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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: I can't belaven scary just said what he said. I

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Speaker 2: it really speaks volume. Yes, He's like, if if you're

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Speaker 2: going to break up with someone at a restaurant, if

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Speaker 2: it's a really good restaurant and you're enjoying your meal,

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Speaker 2: it should make it easier. Well, it happened to me.

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Speaker 2: But you're saying because the meal was tasty, then your

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Speaker 2: heart wasn't broken. Food is a comfort thing and people

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Speaker 2: can use it as a buffer.

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Speaker 1: So when I got broken up with several years ago,

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Speaker 1: she planned it out according to the courses of the meal,

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Speaker 1: with the appetizer, main course, in the dessert, and she

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Speaker 1: kind of slowly ramped into what was she wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk about, and by dessert she tried to tie it

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Speaker 1: up into a bow and then she left and she.

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Speaker 2: Would three blocks from her house. Then you're very forgiving

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Speaker 2: if I'm in love with someone or I'm really getting

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Speaker 2: into them, and they took me to a restaurant and

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Speaker 2: storread of breaking it with me while we're eating. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and then you took another bite of what's on that play?

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Speaker 2: I would throw it at it.

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Speaker 3: I would smack that fork right out of someone's hand, like,

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Speaker 3: are you kidding me? You're breaking up with me and

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Speaker 3: eating this spaghetti?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Not today?

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 2: And who whoever does the breaking up, they're responsible to

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Speaker 2: pay the bill if you break up with me. I'm

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Speaker 2: not splitting it with you. Yeah, I agree. So okay.

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Speaker 2: So I brought this up and I said, hey, text

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Speaker 2: in did you see the hundreds of texts that came in.

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Speaker 2: This obviously hits a nerve with a lot of people

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Speaker 2: breaking up in restaurants. Here's someone who said they broke up.

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Speaker 2: I broke up with my exit Ruby Tuesdays. Oh I

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Speaker 2: love I used to work there, found out a lot

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Speaker 2: about him. He ran out of the restaurant screaming at me,

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Speaker 2: and the whole restaurant listened in, and there'd be a

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Speaker 2: lot of people were texting and saying they didn't break

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Speaker 2: up in restaurants, but they kept quiet at their table

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Speaker 2: to listen to the breakup at the next table. Oh

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Speaker 2: gandhi did that talk about it?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 3: I was at a Mexican restaurant with my ex boyfriend

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Speaker 3: and the table behind it was actually a booth behind us.

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Speaker 3: The guy started to break up with the girl that

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Speaker 3: he was with, and the reasons that he was giving

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Speaker 3: were very specific and fascinating. So I stopped talking with

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Speaker 3: my boyfriend at the time and was listening. He started

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Speaker 3: talking louder than they were talking, because he said it

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Speaker 3: was rude that I was trying to listen to this

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Speaker 3: intimate moment of their life, to which I say, you're

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Speaker 3: at a booth at Elvacaro right now?

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Speaker 2: Why proud enough? I can hear you? Man, Like, come on,

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Speaker 2: look at this. My ex husband took me to my

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Speaker 2: favorite restaurant to tell me he was serving me with

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Speaker 2: divorce papers. My best friend's parents, coincidentally, who never go

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Speaker 2: out to dinner, were sitting at the next table. Never

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Speaker 2: spoke to her again. This ahole thinks he wants to

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Speaker 2: make a public display of me. Literally, did they know

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Speaker 2: his divorce papers were already on their way as well? Wow,

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Speaker 2: now it's my favorite restaurant I go all the time.

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Speaker 2: Here's someone who got broken up with it with somebody

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Speaker 2: in public. Yeah, here's the thing and a restaurant. It's

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Speaker 2: it's too controlled and it's not an easy escape it

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Speaker 2: it really is. You don't know how they'll act. They

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Speaker 2: could become unhinged. And embarrass you and themselves. Very risky

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Speaker 2: those you.

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Speaker 5: Think that's what people are hoping they don't do that

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Speaker 5: you're in that kind of environment and that that will

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Speaker 5: be maybe more controlled.

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Speaker 2: You don't know. That's why backfires. I wouldn't play with

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Speaker 2: that restaurant breakup. I broke up in a restaurant. I

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Speaker 2: always wanted to try hot, so excited to go, got

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Speaker 2: dumped from the entrees, came to the table. Ever lost

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Speaker 2: my appetite was supposed to be scary text, never lost,

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Speaker 2: my appetite, just went on eating. Oh my gosh. We

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Speaker 2: listen to James on line twenty though. The this is

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Speaker 2: I think even riskier. Broke up on Norwegian on Norwegian

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Speaker 2: getaway on a ship.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's James, the same room and everything.

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Speaker 2: On the same vessel. Yeah, you can't escape. What are

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Speaker 2: you thinking, James?

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Speaker 4: Hey, good morning guys, how good morning? What was I thinking?

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Speaker 4: It was just it was the end, you know.

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Speaker 2: But here's my question.

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Speaker 5: If you're on you're on the cruise with the person,

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Speaker 5: can you get through the whole cruise and then once

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Speaker 5: you get off the.

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Speaker 4: Ship do it? No? Really, I just decided right there

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Speaker 4: I was done.

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Speaker 2: Wow, the cruise yeah. How many days did you have left?

