1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 2: Hello, everybody, we're scrubbing in. I DNA, I'm. 3 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 3: Mark, I'm my little Angel. It always just feels different 4 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 3: when you're not in arm's length. 5 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 2: I yeah, I'm doing the podcast from my place today 6 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 2: because I woke up not feeling I think it's just sinus' 7 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 2: and analergies. But you know, I feel like Tanya's immune 8 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 2: system is low because she's staying enough with her dog, 9 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 2: not getting the rest. 10 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 3: So just in case, I'm not gonna lie. I uh, 11 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 3: I'm one of those people that when my head hits 12 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 3: the pillow, I am like comatos. Like you could have 13 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 3: a full circus in my house and I would sleep 14 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 3: through it, like I am that person you were, So yeah, 15 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 3: it was, and I wouldn't wake up until my alarm 16 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: went off in the morning to go to work. And now, uh, 17 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 3: it's not every night, but I guess like new puppies 18 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 3: have diarrhea all the time. It's like a thing. And 19 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 3: the other night she woke up six different times to 20 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 3: go to the bathroom. So I think I slept maybe 21 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 3: in one one hour increments. Because when I even if 22 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 3: I don't take her down to go to the bathroom 23 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,680 Speaker 3: because like Robbie does, I still wake up, you know 24 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 3: what I mean. So it was just kind of this 25 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 3: like constant thing. And then the next day I was 26 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 3: like in a daze, like fully just like not with it. 27 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 3: So I have much respect to just puppy moms and 28 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 3: moms in general, because the lack of sleep is making 29 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 3: me feel like a looney tune. 30 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. I know. It's like, and you said it before 31 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 2: we started the podcast. You're like, I love her, but 32 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 2: like I'm exhausted. 33 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I feel bad, like I'm gonna want her 34 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 3: to have diarrhea, you know. 35 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember that. That's when I 36 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 2: started cooking phoebe beef and rice and I was like, Okay, 37 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 2: this is ridiculous. I'm cooking more for this dog than 38 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 2: I ever have for myself. 39 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 3: I remember those days when you were cooking her that 40 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 3: and I was like, that is such a weird thing. 41 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 3: But that's what everybody's recommending, is like rice and spoiled chicken. 42 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, spoiled chicken. 43 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 3: No boiled boiled chicken. 44 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: Yeah. 45 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: I just had to clear the air there. 46 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're adding dehydrated pumpkin and like swirling with some 47 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 3: peanut butter and just clogging her up real nice good. 48 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I get that stuff hardened for her. 49 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 3: Yeah exactly. I know. 50 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 2: Well, so we went to Sedona and we ended up driving, 51 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 2: and it was you know, it's like a seven hour drive. 52 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: And I really was determined to bring Phoebe. I don't 53 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 2: know why, because I never took her anywhere, but for 54 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 2: some reason, I was like, I just want her to 55 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 2: see the world. I think I was inspired by Caylin 56 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 2: and Dean taking Patty everywhere and him getting to like 57 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 2: go on adventures. 58 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: You know, but do you think I didn't like those adventures. 59 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 3: I feelin I liked their home. 60 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: Well, so I took Phoebe and I did have to. 61 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,919 Speaker 2: She's not very calm in the car. This happened over COVID. 62 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 2: She used to be totally fine in the car and 63 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 2: now she's like a nightmare. But her VET prescribed her 64 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 2: some like anxiety medicine, and so she was just out 65 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 2: like she basically acted how she did when she's gotten 66 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 2: into the weed, you know, just like totally calm then, 67 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: but like wouldn't go to sleep, but so she went. 68 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:25,639 Speaker 2: So then we went on a hike, like the first 69 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 2: day we got there, and she loved it, like she 70 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 2: did not want me to pick her up. There were 71 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 2: a few parts where she it was like like rock 72 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 2: that was like a slide basically, and she just couldn't 73 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 2: climb because she's her legs are so little, and so 74 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 2: I'd pick her up and she acted just so upset 75 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 2: with me. She's a little explorer. And I had no 76 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 2: idea because I've always thought the same thing. I'm like, 77 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 2: Phoebe's a homebody. She likes to be at home. And 78 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: Hailey was like, she's a dog, like, of course she 79 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 2: likes to be outside. And she's like, I think you 80 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: created that narrative for her, and I'm like, I may 81 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 2: have done that. Yeah. 82 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 3: Uh, it's funny you mentioned you're when Phoebe gets into 83 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 3: the weed because we were checking out at the store 84 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 3: and they had these like very very minimal like HEMP 85 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 3: CBD drinks or whatever at the at wherever where we were, 86 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 3: and so d Red Star got them for us with breakfast, right, 87 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 3: and so I was drinking and it tasted like snapple, 88 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 3: like like you know, the the strawberry Snapple days, So 89 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 3: it tasted like that and I was drinking it and 90 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 3: I was laughing because I was like, you know, this 91 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 3: is this, this is the gateway, this HEMP CBD drink 92 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 3: and the next thing you know, I'm Jesse Pinkman, Jesse 93 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 3: one step away from Jesse Pinkman and. 94 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: Breaking back. 95 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 3: Exactly. I was like, this is the gateway. I'm gonna 96 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 3: put this one down, and that this is my one, 97 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 3: my one, you know, dabble in it and uh it 98 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 3: was nice for a Saturday morning. 99 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: But you know, I feel like you have more of 100 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:02,119 Speaker 1: a pink math than the I think you're a uprighter color. 101 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 3: And we did. 102 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 2: So. 103 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 3: We finished Breaking Boat over the weekend and man, that 104 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 3: show is so dark. Like I am, I am glad 105 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 3: I watched it. I really enjoyed it, but I am 106 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 3: happy that we have put it to bed because it 107 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 3: is so not a Tanya show. Like I'm like, the 108 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 3: next show that we watched together needs to be a 109 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 3: little bit and a little bit happier to watch better. 