WEBVTT - Forgotten Cards and Empty Nests

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Heather Durow and I'm Terry, and we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>keep this between us, but not really.

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<v Speaker 2>No, how are you?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good, I recovering.

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<v Speaker 1>I am recovering as well. We have two graduations on

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<v Speaker 1>separate coasts one day apart, and then we are taking trips.

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<v Speaker 1>So we always do a trip at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the filming season for Housewives. That's like our thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't have time because the twins were graduating, so

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<v Speaker 1>we decided to take it afterwards. I have to say, I,

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of filming season this season, you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Blown out, destroyed more than you usually are.

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<v Speaker 1>I stayed in bed the day after we wrapped the

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<v Speaker 1>show this year, season twenty. I'm going to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that the next day, I did not get out of

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<v Speaker 1>bed till are you ready for it?

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<v Speaker 2>Two pm?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that was two.

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<v Speaker 2>PM, and I'm telling you I was sleeping.

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<v Speaker 1>I got up a little, I went back to there

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<v Speaker 1>might have been a romantic moment, and then I went

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<v Speaker 1>back to bed again and I was in bed until

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<v Speaker 1>two was that TMI? I was in bed till two pm.

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<v Speaker 1>I have not done that since college.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, two pm.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never seen you get blown out by a season

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<v Speaker 4>the way you got blown out this season?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes, yes, I don't know why particularly I will

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<v Speaker 1>talk about it as we go. By the way, are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys following me on substack? Do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>substack is?

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<v Speaker 3>Not? Really, do you know what substeck is?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you been following me?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 1>Substack is like if Instagram and Twitter had a baby

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<v Speaker 1>and pinterest Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest had.

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<v Speaker 2>A baby, and it's kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I used to have this newsletter that I love doing,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would write it and like get all my

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<v Speaker 1>links and do all my things. And then I got

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<v Speaker 1>a little busy stopped doing it. And then I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like people were just chat gpting newsletters, which irritated me,

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<v Speaker 1>so I stopped doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>But this substack thing is different.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's like thought starters and conversations and and

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<v Speaker 1>I I loving it.

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<v Speaker 3>What is that called squirreling?

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<v Speaker 4>When you start on one topic you immediately go to

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<v Speaker 4>another's nothing?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did I do?

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<v Speaker 3>I remember? We started with the you were slept from

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<v Speaker 3>the housewife things?

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<v Speaker 1>See this is how tired I am. I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so blown out. But all right, I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly don't know why I squirreled out. Yes, yeah, well

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what I am. I was so tired,

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<v Speaker 1>so blown out.

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<v Speaker 4>By Yeah, and I was equally blown out by Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just going to say it.

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<v Speaker 2>Why were you blown out by Mother's Day?

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<v Speaker 3>You?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about what Terry Debrow did on Mother's Day?

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<v Speaker 1>He got up at what time?

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<v Speaker 2>Eleven?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, he got up at eleven am. Yes, he studied

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<v Speaker 1>for a case. He's an expert witness on Yes, he

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<v Speaker 1>came outside and hung out with me for thirty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>Laid out the pool, got a little.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, hung out with me for thirty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>Little pressure evening.

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<v Speaker 2>Then he went to the gym, went to the.

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<v Speaker 1>Gym, and then he got ready and he went out

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<v Speaker 1>with me and the kids to dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that was what he did on Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 3>That was pretty good. And I got your present.

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<v Speaker 2>He got me a present that I ordered you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, actually you did not order it? Actually not true? No, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I had no.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay you think you did.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll talk about this later. But you actually did. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I know because I remember, Oh maybe you did.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have one? Did? She called me?

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<v Speaker 4>She goes, remember that thing the Heather really wanted that

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<v Speaker 4>I thought a year ago, I go, yeah, it's in.

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<v Speaker 4>I go, awesome, Mother's Day, I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wasn't that supposed to be my Birthday present though? And

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<v Speaker 1>then it was going to be the Valentine's Day gift.

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<v Speaker 3>We combined them.

