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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Tilly and Tanya wrap an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: Scrub a dub dumb.

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Speaker 4: It's early today. It's an early day for me, folks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is true.

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Speaker 4: It's nine am.

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Speaker 3: It's just another day for me. You've been here since

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Speaker 3: what like four Yeah, close to it.

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Speaker 4: That's right in the middle of my sleep.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's definitely in the middle of a rem cycle,

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Speaker 5: that's for sure.

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Speaker 4: That's speaking from experience.

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Speaker 3: That tracks.

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Speaker 4: Oh she's back, by the way.

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Speaker 6: Do you see the woman on Facebook who made bracelets

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Speaker 6: scrubbing in bracelets and one of them says that tracks?

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Speaker 3: Oh one of those.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they never really own it. That's the only.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, one is it that tracks? One says living,

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Speaker 6: one says scrubbing in. I'm Rebecca, I'm a Tanya red Star,

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Speaker 6: modern woman and modern woman energy you Hillary Mon.

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Speaker 5: I know, I get surprised at how like quick scrubbers

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Speaker 5: listen to the episodes. Like I was just with a

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Speaker 5: scrubber yesterday, Ashley, and she was talking to me. She

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Speaker 5: was listening to the Devon episode and she was like, Oh,

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Speaker 5: I just feel like it takes me to church and

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Speaker 5: I'm like.

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Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, that one just aired. I love that there's

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Speaker 3: on it.

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Speaker 4: Are you because you you're.

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Speaker 2: A podcast listener, do you just like kind of search

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Speaker 2: random You don't like listen week by week?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't listen to podcasts, So I mean I will

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Speaker 2: listen to some, but like it'll be when I'm looking

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Speaker 2: for a podcast on a specific topic, so I'll like

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Speaker 2: search the topic, and so I don't really look at

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Speaker 2: the date or when it came out because it's not

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Speaker 2: that's not relevant to what I'm looking for.

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Speaker 3: Interesting.

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Speaker 2: Like, I listened to Brene Brown on one of her

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Speaker 2: podcasts and it was from like I think twenty twenty

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Speaker 2: one or something, and she was talking about like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was my first she said something about like my

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Speaker 2: first in person event since the pandemic, and I was like, when.

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Speaker 4: The heck was this recorded? And I did not like that.

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Speaker 4: You want it? Oh interesting?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I like to be as current as possible.

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Speaker 4: But it's all current pop culture moment.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know. Yeah, it's more for the mind.

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Speaker 4: Okay, good to know. Yeah what a week.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say, big week.

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Speaker 5: We should start up by congratulating your girlfriend on her

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Speaker 5: New York Times bestselling.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: She so that morning was I think Wednesday she was

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Speaker 2: supposed to find out. So she woke up that morning

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Speaker 2: and googled, like the list, and it was the list

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Speaker 2: from the week before. So she was like oh. She

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Speaker 2: was like, I didn't get it. And I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's okay. But in my mind, I was like, that

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Speaker 2: doesn't feel right, but I'm gonna be supportive, you know,

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Speaker 2: so it's like it's okay. I was like, it doesn't

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Speaker 2: I was literally thinking of Devond saying and like y'all

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Speaker 2: having the conversation of like it doesn't change that the

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Speaker 2: book is amazing or like the.

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Speaker 5: Quality of the book, and so that's the same Robbie

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Speaker 5: spiel he gave to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So then she was like in the middle of a

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Speaker 2: meeting and her uh I guess book agent called and

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Speaker 2: told her, like while she was on the meeting, and

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Speaker 2: she they told her she got number one New York

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Speaker 2: Times bestseller. And so it was a very like it

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Speaker 2: was a roller coaster day. So I'm so happy for her,

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Speaker 2: and you know, I really just as the girlfriend, I

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Speaker 2: really appreciated you coming to the signing.

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Speaker 4: That was so kind and thoughtful.

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Speaker 2: And I didn't even send a text and like invite

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Speaker 2: I just because I was like, I don't know. Haley

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Speaker 3: No, we tried. We were going to like bring the

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, yeah, because we saw it and I was like,

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Speaker 5: I thought so Robbie said it to me Haley's Instagram

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Speaker 5: and he's like, we need to go, and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, of course I'm going. I

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Speaker 3: didn't tell you that I was going. No, you just

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Speaker 3: showed up, just showed up. What what are we good

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Speaker 3: for if we're not here to support each other?

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Speaker 4: So true.

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Speaker 2: The Brene Brown podcast I was listening to was talking

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Speaker 2: about how trust and relationships like friendships and everything, and

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Speaker 2: it was saying like trust is who you uh, like,

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Speaker 2: what is the term? She was like who you put

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Speaker 2: your like where do you put your marbles in? And

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Speaker 2: her daughter was like yeah, Like her daughter was in

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Speaker 2: she goes, well, Brenee was like, do you have any

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Speaker 2: friends that you feel like you trust that you could

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Speaker 2: the winning goal. And she was like, but at the

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Speaker 2: she said, oh, so and so and so and so

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Speaker 2: that's it. That was how she earned of marvel. And

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Speaker 4: And I was like, oh my gosh, it's so true.

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Speaker 2: Like the small acts of like showing up and like

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Speaker 2: recognizing small things is what leads to relationships being deep

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Speaker 2: and having that trust. Yeah, so yeah, I think you

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Speaker 2: showing up continuously.

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel the same way about you, Like I

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Speaker 5: Like I'm like I know and like what's interesting in

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Speaker 5: adult relationships. And I think because we've also never been

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Speaker 5: change and you know, like I used to come over

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Speaker 5: Like we both have very very serious relationships. Mine has

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Speaker 5: each other when we not only you didn't need me

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Speaker 5: As we get older and we just get busier and busier,

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Speaker 5: like I still you are that person for me, Like

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Speaker 5: And I don't know, it's just like a really it's

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 4: I'm happy you have my marbles.

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Speaker 3: I'm happy you have my marbles too.

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Speaker 5: Speaking of marbles, Oh, on Saturday, So we wanted to

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Speaker 5: text some of our friends and have and then it was.

