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Speaker 1: This is a second Date podcast with Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning. And you may have noticed that the

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Speaker 1: title looks like it got screwed up today. Go ahead

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Speaker 1: and email Alexis your complaints.

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Speaker 2: No, it's not a mistake.

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Speaker 1: This time he didn't fall asleep and push two too

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Speaker 1: many times.

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Speaker 2: It's a little different today are we are doing something

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Speaker 2: a little different. We hope you enjoy it. It's brand new.

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Speaker 1: We like to try new things out, so always let

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Speaker 1: us know in the comments, because, believe it or not.

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Speaker 2: We read them all. We can't respond to every single one,

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Speaker 2: but we read them all.

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Speaker 3: What do you see Alexis now Rico and Midnight said

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Speaker 3: a new pickup line I heard about like this right, okay,

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Speaker 3: I watch you pee yeah on a scale of one

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Speaker 2: And the delivery was pooring.

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Speaker 1: Disappointed in that urna that's better your inn.

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Speaker 2: You don't love a good urination.

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Speaker 4: Please use this on a guy this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Alexis are something that my husband I told them a

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Speaker 1: uti joke, so.

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Speaker 2: Jo known us about cranberry juice. You know it was fine.

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Speaker 2: We'll get this brand new.

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Speaker 4: Sort of get you hot and heavy.

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Speaker 2: If you're listening a little different. Second Date up dates

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Speaker 2: started right now.

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Speaker 4: We like to shake things up every now and again

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Speaker 4: on this show.

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Speaker 5: But no Brook for the four hundredth time, we're not

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Speaker 5: adding roadkill reviews on the tens.

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Speaker 2: Like that.

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Speaker 6: I want.

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Speaker 5: We know the mango chutney raccoon tail tastes amazing, especially

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Speaker 5: if it's microwaves.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I can say that without not wanting to

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Speaker 1: talk more about it.

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Speaker 4: Get it.

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Speaker 5: But this time we're shaking things up by doing an

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Speaker 5: alternate version of our infamous second Date update.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna have to hear it to believe it. We're

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Speaker 4: doing it. No spoilers, it's coming up next. Second Date Updated.

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Speaker 5: When you go on a date with someone and they

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Speaker 5: suddenly break off all communication, no reasons given, that's called

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Speaker 5: being ghosted. Yeah, and that's what our second Date updates

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it happens a lot.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're just learning the term now you're a little

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Speaker 5: behind it, or I guess we'd also accept the terms breadcrumbing, orbiting,

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Speaker 5: semi orbiting, and getting semi trucked, which is that's what

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Speaker 5: happened to me off Exit sixteen last Friday, got eighteen

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Speaker 4: It's a good thing.

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Speaker 2: You were disappointed though, Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 4: The happiest I've been in YU.

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Speaker 5: But what about the people that are past the first

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Speaker 5: or second date but not quite into an exclusive relationship yet?

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Speaker 4: Oh, you're like in the situationship.

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Speaker 2: It's still ghosting though, isn't It's just like worse right.

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Speaker 5: The thing is, we didn't really have an outlet a

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Speaker 5: segment on this show to help them with that until today, really,

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Speaker 5: because we're about to do our first ever twenty second

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Speaker 5: month or so and now suddenly it's not going well

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Speaker 5: and they need our help, Okay, and that's why our

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Speaker 5: listener Brittany emailed saying the guy that she's been hanging

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Speaker 5: know this is a little bit different than our second

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Speaker 5: date updates, So let's just start with what's the name

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Speaker 5: of the guy? Are you two like in contact with

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Speaker 5: each other? Now we're not in contact, Like, what's the situation?

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Speaker 7: So his name is Mark. Okay, we've been dating for

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Speaker 7: about a month and a half. Now we're not living

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not that after a month and a half you're

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Speaker 7: I'm just letting you know that's kind of where we are.

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Speaker 7: We're not at the stage to move in at all.

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Speaker 4: Girlfriend, then like officially.

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Speaker 7: I think, so, I no, you're not just.

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Speaker 4: Going to tell you you haven't had the official talk yet?

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Speaker 6: Then?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, right, Like I've deleted my dating app, and he

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Speaker 7: dating app either. Here's here's how we're going right now.

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Speaker 7: Starting off awesome of course, as most new relationships do.

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Speaker 7: But lately we haven't been hanging out as much at night.

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Speaker 2: I mean, doesn't that happen?

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Speaker 8: Like after like a month or so, it's like, all right,

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Speaker 2: No, I think usually it goes the opposite. Usually, if

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Speaker 5: Stay extra club, you end up spending more time at

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Speaker 4: If it's progressing.

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Speaker 1: Well, Brittany would have been moved in by now, but

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Speaker 4: He seems to be distancing.

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Speaker 7: Himself right Like, I'm just getting these red flags, like

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Speaker 7: so I can't really look at what these texts are about.

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Speaker 5: Oh, okay, it's a little shady. Have you like brought

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Speaker 5: coming from someone with his ex's name.

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Speaker 7: Well, I haven't said anything because I don't want to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, how is all of this affecting you,

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Speaker 5: like emotionally, because if it was me and I was

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Speaker 5: all of his stuff right now.

