WEBVTT - Just Another Day In Paradise

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, hot angel faces, we are coming to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Live from Hawaii North Shore.

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna expect some hula tunes from off key.

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<v Speaker 1>Just say hi, my love, Hi man, Hi baby, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to the Give them All a Podcast. I

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<v Speaker 1>this was really really hard to do because I wake

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<v Speaker 1>up and I look outside and just the vibe makes

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<v Speaker 1>me want to put a swimsuit on, shut out.

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<v Speaker 2>The world and do nothing all the live long day.

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<v Speaker 3>I apologize for making you do this.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I love doing the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>There's just something about the environment in Hawaii, like yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>or over there.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want to work, ever, No.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to open up a food truck and decide

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<v Speaker 1>the days that I want to be open that they've

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<v Speaker 1>got it figured out.

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<v Speaker 4>And I don't even want to do a food truck.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to move, do you Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, This pot is maybe a little bit chaotic

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<v Speaker 1>because we're obviously when you watch the YouTube video that

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<v Speaker 1>drops Friday, you'll see that we're in our amazing home

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<v Speaker 1>with the most fantastic view. Ocean has found seashells that

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to run under the water. So you may

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<v Speaker 1>have a little voice popping in you may hear babies crying,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what, it's all good. I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to mentally just be on the beach right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>have Easton obviously, I have my mother.

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<v Speaker 2>Who did you have a list of things you want

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about?

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<v Speaker 4>I do have a list, but I got to get

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<v Speaker 4>my phone. I forgot my phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. She's a rookie.

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<v Speaker 1>So since we last spoke to you, guys, it was Thanksgiving,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving that was

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<v Speaker 1>just full of thanks and love and full bellies and giving.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that sometimes the holidays roll around, and we've

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<v Speaker 1>spoken about this before t T where it's like once

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<v Speaker 1>you are in this zone of like you're now the parent,

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<v Speaker 1>so you are the one that's having to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>the Thanksgiving menu, or you're the one who's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out like what gifts are from Jijs, what gifts

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<v Speaker 1>are from me? We all want to stay clean. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really want to give credit to Santa Claus. I

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<v Speaker 1>spoke about that last year. I'm like, I'm buying great

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<v Speaker 1>gifts from Santa, but Mom wants the credit. So I

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<v Speaker 1>know that the holidays they take a shift as you

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<v Speaker 1>get older and your families grow. But I think overall

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<v Speaker 1>we had a great Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 3>Truly it was the best. Yeah, it was the best.

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<v Speaker 2>What was your favorite part about it?

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<v Speaker 4>Mom? It was like local, it was not pressure.

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<v Speaker 3>See. That's what I've loved about our Thanksgivings and holidays

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<v Speaker 3>is I feel like everybody puts such a we need

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<v Speaker 3>to make it of the experience and what is it

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<v Speaker 3>a rich We have to make it a ritual, so

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<v Speaker 3>it has to be great every year it has to

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<v Speaker 3>be and it's like it is a.

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<v Speaker 2>Ritual something that like, uh, which is s do? I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's tradition, our tradition. Oh, it is okay to

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<v Speaker 2>keep going.

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<v Speaker 3>Whatever it may be. But I feel like so many

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<v Speaker 3>people are like, but I need it great for my

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<v Speaker 3>kids so they remember and then they give it to

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<v Speaker 3>their kids, and it's like, you're you're reaching too far.

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<v Speaker 3>Just no plans are the best plans.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I tell you why it feels different for me?

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<v Speaker 1>Do tell because the holidays just hit it differently.

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<v Speaker 2>When I don't wake up and get a buzz on.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a.

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<v Speaker 1>Starla, it just doesn't have to say it was like

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<v Speaker 1>a great.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you get a placebo effect?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? It was a great day.

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<v Speaker 1>So we popped bottles on Thanksgiving, we popped Starla sparkling

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<v Speaker 1>rose and there was just something living in Utah and

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<v Speaker 1>it was like cold outside and my dad would already

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<v Speaker 1>be awake, and you had like these special hand painted

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<v Speaker 1>glasses that were short.

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<v Speaker 2>What are they called calm?

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<v Speaker 1>What is the flutes?

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<v Speaker 2>No, the glasses that are short, what do you call them?

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<v Speaker 1>I just call them short glasses? Short cocktail glasses. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was just like with the stems, right, No, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a that's a.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, because that was my favorite because then you'd pick

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<v Speaker 3>your little trinket and put it around the stems.

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<v Speaker 4>You're talking about a wine glass, yeah, or like a flue, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>But there's something.

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<v Speaker 1>There was something about having dad make me that first

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<v Speaker 1>drink in the morning before cooking just screams, it's the holiday,

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<v Speaker 1>let's effing go, bitch.

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<v Speaker 3>No, that's the one thing that I got of land

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<v Speaker 3>and just sitting there just looking at his tragger, looking

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<v Speaker 3>at his turkey coat, like damn.

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<v Speaker 2>Landon cooked the turkey.

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<v Speaker 3>For us and it was fantastic.

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<v Speaker 2>What were you in charge of, mom?

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<v Speaker 4>Sweet potatoes?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>They were fantastic this year. Thank you, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 4>I trippled the topping this year.

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<v Speaker 1>A good choice is my favorite for the people who

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<v Speaker 1>have written in to say, like, please send me the

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<v Speaker 1>recipe for the sweet potatoes your mom makes that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys rave about and I wish that I could, But

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even follow a recipe? Do you just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like go for it?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I have a recipe we can post.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, yeah, I'd really appreciate that, because people ask all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. I was in charge of the green beans

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<v Speaker 1>and carrots, and they were Mam Pratt and Joe, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Did a phenomenal job on that.

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<v Speaker 3>You really did, You really did. They were fantastic.

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<v Speaker 1>I added butter and olive oil and just so they're.

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<v Speaker 3>All whipping and stuff. And you literally cut a carrot

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<v Speaker 3>down the side, put it on a tray all of oiling,

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<v Speaker 3>slit it in the up fantastic tape.

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<v Speaker 2>You're such a dick.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>We know, shocker standard for Easton sit around and look

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<v Speaker 1>pretty all day.

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<v Speaker 3>I sit around the pretty thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So I decided because I dressed Sosa up in this

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<v Speaker 1>little turkey outfit. It was like a knitted, handmade turkey

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<v Speaker 1>hat and the bottoms had like the little ruffle of

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<v Speaker 1>the turkey in the back and Janet gave it to

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<v Speaker 1>me and she said, I got this for Cam last year,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was still bacon in the oven like a

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<v Speaker 1>turkey and he couldn't wear it.

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<v Speaker 3>All I do know is there's some mayhem going on

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<v Speaker 3>behind me. But I'm gonna video what Ocean is doing.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just.

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't drop the sea glass and the guards.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't worry about it. But go on, we'll get Lisa.

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<v Speaker 4>She's I want the sea glass.

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<v Speaker 1>So I post this carousel. We'll get you your sea glass.

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<v Speaker 1>I post this carousel of photos and I'm so proud

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<v Speaker 1>of it. And I I go in to retouch Ocean's

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<v Speaker 1>teeth of her holding sauce in her turkey outfit, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just couldn't make it look like it wasn't super

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<v Speaker 1>edited all right, So I'm like whatever, and I post

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<v Speaker 1>it almost immediately. And by the way, when did that

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<v Speaker 1>accident happen with Ocean? I spoke about it on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh months ago.

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<v Speaker 2>It was before school started in lie so it probably

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<v Speaker 2>happened in.

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<v Speaker 1>June where Ocean fell face first on her bike, not

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<v Speaker 1>in my care but at the other house.

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<v Speaker 2>And I got a text that just said like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, where was it at my dad's house?

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<v Speaker 2>That's right? And and it was threedy, yeah, so much.

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<v Speaker 2>And it turned to gray. Yeah, but they're beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>But they were white, yes, yeah they were. And what color?

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<v Speaker 4>What color's teeth?

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<v Speaker 2>Yellow?

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<v Speaker 4>Get the biggest kick out of that yellow?

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<v Speaker 3>What color?

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<v Speaker 4>Mama's what?

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<v Speaker 2>Ah? Do you get an A today?

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<v Speaker 3>What color? Are techies hit? You better think.

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<v Speaker 2>She gets an A from us?

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<v Speaker 1>So she I get a text from my axent just

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<v Speaker 1>says her lip is busted, so just be where when

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<v Speaker 1>you pick her up.

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<v Speaker 2>When I pick her up, her lip is very busted.

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<v Speaker 1>But then and I look at her two front teeth,

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<v Speaker 1>and I noticed that the gums are bloody, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm keeping an eye on them.

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<v Speaker 2>And the moment they.

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<v Speaker 1>Start turning a color, which they're gorgeous ocean. Well, actually,

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<v Speaker 1>Lisa calls and we tell the dentist what happened, and

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<v Speaker 1>they said, are they turning a color? You need to

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<v Speaker 1>come in immediately. And I'm like, oh great, it's been

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<v Speaker 1>like a couple weeks. They said, Luckily, there's no damage

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<v Speaker 1>to there's damage to the room, but it's not dead,

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<v Speaker 1>so keep an eye on it. If she complains about

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<v Speaker 1>them every single day, because they said often. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>what's often, and they said, like every single day. She

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<v Speaker 1>says that they're hurting, because then we're going to have

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out what to do with them. So in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, I'm like, I'm editing these teeth. Number one,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm vain. I am a teeth person. I wanted just

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<v Speaker 1>to have cute, little white teeth.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, she had such cute white teeth.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's still the cutest, cutest, yes, cute.