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Speaker 3: Like dark and gray and cold out and so you.

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Speaker 6: Bloom as unique I think to southern California. Maybe I'm wrong,

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Speaker 6: but I think it is just something we deal with here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but we didn't last year.

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Speaker 6: The morning till noon, sunny the rest of the day. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: And this weekend, like I was wearing a parka, like

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Speaker 5: So our big barbecue plans ended up with jeff Becca

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Speaker 4: Well, she invites me. I think that day, right that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and we had big plans, big plans.

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Speaker 4: Get to later.

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Speaker 6: Oh, I wrote that book.

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Speaker 2: I heard the books amazing, but I was like sobbing

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Speaker 2: And so I was like trying to put an outfit

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Speaker 4: And I was like, well, it's a barbecue, so I'm

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Speaker 2: And Tania said like, oh, we're gross, but like I

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Speaker 2: It's a range.

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Speaker 4: So I get there.

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Speaker 2: She opens the door and she's in like just a

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Speaker 2: sweat set. Her hair's wet, like freshly showered. Robbie's in

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Speaker 4: And I'm the only one there, and I'm like in jeans.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, not cute. I wasn't dressed up by any

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Speaker 5: Like Becca came in looking fabulous and I was like,

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Speaker 5: I told you we were gross.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, am I the only one coming? And She's

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Speaker 4: like yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's like I feel like there were some details left

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Speaker 2: out here because I could have happily showed up in sweats.

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Speaker 2: So but they cooked me the most delicious dinner and

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Speaker 2: it was so fun, such a nice time.

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Speaker 5: I will say, that's something that I really love about Robbie.

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Speaker 5: He loves grilling for people. Like he like nothing makes

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Speaker 5: much joy in that for him, Like I don't know

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Speaker 3: And I'm saying that's how we got into this topic, right.

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Speaker 3: Because it helps, it helps the like the poop.

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Speaker 6: Like that is that comfortable?

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Speaker 6: I don't know if I can do it.

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Speaker 4: The same thing about picturing you all it on the toilet.

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Speaker 5: Everything goes where it's supposed to go, and it helps me,

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Speaker 7: If you're wearing jeans and doing this, you have to.

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Speaker 4: Yes, like everything.

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Speaker 5: So what I'm saying is like, I don't like when

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Speaker 4: In the public house. That jail time is only in.

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Speaker 3: The comfort of my own home.

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Speaker 2: So I'm sure there's science behind this. I don't doubt

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Speaker 2: So Robbie's like, there's no way you do this, like,

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Speaker 2: I don't even get what you're saying. So we go

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Speaker 4: He's like, this is not happening. Can I play the audio?

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Speaker 4: And I'm saying it it's so funny. He like freaks

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Speaker 5: And you know what I say, You should never shame

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Speaker 4: So that was.

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Speaker 3: But I just want to say, anybody listening.

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Speaker 6: And you feel like you get a more full release.

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Speaker 3: Yes, more of it is excruciated.

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Speaker 4: Excreciated.

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Speaker 5: The word is ex Yes, I just want to let

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Speaker 4: You do.

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Speaker 3: You baby boom, Yeah, you do.

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Speaker 2: You and and you keep it to yourself whatever you're doing.

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Speaker 5: You don't bring it up at a dinner party because,

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Speaker 4: I don't bring it up at the three person barbecue.

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Speaker 4: Why why don't we just get a squatty potty? Right?

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Speaker 5: Because they are like an iore, Like I look at this.

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Speaker 5: Whenever I had one, I would always hide. When I

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Speaker 6: Before I went.

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Speaker 2: I'd argue that what you're doing is an isore more

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Speaker 3: The bathroom with me while I'm doing us.

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Speaker 5: No, but I don't do it when he's in there,

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Speaker 5: and he's only been in there when I pee, not

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Speaker 5: when I go.

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Speaker 4: Regular happening.

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Speaker 3: No, okay, I think the squad.

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Speaker 2: I think you'll are in a place where a squatty

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Speaker 5: Now it's not about turn off. It's just like I

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Speaker 4: Maybe they have some chic ones that you.

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Speaker 6: Maybe like a laser etched Tanya and Robbie squatty.

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Speaker 2: What I thought like a monogramed what is.

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Speaker 5: Speaking and trying to find a really cute transition here,

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Speaker 5: but such a good story.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we'll be back.

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Speaker 8: He said, I love you, and then picked someone else.

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Speaker 8: They haven't spoken in seven years. For the first time

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Speaker 8: since their television breakup, they are reunited. Bachelor Ben Higgins,

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Speaker 6: Join Ashley I and Ben Higgen's along with Jojo Fletcher

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Speaker 6: wherever you listen to podcasts.

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Speaker 4: All Right, we are back. You had you had a

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Speaker 6: I want to hear her transition from the squatty pot

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Speaker 6: shooting story. That's what I'm most intrigued by because I

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Speaker 3: Speaking of let's say the common nominator is Robbie. Okay, great,

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Speaker 5: Night than that night the three person barbecue. We were

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Speaker 5: right just maybe.

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Speaker 6: Not Yeah, just a high end like, yeah, there are

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Whatever, it's a cute.

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Speaker 4: It's cute.

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Speaker 5: It's like a really cute chic restaurant in La I.

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Speaker 5: We know the owner. We love him, great, great guy.

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Speaker 5: But I was there and I was with Robbie and

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Speaker 4: There's like burlesque dancers. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So she's like done up in this whole costume and

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Speaker 3: And I'm looking at this girl like you've got some nerves.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: This guy's got his hand in my lap. He's clearly

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Speaker 4: I get it, right.

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Speaker 5: So then the whole table was like, oh, Robbie, he's

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Speaker 3: I didn't say anything. I kept him my opinion to myself.

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Speaker 6: He opens it not easy for you to do it.

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Speaker 6: I'm sure on your face you.

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Speaker 3: Could see sure on my face.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sure he.

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Speaker 6: Was planning it up right, like check.

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Speaker 5: Me out, woo, it's been a while, and it's like,

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Speaker 3: Hi Tanya, And I was like, oh.

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Speaker 4: This is so freaking good.

