WEBVTT - BONUS: The Tom Schwartz Q+A 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:08.400 Hello, My Loves, Welcome back to the bonus episode of 0:00:08.400 --> 0:00:10.959 the Give Them La La Podcast with Tom Schultz. 0:00:11.480 --> 0:00:15.880 Got when we were talking about, like I like wearing 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:18.120 stung glasses inside of it night. I don't think I'm cool. 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:20.160 I'm not trying to be incognito, but it just makes 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:22.040 me feel good. I feel invincible. They say, I as 0:00:22.360 --> 0:00:23.920 the window to the soul. I don't what you see 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:25.080 in my soul? Right. 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:27.200 Well, you always said it was like the kid on 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:30.600 Big Daddy where he wears the horses. 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:32.519 Yeah, and now I always think of. 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:34.360 That nobody can see you, nobody can hurt you when 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:35.160 you have your sunglasses. 0:00:35.560 --> 0:00:35.720 You know. 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.080 That's why I go with the colored because it's like 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:40.560 I have the layer of protection. But like you can't 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.000 judge me, Like, I don't think that I'm out. 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:46.800 Here being drake. Yeah. So I have questions for you. 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:50.800 People wrote in Oh, Sam Kay said, do you think 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:52.920 if you weren't on the show, you and Katie would 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:53.800 be happily married? 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:58.120 Wow, that's a good question, Sam k. I think we 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:01.160 still would have gotten a divorce. You know, it was 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:03.480 very amicable, but it just had kind of fit. The 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:06.440 romance had fizzled out. We're still good friends and I 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:08.440 still love Katie and support her. I'm so happy to 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:11.680 see her freaking happy. Yeah, she's Yeah, but I think 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:13.720 we would have It might have taken a few more years, 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:15.480 but I think we would have still gotten divorced. 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:19.280 Okay, So you just feel like the show maybe expedited 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:21.440 something that was going to happen anyway. 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:24.360 I don't think this. I can't. I can't blame the show. 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:27.200 I got to take accountability for myself. I just yeah, 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:29.280 I just wasn't. I was just kind of a mediocre 0:01:29.319 --> 0:01:31.039 husband at the end. You know, there was there was 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:34.160 always still undercurrent of love and respect, but we just 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:37.280 became friends, you know, we each other. 0:01:37.760 --> 0:01:41.000 I mean, just from an outside perspective, I don't. 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:42.560 Think the show had anything to do. 0:01:42.800 --> 0:01:45.240 Yeah. No, I can't blame the show. Yeah, And I 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:47.680 mean the show was just following our lives and it's like, 0:01:47.880 --> 0:01:50.680 you know it. I kind of describe it as when 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:53.480 people ask me about what it was like doing reality TV, 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:55.640 it's kind of like just doing going to therapy and 0:01:55.640 --> 0:01:58.400 front of millions of people, right, very see that. 0:01:58.520 --> 0:02:00.840 I always felt like it was very fair therapeutic as well, 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:05.160 because it kind of forced me to like in real life, 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:11.280 I pick my battles, and in real life, if someone 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:14.440 has done something or I've done something where I don't 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:17.360 want to be around them, I say, I'm going to 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:21.519 not participate in this social gathering because I'm not ready. 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:24.920 When you're filming a show, it forces you to face 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:30.800 conflict and resolve it, yes or not. But I feel 0:02:30.800 --> 0:02:32.560 like if there would have been one more season, in 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:34.800 my mind, I like to think that things would have 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:35.720 been resolved. 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:37.520 I think so too. I think it would have been 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.720 a lighthearted, fun, little truncated season. 0:02:41.120 --> 0:02:43.360 Or maybe I just dug too deep of a hole. 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:44.200 I don't know. 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:47.160 Well, you'll we'll never know that canceled it. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:50.800 I think that some people have placed blame on me 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:53.840 for kind of putting the nail in the show, But 0:02:54.160 --> 0:02:56.360 I think that that's unfair to say. 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:59.720 I don't think that you could say one person and 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:01.600 vander Pump rules with something. 