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Subject my daughter in law and my sons. 11 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a sixty four year old married 12 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,599 Speaker 1: man and I have two sons. My wife and I 13 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 1: are retired and we enjoy spending time with our three grandchildren. 14 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: Our oldest son got married six years ago and I 15 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: used to love his wife. She's been a part of 16 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 1: our family for ten years. My wife and I spent 17 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,560 Speaker 1: a week with my son and his family for Christmas. 18 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: I got up early one morning to meditate and get 19 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,360 Speaker 1: my coffee while the house was still quiet. As I 20 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: walked into the kitchen, I could hear my daughter in 21 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:06,199 Speaker 1: law in her office on the phone. I heard her say, 22 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: your parents took the kids to the mall yesterday. It 23 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 1: kind of threw me off because she could only be 24 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: talking to my other son. I never mentioned it to 25 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: my wife. When Christmas Eve, my daughter in law left 26 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 1: her phone in the kitchen face down. It kept on vibrating, 27 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,559 Speaker 1: so my wife flip flipped the phone over to see 28 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: whose phone it was. She said she saw back to 29 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: back text from our younger son, who just turned thirty. 30 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: She thought maybe he was trying to pop up and 31 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: surprise us for Christmas. I thought to myself that might 32 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: be why my daughter in law was talking to him 33 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: that morning. Christmas Day came and we all face timed 34 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: with our younger son, who said he had no plans 35 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 1: of joining us. I was really puzzled by that point. 36 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: It all came out last week when my younger son 37 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: came home and said he had to talk to me. 38 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: He told me that he had a flame with my 39 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: daughter in law. He said she drove for four hours 40 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 1: to see him, and over the course of that weekend 41 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 1: they had six three times. He said it was terrible, 42 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: and he told her it will never happen again, but 43 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: she won't leave him alone. I am not equipped to 44 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 1: handle this. Do I encourage my son to tell his 45 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: big brother about what he did to his wife, or 46 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: should I stay out of this? Well, of course I 47 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 1: think you know the answer to this, Dad, This is 48 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 1: all terrible. First of all, it's bad on both parts, 49 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: your younger son for betraying his blood brother and of 50 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: course wifey for her slimy behavior. And you know that 51 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: could possibly break up this family. And Dad, you shouldn't 52 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: have to be equipped to handle this. No one is 53 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 1: equipped to deal with this kind of foolishness. No, you 54 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: shouldn't tell your older son, and neither should your younger son. 55 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: If this ever gets out, it will start a family 56 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: feud like no other. Your younger son needs to stop 57 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: all communication with this woman, his sister in law, meaning, 58 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: stop texting her, stop answering her calls, all of that. 59 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 2: They got to stop this. 60 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: Please tell him that, I mean, just tell him that 61 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: so he can move on, leave her, try to put 62 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: this behind him and move on if he can, because 63 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 1: if the son finds out, this is gonna be a 64 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: mess right here, it already is. And I just don't 65 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: understand why he would do that to his brother and 66 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: why she would do it and possibly break up a 67 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: family between two brothers. 68 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 3: Steve, I'm confused. I'm very confused. Okay, you all have 69 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 3: heard the letter that Shirley jessriad you heard Shirley's response. 70 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 3: Here's my confusion, and it's not directed at Shirley. It's 71 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 3: directed at things I've heard women say. This is what 72 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: I've heard when men say, throughout the course of my life, 73 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 3: if this is my friend, I. 74 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 2: Would tell my friend if she was my friend. 75 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 3: Let's say a woman saw a man chat on one 76 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 3: of her girlfriends. I've heard the woman say, if she 77 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:22,559 Speaker 3: was my friend, she would tell me. I've heard women 78 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 3: say I would want to know. I've heard women say 79 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:30,359 Speaker 3: she's my friend, I have to tell her. I'm just 80 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 3: saying I've heard these things that may not apply to 81 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 3: every woman, but I've heard this a lot, and I 82 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 3: think you all will. 83 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 2: Admit you've heard that too. 84 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 3: Now, based on that right there, now, let's go to 85 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 3: Shirley's response. 