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<v Speaker 1>People were commenting, so obviously I edit and edit them

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<v Speaker 1>for that reason. But also I was editing them because

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<v Speaker 1>of the comment section the common Center.

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<v Speaker 3>It's win or there's no win. In either way you

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<v Speaker 3>would have gone no.

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<v Speaker 1>So I post the carousel and immediately with that photo up,

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<v Speaker 1>people start talking about my child's teeth, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say you all, but some of you squares

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<v Speaker 1>are like, you know, it's a bottle rot, which someone

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<v Speaker 1>described as too much sugar.

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<v Speaker 2>That's absolutely untrue.

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<v Speaker 1>Bottle row is when you give a child with teeth

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<v Speaker 1>a bottle before bed and the milk sits there and

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<v Speaker 1>rots the teeth. My child hasn't had a bottle in years.

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<v Speaker 1>The other thing was she eats too much sugar, or

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<v Speaker 1>they're not brushing her teeth, or it's a fluoride issue.

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<v Speaker 1>So the comment section is full of people like talking

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<v Speaker 1>about my child's teeth, and immediately I'm like, I'm posty

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<v Speaker 1>about this, but did.

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<v Speaker 4>They show you their their dental license?

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<v Speaker 1>None of them were, by the way, They're all just

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<v Speaker 1>people sitting on Instagram bored on Thanksgiving, I knowing trolling.

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<v Speaker 1>So I then go on and repost it with Ocean

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<v Speaker 1>and I talk about the accident, and I admit to

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<v Speaker 1>editing them in some photos, and I say, go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and judge me, and you certainly did?

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<v Speaker 2>You? Certainly did? I just get what is it?

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<v Speaker 3>At what point can you win?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like, okay, well, I just wanted to avoid

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing, so that's why I would edit them.

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<v Speaker 1>And now people are saying that I sent some people

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<v Speaker 1>that I send the wrong message by editing her teeth. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know which is the wronger message, me doing

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<v Speaker 1>that and moving on with my day and my child

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<v Speaker 1>looking back when she's older and asking why did you

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<v Speaker 1>not edit my teeth? Because that's what will happen, just

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<v Speaker 1>like I wish my mom would have pinned my ears

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<v Speaker 1>back in photos when I was a child, because I

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<v Speaker 1>would have had much cuter photos to submit. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay they didn't have that technology back then. Or is

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<v Speaker 1>it more of a mind f to have a comment

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<v Speaker 1>section for a child to look back on where you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are talking about her teeth of rotting out of

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<v Speaker 1>her face, Like.

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<v Speaker 2>I could not believe that it was such an uproar.

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<v Speaker 3>I would look at you and say, thank you for

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<v Speaker 3>wipening my teeth.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's what I That's what I thought was.

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<v Speaker 3>Just being bottom rot. You're gonna get main called at

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<v Speaker 3>school for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, by the way, when she started school, I walked

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<v Speaker 1>in and I was like, Hi, I'm while I'm Ocean's mom.

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<v Speaker 1>She has two little full front teeth. She fell because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like so insecure that they were going to

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<v Speaker 1>think that it was me and I wasn't even there

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<v Speaker 1>during the accident.

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<v Speaker 3>Did the comment section make you think it was you?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that why? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't think it was me at all.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, when they're saying that, like, she's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>in a fluorite, she has a fantastic diet and we

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<v Speaker 1>brush thoroughly, so that also happened on Thanksgiving and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, spiraling about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember, Mom?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we talked about it until you.

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<v Speaker 4>Just I just don't know why people have to be negative.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know because you've said it misery loves Company.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually there were a few comments that were like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not what happened. There's trauma to the two front teeth.

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<v Speaker 1>My son did this. It was always the sun. And

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<v Speaker 1>so a few of the messages that I got in

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<v Speaker 1>my DMS that got through I responded to because they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, don't listen to anybody.

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<v Speaker 2>I totally get it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, you know, this seems very common in

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<v Speaker 1>like daredevil children, and Ocean is a dare devil.

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<v Speaker 4>She's the biggest daredevil. She gives me a heart attack

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<v Speaker 4>every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's terrifying and every and there's usually a moment

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<v Speaker 1>every day that she goes for her mouth again and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, these teeth are going to be black by

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<v Speaker 1>the time she.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she has no fear, zero fear, and even if

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<v Speaker 3>she falls or gets hit, she has We were at

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<v Speaker 3>the playground. She was doing the monkey bars falls because

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<v Speaker 3>she did it with nobody near her, because it's who

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<v Speaker 3>she is, falls straight on her back, cries for maybe

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<v Speaker 3>two minutes back to the monk key bars. Yeah didn't

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<v Speaker 3>even fly.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, it didn't face her at all. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>just who she is, and you know what, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to embrace. My anxiety level is very high every single day,

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<v Speaker 1>to the point where I'm like, do I need a

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<v Speaker 1>beta blocker just to deal with this child? Because it's terrifying.

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<v Speaker 2>But you're so sweet and cute.

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<v Speaker 1>The flight to Hawaiian Let's get to Hawaii because that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I really want to talk about. Now that I've

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<v Speaker 1>purged about the teeth comments, I've been sitting on that

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<v Speaker 1>for a week.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I can't wait to get on the pod Adventus.

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<v Speaker 3>No one is more excited that you got this off

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<v Speaker 3>at your chest than us because we don't hearing about

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<v Speaker 3>it since Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 2>You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>So we get to the We get to the airport

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<v Speaker 1>at how Manys before five.

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<v Speaker 4>Our flight was supposed to take off at five point

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<v Speaker 4>fifty five. We left at two two and got there

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<v Speaker 4>at three.

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<v Speaker 3>We are there. You're right, you're right.

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<v Speaker 1>But I've never traveled with two kids before, one being

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<v Speaker 1>three months old. It just seemed like a hard thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do. So I was glad that we left early.

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<v Speaker 1>We go into the lounge, we eat, I feed the baby,

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<v Speaker 1>We get all teed up, get to the gate, and

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<v Speaker 1>the pilot.

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<v Speaker 2>The pilot is late.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and delay flight coming in not the pilot's fault.

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<v Speaker 1>He's late from Vegas. I'm like, oh my god. And

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<v Speaker 1>the woman across from me, who lives in Hawaii, she's like.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet he's drunk. Like, don't say that. What do

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<v Speaker 2>you mean when you think he's drunk? I was terripping.

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<v Speaker 2>I prayed about a million times.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I thought of Ricky Gervais where he's an

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<v Speaker 1>atheist and doesn't believe.

0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:47.760
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, am I praying to anybody?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm up in arms about this? Really very chaotic.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, he arrives, We get on the plane. You guys,

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<v Speaker 1>when I tell you, well, first of all, I was

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<v Speaker 1>about to pull a Lisa Barlowe.

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<v Speaker 2>I did pull Lisa Barlowe. We walked through the plane.

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<v Speaker 1>I look at everyone in first class, laid back in

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<v Speaker 1>their seats in a lie flat. And I immediately when

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<v Speaker 1>we sit down in our seats, because we were in

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<v Speaker 1>like comfort plus or whatever, right, And I told my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>If there's ever a version of life Flat on a

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<v Speaker 1>flight this long, you must get it.

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<v Speaker 4>But Lisa's a budget prices and I said, Uhner, we're

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<v Speaker 4>going Comfort Plus.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because she's all about but you had plenty of

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<v Speaker 1>leg room. I'm like, it's not about the leg room,

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<v Speaker 1>it's about the lying downs.

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<v Speaker 4>We were the next like it was ended first class,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we were right behind them.

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<v Speaker 2>I it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't lay down in the first class.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't lay down.

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<v Speaker 3>My back was wrenched.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, look at your check book and you'll be glad

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<v Speaker 4>you were in Comfort Plus.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, that right there, Lisa, that's where you get

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<v Speaker 3>the win.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, I'm fine with it.

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<v Speaker 1>We got here, but I did pull Lisa barlow I

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<v Speaker 1>sit down in my seat and I wait for people

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<v Speaker 1>to pass, and then there's like a lull in people

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<v Speaker 1>coming on the plane, and I whip my head around and.

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<v Speaker 2>I go, if you ever put us in action again,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Pissed and I will lie flat.

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<v Speaker 2>Life flat.

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<v Speaker 3>It was law.

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<v Speaker 4>I will be putting us in depending on how much

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<v Speaker 4>it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Well. I felt like Lisa Barlowe because she complained about

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<v Speaker 1>first class, and I just saw a video of her

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<v Speaker 1>today and the reporter asked, do you regret freaking out

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<v Speaker 1>about the first class, because absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she compromised my lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 4>We ever looked at a first class coming from a

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<v Speaker 4>podunk like dunks.

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<v Speaker 3>She came from Bulk Springs, where you love to go.

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<v Speaker 4>I love, But I'm saying, have you been on one

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<v Speaker 4>of those flights? Is no first class?

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<v Speaker 2>No, there's literally no first class. You can.