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<v Speaker 2>And then it was the Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It was like a stew, a stew of presents.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a little meat, and there's a carrot, and there's celery.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I don't care about the gift. My

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that I think you did not do well

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<v Speaker 1>on Mother's.

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<v Speaker 2>Day it was the card.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>It was a very nice card.

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<v Speaker 1>But so on my Birthday you forgot to give me

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<v Speaker 1>the card, and then on Valentine's Day you forgot to

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<v Speaker 1>give me the card.

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<v Speaker 3>And the card I didn't forget. I did not forget.

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<v Speaker 4>Those cards were slightly apologetic because I had been maybe

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<v Speaker 4>not so attentive leading up to it, so they were

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<v Speaker 4>kind of apologetic, right, cards, And I thought, well, they

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<v Speaker 4>just don't work anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, But what you told me was at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was like, am I ever getting my cards?

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<v Speaker 1>And what you said to me, was you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I really just want to say something different now.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was really very loving the.

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<v Speaker 1>Way he said it. Because we had had like a

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<v Speaker 1>week or so where you know, we're getting along that well.

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<v Speaker 1>So he wrote something. He said to me, you said

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<v Speaker 1>to me in a very loving way. You were like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say something different.

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<v Speaker 3>I did whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But that card never came. I got a very nice

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<v Speaker 1>Mother's Day cards different. I never got that loving Birthday Valentines,

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<v Speaker 1>I need to say more important things card. I got

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<v Speaker 1>a really nice Mother's Day card, but it wasn't that card,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what I was expecting.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, do you understand what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 4>And I will consult chatchp T about that because CHATTPT

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<v Speaker 4>wrote the card.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, I'm not kidding. I thought that I wrote a

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<v Speaker 3>great card. He did.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a great Mother's Day card. But I was

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<v Speaker 1>expecting the card that you pitched me.

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<v Speaker 3>But I had moved.

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<v Speaker 4>But honey, New Time, new season. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>who remembers what happened last season.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it just goes by the wayside. But in any event,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a lovely Mother's Day. I mean, I was

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<v Speaker 1>with you, but I went to I went to Hot

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<v Speaker 1>Matt Pilates with Nikki and Katah, which was great, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we got a smoothie and then we came home

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<v Speaker 1>and I saw Ace for a little bit, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I went to the gym by myself and like I

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<v Speaker 1>did like one of those long extended workouts, which I enjoyed,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I sat.

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<v Speaker 2>Outside by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I came down and then you came down for thirty

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes, which was very left.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I was only there three.

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<v Speaker 2>Nikki, because I was already down there an hour and

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<v Speaker 2>a half.

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<v Speaker 3>You have judn't text me for okay, no one wants

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<v Speaker 3>to hear this.

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<v Speaker 2>And then Nicky came down and hung out anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>And then what was the president? Everyone wants to know's?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he got me a really beautiful pair of earrings. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>gorgeous earrings. Yes that matched some other jewelry I have

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<v Speaker 1>and they were stunning.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>So graduation is this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>So Mother's Day was great, and now this week there's

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<v Speaker 1>so much going on. I'm like purging the kids rooms.

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<v Speaker 1>I am I have to move storage stuff. I am

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<v Speaker 1>setting up all the kids summers. Everyone is going I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the four of them are really going in different directions,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's travel involved and and there's a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Are we getting specific about the plan because it's a

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<v Speaker 4>very interesting graduation plan. Yeah, so Nicki's graduating, We're going

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<v Speaker 4>right from Nicky's graduation ceremony to a plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, because Nicki is graduating in la on Saturday and

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<v Speaker 1>Max's graduated. Like literally, Nickis graduation is over at one

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<v Speaker 1>pm on Saturday and Max's begins at nine am on

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<v Speaker 1>Sunday in Boston.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, so we're taking your aunt, your mom and the

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<v Speaker 4>kids and the kids, popping on a plane and going

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<v Speaker 4>right to Boston, Boston.

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<v Speaker 1>With the time difference everything, even if we leave it too.

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<v Speaker 1>We land at like eleven m.

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<v Speaker 3>And then we go to Max's ceremony.