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:05.840 No, we were an ensemble cast that was no longer ensemble. 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.400 That was the only I only asked that because that 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.200 was the first time I've heard that. 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:12.840 Yeah, do you want kids? 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:16.240 We talked about this on the the regular episode. You 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:18.960 do want kids? Do you want multiple? Would you be 0:03:18.960 --> 0:03:19.920 happy with just one. 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:22.840 I feel like two would be perfect. Yeah, maybe twinsies 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:24.000 knock them both out at once. 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:24.560 I love that. 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:27.760 Not triplets though runs in my family. 0:03:27.960 --> 0:03:30.639 Oh God, doesn't it skip a generation? 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:31.480 I think it does. 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:35.720 So your kids may have right, my kids, your kids. 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:38.000 I like the sound of that. My kids, grand am 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:39.200 I gonna have grandkids some day. 0:03:39.360 --> 0:03:41.960 I very much see you as a parent. 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:42.720 Thank you. 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:45.160 Do you have a preference? I know, like we all 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.200 just want healthy kids, But would you. 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:47.840 Have a preference? 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:48.360 No? 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:51.880 Whatever, whatever, boy, boy girl doesn't matter. 0:03:51.800 --> 0:03:54.200 Pops out. I'll be so happy with I love that. 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:55.320 Do you believe in God? 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:56.000 I do? 0:03:56.320 --> 0:03:59.200 Okay, I'm always like whatever God intends me to have 0:03:59.520 --> 0:03:59.720 is what. 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:02.000 Yeah, I'm I'm on board with that too. 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:05.200 Although dealing with Ocean makes me never want a boy 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:08.720 because she is such dude energy. I told you this 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:13.280 that I'm like, oh my God, yeah, but again, God's 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:20.120 will golden x ex Lolita. Would you ever? Would you 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:23.200 ever date Lalla or vice versa? I always saw chemistry 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:26.599 between y'all. Can I tell you Shortzy we got this 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:30.080 so much season eleven, and I didn't realize it because 0:04:30.080 --> 0:04:32.279 I avoid the comments section. But it was every time 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:35.400 I went on a podcast or anything like that, people 0:04:35.600 --> 0:04:39.520 always said that, yeah, we talked about it. I feel 0:04:39.520 --> 0:04:41.880 like I would be way too high strung and intense 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:42.680 for you. 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:44.960 You remember, these were your words. You would chew me up. 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:48.200 I think you said I eat pieces of shit like 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:54.080 you for breakfast, really mediocre pieces of shit like him 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:54.640 for breakfast. 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:56.520 I never did that. Mediocre. 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:00.880 Oh you guys just really saw the moon over here? 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:03.640 Or but I did say. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:05.560 I think it was on Amazon Live where I was 0:05:05.600 --> 0:05:08.040 like if Schwartz liked to go out a little bit 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:09.880 or a lot of bit less, and I liked to 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:12.440 go out a lot of bit more. Who knows. 0:05:12.600 --> 0:05:14.560 I love staying in, by the way, it's mine. There's 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:17.000 nothing I enjoy more in this world than staying in 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:20.479 in cocooning. I love it. I love being my bed cozy. 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:22.359 You've got a good setup happening, and. 0:05:23.880 --> 0:05:26.320 I have to say, your bedroom is so cozy. It's 0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:29.120 so fucking cozy. The best sunrises ever too. Me. 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:30.400 Plants do you have in that place? 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:32.599 Now? I think I have lost count seventeen. I just 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:35.560 got two beautiful birds of paradise. They're like eight nine 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:38.720 feet tall. They're Gorge. I built a studio. I built 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:40.800 a studio, and I never used my studio. I put 0:05:40.880 --> 0:05:44.000 so That's why I delayed my podcast for like months. 0:05:44.040 --> 0:05:46.040 I was like, I want my studio to be perfect now, 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:47.799 and then you just go. 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:50.960 You do it remotely and go to people's houses. That's wild. 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:52.480 You spend all that time doing it. 