1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: Hey, I sent a DM to you earlier, Gandhi about 3 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 2: this story out of Tempe, Arizona. Yes, huge college town 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 2: as you know, right there, you know, and nestled next to Phoenix, right. 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 2: They did a raid at a popular bar, college bar. 6 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 2: Did you see the numbers? 7 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: Yes? 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 2: How many kids were arrested for you know, being underage 9 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 2: in the bar, having fake IDs? I mean, do you 10 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 2: have that distored in front of you. It's kind of interesting. 11 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 3: It says about fifty seven law enforcement officers made contact 12 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 3: at Tempe Tavern in Arizona and conducted an investigation that 13 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,639 Speaker 3: led to two hundred and forty nine arrests of underage 14 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 3: patrons for charges including, but not limited to, possessing fake IDs, 15 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 3: underage intoxication, and providing false information. 16 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 4: So essentially, this entire bar she got roped up. 17 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm assuming the bar is in trouble as well. 18 00:00:59,040 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, of course. 19 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 2: But look, you know, I've been to Temp many times. 20 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 2: You've been to a college town. That's how it is, 21 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 2: you know. Okay, let's go back, let's let's rewind a 22 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 2: little bit. Has anyone in this room ever had a 23 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: fake ID. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, so Daniel says no, 24 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 2: Scary says yes, Ghandi says yes, I say yes. You know, 25 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 2: I no surprise at these answers at all, foggy. Did 26 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 2: you ever have a fake ID? 27 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 5: I did not? 28 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 2: Right, well, you didn't need one if you're you know, 29 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 2: growing up in Tampa on radio they could go into 30 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: any bar and wanted to didn't care exactly so, but 31 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 2: the numbers are astounding, over two hundred and we're talking 32 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 2: about roughly two hundred and fifty kids in the paddy 33 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 2: wagon as I used to call it, and driven downtown crazy. 34 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: Did you see that stack of fake id's? They had 35 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 2: a mountain? 36 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: Yes, fa so good now too, Yeah, you know they 37 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: really do well. 38 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 2: I tell you I had mine, and uh it looked real. 39 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 2: It was the state of Texas. I remember going downtown 40 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: Dallas back when no one went downtown Dallas ever, and 41 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 2: I had my picture took and then they said, okay, 42 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 2: go to that door next right over there. We'll have 43 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 2: that ready for you. Have a seat, we'll have it 44 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 2: ready for you in five minutes, twenty five dollars boom, 45 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: I'll got my fake ID there you go. So yeah, 46 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 2: that's a lot of arrest. So as a parent and 47 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 2: your kids are away at school, you're like, oh, dear God, 48 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 2: I know little Jimmy was in that group. 49 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 3: The comments under that story were what I found most fascinating, 50 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 3: because almost every single person was like, this is stupid, 51 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 3: this is a waste of resources. Make the legal drinking 52 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 3: age eighteen. I mean, like every single person was on 53 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 3: the side of these kids. 54 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 1: It used to be eighteen, right, How long ago is that? 55 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 2: Back in the day. Yeah, I remember I turned eighteen 56 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 2: the legal agent in Texas and I think the month 57 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 2: I turned eighteen, they moved it to twenty one. I'm like, 58 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 2: a damn you, yeah, froggy. 59 00:02:57,639 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 5: When my son first got to college, he had one. 60 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 5: I didn't know about it. Only my wife knew because 61 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 5: Lisa is obviously Lisa had many fake IDs, so Lisa 62 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 5: knew he had when she was fine with it. I'm 63 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 5: more by the book and rule followers. I didn't know. 64 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 5: So he's home and he has to take his wallet 65 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 5: out to do something and he's got a Missouri driver's license. 66 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:21,800 Speaker 5: I'm like, you don't live in Missouri. But he had 67 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 5: to memorize all the information on it because he said, 68 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 5: when you would show somebody. They would say, so what 69 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,080 Speaker 5: street dealer on? And it was because it was not 70 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 5: where he lived. But yeah, his was actually pretty good. 71 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 5: You could not tell. It got taken a couple of 72 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 5: times because it didn't swipe on the back. When they 73 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 5: went to swipe it, it didn't work, and so it 74 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 5: got taken a couple of times. He'd just go get 75 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 5: another one. 76 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 2: A lot of people are texting in about chalking ideas 77 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: that I remember. I didn't have to have one printed. 