WEBVTT - Potty Procedures 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:05.039 Scrubbing In with Tilly and Tanya wrap an iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:09.480 --> 0:00:12.959 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:14.920 Scrub a dub dumb. 0:00:15.200 --> 0:00:17.800 It's early today. It's an early day for me, folks. 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:19.760 Yeah, this is true. 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:20.680 It's nine am. 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:23.320 It's just another day for me. You've been here since 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:25.400 what like four Yeah, close to it. 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:28.600 That's right in the middle of my sleep. 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:31.040 Yeah, it's definitely in the middle of a rem cycle, 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:31.720 that's for sure. 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:35.120 That's speaking from experience. 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:35.880 That tracks. 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:39.720 Oh she's back, by the way. 0:00:39.760 --> 0:00:41.680 Do you see the woman on Facebook who made bracelets 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:44.680 scrubbing in bracelets and one of them says that tracks? 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:47.440 Oh one of those. 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:51.040 Yeah, they never really own it. That's the only. 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:58.680 Yeah, yeah, one is it that tracks? One says living, 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:03.280 one says scrubbing in. I'm Rebecca, I'm a Tanya red Star, 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:08.240 modern woman and modern woman energy you Hillary Mon. 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:13.320 I know, I get surprised at how like quick scrubbers 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.760 listen to the episodes. Like I was just with a 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:18.040 scrubber yesterday, Ashley, and she was talking to me. She 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:19.679 was listening to the Devon episode and she was like, Oh, 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:21.800 I just feel like it takes me to church and 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:22.080 I'm like. 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:24.679 Oh, yeah, that one just aired. I love that there's 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:25.160 on it. 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:26.720 Are you because you you're. 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:29.160 A podcast listener, do you just like kind of search 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:31.400 random You don't like listen week by week? 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:31.600 No? 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:32.679 No, no, I don't. 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:37.080 I don't listen to podcasts, So I mean I will 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.640 listen to some, but like it'll be when I'm looking 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:42.480 for a podcast on a specific topic, so I'll like 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:44.800 search the topic, and so I don't really look at 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:46.400 the date or when it came out because it's not 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:48.600 that's not relevant to what I'm looking for. 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:49.440 Interesting. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:53.640 Like, I listened to Brene Brown on one of her 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:56.200 podcasts and it was from like I think twenty twenty 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:58.600 one or something, and she was talking about like, oh yeah, 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:00.320 it was my first she said something about like my 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:03.480 first in person event since the pandemic, and I was like, when. 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:06.480 The heck was this recorded? And I did not like that. 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:08.840 You want it? Oh interesting? 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:12.240 Yeah. I like to be as current as possible. 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:14.680 But it's all current pop culture moment. 0:02:14.440 --> 0:02:16.440 I know, I know. Yeah, it's more for the mind. 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:22.160 Okay, good to know. Yeah what a week. 0:02:22.320 --> 0:02:23.359 I was gonna say, big week. 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:25.800 We should start up by congratulating your girlfriend on her 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:27.200 New York Times bestselling. 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:30.920 Yeah. 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:36.000 She so that morning was I think Wednesday she was 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:37.840 supposed to find out. So she woke up that morning 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:41.400 and googled, like the list, and it was the list 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:43.640 from the week before. So she was like oh. She 0:02:43.760 --> 0:02:46.000 was like, I didn't get it. And I was like, oh, 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:47.600 it's okay. But in my mind, I was like, that 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:50.720 doesn't feel right, but I'm gonna be supportive, you know, 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:52.800 so it's like it's okay. I was like, it doesn't 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.080 I was literally thinking of Devond saying and like y'all 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.120 having the conversation of like it doesn't change that the 0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:58.600 book is amazing or like the. 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:02.120 Quality of the book, and so that's the same Robbie 0:03:02.120 --> 0:03:02.960 spiel he gave to me. 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:05.160 Yeah. 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:07.400 So then she was like in the middle of a 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:10.040 meeting and her uh I guess book agent called and 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:12.120 told her, like while she was on the meeting, and 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.280 she they told her she got number one New York 0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:17.000 Times bestseller. And so it was a very like it 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:21.240 was a roller coaster day. So I'm so happy for her, 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:25.800 and you know, I really just as the girlfriend, I 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:27.800 really appreciated you coming to the signing. 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:29.639 That was so kind and thoughtful. 