1 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time is, y'all don't know, y'all bat 2 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: all suit looking back to back down, giving them more, 3 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:19,079 Speaker 1: just like theming buck bus things and it's cub y'all 4 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 1: do me true good to Steve Hoya listening to me 5 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: together for still farther to listen. Moy w don't you join? Yeah? Yeah, 6 00:00:43,159 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 1: by joined with me, honey said dot turn be hurting. Yeah, 7 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: you gotta turns to turn the time you lovey got 8 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: to turn out to turn the water. W comey, come 9 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: on your back at it? Uh huh. I shall a 10 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice? Come on 11 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: dig me NW one and only Steve Hardy got a 12 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 1: radio show. Here we go today. I think I have 13 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: something for a lot of people today, at least I 14 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: hope I do. And this is about on your journey, 15 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 1: And this is about something that happens to us all. 16 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: I mean, what happens to all of us from time 17 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: to time when we get discouraged. What happens to all 18 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: of us when we feel like quitting, What happens to 19 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 1: all of us when we have that turn back moment? 20 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,440 Speaker 1: What happens to all of us when it don't seem 21 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: like it's gonna paying out, because I want you to 22 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: understand something that everyone, every single living soul, has those 23 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: thoughts about something at some point in the life. I mean, 24 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: you know, look, I've oftentimes been discouraged about things not 25 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: happening as fast as I like them. All things don't 26 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: paying out the way I would like for them to 27 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: have payed out. I mean, there's so many ways to 28 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: get discouraged. But what But what my encouragement to you 29 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: is when discouragement comes is understand this. It is a 30 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: part of the growth process. It is a test. It 31 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: is a test of your faith. How bad you wanted 32 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: Do you really believe? That's That's all faith is. It's simply, 33 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: and I've said this how many times. Faith is the 34 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: belief in things that you cannot see. So when discouragement comes, 35 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: setbacks comes, it is a test of your faith. At 36 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: least it's been that way for me. Now other people 37 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 1: can explain it another way. I'm not other people. I 38 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: can only give it to you the way it has 39 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: come to me and throughout my life and man on 40 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 1: man on man, discouragement sometimes it's tough to deal with 41 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 1: because it seems at times when you are discouraged. That 42 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: is so absolute that this means the end, and if 43 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: you allow it to set in, it can be just 44 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: that the end of you. When Milly Milly, it was 45 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: a test, that's all it is. But the majority of 46 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 1: people that I know who are not successful or who 47 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: have told me the story of how they gave up, 48 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 1: it was it was because at a moment of discouragement 49 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,799 Speaker 1: that they allowed it to set in and it became 50 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: so engulfing that it became the reason why you shouldn't finish. 51 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: And then they started justifying it with here the one 52 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: that I hate to hear. Well, if if it's God's will, 53 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: excuse me. If it's God's will that you fail. If 54 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: it's God's will that you're not successful, If it's God's 55 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: will that you lay down and give up, it's God's 56 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: will that you allow yourself to amount to, not to 57 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: not reach your potential. That's God's will. That's not the 58 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 1: God I know. That's not the God I served, that's 59 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 1: not the God I've read about. That's not the God 60 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,840 Speaker 1: I believe in. I'm sorry, I just my mother always 61 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 1: taught me something that he didn't bring me this far 62 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 1: to leave me. I just don't believe that, not for 63 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: a second. Now have I convinced myself or some things? Yep? 64 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 1: Have I allowed the devil to come into the picture 65 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 1: and paint a different one from it? Yep, yep, I've 66 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:10,840 Speaker 1: done all of that. But you can't blame that on God. Now, 67 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: come on, So when when discouragement comes, try to look 68 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: at it if you can, as a test of your faith, 69 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: and you merely have to pass the test. It could 70 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: be for a day, a half a day, a few hours, 71 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: a week, a few weeks, it don't matter. Don't nobody 72 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: know how long the test period is. Your job is 73 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: to keep the faith and keep moving. Keep the faith 74 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 1: and keep moving, keep working, keep believing, keep hope alive. 75 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: That's your job. If you do that, that's how you 76 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,720 Speaker 1: pass the test. It could be over tomorrow, it could 77 00:06:52,720 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 1: be over in two weeks, it could be over in 78 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: a month. You don't know. But all you got to 79 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: do is wake up and keep the faith and fight 80 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 1: the discouraging feelings. And how do you do that? Steve? 81 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: Now here we go. This is the part I know 82 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: about for show because how many times I've had to 83 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: fight off discouragement in order to get to where God 84 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: wanted me to be. What do you do when you 85 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: become discouraged? Well, here's a series of things. I do. 86 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: I think of the outcome. When I get discouraged about 87 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: a task, I think about the outcome. Man, what would 88 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: it be like if I were to complete the task? 89 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: What would it be like? Man? What would the outcome 90 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 1: be for me? If I hung on in there? If 91 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: I didn't give up, If I if I if I imagine, 92 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: I imagine if I don't quit, I imagine if I 93 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: don't give up, what would it be like? Man, Suppose 94 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: everything I'm hoping for comes true. But if I don't 95 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: quit and give up, that might just be the case. 96 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: I start are talking to myself like that. I think 97 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: of what the upside is. What's the upside to stay 98 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: in with it? You see, all this is the same thing. 99 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: I'm just giving you different ways to look at it. 100 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: I'm saying the exact same thing over and over. But 101 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to find the switch that connects in 102 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: your mind where you can say, Okay, man, I'm gonna 103 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: hang in there. Because if you think of the outcome, 104 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: and the outcome is appealing to you, if you imagine 105 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: what it would be like if you don't give up, 106 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 1: or you don't quit, if you if you think only 107 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,599 Speaker 1: of what the upside is to stay in with it, 108 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:40,719 Speaker 1: and then I I go, where can this lead to? 109 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: If I stay with it, man, and the outcome comes true? 110 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: What else could that lead me to? Because I mean, 111 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: there's always more to it? So what where else could 112 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 1: this lead me to? What are the possibilities? Man? What 113 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 1: are the limitless possibility of these? What could God possibly 114 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 1: have in store for me if I just hang in there? 115 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:08,599 Speaker 1: If I passed this test of faith, if I just 116 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: passed this test. Now, it ain't gonna be the only one. 117 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 1: But you gotta get past this one. No, then you're 118 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: gonna hear the smooth plane. Then it's gonna be another one. 119 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 1: It's gonna be another one. Life ain't nothing but a 120 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: series of tests. Man. Man, When you're thinking about giving up, 121 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: when you discourage, think of the outcome. Imagine what it 122 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: would be like if you don't quit, if you don't 123 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: give up. What's the upside to stay in with it? 124 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:39,439 Speaker 1: Where can this all lead to? What? What can this 125 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: get you too? If if you do this and you 126 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: get to where you think you want to be? Oh, 127 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:49,599 Speaker 1: my God, what's after that? What are the limitless and 128 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: endless possibilities of holding on to your faith? What could 129 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 1: really be out there for me? Man? If I just 130 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: passed this test, you gotta talk yourself in the hang 131 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,319 Speaker 1: in in there. And sometimes it ain't nobody talking to 132 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: you about hanging in there but you. But that's good 133 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: enough because God has a blessing for you. God's got 134 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 1: a blessing with your name on it. God has packages 135 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:19,479 Speaker 1: bundled up with your name on it. He got blessings 136 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:22,599 Speaker 1: just in boxes with your name on it. Man, I 137 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: want all the mind shipped. I'll be on Faith Street 138 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 1: waiting there to receive. I just I'm just believing he's 139 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 1: shipping stuff. But if you keep moving from the address 140 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: of Faith, if you keep getting off Faith Street, why 141 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: you want the packages to go? They got your name 142 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 1: on it and it's based on your faith. But if 143 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: you keep moving on Doubt Avenue and ain't no Way 144 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: Boulevard and the pasage get delivered only the Faith Street 145 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: what you keep moving on Faith Street for? Come on, man, 146 00:10:54,440 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 1: you can't give up. You can't give up. You're listening, Uh, 147 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, people from all over 148 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 1: this world, dizel morning, it is Steve L Morning Short. 149 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: It's crazy, It's crazy, It's just crazy. He's all over you. 150 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 1: Just just what it is. It's just crazy. You're crazy 151 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 1: and it crazy. You just crazy. And that wasn't happening 152 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 1: right now? Did you're crazy? It's just crazy, crazy, crazy, creepy. 153 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: You know what it is? Crazy? What is it? Steve? Crazy? 154 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: This new catter be bored right now? Crazy man, super hero, 155 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 1: black primp and crazy man. So this morning? What I 156 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: want to start to do? Hello Jilly, Hello, crazy man? 157 00:11:56,440 --> 00:12:02,559 Speaker 1: Was a very collar great ain't the man? Jay having it? 158 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 1: Crazy man? What crazy there going? Apisde watch you crazy? 159 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: How did you get this crazy? You know? I was 160 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: just I was praying basketball one day when I was 161 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 1: a baby and somebody threw a brand I wasn't looking 162 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 1: at the ball but me dad in the face and 163 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: when I got up, yall crazy there? How many times 164 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:35,719 Speaker 1: a day do you hear that he's crazy? Whoa you 165 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: count the crazy? Count? Leave at eight times that any time? 166 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: And you only right out and get do talking right 167 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: after that? Soon as I get through, I got a question, 168 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 1: crazy man, what you got called? Who do you think 169 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:58,199 Speaker 1: it's crazy. Who else do you think it's crazy? I 170 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 1: be Donald Trump crazy to go crazy man, let me 171 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: crazy man club shot. Ain't that media man makes sense 172 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 1: right there? Crazy crazed up my board right now now 173 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 1: that has my bar. But the crazy just be tweeting. 174 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: Damn boy, nothing man. What was the craziest thing you 175 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: saw this past week? Let's see the crazy? Oh? I 176 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: saw a striple video? What I just saw some striples 177 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: having proud turn it long before they went out start 178 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:43,719 Speaker 1: tress saw that crazy? Wore you all that crate? I 179 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:49,319 Speaker 1: sound that crazy crazy? That's cz Heavenly Father God. They 180 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 1: need new tea, they need a new moody. What do 181 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: I need a new wig? What do I need? The 182 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: best step at it to her sick kids. I was 183 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: crazy on crossing through the whole prop a minute. Pretty crazy. 184 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: Oh that craz crazy? Hey you check? Are you gonna 185 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 1: be your stribble and cuss? Why are you praying? All right? 