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:54.560 I was obsessed and I love it. I go in, 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:56.479 I peek in there four times a day and I'm like, 0:05:56.640 --> 0:06:02.839 good job, Tom, really, I love it so good. The 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:06.880 first podcast ever with real plants in the room. 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:11.520 That's amazing that and you know what you have there. 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:16.600 You pick great plants because my money tree is thriving. 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:17.279 Is it working? 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.400 I think it's working. 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:23.040 My bills are paid and all the things, and I 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:24.440 have a fun, happy life. 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:26.240 So that Amazon money, I've been there. 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:31.159 I think it's the money tree. It just makes money 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:34.960 fall in your lab. Maddie one, two, three, three, four. 0:06:35.360 --> 0:06:38.560 What's your favorite reality show you've been on? Love seeing 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.240 my boy on my fave shows. 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:45.680 I have a really tight bond with Kyle and the 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:48.839 Summerhouse crew, Carl, the whole gang, and I really liked it. 0:06:49.040 --> 0:06:51.120 I like that cast so much. I don't think of 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:52.720 him as a cast. I think I'm as friends, but 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:54.960 it's not like we're besties. But I feel very at 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:55.680 home over there. 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:57.080 Yeah it feels easy. 0:06:57.279 --> 0:07:00.599 Yeah. Easy. Although every time I've been down there doing 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:03.240 the Summerhouse, I've been going through like a cataclysmic moment 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:04.760 in my life, do you know what I mean? The 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:07.719 first wait, the first time my ass I had like 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:10.520 I had asked problems. Let's just say that it was 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:16.000 a nightmare, like an anus was anus adjacent? Okay, it was. 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:18.120 I forget the name of it, but it's very unpleasure 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:20.720 or something. No, I forgot what it was called. But 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:23.280 it was like I had to go to the hospital 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:26.040 and get it drained. It was so ship. That was 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:27.520 the first time I ever tried wait. 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:29.160 Like an adrenal gland situation. 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:32.120 Yeah, it's it was. It was so bad. That was 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:34.000 the first time that they gave me morphine. I was like, 0:07:34.240 --> 0:07:36.600 I need morphine for this. They're like, yeah, it's gonna hurt. 0:07:37.120 --> 0:07:41.560 Shooting needles all near my balls. It was sharing. Then 0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:45.400 the second time I was secretly divorced, I did Winterhouse cameo. 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:47.160 I was saying, that's still on Winterhouse. 0:07:47.360 --> 0:07:50.400 They know it's on pause. But shout out to the 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:51.320 Winterhouse family. 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:54.720 Okay, so you would say that I that that was 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:55.960 your most favorite Summerhouse. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:58.720 I really really enjoyed going and popping in on Summer 0:07:58.760 --> 0:07:59.760 House every once in a while. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:01.280 Would you stay for a weekend? 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:03.360 I think after like two or three days, I'm ready 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:05.120 to go bet with my pop score to them. Butters, 0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:07.520 do you guys like Summerhouse? This season's so good? 0:08:07.880 --> 0:08:09.440 I'm not caught up on this season. 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:12.880 The first time I ever watched Summerhouse was last season, 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:17.120 and I actually really enjoyed it because the dynamics. It was, 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:19.840 like you said, like lightning in a bottle, where they 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:21.440 were such organic friendships. 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:24.560 And that's kind of how I feel. 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:28.360 With Southern Charm too, Like I really enjoy watching Southern Charms. 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:32.400 So good, like they like everyone has great like it factors. 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:35.040 They have star quality. Yeah, even if you don't see 0:08:35.080 --> 0:08:36.400 it when you watch the show, when you meet them 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:38.720 in person, like, oh yeah, I see, they're so charming. 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:41.280 They are very charming and fun. 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:42.880 That's why it's called Southern charm. 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:48.360 Yeah, he can underscore Silves when you're gonna take matters 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:50.000 in your own hands and do a VP. 