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<v Speaker 3>The first four seats.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's like a little over an hour, not worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean to get to Hawaii it was what

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<v Speaker 1>four and a half. I mean, let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't even go to New York if I if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not in a lie flat. And it's not because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm bougie. It's because I get nauseated. So if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not laying down in sleeping then I.

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<v Speaker 2>Will be sick.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's fine. Here's the silver lining, not say.

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<v Speaker 4>How I can sleep on a board. So for me,

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<v Speaker 4>I was very comfortable. This is Lisa, And I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 4>I called it a po dunk flight.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Sosa did not make a peep on that flight,

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<v Speaker 1>not one. And Ocean was absolutely fantastic. And I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>the people next to us. When we got on the

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<v Speaker 1>plane and sat down, we're looking.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh no, they were dreading, dreading. They immediately put

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<v Speaker 2>their headphones on.

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<v Speaker 1>Before the TVs could even be turned on, they had

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<v Speaker 1>headphones ready to go. We get off the plane and

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<v Speaker 1>he goes, wow, I am so impressed by your kids.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't make a peep. I was like, nope, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I looked at Sosa and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>remember this two more weeks and we're going to act

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<v Speaker 1>this exact same way. Because I had a conversation with

0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:06.119
<v Speaker 1>her before we got on the flight. I looked at

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<v Speaker 1>her while she was on the boom and I said, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>we're a team here. We're not going to ruin the

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<v Speaker 1>flight for everybody. It's a long flight. I got your

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<v Speaker 1>back if you have mine. And she gave me a

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<v Speaker 1>big smile, and I just knew we were off to

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<v Speaker 1>the races.

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<v Speaker 2>It was going to be smooth sailing.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, there's no one that hates a baby crying on

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<v Speaker 3>a plane more than me.

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<v Speaker 2>So more than anybody.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh and we went to the restaurant in Hawaii, and

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<v Speaker 4>remember the lady that had the two week how old

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<v Speaker 4>was the baby six weeks old? Yeah, and they had

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<v Speaker 4>a witching hour for two hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Two hours on the plane ride here, the baby cried

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<v Speaker 1>for two hours. I was like, oh my gosh, you

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<v Speaker 1>know that would have been ocean though, Lisa, what did

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<v Speaker 1>you learn from the flight.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't you hear a flight attendant say something rad on

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<v Speaker 2>my brain that you said? You didn't say it to her,

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<v Speaker 2>but the flight attendants got on the m oh.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh oh, yes, yes, yes. So we we get on

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<v Speaker 4>the plane, we put our overhead compartment, luggage whatever. And

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<v Speaker 4>then she gets on the intercomm and says, if it's

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<v Speaker 4>full above, you close it.

0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:10.200
<v Speaker 3>It's like at Neir, you close it. That's your job,

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<v Speaker 3>Like no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>So my whole thing is it's like yes when when

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<v Speaker 1>someone is trying to cut corners when it's their job,

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<v Speaker 1>Because I look at jobs and think, okay, so like

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<v Speaker 1>what does your job entail? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>But I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>This is where I get very Larry David, where I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get back my time, right. So if it

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<v Speaker 1>makes everyone board the plane a little bit faster or no,

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<v Speaker 1>but here's where the other way, if it's closed and

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<v Speaker 1>the whole plane hasn't boarded yet, you want to know

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<v Speaker 1>where the time is going to be wasted open people

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<v Speaker 1>opening to look in it, thank you, So I think

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<v Speaker 1>that they should all be opened, and then the steward

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<v Speaker 1>is and then as weird right, and they I.

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<v Speaker 3>Loved when they walk down and they just shut everything.

0:19:58.520 --> 0:20:01.800
<v Speaker 1>Every single one and they're so good at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, they don't have a position a bag. It's like tetris.

0:20:04.760 --> 0:20:07.040
<v Speaker 2>But I thought that that was a very interesting point.

0:20:07.440 --> 0:20:09.639
<v Speaker 3>Was like, I hate flying, and I don't know if

0:20:09.640 --> 0:20:11.840
<v Speaker 3>everybody flies a lot, but I get yelled at for

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<v Speaker 3>how I put my bag every time, because now the

0:20:13.960 --> 0:20:18.280
<v Speaker 3>planes are different. Some are they slide straight. In new

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<v Speaker 3>ones you tilt right, and every time I tilted sideways,

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't tell me anymore. And they're like these lie

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<v Speaker 3>down flat.

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<v Speaker 2>So a friend of mine, I'm oh, hi, sus is

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<v Speaker 2>that the baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby was crying, So now we have a getment with

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<v Speaker 3>us because that's how it's looking here in Hawaii.

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<v Speaker 2>But she's probably gonna get hungry, so just bear with me.

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<v Speaker 1>But I had a friend of mine who was showing

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<v Speaker 1>me an instagram of this really hot guy and I

0:20:45.480 --> 0:20:48.600
<v Speaker 1>was like, dude, why have you not thought of.

0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:50.040
<v Speaker 2>This person for me before?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, well, he lives in Hawaii, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to Hawaii.

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<v Speaker 2>Well he lives like on the North Shore, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to the north Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>So we arrive at the airport, we go into the

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<v Speaker 1>lounge and there he is just sitting there looking fine.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was crazy to me how even though I

0:21:13.840 --> 0:21:19.520
<v Speaker 1>have a hard time like trusting dudes or whatever, like

0:21:19.800 --> 0:21:21.879
<v Speaker 1>energy is such a big thing and I didn't like

0:21:21.880 --> 0:21:25.359
<v Speaker 1>his energy. Yeah, because Mom was convinced he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be my husband just based off of his Instagram yep.

0:21:29.119 --> 0:21:33.000
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, no, you sound insane, really, yes, Mom,

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<v Speaker 1>When you tell me that he's gonna be my husband

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<v Speaker 1>and all you've seen is an Instagram photo, it reminds

0:21:38.320 --> 0:21:40.080
<v Speaker 1>me of Tinsley.

0:21:39.640 --> 0:21:42.720
<v Speaker 2>Mortimer and her mom. Remember when they cry over the eggs.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not even.

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<v Speaker 1>When we start trying on dresses that will never have it,

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<v Speaker 1>because then we've gone regards.

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<v Speaker 2>It's still insane.

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<v Speaker 1>Because if you're there, we have truly lost our minds.

0:22:03.400 --> 0:22:06.479
<v Speaker 1>But you know, I talked about this with you after

0:22:06.560 --> 0:22:09.640
<v Speaker 1>we concocted, well you concocted in your mind that this

0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:15.880
<v Speaker 1>perfectly shaped man would be my future husband. That it's

0:22:15.920 --> 0:22:20.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna be hard for me to find a partner for this.

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<v Speaker 4>Why why would it be hard for you to find

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<v Speaker 4>a partner. You have your mom living with you and

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<v Speaker 4>your brother.

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<v Speaker 3>Why would that be hard?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the reason it's gonna be hard is not because

0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:35.800
<v Speaker 1>of the family structure. And look, here's all of my bagga,

0:22:38.920 --> 0:22:45.280
<v Speaker 1>the best kind, you're Louis Vauton. But I was thinking

0:22:45.320 --> 0:22:48.159
<v Speaker 1>about it and I'm like, Okay, there's one person that

0:22:48.240 --> 0:22:50.840
<v Speaker 1>I can think of besides my ex, but one person

0:22:50.840 --> 0:22:54.520
<v Speaker 1>who I gave a shot to, probably when Ocean was

0:22:54.520 --> 0:22:56.480
<v Speaker 1>a year and a half, and I remember being at

0:22:56.520 --> 0:23:00.800
<v Speaker 1>Shutters and he had like gone go and I was

0:23:01.000 --> 0:23:02.840
<v Speaker 1>in it, like I could not believe that I had

0:23:02.880 --> 0:23:05.040
<v Speaker 1>let my guard down to that point. And I remember

0:23:05.480 --> 0:23:08.800
<v Speaker 1>not even being able to enjoy Ocean or where we

0:23:08.800 --> 0:23:14.240
<v Speaker 1>were because of this stupid, freaking guy. And so now

0:23:14.320 --> 0:23:16.520
<v Speaker 1>I think about dudes, and I'm like, because my mom's

0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:18.080
<v Speaker 1>like in twenty twenty five, I want you to go out,

0:23:18.119 --> 0:23:19.480
<v Speaker 1>I want you to start dating. I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>try and find your person because you deserve that. And

0:23:21.680 --> 0:23:24.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, when my kids are this age, I'm not

0:23:24.920 --> 0:23:27.480
<v Speaker 1>even going to risk going out and having a dude

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<v Speaker 1>come in who could potentially make me feel some type

0:23:31.000 --> 0:23:33.960
<v Speaker 1>of way to where my heart hurts. You've clogged my

0:23:34.080 --> 0:23:37.080
<v Speaker 1>mind and now I can't enjoy my babies. So it

0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:39.280
<v Speaker 1>actually worked out that I looked at this guy who

0:23:39.320 --> 0:23:41.800
<v Speaker 1>Lisa was planning our wedding on the North Shore with

0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:47.840
<v Speaker 1>on this trip because me going the vibe is off.