186 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: Crazy man? Hang on? I don't know if you're gonna 187 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 1: be this all morning or not, but anyway, you cut 188 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: it all. We'll be back with more crazy after you're 189 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up in 190 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: about an hour. We're going to play. Are you smarter 191 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: the nephew, Tommy. This is a story about marriage, though 192 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: um sons. A marriage is doomed. According this is according 193 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: now Jay to wedding photographers. Okay, there's no doubt wedding 194 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:56,840 Speaker 1: photographers have seen it, all right, We all hired wedding photographers. 195 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: Is that the police talking? Yeah, you can't called the police. 196 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: Sirens and stuff, all right. Anyway, wedding photographers have seen 197 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: it all and since they spend a lot of time 198 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: getting to know a couple before a big day, many 199 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: can see the signs of a doomed relationship even before 200 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: the I dues, even before they're even said. Okay. Wedding 201 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: photographers have shared the red flags that tell them a 202 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 1: couple maybe headed for divorce. Red flags include here we go, 203 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: a partner who's completely uninterested in taking the pictures in 204 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: the first place, already marriage. A couple who doesn't spend 205 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: any time together at a reception, all right, that's another sign. 206 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: That's another when her family he's with his family. You 207 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: know how it goes. Yeah, here's another one. And couples 208 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: who aren't on the same page over money. That's definitely 209 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: a red flag a relations Jenny's first first man, all right, 210 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: here's another issue. If a couple has between a twenty 211 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: and twenty five percent rejection rates plus in fighting amongst 212 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: the wedding party. Wow, yeah, but other people said that 213 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: he's not good for you and she's not for you 214 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: of your friends and you shouldn't beat up with that. 215 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: And a couple of couple who makes you know, like 216 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: little tiny, little bity subtle digs at each other throughout 217 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: the wedding. Not that when we had stuff like that. Damn, Mama, 218 00:16:37,240 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: you're an expert at get that. I don't think you're 219 00:16:43,280 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: gonna be get in that draft to be of which, 220 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 1: thank you, daddy, of me at last, so j and 221 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: seems here of course we want you to chime. Man, 222 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: it's your chime when you get through. Yeah. Okay, well 223 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: I'm just about through. But I do have a question 224 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: to ask you. Did you guys have any doubts? Did 225 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: you see any red flags? Yeah? My dad, Mary the 226 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: best sign ever ever, And I didn't list. My daughter 227 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: said to me, She said to me, Daddy, you ain't 228 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: got to go through with us. We can just have 229 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:27,159 Speaker 1: a party. And I have the reception, but not win. 230 00:17:27,359 --> 00:17:31,719 Speaker 1: Another friend of match, Stephanie said, this was my time 231 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 1: match which one, Yeah, Stephanie, but yeah my third Stepanie 232 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 1: says that Stephanie to my witch. Stephanie said, and I repeat, now, dog, 233 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 1: I catch the next one like it's a movie a flight. Yeah, 234 00:17:54,440 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: I'll the next one. No, No, I have a shortness 235 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 1: of things that I have discovered that can happen during 236 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 1: the wedding day or leading up to that. We'll let 237 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 1: you know the same thing. The work come on from 238 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 1: the winding photographer perspective. If at no point do they 239 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: want to hold hands for pictures. Here's another sign at 240 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 1: the wedding. If it ain't but one person on top 241 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:39,160 Speaker 1: of the cake, what kind of make a cake like that? Yeah, 242 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: you're just a bride or just a groove what I'm saying, 243 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: don't you know? You've got to put me up? And 244 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:51,520 Speaker 1: here's the biggest way you could tell this this this 245 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 1: weird ain't gonna last if after reception ain't no gifts 246 00:18:55,920 --> 00:19:00,040 Speaker 1: on the table. That's what people are just saying. And 247 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 1: I'm not in the pot for my money that this ain't. 248 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 1: Somebody says, so what day is that again? Wednesday? Getting married? 249 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 1: I want to win. I guess my favorite one was 250 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:28,640 Speaker 1: if you're taking digs like that, Yeah, but God doesn't 251 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 1: your sid all the time? Thank you, thank you, Mike. 252 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 1: Take a breath mint before when you know I don't 253 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 1: even like each other with them a little through the groom, 254 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 1: she coming down an you up there, and this is 255 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 1: what you turn around your best man to say, yeah, yeah, 256 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: in the middle. I don't know if y'all know this 257 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 1: about music, but this is the absolute truth. Taps and 258 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 1: the wedding song. Taps and the wedding song are in 259 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: the same key. I rest my kids horrible, but Jay 260 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:35,919 Speaker 1: is the expert wedding song. Same. Okay, you mean a lovely, 261 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 1: beautiful woman. You meet a beautiful woman, you like her 262 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: a whole lot. The relationship is growing. It's about that 263 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: time you know that the next step is marriage. What 264 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 1: do you do? Didn't Steve tell you to stop doing 265 00:20:53,359 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: this several times day? It's life every like every month, 266 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 1: you do what he said. I didn't try something new, Steve, 267 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 1: you got that for sure, for sure. He ain't heard. 268 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 1: He's so unmoved by this. Hear it all right because 269 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: he felt that way about all they is a good doing. 270 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 1: The relationship but to get bad after the wind is 271 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: a good doing. The relationship coming out right after this 272 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: sun tapped with a brank phone call. We'll be back. 273 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, Tommy, 274 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:45,640 Speaker 1: it's Friday. How you feeling I'm feeling? Oh my goodness? 275 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,400 Speaker 1: Are you ready? I'm ready, I'm ready, I'm ready. I'm ready. 276 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 1: Who we got because coming up in about twenty minutes 277 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: after the hour, we're going to play? Are you smarter 278 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:58,359 Speaker 1: than nephew? Tommy? There's no aposso all way? God, please 279 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: come on smart people call us? Uh. Up for grabs 280 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: is a chance to win Steve's grand prize of one 281 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 1: million dollars. That's appealing and you can't play unless you 282 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: register at Steve Harvey f M dot com. Are you smarter? 283 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,919 Speaker 1: Right now? The King of Pranks is in here. Uh 284 00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 1: he's gonna run that frank back. What you got nav? 285 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 1: King of Pranks? Hello? Hello, I'm trying to reach Uh Gary, Gary? 286 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:33,719 Speaker 1: Who's this? Hello? Who's this? Hey? This is Tony Man. 287 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 1: I work with your wife. Pam's all right. Oh she's fine, 288 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 1: she's fine. Man. I'm I'm one of a co workers. Man, 289 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:43,560 Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to you. You know, I've 290 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 1: been working with it quite some time. I'm kind of 291 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: like what they called her work husband. Man. You may 292 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: have heard her mentioned me before, Tony. Wait wait wait wait, 293 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,120 Speaker 1: back up, back up, because I may be a little sleep. 294 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,159 Speaker 1: What did you say a husband? No? No, no, no, no, 295 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,080 Speaker 1: no no no, nothing like that. Man. It ain't but 296 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 1: one husband. Okay, now I got that. I'm a work husband, 297 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,359 Speaker 1: you know, you know like that, you know, just some 298 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 1: something playful at the job. They'd be saying, work. What 299 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: are you talking about? Well, you know, just just something 300 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: you know, playful. They' be saying, you know, uh, when 301 00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: you hang around somebody a lot this that you should 302 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 1: work husband or your work wife. You know, something like that. 303 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 1: But no, nothing nothing, nothing heavy, nothing heavy at all. Man, 304 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 1: All right, what's what's up? Man? I mean what's up? Well? 305 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 1: I was calling man, trying to ask you how long? Um? 306 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: How long are you paying been married? Wait? Wait, what's 307 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 1: what's your name again? My name is Tony? Okay, um, 308 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,160 Speaker 1: we've been married about eight or nine years? And what's up? 309 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: How long do you do? Uh? If you don't mind 310 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: me asking, how much longer do you see y'all? Y'all 311 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: being married. I kind of do mind you that. Okay, 312 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 1: hold up, how did you get this number again? Man? Like, no, 313 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,119 Speaker 1: I got I got the number out of out of 314 00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 1: pans phone and I wanted to call you myself. Whoa 315 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 1: whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa back out of my wife's phone. Yeah, dog, 316 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: I don't I don't even answer. Whoa whoa? Why are 317 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: you in my wife's phone? No, dude, I mean I 318 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 1: just got it off a desk, man. I wanted to. 319 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,360 Speaker 1: I wanted to, um, you know, I wanted to reach 320 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 1: out to you man and kind of have a black 321 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:19,200 Speaker 1: a private conversation with that first one. Why are you 322 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 1: in my wife's phone? You calling me? Dude? I mean, 323 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 1: this is this, This is how this this husband thing. 324 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,480 Speaker 1: This it's really it's really blowed me right now. No, 325 00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:32,120 Speaker 1: it's just know, it's just a word. That's a work husband, man, 326 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 1: That's all it is. What is a work husband? What 327 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,639 Speaker 1: are you? What are you doing with my wife? You know? 328 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:39,560 Speaker 1: That's just like you know, like you know, I'll bring 329 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: us some coffee and dontnuts to the job, or you know, 330 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: get us some lunch and stuff. Man, if you don't 331 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: feel like going my wife don't even like don that, 332 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 1: and we got a new coffee machine just two weeks ago. 333 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:54,440 Speaker 1: So why are you bringing my wife? Hey? Man, listen, 334 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 1: I really, I really, I basically I just called for this. 335 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 1: Yere I loan I loaned to youth. Foresee y'all being 336 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 1: married to death? Do us part? What do you mean? 337 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,520 Speaker 1: How long are we gonna be married? What you let 338 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 1: me to? Man? Tony, Tony Tory? I don't give a 339 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 1: damn you're asking me this? Hold on? Let me let 340 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: me call my wife. Hold on, hold on, Holo, Hello, 341 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 1: Hello Gary, Gary, look hem, you better call me. We've 342 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: in two minutes right now, it's ten eight, you better 343 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 1: call me my ten party? Are your black be sleeping outside? Hello? Tory? Hello? Yes? 344 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,920 Speaker 1: Are you to do that? Why you call her? Man? This? 345 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: This wonna be a conversation me and you having together? 346 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: Hello on the are you talking about you? You? My 347 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: wife's word? Husband? It ain't but one husband up in here, 348 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 1: and she don't keep it till death? Do us part? Now? 349 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 1: I'm glad you called me on a Friday. I'm so 350 00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 1: glad because I got all weekend to think about that. 351 00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you because this here now he man. Man, all, 352 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out how much long with do 353 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: you think you want to be married to her? Oh? Yeah, 354 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: this wasn't gonna be phenomenal. Are you better get right 355 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: with Jesus on Sunday? Because I get a dance tea. 356 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:21,640 Speaker 1: You're gonna meet a Monday morning. I'm trying to say. 357 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 1: If I'm taking my wife up there early and I 358 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: want to see you black, I'm just trying to the dog. 359 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is if you didn't want to be 360 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: be mad to you any longer than maybe we could 361 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 1: work something. Now. That's all I'm asking was the workout partners. 