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Speaker 1: Hello, hot angel faces, we are coming to you.

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Speaker 2: Live from Hawaii North Shore.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna expect some hula tunes from off key.

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Speaker 1: Just say hi, my love, Hi man, Hi baby, you guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome back to the Give them All a Podcast. I

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Speaker 1: this was really really hard to do because I wake

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Speaker 1: up and I look outside and just the vibe makes

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Speaker 1: me want to put a swimsuit on, shut out.

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Speaker 2: The world and do nothing all the live long day.

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Speaker 3: I apologize for making you do this.

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Speaker 2: No, I love doing the podcast.

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Speaker 1: There's just something about the environment in Hawaii, like yesterday

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Speaker 1: or over there.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to work, ever, No.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I want to open up a food truck and decide

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Speaker 1: the days that I want to be open that they've

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Speaker 1: got it figured out.

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Speaker 4: And I don't even want to do a food truck.

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Speaker 2: I want to move, do you Sorry?

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Speaker 1: You guys, This pot is maybe a little bit chaotic

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Speaker 1: because we're obviously when you watch the YouTube video that

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Speaker 1: drops Friday, you'll see that we're in our amazing home

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Speaker 1: with the most fantastic view. Ocean has found seashells that

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Speaker 1: she wants to run under the water. So you may

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Speaker 1: have a little voice popping in you may hear babies crying,

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Speaker 1: but you know what, it's all good. I want you

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Speaker 1: to mentally just be on the beach right now. I

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Speaker 1: have Easton obviously, I have my mother.

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Speaker 2: Who did you have a list of things you want

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Speaker 2: to talk about?

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Speaker 4: I do have a list, but I got to get

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Speaker 4: my phone. I forgot my phone.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. She's a rookie.

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Speaker 1: So since we last spoke to you, guys, it was Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: and I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving that was

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Speaker 1: just full of thanks and love and full bellies and giving.

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Speaker 1: I know that sometimes the holidays roll around, and we've

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Speaker 1: spoken about this before t T where it's like once

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Speaker 1: you are in this zone of like you're now the parent,

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Speaker 1: so you are the one that's having to figure out

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Speaker 1: the Thanksgiving menu, or you're the one who's trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out like what gifts are from Jijs, what gifts

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Speaker 1: are from me? We all want to stay clean. I

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Speaker 1: don't really want to give credit to Santa Claus. I

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Speaker 1: spoke about that last year. I'm like, I'm buying great

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Speaker 1: gifts from Santa, but Mom wants the credit. So I

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Speaker 1: know that the holidays they take a shift as you

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Speaker 1: get older and your families grow. But I think overall

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Speaker 1: we had a great Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 3: Truly it was the best. Yeah, it was the best.

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Speaker 2: What was your favorite part about it?

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Speaker 4: Mom? It was like local, it was not pressure.

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Speaker 3: See. That's what I've loved about our Thanksgivings and holidays

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Speaker 3: is I feel like everybody puts such a we need

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Speaker 3: to make it of the experience and what is it

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Speaker 3: a rich We have to make it a ritual, so

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Speaker 3: it has to be great every year it has to

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Speaker 2: Ritual something that like, uh, which is s do? I

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Speaker 2: think it's tradition, our tradition. Oh, it is okay to

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Speaker 3: Whatever it may be. But I feel like so many

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Speaker 3: their kids, and it's like, you're you're reaching too far.

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Speaker 3: Just no plans are the best plans.

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Speaker 1: Can I tell you why it feels different for me?

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Speaker 1: Do tell because the holidays just hit it differently.

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Speaker 2: When I don't wake up and get a buzz on.

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Speaker 3: I got a.

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Speaker 1: Starla, it just doesn't have to say it was like

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Speaker 2: Did you get a placebo effect?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? It was a great day.

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Speaker 1: So we popped bottles on Thanksgiving, we popped Starla sparkling

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Speaker 1: be awake, and you had like these special hand painted

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Speaker 2: What are they called calm?

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Speaker 1: What is the flutes?

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Speaker 2: No, the glasses that are short, what do you call them?

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Speaker 1: I just call them short glasses? Short cocktail glasses. And

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Speaker 1: it was just like with the stems, right, No, that's

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Speaker 3: Oh, because that was my favorite because then you'd pick

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Speaker 4: You're talking about a wine glass, yeah, or like a flue, yes.

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Speaker 2: But there's something.

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Speaker 1: There was something about having dad make me that first

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Speaker 1: let's effing go, bitch.

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Speaker 3: No, that's the one thing that I got of land

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Speaker 3: and just sitting there just looking at his tragger, looking

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Speaker 2: Landon cooked the turkey.

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Speaker 3: For us and it was fantastic.

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Speaker 2: What were you in charge of, mom?

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Speaker 4: Sweet potatoes?

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Speaker 2: They were fantastic this year. Thank you, Lisa.

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Speaker 4: I trippled the topping this year.

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Speaker 1: A good choice is my favorite for the people who

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Speaker 1: have written in to say, like, please send me the

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Speaker 1: recipe for the sweet potatoes your mom makes that you

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Speaker 1: guys rave about and I wish that I could, But

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Speaker 1: you don't even follow a recipe? Do you just kind

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Speaker 4: No, I have a recipe we can post.

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Speaker 1: Really, yeah, I'd really appreciate that, because people ask all

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Speaker 1: the time. I was in charge of the green beans

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Speaker 1: and carrots, and they were Mam Pratt and Joe, you.

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Speaker 4: Did a phenomenal job on that.