0:23:48.280 --> 0:23:50.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my gosh, my gut is working for me,

0:23:50.920 --> 0:23:53.480
<v Speaker 1>and people are gonna be like, ah, you didn't like

0:23:53.560 --> 0:23:55.920
<v Speaker 1>him because he liked someone else. But then I look

0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:58.520
<v Speaker 1>over in the corner and he's like found this girl

0:23:58.560 --> 0:24:01.760
<v Speaker 1>that he's like getting a little buzzed with, and I'm like, and.

0:24:01.760 --> 0:24:05.160
<v Speaker 2>My gut was right. How does someone find someone at

0:24:05.200 --> 0:24:07.200
<v Speaker 2>an airport? Is that normal?

0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:12.240
<v Speaker 4>I don't know. You'd have to ask him. I've never

0:24:12.280 --> 0:24:12.680
<v Speaker 4>done it.

0:24:13.760 --> 0:24:14.280
<v Speaker 2>I walked over.

0:24:15.359 --> 0:24:16.480
<v Speaker 1>He's already cheating on it.

0:24:18.119 --> 0:24:21.639
<v Speaker 3>The hitting on a girl at the airport. What are

0:24:21.680 --> 0:24:24.240
<v Speaker 3>the odds you live in the same place and long

0:24:24.280 --> 0:24:26.920
<v Speaker 3>distance reationships.

0:24:26.359 --> 0:24:28.240
<v Speaker 2>The best kind, you're never around.

0:24:28.400 --> 0:24:30.680
<v Speaker 3>Oh good cheating. It is so great. I know.

0:24:31.359 --> 0:24:32.680
<v Speaker 2>Good cheating all right.

0:24:32.760 --> 0:24:35.760
<v Speaker 1>So we've arrived in the North Shore and Eastern decides

0:24:35.800 --> 0:24:38.800
<v Speaker 1>that he wants to get a scooter scoot scoot, and

0:24:38.920 --> 0:24:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I told him a million and one times, I don't

0:24:41.080 --> 0:24:43.320
<v Speaker 1>like scooters. I don't have a good feeling about this.

0:24:43.480 --> 0:24:46.520
<v Speaker 1>And then my mom expressed it heavily. What's the thing

0:24:46.560 --> 0:24:47.560
<v Speaker 1>about scoot scoots?

0:24:47.920 --> 0:24:50.119
<v Speaker 3>You guys have a bad feeling about anything. If I

0:24:50.240 --> 0:24:52.000
<v Speaker 3>get in the ocean, you're gonna have a bad feeling

0:24:52.000 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 3>about me getting eaten by Cheryl.

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:57.200
<v Speaker 4>But I really really had a bad feeling. I really

0:24:57.320 --> 0:24:58.800
<v Speaker 4>drilled it into did I not.

0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:01.439
<v Speaker 3>Know you did? But it wasn't rain. I was going slow.

0:25:01.720 --> 0:25:03.080
<v Speaker 3>It was fifteen to twenty miles.

0:25:03.280 --> 0:25:06.040
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. Mom said, I have

0:25:06.200 --> 0:25:08.639
<v Speaker 1>a bad feeling. I don't want you on the scooter.

0:25:08.760 --> 0:25:11.200
<v Speaker 1>It's getting dark, it's blah blah blah.

0:25:11.240 --> 0:25:14.600
<v Speaker 2>So you didn't go. But the next day, the next day,

0:25:14.720 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 2>the next day.

0:25:15.400 --> 0:25:18.280
<v Speaker 3>I went. So I get my scoot. I'm having a blast.

0:25:18.320 --> 0:25:22.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm going into town. It's a two way or two

0:25:22.200 --> 0:25:22.840
<v Speaker 3>way way, two.

0:25:22.800 --> 0:25:26.520
<v Speaker 1>Way traffic coming opposite in traffic going where she so.

0:25:27.440 --> 0:25:29.359
<v Speaker 3>In Hawaii, there's a lot of pull offs to the

0:25:29.440 --> 0:25:32.119
<v Speaker 3>right where you can go to beaches and all of that. Well,

0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:34.640
<v Speaker 3>the car in front of me pulled off to the right,

0:25:34.720 --> 0:25:38.600
<v Speaker 3>and started slowing down, so I did the same. He

0:25:38.640 --> 0:25:41.719
<v Speaker 3>pulled out in front of the lane to parallel park

0:25:42.680 --> 0:25:47.159
<v Speaker 3>and or like back in, and I swung into oncoming

0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:51.439
<v Speaker 3>traffic to miss him. And there was oncoming traffic. So

0:25:52.160 --> 0:25:55.440
<v Speaker 3>the next thing I thought was lay it down, because

0:25:55.480 --> 0:25:57.440
<v Speaker 3>if I didn't, I was gonna go over the hood.

0:25:57.880 --> 0:26:00.879
<v Speaker 3>So I laid it down. I scraped up the whole back.

0:26:01.440 --> 0:26:05.920
<v Speaker 3>Once the like the bars hit it yanked my shoulder

0:26:05.960 --> 0:26:07.840
<v Speaker 3>out of place. I had to pop it back in

0:26:07.960 --> 0:26:12.159
<v Speaker 3>by itself. And meanwhile I'm asking everyone else if they're okay.

0:26:12.320 --> 0:26:15.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's classic Easton though. It's like he just got

0:26:15.160 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 1>wrecked on this scooter.

0:26:16.760 --> 0:26:20.359
<v Speaker 3>And it's called Beach Front, Beach House, Beach House.

0:26:20.400 --> 0:26:25.080
<v Speaker 1>It's a very very cute like outdoor restaurant. And Ethan

0:26:25.160 --> 0:26:27.320
<v Speaker 1>said most of the patio like flew out to the

0:26:27.359 --> 0:26:28.760
<v Speaker 1>street to make sure he was okay.

0:26:29.200 --> 0:26:31.119
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, which I really appreciate it.

0:26:31.200 --> 0:26:33.000
<v Speaker 3>No, it was great, But and then I was just

0:26:33.040 --> 0:26:35.320
<v Speaker 3>in shock, So I wasn't like just standing around. I

0:26:35.440 --> 0:26:37.840
<v Speaker 3>like got the scooter up, made sure everything was okay,

0:26:37.880 --> 0:26:39.560
<v Speaker 3>and then I just like started it and I go

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:41.879
<v Speaker 3>all right, I just left.

0:26:41.960 --> 0:26:44.560
<v Speaker 2>But at some point you went into shock and into

0:26:44.640 --> 0:26:45.639
<v Speaker 2>shock beach.

0:26:45.840 --> 0:26:48.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I went into shock, like while I was driving,

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:50.399
<v Speaker 3>and I knew I was in shock when like I

0:26:50.440 --> 0:26:54.479
<v Speaker 3>couldn't feel the wind on me while driving. That's when

0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:56.879
<v Speaker 3>I knew I was in shock. Holed over and I

0:26:56.960 --> 0:26:57.880
<v Speaker 3>laid down on.

0:26:57.880 --> 0:26:59.240
<v Speaker 2>Just like the grass.

0:26:59.320 --> 0:27:01.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just to catch your breath.

0:27:01.760 --> 0:27:03.960
<v Speaker 3>Just to catch my breath. So then after that, I

0:27:04.000 --> 0:27:08.080
<v Speaker 3>came home. Lauren, she goes. She yelled my name twice,

0:27:08.160 --> 0:27:10.239
<v Speaker 3>I guess, and then the third time screamed it and

0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:10.920
<v Speaker 3>I said what.

0:27:11.440 --> 0:27:13.439
<v Speaker 1>And because I heard the door open, I was like,

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:15.879
<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, someone is here to murder us because

0:27:15.880 --> 0:27:16.879
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't answering.

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:20.119
<v Speaker 2>And then when I came out, you looked shook up.

0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:21.199
<v Speaker 2>Your eyes were just like that.

0:27:21.400 --> 0:27:24.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I was like, y yeah, Well, I was just thinking, like,

0:27:24.840 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 3>of every the best scenario happened of laying it down,

0:27:28.119 --> 0:27:31.359
<v Speaker 3>it was either hitting somebody on coming and going into

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:34.320
<v Speaker 3>their windshield or going over the guy's hood and then

0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:38.040
<v Speaker 3>scraping more So I picked the best of it.

0:27:38.040 --> 0:27:39.680
<v Speaker 4>It's like you and you fall off the horse, you

0:27:39.720 --> 0:27:40.640
<v Speaker 4>gotta get right back.

0:27:40.720 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So I'm gonna get right back.

0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:43.800
<v Speaker 4>You got some major road rash.

0:27:43.960 --> 0:27:44.640
<v Speaker 3>It feels great.

0:27:44.800 --> 0:27:48.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, but Easton had even though that was a

0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:51.879
<v Speaker 1>rough day. Two days later, apparently he.

0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:52.640
<v Speaker 2>Lost his.

0:27:54.440 --> 0:27:58.160
<v Speaker 3>So I crashed so hard. I lost my airphone, my AirPod. Yeah,

0:27:58.320 --> 0:28:00.800
<v Speaker 3>so I lost my AirPod. So I was driving back

0:28:00.840 --> 0:28:03.280
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I am just gonna see it.

0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:07.719
<v Speaker 3>So I drive. I see the air pod on the ground.

