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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with beck At, Tilly and Tanya Rat and

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Speaker 1: I Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in from home. Well, Tanya

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Speaker 1: and I are scrubbing in from home. The rest of

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Speaker 1: the gang is in studio like the hard brave soldiers.

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Speaker 1: They are. Yes, we are. Is it not delayed, Tanya,

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Speaker 1: I'm just staring at you. Are you just staring at me?

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Speaker 1: Because I like, okay, so Becca and I are faith

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Speaker 1: timing right now, so I felt it was important that

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Speaker 1: we could see each other. But um, we are not

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Speaker 1: to be around her as she was just flying and

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Speaker 1: I'm taking this quarantine very seriously. That's why you didn't

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Speaker 1: talk for five minutes after I just did the greeting.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, I couldn't. I couldn't hear you, and I

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Speaker 1: little bit delayed. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that's more just

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Speaker 1: so that we're not talking over each other. So don't

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Speaker 1: pay too much attention to the skype the face time screen.

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Speaker 1: I can't you just look so beautiful today? You're an idiot? Um. Hello, everybody.

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Speaker 1: I know that we are in a time where things

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Speaker 1: are you know, very uncertain, and we don't have like

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Speaker 1: a ton of answers other than you know, everyone to

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Speaker 1: just stay safe and stay at home and um be careful.

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Speaker 1: But we wanted to do a podcast and hopefully bring

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Speaker 1: some entertainment while you're sitting at home in self isolation. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's important because look, we're not

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Speaker 1: the news, we're not doctors. We're not going to tell you,

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Speaker 1: which is to self isolate as much as possible, UM,

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Speaker 1: stay away from people. I was like, I stopped going

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Speaker 1: I'm very strongly against that. But Phoebe seems to like it.

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00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: So joint just over in Venice Beach doing what I do? Yeah, literally,

426
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:23,399
Speaker 1: like what in the world? Yeah, so, um, that's how

427
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 1: my trip started and then you know, everything went mad

428
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 1: after that. Maybe I'll try it edible now that I'm quarantined. Oh,

429
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: you know what you should try. And I don't know

430
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 1: if they're a sponsor of this specific podcast, but um,

431
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 1: the cb D company that's a new sponsor for caliber.

432
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: I took it the whole time I was in Hawaii

433
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 1: because I was like feeling a little overwhelmed with like

434
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: having to cancel my New York trip and then the

435
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 1: fact that I wasn't in self isolation. You should try that.

436
00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:01,640
Speaker 1: It would probably relax you in two second, kids, antony,

437
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 1: you can get off with proud scrubbing. Yeah, I'm happy.

438
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: I'm happy to. I think I could use that right

439
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:11,119
Speaker 1: about now. I might deliver it. I'll do an exchange

440
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: with you. When you give me my food, I'll put

441
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: some a box in a bag for you. That would

442
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: be awesome. That makes it look even shadi, or that

443
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 1: you pick up one bag and leave another behind, and

444
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: I know it's a good trade. Um. Yeah, So that's

445
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: what's been. What are you seeing your boyfriend during this

446
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 1: time or what's going on? Yeah, I am seeing my

447
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: boyfriend during this time. But I'm not gonna lie. I

448
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 1: lie all him down and I make him wash his

449
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,199
Speaker 1: handsome and he walks in here and you have to

450
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: you don't know where he's been. Has he been going

451
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 1: into the office and all that stuff? Yes, no, no, no, no, no,

452
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 1: no no no, no, there's nobody there. He's like that

453
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 1: nobody's there except for him, so him and the virus. No,

454
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: if there's nobody there except for him, so he's basically

455
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 1: the self isolation there. Um. But yeah, I and I

456
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 1: mean he's been going to grocery stores too, but yeah,

457
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 1: I've been easing. I have like a lifelf spray, so

458
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: I just kind of spring it on him. I'm super

459
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: fun dat me, guys. Wow, Like, I can't think of

460
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 1: anything worse than getting spray down with the liful. I

461
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: think you're supposed to do that. My skin would not

462
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,639
Speaker 1: be happy about. I don't like, I don't like to

463
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: spring it on him like perfume. I just do it

464
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,919
Speaker 1: in the vicinity with like any bag he like his bag,

465
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: like his his like night bag and stuff. Oh it's overnight.

466
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: That's right to leave some stuff there, and that way

467
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to bring the devil, I know. But

468
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,440
Speaker 1: I also feel like, shouldn't he just asked me to

469
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 1: lead stuff? Like I don't need to tell him that, right,

470
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: he's waiting for an invitation. Might be it might be

471
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,159
Speaker 1: presumptuous to start leaving things in someone's home. I always

472
00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 1: let wait for an invitation. I'm just saying, Okay, maybe

473
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:15,640
Speaker 1: it's all, yeah, you can leave a few things here.

474
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,240
Speaker 1: It's so funny though, because I feel like there's all

475
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: these text messages that are going around right now, like

476
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: all of these, whether they're true or not, there's all

477
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: these you know, the text that are saying like we're

478
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 1: gonna be in this eight weeks and you know, quarantine

479
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 1: or whatever. And so I start to panic, and he like, really,

480
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: can calm me down? You know, He's like, tunny, you've

481
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: gotten You've got enough salops in your freezer to last,

482
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:46,479
Speaker 1: don't dog it. And I'm like, scalot, Yeah, because they

483
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: had that was the only thing in the frozen aisle

484
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: that was left. It was a jumbo bag of scalous,

485
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 1: frozen scalous. I don't even know how to cook scalt.

486
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: Is that all you're gonna leave on the side of

487
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: the road for me? Is that? It? No? No, But

488
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 1: when I went for you, I had got Boca burgers,

489
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: and I got some vegan meatballs, and then I got

490
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: a bag of vegetables and a bag of fruit. Okay, great,

491
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, I am not a huge scalps

492
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 1: versus I might like this for you. That's a hilarious

493
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: panic by I know because it was the only thing

494
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: that wasn't so literally, my boyfriend was like, l O

495
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: L what are you gonna do with this giant bag?

496
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, I can probably eat like two

497
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,200
Speaker 1: a day, so we're in here. If I'm in here

498
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: for a while, like these will laugh men tired of quick.

499
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: I did not go like I was not. I kind

500
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: of feel like I should have gone to the grocery

501
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 1: store with more like intention because I bought to look

502
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: random stuff because everything so like when I tell you

503
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:55,239
Speaker 1: that the shelves are empty, like they are empty. So

504
00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: like I saw, you know, salsa that hadn't been picked over,

505
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 1: so I grabbed salta. But I have no it I have.

506
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: I found spaghetti, like I found spaghetti in the spaghetti aisle,

507
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: but I didn't grab marinara sauces and spaghetti. I'm just like,

508
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: what in the world. Oh well, it's gonna sound very

509
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: different in a few seconds when Laura Elena jumps on.

510
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 1: I know. So we recorded this interview with Laura Elena

511
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: last week and it's we're in the studio, so it

512
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 1: will be a significant change for your ears, which will

513
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: probably appreciate um. But she's so amazing, and I felt

514
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 1: like this is there couldn't be a more perfect interview

515
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: to go up while everyone's in this kind of like

516
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: uncertain time, because she is just a light. She is

517
00:29:54,080 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: a what does a ray of sunshine? Yeah? So what's

518
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: this ton is? She's she's looking on Instagram or reading

519
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: a text or something. I'm watching her. I am reading

520
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: a text. Okay, I'm trying some multitasks here. Things are

521
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: happening in real time in my life. I had to

522
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: get the pharmacy to pick up a prescription, and that

523
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: is the last place that I want to go right now.