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Speaker 3: You really did, You really did. They were fantastic.

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Speaker 1: I added butter and olive oil and just so they're.

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Speaker 3: All whipping and stuff. And you literally cut a carrot

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Speaker 2: You're such a dick.

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Speaker 3: I didn't do anything.

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Speaker 1: We know, shocker standard for Easton sit around and look

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Speaker 3: I sit around the pretty thing.

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Speaker 1: So I decided because I dressed Sosa up in this

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Speaker 1: me and she said, I got this for Cam last year,

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Speaker 3: All I do know is there's some mayhem going on

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Speaker 3: And I just.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't drop the sea glass and the guards.

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Speaker 2: Don't worry about it. But go on, we'll get Lisa.

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Speaker 4: She's I want the sea glass.

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Speaker 1: So I post this carousel. We'll get you your sea glass.

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Speaker 1: I post this carousel of photos and I'm so proud

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Speaker 1: I just couldn't make it look like it wasn't super

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Speaker 1: it almost immediately. And by the way, when did that

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Speaker 1: accident happen with Ocean? I spoke about it on the podcast.

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Speaker 4: Oh months ago.

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Speaker 2: It was before school started in lie so it probably

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Speaker 1: June where Ocean fell face first on her bike, not

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Speaker 2: And I got a text that just said like, hey,

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Speaker 2: by the way, where was it at my dad's house?

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Speaker 2: That's right? And and it was threedy, yeah, so much.

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Speaker 2: And it turned to gray. Yeah, but they're beautiful.

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Speaker 4: But they were white, yes, yeah they were. And what color?

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Speaker 4: What color's teeth?

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Speaker 2: Yellow?

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Speaker 4: Get the biggest kick out of that yellow?

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Speaker 3: What color?

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Speaker 4: Mama's what?

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Speaker 2: Ah? Do you get an A today?

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Speaker 3: What color? Are techies hit? You better think.

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Speaker 2: She gets an A from us?

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Speaker 1: So she I get a text from my axent just

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Speaker 1: says her lip is busted, so just be where when

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Speaker 2: When I pick her up, her lip is very busted.

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Speaker 1: But then and I look at her two front teeth,

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Speaker 2: And the moment they.

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Speaker 1: Start turning a color, which they're gorgeous ocean. Well, actually,

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Speaker 1: Lisa calls and we tell the dentist what happened, and

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Speaker 1: they said, are they turning a color? You need to

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Speaker 1: come in immediately. And I'm like, oh great, it's been

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Speaker 1: like a couple weeks. They said, Luckily, there's no damage

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Speaker 1: my mind, I'm like, I'm editing these teeth. Number one,

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Speaker 1: I'm vain. I am a teeth person. I wanted just

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Speaker 1: to have cute, little white teeth.

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Speaker 4: Well, she had such cute white teeth.

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Speaker 2: And there's still the cutest, cutest, yes, cute.

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Speaker 1: People were commenting, so obviously I edit and edit them

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Speaker 3: It's win or there's no win. In either way you

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Speaker 1: So I post the carousel and immediately with that photo up,

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Speaker 1: people start talking about my child's teeth, and I don't

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Speaker 1: want to say you all, but some of you squares

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Speaker 1: are like, you know, it's a bottle rot, which someone

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Speaker 2: That's absolutely untrue.

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Speaker 1: Bottle row is when you give a child with teeth

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Speaker 1: The other thing was she eats too much sugar, or

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Speaker 1: So the comment section is full of people like talking

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Speaker 1: about my child's teeth, and immediately I'm like, I'm posty

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Speaker 1: about this, but did.

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Speaker 4: They show you their their dental license?

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Speaker 1: None of them were, by the way, They're all just

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Speaker 1: people sitting on Instagram bored on Thanksgiving, I knowing trolling.

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Speaker 1: So I then go on and repost it with Ocean

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Speaker 1: and I talk about the accident, and I admit to

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Speaker 1: editing them in some photos, and I say, go ahead

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Speaker 1: and judge me, and you certainly did?

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Speaker 2: You? Certainly did? I just get what is it?

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Speaker 3: At what point can you win?

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Speaker 1: And it's like, okay, well, I just wanted to avoid

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Speaker 1: the whole thing, so that's why I would edit them.

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Speaker 1: And now people are saying that I sent some people

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Speaker 1: that I send the wrong message by editing her teeth. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know which is the wronger message, me doing

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Speaker 1: looking back when she's older and asking why did you

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Speaker 2: Well that's what I That's what I thought was.

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Speaker 3: Did the comment section make you think it was you?

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Speaker 4: Just I just don't know why people have to be negative.

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Speaker 1: No, it's terrifying and every and there's usually a moment

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she has no fear, zero fear, and even if

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Speaker 2: But you're so sweet and cute.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I can't wait to get on the pod Adventus.

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Speaker 3: No one is more excited that you got this off

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Speaker 2: You're welcome.

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Speaker 4: Our flight was supposed to take off at five point

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Speaker 3: We are there. You're right, you're right.

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Speaker 2: The pilot is late.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and delay flight coming in not the pilot's fault.

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Speaker 2: you mean when you think he's drunk? I was terripping.

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Speaker 1: And then I thought of Ricky Gervais where he's an

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Speaker 2: I'm up in arms about this? Really very chaotic.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, he arrives, We get on the plane. You guys,

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Speaker 2: I did pull Lisa Barlowe. We walked through the plane.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because she's all about but you had plenty of

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Speaker 4: We were the next like it was ended first class,

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Speaker 2: I it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 3: You can't lay down in the first class.