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<v Speaker 1>So Max has two ceremonies. There's like Nicky's is just

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<v Speaker 1>one big ceremony. Max they do like an all school event.

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<v Speaker 1>Then there's a little two hour break and then there's

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<v Speaker 1>her particular college.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then you and I get on a plane.

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<v Speaker 2>Well then we're having a dinner first, Oh, we're.

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<v Speaker 4>Having dinner, and then we get on a plane and

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<v Speaker 4>we fly away and we go on to st We're

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<v Speaker 4>done with them and we're going on one of those

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<v Speaker 4>fabulous trips with our best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, we're going with Richard and Daisy. They're not meeting

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<v Speaker 1>with us for the whole time, but part of the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Richard and Daisy.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, that's one of my favorite rit things

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<v Speaker 2>to do. I have to say. I love so Terry.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have the best time alone. We could talk

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<v Speaker 1>till the cows come home, like all the things. But

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<v Speaker 1>there's something really fun about meeting up with another couple

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<v Speaker 1>and doing you know, dinners and lunch, you know whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>like having friend time with our besties yea, and then

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<v Speaker 1>having and then we have a loan time too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Love that.

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<v Speaker 4>And they're really amazing to travel with because the best

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<v Speaker 4>they call, they go, you know, we don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>do that today. We go, fine, well, see you later.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we've traveled with them. It's fun to have friends

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<v Speaker 1>that you've traveled with so much. Yes, that you you

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<v Speaker 1>get each other.

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<v Speaker 2>You can like I.

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<v Speaker 1>They know that I always make the reservations and the

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<v Speaker 1>plans and everything. So I do that, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>on my substack. Now that I'm squirreled out on my

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<v Speaker 1>sub stack, I'm going to go back to well I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to tell you because everyone always wants to know

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<v Speaker 1>how I pack and the places that we're going, So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm we're not telling you where we're going

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<v Speaker 1>right now, but when we come back, I'll tell you

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<v Speaker 1>where we went, and then you can go see where

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<v Speaker 1>we ate and what we did and yeah, all.

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<v Speaker 4>Those fun anyway, So we're going to like one of

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<v Speaker 4>the greatest places to go to vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it's the perfect blend of like rancho, relaxo and party.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's funny because we had heard about this place

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<v Speaker 4>our whole lives, never went there, and finally we went

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<v Speaker 4>there and we thought, oh it. Actually it lives up

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<v Speaker 4>Very few places live up to the hype. Paris lives

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<v Speaker 4>up to the hype.

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<v Speaker 1>We love Paris. We're going to Paris in September. Celine

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<v Speaker 1>Dion is doing a handful of shows.

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<v Speaker 2>And we are going.

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<v Speaker 4>I think Manhattan lives up to the hype. Yes, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my, it's the most amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>It is the most being city. I love it. It's

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<v Speaker 3>going to be fun. I'm looking forward to spending that

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<v Speaker 3>time with you.

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<v Speaker 4>We too, and here now officially between seasons, yeah, which

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<v Speaker 4>is a really interesting place to be between seasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can't believe season twenty. Think about that.

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<v Speaker 1>We started the show when our youngest was nine so old,

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<v Speaker 1>and he is getting his permit in two weeks and

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<v Speaker 1>he will be sixteen in December.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just insane, that insane. Yeah, it's been a long

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<v Speaker 2>long time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the bands are really going to love this season.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very layered, nostalgic and fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are the words I'm want to give it.

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<v Speaker 4>What I'm looking most forward to about this graduation thing

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<v Speaker 4>with Max and Nikky is.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's the it's the cheese store sandwiches that

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to eat.

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<v Speaker 2>On the plane.

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<v Speaker 3>That's that's number two, number one Vincent.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you get to see your grand You have to

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<v Speaker 2>see Max's Okay, I don't think we're going to see him.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean I'm not going to see him.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think we'll be seeing isn't she staying in

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<v Speaker 3>the hotel with us? No, he's staying in in her apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think you're going to get to see him.