362 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 1: All we need to work out is be there Monday, 363 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 1: because I'm shure that hell is gonna be there. Question 364 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:43,119 Speaker 1: early Monday, waiting for your work husband mine. Okay, look, man, 365 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: I'm never gonna working. I'm not trying to look. I 366 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: don't trying to do it. Help a deeper man and 367 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 1: man conversation with you. Man, all right, you know you 368 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,120 Speaker 1: don't call me talking about you bringing my wife, don't. 369 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: That's some coffee and I all open up soon. This 370 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 1: ain't no deeply conversations. He man, I'm her work husband, 371 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 1: dog everybody. Everybody. Most people have a work husband or 372 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 1: work wife. Man. That's that's known in the corporate world. 373 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 1: Work husband. You hear what I'm saying. What a work 374 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 1: husband and you I'm gonna be there Monday, eight o'clock. 375 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm not gonna say go back. Look, you 376 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 1: know what, I'm gonna just call Pam. I just called Pam. 377 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to call me back in about a minute. 378 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: In fifteen seconds, we're gonna wait for to call me back. 379 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 1: Work husband, mine something on a Friday. Okay, Well that's 380 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: it was just it was just a question. Man. I'm 381 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: just trying to see if you didn't want to maybe 382 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 1: we could work something out if I find out if 383 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:39,560 Speaker 1: there's any truth to anything you're saying. Oh, it's gonna 384 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,760 Speaker 1: be the later on night to night. You ain't nobody 385 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,640 Speaker 1: gonna do nothing to my baby. I mean, ain't nobody 386 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 1: gonna do pa. What did you call? My wife's gonna payment? No? No, man, 387 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 1: I'm here Monday and this the work husband. Hey man, 388 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say to you. Man, No, 389 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: you ain't love to say to me Monday. No, No, No, 390 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 1: I got something else I need to say to you 391 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,199 Speaker 1: are you listening? You gonna talk to Jesus because I'm 392 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 1: gonna be up there on Monday eight. Okay, I got 393 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,440 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say. You 394 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 1: got nothing to say to me. It's something Monday. I do. 395 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 1: Got one more thing to say to you. Go ahead, 396 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 1: go ahead. I said that you're listening. I'm listening to 397 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,560 Speaker 1: this for work hasAge. We'll just what I want to 398 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:19,879 Speaker 1: tell you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey 399 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You just got pranked by your brother Eric 400 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: love that I put you up to this. I'm so 401 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: glad this is a joke because somebody was about to die. 402 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: So you all right? Man? Oh man, that's a good one. 403 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: A I need a drink? Man, Man? Yeah, man, Hey, 404 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I gotta ask you. Man, 405 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 1: what is the baddest radio show in the lane? And 406 00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show? Y'all crazy? Come on play 407 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 1: too much? It's gonna happen. It's work your husband. Everybody 408 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: got one perk? Everybody got one? What what is it? Oh? 409 00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: Work husband? I am call of hush work husband? Did 410 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,080 Speaker 1: you force this on me? I don't I don't want 411 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: to be married. To you like she said she wanted 412 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 1: to be married. When you want me to ruggle? Get 413 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: some food in between the breaks? Yeah, yeah, we tell 414 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 1: them about these dates so we could get some A 415 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: t L A t L this weekend, y'all Friday, Saturday Sunday. 416 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 1: Two shows Friday one Saturday one on Sunday. It is 417 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 1: the Nephew in town. It's been a while since I've 418 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: been to the A t L. Foolery only comes around 419 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 1: once every two or three years, and I'm back again. 420 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 1: Stupid has landed in the A t L. Coming up, 421 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: it's more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening 422 00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey Tommy, it's Friday. 423 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 1: How you feeling I'm feeling smart? Oh my goodness. Are 424 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 1: you ready? Because coming up in about twenty minutes after 425 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 1: the hour, we're going to play are you Smarter than Nephew? Tommy? 426 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: Up for grabs is a chance to win Steve's grand 427 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: prize of one million dollars. I'm sure that's appealing, and 428 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: you can't play unless you register at Steve Harvey f 429 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 1: M dot com. Here we go with comedy roulette. Here's 430 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 1: how we do this. It's very simple. Give us five subjects. 431 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: Put the subjects on one wheel. I'd like to say 432 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 1: this part where they stop, where they stop, we do 433 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 1: the damn thing. Wherever they stop, a damn thing. All right, 434 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:56,320 Speaker 1: we're ready. Number one white people and their dogs. Okay, 435 00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 1: here we go. Food. We Yeah, that's good. We can 436 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: make that work. Yeah, you listen to see a number 437 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,719 Speaker 1: three you got way too much week. I got that one. 438 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: That's good. Okay, I'm just gonna say I had nothing. 439 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 1: Number four, I'm not in this. Number four women who 440 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 1: can't cook whatever. I want your little wheel to five 441 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 1: people who come to your house unexpected. I like that 442 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 1: one a lot. I really like that's fun, the wheel fun. Alright, 443 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 1: let's go cat, it's better not start cook it. Number 444 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: three you got way too much with me, start this 445 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 1: bad buy off. First of all, you know you got 446 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:52,040 Speaker 1: way too much weed if you spend the entire day, 447 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 1: all day, all day the day doing this right here, 448 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 1: what I'll tell you what I know people like this. 449 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: You got way too much weed when you leave him, 450 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: when you leave the bathroom and we mistake you for 451 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:24,760 Speaker 1: the dog, the dog, get the dog, Steve. You know 452 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 1: you got too much weed when you're spending the majority 453 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 1: of your time hatten you like you're trying to thank us. 454 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:40,120 Speaker 1: You know you got way way too much weak. Well, 455 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 1: we can't keep nothing hot nex to your because that 456 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 1: time you sit around, we got to worry about to 457 00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 1: catch you on fire. We can't lighten up round on 458 00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 1: you kitchen. You got way too much weed. We got 459 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 1: to be confident. Yeah, there you go. You got way 460 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 1: too much weed when you got to go outside and 461 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:10,720 Speaker 1: use the yard rate. We got to get this rake 462 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: too much much we come. You got too much weed 463 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 1: when every time you see your Korean person you hide 464 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 1: from because you thank you. You you know, you know 465 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 1: you got way too much weed. When you get in 466 00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 1: your car and to close your door to back out 467 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 1: and you can't see a damn. You got too much 468 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 1: we You know, you know you got way too much 469 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 1: we But I want to be intimate with you. But 470 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 1: I got to separate your head to look you in 471 00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 1: your I got a friend, Come on, close it up. 472 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: You got too much we ad if you didn't got 473 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 1: into church play and they want you to be cousin. 474 00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:27,759 Speaker 1: And she's here. The talented miss and Trip during an 475 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:32,080 Speaker 1: interview yesterday with CNBC the President directly addressed federal reserve policy, 476 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:36,399 Speaker 1: criticizing the Central banks central banks decision rather to raise 477 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 1: interest rates. I'm not thrilled because you know, we go up, 478 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 1: and every time you go up, they want to raise 479 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,720 Speaker 1: rates again, and I don't really I am not happy 480 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:47,880 Speaker 1: about it. It's extremely unusual for presidents to comment on 481 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 1: federal policy, but Trump said he couldn't care less. Meanwhile, 482 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 1: as the President continues to face criticism from both sides 483 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,600 Speaker 1: of the aisle over his private sit down with Russian 484 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 1: President Vladimir Putin, where it comes at, Trump has extended 485 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: in an vitation for Putin to visit the White House 486 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,239 Speaker 1: this fall during the election season, as a follow up 487 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 1: to their get together in Helsinki. You may remember on Monday, 488 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 1: Trump was bragging about what he called Putin's incredible offer 489 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: to have US investigators go to Moscow to meet the 490 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 1: twelve Russian military intelligence officers who have been indicted in 491 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,120 Speaker 1: this country for meddling in the election in twenty sixteen. 492 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,760 Speaker 1: The catch being then in return, Russia gets to interview 493 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 1: a you, a former U S ambassador or congressional aid 494 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: and some other Americans whom Moscow says are tied to 495 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 1: a businessman whose lobby for sanction against them. Well, the U. S. 496 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 1: State Department calls the Kremlin's allegations absurd. In fact, the 497 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,880 Speaker 1: whole Senate, Republicans and Democrats, voted in favor yesterday unanimously 498 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,439 Speaker 1: of a resolution stating that they're opposed to the idea 499 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 1: that the US would turn over any Americans for questioning 500 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,080 Speaker 1: by the Russians. Would senate democratically to Chuck Schumer, saying 501 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:52,280 Speaker 1: no president should have the power to gift wrapped American citizens. 502 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: Donald Trump are now reportedly disagrees, by the way, with 503 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 1: Putin's offered, according to his press secretary. In the fall 504 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,640 Speaker 1: of body of between three year old black man found 505 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,360 Speaker 1: in a small Georgia town about forty miles north of Atlanta, 506 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 1: the sheriff said the victim, Timothy Coggins, had been killed 507 00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:10,839 Speaker 1: in a quote racist hate crime. However, last October, over 508 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 1: thirty years later, breaking the case came the rest of 509 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 1: two white men. Now one of them, six year old 510 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,959 Speaker 1: Frank Geppard, has been found guilty. He since the thirty 511 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 1: years in prison. The other defendant, his brother in law, 512 00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,320 Speaker 1: facing trial later this year. They think DeepArt thought his 513 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,320 Speaker 1: white girlfriend may have been messing around with the victim 514 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:28,560 Speaker 1: a man the verge of confirmation to be a federal 515 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 1: Appeals Court judge, and the Nice Circuit has now withdrawn 516 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:35,280 Speaker 1: his nomination. Democrats have long criticized Ryan Bounds's nomination, signing 517 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:39,520 Speaker 1: his allegedly racist writings. And finally, today is National nap Day, 518 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 1: So take a cool one. We'll be back with more 519 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:45,440 Speaker 1: entertainment coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. Are 520 00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 1: you Smarter than Nephew? Tommy? Check it out on the 521 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:52,680 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Show. 522 00:36:54,040 --> 00:37:00,520 Speaker 1: It is time to play are you Smarter than Nephew? Tony? Uh, Tommy. 523 00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 1: Let's meet our contestants, shall we? Oh? Well we shall. Shirley, 524 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:13,439 Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning? Who is this this iss you wrote? Yeah? 525 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 1: I wrote from the dead. I was gonna ask you 526 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:18,640 Speaker 1: what you called it from, but I think I know 527 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:24,680 Speaker 1: already what you called it from last Olive Branch, Mississippi. 528 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:28,360 Speaker 1: The sip baby. Okay, what do you do for a 529 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 1: living man? I'm a chuck driver, Okay, alright, a little 530 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:37,840 Speaker 1: truck drivers? Do you think? Do you possibly think that 531 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,400 Speaker 1: you're smarter than meet? The nip It ain't no taking. 