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Speaker 2: You can't lay down.

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Speaker 3: My back was wrenched.

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Speaker 4: Well, look at your check book and you'll be glad

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Speaker 3: All right, that right there, Lisa, that's where you get

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm fine with it.

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Speaker 1: We got here, but I did pull Lisa barlow I

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Speaker 2: I go, if you ever put us in action again,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to be.

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Speaker 4: Pissed and I will lie flat.

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Speaker 2: Life flat.

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Speaker 3: It was law.

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Speaker 4: I will be putting us in depending on how much

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Speaker 1: Well. I felt like Lisa Barlowe because she complained about

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Speaker 2: I mean, she compromised my lifestyle.

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Speaker 4: We ever looked at a first class coming from a

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Speaker 3: She came from Bulk Springs, where you love to go.

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Speaker 4: I love, But I'm saying, have you been on one

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Speaker 2: No, there's literally no first class. You can.

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Speaker 1: No, it's like a little over an hour, not worth it.

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Speaker 1: But I mean to get to Hawaii it was what

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Speaker 4: How I can sleep on a board. So for me,

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Speaker 4: I was very comfortable. This is Lisa, And I'm sorry

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Speaker 4: I called it a po dunk flight.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Sosa did not make a peep on that flight,

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Speaker 3: Well, there's no one that hates a baby crying on

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Speaker 4: Oh and we went to the restaurant in Hawaii, and

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Speaker 2: Didn't you hear a flight attendant say something rad on

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Speaker 2: but the flight attendants got on the m oh.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh, yes, yes, yes. So we we get on

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Speaker 2: But I can't.

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Speaker 3: Loved when they walk down and they just shut everything.

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Speaker 2: Well, they don't have a position a bag. It's like tetris.

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Speaker 2: So a friend of mine, I'm oh, hi, sus is

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Speaker 2: But she's probably gonna get hungry, so just bear with me.

449
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:42,840
Speaker 1: But I had a friend of mine who was showing

450
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:45,359
Speaker 1: me an instagram of this really hot guy and I

451
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,600
Speaker 1: was like, dude, why have you not thought of.

452
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 2: This person for me before?

453
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,560
Speaker 1: And he's like, well, he lives in Hawaii, and I'm like,

454
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 1: I'm going to Hawaii.

455
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,119
Speaker 2: Well he lives like on the North Shore, and I'm like,

456
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 2: we're going to the north Sure.

457
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 1: So we arrive at the airport, we go into the

458
00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 1: lounge and there he is just sitting there looking fine.

459
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 1: But it was crazy to me how even though I

460
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: have a hard time like trusting dudes or whatever, like

461
00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,879
Speaker 1: energy is such a big thing and I didn't like

462
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 1: his energy. Yeah, because Mom was convinced he was going

463
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 1: to be my husband just based off of his Instagram yep.

464
00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, no, you sound insane, really, yes, Mom,

465
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,119
Speaker 1: When you tell me that he's gonna be my husband

466
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,200
Speaker 1: and all you've seen is an Instagram photo, it reminds

467
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 1: me of Tinsley.

468
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 2: Mortimer and her mom. Remember when they cry over the eggs.

469
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 2: They're not even.

470
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 1: When we start trying on dresses that will never have it,

471
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 1: because then we've gone regards.

472
00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 2: It's still insane.

473
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 1: Because if you're there, we have truly lost our minds.

474
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,479
Speaker 1: But you know, I talked about this with you after

475
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,640
Speaker 1: we concocted, well you concocted in your mind that this

476
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:15,880
Speaker 1: perfectly shaped man would be my future husband. That it's

477
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 1: gonna be hard for me to find a partner for this.

478
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 4: Why why would it be hard for you to find

479
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 4: a partner. You have your mom living with you and

480
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 4: your brother.

481
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:27,399
Speaker 3: Why would that be hard?

482
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,360
Speaker 1: Well, the reason it's gonna be hard is not because

483
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: of the family structure. And look, here's all of my bagga,

484
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 1: the best kind, you're Louis Vauton. But I was thinking

485
00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 1: about it and I'm like, Okay, there's one person that

486
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: I can think of besides my ex, but one person

487
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 1: who I gave a shot to, probably when Ocean was

488
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 1: a year and a half, and I remember being at

489
00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 1: Shutters and he had like gone go and I was

490
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: in it, like I could not believe that I had

491
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: let my guard down to that point. And I remember

492
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: not even being able to enjoy Ocean or where we

493
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 1: were because of this stupid, freaking guy. And so now

494
00:23:14,320 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 1: I think about dudes, and I'm like, because my mom's

495
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: like in twenty twenty five, I want you to go out,

496
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 1: I want you to start dating. I want you to

497
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 1: try and find your person because you deserve that. And

498
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, when my kids are this age, I'm not

499
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,480
Speaker 1: even going to risk going out and having a dude

500
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: come in who could potentially make me feel some type

501
00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: of way to where my heart hurts. You've clogged my

502
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 1: mind and now I can't enjoy my babies. So it

503
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: actually worked out that I looked at this guy who

504
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: Lisa was planning our wedding on the North Shore with

505
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: on this trip because me going the vibe is off.

506
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, my gut is working for me,

507
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:53,480
Speaker 1: and people are gonna be like, ah, you didn't like

508
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: him because he liked someone else. But then I look

509
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 1: over in the corner and he's like found this girl

510
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,760
Speaker 1: that he's like getting a little buzzed with, and I'm like, and.