78 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 2: They would take your license and they if you knew 79 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 2: someone who could chalco it, they would, you know, make 80 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 2: it appear to be the real deal. Oh wow, Yeah, 81 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,839 Speaker 2: it's so funny interesting. I'm not saying it's funny. I'm 82 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 2: not sidy with these little cretans. 83 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 6: I remember trying to get into a club in New 84 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 6: York City right before I turned twenty one, literally less 85 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 6: than like two weeks, and the guy at the door 86 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 6: was like no, and I'm like, but I'm twenty one 87 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 6: in two weeks. He's like, so come back in two weeks. 88 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 2: That bar in Tempee was not checking out closely? Does it? 89 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 2: Celia have an ID story? 90 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 3: Celia's fake ID story might be the craziest one of 91 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 3: all that I've ever heard. 92 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 4: I don't think she's here yet. 93 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 1: Oh, Cilia's stories are crazy. 94 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 4: This is true. 95 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 2: Yes, this one ended up whatever. 96 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 3: So she went to a Harry Styles concert and she 97 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 3: wasn't old enough to be drinking in the casino, so 98 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 3: she had a fake ID. 99 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 4: She was able to get one drink with drink with it. 100 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 3: When they tried to swipe her idea on the second drink, 101 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 3: they realized, oh, this is a fake ID. But she 102 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 3: was in this casino to see Harry Styles and she 103 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 3: had a VIP experience, so she had the wristbands and everything. 104 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 3: As soon as they figured it out, they grabbed her, 105 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 3: started cutting off her wristbands and basically placing her under arrest. 106 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 3: So this is now where the story gets funny, because 107 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 3: she says she started yelling and screaming, I'm gonna die 108 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 3: if I can't see Harry Styles, I'm going to die. 109 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 3: But the next thing you know, she's in the back 110 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 3: of an ambulance, strapped to the bed. So I said, now, Celia, 111 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 3: did you say I'm gonna die or did you say 112 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 3: I'm going to kill my son? 113 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 4: She said, I don't know. It might have been it 114 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 4: was one of them. 115 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 3: So she ended up getting fifty one to fifteen and 116 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 3: put into a mental hospital for a couple of days 117 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: because of this incident. 118 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: And she never saw Harry Styles. 119 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 3: She never saw Harry Sauce. She said she saw him 120 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 3: on the gurney as she was being wheeled out. 121 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 2: Oh my god, me, Harry Styles saw her on the 122 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 2: gurney as you think all that. Wow, you remember me? 123 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 2: I met you before Harry Will sort of anyway. So yeah, 124 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 2: Fake Id's tempe Arizona, two hundred and fifty kids snagged busted. Interesting. Hey, 125 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 2: I got a very fascinating text earlier and I wanted 126 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: to read it to you. I think we have the 127 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 2: texture on the phone. Yes, and Angie from Tampa, not 128 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:59,919 Speaker 2: her name, not where she's from. Hi, Angie, how are you. 129 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:03,039 Speaker 5: Okay? 130 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 2: Okay, you're okay to go in there and talk right? 131 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely okay. 132 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 2: So your text said, Hey, I got a question for Elvis. 133 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 2: How do I know if my man is gay? Because 134 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 2: he does a lot of questionable things and now I'm concerned. 135 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 2: So I texted back to you, Well, it depends on 136 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 2: what those questionable things are. 137 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 5: Do you want to do? 138 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 2: You need to read them what you said, or you 139 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: wanted to go ahead and recite them yourself. 140 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 7: He's something you not to like, harp on the stereotypes. 141 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 7: But he loves. 142 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 2: Musicals, right, Okay, he loves musicals. 143 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 7: He is attracted to trans women, and like the thing is, 144 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 7: if there's beautiful trans women out there, but there's some 145 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 7: that kind of you know, you know, that's the one. 146 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay. 147 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 7: He likes he likes those that clearly. 