532 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 1: I know farther than the pool. Yes, all right. Last, 533 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna make me rise up boy? Okay, all right, 534 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,840 Speaker 1: So here's I got. Shirley is gonna ask both of 535 00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 1: us some trivial questions. Alright, trivia questions correctly. Whoever answers 536 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 1: the most questions correctly in sixty seconds will win. It's 537 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:06,040 Speaker 1: just that simple, all right, all right, Okay, Tommy, we 538 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:08,239 Speaker 1: need you to scedattle, get on out of the room. 539 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 1: We don't want Tommy to hear any of the questions. Lazarus, 540 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 1: are you ready? Cat? Please give me sixty seconds on 541 00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:28,480 Speaker 1: the clock. Rainbow and Dre are the parents on what 542 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:35,760 Speaker 1: currently running TV sitcom? Hey? What record label did Michael 543 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 1: Jackson first record on? Oh? Which airport is known as 544 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 1: the busiest airport in the world? Oh? New York? What 545 00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: color is the ruby gemstone? Oh? This um? Oh god, 546 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:11,320 Speaker 1: it is red? What is an elephants tusk made of? 547 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 1: In the animated movie series Shrek? What is Shrek's wife's name, Fiona? 548 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 1: The quote I'll huff and I'll puff and I'll blow 549 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:33,279 Speaker 1: your house down is from what nursery rhyme? Lazarus, Lazarus Lazarus, 550 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:39,160 Speaker 1: Jay and Carla. What do you think? Oh god, he 551 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:49,040 Speaker 1: got it the best game of Oh god, I ever hear? 552 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 1: Is right? Oh God is right? Lazarus. Alright, listen when 553 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: we come back, Tommy's gonna come back into the room 554 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,680 Speaker 1: and we'll find out who is the smartest and are 555 00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:05,560 Speaker 1: you smarter than nephew Tommy? Will it be Lazarus? Oh God, 556 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:09,120 Speaker 1: you know, Oh God, we don't know. Tommy will be 557 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 1: back at thirty four after the hour. Hello, lord, you're 558 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:20,239 Speaker 1: listening to We are in the middle of playing. Are 559 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,640 Speaker 1: you smarter than nephew Tommy? Well, Tommy is back in 560 00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 1: the studio now, everyone, welcome Tommy back. Welcome back. Yeah, Tommy, 561 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:36,520 Speaker 1: are contestant Lazarus. Let's just say oh god, yeah, let's 562 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 1: just say that. Yeah, so Tommy, are you ready? Alright? 563 00:40:46,640 --> 00:40:51,600 Speaker 1: Cat start the clock at sixty seconds please. Rainbow and 564 00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:55,360 Speaker 1: Dre are the parents on what currently running TV? Sitcom? 565 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:04,640 Speaker 1: What record label did Michael Jackson first record word? On? Motown? 566 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:09,280 Speaker 1: Which airport is known as the busiest airport in the world? 567 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:19,200 Speaker 1: H fast? What color is the ruby gemstone? What is 568 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:25,240 Speaker 1: an elephants tusk made of? In the animated movie series Shrek. 569 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:31,440 Speaker 1: What is Shrek's wife's name. The quote I'll huff and 570 00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,920 Speaker 1: I'll puff and I'll blow your house down is from 571 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: what nursery rhyme? What type of alcohol is used to 572 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:48,239 Speaker 1: make a moscow mule? Beer? Vodka? I don't think that 573 00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 1: the letter the letters M E are the abbreviation for 574 00:41:52,239 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 1: which state may after the buzzer? Okay, uh, alright, well 575 00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,160 Speaker 1: we tally up the results. We have to do our tallying. 576 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:23,040 Speaker 1: Now you said that every day. Okay, alright, We're gonna 577 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 1: read these questions with the answers again. Here we go 578 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 1: as we tally Rainbow and Dre are the parents on 579 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:36,320 Speaker 1: what currently running TV sitcom Blackish on ABC? What record 580 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:43,200 Speaker 1: label did Michael Jackson first record on Motown? Which airport 581 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:47,719 Speaker 1: is known as the busiest airport in the world Hertsfield 582 00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:54,360 Speaker 1: Jackson Airport in Atlanta, Georgia. What color is the ruby 583 00:42:54,520 --> 00:43:01,520 Speaker 1: gemstone red? What is an elephant tusk made of ivory? 584 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:06,399 Speaker 1: In the animated movie series Shrek? What is Shrek's wife's name, 585 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:11,719 Speaker 1: Princess Fiona. The quote I'll huff and I'll puff and 586 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 1: I'll blow your house down is from what nursery rhyme? 587 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:20,839 Speaker 1: The three little pigs. What type of alcohol is used 588 00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:28,120 Speaker 1: to make a moscow mule cocktail? Vodka? The letters M 589 00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:43,840 Speaker 1: E are the abbreviation for which state Maine? Okay, talleng, Uh, no, 590 00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 1: hug hollow? He got two? Right, Leslie's got two? Right? 591 00:43:53,239 --> 00:44:04,160 Speaker 1: Number four again? Tommy got seven? Uh? Did you get made? 592 00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,719 Speaker 1: You got made? After the buzzing right, will give or take? 593 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:12,359 Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm good either way it go. I'm still 594 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,400 Speaker 1: gonna hook you our big dog twenty five all the 595 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:16,520 Speaker 1: cash gift card just for playing the game. Are you 596 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,399 Speaker 1: smarter than nephew Thomas? So much love to you, brother, 597 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:25,239 Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Alright, alright, alright, anybody out there, anybody 598 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 1: if you think you're smarter than me, nephew Tommy, and 599 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:30,640 Speaker 1: you want a chance to win my uncle Steve Harvey 600 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:34,479 Speaker 1: grand prize of one million dollars, go to Steve Harvey 601 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,279 Speaker 1: FM dot com to register. You too, can get in 602 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:45,080 Speaker 1: line while Lee's whoopings, I'm putting on after a man 603 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:53,279 Speaker 1: that can't say whoopings who whatever he says, Lazarus knows 604 00:44:53,400 --> 00:45:00,720 Speaker 1: what it is. Alright, Frank, phone call coming up next 605 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: with the dare I say smart? Oh? It hurts say it, 606 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:14,839 Speaker 1: Say it. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Show coming 607 00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:19,000 Speaker 1: up this Monday morning. The Winning continues at seven twenty eastern, 608 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,719 Speaker 1: six twenties Central. We are giving away a chance to 609 00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: get some of Steve Harvey's grand prize money of one 610 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:32,600 Speaker 1: million dollars one million dollars. When we play are you 611 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 1: smarter than a few times and no you are not? 612 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,960 Speaker 1: You say, who isn't? But you know you've been doing 613 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,440 Speaker 1: all right lately. Uh. If you if you want to 614 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,960 Speaker 1: try and beat Tommy and show that you're smarter than 615 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,520 Speaker 1: he is, go to Steve Harvey FM dot com to 616 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:52,439 Speaker 1: registers so you can play what is it drink? Smart water? 617 00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,080 Speaker 1: If anybody gonna beat me, they're gonna have to drink 618 00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 1: something the night before. It is in the smart Water 619 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about 620 00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:08,279 Speaker 1: four minutes after I get ready for today's Strawberry Letter. 621 00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 1: But up next, come on, nephew, what you got Worker's cough? 622 00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 1: Just so matter of fact, worker's car animated? Got workers? 623 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:24,359 Speaker 1: I ain't never been on it, man, I gotta yeah, 624 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 1: I think I have I got it. Yeah, I got it. Workers. Okay, 625 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:36,320 Speaker 1: you ain't never got a call just maternity right away working. 626 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:43,360 Speaker 1: How would you know what? I can't handle down babies. 627 00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:51,239 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna my legs. I'm not gonna tell you. Yes, maternity. Yeah, 628 00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:56,440 Speaker 1: you was just pregnant when your wife can can my 629 00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,360 Speaker 1: baby be five? And I get it. If your baby 630 00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 1: is ill and you have to take time off to 631 00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 1: deal with it, he ain't el like physically. I just 632 00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,680 Speaker 1: think something wrong with it? So can I just well 633 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 1: something wrong with it? That? Yeah, I tell you right 634 00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:25,319 Speaker 1: now if you his dady, there's a high cheir right. Yeah, hello, Hello, 635 00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach your bencent place. Who's calling my 636 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:35,000 Speaker 1: name is uh from the human resources? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 637 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:38,520 Speaker 1: what's what's up? Well, Benson, one of the first of 638 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:41,359 Speaker 1: all check on you. We know you're got injured here 639 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,560 Speaker 1: at the job. How are you doing so far? Yeah? Man, 640 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:48,640 Speaker 1: I'm I'm making that man. You know, everything's cool and uh, 641 00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know how long. The therapy is 642 00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 1: going pretty good though, but I'm a right, I'm okay. 643 00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: Therapy is going pretty well. Yeah, they say I'm doing 644 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,320 Speaker 1: all right. The pain level was about maybe a fix still, 645 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 1: but it's getting done it though. Okay, let's sen have 646 00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,040 Speaker 1: you been getting your your check on time. Yeah, I've 647 00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:10,800 Speaker 1: been getting a man, and I appreciate it. But it 648 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 1: really helps, man, because you know, I ain't able to 649 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 1: work right now. They said it's gonna be a little while, 650 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:21,520 Speaker 1: so I appreciate that. Y'all the one defending the check, yes, sir, Yes, sir. 651 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:23,239 Speaker 1: We all want to getting the checks out and want 652 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 1: to make sure that that's definitely getting there, so you're yeah, 653 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 1: it's good. It's all good, man. I appreciate it. I 654 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:33,160 Speaker 1: appreciate it. Okay, let me we've got a bit of 655 00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,320 Speaker 1: a problem that we wanted to check out. Now. You 656 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:40,480 Speaker 1: haven't been doing any any strain? You was, uh no, no, no, no, 657 00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,920 Speaker 1: I ain't been. I ain't. I ain't been working at all, man. 658 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 1: I just you know, I've just been taking it either. 659 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,879 Speaker 1: I can't do nothing really right now, and they told 660 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 1: me I could do nothing, all right, And then you 661 00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:51,360 Speaker 1: do know the rules are that you're not supposed to 662 00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:55,319 Speaker 1: do anything to jeopardize your pack. Correct. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 663 00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:58,839 Speaker 1: I'm straight. I'm straight. I ain't been doing nothing, man. Okay, Well, 664 00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,400 Speaker 1: let me let me say this to you. We do 665 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:04,080 Speaker 1: have some um surveillance cameras that are showing us that 666 00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,879 Speaker 1: you've you've been doing some straining with I ain't even 667 00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,480 Speaker 1: been going nowhere. Come about surveillance cameras. I don't know 668 00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 1: how they go nowhere. Well, you know the straining with 669 00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,879 Speaker 1: work that you're doing is actually at home. At home, 670 00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,160 Speaker 1: I'll be inside. I don't I don't do nothing outside. 671 00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't way, I don't even Bobby que man, what 672 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,960 Speaker 1: you know what you're talking about? Streaming? Okay, have you 673 00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:29,400 Speaker 1: uh Vincent? Have you have you been having have you 674 00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:33,240 Speaker 1: been having sex at home? What's the kind of question? 675 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,040 Speaker 1: Who is this is? This is a supervibus. I've been 676 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:37,920 Speaker 1: We're kind of Let me talk to people about it 677 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 1: that ain't know your damn. I'm with human resources. I 678 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,560 Speaker 1: don't know my man, excuse me, dog, But I don't 679 00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,960 Speaker 1: mean disrespect you that because you're paying me, you know, 680 00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,960 Speaker 1: looking out for me. I mean you can call me 681 00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,120 Speaker 1: and and just say any compon like that, manout, have 682 00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 1: you been having you having sex at home? Say that 683 00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 1: ain't none of your business. I don't have Have I 684 00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:04,279 Speaker 1: been having sex or not? In what kind of mean? 685 00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,359 Speaker 1: Let me talk? Who are your supervisor? Man, sir, I'm 686 00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:10,680 Speaker 1: the supervisor here to well been brought with my attention, 687 00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,680 Speaker 1: and we actually have you on surveillance. You've been you've 688 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:17,719 Speaker 1: been having sex. Now you can don't know I know 689 00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:20,520 Speaker 1: not you know hamber in my house? I know that much. 690 00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:24,800 Speaker 1: And who authorize like that anyhow surveillance to me, you're 691 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:28,320 Speaker 1: not supposed to be having sex if your fact is hurting, okay, 692 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,040 Speaker 1: you you have, man, you've been you've been not having 693 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,839 Speaker 1: no damn camera and my what you thought about? Uh? 694 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,759 Speaker 1: You've been surveyor for me? I having said, that's a 695 00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:43,279 Speaker 1: damn live sir. What's your name? What? What? What's your name? Man? Sir? 696 00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:48,319 Speaker 1: And who ad because I'm look, I'm trying to be nice. 697 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 1: You're picking me off A and her Sir, sir, here 698 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,040 Speaker 1: it is and we find out. I'm gonna I'm giving 699 00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,959 Speaker 