

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Speaker 2: how you met, about any dates you've been on, and

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Speaker 2: then where things are now.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so we met like everyone does on the bumble

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Speaker 7: and we grabbed drinks.

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Speaker 8: Honestly, it was great.

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Speaker 7: I felt like I could really talk to him about anything.

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Speaker 7: I was really looking forward to seeing him again, you know.

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Speaker 7: But after the date, he literally never reached out to me.

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Speaker 7: I have no idea what happened.

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Speaker 2: Really, Okay, So you look back on this date and

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Speaker 2: you felt like the conversation was good. I mean, these

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Speaker 2: are all the questions I always ask. But there was chemistry.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, oh my god, yeah, you look

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Speaker 2: like your pictures, he looked like his. I mean, I'm

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Speaker 2: trying to think of all the things that usually go

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Speaker 2: wrong with these dating app dates. I mean, a normal

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Speaker 2: date in by every definition, Like nothing was weird.

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Speaker 7: We were flirty, I had a really good time. So

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Speaker 7: I'm just like confused why he just wouldn't at least

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Speaker 7: like text me, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you mentioned in the note, you mentioned that,

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Speaker 2: you know, there was a kind of a in my words,

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Speaker 2: after Taylor and I'll give you a keyword too. This

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Speaker 2: after Style Fred Show. It's the French Show. Part two

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Speaker 2: Every keyword is there, but I'm gonna make you work

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Speaker 2: all right, let's call this Kuy Alex. You met on

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Speaker 3: Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Brianna who

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I remember, Brian.

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Speaker 3: Why was I even there? Well, I'm okay, hopefully for

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Speaker 7: Just say something like all right, well, can I just

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Speaker 2: Well, it is Brianna Alex. I forgot to mention that

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Speaker 8: It's just it's childish.

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Speaker 8: So I just don't think we're going to get anything

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Speaker 5: I do hear that part of it, But I do

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Speaker 3: We Gieky, look on your phone I'm with him. He

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Speaker 4: I don't know no words.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we're all saying the same thing. But

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Speaker 3: At this point, I don't really enjoy it.

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Speaker 8: Argument style?

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Speaker 3: So you know two things? Oh? Okay, is there an

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Speaker 3: argument style that people do like?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Brianna, is anyone there, Alex? Are you there? I'm here?

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Speaker 3: I mean maybe that's her argument style. Hang up on us?

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Speaker 3: I guess she hung up on us. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I did this for her, and then she's the one

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Speaker 2: who hangs up. All right, Look, Alex, I'm sorry, I

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Speaker 2: don't know. If you want to go on a date

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Speaker 2: with someone else, we'll pay for it. I'm tired. I

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Speaker 2: don't know, Alex.

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Speaker 3: I guess that's it.

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Speaker 2: Good luck to both of you guys. But since she's

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Speaker 2: not here, then only good luck to you