524
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 1: Oh no, my doctor said that the like the way,

525
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: the way time like on the pharmacy has been over

526
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 1: an hour just for them to call in prescriptions. I'm like, awesome, Well,

527
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: at least it's you know, at least you have insurance

528
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 1: to go to the the doctor and get a prescription. That's

529
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: the bright side there, you go. I know, you're right,

530
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: You're right. So what I'm saying, I'm sorry. I was

531
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: like in real time getting a text and I just needed,

532
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 1: you know, focus on you. I'm staring right at you, girl.

533
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah that's scary. Um. So anyways, here's our interview with

534
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 1: Laura A. Lena. She is wonderful, she is feisty, she's strong,

535
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: she's an open book Eastern loves her um um. And

536
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: so here's our interview of Laura Lena. I hope you

537
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: enjoy it and we'll be right back. It's Jeannina from

538
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Speaker 1: Love and Sight, a new I Heart Radio podcast all

539
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Speaker 1: about the TV show Love Is Blind? Are you addicted

540
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541
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543
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544
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545
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546
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547
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549
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Speaker 1: Love Insight available now everywhere you listen to podcasts. Alright,

552
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: so we have a very special guest, someone that you'll

553
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: have requested to come on the podcast for a while now.

554
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: And we finally have her scrubbing in in the studio.

555
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: Please welcome Laura, Lena, Laura Lena, don't worry. You have

556
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: been chloro stuff abbing and we have scrubbed these microphones.

557
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: Johnny was wiping hers like she was about to put

558
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: the whole thing in her mouth. Can't be too cautious. Yeah,

559
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 1: you never know. You never know what's going to happen

560
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: in here. We just want to make you feel safe. YEA,

561
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 1: thank you. I really do feel safe and just healthy protected. Um.

562
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 1: We have literally so we have a Facebook group for

563
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: the podcast and they are very dedicated to who they

564
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: want to come on. They always are giving us suggestions.

565
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 1: Your name has been there for a long time. Oh

566
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Speaker 1: that makes me feel good. And then you went in

567
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: the Facebook group and you asked them to I think

568
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: before at the end of this we should go in

569
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: there and fire off like some speedy speed rounds. Yeah,

570
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: I put I posted and said, is there anything that

571
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: you all want to know about Lauren? Are there any

572
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 1: questions you want me to ask her? And a lot

573
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: of them they do have questions, but a lot of

574
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,200
Speaker 1: them just wanted to say, like she is just such

575
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: a light and we're so grateful for her and they

576
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: love you. So we have this our podcast. Tanya has

577
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: kind of coined the phrase modern woman energy and you

578
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 1: are kind of the epitome of a modern woman. Well,

579
00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: thank you, goodness Grace. She's got to get on this Facebook. Yeah,

580
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: I mean it is. It will make feeling bad. I

581
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: am going to get on your Facebook. Actually, are we

582
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: highly recommended for anyone who needs to boost midweek? Midweek boost? Um,

583
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: So you have an EP that's out, It's so good.

584
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 1: I listened to I had It ball this morning, especially

585
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 1: because I knew I was gonna talk to you. But

586
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: I loved the track. The what title track? Is that

587
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: the correct term? Um? I love it because it's so

588
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: true that we go I'll be happy when I get

589
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: this or when this happens. And I thought it was

590
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: such a great It's such a good message of being like,

591
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: why don't we just live in appreciate what we have

592
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 1: going on right now, living contentment? And I was wondering

593
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 1: if you were going through something where you were like,

594
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 1: I'm struggling because I keep thinking maybe if I do this,

595
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: or maybe if I think I think we're all doing that,

596
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 1: because I'm a big goals person. I like to set goals,

597
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 1: but then I feel like I forget to be thankful

598
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: when I reached the goal sometimes because then I've a

599
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 1: new one and it's just like a ongoing thing. And

600
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: I actually this song getting good. I did not write it,

601
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 1: and I write all of my music, but I heard

602
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 1: I heard this song and it's written by a girl

603
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: named Emily Wise Band who I write a lot of

604
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: my I wrote six songs on the last album with her,

605
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: so it makes sense if I cut a song that

606
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: I didn't write, I would cut hers because we have

607
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: similar writing styles. Um, but I heard the song and

608
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: it kind of stopped me in my track and I

609
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 1: was like, I need to I'm gonna call my mom

610
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: and dad. It's it's like the song it makes you

611
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: want to call your family. I know that part got me.

612
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: It's like I'm sitting there talking she's it's talking about

613
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,240
Speaker 1: calling the parents and not even being able to focus

614
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: on the conversation because you are thinking of horrible things

615
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: happening to your family, so you're not able to like

616
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: soak in the moments of them. And it's so true.

617
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 1: Why do we do that? We all need to be

618
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: like I don't know I. I listened to that song

619
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 1: and I cried the first time I heard it, and

620
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't really cut songs that I

621
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: don't write, but I'm gonna like I made Oh sorry,

622
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: good thing. That's why weed, It's why we webbed it. It

623
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: It just smacked my face on the microphone. How do

624
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: you stop yourself from doing that? And like kind of

625
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: living in the moment, because I think, I think, especially

626
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: more recently, I find that I'm never like in the

627
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: place that I'm in, Like I feel like my mind's

628
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: racing as to like what I have to do next,

629
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Speaker 1: and I'm like trying to be more like present in

630
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,439
Speaker 1: the moment. I think it's you just have to think

631
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: about it to try actively try to be present in

632
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 1: the moment because it's so easy to be distracted. There

633
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 1: are so many distractions. These phones and all of the

634
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:54,480
Speaker 1: things are so distracting. Um TikTok, did you say talking?

635
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 1: I don't have a TikTok. Don't get one. I don't

636
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,239
Speaker 1: think I can. I literally physically don't think I can

637
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 1: get TikTok because I can't. I don't even know how

638
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: it works. But I've made one TikTok. These little girls

639
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: made me make one at a show. So I've participated

640
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: in TikTok. Once you're on the TikTok, I am on

641
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: the TikTok. I'm just not on the TikTok. But no,

642
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 1: it is so true. I think we are always like

643
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 1: setting goals for the next thing, and we're taught to

644
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,439
Speaker 1: do that in a sense like it's like, let's write

645
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: down our goals, let's write down our resolution. Well, it

646
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: is a good thing to do, but it is also

647
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 1: a good thing to be thankful and present in your life,

648
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 1: so it's tricky to balance it. And I just think

649
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 1: that song Emily did such a great song writing that

650
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: great job writing that song, and she puts it perfectly.