1: you a warning if I don't need them, I'm giving 700 00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:00,799 Speaker 1: me your warning. You let me found the damn camera 701 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 1: my house telling me I can't handle sex and all 702 00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 1: that I have spects. If you're that is string you 703 00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,840 Speaker 1: with work and you're putting it on your back and 704 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,640 Speaker 1: we're paying you, we're paying you them about what you 705 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:12,520 Speaker 1: can and me and what you ain't paying me. You're 706 00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:14,719 Speaker 1: gonna call my damn fault. Tell me coming about you 707 00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:19,680 Speaker 1: got some names, cameras and my house. That's okay. Well 708 00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,440 Speaker 1: let's sir, sir vincent, let me say this to you. 709 00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 1: Don't want, you don't need, You don't need to say 710 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,960 Speaker 1: nothing to me, but but your last name and then 711 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:31,560 Speaker 1: your supervisor name that was my name is okay, and 712 00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:33,600 Speaker 1: you don't need to worry who the supervisor is. You 713 00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,520 Speaker 1: need to make sure that there's no more sex going 714 00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:38,640 Speaker 1: on until your back is healed. Look, you don't have 715 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:42,319 Speaker 1: to cut you out and hang up for you. Man. 716 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:44,319 Speaker 1: I don't have time for this, man ya because y'all 717 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:47,040 Speaker 1: tell what y'all do, because y'all doing some people. Y'all 718 00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:50,040 Speaker 1: think y'all can do illegal and talk to people crazy, man, 719 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,040 Speaker 1: when y'all coming them. I don't appreciate that that all. Man, 720 00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,080 Speaker 1: this is I don't know who y'all think you'll ears 721 00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,359 Speaker 1: down there. Y'all just do something for them, think y'all 722 00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:02,359 Speaker 1: can just call them and say anything. Man. I don't 723 00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,680 Speaker 1: like that, and I ain't trying to be disrespectful, but 724 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:07,480 Speaker 1: you got me heated right now, man, then that's not 725 00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:11,040 Speaker 1: be no cameras in my house? Did you understand that 726 00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you once and one time only, no 727 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:18,359 Speaker 1: more sex what you put your talk about. I'm sorry man, 728 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,560 Speaker 1: because I tell you one day that you think you're 729 00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 1: giving up some money. Now I'm gonna see y'all, I 730 00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:27,839 Speaker 1: catching camera my house. You ain't gonna to never pay 731 00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:31,080 Speaker 1: uh pay me no more. You're gonna pay me one 732 00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,880 Speaker 1: big check that I'm shooting out of y'all. Then you 733 00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 1: understand that I understand I need. I need you to 734 00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,120 Speaker 1: understand one more thing. Are you listening to me? Man? 735 00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:41,719 Speaker 1: You go aheah man, I'm y'all got me easy, man, 736 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:44,799 Speaker 1: And then after this, don't even call me no more 737 00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:48,840 Speaker 1: telling you this ridiculous? Okay? Are you familiar with litar? Me? 738 00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:52,799 Speaker 1: Familiar with what? Literally? Do you know literal? You coworking litter? Yeah? 739 00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:57,560 Speaker 1: What about him? Literally got me to prank phone? Call you? 740 00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:00,040 Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Up and On 741 00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:05,239 Speaker 1: It Show, Philson. But you been plain man out of here? Man, 742 00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:10,759 Speaker 1: y'all about to have me the lord talk about my check? Man? No, man, 743 00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 1: what's up? Man? This is y'all. Have me going out? Man, 744 00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,799 Speaker 1: y'all have me heat it, But I'm well, I'm gonna 745 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:22,239 Speaker 1: kicking it's not calling that is he on the phone? Man, 746 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 1: He ain't on the phone. Man, I'm sweating like so, 747 00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:28,719 Speaker 1: I'm still so. I'm still getting my damn checked that. 748 00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:30,680 Speaker 1: That's what that beans. Y'all have be heated. Boy, I 749 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:35,319 Speaker 1: thought y'all gonna what's up? Man? Nice in here from y'all. Man, 750 00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,040 Speaker 1: y'all got me though, Man, y'all got me. I got 751 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,680 Speaker 1: one more question, man, what is the baddest and I 752 00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:45,600 Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the land? Of course, 753 00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:49,560 Speaker 1: no doubt, man, it's the Steve Harvey Morning Show, always 754 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:52,319 Speaker 1: will be. Especially y'all don't got me like this here. 755 00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:58,719 Speaker 1: I'll make y'all proud on No proud, isn't that the 756 00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:02,759 Speaker 1: operative term here? Stupid? Proud is what I'm saying. Sure, 757 00:54:03,040 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 1: proud of your stupid That's not a term you just 758 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:16,879 Speaker 1: want to high five. Yeah, I need some ground. Will 759 00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:21,320 Speaker 1: say that because proud of you. My strawberry letter is 760 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,720 Speaker 1: up next at four minutes after the hour. You're listening 761 00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well this Monday morning, 762 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:33,120 Speaker 1: the winning continues at seven twenty eastern, six twenties Central. 763 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,680 Speaker 1: We are giving away a chance to win. Steve Harvey's 764 00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:43,040 Speaker 1: grand prize of one million dollars. That is big we're 765 00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:49,480 Speaker 1: gonna play. Are you smarter than nephew? You're not. Go 766 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:53,960 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey FM to register right now. And now 767 00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:56,480 Speaker 1: it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. Nephew. If you 768 00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:00,160 Speaker 1: need some advice on relationships, on dating, on work, on X, 769 00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:03,560 Speaker 1: on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to 770 00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:08,279 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey f M dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 771 00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,920 Speaker 1: Please buggle up and hold on time. We got it 772 00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:14,880 Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject he 773 00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:18,800 Speaker 1: had me fooled. Dear Stephen Shirley. I have been dating 774 00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:22,040 Speaker 1: a guy for a year, and he treats me really nice. 775 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,560 Speaker 1: We live in a neighbor We live in neighboring states, 776 00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:27,680 Speaker 1: but we're less than an hour apart, so I wouldn't 777 00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,880 Speaker 1: consider it a long distance relationship. We see each other 778 00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,040 Speaker 1: a few times a week, and either I'm at his 779 00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,600 Speaker 1: house or he's at mine on the weekend. I assumed 780 00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:41,400 Speaker 1: we were in an exclusive, admitted relationship until recently. The 781 00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,920 Speaker 1: other day, he was trying to show me a picture 782 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,160 Speaker 1: on his phone, and he mistakenly pulled up a picture 783 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:52,520 Speaker 1: of another woman. He tried to quickly wipe past picture. 784 00:55:53,480 --> 00:56:02,840 Speaker 1: Every man, just you tried quickly slide passive picture, but 785 00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:05,120 Speaker 1: he knew I had seen it. I didn't make a 786 00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:07,800 Speaker 1: fuss about the picture. I asked him to delete it, 787 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:11,480 Speaker 1: and he did. But seeing the woman's picture on his 788 00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:15,120 Speaker 1: phone made me wonder about the nature of our relationship, 789 00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:19,080 Speaker 1: so I asked him if we were exclusive. His response 790 00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:22,560 Speaker 1: broke my heart. He stated that before he met me, 791 00:56:22,800 --> 00:56:26,040 Speaker 1: he was in a very serious relationship and had had 792 00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,120 Speaker 1: a bad breakup. He said he was not ready to 793 00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 1: be in another relationship right now. Can you believe that 794 00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:36,160 Speaker 1: I have met this man's entire family and we all 795 00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:39,760 Speaker 1: get along great. He had me fooled. I will admit 796 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,160 Speaker 1: that I'm not ready to be married right now, but 797 00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,480 Speaker 1: I still want to date with a purpose and not 798 00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,800 Speaker 1: just be wasting time on this man. So is the 799 00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:51,160 Speaker 1: committed relationship title just to play on words. I don't 800 00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,920 Speaker 1: want to stop seeing this man. But I did hear 801 00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 1: him loud and clear when he said he's not ready? 802 00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,040 Speaker 1: What should I do? Well? What should you do? What 803 00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,640 Speaker 1: do you want? I mean, really, what do you want 804 00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,759 Speaker 1: in this relationship or out of this relationship? You said? 805 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,399 Speaker 1: You don't want to get married right now. You said 806 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:09,759 Speaker 1: you do want to date with a purpose, So if 807 00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 1: that's what you want, you gotta let him know that. 808 00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,359 Speaker 1: But he's already told you, and you said you heard 809 00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:17,000 Speaker 1: him loudly and clearly that he's not ready to be 810 00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:20,720 Speaker 1: in a committed relationship. So you have to make the decision. 811 00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:22,960 Speaker 1: This is entirely up to you. You've been dating this 812 00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:26,640 Speaker 1: man for a whole year. Now again, what do you 813 00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:29,360 Speaker 1: want If you don't want it to continue like this, 814 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:32,600 Speaker 1: you have choices. You can either get out of the 815 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,440 Speaker 1: relationship or you can just change some things in the 816 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:38,040 Speaker 1: way you deal with him. If you're thinking it's a 817 00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:41,760 Speaker 1: committed relationship and it's not, uh, maybe you should start 818 00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:44,360 Speaker 1: seeing other people, or you know, or something like that. 819 00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:46,960 Speaker 1: Maybe you should really do what you want to do, 820 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:48,920 Speaker 1: but first you need to find out what that is. 821 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:50,960 Speaker 1: You say you don't want to be married, but you 822 00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,200 Speaker 1: do want to date with a purpose. He's not ready 823 00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:55,440 Speaker 1: to do either of those things. So maybe he's just 824 00:57:55,680 --> 00:58:00,320 Speaker 1: not the guy for you at this time. Steve, I 825 00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:04,080 Speaker 1: don't know. I kind of see this a little bit 826 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,920 Speaker 1: differently here. I have a different take because from the 827 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:11,200 Speaker 1: male perspective. I can really kind of understand what this 828 00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:15,400 Speaker 1: dude is saying. Um, let's go over the letter a 829 00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:19,080 Speaker 1: little bit here. Uh, I've been dating this man for 830 00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:23,400 Speaker 1: about a year. He's really nice. We live in neighboring states, 831 00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:25,560 Speaker 1: so you don't consider long this relationship. You're at this 832 00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 1: house several times a weekend. He's at your house several 833 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,800 Speaker 1: times a weekend. You in mind, he's at mine on 834 00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:35,040 Speaker 1: the weekends. Here we go. I assumed we were in 835 00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:40,840 Speaker 1: an exclusive, committed relationship until recently the other day. Now, 836 00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:44,080 Speaker 1: let's go over this assume What did they tell you 837 00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:47,880 Speaker 1: all the time about as sooner? Assuming usually makes an 838 00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:52,000 Speaker 1: ass out of you and me. That's what assumed is 839 00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:56,000 Speaker 1: Now what has happened is you've assumed you been a year. 840 00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,200 Speaker 1: You could have verbally got this clip, You could have 841 00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:01,880 Speaker 1: this conversation a long time ago. You never bought it up, 842 00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 1: you assumed. And till the other day, he was trying 843 00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,840 Speaker 1: to show me a picture on his phone and he 844 00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:15,360 Speaker 1: mistakenly pulling a picture of another woman. God when he 845 00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 1: when as soon as his thumb hit that you felt 846 00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 1: for him, he blinked. He took a heavy blink. He 847 00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:37,680 Speaker 1: was trying to swipe. He swiped past it, but his 848 00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:44,800 Speaker 1: thumb was shaking. She saw it. After she saw the picture, 849 00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:47,560 Speaker 1: and he knew you saw it. You didn't make a 850 00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,560 Speaker 1: fuss about it, Okay, the ture woman. I asked him 851 00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 1: to delete it, and he did, no problem. Okay, I'm out. Yeah, 852 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,680 Speaker 1: let me take that out. Because if that picture could 853 00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 1: have been a year old, you never know. You just 854 01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:05,600 Speaker 1: don't know. So he deleted the picture. But it made 855 01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:07,840 Speaker 1: me wonder about the nature of our relationship. So I 856 01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:11,880 Speaker 1: asked him if we were exclusive. His response broke my heart. 