0:28:07.840 --> 0:28:11.680
<v Speaker 3>It has weathered rain, so I grab it. I'm scootering

0:28:11.800 --> 0:28:14.640
<v Speaker 3>just holding my AirPod, airing it out. And as I'm

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:17.080
<v Speaker 3>doing that, I put it down. And as I put

0:28:17.080 --> 0:28:20.800
<v Speaker 3>it down, I see silver earring and it goes.

0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:22.960
<v Speaker 2>In my dreadlock and it has diamonds.

0:28:22.560 --> 0:28:25.480
<v Speaker 3>And it's a diamond. It's yours, That's why. And I

0:28:25.680 --> 0:28:30.359
<v Speaker 3>found that. I my gosh, I could have another day

0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:32.239
<v Speaker 3>just thinking about it.

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:35.959
<v Speaker 2>You guys. He was so excited that I looked at

0:28:36.000 --> 0:28:36.680
<v Speaker 2>him and I was like.

0:28:37.080 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 3>She goes, are you drinking drinking? But no, I was.

0:28:40.960 --> 0:28:43.479
<v Speaker 3>I can't tell you because I lost the one earring.

0:28:43.560 --> 0:28:45.960
<v Speaker 3>Don't know where it went. And I loved this one

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:48.200
<v Speaker 3>just because it was moms and it's sentimental to me.

0:28:48.280 --> 0:28:55.800
<v Speaker 4>Now, so ye are the chances of you finding.

0:28:53.720 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 3>And they're both yours because I bought you the AirPods

0:28:56.160 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 3>that you gave me back because you don't lose them.

0:28:57.960 --> 0:29:01.120
<v Speaker 3>Found your air pod, found your earring. Karma for you.

0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that you found everything, and I appreciate that

0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:05.880
<v Speaker 1>you got back on the horse or got back on

0:29:05.960 --> 0:29:06.400
<v Speaker 1>the scoot.

0:29:06.600 --> 0:29:16.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes, scoot scooto, lisaid her driving here.

0:29:16.160 --> 0:29:19.200
<v Speaker 1>So we have a mini We have a minivan, and

0:29:19.280 --> 0:29:23.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm actually so the day has come where I have

0:29:23.400 --> 0:29:26.240
<v Speaker 1>to give up the rain drover and I have to

0:29:26.240 --> 0:29:28.760
<v Speaker 1>give up the rain drover because it is a nightmare

0:29:28.840 --> 0:29:29.920
<v Speaker 1>with two children.

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 3>You don't even have a third row, and then the middle.

0:29:32.080 --> 0:29:36.320
<v Speaker 1>Seat is absolutely teeny tiny, and I just felt like

0:29:36.360 --> 0:29:38.120
<v Speaker 1>it was time to get a mom car.

0:29:38.240 --> 0:29:41.200
<v Speaker 3>Well, we were sick of taking two cars to dinner

0:29:41.240 --> 0:29:41.800
<v Speaker 3>as a family.

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:43.800
<v Speaker 1>Well we would take too, and then if we had

0:29:43.840 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 1>guests come into town, we were taking three.

0:29:46.400 --> 0:29:47.920
<v Speaker 2>Right, we were mobbing.

0:29:47.720 --> 0:29:51.959
<v Speaker 1>Deep all right, such a waste of gas and energy.

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:57.600
<v Speaker 1>And so I've been looking at mom cars and I

0:29:57.640 --> 0:29:58.520
<v Speaker 1>purchased one.

0:29:58.680 --> 0:30:01.240
<v Speaker 2>I got what did I get?

0:30:01.120 --> 0:30:05.960
<v Speaker 4>A terrifying Denali for me. I can't even know the

0:30:06.040 --> 0:30:06.600
<v Speaker 4>thing is.

0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:11.280
<v Speaker 3>Breaking massive, they don't. So the only person that drives

0:30:11.280 --> 0:30:14.160
<v Speaker 3>in this family is the one speaking right me, okay,

0:30:14.200 --> 0:30:14.760
<v Speaker 3>here and there.

0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:16.760
<v Speaker 4>That's the no shows.

0:30:17.800 --> 0:30:22.040
<v Speaker 3>You're a very good but I am not excited to

0:30:22.200 --> 0:30:23.960
<v Speaker 3>whip this tank.

0:30:24.120 --> 0:30:26.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna wait until all of Los Angeles is quiet,

0:30:26.840 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 1>and then I'm gonna go.

0:30:27.720 --> 0:30:31.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm running from six a m. To eight am and

0:30:31.120 --> 0:30:33.880
<v Speaker 3>then from eight pm to ten pm.

0:30:33.960 --> 0:30:36.640
<v Speaker 2>Yes, so I'm very excited for the Denali.

0:30:36.680 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 1>It's got like the Captain's chairs, It's got the TVs

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:41.560
<v Speaker 1>in the headress, it's got Wi Fi in it.

0:30:41.560 --> 0:30:44.080
<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be great third row, which is game changer.

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:47.080
<v Speaker 1>But we get to Hawaii and I decide that we're

0:30:47.080 --> 0:30:50.520
<v Speaker 1>going to get a minivan because it's just that seems easy,

0:30:51.160 --> 0:30:55.280
<v Speaker 1>and I am obsessed with this freaking mini van.

0:30:55.600 --> 0:30:57.520
<v Speaker 3>Shout out, Chrysler, what.

0:30:57.920 --> 0:30:58.880
<v Speaker 2>Kind of pacifica?

0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:02.120
<v Speaker 3>PACIFICA. I'm not kidding you. Once you're in the van,

0:31:02.680 --> 0:31:06.320
<v Speaker 3>you forget you're in it. No, And it is spacious.

0:31:05.920 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 1>Well, and we can park wherever because I don't have

0:31:07.960 --> 0:31:09.080
<v Speaker 1>to worry about door doors.

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:12.240
<v Speaker 3>And the other great thing is, oh, this is such

0:31:12.240 --> 0:31:14.920
<v Speaker 3>a dad thing. I can shut the doors by two

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:18.719
<v Speaker 3>buttons Easton, Can you shut the door? Better? Believe it?

0:31:18.840 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 2>By the way, though, You're gonna be a phenomenal dad.

0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 1>But all right, So I'm living for the Chrysler PACIFICA

0:31:27.520 --> 0:31:30.280
<v Speaker 1>and I tell mom, I'm like rent the minivan in

0:31:30.320 --> 0:31:33.880
<v Speaker 1>Hawaii because last year she booked too small of a

0:31:33.920 --> 0:31:35.640
<v Speaker 1>car and we all packed like we were going to

0:31:36.400 --> 0:31:37.560
<v Speaker 1>Paris Fashion Week.

0:31:37.600 --> 0:31:39.600
<v Speaker 3>He got us a Malibu the first that was the

0:31:39.640 --> 0:31:43.040
<v Speaker 3>first car upgrade from that the first time, right, gotta

0:31:43.240 --> 0:31:43.920
<v Speaker 3>yeah sedan.

0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I don't know what she was thinking.

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:48.320
<v Speaker 1>But this year we've got the two kids and we

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:51.040
<v Speaker 1>also like, I packed in a backpack and I'm so

0:31:51.080 --> 0:31:54.320
<v Speaker 1>proud of myself. I brought the least amount of luggage

0:31:54.400 --> 0:31:55.240
<v Speaker 1>out of everybody.

0:31:55.600 --> 0:31:59.200
<v Speaker 3>No, you really did, Yeah you did. I think I'm

0:31:59.200 --> 0:32:01.120
<v Speaker 3>on your train. The only reason why I had an

0:32:01.160 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 3>extra bag was because of all the material I had to.

0:32:03.560 --> 0:32:04.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh, the podcast equipment.

0:32:04.920 --> 0:32:08.240
<v Speaker 1>Will you next year only need to packing because you've

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:10.200
<v Speaker 1>literally been wearing it every Well same with me.

0:32:10.320 --> 0:32:12.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm bringing this and then I'll buy another one

0:32:12.280 --> 0:32:15.000
<v Speaker 3>when I get here, and then I'm three swimsuits. That's it.

0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:15.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:32:15.840 --> 0:32:18.880
<v Speaker 1>So Lisa calls to get I think it was insurance

0:32:18.960 --> 0:32:23.680
<v Speaker 1>or something on the mini van and the woman's like, well,

0:32:23.720 --> 0:32:26.320
<v Speaker 1>we don't cover vans, and my mom's like, what do

0:32:26.360 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 1>you mean you don't cover vans, and they're like, you know,

0:32:29.520 --> 0:32:31.760
<v Speaker 1>we don't cover things that have what was it like.

0:32:31.760 --> 0:32:33.840
<v Speaker 4>Three duel wheels?

0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:35.479
<v Speaker 2>Anything for moving?

0:32:37.000 --> 0:32:38.800
<v Speaker 3>Mom goes, can we get a van? And that's when

0:32:38.800 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 3>she goes, we don't cover anything, and she goes, well,

0:32:40.640 --> 0:32:44.800
<v Speaker 3>like a move a mini van? Said, The girl goes, well,

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:49.880
<v Speaker 3>we don't really ensure moving vans. She thought we were

0:32:49.920 --> 0:32:52.080
<v Speaker 3>just flying a Hawaii to just rent a moving van.

0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:54.480
<v Speaker 3>Could you imagine.

0:32:54.120 --> 0:32:56.360
<v Speaker 2>Lisa driving a moving van?

0:32:57.240 --> 0:32:59.200
<v Speaker 3>No, I backed into her own car.