86 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 2: Shirley says she. 87 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,840 Speaker 3: Knows that this father knows the answer to this, and 88 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 3: he has got to stay out of this because no 89 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 3: one is equipped for this. I'm looking at both sides 90 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 3: of this letter now because I really don't know how 91 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 3: to respond quite yet. 92 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: So now, ladies, let me get this, if someone. 93 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 3: Was cheating on you, you always say you would want 94 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 3: to know. And then women always feel a lot of times, 95 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 3: not all women, but a lot of women feel like 96 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 3: it's their obligation to tell their friend what they saw. 97 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 3: We have letter after letter after letter about this conflict 98 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 3: that you all are facing. So in this letter right here, 99 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 3: is it because they are men that they should leave 100 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 3: it alone, let it go? Is it because he is 101 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 3: the father and these are his sons. I do understand 102 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 3: Shirley's concerned that this could break up the family because 103 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 3: it's a betrayal of the younger son who betrayed his 104 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 3: big brother. That is the foulest of this. 105 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure, that's the foulest of all of this. Yes, 106 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: that is your brother. I don't care. 107 00:05:56,480 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 3: What does chick come to you with. This is my brother. Yeah, 108 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 3: this is my brother. So to me, the young boy 109 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 3: is the foulest. Now is the wife, the daughter in law, 110 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 3: the sister in law spank app absolutely. 111 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 2: God bag like trash, I mean straight trash man. 112 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 3: And now all of this falls in the lap of 113 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 3: the father because a young boy is so tossed up. 114 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 3: They gotta have a great relationship because he took it 115 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 3: to his dad. When we come back, I still don't 116 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 3: know what I'm gonna say. 117 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response 118 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's 119 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter subject my daughter in law and my sons. 120 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. 121 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 2: All right, let's go. Come on, Shirley, what you got. 122 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know this, but I love 123 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 1: my job. We have a great time at work every day. 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That ZipRecruiter dot com slash strawberry. 135 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 2: Steve Harvey Nation, go check it out. Now. 136 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 137 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: This is a wild one. Right here, my daughter in 138 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: law and my sons. 139 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: That's this man, sixty four years old. 140 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 3: And he's got two sons and the oldest son is 141 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 3: married to a woman for over ten years. They have 142 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:54,520 Speaker 3: three grandchildren. He absolutely adored this woman and then he 143 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 3: heard her having a conversation one morning he got up 144 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 3: to half coffee. She was in her office and got 145 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 3: up and heard her talking to someone on the phone 146 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 3: and said, your parents took the grandkids to the mall today, 147 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 3: which meant she He thought, you could only be talking 148 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 3: to the oldest son, you know, or or one of 149 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 3: his sons. So because they only had the two kids. 150 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 3: All right, fast forward, they over there. They're expecting everybody 151 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: home for Christmas. The phone rings, that's on vibrate. It's 152 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 3: some messages and texts from the youngest son to the 153 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 3: daughter in law. 154 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 2: Now Dad is confused and then thought, well, maybe. 155 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 3: He was trying to surprise everybody again on the FaceTime 156 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 3: on Christmas. 157 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 2: Come to find out he wasn't coming at all. 158 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 3: Finally, the young boy talks to his sixty four your 159 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 3: old dad and said, Dad, I need to talk to you. 160 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 3: I got a problem. This woman, the daughter in law, 161 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 3: my brother's wife, drove to see me for four hours. 162 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 3: We had sex three times. It was terrible. It was terrible, 163 00:08:56,679 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 3: and he told her it'll never happen again, but she 164 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 3: won't leave him alone. 165 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,400 Speaker 2: And I'm the man is saying, I'm not equipped to 166 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 2: handle this. 167 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 3: Do I encourage my son to tell his big brother 168 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 3: about what he did to his wife? 169 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 2: See? 170 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 3: Listen to that sentence, though, Do I tell my son 171 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 3: to tell his big brother about what he did to 172 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 3: his wife? 173 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: Wow? 174 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 3: That is the most powerful statement in this whole letter 175 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 3: for this man. 176 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 2: Because he's a man. 177 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 3: He know what that older boy gonna feel or think, 178 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 3: and he knows this could blow up. Because it's going 179 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 3: to blow up because the young, the oldest son is 180 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 3: going to be destroyed on both sides. My wife portrayed me, 181 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 3: but my little brother did too. I had an incident 182 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 3: that happened to me a long, long time ago, and 183 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 3: somebody lied and said my brother did it to me. 184 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:03,119 Speaker 3: When I called my brother, I was handling this situation. 