857 01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,040 Speaker 1: He stated that before he met me, he was in 858 01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:18,800 Speaker 1: a very serious relationship and had a bad break up. Now, 859 01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:21,800 Speaker 1: let me ask you something you didn't You didn't know 860 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 1: that a year you you didn't know that he was 861 01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:32,000 Speaker 1: in a serious relationship and he had a bad breakup 862 01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:40,200 Speaker 1: a year and this response startled you. A year of 863 01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:44,480 Speaker 1: assuming you were exclusive, you didn't bring that up. Now 864 01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 1: he tells you for the first time, he was in 865 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:49,880 Speaker 1: a serious relationship, had a bad break up a year before. 866 01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:52,560 Speaker 1: You didn't met his family. I got all that, YadA 867 01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:57,840 Speaker 1: YadA YadA. That's good, but damn, this really kind of 868 01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:00,960 Speaker 1: on you too. Now he's that he was not ready 869 01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:06,560 Speaker 1: to be in another relationship right now, serious, full blown, 870 01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:09,640 Speaker 1: committed relationship. Then you try to fix it, then you go, 871 01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:14,640 Speaker 1: can you believe that? Yeah, y'all believe believe. The problem 872 01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:17,560 Speaker 1: is why you're having a hard time believe it. But 873 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:20,520 Speaker 1: if you had heard this information a year ago, nine 874 01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:23,400 Speaker 1: months ago, maybe you would have made some other decisions. 875 01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,200 Speaker 1: I met this man's in time family, We get along grade. 876 01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:33,320 Speaker 1: He had me food. He didn't fool you. This man 877 01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:35,600 Speaker 1: ain't fooled you at all. This man ain't lied to you. 878 01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:41,240 Speaker 1: This man ain't deceived you. He didn't fool you. You 879 01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:46,480 Speaker 1: are soon. Then after a year, you asked him what 880 01:01:46,600 --> 01:01:48,600 Speaker 1: you exclusive. He said he was in a bad relationship 881 01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:52,120 Speaker 1: a man, lady, He didn't fool you. Stop saying this 882 01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:56,880 Speaker 1: about him. You trick yourself. I'll tell you why, right, 883 01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:06,520 Speaker 1: trick yourself, right, tricky comments on that phone. All right, 884 01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:11,000 Speaker 1: we're gonna have part two of Steve's response coming up 885 01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:14,880 Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hour. You're listening to Steve 886 01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:18,160 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's get 887 01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:21,160 Speaker 1: to part two of your response to today's Strawberry Letters 888 01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:25,640 Speaker 1: subject he had me fooled? Well, he didn't have you fool, 889 01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:29,000 Speaker 1: You've been dating this man for a year. Treat you 890 01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:33,080 Speaker 1: really nice. You live in neighboring states, no more than 891 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,280 Speaker 1: an hour part, so it's really not long disrelationship. You 892 01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,360 Speaker 1: that hit his house and he at yours on the weekend, 893 01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,800 Speaker 1: all doing the week I assumed we were an exclusive, 894 01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:45,200 Speaker 1: committed relationship. I told you about Assumer. You should not 895 01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 1: have assumed. He's trying to show you a picture on 896 01:02:48,000 --> 01:02:50,320 Speaker 1: his phone, and he mistakenly pulled up a picture of 897 01:02:50,400 --> 01:02:55,919 Speaker 1: another woman. God, God, I passed out for a minute. 898 01:02:56,040 --> 01:03:09,760 Speaker 1: Really good, Really yeah, I'm trying to him bad. You 899 01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:17,840 Speaker 1: should have dropped that phone down the sewer, alright, So 900 01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,520 Speaker 1: he tried to quickly swipe past the picture, but he 901 01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:23,320 Speaker 1: knew I had seen it. I ain't making fuss about 902 01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:25,080 Speaker 1: the peach. I asked him to delete it, and he did. 903 01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:28,280 Speaker 1: But seeing the woman's pitching his phone, it kind of 904 01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:32,480 Speaker 1: made you wonder. So I asked him were we exclusive 905 01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:36,800 Speaker 1: after a year? A year? His response broke a heart. 906 01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:38,880 Speaker 1: He stated that before he met me, he was in 907 01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:41,280 Speaker 1: a very serious relationship and had a bad break up. 908 01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:44,280 Speaker 1: How y'all just talking about this after year? He said 909 01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,360 Speaker 1: he was not ready for another relationship right now? How 910 01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:50,360 Speaker 1: y'all just talking about this after year? Then you ask me, 911 01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:52,600 Speaker 1: can you believe that? Yeah, if you ain't never talked 912 01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:55,200 Speaker 1: about it, don't assume nothing about a minute. You have 913 01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:58,000 Speaker 1: every right to want to know where your life is going. Ladies, 914 01:03:58,000 --> 01:04:00,160 Speaker 1: and I have told you this over and over and over. 915 01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:02,480 Speaker 1: You have the right to ask a man what is 916 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:07,360 Speaker 1: going on here? He will tell you. Now he told you, 917 01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:11,160 Speaker 1: and yes, I can't believe that, but you can't believe 918 01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:14,560 Speaker 1: it because you assume something else. So now I have 919 01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:17,400 Speaker 1: met this man's in time family. We all get along great. 920 01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:20,840 Speaker 1: That means he cares about you. He'd have took you 921 01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:25,040 Speaker 1: to meet his family. He had me fooled, No, he didn't. 922 01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,920 Speaker 1: You fooled yourself because all you you would have had 923 01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:31,400 Speaker 1: this conversation that you had just now. You could have 924 01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:37,840 Speaker 1: had this conversation eleven months ago, ten months ago, you 925 01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:40,439 Speaker 1: could have easily had that. Now here, here, go to park. 926 01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:42,720 Speaker 1: I will admit that I'm not ready to be married 927 01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,680 Speaker 1: right now. Okay, cool, So what you're tripping for? He 928 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:47,880 Speaker 1: ain't ready, You ain't ready, But y'all having a good 929 01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:51,720 Speaker 1: time going and continue the relationship. He's not ready, and 930 01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:55,960 Speaker 1: you're not ready. So now that you've ben through that 931 01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 1: bone to the dog, but she wants today with purpose. 932 01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:04,840 Speaker 1: Don't forget that. I'm gonna get to that. But I 933 01:05:04,960 --> 01:05:08,080 Speaker 1: still want to date with a purpose and not just 934 01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:11,800 Speaker 1: be wasting time on this man. Y'all are dating with 935 01:05:11,920 --> 01:05:16,520 Speaker 1: a purpose. You all have found each other. Neither one 936 01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:19,640 Speaker 1: of you are ready to be in a uh. You 937 01:05:19,760 --> 01:05:21,840 Speaker 1: don't want to be married. He ain't ready to be 938 01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 1: in a no serious relationship. But y'all in something. Ain't 939 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:30,480 Speaker 1: you getting something out of it? And he getting something 940 01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:34,040 Speaker 1: out of it? Y'all in something. What y'all need to 941 01:05:34,080 --> 01:05:36,520 Speaker 1: do is sit down and define what it is you're 942 01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:39,360 Speaker 1: in because you're in it now, you've been in it 943 01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:44,720 Speaker 1: for a year. You in something. It's just y'all ain't 944 01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:48,600 Speaker 1: got no time. You ain't his fiance. You're too old 945 01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:50,920 Speaker 1: to be a girl friend, but right now you're his girlfriend. 946 01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:54,880 Speaker 1: You're his girl and y'all friends, and you have met 947 01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:59,200 Speaker 1: his family. Too old be somebody damn girlfriend. So you 948 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:01,640 Speaker 1: want to date with a purpose. He dating with a purpose. 949 01:06:01,880 --> 01:06:05,160 Speaker 1: He's getting what he wants. You're dating with a purpose. 950 01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:09,680 Speaker 1: You're getting what you want. It's just assumed you assumed 951 01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:13,360 Speaker 1: you want had more, but you just said you ain't 952 01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:17,600 Speaker 1: even ready for it. Yeah, he said it, but I 953 01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:20,080 Speaker 1: still want to date with the person, not just be wasted. 954 01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:24,760 Speaker 1: So it's the committed in quotation. The committed relationship title 955 01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 1: just a play on words. You never had this conversation 956 01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:33,480 Speaker 1: with the man until now committed relationship. He didn't say 957 01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,800 Speaker 1: he didn't want to be in a committed relationship. He 958 01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:38,080 Speaker 1: said he didn't want to be in a serious relationship. 959 01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:42,480 Speaker 1: That has a difference. You could be committed to somebody 960 01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:46,920 Speaker 1: and not be serious. Hello, what preach on it? I'm 961 01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:49,240 Speaker 1: gonna just tell you you could be in a committed 962 01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:59,400 Speaker 1: relationship and not be sick thing. I don't want to 963 01:06:59,440 --> 01:07:02,160 Speaker 1: stop seeing in this man don't, but I do. Hear 964 01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:04,840 Speaker 1: him loud and clear when he said he's not ready, 965 01:07:05,160 --> 01:07:11,360 Speaker 1: but you said you wasn't ready. That's somebody lying, somebody 966 01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:15,280 Speaker 1: lying in this letter, he's not ready, You're not ready. 967 01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 1: Why don't y'all make it work? Define your relationship, find 968 01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:21,080 Speaker 1: out what it is, and see if it will ever 969 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:24,160 Speaker 1: lead to anything. What you could possibly do? But then 970 01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:26,720 Speaker 1: guess what, Since you heard him loud and clear, he 971 01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:29,400 Speaker 1: may not be ready for a serious relationship for a 972 01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:33,560 Speaker 1: long time. Hello, and let me explain something else to you. 973 01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:38,240 Speaker 1: Deleting the picture don't mean she gonna come out, don't. 974 01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:46,400 Speaker 1: I don't, don't. Don't tell you boom. Somebody listened to 975 01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:51,360 Speaker 1: me just caused the picture got deleted. Don't mean she 976 01:07:51,560 --> 01:08:06,680 Speaker 1: gonne sometime in the mind lingles. Sometimes you can shake it, Yeah, 977 01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:11,520 Speaker 1: shake it. I don't. I don't. I don't want to Quiet. Yeah, 978 01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:14,840 Speaker 1: you gotta have to stick. I just told you I 979 01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:18,120 Speaker 1: don't want to sing anyway. You're gonna get your black 980 01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:30,920 Speaker 1: ass put out your church to just a second, I 981 01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:35,320 Speaker 1: go back to what I say. Come on, please sometime 982 01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:40,600 Speaker 1: even without the picture, Yeah, there's a movie playing in 983 01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:48,439 Speaker 1: your mind. Moving sometime. Yeah, trying to start nothing, but 984 01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:52,240 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get some clarity. Yeah on what we have. 985 01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:57,120 Speaker 1: I spent the whole damn break telling the Quiet didn't 986 01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:02,120 Speaker 1: need him. And now we out of time. Yes, Steve, 987 01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:04,280 Speaker 1: you are so right. We gotta get out of here. 988 01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:13,840 Speaker 1: We gotta go email us or Instagram. That's your thoughts 989 01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:17,400 Speaker 1: at my girls, Shirley on Today's Strawberry Letter. Today's Crazy 990 01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:20,840 Speaker 1: Comedy segment in about ten minutes at forty one after 991 01:09:21,000 --> 01:09:28,320 Speaker 1: the hour you're listening to Steve Walt Disney once said, 992 01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,000 Speaker 1: all of our dreams can come true if we have 993 01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:34,000 Speaker 1: the courage to pursue them. With that in mind, Disney 994 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:37,160 Speaker 1: Dreamers Academy invites one hundred students every year to the 995 01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:41,480 Speaker 1: Walt Disney World Resort for four days of networking, professional workshops, 996 01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:46,200 Speaker 1: inspirational sessions, and of course some Disney magic. Past Dreamers 997 01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:49,080 Speaker 1: have gone on to do things like serving the Obama administrations, 998 01:09:49,280 --> 01:09:53,320 Speaker 1: become recording artists, want successful businesses, and beyond. Are you 999 01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:56,920 Speaker 1: ready to propel your dreams into realities? Visit Disney Dreamers 1000 01:09:56,960 --> 01:10:01,160 Speaker 1: Academy dot com. That's Disney Dreamers Academy dot Come to 1001 01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 1: find out how all right now? Jay, this is a 1002 01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:10,200 Speaker 1: comedy segment you wrote what It's all things men say 1003 01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,680 Speaker 1: when they don't want to talk about it. For some 1004 01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:18,600 Speaker 1: phrases they say just little words, little phrases like the 1005 01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:22,320 Speaker 1: phrase I don't know summ up. This is just a 1006 01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:30,559 Speaker 1: more creative way of lying on the list of summer summer. 1007 01:10:33,320 --> 01:10:35,720 Speaker 1: All right, that's what you got? You know, I know 1008 01:10:35,800 --> 01:10:39,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to get in trouble. I don't worry about time. 1009 01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:43,000 Speaker 1: You got time doing. Your dad ain't got nothing to 1010 01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:53,280 Speaker 1: do with it. Gonna live here, Junior. This is one 1011 01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:59,720 Speaker 1: of my favorites. Also, we're back there again. We're back there. 1012 01:11:01,520 --> 01:11:07,000 Speaker 1: I thought we covered this. These are lines whatnot? Lines 1013 01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:10,680 Speaker 1: that menus when they don't want to talk about it 1014 01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:18,519 Speaker 1: at all? You got what did you see me? You 1015 01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:27,559 Speaker 1: just see me? I got here? We don't here you go? Please? Please? 1016 01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:35,360 Speaker 1: Not today? Really not today? All right? Not today? Whatever? 