148 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 2: Looks like dudes, you know, okay with wig And you 149 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,600 Speaker 2: also say he likes butt play. 150 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 3: Yes. 151 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 2: They also say he's super clean. Okay, he showers after, 152 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: he showers after, after he poops. Okay, well, yes, yes, 153 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 2: go ahead. 154 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 7: Likes a lot of girly stuff. 155 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 2: Okay, Like what do you mean by that? 156 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 7: Like, I don't know, I can't explain it. If I 157 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 7: have something, he won't just say, baby, it looks good. 158 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 7: He'd be like, you know, as fire, I mean, it's fine, 159 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 7: I like it, and it's even better. 160 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, all right, Well okay, first of all, 161 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 2: everything you've said, I mean, I just there there's no 162 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: way to jump to conclusions that the guy is gay 163 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: in my opinion. I mean, let you know, right. 164 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 7: I mean, you're. 165 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 2: Froggy, loves loves butt play. I think if I was, okay, 166 00:07:58,080 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 2: he does check a lot of boxes. 167 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 7: The thing to listen. I tried attempting to play with him, 168 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 7: but he just never wants me to. And it's like, 169 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 7: come over, I want. 170 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 5: To be you know, I know, I really. 171 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 2: And all I could say is you know, a man, 172 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: I love that, but I know, but but there are 173 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 2: two things at play, Guys, hold on, there are two 174 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 2: things at play here. Number one is you know whether 175 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: what he's open minded to do in bed? But is 176 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 2: he gay or not? And you're in a relationship with him, 177 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,559 Speaker 2: and so you know therefore you deserve to know. I 178 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 2: firmly believe. Yeah, well how long you went with him? 179 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 7: For? Ten years? Ten years? Right? 180 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 2: All right? 181 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 7: And I mean it's great, it's lovely. I have no complaints. 182 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 7: But I even gave him a hall pass. I'm like, hey, 183 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 7: you know, if you want to venture out, I'll give 184 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 7: you a hall pass. 185 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 5: You know, does he gay? 186 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 7: Bisexual? 187 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 2: Does he keep secrets from you that you know? I mean, 188 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 2: you know their secrets, so maybe you don't know, but 189 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 2: it is he away doing things sometimes you don't really 190 00:08:58,440 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 2: quite know where he is or what he's doing. 191 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 7: No, he's usually on point, he's usually home. The thing 192 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 7: that really gets me is the music that he listens to. Okay, 193 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 7: like he listens to k pop, which is fine, but again, 194 00:09:10,520 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 7: it's always like a gay man or a trans woman 195 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 7: who kind of looks like a man. Yeah, I'm feel 196 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 7: some type of way because am I. 197 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 2: I don't know. We don't know that, and it doesn't matter, 198 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,079 Speaker 2: I know, But the thing is it all I'm just 199 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 2: I'm not thinking of him. I'm thinking of you. I'm 200 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: thinking about what you want to get out of life, 201 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:31,319 Speaker 2: and you know who you want to be a partner with. 202 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: How long you want to be with this person? You know, 203 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 2: if you're in it for the long term, then you 204 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:38,839 Speaker 2: you know, any situation you can adapt to and he 205 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 2: can adapt to. I get that, But as long as 206 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 2: you're happy with that, you know? Does anyone here want 207 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 2: to add to that? 208 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 7: Yeah? 209 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 3: I have some questions. Okay, I'm not saying do this 210 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 3: at all. If you were to go through his phone, 211 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 3: would he freak out? 212 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,280 Speaker 7: He does get nervous, but I think it's because he's 213 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:01,719 Speaker 7: scared that I might find double like type things. I 214 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 7: don't want to say it through the radio. But you 215 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 7: know what I'm talking about. 216 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 2: I know things like that the hub. 217 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 7: Okay, so I didn't know the hub. I's afraid of 218 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 7: me finding the things that he likes on the hub 219 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 7: and o't there you know, very free minded, enjoy what 220 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 7: you like. But I want to know it is he's 221 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 7: not so for one to not waste my time and too. 222 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 7: If he's bisexual, even better, you know what I'm saying. 