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Speaker 5: My name is blank, her name is not blank, but

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Speaker 5: a scrub sister, so happy I got to see you here.

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Speaker 5: I'm not normally this moody because she had to be,

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Speaker 5: fifty percent Becca. But I have almost an identical story

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Speaker 6: But I learnt initiate talking.

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Speaker 5: So I love you guys. You guys are adorable, by

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Speaker 5: one scrubber.

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Speaker 4: It's the PS high red Star.

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Speaker 2: I felt so good about Oh my god, I would

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, hey, I loved it so much, so I

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Speaker 5: and I want to go back and I want to

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Speaker 5: But it was you made my night. You have no idea.

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Speaker 5: Scrub sisters are everywhere and they are doing the Lord's work.

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Speaker 5: Because that was such a funny moment of the night

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Speaker 3: That is so funny, isn't that funny?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we should go back and have a night at

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Speaker 3: Maybe I'll see it when next time she's working and

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Speaker 3: we could her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, would love that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's so good.

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Speaker 2: So it's just so I just know, like knowing Robbie,

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Speaker 2: it's so funny thinking about like him being whoa this

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00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 2: you jealous? And just the high to I was like, oh, yes,

448
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,680
Speaker 2: I think I would have like elevated out of I see.

449
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:22,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was.

450
00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:24,840
Speaker 3: It was pretty high high. It was a pretty high high.

451
00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,160
Speaker 5: Like I've never done drugs, but I imagine that's where

452
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 5: it would take me.

453
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Speaker 6: Handwriting is very similar to your handwriting, by the way, it.

454
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 3: Is to mine. Yeah, Oh my gosh, look at.

455
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Speaker 5: Us sisters separated at birth. Speaking of sisters, did you

456
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Speaker 5: watch the vand Pump.

457
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Speaker 6: Roles transitions today?

458
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Speaker 2: Speaking of sisters, did you watch the Vander Pump rolls?

459
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Speaker 3: They're like sisters?

460
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Speaker 4: They were Yeah, anymore right?

461
00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:56,560
Speaker 5: But it felt like a good watch it. Did you

462
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Speaker 5: you did it?

463
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 4: I don't.

464
00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 3: I don't either. I haven't a.

465
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,840
Speaker 5: Single episode, but there's so much hubbub and like commotion

466
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,800
Speaker 5: over this scandabal that I felt like I wanted to

467
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Speaker 5: watch the Yeah.

468
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Speaker 2: I you know what, I can't understand that this man

469
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 2: had two women fighting over him.

470
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:19,199
Speaker 3: Because he's so like gross.

471
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:20,000
Speaker 4: He gives me.

472
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Speaker 2: The biggest ad Like, I can't even I can't watch

473
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 2: it and take it seriously because I'm like, this can't

474
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Speaker 2: be real.

475
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Speaker 4: These girls are like what is happening?

476
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, here's the thing.

477
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Speaker 5: And I'm probably gonna get a lot of hate for

478
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:37,440
Speaker 5: this because people like hate this Quel girl, and I

479
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Speaker 5: I don't like this for cael girl, Like I think

480
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Speaker 5: what she did was awful and horrible and despicable and atrocious.

481
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Speaker 5: I totally stand by everything that everybody says, but yeah,

482
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:54,199
Speaker 5: the level of hate and nastiness and just horribleness that

483
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Speaker 5: is coming at her. To me is just so problematic.

484
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 5: Like I'm like, this girl is gonna be severe. You'rely

485
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 5: mentally messed up from this, And I'm not like it's

486
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 5: not she doesn't deserve anything. Nobody deserves to be treated

487
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 5: like that, you know, And she did a bad thing.

488
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,879
Speaker 5: Let karma get her. Like she's gonna you know what

489
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:15,920
Speaker 5: I mean? Like then this she's with this Tonguay, he's

490
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 5: just gonna cheat on her too, you know what I mean?

491
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 5: Like she will get what's coming to her just by

492
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Speaker 5: living her life. But I feel like the amount of

493
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Speaker 5: hate and the amount of negativity and harsh and mean

494
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Speaker 5: words that she's getting is like so problematic.

495
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Speaker 4: You know what they say?

496
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Speaker 3: What do they say?

497
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Speaker 4: The light that illuminates also.

498
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Speaker 3: Burns Devon frank Franklin. That was a good one, Becka.

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Speaker 4: I mean, so this is such a perfect example of

500
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Speaker 4: like you go on a reality show your whole life,

501
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Speaker 4: You're you're having this fame, the lights, the excitement, and

502
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 4: then everything is exposed and the same thing that you

503
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Speaker 4: were so excited about is the thing that.

504
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Speaker 3: Burns you, burns.

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Speaker 5: She's yeah, she's burning to burn and like I get like,

506
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Speaker 5: I'm all Tea Mariana.

507
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 3: Yes, I want her to live her best.

508
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 4: People, it's like they're all human beings.

509
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just feel like the level that it's just

510
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 5: it's like, I think she's going to be severely messed up.

511
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Speaker 2: Social media has given a platform where there is zero,

512
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:26,400
Speaker 2: uh like room for empathy or compassion for people anymore. Yeah,

513
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,239
Speaker 2: Like even I see some things sometimes that are like

514
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 2: so devastating, and I'll read the comments and I'm like,

515
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 2: we have literally like almost numbed our brain to what

516
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 2: we're being exposed to, to the point where we forget

517
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 2: that there are these are like actual people and like, wait.

518
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Speaker 5: This is the crazy thing. So I've never watched an episode,

519
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 5: so I didn't know this, but apparently half the people

520
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 5: sitting on that stage have cheated on their partner with

521
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 5: people sitting in that room, Like literally there was like

522
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Speaker 5: people there that have cheated on there. And I'm like,

523
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 5: and they're bashing her and they're just like going crazy

524
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 5: on her, and I'm like, and she was saying, She's like,

525
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:04,119
Speaker 5: you guys did this to me two years ago, and

526
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 5: they're like.

527
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 3: But we weren't like sisters.