1017 01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:42,720 Speaker 1: Today all day. I just watched the game and I 1018 01:11:42,880 --> 01:11:54,360 Speaker 1: do that, Bay, don't It don't make no sense. But 1019 01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:55,960 Speaker 1: I'll tell you one thing. This is what I always 1020 01:11:56,000 --> 01:11:58,960 Speaker 1: like to say, because I because of my condition, because 1021 01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:05,160 Speaker 1: I have my have hurt. These are things men say 1022 01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:07,679 Speaker 1: when they don't want to talk about it. What you got, Steve, 1023 01:12:09,640 --> 01:12:17,880 Speaker 1: I just can't do nothing wrong? Here we go. I 1024 01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:19,680 Speaker 1: got what things men say when they don't want to 1025 01:12:19,680 --> 01:12:25,719 Speaker 1: talk about That was ten years ago. Damn, oh my god? 1026 01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:34,760 Speaker 1: And what reponse things make? You don't want that away? 1027 01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:37,920 Speaker 1: What you got? Look, I got to be on the 1028 01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:42,599 Speaker 1: radio in the morning with a clip mans. I cannot 1029 01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:53,160 Speaker 1: do this. I've used that one before myself. Men say 1030 01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:56,439 Speaker 1: when they don't want to talk about it. I just 1031 01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:01,760 Speaker 1: walked into dough Now tell me? Can I just get 1032 01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:07,639 Speaker 1: in the house? Time to leave right now? Things Men 1033 01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:09,599 Speaker 1: saying they don't want to talk about what you got, Steve, 1034 01:13:09,680 --> 01:13:13,160 Speaker 1: I know you got one man? Damn what now? I 1035 01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:23,439 Speaker 1: like that? Straight to damn what now? It's funny about what? What? What? 1036 01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:30,560 Speaker 1: At me? Like that? Funk? What? God? I don't mean no, 1037 01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:33,760 Speaker 1: I don't mean no harm. Is it just that time 1038 01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:44,479 Speaker 1: of the month? Right, you're gonna get told? Yeah, but 1039 01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:46,960 Speaker 1: you got you The things men say they don't want 1040 01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:48,920 Speaker 1: to talk about it. Things men say what they don't 1041 01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:50,960 Speaker 1: want to talk about it, So you're just gonna believe 1042 01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:56,400 Speaker 1: them over me. That's cool, that's cool. Go ahead with 1043 01:13:56,479 --> 01:14:02,439 Speaker 1: that one. Are they lying? Yeah? I don't care, but 1044 01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:12,320 Speaker 1: that's cool though. Come on, see, don't do this before. 1045 01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:19,200 Speaker 1: Don't do this. Don't put the baby in it and 1046 01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:22,880 Speaker 1: think we're gonna bag things. Men saving it all time? 1047 01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:26,840 Speaker 1: Damn it? Can I just finish my meal, that's all. 1048 01:14:26,920 --> 01:14:34,400 Speaker 1: I'm just let me eat my food? Woman, Jay, are 1049 01:14:34,439 --> 01:14:42,280 Speaker 1: you in my eat it at your own risk? Things 1050 01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:44,080 Speaker 1: Men saying they don't want to talk away when you 1051 01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:47,400 Speaker 1: got I'll tell you what. I was gonna say something, 1052 01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:51,439 Speaker 1: but I ain't though, I'm gonna say something. I'm just 1053 01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:54,240 Speaker 1: don't see it. If I say something, we ain't gonna 1054 01:14:54,240 --> 01:14:56,680 Speaker 1: be talking for two weeks. I'm shut up. I'm just 1055 01:14:56,760 --> 01:15:03,600 Speaker 1: gonna shut up myself. Miss at your house. I was 1056 01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:06,560 Speaker 1: gonna say something that will really hurt your feelings, but 1057 01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:14,439 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say it. I don't say yesterday. Tell 1058 01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:19,040 Speaker 1: you Okay, y'all gotta listen to car. This's just a 1059 01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:22,040 Speaker 1: sound effect. This is when you don't want to You 1060 01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:38,880 Speaker 1: just don't want to hear y'all listening. I'm listening. Just 1061 01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:45,960 Speaker 1: drop your day silver. That means you're really man. Just 1062 01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:52,120 Speaker 1: drop your silver. Well, that's a good one right here. 1063 01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,439 Speaker 1: This might be just heard in l A. Can I 1064 01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:58,680 Speaker 1: just sit here and be high damn, that's all I 1065 01:15:58,800 --> 01:16:14,320 Speaker 1: want to do, and he'll be Goodness. I didn't see 1066 01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:18,240 Speaker 1: it this, and I actually got some thoat. Why don't 1067 01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:26,320 Speaker 1: you go back and watch the wind? Don't take you 1068 01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:36,240 Speaker 1: deserve that? Majorly said that closed it out right here. 1069 01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:39,840 Speaker 1: You got to be quiet to hear it, but you 1070 01:16:39,960 --> 01:16:43,680 Speaker 1: say it just loud enough where she can hear you. 1071 01:16:43,840 --> 01:16:49,960 Speaker 1: Ready to hear it? In Jesus, We'll be back with 1072 01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:53,920 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right at Well 1073 01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:57,479 Speaker 1: this Monday morning. The winning continues at seven Eastern, six 1074 01:16:57,560 --> 01:17:00,920 Speaker 1: twenties Central. We are giving away at chance to win 1075 01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:07,560 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey's grand prize of one million dollars. That is 1076 01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:11,320 Speaker 1: big We're gonna play. Are you smarter than nephew, Tommy? 1077 01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:16,479 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Show. Personality is more 1078 01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:20,400 Speaker 1: important than looks to most people. While a lot of 1079 01:17:20,479 --> 01:17:23,320 Speaker 1: us are overly concerned about how we look, especially when 1080 01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:25,880 Speaker 1: it comes to finding a mate, it turns out looks 1081 01:17:25,960 --> 01:17:30,400 Speaker 1: really art everything. In fact, a New Planet Fitness Valentine's 1082 01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:35,360 Speaker 1: Day pole finds that ninety two percent of people say 1083 01:17:35,439 --> 01:17:38,760 Speaker 1: they prefer a partner with a good personality to one 1084 01:17:38,840 --> 01:17:42,719 Speaker 1: with a great body. Overall of people say they're looking 1085 01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:45,639 Speaker 1: for a partner with a good personality, while seventy six 1086 01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:48,760 Speaker 1: percent want one with a sense of humor. There you go, 1087 01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:53,479 Speaker 1: Steve with a positive attitude and seventy open mindedness six 1088 01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:58,559 Speaker 1: also important characteristics for mate. So I gotta ask you, Steve, 1089 01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:01,719 Speaker 1: I gotta ask junior aunt Tommy. You guys trying into 1090 01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:04,080 Speaker 1: what's the most important thing you're looking for in your 1091 01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:09,639 Speaker 1: significant other? And really how important our looks. Personality is critical, 1092 01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:14,080 Speaker 1: It's absolutely critical. But I'm gonna need you to be 1093 01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:16,680 Speaker 1: cute too, though, thank you, because of what I'm not 1094 01:18:16,800 --> 01:18:18,599 Speaker 1: gonna be doing is sitting up in here with your 1095 01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:21,719 Speaker 1: glass just cause you nice, because you got a nice person. 1096 01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:23,880 Speaker 1: I'm not going to up and do all that. You know, 1097 01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,720 Speaker 1: I got you nice, but you know you're you're, you're, 1098 01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,719 Speaker 1: you're horrid. That used to be the standard. If someone 1099 01:18:29,880 --> 01:18:32,479 Speaker 1: wasn't cute that you'd ask him are they cute? You say, well, 1100 01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:35,320 Speaker 1: they have a nice personality. I mean it was ugly, 1101 01:18:37,600 --> 01:18:41,160 Speaker 1: that's all that meant right away. But now I would 1102 01:18:41,200 --> 01:18:46,160 Speaker 1: prefer personality over you said a great body. Yeah, yeah, 1103 01:18:46,800 --> 01:18:49,880 Speaker 1: because my body got flaws. I can accept the flaw 1104 01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:52,799 Speaker 1: on your body. There ain't no problem. A couple of flaws, 1105 01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:56,200 Speaker 1: you know, so I ain't worried about that. And it 1106 01:18:56,320 --> 01:19:01,040 Speaker 1: was nice in the face though. Yeah, just roll rolling 1107 01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:06,160 Speaker 1: over every morning look looking at that. No, no, no, 1108 01:19:06,760 --> 01:19:09,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do something now until def do us party 1109 01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:17,240 Speaker 1: kill me, you die. I'm not gonna do is die 1110 01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:21,760 Speaker 1: every morning you wake up well, I mean yeah, I 1111 01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:24,920 Speaker 1: mean for you out of make up, to resemble the 1112 01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:30,799 Speaker 1: person in makeup that Okay, so we know men are visual. 1113 01:19:30,920 --> 01:19:34,479 Speaker 1: We got that men are very visual. Women are too, sure, okay, 1114 01:19:34,640 --> 01:19:37,960 Speaker 1: and that's what that's what I was coming to. And 1115 01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:40,360 Speaker 1: you guys, all of you guys, well, with the exception 1116 01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:43,960 Speaker 1: of Tommy, you guys say you're not cute. So where 1117 01:19:44,000 --> 01:19:47,479 Speaker 1: are we now? No, I'm not. We still with them 1118 01:19:47,560 --> 01:19:51,960 Speaker 1: not cute and I'm just cute? What what what? Tommy, 1119 01:19:52,080 --> 01:19:55,800 Speaker 1: You're not You're not gonna make me ugly. It ain't 1120 01:19:55,960 --> 01:20:03,000 Speaker 1: make you that way, Tommy, We're not you know, Okay, okay, okay, Tommy, 1121 01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:06,360 Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. List your flaws. Damn 1122 01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:16,560 Speaker 1: my flower. You might take a minute talking. My shoulders 1123 01:20:16,600 --> 01:20:21,559 Speaker 1: ain't like nice. You know, my hand strings. Of course, 1124 01:20:21,640 --> 01:20:25,120 Speaker 1: it's gone to hell. See your shoulders ain't ain't good. 1125 01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:28,400 Speaker 1: Ain't like my shoulders. Now you got brought you wide? 1126 01:20:28,520 --> 01:20:31,200 Speaker 1: Now you wide. I ain't got that. I ain't got that. 1127 01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:37,960 Speaker 1: I'm shoulders shoulders from star with that sage. Come on 1128 01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:49,280 Speaker 1: so far it's your shoulders, sage shoulders and she come 1129 01:20:49,360 --> 01:20:53,040 Speaker 1: on listen. First of all, I'm not short, but short 1130 01:20:53,120 --> 01:20:55,960 Speaker 1: can be sexy, so let's not let's not kill that. Okay, 1131 01:20:56,400 --> 01:20:59,040 Speaker 1: you don't have to be tall to be sexy. Now 1132 01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:02,439 Speaker 1: I'm not tall, but I'm not sure. No, women don't 1133 01:21:02,479 --> 01:21:05,840 Speaker 1: have to be tall to be sexy. No, I'm not 1134 01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:10,320 Speaker 1: telling about women. I'm telling about people period. There's women. Yeah, 1135 01:21:10,920 --> 01:21:17,240 Speaker 1: there's people. There's short, there's short they're short sexy women, 1136 01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:20,640 Speaker 1: and there's good looking short of men. What are you 1137 01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:26,160 Speaker 1: talking about? What we We're just at the shoulders now, 1138 01:21:26,360 --> 01:21:29,000 Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead and finish your shoulders. What else wrong? 1139 01:21:29,560 --> 01:21:34,920 Speaker 1: It's another lower back? Ain't where it all to be got? 1140 01:21:35,000 --> 01:21:36,920 Speaker 1: How only you know? It's just it's just something you 1141 01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:39,360 Speaker 1: can't see your lower back cause of your other flood. 1142 01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:48,000 Speaker 1: Doesn't need help, Steve, because okay here you high behind. 1143 01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:51,160 Speaker 1: I don't have a high behind. I don't claim you 1144 01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:53,800 Speaker 1: can't see your lower back. It times when you put 1145 01:21:53,880 --> 01:21:58,800 Speaker 1: your belt on, if your belt buckle is lower then 1146 01:21:58,880 --> 01:22:02,360 Speaker 1: the top of your a. What do you think that's from? 1147 01:22:04,000 --> 01:22:10,360 Speaker 1: I'm just bad bills, bad built. It's what you bad 1148 01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:14,000 Speaker 1: belts belt, Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, let me help you with 1149 01:22:14,080 --> 01:22:17,640 Speaker 1: you with your shortcomings. Your flaws is your shoulders. You 1150 01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:23,040 Speaker 1: got a high as your short in your profile profile? 1151 01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:26,680 Speaker 1: That's all of me? What is your what do you 1152 01:22:26,720 --> 01:22:29,479 Speaker 1: mean profile? Yeah, I mean looking when he turns to 1153 01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:33,880 Speaker 1: the side. Yeah, wow, I've never noticed. Okay, ladies look 1154 01:22:33,920 --> 01:22:38,600 Speaker 1: at me from the side. Okay, yeah, Now do you 1155 01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:42,240 Speaker 1: see anything he talking about? What are you saying? Yeah, 1156 01:22:42,320 --> 01:22:47,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. You don't see a jaw line, chin 1157 01:22:48,000 --> 01:22:51,200 Speaker 1: run straight down into his chest. My son said that, man, 1158 01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:53,200 Speaker 1: I don't Okay, I don't have a chance. So that's 1159 01:22:53,680 --> 01:22:59,040 Speaker 1: that makes me ugly though, Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, 1160 01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:02,759 Speaker 1: we're just getting over. We should have chens in life. Seriously, 1161 01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:07,439 Speaker 1: our family not famous for that. My profile tore up. 1162 01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:16,240 Speaker 1: How must do cheans? Colt implan all day? If I 1163 01:23:16,320 --> 01:23:23,080 Speaker 1: get a cheer and then I look good, you're supposed 1164 01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:27,439 Speaker 1: to be encouraging him. He ain't encouraging nothing. Well, I 1165 01:23:27,520 --> 01:23:29,639 Speaker 1: didn't say I was going to encourage you. I said, 1166 01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:34,360 Speaker 1: list your shortcomings. You seem to be struggling, shoulders short highs, 1167 01:23:34,680 --> 01:23:39,280 Speaker 1: and your profile and your hamstrings is gone and you're 1168 01:23:39,320 --> 01:23:45,160 Speaker 1: jumping abilities. What are yours? I got big lips, I 1169 01:23:45,280 --> 01:23:50,320 Speaker 1: got a full nose, My profile is shot, my stomach 1170 01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:53,720 Speaker 1: cannot seem to get reduced. Okay, we gotta go ouse this. 1171 01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:56,400 Speaker 1: This can take forever coming up. It's more of the 1172 01:23:56,439 --> 01:23:59,720 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well this is Monday morning. The 1173 01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:03,320 Speaker 1: wind continues at seven twenty eastern, six twenties Central. We 1174 01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:07,080 Speaker 1: are giving away a chance to win Steve Harvey's grand 1175 01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:13,559 Speaker 1: prize of one million dollars. That is big. We're gonna play. 1176 01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:17,720 Speaker 1: Are you smarter than nephew? Tommy? You're listening to the 1177 01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:21,519 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show with comedy? Roulette is how we 1178 01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:25,559 Speaker 1: do this. It's very simple. Give us five subjects. Put 1179 01:24:25,640 --> 01:24:28,840 Speaker 1: the subjects on one wheel. I'd like to say this 1180 01:24:28,960 --> 01:24:33,519 Speaker 1: part where they stopped. Where they stopped, we do the 1181 01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:39,960 Speaker 1: damn thing. Wherever they stopped, we do damn thing. All right. 