223 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 3: But at this, wouldn't you just kind of chalk it up? 224 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 3: Chalk it up to like maybe he is bisexual. He's 225 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 3: with you, so he obviously likes women enough to be 226 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:32,719 Speaker 3: with you for ten years. But maybe he's got some 227 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 3: other things on the side that he's interested in as well. 228 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 3: He just doesn't know how to tell you. 229 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:39,679 Speaker 7: But I just want him to tell me. 230 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:41,839 Speaker 1: Have you ever come on I don't know if you 231 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 1: said this, have you ever come out and asked him? 232 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 233 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 7: So, like like I said, I gave him a hall pass. 234 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 7: I'm like, hey, if you want to venture all, you know, 235 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 7: like it's okay, and he'll be like, bury, I'm not good. 236 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 4: Okay, maybe you know, maybe he's not. 237 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 2: You know, here's the thing, you know, and this may 238 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 2: baffles people. Maybe he's not. You know, we don't know. 239 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 1: We thought my husband was gay or you did Elvis? 240 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 2: Remember I did him, I know, until he didn't sleep 241 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 2: with me. I'm like, okay, I go. And he liked you. 242 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 7: I don't want him cooking. 243 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 2: And he liked what is Shirley Bassey? 244 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 6: Airley Bassy? And he liked Broadway musicals and all kinds 245 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 6: of stuff. 246 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 1: But he did He's not gay. 247 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 2: But you know, it depends on how far you want 248 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: to push this thing. If you need the answer, because 249 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: you need to move on. If there's an issue with 250 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 2: it for you, which there may not be. You he 251 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 2: deserved you deserve an answer from him. Yeah, and it 252 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 2: can't be Hey, babe, I'll give you a hall past 253 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 2: to go whatever. It has to be a hate you know, look, 254 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,760 Speaker 2: I'm thinking about the red may ask you how old 255 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 2: you are? I'm thirty four, okay, thirty four? All right? 256 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: What do you want for the future in your life? 257 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 2: Where do you see you in ten twenty years? You 258 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 2: know that kind of thing. Do you see you being 259 00:11:51,760 --> 00:11:53,840 Speaker 2: in the same type of relationship with him not knowing 260 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 2: for twenty more years? You need to ask yourself that, 261 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,599 Speaker 2: and you need to let him know that this is 262 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,439 Speaker 2: important to you. But if it's not important to you, 263 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,480 Speaker 2: then just keep living. 264 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 7: You know. I don't know what. 265 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:04,839 Speaker 2: I don't know what to say, you know. 266 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 7: I think what plays into my mind is that I 267 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 7: don't want him to hold himself back if he is 268 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 7: I want him to be free and explore and try 269 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 7: it all. And if you don't like it, then whatever. 270 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying. But I think that's just 271 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 7: what it is like because he is kind of shy 272 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 7: and he kind of refrains from a lot of things, 273 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 7: and I just want him to just be free, you know. 274 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:25,719 Speaker 7: I love that. 275 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 2: That says a lot. It speaks volumes about you being 276 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 2: concerned about him. And also this is about you. If 277 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 2: he isn't living a fulfilled life, then he may be 278 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,719 Speaker 2: a little unhappy, you know, and you're gonna have to 279 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 2: be there to help sweep up the sweep it up, 280 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,719 Speaker 2: you know. And so this is about both of you, 281 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 2: not just him. It's about you two plus you know. 282 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 7: I want to be a prejudice. So come on, Oh my. 283 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 2: God, and there's that there. 284 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:04,079 Speaker 5: If you offer that up and he's all about it, 285 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 5: then maybe that's a kid. 286 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 2: Maybe No, No, it doesn't mean he's gay. 287 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,559 Speaker 5: I mean he's gay, but it's a it's a it's 288 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 5: a clue. 289 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 7: No, it's not eight years Guys out there, Yeah, like 290 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 7: eight years ago we bought something to attempt it and 291 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 7: we still haven't used it. This she's been collecting us. 292 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 7: I've been so mad. 293 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 2: Well, it's a collectors collectors item. You know, just because 294 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 2: someone gets peck does not mean they're gay, period. You 295 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 