528
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,399
Speaker 5: And I'm like, okay, so that makes it worse, Like

529
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Speaker 5: I get, yes, it makes it worse that the level

530
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 5: of friendship, but I'm just like, who were you? You

531
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 5: were like a cheating partner two years ago. Now you're

532
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,479
Speaker 5: just shaking a finger at somebody else. It's just like

533
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 5: it's so wrong to me.

534
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Speaker 4: I know, I know. Is it over?

535
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 8: Yeah?

536
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,399
Speaker 3: That was the last reunion that aired like last week. Okay,

537
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 3: but it's not over. It's like everything on my feet

538
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 3: is like where do they stand now?

539
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 2: And you know, I just feel like if there wasn't

540
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 2: so much attention around it, there wouldn't be like if

541
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Speaker 2: there weren't continuous reunions and rehashing of everything, then yeah.

542
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Speaker 3: I mean Bravo's milking this.

543
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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

544
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,359
Speaker 2: Like there's a lot I mean there, it could have

545
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 2: been like we had a full discussion about it, it got filmed,

546
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 2: he did a reunion, and it's over.

547
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Speaker 4: But it's like really gone on for a long time.

548
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

549
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Speaker 4: So I hope she.

550
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 2: I hope everyone goes and takes a nice vacation. I

551
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,880
Speaker 2: hope that Arianna find someone.

552
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,919
Speaker 3: Who's dating somebody. Oh she is? She like is it

553
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 3: like it's her boyfriend. Oh great, Yeah, seems happy.

554
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Speaker 4: Great. I hope everyone can move on.

555
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 5: And I wish if anybody listening as a Scrubs sister

556
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Speaker 5: and note, like, I'm so curious of the like how

557
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Speaker 5: much these people get paid?

558
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 3: You know, like how much these people get paid an episode?

559
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Speaker 4: I think they're doing well, you don't think.

560
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 5: I don't really, Yeah, I think that they don't make

561
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 5: that much money off of the show. I think they

562
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 5: make a lot of like endorsement deals and things outside of.

563
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 4: It, but like just the contract being on the show.

564
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think so, because I'm like, how much

565
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 5: is it worth to blow up your life like this?

566
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Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

567
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 2: Like, well, for some people, it's every Like some people

568
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 2: are like, I'll do whatever.

569
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Speaker 4: Just give me the fame, give me the you know right.

570
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Speaker 6: The Hollywood Report Or reported in twenty twenty that the

571
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Speaker 6: core Calf the vander Pump Rules makes around twenty five

572
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 6: thousand an episode. That's they were making about ten thousand

573
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Speaker 6: an episode before renegotiating in seventeen and eighteen.

574
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Speaker 3: That's not about chunk change.

575
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Speaker 6: Yeah, how many episodes do they do?

576
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Speaker 3: Though? No, can you google that?

577
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Speaker 6: Okay?

578
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,000
Speaker 3: Yellow with the math, so twenty five thousand.

579
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:27,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, they do uh oh, nineteen episodes for season ten.

580
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 3: Times nineteen, that's almost half a million dollars.

581
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 5: Okay, well that's all right after taxes, and that's that's twenty.

582
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 4: Five just like a base.

583
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Speaker 2: That's not including all of the endorsement and Instagram and

584
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: all that stuff.

585
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Speaker 3: So I stand corrected. That was a false.

586
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Speaker 2: It's also they were getting like two thousand an episode

587
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 2: trying to make it.

588
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Speaker 5: Yeah, struggling, Like I was just like, what is it

589
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 5: worth to be on this show that's like blowing up

590
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 5: your life in such a way, you know, like.

591
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Speaker 2: Well I don't know that the show blows up your

592
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 2: I mean the action and blew up their life. It

593
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 2: just happened to be, of course, documented on a massive show.

594
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 7: Arianna did an ad for like Duris Cell Battery. Okay,

595
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 7: I watched it and I was like, there's a bunch

596
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 7: of jokes here that I'm not getting the same. It

597
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,360
Speaker 7: was a baffling. I felt like I was in an

598
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 7: alternate like a multiverse thing, because she's like, don't settle

599
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 7: for anything less than premium, and then she winks at

600
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 7: the camera and then she's got like a bunch of

601
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Speaker 7: batteries and she goes into her room with toilet paper,

602
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 7: and I'm like, oh man, this by so funny if

603
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:27,880
Speaker 7: you watch the show.

604
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Speaker 3: I have no idea what this.

605
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 7: I don't even know if this is a commercial four batteries,

606
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 7: Like is it toilet papers and batteries? There's some vibrator

607
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 7: thing in the mix at some point.

608
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 3: Oh wow.

609
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,879
Speaker 2: I had the same exact feelings watching it, going I

610
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 2: might understand this if.

611
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Speaker 4: I was an avid viewer of the show. Yeah, but

612
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 4: I'm not. I felt the same fever dream.

613
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 7: I went to the comments to see if everyone's like,

614
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,880
Speaker 7: oh my god, this is perfect, so give someone Durasall

615
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 7: a raise.

616
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Speaker 3: I was like, what, I'm missing the joke?

617
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 4: So lost?

618
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Speaker 2: I know I need to like, I need to figure

619
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Speaker 2: out maybe get updated.

620
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Speaker 4: Brittany Escoto is like obsessed, So.

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Speaker 5: Like, I watched the last three episodes of this last

622
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Speaker 5: season and then the reunion.

623
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Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's some good work, Tony.

624
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah, I'm want to be a top notch

625
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,360
Speaker 3: journalists over there. You know what's going on?

626
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of more wholesome television, the summer I turned

627
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 2: pretty Season two trailer came out and there is a

628
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,880
Speaker 2: cinematic version of August that I.

629
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,360
Speaker 4: Am dying for. I need I need it.

630
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Speaker 2: I need it for the summer once the sun comes

631
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 2: out again. Here, I need it on Spotify. Yeah, it

632
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 2: gave me chills. Are you nervous first season two? No,

633
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: You're just fine. It's fine.

634
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 4: I'm really excited.

635
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 5: Why are you nervous when I like a first season

636
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 5: that much and there's all that hype around it, Like,

637
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 5: I don't know, I always get nervous about the second season.