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<v Speaker 2>We're there for such a short period of time.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I find the most interesting weirdest, are

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<v Speaker 4>you kidding me? Thing going on right now? What Spencer Pratt?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>So Heidi montag is going to be the first lady

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<v Speaker 1>of Los Angeles?

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<v Speaker 4>It's is that such a thing as the first lady

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<v Speaker 4>is the Mayor's wife is the first lady?

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<v Speaker 1>Not well the mayor s as they say on Ginny

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<v Speaker 1>and Georgia.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, but I just think, first of all, have you

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<v Speaker 4>seen his ads, his ai, his use of ai?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, because when you're up at two am you watch them.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of the most brilliant thing I've ever seen ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, So, so Spencer was a villain.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>What's interesting to me is that I sort of Spencer obviously.

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<v Speaker 1>When the fires happened and we saw that Spencer and

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<v Speaker 1>Heidie's house burn down, they made big news and he

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<v Speaker 1>was everywhere and he was fighting for rights and insurance,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe, and all kinds of things, which was really impressive.

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<v Speaker 1>And a friend of mine, Scott King. Scott was working

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<v Speaker 1>with Heidi on music videos for her new songs or

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<v Speaker 1>her repurposing her old songs and all this kind of things.

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<v Speaker 1>So all of a sudden we started talking about Spencer

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<v Speaker 1>and Heidi and we were talking about them all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden he's running for mayor.

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<v Speaker 3>Well.

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<v Speaker 4>It's funny because when you listen to him, because I listened,

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<v Speaker 4>I go, Okay, what's this bencer Prant guys a moron.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I never listened to him, and I listened to my go.

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<v Speaker 4>Everything he's saying makes makes sense. Everything he says mixes

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<v Speaker 4>what does meaning that he's the guy that but I

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<v Speaker 4>don't you know, if it's the same people doing it

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<v Speaker 4>over again, it's not going to work.

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<v Speaker 2>We definitely need a new regime here.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that when you have someone that is so

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<v Speaker 1>invested in this city and this community.

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<v Speaker 2>And understands can't get any worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Not only can't get it worse, but maybe with someone

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<v Speaker 1>at the helm that actually cares about what about the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that this is the best city ever and it's

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<v Speaker 1>and ruined and it's ruined, and you know what.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you vote for him?

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<v Speaker 2>I would?

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<v Speaker 3>I weirdly would too.

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<v Speaker 4>But the way he's doing the most powerful podcasts there

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<v Speaker 4>are right now, he's doing all in. He's I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>everybody's interested in Spencer Pratt.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he has something to say and I think

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<v Speaker 1>all I hope. And I think this is true from

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<v Speaker 1>things I hear about him and from him, is that

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<v Speaker 1>he's smart enough to know what he doesn't know and

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<v Speaker 1>will surround himself with those people that are smart enough

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<v Speaker 1>to actually know those things. But maybe the guy leading

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<v Speaker 1>the charge, who's so you know, passionate, is the best.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in the shower, truth be told.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you try singing again?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm in the shower, and I'm thinking, Wow, Spencer

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<v Speaker 4>Pratt probably maybe will be mayor. And then I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>it's amazing. You can go from being a mid level

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<v Speaker 4>or his case, low level reality star.

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<v Speaker 2>Does this mean you're going to rull for a governor?

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<v Speaker 4>This is where I'm going to something so significant. I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>if Spencer Pratt can be mayor of Los Angeles, what

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<v Speaker 4>are you going to be?

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<v Speaker 3>What can Terry Dubrouke.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what could you be? Honey? What do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to be?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm not going to be mayor because that's

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<v Speaker 4>Spencer Pratt. I mean, you know, he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Got to got to go higher.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought, governor? Could I be governor? Could I be

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<v Speaker 3>a senator?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe maybe that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Terry debrou Yeah, But then I got to be your

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<v Speaker 1>first whatever, and then my life is like following you around.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to do that. Yes, I say no,

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<v Speaker 2>I will buy you a plaque.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of plaque that says like Governor Dubreu, Senator Dubreu. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>put it on your desk. I'll call you that sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>at night, if you And.

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<v Speaker 4>Then, by the way, not to make this all to

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<v Speaker 4>finish this with being all about me.