511
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 2: My gut was right. How does someone find someone at

512
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 2: an airport? Is that normal?

513
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 4: I don't know. You'd have to ask him. I've never

514
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 4: done it.

515
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 2: I walked over.

516
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: He's already cheating on it.

517
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,639
Speaker 3: The hitting on a girl at the airport. What are

518
00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 3: the odds you live in the same place and long

519
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 3: distance reationships.

520
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 2: The best kind, you're never around.

521
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 3: Oh good cheating. It is so great. I know.

522
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 2: Good cheating all right.

523
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: So we've arrived in the North Shore and Eastern decides

524
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: that he wants to get a scooter scoot scoot, and

525
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: I told him a million and one times, I don't

526
00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 1: like scooters. I don't have a good feeling about this.

527
00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 1: And then my mom expressed it heavily. What's the thing

528
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: about scoot scoots?

529
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 3: You guys have a bad feeling about anything. If I

530
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 3: get in the ocean, you're gonna have a bad feeling

531
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 3: about me getting eaten by Cheryl.

532
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 4: But I really really had a bad feeling. I really

533
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 4: drilled it into did I not.

534
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,439
Speaker 3: Know you did? But it wasn't rain. I was going slow.

535
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 3: It was fifteen to twenty miles.

536
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. Mom said, I have

537
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 1: a bad feeling. I don't want you on the scooter.

538
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: It's getting dark, it's blah blah blah.

539
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 2: So you didn't go. But the next day, the next day,

540
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 2: the next day.

541
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 3: I went. So I get my scoot. I'm having a blast.

542
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 3: I'm going into town. It's a two way or two

543
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 3: way way, two.

544
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 1: Way traffic coming opposite in traffic going where she so.

545
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 3: In Hawaii, there's a lot of pull offs to the

546
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 3: right where you can go to beaches and all of that. Well,

547
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:34,640
Speaker 3: the car in front of me pulled off to the right,

548
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 3: and started slowing down, so I did the same. He

549
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,719
Speaker 3: pulled out in front of the lane to parallel park

550
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 3: and or like back in, and I swung into oncoming

551
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,439
Speaker 3: traffic to miss him. And there was oncoming traffic. So

552
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 3: the next thing I thought was lay it down, because

553
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 3: if I didn't, I was gonna go over the hood.

554
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 3: So I laid it down. I scraped up the whole back.

555
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 3: Once the like the bars hit it yanked my shoulder

556
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 3: out of place. I had to pop it back in

557
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 3: by itself. And meanwhile I'm asking everyone else if they're okay.

558
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's classic Easton though. It's like he just got

559
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: wrecked on this scooter.

560
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:20,359
Speaker 3: And it's called Beach Front, Beach House, Beach House.

561
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: It's a very very cute like outdoor restaurant. And Ethan

562
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: said most of the patio like flew out to the

563
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: street to make sure he was okay.

564
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, which I really appreciate it.

565
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 3: No, it was great, But and then I was just

566
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 3: in shock, So I wasn't like just standing around. I

567
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 3: like got the scooter up, made sure everything was okay,

568
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: and then I just like started it and I go

569
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 3: all right, I just left.

570
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 2: But at some point you went into shock and into

571
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 2: shock beach.

572
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I went into shock, like while I was driving,

573
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 3: and I knew I was in shock when like I

574
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:54,479
Speaker 3: couldn't feel the wind on me while driving. That's when

575
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,879
Speaker 3: I knew I was in shock. Holed over and I

576
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:57,880
Speaker 3: laid down on.

577
00:26:57,880 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 2: Just like the grass.

578
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, just to catch your breath.

579
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 3: Just to catch my breath. So then after that, I

580
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 3: came home. Lauren, she goes. She yelled my name twice,

581
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,239
Speaker 3: I guess, and then the third time screamed it and

582
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:10,920
Speaker 3: I said what.

583
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: And because I heard the door open, I was like,

584
00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, someone is here to murder us because

585
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 1: he wasn't answering.

586
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 2: And then when I came out, you looked shook up.

587
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,199
Speaker 2: Your eyes were just like that.

588
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. I was like, y yeah, Well, I was just thinking, like,

589
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 3: of every the best scenario happened of laying it down,

590
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 3: it was either hitting somebody on coming and going into

591
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 3: their windshield or going over the guy's hood and then

592
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 3: scraping more So I picked the best of it.

593
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 4: It's like you and you fall off the horse, you

594
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:40,640
Speaker 4: gotta get right back.

595
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:41,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'm gonna get right back.

596
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 4: You got some major road rash.

597
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:44,640
Speaker 3: It feels great.

598
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:48,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, but Easton had even though that was a

599
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 1: rough day. Two days later, apparently he.

600
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 2: Lost his.

601
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 3: So I crashed so hard. I lost my airphone, my AirPod. Yeah,

602
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 3: so I lost my AirPod. So I was driving back

603
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 3: and I was like, I am just gonna see it.

604
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:07,719
Speaker 3: So I drive. I see the air pod on the ground.

605
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:11,680
Speaker 3: It has weathered rain, so I grab it. I'm scootering

606
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 3: just holding my AirPod, airing it out. And as I'm

607
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,080
Speaker 3: doing that, I put it down. And as I put

608
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 3: it down, I see silver earring and it goes.

609
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 2: In my dreadlock and it has diamonds.

610
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 3: And it's a diamond. It's yours, That's why. And I

611
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 3: found that. I my gosh, I could have another day

612
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:32,239
Speaker 3: just thinking about it.

613
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,959
Speaker 2: You guys. He was so excited that I looked at

614
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:36,680
Speaker 2: him and I was like.