110 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 3: I know, but I don't think it's going to happen. 111 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: Well, I have to confess something to you. I texted 112 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: a red star. 113 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 2: To convince him to help, to. 114 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: To back him up and to let him know that 115 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: you're gonna need some convincing, but that this is the 116 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: way you should go. And he agrees with me that 117 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:47,919 Speaker 1: this is the way you should go. 118 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 3: So we were debating between Yellowstone and mad Men for 119 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,239 Speaker 3: our next kind of series? 120 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:57,239 Speaker 2: Is this dark? Dark? 121 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:00,640 Speaker 3: Yellowstone was dark? I was like, what in the world. 122 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 3: I don't know anything about Madmon, but I know it 123 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 3: won a lot of stuff, so I feel like it's 124 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 3: got to be good. 125 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: I think a palette cleanser is in order. Yeah, like 126 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: How I Met your father? 127 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 2: No? 128 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 3: Oh, that that I do on my own. Okay, that 129 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 3: I do on my own. Yeah, yeah, that show. 130 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 2: So the shows you watched together are dark, and then 131 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 2: you have your own, your own time. 132 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 3: No, not necessarily, like Love Island is a show we 133 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 3: watched together. Oh okay, opposite very light? Actually very light, 134 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 3: very light, lighter, could not be lighter. And let me 135 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 3: tell you were about to start season three of Love Island. 136 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 3: I've heard that's the best one yet. So Mama is 137 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 3: excited for a new series of love and Love and Lust. 138 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 2: Does anyone here watch Amazing Race? 139 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,200 Speaker 1: You know it's funny. I loved that show when it 140 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: first came around, and we were addicted We watched every 141 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: season for a long long time, and then we and 142 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: then my wife actually before me, she burned out on 143 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: it and I wouldn't go on without her. It became 144 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: very repetitive. They edited at the end to make it 145 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: we seem like it's going to be close to the 146 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: finish line, even though it's pretty clear that it was 147 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: a couple of hours between people arriving at the finish 148 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 1: line and the team that's always behind finds a shortcut 149 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: and the team that's always a had Oh no, there's traffic, 150 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: and then that's always what you think it's going to be. 151 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. We burned out a little bit on 152 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: an amazing race? 153 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 2: Is that not just the reality show? Like run of 154 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 2: the show though, just it's the same repetitive thing every season, 155 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: Like The Bachelor is the same thing. 156 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:31,239 Speaker 1: But I'm saying it was the same thing every episode. Oh, 157 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: very repetitive. Say we kind of burned out on it, 158 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: but we're still watching Survivor. There can't be many people 159 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: doing that and we are. 160 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 2: Oh my yeah, I've never gotten into Survivor, but I'm 161 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 2: so into the Amazing Race and this season, Like while 162 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: they're filming it, COVID happened, and so they had to 163 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: shut it down for nineteen months or whatever, and so 164 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 2: then they came back. It's so good, But I got 165 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 2: what you're saying. I like it. 166 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 1: I liked it though I would have kept watching it. It 167 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: was amy the belt on it. 168 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 2: The earlier episodes were there were time or they were 169 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 2: like racing towards the finish line. 170 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:05,679 Speaker 1: Those were crazy. I enjoyed the show. 171 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to go on the show. I just 172 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: have to find the right partner. 173 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: That's the one that's the reality show that If you 174 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: ask people which reality show could you do, they always 175 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: say amazing race? And why do you say find the 176 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 1: right partner? Because Tany seems offended by that. 177 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,080 Speaker 2: Tona, I would we would not be friends afterwards if 178 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 2: you and I did. Excuse me you, Tanya, I am 179 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 2: so irrationally competitive that like, as soon as you weren't 180 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: able to do something quick enough, it would be like 181 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 2: I don't have control. It would be my fault. 182 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 3: Quick enough. Who's the one that runs around town here? 183 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 2: Well you dog, but I'm definitely faster than you. 184 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: Well, now we've got a video to produce. 185 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 2: How can we please race? That'd be so fun. 186 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 3: I am offended because aren't suppos to go on an 187 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,319 Speaker 3: Amazing Race with like your best buds, not like some 188 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 3: random jockey. 189 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 2: No. I said I could do it with Red Star 190 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 2: because because I think that we could yell at each 191 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: other and there would be no like it would just 192 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 2: be like get over it, Like there wouldn't be any 193 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 2: like hard feelings, you know. 194 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 1: And Tiny's mouth is wide open right now. But and 195 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: they look for interesting pairings on the Amazing Race, it's 196 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: not always best friend's sisters, something like my my I'm 197 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: going with my best friend's boyfriend. That's an interesting pairing. 198 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 2: But my other thing was that I was I said 199 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 2: I could do it with my my sister Caroline, her 200 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 2: girlfriend Ardent. I think I could do really well with 201 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 2: because we're friends, like great friends, but we're also both 202 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 2: so competitive that I think we could get mad and 203 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 2: then be like we have to move on to be 204 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 2: like to win. 205 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 3: You know, the only show I don't even I don't 206 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 3: even want to do that show. So you know what, 207 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 3: it's fine. You can have your other pairings. I want 208 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 3: to do Family. That is a show that's fun for me. 209 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: I play that on the Rag. 210 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 2: Do you win? 211 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? Sometimes, but more Yeah, yes, more yes than no. 212 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: I remember when you said you want in a champagne 213 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 2: pong or what's it called, prosecco pong, prosecco pong. 214 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 3: I caes, that's right. That is so competitive. I just 215 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 3: know to have fun. 216 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 2: I know I can't do that. I don't understand how 217 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 2: you play. 218 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,559 Speaker 3: I think I'm the parent that will say, like, you 219 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 3: know how they're trying not to have like winners and 220 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 3: losers at sports anymore. I'm down with that. Who cares? 