651
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 1: I know it's it's worded so beautifully. Um there's also

652
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:49,080
Speaker 1: a song called Ladies in the nineties, So I just

653
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: feel like I've seen so many Um yeah, Eastern having

654
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:03,960
Speaker 1: a corona. You're literally like grabbed your chest. I thought

655
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: you were having an art attack. I don't know. I

656
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 1: am so thankful that that song brings that out of you,

657
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: like thank you. I did write that one. Well. It's

658
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:16,839
Speaker 1: cute because I also feel like it's a very it's

659
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: a fun song. You like reference some just bops, like

660
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 1: nineties bops, Brittany and Christina like some moments. But I

661
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: do feel like it's a conversation that people are having

662
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: with especially women in country music, of songs not dominating

663
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: the radio like they used to. Well, I get asked

664
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: that so much and no, no, no no, no, no, this

665
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: is perfect. I'm going to tell you why I wrote

666
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: the song. So people ask me all the time, why

667
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 1: is there a lack of female presence on country radio? Well,

668
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: first of all, on pop radio, every other song is

669
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: a woman. Oh interesting, I think every other song on

670
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 1: pop radio as a woman because they are massively under

671
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,360
Speaker 1: playing in pop radio as well. Are they just not

672
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: as bad Probably as country for sure. Not yeah, because

673
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: there's like Dimmi and Taylor, and there are girls that

674
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 1: Ariana Selena listen to its post malone. Every song's post Malone,

675
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers. I'm trying to think of, like we played

676
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: this morning the weekend, Yeah, the weekend. But it's so

677
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 1: weird because people ask me all the time, and I'm like,

678
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know why, because I grew up

679
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 1: in the nineties and that was not an issue. It

680
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: just wasn't any It wasn't even it was like more women,

681
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: I feel like thin, man, But maybe that's because that's

682
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 1: what I gravitated towards. But I just wanted to write

683
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 1: like a fun song addressing it. Twelve examples. There are

684
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 1: twelve songs and ladies in the nineties that were live

685
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: changing songs for me and probably both of you. Like

686
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 1: you everybody can hear, man, I feel like a woman

687
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: come on and the party is starting, and it's just like,

688
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: but I don't ever want to be negative, So I

689
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: wanted to write a fun song, just like reminding people like, hey,

690
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: this is what happens when women are on the right,

691
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: You're welcome. Well, I was gonna say, there's no like,

692
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 1: it's not a song that seems bitter or frustrated. It's

693
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: more like a fun but addressing like I thought. It

694
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 1: made me realize there was a time where women, it

695
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 1: seems like, did dominate country music. But maybe I'm the

696
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: same way. I just gravitated towards them because my mom

697
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: played them. You know, maybe it wasn't necessarily what was

698
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: on the radio, but well, everyone's talking about it, so

699
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 1: I feel like it's not just us to think that,

700
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 1: you know, definitely a conversation, but I wanted to write

701
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 1: like a lighthearted, fun song and just be like, hey,

702
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,200
Speaker 1: this is what happens, and and and then people are

703
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: clinching their chests every yeah the pearl um Getting into

704
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: the deeper things. Are you dating? Do you talk about dating?

705
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:05,399
Speaker 1: Because you've had some public relationships and I don't think

706
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:08,919
Speaker 1: i'll ever have one again. Really keep it private? Yes,

707
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: I think that's gonna be the one thing that I

708
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:14,360
Speaker 1: keep to myself because it has not worked out for

709
00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 1: me I have a public relationship because then when they end,

710
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: everybody talks about it and they want to know everything

711
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,360
Speaker 1: about it, which is just the nature of my life.

712
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: And I'm okay with that. But I think I just

713
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: decided very recently to um keep that to myself. Like

714
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 1: I just decided like five minutes ago. I just now,

715
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 1: I just now decided. Do you mean they keep it

716
00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: up not necessarily not dating somebody that is a public

717
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 1: figure like yourself. Yeah, no, no, I don't mean that.

718
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 1: I just like, like with my last two relationships, UM,

719
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 1: they were very public. Well, I was engaged and everyone

720
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 1: wrote about that, and then I was unengaged and everyone

721
00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: really wrote about that, and then I had another boyfriend

722
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: who was also um famous and Alex my fiance X

723
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: fiance was not famous, so and it was just as

724
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: big of an explosion. So I don't think it really

725
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: matters if the other person is a celebrity. It has

726
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 1: nothing to do with that. Um. I just I don't

727
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 1: think it's a great idea because I'm dating. If I

728
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: was married, maybe I would like talk more about my husband.

729
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: But until it's like something like that, I think I'm

730
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 1: gonna try to hold it as close to myself as possible. Obviously,

731
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 1: I'll be seen out with my boyfriend and like people,

732
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: people will probably know eventually because they'll see pictures of

733
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,399
Speaker 1: me with this certain person over and over again. But

734
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I think my social media platforms are

735
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 1: for my music and for my brand, and I just

736
00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: I just I learned my lesson. It's interesting though, because

737
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: is your brain. I mean, you're a musician, so you

738
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: can take this and everything that you you know, you're

739
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: in your relationships, and your outlet is your music. So

740
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 1: it's like you can tell your story how you want

741
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,360
Speaker 1: to tell your story, how you want to narrate your story,

742
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 1: through your song, through your craft. You don't have to

743
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: do that, you know. I mean, I think it's it's

744
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: a fine line because I think it just depends on professionally,

745
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:22,399
Speaker 1: because you are a public figure, so yes, everybody says,

746
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 1: like your public figure, you should expect to X y Z.

747
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: But it's like you're a musician, yes, so you can

748
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:31,399
Speaker 1: choose to do it through your music if you want.

749
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: And I am such an open book. If you hang

750
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 1: out with me for five seconds, I don't really hold

751
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: back anything. But I just feel like in the last

752
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,359
Speaker 1: couple of years, I've had to learn to keep some

753
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 1: things for me because my life is so public, Like

754
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: my nephews are for me, you know, occasionally will post

755
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: about them, I talk about them, but that that's like

756
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 1: my family is for me. And I feel like the

757
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 1: music is a little bit separate, and I'll be writing

758
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 1: about people I'm dating on the CP I have a

759
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: couple of breakup songs on there. If you'd like to

760
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: hear that, if you'd like to hear about my relationships,

761
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: are right about them. But I just feel like it's

762
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 1: just and it also puts an added layer of pressure

763
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: on my relationships when they're really public like that. Listen,

764
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 1: I get it. I'm in a relationship and I don't

765
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: this is I haven't talked about this one, and I'm

766
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: Everyone's like, why don't you talk about this? Is what

767
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: we you know, follow because I was. I was on

768
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 1: The Bachelor, which we discussed. You've never watched, but it

769
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 1: was a long time ago. But the reason why they

770
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: started following me was on my journey to find love.

771
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: So then when I got in a relationship and it

772
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,439
Speaker 1: was private, I mean it was public with someone else

773
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: from the Bachelor world, it added this just like it says,

774
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 1: it's hard to explain. And when we broke up, I

775
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:52,879
Speaker 1: felt like I was letting people down and I was like,

776
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 1: this is so weird because it's to my relationship. It is.

777
00:44:57,160 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: It is a tricky thing, and because then people become

778
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: like fans of your relationship, yeah, and you don't want

779
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:07,479
Speaker 1: to let him down. And I'm like, I don't even

780
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: like this guy. You can like him separately. I gotta

781
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: get rid of him. I can't be with him anymore.

782
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: It isn't done interesting dynamically or not you Because I

783
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,439
Speaker 1: remember when Ariana Granda and Pete Davidson split up and

784
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:27,280
Speaker 1: Pete Davidson started um using Ariana in his like stand

785
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 1: up comedy routine or whatever, and people were really up

786
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 1: in arms, like the Oriana Granda fans are so mad

787
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 1: about that. But I recently heard him talking about it

788
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: and it kind of gave me his side of the

789
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: like the situation, and it kind of opened my eyes

790
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 1: a little bit. He's like, look like Ariana writes about

791
00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:43,799
Speaker 1: our relationship and write songs about it, and like, this

792
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: is my outlet. Like I'm a comedian. I make jokes

793
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 1: like this is this is how I you know, do it?

794
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 1: I exploited for comedian? Is that going to be me?