615
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 3: She goes, are you drinking drinking? But no, I was.

616
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:43,479
Speaker 3: I can't tell you because I lost the one earring.

617
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 3: Don't know where it went. And I loved this one

618
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 3: just because it was moms and it's sentimental to me.

619
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 4: Now, so ye are the chances of you finding.

620
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 3: And they're both yours because I bought you the AirPods

621
00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 3: that you gave me back because you don't lose them.

622
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 3: Found your air pod, found your earring. Karma for you.

623
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 1: I appreciate that you found everything, and I appreciate that

624
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: you got back on the horse or got back on

625
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 1: the scoot.

626
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 2: Yes, scoot scooto, lisaid her driving here.

627
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: So we have a mini We have a minivan, and

628
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: I'm actually so the day has come where I have

629
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: to give up the rain drover and I have to

630
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: give up the rain drover because it is a nightmare

631
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: with two children.

632
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 3: You don't even have a third row, and then the middle.

633
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: Seat is absolutely teeny tiny, and I just felt like

634
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 1: it was time to get a mom car.

635
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 3: Well, we were sick of taking two cars to dinner

636
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 3: as a family.

637
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: Well we would take too, and then if we had

638
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: guests come into town, we were taking three.

639
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 2: Right, we were mobbing.

640
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,959
Speaker 1: Deep all right, such a waste of gas and energy.

641
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: And so I've been looking at mom cars and I

642
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: purchased one.

643
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 2: I got what did I get?

644
00:30:01,120 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 4: A terrifying Denali for me. I can't even know the

645
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 4: thing is.

646
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 3: Breaking massive, they don't. So the only person that drives

647
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 3: in this family is the one speaking right me, okay,

648
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 3: here and there.

649
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 4: That's the no shows.

650
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:22,040
Speaker 3: You're a very good but I am not excited to

651
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 3: whip this tank.

652
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wait until all of Los Angeles is quiet,

653
00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna go.

654
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 3: I'm running from six a m. To eight am and

655
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 3: then from eight pm to ten pm.

656
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 2: Yes, so I'm very excited for the Denali.

657
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: It's got like the Captain's chairs, It's got the TVs

658
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: in the headress, it's got Wi Fi in it.

659
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 2: It's gonna be great third row, which is game changer.

660
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: But we get to Hawaii and I decide that we're

661
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 1: going to get a minivan because it's just that seems easy,

662
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: and I am obsessed with this freaking mini van.

663
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 3: Shout out, Chrysler, what.

664
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 2: Kind of pacifica?

665
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 3: PACIFICA. I'm not kidding you. Once you're in the van,

666
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 3: you forget you're in it. No, And it is spacious.

667
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: Well, and we can park wherever because I don't have

668
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: to worry about door doors.

669
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 3: And the other great thing is, oh, this is such

670
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 3: a dad thing. I can shut the doors by two

671
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:18,719
Speaker 3: buttons Easton, Can you shut the door? Better? Believe it?

672
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 2: By the way, though, You're gonna be a phenomenal dad.

673
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: But all right, So I'm living for the Chrysler PACIFICA

674
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: and I tell mom, I'm like rent the minivan in

675
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: Hawaii because last year she booked too small of a

676
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: car and we all packed like we were going to

677
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 1: Paris Fashion Week.

678
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 3: He got us a Malibu the first that was the

679
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 3: first car upgrade from that the first time, right, gotta

680
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 3: yeah sedan.

681
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 2: Yes, I don't know what she was thinking.

682
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: But this year we've got the two kids and we

683
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: also like, I packed in a backpack and I'm so

684
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: proud of myself. I brought the least amount of luggage

685
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 1: out of everybody.

686
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 3: No, you really did, Yeah you did. I think I'm

687
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 3: on your train. The only reason why I had an

688
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,280
Speaker 3: extra bag was because of all the material I had to.

689
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 2: Oh, the podcast equipment.

690
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:08,240
Speaker 1: Will you next year only need to packing because you've

691
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: literally been wearing it every Well same with me.

692
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm bringing this and then I'll buy another one

693
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 3: when I get here, and then I'm three swimsuits. That's it.

694
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

695
00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: So Lisa calls to get I think it was insurance

696
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: or something on the mini van and the woman's like, well,

697
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: we don't cover vans, and my mom's like, what do

698
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: you mean you don't cover vans, and they're like, you know,

699
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: we don't cover things that have what was it like.

700
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 4: Three duel wheels?

701
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:35,479
Speaker 2: Anything for moving?

702
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 3: Mom goes, can we get a van? And that's when

703
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 3: she goes, we don't cover anything, and she goes, well,

704
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 3: like a move a mini van? Said, The girl goes, well,

705
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 3: we don't really ensure moving vans. She thought we were

706
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 3: just flying a Hawaii to just rent a moving van.

707
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 3: Could you imagine.

708
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: Lisa driving a moving van?

709
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 3: No, I backed into her own car.

710
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 2: She should have seen her. You guys, driving the minivan.

711
00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: It jars, Okay, it jars.

712
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 1: You to a stop the one time, the one time

713
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: that our tiny little street that we stay.

714
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 2: On as anything.

715
00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 3: FYI, I'm not driving and I'm not in the car.

716
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 3: This is why it's happening.

717
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 2: And I'm hungry as fuck.

718
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: So I'm like thrilled that she's driving, because this would

719
00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: have pissed me off rather than made me laugh hysterically.