638
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 4: Well, if they're all based on the.

639
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 3: First season, was like, who is she going to pick?

640
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Speaker 3: What's she going to pick?

641
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 2: You know?

642
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 5: Think you like at the end you kind of figure

643
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 5: out who she's gonna pick. So then I'm like, is

644
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 5: it going to be as exciting?

645
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 2: I think the whole thing is that the whole book series,

646
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Speaker 2: you don't know. I think it's conflict of like who

647
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 2: she's gonna have not read the books, I think either,

648
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 2: But I've what I've gathered is that it's not like, oh,

649
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 2: she chose him and that's that's it.

650
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 3: We'll see.

651
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 4: I'm very excited. So last night I was laying in bed.

652
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and I was like, what should I put

653
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 2: on the television? And I was thinking about how Tawny

654
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 2: had told me there was a new season of Love

655
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Speaker 2: Island UK and there was only a few episodes, and

656
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 2: I was thinking, part of the.

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Speaker 5: Reason one there was only one, there's five. No, they're

658
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 5: not out, they say upcoming.

659
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Speaker 4: Oh there's only one two.

660
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 3: Now, Oh but they go every day.

661
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Speaker 2: Okay, so that really stresses me out. Oh yeah, the

662
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 2: amount of episodes. Like I tried to watch a season.

663
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Speaker 2: I think I got to like episode ten, and I

664
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 2: was like, I just.

665
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Speaker 3: Can't watch twenty five more.

666
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Speaker 4: He's not sustainable.

667
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Speaker 5: So I like say, there is a lull, there's like

668
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Speaker 5: a lull between like episode like after Cossa more there's

669
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Speaker 5: a little bit of a lull and then like then

670
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 5: the end is good too, So there's like a good

671
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 5: five or six seven episodes of like are kind of like.

672
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, but you just burnt through.

673
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 5: You put them on, you brush your teeth, you like

674
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 5: have some fun in the bedroom, like do whatever you want,

675
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 5: just like to have it back.

676
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 4: Okay.

677
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: With Love Island, those voices at host voice while messing

678
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,320
Speaker 2: around would be my nightmare.

679
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 3: Okay, So.

680
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 4: I wasn't. It didn't do anything for me.

681
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 6: Were gonna stop talking about it?

682
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 5: Now I think, but you don't watch, it doesn't mean

683
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 5: there's a large large fan base for.

684
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 2: Like people were messaging me like finally, like I'm so excited.

685
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 2: Here's the thing, it's it's painful to watch forced conversation

686
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 2: for me and the fact that they got coupled up

687
00:30:58,880 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 2: by the public.

688
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 3: I don't like that twist. They didn't used to be

689
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 3: like that.

690
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 5: They used to do it differently, where like the girls

691
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 5: would be there and they would step forward if they

692
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 5: want it, and then they would they would choose, you know.

693
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 5: I don't like the pairing up by the public aspect.

694
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 5: I don't know why they did that.

695
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: It's new, but the other version's cringed too, because when

696
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 2: someone doesn't get picked at the end, that like feels

697
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 2: like childhood trauma coming back.

698
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they'll deal with it so well.

699
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 5: That's what's so fascinating to me is the uk rs

700
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 5: are so much more mature and like, I don't know,

701
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 5: there's just no sweat, you know, like it's like it

702
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 5: is what it is, you know, like we're good.

703
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 2: I have a bad feeling. I can't tell if Molly

704
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 2: and Mitchell are going to be like in game right

705
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 2: because it feels too fast.

706
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 4: The connection feels.

707
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 5: There was one couple last season that was like that,

708
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 5: but then they had a little bit of a situation

709
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 5: in the middle and then they came back to each other.

710
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 6: Okay, and you're going to find out and just fifty

711
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 6: three short Yeah, just the thing.

712
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:05,239
Speaker 2: Maybe I like every tenth episode, every third Oh that

713
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: feels that.

714
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:06,840
Speaker 4: Still feels like a.

715
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 3: Lot, because no, you'll miss a lot. They read couple

716
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 3: every few days, I know.

717
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 4: So that's what I'm saying.

718
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 2: If I just kind of like keep up like every

719
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 2: seven to ten, then I'm like, oh, by the end, no,

720
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 2: I'll know everyone enough that.

721
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 3: Gotta just stick with it. Just with this season, just

722
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 3: stick you like this season. Well it's only two episodes,

723
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 3: so I'm not.

724
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 6: Really like zero point the season.

725
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, exactly, I'm not really. I do like Molly

726
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 5: and Mitchell a lot. I don't know his name. I

727
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 5: don't know his name, but he has the tattoo. He's

728
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 5: has Tyreek Tyreek, he's the tattoo the lightning bolt behind

729
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 5: his arm, because that's what you're he can hear out of.

730
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 3: Did you get that part?

731
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 5: He's deaf in one ear and then one ear he

732
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 5: can hear, so he has like a lightning bolt behind it,

733
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 5: because that's like his power, his superpower.

734
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really like he's the one that had met

735
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 3: the girl before he forgot.

736
00:32:55,760 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I like him. And then that's pretty much

737
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 5: it right now.

738
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 3: Three Well, I'm giving it my best. People, bombshells coming

739
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 3: in every day kills me.

740
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 4: It's the whole thing.

741
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: It's so cheering that I'm just like in my bed,

742
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 2: like tense, like I remind myself to relax.

743
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I did.

744
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 2: I did give it a chance, and I will. I

745
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 2: will continue so that we can maybe have conversations.

746
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 4: But that's where I stand right now.

747
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 3: I appreciate it. I'm enjoying the season.

748
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 5: I'm not like I've only watched two episode, So give

749
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 5: me like a week and then I can really assess.

750
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 2: Okay, great, did you watch the Ellen Pompeo and Catherine

751
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 2: Heigel uh interview?

752
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 3: I started it and I didn't finish it, Okay.

753
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 2: So I just saw like a ton I don't even know.

754
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 2: I feel like I watched the whole interview.

755
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 3: On TikTok, but I wanted to avoid that.

756
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 2: It was so fascinating because I feel like there's love

757
00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 2: and like respect for one another.