221 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 3: Just play, have a fun time, go home. 222 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: You mean to tell me I'm putting all this effort 223 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 2: into practicing so that everyone gets to win. Yeah, I'm 224 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 2: practicing to be the best so that everyone gets to win. Yeah, 225 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 2: there's no way you truly believe that. 226 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 3: I really do. I was like not, I wasn't competitive 227 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 3: in high school either. I was on juniversity all four years. Like, 228 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 3: I didn't even care competitive and tennis I like joking. 229 00:11:08,160 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 3: I'm like joking competitive. 230 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:12,839 Speaker 2: It seems to matter when you beat red Star. There's 231 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: a that. 232 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I do like that. 233 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 2: It seems like some backtracking. So you mean to tell 234 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 2: me your kid is practicing and he's like or she 235 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 2: is like, I'm gonna be I'm working so hard so 236 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 2: that I can be number one at this and then 237 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 2: you're gonna be like, but honey, everyone's number one. 238 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 3: Correct practice to be in the band, make and then 239 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 3: get the band that's gonna tour the. 240 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 2: Tour the No, then you're trying. Yeah, then you're trying 241 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 2: to be the best that's touring the world, not the one. 242 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: Everyone who's sitting. 243 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 3: The best in a band is relative, Like my best 244 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 3: band is not the same as your best band. 245 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 2: Well, I was first share if we just so we 246 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: don't forget the saxophone. No, I'm serious. It's something I'm 247 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 2: very aware of about myself. But I can't seem to 248 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 2: at the very best of me trying to Like what 249 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 2: am I trying to say, like limit my competitive reactions? 250 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 2: Like when I play Spikeball, that game on the beach 251 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 2: my sister, when we play in the summer, I would 252 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 2: just be quiet, so like I want to get mad. 253 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,319 Speaker 2: I mean, I'd be internally fuming, but I would just 254 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 2: stay quiet and she would be like, can you stop that? 255 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 2: And I was like what. She's like, I know that 256 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 2: you're mad, Like I'd almost rather you just yell, And 257 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 2: I'm like I'm trying to suppress my I'm trying to 258 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:40,040 Speaker 2: be a good teammate. But she didn't think that was 259 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 2: good because she could tell. 260 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 3: I woulder if your relationships suffers because of this, like 261 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:47,080 Speaker 3: you want to have like the best relationship. 262 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm not competitive in that, just like literally games interesting. 263 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 2: I'm not competitive in life, which is good in some 264 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 2: ways because you know, the in my industry what I do, 265 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 2: it's very easy to feel competitive or feel like you 266 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 2: need to compete with other people that are doing the 267 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 2: same thing. But I don't get that as much. I'm 268 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 2: just kind of like, that's cool. I'd like to do that. 269 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,200 Speaker 1: Could you do an amazing race with ninety five? 270 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:17,199 Speaker 2: P Oh no, we'd break up. But we both have 271 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 2: talked about this. 272 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: But I feel like that could happen, you know, like 273 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: they've had big brother people before, maybe Bachelor people. I 274 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 1: don't know. It seems like you've got a level of 275 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:28,719 Speaker 1: celebrity that would entice them to have you on. 276 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 2: That could happen. That it could, It would be good TV, 277 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 2: but also would we look back on it fondly? 278 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:40,959 Speaker 3: I don't know, on it fondly, like would. 279 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 2: We be able to sit down and watch it when 280 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 2: it aired. I don't know about that, but we've definitely 281 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 2: talked about it because we both love it. So yeah, 282 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 2: but I will say I on the way home, so 283 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 2: we listened to this podcast. It was like this crime 284 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 2: podcast all the way there, and it was called Suspect 285 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 2: and it was about it was a murder podcast, but 286 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 2: it was so well done. It was so good. And 287 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 2: then it ended, and on the way back we listened 288 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 2: to SmartLess, which is. 289 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 1: Well our SmartLess. 290 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was my first episode. Of course, we listened 291 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:13,680 Speaker 2: to the Jennifer Aniston episode. 292 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 3: First. 293 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,560 Speaker 2: I'm in love with her. I want to be her, 294 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: I want to be her friend. She is just the best. 295 00:14:22,960 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: I found myself getting jealous when Jason Bateman would talk 296 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 1: about hanging out at jen like, I want to be there. 297 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: That sounds awesome. 298 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 2: They and she was like the way they talked it 299 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 2: was so fun to listen to because they're all good 300 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 2: friends with her, Like they were all good friends. But 301 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 2: they were asking questions that like people like us who 302 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 2: aren't good friends with Jennifer Aniston would want to know about. 303 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 2: And I found it so interesting because they were talking 304 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 2: about how when how she loves to host events and 305 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 2: like parties, and they were like, was that something you 306 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: grew up with or was that something that you wanted 307 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 2: or and she said that she grew up with her 308 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 2: she would always hear people laughing and glad is clinking, 309 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 2: and so she always wanted to kind of be like 310 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 2: the host and like take care of people. And they 311 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 2: all talked about her kindness and how she has amazing 312 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 2: friends who are her family, and I just I really like, 313 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 2: I felt like I really related to Jin. I think 314 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 2: we'd really have a good time. She ever invited me. 315 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 1: Over, I have dinner well Hope Springs Eternal. 