0:03:29.680 --> 0:03:31.919 And I didn't even send a text and like invite 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:34.519 I just because I was like, I don't know. Haley 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:36.320 posted on her Instagram, so I was like, if they say, 0:03:36.360 --> 0:03:36.920 they say it. 0:03:37.400 --> 0:03:38.840 No, we tried. We were going to like bring the 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:39.600 kids and stuff. 0:03:40.160 --> 0:03:42.640 Oh wow, yeah, because we saw it and I was like, 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:45.240 I thought so Robbie said it to me Haley's Instagram 0:03:45.600 --> 0:03:47.480 and he's like, we need to go, and I was like, yeah, 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:49.360 we need to go. And then we were like kind 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:51.800 of like logistically figuring out what we were doing that 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:53.120 night with the kids and stuff, and he's like, we 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:54.600 can't go, but you definitely need to go. 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:56.240 And I was like, yeah, of course I'm going. I 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:57.960 didn't tell you that I was going. No, you just 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:01.320 showed up, just showed up. What what are we good 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:03.080 for if we're not here to support each other? 0:04:03.880 --> 0:04:04.760 So true. 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:07.560 The Brene Brown podcast I was listening to was talking 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:11.800 about how trust and relationships like friendships and everything, and 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:17.039 it was saying like trust is who you uh, like, 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:19.599 what is the term? She was like who you put 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:22.400 your like where do you put your marbles in? And 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:25.040 her daughter was like yeah, Like her daughter was in 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:26.880 like third grade and she came home crying because she 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:29.760 had told her friends something in confidence and then they 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:31.760 she got into the class and they all started laughing 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:34.880 at her. So she like was experiencing her try and 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:37.080 she goes, well, Brenee was like, do you have any 0:04:37.080 --> 0:04:39.160 friends that you feel like you trust that you could 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.840 give your marbles to? And she said she had a 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:44.040 friend who always saved a seat for her at the 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:47.200 launch table. And then she said at a soccer game, 0:04:49.000 --> 0:04:51.080 she said, Brenee said she was thinking she was gonna 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.640 be like and then she passed me and I scored 0:04:53.640 --> 0:04:55.560 the winning goal. And she was like, but at the 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:59.760 soccer game, my friend saw my grandparents and said, oh, 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:02.000 there's your grandparents and she named them by name, and 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:03.359 she said, oh, so and so and so and so 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:07.200 are here, Grandma and grandpa whatever, huh. And Brene was like, 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:11.760 that's it. That was how she earned of marvel. And 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:13.440 she was like, well, it meant a lot to me 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:15.640 that she knew that was important to me and that 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:16.880 she remembered their names. 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:18.920 And I was like, oh my gosh, it's so true. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.279 Like the small acts of like showing up and like 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:25.880 recognizing small things is what leads to relationships being deep 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:28.279 and having that trust. Yeah, so yeah, I think you 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:30.159 showing up continuously. 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.359 Well, I feel the same way about you, Like I 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:34.160 really really do. 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:36.520 Like I'm like I know and like what's interesting in 0:05:36.560 --> 0:05:39.680 adult relationships. And I think because we've also never been 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:43.520 friends when we've been in serious, committed relationships, like dynamics 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:45.760 change and you know, like I used to come over 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:47.600 to your apartment every single day and I wouldn't leave 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:51.000 you alone, and the dynamic is different now, you know, 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:54.840 Like we both have very very serious relationships. Mine has 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:56.719 two kids involved, and there's like a lot going on 0:05:56.760 --> 0:05:59.360 in our lives. But I never want to lose that 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:01.960 part of our friendship where we are always there for 0:06:02.000 --> 0:06:04.599 each other when we not only you didn't need me 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:06.440 to be there, but like it was important for me 0:06:06.520 --> 0:06:08.200 to be there. You know, it's a big milestone for 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.000 your girlfriend, and so like of course I'm going to 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:12.679 be there, you know, And I think that's really really important. 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:15.919 As we get older and we just get busier and busier, 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:18.040 like I still you are that person for me, Like 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.400 I know, no matter what, if I need you on 0:06:20.440 --> 0:06:23.599 like a Tuesday at four for something, like I know 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:25.359 you will you would be there for me. You know, 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:28.520 like and there's never we never hold anything against each other. 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:30.320 And I don't know, it's just like a really it's 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:31.040 a beautiful thing. 0:06:31.279 --> 0:06:31.479 You know. 0:06:31.720 --> 0:06:33.360 I'm happy you have my marbles. 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:35.320 I'm happy you have my marbles too. 