758
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 4: But I didn't feel like, oh, they're gonna yeah, there's.

759
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 2: But it was like such an honest conversation and I

760
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:13,720
Speaker 2: it it felt like healing or something to see them together.

761
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, even though it felt there was tension, I was like,

762
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,319
Speaker 4: there's a there's a I genuinely feel like there's a

763
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 4: level of respect for one another of like that goes deep,

764
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 4: you know, to be a.

765
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 5: Fly on the wall those first five seasons, like I

766
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,399
Speaker 5: really wish somebody could just write a tell all and

767
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 5: let us know actually like what went down, I was.

768
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 5: I would give anything. I'd give my left really my

769
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 5: left sleeve of this sweatshop smart good.

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00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

771
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 2: I thought it was interesting because they were talking about uh,

772
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 2: I can't remember Catherine or Meredith was saying that.

773
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 3: They were like, her name's Ellen, Katherine.

774
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 2: I can't remember who said it, but someone said their

775
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 2: daughter was like, oh, she's such a picny girl. I

776
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 2: can't remember if they were talking about Izzier Meredith and

777
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,360
Speaker 2: Ellen was like, I am the original picnic girl for

778
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 2: the you know, and she did the picnic Choose Me,

779
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 2: Love Me, and she I guess fought to she didn't

780
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 2: like that scene and she fought to have it removed.

781
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 2: She's like, I did not want to do it. I

782
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 2: fought them on it, and she was like, I had

783
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 2: no idea it would be this like iconic scene from

784
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:29,280
Speaker 2: the whole show. Wow, But I thought that was so interesting. Yeah,

785
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 2: it's so good.

786
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 4: I can't believe that she.

787
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 3: If that didn't exist, I don't know who I would

788
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 3: be today. Honestly, I'm not kidding.

789
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 4: But I liked that.

790
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:45,279
Speaker 2: Katherine Heigel addressed like how the rumors of that she

791
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 2: was difficult on set and stuff, and it was it

792
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 2: was just a very honest and Ellen in her back.

793
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 5: She was like, when a woman is inconfident and in

794
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 5: charge of like who she is and what she wants

795
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 5: to do, she's deemed like difficult and a bitch, and

796
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 5: it's just such a double standard.

797
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:01,280
Speaker 3: And it's true.

798
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 6: It is true. They said that there's a lot of

799
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 6: stories about politicians. Female politicians are always getting stories, Oh

800
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 6: it's just awful to her staff, But you never hear

801
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 6: those about male politicians.

802
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 8: Yeah.

803
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 6: I don't think it's because all males are great. No,

804
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 6: I think it's because they're kind of expected to be jerks. Yeah,

805
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:16,399
Speaker 6: and I think that's wrong.

806
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you know that Ellen Pompeo's filming a limited.

807
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 4: Series for Hulu this fall.

808
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 2: No, it's going to be like our first time we

809
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 2: see her outside of Scrubs.

810
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 5: She'll still be marred with the green right, Yeah, she's

811
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 5: gonna be Yeah, she'll be back for I guess the

812
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 5: twentieth season begins.

813
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 2: But anyways, I want to watch it in full because

814
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 2: I was like just so sucked in by the clin.

815
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 5: Love series that that variety does the actors on actors.

816
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 5: I love that they do that. They always pair up

817
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:53,720
Speaker 5: the most interesting people. They always have the most unique conversations.

818
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 5: I just think it's really cool variety. If any scrubbers

819
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 5: work for you, good on you.

820
00:36:58,960 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 4: Good on you.

821
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's always very thoughtful. Yeah yeah, I really enjoy

822
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 3: it too, and beautifully Shaw, It's just like a great

823
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 3: piece of work.

824
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 4: I agreed.

825
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we should take a break and come

826
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 2: back with emails.

827
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 6: Fancy.

828
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey, guys, Rosa in Sanchez and I'm Eric Winter

829
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: and together we host that he said Aadijo podcast. Yes,

830
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 1: after eighteen years together fifteen married, we still disagree about

831
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 1: a lot of things, but we do it with mutual

832
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: more right.

833
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 6: Eric, Yes, dear, whatever you say I mean.

834
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes you can be a dream popper, okay again, but

835
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: I love the way we can be open and honest.

836
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 3: With each other.

837
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, maybe a little too much.

838
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 1: Listen to he said a Yadijo as a part of

839
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 1: Michael Tura Network on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or whatever.

840
00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: You listen to podcasts.

841
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 5: All right before we get to emails. Yeah, a lot

842
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 5: of questions about your double date with Krishelle and g Flip.

843
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 4: Well, we didn't. It wasn't like a double date. Really.

844
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 2: I was saying that I was saying that we should

845
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 2: have a double date because we were all at La

846
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 2: Pride together because g Flip performed earlier in the day

847
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 2: and then Haley came out with Fletcher and so we

848
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 2: were all there together and it was so fun and

849
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 2: like right when they started dating, we went and had

850
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 2: a dinner together, and I just love both of them,

851
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 2: and I feel like that we're our relationship kind of

852
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 2: our relationship dynamic, kind of mirrors each other in the

853
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 2: sense that like Krishelle and I have both been on

854
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,959
Speaker 2: reality TV, and then g Flip and Haley are both

855
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 2: like artists and like very like serious and driven and

856
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,760
Speaker 2: focused on their work. So there's like this similar dynamic

857
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 2: between the four like all of us, but they're awesome.

858
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 2: It was so fun. I told you, I really want

859
00:38:58,200 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 2: Krishelle on the podcast.

860
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 3: And what's what's stopping her? I think I think that

861
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 3: she hates me. No, I'm scared of her.

862
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 5: Why because remember I like did a trending report on

863
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 5: her on Earth Ryan Seacrest and she like reposted it

864
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 5: and was like this is not true. Yeah, And I

865
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 5: was like, I know, I didn't say it was true.

866
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 5: It was just a quote that came from this guy's mouth.

867
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, she didn't mention she hates you, so I don't

868
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 4: think so.

869
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 6: But she's more rebutting what he said than what you

870
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:26,720
Speaker 6: were saying.