316 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god. 317 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,320 Speaker 2: I just want her to be on the podcast. That's 318 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 2: all I'm asking. That's what I'm manifesting again for this year. 319 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 3: All Right, you're talking to the two people that can't 320 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 3: make the happen, So maybe a lat of text to Amy. 321 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 2: Also at the very end of the episode, they go bye, 322 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:47,320 Speaker 2: like how you do Tanya? I love that and they 323 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 2: go they go, I don't know when we started that 324 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: or where we heard that from, but it just like 325 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 2: kind of happened, and that's how we say bye. We 326 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: go bye, and then I think we'll all our note 327 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 2: was like yeah, but then on our comments. We're gonna 328 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 2: be like that actually originated from the nineteen ninety three 329 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 2: film Blah Blah blah, and he was like, we don't 330 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 2: care about your opinion or where it's from. I was like, wow, 331 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 2: that was nice to hear. 332 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 3: It's true we don't care. 333 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 2: Well, I do care about I'm trying to care less. 334 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 3: No geez. I feel like I haven't seen you in 335 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 3: a million years. 336 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 2: I know we haven't. I saw you last Monday, a 337 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 2: week well, a week ago. 338 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 3: I feel like January is moving at the pace of 339 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 3: a snail. 340 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 2: It's been six months packing to one. 341 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 3: It feels like, yeah, it really feels weird. 342 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 2: Well yeah, and you're also not sleeping or like your 343 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 2: schedule's off, and. 344 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 3: It's a little bit like groundhog Day, little it. 345 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the what's the most unexpected thing that's like 346 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 2: not because I know you said, like how much you 347 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 2: love her was unexpected, but like, what's the other most 348 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 2: unexpected thing about having a dog? 349 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 3: I'm just kind of like obsessive over like what's right 350 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 3: and wrong with the dog? Do you know what I mean? 351 00:17:18,800 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 3: Like I find myself reading like what they should be doing, 352 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 3: what she should be learning, what she should be and 353 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 3: I kind of kind of threw my hands in the air, 354 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 3: and it was just like whatever works for you, you know 355 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 3: what I mean, Like she's on our time. We like 356 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 3: left her for the first time to go to dinner 357 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 3: on Friday night, and that was so hard, Like I 358 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 3: was thinking about her the entire she's in a crate, 359 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 3: mind you, Like, there's nothing that can happen to her, 360 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,640 Speaker 3: she's safe at home. And I found myself thinking about 361 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 3: her the entire I couldn't enjoy myself. So then I 362 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:47,280 Speaker 3: was like, Okay, now I need to be that crazy 363 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 3: lady that puts a camera in her crate so that 364 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 3: I can watch her while I'm like gone doing things. 365 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:55,479 Speaker 3: When did I become this person? 366 00:17:56,760 --> 00:18:00,640 Speaker 2: That person has always been there, you just didn't have 367 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 2: a tiny thing to take care of to direct that 368 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 2: attention towards. 369 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, there, she's fully there's nothing that could 370 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:10,400 Speaker 3: happen to her, you know what I mean, Like she's 371 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 3: safe in her create at home, and yet I found 372 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:15,360 Speaker 3: myself constantly just like wanting to check in, like how 373 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 3: she doing. And I granted we were maybe gone for 374 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 3: two hours at the most, but yeah, I don't know. 375 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 3: It's weird. And I know I have to get better 376 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 3: and used to kind of like leaving her just like 377 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 3: we need to leave her alone more. But it's a 378 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 3: whole thing. 379 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 2: It's a whole thing. 380 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 3: It's a whole thing. We had like a cute little 381 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: trainer come over for the first time trained her. Yeah, 382 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 3: and like I don't know, it's just so fun seeing 383 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,320 Speaker 3: I don't know, living life through her lens has been 384 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 3: like really fun, you know. 385 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. 386 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 3: I posted this picture of her because I was saying 387 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 3: how she had diarrhea and asking for people's help. This 388 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 3: her Instagram now has become like a community of people 389 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 3: that I can just get advice from about like kind 390 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 3: of what to do. And so she had the diarrhea. 391 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 3: People gave me all these congestions and it worked. And 392 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 3: so I took a video of her pooping and I 393 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 3: like posted it and everybody canro me And was like, 394 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 3: I need to hear Becka on Mark's opinion of this 395 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 3: video of the dog poop. 396 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 2: The video of her pooping. 397 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I pooped, And I was like, update, poop is solid. Now, 398 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 3: thanks for all your help. 399 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 2: I mean, there's few things that you can do that 400 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 2: surprise me, Like at this point, you know, like, I'm 401 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:32,879 Speaker 2: very like, I know you, I love you. I'm just like, 402 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 2: this is who she is. She's proud of her dog pooping. 403 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 2: She's gonna post it. 404 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 1: I agree, But wouldn't you have been annoyed by that 405 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: video before you were the one posting it? 406 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 3: Yes, however, however, I'm not posting it on my Instagram. 407 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 3: I'm posting it on Sunny's page. So this Sunny's page 408 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 3: is her day in the life. It's it's dog stuff. 409 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 3: I'm trying to keep mine out of minimal dog stuff 410 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,479 Speaker 3: because yes, I don't want to be that per Uh. 411 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 1: So people following Sonny are gonna want to see her pooping, 412 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:05,920 Speaker 1: make sure totally. 413 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, they want to see her pooping. They want to 414 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 3: know she's eating, how she's playing her toys. The fans, 415 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,119 Speaker 3: no one, I know, the Sunnies. 