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Speaker 2: Why are you not just asking him?

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Speaker 1: I don't understand to be paranoid without getting an answer.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, yeah, I mean why aren't you doing that?

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Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not because I just don't want to

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Speaker 7: don't want to create this confrontation in case it's like,

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Speaker 7: oh my gosh, my sister's name is the same as

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Speaker 2: Don't think that's probably gonna be his sister's names after.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And like, where at the point where we're like,

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Speaker 7: oh my gosh, you want a dog, I want a dog.

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Speaker 7: Let's get a dog together? Not right now, but like.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like we're getting a little quick into this relationship.

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Speaker 4: You guys are moving through stages.

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Speaker 8: Even when you guys both stop going on dating sites,

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Speaker 8: that's another stage tours.

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Speaker 2: But you can't ask him a question, but you want

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Speaker 2: to live together and get a dog?

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Speaker 4: Let me see what she's doing.

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Speaker 5: She's like considering how he would take the conversation. He

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Speaker 5: these texts? Why aren't we living together yet? Where's our dog?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 6: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Though, I mean, where's our doctor?

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Speaker 1: That feels a lot more simple than having us intervene.

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Speaker 1: What do you want us to do about it?

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Speaker 7: I I don't know. I just I don't like confrontations,

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Speaker 7: and I don't want to make things worse and really

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Speaker 7: need your help to just figure it out. Where I

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 7: I mean you are the professionals.

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Speaker 5: The professional confrontational people, professional comedian lady.

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Speaker 4: I'm not here for dating.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you may end up getting hurt here.

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Speaker 1: He just sounds like he may not be as interested

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Speaker 2: I don't say that to be mean, but Barley, I mean.

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Speaker 7: That might be hard for me to hear, but if

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's fair.

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Speaker 5: So I mean normally, when we would do second date updates,

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Speaker 2: Such a strong word, Okay, it's politely asked.

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Speaker 5: Will politely poke his brain and try and get some

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Speaker 5: answers for why he's suddenly becoming more distant in your

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Speaker 5: new relationship. When we come back and give you your

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Speaker 5: first ever twenty second date.

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Speaker 4: Update, what folder do we put this in on the podcast?

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Speaker 5: It's a typo, Okay, it's all a Lexis's fault.

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Speaker 4: Let me come back right after this second date update.

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Speaker 5: If you're just joining us, we're doing our first ever

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Speaker 5: twenty second date update with our listener Brittany, who's been

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Speaker 5: or so, even though they're not officially labeled his boyfriend

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Speaker 5: He seems to be going out more at nights, acting

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Speaker 2: It does not feel like a coincidence. N Yeah, say

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Speaker 4: Can we give her a benefit of least? She's not

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Speaker 4: like it's his ex. She's like trying to be optimistic.

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Speaker 5: Because she can't read the text messages because he hasn't

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Speaker 2: Her, because the one thing we love is confrontation.

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Speaker 5: I know we're trying to keep it light here with you, Brittany,

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Speaker 5: but I know you must be going through a lot

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I'm a little stressed, but I mean I

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Speaker 7: gotta find out before we keep going. You know.

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Speaker 2: Just remember, you're like eight weeks into this thing.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's it does feel like a lot, but

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Speaker 1: you're gonna look back and be like, oh that oh

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Speaker 1: that guy, I forgot about it.

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Speaker 5: Actually, she's six weeks into it. Let's not like a relationships.

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Speaker 2: Your friends aren't gonna remember this guy.

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Speaker 1: Basically, it's not as serious as it feels.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the best way to say it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, for sure. I just I just really like him

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Speaker 7: and I'm hoping that it's something.

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Speaker 2: Really like And we hope that too for you.

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Speaker 5: Yes we do, but not for the not for the

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Speaker 5: show drama. Let's just see what happens for our very

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Speaker 4: Still really doing this. We're branding it.

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Speaker 6: Here we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey is this Mark?

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Speaker 6: This is Mark hey Man, thanks for.

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Speaker 5: Picking up the phone. We're actually a radio show. We're

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Speaker 2: Hey, Mark, what's up?

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Speaker 6: Mark?

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Speaker 2: Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm laughing because I'm curious how jeff is going

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I'm sorry? What what is this?

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Speaker 5: So this is a segment we do for the very

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Speaker 4: It rolls right off the tongue.

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Speaker 6: Wait, I'm sorry, what what is happened? I feel like

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Speaker 6: I do you guys mean to call me?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Yes, we've been asked to call you by the woman

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Speaker 6: Okay, so he called you, guys.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, because she really likes you.

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Speaker 5: But bottom line is, she's noticed some differences. She feels

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And judging from that response, I can't see why

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Speaker 4: She's not reading them.

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Speaker 2: Because she saw a name pop up on your.

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Speaker 4: Phone, but in a non confrontational type of way.

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Speaker 5: When you say the word confrontational, doesn't take it away.

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know the name.

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Speaker 6: But why doesn't she just talk to me about it?

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Speaker 5: Because she really values this relationship, this blossoming potential relationship

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Speaker 4: So is there one?