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:51.319 New season yourself. 0:08:51.960 --> 0:08:53.800 But I don't think anybody started up. 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:56.679 You know what, though, there are moments where. 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:01.800 I can't say much, but when phone calls start happening, 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:05.320 I'm going to speak in code. Phone calls start happening 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:08.920 and questions are asked, and you're like, well, why don't 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:11.720 we just do this? And then the person on the 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:14.400 other end of the line is like, I'll talk about 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:18.080 it in our meeting. We're taking everything into account. I'm 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:21.800 like trying to give with us. See where you're going, Yeah, 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:26.600 Murph gab devs. How does your brother like la He 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:27.120 loves it. 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:30.240 He's digitally, he's thirty eight, he's having like a rebirth. 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.760 He's just he's so happy to be here. He's got 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:34.360 like his glowback, you know what I mean. He was 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.960 robbed of that from his addiction for so long. So 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:39.520 it's nice to see him just smiling and lighthearted. 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:43.679 Were you worried about him moving out here after that 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:45.240 whole situation, No. 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:47.000 I mean he's pasted every test. He knows you can 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:48.040 never drink again. 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:49.760 You know, so how do you handle that when you 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:50.400 guys go out? 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:55.480 He just has zero, zero, zero temptation to ever drink again. 0:09:56.080 --> 0:09:59.439 Really, it really shook him to his core. 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:01.840 No, he's should have died, like they told him he 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:04.120 was gonna die, and he was gonna he was stamped hospice. 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:05.880 He was supposed to go live out the rest of 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:08.400 his life at a hospice center in Florida. Oh my, 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:10.720 and I was like hell no, and we had fought 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.079 tooth and nail. Shout out to doctor Baber if he 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:16.560 ever hears this, because he was like Heaven sent guardian angel. 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:19.000 He just believed in my brother, and he got him 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:21.959 into Aushner and in New Orleans, which saved his life. 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:25.080 He has like a universal blood type too, so he's 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:27.640 like every liver that came in he was eligible for 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:28.400 almost what does that? 0:10:28.440 --> 0:10:29.200 Oh or something? 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:29.640 I think? 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:32.720 I think, oh, is the one I know my blood 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:35.720 type because obviously I've had children. But the way I 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:38.480 remember it is it's a positive. And I'm like, okay, 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:42.000 what I never got in school? A plus? 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:45.400 You know, I remember what the question was. 0:10:45.440 --> 0:10:47.000 Now, how does your brother like? 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:47.240 La? 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:48.040 Oh? He loves it. 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:48.880 Is he living with you? 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:50.440 Yeah, he's staying with me for like three months. I'm 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:52.480 gona help him get an apartment, help him get a job, 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.240 help him like you know, get acclimated. 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:56.920 Is this Burt? 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:58.239 Yeah, shout out to Bert. 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:01.560 And then your other brother what's his name again? 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:04.600 Brandon and William. They're both back in Florida. 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:05.880 They're both back in Florida. 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:10.160 Yeah, and like I have to imagine that once one 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:13.600 of the triplets leaves, Like was that hard for them? 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:16.880 Yeah? They have like a special form of communication, like 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:20.280 twins and triplets always have like this es B type 0:11:20.320 --> 0:11:22.680 of thing each other, you know. So, yeah, they broke 0:11:22.720 --> 0:11:25.040 the band up, but I think they're all at points 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:26.480 in their lives where they're okay with that. 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:30.800 Yeah, it's just I remember moving from Salt Lake to 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.240 LA and feeling like, wow, this is like such a 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:37.280 big city, Like, am I going to be able to Honestly, 0:11:37.320 --> 0:11:39.600 the reason I think I was able to stay was 0:11:39.640 --> 0:11:43.960 because I was drinking and living in my own world. 