795
00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's his outlet, you know. And I'm like, what,

796
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: you gotta respect right to that finish. I got a

797
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: full length album coming out later this year probably, so yeah,

798
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 1: beat him to it. Do it? You have to release

799
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:16,759
Speaker 1: one of those singles quick. Um, did you have fun

800
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: on Dancing at the Stars? I did? It was hard.

801
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: I've heard it's the hardest process for people. I broke

802
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 1: four ribs fractured, not broke. Broke, is like really intense fractured.

803
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: I guess you don't really need them though, right, No,

804
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 1: not until you have, not until they're fractured, and then

805
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 1: you realize you really do need them to breathe and

806
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: to live comfortably and to move and dance and sing.

807
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,120
Speaker 1: I told you that. Somebody told me that, Like somebody

808
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 1: got their ribs removed, and I was like, oh, do

809
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: you not need all your ribs? Like that's so random.

810
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:54,040
Speaker 1: I think them being broken is different like being cracked,

811
00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,839
Speaker 1: and like maybe puncturing your lungs is different than not

812
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 1: being there. Superbos get started. I will say. They told

813
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: me I could still dance, and I did it so

814
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 1: against She's right, you don't need Thank you so much.

815
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:16,359
Speaker 1: I mean, do protect your lungs, right, all of it? Right?

816
00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: Your red cage is all kind of in the cage.

817
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 1: We are really scrubbing in here of anatomy. It was

818
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:31,759
Speaker 1: it was so I wasn't a lot of pain a

819
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: lot of the time. But I enjoyed it. I did

820
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: enjoy I enjoyed the costumes that caught the wardrobe department.

821
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: I'm in love with them. I love them, those ladies

822
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: in that wardrobe department. I cried when I left the

823
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: show because I was going to miss them. Seriously, did

824
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: you get the numbers? Actually I should call them while

825
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm here and go see them. Um, but and then

826
00:47:56,000 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 1: Ali Brooke and I became like instantly on the show. Well,

827
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 1: she and I are really close. Oh, I love that.

828
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: I just talked to her yesterday because she's doing a

829
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 1: headlining to Yeah I called the Congratulator. That's so great. Yeah,

830
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: she's just the sweetest um. And I'm gonna get to

831
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: the questions from our Facebook group because there was there

832
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,280
Speaker 1: were a few that were like, they were so proud

833
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: because you started out. It was like such an emotional

834
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 1: and like confidence builder for you, and they did they

835
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: just thought it was so cool to watch you have

836
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: that transformation, you know, in front of a lot of people,

837
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:37,280
Speaker 1: and it was like a couple of people, a small crowd. Really. Um, Okay,

838
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 1: so this is from Sarah. She said, is it true

839
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: that you pop in for a visit to your mom's

840
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:47,240
Speaker 1: bar in northern Where are you from? I'm from Georgia,

841
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: but my mom lives in ryan Lander, Wisconsin. Yeah, they

842
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 1: want to know if occasionally I pop into the bar.

843
00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: She said, you ladies have good genes. She's just as

844
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 1: beautiful as you are. That I look a lot like

845
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: my mom, So she thinks my mom's pretty. She probably

846
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 1: thinks I'm pretty. Oh, this is a good one. What

847
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: was harder to compete in Idol or Dancing with the Stars. Well,

848
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 1: I didn't break anything on Americans. Uh, they felt so

849
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:20,120
Speaker 1: different to me because I was really nervous on American

850
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: Idol because I was setting up my career. And I

851
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 1: was really nervous on Dancing with the Stars because I

852
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: don't know how to dance at all, Like I was

853
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:32,000
Speaker 1: literally doing something I've never done. Um, the question was

854
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 1: what was harder? Was that? The question? Probably dancing with

855
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:40,879
Speaker 1: the Stars only because I've been singing since I was three,

856
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: It's like second nature to you. Yeah. The dancing, I

857
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know how to do this. I know,

858
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 1: we're It's a kind of an awkward set up with her.

859
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: We probably should have put you here. Everything's clean at Lacey. Um.

860
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 1: What is your favorite thing about being on tour with

861
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: Blake Shelton? Are you on tour with Blake Shelton? Yes?

862
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 1: Currently right now. That is freaking awesome. I'm watching well,

863
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm watching the Voice, and I'm like obsessed with him.

864
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 1: He's hysterical. He reminds me his humor is so similar

865
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 1: to my dad's that he says things and it's he

866
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: makes me laugh so much because of that. He's so

867
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 1: entertaining to on stage, like he feels it feels like

868
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 1: he's talking to everyone in the crowd. He's awesome. My

869
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: favorite part of well Gwen Stefani keeps showing up. Dude,

870
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 1: Tony is obsessed with them, like I'm obsessed with them,

871
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,240
Speaker 1: like she she came out and sang a few times

872
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, And then she told me that

873
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: my voice sounds like a recording and that she keeps

874
00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 1: thinking I'm gonna sound bad and then I don't. She's like,

875
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: there's no way, you always hit the right notes. And

876
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,800
Speaker 1: then I to you and I'm literally watching her talk

877
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 1: like you know in slo I'm like, you're like an icon,

878
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 1: your wind stiff fun telling me in your sparkly thigh.

879
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:18,839
Speaker 1: But is it just like so human and no, it's

880
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: very skin It's bizarre to me, like normal. She is

881
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: what moisturizing does she use? We are all getting it.

882
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:31,400
Speaker 1: I thought you were on your own headlining tour. I was.

883
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,879
Speaker 1: I was before, Yes, okay, so I'm not No, no, no,

884
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,879
Speaker 1: I didn't. I did my tour before this Blake Shelton tour. Yes,

885
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 1: well that's sold it all out. So your favorite Greg

886
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: is that, Yeah, we're gonna plug you. Don't worry, We're

887
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 1: gonna get that. Yes, I did go on the headlining tour,

888
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: but my favorite part is how nice he is. And

889
00:51:56,920 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 1: they have really good catering. That's important. The catering is

890
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 1: really good on this tour. Some tours don't have good food,

891
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:06,839
Speaker 1: Like shouting got the good food. I love Like Gwen

892
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: just pops in there though she does. They are sweet.

893
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: They really love each other. They love each other so much.

894
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: And she is just like like I can't even put

895
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 1: into words because she is Gwen Safanni right like she

896
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: is up there like you, that is mega mega, and

897
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 1: she acts just like what's up? Like Okay, you want?

898
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 1: Do you want? Do you want some? Can I get

899
00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: you something to drink? I'm like, you're Gwen Stefani like

900
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:34,240
Speaker 1: let me get yes, you can. Thank you. I'm gonna

901
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: keep it. I'm gonna frame the cup, put this cup

902
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:41,720
Speaker 1: in a shadow box and keep it. I'm like obsessed

903
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: with her in an unhealthy way. I can't wait to

904
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: see you next week. After I've said all these really

905
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: embarrassing things about how cool you are, Like yeah, I

906
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 1: mean a ton of these are just you know, they're

907
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 1: asking about your relationship, which we talked about, who is

908
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,839
Speaker 1: your best friend known dancing with the Stars it um,

909
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:02,879
Speaker 1: and a lot of them are just saying we love

910
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 1: you and you're so inspirational. They asked about your ex

911
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: how he's doing how I'm not sure, Yeah, that was

912
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 1: the question, if you'll still talk? No, Yeah, something that's

913
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: probably maybe since everybody's saying like, you're so inspirational and

914
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: that's what they like, look up to you two or

915
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 1: look up to you for. Is there anything that um

916
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 1: that you've learned along the way in your process? That

917
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: kind of UM was really jarring to you? Was like

918
00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 1: a lesson that you learned that you could share with everybody. Yeah, I, um, well,

919
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 1: could be personally, personally, could be professionally. I've learned a

920
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:43,040
Speaker 1: lot in the last ten years. Yeah, I bet I

921
00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 1: learned to be nice to myself. That was pretty important

922
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 1: lesson I had to learned, UM, and not to let

923
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:51,400
Speaker 1: people except your Facebook. I can hang out on your Facebook.