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, she did say that you guys both deleted

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Speaker 6: No? No, no, I'm only seeing her.

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Speaker 8: Okay, but I am technically seeing an ex girlfriend?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 4: No, but dat you need to explain, dude.

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Speaker 6: It's not romantic. It's just I don't have a choice.

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Speaker 8: You don't have a Oh no, no, no, it's just

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Speaker 2: How would she not know that you have a dog

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Speaker 6: Well, the thing is I don't have actual custody. I

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Speaker 2: That's so late.

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Speaker 4: So hold on wait sorry Brittany.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's Brittany that she's on the other line

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Speaker 2: Suddenly she's really good at confrontation.

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Speaker 7: No, I just need a little bit of clarification. So

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Speaker 7: what you're saying is that you're ditching me to hang

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Speaker 6: I mean, why.

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Speaker 7: Wouldn't you tell me this? Why have you been hiding this?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I was going to tell you.

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Speaker 8: I just I didn't know how to and I didn't

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Speaker 6: I just didn't know how to tell you.

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Speaker 1: You only have visitation rights at night because it's the night.

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Speaker 2: Then you're not hanging out with Brittany.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's visitation on Wednesday nights.

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Speaker 4: You're tucking the dog in.

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Speaker 6: You're not going and see another girls, are you? No? No,

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Speaker 6: I'm not I'm not and isn't.

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Speaker 2: Inviting you to stay the night on Wednesday nights? Issue?

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Speaker 8: No, No, It's like I don't even go inside if

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Speaker 8: I can avoid it. I just go in the backyard

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, Like I literally found a chewed up

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Speaker 2: Oh so it's legit? Like he's okay.

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Speaker 3: I mean i'd put my pet before a girl I

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Speaker 5: I mean, well, I mean, Brittany, now that you've heard that,

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Speaker 7: I feel weird because you lie to me and secretly

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Speaker 6: Which I'm sorry I lied.

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Speaker 8: But I mean it's just, you know, it's hard to

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Speaker 2: I think, Brittany, I think you gotta let this one

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well, I do have to say, I mean, in

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Speaker 6: I actually share has to be two dogs, two different women.

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Speaker 7: Oh geez, what all is a.

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Speaker 1: Real confused Do you remember Brittany told us that they

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Speaker 7: You're gonna say, like, if we got a dog and

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Speaker 4: Better with dogs and women, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: I don't know because he's not getting full custody of

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Speaker 2: Are you just trying to be a part time dog owner?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 8: No, I'm just trying to do right by my children,

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Speaker 8: I mean my dog's children.

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Speaker 7: Like if my life's supposed to be doggy stepmom, now cute.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's a French it's kind of cute.

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Speaker 8: I mean I would love for you to meet at

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Speaker 2: Some soon, some point.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to rush introducing your children to a

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Speaker 2: That makes sense.

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Speaker 4: Don't traumatize those dogs for the rest of their lives.

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Speaker 7: I mean, they will end up loving me better than

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Speaker 4: So I'm never going to get into a custody battle. Like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know. This is getting kind of messy now, man,

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Speaker 4: this isn't good.

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Speaker 1: Okay to suggest if you guys are to stay in

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Speaker 3: That's for sure.

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Speaker 5: But Brittany, now that the whole situation is laid out,

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Speaker 4: Do you feel better about the situation? Like, where's your

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's good, it's kind of sweet.

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Speaker 4: I mean no, it's not a second date update. We're

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Speaker 2: Why can't we said about a date?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, why can't you send us on a date for

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Speaker 4: And then the doggies mom?

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Speaker 5: And like, there's there's too many moving parts in that

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Speaker 5: a dog friendly You two can just go to a

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Speaker 7: Perfect, Maybe the dog mom will let you take the

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Speaker 8: I have to put in a request two months ahead

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, well.

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Speaker 2: What did you do in that relationship?

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Speaker 5: Well, at least we have some clarification. That's what we

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Speaker 7: Thanks so much, thanks for helping with confrontation.

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Speaker 4: This is a lot still for a couple.

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Speaker 5: That's not official, Yes, and we'll come back in a

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Speaker 5: few weeks to get our forty second date up with

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Speaker 5: you to figure out where you are with your dogs.

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Speaker 4: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Now for me, and for I think everybody in the room.

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Speaker 5: That was weirdly kind of sweet to hear that.

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Speaker 4: But some people might.

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Speaker 5: Say, though, it's a red flag that the person you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 1: At sweet with one, and then when we got to two,

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Speaker 5: I mean, eventually her nights are going to be fully

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Speaker 1: And I really think that he has kind of an

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Speaker 5: Yeah, with his visitations once a week, once a week

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure if she really realizes what she's signing

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Speaker 4: up for. You.

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Speaker 1: I guarantee you they're going to email us back in

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Speaker 1: three months and they're going to have a dog, and

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Speaker 1: then another six months and then they're gonna be broken up.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's a cycle. This man's in a psycle. And

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Speaker 4: Yeah, or grand baby dogs that he has to deal

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Speaker 2: We got to span new.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 5: So what a thing she really needs to be signing

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