416 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, the Sonnies. The dash Sonny emoji literally makes me 417 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 2: laugh out loud almost every time I see it. 418 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, this is just like you know, quarantine life? 419 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 2: Are you have you caught up on just like that? 420 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:31,639 Speaker 2: And just like that, I have not. 421 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: No, they sounds like you need to. 422 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, why did they air the last one? Or there's 423 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 3: one more? I think there's one more until it's done. 424 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was just something of a dong o rama 425 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: this past weekend, so I thought you might want to 426 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: see that. 427 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 2: There's a frontal who's uh he was like a guy 428 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:57,239 Speaker 2: that another girl is dating. Who was the other one? Uh? 429 00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:59,919 Speaker 1: I you know, I I hear, just knowing from what 430 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: I'm reading. I don't know this the firsthand, but she go, 431 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: she goes downstairs and the neighbor. 432 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, the neighbor. 433 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,120 Speaker 1: The neighbor. And then there's another one. 434 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. 435 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 3: You know, now that I think about it, I don't 436 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 3: know there's a character on that show that I would 437 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:17,880 Speaker 3: want to see. 438 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 2: I guess it shows Harry's Harry, Yeah, Harry's. But I 439 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:32,640 Speaker 2: didn't see that. It must have happened very fast. You 440 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 2: are so Charlotte. When I watched the show, I'm like, 441 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 2: last I watch it with Haley and she goes, You're 442 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 2: so right, Tanya. That is so Tanya. 443 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 3: It makes me sad though, because Charlotte in the og 444 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,000 Speaker 3: Sex and City I relate, like I totally see myself 445 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 3: in her. But in this new revival, I feel like 446 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:53,119 Speaker 3: she's kind of annoying in the two that I watched. 447 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, well maybe once you kept. There was just a 448 00:21:55,680 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 2: scene last night that it was very very you. 449 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 3: I do see bits of myself in Charlotte and I will. 450 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 3: My therapist was relating, you know, how I'm OCD in 451 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 3: terms of neatness, like my dishes have to be washed 452 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 3: before I go to bed, and like there are certain 453 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 3: things like uh, it's not too like a clinical level, 454 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,119 Speaker 3: but it's very much like a part of me, you 455 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 3: know what, I'm gonna have that kind of sense. And 456 00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 3: she was relating that to how I want to make 457 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 3: my personal life my professional life. Everything just has to 458 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 3: be like clean, clean, clean, Like it has to all 459 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 3: be fit in this nice little box and like into 460 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 3: that nice little box and wrapped in a bow. And 461 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 3: she was just like, life isn't like that, and you 462 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 3: keep trying to make it that way and it's just 463 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 3: not that way. 464 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 2: And I was like, WHOA, that's pretty insightful. 465 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 3: It was. It was very eye opening. I was like, oh, wow, 466 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 3: you're right, Like I try and control everything and sometimes 467 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 3: things just are out of your control. 468 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 2: I don't relate to that, but I do feel like 469 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 2: ninety five is like that as well, And that's such 470 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 2: a the visual of like having it all fit in 471 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 2: a perfect little box that like shuts nicely. Is so 472 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:14,160 Speaker 2: that clicks with me because I'm like, that's that is 473 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 2: such a great explanation of how you like you, how 474 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 2: you envision everything, like even having the dog. It's like 475 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 2: she's she's trained. 476 00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 3: She knows, she's trained, she knows somewhere to pooh, when 477 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 3: to pooh. She's gonna walk with her head held high. 478 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,160 Speaker 3: She is gonna be a fearless modern woman, and she's 479 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 3: just gonna be a great addition to the family. And 480 00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 3: like she is all of those things, but like, boy, 481 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,360 Speaker 3: behind the scenes, it's it's different, you know. 482 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's interesting. Therapists really know how to shake you 483 00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:44,360 Speaker 2: like that. 484 00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that one shook me. That was like a discovery 485 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,919 Speaker 3: three weeks ago and I'm still himming and highing over it. 486 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 2: I know, I I saw this thing. I was talking 487 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 2: or I was actually scrolling on TikTok and there is 488 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 2: this girl that I follow. Her name is Elise Myers, 489 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 2: and she's like really fun. She tells really funny story 490 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,199 Speaker 2: she's a really good storyteller. But she's also she'll like 491 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 2: post these videos that are very insightful and deep. And 492 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:11,399 Speaker 2: she was saying that how there's like so much fear 493 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,639 Speaker 2: about growing in our society and like being able to 494 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,639 Speaker 2: change your mind or what you believe or what you 495 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 2: stand for. And she was saying how she's twenty eight now, 496 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,280 Speaker 2: but when she was twenty one, the things that she 497 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 2: was really loud about and what she believed have changed. 498 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 2: And she was like, I could either not grow and 499 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 2: stay small, or I can accept that I've changed and 500 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 2: want to be better and like grow from that. And 501 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 2: I was like, wow, I relate to that so much. 502 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 2: Like I was so loud about the things I believed 503 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 2: at a certain age, and now I recognize that in 504 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 2: other people. And I find myself like almost rolling my 505 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 2: eyes at things that people say sometimes because I think 506 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 2: I see so like I was that person, and it 507 00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 2: comes across in such a judgmental tone, and that was 508 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,399 Speaker 2: never my intention. But when I see it from a 509 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 2: different perspective now, I'm like, oh, wow, that comes across 510 00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 2: in such a way. That is such a turn off 511 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 2: to people. You know, when it was about like my 512 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 2: faith or what I believed or not drinking everything, it 513 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 2: was all just very like judgmental, And I was like, 514 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,879 Speaker 2: that is such a great And then and then you 515 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 2: fear that if you speak out about something that you've changed, 516 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 2: that people are gonna be upset that you've changed or grown. 517 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 2: And you just can't live your life that way. 518 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,160 Speaker 3: They can't. You have to live it for yourself. 