924
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 1: It turns out your faceboouse a safe place for me exception.

925
00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,360
Speaker 1: But I just um, I used to let like negative

926
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 1: in energy and comments on the internet. Control how I

927
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: felt about myself, and I don't do that anymore because honestly,

928
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: those people are not buying tickets to my show, I

929
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 1: don't think so. I don't think I'm really going to

930
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:13,439
Speaker 1: hang out with them ever, So I just delete them now.

931
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 1: But I it was it was a struggle for me.

932
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: I really struggled with an aiding disorder for a long

933
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:20,640
Speaker 1: time and I have talked a lot about about that,

934
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 1: and confidence is the biggest thing that I've had to

935
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: work on. It's interesting because I think so many people

936
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 1: struggle with that with body image in such different ways,

937
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 1: Like I struggle so much myself. Like I I can't

938
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: remember the name of orthorexia. That what it's called. It's

939
00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: where you have this obsession with food. It's like where

940
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: you just everything that you eat, you like have to

941
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: know where it came from, how many calories are in it.

942
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: Like it's kind of like one of those things where

943
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 1: you're subsessively, you know, Like it's kind of like miss

944
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: It's not represented very much, but disorder. I guess I

945
00:54:55,840 --> 00:55:00,839
Speaker 1: got that one too. Yeah, I'm just kidding. I really did.

946
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:03,879
Speaker 1: I used to have to, like if I couldn't say

947
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,560
Speaker 1: the packaging it was not going to happen. But I

948
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: think that honestly, I think nine out of ten women

949
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 1: have some sort deal with that and some I mean

950
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 1: it's inevitable. It's like in our face constantly of how

951
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: we're supposed to look, how clothes are supposed to fit.

952
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:24,440
Speaker 1: I mean, but I think it's so cool now that

953
00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:27,319
Speaker 1: I think there's like this wave of like, um can't.

954
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: I think it's Olay that has the campaign where they're

955
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 1: saying they're not going to retouch women's their photos anymore

956
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:33,839
Speaker 1: of their faces because they're selling like you know, these

957
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: beauty or like the beauty products and that, like Ammndez

958
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,400
Speaker 1: response like responded to a fan saying, like, you know,

959
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:43,000
Speaker 1: this is a campaign photo. This has been retouched and edited,

960
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 1: and you know, like opening that conversation because it is

961
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 1: we flooded with all these images and like we can't

962
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 1: we look at ourselves and we're like, well, I have

963
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 1: cellulate on my arm, like nobody has some there now,

964
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:00,719
Speaker 1: and how do I get rid of it? Right? But

965
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 1: really like it really you know, we can we joke

966
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: and stuff, but it really really affects you. It really

967
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,879
Speaker 1: really does. And so I had a really weird thing

968
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 1: about my chin I still do like where i'd like

969
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: certain angles. I'm super freaked up by my chin like that.

970
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 1: It's just a thing of that bothers me about myself,

971
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: like no one else would say that and think I

972
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 1: have what's wrong with Now you guys are looking at

973
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: my chin, like what's wrong with her chin? I'm just kidding, kidding,

974
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 1: But it's so because and I will say, I see

975
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 1: retouched photos of myself and then I see myself and

976
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: I think I don't look like that. I'm like looking

977
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,560
Speaker 1: at myself. I had Like at first, I had a

978
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:46,280
Speaker 1: really hard time with not wearing makeup, like going without makeup,

979
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 1: because I saw myself on stage and all these photos

980
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 1: so retouched and like looking like pretend. And then I

981
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,359
Speaker 1: would look at myself and I thought, why we got

982
00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: to put some makeup on? We wake up immediately. And

983
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: it was like a thing for me for a long time.

984
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: Now I'm like hitting up Kroger just not even brushing

985
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 1: my hair. I don't care, you know, because you have

986
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:10,879
Speaker 1: you had your your self confident I had. I had.

987
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:13,759
Speaker 1: I've gotten out of that cloud. I've gotten a lot

988
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: of help around it. And yeah, I mean I like

989
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: to take care of myself and look nice. But I'm

990
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 1: doing it because I want to look nice, not because

991
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: I think I have to look nice. It's for other people.

992
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 1: It's like the pressure of thinking, this is how they

993
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 1: want me to look or how they expect me to look,

994
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 1: so I have to do that. It's hard though, I

995
00:57:32,840 --> 00:57:36,320
Speaker 1: mean even the most confident I it seemed to be

996
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 1: the most confident person in the whole wide world and

997
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 1: always have because I've got this huge personality. So when

998
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 1: I first talked about struggling with it, people were, I think, surprised,

999
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:51,000
Speaker 1: but you never know what someone's going through. You did,

1000
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if I miss this. Did you did

1001
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 1: that start after being on TV? And No, I've struggled

1002
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 1: from the time I was in middle school on and

1003
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 1: I was an American. I don't when I was fifteen,

1004
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: but people teased me about my waite a lot, so

1005
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 1: it just kind of I'd already had issues with it,

1006
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 1: and that just kind of catapult. Yes. Yeah, it's so

1007
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 1: crazy that to imagine doing what you did. I fifteen

1008
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: years old and now, my goodness, I see pictures of

1009
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: myself and I'm I'm my little flip flops like I

1010
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:26,640
Speaker 1: was a little kid. So sweet. I was really mean

1011
00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 1: to her. I was really mean to her, and I

1012
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: want to hug her. I would I would love to

1013
00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 1: go back and hug her. You know. Yeah, they're little

1014
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 1: diamond flip flops. I loved those flip flops. I wore

1015
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: them out and I wear them in my American Idol audition.

1016
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 1: If you guys you were like, like the h I

1017
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: got these. I paid good money for these flip flops.

1018
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,439
Speaker 1: I'm going to give them the exposure they deserve. Maybe

1019
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 1: I'll try to bring back the diamond flip flop. I'll

1020
00:58:55,640 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 1: let youall know how it gets. I'll keep you passive. Well.

1021
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 1: Thank you. I mean, you're like the perfect guest for

1022
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: our show. You're just amazing, and like I said, we

1023
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: had so many requests to have you on here for

1024
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: this reason because they know who you are and they

1025
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: love who you are. So thank you so much for coming.

1026
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry I didn't realize that you're currently on tour

1027
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 1: with Bay That's what I thought you were doing your thing,

1028
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: And you're still doing your thing with Blake and going

1029
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: around so and you guys. Lauren's new EP, Getting Good

1030
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: is available now, so stream it by it. What else

1031
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 1: can you do to it. Love it, love it, review it.

1032
00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 1: It's so good. Check it out. Where are where did

1033
00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 1: you say where you can get tickets for the show?

1034
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 1: I did not? Is there? Do you have a website

1035
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: working anywhere? To my website, Laurena Lene at official dot com. Um,

1036
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 1: that's where you can get them and where can they

1037
00:59:55,640 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: follow you? On Instagram? Twitter? Okay? Instagram is are in Elena?