0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:04.080
<v Speaker 2>She should have seen her. You guys, driving the minivan.

0:33:04.560 --> 0:33:07.040
<v Speaker 2>It jars, Okay, it jars.

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:09.960
<v Speaker 1>You to a stop the one time, the one time

0:33:09.960 --> 0:33:11.880
<v Speaker 1>that our tiny little street that we stay.

0:33:11.680 --> 0:33:12.840
<v Speaker 2>On as anything.

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:16.360
<v Speaker 3>FYI, I'm not driving and I'm not in the car.

0:33:16.440 --> 0:33:17.360
<v Speaker 3>This is why it's happening.

0:33:17.640 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 2>And I'm hungry as fuck.

0:33:19.520 --> 0:33:22.720
<v Speaker 1>So I'm like thrilled that she's driving, because this would

0:33:22.760 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 1>have pissed me off rather than made me laugh hysterically.

0:33:26.400 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 1>Tons of people are today surfboards, people pushing their children,

0:33:30.480 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>and she they're waiting for her to back up, and

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:36.040
<v Speaker 1>there's not a lot of room between the driveway and

0:33:36.120 --> 0:33:37.920
<v Speaker 1>like the end of the street, right, and then it's

0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:44.040
<v Speaker 1>just like trees and plants. She backs up, jars, pulls

0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:48.280
<v Speaker 1>back in, does it again, Jars does forward. Every single

0:33:48.320 --> 0:33:53.800
<v Speaker 1>person is laughing hysterically. Okay, And it didn't end there

0:33:53.800 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 1>because she did it.

0:33:54.440 --> 0:33:55.480
<v Speaker 2>She did it three more.

0:33:55.320 --> 0:33:59.440
<v Speaker 1>Times, a total of five pull ins, pull outs, and jars.

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:04.400
<v Speaker 3>She knows there's a steering wheel. You can turn right, Lisa,

0:34:04.480 --> 0:34:08.240
<v Speaker 3>we're missing you out here, Damn.

0:34:08.920 --> 0:34:11.919
<v Speaker 1>I always try to plan the pot around Sosa's nap time,

0:34:11.960 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 1>but she's still a little off schedule with the time change. Yeah,

0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:18.279
<v Speaker 1>and like, I just think the podcast does better when

0:34:18.320 --> 0:34:20.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm on it. Otherwise I would have left the two

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:22.680
<v Speaker 1>of you to do it. Who knows, maybe people will

0:34:22.719 --> 0:34:26.360
<v Speaker 1>disagree for you, people would say we want Lisa instead.

0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:27.480
<v Speaker 3>If they.

0:34:29.320 --> 0:34:31.720
<v Speaker 2>No, this has been the funnest.

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:33.680
<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you something about our trips to Hawaii.

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:36.920
<v Speaker 1>The thing that's great about it is we wake up

0:34:36.960 --> 0:34:38.800
<v Speaker 1>and there is arrow pressure.

0:34:38.920 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 2>And we've talked about this as a family before. We

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:42.640
<v Speaker 2>are chillers.

0:34:43.080 --> 0:34:45.560
<v Speaker 1>We are not the type of people to sit there

0:34:45.600 --> 0:34:50.160
<v Speaker 1>and be like, Sunday, we're going out on a boat Sunday.

0:34:50.239 --> 0:34:51.400
<v Speaker 2>Do I say Sunday? Ready?

0:34:51.520 --> 0:34:52.360
<v Speaker 3>You said Sunday.

0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:56.239
<v Speaker 1>But we can say you're going out on Sunday. We're

0:34:56.280 --> 0:34:59.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna go uh start at Saturday.

0:35:01.520 --> 0:35:04.600
<v Speaker 2>Monday, we're gonna do Sharks Cup. Like, we're just not planners.

0:35:04.719 --> 0:35:06.200
<v Speaker 2>We wake up and we see how we feel.

0:35:06.440 --> 0:35:09.360
<v Speaker 3>I may plan that on Monday. If it's Friday, I

0:35:09.440 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 3>may plan something on Monday that sounds so great that

0:35:12.040 --> 0:35:14.640
<v Speaker 3>I would do on Friday. But when Monday rolls around,

0:35:14.880 --> 0:35:17.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to do that anymore. So I don't

0:35:17.120 --> 0:35:17.760
<v Speaker 3>make plans.

0:35:18.160 --> 0:35:19.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're just not planners.

0:35:20.000 --> 0:35:22.160
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's what I love about this trip,

0:35:22.200 --> 0:35:25.879
<v Speaker 1>and this instead of ten days, we extended to two

0:35:25.960 --> 0:35:30.480
<v Speaker 1>full weeks. Next year, I'm going to I think I

0:35:30.480 --> 0:35:32.960
<v Speaker 1>could try to do a month. I want to do

0:35:32.960 --> 0:35:35.640
<v Speaker 1>at least three weeks next year. And the reason for

0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:38.760
<v Speaker 1>that is it flies by, and there's so many days

0:35:38.920 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 1>that there are times where we just wake up, we

0:35:41.280 --> 0:35:43.200
<v Speaker 1>chill around this house, and then we go out and

0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:45.680
<v Speaker 1>just lay on the beach. And there's so many little

0:35:45.719 --> 0:35:49.560
<v Speaker 1>funny moments that happen, like Ocean finding a gecko for

0:35:49.600 --> 0:35:53.560
<v Speaker 1>the first time, or Lisa's sitting on this couch and

0:35:54.280 --> 0:35:57.040
<v Speaker 1>Ocean puts her hand on her leg and.

0:35:56.960 --> 0:36:03.840
<v Speaker 2>Says, your your leg feels like cac so shop. So

0:36:03.920 --> 0:36:05.080
<v Speaker 2>Nick and Joe are here again.

0:36:05.160 --> 0:36:08.120
<v Speaker 1>We were hanging out with them last year and Nick

0:36:08.760 --> 0:36:12.319
<v Speaker 1>bought Ocean and So said, these pink sweat outfits that

0:36:12.440 --> 0:36:13.560
<v Speaker 1>say Spice Girls on it.

0:36:14.040 --> 0:36:15.280
<v Speaker 2>So Ocean didn't know who.

0:36:15.120 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 1>The Spice Girls were. I show her Spice Girls. She's

0:36:18.800 --> 0:36:20.839
<v Speaker 1>now obsessed. I'm going to post a video of her

0:36:20.920 --> 0:36:26.360
<v Speaker 1>doing the stop right now. Yeah, it is absolutely adorable.

0:36:26.840 --> 0:36:29.440
<v Speaker 1>The fact that my child now knows who the Spice

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:32.920
<v Speaker 1>Girls are. She knows about TLC. She will watch No

0:36:33.000 --> 0:36:38.040
<v Speaker 1>Scrubs on YouTube and say to Easton, that's left eye

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:39.080
<v Speaker 1>and she died.

0:36:39.640 --> 0:36:40.600
<v Speaker 3>Left eye died.

0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:42.760
<v Speaker 2>And it's so sad.

0:36:43.040 --> 0:36:46.359
<v Speaker 3>She was so cool and point and she not her

0:36:46.960 --> 0:36:48.440
<v Speaker 3>nor her.

0:36:48.440 --> 0:36:49.319
<v Speaker 2>Left eye I know.

0:36:49.400 --> 0:36:51.279
<v Speaker 1>And the other day she was sitting here and we

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:53.200
<v Speaker 1>were watching because that's her favorite song right now is

0:36:53.239 --> 0:36:55.960
<v Speaker 1>No Scrubs. She goes, Chili pops on the screen and

0:36:55.960 --> 0:37:00.040
<v Speaker 1>she goes, mom, I don't look like her, and I

0:37:00.040 --> 0:37:03.279
<v Speaker 1>I was like, my child's getting I didn't think that

0:37:03.360 --> 0:37:05.719
<v Speaker 1>it would be so young that my child would know

0:37:05.800 --> 0:37:10.520
<v Speaker 1>that Gigi's not supposed to have prickly legs, that Ocean

0:37:10.719 --> 0:37:13.560
<v Speaker 1>is looking at girls and wanting to like look like them.

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:14.919
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, Yep.

0:37:14.960 --> 0:37:17.879
<v Speaker 1>She watches the Spice Girls, and she knows exactly which

0:37:17.880 --> 0:37:20.520
<v Speaker 1>one she wants to be. She does the whole dance.

0:37:20.960 --> 0:37:24.160
<v Speaker 1>It's crazy how fast time goes. And I think that's

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:27.240
<v Speaker 1>another reason why I'm like two weeks is not long enough,

0:37:27.400 --> 0:37:30.880
<v Speaker 1>Like we need to extend to create more memories. You

0:37:30.920 --> 0:37:32.759
<v Speaker 1>want to know what else this trip has brought, which

0:37:32.800 --> 0:37:36.200
<v Speaker 1>I've never done before, is so Ocean is a nightmare

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:38.200
<v Speaker 1>when she doesn't have a nap, which I think a

0:37:38.239 --> 0:37:39.840
<v Speaker 1>lot of parents can relate to.

0:37:39.920 --> 0:37:41.880
<v Speaker 2>It's like, you know the days where your child got

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:42.719
<v Speaker 2>enough sleep.