519 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 2: It's not gonna fit into the little neat box. 520 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 3: It's not gonna fit into that little neat box. 521 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:46,919 Speaker 2: What do you I want to talk to you about something, 522 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,720 Speaker 2: but we're gonna take a break first. What we'll be 523 00:25:50,800 --> 00:26:09,680 Speaker 2: right back. All right, we're back. I wanted to talk 524 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 2: to you about your thoughts on Nick Jonas and Priyanka 525 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 2: having a baby surprisingly or did you know? 526 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 3: Could you imagine if I knew it? 527 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, you're like friends with them, Yeah, pre. 528 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 3: And Nick, like you know they they asked me about it, 529 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,720 Speaker 3: and uh uh no. You know what's interesting because you know, 530 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 3: when they're roast, she mentioned it, like you know, if 531 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 3: she made a joke about how like she and Nick 532 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 3: are expecting and then she gave a long pause and 533 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 3: she said to get drunk tonight. But now we realized that, 534 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 3: like that was kind of like her telling her little Easter, 535 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 3: little Taylor Swift moment. But I'm happy for them, you 536 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 3: know what, I wish that they I wish we knew 537 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 3: a little bit more about why they have a surrogate. Like, 538 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 3: you know, everybody's entitled to their privacy and what they 539 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,160 Speaker 3: want to share them what they don't want to share. 540 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 3: But I always find people sharing their stories just to 541 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 3: be beneficial because we can all learn from it, you 542 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 3: know what I mean. And I feel like I've been 543 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 3: going down that path of like my eggs and fertility, 544 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,200 Speaker 3: and so I would be I'm interested to know why 545 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 3: they went the surrogate route. 546 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 2: I know, But isn't that interesting that we because we 547 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,719 Speaker 2: want to know. We feel like like there's plenty of 548 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 2: people who could share why they chose a surrogate, you know, 549 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,560 Speaker 2: like there's plenty of people who choose to be open 550 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 2: about that journey, and then there's people who are like 551 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 2: everything else in my life is out there, so I 552 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 2: don't feel like this is something I wanted to share. 553 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,440 Speaker 2: But because we're all like, we're all like we want 554 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 2: more information, we want more information, And I relate because 555 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:42,320 Speaker 2: I you know, with my relationship being more private, I 556 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 2: know as soon as I give anything, people want more, 557 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 2: you know, like I give a little bit and. 558 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 3: It's yeah, but you're the gatekeeper, and I feel like 559 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:52,320 Speaker 3: you've been struggling with keeping it a secret, and like 560 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,760 Speaker 3: feeling like that it's like you're doing something like I 561 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 3: feel like you're struggling with that and you're keeping it 562 00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:58,920 Speaker 3: a secret. Don't struggle. 563 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,479 Speaker 2: I don't struggle with it. I just am kind of 564 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 2: like if I put it out there, it's out there, 565 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 2: and like as soon as you put anything out there, 566 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,560 Speaker 2: people want more of it. So what I'm saying is 567 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,919 Speaker 2: like they clearly made the decision to keep it. They didn't. 568 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:15,040 Speaker 2: She didn't discuss it at all, but as fans or 569 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 2: like people in the pub, fans and followers were like, 570 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 2: I want to know why did they choose the Saragate route? 571 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,880 Speaker 2: You know, But it's like to learn more. But there's 572 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,840 Speaker 2: plenty of other people who have shared, you. 573 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 3: Know, their well I'm happy to hear those stories, but 574 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 3: I don't, you know, I don't follow Joe, you know, 575 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 3: I don't follow Teresa from you know, the Third Street Promenade, 576 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 3: who had a certain you know what I mean, Like, 577 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 3: I don't know how to find those people that you. 578 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:46,320 Speaker 2: Know. 579 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,480 Speaker 3: Teresa, she you know, she's. 580 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 1: A great mom. I'm really happy for her that's worked 581 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 1: out great, Yeah. 582 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 3: Me too. But what I'm saying is like, that's not 583 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 3: something I don't know any of the you know what 584 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 3: I mean, Like, yeah, I'm happy to hear everybody's stories, 585 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 3: but I just happened to follow Nick and Priyanka, you know. 586 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I'm just saying like we always were 587 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 2: always like, but why you know, even the conversation last 588 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 2: night we were I was having a pailay. Then when 589 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 2: we read it, she was like, I wonder why they 590 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 2: went to Saraha route, and I was like, I don't know, 591 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 2: but clearly they didn't want to share it for a 592 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 2: reason I know. 593 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 3: But then I'm wondering why they shared it at all, 594 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 3: Like why did they post that Instagram post? 595 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:25,000 Speaker 2: Well, I think if paparazzi or people caught them carrying 596 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 2: a baby, they'd be like child is it? Eventually there 597 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 2: would be questions that did need an answer. 598 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 3: You know, to each their own, to each their own, 599 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 3: which brings me to the well, I guess I don't 600 00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 3: know if we have time to talk about this. And 601 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 3: it's still far away, but Valentine's d is creeping up 602 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 3: right on the corner, and I just realized. 603 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 1: Not that far away, it's three weeks from today. 604 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 3: It's not right. 605 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: It's coming up fast. 606 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 3: Okay, thank you that. And I'm thinking about Valentine's a 607 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 3: and then Red Star's birthday is a week after Valentine's Day, 608 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 3: so I have two big ones back to back, and 609 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 3: I feel as though I I can't wrap my head 610 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 3: around anything. And I want to do something nice for 611 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 3: him because he did such a nice thing for my 612 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 3: birthday this year. But I want to do something he 613 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 3: wants to do, but he's not really decisive of what 614 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 3: he wants to do. And then we're like this pandemic, 615 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 3: so he's like, do I really want to have like people? 616 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 3: You know, it's just like this whole thing which leaves 617 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 3: me with no plan and I'm stressed about it. But 618 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 3: Mark makes me feel better because he says it's really 619 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 3: not that far away. 620 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 1: That makes you feel better. 