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:41.960 Speaking of marbles, Oh, on Saturday, So we wanted to 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:45.080 have a barbecue on Saturday, and cause like it's summer, 0:06:45.240 --> 0:06:47.080 you know, and so Robb's like, let's like, you know, 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:49.280 text some of our friends and have and then it was. 0:06:49.240 --> 0:06:52.680 Like dark and gray and cold out and so you. 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:55.479 Bloom as unique I think to southern California. Maybe I'm wrong, 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:57.479 but I think it is just something we deal with here. 0:06:57.880 --> 0:06:59.800 Yeah, but we didn't last year. 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.760 Especially burns off in the morning, right yeah, in. 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:05.800 The morning till noon, sunny the rest of the day. Yeah, 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:07.360 and that kind of rolls back in at seven or 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:08.680 eight at night when the sun goes down. 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:10.920 And this weekend, like I was wearing a parka, like 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:12.880 it was like legitimately. 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:17.200 Cold, you're in a parker best like the ninety percent 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:18.800 of the year regardless of the weather. 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:22.720 So our big barbecue plans ended up with jeff Becca 0:07:22.800 --> 0:07:27.200 coming over, which I thoroughly enjoyed. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:31.400 Well, she invites me. I think that day, right that 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:32.520 morning for that day. 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:34.800 Yeah, and we had big plans, big plans. 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:36.960 I was just like chilling in bed because it was 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:39.640 like gloomy. I watched a man called Aldo, which we can. 0:07:39.560 --> 0:07:40.200 Get to later. 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:41.320 Oh, I wrote that book. 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:45.240 I heard the books amazing, but I was like sobbing 0:07:45.280 --> 0:07:47.360 in bed. And Tanya's like, Hey, We're going to do 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:48.440 a little barbecue tonight. 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:49.600 Do you want to come over? And I was like, 0:07:49.680 --> 0:07:51.440 thank god, I have plans because I'm. 0:07:51.280 --> 0:07:54.840 In a dark head space now. So I was like, 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:59.960 and I was at Haley's because she was Haley went 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:01.800 to DC this weekend, so I was just I just 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:05.240 stay to her place. And I didn't have any of 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:06.880 my stuff there because when she went on tour, I 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:09.040 kind of took all my things because she was gonna 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:09.720 be gone for two months. 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:11.360 So I just took everything back to my place. 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:13.440 And so I was like trying to put an outfit 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.160 together and all I had were like boots. 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:16.920 And I was like, well, it's a barbecue, so I'm 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:18.080 sure everyone will be cute. 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:20.520 And Tania said like, oh, we're gross, but like I 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:23.360 didn't know what that meant. You know, Tanya's gross ranges. 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:24.920 It's a range. 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:26.800 So I get there. 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.200 She opens the door and she's in like just a 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:32.880 sweat set. Her hair's wet, like freshly showered. Robbie's in 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:33.520 a sweat set. 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:37.080 And I'm the only one there, and I'm like in jeans. 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:39.560 I'm like, not cute. I wasn't dressed up by any 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:40.000 makeup on. 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:42.200 Like Becca came in looking fabulous and I was like, 0:08:42.240 --> 0:08:43.440 I told you we were gross. 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:46.319 I'm like, am I the only one coming? And She's 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:46.800 like yeah. 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:50.160 It's like I feel like there were some details left 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:53.280 out here because I could have happily showed up in sweats. 0:08:53.960 --> 0:09:00.040 So but they cooked me the most delicious dinner and 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:02.520 it was so fun, such a nice time. 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:04.880 I will say, that's something that I really love about Robbie. 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:08.640 He loves grilling for people. Like he like nothing makes 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:11.120 him happier than buying like a juicy steak and like 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:14.440 grilling it for people, cutting it and like there's so 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.240 much joy in that for him, Like I don't know 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:18.760 what it is, but he loves it and it's so good. 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:21.400 I'm like, I'm I love it too. He's a girl master, 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:22.760 He's a girl mas Dad. 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:25.120 I can't remember what was said. Oh, there was like 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:26.040 a whole fish. 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:27.480 And I was like, I don't really know how to 0:09:27.640 --> 0:09:31.079 like cut in or get this, and and Tanya goes, 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:33.040 don't worry, Daddy will. 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:37.160 Do it, and I was like, holy hell, I am 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:38.400 in torment. 0:09:41.400 --> 0:09:44.320 I like to say things to make Mecca cringe, and 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:45.800 I knew that one was really. 0:09:45.559 --> 0:09:46.880 Going to get it turn me off guard. 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:50.880 I wasn't ready for it, and I I didn't like it, 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:52.040 but Daddy took care of it. 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:52.440 Did not. 0:09:53.240 --> 0:09:57.600 Yeah, yeah, I like dad because like him grilling and stuff. 0:09:57.640 --> 0:10:01.280 I'm like, there's mom and dad taking care of me. Yeah. 