1038
01:00:00,920 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 1: It's very easy. You're welcome and Facebook as well. On Twitter,

1039
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: somebody decided to take that name, so I know occasionally

1040
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: go look at their page anyway. Um, it's at Lauren

1041
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: underscore Elena. Look for the blue check mark. Super fancy

1042
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 1: like that. I can't remember off the top of my

1043
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: head and how that one ended, but I hope you

1044
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: enjoyed that. Um, she's just really great. We should probably

1045
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: we should probably preface and let people know, like, are

1046
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 1: you liking the way this sound? You want to email us?

1047
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: Um your opinion? You know that's just inviting criticism. Yeah,

1048
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: it's just like hear it. I can hear it right now,

1049
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: and I can tell you they're not gonna like this

1050
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 1: better than our normal sounding. It's a little on the

1051
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 1: sungs EA side. It's a little on the palms ea side.

1052
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:18,720
Speaker 1: But you know what, it is our civil duty as

1053
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 1: human to take this responsibly. That's true. The other interesting

1054
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:27,720
Speaker 1: thing is next week we won't be in Eastern and

1055
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 1: I won't be in this building to receive this, so

1056
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 1: I don't know what's gonna happen next time. Um well,

1057
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 1: we have a couple of emails for you before we

1058
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:38,520
Speaker 1: say goodbye. It's currently raining, so it really is a

1059
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:42,440
Speaker 1: great day of isolation for me at least. All right.

1060
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 1: This is from anonymous. My boyfriend and I have been

1061
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: dating long distance for two years. We see each other

1062
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 1: at least once a month for a couple of days.

1063
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: At the beginning, we would talk on the phone for

1064
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 1: hours and hours, but as time went down it seems

1065
01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: like we run out of things to talk about. We

1066
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,320
Speaker 1: have started to talk about our future, and I worry

1067
01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 1: sometimes that we may not be compatible for the long haul.

1068
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 1: For example, my faith is a big part of my

1069
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:02,760
Speaker 1: life and he supports that, but we're not really aligned

1070
01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: in that area, and I question how kids would be

1071
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 1: raved interests, hobbies, etcetera. I'd also like to date in

1072
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: the same city before an engagement, but I don't know

1073
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:11,280
Speaker 1: if I am at a place to quit my job

1074
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 1: and leave my life here. I love him, I care

1075
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 1: so much about him, but I'm questioning if I can

1076
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 1: ever get to that place feelings wise with him, and

1077
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:21,080
Speaker 1: it breaks my heart. And to add more confusion, hung

1078
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:22,760
Speaker 1: out with a guy friend of mine last year and

1079
01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: as we were talking, I felt like we had so

1080
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:26,479
Speaker 1: much in common and he made me laugh so much.

1081
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: I even had a dream about him that and I

1082
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: think we're getting married. Is fear of commitment creeping in

1083
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend or is this my gut telling me

1084
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:38,840
Speaker 1: he's not the one? We are both thirty years old. Um,

1085
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 1: I think that this is a gut feeling and an

1086
01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: intuition feeling, because you're not if you were, if you're

1087
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,720
Speaker 1: already questioning all these things, and you're not even living

1088
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:54,439
Speaker 1: in the same city. That's not living in the same

1089
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 1: city isn't going to fix the issues that you're having

1090
01:02:56,920 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: or the things that you're questioning. Because I do believe

1091
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:03,440
Speaker 1: that people can make things work with different interests doesn't

1092
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 1: make it harder. Sometimes it probably does make it harder

1093
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 1: because there are big things that you do think about,

1094
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,919
Speaker 1: like how will the kids be raised? You know, all

1095
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 1: that stuff. But I think if you think moving there

1096
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:21,120
Speaker 1: is going to fix those problems, then you're going to

1097
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 1: be disappointed. Yeah. I'm kind of with Becca on this

1098
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: one in terms of you kind of got to go

1099
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: with your gut, right, I mean, I just think that

1100
01:03:34,840 --> 01:03:37,640
Speaker 1: I think I been like my gauge, my gut gauge

1101
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:41,680
Speaker 1: for literally the last week, Like I literally because I

1102
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:45,880
Speaker 1: can really swing really drastically on either side, and I've

1103
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,360
Speaker 1: been using market my gauge. She texted me many times

1104
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 1: asking whether she should panic or not. Yeah, but here

1105
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 1: I am not panic. No, Hey, freezer full of scallops,

1106
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 1: you're dud, You're good. Yeah, there about when you've got

1107
01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 1: a freezerabule of scalp That's exactly what I'm saying. Um,

1108
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 1: I do think you gotta go with your gud. I

1109
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,560
Speaker 1: do think you've gotta telling you something very clearly here.

1110
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 1: And I think there's a few too many strikes. Like

1111
01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 1: I think that the faith issue is overcome able. I

1112
01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 1: think the distance issue is overcome able. I think the

1113
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 1: feelings fading problem could be overcome able. But all three

1114
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 1: of them, I think is a three strikes you're out situation.

1115
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: So I think maybe you start to maybe move on

1116
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 1: from this, I don't know, you jump into this other

1117
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 1: guy because that's probably not the healthiest thing in the world.

1118
01:04:31,240 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: But you should probably address the issues with your boyfriend

1119
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 1: and let them know that you're not feeling a feelings wise,

1120
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 1: and that when you talk about that your future together,

1121
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 1: it scares you. Yeah, yeah, you're kind of I like,

1122
01:04:41,320 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 1: how Mark, there's a three strikes and your out thing

1123
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 1: a big baseball fan. Well, it's true, it's like one

1124
01:04:46,960 --> 01:04:51,000
Speaker 1: of those things is something you can work through. I agree,

1125
01:04:51,080 --> 01:04:55,320
Speaker 1: But like having three big things like that, that just

1126
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: that's a lot. And and I think, like not saying

1127
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 1: that it's going to be easy, It's gonna be hard

1128
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 1: regardless because breakups are hard. But um like your long

1129
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 1: distance so there's you know, if there's a time to

1130
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:12,360
Speaker 1: do it, it's now, it's not moved there, and try

1131
01:05:12,360 --> 01:05:15,240
Speaker 1: and see what happens and then do it, because that's

1132
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: just gonna make it harder. So I think if you're

1133
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 1: already having doubts and questioning it, I think you have

1134
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:23,200
Speaker 1: a conversation with him about it and then figure out

1135
01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 1: what your next step is. This is also from Anonymous.

1136
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:29,800
Speaker 1: I started dating someone toward the end of January let's

1137
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:32,120
Speaker 1: call him James. This was the first time in my

1138
01:05:32,280 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 1: entire life I felt wanted in a relationship. He's thirty one,

1139
01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:37,680
Speaker 1: I'm twenty three. He was a perfect gentleman. I could

1140
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 1: not have been happier. About a month and a half

1141
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:41,480
Speaker 1: into a relationship, I found out that I had an

1142
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: FTD called trickle maniasis. I got this FTD well Eastern

1143
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 1: when you look up trickle manias as while I'm running

1144
01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 1: this down, oh he already had that. That's interesting, I've

1145
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: never heard of that. She says. I got this FTD

1146
01:05:56,920 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 1: from my first and now only one night stand, the

1147
01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: one that's It happened about a month before I met James.

1148
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 1: Being in a new relationship, I knew I had to

1149
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 1: tell James immediately because unfortunately, he and I had sex

1150
01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:11,200
Speaker 1: before I knew I had an FTD. Anytime I tried

1151
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:12,800
Speaker 1: to talk to him about it, he would shut down

1152
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: and stop responding. He would tell me that he wished

1153
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 1: he could be there for me, and then he knows

1154
01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:19,400
Speaker 1: I didn't do it on purpose. Within days of letting

1155
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 1: him know, he slowly but surely stops talking to me.