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<v Speaker 3>I was listed.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would we stop?

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<v Speaker 3>One hundred and.

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<v Speaker 4>Five year old doctor just died recently, one hundred and

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<v Speaker 4>five hundred and five Wow. And he you know, he

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<v Speaker 4>had his like top five suggestions secrets to living along?

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<v Speaker 2>Yea, what was on there?

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<v Speaker 4>One of them was, you know, always be interested, always

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<v Speaker 4>keep your mind working. He went to law school wait

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<v Speaker 4>for it, at age sixty seven.

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<v Speaker 3>He did, really he did.

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<v Speaker 1>I keep telling you should go to law school. The

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<v Speaker 1>only problem is you want to go to law school

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<v Speaker 1>with our daughter Max. I do, and she does not

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<v Speaker 1>want to go with you.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you called her right now and ask her

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<v Speaker 4>if she if she'd want me to go to.

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<v Speaker 3>Law school, probably would she was. She'd love me to

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<v Speaker 3>be interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>What she needs to make friends and do your own thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'll take care of Vincent. So yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 4>might go to law school, I might run for senator.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah what about you? What if you weren't doing what

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<v Speaker 4>you're doing right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I think that well.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, and I have not been quiet about this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I really would love to do scripted, yes again

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<v Speaker 1>in some capacity. I don't know what that looks like,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would love to do that. And I am

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<v Speaker 1>I know this sounds so like I'm I'm working on

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<v Speaker 1>things because I you know, it's just like, don't talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it, let it happen. But over the last several years,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm always like developing something, pitching something, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a game show, or pitching it out.

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<v Speaker 2>We have this, we have that.

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<v Speaker 1>So there are some scripted things circling. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if they'll come to first or not. I do like

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<v Speaker 1>working on those things. I also enjoyed producing, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have some things in that lane that I'm working on

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<v Speaker 1>with producing partners that I'm excited about. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to continue down that path. I would

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<v Speaker 1>like to do scripted, more scripted and producing. Yeah, those

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<v Speaker 1>things I really enjoy doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Stand up was the scariest.

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<v Speaker 1>I just did it for research for a musical I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing, and it was really fun and really scary.

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<v Speaker 3>Dandas going to be the horror of the hardest.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know what the thing is. It's like you

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<v Speaker 2>can't like.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a cute act, right, it was fine, no

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<v Speaker 1>one heckled be I was cute whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>But when you work with real stand ups and.

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<v Speaker 1>You see what they do, it is just it is

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<v Speaker 1>a skill set. You are just naked on that stage.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, I wouldn't mind singing again, like

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I miss singing. I'd like to do that again.

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<v Speaker 3>Funny.

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<v Speaker 4>My favorite music right now is AI generated music. I know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's the weirdest thing. You know why. They know exactly

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<v Speaker 4>what people like. They know what all the hit songs

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<v Speaker 4>have been in history, and they can sort of make

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<v Speaker 4>a song that is based on what people have loved.

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<v Speaker 4>And every time you hear it, the first time you

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<v Speaker 4>hear it, it's as if you've heard it a million times.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I don't agree with you.

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<v Speaker 3>I love AI music.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say that for me, and I'm sure AI

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<v Speaker 1>will catch up eventually, But for me, the best stories

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<v Speaker 1>come from people's like trauma. Whether it's funny, drama or

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<v Speaker 1>sad or whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Those stories become.

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<v Speaker 1>The best movies and the best songs and all personal experience.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think without personal experience, it's a little shallow

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<v Speaker 1>and hollow.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I love a music. I know you do.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So I just want to tell you how proud

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<v Speaker 4>I am of you of getting through another season of

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<v Speaker 4>Real Housewives. How I think you were brave. I think

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<v Speaker 4>you showed a lot of sort of fortitude and courage,

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<v Speaker 4>and you didn't get I don't think you got ted.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what rains to be seen because I

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't there for most of it. But I'm really proud

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<v Speaker 4>of how you got through another season and interacted with

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<v Speaker 4>everybody and you're still standing.