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:47.760 De Lulu Land, De Lulu is this Lulu. 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:50.840 But he has you, and I feel like that kind 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:51.760 of changes everything. 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:54.120 I'm helping him, Yeah, Yeah, I got his back. 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:55.920 Does he go out with you when you go out? 0:11:56.000 --> 0:11:58.480 He does? And I never have to worry about him drinking. 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:01.600 I just trust him with all of my soul. I 0:12:01.640 --> 0:12:03.960 really do. He's passed every test with flying colors. 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:05.240 Well, I want to go out with him. 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:06.840 Yeah, he's so fun. We should go to. 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:09.040 Chili's Real. 0:12:10.600 --> 0:12:15.000 Maggie period Monroy one. Is there a scene or moment 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:16.840 in VPR you are most proud of? 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:23.480 Probably my Probably my wedding, me and Katie's wedding. I'm 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:26.480 really proud of that. Wait, it was so fun, man. 0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:28.680 It's like it's as you get older, it's so rare 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:32.120 to get all of your friends in one area. So 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:34.600 that destination wedding, you know, and just it was so 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:38.400 there was just so much love, positive vibes, nothing, everything 0:12:38.440 --> 0:12:43.360 went perfectly smooth. And yeah, it was just really really 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:45.800 it was romantic. It was Yeah, I think it was 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:46.680 a beautiful wedding. 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:48.680 Kluts in a half one on one. 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:51.480 How does he feel about Ariana saying he gets too 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:55.920 many passes from LVP on Watch Robin's Life take both 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:58.520 of them out of it. Do you feel like you 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:00.360 get a lot of passes, Like when you look at 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:04.520 your behavior in the past, do you feel like people 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:05.840 have given you a lot of passes? 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:10.000 Yeah? Yeah, Lisa is a ballbuster, though she always holds 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:13.240 me accountable, like she's the first person to give me 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:18.000 constructive criticism, but she's been a good mentor. I don't 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:19.920 want to say anything bad about Lisa. She's a legend. 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:22.480 I wish she'd go back on Housewives. I'd love to 0:13:22.520 --> 0:13:23.439 see her on Housewives. 0:13:23.480 --> 0:13:24.360 I know you and me both. 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:25.960 I just watched did you watch last season? 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:27.559 Of course I watch every season. 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:28.320 Yeah, it's so good. 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:28.959 I'm obsessed. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:31.520 I never watched a full season before, from beginning to end, 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:32.120 and I did. 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:34.000 It was great, so good. 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:34.480 Yeah. 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:38.520 I also think that the biggest person in the mix 0:13:38.720 --> 0:13:44.560 of your behavior affecting them was probably Katie, and not 0:13:44.600 --> 0:13:47.839 saying that her behavior didn't affect you, like as I've 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:52.120 come to realize in my sobriety journey and having to 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:54.680 take accountability for my part in things, you know, it 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:57.880 always takes two people to have something kind of fall apart. 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.440 Whether that's a fifty fifth, I don't think so. I 0:14:01.480 --> 0:14:07.240 think sometimes people contribute a little bit more. But I 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:12.960 feel like she Katie has really given you grace while 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:15.680 also holding you accountable. And I think it's huge that 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:19.080 you guys can still maintain a I would say, a 0:14:19.080 --> 0:14:20.160 pretty healthy friendship. 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:22.680 Yeah. Oh my, I've got nothing but love and respect 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:22.960 for her. 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:25.200 How does the dog situation go? 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:27.360 Do you guys still switch the dogs off? 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:29.920 No, I just keep them. Yeah, we discussed this and 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:32.320 she can. She can come see them anytime she wants. 