2: can that is not it's not that that you need, 296 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 2: but you need to know what he is because it's 297 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 2: what about what he wants in life to It's it's 298 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: about what you want to keep that in mind. This 299 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,719 Speaker 2: is not all about him much about both of you. 300 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:43,719 Speaker 2: It's about the two of you. 301 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that, like guys are so afraid of 302 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 7: being labeled as gay when you know, like there are 303 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 7: bisexual men out there too. Just because you're like men 304 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 7: doesn't mean you're strictly gay, Like it's okay to be by. 305 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 7: I think the best kind of man is a bisexual man, 306 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,079 Speaker 7: because not only is he sensitive like a woman and 307 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,559 Speaker 7: and understands a woman needs, but he's also masculine. 308 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,199 Speaker 2: You know, Well, not all of them that way, but 309 00:14:05,360 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 2: some of them yeah, I know some bisexual men who 310 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 2: are not sensitive, and I know some straight guys who 311 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 2: are ultra sensitive. You know, it's hard to put a 312 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 2: label on that, but look, you deserve answers, and I 313 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 2: hope you get them because you you both deserve a 314 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 2: great life, you both both you and him, you know, 315 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 2: and that's it. Definitely all the best to you, and 316 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 2: thanks for reaching out to us. 317 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 7: Okay, thank you. I love every one of you. Gandhi. 318 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 7: You are such an amazing addition to the morning show. 319 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 7: I've heard all the people that went in and out, 320 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 7: and you are basically like in. 321 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 4: It just made my day. 322 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 2: Thanks, there you go. Coming from you, that is definitely 323 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 2: a compliment because you definitely are a wonderful person as well. 324 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 2: And thanks for listening to us. Have a great day, Okay, guys, 325 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 2: to love you too, Love you too, there you go. 326 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 2: You know, everyone's going through something, Yeah, you know, and 327 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 2: she's she's a lot of fun. I think she wants 328 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 2: too for the price of one. If you ask me, 329 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 2: you just want. 330 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: Him to be. 331 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 2: The edge go for it could be absolutely yeah, She's 332 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 2: very clear about that. But sometimes you got to be 333 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 2: very careful what you wish for. I don't know. You know, 334 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 2: you think about the person you're with, how well do 335 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 2: you know them? It may not be as cut and 336 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 2: dry as the little clues she's seen, but how well 337 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 2: do you know them? 338 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 7: I mean? 339 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 2: What what if the person you're with in life has 340 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 2: a great wonderful treasure chest of amazing things hidden behind 341 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 2: that wall that you just don't know about, things that 342 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 2: wouldn't make you want to break up with them or 343 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 2: look elsewhere. But it's just, you know, that's their little 344 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 2: life that they want to live. You know, we all have. 345 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 2: We all have that little room in our hearts that 346 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 2: we don't open for other people. That's not unusual for sure. 347 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 2: It's not a bad thing always, Yeah, gandhi, what's up? 348 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 3: I think the hard part about this is if he's not, 349 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 3: there's no way to ever prove that you are not something. 350 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 3: You can only ever prove that you or something, because 351 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 3: as long as you keep saying I'm not, another person 352 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 3: could always just be like, well you're hiding it. If 353 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 3: you say you don't have this thing, maybe you hit 354 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 3: it somewhere else. It's really hard to prove a negative. 355 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 3: So it's all about trust in this case, and hopefully 356 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 3: they trust each other enough and are comfortable with each 357 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 3: other enough after ten years. 358 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:16,800 Speaker 1: To get through this. 359 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: Well, I love it. Scary's curious. He's over there looking 360 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 2: up the word pegasus. 361 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 4: Wow, it is what I thought it was. 362 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 2: By the way, Okay, all right. 363 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 5: It can't be anything else. 364 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 4: Jeez. 365 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 2: Well, a lot of people, a lot of people wonder 366 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 2: what what a peg is. Now, you know, that's another 367 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 2: way of looking at it.