0:37:42.800 --> 0:37:45.960
<v Speaker 1>And Ocean naps at school, and she's like a different

0:37:46.040 --> 0:37:49.239
<v Speaker 1>child on those days. She it's really hard for me

0:37:49.280 --> 0:37:52.319
<v Speaker 1>to get her down for naps. So on this day,

0:37:52.960 --> 0:37:58.359
<v Speaker 1>she was not kind and we were going into town

0:37:59.280 --> 0:38:02.880
<v Speaker 1>and she had been screaming, I hate you, and she

0:38:03.000 --> 0:38:05.680
<v Speaker 1>had been screaming to go away, and I just like

0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:07.319
<v Speaker 1>I had to put my foot down at some point.

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:11.840
<v Speaker 1>It's the first time that I've really actually stuck to

0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:15.440
<v Speaker 1>my guns. And she wanted an ice cream with the

0:38:15.480 --> 0:38:15.800
<v Speaker 1>rest of it.

0:38:15.920 --> 0:38:18.839
<v Speaker 3>Well, like we talked about you, there has to be

0:38:19.200 --> 0:38:21.600
<v Speaker 3>the visual as well. Well.

0:38:21.680 --> 0:38:22.800
<v Speaker 2>I gave her the visual.

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:26.520
<v Speaker 1>We all got icys, and of course we shared with her,

0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:29.759
<v Speaker 1>but she was like sitting at the menu and she

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:32.359
<v Speaker 1>was so excited. But I had told her, Oh my god,

0:38:32.400 --> 0:38:32.840
<v Speaker 1>don't do that.

0:38:32.840 --> 0:38:35.839
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna cry. No, I felt so.

0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:38.640
<v Speaker 3>I felt so because you're a great mom. And guess what,

0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:41.680
<v Speaker 3>being a great mom comes with discipline. And it sucks

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:43.920
<v Speaker 3>that you had to do that, but you either create

0:38:44.040 --> 0:38:47.120
<v Speaker 3>this monster that you give everything to. You have to

0:38:47.160 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 3>be a mother and tell your child. Now, that's the

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 3>hardest thing about being a mother is saying no to

0:38:51.120 --> 0:38:54.439
<v Speaker 3>your child. It really is. So what you had to do.

0:38:54.680 --> 0:38:56.640
<v Speaker 3>A lot of moms have to do a lot of

0:38:56.920 --> 0:39:00.120
<v Speaker 3>There are so many moms that I now know that

0:39:00.000 --> 0:39:03.120
<v Speaker 3>that will discipline their child, go into their room and

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:06.719
<v Speaker 3>ball because they did not want to. Yeah, so that

0:39:06.840 --> 0:39:09.279
<v Speaker 3>was God every mom, And that's the thing. You have

0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:11.319
<v Speaker 3>to do it with your child. If you don't, we're

0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:15.239
<v Speaker 3>gonna have just a whole bunch of undisciplined children and

0:39:15.280 --> 0:39:18.440
<v Speaker 3>it's going to be a nightmare. So you have to discipline.

0:39:18.440 --> 0:39:20.480
<v Speaker 3>And as bad as it is, you did very well.

0:39:20.640 --> 0:39:23.200
<v Speaker 3>You disciplined her. You let her know why she wasn't

0:39:23.239 --> 0:39:26.319
<v Speaker 3>getting ice cream while we were eating. You let her

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:29.839
<v Speaker 3>know why, and then she was acting well and then

0:39:29.960 --> 0:39:32.319
<v Speaker 3>she deserves some bites, so then she got some. But

0:39:32.440 --> 0:39:33.200
<v Speaker 3>that was a visual.

0:39:33.400 --> 0:39:36.439
<v Speaker 1>She's been very good and I told her, I said,

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:37.960
<v Speaker 1>you have to take a nap today, and she's had

0:39:38.040 --> 0:39:40.960
<v Speaker 1>one in the past two days. And she says, I

0:39:40.960 --> 0:39:43.319
<v Speaker 1>don't want to, and I say, Ocean, when you don't

0:39:43.320 --> 0:39:46.040
<v Speaker 1>get a nap, you're not very kind. So I want

0:39:46.080 --> 0:39:47.799
<v Speaker 1>you to go lay in our bed and just like

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:51.640
<v Speaker 1>just have quiet time at least, and then she knocks out.

0:39:51.719 --> 0:39:55.080
<v Speaker 1>She wakes up and tells me, Mom, I had a

0:39:55.200 --> 0:39:57.800
<v Speaker 1>nap today. That's why I'm going to be so kind.

0:39:58.719 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 2>So she does know.

0:40:00.160 --> 0:40:03.160
<v Speaker 1>But I think it's that piled on with the post

0:40:03.360 --> 0:40:06.600
<v Speaker 1>about the teeth and people like like people wrote about

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:09.880
<v Speaker 1>me as like a parent, and like the message that

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:11.520
<v Speaker 1>I send in here's the thing, you guys, can people

0:40:11.560 --> 0:40:13.279
<v Speaker 1>can say or write about whatever they want when it

0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:15.759
<v Speaker 1>comes to like me as a person. But I think

0:40:15.800 --> 0:40:21.120
<v Speaker 1>anyone with kids, when you start commenting or putting judgment

0:40:21.640 --> 0:40:29.200
<v Speaker 1>on mine someone else's, it's it's like very disorienting. And

0:40:29.239 --> 0:40:33.560
<v Speaker 1>then people talking about because I refer to so says

0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:37.120
<v Speaker 1>my dream baby, and people even taking that as far

0:40:37.160 --> 0:40:40.200
<v Speaker 1>as to say in the comments section that like how

0:40:40.239 --> 0:40:45.360
<v Speaker 1>would how would you feel being ocean and saying things

0:40:45.360 --> 0:40:48.080
<v Speaker 1>like that, and I'm like, yeah, why is everyone making

0:40:48.120 --> 0:40:51.160
<v Speaker 1>a thing out of nothing? Like ocean is is such

0:40:51.239 --> 0:40:52.280
<v Speaker 1>my golden.

0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:54.399
<v Speaker 3>Child kids, I was gonna say, you can't just call

0:40:54.400 --> 0:40:57.200
<v Speaker 3>them both your golden children. And one is the golden child,

0:40:57.480 --> 0:41:01.839
<v Speaker 3>one is your dream baby, they're both. You want both.

0:41:01.880 --> 0:41:04.120
<v Speaker 3>You want a great dream and we all want some goal.

0:41:04.360 --> 0:41:07.880
<v Speaker 1>And she's my golden child because of number one what

0:41:07.920 --> 0:41:10.080
<v Speaker 1>we experience. But she's like the kid who made me

0:41:10.120 --> 0:41:13.880
<v Speaker 1>a mom. She's so freaking spicy and so freaking sweet

0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:15.400
<v Speaker 1>all at the same time.

0:41:15.800 --> 0:41:17.560
<v Speaker 3>Like I'm gonna interrupt you because I feel like a

0:41:17.560 --> 0:41:19.880
<v Speaker 3>lot of people don't see it because it's not on film,

0:41:20.160 --> 0:41:22.640
<v Speaker 3>but I see it, and I know Gigi does. When

0:41:22.719 --> 0:41:25.359
<v Speaker 3>you see ocean, Yes, when you see Sosa, you have

0:41:25.520 --> 0:41:28.600
<v Speaker 3>a light in your eye. Yeah, but there is times

0:41:28.600 --> 0:41:30.799
<v Speaker 3>where I see you look at ocean and there's no

0:41:30.960 --> 0:41:35.160
<v Speaker 3>other light that I've seen you like that bright and

0:41:35.480 --> 0:41:39.880
<v Speaker 3>you can tell but ocean is very special to you.

0:41:40.200 --> 0:41:42.440
<v Speaker 3>And I don't know what people see or think, but

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:45.960
<v Speaker 3>I witness waking up in the morning with everyone and

0:41:46.000 --> 0:41:48.680
<v Speaker 3>I see her walking out, and I see you and

0:41:49.280 --> 0:41:51.520
<v Speaker 3>the way you look, and you never look like that

0:41:51.880 --> 0:41:54.920
<v Speaker 3>in any other situation. And I know that that is

0:41:55.000 --> 0:41:56.600
<v Speaker 3>because of your golden child.

0:41:56.800 --> 0:42:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I feel like Sosa is the dream baby

0:42:00.120 --> 0:42:04.520
<v Speaker 1>because she didn't. She wasn't the product of just like

0:42:04.920 --> 0:42:08.040
<v Speaker 1>two people falling in love and pro creating or a

0:42:08.040 --> 0:42:10.080
<v Speaker 1>one night stand. It was like she was the dream

0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:13.040
<v Speaker 1>baby because I thought so hard on her and thought,

0:42:13.600 --> 0:42:15.680
<v Speaker 1>how am I going to make this happen? I really

0:42:15.680 --> 0:42:18.360
<v Speaker 1>want a baby on my own, but how do I like,

0:42:18.640 --> 0:42:19.600
<v Speaker 1>how do I do it?

0:42:19.680 --> 0:42:21.360
<v Speaker 3>And then without a man's right?

0:42:21.760 --> 0:42:25.439
<v Speaker 1>So when she arrived and she's healthy and happy and

0:42:26.360 --> 0:42:29.240
<v Speaker 1>this structure that I've created, it's like wow, Like I

0:42:29.239 --> 0:42:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I had dreams about this moment of expanding my family

0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:34.719
<v Speaker 1>by myself, and we did it.