185 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 3: But when I called and I charged my brother with 186 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 3: doing it to me. And I was so upset man 187 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 3: talking to my brother, because all I kept saying, brh, 188 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 3: not you man, bruh, not you thought I'd take this 189 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 3: from anybody, but dog you broh. 190 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 2: My brother finally got so I hung up. I went home. 191 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: I was distraught. Finally somebody came and say, Man, I 192 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 2: talk to you. Brother. 193 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 3: Let me tell you what happened. He said, but you 194 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 3: was just hollering and he couldn't get your listen. Turned 195 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 3: out my brother didn't do it at all. The part 196 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 3: that crushed me mostly was I thought it was a 197 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 3: betrayal of my brother, and I could take it from 198 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 3: anybody else, but not my brother. Not my brother man, 199 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 3: because we. 200 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 2: Was raised to take care of each other. 201 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 3: So, dad of sixty four years, I don't really know 202 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 3: what to tell you. 203 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: I really really don't. I have three sons. 204 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 3: If this happened in my family, I would be really, honestly, 205 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 3: to be honest with you, I'd be feeling the way 206 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 3: you are and I wouldn't know what to do. But 207 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 3: I'm a father, so I gotta do something. You can't 208 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 3: just let it lay. 209 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 2: You can't. 210 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 3: But bruh, I don't know how to handle this because 211 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 3: this right here can go south so fast, so fast, 212 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 3: and the injury that could be cause to your oldest son, 213 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 3: it's one that may not be repallable. 214 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 2: Your wife betrayed me, who's the. 215 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 3: Mother of my children? And my little brother betrayed me. God, 216 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know what to say. I 217 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 3: talked to this little trifling girl, the. 218 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: Daughter in law. Yeah, as the father, you're saying, you 219 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: talk to the daughter. 220 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:01,239 Speaker 2: In law, you wouldn't let her know that, you know, doctor. 221 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 3: I know what didn't happen. And what I want you 222 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 3: to do is fix this. Yeah, just bounce, say you 223 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 3: don't want this no more, don't destroy my sons. Just 224 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 3: gonna bounce and leave. 225 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 2: But she's not gonna do that. 226 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,119 Speaker 3: Well, she's not gonna bounce and leave without the destruction 227 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 3: because if she's that type of person, she. 228 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 2: Gonna think, well, I ain't gonna be the only one hurting. 229 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 3: Mm hm. 230 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 2: Also, you're gonna protect your sons. 231 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 3: Well, I'm gonna I find you want me to blow 232 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 3: my family up, I blow your family up too. That's 233 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 3: why I don't know what to say. I truly, well, 234 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 3: this is the first Strawberry letter that has completely stomped me. 235 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 3: Because I really just don't know what to say. I 236 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 3: would have to I would really have to pray about 237 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 3: this because I don't have the answer. 238 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,559 Speaker 2: I just don't have an answer. Man. 239 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 3: This is horrible being on anything, but I'm so disappointed 240 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 3: in my youngest son. Yeah, boy, you didn't thank for 241 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 3: one minute. 242 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 2: This my brother. This is my brother. Man, brother, come on, 243 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 2: oh man. Yeah, it's break my heart. 244 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 1: It would either way. 245 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 2: It's bad. That would break my heart because I got 246 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 2: three sons. 247 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 1: All right, thank you. You can comment on Today's Strawberry 248 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: Letter on Instagram and Facebook or at at Steve Harvey FM. 249 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: Also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free 250 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app. 251 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 2: Now, coming up. 252 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,680 Speaker 1: Next, we're going to do a black History quiz here guys, 253 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: it is Black History Month. No your history. Right after this, 254 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show