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:05.040 But during our after our dinner, I don't know, we 0:10:05.520 --> 0:10:08.560 naturally got on the conversation of using the bathroom. 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:08.920 Yeah. 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.560 Oh oh, because we're sharing a bathroom. 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:13.440 Oh so okay. 0:10:13.440 --> 0:10:17.360 For Dean and Cayln's wedding, me, Tanya, Haley, and Robbie 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:19.679 are in a cabin with one bathroom. 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:20.000 One toilet. 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:24.040 And the whole thing was like, there's cabins where they're 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:27.120 getting married. It's closer to the venue, so everyone's going 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:29.080 to kind of be in that section, or we could 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:35.880 stay an aspen and shuttle in shuttle and so I 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:38.080 was like, oh, cabin sounds fun, and Kaylen's like, well, 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:41.200 there's one bathroom, but you know it's up to you. 0:10:41.240 --> 0:10:42.440 And I'm like, we'll make it work. 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.480 So we were talking about and Probably's like no, no, no, 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.800 like what there's one bathroom And Donny was like, oh, yeah, 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:48.200 it's going to. 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:48.920 Screw him up. 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:50.520 Yeah, it's going to really mess him up. 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:54.199 So then more than anyone else he likes, he's like 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:56.680 a meander me meander's in the bathroom. 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:58.920 It's his like thing. He can go in there for 0:10:58.920 --> 0:10:59.880 forty five minutes and. 0:10:59.880 --> 0:11:04.200 Just like scrolls and just like chills me. I go 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:06.160 in the bathroom and I just do my thing and 0:11:06.200 --> 0:11:08.160 I get out like it's I mean and out. 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:11.160 But you have digestive issues, so maybe you should meander 0:11:11.240 --> 0:11:11.559 some more. 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:13.640 And I'm saying that's how we got into this topic, right. 0:11:13.679 --> 0:11:17.280 Right, So then Tanya starts saying that she since she 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:21.240 doesn't have a squatty potty at rob at their place, 0:11:22.040 --> 0:11:29.880 she says she puts her feet up on the toilet seat, like. 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:33.720 Because it helps, it helps the like the poop. 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:37.440 I like, it's like a squatty potty, so when your 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:40.400 legs are elevated, it helps push things through. So because 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:41.960 I don't have the squatty potty, I do this. 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:43.880 Yeah, please, h. 0:11:45.800 --> 0:11:47.520 Like that is that comfortable? 0:11:47.720 --> 0:11:49.600 No, No, it's not uncomfortable. 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:53.079 I don't know if I can do it. 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:55.400 Yeah, So you put your feet on the very edge 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:58.079 of the toilet exactly like. 0:11:58.040 --> 0:12:01.040 The same thing about picturing you all it on the toilet. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.960 I feel like it would come out towards the front. 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:07.680 It doesn't, let me tell you, It goes down. 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:11.320 Everything goes where it's supposed to go, and it helps me, 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:12.880 helps me go to the bathroom. 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:14.720 If you're wearing jeans and doing this, you have to. 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:17.319 Take your take them off, but I usually don't. 0:12:17.760 --> 0:12:23.040 Usually you just go full throttle Winnie the Pooh when 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:23.920 you have jeans on. 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:25.040 Yes, like everything. 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:26.560 So what I'm saying is like, I don't like when 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:28.760 I'm at work, I'm not going poop in the work 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:31.520 bathroom like I usually go back in the morning. 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:35.559 In the public house. That jail time is only in. 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:36.680 The comfort of my own home. 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:38.520 Okay. 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:41.680 So I'm sure there's science behind this. I don't doubt 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:44.040 that there's some science here is you should google it. 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:48.280 So Robbie's like, there's no way you do this, like, 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.560 I don't even get what you're saying. So we go 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:52.880 into the bathroom and she does a tutorial and he 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:53.760 freaks out. 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:57.959 He's like, this is not happening. Can I play the audio? 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:01.880 And I'm saying it it's so funny. He like freaks 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:03.680 out because he's like, this is not a thing. 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:07.880 And you know what I say, You should never shame 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:10.280 anybody for how they use the restroom because some of 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:15.959 us that yeah, yeah, you're right. I know. 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:25.960 You got really upset. 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:28.560 So that was. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:31.040 But I just want to say, anybody listening. 0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:33.559 And you feel like you get a more full release. 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:36.000 Yes, more of it is excruciated. 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:37.200 Excreciated. 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:43.080 The word is ex Yes, I just want to let 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:46.240 anybody know that's listening. However, you need to use the 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:50.640 restroom if you have digestive issues, you do. You don't 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:52.719 let society tell you that you need to sit there 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:55.320 with your legs down or whatever. 