720
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: Tons of people are today surfboards, people pushing their children,

721
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: and she they're waiting for her to back up, and

722
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: there's not a lot of room between the driveway and

723
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: like the end of the street, right, and then it's

724
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 1: just like trees and plants. She backs up, jars, pulls

725
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 1: back in, does it again, Jars does forward. Every single

726
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 1: person is laughing hysterically. Okay, And it didn't end there

727
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: because she did it.

728
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:55,480
Speaker 2: She did it three more.

729
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 1: Times, a total of five pull ins, pull outs, and jars.

730
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 3: She knows there's a steering wheel. You can turn right, Lisa,

731
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,240
Speaker 3: we're missing you out here, Damn.

732
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,919
Speaker 1: I always try to plan the pot around Sosa's nap time,

733
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: but she's still a little off schedule with the time change. Yeah,

734
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: and like, I just think the podcast does better when

735
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: I'm on it. Otherwise I would have left the two

736
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: of you to do it. Who knows, maybe people will

737
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 1: disagree for you, people would say we want Lisa instead.

738
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 3: If they.

739
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,720
Speaker 2: No, this has been the funnest.

740
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something about our trips to Hawaii.

741
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 1: The thing that's great about it is we wake up

742
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:38,800
Speaker 1: and there is arrow pressure.

743
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 2: And we've talked about this as a family before. We

744
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:42,640
Speaker 2: are chillers.

745
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 1: We are not the type of people to sit there

746
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 1: and be like, Sunday, we're going out on a boat Sunday.

747
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 2: Do I say Sunday? Ready?

748
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 3: You said Sunday.

749
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 1: But we can say you're going out on Sunday. We're

750
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: gonna go uh start at Saturday.

751
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: Monday, we're gonna do Sharks Cup. Like, we're just not planners.

752
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 2: We wake up and we see how we feel.

753
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 3: I may plan that on Monday. If it's Friday, I

754
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 3: may plan something on Monday that sounds so great that

755
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 3: I would do on Friday. But when Monday rolls around,

756
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 3: I don't want to do that anymore. So I don't

757
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:17,760
Speaker 3: make plans.

758
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're just not planners.

759
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: And I think that's what I love about this trip,

760
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 1: and this instead of ten days, we extended to two

761
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: full weeks. Next year, I'm going to I think I

762
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: could try to do a month. I want to do

763
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: at least three weeks next year. And the reason for

764
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,760
Speaker 1: that is it flies by, and there's so many days

765
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: that there are times where we just wake up, we

766
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: chill around this house, and then we go out and

767
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: just lay on the beach. And there's so many little

768
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: funny moments that happen, like Ocean finding a gecko for

769
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: the first time, or Lisa's sitting on this couch and

770
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: Ocean puts her hand on her leg and.

771
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 2: Says, your your leg feels like cac so shop. So

772
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: Nick and Joe are here again.

773
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: We were hanging out with them last year and Nick

774
00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 1: bought Ocean and So said, these pink sweat outfits that

775
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: say Spice Girls on it.

776
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:15,280
Speaker 2: So Ocean didn't know who.

777
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 1: The Spice Girls were. I show her Spice Girls. She's

778
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,839
Speaker 1: now obsessed. I'm going to post a video of her

779
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 1: doing the stop right now. Yeah, it is absolutely adorable.

780
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: The fact that my child now knows who the Spice

781
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 1: Girls are. She knows about TLC. She will watch No

782
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: Scrubs on YouTube and say to Easton, that's left eye

783
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: and she died.

784
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 3: Left eye died.

785
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,760
Speaker 2: And it's so sad.

786
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,359
Speaker 3: She was so cool and point and she not her

787
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 3: nor her.

788
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 2: Left eye I know.

789
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 1: And the other day she was sitting here and we

790
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: were watching because that's her favorite song right now is

791
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 1: No Scrubs. She goes, Chili pops on the screen and

792
00:36:55,960 --> 00:37:00,040
Speaker 1: she goes, mom, I don't look like her, and I

793
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: I was like, my child's getting I didn't think that

794
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 1: it would be so young that my child would know

795
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: that Gigi's not supposed to have prickly legs, that Ocean

796
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 1: is looking at girls and wanting to like look like them.

797
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:14,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Yep.

798
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,879
Speaker 1: She watches the Spice Girls, and she knows exactly which

799
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: one she wants to be. She does the whole dance.

800
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: It's crazy how fast time goes. And I think that's

801
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,240
Speaker 1: another reason why I'm like two weeks is not long enough,

802
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 1: Like we need to extend to create more memories. You

803
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 1: want to know what else this trip has brought, which

804
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 1: I've never done before, is so Ocean is a nightmare

805
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,200
Speaker 1: when she doesn't have a nap, which I think a

806
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:39,840
Speaker 1: lot of parents can relate to.

807
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 2: It's like, you know the days where your child got

808
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 2: enough sleep.

809
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: And Ocean naps at school, and she's like a different

810
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: child on those days. She it's really hard for me

811
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 1: to get her down for naps. So on this day,

812
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 1: she was not kind and we were going into town

813
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 1: and she had been screaming, I hate you, and she

814
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: had been screaming to go away, and I just like

815
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 1: I had to put my foot down at some point.

816
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 1: It's the first time that I've really actually stuck to

817
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: my guns. And she wanted an ice cream with the

818
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 1: rest of it.

819
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 3: Well, like we talked about you, there has to be

820
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 3: the visual as well. Well.

821
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:22,800
Speaker 2: I gave her the visual.