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.040 She wants to take them for a week or a 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.040 month or whatever. But yeah, I was always kind of 0:14:36.040 --> 0:14:40.480 the primary caretaker. But we love them equally, of course. Yeah, 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:42.560 but she just thought it'd be better if they stay 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:44.560 with me, and I'm so okay with that. They're my 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:45.120 best friend. 0:14:45.440 --> 0:14:48.320 Well, Schwartz, if I'm going to have you be my 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:53.040 next sperm donor, I'm primary caretaker and you will only be. 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:53.920 Allowed to pop in. 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:56.120 That's fine, all right, let's well talk. 0:14:57.000 --> 0:15:02.520 We'll discuss, okay, miss it underscore Lenaras. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.360 Six two three. What do you do for work? 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:04.560 Now? 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.880 I'm I only chose this question because of what we 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:10.080 talked about on the regular episode, when people are like 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:12.480 they're all looking for jobs. 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:14.720 Well, I guess I am kind of a bit of 0:15:14.720 --> 0:15:16.240 a Bravo whoor. I do a lot of I do 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:18.200 a lot of cameos on shows and stuff, but I 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:21.560 love my podcast. It's very fulfilling right now, it's my 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:22.680 favorite thing that I'm doing. 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:24.240 I think that's great. 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:26.720 It's been so rewarding, and I have I have a 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:29.040 few ideas for shows that I would like to create 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:31.640 and produce, but I want to talk about them. 0:15:31.800 --> 0:15:33.400 No, don't talk about them because we can give the 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:34.320 idea to someone else. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:37.040 Yeah, but yeah, I want to stay in the I 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:38.880 would like to listen a Bravo will have me. I'm 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:41.560 always I'm always gamed to be on Bravo if they 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:43.680 if they'll have me on anything, I'm down. I love 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:44.760 the Bravo family. 0:15:45.040 --> 0:15:47.680 Are you doing Bravo Con twenty twenty five. 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.360 Yeah, yeah, we did a promo together. 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:51.080 I know we did. 0:15:51.200 --> 0:15:53.200 It was fun. She threw, she was throwing the shade. 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:57.080 Yeah, you were honestly so schwartzy. And I did this 0:15:57.560 --> 0:16:02.000 promo together with a bunch of other Bravo but I 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:06.600 had no idea that Chatsworth, California, Los Angeles County is 0:16:06.640 --> 0:16:11.400 like the capital of like porn filming. 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:13.400 Yeah, house in the United States. 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:16.080 Awesome iconic house. I don't know. That was such a 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:20.280 good shoot day. Yeah, it was just there was a 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:22.840 green room, there was a red room, a pink room. 0:16:23.040 --> 0:16:23.320 Yep. 0:16:23.520 --> 0:16:26.240 They had like the carpeted bathrooms. It was super I 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:28.720 love that house. It's sexy, mid century modern. 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:33.200 They had like door handles that were giant penises, and 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:37.000 then they had a giant like those bushes that they 0:16:37.080 --> 0:16:39.600 trimmed to like make into animals and shit like that. 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:40.920 No, a giant dick. 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:43.800 I took a picture with it because I was like, 0:16:43.800 --> 0:16:44.640 I've never seen one. 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:47.760 This big plugs casually just laying around on the tables 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:50.160 and stuff. But they did a really tasteful job curating 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:54.280 that did it. They committed to the bit. 0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:57.000 They committed to the bit. I'm excited that you're doing that. 0:16:57.360 --> 0:17:00.640 We're doing Bravo con I also think the podcast is 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:03.960 a good move for you because you're did you do 0:17:04.080 --> 0:17:04.640 video yet? 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:07.760 No, but I have all the equipment. I just been procrastinating. 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:11.240 Yeah, you've got a good face, all right, and you've 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:12.679 got a nice voice to listen to. 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:14.639 Thanks a lot. That might be the sweetest thing you 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:15.040 ever said. 0:17:15.359 --> 0:17:17.760 You're very welcome, And I also think. 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:20.320 You give it. You give a shit about the product 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:21.440 comes out. 0:17:21.640 --> 0:17:24.359 I love it, and I'm always like, if I'm enjoying it, 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:26.120 then the audience will enjoy it too, I hope. 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:28.560 But I think the audience does enjoy it because there 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:30.679