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:56.440 You do. 0:13:56.600 --> 0:13:59.640 You baby boom, Yeah, you do. 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:03.040 You and and you keep it to yourself whatever you're doing. 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:05.520 You don't bring it up at a dinner party because, 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.440 let me tell you, it did not end well for 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:08.000 me that night. 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:10.199 I don't bring it up at the three person barbecue. 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:16.400 Why why don't we just get a squatty potty? Right? 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.360 Because they are like an iore, Like I look at this. 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:21.360 Whenever I had one, I would always hide. When I 0:14:21.360 --> 0:14:22.560 was dating, I'd always hide it. 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:22.920 Before I went. 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:27.600 I'd argue that what you're doing is an isore more 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:28.920 than the squatty in. 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:30.360 The bathroom with me while I'm doing us. 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:32.440 No, but I don't do it when he's in there, 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:34.200 and he's only been in there when I pee, not 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:34.760 when I go. 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:38.080 Regular happening. 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:41.120 No, okay, I think the squad. 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:42.680 I think you'll are in a place where a squatty 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:47.080 potty would be like fine, just like to me. 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:48.880 Now it's not about turn off. It's just like I 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:50.440 don't like it. Like I look at it, and it's like. 0:14:50.840 --> 0:14:52.560 Maybe they have some chic ones that you. 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:58.200 Maybe like a laser etched Tanya and Robbie squatty. 0:14:58.040 --> 0:15:02.120 What I thought like a monogramed what is. 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.400 That's writing that down in my notes? 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:11.040 Yeah, I'll put it down your notes page. But speaking 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:12.280 of what. 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:17.280 Speaking and trying to find a really cute transition here, 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:19.880 but such a good story. 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:21.600 Okay, we'll be back. 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:36.880 He said, I love you, and then picked someone else. 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:42.680 They haven't spoken in seven years. For the first time 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:51.080 since their television breakup, they are reunited. Bachelor Ben Higgins, 0:15:51.960 --> 0:16:00.840 Bachelorette Joejoe Fletcher, and Jordan Rogers to together for the 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:05.040 first time and you get to hear it all. 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:09.040 Join Ashley I and Ben Higgen's along with Jojo Fletcher 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:12.040 and Jordan Rodgers on the Almost Famous podcast available now 0:16:12.040 --> 0:16:16.480 wherever you listen to podcasts. 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:23.080 All Right, we are back. You had you had a 0:16:23.160 --> 0:16:24.440 story before we took a break. 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:26.480 I want to hear her transition from the squatty pot 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:29.240 shooting story. That's what I'm most intrigued by because I 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:31.040 know the story and it's a fantastic story. 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:34.360 Speaking of let's say the common nominator is Robbie. Okay, great, 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:36.120 that works a different. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:39.800 Night than that night the three person barbecue. We were 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:42.920 at a restaurant in Los Angeles, and I'm going to 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:45.320 say the restaurant because I don't think she'll get in trouble, 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:48.040 right just maybe. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:51.560 Not Yeah, just a high end like, yeah, there are 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:54.680 many people there that do her job, aren't there. 0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:57.760 Yeah. Whatever, it's a cute. 0:16:57.800 --> 0:16:58.240 It's cute. 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:02.440 It's like a really cute chic restaurant in La I. 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:05.360 We know the owner. We love him, great, great guy. 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:08.879 But I was there and I was with Robbie and 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:11.320 then two other friends, like a couple friends. So there 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:13.000 were six of us total, and all of us you know, 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:17.640 in relationships, right. So we're sitting at a table and 0:17:17.920 --> 0:17:21.720 this woman walks over who was like performing there. 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:24.480 There's like burlesque dancers. Yeah. 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:27.840 So she's like done up in this whole costume and 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:30.679 she's so cute and so attractive, and she walks up 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:33.920 to our table and she slides this note to Robbie. 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:37.600 And I'm looking at this girl like you've got some nerves. 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:38.159 You know. 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.360 This guy's got his hand in my lap. He's clearly 0:17:41.400 --> 0:17:45.840 with somebody, but you know, respect, he's hot. 0:17:45.920 --> 0:17:46.760 I get it, right. 0:17:47.280 --> 0:17:50.240 So then the whole table was like, oh, Robbie, he's 0:17:50.280 --> 0:17:53.880 got it, Like oh, someone's slipping him a nose, giving 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:56.680 him his number, like you know, everybody's like all excited 0:17:56.680 --> 0:17:58.719 about this note. 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:01.480 I didn't say anything. I kept him my opinion to myself. 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:03.560 He opens it not easy for you to do it. 0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:04.520 I'm sure on your face you. 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:05.760