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<v Speaker 3>So I love you. Graduation.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I find so interesting, It's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we have four kids, but our twins are the oldest,

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<v Speaker 1>so whatever they do is our first time experiencing that thing, right, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So these are this is the first time we've had

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<v Speaker 1>kids graduate college, and I sort of gave them both

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<v Speaker 1>this speech. It's a little different for Max because she's

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<v Speaker 1>going to law school. But for Nikki, I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you graduate college, it's the first time in your

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<v Speaker 1>life that you and your peers are not all on

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<v Speaker 1>the same page. You're not all doing the same thing,

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<v Speaker 1>because from birth till then you're all told you you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you go to school, you do your sports, you have

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<v Speaker 1>your summer camps. You know, you do the thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>you go to college and you graduate and then people scatter. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it can be very I think depressing, It

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<v Speaker 1>can be.

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<v Speaker 2>Very scary, and you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And then people succeed at different times. People get married

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<v Speaker 1>young sometimes, or they start having families, or they find

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<v Speaker 1>their you know, their job, they're raison de etra their passion,

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<v Speaker 1>their thing, or they don't find it till later. But

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<v Speaker 1>not everyone's on different paths.

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<v Speaker 2>Then it's a.

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<v Speaker 1>Very very peculiar point in a person's life. And so

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<v Speaker 1>especially with Nikki, I was like, I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>prep for this a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be you know, it's an adjustment.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, in other words, go get a job quickly. Yes,

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<v Speaker 4>get off the doll wouldn't that be nice?

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<v Speaker 3>Point?

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<v Speaker 4>In my generation at eighteen, it was out by you

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<v Speaker 4>pay everything on your own right, now they want to

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<v Speaker 4>stay home till they're forty.

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<v Speaker 1>When our kids were little, people would tell us our

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<v Speaker 1>friends in Newport Beach. They'd be like, oh, the kids

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<v Speaker 1>never leave there till they're thirty years old.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're like, oh please, And now we're going. So

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<v Speaker 2>they're twenty two, they're doing college. I know, the only

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<v Speaker 2>eight years.

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<v Speaker 4>I think this is the toughest time in the history

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<v Speaker 4>of humankind to be young, go out and get a

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<v Speaker 4>job and compete with all the things that are unfolding.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but I'm excited for our kids. I think

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<v Speaker 1>Max is going to have the best time in law school.

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<v Speaker 1>Nikki very entrepreneurially is lots of lots of irons in

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<v Speaker 1>the fire, an opportunity right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that was one of the nice things about going

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<v Speaker 4>to professional school because you didn't have to worry about it.

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<v Speaker 4>You knew three years and five days from today, I

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<v Speaker 4>know exactly what I'm going to be doing.

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<v Speaker 1>See, it was scary. I thought that I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to go to New York after college. I graduated Syracuse

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<v Speaker 1>Visual Performing Arts musical theater, right, and I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to go try to do Broadway. And so me and

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Jill were looking for apartments whatever, and I

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<v Speaker 1>got passed on this court shoe. Two episodes did that

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<v Speaker 1>in Florida. They flew me out to la to audition

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<v Speaker 1>for this other thing that didn't end up going, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, let's try it out, and me

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<v Speaker 1>and my sister packed it up and moved to LA.

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<v Speaker 2>I had no job.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, it was such an odd time, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember even living with my sister, it was like lonely.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I started singing at Disneyland. I mean, like obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>like things then started happening. I had banned a fourteen

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<v Speaker 1>piece big band we put together, started performing with them

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<v Speaker 1>and all that. But that first year it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine what it's like to graduate college and

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<v Speaker 1>go to professional school and you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Still on a track.

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<v Speaker 3>It's easy, it's nice, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I moved out with all these a lot of other

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<v Speaker 1>kids that went to Syracuse, not actors, like all different

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<v Speaker 1>you know, career paths and majors in college.

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<v Speaker 2>They had no idea what they were doing. It was terrifying.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, it's I mean I pretty much knew what

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to do seven years after graduating college.