621 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, because Red Star is like, it's next month, you 622 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 3: know what I mean, Like it's next month, and I'm like, yeah, 623 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 3: but you're gonna blink and it's gonna be February. There's 624 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,560 Speaker 3: two types of people in this world, you know, the 625 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 3: planners and the wing it wing it wing itters. And 626 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 3: I'm a planner and he's a wing itter, not at. 627 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 2: The pace that January is going. Like you have trouble 628 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 2: days right now? You have a double days for a week. 629 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 3: That is true. 630 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 2: I mean what does he what do y'all like to do? Like, 631 00:30:58,160 --> 00:30:59,959 Speaker 2: why don't you go to have like a stay case 632 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 2: or go and Santa Barbara or somewhere that y'all love 633 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 2: to visit. 634 00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 3: Because it's on a Monday, Well. 635 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 2: Can't you celebrate the weekend before and. 636 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 3: The super Bowl weekend? Who really puts things in a pickle? 637 00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 3: You know, there's a lot of moving parts, not a 638 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 3: lot of move in if you know what I mean. 639 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 2: Well, what about for uh for Valentine's Wait, Valentine's Day 640 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 2: is the. 641 00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 1: Day after the super Bowl? 642 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? Correct, Okay, but then I was talking about his birthday. 643 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 3: Really yeah, that's really the more one, the one that 644 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 3: I'm like stressed about. 645 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 1: But right cause you guys come up with something together 646 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day, it's kind of on you for his birthday? Correct, 647 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 1: My wife's birthday is Thursday, and what are you guys doing? 648 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 1: Not much. We were supposed to have a big dinner 649 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 1: with a whole bunch of friends, but it's a little 650 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:53,480 Speaker 1: bit too omacranie. Yeah, so a lot of them canceled. 651 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 1: So we are going to do a little with another 652 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,000 Speaker 1: our best, our best, you know, the best couple of 653 00:31:58,000 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 1: friends that we have. We're going to get together with them. 654 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,719 Speaker 1: She I did say to her this last month. I said, hey, 655 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 1: do you have any ideas what you might want for 656 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 1: your birthday? She goes, yes, I know exactly what I 657 00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 1: want for my Birthday's like, oh, great, perfect, this is 658 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: going to be easy. She goes a generator. Oh, for 659 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 1: God's sake, really, that's not that's not practical, that's not 660 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: sweet to go. I'm sorry, that's what I want. We 661 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,280 Speaker 1: lost power last year. We had to go to a hotel. Well, 662 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, happy birthday. 663 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 2: I mean it's a good, practical gift for the family. 664 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 2: She really sacrificed. 665 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 3: For her birthday. Why don't you do like a nice 666 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 3: dinner somewhere cool, like if she likes wine, Well, we are. 667 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,480 Speaker 1: Doing that with the other couple. We're doing a nice 668 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 1: Friday night with a nice dinner wine thing. 669 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, maybe like a belly dancer to come. 670 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 2: Sounds exactly like what she would like. 671 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 3: It's an entertainment. Who knows get the party going in 672 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 3: a different way. 673 00:32:55,400 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, should we get to the email? I think 674 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 2: this one is like a it's it's an interesting it's 675 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,880 Speaker 2: a good conversation. 676 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 1: Sure, and I love a quickie. Jesse says, how often 677 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: do you think is often enough to have sex with 678 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 1: your significant other? I'm happy with once twice a week. 679 00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 1: My husband wants it as much as I would let him. Lol. 680 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on this? 681 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 2: Well, correct me if I'm wrong, But I think men 682 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,280 Speaker 2: will always want it as much as you will let them. 683 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 2: Am I right on that? 684 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 1: I in my experience, yes, But I don't like to 685 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 1: put that out there because then if there is a 686 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 1: couple out there and the men isn't the man, they're 687 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: going to get in their heads there's something wrong with them. 688 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: So I think everybody's different. I think the stereotype is 689 00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 1: men will always take it whenever it's available. 690 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, in my relationship, it's really the other way around. 691 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 3: So you know, it's not gender specific. Let's just throw 692 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 3: that out there. 693 00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 2: You're just like begging. 694 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 3: Well, you know, it's different because we just have different lifestyles, 695 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like he has two kids, 696 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 3: full time job that you know what? I mean, like 697 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,680 Speaker 3: has all that stuff going on, whereas I mean, now 698 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,879 Speaker 3: we're definitely more in the mix together, so we both 699 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,360 Speaker 3: kind of are dealing with the same things. But in 700 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 3: the beginning it was not that way. So I was 701 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 3: always just like the bounty little bunny, you know, Like. 702 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 2: We'd be like at dinner with Tanya and Red Star 703 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 2: and she would just be like, I just want to 704 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:29,879 Speaker 2: I just want to attack you. And I'm like, does 705 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 2: she remember that we're here and that we're also in public? 706 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,800 Speaker 3: You know what I say, If you feel it, say it? 707 00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 2: Oh God, what a danger you feel it? 708 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,480 Speaker 3: Say it? Life is too short. 709 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 2: You know, maybe whisper maybe whisper it. 710 00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 3: It's just you. It's not like I do. But anyway, 711 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 3: so back to the question, I don't think there's a 712 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 3: right or wrong answered, do you know what I mean. 713 00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 3: I think it's just whatever feels good to you. I 714 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 3: think there are gonna be times where your partner wants 715 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 3: it and you don't, and there's gonna be times where 716 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,920 Speaker 3: you want it and your partner doesn't, and like it's 717 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 3: like a give and a take. So I think whatever 718 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 3: works for you, guys is I mean, I know people 719 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,920 Speaker 3: that this, I know a friend that used to she 720 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,400 Speaker 3: would give her husband a blowjob twice a week, Like 721 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 3: it was just like that was like clockwork. It was 722 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 3: like two blow jobs a week on top of however 723 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,279 Speaker 3: often they would have sex. It was just like this thing. 