1156
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:24,800
Speaker 1: I reached out a few times, and clearly he did

1157
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 1: not want to speak to me, so I let it go.

1158
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:29,000
Speaker 1: I feel so guilty and it's eating me up inside,

1159
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:31,400
Speaker 1: knowing that the relationship is not over. It hurts me

1160
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:33,160
Speaker 1: to know that I could ever put someone that I

1161
01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:35,640
Speaker 1: truly cared about in that position. Should I just let

1162
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:39,160
Speaker 1: it go and move on? Eastern What a trickle maniasis?

1163
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 1: Trigger maniasis or a trick uh? The symptoms are for

1164
01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 1: both men and women. Itching or irritation near the genitals,

1165
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 1: burning after your nation, and discharge from the penis or

1166
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 1: vagina in UH. In women, that can be a clear white,

1167
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 1: yellowish or greenish substance with an unusual fishy smell. I'd

1168
01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:00,680
Speaker 1: also like to add that it's easily treated with a

1169
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,320
Speaker 1: single dose of antibiotics. So this is not like a

1170
01:07:03,360 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 1: lifetime Yeah, it's not. It's not a lingering thing, oh,

1171
01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 1: lamidious situation. I don't know about those things. But if

1172
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: he if he does have it, it's curable. If he

1173
01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 1: doesn't have it, then then great. But either way he's

1174
01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 1: done with anonymous Anonymous? I think, yeah, I guess what, Anonymous?

1175
01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 1: You're done with him? Anonymous? Um? I think you you

1176
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:35,440
Speaker 1: know you felt what you felt. You can let go

1177
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 1: of the guilt. You didn't. You didn't do it intentionally

1178
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 1: or maliciously. I think, if anything, it was a lesson

1179
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,760
Speaker 1: learned of moving forward to being safe. When you're having

1180
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:47,840
Speaker 1: one night stands with strangers and not knowing their history,

1181
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: it's kind of a wake up call I would imagine

1182
01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: it would be for me. I guess it would be

1183
01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:57,240
Speaker 1: a major wake up call. But um, it's treatable, you're treated,

1184
01:07:57,320 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 1: You're fine. I think. You know, if if that was

1185
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 1: a a break up for him, then let him move

1186
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,000
Speaker 1: on and now you can move on and not have

1187
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,440
Speaker 1: to think about it ever again. Yeah, And I also

1188
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 1: think too, like with STDs, it can really mess with

1189
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:14,240
Speaker 1: you mentally. Like I remember, I've only I've only had

1190
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:17,559
Speaker 1: HPV when I that's the only STD I've had. But

1191
01:08:17,640 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 1: when I got it, it was like before anybody knew

1192
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 1: anything really about it, So I literally thought like my

1193
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 1: world was ending and it was one of the most

1194
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: traumatic experiences I've ever had. And to be told, completely honest,

1195
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 1: and if I didn't have a I didn't at the time,

1196
01:08:37,520 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 1: but it's like I had people in my life that

1197
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 1: were there to kind of like calm me down and

1198
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:43,400
Speaker 1: talk me down, and it's like, you know, it was

1199
01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:45,479
Speaker 1: a mistake and it was something you know, it's you

1200
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:47,759
Speaker 1: can't take these things back, but it doesn't it shouldn't

1201
01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 1: feel dirty. These things happen and you just have to

1202
01:08:52,520 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: be you know. Yeah, you're gonna be a lot more

1203
01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:58,200
Speaker 1: careful from now on. Um. But I think having a

1204
01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 1: partner that knows you if you didn't do this intentionally,

1205
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:03,600
Speaker 1: and I think that your partners there to make you

1206
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 1: feel better about everything that makes you feel worse. So

1207
01:09:06,960 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think that's a good partner that

1208
01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: you want for life anyway, if I'm being honest. Yeah,

1209
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:15,720
Speaker 1: And I also the last thing I'll say is that

1210
01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 1: I think moving forward, if you're if before, if you

1211
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 1: start dating someone and it becomes, you know, a little

1212
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 1: more of a serious side, I think you both get

1213
01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:28,200
Speaker 1: tested just to make sure you're upfront and clear with

1214
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:31,960
Speaker 1: everything before you jump into sleeping with each other, just

1215
01:09:32,040 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 1: so that this doesn't maybe happen again with someone that

1216
01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:37,840
Speaker 1: you really really like that you would hate to lose

1217
01:09:37,880 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 1: in this situation. So but I don't think you need

1218
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 1: to harbor any guilt. I think you need to live

1219
01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:46,640
Speaker 1: your life, be safe, be careful, and you'll find the

1220
01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:51,640
Speaker 1: right guy who is safe and protected with you. It is.

1221
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:55,120
Speaker 1: Unfortunately STV is something of a scarlet letter, like there

1222
01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:59,080
Speaker 1: is a you're somehow tainted or something if you've had

1223
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:01,200
Speaker 1: one of these things. Even if it's as easier easily

1224
01:10:01,240 --> 01:10:04,400
Speaker 1: curable as trick, which we all just learned about, it's

1225
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:06,160
Speaker 1: too bad. It shouldn't be. And if that guy really

1226
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 1: had strong feelings for you, I'm hoping that he would

1227
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: have been able to set that aside and look past

1228
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:12,280
Speaker 1: it and know you made a mistake because he said

1229
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 1: he doesn't blame you, and no, you didn't do it

1230
01:10:13,960 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 1: on purpose, and things would have continued. But clearly he

1231
01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 1: had a standard you didn't live up to or something.

1232
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 1: So I think you're better off without him totally. And Mark,

1233
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 1: you're so right. It is it's like this like scarlet letter,

1234
01:10:25,920 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 1: and and I think the thing that makes me sad

1235
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 1: about that is because so many people, like I know

1236
01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:37,000
Speaker 1: people who have had gnarrhea and chlamydia, and nobody talks

1237
01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:39,880
Speaker 1: about it because it is like obviously it is. It's

1238
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 1: it's scary and it sucks. But it's like, I think

1239
01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:45,120
Speaker 1: the more that we're open with each other and transparent

1240
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:47,040
Speaker 1: about these things, the more at ease. We can kind

1241
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,839
Speaker 1: of make each other feel because it is really scary

1242
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 1: and like, I will never forget how that made me feel.

1243
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:56,800
Speaker 1: I think I was twenty or I was a sophomore

1244
01:10:56,800 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 1: in college? Does that make me twenty? And it was

1245
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 1: literally such a dark time in my life and it

1246
01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: shouldn't have been like I should have been. I should

1247
01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:10,559
Speaker 1: have not let it make me feel the way it

1248
01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:16,000
Speaker 1: did about myself as a person. That makes sense. Yeah,

1249
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: so let's be honest. Let's all, you know, do our

1250
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:32,559
Speaker 1: homework trinomiasis and practice safe sex, some good advice. Proud

1251
01:11:32,600 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 1: of you for that one if that's what you choose. Yes,

1252
01:11:37,680 --> 01:11:40,040
Speaker 1: But honestly, like right now, in this time, I almost

1253
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 1: feel like face time Chex might be the move no

1254
01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:51,200
Speaker 1: I needed. Hey, before we go, let's all give somebody

1255
01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 1: something to binge on Netflix since since everybody's stuck in

1256
01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:58,280
Speaker 1: their homes. One show Tanya, what would it be? Well,

1257
01:11:59,400 --> 01:12:01,679
Speaker 1: I would just like the world to know that he's

1258
01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 1: just not that into you is now available on Netflix,

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01:12:04,240 --> 01:12:06,479
Speaker 1: ready for you to stream. So I have now watched

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Speaker 1: that movie three times since it's been up on March one.