871
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I've never had I've never experienced that before

872
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:30,440
Speaker 3: and it.

873
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 5: Was a level of of uncomfortableness that I never want

874
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 5: to feel again.

875
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 4: But I was just telling her.

876
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 2: I was like, it's we we have experienced such a

877
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:48,280
Speaker 2: similar story. And like it's a very busy gals.

878
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 4: She's she's filming selling sunset.

879
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 3: She's sure she has a studio in her house.

880
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was it was really fun. I think

881
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 2: Pride was crazy. It was like a mini Coachella.

882
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like Pride's got budget.

883
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, they had some budget, like Megan the stallion I carries.

884
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 4: I was not expecting that, so that was really fun.

885
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

886
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:13,760
Speaker 4: Shall we get into emails?

887
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 6: This is from Actually they're all anonymous these days. I

888
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 6: have found people have stopped giving us the names and

889
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 6: that's fine. First one says I'm having a hard time currently. January,

890
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 6: my fiance went off his antidepressants to see if he

891
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 6: would feel okay. It's been months now, but he has

892
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 6: not improved. He's doing a form of treatment soon, which

893
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 6: I'm hopeful will help. The reason I'm emailing is because

894
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 6: I made a trip to my parents' house recently because

895
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 6: we're getting married in September and needed to get some

896
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 6: things done. My dad stepped in and says he thinks

897
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 6: we should postpone the wedding. It feels very hurtful. I

898
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 6: was looking for support in this situation. Depression is a

899
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:46,720
Speaker 6: part of him, and I know that's what I've signed

900
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 6: up for. My fiance has been excited about our wedding

901
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:50,879
Speaker 6: and I would never want to take that away from him.

902
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 6: How do I get past this with my family? I

903
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 6: feel judged and I don't feel comfortable around them now,

904
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 6: I've always been super close with them, so this is hard.

905
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 6: Your podcast is a light in my life weekly, So

906
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 6: thank you for doing what you do nice.

907
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that you're navigating this. I think that sometimes

908
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 2: our especially our parents don't maybe sometimes understand like mental health.

909
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,720
Speaker 2: Like I feel like that's a conversation around our generation

910
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 2: a lot more and like younger generations, like we're like

911
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 2: talking about it a lot more.

912
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 3: I think that our parents go ahead, go ahead, Well,

913
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 3: I'm just.

914
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 4: Gonna say that.

915
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 2: I think that sometimes with like our partners, we know

916
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 2: our partners better than our parents will ever know our partners.

917
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 2: So you've made this choice. You know that he struggles

918
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 2: with depression, and he's doing his best, and you're doing

919
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 2: your best to show up for him, and you know

920
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 2: that that might be something that you're navigating for the

921
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 2: entirety of your relationship. And your parents are just wanting

922
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 2: to protect you and and make sure that you're not

923
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 2: getting into a situation that's going to make life harder

924
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 2: for you. Is what I feel like is how happening.

925
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,240
Speaker 2: And that doesn't mean that they're right. It just means

926
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 2: that they're You're like, they're baby girl, and they're like,

927
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 2: we don't want to see something bad happen to you,

928
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 2: and if this is a struggle, we don't want to

929
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 2: see you struggle. And I think it's just as not

930
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 2: as easy, but it's having a conversation of like you

931
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: are going to make the decisions for your life and

932
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 2: you know what you're signing up for with this, and

933
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 2: you're there to support him and you want to move

934
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 2: forward with a wedding and know that they're not doing

935
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 2: it from a place of wanting to hurt your feelings

936
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 2: or not have you feel supported, but they're just they're

937
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 2: just wanting you to be protected.

938
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 4: That's what I feel.

939
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 5: I think you hit the nail on the head with this.

940
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 5: I think that parents just want their kids' lives to

941
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:51,440
Speaker 5: be as easy as humanly possible. And it's not necessarily

942
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 5: it's not how life works, you know what I mean, Like,

943
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 5: it's just not how life is. But I think that

944
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 5: is the lens at which they view everything in and

945
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 5: so in there eyes, this is something that's going to

946
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,760
Speaker 5: be really hard for you to deal with, but it's life,

947
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 5: and that is something that you love this man, and

948
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 5: this is something that he struggles with, and this is

949
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 5: something that you've chosen to take on, and you are

950
00:43:11,239 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 5: choosing to take on, and that is you know, like

951
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 5: you are doing it and you are capable and you

952
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 5: will do it. I think parents just see it as

953
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 5: black and white. Honestly. I remember when I first started

954
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 5: dating Robbie and my mom kind of was like it

955
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 5: was like our second date, but she was like, oh,

956
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 5: he had like about the fact that he had kids.

957
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 3: Like she was like, that's going to be hard for you.

958
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 3: And she's right, you know, like she it is.

959
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 5: It's something that's not It's not like I'm just dating

960
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 5: somebody willy nilly.

961
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,520
Speaker 3: It is like an obstacle, but that is.

962
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 5: Something that I chose to do. I signed up for,

963
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 5: and you know, like I think, it's like you have

964
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 5: to just take your parents. You have to listen to

965
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 5: what they say, but try not to take it to heart,

966
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 5: because they just want what's easiest for you and you

967
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 5: just kind of had in a weird way. You kind

968
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 5: of just have to brush it off and just keep

969
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 5: living your life. Don't let it come between you and

970
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 5: your parents. They're your parents and they love you, you know,

971
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 5: so just keep your relationship with them, try not to

972
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 5: take it to heart. I know it sounds really hard,

973
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 5: but know that it's coming from a place of love

974
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:09,879
Speaker 5: and just keep going.

975
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 6: Next one Anonymous, I'm looking for some advice on how

976
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 6: to navigate my relationship. My boyfriend and I've been together

977
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 6: a little over seven months. He's divorced. He has three kids.

978
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 6: Their mom only has visitation for a few hours on

979
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:26,879
Speaker 6: Sunday and it's supervised. That's interesting anyway. He has met

980
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 6: most of my family and friends, but it doesn't feel

981
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 6: comfortable having me meet his kids until we've been together

982
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 6: for one year. I one hundred percent respect his decision

983
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 6: and only want to meet them when he feels it's right.