724 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 3: And I'm like, whatever that works for them, then, like 725 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 3: that works for them, that works for you. 726 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 2: That was a funny part. And uh and just like 727 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 2: that when Charlotte was giving Harry a blowjob, and that's 728 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 2: when the full frontal happened because her daughter walked was 729 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 2: about to walk in, and she was telling She was 730 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 2: telling Miranda and Carrie about that like that. Lily almost 731 00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 2: saw them and they were like, hold on, you still 732 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,160 Speaker 2: blow Harry and she was like, yeah, but that's not 733 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 2: the point. Lily almost saw and Miranda goes, you still 734 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,680 Speaker 2: give blow to Harry and She's like, yeah, no, that 735 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 2: was And I was like, this is so Tanya. But 736 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 2: it was just so funny because it is like very 737 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 2: much based on your relationship. So Jesse, I would say, 738 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,759 Speaker 2: if one to two times is working and it's not 739 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 2: like if your husband's the type who's always gonna want it, 740 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 2: then maybe every now and then you throw in a 741 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 2: third or fourth time. But I don't think there's any 742 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 2: like set pressured expectation of like what's the perfect amount 743 00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:25,320 Speaker 2: to have sex? 744 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 3: And also like what you're going through in life, you 745 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like, I will tell you the 746 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,279 Speaker 3: last two weeks with little Sonny around, I have been 747 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,320 Speaker 3: less inclined because I'm just tired, you know, I'm like 748 00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 3: mama wants to go to sleep. And also Sonny saw 749 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 3: us do it one time and I like had a 750 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,360 Speaker 3: panic attack because I feel like we scarred her. 751 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 2: Oh, I think she's gonna be okay. 752 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 3: I think she's okay too, because I don't think she 753 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:51,320 Speaker 3: really like knows what's going on. 754 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:55,920 Speaker 1: But I think it's very rare that a male and 755 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:57,239 Speaker 1: a female, or a male and a male and a 756 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,400 Speaker 1: female and female. It's very rare that both members of 757 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 1: a cup are on the exact same schedule as far 758 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 1: as that goes. So there's always going to be compromised 759 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,480 Speaker 1: to be had. Sounds like you guys aren't too far off. 760 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: But yeah, I throw my bonus every once in a while. 761 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 1: But remember you're the gatekeeper, so it's up to you. 762 00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: You know, whatever works for you, He'll take it whenever 763 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: you'll offer it. 764 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:25,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's some power there own it. It's a great 765 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 2: thing that you're having sex and knowing that your husband 766 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:33,359 Speaker 2: wants it so own that great place to be, great 767 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 2: place to be. Well, on that note, it's time to 768 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,440 Speaker 2: say I do buy. Yeah. I was just going to 769 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 2: say that, but then I went with goodbye. 770 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 1: By the way I do is a good opening word 771 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:48,319 Speaker 1: for wordle because you get a lot of fowls in there. 772 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 2: I need to get into that game. Everyone seems to 773 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:51,400 Speaker 2: be really into it. 774 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 3: Red Star is like wants me to get into it 775 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 3: with him, Like, well, when we wake up in the morning, 776 00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:58,840 Speaker 3: he wants to do it together, and I'm like, you know, 777 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,840 Speaker 3: you can kick back with your puzzle. I'd like to 778 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,520 Speaker 3: kick back on TikTok or Instagram and like scroll you 779 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:04,839 Speaker 3: know what I mean, like to each their own. 780 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,160 Speaker 2: Yeah it is, but I I do love a word game, 781 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 2: so I'm gonna try and I'll compete with you, Mark, 782 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,000 Speaker 2: even though I think you might be pretty good. 783 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,320 Speaker 1: All right, No, you don't really compete with people. I 784 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:19,000 Speaker 1: mean people post it with yourself a way of competing. Okay, yeah, yeah, 785 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:20,640 Speaker 1: you try to do it as quickly as you can, 786 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 1: but it's fun. It takes five minutes and then you 787 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:23,439 Speaker 1: move on nice. 788 00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,359 Speaker 2: I like that. All right. 789 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 1: Well on that note, look who's here? 790 00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 2: Have you last? 791 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 3: Have you done today's word mark? 792 00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:35,439 Speaker 1: Yes? Brutal, absolutely brutal. That was a tough one today. 793 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,280 Speaker 1: I got in five, I believe. 794 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. I I just wanted to pop on really quick 795 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,720 Speaker 2: and say how much I'm enjoying wordle and it's oftentimes 796 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,160 Speaker 2: the only thing getting me out of bed in the morning, 797 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 2: and I'm really happ We. 798 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 1: Can say what it is, right, it's not a spoiler 799 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 1: because by the time this post it'll be on to 800 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 1: the next one. Right, Yeah, today's was nol. Nol Is 801 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 1: it not a word that comes up a lot in conversation, 802 00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:57,839 Speaker 1: And that's why it took a bit. 803 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,719 Speaker 2: And how do you what is that? 804 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,360 Speaker 1: kN that's the real trick of it. K N O 805 00:39:03,640 --> 00:39:07,399 Speaker 1: L L double letters like a like a hill. Yeah, 806 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 1: like as is the popular one p JFK. 807 00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 2: Wow. All right, well I'm going to get into that. 808 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,279 Speaker 2: Tony won't be able to talk about it until six 809 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 2: months when she decides she'll finally gonna she's finally gonna 810 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,279 Speaker 2: give in and join wordle because. 811 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,919 Speaker 3: We're all talking it alongside Red Star. 812 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 2: It's just not you know, it didn't fascinate you. 813 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,600 Speaker 3: You know, I'm into the HEMP CBD drinks these days. 814 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 1: It's one of the others. 815 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 2: Get yeah, you can't. I can't wait to take an 816 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 2: edible with you when you're ready. 817 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm on Jesse Pinkman path, so. 818 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 2: I don't encourage that. Don't encourage that. All right, Well, 819 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 2: we will be back on Thursday. This week we have 820 00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 2: a guest episode, and then we'll be back on Monday. 821 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 2: So we'll see you soon on Thursday. Love you bye, 822 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:08,959 Speaker 2: Love you bye.