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Speaker 1: So that is my recommendation for the evening also Wholu.

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Speaker 1: I would like to recommend who if you have not

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01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: been younger, It's amazing. Start from season one. It's so good.

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01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:29,400
Speaker 1: This should be the time where Netflix and Friends come

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01:12:29,479 --> 01:12:33,759
Speaker 1: together and put friends back on there. Um. They should

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01:12:33,800 --> 01:12:36,720
Speaker 1: also I've been watching this, I need to actually I'm

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01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:39,719
Speaker 1: gonna start to finish it today. But it's called safe.

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01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:43,599
Speaker 1: It has um the guy from Michael Shaw from Dexter

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01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:47,680
Speaker 1: in it. It's really good. Um. And then obviously if

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Speaker 1: you haven't watched Love is Blind, now is the time.

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Speaker 1: That's just some good stuff. And I think they're going

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Speaker 1: to upload the some of the Bachelor seasons somewhere, is

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01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 1: what they're talking about, so maybe you can catch up

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01:13:00,439 --> 01:13:02,800
Speaker 1: on those if you want a good refresher. You know

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01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 1: what somebody was telling me though the other day. What

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Speaker 1: somebody was telling me that they're going to start filming

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Speaker 1: in like a season two of Love is Blind. And

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Speaker 1: I just feel like as though they can't do that

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Speaker 1: because these people were purist. This cast was purist. They

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01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:20,439
Speaker 1: really were in it for the right reasons, you know,

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01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:22,439
Speaker 1: like they didn't know that the show could have just

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01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 1: nobody could have watched it. They didn't know it's going

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01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:27,759
Speaker 1: to turn into this, and I feel like if anybody

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Speaker 1: else now goes on, it's just gonna be not for love.

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01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,719
Speaker 1: M hmm, like The Bachelor's running into over the years.

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01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:41,320
Speaker 1: Yeah kinda. So let's get some new different dating shows,

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01:13:41,320 --> 01:13:45,760
Speaker 1: shall we. Well my recommendation, and Tanya, you started this

1288
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:48,519
Speaker 1: new bailed on it. But Sex Education on Netflix just

1289
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:50,400
Speaker 1: finished the second season and they just dropped their second

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01:13:50,760 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 1: few weeks ago. The first episode is a little raunchy,

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01:13:53,800 --> 01:13:56,479
Speaker 1: but I'm telling you that show has a sweetness to

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01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 1: it that is so charming. I love that show. It

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01:13:59,840 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 1: is really really great, and I understand that the first

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01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:08,680
Speaker 1: episode turned some people off, but it's gone. It's interesting though,

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Speaker 1: because there was a bunch of nudity in the first

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01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:12,760
Speaker 1: episode and there's virtually no nudity the entire rest of

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Speaker 1: either season, which is interesting that they changed gears so dramatically.

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01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:19,160
Speaker 1: So if that turned you off, anybody who watched the

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01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 1: first episode, give it another shot, because man, is at

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01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:26,720
Speaker 1: a sweet show. I think it's really great. Yeah. I

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01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 1: watched the first episode and I was like, I know

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01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 1: you were I I think, I mean, you know, I'm

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01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:33,280
Speaker 1: not gonna beg you to go back to it, but

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01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:36,200
Speaker 1: it's a wonderful show. It makes me so happy. Well,

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01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:38,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I've been watching a lot of ships. Creek.

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01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 1: I've been watching Uh it's so good. My wife finished

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01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:46,200
Speaker 1: it a long time ago, and I'm trying to get

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01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:48,760
Speaker 1: caught up because there's the new season out. Uh so

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01:14:48,800 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 1: I've been watching that and then this isn't as easy

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01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:53,240
Speaker 1: to find, but I've been watching the flint Stones from

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01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:57,640
Speaker 1: episode one, where do you find that? I got? I

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01:14:57,760 --> 01:15:00,439
Speaker 1: got places? Like if anyone wants to watch when says

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01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:03,000
Speaker 1: DM me, and we'll work something out. But it's really good.

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01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 1: Those early seasons are awesome. Fred just just figuring out

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01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,720
Speaker 1: who he is, and it's before Pebbles comes around. It's

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01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:11,320
Speaker 1: a really fun time. Wait, how many seasons of Creek

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01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:15,160
Speaker 1: are there? There are five and we're on the sixth

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01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:18,839
Speaker 1: one currently. Is that right? That sounds right? I believe

1319
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:23,400
Speaker 1: so so So that's the show that uh Red Star

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01:15:23,479 --> 01:15:25,680
Speaker 1: and I started watching together. That's like our show that

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01:15:25,720 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 1: we watched. We can only watch it together. Oh and

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01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:32,880
Speaker 1: it's so amazing, Like we both find it so funny

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01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 1: and the episodes are quick, and I'm just so obsesed.

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01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:40,719
Speaker 1: Who's your favorite character? Who are you? Well? I don't

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01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:44,160
Speaker 1: really think of any of them, but I love David

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01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 1: David my favorite. Oh my god, David David's so good.

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Speaker 1: I'm an Alexis. I just gotta say that. Do you

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01:15:50,680 --> 01:15:53,080
Speaker 1: know what's funny? Is? I think that's my boyfriend likes

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01:15:53,080 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 1: Alexis too, Like he finds are so funny, so funny.

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01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:58,439
Speaker 1: That's a great show. It's on Netflix and uh new

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01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 1: episodes on pop TV. M hm is that something like?

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01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:06,519
Speaker 1: Is that a show I would like based on my humor?

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01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 1: I think so? I think so okay, okay. And it's

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01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:15,080
Speaker 1: actually like really cute because it's like we will not

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01:16:15,160 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 1: watching less we're together, and so he'll like text me

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01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:20,479
Speaker 1: if we're like not together for a night and he's like, man,

1337
01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:24,960
Speaker 1: I'm really really itching for some ship's creek And I'm like, sorry, man,

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01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 1: and do it tonight. Well all right, Well there's some

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01:16:30,920 --> 01:16:34,240
Speaker 1: some suggestions for you all. We hope that this sound

1340
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Speaker 1: quality on this wasn't just too atrocious, and we love

1341
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:41,639
Speaker 1: you all. Please stay safe, Please stay inside as much

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01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:43,400
Speaker 1: as you can. I know that some of you are

1343
01:16:43,439 --> 01:16:46,000
Speaker 1: like I'm not able to work from home, but if

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01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 1: you are able to, please stay at home and be

1345
01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: respectful to the situation. Um, we love you all. We're

1346
01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:53,920
Speaker 1: gonna try and do as much as we can to

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01:16:55,560 --> 01:17:00,400
Speaker 1: be something of like joy during this scary time. So yeah,

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01:17:00,479 --> 01:17:02,720
Speaker 1: I think we should do extra Facebook lives if we can.

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01:17:05,120 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we've been that and like at each other

1350
01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 1: into so we can do that from our homes. Yeah,

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01:17:12,160 --> 01:17:15,880
Speaker 1: let's just be together as much as we can. Yeah,

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01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:19,880
Speaker 1: all right, you guys, We'll have a great Monday, and

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01:17:20,320 --> 01:17:24,519
Speaker 1: we will see you next week or here, or you'll

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Speaker 1: hear from us next sooner. Wait, maybe already. I know.

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Speaker 1: Time of death fifty fifty two