822
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: We all got icys, and of course we shared with her,

823
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: but she was like sitting at the menu and she

824
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,359
Speaker 1: was so excited. But I had told her, Oh my god,

825
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:32,840
Speaker 1: don't do that.

826
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 2: I'm gonna cry. No, I felt so.

827
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 3: I felt so because you're a great mom. And guess what,

828
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 3: being a great mom comes with discipline. And it sucks

829
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 3: that you had to do that, but you either create

830
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 3: this monster that you give everything to. You have to

831
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 3: be a mother and tell your child. Now, that's the

832
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 3: hardest thing about being a mother is saying no to

833
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:54,439
Speaker 3: your child. It really is. So what you had to do.

834
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 3: A lot of moms have to do a lot of

835
00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 3: There are so many moms that I now know that

836
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 3: that will discipline their child, go into their room and

837
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 3: ball because they did not want to. Yeah, so that

838
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 3: was God every mom, And that's the thing. You have

839
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 3: to do it with your child. If you don't, we're

840
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 3: gonna have just a whole bunch of undisciplined children and

841
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 3: it's going to be a nightmare. So you have to discipline.

842
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 3: And as bad as it is, you did very well.

843
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 3: You disciplined her. You let her know why she wasn't

844
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 3: getting ice cream while we were eating. You let her

845
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,839
Speaker 3: know why, and then she was acting well and then

846
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 3: she deserves some bites, so then she got some. But

847
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 3: that was a visual.

848
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,439
Speaker 1: She's been very good and I told her, I said,

849
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: you have to take a nap today, and she's had

850
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 1: one in the past two days. And she says, I

851
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: don't want to, and I say, Ocean, when you don't

852
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: get a nap, you're not very kind. So I want

853
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 1: you to go lay in our bed and just like

854
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: just have quiet time at least, and then she knocks out.

855
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 1: She wakes up and tells me, Mom, I had a

856
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 1: nap today. That's why I'm going to be so kind.

857
00:39:58,719 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 2: So she does know.

858
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: But I think it's that piled on with the post

859
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 1: about the teeth and people like like people wrote about

860
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: me as like a parent, and like the message that

861
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 1: I send in here's the thing, you guys, can people

862
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: can say or write about whatever they want when it

863
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: comes to like me as a person. But I think

864
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: anyone with kids, when you start commenting or putting judgment

865
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: on mine someone else's, it's it's like very disorienting. And

866
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: then people talking about because I refer to so says

867
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:37,120
Speaker 1: my dream baby, and people even taking that as far

868
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: as to say in the comments section that like how

869
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 1: would how would you feel being ocean and saying things

870
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: like that, and I'm like, yeah, why is everyone making

871
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: a thing out of nothing? Like ocean is is such

872
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:52,280
Speaker 1: my golden.

873
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,399
Speaker 3: Child kids, I was gonna say, you can't just call

874
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 3: them both your golden children. And one is the golden child,

875
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 3: one is your dream baby, they're both. You want both.

876
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 3: You want a great dream and we all want some goal.

877
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 1: And she's my golden child because of number one what

878
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: we experience. But she's like the kid who made me

879
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,880
Speaker 1: a mom. She's so freaking spicy and so freaking sweet

880
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 1: all at the same time.

881
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 3: Like I'm gonna interrupt you because I feel like a

882
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,880
Speaker 3: lot of people don't see it because it's not on film,

883
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 3: but I see it, and I know Gigi does. When

884
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 3: you see ocean, Yes, when you see Sosa, you have

885
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 3: a light in your eye. Yeah, but there is times

886
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 3: where I see you look at ocean and there's no

887
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 3: other light that I've seen you like that bright and

888
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 3: you can tell but ocean is very special to you.

889
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 3: And I don't know what people see or think, but

890
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 3: I witness waking up in the morning with everyone and

891
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 3: I see her walking out, and I see you and

892
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 3: the way you look, and you never look like that

893
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 3: in any other situation. And I know that that is

894
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 3: because of your golden child.

895
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I feel like Sosa is the dream baby

896
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 1: because she didn't. She wasn't the product of just like

897
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 1: two people falling in love and pro creating or a

898
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: one night stand. It was like she was the dream

899
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 1: baby because I thought so hard on her and thought,

900
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: how am I going to make this happen? I really

901
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: want a baby on my own, but how do I like,

902
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 1: how do I do it?

903
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 3: And then without a man's right?

904
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:25,439
Speaker 1: So when she arrived and she's healthy and happy and

905
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:29,240
Speaker 1: this structure that I've created, it's like wow, Like I

906
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 1: I had dreams about this moment of expanding my family

907
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: by myself, and we did it.

908
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 2: So I don't know how we got taken. Oh, we

909
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 2: got taken on that term because I had a discipline ocean.

910
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 2: And then like all the comments I'm like, feel like

911
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 2: not a good parent.

912
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,959
Speaker 3: No, you're an amazing parent. And to every other mom

913
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,439
Speaker 3: out there that feels the same, You're all doing well.

914
00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 3: There's no manual. Every kid comes different. You just swing

915
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 3: the bat and no, hopefully ye make some contact and

916
00:42:56,800 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 3: you're doing well in this little game called life.

917
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 1: No, I know, And it's like important because it's like

918
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: the other day or yesterday we went to Shark's Cove,

919
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: and there's so many things that I want Ocean to

920
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: experience because I'm like, I want her to have the

921
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 1: best time. I want her to talk about this forever.

922
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: And honestly, it's the tiniest of things, her going into

923
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 1: the water and like looking at the fish. The biggest

924
00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 1: thing she remembered was getting out of the water and

925
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: a crab, a tiny little black.