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Speaker 4: It was day four of day eight? Oh god, no,

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Speaker 4: I still had a great time. It was Norwegian, and

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Speaker 4: you guys know Norwegian. The ships are great, the sports

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Speaker 4: are beautiful, but the best part is the people you meet,

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Speaker 4: you know. So I went out, I made a lot

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Speaker 4: of friends, and I still enjoyed myself. Wow.

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Speaker 2: And the good thing about this is you You got

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Speaker 2: to keep the restaurant. You didn't have to give that

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Speaker 2: up in the breakup. You got to keep the ship.

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Speaker 4: You're good, No happy. I took care of the bill.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I know, But you had four more days with

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Speaker 2: this person. How did that go?

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Speaker 4: Well? We still shared a room, we still shared a bed,

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Speaker 4: so you know, we definitely both still enjoyed ourselves.

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Speaker 5: But you broke up with her on the ship and

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Speaker 5: she still gave you sex.

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Speaker 4: I mean you said it on me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know you you basically said that, yes, gandhi

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Speaker 2: thoughts all right, James?

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Speaker 3: What did she do in the middle of the trip

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Speaker 3: that was so egregious that you couldn't wait till the end?

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Speaker 3: Like what was the nail on the coffin that you

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Speaker 3: were like, this is it? Halfway through vacation.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, well, obviously it was like a a

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Speaker 4: bunch of things that built up over time. But she

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Speaker 4: kept being late to all the reservations and couldn't get

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Speaker 4: ready in time, and like that kind of got a

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Speaker 4: little annoying where I'm was, all I should have done

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Speaker 4: was telling her that the reservation was a few minutes earlier,

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Speaker 4: so she got ready earlier. But you know, water under

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Speaker 4: the bridge.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, okay, so may I may I assume that

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Speaker 2: this this relationship wasn't really all that serious, was it?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I was in it for real. I was

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Speaker 4: putting in a lot of effort. But I just saw

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Speaker 4: that she wasn't. And she said numerous times over the cruise,

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Speaker 4: which kind of bothered me. Was she was? She was

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Speaker 4: perfectly okay with only being good looking. That kind of

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Speaker 4: bothered me a little bit. Yeah, I guess I don't know,

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Speaker 4: And maybe it wasn't that serious.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm in hindsight. Well look, you know, uh, the

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Speaker 2: whole story is great. By the way, you're my favorite

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Speaker 2: call of the week. You gotta be honest, all right, James,

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that. Yeah, But the whole point of this

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Speaker 2: conversation with people who take take their significant other tour restaurant,

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Speaker 2: knowing full well when they walk through the door they're

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Speaker 2: about to break up with them. That was not the

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Speaker 2: case when you went on board Norwegian, was it. You

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Speaker 2: didn't take your breakout? Okay, all right, and there you go.

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Speaker 2: How are you today? By the way, how's your life done?

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Speaker 4: It? On the fourth day?

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Speaker 2: So there you how's your love life now?

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Speaker 4: James single? Doing my fing It's been a few months.

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Speaker 4: I went on another Norwegian cruise after that as a

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Speaker 4: solo traveler, had a good time on that and just

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Speaker 4: you know, realize that I can have a good time

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Speaker 4: on my own. I don't need to travel with someone.

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Speaker 4: And I actually have another. I have another cruise. I'm

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Speaker 4: leaving next Friday. Another I love it.

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Speaker 2: Norwegian loves you too. Here's the thing, Uh, Solo travel

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Speaker 2: on cruise ships is fabulous, and I've I have so

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Speaker 2: many friends who've so many friends who've done it. And

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Speaker 2: have you done solo cruise before?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I did one on a Halloween last year and

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Speaker 4: I had a great time.

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Speaker 2: Look at you, all right? God, it makes me kind

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Speaker 2: of jealous.

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Speaker 1: Solo cruising by yourself and you're you're stuck with it

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Speaker 1: with your own devices for seven.

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Speaker 2: No, some some people it's a nightmare to go with

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Speaker 2: someone else. All right, thank you scary, but thank you James.

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Speaker 2: You have a great day, and thanks for listening to us.

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Speaker 2: And Norwegian loves you man, they want you back, all right,

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Speaker 2: thank you very much. Wow. Interesting I got pictures too.

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Speaker 2: That took a turn. Yeah, but yeah, I can't believe

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Speaker 2: all of these texts about being broken up with or

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Speaker 2: breaking up with someone in a restaurant. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: And then when you broke it up, like I said before,

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Speaker 2: you and your other love that restaurant, Like who gets it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Do you go back on your own with friends or

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Speaker 2: with your next date? Do you dare take your next

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Speaker 2: significant other to that romantic restaurant?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 2: Sure you do.

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Speaker 5: There's a problem probably with the weight staff, like you know,

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Speaker 5: they're used to seeing like you know, you with Robert

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Speaker 5: and then all of a sudden you come in with

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Speaker 5: Johnny and they're like, what happened to Robert? And sometimes

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Speaker 5: they'll say that right in front of them, Hey what

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Speaker 5: happened to Robert? And then poor Johnny is feeling like

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Speaker 5: crap because he's your new guy at this restaurant. You

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Speaker 5: know it's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Well, you want to hear another layer to this onion.

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Speaker 2: What if you and your let's say your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever,

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Speaker 2: go to the same restaurant and then you love it

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Speaker 2: so much when you're cheating on them, you take your

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Speaker 2: you take your side piece to the restaurant. Well, no,

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Speaker 2: you know, if you're really tipping high, they'll keep it quiet.

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Speaker 2: Oh hello, mister Duran, good to see you. Who's your son?

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Speaker 4: You