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<v Speaker 1>About it crazy, Yeah, that's pretty lucky.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's lucky. It's a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what I will say to everyone out there if

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<v Speaker 1>you have graduates, all the graduates have different you know,

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<v Speaker 1>things like the eighth grade and the high school and

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<v Speaker 1>the college. But whoever your graduate is, By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>if you live in California, buy them alay.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's your official reminder, because it's a thing.

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<v Speaker 3>It is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, everyone gets a lay and if you don't know that,

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<v Speaker 1>get them alay. Even if they say they don't want it,

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<v Speaker 1>get it because sometimes everyone else has one.

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<v Speaker 2>Always get the lay. So you got to get them alay.

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<v Speaker 4>And the obvious joke, obviously is what don't get laid?

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<v Speaker 3>No, everyone you know I got laid.

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<v Speaker 2>Where are we going with this?

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<v Speaker 3>When you graduate, you want to make sure you get laid.

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<v Speaker 2>It depends what grade you're in.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, but I just want to say, like to

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<v Speaker 1>the moms and dad's out their life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I'm going to get emotional, but it's like you

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<v Speaker 2>only get this one time. Yeah, it's just one time.

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<v Speaker 2>And like when the kids, I remember when they graduated.

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<v Speaker 1>They've all graduated eighth grade now, all of our kids, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's just like I mean, I always say this,

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<v Speaker 1>but middle school is just a cesspool. It's just the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that is such a huge milestone. And then

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<v Speaker 1>when they graduate high school, no matter where they're going, college,

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<v Speaker 1>professional school, the military, they have worked so hard to

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<v Speaker 1>get through that and so many trials and tribulations that

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<v Speaker 1>that's such an important, important moment. And then graduating college

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<v Speaker 1>or professional school even you know, all those all those

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<v Speaker 1>moments are such huge rights of passage.

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<v Speaker 2>And even though we didn't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>For them, you know, watching them, encouraging them, being their cheerleaders.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just think it's like it's an emotional

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<v Speaker 1>moment for everyone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for me, it's like ecstasy. They're one year closer

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<v Speaker 4>to being out of the house forever more.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm very excited about that. See ya.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean that's fine, but you can have a real.

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<v Speaker 3>Moment too, by the way, that is real.

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<v Speaker 2>That is how you feel, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think it's very exciting to have them.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh see, I think this is the mars Biness thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think you.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't want to be an empty nester admitted.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that, but what I'm saying is to me,

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<v Speaker 1>when I think about each of our children, and watching

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<v Speaker 1>their journey and who they these little baby kids who

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I slept all over them place to their

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<v Speaker 1>classes in school and the things and the homework and

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<v Speaker 1>the whatever, and all these things through all these years

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<v Speaker 1>and watching them become less dependent on me and you

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<v Speaker 1>and more independent, and the kind of young humans that

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<v Speaker 1>they've all become, and how different they all are, and

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<v Speaker 1>I find it so fascinating. I know there's so many

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<v Speaker 1>parents out there that are like, oh, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>them to go to college, and I don't want them

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<v Speaker 1>to leave the house, and I don't want them to

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<v Speaker 1>leave our home, and I don't want to be an

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<v Speaker 1>empty nester. Like I love it because I have found

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<v Speaker 1>that each stage watching them sore, first of all shows,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, what a great job we've done. And also

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited to watch them fly. And I also

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<v Speaker 1>love our relationships. I've loved every stage, but this is

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite. Is having them be young adults

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<v Speaker 1>and be like our Mother's Day dinner was fantastic.

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<v Speaker 3>I like this stage the best.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, everyone has something interesting to say, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>funny conversations going on, and there's you know, a little

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<v Speaker 1>ribbing joking, but it's all in good front and there's

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<v Speaker 1>respect and there's I love.

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<v Speaker 2>It, yea, So I say, I know it's sad.

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<v Speaker 1>I know i'm gonna cry when they graduate because it's

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<v Speaker 1>like this next step, but I just love it. I

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<v Speaker 1>think everyone out there should just be so appreciative of

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<v Speaker 1>the time we get with them, and it will change,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's still so good.