1182 01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:56,000 Speaker 1: Number one white people and their dogs. Okay, here we go. Food. Yeah, 1183 01:24:56,640 --> 01:24:59,880 Speaker 1: you listen to a number three. You got way too much? 1184 01:25:00,240 --> 01:25:04,760 Speaker 1: Oh I got that one. That's good. Please, Okay, I'm 1185 01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:07,479 Speaker 1: just gonna say I had nothing. Number four, I'm not 1186 01:25:07,720 --> 01:25:12,479 Speaker 1: in this. Number four women who can't cook whatever with 1187 01:25:12,680 --> 01:25:16,360 Speaker 1: your little wheel to five people who come to your 1188 01:25:16,400 --> 01:25:19,599 Speaker 1: house unexpected. I like that one a lot. I really 1189 01:25:19,720 --> 01:25:27,480 Speaker 1: like that. Spun the wheel fun. Let's go cat, it's 1190 01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:36,040 Speaker 1: better not start cook it. On number three, you got 1191 01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:39,800 Speaker 1: way too much with me? Started this bad by all 1192 01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:43,360 Speaker 1: First of all, you know you got way too much weed. 1193 01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:48,280 Speaker 1: If you spend the entire day, all day, all day, 1194 01:25:48,439 --> 01:25:59,840 Speaker 1: up the day doing this right here, puk you on. 1195 01:26:00,080 --> 01:26:04,080 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I know people like this. You 1196 01:26:04,240 --> 01:26:07,320 Speaker 1: got way too much weed when you leave him, when 1197 01:26:07,320 --> 01:26:10,280 Speaker 1: you leave the bathroom and we mistake you for the dog, 1198 01:26:11,520 --> 01:26:20,120 Speaker 1: dog dog. You know you got too much weed when 1199 01:26:20,120 --> 01:26:25,200 Speaker 1: you spend the majority of your time hatten you like 1200 01:26:25,400 --> 01:26:30,120 Speaker 1: you're trying to thank us. You know you got way 1201 01:26:31,439 --> 01:26:35,639 Speaker 1: way too much. Weat when we can't keep nothing hot 1202 01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:40,880 Speaker 1: next to your heat because that time you'll sit around 1203 01:26:41,000 --> 01:26:43,320 Speaker 1: we got to worry about to catch you. No fi, 1204 01:26:44,840 --> 01:26:48,240 Speaker 1: we can't lighten up around on you. You came to kitchen, 1205 01:26:48,840 --> 01:26:53,439 Speaker 1: you got way too much weed. We got to be 1206 01:26:53,560 --> 01:26:58,040 Speaker 1: comfort confirmed. Yeah, there you go. You got way too 1207 01:26:58,200 --> 01:27:00,240 Speaker 1: much weed. When you got to go outside out and 1208 01:27:00,360 --> 01:27:05,719 Speaker 1: use the yard rate. We got to get this rake said, 1209 01:27:06,120 --> 01:27:12,920 Speaker 1: too much, too much? Come, you got too much weed? 1210 01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:16,439 Speaker 1: When every time you see your Korean person you hide 1211 01:27:16,600 --> 01:27:28,560 Speaker 1: from because you think you all. You know, you know 1212 01:27:28,880 --> 01:27:31,840 Speaker 1: you got way too much weed. When you get in 1213 01:27:31,960 --> 01:27:35,360 Speaker 1: your car to close your door to back out and 1214 01:27:35,479 --> 01:27:43,600 Speaker 1: you can't see a damn. You got too much you know, 1215 01:27:44,000 --> 01:27:45,920 Speaker 1: you know, you got way too much we But I 1216 01:27:45,960 --> 01:27:48,920 Speaker 1: want to be intimate with you. But I got to 1217 01:27:49,040 --> 01:27:53,439 Speaker 1: separate your head to look you in your I got 1218 01:27:53,479 --> 01:27:59,640 Speaker 1: the fund, ye, come on closing up, close it up. 1219 01:28:00,200 --> 01:28:04,479 Speaker 1: You got too much weird if you didn't got into 1220 01:28:04,640 --> 01:28:14,960 Speaker 1: church play and they want you to be cousin coming up. 1221 01:28:15,080 --> 01:28:17,880 Speaker 1: It's more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening 1222 01:28:18,200 --> 01:28:21,280 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right. A lot 1223 01:28:21,360 --> 01:28:25,040 Speaker 1: of people are losing sleep because of work, guys. A 1224 01:28:25,160 --> 01:28:30,040 Speaker 1: new study by account Tips finds that professionals are losing 1225 01:28:30,120 --> 01:28:34,840 Speaker 1: sleep over work. As for why, say they've been overwhelmed 1226 01:28:34,960 --> 01:28:37,400 Speaker 1: with work, the volume of work they have, the hours 1227 01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:39,519 Speaker 1: that they have to put in. Some of the other 1228 01:28:39,600 --> 01:28:45,120 Speaker 1: reasons for work related sleep loss include a strange coworker relationships. Wow, 1229 01:28:46,320 --> 01:28:49,400 Speaker 1: worried that they may lose their job. That's a lot 1230 01:28:49,479 --> 01:28:56,719 Speaker 1: of stress. Oh, this is a good one. My boss 1231 01:28:56,960 --> 01:29:02,960 Speaker 1: is a nightmare. Have you checked all three bucks that 1232 01:29:03,120 --> 01:29:11,479 Speaker 1: Jake stra coworking? Okay, strange coworker relationships, worried I may 1233 01:29:11,560 --> 01:29:18,000 Speaker 1: lose my job and my boss is a nightmare. Okay, 1234 01:29:18,600 --> 01:29:21,519 Speaker 1: So I gotta ask you, Steve, you have a lot 1235 01:29:21,600 --> 01:29:24,560 Speaker 1: of jobs. You have more than anyone I know. Do 1236 01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:27,080 Speaker 1: your jobs keep you up at night? Or you know? 1237 01:29:27,280 --> 01:29:29,200 Speaker 1: Is it if they do? Is it constant or just 1238 01:29:29,360 --> 01:29:32,519 Speaker 1: a case. My exhaustion for my jobs is when I 1239 01:29:32,640 --> 01:29:36,000 Speaker 1: run up into stupidity. That's the only thing I get 1240 01:29:36,080 --> 01:29:39,599 Speaker 1: exhausted for. I don't I've you know, I've really found 1241 01:29:39,640 --> 01:29:41,839 Speaker 1: out over the years. I don't really care for stupid. 1242 01:29:43,040 --> 01:29:46,760 Speaker 1: I really don't, and I can't even I can't even 1243 01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:50,040 Speaker 1: play at all. Like if you're stupid, I look at 1244 01:29:50,080 --> 01:29:53,519 Speaker 1: you like you stupid the whole time you talk. I 1245 01:29:53,560 --> 01:29:55,640 Speaker 1: don't know what we're supposed to do with that information. 1246 01:29:55,720 --> 01:29:58,280 Speaker 1: So it's just important information that you know about me 1247 01:29:58,400 --> 01:30:01,720 Speaker 1: and my job. My job. I love my job. Look, 1248 01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:05,120 Speaker 1: I tell jokes for a living and play music. All 1249 01:30:05,200 --> 01:30:08,599 Speaker 1: of my jobs to have an element of meat, using 1250 01:30:08,680 --> 01:30:12,720 Speaker 1: my God given talent. So I love my work. Just 1251 01:30:12,880 --> 01:30:16,000 Speaker 1: the things that surround my work, Like when you stupid, 1252 01:30:17,160 --> 01:30:22,160 Speaker 1: I just can't stand that. Man? Is that brown? No jay, 1253 01:30:22,240 --> 01:30:29,200 Speaker 1: good jay? Ignorant different from ignorant stupid? And when you're 1254 01:30:29,240 --> 01:30:32,360 Speaker 1: doing stuff that ain't attached to nothing and just has 1255 01:30:32,600 --> 01:30:38,040 Speaker 1: no rhyme or reason, but you standy doing Oh, anyone 1256 01:30:38,120 --> 01:30:44,439 Speaker 1: in particular in mind er, just anyone at the job. Really. 1257 01:30:44,920 --> 01:30:49,000 Speaker 1: I know I didn't think he was gonna say you honestly, Um, okay, 1258 01:30:50,120 --> 01:30:54,640 Speaker 1: why would I say? It's uncomfortable right now? Why you're uncomfortable? 1259 01:30:54,640 --> 01:30:58,880 Speaker 1: You're not stupid, I know, I know. You just don't 1260 01:30:58,960 --> 01:31:01,840 Speaker 1: like the way it goes into the shell when you 1261 01:31:02,040 --> 01:31:05,040 Speaker 1: call him stupid. But let him go in there. When 1262 01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:10,280 Speaker 1: you go into the shell, case same stupid. He's here working. 1263 01:31:10,439 --> 01:31:14,360 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do? He's working. I'm right hello, everyone, 1264 01:31:14,439 --> 01:31:17,960 Speaker 1: I'm here. I'm right here. Yeah, yeah, okay, I'm right here. 1265 01:31:18,200 --> 01:31:20,840 Speaker 1: Stop doing it. Stop talking over and around me. I'm 1266 01:31:20,920 --> 01:31:29,840 Speaker 1: right here, alright, alright, listen coming up. Steve's closing remarks 1267 01:31:30,240 --> 01:31:35,800 Speaker 1: at forty nine after the hour, gather round everyone, just 1268 01:31:36,040 --> 01:31:40,759 Speaker 1: a reminder of Monday morning. The winning continues at seven eastern, 1269 01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:44,400 Speaker 1: six twenties central. We are getting away a chance to 1270 01:31:44,479 --> 01:31:49,960 Speaker 1: win Steve Harvey's grand prize of one million dollars. Okay, 1271 01:31:50,640 --> 01:31:54,920 Speaker 1: when we play, are you smarter than nephew Tommy? What 1272 01:31:55,240 --> 01:31:57,760 Speaker 1: are you know? You're not? I'm up there with being 1273 01:31:57,880 --> 01:32:00,640 Speaker 1: Franklin and stamp up in the fly kite in the 1274 01:32:00,800 --> 01:32:03,320 Speaker 1: rain tonight and I don't even like lightning. You understand, 1275 01:32:05,600 --> 01:32:07,800 Speaker 1: all right, if you think you're smarter than Nephew Tommy, 1276 01:32:07,920 --> 01:32:11,960 Speaker 1: please please go to Steve Harvey FM dot com to register. 1277 01:32:12,080 --> 01:32:15,559 Speaker 1: All right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1278 01:32:16,800 --> 01:32:20,160 Speaker 1: Well this Monday morning, the winning continues at seven twenty eastern, 1279 01:32:20,280 --> 01:32:23,680 Speaker 1: six twenties Central. We are giving away a chance to 1280 01:32:23,800 --> 01:32:30,040 Speaker 1: win Steve Harvey's grand prize of one million dollars. That 1281 01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:34,360 Speaker 1: is big. We're gonna play are you smarter than Nephew Tommy. 1282 01:32:35,200 --> 01:32:38,760 Speaker 1: We love to hear your inspirational closing remarks. Steve, your 1283 01:32:38,800 --> 01:32:43,599 Speaker 1: motivational closing remarks, and I got one for you today. 1284 01:32:44,880 --> 01:32:52,400 Speaker 1: I own. I think it's important that everybody, everybody really 1285 01:32:52,479 --> 01:32:57,400 Speaker 1: really up your expectations in two thousand eighteen. I mean 1286 01:32:57,800 --> 01:33:03,639 Speaker 1: really really focusing focus on upping your expectations for two 1287 01:33:03,720 --> 01:33:13,160 Speaker 1: thousand eighteen. Um this year, really put a positive twist 1288 01:33:13,320 --> 01:33:17,120 Speaker 1: on your life. You can do that, man, you can. 1289 01:33:17,280 --> 01:33:19,800 Speaker 1: You can up your expectations. You have to say so 1290 01:33:19,960 --> 01:33:23,360 Speaker 1: in your outcome. But you have to adjust the attitude. 1291 01:33:23,960 --> 01:33:28,000 Speaker 1: You've got to think positive. You've got to focus on 1292 01:33:28,160 --> 01:33:30,600 Speaker 1: the positive things that's happening in your life. You have 1293 01:33:30,760 --> 01:33:34,519 Speaker 1: to take inventory constantly of everything that's going right in 1294 01:33:34,640 --> 01:33:38,880 Speaker 1: your life. Stop focusing on the negative. Everybody got something wrong. 1295 01:33:39,280 --> 01:33:42,320 Speaker 1: That's not a person living that ain't got something wrong. 1296 01:33:43,240 --> 01:33:46,320 Speaker 1: So what Yeah you got something wrong. Yeah you're not 1297 01:33:46,479 --> 01:33:49,880 Speaker 1: where you wanna be, But guess what you can be 1298 01:33:50,240 --> 01:33:53,720 Speaker 1: on your way. And that's the thing that people lose 1299 01:33:53,840 --> 01:33:56,880 Speaker 1: focus of. Sometimes they get so caught up into where 1300 01:33:56,920 --> 01:34:00,240 Speaker 1: they are now that they lose focus on their where 1301 01:34:00,280 --> 01:34:04,240 Speaker 1: they could be going, where you're headed, where you're at now. 1302 01:34:04,520 --> 01:34:07,639 Speaker 1: Let me explain something to you about right now. Right 1303 01:34:07,680 --> 01:34:11,400 Speaker 1: now is a very fleeting moment because let's say you're 1304 01:34:11,400 --> 01:34:14,920 Speaker 1: talking about something now, do you know, in in just 1305 01:34:15,320 --> 01:34:18,200 Speaker 1: want sixty seconds, is now a part of the past. 1306 01:34:19,720 --> 01:34:22,599 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter where you are, it's where you're going. 1307 01:34:23,840 --> 01:34:27,479 Speaker 1: Don't get stuck in where you are. Somebody sent me 1308 01:34:27,560 --> 01:34:29,680 Speaker 1: a plaque one time, and I keep it on my 1309 01:34:29,840 --> 01:34:33,439 Speaker 1: desk in Atlanta, and I was going through a real, real, 1310 01:34:33,840 --> 01:34:36,800 Speaker 1: real dog period in my life. And he's a friend 1311 01:34:36,840 --> 01:34:40,320 Speaker 1: of mine, and he knew it. He's an accountant, as 1312 01:34:40,320 --> 01:34:42,280 Speaker 1: a matter of fact, is Rogers Salted. And what I'm 1313 01:34:42,320 --> 01:34:45,439 Speaker 1: saying my financial up in Chicago, and he knew I 1314 01:34:45,520 --> 01:34:47,880 Speaker 1: was going through a dog dog period in my life, 1315 01:34:47,920 --> 01:34:50,280 Speaker 1: and he sent me a plaque and I keep it 1316 01:34:50,360 --> 01:34:53,719 Speaker 1: on my desk, and the plaque said, when you're going 1317 01:34:53,880 --> 01:35:00,360 Speaker 1: through hell, just keep going. And that register it with me, 1318 01:35:00,600 --> 01:35:04,120 Speaker 1: because why would you be going through hell and stop there? 1319 01:35:04,840 --> 01:35:06,760 Speaker 1: So you're just gonna put it on park in the 1320 01:35:06,880 --> 01:35:10,479 Speaker 1: middle of hell, or doesn't make sense to keep going 1321 01:35:11,280 --> 01:35:14,200 Speaker 1: because it just ties into what I'm telling you. It 1322 01:35:14,320 --> 01:35:17,559 Speaker 1: doesn't matter where you are, it's where you're going. You've 1323 01:35:17,600 --> 01:35:21,160 Speaker 1: got to get your focus on on on on two 1324 01:35:21,240 --> 01:35:23,760 Speaker 1: thousand and eighteen to move in the right direction. I'm 1325 01:35:23,800 --> 01:35:26,040 Speaker 1: gonna give you the scripture again in case all of 1326 01:35:26,120 --> 01:35:28,519 Speaker 1: you is something I read all the time. It's He 1327 01:35:28,680 --> 01:35:32,439 Speaker 1: Feeds three twenty and I read it every day. You know, 1328 01:35:32,479 --> 01:35:37,800 Speaker 1: I memorize it. But it says God will do exceedingly 1329 01:35:38,120 --> 01:35:43,360 Speaker 1: and abundantly above all that I ask or think, because 1330 01:35:43,439 --> 01:35:47,160 Speaker 1: I honor Him, His blessings will chase me down and 1331 01:35:47,320 --> 01:35:50,280 Speaker 1: overtake me. I will be in the right place at 1332 01:35:50,360 --> 01:35:53,200 Speaker 1: the right time. People will go out of their way 1333 01:35:53,280 --> 01:35:57,280 Speaker 1: to be good to me. I am surrounded by God's favor. 1334 01:35:57,840 --> 01:36:02,880 Speaker 1: This is my declaration. If you read this every day 1335 01:36:03,160 --> 01:36:06,679 Speaker 1: and you implement this once again. It's e Feesians three twenty. 1336 01:36:07,280 --> 01:36:09,960 Speaker 1: Now I I got the you know Bible with the 1337 01:36:10,200 --> 01:36:13,080 Speaker 1: four different translations in it, so I can understand what 1338 01:36:13,200 --> 01:36:16,000 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So this is not the King James version 1339 01:36:16,040 --> 01:36:19,200 Speaker 1: I gave you. It's a translation of what it actually means. 1340 01:36:19,479 --> 01:36:21,960 Speaker 1: But memorizing the scription for how what it means is 1341 01:36:22,000 --> 01:36:24,160 Speaker 1: what you need. You don't gotta go word for word. 1342 01:36:24,439 --> 01:36:27,120 Speaker 1: You need to get the meaning of it. Don't trip 1343 01:36:27,200 --> 01:36:30,280 Speaker 1: on that other part right there. But if you incorporate 1344 01:36:30,360 --> 01:36:33,439 Speaker 1: this in your life on a day to day, you'd 1345 01:36:33,479 --> 01:36:37,240 Speaker 1: be amazed what can happen to you. You all can 1346 01:36:37,320 --> 01:36:41,560 Speaker 1: put your life into the realm of expectation. I expect 1347 01:36:42,000 --> 01:36:45,439 Speaker 1: good things to happen to me. Even when something bad 1348 01:36:45,600 --> 01:36:48,920 Speaker 1: happens to me, I still look for something good to 1349 01:36:49,040 --> 01:36:53,000 Speaker 1: happen to me, and it always does. I don't care 1350 01:36:53,200 --> 01:36:57,240 Speaker 1: what mistake I've made. God has always gotten me through it, 1351 01:36:57,479 --> 01:37:00,720 Speaker 1: and he's done the exact same thing for you. He's 1352 01:37:00,760 --> 01:37:03,360 Speaker 1: always gotten you through it. Just look at your life. 1353 01:37:03,880 --> 01:37:05,920 Speaker 1: All that stuff you thought you wasn't gonna make it through. 1354 01:37:06,160 --> 01:37:09,040 Speaker 1: He got you, man, He pulled you through it somehow. 1355 01:37:09,560 --> 01:37:11,519 Speaker 1: All them days you didn't think you was gonna make it. 1356 01:37:11,760 --> 01:37:13,439 Speaker 1: You remember where you was, and they're looking at where 1357 01:37:13,439 --> 01:37:15,920 Speaker 1: you at now. Now. If you think that you're in 1358 01:37:16,000 --> 01:37:19,040 Speaker 1: a worse place now than you were in your past, 1359 01:37:19,720 --> 01:37:25,200 Speaker 1: why don't you get back to that expect something good 1360 01:37:25,360 --> 01:37:30,840 Speaker 1: to happen to you. Live a life filled with positive expectations. 1361 01:37:31,800 --> 01:37:35,160 Speaker 1: Don't do not bury yourself by going through hell and 1362 01:37:35,280 --> 01:37:39,800 Speaker 1: then staying there. Some people cannot get out of their 1363 01:37:39,920 --> 01:37:45,360 Speaker 1: misery because they won't care quit acknowledging the misery. Look, 1364 01:37:45,439 --> 01:37:47,799 Speaker 1: if the Bible says a man is as he thinking, 1365 01:37:48,120 --> 01:37:51,280 Speaker 1: and all you ever think is old woe is me, 1366 01:37:51,840 --> 01:37:56,439 Speaker 1: then guess what old woe is me? But if you 1367 01:37:56,640 --> 01:37:59,960 Speaker 1: look for the upside, the bright side, if you look 1368 01:38:00,040 --> 01:38:03,479 Speaker 1: up for and and live a life and expectation that 1369 01:38:03,640 --> 01:38:06,360 Speaker 1: there's some good out there for you, then good comes 1370 01:38:06,439 --> 01:38:10,680 Speaker 1: your way. It's that's the way it is. That's not 1371 01:38:10,800 --> 01:38:15,160 Speaker 1: a theory of mine. That's a promise of God. I 1372 01:38:15,200 --> 01:38:17,800 Speaker 1: ain't up in his spew and nothing I think I'd 1373 01:38:17,800 --> 01:38:20,200 Speaker 1: have seen this stuff work for me. You know how 1374 01:38:20,280 --> 01:38:25,920 Speaker 1: many public mistakes I've made, y'all have been watching me, y'all, y'all, 1375 01:38:25,960 --> 01:38:28,360 Speaker 1: it's been fans of minds for years you all have 1376 01:38:28,600 --> 01:38:32,000 Speaker 1: seen the evolution of me. Now, he ain't through with 1377 01:38:32,120 --> 01:38:35,200 Speaker 1: me yet, but you've seen me back when I was this, 1378 01:38:35,800 --> 01:38:38,639 Speaker 1: when I was that, when I made that mistake, when 1379 01:38:38,680 --> 01:38:41,120 Speaker 1: I made this mistake. But you know what, I never 1380 01:38:41,240 --> 01:38:44,920 Speaker 1: allowed the mistakes to bury me or define me. I 1381 01:38:45,160 --> 01:38:49,839 Speaker 1: expected something good to happen. And guess what I've recovered 1382 01:38:49,880 --> 01:38:51,920 Speaker 1: from them all. He's pulled me through them all here 1383 01:38:52,040 --> 01:38:55,320 Speaker 1: through the same thing. For you, Effeesian three toys. Start 1384 01:38:55,400 --> 01:38:57,320 Speaker 1: reading it every day, man, and live your life in 1385 01:38:57,360 --> 01:39:03,800 Speaker 1: a positive expectation. You better say that and have a 1386 01:39:03,880 --> 01:39:14,799 Speaker 1: great weekend. For all Steve Harvey contests, No purchase necessary, 1387 01:39:14,880 --> 01:39:18,120 Speaker 1: void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at 1388 01:39:18,200 --> 01:39:22,280 Speaker 1: least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, 1389 01:39:22,439 --> 01:39:25,960 Speaker 1: visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to the 1390 01:39:26,120 --> 01:39:27,479 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show.