926
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: Crab like ran across the rock.

927
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,759
Speaker 1: It's the tiniest things that they remember. And I feel

928
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 1: like so much pressure on ourselves as parents in general,

929
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: and like, I hope she's gonna remember coming to Hawaii

930
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:41,240
Speaker 1: when she gets older.

931
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 2: She is starting to have memories.

932
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think back on a lot of things that

933
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 3: mom and Dad used to talk to us about, like

934
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 3: trips when we were young. I don't remember any of

935
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 3: those extravagant trips. I remember like bits and pieces of

936
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 3: like being nowhere yes with family, and I'm like, I

937
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 3: remember that that was great. It's like put pressure, like

938
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 3: you said to do these extravagant things for hope and

939
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 3: hope that your kid remembers it. And it's like just

940
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 3: you being a family. There's going to be moments that

941
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 3: your kid is going to remember. And that's all you

942
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 3: gotta do is just be a family and do the

943
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 3: things around. Your kids are gonna get amazing experiences being

944
00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 3: with family. Yeah, you don't have to do jet skiing,

945
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 3: you don't have to go crazy, go lay on a

946
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 3: beach with some pineapple and hang because that's the other

947
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 3: thing I remember more of, like the beach with dad

948
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 3: just sipping his vodka lemonades when cheese dog. But like

949
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 3: we would go to Disneyland, think of that.

950
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 2: I don't remember ever.

951
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 3: Going to Disneyland exactly. Do you want to know? The

952
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 3: one thing the rust in that car ride. That is

953
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 3: the only thing I don't remember Disneyland. I remember almost

954
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 3: getting there. That's it. But that's the experience. Don't put

955
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 3: your just live life. Your kids are going to get

956
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 3: experiences just through family.

957
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:56,560
Speaker 2: I agree with that.

958
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 3: I don't know.

959
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 2: That was so beautifully set Easton.

960
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 3: So I just don't put pressure. I hate when families

961
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,760
Speaker 3: put pressure. You're doing it for the wrong reasons.

962
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 2: Well that's I think.

963
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: What's so annoying is I feel like in my life

964
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 1: there are so many things that I look at and

965
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: I go, damn it, I wish I would have done

966
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: that differently, I wish I were better at this. And

967
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: then when I think about myself as a mom, of

968
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: course there are moments where I'm like, ugh, I was

969
00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: too hard on Ocean today, or I could have held

970
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: so some more, I feel like I didn't hold her

971
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,439
Speaker 1: enough to day, Like, there are moments, but I feel

972
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 1: like when I look at the overall picture of like

973
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: being a parent, I'm like, it's the one place that

974
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: I can confidently say, like, I'm doing pretty much now.

975
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,800
Speaker 3: You do your kids go to sleep and with teeth

976
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 3: brushed and love? Yes, do they wake up and have breakfast?

977
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:42,479
Speaker 3: You're doing fucking great.

978
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,879
Speaker 1: Ocean's big thing right now, you guys, is to tell

979
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: everyone that her mom doesn't feed her. Who does Ocean,

980
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: Cause you get an f because you did not feed

981
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 1: me today?

982
00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, Ocean, just didn't you just chose

983
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: to you? I did feed you.

984
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: Your only thinking about when you came out of your

985
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 1: room for the seventeenth time at eleven o'clock and wanted

986
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 1: a marshmallow, And I told you, no, you're not remembering

987
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 1: the full dinner that I gave you at a decent hour.

988
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: And I've now been trying to put you to bed

989
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: for the past four hours, and all she can remember there, Oh,

990
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 1: here she comes.

991
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 3: Oh, here comes brickflet boom, Ocean.

992
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 2: I was just talking about you and the Spice girls.

993
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,280
Speaker 3: Who's your favorite? What Carr?

994
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 2: I don't think she knows the name yet, she can

995
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: only point them out that later. Who's your favorite of TLC?

996
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:38,919
Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite of TLC? So there?

997
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 3: Wow.

998
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 1: We had a lot of areas, but this, this trip

999
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: to Hawaii again is one of the most amazing.

1000
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 2: Again.

1001
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 1: We're going to extend our trip next year. And it

1002
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 1: took as much as I love doing the pot, it

1003
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: did take a lot for me to get on this

1004
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: mic right now because all I want to do is

1005
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: go jump in the same But I.

1006
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 3: Do love doing it here because I feel like everybody

1007
00:46:58,400 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 3: gets to come on vacation with us.

1008
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 1: I know, I'm so happy to have you and I'm

1009
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 1: gonna take you guys with me throughout the day.

1010
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 2: Ocean.

1011
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 3: Do you want to tell them and who you're gonna

1012
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 3: go and see? Today.

1013
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 2: What did you see yesterday? My love? Come tell everybody.

1014
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 4: At first three sea turnels.

1015
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: Three sea turtles, Oh my gosh, and what are and

1016
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do today? See Summer That's exactly right,

1017
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna go see Summer Moon today.

1018
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 2: You guys, I wanna You're welcome. I love you so much.

1019
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 1: I want to thank you guys for tuning in to

1020
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,400
Speaker 1: another episode of the Give Them La La podcast from Hawaii.

1021
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 1: I'm taking you all with me today and I'm gonna

1022
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: catch you guys on Monday for the bonus, and then again.

1023
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 2: Next week on Wednesday. You can see this video.

1024
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: It drops Friday on nine am Pacific time. I love

1025
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: you guys, have a the great rest of the week.

1026
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Speaker 1: BA