984
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 6: But I'm having trouble because I feel like I've welcomed

985
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 6: him into my world. His kids are his world, so

986
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 6: it's hard to feel validated when I don't know the

987
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 6: biggest piece of his heart. I am thirty three, he

988
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 6: is thirty seven. Tanya, Yeah, the tall actually.

989
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:54,280
Speaker 5: Together, Yeah, I totally. When I say I can relate

990
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 5: to how you're feeling, I can one hundred percent relate

991
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 5: to how you're feeling.

992
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 3: I felt this exact same way. Robbie was very, very protective.

993
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 5: He did not want his kids to quite frankly, he

994
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 5: didn't want them to meet anybody until that woman was

995
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 5: going to be in their lives forever. And so that's

996
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,600
Speaker 5: a lot of pressure when you're newly dating somebody, you know,

997
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 5: because you want to that you're right, Their kids are

998
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 5: their world, and so it's like hard to feel that

999
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 5: you're fully in somebody's world when you haven't met something

1000
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 5: that is so important to them. But I think in hindsight,

1001
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 5: looking back, that time was really hard for me, but

1002
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 5: in a weird way, it was nice to have that

1003
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 5: separation for as long as we did, because once you

1004
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 5: do meet the kids and you get involved, it's full on.

1005
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 5: You know, there's no like middle really with it, you know,

1006
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:45,479
Speaker 5: like there's you're Once you meet the kids, it's full

1007
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 5: on and it's a beautiful experience, but it's a totally

1008
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 5: different experience, and your relationship is going to change.

1009
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 3: The dynamic changes, and so I would.

1010
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 5: Just say to try and live in this moment where

1011
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 5: you just have him and it's just the two of you.

1012
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 5: Because we did that, I didn't meet them for close

1013
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 5: to a year, like nine months, ten months until I

1014
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 5: first met them, So try and live in this moment

1015
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 5: as much as you can and like cherish this phase

1016
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 5: of your relationship because you will meet them eventually and

1017
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 5: it's going to beautiful, but it's going to change the

1018
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 5: dynamic of your relationship.

1019
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 4: I can't relate to the feeling of it all.

1020
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 2: But I have so much respect for Robbie because I

1021
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 2: think that and I think it's people choose whatever they're

1022
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 2: comfortable with and how to introduce kids. But he was

1023
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 2: so protective to his kids and making sure that he

1024
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 2: wasn't just like introducing people that were going to be

1025
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 2: in and out of their lives, and he was so

1026
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: he stood so firm in that, and I knew it

1027
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 2: was so hard for you, but I now look he.

1028
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 4: Was hard for him too.

1029
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:49,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yah, of course, because I'm sure he was,

1030
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,240
Speaker 2: Like I would love for them who.

1031
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 4: Wouldn't want their kids to meet you?

1032
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1033
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:53,840
Speaker 3: And where would they say that?

1034
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,680
Speaker 5: He's like I envision us all being together and having

1035
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 5: breakfast and watching, you know, like I was doing stuff

1036
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 5: with them, Like I dream of the day where we're

1037
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 5: all doing this together, you know.

1038
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 4: But I just really respect that he.

1039
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 2: Did it on his time, and I think it's really

1040
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:12,720
Speaker 2: respectful because I think it probably would have been easier

1041
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 2: to have you there to like help and entertain right,

1042
00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 2: like to go on trips and have you an extra.

1043
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:18,800
Speaker 3: Hands set of hands.

1044
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1045
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 5: I think about all the time when we're doing stuff

1046
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 5: together and like one of them wants to do something

1047
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,240
Speaker 5: and the other one wants to like go get a sandwich,

1048
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 5: you know, like I can divine and conquer.

1049
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 3: And I think about that all the time, like how.

1050
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 2: Much easier it would have been if he would have

1051
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 2: just been like whatever, It'll be easier just to have

1052
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 2: someone there. So I really, I think it's really respectful

1053
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 2: to hear these stories about people waiting because I think

1054
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 2: it just shows their level of you know, wanting to

1055
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 2: make sure that you're the right person and also what's

1056
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 2: right for their kids.

1057
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 5: So you just didn't want a revolving door, and that

1058
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 5: might be with what's going on with your boyfriend right

1059
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 5: now too.

1060
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 4: Yeah in seven months, so you're almost two years.

1061
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're almost there. Like I I remember after three months,

1062
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:01,240
Speaker 5: I was like, okay, when am I meeting the kids?

1063
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 3: Like I was ready like six weeks Yeah, so what

1064
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 3: do we do in dinner?

1065
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 2: Well?

1066
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1067
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 2: And I think when you fall in love with someone,

1068
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 2: you're like I want to be involved in every part

1069
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:09,919
Speaker 2: of your life.

1070
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,760
Speaker 4: I want you to be in every part of mine.

1071
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 2: And I think for you it was like Robbie was

1072
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 2: involved in every aspect of your life.

1073
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 3: And I was.

1074
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 5: I remember that and you can feel like it does.

1075
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:20,600
Speaker 5: It does feel isolating, you know, like they would FaceTime

1076
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:23,240
Speaker 5: and I couldn't. Really I felt like I was invisible,

1077
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 5: you know, because you're not there. So it does like

1078
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 5: I understand completely what you're going through and it's hard,

1079
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 5: but it.

1080
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 4: You know what they say, it doesn't challenge. If it

1081
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:35,799
Speaker 4: doesn't challenge.

1082
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:37,319
Speaker 3: You, it doesn't change you, and we can all do

1083
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 3: hard things. Oh, Glennon Doyle, that's right. Well, I'll bringing

1084
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,399
Speaker 3: it back to my GD.

1085
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 4: That was quick. I think that's it for today. You guys,

1086
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 4: that's it.

1087
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 2: I don't think we don't have a Thursday episode, so

1088
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 2: really soaked this one in.

1089
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe replay it again on Thursday.

1090
00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 2: Give us a replay on Thursday.

1091
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 3: And uh, we love you so much, see you next week.

1092
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 4: Have a great week. Bye bye m