0:42:35.200 --> 0:42:37.520
<v Speaker 2>So I don't know how we got taken. Oh, we

0:42:37.600 --> 0:42:40.200
<v Speaker 2>got taken on that term because I had a discipline ocean.

0:42:40.400 --> 0:42:42.960
<v Speaker 2>And then like all the comments I'm like, feel like

0:42:43.120 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 2>not a good parent.

0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:46.959
<v Speaker 3>No, you're an amazing parent. And to every other mom

0:42:47.000 --> 0:42:49.439
<v Speaker 3>out there that feels the same, You're all doing well.

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:52.680
<v Speaker 3>There's no manual. Every kid comes different. You just swing

0:42:52.760 --> 0:42:56.440
<v Speaker 3>the bat and no, hopefully ye make some contact and

0:42:56.800 --> 0:43:00.000
<v Speaker 3>you're doing well in this little game called life.

0:43:00.239 --> 0:43:03.880
<v Speaker 1>No, I know, And it's like important because it's like

0:43:03.960 --> 0:43:06.600
<v Speaker 1>the other day or yesterday we went to Shark's Cove,

0:43:06.600 --> 0:43:08.440
<v Speaker 1>and there's so many things that I want Ocean to

0:43:08.520 --> 0:43:10.200
<v Speaker 1>experience because I'm like, I want her to have the

0:43:10.200 --> 0:43:12.560
<v Speaker 1>best time. I want her to talk about this forever.

0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:17.080
<v Speaker 1>And honestly, it's the tiniest of things, her going into

0:43:17.080 --> 0:43:21.040
<v Speaker 1>the water and like looking at the fish. The biggest

0:43:21.080 --> 0:43:23.839
<v Speaker 1>thing she remembered was getting out of the water and

0:43:23.880 --> 0:43:25.920
<v Speaker 1>a crab, a tiny little black.

0:43:25.680 --> 0:43:27.319
<v Speaker 2>Crab like ran across the rock.

0:43:27.480 --> 0:43:30.759
<v Speaker 1>It's the tiniest things that they remember. And I feel

0:43:30.760 --> 0:43:35.600
<v Speaker 1>like so much pressure on ourselves as parents in general,

0:43:36.360 --> 0:43:40.160
<v Speaker 1>and like, I hope she's gonna remember coming to Hawaii

0:43:40.239 --> 0:43:41.240
<v Speaker 1>when she gets older.

0:43:41.640 --> 0:43:43.400
<v Speaker 2>She is starting to have memories.

0:43:43.600 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think back on a lot of things that

0:43:46.040 --> 0:43:48.120
<v Speaker 3>mom and Dad used to talk to us about, like

0:43:48.200 --> 0:43:50.759
<v Speaker 3>trips when we were young. I don't remember any of

0:43:50.800 --> 0:43:54.600
<v Speaker 3>those extravagant trips. I remember like bits and pieces of

0:43:54.680 --> 0:43:57.880
<v Speaker 3>like being nowhere yes with family, and I'm like, I

0:43:57.920 --> 0:44:00.759
<v Speaker 3>remember that that was great. It's like put pressure, like

0:44:00.800 --> 0:44:03.759
<v Speaker 3>you said to do these extravagant things for hope and

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<v Speaker 3>hope that your kid remembers it. And it's like just

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:09.600
<v Speaker 3>you being a family. There's going to be moments that

0:44:09.640 --> 0:44:11.480
<v Speaker 3>your kid is going to remember. And that's all you

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<v Speaker 3>gotta do is just be a family and do the

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<v Speaker 3>things around. Your kids are gonna get amazing experiences being

0:44:17.719 --> 0:44:20.880
<v Speaker 3>with family. Yeah, you don't have to do jet skiing,

0:44:20.920 --> 0:44:22.759
<v Speaker 3>you don't have to go crazy, go lay on a

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<v Speaker 3>beach with some pineapple and hang because that's the other

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<v Speaker 3>thing I remember more of, like the beach with dad

0:44:30.040 --> 0:44:34.680
<v Speaker 3>just sipping his vodka lemonades when cheese dog. But like

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<v Speaker 3>we would go to Disneyland, think of that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember ever.

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<v Speaker 3>Going to Disneyland exactly. Do you want to know? The

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<v Speaker 3>one thing the rust in that car ride. That is

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<v Speaker 3>the only thing I don't remember Disneyland. I remember almost

0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:48.879
<v Speaker 3>getting there. That's it. But that's the experience. Don't put

0:44:48.880 --> 0:44:52.239
<v Speaker 3>your just live life. Your kids are going to get

0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:54.960
<v Speaker 3>experiences just through family.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree with that.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That was so beautifully set Easton.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just don't put pressure. I hate when families

0:45:02.239 --> 0:45:04.760
<v Speaker 3>put pressure. You're doing it for the wrong reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's I think.

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<v Speaker 1>What's so annoying is I feel like in my life

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<v Speaker 1>there are so many things that I look at and

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<v Speaker 1>I go, damn it, I wish I would have done

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<v Speaker 1>that differently, I wish I were better at this. And

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<v Speaker 1>then when I think about myself as a mom, of

0:45:17.920 --> 0:45:20.040
<v Speaker 1>course there are moments where I'm like, ugh, I was

0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:22.600
<v Speaker 1>too hard on Ocean today, or I could have held

0:45:22.640 --> 0:45:24.440
<v Speaker 1>so some more, I feel like I didn't hold her

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<v Speaker 1>enough to day, Like, there are moments, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like when I look at the overall picture of like

0:45:28.960 --> 0:45:31.640
<v Speaker 1>being a parent, I'm like, it's the one place that

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<v Speaker 1>I can confidently say, like, I'm doing pretty much now.

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<v Speaker 3>You do your kids go to sleep and with teeth

0:45:37.800 --> 0:45:41.440
<v Speaker 3>brushed and love? Yes, do they wake up and have breakfast?

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<v Speaker 3>You're doing fucking great.

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<v Speaker 1>Ocean's big thing right now, you guys, is to tell

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<v Speaker 1>everyone that her mom doesn't feed her. Who does Ocean,

0:45:48.719 --> 0:45:51.279
<v Speaker 1>Cause you get an f because you did not feed

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<v Speaker 1>me today?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, no, Ocean, just didn't you just chose

0:45:55.680 --> 0:45:59.200
<v Speaker 2>to you? I did feed you.

0:45:59.200 --> 0:46:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Your only thinking about when you came out of your

0:46:02.000 --> 0:46:04.920
<v Speaker 1>room for the seventeenth time at eleven o'clock and wanted

0:46:04.920 --> 0:46:08.640
<v Speaker 1>a marshmallow, And I told you, no, you're not remembering

0:46:08.640 --> 0:46:10.800
<v Speaker 1>the full dinner that I gave you at a decent hour.

0:46:10.960 --> 0:46:12.640
<v Speaker 1>And I've now been trying to put you to bed

0:46:12.800 --> 0:46:16.799
<v Speaker 1>for the past four hours, and all she can remember there, Oh,

0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:17.520
<v Speaker 1>here she comes.

0:46:17.320 --> 0:46:21.000
<v Speaker 3>Oh, here comes brickflet boom, Ocean.

0:46:21.360 --> 0:46:23.480
<v Speaker 2>I was just talking about you and the Spice girls.

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<v Speaker 3>Who's your favorite? What Carr?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think she knows the name yet, she can

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<v Speaker 2>only point them out that later. Who's your favorite of TLC?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have a favorite of TLC? So there?

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a lot of areas, but this, this trip

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<v Speaker 1>to Hawaii again is one of the most amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Again.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to extend our trip next year. And it

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<v Speaker 1>took as much as I love doing the pot, it

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<v Speaker 1>did take a lot for me to get on this

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<v Speaker 1>mic right now because all I want to do is

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:56.080
<v Speaker 1>go jump in the same But I.

0:46:56.040 --> 0:46:58.400
<v Speaker 3>Do love doing it here because I feel like everybody

0:46:58.400 --> 0:46:59.920
<v Speaker 3>gets to come on vacation with us.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm so happy to have you and I'm

0:47:02.400 --> 0:47:04.000
<v Speaker 1>gonna take you guys with me throughout the day.

0:47:04.040 --> 0:47:04.400
<v Speaker 2>Ocean.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want to tell them and who you're gonna

0:47:07.160 --> 0:47:08.080
<v Speaker 3>go and see? Today.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you see yesterday? My love? Come tell everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>At first three sea turnels.

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<v Speaker 1>Three sea turtles, Oh my gosh, and what are and

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<v Speaker 1>what are you gonna do today? See Summer That's exactly right,

0:47:25.040 --> 0:47:28.280
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna go see Summer Moon today.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, I wanna You're welcome. I love you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to thank you guys for tuning in to

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<v Speaker 1>another episode of the Give Them La La podcast from Hawaii.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taking you all with me today and I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>catch you guys on Monday for the bonus, and then again.

0:47:45.800 --> 0:47:48.759
<v Speaker 2>Next week on Wednesday. You can see this video.

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<v Speaker 1>It drops Friday on nine am Pacific time. I love

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, have a the great rest of the week.

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<v Speaker 1>BA